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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:42,480 When I told him I thought it would be exciting for him to talk to me in bed, 2 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:45,260 he looked at me and he said, about what? 3 00:00:46,480 --> 00:00:47,480 About what? 4 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:49,360 Maybe baseball or basketball. 5 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:56,240 Our first year together, we went away for the weekend, and we barely left the 6 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:58,500 room. It was great. 7 00:00:59,920 --> 00:01:01,240 Fast forward to last month. 8 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:06,420 We went back to the same spot, and we barely see the room. 9 00:01:09,070 --> 00:01:10,350 What's wrong with this picture? 10 00:01:10,950 --> 00:01:16,850 Whenever I get behind the wheel of the car, he's always telling me to give the 11 00:01:16,850 --> 00:01:17,870 engine time to warm up. 12 00:01:18,730 --> 00:01:23,750 So how come he thinks the best way to get my motor revved up is to jump start 13 00:01:23,750 --> 00:01:27,150 it? He told me he was a romantic kind of guy, and he was. 14 00:01:27,510 --> 00:01:30,610 He flowers for no reason, cards the work. 15 00:01:31,110 --> 00:01:32,870 Last week was our fifth anniversary. 16 00:01:34,010 --> 00:01:35,010 Forgot. 17 00:01:35,710 --> 00:01:38,090 Breadwinner, bug killer, babysitter. 18 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:42,640 Trash collector, carpooler, cook and comic. I'm supposed to be all that and 19 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:47,020 the world's greatest lover. When guys ask, what do women want? I can give them 20 00:01:47,020 --> 00:01:48,020 an answer. 21 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:49,920 Women want everything. 22 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:57,900 Loving each other is both a joy and a challenge. 23 00:01:58,780 --> 00:02:03,500 Emotions naturally ebb and flow as your relationship moves through its many 24 00:02:03,500 --> 00:02:05,000 cycles over the years. 25 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:11,580 Many of the problems that arise between men and women are universal. 26 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:18,060 You're not alone in facing them or in seeking rewarding solutions to make your 27 00:02:18,060 --> 00:02:19,060 love stronger. 28 00:02:20,300 --> 00:02:25,060 The secrets to a more fulfilling relationship are within your grasp. 29 00:02:25,460 --> 00:02:31,100 Just open your heart as we explore some of the patterns that may have dimmed 30 00:02:31,100 --> 00:02:32,660 your fascination with each other. 31 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:39,840 and discover anew that you can continue to delight one another for the rest of 32 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:40,840 your lives. 33 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:54,700 Well, to be blunt, we have a sex problem. We sure do. 34 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:57,440 Actually, it's a not enough sex problem. 35 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:00,880 It's not like we're not attracted to each other anymore or anything like 36 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:01,880 that, right? 37 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:03,680 Oh, no, no, I'm definitely attracted. 38 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:08,240 It's like we've fallen into this pattern. 39 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:12,220 At the beginning, it seemed like there was always a very good reason not to 40 00:03:12,220 --> 00:03:13,220 have more sex. 41 00:03:13,340 --> 00:03:17,060 I was working long hours, and your boss had you traveling a lot. 42 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:18,480 Yeah. 43 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:22,940 And then, for example, four months ago when we finally got time, Tracy has her 44 00:03:22,940 --> 00:03:24,580 tonsils out, and that took all our time. 45 00:03:24,940 --> 00:03:26,980 It seems like something was always going on. 46 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:30,760 Things have quieted down, but now... 47 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:33,320 We feel almost funny approaching each other. 48 00:03:34,640 --> 00:03:39,840 Not having sex has become comfortable for us, so trying to turn each other on, 49 00:03:39,940 --> 00:03:43,800 well, I know it sounds strange, but I'm actually shy about it. 50 00:03:46,380 --> 00:03:52,240 Yeah, it's, uh... We used to be so playful and light about everything, you 51 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:53,680 know? It's fun. It's great. 52 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:56,120 Not anymore. 53 00:03:58,350 --> 00:04:01,690 But we don't want to just toss our sex life out the window. No. 54 00:04:02,350 --> 00:04:06,470 We just need to know how to get back into the groove and start having fun 55 00:04:06,470 --> 00:04:07,309 with it again. 56 00:04:07,310 --> 00:04:08,310 Yeah. 57 00:04:09,250 --> 00:04:11,810 We can't be the only one with this problem, can we? 58 00:04:16,370 --> 00:04:22,730 Even loving couples can get caught in a pattern of having less sex than either 59 00:04:22,730 --> 00:04:23,830 of them really want. 60 00:04:24,780 --> 00:04:30,080 To solve the problem, someone simply has to be daring and decisive enough to 61 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:31,080 break the chain. 62 00:04:37,300 --> 00:04:41,780 Instead of letting memories of how exciting it used to be frustrate you, 63 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:47,120 use those thoughts to inspire you to be bold and inventive today. 64 00:05:04,020 --> 00:05:05,900 Great. Yeah, I'm just headed on over with kids. 65 00:05:06,860 --> 00:05:07,860 What? 66 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:09,400 Yeah, yeah, I've got it with me. 67 00:05:10,280 --> 00:05:12,620 Kids, can you please go wait out in the car for Mommy? 68 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:15,320 Listen, 69 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:19,240 I was just wondering if you can possibly keep the kids for me all night. 70 00:05:19,900 --> 00:05:25,300 Well, yeah, it's just that I'm planning a surprise for Ron. 71 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:28,640 You can? 72 00:05:29,220 --> 00:05:32,240 Great. Thanks, Mom. I love you. See you in a little bit. Bye. 73 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:50,080 Honey? 74 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:55,600 Darling, if children aren't mothers, follow these instructions exactly. 75 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:57,240 Look in the refrigerator. 76 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:01,380 Sometimes it's hard to admit there's a sexual problem. 77 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:06,280 Most couples ignore early signs of dwindling sexual frequency. 78 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:08,460 Look in the fridge. 79 00:06:09,380 --> 00:06:10,900 We make excuses. 80 00:06:11,140 --> 00:06:15,300 Tell ourselves less sex is okay when it isn't. 81 00:06:22,700 --> 00:06:24,120 Put me on and follow me. 82 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,800 Oh, honey. 83 00:06:32,500 --> 00:06:33,780 It's about time. 84 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:40,840 Diane. Take a risk. 85 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:43,540 Make room in your life for intimacy. 86 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:48,560 Start by creating a tantalizing environment that invites lovemaking. 87 00:06:49,210 --> 00:06:54,950 Design and set the scene for a romantic, seductive evening in your own home. Or 88 00:06:54,950 --> 00:06:57,750 as part of a brief, erotic getaway. 89 00:06:58,630 --> 00:06:59,630 Honey? 90 00:07:06,090 --> 00:07:07,270 Where are you? 91 00:07:24,170 --> 00:07:25,170 Are you hiding? 92 00:07:26,010 --> 00:07:29,730 Breaking the pattern for the first time is just the beginning. 93 00:07:30,050 --> 00:07:36,370 To keep the spirit of change alive, make your private time a consistent and hotly 94 00:07:36,370 --> 00:07:37,810 awaited part of your lives. 95 00:07:38,330 --> 00:07:43,350 Some couples fear that scheduling time for intimacy will keep them from feeling 96 00:07:43,350 --> 00:07:44,850 spontaneously sexy. 97 00:07:45,370 --> 00:07:50,250 That won't happen if you look at planned time for intimacy the way you once 98 00:07:50,250 --> 00:07:51,550 viewed dating each other. 99 00:07:52,060 --> 00:07:56,660 Even the simple ritual of comparing calendars each week can become an 100 00:07:56,660 --> 00:08:00,220 exciting part of your mental foreplay if you let it. 101 00:08:00,500 --> 00:08:05,880 And you can heighten the erotic tension between dates by teasing and romancing 102 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:10,860 each other with provocative handwritten reminders and seductive phone messages 103 00:08:10,860 --> 00:08:12,060 all through the week. 104 00:08:12,520 --> 00:08:15,780 Appreciate the game of it. Build the heat. 105 00:08:37,730 --> 00:08:43,770 If it's been quite a while since you've been sexual, start the evening slowly. 106 00:08:44,630 --> 00:08:49,570 Slipping into water together, a swimming pool, jacuzzi or bathtub. 107 00:08:50,430 --> 00:08:54,610 is one way of creating a smooth yet sensuous transition. 108 00:08:55,850 --> 00:09:01,970 Focusing on the luxurious feel of water swirling around you and the natural 109 00:09:01,970 --> 00:09:07,670 pleasure of feeling bare skin against skin helps you to effortlessly shed 110 00:09:07,670 --> 00:09:12,710 anxiety and become freer and more open to intimacy with one another. 111 00:09:18,250 --> 00:09:19,790 I love this surprise. 112 00:09:24,730 --> 00:09:25,730 Bye. 113 00:10:31,090 --> 00:10:37,110 certain foods are said to be erotic stimulants others become aphrodisiacs 114 00:10:37,110 --> 00:10:40,790 when you feed them to your partner in a deliciously sexy way 115 00:10:41,580 --> 00:10:47,020 Share like finger foods to nourish your relationship and recapture your sensual 116 00:10:47,020 --> 00:10:48,240 delight in one another. 117 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:55,300 Become reacquainted with the texture, the scent, the taste of each other's 118 00:10:55,300 --> 00:10:59,300 bodies. Enjoy a slow, tantalizing pace. 119 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:27,600 Savor each other's touches. 120 00:11:28,580 --> 00:11:30,600 Explore like first-time lovers. 121 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:36,240 Let the joy of your sensory journey remind you of all the reasons you 122 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:40,060 desired each other in the beginning and want each other now. 123 00:12:21,380 --> 00:12:26,300 Release the desire simmering beneath the surface of your everyday routines. 124 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:32,960 Dare to break out of old patterns and give new life to your love affair. 125 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:40,740 He comes home from work so wired I don't even want to talk to him. It's like if I 126 00:12:40,740 --> 00:12:42,240 say one word he snaps at me. 127 00:12:42,680 --> 00:12:44,820 You know, I can't believe that she thinks she's any different. 128 00:12:45,410 --> 00:12:47,230 What happened last week when you came home? 129 00:12:47,570 --> 00:12:50,150 She completely goes off on me for the way I loaded the dishwasher. 130 00:12:50,550 --> 00:12:51,890 What did you say to me right afterwards? 131 00:12:52,650 --> 00:12:56,210 I told you I was upset because I'd lost that big account. 132 00:12:56,890 --> 00:13:00,170 Okay, so I dumped on you. I mean, I told you I was sorry, okay? 133 00:13:00,710 --> 00:13:03,830 Okay, but what I'm trying to say is don't just blame me. 134 00:13:04,590 --> 00:13:07,850 All right? We're both at fault here. We both take things out on each other. 135 00:13:07,950 --> 00:13:08,950 Yeah. 136 00:13:09,190 --> 00:13:13,430 You know, this has really taken a toll on me, and I really feel distant from 137 00:13:13,430 --> 00:13:14,269 you now. 138 00:13:14,270 --> 00:13:15,790 Yeah, not much like making love either. 139 00:13:18,250 --> 00:13:20,890 Shouldn't we be making each other feel better, not worse? 140 00:13:26,510 --> 00:13:31,270 It's natural for workday stress to occasionally affect a couple's home 141 00:13:31,270 --> 00:13:37,070 life. But too much stress can become toxic and chip away at the pleasure you 142 00:13:37,070 --> 00:13:38,250 take in being together. 143 00:13:39,890 --> 00:13:43,330 Honey, I'm so sorry. I know I promised to be home early, but... 144 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:45,840 It's been a hell of a day and I'm still stuck in traffic. 145 00:13:47,100 --> 00:13:48,780 I'll be home as soon as I can, okay? 146 00:13:48,980 --> 00:13:49,980 Bye. 147 00:13:51,180 --> 00:13:54,260 It's George at the office. Wouldn't you know it, we've got trouble with your 148 00:13:54,260 --> 00:13:55,400 favorite client. Sure enough. 149 00:14:00,700 --> 00:14:05,940 Bringing workday stress home blocks intimacy and makes it hard for partners 150 00:14:05,940 --> 00:14:10,360 to let down their guard with each other, emotionally and sexually. 151 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:12,100 But together... 152 00:14:12,560 --> 00:14:17,800 You can keep stress at bay by developing your own unique rituals for cleansing 153 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:19,500 away each day's tension. 154 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:34,840 Hello? Hey, honey. It's me. Hi. I got your methods. You sound pretty wiped 155 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:37,220 out. Oh, no kidding. 156 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:39,420 You wouldn't believe the day I've had today. 157 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:40,960 It's just been terrible. 158 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:44,270 No. Stuck in this stupid traffic jam. 159 00:14:44,670 --> 00:14:47,670 Look, relax. You're not going to get home any quicker than the traffic ahead 160 00:14:47,670 --> 00:14:48,569 of you. 161 00:14:48,570 --> 00:14:51,850 But I made dinner reservations for tonight, though, and I wanted to have a 162 00:14:51,850 --> 00:14:52,850 nice night out. 163 00:14:53,070 --> 00:14:54,970 Well, we'll have a nice evening in. 164 00:14:55,530 --> 00:14:58,850 Just relax. Why don't you take a big, deep breath? 165 00:14:59,470 --> 00:15:01,550 Oh, that was really good. 166 00:15:01,950 --> 00:15:05,370 Try that again. Take a big... Do you honestly think that's going to help? 167 00:15:05,570 --> 00:15:09,030 Well, yes, it'll definitely help. Deep breathing always helps. Take a big, big, 168 00:15:09,070 --> 00:15:10,070 deep breath for me. Come on. 169 00:15:10,310 --> 00:15:11,310 Come on. 170 00:15:15,500 --> 00:15:18,440 Good. That's it. Let it out nice and slow. That's the way to do it. 171 00:15:18,860 --> 00:15:22,200 You know, I've been thinking about you all day long. 172 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:24,960 Really? Mm-hmm. What were you thinking about? 173 00:15:25,180 --> 00:15:26,180 Like what? 174 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:29,240 Suzanne? Suzanne? 175 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:31,480 Hello? Honey, are you there? 176 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:32,920 Hello? 177 00:15:45,930 --> 00:15:50,990 When one partner is especially strained, the other might want to take the 178 00:15:50,990 --> 00:15:55,630 initiative in setting the scene for a loving and relaxing interlude. 179 00:15:56,390 --> 00:16:00,850 Create an environment that warms and comforts the senses. 180 00:16:01,830 --> 00:16:08,670 Candlelight, incense, music, a slow pace, and 181 00:16:08,670 --> 00:16:13,850 your own soft, caring voice all enhance the serene mood. 182 00:16:19,150 --> 00:16:20,150 Hey there. 183 00:16:22,090 --> 00:16:24,570 Charlie. Boy, am I glad you're here. 184 00:16:25,010 --> 00:16:30,170 Oh, God, you would not believe the awful day I had. I believe it, but you're home 185 00:16:30,170 --> 00:16:32,230 now. Everything at work went wrong. 186 00:16:32,470 --> 00:16:34,250 And then my mother called. 187 00:16:34,550 --> 00:16:37,070 All she did was talk and talk. 188 00:16:37,650 --> 00:16:39,930 And talk. 189 00:16:40,850 --> 00:16:41,850 Relax. 190 00:16:42,490 --> 00:16:43,990 I know. Relax. 191 00:16:45,130 --> 00:16:46,430 Everything looks nice. 192 00:16:46,650 --> 00:16:47,910 Thank you for noticing. 193 00:16:48,650 --> 00:16:49,730 We're not going to talk about your mother. 194 00:16:50,490 --> 00:16:51,830 We're not going to talk about work. 195 00:16:53,790 --> 00:16:55,110 What are we going to talk about? 196 00:16:56,010 --> 00:16:58,030 Nothing. But each other. 197 00:16:58,770 --> 00:17:00,990 It isn't within this room, it doesn't exist. 198 00:17:02,010 --> 00:17:06,630 It's often a good idea to put conversation about the day's stresses on 199 00:17:06,630 --> 00:17:07,630 hold. 200 00:17:07,849 --> 00:17:13,329 Sometimes talking about the events helps you to release them. But more often, it 201 00:17:13,329 --> 00:17:16,890 stirs up the very frustrations you want to let go of. 202 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:20,720 Focus instead on your feelings for each other. 203 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:27,780 Try very sensually and lovingly peeling off your partner's clothing, one item 204 00:17:27,780 --> 00:17:28,780 at a time. 205 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:35,220 As each layer of workday attire is stripped away, a layer of workday stress 206 00:17:35,220 --> 00:17:37,820 is likely to disappear along with it. 207 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:08,920 The blending of heat and moisture is a sure recipe for soaking stress away. 208 00:18:09,580 --> 00:18:16,140 Just sharing a steam bath, a whirlpool, or an ordinary bubble bath can be a 209 00:18:16,140 --> 00:18:19,600 delicious tonic after a workday filled with tension. 210 00:18:20,580 --> 00:18:27,160 As a special treat for your partner, try preparing a warm body wrap made from 211 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:28,460 herb-infused water. 212 00:18:29,290 --> 00:18:34,750 The care you give in wrapping your mate's body is another value gesture of 213 00:18:34,750 --> 00:18:38,470 love. Blissful and healing in its own right. 214 00:18:39,930 --> 00:18:45,450 And love is perhaps the ultimate antidote to stress. 215 00:18:46,770 --> 00:18:48,610 Does it smell good? 216 00:18:48,810 --> 00:18:50,330 It smells like flowers. 217 00:18:55,030 --> 00:18:56,270 It's warm, isn't it? 218 00:18:59,020 --> 00:19:04,620 It's wonderful to give and receive massage in areas of special tension. 219 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:11,640 The neck, the back, and especially the feet, which are so often 220 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:14,620 neglected, yet are in such need of attention. 221 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:21,700 The soles of our feet are so rich with nerve endings that at least one healing 222 00:19:21,700 --> 00:19:26,080 practice, reflexology, focuses on the feet alone. 223 00:19:26,940 --> 00:19:32,240 By massaging just the feet, it's felt one can treat the entire system. 224 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:39,700 Receiving massage means lying back, letting go, losing yourself in the 225 00:19:39,700 --> 00:19:40,940 exquisite sensations. 226 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:47,800 Tune out unwanted thoughts and focus only on the delight of your physical 227 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:48,800 experience. 228 00:19:49,340 --> 00:19:55,510 As you warm your mate's muscles with your hands, and gently knead away her 229 00:19:55,510 --> 00:19:56,830 tiny knots of tension. 230 00:19:57,210 --> 00:20:03,050 You'll feel your own breathing slow and find yourself relaxing too. 231 00:20:07,810 --> 00:20:12,070 Aromatic oils are a perfect accompaniment to massage. 232 00:20:12,690 --> 00:20:19,030 Scent has the remarkable power to directly engage your emotions and soothe 233 00:20:19,030 --> 00:20:20,030 you instantly. 234 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:27,100 Select oils laced with fragrances that make you sigh contentedly or smile for 235 00:20:27,100 --> 00:20:28,260 no apparent reason. 236 00:20:28,900 --> 00:20:33,720 Vanilla, jasmine, and pine often have just that effect. 237 00:20:39,540 --> 00:20:45,260 Although giving a massage is pleasing, the muscles you use can tense up. 238 00:20:46,120 --> 00:20:49,540 Afterward, it's a good idea to easily... 239 00:20:49,950 --> 00:20:56,370 Carefully stretch them. Not only is it good therapy, but stretching creates 240 00:20:56,370 --> 00:21:00,530 intense, satisfying bursts of sensation. 241 00:21:06,110 --> 00:21:11,450 Deep breathing is one of the simplest and most effective means of draining 242 00:21:11,450 --> 00:21:12,450 away stress. 243 00:21:13,110 --> 00:21:19,420 As you both inhale very deeply, Look directly into your lover's eyes. 244 00:21:19,940 --> 00:21:21,440 Exhale completely. 245 00:21:22,660 --> 00:21:28,520 Continue inhaling and exhaling as you begin to match the rhythms of your 246 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:29,520 breathing. 247 00:21:29,740 --> 00:21:34,840 Imagine yourself locked in a sensual, mesmerizing dance. 248 00:21:35,500 --> 00:21:38,740 See within each other's hearts. 249 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:55,820 Don't be too surprised if your relaxing evening rituals awaken your sexual 250 00:21:55,820 --> 00:22:02,160 desire for one another Intimacy is the most natural aphrodisiac there is 251 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:04,920 Relish your passion 252 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:59,700 Your relationship is far too precious to sacrifice to the effects of stress. 253 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:06,360 Keep your lives and your health in balance, and together make your evenings 254 00:23:06,360 --> 00:23:08,100 a time to treasure. 255 00:23:13,420 --> 00:23:16,880 You know how you always go on and on about what I should or shouldn't do when 256 00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:17,880 I come on to you? 257 00:23:19,460 --> 00:23:20,460 Yeah. 258 00:23:21,420 --> 00:23:23,240 Well, what about when you come on to me? 259 00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:26,960 Well, what about it? It never happens. 260 00:23:27,540 --> 00:23:30,900 I mean, I'm always the one that has to approach you, and all you have to do is 261 00:23:30,900 --> 00:23:31,900 say yes or no. 262 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,780 Well, I never thought about it. 263 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:44,680 I mean, did it ever occur to you that I need you to show me that you want me 264 00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:45,680 some of the time? 265 00:23:45,700 --> 00:23:48,560 I mean, why do I always have to be the aggressive one? What is that, just 266 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:49,560 because I'm the man? 267 00:23:51,180 --> 00:23:56,150 No. No, that's not the way it should be, and you're right. I didn't know you felt 268 00:23:56,150 --> 00:23:57,150 that way. 269 00:23:57,290 --> 00:24:00,630 I mean, you talk about intimacy. Well, I mean, I think there's times that I'm 270 00:24:00,630 --> 00:24:02,490 right there with you, aren't there? 271 00:24:02,930 --> 00:24:04,710 Yes, yes, you are. 272 00:24:05,470 --> 00:24:07,690 So then how come you don't suggest we make love then? 273 00:24:09,110 --> 00:24:10,210 I don't know. 274 00:24:11,190 --> 00:24:15,610 I think it's because I'm really used to you being the instigator. 275 00:24:19,020 --> 00:24:23,380 I don't know. I just feel like some kind of unwritten rule. Yeah, but it's not my 276 00:24:23,380 --> 00:24:26,340 rule. I mean, if it's a rule, then it has to change. 277 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:36,520 We all know there are differences in the way men and women act in relationships. 278 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:39,700 Some of those differences are genetic. 279 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:44,560 After all, men and women are biologically different creatures. 280 00:24:45,450 --> 00:24:49,690 But other differences come from the way we've been taught we're supposed to 281 00:24:49,690 --> 00:24:54,970 behave. For instance, men are brought up to be the sexual aggressors. 282 00:24:55,210 --> 00:25:01,150 And sometimes that means they feel unwelcome pressure to perform in bed. 283 00:25:06,070 --> 00:25:09,450 Listen, sweetie, look, it's been a really long week, okay? I'm really 284 00:25:09,450 --> 00:25:11,050 burned out. I need to read these reports. 285 00:25:11,470 --> 00:25:13,290 I just want to relax for a while, okay? 286 00:25:14,340 --> 00:25:15,340 Oops. 287 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,180 But... But what? 288 00:25:19,900 --> 00:25:21,240 But I've missed you. 289 00:25:21,780 --> 00:25:23,340 You've been working so hard. 290 00:25:24,740 --> 00:25:25,740 Let's make a deal. 291 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:29,080 No, forget about it. No deals. I know all about your deal. 292 00:25:29,380 --> 00:25:30,380 I'm serious. 293 00:25:30,980 --> 00:25:34,660 We'll just go into the shower and wash each other's hair. 294 00:25:35,100 --> 00:25:36,980 Nothing more strenuous, I promise. 295 00:25:38,340 --> 00:25:39,600 Nothing else? Just shower? 296 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,000 I won't try, I think. You promise? 297 00:25:42,220 --> 00:25:43,220 I promise. 298 00:25:55,340 --> 00:26:02,200 Men often find it tough to separate pure sensuality, touching, holding, kissing, 299 00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:06,280 from foreplay that leads to an inevitable climax. 300 00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:12,700 But with just a little willingness to experiment, both men and women can 301 00:26:12,700 --> 00:26:18,200 discover the special luxury of bringing pleasure to each other without a sexual 302 00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:19,960 agenda driving them on. 303 00:26:55,210 --> 00:26:59,430 Enjoy a playful, sensual interlude with the one you love. 304 00:26:59,810 --> 00:27:01,890 Caress and stroke each other. 305 00:27:02,410 --> 00:27:06,250 Groom each other in ways you usually groom only yourself. 306 00:27:06,810 --> 00:27:12,630 Bring out the curious, free child within you and share the wonder of being 307 00:27:12,630 --> 00:27:13,630 together. 308 00:27:19,150 --> 00:27:22,250 No, no, no, no. What are you doing? You're not putting that in my hair. 309 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:29,680 That's for women. Women have entertained themselves by changing their images 310 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:32,820 since they started playing dress-up as little girls. 311 00:27:33,020 --> 00:27:39,520 For men today, there's nothing unmanly about having just as much fun trying on 312 00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:40,520 new looks. 313 00:27:43,180 --> 00:27:45,460 What did Elvis do here? Elvis? 314 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:47,040 Elvis' history. 315 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:49,220 Oh, that's worse. 316 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:51,600 Homer Pyle. 317 00:27:56,010 --> 00:27:57,110 Okay, I'll fix it. 318 00:27:57,810 --> 00:27:58,810 Okay, 319 00:28:02,470 --> 00:28:04,510 here we go. Here we go. 320 00:28:05,190 --> 00:28:11,330 We'll just do the, you know, little... I like two thumbs up. 321 00:28:12,330 --> 00:28:16,950 Thank you for taking a shower with me. 322 00:28:17,250 --> 00:28:20,010 You're welcome. I'm sorry I resisted so hard. 323 00:28:21,330 --> 00:28:23,230 We're all right. I do feel better. 324 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:42,740 The pleasure you take in each other's playfulness and sensuality is sure to 325 00:28:42,740 --> 00:28:46,480 bring out the love and warmth you feel for your partner. You like that? 326 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:48,440 Ow! What are you doing? 327 00:28:51,460 --> 00:28:52,560 That's so cold. 328 00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:55,760 Here I come. 329 00:28:56,380 --> 00:29:02,240 Sometimes, naturally and quite unexpectedly, that warmth generates a 330 00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:04,100 hot sexual current. 331 00:29:05,300 --> 00:29:06,600 Hey, what are you doing? 332 00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:09,320 So what happened to our deal? 333 00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:11,840 Oh, deals are made to be broken. 334 00:29:13,660 --> 00:29:19,520 Well, maybe we could break the deal if you let me share a little surprise I 335 00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:22,000 have. Ooh, I like surprises. What do you got in mind? 336 00:29:22,460 --> 00:29:26,320 Why don't you lay back there and I'll go get it and show you. 337 00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:34,680 If men feel undue pressure to initiate or perform sexually, 338 00:29:35,450 --> 00:29:40,090 Women can feel equal pressure to keep their sexually aggressive sides in 339 00:29:40,090 --> 00:29:44,050 check, especially with men who are used to being in control. 340 00:29:44,450 --> 00:29:50,790 But for both men and women, getting stuck in fixed sexual roles only limits 341 00:29:50,790 --> 00:29:53,490 the pleasures you can bring to your relationship. 342 00:29:56,530 --> 00:29:57,530 Angelia? 343 00:29:58,630 --> 00:30:00,510 Wow, that's some surprise. 344 00:30:01,590 --> 00:30:02,730 What are you doing? 345 00:30:03,030 --> 00:30:04,030 Get up. 346 00:30:04,389 --> 00:30:10,130 It's liberating, and most of all, terrific fun for a woman to unleash her 347 00:30:10,130 --> 00:30:15,570 sexually dominating, voracious facets, even for a little while. Whoa, whoa, 348 00:30:15,590 --> 00:30:16,730 whoa. What are you doing? I need my hand. 349 00:30:16,930 --> 00:30:20,170 Come on. No, no, no, no. This is the part of the game. 350 00:30:20,490 --> 00:30:21,570 I'm going to play this game. 351 00:30:22,050 --> 00:30:23,050 Got it? 352 00:30:23,410 --> 00:30:24,410 Yeah. 353 00:30:26,450 --> 00:30:27,450 Sit on those legs. 354 00:30:28,590 --> 00:30:29,590 Ma'am. 355 00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:34,760 Does that hurt? 356 00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:36,680 Yeah, but it feels good. 357 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:38,440 Oh, 358 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:41,680 don't stop. 359 00:30:45,380 --> 00:30:48,020 Angel, I don't know what's going on with you, but I like it. 360 00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:52,780 Express the full dimension of your personality through your lovemaking. 361 00:30:53,100 --> 00:30:58,240 The variety of roles you and your partner can play is defined only by your 362 00:30:58,240 --> 00:30:59,240 imagination. 363 00:31:00,460 --> 00:31:02,360 Costumes and toys add drama. 364 00:31:02,890 --> 00:31:08,130 But the real rush comes from exploring your opposites, your exciting sexual 365 00:31:08,130 --> 00:31:10,970 contradictions. See how it feels. 366 00:31:11,370 --> 00:31:13,270 See how your partner responds. 367 00:31:13,830 --> 00:31:15,790 But always be sensitive. 368 00:31:16,350 --> 00:31:18,730 Stop if your mate is truly uncomfortable. 369 00:31:19,870 --> 00:31:22,750 Erotic games should be fun for both of you. 370 00:31:59,470 --> 00:32:05,210 we never think entirely alike but by being open about our differences and 371 00:32:05,210 --> 00:32:11,770 striving to understand them we stretch our own boundaries that would be great 372 00:32:11,770 --> 00:32:18,570 keep in mind 373 00:32:18,570 --> 00:32:23,770 that it just may be our differences that keep us endlessly fascinated with one 374 00:32:23,770 --> 00:32:27,630 another i love you too 375 00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:39,140 Now, this might sound weird, but in the ten years together, I can't remember us 376 00:32:39,140 --> 00:32:41,200 ever really talking about sex. 377 00:32:42,340 --> 00:32:43,740 We've always just done it. 378 00:32:44,660 --> 00:32:50,080 We've done it okay, but now I think about other things I want to do. 379 00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:52,920 I have fantasies just like everybody else. 380 00:32:53,300 --> 00:32:54,300 So do I. 381 00:32:55,060 --> 00:32:56,660 But you don't tell me about them. 382 00:32:57,060 --> 00:32:58,200 Well, it's not that easy. 383 00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:00,740 I mean, where do you start? 384 00:33:00,980 --> 00:33:02,980 I worry about offending her. 385 00:33:03,670 --> 00:33:04,690 Hurting your feelings. 386 00:33:05,590 --> 00:33:09,670 Don't you think there are things I'd like different when we make love? 387 00:33:11,150 --> 00:33:13,330 You always seem to be enjoying yourself. 388 00:33:15,030 --> 00:33:21,070 I was. I do, but... But it could be better. 389 00:33:22,570 --> 00:33:25,390 Now I'm worried about hurting your feelings. No, no, no, I'm okay. 390 00:33:25,610 --> 00:33:27,630 I mean, we have to start somewhere, right? 391 00:33:28,830 --> 00:33:30,510 I really do want to please you. 392 00:33:30,910 --> 00:33:32,650 And if there's anything that I'm... 393 00:33:33,350 --> 00:33:36,630 not doing or doing wrong, you have to tell me. 394 00:33:37,710 --> 00:33:40,630 I thought I could read his mind, but obviously I can't. 395 00:33:41,550 --> 00:33:42,550 You're right. 396 00:33:42,730 --> 00:33:44,730 I mean, we should talk about these things. 397 00:33:48,170 --> 00:33:49,170 So let's do it. 398 00:33:50,870 --> 00:33:53,990 Just tell me one thing that you want me to do differently in bed. 399 00:33:55,050 --> 00:33:56,050 Me? 400 00:33:57,050 --> 00:33:58,970 Just blurt it out right here? Yes. 401 00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:04,540 No, no. You want to start right now. 402 00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:05,960 You go first. 403 00:34:06,940 --> 00:34:08,719 Okay, if you're sure you're ready. 404 00:34:10,380 --> 00:34:11,380 Yeah. 405 00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:15,960 I have this fantasy. 406 00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:23,600 Passionate, fulfilling sex comes from being candid about your sexual desires 407 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:24,880 and fantasies. 408 00:34:25,540 --> 00:34:28,719 Making a lighthearted game out of sexual talk. 409 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:33,679 Outside the bedroom can be a safe and stirring way to begin sharing. 410 00:34:34,380 --> 00:34:40,260 Even if you don't always have the same fantasies, respond with love to each 411 00:34:40,260 --> 00:34:41,440 other's revelations. 412 00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:44,560 I like this one. What do you think? 413 00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:46,600 I like the colors. 414 00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:49,000 I like the textures. 415 00:34:49,219 --> 00:34:51,159 But what's it supposed to be? 416 00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:53,040 What do you think it is? 417 00:34:53,500 --> 00:34:56,280 Well, I don't know. You're the artist in the family. Why don't you tell me? 418 00:34:57,600 --> 00:34:59,970 Well... This one is really obvious. 419 00:35:00,230 --> 00:35:06,170 You see, right there are two beautiful women laying on a bed. 420 00:35:06,930 --> 00:35:10,670 And they seem to be touching each other very intimately. 421 00:35:11,510 --> 00:35:16,570 And a handsome, dark-haired man in a suit, right there, sitting on the edge 422 00:35:16,570 --> 00:35:17,610 of the bed watching them. 423 00:35:17,890 --> 00:35:21,350 And he's just about to reach out. I think you got it all wrong here. 424 00:35:22,670 --> 00:35:24,810 Really? Now you're the expert, huh? 425 00:35:25,070 --> 00:35:27,930 Well, I think it's very clear. Look. You see there? 426 00:35:28,510 --> 00:35:30,550 There is a lovely woman in the painting. Yeah. 427 00:35:30,770 --> 00:35:34,630 But she's standing at the foot of the bed, and she's wearing a white chemise. 428 00:35:35,530 --> 00:35:39,690 Now, the guy is sitting at the edge of the bed, but he's naked. 429 00:35:40,210 --> 00:35:44,910 And there's a mirror here, and reflected in it is the face of another man. 430 00:35:45,970 --> 00:35:47,030 But he's only watching. 431 00:35:48,110 --> 00:35:50,190 And? And the woman doesn't know it. 432 00:35:50,970 --> 00:35:54,330 And? And he urges her to her knees. 433 00:35:54,810 --> 00:35:57,710 She begins to go around him with her luscious red mouth. 434 00:35:58,670 --> 00:35:59,670 And the other man? 435 00:36:00,370 --> 00:36:01,590 The one in the mirror? 436 00:36:01,850 --> 00:36:02,850 Mm-hmm. 437 00:36:03,130 --> 00:36:05,090 All the while continues to watch? 438 00:36:05,510 --> 00:36:06,510 Oh, of course. 439 00:36:07,250 --> 00:36:10,050 She's so lovely and accommodating, he can't keep his eyes off her. 440 00:36:11,250 --> 00:36:13,070 And the dark-haired man doesn't mind? 441 00:36:13,370 --> 00:36:16,550 Oh, not at all. As a matter of fact, he's extremely excited. 442 00:36:17,830 --> 00:36:20,870 I can't imagine that he would be. 443 00:36:21,130 --> 00:36:23,530 What if she looks up and sees the man in the mirror? 444 00:36:24,610 --> 00:36:25,610 Doesn't matter. 445 00:36:25,710 --> 00:36:26,970 Nothing can stop her now. 446 00:36:55,120 --> 00:37:01,660 Erotic talk during lovemaking excites many people. But here, too, partners 447 00:37:01,660 --> 00:37:05,300 often remain silent out of shyness or uncertainty. 448 00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:12,120 You can have fun discovering the kind of language that makes you both smolder by 449 00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:14,400 reading erotic literature aloud. 450 00:37:14,740 --> 00:37:21,060 Try an assortment of material, from the Victorian to the modern, from the poetic 451 00:37:21,060 --> 00:37:22,880 to the utterly raw. 452 00:37:26,670 --> 00:37:27,670 Now, listen to this. 453 00:37:28,230 --> 00:37:30,310 It might be good. We might learn something. 454 00:37:30,530 --> 00:37:31,530 Oh, yeah? Okay. 455 00:37:33,330 --> 00:37:38,250 I remarked upon what a voluptuous woman she had become and placed her hand upon 456 00:37:38,250 --> 00:37:42,050 the pulsing instrument and it protruded from my trousers. 457 00:37:43,110 --> 00:37:45,790 Gracious me, she exclaimed in an enraptured delight. 458 00:37:46,090 --> 00:37:48,490 What a gloriously stiff thing it is. 459 00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:55,620 Grasping my prick, she drew me down onto the sofa and lifted her petticoat back 460 00:37:55,620 --> 00:37:59,160 so that I might behold her moist pink love-gross. 461 00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,520 Love-gross. Oh, my. 462 00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:07,980 And having done so, I embarked on a lascivious attack that made the dear 463 00:38:07,980 --> 00:38:12,500 little creature tremble with uncontrollable lust as my mighty weapon 464 00:38:12,500 --> 00:38:13,780 thrust its way into her. 465 00:38:16,490 --> 00:38:19,550 Doesn't do anything for you. God, that's so weird. 466 00:38:20,630 --> 00:38:22,090 You mean gracious me? 467 00:38:22,490 --> 00:38:24,550 What a glorious dip thing you have. 468 00:38:25,170 --> 00:38:27,490 Doesn't make you want to plunge into my love grotto? 469 00:38:27,810 --> 00:38:28,810 Love grotto. 470 00:38:30,090 --> 00:38:31,210 Let's get rid of this. 471 00:38:32,070 --> 00:38:36,590 And we're going to try another one. 472 00:38:37,270 --> 00:38:38,270 Let's see here. 473 00:38:40,330 --> 00:38:41,530 Comfy? Mm-hmm. 474 00:38:42,490 --> 00:38:43,650 Okay, here we go. Okay. 475 00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:47,300 He sat directly across from Marta on the train. 476 00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:52,080 A tiny bead of sweat glistened in the cleft between her pale, heaving breath. 477 00:38:53,100 --> 00:38:57,280 She could feel him drinking her in, just a sip at a time, whenever she glanced 478 00:38:57,280 --> 00:38:58,280 out the window. 479 00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:00,000 Finally, their eyes met. 480 00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:04,820 Her nipples were hard buds straining against the thin, damp cotton of her 481 00:39:04,820 --> 00:39:05,820 blouse. 482 00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:09,480 When she got up to find the restroom, he was inside the compartment before the 483 00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:10,480 door was half closed. 484 00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:13,680 Their lips met in an endless kiss. 485 00:39:15,820 --> 00:39:19,640 His hand came up to grasp her head, and as she pushed her mouth harder into his, 486 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:22,240 she pressed herself into his groin. 487 00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:28,420 She could feel the rock-hard bulge in his jeans and her palm molded to it. 488 00:39:30,580 --> 00:39:34,840 He took her scurry and stroked her with his fingers. 489 00:39:35,900 --> 00:39:39,040 She was soaking, delirious with desire for him. 490 00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:42,560 No panties. 491 00:39:43,260 --> 00:39:45,320 It was such delicious wetness. 492 00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:48,020 You must want it as much as I do, she murmured. 493 00:39:49,060 --> 00:39:53,820 He licked her juices from his finger and in one fierce move thrust into her, 494 00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:57,340 slamming her backward again at the metal wall of the compartment. 495 00:39:58,580 --> 00:40:00,920 Martha groaned as she gasped. 496 00:40:01,260 --> 00:40:02,960 Her breath leaped out of her. 497 00:40:03,700 --> 00:40:05,520 That's it, that's it, she moaned. 498 00:40:06,500 --> 00:40:10,260 You like that, don't you, he asked, pummeling her harder, prolonging each 499 00:40:10,260 --> 00:40:11,260 stroke. 500 00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:14,000 Yes. 501 00:40:15,820 --> 00:40:16,820 I love it. 502 00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:19,760 That's it. 503 00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:21,920 David. Yeah. 504 00:40:23,220 --> 00:40:26,480 You impressed me with your mighty instrument. 505 00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:29,040 Oh. Now. 506 00:40:31,140 --> 00:40:32,360 That's not what I want to hear. 507 00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:34,020 Say it like you mean it. 508 00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:35,640 I do mean it. 509 00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:38,920 I love the way you feel inside me. 510 00:40:39,240 --> 00:40:40,460 I want you. 511 00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,060 I want every last thing to you. 512 00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:08,140 Even men and women who have been together for years can be shy about 513 00:41:08,140 --> 00:41:10,220 revealing how they want to be pleased. 514 00:41:10,500 --> 00:41:16,620 And making a playful, sexy game out of sharing your needs may inspire the 515 00:41:16,620 --> 00:41:19,140 erotic interlude of your dreams. 516 00:41:21,300 --> 00:41:22,960 Morning. Morning. 517 00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:30,640 I thought we'd play a little game this morning. 518 00:41:30,980 --> 00:41:32,440 What? Yeah. 519 00:41:33,870 --> 00:41:37,210 I'm going to start touching you, but you've got to tell me what to do or I'm 520 00:41:37,210 --> 00:41:38,210 going to stop. 521 00:41:38,290 --> 00:41:39,290 Okay? 522 00:41:39,630 --> 00:41:40,609 You're kidding. 523 00:41:40,610 --> 00:41:41,610 Those are the rules. 524 00:41:43,530 --> 00:41:44,408 All right? 525 00:41:44,410 --> 00:41:45,410 Okay. 526 00:41:45,770 --> 00:41:46,770 Tell me what to do. 527 00:41:47,690 --> 00:41:48,690 Kiss me. 528 00:41:50,810 --> 00:41:52,190 That sounds wonderful. 529 00:41:54,830 --> 00:41:55,830 What's wrong? 530 00:41:56,170 --> 00:41:58,070 Nothing. You stop, so I stop. 531 00:41:58,850 --> 00:42:00,430 Heavens, you are serious, aren't you? 532 00:42:00,750 --> 00:42:01,750 Mm-hmm. 533 00:42:01,830 --> 00:42:02,850 Okay. All right. 534 00:42:03,260 --> 00:42:04,920 All right. I'll try. I promise. 535 00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:06,200 All right. 536 00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:07,360 My ear. 537 00:42:10,500 --> 00:42:13,380 Yeah. Let me feel your tongue in my ear. 538 00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:14,680 Mm-hmm. 539 00:42:16,620 --> 00:42:17,620 Your teeth. 540 00:42:18,020 --> 00:42:19,140 Teeth? Mm-hmm. 541 00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:21,000 A little. 542 00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:24,020 I need a tickle. 543 00:42:25,300 --> 00:42:26,300 Kiss my neck. 544 00:42:32,620 --> 00:42:33,620 Kiss my neck. 545 00:42:33,860 --> 00:42:35,060 My shoulders. 546 00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:36,600 My shoulders. 547 00:42:37,020 --> 00:42:38,600 I love when you do. 548 00:42:42,220 --> 00:42:44,100 I love my brows. 549 00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:45,840 Gladly. 550 00:42:48,340 --> 00:42:49,340 Squeeze. 551 00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:51,600 Kiss. 552 00:42:56,460 --> 00:42:57,460 Like that. 553 00:42:57,580 --> 00:42:58,580 A little bit? 554 00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:00,600 Like that. 555 00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:07,480 How good? 556 00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:11,200 Give me a hug. 557 00:43:14,240 --> 00:43:16,780 Hold me tight. 558 00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:39,640 Oh, right there. 559 00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:42,600 Bye. 560 00:43:44,500 --> 00:43:45,800 Oh, yeah. Oh, 561 00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:47,880 God. 562 00:43:48,340 --> 00:43:49,780 He's teasing me. 563 00:44:53,550 --> 00:44:54,870 I want to do the same for you. 564 00:44:55,770 --> 00:44:57,910 Oh, God, honey, I'm sorry. I've got to go to work. 565 00:44:58,570 --> 00:44:59,930 David, that's not fair. 566 00:45:00,130 --> 00:45:01,130 No, I'm really sorry. 567 00:45:02,190 --> 00:45:03,470 I've got to go, though. 568 00:45:03,750 --> 00:45:04,750 What about tonight? 569 00:45:05,570 --> 00:45:06,570 Maybe. 570 00:45:07,230 --> 00:45:09,070 Maybe. I love you. 571 00:45:09,550 --> 00:45:10,550 I love you. 572 00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:23,460 We've had our share of problems, just like anybody, but we've always managed 573 00:45:23,460 --> 00:45:24,460 to work through them. 574 00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:28,900 Yeah, no matter what else was happening in our life, we always had this great 575 00:45:28,900 --> 00:45:30,460 sex, you know. 576 00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:32,720 And then we hit the skid. 577 00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:37,540 And then all of a sudden, boom, it was gone. It was like the fire and all the 578 00:45:37,540 --> 00:45:38,540 passion just left. 579 00:45:40,260 --> 00:45:43,580 And I'm going through this whole routine in my head, like he's probably having an 580 00:45:43,580 --> 00:45:44,580 affair. 581 00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:46,400 And it's really been scaring me. 582 00:45:47,020 --> 00:45:49,560 I mean, believe me, the last thing I want is an affair. 583 00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:55,420 But you get to a point where you start to ask yourself, can't I just cruise for 584 00:45:55,420 --> 00:45:58,920 a while? Stop trying so hard. At my age, I'm a grandfather. 585 00:45:59,260 --> 00:46:03,160 At my age, haven't I earned the right to put sex on autopilot and just let things 586 00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:07,360 happen? Well, that's a good idea in theory, except not much is happening. 587 00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:13,560 I mean... Don't you remember all those little things that we used to do that 588 00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:14,560 kept it hot? 589 00:46:14,780 --> 00:46:16,200 And all the little... 590 00:46:16,430 --> 00:46:18,850 Surprises? Don't you miss our adventures? 591 00:46:20,810 --> 00:46:21,810 Yeah, yeah. 592 00:46:22,650 --> 00:46:23,890 Sometimes I do, yeah. 593 00:46:25,170 --> 00:46:26,170 What are you thinking? 594 00:46:27,350 --> 00:46:31,830 I was just thinking about the time that we were at the supermarket in the middle 595 00:46:31,830 --> 00:46:36,150 of the frozen food section and you started whispering to me about sneaking 596 00:46:36,150 --> 00:46:39,930 off and doing it in the stock room on the orange crates. 597 00:46:41,110 --> 00:46:44,270 Yeah, and then remember all those little notes we used to leave for each other on 598 00:46:44,270 --> 00:46:45,510 the refrigerator door and then... 599 00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:50,780 You would call me up at work, and we'd get all sexy on the phone, and then we'd 600 00:46:50,780 --> 00:46:52,580 hope no one else would pick up the other line, of course. 601 00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:54,980 It wasn't all that long ago. 602 00:46:55,300 --> 00:46:56,520 No, it wasn't. 603 00:46:57,840 --> 00:46:59,420 How can we just let everything slide? 604 00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:03,700 I don't think we're cruising at all. I just think we've taken each other for 605 00:47:03,700 --> 00:47:04,700 granted. 606 00:47:06,860 --> 00:47:10,060 And I always thought that we would be different. 607 00:47:15,790 --> 00:47:18,190 No, I told him that I didn't think he should send it there. 608 00:47:18,910 --> 00:47:22,770 Send it that way and put it all together. Keeping the passion alive 609 00:47:22,770 --> 00:47:26,930 after many years together does take some ongoing commitment. 610 00:47:27,410 --> 00:47:32,710 But with a little effort, even the most difficult circumstances can be turned 611 00:47:32,710 --> 00:47:39,030 around. No matter how long you've been together, use your imagination and a 612 00:47:39,030 --> 00:47:40,430 dash of impulsiveness. 613 00:47:40,940 --> 00:47:46,540 to transform otherwise ordinary days into surprising, sexy adventures. 614 00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:48,120 Ooh la la. 615 00:47:51,380 --> 00:47:52,400 Fabulous. 616 00:47:53,940 --> 00:47:55,640 He's so sweet. 617 00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:02,120 What a great guy. 618 00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:08,700 Jim? Yeah. 619 00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:10,620 Packages came for you. Special delivery. 620 00:48:11,180 --> 00:48:12,180 You're kidding. 621 00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:14,720 Okay, thanks. You're welcome. 622 00:48:17,240 --> 00:48:18,520 Where could this be? 623 00:48:27,620 --> 00:48:30,200 Up there? 624 00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:42,320 I can't... bear to go through the whole workday without feeling your hot lips on 625 00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:45,600 mine. Oh, Connie. 626 00:48:47,700 --> 00:48:49,600 I think you deserve a little surprise. 627 00:48:50,700 --> 00:48:55,460 Lisa. Yes, Jim? I'm off to a meeting. I'll be back sometime after two. 628 00:48:55,700 --> 00:48:59,640 Okay. Excite your partner with your unpredictability. 629 00:49:00,140 --> 00:49:03,600 Remember the fantasy she shared with you so long ago? 630 00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:07,720 Bring it to life when she least expects it. 631 00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:11,920 I got your message. 632 00:49:12,140 --> 00:49:15,660 So here I am with hot lips and a tasty lunch. 633 00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:17,360 Oh, come here, you. 634 00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:24,140 You are just full of surprises. There are as many ways to keep the fire 635 00:49:24,140 --> 00:49:26,700 burning in your marriage as you can divide. 636 00:49:27,140 --> 00:49:30,120 An impromptu office picnic is just one. 637 00:49:30,820 --> 00:49:35,360 List the romantic or erotic surprises you could spring on your partner. 638 00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:38,840 Then put one into action each week. 639 00:49:40,140 --> 00:49:41,320 Come on over here, sweetheart. 640 00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:43,080 Oh, I like the bear. 641 00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:45,060 Can't bear to be without one. 642 00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:49,060 So, how's your game been? 643 00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:51,160 I got the Johnson account. 644 00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:52,399 You're kidding. 645 00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:55,100 Finally, I did it. That's so great. Congratulations. 646 00:49:55,940 --> 00:50:00,200 Thank you. Remember when you first met and getting to know each other was 647 00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:03,440 filled with unpredictability and spontaneity? 648 00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:05,240 Yeah, I got your finger. 649 00:50:05,780 --> 00:50:08,500 And that arrives. 650 00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:15,180 Well, now that you know each other so much better, you can continue to 651 00:50:15,180 --> 00:50:20,860 astonish your partner in simple, thoughtful, or wildly unexpected ways. 652 00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:25,920 Keep the element of surprise a vital part of your relationship. 653 00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:32,040 A special experience can take very little time to plan, yet it has a 654 00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:36,540 potent, lasting effect on the way you feel about each other. 655 00:50:45,260 --> 00:50:48,760 Thank you, dear. You should come more often. I will, I will. Boy, I only like 656 00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:49,760 this. 657 00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:55,100 No matter how familiar you are with each other's bodies, long, sweet, passionate 658 00:50:55,100 --> 00:50:59,940 kisses will always have the power to send you back in time and perhaps make 659 00:50:59,940 --> 00:51:03,700 you feel like infatuated teenagers all over again. 660 00:51:19,879 --> 00:51:21,080 No, I'll get back to him later. 661 00:51:21,420 --> 00:51:22,420 Just tell him that. 662 00:51:24,380 --> 00:51:25,380 That's okay. 663 00:51:25,980 --> 00:51:27,660 Honey, you just tell him that later, all right? 664 00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:29,040 Okay. 665 00:51:58,820 --> 00:51:59,820 Last call. 666 00:52:00,180 --> 00:52:01,640 Yeah? Yes, pretty. 667 00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:05,080 No, I don't need that call right now. No? 668 00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:06,960 No? 669 00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:11,360 No, no, take a lunch break and... Okay, enjoy. 670 00:52:12,620 --> 00:52:13,620 Take a long one. 671 00:52:14,260 --> 00:52:15,340 Bye. Thank you. 672 00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:19,380 You're impulsive, I tell you. 673 00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:23,040 Did you get my present? 674 00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:25,020 Did I get your present? 675 00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:27,440 Yes, I did, and it's beautiful. 676 00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:32,560 Why don't you go take your clothes off and put them on? 677 00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:34,300 Well, I did already. 678 00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:37,640 Really? I did already. 679 00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:39,480 Well, let me see. 680 00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:48,560 You look just like I imagined you would. 681 00:52:48,860 --> 00:52:55,180 You're crazy. 682 00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:49,840 It can be exhilarating to imagine making love in unusual places, tinged with a 683 00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:51,700 slight element of risk. 684 00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:58,060 And sometimes, bringing those thoughts to life is just what you need to carry 685 00:54:58,060 --> 00:55:01,020 you and your mate to new peaks of excitement. 686 00:55:01,820 --> 00:55:03,220 Don't hold back. 687 00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:06,000 Share the spirit of adventure. 688 00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:12,140 Create the thrilling and tender moments that remain alive in your memory. 689 00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:13,980 for years to come. 690 00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:24,760 I love you. 691 00:56:24,820 --> 00:56:25,820 I love you. 692 00:56:26,720 --> 00:56:28,740 That was such a wonderful surprise. 693 00:56:29,720 --> 00:56:31,000 Well, you deserve it. 694 00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:33,480 We're so lucky. 695 00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:49,280 If you cherish the intimacy you've shared throughout the years, you can 696 00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:53,140 rekindle the sense of infatuation you felt in the beginning. 697 00:56:54,940 --> 00:56:57,520 Don't let love slip through your fingers. 698 00:56:57,740 --> 00:57:04,300 Make a vow to nurture it, to celebrate it. And as you do, keep these 699 00:57:04,300 --> 00:57:05,500 secrets in mind. 700 00:57:07,530 --> 00:57:13,150 Let your private moments become a source of strength and energy to counter the 701 00:57:13,150 --> 00:57:19,030 stresses of the day. Try breaking out of routines that keep you from making love 702 00:57:19,030 --> 00:57:20,470 as often as you'd like. 703 00:57:21,050 --> 00:57:24,170 Savor the differences between your partner and yourself. 704 00:57:24,570 --> 00:57:26,590 Stretch your own boundaries. 705 00:57:26,950 --> 00:57:33,930 Be inventive. Create surprises by freeing your sense of eroticism, whimsy, 706 00:57:33,930 --> 00:57:34,930 and humor. 707 00:57:35,550 --> 00:57:38,930 Be verbal about your sexual needs and desires. 708 00:57:39,450 --> 00:57:41,450 Risk sharing deeply. 709 00:57:54,570 --> 00:58:00,250 And never forget that your love is just as strong as you make it. 710 00:58:00,670 --> 00:58:03,390 No matter how long you've been together. 711 00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:07,480 Your romance has only begun. 54467

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