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When you're venturing into unknown territory, it's often important that you

travel carefully.

That you don't just take a flying leap off a cliff and hope for the best, but

that you test the waters first.

Pave your own way.

So that when you get to where you're going, you feel confident about where

you're at and the road it took to get there.

I should call my husband.

Three years into our marriage, a shift happened with Carl and I.

We'd become more honest and less inhibited. We talked about everything

from our deviant fantasies to our sexual attractions for other people.

How about you?

Who'd you fuck?

I don't know. Do you remember Roberto from the Christmas party?

Roberto?

From your office Christmas party?

Really? That's surprising.

What?

i don't know it just seems i didn't know you were so into euro guys you know i

like euro yeah cologne and chest hair no i mean well

i did a few euro guys when i'm studying abroad yeah well

all fantasizing aside if you could would you him well i mean i

was single but look at you what if i told you i want you to him

Carl told me he wants me to have sex with another man.

What?

Yeah, um, we were lying in bed the other night and talking about our fantasies

and people we thought were attractive and he told me it would turn him on if I

had sex with another man. I am freaking out. I mean, this is weird, right?

Not really.

You don't think it's weird that my husband wants me to have sex with

another man?

What's weird is that you just air-quoted have sex.

Come on.

I mean, I wonder if there's something wrong or maybe he's getting bored of me.

Oh, stop. You know he's madly in love with you.

Maybe he just enjoys your sexuality and doesn't want to limit your experience.

How would you feel if Michael wanted you to have sex with another man?

I have had sex with another man. You cheated on Michael?

No, he wanted me to.

He wanted you to have sex with another man?

Yes, it's this thing called hot wifing.

Hot wifing?

Yeah, it's when a husband gets off on his wife having sex with other men.

You're fucking with me.

No, I'm being totally serious.

I don't normally talk about it because I don't like the judgment that comes with

it, but considering how hysterical you're being about Carl asking you to

have sex with another man, I figured I would share.

I thought you guys were doing so well.

We are. That's exactly why we do it.

Couples reach a point in their relationship where their love extends

outside of societal parameters, and they don't want to stifle each other. They

want to grow together and just... Hot wife?

I was going to say be free.

It was such a strange notion to me. Love and freedom?

I mean, society prefers that marriage exist in a very regimented box filled

with things like missionary position and one man for the rest of your life.

So the notion that my happily married friends could be in a sexually open

relationship was as shocking as it was exciting to me. How did you decide you

wanted to do it? Weren't you terrified?

I was honestly more terrified beforehand talking about it than I was when we

actually went through with it.

We were really ready when we decided to do it, you know?

We picked somebody that we both trusted, and we knew that our marriage was solid

enough that even if it ended up not being our thing, we would be fine.

What was it like the first time?

Amazing.

Michael was there with me the whole time.

He was encouraging me and supporting me.

Honestly, I've never felt more loved.

I know that's weird to say, but it's true.

Michael didn't feel threatened that it was a friend?

No, not at all. We wanted somebody who respected our boundaries and who we both

trusted. And that was Mick.

Damn.

Next time.

And the truth is I had no idea if I was actually going to go through with it. I

mean, talking about having sex with another man and actually having sex with

another man are two very different things.

But as the night went on, my confidence grew, and I realized it was something we

both really wanted to do.

Mick was the person who actually needed some convincing.

Great job, Mick.

What are you doing?

It's okay, man. I want you to.

We both want you to.

Want me to do what?

Fuck me.

See, we've all been friends for a long time, and Michael and I have been

wanting to spice things up a little.

And we thought that maybe you'd want to join us.

Is that a yes?

You've stayed.

I'm going to get this off.

They're gonna be tight.

All right, Joyce.

God yes

You're

the guest here

I shouldn't be making him go out to work.

It's so good.

Bye.

You are wet.

I love you.

oh my god

What do you say, babe? You have a good time? I loved it. So hot.

It was even better than I expected.

Look at all this cum I got.

It's so good.

Thank you, baby.

Michael was there the whole time?

Yeah. It wasn't awkward?

No, it was actually really sexy.

Seeing him get so excited watching me made me more excited.

And you've done it a lot since then?

You're asking a lot of questions for somebody who was turned off by the idea

just a few minutes ago. I'm not turned off by it. I'm curious.

Don't you think if you're looking for something outside your marriage that

there might be an underlying problem?

No one person can fulfill all of your needs for the rest of your life.

Giving your partner their freedom isn't a sign of a problem.

Stifling them is.

I couldn't stop thinking about what Violet had said.

When you love someone, maybe it really is about giving them their freedom.

And what was so wrong with Carl wanting to give me that?

So I decided to try something Violet had suggested.

I asked Carl to blindfold me.

She said it might help me lose myself in the fantasy of hot wifing, to see

whether it was something I could even get turned on by in my imagination.

I want you to fuck me.

Like you'd want another man to.

Where's this coming from?

Well, I talked the other day.

I'm not saying yes, but I'm curious.

I'm not gonna lie.

That night, Carl and I had some of the best sex of our lives.

And I found myself wondering whether hot wifing was just a fantasy anymore, or

something I really wanted to try.

As the days went on, we grew closer to pulling the trigger.

Carl arranged a work lunch with his friend Eric, a college buddy of his that

moonlit as a male escort.

Eric had been solicited by couples on several occasions to have sex.

He's what people would call the bull in hot wifing experiences.

The man invited over to fuck the husband's wife.

He was a bit of an expert in the lifestyle, and his advice to Carl was

pretty straightforward.

Yeah, you know, just make sure that you're both on the same page.

You know, you don't want to get into something and then find out you've gone

too far.

Yeah, Julia's still in that in-between stage, I think. You know, me, I know I

want to do it.

But I'm just not sure if I want to be there, if I just want to hear about it.

I don't know if I'm ready for the whole thing.

Here's the great thing, you know, you call the shots.

I mean, with me, you know, sometimes I'm there and the husband just wants to

watch. Then other times he wants to join in. And then, you know, sometimes he

doesn't even want to be there. He just, you know, wants me to do my thing and

hear about it later.

So are you thinking about asking a friend?