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I think... I like to think...
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I like to think of myself as a giving person.
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And I probably just like the idea that
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there's a part of me out there somewhere.
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Should I say something to them?
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Hello!
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I hope you are loved.
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I think you are, because your parent or parents went through a lot to have you.
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Life is going to be good.
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And bad.
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So...
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Good luck!
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SOLOMAMMA
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Hi, Edith!
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- Hi! - Sigurd is outside.
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{\an8}- Ok. But Anders, I was wondering... - What?
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{\an8}Did you get a chance to hand out the books I gave you?
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{\an8}The ones about Karla.
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Karla? Yes, I did.
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That's great! Did you read them too?
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{\an8}Yes. I mean, I'm not sure exactly...
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{\an8}I'm not sure how far everyone got.
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{\an8}But they're working on it.
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{\an8}But you've read them?
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{\an8}- Not yet. - I'm going to make so many of these!
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{\an8}I want to do that too! Like that, yes!
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{\an8}Can I have one of those?
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{\an8}Wow, is that your cake!
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What do you want for dinner?
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- Salmon and sweet potato! - Yes! That sounds delicious.
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Why is it always you picking up Sigurd?
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- Is his dad dead? - No!
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- Is he in prison? - No, but you know what?
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When I wanted to make Sigurd, there were no available daddies.
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- So I went to the hospital... - Everyone has a dad.
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Kids don't care what's normal.
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That's what I thought, but children need a language too.
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When adults don't explain things, kids make up their own stories.
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It's time you started hanging out with grownups, Edith.
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You know you can date even if you have a kid, right?
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What's your donor book about? "Karla has no dad, and it's awesome"?
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Yes, that sums it up.
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It should be about not needing to be two in every decision.
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Was that comment for me?
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Maybe you should do everything yourself?
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- Why didn't I think of that? - And now it's too late.
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But speaking of donors...
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You've never told us what you know about yours.
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- If I'm allowed to ask. - Of course you can.
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I think it's a boring question.
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- I ask with no prejudice. - It's alright.
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It's like a journal where they describe themselves.
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- Hobbies, favourite food. - You have that recording.
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- Recording? - Of the donor talking to a psychologist.
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I didn't know about that.
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Do you still think of him as anonymous?
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I don't know his name or address or anything.
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And I don't want to know. He's just a donor.
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- What if a donor is lying? - No one would do that.
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If it was me, I would just make up stuff to get chosen.
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I'd say I got straight A's in school and was the fastest runner.
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A psychologist would know if you were lying.
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"Psychologist". If you're clever, you get away with it.
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Some young guy wanting to pass on his genes, make a bit of money.
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You're considering donating?
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Some of them are eighteen. Their frontal lobes aren't fully developed.
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Is this the same wine as before?
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It's just crazy to think about. Sigurd is 50 percent of his donor.
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But who would do that?
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- I watched a YouTube video. - How fun!
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Remember I told you?
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This woman in the US discovered that her donor was schizophrenic.
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- Torbjørn. - I'm not saying...
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- I'm just asking! - There's mommy!
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- Hello! - Hi, Trine!
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- Pizza! Can I have some? - Give me a big hug first.
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This looks nice.
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- This is Marie and Torbjørn. - Trine
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- You remember Selma from last year. - Good to see you again.
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Trine and I met when we found out that Sigurd and Amanda were half-siblings.
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- Did you have fun? - Yes.
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This was so nice.
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I can't fit the bike wheel I found.
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I want a new toy box. Amanda has one.
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But she's not using it.
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It just stands there.
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Mommy!
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When Karla's mother wanted a child, she didn't have a husband or boyfriend.
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So she went to see the doctor and asked for help.
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The doctor found a sperm donor for Karla's mommy.
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Karla doesn't know what a sperm donor is,
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but it must be a kind man, since he helped mommy have Karla.
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Alfie Atkins knows where his dad is.
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Sure, but he doesn't know where his mum is.
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- Amanda has a dad now. - Yup.
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- You like Amanda, don't you? - Yes.
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Look at him!
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- I want to read a different book. - Ok.
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Good idea. Let's read a different book.
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- Hi. - Hi.
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Isn't it past your bedtime?
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Yes.
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It's late.
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Let me look at you.
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Have you stopped going to the hairdresser?
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It's time for bed. It's late.
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- Go to bed. - Yes.
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Night, mum.
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Donor 24897: Inuus. Welcome
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Thank you.
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Why don't you tell us about yourself.
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I'm from Norway.
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I live in Copenhagen right now, for work.
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Am I allowed to say that?
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That information will be included in your profile.
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Can you tell us about your current work situation?
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What are you doing right now? You are self-employed?
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It sounds like I'm unemployed.
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I'm an entrepreneur. Tech development.
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Why did you choose that field?
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I guess because it's what I'm good at.
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I'm really into fermenting. Kimchi, kombucha, sourdough bread.
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I just bought a mountain bike. I like to bike around the woods.
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And I played tennis for a while.
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But I wasn't any good, so I quit.
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And what kinds of people do you like to be around?
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People who share the same interests, I guess. Same values.
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I was always on my computer since I was a kid,
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and I thought, why not keep doing the work that I put in right now.
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To be able to use my knowledge and technology in a positive way.
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To help kids learn, for example.
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I would also like to help people have a better life.
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I'm a curious person. I like to observe other people.
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It's kind of a passion, really.
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I prefer asking questions or listen rather than talk about myself.
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What are you writing, Edith?
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Not much.
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I'm finishing the interview with the researcher in Trondheim.
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On genetic engineering.
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And I'm interviewing the 17-year-old who's in custody.
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Is that ready for Thursday?
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Well, we lost our source in Nesbru yesterday.
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He pulled out during quote check, so I have to start from scratch.
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Petter, you're on the royals.
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The confusion is worst at night.
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She's isolating herself more, doesn't want to see her friends.
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Wow, thank you!
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So you have two children at home?
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- Yeah. - Maybe you should call Kari.
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Get her to take Dorthe out.
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- How's Sigurd taking it? - He's so small. I don't think he gets it.
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They're so close. I don't want him to be scared by how she's changing.
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- Maybe take her to the doctor again. - I've thought about it.
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- Selma, look what I got! - A zippo lighter! Nice.
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We can polish it and put it in your case display.
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- He's such a character. - An old soul.
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I was quite easy as a child.
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I'd sit and look at my older siblings run around.
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I wasn't so interested in kids my own age.
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Why do you think that is?
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You tell me.
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I like to observe other people.
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IS AUTISM HERITABLE?
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I'm not shy, but... I'm a sensitive person.
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IS HYPERSENSITIVITY HERITABLE?
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They called me Buddah, actually.
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I'm not obsessive, but I go deep into things I like.
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IS OCD HERITABLE?
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Do you plan to have a family?
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It depends on what happens in life.
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I prefer to ask questions rather than talk.
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IS INTROVERSION HERITABLE?
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I like to think of myself as a giving person.
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IS NARCISSISM HERITABLE?
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I read really fast. I like to be outdoors.
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I like to be in other people's space.
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If you could change anything about yourself...
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Probably a lot of things.
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I wish I had less self-doubt growing up.
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Do you ever think about dad?
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Why are you bringing him up?
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I remember thinking it was my fault that he...
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...left.
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It's strange to think about now.
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I tried to make myself invisible, so he'd come home.
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But...
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Aren't we happy, the two of us?
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- Yes, we were. - Were?
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We are happy.
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I went to see him once when I was twelve.
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Did you see him without telling me?
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Yes.
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But I couldn't call him daddy.
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He seemed relieved.
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There you go.
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He was never a father, Edith.
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Pancakes and .
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Bye! Have fun.
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- Bye! - Bye, Jens!
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- But what do you want for your birthday? - I already told you!
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- You can't say "stuff from the street". - Yes, I can!
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It's not for a while yet.
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Pokémon cards or something?
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Only if it's not from a shop, and it's old.
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We can go to the toy shop later and find a gift for your brother.
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I want something unique!
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Sweetheart, I think it's great that you want something unique.
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But maybe you're making it a bit hard for Amanda.
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- Does it have to be from the street? - She asked what I wanted.
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- Do you want to play ring toss? - Yes!
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- You guys just relax for a bit. - Thanks.
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They look more and more alike, don't you think?
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No, I don't see it.
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I googled collectomania the other day.
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Apparently it's related to OCD.
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Okay.
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I've googled it too. It's not that.
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It's genetic, apparently.
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Were you like that?
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- I don't remember. - It could be from Inuus.
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- Let's just relax for a bit. - Yes, of course.
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It's so nice.
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I've found Inuus.
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I know his name.
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I had to find it so I could stop thinking about it.
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But that's completely...
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- Jens doesn't like me thinking about him. - Right.
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It's hard for him, because I already had Amanda when we met.
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But he likes hearing about you.
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The sperm sisters.
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That Amanda and Sigurd are like siblings.
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I just...
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He lives right over in Nesodden.
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- What? - Yeah.
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And his name is Niels Krohn. Isn't that a crazy name?
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Well, maybe not crazy, but it's just so real all of a sudden.
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- Bye! - Goodbye!
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I think maybe we'll walk home.
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I'm just in the mood to walk.
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Let's take a photo first. We always forget that.
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Say cheese!
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Cheez doodles!
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Cheez doodles!
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- Cheese! - Smile, everyone!
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Brown cheese!
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NORWEGIAN GAME DEVELOPER REACHES 20 MILLION USERS
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DEVELOPER FACES CRITICISM FROM MINISTER OF EDUCATION
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- I wish I had less self-doubt... - If you could change anything...
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Hello! This is your donor.
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- Mommy, what was that? - That's just grandma.
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She's weird.
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Hi.
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- Hello? - Niels Krohn?
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This is Edith Westerlund calling from Aftenposten.
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Is this a good time to talk?
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What's this about?
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I'm doing a piece on Norwegian game developers.
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- And you want to write about me? - Yes!
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I don't need another article about how I made kids addicted to gaming.
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That's not the angle.
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I'm writing about developers who've done well abroad.
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Oh, I see.
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- Alright, well... - Yes.
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Where do you usually...
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I could come out to... I could come to yours.
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- I live in Nesodden, it's a bit far. - I love Nesodden.
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Sure, if it's not a hassle.
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It's just a trick to make you more relaxed.
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I can send you some dates and times, and then we go from there?
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- Ok, sounds good. - Great.
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- I guess I'll see you, then. - Alright.
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- Speak soon. - Bye.
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- Hi! - Hi.
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- Edith? - Yes!
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Was it hard getting here? With the ferry and everything? Come in!
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The floors are cold, so I've got slippers.
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I'm alright, thanks.
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You have to wear them. It's really cold.
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- Alright. These ones? - Yes.
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There.
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Thanks for coming all the way.
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Would you like coffee or tea?
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I probably should've asked you this on the phone, but...
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My daughter really wants to be a journalist.
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So I told her she could listen in while we talk.
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- Is that a problem? - No.
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It was a bit of a coincidence.
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I was never much of a gamer.
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What's your role in the company? That wasn't clear to me.
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I guess I'm... a consultant to my own company, in a way.
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And I do some teaching on the side when I have the time.
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So... Yeah.
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It's a bit odd that you reached out to me. There are so many experts out there.
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Who might be more... relevant.
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But it's cool. It's fun being able to...
298
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Well, Fruit Hippo was a huge success when it came out.
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And that you were criticised so heavily after has...
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I'd like to know how one moves on from that.
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Yes, well...
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I've really grappled with the ethical dilemmas.
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That's for...
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NAIVE
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And during development,
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were ethical guidelines something you considered at all?
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The success was so much greater and quicker than we had imagined, so it was...
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SMUG
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I was in charge of the creative side,
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I wasn't involved with programming much due to my dyslexia.
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I remember discussions around launch.
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We were aware of it, but the success took us all by surprise.
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- So you're dyslexic? - Yes.
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I'm not dyslexic.
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Right.
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- It's not heritable, is it? - I think it is. My dad has it.
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- Would you like something to drink? - I'm alright.
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- Or something to eat? - No, thank you.
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Why are you interviewing him?
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Well, uh...
321
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- What do you mean? - No, don't.
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Don't listen to her. She's completely...
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Completely confused.
324
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- Could I use the toilet? - Of course.
325
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There's one upstairs.
326
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It's not that big a deal.
327
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This doesn't happen every day. It's not a big deal!
328
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It is! I came back here to-
329
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You're acting like this happens every day.
330
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That's not the point.
331
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The world doesn't end just because . - He went to school without any food!
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- It's not that big of a deal! - We have to go.
333
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Bye, Silas.
334
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Molly is just getting a pencil sharpener. We can just continue.
335
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If it's a bad time, we can do this another day.
336
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OK.
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With the rapid advance of technology, there arise...
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...ethical dilemmas you have to deal with as you go.
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I like to think of myself as a giving person.
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I probably just like the idea
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that there's a part of me out there somewhere.
342
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...but on the other hand, it's also- - Damn.
343
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- What is it? - I have to pick my son up from daycare.
344
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- I'm sorry. - No worries.
345
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I have several missed calls. He's really ill, apparently.
346
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- Throwing up all over... - No worries.
347
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You probably didn't get everything you needed?
348
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Let's see. I'm really sorry.
349
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I know what it's like to have kids.
350
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Thank you. No need to walk me out.
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- You'll be in touch, then? - Yes.
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Are you leaving?
353
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My son is sick, so I have to-
354
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I have a few questions for you for a school assignment.
355
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It'll only take a minute.
356
00:32:46,550 --> 00:32:50,300
Questions like, "What does it take to be a journalist?"
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"How many hours do you work in a typical day?"
358
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"How do you get an internship?"
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Molly! Edith has to go.
360
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But maybe we can pick this up another time?
361
00:33:04,590 --> 00:33:06,800
- Yes... - Is that alright?
362
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I'll text you.
363
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Edith, this is the most fucked up shit you've ever done.
364
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Yes, but now I can put it behind me. It's over and done with.
365
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If he asks, I'll just say they shelved the story.
366
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You weren't even close to finishing the interview!
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I'll tell him I got fired. I'm never going back there. Ever.
368
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But what did you find out?
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He's got a wife and two kids.
370
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What?
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Was he married when he donated?
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- Does his wife know? - I hadn't even thought of that.
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Do you think he's lied to her?
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What does he look like now? Send me a photo.
375
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Just a sec.
376
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There.
377
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- I can see Sigurd in him. The smile. - I know.
378
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- This is crazy. - What's wrong with me?
379
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Trine is crazy for giving you his name. You can't tell her you met him.
380
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What is it, mommy?
381
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- What is what? - You're being weird.
382
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Am I being weird?
383
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It's the red one.
384
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I know.
385
00:35:30,420 --> 00:35:33,920
Has Sigurd come up with any better birthday wishes?
386
00:35:34,090 --> 00:35:38,800
- What do you mean, better? - He's obsessed with his collection.
387
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:43,880
I can't just go and find a stick on the street to give him.
388
00:35:45,130 --> 00:35:47,500
He just wants something unique.
389
00:35:47,670 --> 00:35:50,460
But it's like he's obsessed with it.
390
00:35:50,630 --> 00:35:54,920
I can take him shopping this weekend,
391
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and then he can choose something nice he likes.
392
00:36:00,550 --> 00:36:01,960
Well,
393
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I actually wanted to talk to you about that.
394
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Okay?
395
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:17,000
Just say it. You're stuck inside your own head again.
396
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It's hard to talk about.
397
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I just... think it's better if you don't go out with Sigurd.
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From now on.
399
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Okay.
400
00:36:35,500 --> 00:36:39,630
He's at an age where he's hard to keep track of.
401
00:36:41,090 --> 00:36:44,210
I think it's better if you spend time together here.
402
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That you play with him here. You're so good at that.
403
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I'm going to my room.
404
00:37:07,050 --> 00:37:09,170
Can I ask you something else?
405
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Did I collect weird things when I was little?
406
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:16,500
I can't remember. Maybe you did, maybe you didn't.
407
00:37:20,710 --> 00:37:22,130
HI, EDITH. DO YOU WANT TO MEET TOMORROW,
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OR DID YOU GET WHAT YOU NEEDED?
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HI, NIELS. SORRY FOR THE LATE REPLY. MY EDITOR HAS ACTUALLY...
410
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Sorry.
411
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Edith? There's a Niels Krohn here to see you.
412
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- Here? - He says you're doing a piece on him.
413
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- But he's here? Now? - Yeah, in the lobby.
414
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Do I know about this piece?
415
00:37:59,500 --> 00:38:00,840
Uh, no.
416
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I haven't had the time to tell you.
417
00:38:04,210 --> 00:38:07,250
- We could chat over lunch? - Sure.
418
00:38:29,170 --> 00:38:33,420
Sorry to drop in like this, but we were in the neighbourhood.
419
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Molly wanted to ask you a few more questions. Right?
420
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I said no, because you're probably really busy.
421
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But you really insisted, so.
422
00:38:46,210 --> 00:38:48,130
So I wanted to see if...
423
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...if this was a good time.
424
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Let me think. We have an evaluation meeting,
425
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and I have some things I need to do before that.
426
00:39:02,380 --> 00:39:07,170
Just forget that we stopped by. Don't worry about it.
427
00:39:07,340 --> 00:39:10,210
But I'd love to talk some more soon, Molly.
428
00:39:10,380 --> 00:39:14,420
Great. I was wondering if you could look at that paper I mentioned.
429
00:39:14,590 --> 00:39:19,710
And I was wondering if you needed anything else for the interview.
430
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Don't hesitate to reach out.
431
00:39:23,300 --> 00:39:30,500
I was waiting for my editor to greenlight the story before we kept going, so.
432
00:39:31,300 --> 00:39:33,710
Alright. But...
433
00:39:34,710 --> 00:39:39,710
Ok, well, just let me know when you find out.
434
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:44,670
Yes! I have to go now, but... I'll be in touch.
435
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:47,880
And sorry again for dropping in like this.
436
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I like that it's not another success story.
437
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I agree.
438
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But I'm not sure if he's the right person for it.
439
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- Didn't you mention a video game? - Yes. He made that Fruit Hippo game.
440
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Was that him? My kids were obsessed with that.
441
00:40:05,630 --> 00:40:10,590
Weren't they criticised for tricking money out of kids?
442
00:40:10,750 --> 00:40:14,050
Yes, but it was a long time ago. It's not really news.
443
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Ethics and mobile gaming. That's a pretty hot topic.
444
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Yes, of course.
445
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Simon can take over. He's done a lot of research on it.
446
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Sure.
447
00:40:27,210 --> 00:40:30,170
I'll get him to reach out to Krohn after lunch.
448
00:40:35,460 --> 00:40:38,800
You know what, I'll do it. You're right.
449
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I've already met him, so it's best like that.
450
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- Are you sure? - Yes.
451
00:41:09,500 --> 00:41:13,550
Are you thirsty? We have lots of soda from a birthday party.
452
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Theres a ton of it.
453
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No, thank you. I'm alright.
454
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ANY OTHER DISABILITIES? HOW BAD IS THE DYSLEXIA?
455
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Should we sit outside?
456
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- Sure, if you prefer. - Yes.
457
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Nothing is flawless. A lot of stuff can happen during a process like that.
458
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There's so many components. Servers can go down, the software can be buggy.
459
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And there's a significant risk of human error.
460
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- Am I boring you with this? - No. It's interesting.
461
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Especially your own personal experiences.
462
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- Like we talked about last time. - Yes.
463
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- Could you explain that further? - There was a lot of...
464
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There was a lot of fuzz around that game.
465
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I had a bit of a...
466
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...personal crisis after that.
467
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I see.
468
00:42:44,250 --> 00:42:47,750
Molly should be home any minute now.
469
00:42:49,050 --> 00:42:53,590
It's just us two today. Mia's working late and Silas is with his dad.
470
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I see. So he's not your...
471
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- He's not your... - No, I'm his stepdad.
472
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:07,090
I see. And Molly?
473
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- So you don't have kids of your own? - No.
474
00:43:13,300 --> 00:43:17,710
- I didn't mean it like that. - Not biologically, no.
475
00:43:25,250 --> 00:43:28,500
I'd actually like a soda. Is that ok?
476
00:43:28,670 --> 00:43:30,880
Of course! We have so many.
477
00:43:31,050 --> 00:43:33,710
There's lots of flavours.
478
00:43:37,170 --> 00:43:42,170
Let's see... Kiwi, raspberry...
479
00:43:42,340 --> 00:43:45,920
Uh... Lemon, pineapple - that one's really good.
480
00:43:46,090 --> 00:43:49,550
- Lemon sounds good. - Lemon? Me too.
481
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Thank you.
482
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Cheers.
483
00:44:02,670 --> 00:44:03,750
That's nice.
484
00:44:06,420 --> 00:44:07,960
Oops! Oh dear.
485
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:12,920
- Don't worry. - This is really good.
486
00:44:14,170 --> 00:44:16,550
Is it fermented?
487
00:44:16,710 --> 00:44:18,300
No, I don't think so.
488
00:44:20,630 --> 00:44:24,420
I'm obsessed with fermenting lately.
489
00:44:24,590 --> 00:44:30,250
I'm trying to make kimchi, kombucha, sourdough bread...
490
00:44:30,420 --> 00:44:33,500
I just got so into all of it.
491
00:44:33,670 --> 00:44:38,340
Funny you should say that, I used to be really into it too.
492
00:44:38,500 --> 00:44:43,300
- I spent hours on YouTube and blogs. - Me too.
493
00:44:43,460 --> 00:44:47,670
I miss that. Wanting to ferment everything. My fridge was...
494
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:54,500
You sound like me. When I get hooked on something, I go all in.
495
00:44:54,670 --> 00:44:58,340
That's probably why I'm a journalist. Okay, well...
496
00:44:58,500 --> 00:45:01,840
- Have you always lived in Norway? - Yes.
497
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:05,300
- Apart from a few years in Denmark. - Why Denmark?
498
00:45:07,170 --> 00:45:09,630
I got a job offer, so...
499
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:14,420
It became my base for a few years.
500
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:20,750
I love Denmark.
501
00:45:23,130 --> 00:45:30,340
And you've said you want to use your knowledge to improve people's lives.
502
00:45:33,170 --> 00:45:36,170
Teaching in school...
503
00:45:36,340 --> 00:45:39,170
Do you feel like you've achieved that?
504
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:42,590
Did I say that?
505
00:45:43,590 --> 00:45:44,750
Yes.
506
00:45:46,050 --> 00:45:53,130
I admire people who work towards a higher purpose in life.
507
00:45:54,500 --> 00:45:56,550
I think that's really...
508
00:45:57,590 --> 00:46:01,130
I really respect that. People who don't give up.
509
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:07,250
I don't know if I've achieved...
510
00:46:08,550 --> 00:46:10,880
...any particular goals.
511
00:46:14,590 --> 00:46:16,090
But thank you.
512
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:23,130
Do you want me to smile?
513
00:46:23,300 --> 00:46:28,670
Try and get your face in the shadow of the tree.
514
00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:32,960
That's it. Great. Don't move.
515
00:46:33,130 --> 00:46:34,750
Just relax.
516
00:46:38,090 --> 00:46:40,250
I never know what to do in photos.
517
00:46:40,420 --> 00:46:42,920
The photos in the hallway look great.
518
00:46:44,340 --> 00:46:46,630
Those photos were Mia's idea.
519
00:47:00,250 --> 00:47:03,170
- Are you done? - Yes.
520
00:47:03,340 --> 00:47:05,130
I'll come down.
521
00:47:09,050 --> 00:47:11,550
Every day is different.
522
00:47:11,710 --> 00:47:15,460
But that's what makes it fun.
523
00:47:17,090 --> 00:47:22,880
I like writing in the office. We also have meetings there with the other journalists.
524
00:47:23,050 --> 00:47:26,250
And then I go around interviewing people.
525
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:29,250
Like today.
526
00:47:31,340 --> 00:47:34,420
What does it take to be a journalist?
527
00:47:34,590 --> 00:47:38,050
It's not a protected title. Anyone can start writing.
528
00:47:39,420 --> 00:47:43,420
But you need to be curious about people.
529
00:47:43,590 --> 00:47:46,630
Do you have any role models?
530
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:54,000
I... admire people... who achieve their dreams.
531
00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:58,210
Who don't give up and are committed.
532
00:48:05,630 --> 00:48:06,840
Thank you.
533
00:48:08,380 --> 00:48:09,550
This was great.
534
00:48:13,710 --> 00:48:16,710
Would you like to eat dinner with us?
535
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:18,300
That's...
536
00:48:19,550 --> 00:48:22,130
No, I don't think...
537
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:29,420
So nice of you to ask, but I've got a little boy waiting for me.
538
00:48:30,300 --> 00:48:31,710
But thank you.
539
00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:35,420
Would you like something for the trip home? A banana?
540
00:48:35,590 --> 00:48:37,090
No, that's alright.
541
00:48:39,420 --> 00:48:42,300
- Bye then. - Bye, Edith.
542
00:48:43,590 --> 00:48:46,050
So you'll be in touch?
543
00:48:47,460 --> 00:48:49,840
Nothing is flawless-
544
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:54,550
GAME DEVELOPER OPENS UP AFTER HARSH CRITICISM
545
00:48:55,460 --> 00:49:00,090
Your personal experiences, like we talked about last time.
546
00:49:00,250 --> 00:49:04,420
GAMES WITH MICRO TRANSACTIONS CAN PUT PRESSURE ON CHILDREN...
547
00:49:04,590 --> 00:49:10,000
I had a bit of a... personal crisis after that.
548
00:49:14,550 --> 00:49:17,130
WAS THE CRITICISM JUSTIFIED?
549
00:49:18,550 --> 00:49:19,630
SEND
550
00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:27,550
What about your mother and father?
551
00:49:27,710 --> 00:49:31,750
Do they have any prominent qualities?
552
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:35,590
I think my mom is very caring.
553
00:49:35,750 --> 00:49:38,090
I don't see her that often.
554
00:49:39,340 --> 00:49:40,750
So...
555
00:49:45,590 --> 00:49:49,500
My father is probably a bit more reserved, you could say.
556
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:53,210
I found one!
557
00:49:59,590 --> 00:50:03,090
Which of your parents do you identify the most with?
558
00:50:04,170 --> 00:50:09,750
I've been thinking about that a lot lately.
559
00:50:14,050 --> 00:50:15,590
I think...
560
00:50:17,380 --> 00:50:18,590
My father.
561
00:50:50,420 --> 00:50:53,750
- How old is your daughter? - She's 43.
562
00:50:55,340 --> 00:50:57,840
And how are you dealing with all of this?
563
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:02,210
I'm fine.
564
00:51:03,590 --> 00:51:08,340
I just want to know if this is going to keep happening.
565
00:51:08,500 --> 00:51:11,750
Well, stress will worsen the condition.
566
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:15,880
So try to slow down.
567
00:51:16,050 --> 00:51:22,000
You mentioned the importance of being social and seeing friends.
568
00:51:22,170 --> 00:51:24,500
I'm trying to encourage you to do that.
569
00:51:24,670 --> 00:51:27,710
But I'm a little worried about...
570
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:32,800
We have a birthday coming up. Maybe she shouldn't come?
571
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:36,250
It's hard to say, but if there are many kids there,
572
00:51:36,420 --> 00:51:38,590
that will increase stress levels.
573
00:51:38,750 --> 00:51:41,130
So maybe that's not a great idea.
574
00:51:42,250 --> 00:51:46,710
So you're saying that it's up to me to decide?
575
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:48,800
Yes and no.
576
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:52,550
Have there been any changes at home?
577
00:51:54,460 --> 00:51:58,250
No... Everything's normal.
578
00:51:58,420 --> 00:52:01,880
And that is... You live together, is that correct?
579
00:52:02,050 --> 00:52:04,800
With Sigurd, your four-year-old.
580
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:07,210
Yes. Almost five.
581
00:52:07,380 --> 00:52:09,920
Edith was in a long-term relationship,
582
00:52:10,090 --> 00:52:14,800
and thought they would have children, but then he didn't want to.
583
00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:18,590
So she waited too long.
584
00:52:18,750 --> 00:52:23,210
I had Sigurd by myself, and he's doing great.
585
00:52:23,380 --> 00:52:26,920
Except that it can be hard to get through to him sometimes.
586
00:52:27,090 --> 00:52:28,800
Like all children at that age.
587
00:52:31,250 --> 00:52:32,710
Yes.
588
00:52:34,300 --> 00:52:37,630
The situation at home is what it is.
589
00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:42,750
There's no reason to worry. We're doing just fine.
590
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:47,250
This is about making adaptations for your sake, mum.
591
00:52:47,420 --> 00:52:52,800
When you chose to be a single mother, was the plan for Dorthe to help you
592
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:55,210
more than she's able to now?
593
00:52:55,380 --> 00:52:58,300
Yes, I guess it was.
594
00:52:58,460 --> 00:53:00,920
That plan has changed a bit now.
595
00:53:01,090 --> 00:53:04,130
As Dorthe's dementia keeps developing.
596
00:53:04,300 --> 00:53:07,460
- But we do just fine, as I've said. - Yes.
597
00:53:07,630 --> 00:53:12,090
The important thing is that I do the exercises you've given me.
598
00:53:12,250 --> 00:53:15,630
You have to slow down. That's the important thing.
599
00:53:18,750 --> 00:53:21,550
Are you saying I'm a stressed-out solo mom?
600
00:53:21,710 --> 00:53:23,710
You're the one saying that, Edith.
601
00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:27,300
It's not my fault you're sick.
602
00:53:27,460 --> 00:53:32,250
- I can take care of myself. - No, you can't!
603
00:53:32,420 --> 00:53:36,550
You're not taking it seriously! And now we're talking about me?
604
00:53:36,710 --> 00:53:41,750
You're angry with me because of your insecurities as a solo mom.
605
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:44,800
- What on earth are you saying? - It's true.
606
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:47,460
You were a single mom yourself. Dad left, remember?
607
00:53:47,630 --> 00:53:50,550
Let's just calm down.
608
00:53:50,710 --> 00:53:55,710
I think what you've done is really brave.
609
00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:59,800
Brave? It's not brave, it's perfectly normal!
610
00:53:59,960 --> 00:54:03,250
Do you tell expecting couples that they're brave?
611
00:54:03,420 --> 00:54:07,380
Calm down and listen to the doctor.
612
00:54:07,550 --> 00:54:08,670
No!
613
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:11,130
First floor.
614
00:54:20,630 --> 00:54:26,920
What about a board game? One that we could play together?
615
00:54:27,090 --> 00:54:33,090
No. I want something old that no one else has ever found.
616
00:54:33,250 --> 00:54:37,710
- PUT IT BEHIND YOU - I JUST HAVE TO SEE HIM ONE MORE TIME
617
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:41,920
...my friends playing pétanque. Do you remember?
618
00:54:46,750 --> 00:54:48,170
Oh yeah.
619
00:54:50,170 --> 00:54:56,000
But there were games in the toy shop, that we could've played together.
620
00:54:56,170 --> 00:54:57,500
I said no!
621
00:54:57,670 --> 00:55:01,630
- Are you completely sure? - Yes, I told you.
622
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:05,460
- I HAVE SO MANY QUESTIONS - BUT WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM HIM?
623
00:55:17,670 --> 00:55:21,840
I've decided to try again with the same donor.
624
00:55:24,250 --> 00:55:28,880
- With the same donor? - Yeah. That was always the plan.
625
00:55:29,050 --> 00:55:32,300
- Was it? - What's up with you?
626
00:55:33,500 --> 00:55:35,460
Nothing's up, I just...
627
00:55:37,380 --> 00:55:41,340
I'm just thinking about Jens. Shouldn't you guys be...
628
00:55:41,500 --> 00:55:44,960
Jens doesn't know what he wants, and the clock is ticking,
629
00:55:45,130 --> 00:55:49,750
so if I want Amanda to have a sibling, it has to be now, and with Inuus.
630
00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:55,250
Of course. I'm sorry.
631
00:55:56,590 --> 00:55:59,380
I had a long night with Sigurd.
632
00:56:00,460 --> 00:56:03,670
But this is good news!
633
00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:06,710
- How nice for Amanda. - And for Sigurd!
634
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:09,000
He'll have another sibling too!
635
00:56:09,170 --> 00:56:11,420
That's right!
636
00:56:11,590 --> 00:56:12,840
Wow.
637
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:15,500
He's going to be thrilled!
638
00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:25,340
Thanks for taking him this Saturday. I really appreciate it.
639
00:56:25,500 --> 00:56:27,550
Of course.
640
00:56:27,710 --> 00:56:31,050
But I was thinking Jens could take them.
641
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:36,340
- Oh yeah? - So I can come out with you!
642
00:56:37,710 --> 00:56:41,710
Right? Sure, maybe!
643
00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:43,550
Let's talk about it.
644
00:56:43,710 --> 00:56:45,300
Sigurd!
645
00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:49,960
Sigurd! Leave that lady alone.
646
00:57:01,460 --> 00:57:02,630
What?
647
00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:05,050
I don't get it.
648
00:57:05,210 --> 00:57:07,710
- I've got it. - Show us, then.
649
00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:09,710
No.
650
00:57:09,880 --> 00:57:11,340
"I've got it." Come on!
651
00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:15,130
Your index finger.
652
00:57:15,300 --> 00:57:16,750
What?
653
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:20,300
Can't you just tell us? Tell us!
654
00:57:20,460 --> 00:57:22,420
No! But this round's on me.
655
00:57:22,590 --> 00:57:25,050
Sorry, I've got a flight at six a.m.
656
00:57:25,210 --> 00:57:27,500
- No! - Rain check.
657
00:57:29,300 --> 00:57:33,340
Get something nice for Sigurd! You know what he likes?
658
00:57:33,500 --> 00:57:35,750
Some Japanese trash.
659
00:57:37,750 --> 00:57:39,210
- Hey. - What?
660
00:57:39,380 --> 00:57:42,960
I think I saw Inuus in here.
661
00:57:45,960 --> 00:57:48,500
- Are you sure? - Yes.
662
00:57:51,050 --> 00:57:56,050
- So maybe you should leave with me. - No, why?
663
00:57:56,210 --> 00:58:01,130
Alright. It's up to you. Just don't do anything stupid.
664
00:58:01,300 --> 00:58:03,130
- Of course not! - Good.
665
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:08,460
You've been warned. So you'll leave with the others, right? Yes?
666
00:58:11,050 --> 00:58:13,590
Enjoy your trip. Have fun.
667
00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:19,300
- Next round, next round. - Coming up.
668
00:58:22,420 --> 00:58:24,550
Three beers and three Fernet.
669
00:59:18,630 --> 00:59:22,710
- Aftenposten? - You remember me.
670
00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:26,840
It's all Molly's been talking about for weeks.
671
00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:30,300
- How are you? - I'm good.
672
00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:32,090
Thirsty?
673
00:59:35,130 --> 00:59:36,750
You look different.
674
00:59:38,670 --> 00:59:40,590
Is that a compliment?
675
00:59:43,460 --> 00:59:48,250
I'm alright. I've been better, but...
676
00:59:48,420 --> 00:59:51,630
- Were you unhappy with the story? - No, not at all.
677
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:56,670
It was great. I just get a little self-conscious reading about myself.
678
00:59:56,840 --> 00:59:59,210
Do you need a hand with the drinks?
679
00:59:59,380 --> 01:00:01,670
- Hi. Torbjørn. - Niels.
680
01:00:01,840 --> 01:00:04,090
Niels pilsner.
681
01:00:05,170 --> 01:00:07,250
- Sorry. - No worries.
682
01:00:08,170 --> 01:00:09,590
Well?
683
01:00:11,670 --> 01:00:14,880
- Good to see you again. - You too.
684
01:00:15,050 --> 01:00:16,460
Tell Molly hi.
685
01:00:16,630 --> 01:00:20,710
- She's going to be an awesome journalist. - Yes. Agreed.
686
01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:26,300
Who was that?
687
01:00:26,460 --> 01:00:29,590
Someone I did a story on a while back.
688
01:00:29,750 --> 01:00:34,710
Cool. You're so on top of everything. All while being a solo mom.
689
01:00:36,170 --> 01:00:38,460
What's that supposed to mean?
690
01:00:39,210 --> 01:00:40,840
What's that supposed to mean?
691
01:00:41,630 --> 01:00:46,380
- I didn't mean it like that. - And yet it comes out like that!
692
01:00:47,380 --> 01:00:51,590
Why do you do that? Why do you always do that?
693
01:00:51,750 --> 01:00:55,550
Hey. Edith. Listen.
694
01:00:55,710 --> 01:01:00,000
I'm giving you a hug.
695
01:01:00,170 --> 01:01:02,380
- Hey. - What?
696
01:01:04,210 --> 01:01:08,880
Did I offend your independence by offering to help you carry the drinks?
697
01:01:10,210 --> 01:01:12,380
Do you want to carry them by yourself?
698
01:01:13,250 --> 01:01:16,170
We need to get back to the babysitter.
699
01:01:16,340 --> 01:01:18,250
Are you leaving?
700
01:01:21,500 --> 01:01:22,800
Are you coming?
701
01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:26,670
No, I want to finish my drink. You guys go.
702
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:29,460
- Are you sure? - Yeah.
703
01:01:29,630 --> 01:01:32,170
- Say hi to Dorthe. - She's away with a friend.
704
01:01:32,340 --> 01:01:34,460
It's going to be alright.
705
01:01:34,630 --> 01:01:37,000
Thanks, I guess?
706
01:01:37,170 --> 01:01:39,050
Are you good?
707
01:02:17,300 --> 01:02:18,800
Hi, Edith.
708
01:02:20,250 --> 01:02:22,880
Hope you're having a great time.
709
01:02:23,050 --> 01:02:27,050
Not to put a damper on the mood, but...
710
01:02:28,710 --> 01:02:33,050
I've actually been waiting for you to call all night.
711
01:02:33,210 --> 01:02:38,340
Sometimes I feel like you see me more as a babysitter than a friend.
712
01:02:38,500 --> 01:02:41,460
And that's a pretty crap feeling.
713
01:02:45,630 --> 01:02:49,050
When we found out the kids had the same dad,
714
01:02:49,210 --> 01:02:51,840
I was hoping we'd be more of a...
715
01:02:53,800 --> 01:02:55,880
Or maybe...
716
01:02:56,050 --> 01:03:00,210
Well, anyway. The kids are fine.
717
01:03:00,380 --> 01:03:03,630
I don't know if you got the photos I sent?
718
01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:07,050
I'll see you tomorrow.
719
01:03:14,670 --> 01:03:16,550
- A beer. - Coming up.
720
01:03:28,130 --> 01:03:30,210
- There you go. - Thanks.
721
01:04:10,300 --> 01:04:12,130
NIELS KROHN ARE YOU LEAVING?
722
01:04:20,210 --> 01:04:25,380
- That's Celine. Not me. - I know.
723
01:04:31,500 --> 01:04:33,050
- Hi. - Hi.
724
01:04:35,300 --> 01:04:38,550
- I ordered a taxi. - Yes.
725
01:04:40,670 --> 01:04:43,550
Maybe I could...
726
01:04:43,710 --> 01:04:47,050
Do you want to share it? I'm not going far.
727
01:04:47,210 --> 01:04:49,840
Nesodden isn't the same way.
728
01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:53,920
I'm not going to Nesodden. Mia and I have split up.
729
01:04:54,090 --> 01:04:57,170
- What? - So...
730
01:04:57,340 --> 01:05:02,130
I'm staying with a friend while I'm sorting things out.
731
01:05:02,300 --> 01:05:03,670
Shit.
732
01:05:04,800 --> 01:05:09,550
I'm alright. It feels like the right thing. For both of us.
733
01:05:09,710 --> 01:05:14,420
But you were the perfect family. Surely you'll work things out?
734
01:05:14,590 --> 01:05:17,750
No. Not this time.
735
01:05:28,840 --> 01:05:33,090
- Where are the wine glasses? - Above the sink.
736
01:05:39,090 --> 01:05:41,000
Have you read this?
737
01:05:42,340 --> 01:05:46,210
No, not yet. Have you?
738
01:05:46,380 --> 01:05:51,210
- Well, I got the audio book. - That's the same thing.
739
01:05:51,380 --> 01:05:53,710
Is it really, though?
740
01:05:56,050 --> 01:05:58,750
- Campari? - It's all I've got.
741
01:06:00,300 --> 01:06:02,000
Delicious.
742
01:06:11,840 --> 01:06:16,800
I love your flat. Do you want to give me a tour?
743
01:06:16,960 --> 01:06:22,300
It's actually my mother's, and I've got plans to renovate it,
744
01:06:22,460 --> 01:06:24,800
but I never got around to it.
745
01:06:24,960 --> 01:06:28,920
- So there's not that much to see. - I'd still love a tour.
746
01:06:31,090 --> 01:06:33,300
Okay.
747
01:06:33,460 --> 01:06:35,130
- Cheers. - Cheers.
748
01:06:47,170 --> 01:06:49,460
No, that's not allowed!
749
01:06:49,630 --> 01:06:51,460
A little bit...
750
01:06:52,300 --> 01:06:55,800
- Just add some more apple juice. - More apple juice, yes.
751
01:06:55,960 --> 01:07:00,800
Or more Campari. I think that'll do the trick.
752
01:07:00,960 --> 01:07:04,250
When I was little, I wanted to be an architect.
753
01:07:04,420 --> 01:07:07,590
But then you married one instead?
754
01:07:15,380 --> 01:07:21,420
- Now I get it. I get everything. - I told you I'm going to renovate!
755
01:07:23,460 --> 01:07:25,880
What's in here?
756
01:07:26,050 --> 01:07:29,250
- Woah, there's a lot of stuff. - That's my son's room.
757
01:07:29,420 --> 01:07:32,340
It reminds me of my childhood room.
758
01:07:32,500 --> 01:07:34,590
It's really nice.
759
01:07:34,750 --> 01:07:36,250
Thanks.
760
01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:45,380
- I'll keep going, okay? - Go right ahead.
761
01:07:45,550 --> 01:07:49,460
- Mind your head! - That happens all the time.
762
01:07:50,630 --> 01:07:52,460
Alright.
763
01:07:55,880 --> 01:07:57,670
This is where it happens.
764
01:08:00,090 --> 01:08:03,960
Now this tour seems like "a move" on my part.
765
01:08:04,130 --> 01:08:08,880
- A very childish move. - I'm very young.
766
01:08:09,050 --> 01:08:11,710
You're not that young. Are you?
767
01:08:14,750 --> 01:08:16,920
- Another one? - Yes.
768
01:08:19,840 --> 01:08:23,460
We were never really meant to be.
769
01:08:24,960 --> 01:08:26,550
Really.
770
01:08:26,710 --> 01:08:31,130
But that can be hard to see when you've got children.
771
01:08:36,460 --> 01:08:40,590
I'm just really worried about losing the kids.
772
01:08:44,250 --> 01:08:46,710
Especially since they're not...
773
01:08:50,090 --> 01:08:53,340
- Do you really think you will? - Well, I...
774
01:08:53,500 --> 01:08:55,920
They have a father.
775
01:08:56,920 --> 01:09:02,340
- But they still love you. - Yes. They do.
776
01:09:03,710 --> 01:09:06,300
But maybe I haven't been there long enough.
777
01:09:06,460 --> 01:09:10,460
They're lucky to have so many people who love them.
778
01:09:12,630 --> 01:09:15,630
But I see what you mean.
779
01:09:15,800 --> 01:09:18,550
The fear of not being enough.
780
01:09:18,710 --> 01:09:21,170
- Do you ever feel like that? - Of course.
781
01:09:22,880 --> 01:09:24,750
Where is your son's dad?
782
01:09:27,340 --> 01:09:29,710
We don't have to talk about it.
783
01:09:29,880 --> 01:09:32,340
It's alright. It's just...
784
01:09:34,300 --> 01:09:38,460
He's just... He doesn't live in Norway anymore.
785
01:09:40,670 --> 01:09:46,000
He moved back to New York when Sigurd was two.
786
01:09:46,170 --> 01:09:49,750
He's an artist, so... he didn't want that.
787
01:09:49,920 --> 01:09:54,130
And we hadn't planned on having a child. I was the one who wanted that.
788
01:09:54,300 --> 01:09:56,670
Is he in touch with Sigurd?
789
01:09:57,800 --> 01:10:01,000
- No. - Not at all?
790
01:10:46,500 --> 01:10:50,000
That dress is fucking killer.
791
01:10:50,170 --> 01:10:54,630
Is it red or brown? I can't tell. But it looks so good on you.
792
01:10:57,710 --> 01:11:00,960
- Let's see what colour it is on you. - On me?
793
01:11:01,130 --> 01:11:03,000
Yes.
794
01:11:03,170 --> 01:11:06,670
I'm just going down to the fitting room.
795
01:11:13,130 --> 01:11:14,590
Okay.
796
01:11:27,880 --> 01:11:29,000
Okay.
797
01:11:31,550 --> 01:11:33,210
Take this.
798
01:11:34,090 --> 01:11:35,630
Oh shit.
799
01:11:35,800 --> 01:11:37,920
Sorry.
800
01:11:39,380 --> 01:11:42,840
- I spilled Campari on... - No worries.
801
01:11:43,000 --> 01:11:47,500
- I didn't get any on the dress. - There are towels in the bathroom.
802
01:12:04,420 --> 01:12:08,630
- I found this. - You look gorgeous.
803
01:12:08,800 --> 01:12:11,340
- Do you mind? - Not at all.
804
01:12:17,380 --> 01:12:20,170
You should start wearing dresses.
805
01:12:52,210 --> 01:12:55,380
Is this a drunk tattoo?
806
01:13:00,670 --> 01:13:04,550
Do you have any tattoos?
807
01:13:04,710 --> 01:13:08,880
No, I'm afraid of... And besides, Mia hated it.
808
01:13:12,250 --> 01:13:14,800
She wouldn't let me. I mean...
809
01:13:17,710 --> 01:13:20,000
I have a needle.
810
01:13:21,090 --> 01:13:22,210
And ink.
811
01:13:22,380 --> 01:13:24,460
Is that how you did yours? Let's go!
812
01:13:27,250 --> 01:13:31,800
- It's going to look like yours, right? - Yes, identical.
813
01:14:08,420 --> 01:14:10,590
Morning.
814
01:14:17,090 --> 01:14:21,250
- I'm going to get some breakfast. - That's awesome.
815
01:14:23,130 --> 01:14:24,920
Don't go anywhere.
816
01:15:48,300 --> 01:15:53,460
Can you tell us about your current work situation?
817
01:15:53,630 --> 01:15:57,090
You are self-employed?
818
01:15:57,250 --> 01:16:01,300
It sounds like I'm unemployed.
819
01:16:01,460 --> 01:16:06,130
No, uh... I'm an entrepreneur. Tech development.
820
01:16:06,300 --> 01:16:09,380
I did a game a few yea-
821
01:16:19,630 --> 01:16:23,340
- years ago that did pretty well.
822
01:16:24,300 --> 01:16:28,550
- Should I say the name of the game? - No, please don't.
823
01:16:28,710 --> 01:16:32,250
Is that something you want to continue doing?
824
01:16:33,380 --> 01:16:35,960
Right now I'm working on-
825
01:17:57,670 --> 01:17:59,920
Yoohoo!
826
01:18:02,170 --> 01:18:03,920
Hi!
827
01:18:04,090 --> 01:18:06,750
Did you have a bit too much last night?
828
01:18:21,880 --> 01:18:23,090
Do you like these?
829
01:18:30,380 --> 01:18:33,420
Where did you say Sigurd's dad was?
830
01:18:35,340 --> 01:18:37,090
I told you last night.
831
01:18:37,250 --> 01:18:41,250
- He... - Hello! It's just us!
832
01:18:42,460 --> 01:18:47,920
- Can I play pétanque with Amanda? - What are you doing here already?
833
01:18:48,090 --> 01:18:51,300
- Let's go out again. - I want to go to the park!
834
01:18:51,460 --> 01:18:56,170
Edith has a colleague over, so we'll go out in the yard.
835
01:18:56,340 --> 01:18:59,250
We were just wrapping up.
836
01:19:02,670 --> 01:19:07,170
I'm sorry. They were supposed to come back later.
837
01:19:13,840 --> 01:19:20,130
I think maybe you have to leave. If that's okay.
838
01:19:20,300 --> 01:19:23,960
You didn't answer... I'm just trying to understand...
839
01:19:25,550 --> 01:19:28,250
You're not in touch with Sigurd's father?
840
01:19:29,420 --> 01:19:30,920
No.
841
01:19:35,000 --> 01:19:36,750
Not at all?
842
01:19:37,840 --> 01:19:41,590
- Well, he left. - To paint?
843
01:19:49,710 --> 01:19:51,250
You've looked me up.
844
01:20:07,800 --> 01:20:10,960
I just wanted to know who you were. I didn't...
845
01:20:11,130 --> 01:20:12,710
What do you mean?
846
01:20:12,880 --> 01:20:15,710
I wanted to know if you were a good person.
847
01:20:18,210 --> 01:20:22,170
How... How did you-
848
01:20:22,340 --> 01:20:25,880
I googled you, and then lots of stuff came up.
849
01:20:26,050 --> 01:20:28,590
And I just wanted to know a bit more.
850
01:20:28,750 --> 01:20:29,960
And then...
851
01:20:30,130 --> 01:20:32,800
You've been in my home. You met my family.
852
01:20:34,880 --> 01:20:36,630
What do you want?
853
01:20:37,880 --> 01:20:42,750
I just wanted to meet you once. And then you showed up at my office with Molly.
854
01:20:42,920 --> 01:20:46,460
Wait. Wait!
855
01:20:46,630 --> 01:20:48,590
What was I supposed to do?
856
01:20:48,750 --> 01:20:51,880
So it's my fault? Is that what you're saying?
857
01:20:53,210 --> 01:20:54,460
Is it my fault?
858
01:20:56,630 --> 01:21:00,170
- I don't know. - I'm not the one who...
859
01:21:02,880 --> 01:21:05,250
Don't look at me like that.
860
01:21:05,420 --> 01:21:08,590
Don't look at me like that. You're the sick one here.
861
01:21:12,000 --> 01:21:14,090
I haven't...
862
01:21:18,170 --> 01:21:20,130
Can you please leave!
863
01:21:20,300 --> 01:21:25,090
I'm just trying to understand. You've sought me out, right?
864
01:21:26,670 --> 01:21:28,710
Do you know how insane that is?
865
01:21:28,880 --> 01:21:32,670
I don't want you here! Please leave!
866
01:21:32,840 --> 01:21:34,590
Is he...
867
01:21:36,800 --> 01:21:39,800
Edith? Are you serious? Don't...
868
01:21:39,960 --> 01:21:42,250
We need to talk.
869
01:21:44,250 --> 01:21:45,710
Are you serious?
870
01:21:49,340 --> 01:21:51,960
Have you got everything?
871
01:22:16,250 --> 01:22:18,170
We're sweeping the floor.
872
01:22:18,340 --> 01:22:23,090
Would you like to say anything to the child produced from your donation?
873
01:22:25,800 --> 01:22:28,960
Hello. This is your donor.
874
01:22:30,800 --> 01:22:33,130
I hope you are loved.
875
01:22:34,420 --> 01:22:36,300
And I think you are,
876
01:22:36,460 --> 01:22:41,750
because your parent or parents went through a lot to have you.
877
01:22:44,380 --> 01:22:48,500
Life is going to be good... and bad.
878
01:22:48,670 --> 01:22:51,670
So... good luck!
879
01:22:58,590 --> 01:23:01,590
ARE YOU SURE YOU WANT TO DELETE RECORDING?
880
01:23:30,210 --> 01:23:32,210
I can't sleep.
881
01:23:36,090 --> 01:23:37,920
Poor baby.
882
01:23:39,130 --> 01:23:41,460
Can I lie here for a bit?
883
01:23:44,880 --> 01:23:47,380
You have to sleep in your own bed, Edith.
884
01:23:54,920 --> 01:23:59,130
You're so good at that now. Sleeping alone.
885
01:24:50,500 --> 01:24:53,460
Amanda hasn't asked me about it.
886
01:24:53,630 --> 01:24:57,000
That's good. Sigurd hasn't either.
887
01:24:57,670 --> 01:25:01,170
Do you think he realised Amanda is his as well?
888
01:25:02,300 --> 01:25:04,050
I hope not.
889
01:25:09,500 --> 01:25:11,800
How could you let this happen?
890
01:25:14,050 --> 01:25:17,960
I just felt a need to know more about him.
891
01:25:18,130 --> 01:25:20,420
In case Sigurd ever asked.
892
01:25:21,550 --> 01:25:23,960
That I'd have an answer.
893
01:25:25,340 --> 01:25:29,420
And I felt like I knew him before we'd even met.
894
01:25:29,590 --> 01:25:31,050
I was...
895
01:25:32,340 --> 01:25:34,460
I know I told you his name.
896
01:25:36,050 --> 01:25:38,500
I'm sorry. I shouldn't have.
897
01:25:39,880 --> 01:25:41,250
No.
898
01:25:44,500 --> 01:25:47,500
But that was my limit. I hope you know that.
899
01:25:48,800 --> 01:25:50,550
Of course.
900
01:25:53,500 --> 01:25:56,630
I'm not going to use Inuus as a donor again.
901
01:25:56,800 --> 01:25:59,840
Or Niels, or... I don't know what to call him.
902
01:26:02,630 --> 01:26:04,960
He's too real now.
903
01:26:10,000 --> 01:26:13,500
Listen... What you said in that voice message.
904
01:26:15,340 --> 01:26:17,550
You are completely right.
905
01:26:17,710 --> 01:26:19,800
I don't see you as a friend.
906
01:26:23,130 --> 01:26:24,550
We're family.
907
01:26:26,050 --> 01:26:29,340
You're Sigurd's sister's mother.
908
01:26:29,500 --> 01:26:33,210
I'm so happy to have you in our lives.
909
01:26:34,300 --> 01:26:36,880
I couldn't have done all this without you.
910
01:26:48,130 --> 01:26:51,840
Oh well. They've got 10 000 other siblings out there.
911
01:26:52,170 --> 01:26:53,590
True.
912
01:26:58,000 --> 01:27:01,630
Can we go to the park later, grandma?
913
01:27:01,800 --> 01:27:03,920
I think we'll stay inside, Sigurd.
914
01:27:39,550 --> 01:27:41,880
A coffee, please.
915
01:28:02,460 --> 01:28:04,170
I felt tricked.
916
01:28:06,050 --> 01:28:08,840
You put me in a difficult position.
917
01:28:10,840 --> 01:28:13,000
It was a huge transgression.
918
01:28:13,920 --> 01:28:16,000
Toward me.
919
01:28:16,170 --> 01:28:17,670
Yes.
920
01:28:18,960 --> 01:28:20,920
And I'm really sorry.
921
01:28:23,130 --> 01:28:24,670
Really.
922
01:28:31,630 --> 01:28:34,300
What were you hoping would happen?
923
01:28:37,550 --> 01:28:40,170
What was I hoping would happen?
924
01:28:46,380 --> 01:28:48,300
I thought I might...
925
01:28:51,380 --> 01:28:56,460
...understand my son better if I knew who his father was.
926
01:29:02,710 --> 01:29:05,500
You must've known it would go...
927
01:29:08,460 --> 01:29:12,300
Go wrong, sooner or later.
928
01:29:12,460 --> 01:29:14,710
I got carried away.
929
01:29:17,170 --> 01:29:19,050
I liked you.
930
01:29:23,050 --> 01:29:26,380
I was very charmed by you, too.
931
01:29:34,800 --> 01:29:39,500
Having a kid by myself was a plan-B.
932
01:29:47,420 --> 01:29:50,750
I sometimes worry I'm not enough for him.
933
01:29:56,420 --> 01:29:58,840
I'd like to suggest...
934
01:30:00,050 --> 01:30:02,300
...that Sigurd and I meet.
935
01:30:03,340 --> 01:30:05,960
In a proper setting.
936
01:30:09,670 --> 01:30:14,000
But it's completely up to you. Sigurd is your son.
937
01:30:15,800 --> 01:30:17,210
But...
938
01:30:33,420 --> 01:30:37,090
Can I ask you why you donated?
939
01:30:44,420 --> 01:30:46,800
It was kind of spontaneous.
940
01:30:49,300 --> 01:30:54,130
I saw an ad for a sperm bank when I was at a conference in Copenhagen.
941
01:30:56,000 --> 01:30:58,300
It was a spur of the moment thing.
942
01:31:00,500 --> 01:31:03,000
I think I actually...
943
01:31:03,170 --> 01:31:07,420
Mia and I were going through a difficult time.
944
01:31:07,590 --> 01:31:10,880
She didn't want more kids. So...
945
01:31:11,750 --> 01:31:15,550
Maybe it was a way for me to feel like there's a part...
946
01:31:16,920 --> 01:31:18,590
...of me out there.
947
01:31:26,210 --> 01:31:28,670
I thought I could solve it by wanking in a cup.
948
01:31:32,920 --> 01:31:34,550
I need to use the bathroom.
949
01:31:36,800 --> 01:31:39,750
- Speaking of. - Yes.
950
01:33:26,000 --> 01:33:28,380
Does this look alright?
951
01:33:28,550 --> 01:33:31,090
Or is it too low?
952
01:33:31,250 --> 01:33:34,340
I think it's fine right there.
953
01:33:35,420 --> 01:33:38,210
Look at this!
954
01:33:39,670 --> 01:33:44,210
I know that I put you in a difficult situation.
955
01:33:45,630 --> 01:33:49,300
And I may have planted a need in you to meet Sigurd,
956
01:33:49,460 --> 01:33:51,840
now that you know he exists.
957
01:33:54,300 --> 01:33:57,460
But... what if you change your mind?
958
01:33:59,090 --> 01:34:03,250
I don't want to create a longing in him.
959
01:34:05,880 --> 01:34:10,840
To him you're a kind man somewhere in the world who helped me have him.
960
01:34:12,710 --> 01:34:14,420
And that's it.
961
01:34:22,710 --> 01:34:25,130
If he's going to meet you...
962
01:34:26,170 --> 01:34:32,420
I want that to be his decision, when he's old enough to make that decision.
963
01:34:35,840 --> 01:34:39,340
And I hope he wants to.
964
01:34:49,960 --> 01:34:53,710
It might not have meant much to you to wank in that cup, but...
965
01:34:56,170 --> 01:34:58,130
It's my whole world.
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