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When I told him I thought it would be
exciting for him to talk to me in bed,
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he looked at me and he said, about what?
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About what?
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Maybe baseball or basketball.
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Our first year together, we went away
for the weekend, and we barely left the
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room. It was great.
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Fast forward to last month.
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We went back to the same spot, and we
barely see the room.
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What's wrong with this picture?
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Whenever I get behind the wheel of the
car, he's always telling me to give the
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engine time to warm up.
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So how come he thinks the best way to
get my motor revved up is to jump start
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it? He told me he was a romantic kind of
guy, and he was.
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He flowers for no reason, cards the
work.
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Last week was our fifth anniversary.
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Forgot.
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Breadwinner, bug killer, babysitter.
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Trash collector, carpooler, cook and
comic. I'm supposed to be all that and
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the world's greatest lover. When guys
ask, what do women want? I can give them
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an answer.
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Women want everything.
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Loving each other is both a joy and a
challenge.
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Emotions naturally ebb and flow as your
relationship moves through its many
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cycles over the years.
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Many of the problems that arise between
men and women are universal.
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You're not alone in facing them or in
seeking rewarding solutions to make your
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love stronger.
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The secrets to a more fulfilling
relationship are within your grasp.
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Just open your heart as we explore some
of the patterns that may have dimmed
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your fascination with each other.
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and discover anew that you can continue
to delight one another for the rest of
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your lives.
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Well, to be blunt, we have a sex
problem. We sure do.
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Actually, it's a not enough sex problem.
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It's not like we're not attracted to
each other anymore or anything like
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that, right?
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Oh, no, no, I'm definitely attracted.
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It's like we've fallen into this
pattern.
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At the beginning, it seemed like there
was always a very good reason not to
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have more sex.
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I was working long hours, and your boss
had you traveling a lot.
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Yeah.
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And then, for example, four months ago
when we finally got time, Tracy has her
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tonsils out, and that took all our time.
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It seems like something was always going
on.
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Things have quieted down, but now...
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We feel almost funny approaching each
other.
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Not having sex has become comfortable
for us, so trying to turn each other on,
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well, I know it sounds strange, but I'm
actually shy about it.
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Yeah, it's, uh... We used to be so
playful and light about everything, you
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know? It's fun. It's great.
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Not anymore.
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But we don't want to just toss our sex
life out the window. No.
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We just need to know how to get back
into the groove and start having fun
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with it again.
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Yeah.
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We can't be the only one with this
problem, can we?
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Even loving couples can get caught in a
pattern of having less sex than either
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of them really want.
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To solve the problem, someone simply has
to be daring and decisive enough to
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break the chain.
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Instead of letting memories of how
exciting it used to be frustrate you,
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use those thoughts to inspire you to be
bold and inventive today.
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Great. Yeah, I'm just headed on over
with kids.
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What?
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Yeah, yeah, I've got it with me.
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Kids, can you please go wait out in the
car for Mommy?
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Listen,
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I was just wondering if you can possibly
keep the kids for me all night.
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Well, yeah, it's just that I'm planning
a surprise for Ron.
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You can?
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Great. Thanks, Mom. I love you. See you
in a little bit. Bye.
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Honey?
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Darling, if children aren't mothers,
follow these instructions exactly.
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Look in the refrigerator.
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Sometimes it's hard to admit there's a
sexual problem.
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Most couples ignore early signs of
dwindling sexual frequency.
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Look in the fridge.
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We make excuses.
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Tell ourselves less sex is okay when it
isn't.
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Put me on and follow me.
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Oh, honey.
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It's about time.
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Diane. Take a risk.
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Make room in your life for intimacy.
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Start by creating a tantalizing
environment that invites lovemaking.
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Design and set the scene for a romantic,
seductive evening in your own home. Or
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as part of a brief, erotic getaway.
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Honey?
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Where are you?
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Are you hiding?
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Breaking the pattern for the first time
is just the beginning.
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To keep the spirit of change alive, make
your private time a consistent and hotly
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awaited part of your lives.
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Some couples fear that scheduling time
for intimacy will keep them from feeling
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spontaneously sexy.
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That won't happen if you look at planned
time for intimacy the way you once
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viewed dating each other.
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Even the simple ritual of comparing
calendars each week can become an
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exciting part of your mental foreplay if
you let it.
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And you can heighten the erotic tension
between dates by teasing and romancing
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each other with provocative handwritten
reminders and seductive phone messages
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all through the week.
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Appreciate the game of it. Build the
heat.
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If it's been quite a while since you've
been sexual, start the evening slowly.
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Slipping into water together, a swimming
pool, jacuzzi or bathtub.
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is one way of creating a smooth yet
sensuous transition.
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Focusing on the luxurious feel of water
swirling around you and the natural
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pleasure of feeling bare skin against
skin helps you to effortlessly shed
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anxiety and become freer and more open
to intimacy with one another.
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I love this surprise.
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Bye.
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certain foods are said to be erotic
stimulants others become aphrodisiacs
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when you feed them to your partner in a
deliciously sexy way
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Share like finger foods to nourish your
relationship and recapture your sensual
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delight in one another.
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Become reacquainted with the texture,
the scent, the taste of each other's
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bodies. Enjoy a slow, tantalizing pace.
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Savor each other's touches.
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Explore like first-time lovers.
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Let the joy of your sensory journey
remind you of all the reasons you
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desired each other in the beginning and
want each other now.
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Release the desire simmering beneath the
surface of your everyday routines.
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Dare to break out of old patterns and
give new life to your love affair.
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He comes home from work so wired I don't
even want to talk to him. It's like if I
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say one word he snaps at me.
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You know, I can't believe that she
thinks she's any different.
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What happened last week when you came
home?
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She completely goes off on me for the
way I loaded the dishwasher.
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What did you say to me right afterwards?
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I told you I was upset because I'd lost
that big account.
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Okay, so I dumped on you. I mean, I told
you I was sorry, okay?
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Okay, but what I'm trying to say is
don't just blame me.
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All right? We're both at fault here. We
both take things out on each other.
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Yeah.
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You know, this has really taken a toll
on me, and I really feel distant from
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you now.
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Yeah, not much like making love either.
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Shouldn't we be making each other feel
better, not worse?
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It's natural for workday stress to
occasionally affect a couple's home
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life. But too much stress can become
toxic and chip away at the pleasure you
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take in being together.
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Honey, I'm so sorry. I know I promised
to be home early, but...
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It's been a hell of a day and I'm still
stuck in traffic.
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I'll be home as soon as I can, okay?
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Bye.
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It's George at the office. Wouldn't you
know it, we've got trouble with your
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favorite client. Sure enough.
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Bringing workday stress home blocks
intimacy and makes it hard for partners
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to let down their guard with each other,
emotionally and sexually.
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But together...
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You can keep stress at bay by developing
your own unique rituals for cleansing
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away each day's tension.
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Hello? Hey, honey. It's me. Hi. I got
your methods. You sound pretty wiped
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out. Oh, no kidding.
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You wouldn't believe the day I've had
today.
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It's just been terrible.
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No. Stuck in this stupid traffic jam.
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Look, relax. You're not going to get
home any quicker than the traffic ahead
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of you.
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But I made dinner reservations for
tonight, though, and I wanted to have a
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nice night out.
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Well, we'll have a nice evening in.
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Just relax. Why don't you take a big,
deep breath?
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Oh, that was really good.
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Try that again. Take a big... Do you
honestly think that's going to help?
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Well, yes, it'll definitely help. Deep
breathing always helps. Take a big, big,
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deep breath for me. Come on.
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Come on.
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Good. That's it. Let it out nice and
slow. That's the way to do it.
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You know, I've been thinking about you
all day long.
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Really? Mm-hmm. What were you thinking
about?
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Like what?
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Suzanne? Suzanne?
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Hello? Honey, are you there?
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Hello?
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When one partner is especially strained,
the other might want to take the
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initiative in setting the scene for a
loving and relaxing interlude.
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Create an environment that warms and
comforts the senses.
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Candlelight, incense, music, a slow
pace, and
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your own soft, caring voice all enhance
the serene mood.
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Hey there.
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Charlie. Boy, am I glad you're here.
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Oh, God, you would not believe the awful
day I had. I believe it, but you're home
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now. Everything at work went wrong.
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And then my mother called.
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All she did was talk and talk.
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And talk.
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Relax.
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I know. Relax.
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Everything looks nice.
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Thank you for noticing.
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We're not going to talk about your
mother.
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We're not going to talk about work.
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What are we going to talk about?
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Nothing. But each other.
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It isn't within this room, it doesn't
exist.
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It's often a good idea to put
conversation about the day's stresses on
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hold.
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Sometimes talking about the events helps
you to release them. But more often, it
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stirs up the very frustrations you want
to let go of.
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Focus instead on your feelings for each
other.
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Try very sensually and lovingly peeling
off your partner's clothing, one item
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at a time.
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As each layer of workday attire is
stripped away, a layer of workday stress
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is likely to disappear along with it.
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The blending of heat and moisture is a
sure recipe for soaking stress away.
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Just sharing a steam bath, a whirlpool,
or an ordinary bubble bath can be a
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delicious tonic after a workday filled
with tension.
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As a special treat for your partner, try
preparing a warm body wrap made from
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herb-infused water.
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The care you give in wrapping your
mate's body is another value gesture of
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love. Blissful and healing in its own
right.
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And love is perhaps the ultimate
antidote to stress.
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Does it smell good?
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It smells like flowers.
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It's warm, isn't it?
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It's wonderful to give and receive
massage in areas of special tension.
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The neck, the back, and especially the
feet, which are so often
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neglected, yet are in such need of
attention.
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The soles of our feet are so rich with
nerve endings that at least one healing
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practice, reflexology, focuses on the
feet alone.
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By massaging just the feet, it's felt
one can treat the entire system.
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Receiving massage means lying back,
letting go, losing yourself in the
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exquisite sensations.
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Tune out unwanted thoughts and focus
only on the delight of your physical
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experience.
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As you warm your mate's muscles with
your hands, and gently knead away her
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tiny knots of tension.
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You'll feel your own breathing slow and
find yourself relaxing too.
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Aromatic oils are a perfect
accompaniment to massage.
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Scent has the remarkable power to
directly engage your emotions and soothe
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you instantly.
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Select oils laced with fragrances that
make you sigh contentedly or smile for
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no apparent reason.
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Vanilla, jasmine, and pine often have
just that effect.
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Although giving a massage is pleasing,
the muscles you use can tense up.
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Afterward, it's a good idea to easily...
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Carefully stretch them. Not only is it
good therapy, but stretching creates
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intense, satisfying bursts of sensation.
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Deep breathing is one of the simplest
and most effective means of draining
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away stress.
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As you both inhale very deeply, Look
directly into your lover's eyes.
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Exhale completely.
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Continue inhaling and exhaling as you
begin to match the rhythms of your
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breathing.
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Imagine yourself locked in a sensual,
mesmerizing dance.
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See within each other's hearts.
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Don't be too surprised if your relaxing
evening rituals awaken your sexual
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desire for one another Intimacy is the
most natural aphrodisiac there is
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Relish your passion
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Your relationship is far too precious to
sacrifice to the effects of stress.
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Keep your lives and your health in
balance, and together make your evenings
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a time to treasure.
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You know how you always go on and on
about what I should or shouldn't do when
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I come on to you?
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Yeah.
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Well, what about when you come on to me?
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Well, what about it? It never happens.
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I mean, I'm always the one that has to
approach you, and all you have to do is
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say yes or no.
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Well, I never thought about it.
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I mean, did it ever occur to you that I
need you to show me that you want me
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some of the time?
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I mean, why do I always have to be the
aggressive one? What is that, just
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because I'm the man?
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No. No, that's not the way it should be,
and you're right. I didn't know you felt
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that way.
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I mean, you talk about intimacy. Well, I
mean, I think there's times that I'm
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right there with you, aren't there?
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Yes, yes, you are.
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So then how come you don't suggest we
make love then?
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I don't know.
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I think it's because I'm really used to
you being the instigator.
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I don't know. I just feel like some kind
of unwritten rule. Yeah, but it's not my
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rule. I mean, if it's a rule, then it
has to change.
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We all know there are differences in the
way men and women act in relationships.
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Some of those differences are genetic.
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After all, men and women are
biologically different creatures.
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But other differences come from the way
we've been taught we're supposed to
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behave. For instance, men are brought up
to be the sexual aggressors.
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And sometimes that means they feel
unwelcome pressure to perform in bed.
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Listen, sweetie, look, it's been a
really long week, okay? I'm really
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burned out. I need to read these
reports.
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I just want to relax for a while, okay?
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Oops.
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But... But what?
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But I've missed you.
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You've been working so hard.
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Let's make a deal.
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No, forget about it. No deals. I know
all about your deal.
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I'm serious.
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We'll just go into the shower and wash
each other's hair.
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Nothing more strenuous, I promise.
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Nothing else? Just shower?
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I won't try, I think. You promise?
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I promise.
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Men often find it tough to separate pure
sensuality, touching, holding, kissing,
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from foreplay that leads to an
inevitable climax.
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But with just a little willingness to
experiment, both men and women can
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discover the special luxury of bringing
pleasure to each other without a sexual
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agenda driving them on.
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Enjoy a playful, sensual interlude with
the one you love.
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Caress and stroke each other.
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Groom each other in ways you usually
groom only yourself.
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Bring out the curious, free child within
you and share the wonder of being
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together.
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No, no, no, no. What are you doing?
You're not putting that in my hair.
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That's for women. Women have entertained
themselves by changing their images
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since they started playing dress-up as
little girls.
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For men today, there's nothing unmanly
about having just as much fun trying on
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new looks.
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What did Elvis do here? Elvis?
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Elvis' history.
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Oh, that's worse.
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Homer Pyle.
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Okay, I'll fix it.
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Okay,
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here we go. Here we go.
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We'll just do the, you know, little... I
like two thumbs up.
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Thank you for taking a shower with me.
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You're welcome. I'm sorry I resisted so
hard.
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We're all right. I do feel better.
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The pleasure you take in each other's
playfulness and sensuality is sure to
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bring out the love and warmth you feel
for your partner. You like that?
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Ow! What are you doing?
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That's so cold.
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Here I come.
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Sometimes, naturally and quite
unexpectedly, that warmth generates a
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hot sexual current.
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Hey, what are you doing?
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So what happened to our deal?
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Oh, deals are made to be broken.
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Well, maybe we could break the deal if
you let me share a little surprise I
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have. Ooh, I like surprises. What do you
got in mind?
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Why don't you lay back there and I'll go
get it and show you.
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If men feel undue pressure to initiate
or perform sexually,
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Women can feel equal pressure to keep
their sexually aggressive sides in
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check, especially with men who are used
to being in control.
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But for both men and women, getting
stuck in fixed sexual roles only limits
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the pleasures you can bring to your
relationship.
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Angelia?
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Wow, that's some surprise.
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What are you doing?
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Get up.
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It's liberating, and most of all,
terrific fun for a woman to unleash her
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sexually dominating, voracious facets,
even for a little while. Whoa, whoa,
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whoa. What are you doing? I need my
hand.
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Come on. No, no, no, no. This is the
part of the game.
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I'm going to play this game.
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Got it?
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Yeah.
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Sit on those legs.
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Ma'am.
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Does that hurt?
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Yeah, but it feels good.
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Oh,
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don't stop.
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Angel, I don't know what's going on with
you, but I like it.
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Express the full dimension of your
personality through your lovemaking.
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The variety of roles you and your
partner can play is defined only by your
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imagination.
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Costumes and toys add drama.
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But the real rush comes from exploring
your opposites, your exciting sexual
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contradictions. See how it feels.
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See how your partner responds.
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But always be sensitive.
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Stop if your mate is truly
uncomfortable.
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Erotic games should be fun for both of
you.
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we never think entirely alike but by
being open about our differences and
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striving to understand them we stretch
our own boundaries that would be great
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keep in mind
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that it just may be our differences that
keep us endlessly fascinated with one
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another i love you too
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Now, this might sound weird, but in the
ten years together, I can't remember us
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ever really talking about sex.
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We've always just done it.
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00:32:44,660 --> 00:32:50,080
We've done it okay, but now I think
about other things I want to do.
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00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:52,920
I have fantasies just like everybody
else.
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So do I.
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But you don't tell me about them.
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Well, it's not that easy.
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I mean, where do you start?
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I worry about offending her.
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Hurting your feelings.
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00:33:05,590 --> 00:33:09,670
Don't you think there are things I'd
like different when we make love?
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You always seem to be enjoying yourself.
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I was. I do, but... But it could be
better.
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00:33:22,570 --> 00:33:25,390
Now I'm worried about hurting your
feelings. No, no, no, I'm okay.
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00:33:25,610 --> 00:33:27,630
I mean, we have to start somewhere,
right?
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00:33:28,830 --> 00:33:30,510
I really do want to please you.
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And if there's anything that I'm...
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not doing or doing wrong, you have to
tell me.
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00:33:37,710 --> 00:33:40,630
I thought I could read his mind, but
obviously I can't.
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00:33:41,550 --> 00:33:42,550
You're right.
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00:33:42,730 --> 00:33:44,730
I mean, we should talk about these
things.
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00:33:48,170 --> 00:33:49,170
So let's do it.
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Just tell me one thing that you want me
to do differently in bed.
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Me?
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Just blurt it out right here? Yes.
401
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:04,540
No, no. You want to start right now.
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00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:05,960
You go first.
403
00:34:06,940 --> 00:34:08,719
Okay, if you're sure you're ready.
404
00:34:10,380 --> 00:34:11,380
Yeah.
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I have this fantasy.
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Passionate, fulfilling sex comes from
being candid about your sexual desires
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and fantasies.
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00:34:25,540 --> 00:34:28,719
Making a lighthearted game out of sexual
talk.
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00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:33,679
Outside the bedroom can be a safe and
stirring way to begin sharing.
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Even if you don't always have the same
fantasies, respond with love to each
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other's revelations.
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I like this one. What do you think?
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I like the colors.
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I like the textures.
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00:34:49,219 --> 00:34:51,159
But what's it supposed to be?
416
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:53,040
What do you think it is?
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00:34:53,500 --> 00:34:56,280
Well, I don't know. You're the artist in
the family. Why don't you tell me?
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00:34:57,600 --> 00:34:59,970
Well... This one is really obvious.
419
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You see, right there are two beautiful
women laying on a bed.
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And they seem to be touching each other
very intimately.
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And a handsome, dark-haired man in a
suit, right there, sitting on the edge
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of the bed watching them.
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00:35:17,890 --> 00:35:21,350
And he's just about to reach out. I
think you got it all wrong here.
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00:35:22,670 --> 00:35:24,810
Really? Now you're the expert, huh?
425
00:35:25,070 --> 00:35:27,930
Well, I think it's very clear. Look. You
see there?
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00:35:28,510 --> 00:35:30,550
There is a lovely woman in the painting.
Yeah.
427
00:35:30,770 --> 00:35:34,630
But she's standing at the foot of the
bed, and she's wearing a white chemise.
428
00:35:35,530 --> 00:35:39,690
Now, the guy is sitting at the edge of
the bed, but he's naked.
429
00:35:40,210 --> 00:35:44,910
And there's a mirror here, and reflected
in it is the face of another man.
430
00:35:45,970 --> 00:35:47,030
But he's only watching.
431
00:35:48,110 --> 00:35:50,190
And? And the woman doesn't know it.
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00:35:50,970 --> 00:35:54,330
And? And he urges her to her knees.
433
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She begins to go around him with her
luscious red mouth.
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And the other man?
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The one in the mirror?
436
00:36:01,850 --> 00:36:02,850
Mm-hmm.
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All the while continues to watch?
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00:36:05,510 --> 00:36:06,510
Oh, of course.
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She's so lovely and accommodating, he
can't keep his eyes off her.
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00:36:11,250 --> 00:36:13,070
And the dark-haired man doesn't mind?
441
00:36:13,370 --> 00:36:16,550
Oh, not at all. As a matter of fact,
he's extremely excited.
442
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I can't imagine that he would be.
443
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What if she looks up and sees the man in
the mirror?
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00:36:24,610 --> 00:36:25,610
Doesn't matter.
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00:36:25,710 --> 00:36:26,970
Nothing can stop her now.
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00:36:55,120 --> 00:37:01,660
Erotic talk during lovemaking excites
many people. But here, too, partners
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often remain silent out of shyness or
uncertainty.
448
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:12,120
You can have fun discovering the kind of
language that makes you both smolder by
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reading erotic literature aloud.
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Try an assortment of material, from the
Victorian to the modern, from the poetic
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to the utterly raw.
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Now, listen to this.
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It might be good. We might learn
something.
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Oh, yeah? Okay.
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I remarked upon what a voluptuous woman
she had become and placed her hand upon
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the pulsing instrument and it protruded
from my trousers.
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Gracious me, she exclaimed in an
enraptured delight.
458
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What a gloriously stiff thing it is.
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Grasping my prick, she drew me down onto
the sofa and lifted her petticoat back
460
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so that I might behold her moist pink
love-gross.
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Love-gross. Oh, my.
462
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And having done so, I embarked on a
lascivious attack that made the dear
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little creature tremble with
uncontrollable lust as my mighty weapon
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thrust its way into her.
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Doesn't do anything for you. God, that's
so weird.
466
00:38:20,630 --> 00:38:22,090
You mean gracious me?
467
00:38:22,490 --> 00:38:24,550
What a glorious dip thing you have.
468
00:38:25,170 --> 00:38:27,490
Doesn't make you want to plunge into my
love grotto?
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00:38:27,810 --> 00:38:28,810
Love grotto.
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00:38:30,090 --> 00:38:31,210
Let's get rid of this.
471
00:38:32,070 --> 00:38:36,590
And we're going to try another one.
472
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Let's see here.
473
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Comfy? Mm-hmm.
474
00:38:42,490 --> 00:38:43,650
Okay, here we go. Okay.
475
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He sat directly across from Marta on the
train.
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A tiny bead of sweat glistened in the
cleft between her pale, heaving breath.
477
00:38:53,100 --> 00:38:57,280
She could feel him drinking her in, just
a sip at a time, whenever she glanced
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out the window.
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Finally, their eyes met.
480
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Her nipples were hard buds straining
against the thin, damp cotton of her
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blouse.
482
00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:09,480
When she got up to find the restroom, he
was inside the compartment before the
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door was half closed.
484
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:13,680
Their lips met in an endless kiss.
485
00:39:15,820 --> 00:39:19,640
His hand came up to grasp her head, and
as she pushed her mouth harder into his,
486
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:22,240
she pressed herself into his groin.
487
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:28,420
She could feel the rock-hard bulge in
his jeans and her palm molded to it.
488
00:39:30,580 --> 00:39:34,840
He took her scurry and stroked her with
his fingers.
489
00:39:35,900 --> 00:39:39,040
She was soaking, delirious with desire
for him.
490
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:42,560
No panties.
491
00:39:43,260 --> 00:39:45,320
It was such delicious wetness.
492
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:48,020
You must want it as much as I do, she
murmured.
493
00:39:49,060 --> 00:39:53,820
He licked her juices from his finger and
in one fierce move thrust into her,
494
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:57,340
slamming her backward again at the metal
wall of the compartment.
495
00:39:58,580 --> 00:40:00,920
Martha groaned as she gasped.
496
00:40:01,260 --> 00:40:02,960
Her breath leaped out of her.
497
00:40:03,700 --> 00:40:05,520
That's it, that's it, she moaned.
498
00:40:06,500 --> 00:40:10,260
You like that, don't you, he asked,
pummeling her harder, prolonging each
499
00:40:10,260 --> 00:40:11,260
stroke.
500
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:14,000
Yes.
501
00:40:15,820 --> 00:40:16,820
I love it.
502
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:19,760
That's it.
503
00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:21,920
David. Yeah.
504
00:40:23,220 --> 00:40:26,480
You impressed me with your mighty
instrument.
505
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:29,040
Oh. Now.
506
00:40:31,140 --> 00:40:32,360
That's not what I want to hear.
507
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:34,020
Say it like you mean it.
508
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:35,640
I do mean it.
509
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:38,920
I love the way you feel inside me.
510
00:40:39,240 --> 00:40:40,460
I want you.
511
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,060
I want every last thing to you.
512
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:08,140
Even men and women who have been
together for years can be shy about
513
00:41:08,140 --> 00:41:10,220
revealing how they want to be pleased.
514
00:41:10,500 --> 00:41:16,620
And making a playful, sexy game out of
sharing your needs may inspire the
515
00:41:16,620 --> 00:41:19,140
erotic interlude of your dreams.
516
00:41:21,300 --> 00:41:22,960
Morning. Morning.
517
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:30,640
I thought we'd play a little game this
morning.
518
00:41:30,980 --> 00:41:32,440
What? Yeah.
519
00:41:33,870 --> 00:41:37,210
I'm going to start touching you, but
you've got to tell me what to do or I'm
520
00:41:37,210 --> 00:41:38,210
going to stop.
521
00:41:38,290 --> 00:41:39,290
Okay?
522
00:41:39,630 --> 00:41:40,609
You're kidding.
523
00:41:40,610 --> 00:41:41,610
Those are the rules.
524
00:41:43,530 --> 00:41:44,408
All right?
525
00:41:44,410 --> 00:41:45,410
Okay.
526
00:41:45,770 --> 00:41:46,770
Tell me what to do.
527
00:41:47,690 --> 00:41:48,690
Kiss me.
528
00:41:50,810 --> 00:41:52,190
That sounds wonderful.
529
00:41:54,830 --> 00:41:55,830
What's wrong?
530
00:41:56,170 --> 00:41:58,070
Nothing. You stop, so I stop.
531
00:41:58,850 --> 00:42:00,430
Heavens, you are serious, aren't you?
532
00:42:00,750 --> 00:42:01,750
Mm-hmm.
533
00:42:01,830 --> 00:42:02,850
Okay. All right.
534
00:42:03,260 --> 00:42:04,920
All right. I'll try. I promise.
535
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:06,200
All right.
536
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:07,360
My ear.
537
00:42:10,500 --> 00:42:13,380
Yeah. Let me feel your tongue in my ear.
538
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:14,680
Mm-hmm.
539
00:42:16,620 --> 00:42:17,620
Your teeth.
540
00:42:18,020 --> 00:42:19,140
Teeth? Mm-hmm.
541
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:21,000
A little.
542
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:24,020
I need a tickle.
543
00:42:25,300 --> 00:42:26,300
Kiss my neck.
544
00:42:32,620 --> 00:42:33,620
Kiss my neck.
545
00:42:33,860 --> 00:42:35,060
My shoulders.
546
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:36,600
My shoulders.
547
00:42:37,020 --> 00:42:38,600
I love when you do.
548
00:42:42,220 --> 00:42:44,100
I love my brows.
549
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:45,840
Gladly.
550
00:42:48,340 --> 00:42:49,340
Squeeze.
551
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:51,600
Kiss.
552
00:42:56,460 --> 00:42:57,460
Like that.
553
00:42:57,580 --> 00:42:58,580
A little bit?
554
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:00,600
Like that.
555
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:07,480
How good?
556
00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:11,200
Give me a hug.
557
00:43:14,240 --> 00:43:16,780
Hold me tight.
558
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:39,640
Oh, right there.
559
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:42,600
Bye.
560
00:43:44,500 --> 00:43:45,800
Oh, yeah. Oh,
561
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:47,880
God.
562
00:43:48,340 --> 00:43:49,780
He's teasing me.
563
00:44:53,550 --> 00:44:54,870
I want to do the same for you.
564
00:44:55,770 --> 00:44:57,910
Oh, God, honey, I'm sorry. I've got to
go to work.
565
00:44:58,570 --> 00:44:59,930
David, that's not fair.
566
00:45:00,130 --> 00:45:01,130
No, I'm really sorry.
567
00:45:02,190 --> 00:45:03,470
I've got to go, though.
568
00:45:03,750 --> 00:45:04,750
What about tonight?
569
00:45:05,570 --> 00:45:06,570
Maybe.
570
00:45:07,230 --> 00:45:09,070
Maybe. I love you.
571
00:45:09,550 --> 00:45:10,550
I love you.
572
00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:23,460
We've had our share of problems, just
like anybody, but we've always managed
573
00:45:23,460 --> 00:45:24,460
to work through them.
574
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:28,900
Yeah, no matter what else was happening
in our life, we always had this great
575
00:45:28,900 --> 00:45:30,460
sex, you know.
576
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:32,720
And then we hit the skid.
577
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:37,540
And then all of a sudden, boom, it was
gone. It was like the fire and all the
578
00:45:37,540 --> 00:45:38,540
passion just left.
579
00:45:40,260 --> 00:45:43,580
And I'm going through this whole routine
in my head, like he's probably having an
580
00:45:43,580 --> 00:45:44,580
affair.
581
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:46,400
And it's really been scaring me.
582
00:45:47,020 --> 00:45:49,560
I mean, believe me, the last thing I
want is an affair.
583
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:55,420
But you get to a point where you start
to ask yourself, can't I just cruise for
584
00:45:55,420 --> 00:45:58,920
a while? Stop trying so hard. At my age,
I'm a grandfather.
585
00:45:59,260 --> 00:46:03,160
At my age, haven't I earned the right to
put sex on autopilot and just let things
586
00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:07,360
happen? Well, that's a good idea in
theory, except not much is happening.
587
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:13,560
I mean... Don't you remember all those
little things that we used to do that
588
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:14,560
kept it hot?
589
00:46:14,780 --> 00:46:16,200
And all the little...
590
00:46:16,430 --> 00:46:18,850
Surprises? Don't you miss our
adventures?
591
00:46:20,810 --> 00:46:21,810
Yeah, yeah.
592
00:46:22,650 --> 00:46:23,890
Sometimes I do, yeah.
593
00:46:25,170 --> 00:46:26,170
What are you thinking?
594
00:46:27,350 --> 00:46:31,830
I was just thinking about the time that
we were at the supermarket in the middle
595
00:46:31,830 --> 00:46:36,150
of the frozen food section and you
started whispering to me about sneaking
596
00:46:36,150 --> 00:46:39,930
off and doing it in the stock room on
the orange crates.
597
00:46:41,110 --> 00:46:44,270
Yeah, and then remember all those little
notes we used to leave for each other on
598
00:46:44,270 --> 00:46:45,510
the refrigerator door and then...
599
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:50,780
You would call me up at work, and we'd
get all sexy on the phone, and then we'd
600
00:46:50,780 --> 00:46:52,580
hope no one else would pick up the other
line, of course.
601
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:54,980
It wasn't all that long ago.
602
00:46:55,300 --> 00:46:56,520
No, it wasn't.
603
00:46:57,840 --> 00:46:59,420
How can we just let everything slide?
604
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:03,700
I don't think we're cruising at all. I
just think we've taken each other for
605
00:47:03,700 --> 00:47:04,700
granted.
606
00:47:06,860 --> 00:47:10,060
And I always thought that we would be
different.
607
00:47:15,790 --> 00:47:18,190
No, I told him that I didn't think he
should send it there.
608
00:47:18,910 --> 00:47:22,770
Send it that way and put it all
together. Keeping the passion alive
609
00:47:22,770 --> 00:47:26,930
after many years together does take some
ongoing commitment.
610
00:47:27,410 --> 00:47:32,710
But with a little effort, even the most
difficult circumstances can be turned
611
00:47:32,710 --> 00:47:39,030
around. No matter how long you've been
together, use your imagination and a
612
00:47:39,030 --> 00:47:40,430
dash of impulsiveness.
613
00:47:40,940 --> 00:47:46,540
to transform otherwise ordinary days
into surprising, sexy adventures.
614
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:48,120
Ooh la la.
615
00:47:51,380 --> 00:47:52,400
Fabulous.
616
00:47:53,940 --> 00:47:55,640
He's so sweet.
617
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:02,120
What a great guy.
618
00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:08,700
Jim? Yeah.
619
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:10,620
Packages came for you. Special delivery.
620
00:48:11,180 --> 00:48:12,180
You're kidding.
621
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:14,720
Okay, thanks. You're welcome.
622
00:48:17,240 --> 00:48:18,520
Where could this be?
623
00:48:27,620 --> 00:48:30,200
Up there?
624
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:42,320
I can't... bear to go through the whole
workday without feeling your hot lips on
625
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:45,600
mine. Oh, Connie.
626
00:48:47,700 --> 00:48:49,600
I think you deserve a little surprise.
627
00:48:50,700 --> 00:48:55,460
Lisa. Yes, Jim? I'm off to a meeting.
I'll be back sometime after two.
628
00:48:55,700 --> 00:48:59,640
Okay. Excite your partner with your
unpredictability.
629
00:49:00,140 --> 00:49:03,600
Remember the fantasy she shared with you
so long ago?
630
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:07,720
Bring it to life when she least expects
it.
631
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:11,920
I got your message.
632
00:49:12,140 --> 00:49:15,660
So here I am with hot lips and a tasty
lunch.
633
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:17,360
Oh, come here, you.
634
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:24,140
You are just full of surprises. There
are as many ways to keep the fire
635
00:49:24,140 --> 00:49:26,700
burning in your marriage as you can
divide.
636
00:49:27,140 --> 00:49:30,120
An impromptu office picnic is just one.
637
00:49:30,820 --> 00:49:35,360
List the romantic or erotic surprises
you could spring on your partner.
638
00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:38,840
Then put one into action each week.
639
00:49:40,140 --> 00:49:41,320
Come on over here, sweetheart.
640
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:43,080
Oh, I like the bear.
641
00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:45,060
Can't bear to be without one.
642
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:49,060
So, how's your game been?
643
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:51,160
I got the Johnson account.
644
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:52,399
You're kidding.
645
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:55,100
Finally, I did it. That's so great.
Congratulations.
646
00:49:55,940 --> 00:50:00,200
Thank you. Remember when you first met
and getting to know each other was
647
00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:03,440
filled with unpredictability and
spontaneity?
648
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:05,240
Yeah, I got your finger.
649
00:50:05,780 --> 00:50:08,500
And that arrives.
650
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:15,180
Well, now that you know each other so
much better, you can continue to
651
00:50:15,180 --> 00:50:20,860
astonish your partner in simple,
thoughtful, or wildly unexpected ways.
652
00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:25,920
Keep the element of surprise a vital
part of your relationship.
653
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:32,040
A special experience can take very
little time to plan, yet it has a
654
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:36,540
potent, lasting effect on the way you
feel about each other.
655
00:50:45,260 --> 00:50:48,760
Thank you, dear. You should come more
often. I will, I will. Boy, I only like
656
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:49,760
this.
657
00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:55,100
No matter how familiar you are with each
other's bodies, long, sweet, passionate
658
00:50:55,100 --> 00:50:59,940
kisses will always have the power to
send you back in time and perhaps make
659
00:50:59,940 --> 00:51:03,700
you feel like infatuated teenagers all
over again.
660
00:51:19,879 --> 00:51:21,080
No, I'll get back to him later.
661
00:51:21,420 --> 00:51:22,420
Just tell him that.
662
00:51:24,380 --> 00:51:25,380
That's okay.
663
00:51:25,980 --> 00:51:27,660
Honey, you just tell him that later, all
right?
664
00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:29,040
Okay.
665
00:51:58,820 --> 00:51:59,820
Last call.
666
00:52:00,180 --> 00:52:01,640
Yeah? Yes, pretty.
667
00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:05,080
No, I don't need that call right now.
No?
668
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:06,960
No?
669
00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:11,360
No, no, take a lunch break and... Okay,
enjoy.
670
00:52:12,620 --> 00:52:13,620
Take a long one.
671
00:52:14,260 --> 00:52:15,340
Bye. Thank you.
672
00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:19,380
You're impulsive, I tell you.
673
00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:23,040
Did you get my present?
674
00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:25,020
Did I get your present?
675
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:27,440
Yes, I did, and it's beautiful.
676
00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:32,560
Why don't you go take your clothes off
and put them on?
677
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:34,300
Well, I did already.
678
00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:37,640
Really? I did already.
679
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:39,480
Well, let me see.
680
00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:48,560
You look just like I imagined you would.
681
00:52:48,860 --> 00:52:55,180
You're crazy.
682
00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:49,840
It can be exhilarating to imagine making
love in unusual places, tinged with a
683
00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:51,700
slight element of risk.
684
00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:58,060
And sometimes, bringing those thoughts
to life is just what you need to carry
685
00:54:58,060 --> 00:55:01,020
you and your mate to new peaks of
excitement.
686
00:55:01,820 --> 00:55:03,220
Don't hold back.
687
00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:06,000
Share the spirit of adventure.
688
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:12,140
Create the thrilling and tender moments
that remain alive in your memory.
689
00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:13,980
for years to come.
690
00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:24,760
I love you.
691
00:56:24,820 --> 00:56:25,820
I love you.
692
00:56:26,720 --> 00:56:28,740
That was such a wonderful surprise.
693
00:56:29,720 --> 00:56:31,000
Well, you deserve it.
694
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:33,480
We're so lucky.
695
00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:49,280
If you cherish the intimacy you've
shared throughout the years, you can
696
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:53,140
rekindle the sense of infatuation you
felt in the beginning.
697
00:56:54,940 --> 00:56:57,520
Don't let love slip through your
fingers.
698
00:56:57,740 --> 00:57:04,300
Make a vow to nurture it, to celebrate
it. And as you do, keep these
699
00:57:04,300 --> 00:57:05,500
secrets in mind.
700
00:57:07,530 --> 00:57:13,150
Let your private moments become a source
of strength and energy to counter the
701
00:57:13,150 --> 00:57:19,030
stresses of the day. Try breaking out of
routines that keep you from making love
702
00:57:19,030 --> 00:57:20,470
as often as you'd like.
703
00:57:21,050 --> 00:57:24,170
Savor the differences between your
partner and yourself.
704
00:57:24,570 --> 00:57:26,590
Stretch your own boundaries.
705
00:57:26,950 --> 00:57:33,930
Be inventive. Create surprises by
freeing your sense of eroticism, whimsy,
706
00:57:33,930 --> 00:57:34,930
and humor.
707
00:57:35,550 --> 00:57:38,930
Be verbal about your sexual needs and
desires.
708
00:57:39,450 --> 00:57:41,450
Risk sharing deeply.
709
00:57:54,570 --> 00:58:00,250
And never forget that your love is just
as strong as you make it.
710
00:58:00,670 --> 00:58:03,390
No matter how long you've been together.
711
00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:07,480
Your romance has only begun.
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