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Hey, I'm Kat and last year I had a really intimate massage with a stranger.

I realized that I find touch awkward.

The response to that video was kind of amazing.

There were so many of you watching who could relate to this awkwardness with

intimacy or even hugging or cuddling.

This year I met somebody who's called Yura and I'm going to be connecting her

with the wonderful Zora who...

you know, really guided me and made me feel very safe. I think you're going to

enjoy this episode. This is basically intimate massage part two.

And yeah, join us on this intimate sapphic touch journey.

Hi.

Sorry, your Mayans are so cold. Oh, it's all right. Sorry.

It's so nice to meet you.

I'm Vera, obviously.

I'm from the Netherlands, so I'm Dutch.

I'm 22 years old. Would you say you're a touchy person in general, or do you like

to receive touch or give touch?

It really depends for me how well I know someone, but for me it does take quite a

while most of the time. It depends on the person as well. With some people I

can let go earlier and easier.

But most of the time it takes a few months and then I turn into a really

touchy person. Once I'm in that comfort zone with someone, then it's... It's

natural. Yeah, me too. How are you feeling about the giving of the touch?

Have you given massage as much before?

I have given massages, but I've never given a massage to a woman before.

Like I did like a shoulder massage, you know, like platonically, but never like

a massage.

Oh, that's exciting.

Thank you so much for also being open and vulnerable with this. Thank you as

well. Yeah, I'm excited to hear how it goes afterwards. So have a lot of fun.

I'm going to bring Zora in and I will see you afterwards, I guess. All right.

I'll let you know. Thank you. Enjoy.

Hello again.

It's so nice to see you again.

I know, I know. I'm sad I'm going to be leaving, but I hope you guys have a lot

of fun.

Hi. Nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you. I'm so happy.

okay let's sit down there we are yes very exciting yes so i heard that's your

first time having like your full body massage is that true yes as

far as you've done any kind of like massage how did that felt for you to

like receive or give do you maybe want to share a little bit about your like

relationship with like receiving touch or like even giving um I've had like the

commercial massages before, so like a deep tissue or the hot stone massages.

I did like those very much.

Sometimes it's like you're always craving more when you're in the massage.

Like it's not even necessarily in the sexual tense, but it's just you want

more touch and you just want to kind of absorb the whole experience, you know.

You're white in here.

But it's like really, really beautiful to like, have like a also like an

intimate massage for the first time for me it's also like super intimate to have

like your whole body massaged so what i really like can i touch you

lovely like when i give massage like for the tantric massage for example and like

i massage like your hand for example and then like i i just go like with the full

body and for me it feels so nice because it's angles and yeah yes and you're

already in but like for me it also feels like super nice to like not have like a

specific part of your body massaged and then You know, you have like the

shoulders and then you go to the legs and it feels like what is happening.

Area moving. Yes. I would like massage your feet if that's cool for you.

Just maybe starting a little bit softer and then going a little bit like more

intense.

Yeah. And then also like what I really, really like is like, can I have your

hand again?

Massage your hand. And like usually I would go like something like this.

and then you can really like when i give you the massage like really relax like

can yeah yeah perfect and then i would just like massage a little bit and go to

your fingers um and then usually i will always like come back so what i really

like about like tantric massage is like slowly like including the whole body so

like um yeah i really enjoy to just like take the whole arm and like are you cool

with like stretching a little bit so then like maybe even like like a little

something like this

you like that i like yeah nice and then like sometimes i would maybe like take

your hand and like press it a little bit and if you're feeling comfortable like

maybe you can press back yeah or just with the full hand yeah because then i

know you're feeling good and like sometimes it's really nice to have like

a little like non-verbal cue and with that i would be with the next question

like do you have parts of your body where you really enjoy to be touched or

where you

I have never been touched before in a massage way?

I've never had like a proper foot massage because most of the time I'm a

bit ticklish.

So I need to be kind of in my relaxed mind space

before I can get my feet touched.

Okay, so maybe first like something else and then the feet? Yeah.

But I would really like to try and go there because the concept is very

exciting to me.

I really like getting neck and shoulders massaged.

Especially the neck, sometimes it's so nice to actually... I feel like when you

go through your day and so many people have pain there.

Is there a specific thing you...

are craving for or something you would wish for today like are you looking for

like something where they're soft or like even like being like a little bit

woken up with the touch or I kind of like building intensity me too

and then you can go lower a bit and just kind of like a wave i guess yeah yeah

you described really well is there like a part of your body where i should be

careful or like do you have like any parts of your body which yeah i should

know something about or like are you cool with like me touching your head for

example or your feet or like i said a bit ticklish for the feet but i

You know, with a bit of build-up, it could be nice.

Armpits are ticklish.

I did have a belly button piercing placed, so that's a bit sensitive.

But other than that, it's all open. Yes.

I feel like we will get along.

I think so too. I feel like you have a really calm, but also uplifting.

energy and like yeah i'm super excited but also like whenever you

feel something i feel really free to um yeah i know it's like a new thing for

you and i just wanna for you to have like a beautiful experience and yeah

super excited okay lovely um so you're still feeling good

and everything nice um yeah i think i would start with you like having

like a mini ritual where i would ask you to like lay on your belly and just like

close your eyes and i will like if that's cool for you lay on top of you

and we will just breathe together like for a few seconds so you like can

quarrel yourself and relax a little bit um yeah okay lovely then i would just

like ask you to lay down and get comfortable um yeah like we can take

some colors away and then we can just breathe a little bit together and then i

would start with slowly massaging you all right yeah

Keep your eyes closed, that feels good.

You're doing actually really good. It's really nice when you like squeeze out.

Is that comfy when I sit on you like this?

It kind of stretches right back. Nice.

Is that okay for me?

Feeling good?

You have very soft hands. Good.

How are you feeling?

I'm good, very relaxed.

Yeah, you're really lovely to massage.