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- Peace be upon you.
- Peace be upon you too.
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Honey, wait.
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Was that Ustadz Furqon
and Ustadzah Amira who just passed by?
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- Yes, that's them.
- Wow, they look great together.
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They're the dream couple, right?
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- We'll be going now.
- Sure.
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Take care.
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- Peace be upon you.
- You too.
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- Peace be upon you.
- You too.
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- Peace be upon you.
- You too.
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Peace be upon you, Ustadz.
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May God bless you both
and bring you together in goodness.
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Praise be to God. Amen.
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Congratulations.
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May your marriage be blessed. Amen.
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Amen. May ours be just like yours.
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One, two…
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Make sure you eat, okay?
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- Congratulations.
- Amira.
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Ma'am.
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Sir.
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I want a divorce.
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What?
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AL-HIKMAH GIRLS' DORMITORY
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AL-HIKMAH GIRLS' GRADUATION CEREMONY 2023
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- It feels so good to finally graduate!
- I know!
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- From 1 to 10, how happy are you today?
- Eleven!
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- Eleven? Why?
- Because I'm going to college soon.
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- We're going to college together!
- Dara, can I take a photo?
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It's for next week's magazine.
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- Sure.
- Okay.
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- Ready? One, two…
- Look at Dara.
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She's beautiful and a top student.
She'll definitely be snatched up first.
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Says who?
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Look at her face.
It's like God himself sculpted it.
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All women are beautiful, Wati.
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Who knows?
Maybe we'll get "snatched up" first.
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"Snatched up"? We just graduated.
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Most people want to be comedians,
start a band or become vice president.
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- Vice president?
- But you just want to be...
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Wati, I just want to be a good wife
like my mother.
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Don't you want that too?
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Or are you going to be a rebellious wife?
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Me? First come, first served.
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Soulmate, I'm coming!
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Good grief!
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Wati.
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My goodness.
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Amira, help me.
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- He's coming this way.
- Really?
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What do I do?
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- Why did you throw your certificate?
- I'm sorry, Ustadz, but…
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CERTIFICATE OF GRADUATION
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HOW TO BE A GOOD WIFE
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Just a second, Mom.
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What happened?
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You said you wanted to learn how to cook,
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- and now it's "just a second"?
- Mom.
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Mom! I got accepted!
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Thank God!
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Congratulations!
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Oh, my God, my daughter!
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Hey, what's going on?
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Your daughter got accepted
into UMM's Faculty of Psychology.
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Wait, don't move.
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Thank God!
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- Congratulations, dear.
- Thank you, Dad.
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Now, about this…
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What is it?
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- Come here.
- What is it?
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This is thanks to how you raised her.
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Someone wants to propose to you, dear.
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Dad, wait.
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- I'm just about to start college.
- I know.
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You can't get married during class.
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If you want, get married after class.
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- Honey.
- What?
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Stop joking.
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So, your mother and I
want to set you up with Ustadz Furqon.
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He is Haji Imron's son.
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Yes, his son. Not the father.
I'd kick the father out.
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Dad, Mom, let's be serious for a second.
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- You want to set me up?
- Yes.
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Do you know him?
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He's the advisor
of the boarding school's magazine.
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That's the one.
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But there's no pressure.
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- If you don't want to, it's fine.
- Dad, it's not that…
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So you do want to. She wants to, honey!
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Coincidentally, the whole family
is coming over next week.
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Hang on, honey.
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- What's wrong?
- Slow down.
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Your daughter is still in shock.
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Dear, think it over carefully.
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Whatever your decision is,
your father and I will support you.
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- Right, honey?
- Yes.
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As long as your answer is yes.
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Dad!
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- Peace be upon you.
- Peace be upon you too.
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Thank God, our guests are finally here.
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Thank God.
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Please, come in.
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Arranged marriage has been
our family tradition for generations.
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Even if people call it old-fashioned,
there's wisdom in it, God willing.
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Two months ago, Furqon's sister
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told us there was a candidate for him.
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As soon as we heard it was Amira,
it just clicked for us.
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We all agreed.
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We hope this marriage
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strengthens the bond between our families.
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- What's that?
- This?
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This means "strong bond."
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- But this one means "bird."
- Honey.
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Amen, God willing.
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But the decision is still
up to the person involved, right?
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How about it, Amira?
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Are you willing to accept our proposal?
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Before I answer,
may I ask a few questions?
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Please, go ahead.
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I know love
isn't a requirement for marriage.
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But if I marry, I will respect my husband,
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obey him as our faith teaches
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and love him.
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Will Ustadz Furqon do the same for me?
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It is a husband's duty
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to respect, honor,
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and love whoever he marries.
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Could you give me a more definite answer?
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In the name of God.
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I believe this meeting was meant to be.
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God willing, I am willing.
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Praise God.
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My daughter is so beautiful today.
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How did you grow up so fast?
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Come back into Mommy's belly.
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Oh, my God.
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Mom?
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Do you think I can?
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What do you mean?
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Be a good wife like you.
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Who said I was a good wife?
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I've never seen a wife love her husband
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as much as you love Dad.
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Dear,
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when I married your father,
I didn't love him yet.
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Seriously?
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I accept this marriage
with the stated dowry.
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I am pleased with it,
and may God grant success.
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Witnesses, is it valid?
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Valid!
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Thank God!
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Love is "syaiun."
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Marriage is "syaiun akhor."
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Love is something,
but marriage is something else entirely.
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Love doesn't have to be
the reason for marriage.
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Start with the intention of worship.
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So that love can be the fruit
of your obedience to the Creator.
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See? I was right.
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No one is better than you, Mom.
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Congratulations, sir.
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- Congratulations, ma'am.
- Thank you.
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Finally!
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You're the one who got snatched up first!
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Only God knows.
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But what's the secret to winning
the heart of the pesantren's idol?
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- Fasting every day.
- I can do that too.
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- But never breaking the fast.
- You'd die.
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- Let's take a photo.
- Okay.
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Sorry, ma'am. Please, go ahead.
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- Thank you.
- Praise God.
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- Afif.
- Praise God.
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- Look after each other, you two.
- Thank you.
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- What is this?
- I'm delivering a message.
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Amira.
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I'll just go over there.
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Congratulations.
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I'm sorry, Ustadz… I mean, honey.
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It's okay, we're married now.
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You aren't…
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On your period, are you?
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Okay then. Let's go.
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Now?
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It's better not to delay, right?
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Honey…
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Just be gentle, okay?
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Be gentle?
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But Maghrib prayer
should be recited aloud, shouldn't it?
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I'm going to do wudu first.
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- Give me a second.
- Okay.
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That night, it felt like God planted
the seeds of love in my heart.
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Honey.
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Your hand.
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Through his beautiful recitation
of the holy verses,
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Furqon seemed to remind us
that this marriage wasn't our dream.
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But it was proof of God's love for us.
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It's dawn.
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Honey… did I fall asleep?
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I'm so sorry.
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I'm going to the mosque for Fajr prayer.
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Peace be upon you.
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Peace be upon you too.
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Let's eat.
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So, Furqon, did you have a good night?
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Honey, what kind of question is that?
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We have a guest.
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I have to ask if he slept well or not.
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- Oh, I thought…
- What did you think?
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Nothing.
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So, was it good?
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Moist.
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What do you mean?
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What?
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The room.
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The AC was too cold,
but I slept just fine.
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I see.
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I trust you.
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Take care of my precious daughter.
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You hear me?
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- Yes, sir.
- Dad, stop.
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You're too old to be crying.
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Don't be silly, and don't get it wrong.
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These aren't tears of sadness.
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These are tears of joy.
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Because I am handing you,
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my beloved daughter,
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to the right man.
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I love you so much, dear.
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Dad.
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Sweetheart,
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be a good wife.
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Obey your husband.
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Yes, Mom.
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My daughter-in-law!
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You're so beautiful.
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Mother.
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I thought you wouldn't come today.
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Rest for a bit before Maghrib.
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I've cooked rawon.
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Thank you.
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Mom, don't forget the sambal too.
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This boy.
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Goodness, Furqon is the number one fan
of his mother's rawon.
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Go to your room and rest.
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I know it was a long trip.
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- I'm dying to eat your rawon.
- Like father like son.
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Let's go.
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And you're going straight for the rawon
instead of showing your wife around.
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Come. This is our house.
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And this is your room.
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I hope it's okay.
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It's a beautiful house.
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God willing.
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That's the door to the backyard.
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It's lovely here
from morning to afternoon.
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But it does get chilly at night.
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It's so cozy here.
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Here's some ginger tea.
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Thank you, honey.
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Can we talk for a moment?
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What's this?
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I am officially your husband now.
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So this is my responsibility to you.
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I will transfer your allowance
to this account every month.
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And this one?
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That's for the household expenses.
266
00:22:59,417 --> 00:23:02,625
If it runs out, don't use your allowance.
267
00:23:05,500 --> 00:23:06,667
Thank you, honey.
268
00:23:08,875 --> 00:23:10,208
In the name of God.
269
00:23:10,292 --> 00:23:14,875
If you need anything at all,
don't hesitate to tell me.
270
00:23:17,083 --> 00:23:21,083
Well, then,
I'm going to the mosque for Isha.
271
00:23:22,333 --> 00:23:23,333
Honey…
272
00:23:25,125 --> 00:23:26,458
I'll wait up for you.
273
00:23:27,458 --> 00:23:28,542
No need.
274
00:23:29,458 --> 00:23:34,417
I have a youth meeting
that might run late.
275
00:23:35,125 --> 00:23:36,250
Just go to bed.
276
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:39,542
- Peace be upon you.
- Peace be upon you too.
277
00:24:09,208 --> 00:24:10,208
SCHOOL YEARBOOK
278
00:24:16,042 --> 00:24:18,750
THE FUTURE IS BUILT BY HARD WORK,
NOT COMFORT
279
00:24:23,167 --> 00:24:25,875
KNOWLEDGE WITHOUT PRACTICE IS EMPTY THEORY
280
00:24:45,708 --> 00:24:50,083
"My heart beats fast like a drum."
281
00:24:50,167 --> 00:24:56,667
"My silent prayers soar through the sky
282
00:24:56,750 --> 00:24:59,375
beyond the reach of words."
283
00:25:06,167 --> 00:25:10,125
Mir, that's so sweet.
284
00:25:10,208 --> 00:25:12,667
I want to be loved like that too.
285
00:25:12,750 --> 00:25:14,208
That's for sure.
286
00:25:14,292 --> 00:25:17,083
Maybe he liked you first.
287
00:25:17,750 --> 00:25:19,292
Don't give me false hope.
288
00:25:19,375 --> 00:25:23,208
Then why did he keep that poem
in our yearbook?
289
00:25:23,292 --> 00:25:27,250
He must have been the one
who asked to be set up with you.
290
00:25:30,042 --> 00:25:32,333
Wati, let's talk later.
291
00:25:32,417 --> 00:25:34,625
- I think he's back.
- Okay.
292
00:25:39,542 --> 00:25:40,750
Peace be upon you.
293
00:25:41,792 --> 00:25:43,208
Peace be upon you, too.
294
00:25:46,833 --> 00:25:48,750
You're still up?
295
00:25:51,958 --> 00:25:54,083
I told you I'd wait for you.
296
00:25:55,708 --> 00:25:57,333
Oh, no need.
297
00:25:58,042 --> 00:25:59,583
I still have work to do.
298
00:26:00,333 --> 00:26:05,542
There are some student articles
I need to check.
299
00:26:08,667 --> 00:26:10,750
Do you want me to make some tea?
300
00:26:10,833 --> 00:26:12,333
No need, thank you.
301
00:26:15,125 --> 00:26:16,125
Honey…
302
00:26:18,125 --> 00:26:19,917
I'm heading to bed then.
303
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:21,833
Okay, sleep well.
304
00:26:50,083 --> 00:26:55,917
Mom, what was it like,
the wedding night with dad?
305
00:27:04,500 --> 00:27:07,375
Why a husband
hasn't been intimate with his wife?
306
00:27:07,458 --> 00:27:11,208
THERE ARE SEVERAL REASONS.
HEALTH, EXHAUSTION, PSYCHOLOGICAL ISSUES…
307
00:27:12,792 --> 00:27:14,208
DEFINITION OF IMPOTENCE
308
00:27:18,375 --> 00:27:20,208
HERBAL REMEDIES FOR AROUSAL
309
00:27:22,125 --> 00:27:23,458
MANY BENEFITS OF PASAK BUMI
310
00:27:41,417 --> 00:27:44,792
A package for Amira Hayatunnisa.
311
00:27:46,208 --> 00:27:47,292
Thank you.
312
00:27:56,250 --> 00:27:58,500
HERBAL TEA
PASAK BUMI
313
00:28:13,917 --> 00:28:15,917
What are you making, dear?
314
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,792
Mother. It's an energy drink.
315
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:21,333
An energy drink?
316
00:28:21,417 --> 00:28:22,917
Energy drink for…
317
00:28:23,958 --> 00:28:25,000
For?
318
00:28:25,083 --> 00:28:27,250
For weight loss.
319
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:31,958
- I want some then.
- No, it's not good.
320
00:28:32,042 --> 00:28:33,542
Then why did you buy it?
321
00:28:34,167 --> 00:28:38,333
I mean, I don't know if it works yet.
322
00:28:38,417 --> 00:28:42,083
If it does, I'll buy you some too.
323
00:28:45,208 --> 00:28:47,708
- If it works, I want it, okay?
- Sure thing.
324
00:28:48,583 --> 00:28:51,250
- Careful, you might get sick.
- Yes, Mother.
325
00:28:53,292 --> 00:28:54,583
Don't forget.
326
00:28:55,958 --> 00:28:56,958
I won't.
327
00:29:07,125 --> 00:29:08,125
Honey.
328
00:29:11,500 --> 00:29:12,500
Thank you.
329
00:29:14,708 --> 00:29:15,708
Drink it.
330
00:29:27,708 --> 00:29:30,042
The tea is a bit bitter, isn't it?
331
00:29:32,500 --> 00:29:33,667
It's herbal tea.
332
00:29:34,542 --> 00:29:36,000
It's best without sugar.
333
00:29:37,917 --> 00:29:39,708
I'll go recite the Quran for a bit.
334
00:30:23,042 --> 00:30:24,708
Honey, are you okay?
335
00:30:25,417 --> 00:30:28,792
I'm okay, just feeling a bit hot.
336
00:30:31,042 --> 00:30:33,333
Can you open it?
337
00:30:38,625 --> 00:30:39,625
Open what?
338
00:30:41,292 --> 00:30:42,375
The door.
339
00:30:47,500 --> 00:30:48,542
Of course.
340
00:30:53,750 --> 00:30:54,833
Thank you.
341
00:31:33,583 --> 00:31:34,750
Excuse me.
342
00:31:35,875 --> 00:31:38,375
- My pants.
- Sorry, honey.
343
00:31:55,667 --> 00:31:57,667
I'll be right back.
344
00:31:58,458 --> 00:31:59,458
Where are you going?
345
00:31:59,917 --> 00:32:02,500
I need some fresh air.
It's a bit stuffy in here.
346
00:33:37,208 --> 00:33:39,208
- What are you doing?
- Honey!
347
00:33:43,042 --> 00:33:44,458
I was going to wake you up.
348
00:33:45,833 --> 00:33:46,833
Wake me up for what?
349
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:50,083
For night prayer.
350
00:33:50,792 --> 00:33:52,375
I'd better go do wudu.
351
00:33:57,458 --> 00:33:59,708
UNIVERSITY OF MUHAMMADIYAH MALANG
352
00:34:00,625 --> 00:34:03,458
Let me know when you need to be picked up.
353
00:34:08,625 --> 00:34:14,208
Honey, does your mom to your dad…
354
00:34:20,208 --> 00:34:22,708
- Peace be upon you.
- Peace be upon you too.
355
00:34:44,917 --> 00:34:46,250
Peace be upon you.
356
00:34:46,333 --> 00:34:48,708
- Excuse me.
- Peace be upon you too.
357
00:34:52,833 --> 00:34:54,000
Ustadz Furqon.
358
00:34:55,708 --> 00:34:56,708
Dara.
359
00:35:04,292 --> 00:35:07,292
May God bless you.
Congratulations on your marriage.
360
00:35:11,042 --> 00:35:12,125
Thank you.
361
00:35:12,208 --> 00:35:15,458
My best wishes
to those who pray for us too.
362
00:35:26,250 --> 00:35:27,292
Honey?
363
00:35:29,458 --> 00:35:30,875
Thank goodness.
364
00:35:30,958 --> 00:35:33,083
I thought I lost it. Thank you.
365
00:35:35,167 --> 00:35:37,250
Dara? You're signing up here too?
366
00:35:37,750 --> 00:35:40,125
- What's your major?
- Psychology.
367
00:35:40,208 --> 00:35:42,333
Oh, my God, me too!
368
00:35:42,417 --> 00:35:46,083
Wati is signing up here too.
Are you registering? Let's do it together.
369
00:35:47,375 --> 00:35:48,750
Honey, we're heading in.
370
00:35:48,833 --> 00:35:50,750
- Peace be upon you.
- You too.
371
00:35:50,833 --> 00:35:51,917
Let's go, Dara.
372
00:36:00,833 --> 00:36:02,792
-Oh, my God
-That's nonsense.
373
00:36:02,875 --> 00:36:04,750
It's like you don't know our religion.
374
00:36:06,625 --> 00:36:08,417
Hey, Furqon.
375
00:36:09,917 --> 00:36:13,708
I thought you knew that there are
two kinds of support in Islam.
376
00:36:13,792 --> 00:36:15,167
Financial support and…
377
00:36:15,833 --> 00:36:17,292
- And…
- Spiritual support.
378
00:36:17,375 --> 00:36:18,708
Right.
379
00:36:18,792 --> 00:36:23,958
That includes everything
from educating your wife to intimacy.
380
00:36:24,042 --> 00:36:25,583
You can't pick and choose.
381
00:36:26,458 --> 00:36:27,500
It's all mandatory.
382
00:36:27,583 --> 00:36:29,792
- Peace be upon you, Ustadz.
- You too.
383
00:36:30,542 --> 00:36:35,208
- If you don't, you are being unjust.
- I know. The problem is I can't.
384
00:36:37,042 --> 00:36:39,625
Since when is a duty optional?
385
00:36:41,750 --> 00:36:43,542
The marriage vow is a promise.
386
00:36:44,042 --> 00:36:48,500
A promise directly to God.
Don't break it just because of the past.
387
00:36:57,083 --> 00:36:58,958
Peace be upon you, Ustadz Aiman.
388
00:37:00,917 --> 00:37:02,083
Peace be upon you too.
389
00:37:07,125 --> 00:37:08,125
What's this?
390
00:37:09,583 --> 00:37:10,708
WEDDING INVITATION
391
00:37:10,792 --> 00:37:13,500
You're getting married?
Why didn't you say anything?
392
00:37:13,583 --> 00:37:15,625
I'm saying it now.
393
00:37:15,708 --> 00:37:19,625
Look. "Invitation for Ustadz Furqon
and his wife, who hasn't been... ".
394
00:37:19,708 --> 00:37:20,792
Enough.
395
00:37:21,833 --> 00:37:26,958
Wati, finally! You're marrying your idol!
396
00:37:27,875 --> 00:37:31,083
Of course, my charms are strong.
397
00:37:32,333 --> 00:37:35,375
But God is always with those
who are patient, Mir.
398
00:37:35,458 --> 00:37:37,417
I waited patiently for Ustadz Afif.
399
00:37:37,500 --> 00:37:39,667
- Really?
- Of course!
400
00:37:39,750 --> 00:37:41,375
I can't wait.
401
00:37:41,458 --> 00:37:47,417
I'm going to be loved and cherished,
just like your husband cherishes you.
402
00:37:47,500 --> 00:37:48,500
Right?
403
00:37:51,625 --> 00:37:52,625
Mir?
404
00:37:54,208 --> 00:37:55,208
Mir?
405
00:37:56,542 --> 00:37:57,750
Is something wrong?
406
00:37:59,833 --> 00:38:00,833
What is it?
407
00:38:07,167 --> 00:38:08,458
My husband…
408
00:38:09,125 --> 00:38:10,167
What about him?
409
00:38:13,083 --> 00:38:14,542
Peace be upon you, Wati.
410
00:38:15,708 --> 00:38:16,875
Peace be upon you too.
411
00:38:16,958 --> 00:38:18,958
Dara!
412
00:38:20,167 --> 00:38:22,250
We finally meet again.
413
00:38:23,208 --> 00:38:26,417
I forgot.
I'll bring your invitation later, okay?
414
00:38:28,625 --> 00:38:29,708
Be sure to come.
415
00:38:33,708 --> 00:38:37,792
I can't believe we're at the same college
as our old school friend.
416
00:38:37,875 --> 00:38:39,583
This is destiny.
417
00:38:39,667 --> 00:38:41,667
Just like you and your husband.
418
00:38:47,542 --> 00:38:48,958
What's wrong, Mir?
419
00:38:50,333 --> 00:38:51,750
Talk to me.
420
00:38:53,375 --> 00:38:56,083
You used to tell me everything.
421
00:38:59,792 --> 00:39:02,583
Since the wedding…
422
00:39:04,167 --> 00:39:05,458
Furqon…
423
00:39:08,500 --> 00:39:10,167
He still hasn't touched me.
424
00:39:11,292 --> 00:39:12,542
Are you okay, Wati?
425
00:39:15,917 --> 00:39:19,875
We… haven't been intimate yet.
426
00:39:26,875 --> 00:39:29,375
But you said he was a good husband?
427
00:39:29,458 --> 00:39:30,917
He's wonderful.
428
00:39:32,958 --> 00:39:37,583
He even keeps the household money
separate from my allowance.
429
00:39:40,083 --> 00:39:44,750
Everything he does
matches my idea of the ideal husband.
430
00:39:46,708 --> 00:39:49,542
Except for… that one thing.
431
00:39:53,042 --> 00:39:54,500
I'm scared, Wati.
432
00:39:56,042 --> 00:39:59,458
I'm scared this marriage
isn't what he wanted.
433
00:40:02,500 --> 00:40:04,417
My mom always says
434
00:40:05,250 --> 00:40:09,375
the way to a man's heart
is through his stomach.
435
00:40:13,042 --> 00:40:14,375
Learn to cook.
436
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:21,417
Cook his favorite dishes.
437
00:40:21,500 --> 00:40:23,500
You need a good strategy.
438
00:40:23,583 --> 00:40:26,208
- Strategy?
- Of course.
439
00:40:26,292 --> 00:40:30,083
A strategy full of love
he'll never see coming.
440
00:40:30,167 --> 00:40:33,542
You only know
what makes a good wife in theory.
441
00:40:37,458 --> 00:40:38,875
What are you doing, Mir?
442
00:40:42,958 --> 00:40:45,500
I want to learn how to make rawon, Mother.
443
00:40:45,583 --> 00:40:50,125
When I married Furqon's father,
I couldn't cook either.
444
00:40:51,417 --> 00:40:53,708
- So let me teach you.
- Thank you.
445
00:40:53,792 --> 00:40:56,375
I miss you
like the night misses the full moon.
446
00:41:02,083 --> 00:41:04,125
When I miss you, stones turn into birds.
447
00:41:11,875 --> 00:41:14,333
Honey, dinner's ready.
448
00:41:15,833 --> 00:41:17,625
I was gonna take the trash out.
449
00:41:17,708 --> 00:41:21,292
Do it later. Let's eat while it's warm.
450
00:41:41,625 --> 00:41:43,292
How is it? Good?
451
00:41:44,083 --> 00:41:46,042
Good. It tastes like Mom's.
452
00:41:46,125 --> 00:41:47,750
- Really?
- Yes.
453
00:41:47,833 --> 00:41:49,083
Try it.
454
00:41:56,208 --> 00:41:57,208
You're right.
455
00:41:57,292 --> 00:41:59,250
I meant…
456
00:42:08,375 --> 00:42:10,000
Books are a window to the world.
457
00:42:10,083 --> 00:42:14,917
Your marriage problems
must have an answer in one of them, right?
458
00:42:15,833 --> 00:42:17,625
I know I'm right, believe me.
459
00:42:21,708 --> 00:42:23,875
SPARKING LOVE FOR MARRIAGE LIFE
460
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:27,167
Go pay for it.
461
00:42:28,292 --> 00:42:29,583
Yes, ma'am.
462
00:42:30,917 --> 00:42:32,375
Wait, there's more.
463
00:42:32,458 --> 00:42:33,750
What is this?
464
00:42:34,292 --> 00:42:35,458
Ratus.
465
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:38,000
What?
466
00:42:39,500 --> 00:42:41,417
Ratus.
467
00:42:41,500 --> 00:42:44,042
Didn't you do this treatment
before you got married?
468
00:42:44,125 --> 00:42:45,375
I didn't.
469
00:42:45,458 --> 00:42:46,750
No wonder.
470
00:42:46,833 --> 00:42:48,208
Just do as I say.
471
00:42:48,792 --> 00:42:49,917
Yes, ma'am.
472
00:42:52,042 --> 00:42:55,958
People say women are hard to understand.
473
00:42:56,042 --> 00:42:58,875
They're wrong. Men are the ones
who are hard to understand.
474
00:42:59,417 --> 00:43:02,708
That's why women have to be smart.
475
00:43:04,167 --> 00:43:07,125
Smart enough to understand
what a husband likes.
476
00:43:14,250 --> 00:43:15,250
Honey.
477
00:43:27,250 --> 00:43:28,333
What is this?
478
00:43:28,417 --> 00:43:29,958
For you to write poems.
479
00:43:30,458 --> 00:43:32,500
I wrote something
on the back of the cover.
480
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:47,792
"Two feelings become one."
481
00:43:48,667 --> 00:43:50,292
"Two lights entwine."
482
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:56,208
"The spark in your eyes
becomes a lantern in my heart."
483
00:43:57,500 --> 00:43:59,417
"I love you
484
00:43:59,500 --> 00:44:05,542
because I will love you
in the most reckless way possible."
485
00:44:07,667 --> 00:44:09,500
What do you think? Is it good?
486
00:44:18,917 --> 00:44:21,458
You wrote this poem, didn't you?
487
00:44:27,208 --> 00:44:30,708
For me,
the most romantic thing in the world
488
00:44:30,792 --> 00:44:35,667
is when someone makes something
for the person they love.
489
00:44:36,542 --> 00:44:37,583
Like the Taj Mahal.
490
00:44:38,083 --> 00:44:41,667
A building that a husband built
out of his love for his wife.
491
00:44:42,750 --> 00:44:43,917
Thank you, honey.
492
00:44:44,667 --> 00:44:46,375
The poem is beautiful.
493
00:44:48,042 --> 00:44:50,583
Like it was written from the heart.
494
00:45:17,583 --> 00:45:18,833
Good night.
495
00:45:50,917 --> 00:45:53,417
Do you love me at all?
496
00:47:04,458 --> 00:47:07,000
Let's go out today.
497
00:47:09,083 --> 00:47:10,667
- Are you sure?
- Why?
498
00:47:11,417 --> 00:47:13,250
- Do you have other plans?
- No.
499
00:47:14,250 --> 00:47:17,208
I'm free today.
Give me a second, let me get ready.
500
00:47:31,750 --> 00:47:35,750
You're like a kid,
getting excited over a day out.
501
00:47:36,292 --> 00:47:40,208
It's my husband who's asking.
If it were you, it wouldn't be special.
502
00:47:40,292 --> 00:47:42,750
Where is he taking you?
503
00:47:43,708 --> 00:47:48,958
I don't know, but him asking
is enough to make me happy.
504
00:47:49,542 --> 00:47:52,208
Don't forget to go by motorcycle.
505
00:47:53,292 --> 00:47:57,250
- Why?
- For the romance, like in the movies!
506
00:47:57,792 --> 00:48:00,833
You're on the back of the bike.
507
00:48:00,917 --> 00:48:04,958
Your arms around your man.
508
00:48:05,042 --> 00:48:09,000
The wind in your face. It's so romantic!
509
00:48:09,083 --> 00:48:10,125
Ouch!
510
00:48:10,667 --> 00:48:12,208
Wati!
511
00:48:12,292 --> 00:48:13,458
Ouch!
512
00:48:13,542 --> 00:48:15,042
Wati, are you okay?
513
00:48:15,917 --> 00:48:18,292
Mir, take the motorcycle!
514
00:48:43,375 --> 00:48:44,625
Honey, wait.
515
00:48:46,125 --> 00:48:49,333
- Why aren't we taking the motorcycle?
- I'm afraid it'll rain.
516
00:48:50,042 --> 00:48:51,167
Let's go.
517
00:49:13,458 --> 00:49:14,542
Eat up.
518
00:49:15,792 --> 00:49:16,792
Okay.
519
00:49:17,417 --> 00:49:18,500
Wait.
520
00:49:26,583 --> 00:49:27,750
Here you go.
521
00:49:28,792 --> 00:49:30,417
- Thank you.
- You're welcome.
522
00:49:39,375 --> 00:49:41,250
- It's delicious.
- I know, right?
523
00:49:44,042 --> 00:49:46,292
- Is yours good too?
- Yeah.
524
00:49:51,708 --> 00:49:53,167
Do you want to try?
525
00:49:58,250 --> 00:49:59,250
From this bowl?
526
00:50:00,792 --> 00:50:02,958
No, from mine.
527
00:50:08,167 --> 00:50:09,417
Well, okay.
528
00:51:00,292 --> 00:51:04,292
Honey, they say there's a fountain
in the middle of the maze.
529
00:51:04,917 --> 00:51:08,333
Whoever gets there first wins!
530
00:51:08,417 --> 00:51:09,750
Wait!
531
00:51:50,208 --> 00:51:51,750
Yay, a fountain!
532
00:52:00,167 --> 00:52:02,292
Yay!
533
00:52:02,375 --> 00:52:04,458
Yay!
534
00:52:12,292 --> 00:52:13,417
Peace be upon you.
535
00:52:14,042 --> 00:52:15,458
Peace be upon you too.
536
00:52:27,250 --> 00:52:30,250
I guess destiny
keeps bringing us together.
537
00:52:31,958 --> 00:52:34,458
Aunt Dara, let's play by the fountain!
538
00:52:34,542 --> 00:52:38,625
This is Baim, my nephew from Jakarta.
539
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,375
Well then, let's go together.
540
00:52:43,125 --> 00:52:44,667
The more the merrier, right?
541
00:52:45,292 --> 00:52:46,583
- Let's play, Auntie!
- Okay.
542
00:52:46,667 --> 00:52:48,833
- Yay! Promise?
- Okay.
543
00:52:48,917 --> 00:52:54,083
Yay! Let's play!
544
00:52:55,958 --> 00:52:57,375
There's Aunt Amira.
545
00:52:58,042 --> 00:53:00,875
Bye!
546
00:53:08,208 --> 00:53:09,500
Hands up!
547
00:53:11,625 --> 00:53:12,958
How many times?
548
00:53:14,083 --> 00:53:15,542
Ten times.
549
00:53:16,458 --> 00:53:18,500
- How about 100 times?
- No.
550
00:53:18,583 --> 00:53:19,750
Why?
551
00:53:20,875 --> 00:53:23,000
- Aunt Dara, it's pretty, right?
- It is.
552
00:53:23,083 --> 00:53:26,500
- I want to go inside.
- Wait! Be careful!
553
00:53:39,750 --> 00:53:42,000
Honey, come here. Let's take a photo.
554
00:53:43,042 --> 00:53:45,917
- Dara, could you take a photo of us?
- Sure.
555
00:53:50,917 --> 00:53:52,417
One, two…
556
00:54:15,750 --> 00:54:19,000
Dara, thanks for today.
557
00:54:20,458 --> 00:54:22,042
How are you getting home?
558
00:54:22,125 --> 00:54:25,333
- I'll just book an online taxi.
- No, come with us.
559
00:54:26,167 --> 00:54:27,167
No, it's all right.
560
00:54:27,250 --> 00:54:28,917
Honey, can she come with us?
561
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:32,042
He said yes.
Let's go, you can come with us.
562
00:54:32,125 --> 00:54:34,000
Baim is sleepy anyway.
563
00:54:43,625 --> 00:54:45,667
Turn left up ahead.
564
00:54:47,458 --> 00:54:49,000
Shouldn't it be right?
565
00:54:49,833 --> 00:54:52,625
Yes, but there's roadwork.
566
00:54:54,333 --> 00:54:55,958
You know this area?
567
00:54:59,542 --> 00:55:02,292
A student used to live here.
568
00:55:15,958 --> 00:55:21,708
FIRST LOVE ONLY HAPPENS ONCE IN A LIFETIME
569
00:55:39,375 --> 00:55:42,917
Thanks, Mir, Ustadz. Peace be upon you.
570
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:44,167
- You too.
- You too.
571
00:55:47,708 --> 00:55:48,708
Dara!
572
00:55:53,458 --> 00:55:56,042
- Can I use your bathroom?
- Sure.
573
00:55:58,083 --> 00:56:01,708
Honey, let's go say goodbye
to Dara's parents for a moment.
574
00:56:03,167 --> 00:56:04,208
Come on.
575
00:56:25,958 --> 00:56:28,000
Dad, Mom, Auntie, Uncle.
576
00:56:28,083 --> 00:56:30,833
This is a proposal.
577
00:56:30,917 --> 00:56:36,208
Why is everyone off in their own corners?
Why don't we let everyone eat and mingle?
578
00:56:36,292 --> 00:56:40,417
Everybody, let's eat.
579
00:56:40,500 --> 00:56:42,042
We can chat again later.
580
00:56:42,125 --> 00:56:44,458
Please, enjoy.
581
00:56:44,542 --> 00:56:46,375
Please, Ustadz.
582
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:49,458
Do you want me to get you some food?
583
00:56:50,167 --> 00:56:51,542
No need, thank you.
584
00:56:52,833 --> 00:56:54,167
Wati, come here.
585
00:56:55,292 --> 00:56:56,292
Wait there.
586
00:57:00,083 --> 00:57:01,167
This is for you.
587
00:57:02,375 --> 00:57:03,958
How sweet.
588
00:57:04,042 --> 00:57:06,500
You shouldn't have.
589
00:57:08,000 --> 00:57:10,708
But just this? Nothing else?
590
00:57:12,417 --> 00:57:13,583
This is it for now.
591
00:57:13,667 --> 00:57:16,375
- Okay.
- Don't open it yet.
592
00:57:16,458 --> 00:57:18,042
You can open it later.
593
00:57:18,125 --> 00:57:20,208
Come on, that's no fun.
594
00:57:20,292 --> 00:57:22,208
Not until the wedding night.
595
00:57:23,167 --> 00:57:25,708
Okay. I just hope
I don't end up like Amira.
596
00:57:25,792 --> 00:57:29,625
Her husband hasn't even "touched" her
since the wedding.
597
00:57:29,708 --> 00:57:31,167
- What?
- Oops!
598
00:57:34,125 --> 00:57:35,792
Did I say that out loud?
599
00:57:35,875 --> 00:57:38,708
You know Furqon hasn't slept with Amira?
600
00:57:39,750 --> 00:57:44,292
You know that Ustadz Furqon
hasn't slept with Amira?
601
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:47,000
But…
602
00:57:48,167 --> 00:57:50,958
Don't tell him I let it slip.
603
00:57:51,042 --> 00:57:53,625
I already told Furqon,
just forget about Dara.
604
00:57:53,708 --> 00:57:55,292
- What?
- Oops!
605
00:57:56,042 --> 00:57:57,208
Did I say that out loud?
606
00:57:57,292 --> 00:58:00,542
So Ustadz Furqon was dating Dara?
607
00:58:00,625 --> 00:58:03,792
- How? Wait…
- Yes? I think someone's calling me.
608
00:58:03,875 --> 00:58:05,792
- No one is calling.
- Yes, someone is!
609
00:58:05,875 --> 00:58:09,083
Ustadz! Explain yourself!
610
00:58:20,958 --> 00:58:22,792
Peace be upon you.
611
00:58:22,875 --> 00:58:24,625
Peace be upon you too.
612
00:58:29,500 --> 00:58:31,625
Dara, who is this?
613
00:58:31,708 --> 00:58:35,375
Mom, this is…
614
00:58:37,292 --> 00:58:38,917
I forgot my purse. Thanks, honey.
615
00:58:39,625 --> 00:58:42,542
- Peace be upon you.
- Peace be upon you too.
616
00:58:42,625 --> 00:58:46,208
This is Amira, a friend from Al-Hikmah.
617
00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:49,458
This is Ustadz Furqon.
618
00:58:50,375 --> 00:58:51,792
Amira's husband.
619
00:58:53,625 --> 00:59:00,042
Is Ustadz Furqon the one who used to check
Dara's writing in the magazine?
620
00:59:00,125 --> 00:59:01,333
Yes, ma'am.
621
00:59:02,250 --> 00:59:05,542
Dara used to say.
622
00:59:05,625 --> 00:59:10,917
Dara's articles were always corrected
by Ustadz Furqon.
623
00:59:16,167 --> 00:59:19,000
Ma'am, we have to go.
624
00:59:23,250 --> 00:59:26,667
Furqon, just pray here.
625
00:59:26,750 --> 00:59:28,167
Lead us.
626
01:00:12,333 --> 01:00:16,167
AMIRA HAYATUNNISA
RINGING
627
01:00:24,542 --> 01:00:26,083
AMIRA HAYATUNNISA
RINGING
628
01:00:37,458 --> 01:00:38,625
Honey.
629
01:01:05,458 --> 01:01:07,000
Peace be upon you, Ustadz.
630
01:01:07,083 --> 01:01:10,708
You too. Look, Wati, you didn't
tell Amira about earlier, did you?
631
01:01:10,792 --> 01:01:14,583
I would never do that.
632
01:01:14,667 --> 01:01:18,000
But I saw you online.
Were you trying to call someone?
633
01:01:18,083 --> 01:01:23,167
No, I didn't call Amira.
I called the daughter of Mr. Ahmad.
634
01:01:23,250 --> 01:01:24,625
That's Amira.
635
01:01:25,958 --> 01:01:30,917
Look, if you tell her and they fight…
636
01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:33,250
And God forbid, they get divorced.
637
01:01:33,333 --> 01:01:36,375
That's serious.
How will we answer to God for this?
638
01:01:36,917 --> 01:01:43,792
But she's my best friend,
I feel like I have to tell her.
639
01:01:43,875 --> 01:01:47,917
It's their marriage. Let them solve it.
640
01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:51,750
We're getting married next week.
Focus on us, okay?
641
01:01:51,833 --> 01:01:54,667
Okay, pretty girl? How is it?
642
01:01:54,750 --> 01:01:56,750
Wrong intonation.
643
01:01:56,833 --> 01:01:58,333
How is it?
644
01:01:59,667 --> 01:02:03,875
- Wait, Amira is calling. What do I do?
- Wati.
645
01:02:03,958 --> 01:02:06,042
- Wati!
- I have to go. Peace be upon you.
646
01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:11,333
Hello, peace be upon you, Mir.
647
01:02:11,417 --> 01:02:13,167
Peace be upon you too.
648
01:02:13,250 --> 01:02:15,792
What's up, Wati? You called so many times.
649
01:02:16,375 --> 01:02:18,042
My battery was low.
650
01:02:19,875 --> 01:02:21,250
It's just…
651
01:02:21,333 --> 01:02:25,000
Please, Wati. Don't say anything.
652
01:02:25,083 --> 01:02:27,292
Next week is my birthday.
653
01:02:28,167 --> 01:02:31,000
I mean, next week is my wedding.
654
01:02:31,083 --> 01:02:34,208
- I already have the invitation.
- I know.
655
01:02:34,292 --> 01:02:37,500
I was just reminding you.
656
01:02:37,583 --> 01:02:40,208
See you next week.
657
01:02:40,292 --> 01:02:43,500
- Bye. Peace be upon you.
- Peace be upon you too.
658
01:02:48,542 --> 01:02:50,583
All safe, Ustadz.
659
01:03:05,917 --> 01:03:08,833
SPARKING LOVE FOR MARRIAGE LIFE
660
01:03:31,667 --> 01:03:34,375
You're so lucky, my son.
661
01:03:34,458 --> 01:03:35,625
Mom.
662
01:03:38,208 --> 01:03:44,000
As soon as she knew you liked rawon,
she learned to cook it.
663
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:47,542
She's so enthusiastic.
664
01:03:53,583 --> 01:03:56,083
Take good care of your wife, son.
665
01:03:59,417 --> 01:04:01,958
She's the most precious jewel
in the world.
666
01:04:28,167 --> 01:04:29,250
Thanks, honey.
667
01:04:38,792 --> 01:04:39,833
Let me do it.
668
01:04:50,583 --> 01:04:52,625
It smells so good.
669
01:04:53,500 --> 01:04:56,292
- What does?
- The rawon.
670
01:04:59,792 --> 01:05:01,125
And you too.
671
01:05:40,500 --> 01:05:41,667
Amira…
672
01:05:54,375 --> 01:05:55,542
I'm sorry.
673
01:05:58,167 --> 01:06:00,417
I haven't been a good husband to you.
674
01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:04,083
Honey,
675
01:06:05,542 --> 01:06:07,250
you are the best husband.
676
01:06:11,083 --> 01:06:12,125
Thank you.
677
01:06:13,042 --> 01:06:14,667
You're the best wife too.
678
01:06:20,417 --> 01:06:22,875
Let's skip our murojaah for tonight.
679
01:06:25,583 --> 01:06:26,667
Why?
680
01:06:28,458 --> 01:06:29,625
It's Friday night.
681
01:06:30,250 --> 01:06:31,833
I know.
682
01:06:33,333 --> 01:06:38,958
But a husband and wife's worship
isn't just about murojaah.
683
01:06:47,875 --> 01:06:50,542
I'll go get ready.
684
01:07:47,792 --> 01:07:49,125
- Honey.
- Yes?
685
01:07:52,667 --> 01:07:54,375
I just got my period.
686
01:07:57,208 --> 01:07:58,917
Can you grab me a pad?
687
01:07:59,500 --> 01:08:02,125
They're in the wardrobe, in the drawer.
688
01:08:02,208 --> 01:08:03,375
- In here?
- Yes.
689
01:08:07,417 --> 01:08:09,042
- This one?
- Yes.
690
01:08:09,875 --> 01:08:10,875
It's empty.
691
01:08:10,917 --> 01:08:13,625
- I thought I had some left.
- I'll go buy some.
692
01:08:14,208 --> 01:08:16,083
- You don't mind?
- Of course not.
693
01:08:16,667 --> 01:08:18,958
Same as this one, right?
I'll be right back.
694
01:08:19,042 --> 01:08:20,458
- Thank you.
- No problem.
695
01:09:14,292 --> 01:09:18,167
I miss you
like parched earth longs for rain.
696
01:09:20,958 --> 01:09:24,542
I cherish the words of the Noble Prophet,
697
01:09:24,625 --> 01:09:28,750
that fasting is a remedy
for love and longing.
698
01:09:30,083 --> 01:09:35,625
I miss you like a traveler far from home.
699
01:09:41,625 --> 01:09:43,083
For Dara.
700
01:09:52,542 --> 01:09:53,542
Peace be upon you.
701
01:09:53,625 --> 01:09:57,333
Wishing Ustadz Furqon and Amira
a happy marriage. From Dara.
702
01:09:58,875 --> 01:10:02,500
I'm scared, Wati,
that this marriage isn't what he wanted.
703
01:10:02,583 --> 01:10:05,083
Destiny keeps bringing us together.
704
01:10:05,167 --> 01:10:06,458
You know this area?
705
01:10:06,542 --> 01:10:10,708
Dara's articles were always corrected
by Ustadz Furqon.
706
01:10:10,792 --> 01:10:13,000
Do you love me at all?
707
01:10:35,500 --> 01:10:36,917
Peace be upon you.
708
01:10:41,792 --> 01:10:42,833
Amira?
709
01:10:51,958 --> 01:10:53,958
Here, as requested.
710
01:10:58,250 --> 01:10:59,292
Mir?
711
01:11:00,208 --> 01:11:01,250
Honey…
712
01:11:03,500 --> 01:11:05,458
When you proposed…
713
01:11:06,667 --> 01:11:08,000
You said
714
01:11:08,833 --> 01:11:11,958
respecting, honoring
715
01:11:12,750 --> 01:11:16,083
and loving a wife is a husband's duty.
716
01:11:22,958 --> 01:11:25,583
I unveiled myself before God.
717
01:11:26,667 --> 01:11:32,042
When you made me your wife,
you said it before God.
718
01:11:33,292 --> 01:11:35,167
Not just in front of me and my family.
719
01:11:36,583 --> 01:11:37,583
What do you mean?
720
01:11:44,042 --> 01:11:47,208
"My silent prayers soar through the sky
721
01:11:48,125 --> 01:11:51,708
beyond the reach of words."
722
01:11:53,958 --> 01:12:00,333
"I miss you like a traveler
far from home."
723
01:12:00,417 --> 01:12:01,750
Amira, stop.
724
01:12:01,833 --> 01:12:06,000
"I shall wait for you at dawn
and at dusk."
725
01:12:06,083 --> 01:12:09,500
"Through the barren midday sun
and the glowing twilight."
726
01:12:10,458 --> 01:12:15,750
"I wait in the silence of my longing
and the whisper of my prayers."
727
01:12:20,042 --> 01:12:21,625
This is so beautiful.
728
01:12:23,000 --> 01:12:25,667
Romantic, poetic.
729
01:12:26,958 --> 01:12:30,875
But too bad it's not for your wife.
730
01:12:32,542 --> 01:12:34,042
That's an old notebook.
731
01:12:35,667 --> 01:12:37,708
"For Dara."
732
01:12:42,583 --> 01:12:43,708
Amira.
733
01:12:46,083 --> 01:12:47,375
This poem,
734
01:12:48,500 --> 01:12:50,042
it's for Dara too, isn't it?
735
01:12:50,958 --> 01:12:53,333
That's all in the past. Dara is the past...
736
01:12:53,417 --> 01:12:54,958
Honey! I feel like a fool.
737
01:12:55,625 --> 01:12:57,208
Please, let me explain.
738
01:12:57,292 --> 01:13:00,292
You pretended you had no past with Dara.
739
01:13:00,375 --> 01:13:03,208
You agreed to drop her off. And you…
740
01:13:06,750 --> 01:13:08,292
Be honest with me.
741
01:13:09,167 --> 01:13:10,500
Do you love Dara?
742
01:13:10,583 --> 01:13:11,875
No, Amira.
743
01:13:12,417 --> 01:13:14,000
Then what is this?
744
01:13:14,083 --> 01:13:16,042
- I was going to throw it away.
- Honey!
745
01:13:19,583 --> 01:13:22,917
All this time I wondered,
"What did I do wrong?"
746
01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:26,417
"Am I not attractive?"
747
01:13:27,583 --> 01:13:30,292
I tried so hard to be a good wife for you.
748
01:13:30,375 --> 01:13:35,458
A man who didn't even want me.
749
01:13:35,542 --> 01:13:37,042
No, Amira.
750
01:13:37,958 --> 01:13:39,792
- I did love her once...
- Honey!
751
01:13:40,792 --> 01:13:42,375
Every night
752
01:13:43,667 --> 01:13:47,667
you cry over a marriage you never wanted,
753
01:13:48,500 --> 01:13:50,625
- I swear to God, no!
- Then what is it?
754
01:13:50,708 --> 01:13:52,333
I swear to God, no!
755
01:13:57,667 --> 01:13:59,542
I wanted to marry you.
756
01:14:01,250 --> 01:14:02,417
I swear to God.
757
01:14:03,875 --> 01:14:09,917
But I still have so much baggage
from the past to let go of.
758
01:14:12,458 --> 01:14:13,792
I'm sorry.
759
01:14:14,917 --> 01:14:17,417
I should have told you about Dara.
760
01:14:22,042 --> 01:14:23,208
I was wrong.
761
01:14:26,292 --> 01:14:29,167
Yes, I cry every night.
762
01:14:31,875 --> 01:14:34,167
But it's because I ask God…
763
01:14:40,792 --> 01:14:43,500
"Do I deserve to be loved
by someone like you?"
764
01:14:46,917 --> 01:14:50,083
Every night I pray…
765
01:14:55,042 --> 01:14:58,208
I pray that I can love you
with all my heart.
766
01:15:12,208 --> 01:15:15,167
But you don't need to learn…
767
01:15:16,833 --> 01:15:18,833
To love Dara with all your heart.
768
01:15:50,583 --> 01:15:51,917
Peace be upon you.
769
01:15:53,000 --> 01:15:54,333
Peace be upon you too.
770
01:15:55,875 --> 01:15:57,583
Your tea is ready.
771
01:15:58,667 --> 01:16:01,208
Your clothes are on the bed.
772
01:16:32,042 --> 01:16:34,917
- Peace be upon you.
- Peace be upon you too.
773
01:16:35,000 --> 01:16:36,917
Praise be God. Amen.
774
01:16:37,750 --> 01:16:38,792
Wati!
775
01:16:38,875 --> 01:16:41,083
May your marriage be blessed.
776
01:16:41,167 --> 01:16:43,750
Amen. May ours be just like yours.
777
01:16:43,833 --> 01:16:45,792
One, two…
778
01:16:46,833 --> 01:16:48,667
- Please eat.
- Make sure you eat, okay?
779
01:16:48,750 --> 01:16:49,958
Congratulations.
780
01:16:51,667 --> 01:16:52,750
Ma'am.
781
01:16:53,375 --> 01:16:54,375
Sir.
782
01:17:45,833 --> 01:17:47,292
I want a divorce.
783
01:18:55,875 --> 01:18:58,250
Come on in.
784
01:19:22,708 --> 01:19:24,708
You studied religion, Furqon.
785
01:19:25,292 --> 01:19:29,625
You know there's a limit
to how long you can neglect your wife.
786
01:19:29,708 --> 01:19:31,167
This is no small matter.
787
01:19:32,417 --> 01:19:35,875
Providing for a wife
isn't just about money. Do you understand?
788
01:19:37,667 --> 01:19:38,708
Yes, sir.
789
01:19:41,083 --> 01:19:42,292
I do understand.
790
01:19:43,833 --> 01:19:45,042
I know I was wrong.
791
01:19:47,458 --> 01:19:48,667
But if I may,
792
01:19:51,167 --> 01:19:53,250
I want to talk to Amira.
793
01:19:57,417 --> 01:20:02,458
It seems Amira needs time
to process this, Furqon.
794
01:20:17,583 --> 01:20:19,208
- Mom.
- Yes?
795
01:20:20,333 --> 01:20:23,083
Furqon never loved me after all.
796
01:20:25,542 --> 01:20:27,000
It's okay, dear.
797
01:20:28,083 --> 01:20:33,833
Isn't it human nature
to want to love and be loved?
798
01:20:35,500 --> 01:20:38,833
The love of Allah is the only love we need
799
01:20:39,917 --> 01:20:44,542
and the only love that never fails us.
800
01:20:46,333 --> 01:20:49,583
But we aren't grateful enough.
801
01:20:50,167 --> 01:20:52,708
We still chase the love of his creations
802
01:20:53,500 --> 01:20:57,250
and put the Almighty second.
803
01:21:00,583 --> 01:21:03,750
Your husband is only human.
804
01:21:04,458 --> 01:21:06,167
He makes mistakes.
805
01:21:07,125 --> 01:21:09,417
He is far from perfect.
806
01:21:15,417 --> 01:21:20,250
If you want to love him
for the sake of God,
807
01:21:21,625 --> 01:21:25,125
you must learn to forgive
808
01:21:26,083 --> 01:21:28,875
and accept his imperfections.
809
01:22:38,833 --> 01:22:40,750
"I love you"
810
01:22:41,792 --> 01:22:45,042
because I will love you
811
01:22:45,125 --> 01:22:48,292
"in the most reckless way possible."
812
01:23:38,792 --> 01:23:40,917
I always see love
in the spark of your eyes.
813
01:23:52,875 --> 01:23:57,917
Sweetheart, you know
God hates divorce the most.
814
01:24:01,333 --> 01:24:04,292
SURABAYA RELIGIOUS COURT
815
01:24:08,750 --> 01:24:11,458
I always see love
in the spark of your eyes.
816
01:24:11,542 --> 01:24:16,250
It always makes me wonder,
"Do I deserve to be loved?"
817
01:24:27,875 --> 01:24:32,875
Wishing Ustadz Furqon and Amira
a happy marriage. From Dara.
818
01:25:01,625 --> 01:25:02,625
Dara,
819
01:25:04,958 --> 01:25:06,542
I want to know everything.
820
01:25:07,875 --> 01:25:10,083
I want to know my husband's past.
821
01:25:12,958 --> 01:25:18,167
So please, answer honestly,
and don't hide anything.
822
01:25:33,708 --> 01:25:36,333
When I studied at the pesantren,
823
01:25:38,083 --> 01:25:40,542
he used to check my writing.
824
01:25:46,042 --> 01:25:48,792
LIBRARY OF AL-HIKMAH BOARDING SCHOOL
BATU
825
01:25:52,792 --> 01:25:54,875
We both loved poetry.
826
01:26:02,583 --> 01:26:04,875
We exchanged poems too.
827
01:26:06,833 --> 01:26:09,958
That's how our hearts became intertwined.
828
01:26:13,167 --> 01:26:17,667
But at the time,
we could only love through words.
829
01:26:19,458 --> 01:26:22,917
I want to come to your house and propose.
830
01:26:23,833 --> 01:26:28,333
If you don't mind,
can you wait until I graduate?
831
01:26:33,125 --> 01:26:36,000
But then another proposal came
from Ustadz Aiman
832
01:26:37,000 --> 01:26:40,000
during my last days in Al-Hikmah.
833
01:26:50,125 --> 01:26:54,750
I'm sorry, but another man
has already promised to ask for my hand.
834
01:26:59,375 --> 01:27:03,750
Ustadz Furqon never knew
that I rejected the proposal.
835
01:27:04,958 --> 01:27:08,750
But since the rumor spread,
836
01:27:09,792 --> 01:27:11,375
he avoided me.
837
01:27:12,875 --> 01:27:18,083
He stopped contacting me,
and we drifted apart.
838
01:27:19,792 --> 01:27:24,333
Then I heard you two were getting married.
839
01:27:26,542 --> 01:27:29,042
I sent a letter through Ustadz Afif…
840
01:27:31,708 --> 01:27:34,417
To congratulate you.
841
01:27:40,208 --> 01:27:41,958
And two days ago…
842
01:27:44,542 --> 01:27:46,500
Ustadz Furqon asked to meet again.
843
01:27:51,917 --> 01:27:55,542
I haven't handled this well.
844
01:27:56,417 --> 01:27:57,958
I have to apologize
845
01:27:58,958 --> 01:28:03,583
for making you reject
a better man than me.
846
01:28:05,125 --> 01:28:09,958
I apologize for giving you false hope.
847
01:28:13,667 --> 01:28:19,042
Amira is the "path to heaven"
that I have chosen.
848
01:28:27,125 --> 01:28:28,792
I am truly sorry
849
01:28:29,792 --> 01:28:33,708
for my past with Ustadz Furqon.
850
01:28:35,000 --> 01:28:39,083
But that's all I am to him now,
just his past.
851
01:28:40,958 --> 01:28:43,125
While you…
852
01:28:44,583 --> 01:28:49,083
You are the "path to heaven"
that he chose.
853
01:28:57,292 --> 01:28:59,583
But it still hurts, Dara.
854
01:29:04,958 --> 01:29:10,583
Knowing he never touched me…
855
01:29:13,875 --> 01:29:16,458
Because he couldn't let go
of his memories of you.
856
01:29:18,792 --> 01:29:19,792
Mir…
857
01:29:21,792 --> 01:29:25,333
God can create the heavens
without pillars.
858
01:29:27,292 --> 01:29:30,125
Surely he can heal a broken heart.
859
01:29:31,875 --> 01:29:34,708
Every wound is a part of destiny.
860
01:29:36,958 --> 01:29:40,333
There is happiness inside our hearts.
861
01:29:46,625 --> 01:29:49,833
That phone call is proof
that you are the winner, Mir.
862
01:29:51,167 --> 01:29:52,333
Not me.
863
01:29:55,083 --> 01:29:57,583
Heaven brought the two of you together.
864
01:30:11,750 --> 01:30:15,125
I searched for the evening star
in the middle of the ocean.
865
01:30:15,208 --> 01:30:19,750
I found you,
shining brighter than any star.
866
01:30:20,917 --> 01:30:23,042
I glimpsed the happiness of kings.
867
01:30:24,125 --> 01:30:29,125
Only to realize that nothing compares
to the happiness I find with you.
868
01:30:30,625 --> 01:30:35,375
I thought loneliness
was being without friends.
869
01:30:36,375 --> 01:30:42,792
It turns out your absence brings silence,
even among thousands.
870
01:30:45,458 --> 01:30:49,208
You are the answer to my prayers
when sincerity became my strength.
871
01:30:50,458 --> 01:30:53,000
You're the path to heaven God chose for me
872
01:30:53,917 --> 01:30:56,083
when I prayed for happiness.
873
01:30:57,167 --> 01:31:00,667
I pray for you
in the last third of the night.
874
01:31:01,708 --> 01:31:05,167
With a hopeful whisper
875
01:31:06,000 --> 01:31:09,750
that I am the one you come home to.
876
01:31:09,833 --> 01:31:12,625
You are the love God chose for me.
877
01:31:13,667 --> 01:31:18,292
A divine answer
to a servant's humble prayer.
878
01:31:29,625 --> 01:31:30,792
Forgive me.
879
01:31:32,083 --> 01:31:33,750
I love you.
880
01:31:45,292 --> 01:31:48,750
Can I hear it one more time?
881
01:31:52,333 --> 01:31:53,833
I love you.
882
01:31:55,333 --> 01:31:59,750
And I will love you
in the most reckless way possible.
883
01:32:14,250 --> 01:32:19,708
AL-FURQON MOSQUE
884
01:32:32,583 --> 01:32:35,625
My marriage is once again proof
of God's greatness.
885
01:32:36,917 --> 01:32:39,708
That no one's destiny is left unguided.
886
01:32:41,708 --> 01:32:45,583
Nothing lies outside
the Great Creator's plan.
887
01:32:46,917 --> 01:32:48,750
As the Prophet said,
888
01:32:49,458 --> 01:32:54,583
"God decreed the destinies of his servants
50,000 years before creation."
889
01:33:33,792 --> 01:33:35,309
A READING OF "I CHOOSE THE PATH TO HEAVEN"
890
01:33:35,333 --> 01:33:37,014
AND A MEETING WITH THE AUTHOR,
DARA HAMIDAH
891
01:34:09,500 --> 01:34:13,875
I CHOOSE THE PATH TO HEAVEN
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