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Ever wonder what your neighbors are doing behind closed doors?

Well, these days, it's certainly not crossword puzzles and needlepoint.

In fact, more and more of your colleagues and friends are tangled up in

a far more exciting pastime.

They're swinging.

Right here, right now.

Very loving, very attractive couples are enjoying sex outside their

relationships.

Now, one new couple is on the verge of getting into the game, and they're doing

it in style.

Take a look at this video they sent me.

Hi, I'm Nikki.

And I'm Mark. And we're from Los Angeles, California.

We've been together for about a year. We've known each other for about three

years through school.

I'm from a fraternity. I'm a sorority.

So that's how we know each other.

I'm kind of curious about girls mostly, like hooking up with a girl. So that's

kind of why I did it.

And then I'm being a supportive boyfriend, so whatever she wants in a

relationship, you know, I want it to happen.

I mean, the idea of possibly having a threesome might be cool.

I don't know, just watching, watching, you know, even watching is cool.

So it's a new and great experience to be in.

Nikki and Mark have come to the right place because I'm sending them into the

wild swinging party happening inside.

What happens next is entirely up to them.

I'm Anna David.

Hold on tight. We're about to swing.

I really don't know what to expect.

I'm like, I'm nervous, excited.

I'm both, but I feel like I'm more nervous. Just anxious.

I need to see it already. It needs to happen.

Because I'm just thinking about it too much, I think.

The idea of swinging, it's a conversation that we've had for the

longest time. One of my fantasies is to see Nikki with another girl.

Hopefully, I can be a part of it. What can I do?

You can do whatever your heart desires.

It's kind of nerve-wracking to think that we're trying to, like, try

something new sexually, I guess, or a new lifestyle, you know, possibly.

It's nerve-wracking.

It makes me anxious but excited at the same time.

All good feelings.

You must be Nikki.

I'm Anna. You must be Mark.

Anna, nice to meet you. Welcome.

Thank you.

How are you guys doing? Did you sleep okay last night? Yeah, we slept pretty

well. Yeah, I think so.

We're pretty nervous but excited at the same time. Okay, good. I like to hear

that. We're glad that we're finally here.

Before I let you go play, there's just one thing we need to discuss.

Okay. So you want to follow me into the house? Sure. Yeah.

You ready for this? Yeah. Okay, love you. Love you.

First time swinging.

We were at a house party, you know, a couple people, an orgy happened, and we

were there, and, you know. They knew we were brand new, we'd never done anything

before, so they were really gentle with us. The girls basically took the lead

with me, which made me more comfortable and really turned you on.

So I have here a contract for you guys to sign.

And actually, why don't one of you read it out loud?

Okay, go ahead. You want me to read it? Yeah. Okay.

We have agreed to take part in a sexual adventure over the next two days during

which all the normal rules of a monogamous relationship will be

temporarily set aside.

This contract is a free pass to do what we want over the next two days.

We promise not to hold what happens here against each other once the adventure is

over. What happens in the swing house stays in the swing house. We give each

other permission to explore and engage in sexual relationships with other

partners while we are here. We hope to have fun and explore everything the

lifestyle has to offer, knowing that the ultimate goal is a stronger, healthier,

more fulfilling relationship.

Sound good? Sounds good.

Awesome. I'm going to hang on to this. Okay.

So, every couple has a different way of sort of handling the lifestyle.

Yeah. For some, it's just like anything goes, free for all. And for others, you

know, they have rules.

Okay. Like maybe it's that they have a code word that only they know and they

use it if they ever want to sort of extricate themselves from an awkward

situation. And the word should be something that doesn't come up in normal

conversation, you know, like...

Lobster. You guys want to do that? Yeah, I think so.

Okay.

Lobster's good.

Lobster's good. Okay.

Nikki and I have three rules.

Mutual consent, we have a code word, and always to be in the same room. I'm

pretty comfortable with the rules that we created. I mean, this whole

experience is for Nikki, so it's not what I want. It's pretty much what she

wanted. Now...

Why don't you go upstairs, get ready, and then come back down and meet the

other couples.

I think they're excited to meet you guys. They're excited, too. You ready?

Yeah. All right. Let's do this.

Love you. Love you.

Oh, my gosh.

It's so big.

Nikki and I are pretty much the new meat for this experiment.

And I really, there's a bunch of emotions going through inside me. Like,

it's just a roller coaster.

Like, I'm excited at the same time.

I'm actually scared. I mean, I haven't really heard of any people

of Asian descent being, you know, a swinger.

There's a lot of pressure on me because I'm not really sure if I can fulfill or

perform, you know, like the needs of the people in this lifestyle.

Okay, I think we should go change it down and go meet everyone. Okay.

I'm just hoping to find out what it's about, like the swinging lifestyle.

I just want to learn more about it because I have no idea. I don't really,

I have no idea what the lifestyle is about.

The thing I love about Nikki's sexuality is just her openness. She really

genuinely loves having sex with me, and that's really great.

I think they're gonna love you. Why?

I don't know. You're hot.

Thank you.

I'm ready.

Hot.

They're gonna love you.

Ready?

I'm ready. Are you ready?

Yeah.

Alright, let's go.

How does this look? We're all fully clothed.

Hey!

What's going on here?

How are you?

When I walked out there for the first time, I was just expecting like...

naked people everywhere and like having sex everywhere and I'm like totally not

even like that so I'm excited to meet them and see how the residents are you

know like I want to know what their experiences are Megan

stood out to me

first the way her body's up you know her tits her ass you know her hair she has

like a bad girl look Ashley, too, and I'm thinking the best that could happen

is Nikki just hooking up with them.

Anybody need me to grab them anything?

Tequila sunrise with the good tequila.

Got it. Okay, I'll be back for your menu.

Have you guys talked about possibly doing this? Yeah.

Well, she has a curiosity for women, for other girls. Oh, welcome.

Like how many?

I don't know yet. At least one.

Okay.

So what do you guys hope to do tonight?

I mean, honestly, we're really open to a lot of things. We'll see, I guess.

We had a little joke with each other. Like, okay, yeah, we're having sex

today. For sure. But we're just, we don't know who we're inviting.

Oh, that's a connection.

You're going to find that the people in the lifestyle are more respectful than

your average people at the club. Yeah. If you have boundaries.

Let us know, and it won't hurt our feelings whatsoever.

Yeah. Yeah, you can say no, and it's...

Fine, whatever.

We tend to not take offense to many things at all.

I mean, that's like the normal thing, right? It's communication.

Yeah, absolutely.

What stands out in my mind from meeting them for the first time, they're just

like normal people.

They're people that I would just probably meet at a bar and just hang out

with. They're easygoing, and they're really open.

It's really not that personal.

It's kind of like dating, right?

Oh, it is dating.

Whatever you guys want to do is totally up to you. Yeah, okay.

Welcome to couples dating.

I really like all the relationships that they had with each other. Like, I was

really impressed, kind of. Like, they were so open with each other. It was

good. They made me feel relaxed, so it was okay.

Given that, if everybody's comfortable, we're going to move in to the next space

and go play a little game.

Cheers.

Cheers. Cheers.

Cheers. Thanks.

All right, guys, we're going to play Shave Your Balls.

We're going to divide up into two teams.

Each team member will go in there. You will stand in there, shave a ball, all

the shaving cream off of it. Your teammate will come and join you. You

will pop the balloon, not using your hands any other way you want between you

two. So are we ready?

Ready. All right, ready.

Go!

Playing the game was so fun The

walls were coming down a little bit, you know, it was like way more comfortable

after that The game was a good icebreaker because

we're just like you know throwing around shaving cream hugging each other like

pushing pushing each other like touching each other so it broke down all the like

some of the barriers that we already we had coming to this all right nice this

man has experienced shaving balls

you

guys if you do it quick you win

Our team won, but then I see Megan over Nikki and I'm like damn they actually

won.

I think the girls had a good time playing the game even after because they

just kept going trying to pop balloons on each other and like grabbing and like

rubbing, grabbing and I don't know just playing in the shaving cream so that was

fun.

I think Megan's kind of like outgoing like she would be the more aggressor and

that's kind of hot they're all

having fun with each other and just like missing each other touching each other

i'm like oh man this is actually what i what i came for and i was like this is

surreal right now i was like this is gonna be a lot of fun i can't wait till

you know the rest of the night all right

I think Mark had a good time playing too, especially because he won and he

got to watch me win, essentially.

So

when

we first got to the hot tub everyone was naked and me and Mark were like not

ready for that.

I'm actually a little uncomfortable at this moment because there's Garen and

honestly he's fun like a horse I'm Asian you know like and you know I'm just an

average guy you know

Nikki being naked makes me feel a little more at ease, a little more comfortable.

It shows me more of a sign that she's really getting into it and she might be

more all about, you know, like having fun and being more open-minded.

And ladies, we have a little special something for you to put on. So

everybody meet me in the bar later after you're dressed, okay?

Bye, guys.

I totally felt, like, fresh to me. That's how I was thinking it was going

to be when we got in there. I was like, man, they're just dumping me in this

pool of sharks right now.

No pulling the plug, though. We're going to dive into it and see what happens.

I say we all go streaky.

I saw after we were, like, cheering, we were like... And we were still going at

it because... Yeah, we look over here and you're on the thing and she's on top

of you. I'm like, wow.

She's the winner. We are the winners.

Megan.

She was the one that stood out to me the most. And then I think Ashley and then

Nicoletta too.

I mean, they're all really cool. They already all seem like that they're all

into each other.

Yeah, no, but they're all like super cool.

I mean, you know what I want and stuff like that.

So it's just like, I think Mark's feeling the same way as I am. Like we

both get really bad anxiety and we kind of let our nerves take over sometimes.

So I think he's just as nervous and just as excited.

So what do you think about the newbie?

I think he's a little more nervous about things than she is.

They're really a very new couple. They're such a sweet couple.

Oh yeah, they're a super nice couple. So we'll see. They should have a fun night.

She seems to be into girls. So I think we can make her comfortable at least.

If anything, the girls will have fun.

Oh, the girls will definitely have fun.

That's what it's all about.

I think, you know, we probably should be aware of how the dynamic is and maybe

make sure that we include them in the conversation so they don't feel left

out. Because I know that when we were new, it was kind of hard to jump into

the conversation, you know, because you're still a little timid as you're

new. Yeah, you're always kind of waiting around for somebody else to reach a hand

out and kind of bring you along.

I think you're right. I think we need to do that and make sure we're including

them as much as possible.

I like that everyone's like, oh, yeah, it's okay, that whatever you're

comfortable with.

I think that's the best part. They're very, like, boundaries.

Like I said, that's my biggest kind of fear is that.

Someone's gonna cross my boundaries. I mean, honestly, I think the guys are

like, okay, you know what the blind boundaries are, but the girls, they're

like... Well, because the guys know that, like, I'm here to meet a

girl. You said it. You said it. So that's why everyone knows I'm kind of

here because I like girls.

I think Nikki is bi-curious.

She just really likes girls because girls are hot.

I mean, I don't think she'd go for any random girl, but a hot chick, you know,

like who wouldn't want to go for a hot chick?

Honestly, I'm more worried about you than I am myself.

Anything fierce now?

I've got 16. Do you want to look for them?

Okay, I can see three.

So

everyone

had to get dressed up in cheerleading outfits, all the girls, but I love

dressing up in costumes, and so that was really fun for me, and then I got to see

all the other girls in their costumes.

and i really liked ashley in her class too so tell that hello guys

yes we meet again how are you guys are you settling in yeah i hope the

veterans are treating you nicely no they're great they're awesome well maybe

later tonight they'll be even nicer i just want you guys to remember that

whatever happens it's up to you it's what you want when you want How you want

it. That's the best part. Just think of this party as like a buffet of love.

Right. I'd like to propose a toast.

To new friends, new beginnings, and happy endings.

Cheers. Cheers.

Cheers.

Is this what you expected?

I really didn't know how to place it in my head, so it's good. Everything has

been good.

So what have you guys done before this with other people? Anything?

I've kind of hooked up with the girl, like making out, kind of like a little

bit of touching, you know, me and her, and he's doing stuff to me at the same

time. So that's pretty much it. That's as far as it's gone.

So do you want to involve other guys in plays too, or are you more interested in

just involving other girls? I've never really thought about another guy in it.

For the most part, for me, it's always been about another girl included.

What do you feel comfortable with your man doing?

Do you feel comfortable a girl giving him a blowjob?

Yeah, I think so. We've kind of talked about that.

I don't have to do the work.

What if he's having fun with another girl watching you doing things with a

girl or a guy or whatever?

That's cool. I think that's okay.

The conversation, I think, was good. Just still more information.

I was really...

They calm my nerves talking to them.

There's so much more of an aspect to the lifestyle than just the sex with other

people. There's so much, you know, the mind is the biggest sex organ and this

engages your mind and gets that thing going so much that, wow.

Yeah, take your time.

Don't jump into anything, just be natural.

I'm a little more at ease.

They really answered a lot of my questions about the lifestyle.

You and her, you guys got to communicate and you, you know, talk about it.

Communication is the key that we were talking about earlier.

Absolutely. You got to talk.

Yeah. It's all about baby steps.

Maybe it's not going to be a full swap or even half swap our first time, you

know. It's pretty much like dating, you know. It can be a little feel up, you

know, getting to know each other or just even kissing.

And that's something that I have to understand and just accept.

Ashley came up to me and she wanted us to go upstairs and fool around and she

invited me and Mark too.

But I wasn't really sure, like, how comfortable I was with that. And just

right now, like, me and Mark can watch and, like, maybe I'll watch you. Okay,

that's perfect. So that's cool. You can do what you want to do.

It is my fantasy, so I'm thinking, like, oh, shoot, you know, like, it's about to

come true pretty soon. And, I mean, I don't know how it's going to happen, but

at the same time, I'm just really excited of the opportunity and the

possibilities that work can happen.

I'm excited but still nervous because I don't know what's gonna happen.

I'm just going to stop.

Yay!

While we were on the couch, I mean, it was pretty hot watching it because it's

like, I've never seen this before.

And, you know, like, I'm really turned on in this moment. Nikki's really turned

on in this moment. So pretty horny.

Nikki, do you want to come sit on the bed?

Sure. You guys can both come sit over here.

You can keep massaging him.

I really don't know what to expect because all those girls really seem

pretty aggressive and I know that they really want Nikki.

Oh, yeah.

Sorry, Ashley.

Ooh, she's a giggler.

Yes, yes, yes.

At one point when I was on the bed, someone had, like, pulled my panties

down and they started playing with a vibrator on me. I was, like, really

excited and it was, like, unexpected because, you know, I had just gone there

to watch and then all of a sudden I'm kind of involved.

But it was good. I liked it.

I think the girls had a good time I don't think I could have just gone

upstairs and just done it I had to watch it first and like see where I went from

there I don't think I could have just gone upstairs and jumped into it right

away

At that moment, like, pretty much our fantasy has kind of been fulfilled.

I'm glad you got off.

That's my goal.

You know, like her, you know, like messing around with girls and girls

pleasing her and girls taking care of her. So I'm not hoping that those girls

will hook up with me.

I'm really happy that Nikki was able to fulfill part of her fantasy.

You good? I'm good. Are you good?

Okay. I love you.

That's a good pic.

There they are. Hey.

Hey. How are you?

Smiles on the faces.

So we got a little bit of fun going

on.

Let's do this one and that one. Slide them together.

Nicoletta, lay it down.

Slide this one over here.

Ooh, body oil.

Everyone's having a good time. I check in with Nikki again, you know, like

everything's okay.

And at that moment, I feel like the night has just begun.

You like that? Yeah!

How does it feel, Mikayla?

Happy birthday!

How come I got to have a birthday in May?

So everyone at that moment is all for it, having a good time.

This is the best birthday ever.

And then I noticed that Nikki stopped, and then I keep on going.

Ooh, that feels good.

And then I look to my left, to Nikki, to make sure she's okay with it, and I see

that she's not, so I stop.

What'd I do? What'd I do?

What did I do? Like, I'm really trying to think hard why Nikki's upset because

at that moment, I don't know what I did wrong.

I need to find out what I did. You're not telling me. You're not explaining to

me. Because I stopped touching her and you kept touching her. And kind of

inappropriately. And I didn't, I wasn't touching her anymore. I stopped. I know

that you are comfortable with that, but I did exactly what I was doing with your

hands. But I stopped.

And I just went on going. But I stopped. Did I stop?

But why didn't you tell me? Did I stop? Did I stop? You stopped.

Then why didn't you? Can you tell me? Why is it so hard for you to notice my

feelings? Are you my other half? Are you my other half? Are you? But I didn't

feel that. But I didn't feel that. But I didn't feel that. Because you don't know

me. I wasn't, I was doing exactly the same thing that I was doing when your

hands were on it.

I'm confused at this moment.

I'm still confused at what I did because I really don't know what I did.

You were telling me at that point, at the moment that you stopped.

How am I supposed to know that?

How am I supposed to know that you're uncomfortable?

My boyfriend, you are supposed to know me just as good as I know myself, but

you don't. And that is the worst part of a relationship, is that you don't know

me, and you're a fucking asshole.

I do know you. You don't. Then if you knew me, you should have known that I

suck or whatever.

There are times where I don't know what you're feeling, but I think that's just

like me just being a man, not knowing or understanding how you're feeling.

Why couldn't you just tell me?

Why couldn't you tell me? Honestly, we don't know what happened. It could have

honestly been something that he said that set her off.

It'll boil over.

Yeah, it'll boil over, and it's not going to be something they're going to

be able to continue on. And it's not easy for everybody at first. There's

definitely growing pains, and I think they're having their growing pains, and

it happens.

But, yeah, we definitely have had that happen before.

Every couple has their moments.

Everybody says, oh, we're drama-free, but you know what? Everybody takes their

turn of being the drama couple.

You just don't know. You don't understand. You don't get my, like,

signal.

They want to experiment. They want to get out, and they want to try it. And

then they get there, and they're really not quite sure what to expect. Their

emotions get the best of them.

Now comes the real hard part. They got to sit down together and figure out, is

this something we want to pursue?

Can we get through these things? Is this, you know, is this what we want?

I don't know how to make sense. I mean, I don't know. Like, if someone can

explain to me what I did wrong, like... The rules were set, you know?

Never leave a room.

The code word, you know?

She didn't say it.

So, I mean, it's really hard for me to know, like, how she feels

unless she tells me.

I was just going along with everyone else. It was just, like, a group

activity. Everyone's playing a game. All right.

And that's how she feels.

Everybody at some point will fight about it. They'll yell. There's crying.

And you just have to talk it through, and it either makes you stronger or it

breaks you.

It's very emotional, but that's what makes it so good.

You don't notice? You don't notice things about me? You don't notice my

mannerisms? I'm pretty sure someone said at the end of the game, someone said,

you know, you notice when your partner is uncomfortable or whatever, but you

don't notice that.

And that's exactly it. You don't notice when I'm uncomfortable or when...

I don't notice that.

And that's why it hurts the most. It's not that you're touching her or

whatever. Like, that I was cool with, but you should have noticed that I was

not okay with it anymore.

I'm saying, like, I know enough to know that you don't know me enough to pick up

on that.

I realized at that point that there's a lot of stuff that me and Nikki have to

talk about and try to get through.

I wake up a little earlier before Nikki, and everything comes rushing back with

what happened, and I'm actually enlightened.

I think one lesson here is their communication.

It went from one stage to the next, one point where, you know, just hooking up,

then we're dating, then we're living together, then swingers, you know?

And it takes other couples, like...

years for that to develop or just like boom, months.

I woke up this morning and I felt really like kind of relieved that the night was

over like we had gotten past it. Like I still knew that we had stuff to like

work on but nothing that we can't still move on from that we couldn't fix or

change. I held back feelings you know like you held back feelings yesterday

because

Like, you didn't know how to communicate those feelings. Like, we didn't

understand, you know?

Yeah, I know.

Yeah.

Love you.

I don't know.

It's pretty much a turning point. We know that we need to strengthen our

relationship, but I know we love each other very much, and we're willing to

work things out.

I totally think that I have grown. I think we've grown as a couple. So, you

know, maybe that's not the way I wanted it to happen, but that's how it

happened. And I'm glad it happened. You know, like, I'm glad I got that out of

this experience.

I do feel lucky to have him. It's good that he's patient. You know, he balances

me out.

Everything just happened so fast.

We weren't able to like really communicate.

I think like we're the type of people that would want to just experience it

instead of just be like, oh, you know, like we're not really ready for it. Like

we shouldn't do it, you know. So it's like it's better for us to just

experience it and then learn from it.

Hey, guys.

Hi. How are you doing? Good. We're good.

You guys had an entirely new experience.

You know, it's not exactly your everyday social situation.

It's not. No.

It's a learning experience.

Good. Even better, I have a wonderful therapist downstairs.

This is all about communication. It's like it doesn't matter how crazy you are

about each other, the communication is the most important thing, and that's

what she's going to help you with. Okay. Okay. Sound good?

Yeah. Okay.

Good.

I think communication is important in a lifestyle as it

is in any marriage. You can't be a mind reader and know what they want. You got

to ask them, you know, what do you want? What makes you happy?

What makes you unhappy?

What do I do that bothers you? What do I do that you like?

The more honest you become with your partner, the easier it is to communicate

because you can say things that you mean and they take them the way you mean

them. But like I said, any relationship, communication is going to be key too.

Welcome.

I'm Dr. Lori Buckley.

Hi.

I'd like to hear from you both a little bit about your experience so far in the

house. It's been an interesting up and down roller coaster of emotions.

And at the end of the day, we got into a fight due to lack of communication.

So what would you do differently now that you've been here and you may have

learned a couple of things? Communicate better and take our

time. you know, and check in every single time. Even if I think I'm

comfortable, I have to ask her, like, if she's comfortable, what she's thinking.

You know, I can't assume, because I think that was my mistake, because I

assumed that she was okay with a certain situation, you know, when she really

wasn't. So tell me about your fight.

It was just a game. I got caught up, because everything's just happening so

fast. I thought he was more into it than I was, kind of, or more into it than

into me or something.

More into it than you or more into someone else than you? Not more into

her, I don't think. That wasn't it. Kind of.

No, it wasn't.

Are you telling me how I feel?

No. Okay, then.

Yeah, it was just, I was interested, but he was still interested, so I was kind

of upset about that.

So you felt that because you didn't want to, he should have known that he was

supposed to stop. Did you two have a code word?

We had a code word.

You didn't say it. She asked if we had a code word. Yeah, we had a code word. So

you had one that if you say this word that means, yeah, I'm not feeling

comfortable, but you didn't say it.

I mean, I still think he should have some kind of inkling to know me enough.

Yeah. So you said you weren't really jealous.

Yeah. But you also did talk about before you got here that... You might get

jealous under certain circumstances. Do you tend to be a little bit on the

jealous side? Yeah, for sure.

Yeah. So he may not be intentionally hurting you, and you know that, but you

were hurt.

Yeah. You were hurt last night. Yeah.

Is there anything else you want him to know?

I don't know. I just want you to realize when you hurt me.

Just realize that you hurt me. Maybe I was overreacting, or maybe it's my

fault, but it still hurt me.

You may not agree that you did anything wrong, by the way, because maybe you

didn't. But she's feeling hurt, and that has to do just with her. It may have

nothing to do with you. You don't have to agree with what your partner

experienced, right?

But just understand what was going on for them.

I mean, I already knew that coming into this, we had issues, but I didn't

understand what those issues could mean in this type of setting.

Yeah, and I think if you two do...

decide to pursue the lifestyle that you two are really going to want to make

sure that your relationship is solid and you two are strong and trusting. And

that's not going to happen overnight. It's going to take some work.

So this is a chance to go out there and enjoy the rest of your time. So I wish

that for you. It has been really nice talking to you both. It's a pleasure.

Yeah, I appreciate you coming in and speaking with me. Thank you.

Good.

Did you have a good night's sleep?

Yeah, we slept.

Together?

Yeah, we slept together.

Yeah,

how was the rest of the night for you guys?

We sat around talking about y'all.

Well, we were all talking about how we've all been there. We've all been

there at least once.

Right.

It's not as big a deal as you probably think it is right now. You're like, oh,

man. Everybody's been there.

We all had to kind of figure it out on our own. Yeah, we all battled through

it. Everybody says, we're drama-free, drama-free. Well, you are until that

thing happens.

And you have no idea what that thing is until it hits you. And then it's like,

oh, shit, we're the drama couple. I was kind of embarrassed because I kind of

felt... a little bad that we ruined the party but then they told us couples go

through that and at parties they're good there are couples that you know like

that fight they've gone through it so there's nothing to be embarrassed you

did not come here to hurt each other and so anything that you did you did to

maybe enhance your relationship and if it accidentally stepped over a banner

you have to look at it that way well i didn't mean to hurt you and you didn't

mean to hurt me we just need to say we didn't like that you know we didn't like

what happened and move on yeah Think about all the cool things that you

learned and experienced that didn't hurt you.

And so you have to just focus more on those type of things and accentuate

those type of things when you go to your next party or venture into this again

and try to stay away from the other things.

It's a talent.

Hey, guys.

Hi.

Last, I have to take Nikki and Mark from you.

So it's time for you guys.

say your goodbyes to everybody you guys say your goodbyes to them and then i'll

meet you two out front okay okay i'll see you soon cool thanks it was

kind of sad saying goodbye because you know since we were fighting

last night we didn't get to spend more time with them but you know me and mark

needed to handle something and so we handled it you know it should be about

us first but it was very comforting to know that other people have

been in our situation we just want to thank thank everyone like you guys are

great um it was like really memorable experience like there's no regrets at

all for being here like it was like really a great experience and i'm glad i

could have shared this with her and with you guys it's all about sharing yeah

It's not for everybody necessarily.

We see this sometimes. New couples come in and they seem like they're ready. We

talk to them. Their relationship is good. They've set their boundaries.

They know what they want.

But then something clicks and they totally lose it.

They're just as ready as they think they are or they seem. They've gone too far

too fast.

results in some problems for him. There's just one more thing before you

go back to your regular life. Okay.

Holding the contract you signed when you got here gave you permission to hook up

with other people.

So, what do we want to do with it? Do you want to tear it up and forget this

whole thing ever happened?

Or, now that you've taken the plunge, maybe you want to go a little deeper?

When the girls were playing with me, like, I was really excited and, like, I

totally, like...

Came and everything so it was good for me. I mean I had a good time I wasn't

glad that we fought last night But I'm glad that we kind of nitpicked and

discovered like you know what we needed to work on and things that could help

our relationship What I learned from this experience is that if I could

do it all over again I would just make sure that Nikki's okay with everything

and checking with her all the time

Right now the lifestyle isn't for us. Not for us.

But maybe later on in the future. So we're going to take a break.

Well then.

Nikki, you want to tear this up? Sure.

Go ahead, tear it up.

Yeah.

We'll make a new contract. I'll take that.

And it's okay.

You know, you came here to find out if swinging is right for you. The lifestyle

is definitely not for everyone.

Right. But now you have a better idea of what you like and what you don't like.

And I think knowing what your limits are is only going to make your relationship

stronger. Definitely.

Good. So thank you for being brave and giving this a try.

Thanks for having us. Yeah, have a safe trip home. Okay, thank you.

I learned that you need to have a really strong

foundation and communicate well with each other and vocalize.

uh you know like what each other's feeling at all times are you glad we did

this yeah i'm really glad that we did this i mean it's a it's a really great

experience i'd rather have it that we experienced it than not i'm glad we did

it together i'm glad it was with you i'm glad we did it