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I'm hanging out at a beautiful mansion.

Inside, right now, real, attractive couples are sleeping with whomever they

want and loving every second of it.

That's right, they're swingers.

And they're all convinced that this lifestyle is the key to a loving, long

-lasting relationship.

You're about to meet a couple who's ready to find out if swinging is right

for them.

Take a look at this video.

Hi, we're Amanda and Daniel, living in Topanga Canyon, and we're looking for a

little adventure.

We want to come to the swing house because we're definitely curious about

the potential of being with other people. We're both very open-minded and

we don't perceive this as being a problem in our relationship.

Hopefully, we're going to walk away from it with some really amazing memories and

maybe take our relationship to another level.

So, I've arranged for Amanda and Daniel to join the no boundaries, no limits

swing party happening inside this house right now. And from there...

Who knows? Will they jump in and swing like they've been doing it for years?

Or will it all be too much for them? What will they have to say about it in

the morning?

I'm Anna David.

Hold on tight. It is time to swing.

This is crazy.

I can't believe we're doing this. Me neither.

But we've talked about it for so long. It's been a long time in the coming.

As Daniel and I are riding in the limo, we have no idea what to expect.

This is a new experience for us.

Off on another crazy adventure.

Yeah, right?

I've kind of been in denial for the past couple days that this isn't really

happening. Now here I am sitting in the limo, holding Daniel's hand. He looks

nervous. You know, our palms are sweating, and we're both really excited

and definitely nervous.

A little apprehensive.

Yeah, me too, but it'll be okay. As long as we're together, it'll be fine.

Amanda and I are embarking on this sexual adventure together, and, you

know, she's really nervous.

This far.

We're this far from just bailing on the whole thing. But we rallied, and we kind

of looked into each other, and this is something we've been talking about for a

long time. And I think it's something we both really want to experience.

Here we are.

You excited?

I'm excited.

Yeah? Yeah.

Hello. Hello.

Hi. I'm Anna. I'm Amanda. Nice to meet you, Amanda. You must be Daniel.

Yes. So this is a big step you guys are taking today, kind of something entirely

new. Oh, yeah. Definitely.

How are you feeling about it?

Got some butterflies going, yeah. Good. That's to be expected.

I'm excited. I like that you're nervous.

But excited too? Absolutely.

Yeah, definitely.

Well, there's just a couple things we need to take care of, so why don't you

all come in the house with me? Okay, wonderful.

Come on.

Lifestyle.

is what you make of it. We often say people come in for the sex but stay for

the friendships.

At the end of the day, it is about each other.

It just lets you be who you are, and it doesn't matter if you have sex or not.

Just being in a sexually free environment is liberating.

All right, so how are you guys doing now?

I'm definitely still a little bit nervous, but I'm really excited to start

meeting some of the other couples.

Well, I think they're probably pretty excited to meet the newbies. How about

you, Daniel?

I'm super curious. Yeah. Well, it's getting a little more real as we get

closer. Oh, yeah. I've been in denial up until about... Until about 10 seconds

ago? Yeah.

Well, so, you know, have you guys talked about what your arrangements are?

Yeah. Same room is one of the most important ones. That one I don't think

will be changing now throughout the course of this. We're not interested in

separate room interactions at all.

The rules Amanda and I have going into this are we're doing it together and

things can get out of hand if we're not together and supporting each other in

it. It's very easy for guys, especially, to get carried away in this situation.

We're going into it with the intention of, you know, not having a full swap.

We're kind of open more to a soft swap. I see. At the same time, we're...

ready to roll with it and if we're feeling it and you know both of us want

to move forward then you know we're willing to do that what we're

comfortable with at this point is doing a soft swap where you know i i have sex

with the girl and the guys watch or they touch us but at this point we're not

committed to a full swap although we're open to it i mean we really want to keep

the lines of communication open in our relationship and if the heat of the

moment if we're feeling it then we can discuss that with each other and we can

take it there

I have a contract here for you to sign, and the contract just basically explains

that you're going to do whatever you want for the allotted time.

We've agreed to take part in a sexual adventure over the next two days during

which all the normal rules of a monogamous relationship will be

temporarily set aside.

I would cross out during which all of the normal rules of a monogamous

relationship, cross out the all and put some, because not all of the normal

rules are going to be put aside. Right, because you are agreeing to be in the

same room.

Yeah. Some of the normal room.

This contract is a free pass to do whatever we want over the next two days.

We promise not to hold what happens here against each other once the adventure is

over. And just sign your name at the bottom.

It's your birthday, baby.

Is today your birthday?

Yes, it is.

White a present.

Here it is. Dealing with the double.

Okay.

I'm going to hold on to this for you guys.

So now it's time for you to go get changed, check out your room.

I think there are some other couples here who are kind of excited to meet you

guys.

Go have fun.

All right.

You ready, baby? I'm ready.

Wow. Wow.

It's huge.

It is.

I'm looking around my room and I'm thinking, this is huge. I mean, this is

about the size of our entire house.

I am too.

Can't believe it's finally here.

Are you ready to go get ready?

You want to take the first shower?

All right.

I grew up in an extremely Christian

conservative household where I was not...

encouraged in any way to explore my sexuality.

So it's making me feel very nervous about this experience.

I am hoping to meet another couple that I really, really

resonate with.

That's really important to me.

I really have to like the person underneath the body to want to have sex

with them.

Now

all

of a sudden, the butterflies kick in. I'm really, really nervous.

A little less nervous, a little more excited.

I don't know. I think once we meet them, it'll really change the dynamic and it

won't be nearly as awkward of a feeling, you know? I agree.

I'm contemplating running at this point. I have no idea what I'm about to walk

into. This is like walking into the lion's den. But at the same time, I am

still excited and I'm still committed to going through this experience.

Meeting new people for the first time is really, really nerve-wracking.

You get out and you meet these couples, and it's really, really uncomfortable

the first meeting.

Is that the right husband and wife?

Are they going to be compatible with us? Yeah, you never know if you're going to

have chemistry.

It's like dating all over again.

Going into the bar, we were definitely nervous.

This was like the moment of truth. There was all this build-up for days and

weeks.

As we came down to the end of the hall and saw all these couples waiting for

us, it was a relief to see that we were dealing with real people here.

Hi, Paul.

Amanda. Right off the bat, Giselle caught my eye.

Like, she's a sexy little thing. She had everything I was looking for. And I knew

without even asking that Amanda was right on the same page with me.

I see Giselle for the first time.

Immediately inside of me, I felt that rush of instant attraction.

Just the way that she looked me right in the eye and smiled, there was just kind

of an instant spark.

Giselle is definitely my type.

So what kind of boundaries do you guys have as couples? We don't have too many

boundaries. No gone and gone stuff. We're full swap, same room.

Yeah, it has to be same room. Same room, yeah.

We've been together a long time, and we will not play without one another. No,

that's just not our thing. We're not at that level yet, of course. There's

always growing stages, but we're just not there.

We're at the point where we don't really have boundaries anymore. Not a lot of

boundaries. Or not a lot of boundaries.

Don't touch my feet because I'm ticklish.

Having conversation with the other veteran couples, it's making me feel a

little bit more comfortable about the dynamic of being in a slinging type

relationship. Today is actually my birthday.

And so I'm turning 24 today.

Guys, talk about any crazy fantasies that you might have.

I love the thought of watching me get down with another girl.

I want

to get tied up.

I have always had the fantasy of being tied up. And you know, it's never really

come to fruition.

Hopefully that's where the night leads us. You know, if one of you wants to

experiment with something, the other one's a little iffy about it.

maybe let it happen. With us, it's all about, you know, I mean, like, you can

really feel out vibes with people, too, you know what I mean? That's, like, the

biggest way not to cross the line, I think, with a lot of people, you know? I

don't know. I think the best way to not cross the line is to be clear.

I agree.

Giselle's partner, Josh, has struck me as a little bit abrasive just in the

first moment. Just in that instant, I didn't have that same connection that I

had with her. I didn't find him as physically attractive, and at the same

time, Daniel and I have made an agreement not to go full swap, so I

still see them as a couple that could work fine in the dynamic that Daniel and

I have set for each other.

Hey, hey, you guys want to go play a game in the next room?

So we're going to play bunny dots.

We start this off, and I'll spin it.

and whatever it says, right hand, left hand, foot, put it on the dot. If you

fall, you have to take off some clothes. Deal? Deal, deal, deal?

Deal. We are now going to play bunny dots, which I have no idea what that is,

and I'm not totally sure how I feel about getting naked in front of all

these different people. I am a little bit uncomfortable about playing, so this

is going to be really interesting.

Ready?

Right hand yellow.

Left hand blue.

uh left hand red left hand green i can deal with this you can deal with that

ashley right hand green all

the

guys are trying to make me fall down i got billy on one side like bouncing his

butt on me and i got early like sticking his fingers up in my feet trying to make

me like ticklish

Left hand blue.

Right foot blue.

Oh,

she's down.

Right foot green.

I don't think he's going to win.

I've never thought that I would be capable of pushing those boundaries.

I was surprised, but proud of myself.

But I was definitely surprised.

Left foot red.

Holy shit.

Yeah. Push your green hand back with your arms and focus on your legs towards

the other one. Boy, Ashley got to go this way last time. Right foot blue.

All right, never mind.

Everybody's going to need two tires a second after a game like this. Yeah,

this is a battle of attrition.

Both ways.

winners you get whatever you want from whoever you want.

Amanda what would you like?

I have no idea what I want.

Amanda's prize is another cocktail.

Honestly, I need a little break.

experience jealousy but what's been so great about our relationship is that

even when we feel that we're able to talk about it you know and if I start to

feel uncomfortable or feel left out I let him know. So you guys are halfway

over the hurdle already.

It's a really difficult thing to let someone that you you know hold just so

dear to you to give that person to someone else is I mean that's that's

scary it's like you know you gotta you gotta set your ego aside.

there's jealousy and you know just all this other stuff that starts coming up

yeah when we started i was very jealous i realized that there's a difference

between just having sex just and loving someone and having

romantic intimate you know relationship I kind of imagined that the residents

weren't going to be as real as they were, that they were all going to be

couples without a real care about whether or not the person they're with

is sleeping with someone else. I was pleasantly surprised to find that they

were all extremely genuine people.

And I'm interested to see how far we take it or how far we feel comfortable

in taking it. I mean, my desire to not engage in sex with another man at this

point isn't about jealousy, at least for me. It's more about the fact that... Sex

is a way of becoming intimate with a person.

And whether it's with a girl or a man, it's something about them that I like

that I want to give them pleasure because of who they are.

That mental hang-up of, like, you know, seeing Dana with another girl, is this

going to work for me? Am I going to be really upset? Or just being worried,

like, is Dana going to start liking her more than me? Or, you know, is this

going to cause us to break up?

Whatever happens, we wish you guys good luck, you know?

Ah, taking one for the team, huh?

Yeah. You don't ever do that, do you? Yeah, no.

There's never a reason to settle.

It's hard to find a couple that's, you know, the guy's exactly what you're

looking for and the girl's exactly what I'm looking for and she is exactly what

you're looking for as well.

Yeah, but then you just keep looking.

I've had to take one for the team because obviously we've never had a guy

yet that you've had to take one for the team on, right?

I don't think so.

I don't remember.

Have you had an opportunity to talk to Amanda yet and feel out who you're

feeling the most? I mean, like, and you don't have to tell me. I'm just

wondering. No, I'll tell you. Like, she's definitely, she's feeling your

girl pretty good.

Swinging, you know, I've only, I'm, you know, I'm so new still that it's hard to

grasp and explain everything.

now that i've had my first experience like i'm really glad you know i got it

and it's like now i like kind of understand like more about it because

there's so much like it's so deep kind of in a way so some people some people

just want to or whatever but it seems like to most couples they want to

actually have like a connection yeah and that's like really important you know

that's definitely something for me at least that i need with the person

because for me

Whether it's a man or a woman, it's about having a connection with them.

And then, even if it's not love, but just like, I like who you are, I like

the resonance between us, and I want to give you pleasure because I like who you

are as a person.

I feel totally comfortable with her from the beginning.

And I can tell right away that she's not the kind of girl that is just like, oh,

you're hot, let's have sex.

like when i walked into the room and met all of you guys you were the first

person i felt a really strong attraction to and it was more than the fact that

you're obviously a beautiful girl it was just the fact that i felt like we we

would get along on a lot of other levels for sure i definitely felt that i'm not

100 there yet with your guy though she's pretty much feeling more

just your girl not not so much the whole well you know what if if need be though

tonight

We have a little room off to the side, you know, like we can all go over there.

You know what I mean? I could take a seat. You could take a seat. We can let

them just talk. We can all talk.

We weren't feeling Josh as much right off the bat, but we're going into it

with the expectation of only going for a soft swap.

I'm really optimistic that it's going to go well.

I would like to kiss you right now. I would like to kiss you too.

I think you're really beautiful just now.

Well, I think you're really beautiful too.

Thank you.

You guys are like... Guys, we've got to get ready for tonight.

Time to get ready for tonight. It's about time to get sexy.

I really like Amanda.

I think she's so cute.

I think she's... I think we relate on so many levels.

I'd really love to get to talk to her a little more. We already kissed. I don't

know if you know that, but we kissed already.

It was nice.

Are you clicking with any girls?

I'm clicking with Giselle.

I think all the girls are great, don't get me wrong. I think so too, but

I would put her at the top of my list.

Yeah, we like the same thing. Isn't that great?

Daniel actually mentioned to me that he'd really like some just, well, I

guess not one-on-one, but two-on-two time just to get to know us.

I asked them what their selection was, and they said that we were their top

pick.

Really? Yeah, that's exciting.

That's really cool.

I definitely like them. I think they seem like they could be a lot of fun.

I don't really know what they have in store for us yet, but whatever it is.

I think I would be really comfortable swinging with them.

It's your birthday.

It's all about you today.

So let's get you a beautiful woman to make some sweet love to.

You know, I think it's awesome to get to watch something like that firsthand.

So that's, you know, I'm happy.

Ow!

So tonight's theme is Pimpin' Ho Night.

Costume parties are always fun. It's always an interesting thing to see how

people take that theme and where they take it to. So I'm sure it's going to be

fun regardless of what happens.

Yeah. What do you think, baby?

Damn, you look good in leopard.

I may match.

Going to our first lifestyle party, I was kind of...

Kind of nervous, but we were both on the same page as far as knowing what we were

getting into.

Maybe on a different page than other people.

Most people seem to not have a clue as to what swinging means.

Yeah, and we just kind of went in old speed.

I have always been really interested in role play. Again, it's not something

that Daniel and I have really experienced together.

He is kind of a little bit more like the quiet reserve type, but I love to dress

up. Oh, man.

Welcome. Hey.

Hey.

And does everybody know it's Amanda's birthday?

Bad news is, like, we don't have a cake or a candle or anything else, but we

kind of think you might find something else to blow.

So, may I propose a toast to new friends and a night you'll never forget.

So, you guys, have a great night.

I'll see you in the morning. I'll be back to check in. Absolutely.

Thank you. Be good. Good night. No.

We won't be good.

I'm still feeling a little nervous, but I'm definitely enjoying the experience.

So earlier, your thing.

I have to show you this.

Look at this tape. Touch it.

Oh, neat.

catalyst for the night's event.

I was surprised that she kind of took things right away. I mean, we hadn't

even been down there very long when she walks up with this black bondage tape.

And I was like, oh, really?

Okay. It's not sticky at all. Yeah, but it sticks to itself.

Are you all blushing?

Oh, shucks. Would you like to come with me?

Okay.

I guess I'm going to stay.

You tell me when it's not okay.

Okay. You have to tell me you like, you don't like.

She's leading me into the living room, and I'm definitely nervous. I've never

done this before. I don't know what the hell I'm thinking.

I'm going to blame it on the vodka.

If you're going to lay down.

Not being able to like, you know, you're like going crazy with pleasure, but you

can't do anything about it cuz you're tied up I don't know. It's just I've

always had that fantasy I guess it's part of the like submissive in me

wanting to be dominated by you know a man I'd always imagine it being with a

man, but you know, I'm not an opposed to it being with women either

It's my girl's birthday.

I want to see her, you know, get what she came here for.

Everything else for me is just a plus.

She's like very sensually running her hands lightly over my body and the

sensation is just... amazing it feels so good and the fact that i'm blindfolded

and tied just kind of just amplifies the senses just you know like tenfold like

everything just becomes so much more intense

One more.

Is there another room

we should go in?

Oh, really?

Would you like to go in there? Yeah, I think so.

Ooh.

I like being tied up.

Yeah. Ew. Goodness, I feel... That was a nice little preview. Yeah.

I definitely feel pretty proud of myself that I was able to go so far so quickly

and still feel so comfortable.

I mean I'm here and I'm committed and I'm ready to explore this.

As we enter the bread room, you know, I'm struck by how sensual it is. I mean,

there's red velvet everywhere, and the whole thing is just mattresses and

pillows and treasure chests of play toys and, you know, tables with candles and

lube everywhere.

I mean, it's kind of a perfect setup, quite honestly.

It is very sensual. That's what I like about it.

It's comfortable.

It's like pillow fire.

We are...

Taking it from where we left it upstairs Happy

birthday to Amanda

She's in another world right now.

I need four people, everybody to hold.

It was a lot more vulnerable.

Yeah.

Just to have three beautiful women touching me at the same time, such a

vulnerable place to be that, you know, once I made the decision to really just

let go and enjoy the experience, it was completely erotic.

I was looking away.

at this point. I've never thought that I would be able to orgasm that quickly,

especially in a group of people, but I was pleasantly surprised to find that I

could, not only once, but twice within about 10 minutes.

Would you like some water? You know one of the great things about being a

swinger is you never have to worry anymore about drinking off someone

else's glass.

You swapped something far more intimate than, say, putting off your cup.

Well, after my second orgasm, I was... pretty much ready for a break.

That was an amazing experience.

I mean there was nothing about it at any point that I really feel.

um awkward everyone was extremely respectful and also just you know very

sensitive to what i was feeling in the moment and you know picked up on what i

wanted and what i didn't want i felt 100 comfortable with everything that was

going on what else do you want to happen so

you know that was kind of the end of the red room

experience we decided to go and find out what all the rest of the couples were

doing because you know they weren't there Let's go back down for a little

while.

Giselle is definitely my type. What I would love to do to Giselle is just kind

of dominate her, kind of hold her down and, you know, just be able to taste

her. I want to know what she tastes like and just, you know, listen to her

whisper as I make her come.

It's really hard to keep myself just laying there because I want to jump on

her so bad. It's such a turn on.

What I really wanted to complete my birthday experience was to have Josh and

Giselle come up to our room alone to play.

After this evening, I feel like I know you guys really well by now.

Because from the first instance I walked into that room, the moment I walked in

and met your eyes, I was like, Giselle's it.

Like, that's it. I'm done. I made my choice. That's it.

Josh and Giselle are here in our room, and we're really enjoying the dynamic of

hanging out. They're just both such interesting people.

Situations like these are ideal.

Everybody gets to know each other. Everybody knows where they're at. It's

more important. It is.

I'm feeling a lot more comfortable with Josh now because I really understand who

he is. And I also understand a little bit about why he might have made that

comment in the beginning. And I'm really starting to have an attraction to him.

And so I can see playing with him. I'm not unopposed to it.

It just started with a couple simple kisses, and the next thing I know, I

mean, we're rolling around the bed, grabbing on each other, biting on each

other. It was just so hot.

They're having their fun, and then we sort of split up, and, you know, we each

started having sex with our girls.

I

wrapped

up first, and, you know, Amanda and I went into the bathroom for a little bit

to just kind of clean up.

She went to the bathroom, and I went back out to hang out.

One thing leads to another, and Giselle asked if Amanda

would mind if she went down on me. And I was like, I don't think so. I mean,

she's going to be out in a few, you know, less than a minute. So, yeah,

sure, get it going.

I'm feeling a second round here.

I'm pushing the boundary. It wasn't really a conscious push. It just was a

going with the flow.

I walk back into the room. Giselle and Daniel are having oral sex with each

other. And we had already made these rules.

We weren't going to swap with the opposite sex.

And it was all going to be same room and that we were going to communicate.

And I am quite disappointed to find that the moment I leave the room, I come back

and Daniel has kind of broken these rules.

This is a little bit past what we had talked about. Looking back on it, I wish

I had held off for 30 seconds.

I pushed the boundary a little bit.

So I asked myself, how do I feel about this right now, in this moment, watching

him with her?

And I found that the more that I'm watching that, the more aroused I'm

getting.

It actually doesn't bother me nearly as much as I had anticipated.

Amanda had a moment of uncertainty, but she took a second, processed it, and

realized that it really wasn't that big a deal. That right there was my favorite

part of the whole experience.

I really feel proud of myself that I was able to just go through that experience

and take it for what it was and come out on the other end, not only not being

bothered by it, but finding it erotic and pleasurable.

And I think I have learned a great deal from that.

How are you feeling this morning?

I feel good. I don't have any regrets.

Did you have fun last night? Yeah.

They seem like a very nice couple.

I think it was a perfect way for Amanda to spend her birthday.

It seemed like she had a lot of fun.

I think they fit in great.

I think Daniel and Amanda did just fine last night. They meshed real well with

the crowd, and it seemed to fit right in.

Morning. Good morning.

How are you?

Doing well. Yeah. I imagine it was sort of a crazy night last night?

It was a very crazy night. Nah.

We have a... therapist downstairs to talk to you guys because when you do

anything that's new and that's intimate and that involves somebody you love,

it's sort of going to stir up some emotions that may surprise you.

You guys are going to go downstairs to talk to her. The only rule is just be

honest with her, be honest with each other, and it should all be good.

Sounds like fun.

Okay, cool. I'll see you guys later.

What do you think? You ready to do this? Yeah, let's go meet this therapist.

Go bear all?

I'm pretty sure we did that last night. Yeah.

I'm Dr. Lori Buckley, and I'm a relationship and sex therapist.

Tell me how it was. What was it like for you last night?

I found it very enjoyable.

I kind of had immediate attraction to one of the girls here. That worked out

nicely. It did. I was a little unsure about her guy at first. He came off

slightly abrasive, and I was kind of like, eh.

It's a different attraction with him than it is with her. Something like this

is great because we come in and it kind of mixes it up a little bit.

Yeah, you get some new ideas, too, watching other couples, you know, and

just the way that they have sex. One of the things that we kind of walked away

from is, like, something I never expected, but I think I'm really into

bondage and fetish play. I had no idea that that was true about me. So you

learned this last night? I did, and now I'm really excited to try more. I'm

like, let's go home and buy a writing crop.

So that's something you learned. Yeah.

What else did you learn last night?

Even coming into this, I wasn't really that interested in the orgy aspect, and

we kind of had a little bit of that experience down in the Red Room before

Giselle and Josh and Daniel and I got to play by ourselves. And it was fun, but

it was just too much stimulation for me. Like, there's just too much going on,

you know? So the orgy thing doesn't work for you, but you like being with maybe

just one couple. I really do like that dynamic.

Sounds good to me, right?

So if you don't mind, I'd like to spend some time alone with you. Just have the

chance for us to talk one-on-one. Okay.

I'll see you in a little bit. Bye, baby.

Good luck.

I just wanted to be able to spend a little bit of time alone with you, see

if there's anything on your mind, any concerns or questions that you would

like to bring up.

Um, there was a moment last night where, you know, I went into the bathroom and I

came back and Daniel and Giselle were, you know...

Doing their thing, and I was just like what were they doing um oral sex, okay?

Which is considered soft swap, but the dynamic we had discussed was girl on

girl And then you play with me and him play with her yeah, and you're not

feeling honored.

Yeah moment I mean, I don't think I would be okay with it. I just want the

communication I don't want to walk in and be shocked and you discuss this with

him I did and he kind of gave me the mail like well I thought it counted

because we said soft swap, and we weren't actually having sex So as you go

back out into the house, maybe you can open up and share some of that pain as

well so he can really get it and hear it and understand it. And then I believe

that the chances of it happening again are going to be greatly decreased.

I agree.

It's been really a pleasure talking to you. Thank you for opening up to me.

Daniel did break the rules.

I do feel a little betrayed, even though I understand that, you know, in the

moment, most men would succumb to that kind of pressure. The minor encounter

between him and Giselle, which was very, very minor. I mean, it wasn't anywhere

on a scale to like.

have an issue about, really.

But I did feel that he was able to understand where I was coming from and,

you know, take that to heart. And I don't think he would do that again.

This is just a chance for you to be able to ask me any questions, talk about

anything. You know, just for us to have some one-on-one time.

What's on my mind? Well, I don't know. I feel pretty comfortable with how

everything's gone.

Daniel's kind of closed mouth.

He's probably in there saying, like, he's got nothing to say.

Okay, well, let's talk about last night. Let's talk about what happened.

Towards the end of the evening, we retired up to the bedroom, and Josh and

Giselle came up to meet us a little bit later. And we just had a really fun,

comfortable evening. We were all just talking and touching. I mean, we could

have just kept going all night, but, well, we did keep going all night.

You know, in the thought of her and another woman.

And the other guy in that situation is...

You know initially it wasn't something I was interested in so initially you

didn't feel comfortable with her having sex with a guy Going into this whole

thing you know like that was kind of more what I was looking for was you know

threesome But as we start to explore this I really think that it's it's a

better dynamic And you know just a more even balance to have a couple versus a

threesome. You don't really have any concerns except for maybe Amanda's

concerns, I don't stress about too much in general.

So really my concerns are more for her well-being.

So as long as there's no deceit, deception, dishonesty, it's good? Yeah.

Is that what attracts you to the lifestyle?

Yeah. People are so committed to their monogamous relationship that they end up

hurting the person they love the most because they can't be honest with them.

And I think people in general would...

benefit hugely from just being able to be more open about these insecurities,

which once you get them out there in the light, it's really not that big a deal.

Well, I want you to definitely go out there, enjoy yourself, and I hope you

have a really good time the rest of your stay here.

Okay.

We love to be with people that are going to be our friends.

Yeah, we don't like one-night stands.

When you have friends that you can actually play with, you can connect

emotionally and physically and everything on the same level.

Kind of like, what, the icing on the cake.

Amazing.

Hello, guys.

You've had your experience in the house.

Now, alas, the time has come to say goodbye.

Why don't you go find the other residents, say goodbye, and I'll meet

you up front?

Okay. All right. See you soon.

Well, it was definitely an adventure.

I love that.

I am so sad that I'm leaving the swing house right now. I

can't believe it. It seems like such a short amount of time.

This experience definitely opened the door for us. It didn't really change how

I feel about her in any way, but it definitely opened us up to the

possibility of doing this again.

Did you guys have fun?

We had so much fun. We had a really good time. Did you guys push the envelope a

little bit? We did, we did. We would have loved to have the opportunity to

push it even further, but... The hourglasses run dry.

She had a good birthday.

I did.

Happy birthday.

Thank you, guys.

Thank you so much.

Daniel and I stand where we've always stood, on extremely solid ground. Our

relationship feels just as wonderful and as loving and as committed as it ever

was. Okay, so there's just one more thing before you guys go back to your

regular life. This is the contract you signed when you got here.

It basically gave you a free pass to experiment with other people.

Question is, do you want to tear it up? Or now that you've experienced the

lifestyle, do you want to maybe hang on to it? I guess what I'm asking is, was

it a fling?

Or do you want to swing again?

This sexual adventure, it's a really tough thing to jump into.

I think the gods are telling us we should hang on to it.

I want to swing again.

I want to swing again.

I really, truly feel that this is a huge hurdle that Daniel and I have gotten

over. In the heat of the moment, watching him with Giselle, I was able to

let that guard down and really see it for what it was, which was just a

beautiful experience.

I feel like I just made a bunch of new friends, and now I've got to go away.

I think that Daniel and I have very much enjoyed our experience here at the swing

house, and we definitely would like to continue.

You know, we saw how much more it is than just sex with...

other random people. It's a way of making genuine new friends.

And really sharing all of yourself with them. Yeah.

Yeah.

It's a really beautiful experience.

It really was. Yeah.

Well, this was an experience to remember.