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If you think swingers are something out of 70s movies and Back of the Rack

magazines, think again.

These days, couples from all walks of life are embracing the lifestyle, and

they're changing the way people think about marriage. I'm standing outside a

luxurious mansion where some sexy, very happy couples...

are having the time of their lives.

Now a new couple who's never done anything like this before is about to

get in on the action too.

Take a look at this.

Hi, I'm Daryl. Nikki.

And we're from Barco, California.

And we've been married for seven and a half years.

I am very happy with my current sex life.

I always wish I could have more.

It's theirs up to him. We have sex five times a day, every day.

I'm looking for just overall sexual raw energy, like fun, excitement.

I'm interested in guys and girls, so I'm pretty open.

That's what we're here to find out if it's cool or not.

I'm giving Daryl and Nikki an exclusive pass into the hot, passionate, clothing

optional party going on inside.

Can they really share their partner with someone else? And how will it affect

their relationship?

I'm Anna David.

Hold on tight. This is Sway.

So I think this is like a big step for us.

I think it's gonna be awesome.

It would just be another day in paradise.

It was Daryl's idea to start swinging.

I thought he was crazy. There's no way, you know, what am I doing wrong?

I'm really nervous and scared, wondering what these people is gonna be like.

You know, I'd like to see you get pleased by a guy. I think it'd be, I

think it's gonna be awesome. The group dynamic, definitely the whole girl-girl

thing.

But overall, I'd like to see you just...

to be yourself and have a good time. And that's really what this is about, us as

a couple. After having a couple of kids, I was kind of looking for extra stuff to

spice up our relationship and marriage.

So I kind of came upon this whole swinging thing.

After a year of talking to her, she finally gave me a good thumbs up, said,

let's try it.

Ultimately, I guess it was my decision.

But since it's a team effort, I couldn't have done it without her.

Honey, we're home.

We're here. Are you ready?

Ready as I'm going to get.

Let's do this.

Hi. Hey.

I'm Anna. Nikki.

You must be Daryl. Yes, ma'am. Nice to meet you both.

How are you guys doing?

Good. Outstanding.

Outstanding. Outstanding.

Any nervousness? Any butterflies?

That's why I'm so outstanding. I'm just bundled nerves right now. You're

outstandingly nervous? Yes.

There's just one thing.

Before I let you loose in the house, we need to talk about something. So you

want to follow me?

Yes, ma'am. All right. All right, let's do it.

I introduced you to the lifestyle because that's kind of where I knew I

wanted to be always.

It's funny because you didn't really introduce me. You just kind of threw me

in. It's a good thing I'm a good swimmer.

So, what I have here is a contract.

Okay. And we're both going to sign it, and it basically says that, you know,

you give each other permission to hook up with other people while you're here.

Right now, we're on the threshold of something that a lot of people dream

about, a lot of people fantasize about. And here we are, ready to take that step

across the threshold.

Does one of you want to actually read it out loud?

I'll do it.

We have agreed to take part in a sexual venture over the next two days, during

which all the normal rules of a monogamous relationship will be

temporarily set aside.

We promise not to hold what happens here against each other once the venture is

over. What happens in the swing house stays in the swing house.

Daryl and I have been together for almost nine years.

Coming to the house, I was really scared, not knowing what was going to

happen. I'm hoping for just overall good time with a bunch of different couples.

Any special rules we have for each other during our time will be written in the

space below.

We hope to have fun and explore everything the lifestyle has to offer,

knowing that the ultimate goal is a stronger, healthier, more fulfilling

relationship. Okay, so do you have any of these additional rules? And if so,

can you write them in the space there?

Same room. Same room until we're comfortable.

Mm-hmm.

No taking one for the team.

Yep.

And then sign at the bottom.

I'm going to hold on to this.

So, why don't you guys, you know, go up to your room, get refreshed, do what you

want to do, and come downstairs. I know the other guys are excited to meet you.

Ready to do this? Yep. All standing.

This place is huge.

Awesome.

This house is amazing. It's huge. It has a lot of things that I would like in my

own personal house, so I'm ecstatic.

Are you nervous?

I get nervous meeting new people anyway, even when I'm just being myself, and

this is... These people are going to see me naked.

We're going out to meet the couples.

We're excited, we're nervous, wondering what these people are going to be like.

I can roll.

I felt comfortable once I got out there. All of the couples that were out there,

they were all very good looking.

There was no weird vibes.

They just seemed like a great group of people.

I don't really know if my jaw actually dropped and hit the ground, but I was...

I was shocked with the quality of people. Every single woman there is

outstanding. And I stared at everybody's ass and tits.

Probably with some knowing. Probably wouldn't have been very good without a

peeking.

More of like a... Darryl, it's Clayton. Nice to meet you.

Hi, Amanda.

Hi. I'm Black Guy One. Black Guy One.

I'm Early. Nice to meet you. He's Early.

I'm Clayton. Nice to meet you. You too. Darryl. Nice to meet you. Amanda.

Amanda. Nikki. Nice to meet you too.

I'm Night.

And your black eye, too? The first time we met, Miki and her other half, they

walked out the door. We all waved hello.

I gave them a quick glance.

And as she swept her eyes across the whole crowd, she looked at me for a

split second, but she didn't stare at me. And then she looked away.

The lack of eye contact is what gave her away.

So that the next time we made eye contact, I could totally read her

thoughts and hear her thought ways.

That guy I would do.

So how long have you guys been together?

We've been married seven, but we've been together nine.

Nine days?

Nine years.

Are you confident in your ability to communicate together and to be open

while things are happening?

First thing I know about Kristen, blonde hair, very gorgeous body and eyes.

She had a good smile.

She was very open and warm.

You know, are you wanting to do more girl action or are you guys okay with

exploring couples?

Um, I think we're pretty much open to... Or just good old-fashioned orgies.

Just about anything. Pretty open to just, like I said, jumping headfirst in

the water, hopefully don't hit our head on the bottom of the pool.

What about you guys? We have a couple. No fish hooking, no eye gouging, no... I

think at one point in time, we talked about no kissing, but then we're like...

Kissing and sex is like peanut butter and jelly. It kind of meshes together.

I'm taking your drink orders really quick.

Anybody need anything?

Can I order a dirty leprechaun?

Don't forget that Jeff, the body painter, is inside with his assistant,

Juliet. So as soon as you guys get a chance, go get painted.

And he's amazing.

Awesome. Sexy body painting. I've never seen it done.

I've seen pictures online. I've never seen it before in person.

I like a room with full sexual intention and full of cool people. That's what I

had envisioned.

You know, when a new couple comes in and exploring fantasies with them, it's just

so much easier if they're confident enough to say what they're looking for

and to say what they want.

They know that we're more experienced and that we're apt to help them achieve

that. And not only...

telling us their fantasies, but also discussing between each other before, so

it's not a surprise to them when, you know, I want to be tied up, comes out,

and the other partner just freaks out.

And knowing what their boundaries are and then bringing it up to us. Correct.

And letting what happened, happen.

And it's fun.

The first shocker for me is when I looked over, and there are girls naked,

completely buck-ass naked.

It was extremely smoking hot.

All right. Okay.

Let's get you started.

So we get inside, and Megan strips down to nothing real quick.

Now, I'm used to that. But Daryl, he was like... I

thought it was the funniest thing I ever saw.

Sometimes when you have new couples in this environment for the first time, you

have to take them by the hand and leave them.

Megan and I have done that for a lot of new couples.

We really like doing it, and we are really good at it.

As the other girls were getting body painted, at that time I was not hoping

that it was me because I was still nervous.

Halfway through playing with them, you could even be like, I'm sorry, I'm not

really feeling it like I thought I would.

And nobody's going to judge you. Nobody's going to be like, oh, well, you

know. Or if you even just say no.

All the girls had a lot of good information about the whole swinging

thing. After talking about it, I loosened up.

Some of the newbies, when they get into the lifestyle, they come not of any

fault of their own, but with their own habits.

And they're all vanilla anticipation.

Takes an awful lot of time to break. It takes time to get past that. It really

does. Everybody asks that same question. How do you deal with the jealousy?

Jealousy is an emotion based in insecurity.

Plain and simple. Or trust.

Well, it's either insecurity in the relationship or insecurity within

themselves. So, yeah, lack of trust is an insecurity in a relationship.

Absolutely. You're not secure.

Who's next?

Nikki, Nikki is next. Nikki, they said you're next.

Are you going to get body painted?

Yeah.

Have fun.

I've never been body painted, and I was really nervous, but it was an experience

I didn't want to miss.

You ready? Yeah. Okay.

After having a few drinks, I felt really comfortable getting body painted. I took

all my clothes off. Don't worry, honey, it won't hurt.

One thing that's been really important to me as a body painter is the person's

comfort level and what they're real comfortable with. You can usually tell

right off the bat.

If somebody wants to get naked, they'll just stand there, get naked, and boom,

they're right on the table.

So what I'll do is if somebody isn't too sure whether they want to be naked,

we'll paint the top first.

And then as for comfort, if she starts to feel more and more comfortable about

it, realize what the body paint is, and we kind of progress on it.

I go down there looking at her, watching the brush and seeing her form a little

bit. It was awesome. The girl's being completely naked.

But you're not really seeing anything because everything's all painted. It was

very hot.

Swing's all about you.

It's about you as a couple.

You're the most important part of swing.

Because without you being a couple, it's just another singles ball.

So you guys having a good time so far?

Yes, it's very fun. I'm enjoying myself.

After getting naked and getting body painted, I felt really comfortable

because all the girls were naked and body painted as well.

I know when we first started talking about it, she was like the they, moms

don't do this.

When she relaxes and she's herself, she's awesome.

Now she's walking around naked, so.

You know, people have their little boxes sometimes, and they can't escape that

box. They're going to try to make you feel bad about yourself.

You know, and that's just when you say, oh, I'm a mom, how do I feel?

Are you still a person?

Just because you have kids, just because you have a family.

It doesn't mean you're not a person and you don't have things you like to do.

Just because you're a mom, it doesn't have to define you. You can still fish,

ski, have group sex, whatever you like to do. It ain't no different from

baseball practice or any other thing you do as a family. It's just a different

thing you like to do.

So I got a plan.

Now I just have to go out and execute it. As long as Daryl's cool with it,

this should be a very interesting night.

You know, life is short.

May not have a lot of time in the short.

I know what I'd like to have happen tonight.

I'd like to get to know Nikki in the bedroom.

So in the world of Karen, there are always the three P's.

Patience, persistence, and perseverance.

And three P's will get you four.

And that's whatever the fourth P you want it to be.

Prosperity, pussy.

Okay, guys, so it's time to get ready for the night. You're going to go

upstairs, do your last touch-up, and come back down here when you're done.

Ready?

I think people in the lifestyle definitely have...

at least 10 times more sex than vanilla couples because we appreciate it more

and we keep it interesting and we know how to spice it up.

Even if it's the same person, after you've been with somebody else, it

doesn't feel like the same person when you go back.

So now let's get the big one. Who do you want to, you know?

No, no, no. What about you?

Oh, me first. You answer them two questions or just ask me? Ah.

I could see us having fun with anybody down there, really.

I mean, I guess that's kind of broad in generalization, but I think... Because

earlier in the day, Darrell had actually pointed Garen out and was like, yeah,

you think he's cute and you're going to hook up with him.

And I'm like, okay, yeah, whatever.

But he was cute.

How about you?

What if I said all of them?

That's a cop-out answer.

I'm really happy with the communication level that this couple has.

He definitely knows how to communicate with her more, and I think that if

they're uncomfortable with something, I'm thinking they're going to be more

comfortable voicing it.

You know, I sat down and talked to her, and she actually seems pretty confident,

pretty straightforward.

She seems to be okay with everything.

I didn't get a sense of any boundaries with them other than they want it to be

fun, and as long as it's fun, they're fine with it.

You got any idea what you think is going to happen tonight?

Um, I think it'll happen a little bit, maybe role reversal, where maybe you

can just jump in the middle and I'll just stand back.

Because I don't feel like she's really into girls.

I don't know where it's going to go, but I do know at some point. Once I've got

the all clear from her guy, I'm just going to walk up to her and take her by

the hand and see if she follows me. But I just got this really strong feeling

that she'll follow me.

Do you have anybody picked out or are you set on?

I'd like to hit all of them before we leave.

Even the men?

No.

Love you. Love you too.

Sometimes we go to a party and nothing happens.

And that's okay.

We have fun just about anywhere we go, so it doesn't really matter.

And that's kind of what we focused on. So you may go to a party and nothing

happens. You may go to a party and just flirt all night.

You know, if we go to a party with expectations, that's where we found that

we have issues, that we get upset.

If you go in without expectations and you just let things happen the way they

naturally will happen, and your focus is just having a good time, you'll end up

having a good time. And if it ends up going somewhere, fantastic. But if not,

I get to go home with him.

okay so you guys ready for your first night in the lifestyle yes most

definitely and how you feeling are we like excited nervous i think i'm a

little over the nervous bug and i'm more excited more excited now so see anything

you like around here most definitely well remember this is not window

shopping you actually get to touch but You have to live with what happens. You

don't get to, like, wake up tomorrow morning, have an extra person in your

bed, and go, what the hell are they doing here? You know what I'm saying?

Only if you drink too much, you'll remember it.

May I propose a toast to a night of indecent proposals.

Outstanding. Cheers.

Have a blast, guys. Who knows, maybe even more than one blast.

Right now, I'm feeling...

I'm excited.

Hey, I think it's a good time for us fellas to adjourn to the living room and

let's let the girls give us a nice little fashion show with their new body

paint. What do you think?

Sounds like a plan.

Sounds like a good idea at the time, but then I got really nervous and didn't

want to do it.

I was still just really nervous.

Megan,

she has an outstanding body.

Tan, everything's where it's supposed to be and you know, so it's outstandingly

awesome.

Ashley's probably more my type than anybody.

She's a petite blonde.

Yeah, definitely more my quote-unquote type for Miss Ashley.

I love fashion shows. Seeing sexy ladies strut to yourself is my definite idea of

a good time.

Nicolette, she's gorgeous.

The blonde hair, just tall, just awesome personality. First impressions, just

amazing.

I was really nervous about the fashion show. I didn't want to do it, but

Kristen helped me out, so I walked out with her.

I felt weird just because I was the last one.

I think I'd have been better if I was mixed up in the middle of it.

Attention, everybody.

We're going to play a game. We are going to mix spin the cock and jacks and a

hat. All right.

So Nikki looks really good in her body paint, but it's obvious she's a little

nervous. Hey, that happens sometimes.

But once she settles in, once I flirt with her a little while and break that

ice, I'll move in.

Spin the cock.

Spin it.

Okay,

we're spinning one spun cock.

Have

someone

lick and suck one body part.

You choose.

Okay.

I choose...

Megan to lick Amanda's pussy.

It was

sexy seeing

another woman kiss another woman.

It was actually hot.

Seeing that go on like a live action porn is pretty awesome because they're

both pretty smoking hot and the only way it could get better is if my wife was

involved in it.

of one free blank to the person of choice.

There it is.

So whatever you want, you get to get to one person of your choice.

You're gonna feel it. You're gonna fuck in the ass. Slow job.

I get to give it, so you say I can fuck you in the ass? Ooh!

Damn!

Nothing too late, Lucas. That real quick.

So it's good to see that Nikki's not as nervous now. She's in a much more

playful mood. I like the way this is going.

We're starting to flirt a little more and have more fun.

I think we're going to try the newbie out.

That was pretty hot. This one is my favorite.

Ride the CBN or command someone else to do until they orgasm.

This is my favorite toy. Who wants to go on CBN?

I will make you scream tonight.

Seeing that go on is outstanding.

It's better than TV because it's all 3D.

That's hotter than just about anything else I can think of.

During the game, Garen kept rubbing his feather on me and tickling me, and I

thought that was a form of flirting.

At that point in time, I was excited. I thought it was hot, it was exciting, and

we should do it some more.

So everyone gets real quiet watching Ashley and Nicoletta do their thing.

It's a huge turn-on.

So I'm really ready to take this thing to the next level.

Oh, oh, yeah.

Oh, oh, oh.

Oh, oh, oh.

Oh, oh, oh.

Oh, oh, oh. Oh, oh, oh.

I believe I was well on my way to get hot and heavy. Like for me, I know it

was a good start. I am ready to go.

I'm hot and bothered.

So

the

next plan of action is giving Nikki what she wants.

So I'm going to have to find Daryl and sit down with Daryl and explain to him

what's going on.

I don't know how many experiences y'all have had like that or whatever, but

first I always ask the guy's permission.

Like, you know, is it cool that I pursued your other half?

Why possibly?

Okay, see, there you go.

That's the most important part. Make sure you know how he feels.

I was a little shocked when Garen had said that.

I was kind of freaking out. I was like, wow, it's really going to happen.

If you could give us a little time to talk about it, and we'll get back to

you, sir. That's perfect.

That is perfect. Are you digging it?

Are you digging him?

Oh, yeah, but I'm not going to leave you like that.

I mean, I'm cool with the group thing.

Just let me know what you're looking for, you know, what you want.

And then if we can go from there, we can let him know.

Okay. Deal? Yep.

We had talked, and we...

decided that there was not okay doing one-on-one, that he wanted to do the

whole group dynamic.

We're cool with it.

Our biggest thing is I don't want to be left out, she doesn't want to be left

out, and she's not sure if it's going to be a group thing or a one-on-one. We

like the group thing.

I don't want to go play without my friends.

I was longing for the whole party to be in one place.

It's much more fun.

She didn't want me to be left out.

Oh, of course not.

That's all right.

My girl,

she's pretty much 90% lesbian, 10%, whatever.

So that's a whole nut you'd have to try to crack your own.

It would be a lot easier to do it with some of the other girls who weren't into

that, but that's what the whole group thing is. Everybody does things at their

own speed, so we can all have a good time.

I'm glad we can see eye to eye.

I like this is my speed.

All right.

All right.

And everybody, we've come to the conclusion that we're all going to take

this party upstairs to the bedroom upstairs and have a good time, just like

our gig.

Sounds good. When Daryl and Garen had come down to tell all the girls that we

were going to go back upstairs, at that point in time, I was excited. I thought

mine and Daryl's fantasy was going to come true.

We get upstairs, Megan's not shy.

She throws me down in the bed and she immediately starts to give me head.

These two see it and they realize, okay, we'll get comfortable and get started

and so they do the same. And we're ready to get this party started.

So here we go. Megan gets things started like she always does.

And when the time is right, I'm going to get Nikki and I'm going to show what the

lifestyle is really all about.

I did bring a towel.

Just in case.

We really didn't waste any time. We just got right down to business.

There were three couples on our bed. It was hot. And at one point in time, while

we were on the bed, me and Daryl were messing around.

And then me and Garen started messing around.

I am into the whole oral sex group pleasure thing.

Everybody was having a good time. My wife started moaning while she was

giving me head. I knew she was enjoying herself, so it was even more of a turn

on for me.

Nikki's giving Daryl head, and I'm laying next to them, and I'm kind of

rubbing on her, letting her know I'm there, and really just letting them

experience the experience of being not alone while having sex.

So we're all good.

Everything's a go. We just got to keep him comfortable, me comfortable, her

comfortable, and most of all, Megan comfortable.

And Garen started fucking and it was awesome. He has an amazing body.

Nikki really let loose. She kind of let her hair down, so to speak. It really

got kind of wild, and we both drifted off into some really good sex.

This is a fantasy that she had two guys and you know her Maybe even a deeper

fantasy of the big black cock And this is what we're about the film fantasy is

having a good time

Can somebody get me the simian?

I'm gonna go get the simian.

Right

now

I'm feeling I have to go with the team because Clayton and Kristen, they got so

hot and bottled they wanted to have their own sex instead of sharing with

everybody. I was hoping for...

The whole group thing, you know, maybe get another female on my left so I can

go down to her.

I probably failed to try to close the deal.

But I'm a happy person, so I think the whole time it was hot.

Seeing my wife get pleasured here in Ramon is a very, very awesome thing for

me because her fancy coming true tonight was...

An awesome gift just for myself.

Even if it's something I can just give her one night.

How do you feel about last night?

Last night was interesting.

A lot went on, a lot of the cool stuff.

Still kind of processing, trying to figure out where everything fits in.

Last night was bittersweet. Not meeting my ideal foursome kind of was a downer.

On a bright note, my wife got to achieve one of her fantasies, which I'm ecstatic

for, and I'm sure I'll hear more stories about it later on when we get home.

Kind of took one for the team so to speak there's only like three people for

people upstairs that I guess maybe even heard that we're all coming up here and

It's just so happy. They were just into women.

I don't know I think how the The dice landed who hooked up with who and the

time I enjoy watching and seeing you With the other guy and also with me same

time, you know to actually hot

I really don't feel like I took one for the team. I really don't. There's going

to be some fantasies that I may not be involved in.

She may want to tie me to a chair and make me watch, which is cool.

I respect that because I know she has fantasies about women, and sometimes

it's women with me involved or women with just women.

She's cool with it, or I'm cool with it.

I absolutely did not take one for the team. I really didn't.

I do wish that maybe some kind of action, just with your wife, because she

gets that at home.

But it's still very nice. If you're not getting anything added, then it's kind

of pointless.

Even being with you, I mean, I'm not doing this to replace you, so it's not

like you're not doing enough for me. You could just sit at home and be the

babysitter, and I could go out and have fun.

Not a big thing with young kids.

In this experience, I learned that Daryl is a lot more open to things than I

thought. I figured he'd be somewhat jealous, but he seems not to be. I love

you. I love you, too.

She needed somebody to lead the way. That's what you're really good at,

honey. When you told her that she wanted you in the bar, she was like, nuh-uh,

nuh-uh, nuh-uh.

And her husband was like, stop lying.

And you could just tell I was...

They were like in middle school.

Who wrote the do you like me, yes or no letter?

They communicated really well, both with themselves and with me. They didn't have

hang-ups. They were really good with each other, which made it really easy.

It's just they were so good with each other.

Everything else was simple.

That was an experience she wanted, and so he gave it to her. Any guy can give a

girl a diamond ring, a car.

whatever it is that's monetary, but not every guy can give a girl another guy

with a big smile on his face and say, hey, this is something we can't get at

home or buy at the store. I brought home the bacon last night.

You sure did.

And we're eating it this morning.

Morning. Morning.

How are you guys?

Wonderful.

How was last night?

Good. It was great. Pretty awesome. Good.

The thing about something like swinging or any kind of fantasy, it's like you

have the fantasy and it's one thing, and then actually feeling it may have

stirred up some emotions.

Either way, downstairs we have a relationship expert. She specializes in

sex, and she's going to talk to you and help you sort out everything that

happens. Sounds like a plan.

Okay, good. And after that, you get more time in the house.

Outstanding. Ready?

Let's go.

If you're thinking about this as a fantasy situation, and sometimes fantasy

isn't as great as reality, this is going to fast-forward your relationship.

You're either going to grow and be really committed with your relationship,

or you're not, because you know what people, their general intentions are.

They want to have sex with you guys.

I mean, they want to play with you guys. It'll help you see your partner a lot

better.

Welcome, Daryl and Nikki.

I'm Dr. Lori Buckley, and I'm a therapist who works with individuals and

couples around relationship and sexual issues.

So I know last night you were able to explore some fantasies. What were your

expectations before you actually got here? When we came here, it was kind of

just almost like a freebie.

Okay, maybe like an experiment. Yes, that's a good word for it.

And whose idea was it?

It was his.

Yeah, and when he first told you about it, what were your thoughts?

Are you crazy? Like, what am I doing wrong?

Like, you know, like... Wide-eyed enough.

Yeah, yeah. That type of thing, yeah. What was it like for you last night?

It was a lot last night. It wasn't what I expected, I guess.

Seeing her with, like, another guy, it was hot. It really was. You know, got

the motor running.

And then later on, the old questions pop in. You know, was he better?

you know bigger or smaller just kind of those aren't really normal common

concerns yeah you know she's not gonna leave me over her penis when we're just

us i'm always top dog now it's like am i really top dogging yeah so in the moment

it seemed fine yeah you were actually aroused by it yeah and then when you

started thinking about it then you had those insecurities nikki what's that

like for you i felt bad last night just because it Didn't get anything. He got

stuck with me. Which, you know, it probably isn't a bad thing, but, you

know, he gives that all the time. He wants something different, you know?

The way the cards fell that night, just all the girls went somewhere else. Maybe

they're not attracted to me.

Maybe I just can't close the deal. But until I get my half of it or whatever, I

won't really know if it's something that we want to do. Like, watching her last

night, we could do that again. It'd be awesome.

But I just don't want it to be where I'm always, like, the third wheel.

I feel bad because I feel like...

He's not really getting, I guess, the whole benefit of the whole swinging

thing. So you won't feel so bad if he's able to be sexually pleased by another

woman? Not at all. Yeah. Do you feel bad now that you had sex with another guy?

I feel bad because he didn't get any attention.

So you feel bad for him? For him, yes.

You don't feel bad about what you did? No.

Not at all.

You know, from what I can see, it sounds like you're both open to having some

other experiences.

And if that should happen, to make sure that, again, you two are really

communicating. And just go out there and enjoy the rest of your time here. Okay.

Thank you. You're welcome.

What time did you guys end up going in last night? Probably about 4.30. Yeah?

Yeah.

So did you guys have any concerns or issues from your night that you had to

work through?

No, not really. I didn't.

Yeah, we enjoyed it. I had no regrets last night.

It's all about experiences. Some are learning experiences. Some are just

experiences. You just sit back and go, ha, ha, ha, ha, you know.

And it's fun for you guys to have this experience.

You know, it is. I'm glad I came.

I'm glad you came.

Even if we decide not to do it, I'm still glad I came, because at least by

then I'll know it's not for me or it's for me.

I'm glad you came.

Me or... Oh, okay. I'll get you to take it.

You never know where you're going to find a friend.

Nikki and Daryl came here looking for that something special, and I got to

give it to them. I got to have sex with Nikki and have a great time, and he got

to watch her have sex and probably see some things in her he's never seen

before. It was just a great night all the way around. When new people come

into the lifestyle, I think there's a dynamic that they don't understand yet.

When you're married, your spouse's emotions are now number one to you.

So when, you know, I could be getting really turned on and I could be having a

great time. And I look over and I see my husband and he's not playing. We're not

feeling it. He's not having a good night.

It doesn't matter what my emotions are at that point in time.

His emotions are number one and I need to cater to him.

And unfortunately, sometimes what happens is because I need to cater to

him, then to me, other people can feel shunned or hurt.

So initially, like I kind of didn't even allow myself to really get into what was

going on last night just because I'm thinking of how is this going to work?

How are we going to make everybody happy here? And so I had to cater to him and

say, okay, we have to pull back.

no matter what I might be feeling. Kristen says that, you know, just

because a woman may be attracted to me, but it may not be me, but it might be

just an issue with her husband that they have a rule that she can't play with me

even though she wants to just because of this issue that's going on with their

significant other, which I took to heart because sometimes I take it personal.

You never know what the dynamics are.

Generally, the hardest thing is to learn to not take things personal.

and it's really, really hard to do. Sometimes things hurt, and you have to

say, you know, I am a good guy.

I'm married to a great girl. Yes, I am. So there probably was something else

going on. But you can still look in the mirror and go, yeah, it's probably not

me. Yes!

Daryl did not get any action, and it comes out that, you know, there are some

personal issues that the couples are going through, and so it wasn't nothing

to do with Daryl, and I think that made him feel a lot better.

Hello!

Hi. Hi. How is everybody?

Good. How are you?

I'm good.

Alas, I'm the buzzkill.

Yeah. It's time for you guys to sort of say your goodbyes to everybody. Time for

you guys to say your goodbyes to them. And then you want to meet me out front?

I'll see you soon.

When Darla had first talked to me about swinging, I thought he was crazy. It was

never going to happen.

But actually, after experiencing it, I think it's going to be a great thing.

The communication is there.

You're able to...

go out and have fun and have sex with other people without being jealous and

with just without cheating all right darling we'll see you guys

saying goodbye to the couples it's kind of sad they're not afraid to hide

anything they're not afraid to flirt or you know have a good time just to be

themselves and be honest with each other thank you for sharing your beautiful i

had a lot of good conversation with everybody i'm not afraid to call any of

these folks my friends at all Nice meeting you guys. Bye, guys.

Okay, there's just one more thing before you guys go back to your regular life. I

have the contract that you signed when you got here. Remember that?

Mm-hmm. Gave you permission to hook up with other people. So do you want to

tear it up into a million little pieces, forget any of this ever happened? Do you

want to put it in the family album?

I guess what I'm asking is, was this a fling?

Or do you think you want to swing again?

I think I'm going to swing.

Well, thank you, you guys. You've been really great guests. Thanks for having

us. Have a safe trip home. Thank you. Thank you.

Rico? Yep.

It was a good time. It was an awesome experience.

And I'm glad that we could, I'm glad me and Nikki could do this on a kind of

like a trial by fire basis.

And we were trusting enough to each other, give each other a free pass just

to do it. It was awesome.

I guess what I had built in my head, the whole perfect fantasy when it comes to

real life, now it's perfect.

But I enjoyed the, I enjoyed watching it get pleased.

It was awesome.

It was, you know, it's still a fantasy.

But it wasn't, like, I guess the main one that I wanted to fulfill this time.

Any fantasies that you fulfilled or didn't fulfill that you wanted to?

I'm going to have to say mine was not fulfilled.

Just because I wanted to see you get pleased.

Awesome.