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Jacob wanted Natalie's privates
to be more private.
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- What the [bleep]
is that picture for?
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- That it [bleep] works.
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- While Heidi and Spencer
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try to joke their way
through the boot camp.
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Spencer, you're just
playing us now.
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- Rachel finally got
the truth from Tyson...
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- I can never love her
more than she loves me.
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- You didn't say,
"I love her."
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- But Tyson's sweet-talking
got him out of hot water.
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- I should have married you.
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- Tonight, a friendship
is betrayed.
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- What, bitch? We supposed
to be on the same team!
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- And a secret is revealed
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that turns the entire house
upside-down.
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You're being fake
as [bleep].
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- Who are you?
- You don't want this
[bleep] tornado.
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- Let Natalie
let you know
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how I feel!
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- Five famous couples
face a whole new reality.
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- Who the [ bleep ] are
you talking to?
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- They must fight to save their
failing relationships...
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- I'll knock you
the [ bleep ] out.
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- ...or decide whether
to call it quits.
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- It's time to move on
in our lives.
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- This has become unlivable.
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- You don't want this tornado!
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- I'm gonna beat your ass.
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- Marriage--
that's why I'm here.
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- When reality
comes crashing down...
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- It's disgusting
and it's awful!
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- ...Jim and Elizabeth Carroll
are their last chance.
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This is "Marriage Boot Camp:
Reality Stars."
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[ alarm clock blaring ]
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- So you think
it's gonna go down today?
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- Something outside,
- So that was my thought
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this is a strange place.
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- I'm definitely not
too excited to be here.
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I'm ready to go home.
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- You wanna see my portrait
I did of the cast?
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- Yeah.
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- Here we all are.
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- What?
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- He drew everybody
in the house.
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- Mm-hmm.
- Um, stick figures, mind you.
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- All right, look,
there you are, Jay.
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You got big old muscles
all over your arms.
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- That's gotta be
so irritating.
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- You got a six-pack
and you got your beard.
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- Spencer's [ bleep ] weird.
Like, he's like a kid.
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He's just a little kid.
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- Today's gonna be pretty
intense, I'm sure.
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- We'll do just fine.
- Maybe.
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- Good morning, Boot Campers.
Come join us outside.
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- So we're onto
another drill.
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We walk outside and there is
a million balls
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with marital problems
written on them.
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I mean, are we all gonna
throw the balls?
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- I'm not touching
anyone's balls.
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- I don't wanna touch
anyone's balls either.
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- Good.
- All right. Okay.
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- Well, there are somebody's
balls you can touch.
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- I don't want--
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- We've been conducting these
boot camps for 20 years,
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and the number one thing
we hear out of spouses is,
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"Will you tell them
it's their fault?"
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- Yep.
- Oh, yeah.
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- So now is your chance,
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because today
is all about blame.
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Each of these balls are labeled
with a relationship issue.
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- So you guys will go
and select an issue
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that you want to resolve.
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Explain why the issue
is your spouse's fault
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and toss them the ball.
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Your spouse will then explain
why it's your fault
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and throw the ball back.
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- Natalie and Jacob,
you are first.
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- This is gonna be rough
for Natalie
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'cause I had a little aggression
that I needed to let out.
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I chose respect.
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I feel you respect me,
but only to a certain extent.
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- Are you [ bleep ]
kidding me?
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- When people toss around blame,
they don't realize
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the negative effect
it has on their partner
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and the relationship.
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- Catch that damn ball, girl.
- It's a little heavy.
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I'm not gonna lie.
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- Using heavy medicine balls
makes the intangible tangible.
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It adds a physical weight
to the emotional weight,
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and this helps them understand
the damage they're doing.
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- You disrespect me
by the social media posts
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you put up,
the way you talk to me,
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sometimes the way
you treat me.
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I shouldn't have
to demand respect.
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- All right. Natalie,
now you go pick a ball.
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- I'm just thinking to myself,
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this whole damn rack is
the issues we're working on.
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It's gonna get crazy.
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The children thing.
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It's not that I don't
want to have kids,
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but I feel like
the kid thing is ridiculous
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and you're just trying
to pin me down.
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- You need to slow down.
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- Well, having kids
doesn't mean
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that I just need
to slow down.
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I don't need to just stop.
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- What does that mean then?
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- No, the family issue
is not going to resolve me
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just slowing down.
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- Well, your family...
- No, keep the ball.
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- ...isn't a 100% fond
of me either.
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- Your family started
with all the drama
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in the first place, Jacob.
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There was no family drama
until your family came in
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and started attacking me,
saying, "Oh, she's bad."
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That's [ bleep ] rude.
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You're always trying
to [ bleep ] blame me
for everything.
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Oh, she's the bad girl!
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So let's throw all
the balls at me.
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- You're not a bad girl?
- Get over in your circle.
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- Listen.
- Bye, go.
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- You don't have to put
your hands on me.
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- No, go over there.
No, seriously.
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- Listen--listen.
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- Go over there.
No, I'm not.
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- Don't put
your hands on me.
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- Don't [ bleeping ] do that.
Those are yours.
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- You wouldn't put your
hands on me at home,
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don't put your hands
on me here.
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- Do it.
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- All right, here we go.
- Throw your ass in the lake.
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- One--one.
- Okay.
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I don't like this drill...
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- Can we talk
more about this?
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- ...'cause it
makes me angry.
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I don't like
being angry, okay?
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- So what are you gonna
do with that anger?
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- I'm gonna knock
this whole [ bleep ] over,
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that's what I'm gonna do.
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- You tell her from your heart
how you're feeling
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about all this crap
right now.
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- You make me so mad
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that I possibly can
end up in jail.
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- And what's gonna happen
if you guys cannot resolve
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and communicate it out?
What's gonna happen?
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- We'll probably be
in divorce court
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and I'll be slapping [ bleep ]
in front of the judge.
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- That's it. You're done.
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- Syleena and Kiwane,
come on.
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- This should be interesting.
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I did not know if
I was gonna be able
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to throw these heavy balls.
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I would change
Kiwane's communication.
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You--you're terrible with
communication, period.
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There's nothing really else
to even say about it.
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You don't be talking, man.
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You can't just think
some stuff and be thinking
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that you talking like--
- Okay, you know what?
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- I think he dreams
that he talks.
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- You know what?
You know--
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- And then it--like,
he woke up and then
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he thought he said
some stuff.
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- You--
- But you was dreaming.
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- You're going too far.
Separate lives.
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This is what goes on
in our household.
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Me with the kids,
you on your phone.
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- Maybe they wouldn't
be separate if you tried
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to join in on some of
the things that I'm doing.
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- The separate lives thing
is really true for both of us.
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So I'm gonna put it
in the middle.
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- We're at a stalemate.
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- You the man. You supposed
to carry the ball, dude.
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- Don't worry about it,
I can handle--
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- You wouldn't want me
to carry balls.
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- Never.
- Okay then.
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- I feel like you don't have
a true value of what money is.
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And so you get money.
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- I think that you're spoiled.
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I think that you might have
needed less money
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to have a better evaluation
of what life is about.
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- I personally would
like our children
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to go to the best schools,
and you would
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be fine with your kids
going to public schools.
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So you take money 'cause
you don't care about money.
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- Yeah, I think
public school's great,
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and I don't want
spoiled brats.
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So we don't need what
you think we need.
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I'm the accountant.
You don't know.
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- Just--just because
you have money
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does not make you spoiled.
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- Okay, it's Heidi's turn.
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- Oh, here's the big one.
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- All right.
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So this is what I care
about the most,
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is children and family.
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And I think it's time for you
to kind of open up
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and let your fears
stop controlling you.
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I don't think you respect
yourself enough.
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- I definitely don't respect
myself,
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and I don't respect you,
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and I don't respect
our marriage,
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because I feel like
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we've made so many
bad decisions...
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- Oh, wow.
- Ohh.
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- ...that I'm not ready
to have kids right now.
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I don't think her daughter
or son would care
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how old their mom is
if their mom is a good mom.
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- I think you're putting
words in my mouth,
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and that's not how I feel,
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and that's not why
I want children.
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We've been together
for eight years.
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I think you're just
wanting another reason
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to hold us back,
and it's like,
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how long are you gonna
do that for?
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- Okay, you guys are done.
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- Whatever. It's done.
- Next group.
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- I'm just done
with this whole thing.
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I'm at my snapping point.
This is so frustrating.
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- The issue is
public opinion.
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Reid has the problem
that I'm on social media
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and I'm the only one taking
the heat for public negativity.
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So I think
it's largely your fault.
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- Shut it off.
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[ groans ]
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- Shut off the Internet
and focus on our family.
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- Next topic.
- Reid, go pick one.
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- I really am tired
of being blamed
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for the public
opinion situation.
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It's not fair.
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- Family.
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You need to learn
to respect my family.
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- I totally respect
your family.
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I would like your family
back in our lives.
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I think that our kids
are missing out
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because you won't communicate
with your parents.
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- I'm shutting out
my own parents.
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It's been a strain
in our relationship.
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We haven't
been communicating.
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We haven't been spending
as much time together.
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- It's your responsibility to
communicate with your family
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to make it better.
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Otherwise, the kids are gonna
be off to college
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and never have any memories
of their grandparents,
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who live five minutes away.
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- Great.
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00:09:02,645 --> 00:09:04,267
Now, come on, Reid.
Why won't you do that?
247
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Put the family back together.
248
00:09:05,924 --> 00:09:07,581
- I can't change them.
249
00:09:07,616 --> 00:09:10,480
I'm asking you just
to roll with it.
250
00:09:10,515 --> 00:09:11,930
- Oh, wow.
- Oh.
251
00:09:11,965 --> 00:09:13,345
- Reid is concerned
about Aviva's career
252
00:09:13,380 --> 00:09:15,451
having a negative impact
on the relationship.
253
00:09:15,485 --> 00:09:18,212
- But Reid pushing his parents
out of his family's life
254
00:09:18,247 --> 00:09:21,008
could prove to be
even more damaging.
255
00:09:21,043 --> 00:09:22,389
Okay, here we go.
You guys ready?
256
00:09:22,423 --> 00:09:23,597
- Yeah.
257
00:09:23,632 --> 00:09:26,289
- Last couple. Tyson
and Rachel. Let's go.
258
00:09:26,324 --> 00:09:29,396
- I feel pretty good.
I'm ready to brawl, so...
259
00:09:29,430 --> 00:09:31,812
- Knock him down.
- Don't be afraid to...
260
00:09:31,847 --> 00:09:33,814
- Get him, Rachel! Step up!
- This is selfishness.
261
00:09:33,849 --> 00:09:35,644
We've been together
for six years.
262
00:09:35,678 --> 00:09:39,164
This whole relationship
has been around your timeline
263
00:09:39,199 --> 00:09:40,890
and what you want to do.
264
00:09:40,925 --> 00:09:44,722
I've asked for one thing and
I haven't been given it yet.
265
00:09:44,756 --> 00:09:48,449
It's time. Like, it's--
it's Rachel time.
266
00:09:48,484 --> 00:09:49,450
- Amen.
267
00:09:49,485 --> 00:09:51,798
- Come on Rachel Time.
- Whoo!
268
00:09:51,832 --> 00:09:55,456
- Everybody here is gonna be
on Rachel's side no matter what.
269
00:09:55,491 --> 00:09:58,114
And so I'm like,
scanning all of the balls,
270
00:09:58,149 --> 00:10:01,221
being like, what can
my argument even be?
271
00:10:01,255 --> 00:10:03,292
- Wow.
- What?
272
00:10:03,326 --> 00:10:07,089
- Didn't see that coming.
- Didn't see that coming.
273
00:10:07,123 --> 00:10:08,711
- So I picked quality time.
274
00:10:08,746 --> 00:10:12,128
How many times have you
sent me a text at 6:00 P.M.
275
00:10:12,163 --> 00:10:13,785
saying I'm gonna be home
at 6:30
276
00:10:13,820 --> 00:10:15,615
and you get home
at two in the morning?
277
00:10:15,649 --> 00:10:18,238
And I don't get a text
that says you're coming home
278
00:10:18,272 --> 00:10:20,067
at two in the morning.
How many times?
279
00:10:20,102 --> 00:10:21,172
- Whoa.
280
00:10:21,206 --> 00:10:22,656
- A lot of times.
- A lot of times.
281
00:10:22,691 --> 00:10:24,865
- [ bleep ]
- A lot of times.
282
00:10:24,900 --> 00:10:28,386
- Oh, my God, that's cruel.
That's just cruel.
283
00:10:28,420 --> 00:10:30,250
- And now I do
the same thing to you,
284
00:10:30,284 --> 00:10:32,217
but only because
you do it to me.
285
00:10:32,252 --> 00:10:34,841
- What are you two doing out
until two in the morning?
286
00:10:34,875 --> 00:10:38,189
- That's what I'm saying!
- I got you Tyson.
287
00:10:38,223 --> 00:10:39,604
I'm done with this marriage.
288
00:10:39,639 --> 00:10:42,849
- Oh, my gosh.
Rachel cheating.
289
00:10:42,883 --> 00:10:44,505
- This is crazy.
290
00:10:44,540 --> 00:10:47,543
Oh [ bleep ].
Oh [ bleep ].
291
00:10:47,577 --> 00:10:48,648
- No ring.
292
00:10:48,682 --> 00:10:50,753
- Only bad things happen
after midnight.
293
00:10:53,445 --> 00:10:56,586
- Coming up on "Marriage Boot
Camp: Reality Stars"...
294
00:10:56,621 --> 00:10:59,659
- 2:00 A.M., Rach.
That is crazy.
295
00:10:59,693 --> 00:11:00,867
- 2:30, I heard.
296
00:11:00,901 --> 00:11:02,938
- If Spencer did that to me,
I would leave him.
297
00:11:02,972 --> 00:11:04,836
- The thirty rolls around.
I'm like, okay, nothing.
298
00:11:04,871 --> 00:11:07,425
11, 12,
I hear the door open.
299
00:11:07,459 --> 00:11:09,703
I hear her sneak around
to get in the shower.
300
00:11:09,738 --> 00:11:12,361
- In the shower?
301
00:11:17,331 --> 00:11:20,265
- How many times have you
sent me a text at 6:00 P.M.
302
00:11:20,300 --> 00:11:22,060
saying I'm gonna
be home at 6:30
303
00:11:22,095 --> 00:11:25,029
and you get home at two
in the morning?
304
00:11:25,063 --> 00:11:27,031
That's yours.
305
00:11:27,065 --> 00:11:28,653
- First of all,
I work at a bar
306
00:11:28,688 --> 00:11:29,999
that closes
at one in the morning.
307
00:11:30,034 --> 00:11:32,001
- Once every two weeks!
308
00:11:32,036 --> 00:11:34,521
You work once every
two weeks maximum now.
309
00:11:34,555 --> 00:11:35,902
I'm waiting
to spend time with you
310
00:11:35,936 --> 00:11:37,248
and you're not there.
311
00:11:37,282 --> 00:11:40,389
- She's been waiting for
a wedding ring for how long?
312
00:11:40,423 --> 00:11:41,908
Team Rachel, all the way.
313
00:11:41,942 --> 00:11:43,185
That's right, girl.
314
00:11:43,219 --> 00:11:45,774
You better turn up and
let him know what it is!
315
00:11:45,808 --> 00:11:48,431
- That's yours.
I'm not taking that one.
316
00:11:48,466 --> 00:11:50,226
- Changes everything.
It's a game changer.
317
00:11:50,261 --> 00:11:51,572
- Yeah.
318
00:11:51,607 --> 00:11:52,573
- I'm gonna--
I'm gonna zip up.
319
00:11:52,608 --> 00:11:53,816
- Okay, you guys are done.
320
00:11:53,851 --> 00:11:56,888
- I see Tyson and
Rachel's issues
321
00:11:56,923 --> 00:11:59,097
in a completely
different light now.
322
00:11:59,132 --> 00:12:00,650
It was so crazy.
323
00:12:00,685 --> 00:12:02,756
- You know, tossing blame back
and forth is mentally
324
00:12:02,791 --> 00:12:05,103
and physically exhausting.
325
00:12:05,138 --> 00:12:06,656
Regardless of
who's at fault,
326
00:12:06,691 --> 00:12:09,729
it's lost energy you can't
put toward positive things.
327
00:12:09,763 --> 00:12:11,178
- This was some intense stuff.
328
00:12:11,213 --> 00:12:13,077
I want you all to head inside
and think about
329
00:12:13,111 --> 00:12:15,148
how this drill impacted you.
330
00:12:18,496 --> 00:12:20,360
- Uh, I'm totally Team
Tyson right now.
331
00:12:20,394 --> 00:12:22,914
- The purpose of
the drill was for them
332
00:12:22,949 --> 00:12:25,399
to see that blame
doesn't work.
333
00:12:25,434 --> 00:12:28,437
- 2:00 A.M., Rach.
That is crazy.
334
00:12:28,471 --> 00:12:29,783
- 2:30, I heard.
335
00:12:29,818 --> 00:12:31,681
- It's been 6:00 A.M.,
sometimes.
336
00:12:31,716 --> 00:12:33,476
- Holy [ bleep ].
- Wow.
337
00:12:33,511 --> 00:12:35,168
- Rachel does not
have a voice.
338
00:12:35,202 --> 00:12:37,204
And the only place
she finds her voice
339
00:12:37,239 --> 00:12:40,380
is when she gets
to control him by being late.
340
00:12:40,414 --> 00:12:41,519
- Yeah.
341
00:12:41,553 --> 00:12:42,658
- This is classic
passive aggression.
342
00:12:42,692 --> 00:12:43,693
- Yes!
343
00:12:43,728 --> 00:12:45,765
- Or it could be
something much darker.
344
00:12:45,799 --> 00:12:47,076
- Natalie and Jacob.
345
00:12:47,111 --> 00:12:48,837
- I have a feeling
that the verbal abuse
346
00:12:48,871 --> 00:12:51,149
he takes is way worse...
- Much worse.
347
00:12:51,184 --> 00:12:52,599
- ...then anything
we just saw.
348
00:12:52,633 --> 00:12:54,704
- Yeah. And when I saw
his posture change and I saw--
349
00:12:54,739 --> 00:12:55,913
I was like,
350
00:12:55,947 --> 00:12:57,293
I wouldn't want to face off
with that man.
351
00:12:57,328 --> 00:12:58,432
- Uh-uh.
- Uh-uh.
352
00:12:58,467 --> 00:12:59,606
- But at least he knows
that's an issue
353
00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:00,641
and hopefully
through the boot camp,
354
00:13:00,676 --> 00:13:01,781
we can help him address that
355
00:13:01,815 --> 00:13:02,851
and he can verbalize...
- Yes.
356
00:13:02,885 --> 00:13:04,404
- ...versus just
shutting down.
357
00:13:04,438 --> 00:13:05,819
- Heidi and Spencer.
- Heidi and Spencer.
358
00:13:05,854 --> 00:13:08,373
- The number one thing
I see in Spencer is fear.
359
00:13:08,408 --> 00:13:09,512
- Mm-hmm.
- Mm.
360
00:13:09,547 --> 00:13:11,066
- Fear of bad decisions.
- Yes.
361
00:13:11,100 --> 00:13:12,308
- Fear of growing up.
362
00:13:12,343 --> 00:13:14,034
- And Heidi gets in his way
363
00:13:14,069 --> 00:13:16,761
by trying to make him
not feel bad.
364
00:13:16,796 --> 00:13:18,936
So she's wanting him to grow up,
while at the same time...
365
00:13:18,970 --> 00:13:20,661
- Protecting him.
366
00:13:20,696 --> 00:13:21,766
- We got some great
information here.
367
00:13:21,801 --> 00:13:22,871
- Mm-hmm.
368
00:13:22,905 --> 00:13:24,873
- Let's put it to work
in the next drill.
369
00:13:27,289 --> 00:13:30,533
- It's crazy how alliances
can shift so fast.
370
00:13:30,568 --> 00:13:32,984
- The bar on the weekends
closes at 1:00.
371
00:13:33,019 --> 00:13:34,952
- It's not in the bar.
I'm not talking about the bar.
372
00:13:34,986 --> 00:13:36,263
You keep bringing up the bar.
373
00:13:36,298 --> 00:13:39,508
- Honey, most of those
late nights are after work.
374
00:13:39,542 --> 00:13:41,717
- I'm absolutely
flabbergasted.
375
00:13:41,751 --> 00:13:45,410
That sweet girl from Utah
has just become
376
00:13:45,445 --> 00:13:47,136
something completely
different in my eyes.
377
00:13:47,171 --> 00:13:49,138
- If Spencer did that to me,
I would leave him.
378
00:13:49,173 --> 00:13:50,553
That's selfish.
379
00:13:50,588 --> 00:13:53,108
- I think this is getting
really exaggerated.
380
00:13:53,142 --> 00:13:55,386
I normally do respond
to your texts.
381
00:13:55,420 --> 00:13:57,043
- But not late at night.
382
00:13:57,077 --> 00:13:58,078
- It's not once
or twice a week.
383
00:13:58,113 --> 00:13:59,873
- Yes.
- It's not like that.
384
00:13:59,908 --> 00:14:01,219
- So I will ask her
where she's been
385
00:14:01,254 --> 00:14:02,496
and I tell her
it's not okay.
386
00:14:02,531 --> 00:14:04,602
And 8:30 rolls around,
I'm like, okay, nothing.
387
00:14:04,636 --> 00:14:08,088
11:00, I go to bed.
3:00, I hear the door open.
388
00:14:08,123 --> 00:14:10,332
I hear her sneak around,
get in the shower.
389
00:14:10,366 --> 00:14:12,058
- In the shower?
390
00:14:12,092 --> 00:14:13,887
- That's intense.
391
00:14:13,922 --> 00:14:16,545
If Spencer did that to me twice,
I would leave him.
392
00:14:16,579 --> 00:14:17,787
- I know,
I've heard you say that.
393
00:14:17,822 --> 00:14:21,239
- Heidi is on her repeat mode.
I get it.
394
00:14:21,274 --> 00:14:25,692
Like, they don't realize,
I'm hearing them loud and clear.
395
00:14:25,726 --> 00:14:28,039
- That's really gnarly.
- Thank you, Heidi, I know.
396
00:14:28,074 --> 00:14:31,353
She is just so stuck
on the fact
397
00:14:31,387 --> 00:14:33,665
that I have done
this to Tyson.
398
00:14:33,700 --> 00:14:35,909
- You won't hear me say
to marry her one more time.
399
00:14:35,944 --> 00:14:38,153
It's a wrap, dog.
400
00:14:41,501 --> 00:14:42,985
- Here's the issue.
- Yeah.
401
00:14:43,020 --> 00:14:44,504
- You can't wonder,
as the boyfriend...
402
00:14:44,538 --> 00:14:45,574
- But she demands--
403
00:14:45,608 --> 00:14:46,920
- ...every little thing
she's doing,
404
00:14:46,955 --> 00:14:47,921
every step of the way.
405
00:14:47,956 --> 00:14:48,922
- Natalie,
but she demands--
406
00:14:48,957 --> 00:14:49,923
- A husband now, yes.
407
00:14:49,958 --> 00:14:52,374
- Wow, I really
riled people up.
408
00:14:52,408 --> 00:14:54,272
- Everyone's blaming Rachel
for being out
409
00:14:54,307 --> 00:14:55,653
until 5:00 o'clock
in the morning.
410
00:14:55,687 --> 00:14:58,207
And, honestly,
I think Tyson's to blame.
411
00:14:58,242 --> 00:14:59,346
I'm still on your side,
girlfriend.
412
00:14:59,381 --> 00:15:00,347
- Oh, you are?
- Yeah.
413
00:15:00,382 --> 00:15:01,659
- She demands the same.
- Thank you.
414
00:15:01,693 --> 00:15:03,212
- She demands the reciprocate
from me, though.
415
00:15:03,247 --> 00:15:06,733
- Guess what?
You're just the boyfriend.
416
00:15:06,767 --> 00:15:09,943
Until you can really step up
and just say like,
417
00:15:09,978 --> 00:15:11,911
"I've been with you for
six years, here's a ring--"
418
00:15:11,945 --> 00:15:13,084
At least a [ bleep ] ring.
419
00:15:13,119 --> 00:15:15,466
Then you can say,
"I texted you last night.
420
00:15:15,500 --> 00:15:17,640
Where the [ bleep ] were you?
What are you doing?"
421
00:15:17,675 --> 00:15:21,265
- Natalie's the only one
that's defending me
422
00:15:21,299 --> 00:15:23,370
in this argument so far.
423
00:15:23,405 --> 00:15:26,097
I appreciate your points.
- Right.
424
00:15:26,132 --> 00:15:29,514
- But it has to change, huh?
That's fine.
425
00:15:29,549 --> 00:15:32,103
That's fine. I can change.
426
00:15:32,138 --> 00:15:36,107
- Boot campers,
come join us outside.
427
00:15:36,142 --> 00:15:37,419
- Oh, hell no.
- No.
428
00:15:37,453 --> 00:15:38,834
- Oh, wow.
429
00:15:42,872 --> 00:15:45,047
- Oh, my God.
430
00:15:45,082 --> 00:15:48,154
I don't think this is gonna be
any sort of playtime.
431
00:15:48,188 --> 00:15:49,500
It looks like a firing squad.
432
00:15:49,534 --> 00:15:51,951
- This is crazy.
433
00:15:53,780 --> 00:15:55,747
- When we played
the blame game outside,
434
00:15:55,782 --> 00:15:57,991
every one of you wanted
to think you were right.
435
00:15:58,026 --> 00:16:00,373
- You're always trying
to [ bleep ] blame me
for everything.
436
00:16:00,407 --> 00:16:03,065
- You're spoiled.
- Kiwane, you're terrible.
437
00:16:03,100 --> 00:16:04,515
- That's yours.
438
00:16:04,549 --> 00:16:08,139
- Now it's time
for majority rules.
439
00:16:08,174 --> 00:16:11,177
You're about to face
a firing squad of your peers.
440
00:16:11,211 --> 00:16:13,420
- Huh?
- [ bleep ].
441
00:16:13,455 --> 00:16:15,905
- And they will decide
who is to blame
442
00:16:15,940 --> 00:16:17,355
for your biggest issues.
443
00:16:17,390 --> 00:16:19,944
This drill is an opportunity
for the boot campers
444
00:16:19,979 --> 00:16:22,222
to gain valuable
perspective.
445
00:16:22,257 --> 00:16:24,466
- Normally, when you're pointing
a finger at your spouse,
446
00:16:24,500 --> 00:16:26,571
you're not listening
to what they have to say.
447
00:16:26,606 --> 00:16:29,333
But when you hear an outside
voice saying the same thing,
448
00:16:29,367 --> 00:16:31,335
it often carries more weight.
449
00:16:31,369 --> 00:16:33,889
- One couple at a time
will stand against the wall.
450
00:16:33,923 --> 00:16:35,787
You'll name
your biggest issue.
451
00:16:35,822 --> 00:16:37,375
And on our mark,
452
00:16:37,410 --> 00:16:40,896
the firing squad will shoot
who's to blame.
453
00:16:40,930 --> 00:16:42,242
- Okay, get geared up
454
00:16:42,277 --> 00:16:45,142
and meet us back out here
for the firing line.
455
00:16:45,176 --> 00:16:47,420
- [ sighs ]
- Here we go.
456
00:16:47,454 --> 00:16:49,215
This is not gonna be good.
457
00:16:49,249 --> 00:16:51,596
Natalie should never
have a gun in her hand.
458
00:16:51,631 --> 00:16:53,219
- God.
459
00:16:53,253 --> 00:16:54,392
- This is crazy.
460
00:16:54,427 --> 00:16:55,980
- Do you think
it's gonna hurt?
461
00:16:56,015 --> 00:16:57,361
- Yeah.
462
00:16:57,395 --> 00:16:59,915
- When we played
the blame game earlier today,
463
00:16:59,949 --> 00:17:02,883
they were all so interested
in proving that they were right.
464
00:17:02,918 --> 00:17:04,161
If they don't figure out
465
00:17:04,195 --> 00:17:05,886
blame does not work
in a relationship,
466
00:17:05,921 --> 00:17:08,924
then we're gonna have
a tough road to follow.
467
00:17:08,958 --> 00:17:10,615
- You want me to step in front
of all the bullets for you?
468
00:17:10,650 --> 00:17:13,066
- No.
- This is gonna be fun.
469
00:17:13,101 --> 00:17:16,069
We get to shoot people.
I'm kind of excited.
470
00:17:16,104 --> 00:17:18,175
- You're really messed up
in the head.
471
00:17:19,728 --> 00:17:21,143
- Grab you a gun
and line up.
472
00:17:21,178 --> 00:17:22,489
- All right.
473
00:17:22,524 --> 00:17:24,698
- There's gonna be slow singing
and flower bringing.
474
00:17:24,733 --> 00:17:27,839
- Rachel and Tyson,
step forward.
475
00:17:27,874 --> 00:17:29,427
- I'll remember who shoots me.
476
00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:34,363
- Nice Tyson.
- Very funny.
477
00:17:34,398 --> 00:17:37,056
- I'm feeling pretty good
about the cup on the outside
478
00:17:37,090 --> 00:17:38,747
'cause that's putting, like,
a target on him.
479
00:17:38,781 --> 00:17:40,473
- I'm the [ bleep ].
480
00:17:40,507 --> 00:17:41,819
- Everybody's gonna
wanna shoot that.
481
00:17:41,853 --> 00:17:45,961
- Look over here.
What was your biggest issue?
482
00:17:45,995 --> 00:17:48,205
- Quality time.
- Do you agree with that?
483
00:17:48,239 --> 00:17:49,206
- Yes.
- Aww.
484
00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:50,345
- Okay, David, quality time.
485
00:17:50,379 --> 00:17:53,417
- Quality time is the ball
that we choose.
486
00:17:53,451 --> 00:17:55,419
- So I'm--
- The ball that she chooses.
487
00:17:55,453 --> 00:17:56,868
I was quiet
'cause I was like,
488
00:17:56,903 --> 00:17:58,215
she's gonna choose marriage
489
00:17:58,249 --> 00:17:59,699
and everybody's still
gonna shoot my face off.
490
00:17:59,733 --> 00:18:01,597
She chooses quality time
491
00:18:01,632 --> 00:18:04,393
and I'm like,
I'll roll with that.
492
00:18:04,428 --> 00:18:06,395
- Okay, put your masks down.
493
00:18:06,430 --> 00:18:07,776
Put your hands
behind your back.
494
00:18:09,985 --> 00:18:11,711
Now that should do it,
right there.
495
00:18:11,745 --> 00:18:14,162
You gotta shoot who you
think's the most to blame
496
00:18:14,196 --> 00:18:16,440
for their problems.
497
00:18:16,474 --> 00:18:20,202
Lower your mask
and raise your guns.
498
00:18:27,106 --> 00:18:29,073
- I went with a sniper shot.
499
00:18:29,108 --> 00:18:31,006
This may be the only time
I get to shoot balls
500
00:18:31,040 --> 00:18:33,181
at my fellow campers.
501
00:18:33,215 --> 00:18:36,977
- Ready, aim...
502
00:18:38,738 --> 00:18:39,842
fire!
503
00:18:39,877 --> 00:18:40,843
[ gunshots ]
504
00:18:40,878 --> 00:18:43,122
- Ooh, oww.
505
00:18:43,156 --> 00:18:45,020
- Cease fire.
Cease fire.
506
00:18:45,054 --> 00:18:46,539
- Come stand right here.
507
00:18:46,573 --> 00:18:48,989
Okay. So I want you
to tell who you shot,
508
00:18:49,024 --> 00:18:50,853
who you blame,
and tell them why.
509
00:18:50,888 --> 00:18:53,270
- Well, I shot Rachel.
510
00:18:53,304 --> 00:18:54,616
I'm putting myself
in Tyson's shoes
511
00:18:54,650 --> 00:18:56,065
and that would, like,
512
00:18:56,100 --> 00:18:58,723
pretty much break my heart and
make me so angry and upset.
513
00:18:58,758 --> 00:18:59,931
- That's good.
514
00:18:59,966 --> 00:19:01,485
Heidi, who'd you shoot
and why?
515
00:19:01,519 --> 00:19:04,453
- I shot you because
I would never do that
516
00:19:04,488 --> 00:19:05,868
to Spencer and I--
517
00:19:05,903 --> 00:19:09,838
- Not everybody does exactly
what Spencer and Heidi do.
518
00:19:09,872 --> 00:19:11,874
- That was so rude.
519
00:19:11,909 --> 00:19:13,842
- I shot Tyson.
520
00:19:13,876 --> 00:19:16,431
- Tyson, I shot you.
- I shot you, Tyson.
521
00:19:16,465 --> 00:19:18,950
- I shot Tyson because
I just think that
522
00:19:18,985 --> 00:19:20,918
she has given
you quality time.
523
00:19:20,952 --> 00:19:22,713
She gave you six years.
524
00:19:24,508 --> 00:19:28,028
- Okay, so your peers
have spoken.
525
00:19:28,063 --> 00:19:29,375
- I'm not too surprised
526
00:19:29,409 --> 00:19:31,239
that Tyson got
a lot of bullets.
527
00:19:31,273 --> 00:19:36,416
I still think quality time
is a small issue
528
00:19:36,451 --> 00:19:40,248
and that the bigger problem
is getting married.
529
00:19:40,282 --> 00:19:42,526
- Okay, Heidi and Spencer.
- Oh, God.
530
00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:46,288
What was the biggest issue
you guys had today?
531
00:19:46,323 --> 00:19:49,291
- Money.
- Money it is, David.
532
00:19:49,326 --> 00:19:51,776
- You guys look like
the dirty dozen.
533
00:19:53,019 --> 00:19:56,436
- Okay.
Ready, fire!
534
00:19:56,471 --> 00:19:58,369
[ gunshots ]
535
00:19:58,404 --> 00:20:00,233
Cease fire!
536
00:20:00,268 --> 00:20:01,855
Guys, come down here.
537
00:20:01,890 --> 00:20:04,237
- Spencer, I shot you.
- Spencer.
538
00:20:04,272 --> 00:20:06,377
- I did shoot you.
- Spencer, I shot you.
539
00:20:06,412 --> 00:20:09,242
- I shot Spencer.
540
00:20:09,277 --> 00:20:13,591
Uh, growing up,
I didn't have any money
541
00:20:13,626 --> 00:20:16,801
and I think you would be
a great dad.
542
00:20:16,836 --> 00:20:20,322
I know that you want it,
but you-- you scared.
543
00:20:21,392 --> 00:20:22,566
- All right.
544
00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:26,742
Syleena and Kiwane,
come on up.
545
00:20:26,777 --> 00:20:29,089
What is the big issue
between you guys?
546
00:20:29,124 --> 00:20:31,402
- Communication.
547
00:20:31,437 --> 00:20:34,025
- Uh, communication.
548
00:20:38,754 --> 00:20:40,239
- Ready?
549
00:20:41,792 --> 00:20:43,069
Fire!
550
00:20:43,103 --> 00:20:44,139
[ gunshots ]
551
00:20:45,382 --> 00:20:46,693
Cease fire!
552
00:20:46,728 --> 00:20:48,868
- Oh, God.
That hurt.
553
00:20:48,902 --> 00:20:50,387
- All right.
554
00:20:50,421 --> 00:20:55,288
- I shot you, Kiwane.
- I shot you, Kiwane.
555
00:20:55,323 --> 00:20:57,739
- I show you, Kiwane.
- Kiwane, I shot you.
556
00:20:57,773 --> 00:21:00,638
Speak up and, you know,
talk to her.
557
00:21:00,673 --> 00:21:02,813
- Definitely.
All right.
558
00:21:02,847 --> 00:21:05,988
- Man, I think she picked
that ball so that
559
00:21:06,023 --> 00:21:08,750
everybody can shoot me.
'Cause she...
560
00:21:08,784 --> 00:21:10,234
- How you gonna say
I picked the ball
561
00:21:10,269 --> 00:21:11,960
when we both agreed
on the ball together?
562
00:21:11,994 --> 00:21:13,202
I didn't really agree
on that one.
563
00:21:13,237 --> 00:21:15,412
- I said something else.
- Ohh, see.
564
00:21:15,446 --> 00:21:16,758
- They didn't hear me,
but I said something.
565
00:21:16,792 --> 00:21:18,725
- It's all fun and games
until somebody get shot.
566
00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:20,037
- Natalie and Jacob.
567
00:21:20,071 --> 00:21:22,039
- Oh!
568
00:21:22,073 --> 00:21:23,454
- Jacob,
what's the big issue?
569
00:21:23,489 --> 00:21:26,940
- Respect.
570
00:21:26,975 --> 00:21:29,046
I know that Natalie's gonna
definitely get shot more.
571
00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:32,705
- Lies.
- Fire!
572
00:21:32,739 --> 00:21:35,017
Cease fire!
573
00:21:35,052 --> 00:21:37,572
- I shot Jacob in the chest.
574
00:21:37,606 --> 00:21:40,022
You guys need to come
to an agreement.
575
00:21:40,057 --> 00:21:42,956
- Natalie, I shot at you.
- Natalie, I shot you.
576
00:21:42,991 --> 00:21:44,130
- What?
577
00:21:46,581 --> 00:21:48,790
Bitch, we're supposed
to be on the same team!
578
00:21:48,824 --> 00:21:51,965
Rachel-- Can we do that
over again?
579
00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,140
'Cause I'm coming
for Rachel now.
580
00:21:56,694 --> 00:21:59,697
- Coming up on "Marriage Boot
Camp: Reality Stars"...
581
00:21:59,732 --> 00:22:01,872
- I think you're being
fake as [ bleep ].
582
00:22:01,906 --> 00:22:04,944
I continuously stick up
for you, Rachel.
583
00:22:04,978 --> 00:22:08,499
So, since you wanna keep
on being a [ bleep ] smart-ass,
584
00:22:08,534 --> 00:22:13,642
let Natalie
let you know how I feel.
585
00:22:18,682 --> 00:22:20,028
- Natalie, I shot you.
586
00:22:20,062 --> 00:22:21,443
- What?
587
00:22:23,411 --> 00:22:26,275
Bitch, we're supposed to be
on the same team!
588
00:22:26,310 --> 00:22:30,521
- Now we're being judged by
our peers with paintball guns.
589
00:22:30,556 --> 00:22:32,834
Natalie is so upset
with Rachel.
590
00:22:32,868 --> 00:22:35,595
- Rachel-- Can we do
that over again?
591
00:22:35,630 --> 00:22:36,769
'Cause I'm coming
for Rachel.
592
00:22:36,803 --> 00:22:38,287
[ bleep ]
593
00:22:38,322 --> 00:22:40,462
I really don't care what half
these people have to say.
594
00:22:40,497 --> 00:22:44,224
I just want to know why Rachel
decided that she thought
595
00:22:44,259 --> 00:22:47,158
it was okay to shoot me
with her paintball gun
596
00:22:47,193 --> 00:22:49,678
after all that I have
done for her.
597
00:22:49,713 --> 00:22:51,162
Like, bitch, are you crazy?
598
00:22:51,197 --> 00:22:53,199
- It is the social
media stuff.
599
00:22:53,233 --> 00:22:54,511
I think it's natural that
600
00:22:54,545 --> 00:22:56,444
that makes him feel
uncomfortable.
601
00:22:56,478 --> 00:22:58,894
Maybe there's an alternative,
since it bothers him.
602
00:22:58,929 --> 00:23:00,206
- Put on a one-piece
603
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,588
so I could look
like a housewife?
604
00:23:02,622 --> 00:23:04,210
That's not gonna work.
605
00:23:04,244 --> 00:23:06,005
I'm definitely not
the preacher's wife.
606
00:23:06,039 --> 00:23:11,044
My image is the bad girl.
That works.
607
00:23:11,079 --> 00:23:12,667
- "Bitch, you gonna
shoot me?"
608
00:23:12,701 --> 00:23:14,772
"What, bitch? You look--"
609
00:23:14,807 --> 00:23:17,534
"Bitch!
Bitch, bitch, bitch!"
610
00:23:17,568 --> 00:23:19,052
Oh, this is gonna get good.
611
00:23:19,087 --> 00:23:20,606
- Aviva and Reid,
612
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:23,229
what is the biggest issue
between you guys?
613
00:23:23,263 --> 00:23:24,851
- Children, family,
and the in-laws.
614
00:23:24,886 --> 00:23:26,335
- I'm very angry about
the children, the family issue.
615
00:23:26,370 --> 00:23:28,096
- Okay.
616
00:23:28,130 --> 00:23:29,684
- Do not hit me.
- Last one.
617
00:23:29,718 --> 00:23:31,237
- I'm gunning for the leg.
618
00:23:31,271 --> 00:23:32,825
- Fire!
619
00:23:36,967 --> 00:23:38,796
Cease fire!
Cease fire!
620
00:23:38,831 --> 00:23:39,797
- [ bleep ]
621
00:23:39,832 --> 00:23:41,109
- Who got me in the face?
622
00:23:41,143 --> 00:23:42,662
- Oh, my God,
somebody got my leg.
623
00:23:44,699 --> 00:23:47,115
- I shot both of you because
I think your both wrong.
624
00:23:47,149 --> 00:23:49,566
- I shot both of you.
- I also shot both of you.
625
00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:53,121
- Throughout this whole thing,
I've been Team Reid,
626
00:23:53,155 --> 00:23:54,812
but the fact
that the grandparents
627
00:23:54,847 --> 00:23:56,849
aren't in the picture,
I had to shoot you.
628
00:23:56,883 --> 00:23:58,333
- I think that our kids
are missing out
629
00:23:58,367 --> 00:24:01,819
because you won't communicate
with your parents.
630
00:24:01,854 --> 00:24:06,445
- Because for me,
when I was a kid,
631
00:24:06,479 --> 00:24:09,137
my grandfather was one
of my best friends,
632
00:24:09,171 --> 00:24:11,001
and he's always been one of
my biggest supporters.
633
00:24:11,035 --> 00:24:12,830
And he's dead now.
634
00:24:12,865 --> 00:24:14,349
He's been dead for 10 years.
635
00:24:14,383 --> 00:24:15,937
If I wouldn't of had
that time with him,
636
00:24:15,971 --> 00:24:18,905
I don't know who
I would've been, so...
637
00:24:18,940 --> 00:24:20,113
- I appreciate that.
638
00:24:20,148 --> 00:24:21,149
The kids are very,
very happy
639
00:24:21,183 --> 00:24:22,184
when the grandparents
are around.
640
00:24:22,219 --> 00:24:24,428
And I--I--
I take responsibility.
641
00:24:24,463 --> 00:24:25,671
I don't fight hard enough
642
00:24:25,705 --> 00:24:27,224
to get them into our home
and into our lives.
643
00:24:27,258 --> 00:24:28,708
- Thank you.
- Yeah.
644
00:24:28,743 --> 00:24:32,332
- And I want to know...
645
00:24:32,367 --> 00:24:33,644
that felt kind of good,
didn't it?
646
00:24:33,679 --> 00:24:35,404
- Yeah.
- Okay.
647
00:24:35,439 --> 00:24:37,821
When you're hurting,
I want you to go in there
648
00:24:37,855 --> 00:24:39,788
with the feelings
instead of the humor.
649
00:24:39,823 --> 00:24:41,031
- Yeah.
- Okay.
650
00:24:41,065 --> 00:24:42,515
When you use humor
as like a--
651
00:24:42,550 --> 00:24:45,276
a decoy to avoid
your feelings,
652
00:24:45,311 --> 00:24:48,487
you're only hurting
yourself, okay?
653
00:24:48,521 --> 00:24:49,522
- Okay.
654
00:24:49,557 --> 00:24:50,558
- All right.
655
00:24:52,905 --> 00:24:55,563
- You two both got shot
as a couple
656
00:24:55,597 --> 00:24:58,117
because you're both trying
so hard to be right.
657
00:24:58,151 --> 00:25:01,534
- And I just can't believe
that people actually shot me.
658
00:25:01,569 --> 00:25:03,260
- Okay, you all step back
in the line.
659
00:25:04,986 --> 00:25:07,713
- I think you all learned
a lot about yourself,
660
00:25:07,747 --> 00:25:10,198
from your peers who
are honest with you
661
00:25:10,232 --> 00:25:11,440
and straightforward
with you.
662
00:25:11,475 --> 00:25:14,236
Look around. Looks like
everyone took a few hits.
663
00:25:14,271 --> 00:25:17,550
So tell me, who won?
664
00:25:17,585 --> 00:25:19,552
We'll discuss this later
at evaluations.
665
00:25:19,587 --> 00:25:21,071
Come on in.
666
00:25:22,866 --> 00:25:25,972
- I can't believe Rachel
did me like that.
667
00:25:26,007 --> 00:25:28,699
- Heidi! Pop, pop!
Pop, pop, pop!
668
00:25:28,734 --> 00:25:30,356
- Did you have an alliance
with Rachel?
669
00:25:30,390 --> 00:25:32,634
- Yeah, I did.
670
00:25:35,913 --> 00:25:38,951
- I think all the advice we had
out there was just phenomenal.
671
00:25:38,985 --> 00:25:40,953
- A lot of couples did get
a lot out of this drill.
672
00:25:40,987 --> 00:25:42,264
- Yeah, well, look at Tyson.
673
00:25:42,299 --> 00:25:43,576
The advice he gives
about the grandfather.
674
00:25:43,611 --> 00:25:45,509
- That was so touching.
- Yeah, it was. It was.
675
00:25:45,544 --> 00:25:47,235
- I think Reid
needed that, big time.
676
00:25:47,269 --> 00:25:49,720
When he gave advice,
I think Spencer was serious.
677
00:25:49,755 --> 00:25:52,136
But when advice
was given to him
678
00:25:52,171 --> 00:25:53,275
and the rest of the stuff--
679
00:25:53,310 --> 00:25:55,208
He wants to play
around so bad.
680
00:25:55,243 --> 00:25:57,486
I'm just so worried
about him goofing off
681
00:25:57,521 --> 00:25:59,799
and being silly all the time
and not getting in touch.
682
00:25:59,834 --> 00:26:02,457
- Gonna have to dig in hard
and see what the baggage is,
683
00:26:02,491 --> 00:26:03,838
so we can help him
break through that.
684
00:26:03,872 --> 00:26:05,494
- Yeah.
- I really do.
685
00:26:06,565 --> 00:26:07,980
- Jake.
- Yeah.
686
00:26:08,014 --> 00:26:10,292
- Why the [ bleep ]
did Rachel shoot me?
687
00:26:10,327 --> 00:26:12,605
All that whole time with
her and Tyson,
688
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,194
I was, like,
still sticking up for her.
689
00:26:15,228 --> 00:26:17,472
I'm pissed.
690
00:26:17,506 --> 00:26:18,611
I just can't believe,
691
00:26:18,646 --> 00:26:20,026
everything I've done
for this girl,
692
00:26:20,061 --> 00:26:23,616
she's decided to throw me
under the bus and shoot me.
693
00:26:23,651 --> 00:26:24,859
Bitch, you're
running the streets
694
00:26:24,893 --> 00:26:26,032
until 5:00 o'clock
in the morning.
695
00:26:26,067 --> 00:26:27,896
You're probably [ bleep ]
around on Tyson,
696
00:26:27,931 --> 00:26:29,691
but I'm still on
your [ bleep ] side.
697
00:26:29,726 --> 00:26:32,038
Like, straight up, bitch,
698
00:26:32,073 --> 00:26:33,419
I'm coming--
I'm coming for you.
699
00:26:33,453 --> 00:26:35,386
I'm about to turn this
[ bleep ] house upside down.
700
00:26:35,421 --> 00:26:37,906
- What happened with
Natalie and Jacob?
701
00:26:37,941 --> 00:26:39,839
- All the sudden just
start calling people out.
702
00:26:39,874 --> 00:26:41,289
- Don't upset me.
703
00:26:41,323 --> 00:26:43,532
- Don't upset you, how?
What do you mean?
704
00:26:43,567 --> 00:26:46,397
- Natalie is really
starting to get to me.
705
00:26:46,432 --> 00:26:49,677
This is not "Bad Girls Club"
anymore.
706
00:26:49,711 --> 00:26:52,541
This is "Marriage Boot Camp."
707
00:26:52,576 --> 00:26:54,992
We're supposed to be worried
about our problems.
708
00:26:55,027 --> 00:26:57,616
- I'm just gonna call it
how I see it.
709
00:26:57,650 --> 00:26:59,859
I think you're being
as fake as [ bleep ].
710
00:26:59,894 --> 00:27:02,966
I continuously stick up
for you, Rachel.
711
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,140
And today you shot me,
712
00:27:05,175 --> 00:27:07,798
and it was like
a slap in the face.
713
00:27:07,833 --> 00:27:10,905
You need to realize that I felt
that was [ bleep ] fake.
714
00:27:10,939 --> 00:27:12,700
You could of just not
shot at either one of us.
715
00:27:12,734 --> 00:27:13,908
- Why are you using
the word "fake"?
716
00:27:13,942 --> 00:27:16,669
I'm being very real.
That was my opinion.
717
00:27:16,704 --> 00:27:18,913
- [ bleep ].
You know that, too.
718
00:27:18,947 --> 00:27:20,431
I stand up for you
and I say [ bleep ]
719
00:27:20,466 --> 00:27:21,847
all the [ bleep ] time.
720
00:27:21,881 --> 00:27:23,124
And then now you want
to sit up here
721
00:27:23,158 --> 00:27:24,884
and you want to act like
you're so [ bleep ]
722
00:27:24,919 --> 00:27:26,403
peaches and cream
and a sweetheart.
723
00:27:26,437 --> 00:27:28,819
[ bleep ] you doing 5:00
in the morning
724
00:27:28,854 --> 00:27:30,579
in the [ bleep ] streets for?
725
00:27:30,614 --> 00:27:32,581
- I'm really confused.
726
00:27:32,616 --> 00:27:34,411
- I think Natalie's upset.
727
00:27:34,445 --> 00:27:38,346
- Is she still talking?
728
00:27:38,380 --> 00:27:40,659
- Yeah, I'm gonna mark this
is Rachel's life calendar.
729
00:27:40,693 --> 00:27:42,453
This is a fun day
for Rachel.
730
00:27:42,488 --> 00:27:44,041
- I'm trying to be
[ bleep ] nice
731
00:27:44,076 --> 00:27:45,698
with that
fake ass [ bleep ].
732
00:27:45,733 --> 00:27:47,666
I've had--I stayed up
with her all night
733
00:27:47,700 --> 00:27:48,839
last night and
hung out with her.
734
00:27:48,874 --> 00:27:50,599
- Is she making sense
right now?
735
00:27:50,634 --> 00:27:52,878
'Cause I can't make any sense
of what she's even saying.
736
00:27:52,912 --> 00:27:54,880
- When she gets upset,
737
00:27:54,914 --> 00:27:58,677
she likes to vent and
let it off of her chest.
738
00:27:58,711 --> 00:28:00,126
- Well, when she does
that to you,
739
00:28:00,161 --> 00:28:01,541
every time she does,
740
00:28:01,576 --> 00:28:04,268
she's chipping away at you
and at your relationship.
741
00:28:06,408 --> 00:28:09,342
- Boot campers, meet us
in the boot camp room now.
742
00:28:15,072 --> 00:28:18,248
- I have had a long day
being blamed,
743
00:28:18,282 --> 00:28:20,215
people shooting
paintball guns at me,
744
00:28:20,250 --> 00:28:22,010
now this thing
with Rachel.
745
00:28:22,045 --> 00:28:23,702
I don't know how well
this is gonna go.
746
00:28:23,736 --> 00:28:25,634
- Okay, y'all.
747
00:28:25,669 --> 00:28:27,602
Boot camp is a process, okay?
748
00:28:27,636 --> 00:28:29,017
The third stage was today
749
00:28:29,052 --> 00:28:31,123
and it was all about
placing blame.
750
00:28:31,157 --> 00:28:32,469
Tell me how that felt.
751
00:28:32,503 --> 00:28:34,954
- I'm just gonna keep it all
the way, 100,
752
00:28:34,989 --> 00:28:36,818
because I feel like when
you guys come in the room,
753
00:28:36,853 --> 00:28:38,130
I have to be so sweet
all the time.
754
00:28:38,164 --> 00:28:39,407
- So you're being
fake with us?
755
00:28:39,441 --> 00:28:40,580
- I'm not being fake.
756
00:28:40,615 --> 00:28:42,617
I'm just gonna keep it 100
for today.
757
00:28:42,651 --> 00:28:45,309
I called Rachel
a fake-ass bitch
758
00:28:45,344 --> 00:28:48,071
because I feel like she's
fake as [ bleep ].
759
00:28:48,105 --> 00:28:49,072
I have been nothing
but nice to you.
760
00:28:49,106 --> 00:28:50,211
- Give me a situation,
761
00:28:50,245 --> 00:28:51,557
'cause fake isn't
the right word.
762
00:28:51,591 --> 00:28:54,180
- "Fake" meaning
that I have been nothing
763
00:28:54,215 --> 00:28:55,768
but giving you a little bit
of like, um,
764
00:28:55,803 --> 00:28:57,252
- and you shot me.
- Mm-hmm.
765
00:28:57,287 --> 00:28:58,944
- So, since you want
766
00:28:58,978 --> 00:29:00,600
to keep on being
a [ bleep ] smart-ass,
767
00:29:00,635 --> 00:29:04,328
like you did at the table,
let me do a exercise...
768
00:29:04,363 --> 00:29:05,605
- Natalie!
769
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:08,988
- You want me to
keep it 100, Rachel?
770
00:29:09,023 --> 00:29:11,577
Let me keep it 100.
Let Natalie...
771
00:29:11,611 --> 00:29:13,372
- I'm not--I don't want
to sit over there.
772
00:29:13,406 --> 00:29:16,789
- ...let you know
how I feel.
773
00:29:16,824 --> 00:29:21,552
I feel like you robbed me
from my experience today
774
00:29:21,587 --> 00:29:26,419
shooting the gun.
Here's my exercise.
775
00:29:26,454 --> 00:29:28,870
So that right there is
me shooting you,
776
00:29:28,905 --> 00:29:32,218
with the paintball
gun today, okay?
777
00:29:32,253 --> 00:29:33,323
- Natalie!
778
00:29:33,357 --> 00:29:35,049
- Now we can go back
to the evaluation.
779
00:29:35,083 --> 00:29:38,052
- Natalie!
780
00:29:38,086 --> 00:29:39,950
- This is why we're here.
781
00:29:43,436 --> 00:29:47,268
- Coming up on "Marriage Boot
Camp: Reality Stars"...
782
00:29:47,302 --> 00:29:49,063
- Well, that's a [ bleep ]
pretty dress.
783
00:29:49,097 --> 00:29:50,305
- Obviously, it was
never meant for Rachel.
784
00:29:50,340 --> 00:29:52,514
- I got in her dress.
785
00:29:52,549 --> 00:29:55,103
Let's show her
how to be a wife.
786
00:29:55,138 --> 00:29:57,726
- ♪ Here comes the bride
787
00:29:57,761 --> 00:29:59,452
Whoa!
788
00:30:02,870 --> 00:30:04,492
- You just wrote a poem?
789
00:30:04,526 --> 00:30:06,011
- Would you like to hear it?
- Yes.
790
00:30:06,045 --> 00:30:07,771
"- When thinking about
'Marriage Boot Camp,'
791
00:30:07,806 --> 00:30:08,945
my first thought
was Robert Frost's
792
00:30:08,979 --> 00:30:10,532
'Fire and Ice.'
793
00:30:10,567 --> 00:30:13,225
The ice in boot camp
is Jim and Liz.
794
00:30:13,259 --> 00:30:14,985
They try
and freeze you up..."
795
00:30:15,020 --> 00:30:17,919
- I wasn't so much impressed
by the poem,
796
00:30:17,954 --> 00:30:21,440
as I was that he took
the time to think about it
797
00:30:21,474 --> 00:30:23,304
and actually create it.
798
00:30:23,338 --> 00:30:24,857
- "Having so many haters
799
00:30:24,892 --> 00:30:26,755
definitely makes me
know enough of hate..."
800
00:30:26,790 --> 00:30:29,241
And that's where
I left off last night.
801
00:30:29,275 --> 00:30:30,518
- Yeah.
802
00:30:30,552 --> 00:30:33,245
- It's heavy [ bleep ].
- It's very poetic.
803
00:30:37,387 --> 00:30:40,045
- Now we can proceed.
Well, there it is.
804
00:30:40,079 --> 00:30:41,080
- Let's go to your room.
805
00:30:41,115 --> 00:30:42,357
- There it is, sweetheart.
806
00:30:42,392 --> 00:30:45,533
- Natalie goes
bat [ bleep ] crazy.
807
00:30:45,567 --> 00:30:47,155
You just don't do that
to wedding dresses.
808
00:30:47,190 --> 00:30:48,881
I mean, they're expensive.
809
00:30:48,916 --> 00:30:51,090
- I want to hear from you.
810
00:30:51,125 --> 00:30:54,783
- To be attacked like that
is very, like,
811
00:30:54,818 --> 00:30:56,544
shocking to me.
812
00:30:56,578 --> 00:31:01,825
I had no clue that what I did
today would even hurt her.
813
00:31:01,860 --> 00:31:04,414
- Oh, you're feeling betrayed?
- Totally betrayed.
814
00:31:04,448 --> 00:31:07,900
- Number one, her shooting
you and giving you feedback,
815
00:31:07,935 --> 00:31:11,283
really, that's an indication
of a good friend.
816
00:31:11,317 --> 00:31:15,356
So if you wanted to tell her
that what she's doing is wrong,
817
00:31:15,390 --> 00:31:17,530
how could you of done
that in a manner
818
00:31:17,565 --> 00:31:18,738
that she would
of listened to you?
819
00:31:18,773 --> 00:31:22,950
- Be 100.
- But not 100% anger.
820
00:31:22,984 --> 00:31:24,917
- That's something that
I really don't know
821
00:31:24,952 --> 00:31:26,781
if I'm gonna be able to do.
822
00:31:26,815 --> 00:31:29,749
- The goal is, bad girl
for your career,
823
00:31:29,784 --> 00:31:31,786
good girl when
you come home.
824
00:31:31,820 --> 00:31:33,098
- Okay.
I'm gonna work on it.
825
00:31:33,132 --> 00:31:35,790
- Okay, here we go.
- All right.
826
00:31:35,824 --> 00:31:38,103
- So what we've been
doing in the boot camp
827
00:31:38,137 --> 00:31:40,312
is peeling that onion.
828
00:31:40,346 --> 00:31:44,626
And every single one of
you operates from a system
829
00:31:44,661 --> 00:31:47,422
that happened way
before today.
830
00:31:47,457 --> 00:31:49,321
She's showing all of us
what that looks like,
831
00:31:49,355 --> 00:31:50,805
to go to the dark side.
832
00:31:50,839 --> 00:31:54,050
So I want to give you all
some feedback about today.
833
00:31:54,084 --> 00:31:56,293
Heidi and Spencer,
stand up.
834
00:31:56,328 --> 00:31:59,193
Okay, so you've got sort
of a spirit of fear.
835
00:31:59,227 --> 00:32:01,540
- I feel like we made
so many bad decisions
836
00:32:01,574 --> 00:32:03,749
that I'm not ready to have
kids right now.
837
00:32:03,783 --> 00:32:06,441
- You're just wanting another
reason to hold us back.
838
00:32:06,476 --> 00:32:10,514
- Something in you is saying
"I can't because I don't
839
00:32:10,549 --> 00:32:12,482
have this and this and this
and this in place."
840
00:32:12,516 --> 00:32:14,898
And it keeps you from
blossoming into the man
841
00:32:14,933 --> 00:32:16,486
that you want to be.
842
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:18,419
- Now everybody's gonna be
looking at me crazy, but--
843
00:32:18,453 --> 00:32:19,420
- We're gonna work
844
00:32:19,454 --> 00:32:20,662
on your conscience
later on, okay?
845
00:32:20,697 --> 00:32:21,974
- Jeez, we got at lot
to work on.
846
00:32:22,009 --> 00:32:23,493
- Rachel and Tyson.
847
00:32:23,527 --> 00:32:25,771
Your peers gave you
a whole new perspective
848
00:32:25,805 --> 00:32:27,152
on your relationship, right?
849
00:32:27,186 --> 00:32:28,636
- I shot Rachel.
850
00:32:28,670 --> 00:32:30,155
Putting myself
in Tyson's shoes,
851
00:32:30,189 --> 00:32:31,570
and that
would break my heart.
852
00:32:31,604 --> 00:32:34,504
- I shot Tyson because
I just think that
853
00:32:34,538 --> 00:32:35,815
she has given
you quality time.
854
00:32:35,850 --> 00:32:36,920
She gave you six years.
855
00:32:36,955 --> 00:32:39,612
- The lesson
for everybody is
856
00:32:39,647 --> 00:32:40,924
none of this stuff
is one-sided.
857
00:32:40,959 --> 00:32:42,132
You guys are one.
858
00:32:42,167 --> 00:32:43,962
- I know Jacob's mad.
859
00:32:43,996 --> 00:32:46,585
- Well, you can apologize
to him, can't you?
860
00:32:46,619 --> 00:32:48,587
- Hey.
861
00:32:48,621 --> 00:32:51,797
- Welcome back.
862
00:32:51,831 --> 00:32:52,936
You want to tell us
a little bit
863
00:32:52,971 --> 00:32:54,420
about what's going on?
864
00:32:54,455 --> 00:32:57,251
- Well, at first I would like
to apologize to my husband.
865
00:32:57,285 --> 00:32:59,598
You know, Jacob,
I'm really sorry.
866
00:32:59,632 --> 00:33:02,428
And I'm sorry to everybody
else in here, right now.
867
00:33:02,463 --> 00:33:05,155
You know, I'm--
I'm working on anger.
868
00:33:05,190 --> 00:33:06,398
- All right.
869
00:33:06,432 --> 00:33:07,916
Let's practice what
we practiced upstairs.
870
00:33:07,951 --> 00:33:09,366
You're gonna work on being
871
00:33:09,401 --> 00:33:11,748
a bad girl in your
career and...
872
00:33:11,782 --> 00:33:13,370
- Good girl at home.
873
00:33:13,405 --> 00:33:14,716
- Good girl at home,
all right.
874
00:33:14,751 --> 00:33:17,271
So let's--let's continue
with our evaluations.
875
00:33:17,305 --> 00:33:20,067
- Aviva and Reid, stand up.
876
00:33:20,101 --> 00:33:24,036
All right, so during
the blame game,
877
00:33:24,071 --> 00:33:26,349
I saw both of you
in your heads,
878
00:33:26,383 --> 00:33:28,765
instead of dropping
into your hearts.
879
00:33:28,799 --> 00:33:34,288
So the question is,
would you rather be right
880
00:33:34,322 --> 00:33:36,048
or would you rather be happy?
881
00:33:37,256 --> 00:33:39,120
- Syleena and Kiwane.
882
00:33:39,155 --> 00:33:41,502
- So, Kiwane,
since day one,
883
00:33:41,536 --> 00:33:44,298
your job has been
to find your voice.
884
00:33:44,332 --> 00:33:45,506
- Yes.
- Right?
885
00:33:45,540 --> 00:33:46,645
- Yes.
886
00:33:46,679 --> 00:33:48,371
- You're terrible
in communication.
887
00:33:48,405 --> 00:33:50,959
- Syleena will do
anything for you.
888
00:33:50,994 --> 00:33:53,824
She just doesn't know what's
going on inside of you.
889
00:33:53,859 --> 00:33:55,895
- Right.
890
00:33:55,930 --> 00:33:57,518
- Natalie and Jacob.
891
00:33:57,552 --> 00:34:00,210
Jacob, I think you're
learning that you can't
892
00:34:00,245 --> 00:34:01,970
suffocate your
emotions anymore.
893
00:34:02,005 --> 00:34:03,696
- And I just want
to say to you,
894
00:34:03,731 --> 00:34:05,353
Natalie, that I don't think
you realize how close
895
00:34:05,388 --> 00:34:07,562
to the edge you push your man.
- Hey, go.
896
00:34:07,597 --> 00:34:08,736
- You don't have
to put your hands on me.
897
00:34:08,770 --> 00:34:10,048
- No, go over there.
No, seriously.
898
00:34:10,082 --> 00:34:11,325
- Listen--listen.
- Go over there and be yours.
899
00:34:11,359 --> 00:34:12,395
- You wouldn't put
your hands on me at home,
900
00:34:12,429 --> 00:34:13,430
don't put your hands
on me here.
901
00:34:13,465 --> 00:34:15,639
Throw your ass in the lake.
902
00:34:15,674 --> 00:34:17,469
- But because he has
this innate self control,
903
00:34:17,503 --> 00:34:21,887
that you've not seen it
go dark, but it could.
904
00:34:21,921 --> 00:34:26,064
- You can't win a fight
if there's only one winner.
905
00:34:26,098 --> 00:34:29,308
Pointing fingers is not
the way to solve problems.
906
00:34:29,343 --> 00:34:32,760
You both end up
covered in paint.
907
00:34:32,794 --> 00:34:34,831
- Tomorrow is even harder.
908
00:34:34,865 --> 00:34:36,315
- [ bleep ].
909
00:34:36,350 --> 00:34:37,765
- This camp is crazy.
910
00:34:37,799 --> 00:34:39,284
- Good night.
911
00:34:39,318 --> 00:34:41,493
- After tonight,
I can't stand Natalie.
912
00:34:41,527 --> 00:34:44,703
If Rachel were like that,
I would sell her to the circus.
913
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:49,052
- Natalie felt
betrayed by Rachel.
914
00:34:49,087 --> 00:34:50,191
So the dynamic is
915
00:34:50,226 --> 00:34:52,711
Natalie's very hesitant
to let anybody in.
916
00:34:52,745 --> 00:34:54,437
- To trust.
- To trust.
917
00:34:54,471 --> 00:34:56,024
- And this is a behavior
she's learned.
918
00:34:56,059 --> 00:34:57,371
It's a behavior
she's done all her life.
919
00:34:57,405 --> 00:34:59,994
- Yeah.
- And she doesn't know how
920
00:35:00,028 --> 00:35:01,754
to deal with anger
when it flares up.
921
00:35:01,789 --> 00:35:05,275
- She is getting encouraged
in her role as a bad girl.
922
00:35:05,310 --> 00:35:07,864
And sometimes the line
gets blurry
923
00:35:07,898 --> 00:35:11,316
between your role
and your feelings.
924
00:35:11,350 --> 00:35:13,111
And--and it's
the boot camp vibe.
925
00:35:13,145 --> 00:35:16,459
There's energy in this room
from everybody's hearts
926
00:35:16,493 --> 00:35:19,358
that's making every
one of them crack open.
927
00:35:19,393 --> 00:35:21,636
- And it's only
getting started.
928
00:35:21,671 --> 00:35:24,363
I have the feeling we're
about to see a lot more.
929
00:35:26,262 --> 00:35:28,402
[ chattering ]
930
00:35:31,094 --> 00:35:33,821
- We should wear this.
I'm marriage material.
931
00:35:33,855 --> 00:35:35,443
That's for damn sure.
932
00:35:35,478 --> 00:35:39,275
I'm marriage material about
one million times over.
933
00:35:39,309 --> 00:35:41,587
- Heidi and I get
this bad girl itch in us
934
00:35:41,622 --> 00:35:43,727
to just keep going tonight.
935
00:35:43,762 --> 00:35:46,282
- Oh, my God!
- This was fit for me.
936
00:35:46,316 --> 00:35:49,561
Honestly, it was never
meant for Rachel.
937
00:35:49,595 --> 00:35:50,976
- Honestly.
- This is hot.
938
00:35:51,010 --> 00:35:52,357
- I am the best.
939
00:35:52,391 --> 00:35:55,222
I'm very upset with
Rachel because she's going
940
00:35:55,256 --> 00:35:56,982
around saying negative
things about me
941
00:35:57,016 --> 00:35:58,570
and being
super disrespectful.
942
00:35:58,604 --> 00:36:01,193
- We're two different people,
and not everybody
943
00:36:01,228 --> 00:36:03,540
does exactly what
Spencer and Heidi do.
944
00:36:05,335 --> 00:36:06,854
- Well, that's a [ bleep ]
pretty dress, too.
945
00:36:06,888 --> 00:36:08,269
- Duh! I'm the best.
946
00:36:08,304 --> 00:36:10,375
It was triggered
to mean girl status.
947
00:36:10,409 --> 00:36:13,688
And I got in her dress
and we're like,
948
00:36:13,723 --> 00:36:14,862
"Let's show her
how to be a wife."
949
00:36:14,896 --> 00:36:18,210
[ laughing ]
950
00:36:18,245 --> 00:36:21,213
- It's not fitting.
It's not fitting.
951
00:36:21,248 --> 00:36:22,835
- She's gonna come in
and be pissed.
952
00:36:22,870 --> 00:36:24,182
- Who cares?
953
00:36:26,943 --> 00:36:31,085
- Coming up on "Marriage Boot
Camp: Reality Stars"...
954
00:36:31,119 --> 00:36:33,260
- For you to come in
and to be so rude to me
955
00:36:33,294 --> 00:36:34,847
when I've been so nice to you,
956
00:36:34,882 --> 00:36:36,332
it's like, "Who are you?"
957
00:36:36,366 --> 00:36:39,714
- She doesn't have to respond
to you mother [ bleep ]
958
00:36:39,749 --> 00:36:41,785
because it's none of
your [ bleep ] business.
959
00:36:41,820 --> 00:36:43,270
- Syleena, bow out!
- I won't! I won't!
960
00:36:43,304 --> 00:36:44,478
[ bleep ] that!
961
00:36:44,512 --> 00:36:46,687
You don't want this mother
[ bleep ] tornado!
962
00:36:52,140 --> 00:36:53,590
- This is mean.
963
00:36:53,625 --> 00:36:55,937
- She's never gonna wear it,
and she doesn't even care.
964
00:36:55,972 --> 00:36:58,319
She probably doesn't really want
to get married. It's fine.
965
00:36:58,354 --> 00:37:01,391
- We try on these wedding
dresses to let Rachel know
966
00:37:01,426 --> 00:37:04,877
she doesn't deserve to be
a wife at all at this point.
967
00:37:04,912 --> 00:37:08,778
So we decide to rub it in her
face that we are wives.
968
00:37:10,952 --> 00:37:13,610
♪ Here comes the bride
Whoa!
969
00:37:13,645 --> 00:37:15,509
Honey!
970
00:37:15,543 --> 00:37:17,373
- Honey!
971
00:37:17,407 --> 00:37:18,857
- At this time,
I should've thought
972
00:37:18,891 --> 00:37:20,410
it was probably
super disrespectful.
973
00:37:20,445 --> 00:37:22,516
But I don't think she really
even wants to be married
974
00:37:22,550 --> 00:37:24,932
because she's staying out
and doing all this.
975
00:37:24,966 --> 00:37:26,623
- Spencer!
- Uh.
976
00:37:26,658 --> 00:37:28,522
- [ bleep ] champagne.
977
00:37:28,556 --> 00:37:30,489
[ shouting ]
978
00:37:30,524 --> 00:37:31,732
- You're supposed
to put this on.
979
00:37:31,766 --> 00:37:33,596
- Everybody in the room
is inebriated,
980
00:37:33,630 --> 00:37:36,184
but Heidi is drunk as hell.
981
00:37:36,219 --> 00:37:38,152
- I love surgery.
Give me ice cream.
982
00:37:38,186 --> 00:37:40,948
Just rub my boobs.
I'm great.
983
00:37:40,982 --> 00:37:42,812
- Give her that dress,
'cause it doesn't fit you.
984
00:37:42,846 --> 00:37:45,090
- It definitely doesn't fit.
Ass is way too big.
985
00:37:45,124 --> 00:37:46,229
- Exactly.
986
00:37:46,264 --> 00:37:48,507
- Heidi and Natalie are
mocking me, like,
987
00:37:48,542 --> 00:37:50,682
"We're in
your wedding dresses.
988
00:37:50,716 --> 00:37:52,200
What are you gonna
do about it?"
989
00:37:52,235 --> 00:37:56,032
I'm pretty scared of Natalie at
this point, so I just joined.
990
00:37:56,066 --> 00:37:58,310
I didn't want to get hurt.
991
00:37:58,345 --> 00:37:59,829
- No, Rachel, when you said
that whole thing
992
00:37:59,863 --> 00:38:02,728
about like, "Not everyone's
Heidi and Spencer,"
993
00:38:02,763 --> 00:38:04,282
that, like--
that really did offend me.
994
00:38:04,316 --> 00:38:06,422
I know you don't like me
anymore and it--
995
00:38:06,456 --> 00:38:08,009
it does hurt my feelings
a little bit.
996
00:38:08,044 --> 00:38:10,357
You ignore me, and you have,
like, attitudes toward me.
997
00:38:10,391 --> 00:38:12,082
- And I--
- Let's have girl time
998
00:38:12,117 --> 00:38:13,256
and then we can
all talk about this
999
00:38:13,291 --> 00:38:14,671
- without the boys there.
- Right, like--
1000
00:38:14,706 --> 00:38:17,433
[ shouting ]
1001
00:38:17,467 --> 00:38:18,917
- Heidi is going in.
1002
00:38:18,951 --> 00:38:20,539
She definitely knows
what she's saying,
1003
00:38:20,574 --> 00:38:22,092
but she does not
know the intensity
1004
00:38:22,127 --> 00:38:23,335
in which she is saying it.
1005
00:38:23,370 --> 00:38:25,751
- When Tyson and I first met
and were dating,
1006
00:38:25,786 --> 00:38:28,513
Tyson got a call, first time,
for "Survivor."
1007
00:38:28,547 --> 00:38:29,686
- Right.
1008
00:38:29,721 --> 00:38:32,240
- A lot of our relationship
has been like,
1009
00:38:32,275 --> 00:38:33,483
total cut off.
1010
00:38:33,518 --> 00:38:35,520
I've had to go out
with my friends.
1011
00:38:35,554 --> 00:38:37,522
I do-- I have, like, my...
1012
00:38:37,556 --> 00:38:39,731
- Honestly, Rachel--
- Okay, Heidi--
1013
00:38:39,765 --> 00:38:41,767
- So we have a very
independent relationship.
1014
00:38:41,802 --> 00:38:43,148
We're very close.
1015
00:38:43,182 --> 00:38:44,218
- No, I want to know--
1016
00:38:44,252 --> 00:38:45,357
I don't care
about any of this.
1017
00:38:45,392 --> 00:38:46,496
Honestly, I really don't.
1018
00:38:46,531 --> 00:38:48,395
I just want to hear
why you leave Tyson,
1019
00:38:48,429 --> 00:38:50,155
three times a week.
I find it--
1020
00:38:50,189 --> 00:38:51,984
- I just explained it,
but you missed it, I think.
1021
00:38:52,019 --> 00:38:53,676
- So you leave at 5:00 A.M.
1022
00:38:53,710 --> 00:38:55,333
- Rachel, you need
to just give up
1023
00:38:55,367 --> 00:38:56,679
because you're never
gonna win this one.
1024
00:38:56,713 --> 00:38:59,026
Heidi is not gonna stop.
1025
00:38:59,060 --> 00:39:02,374
- I'm mad because I had
your back more than anything
1026
00:39:02,409 --> 00:39:03,548
and I really
loved you, Rachel.
1027
00:39:03,582 --> 00:39:05,895
Not only did you
disrespect me today,
1028
00:39:05,929 --> 00:39:09,139
but you also
disrespected your man.
1029
00:39:09,174 --> 00:39:11,383
I-- I think,
you were so rude to me.
1030
00:39:11,418 --> 00:39:13,558
I mean,
you were unnecessary--
1031
00:39:13,592 --> 00:39:15,387
Trying to break me down.
1032
00:39:15,422 --> 00:39:16,526
I've been nothing
but nice to you.
1033
00:39:16,561 --> 00:39:17,769
I don't know you.
1034
00:39:17,803 --> 00:39:19,633
I've been
sticking up for you.
1035
00:39:19,667 --> 00:39:22,325
And to say rude things to
Natalie and everyone about me?
1036
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:23,637
It's like, who are you?
1037
00:39:23,671 --> 00:39:26,502
Like, I've been there for you,
and respectfully,
1038
00:39:26,536 --> 00:39:29,953
I've been married, honey,
for six years.
1039
00:39:29,988 --> 00:39:33,612
I've been with my husband
happily for eight years.
1040
00:39:33,647 --> 00:39:36,546
At least give me
the respect of that.
1041
00:39:36,581 --> 00:39:39,066
Like, "I hear you.
Thank you."
1042
00:39:39,100 --> 00:39:40,585
Not like, "Ugh, pfft."
1043
00:39:40,619 --> 00:39:42,828
Like, Rachel,
check yourself, honey.
1044
00:39:42,863 --> 00:39:45,866
That is so rude, what
you're doing to me. Like--
1045
00:39:45,900 --> 00:39:47,557
- Heidi, I learned
my lesson today.
1046
00:39:47,592 --> 00:39:48,696
- Right!
1047
00:39:48,731 --> 00:39:50,353
- I realized that
that's wrong.
1048
00:39:50,388 --> 00:39:51,423
- And that's fine,
1049
00:39:51,458 --> 00:39:52,597
but you won't
even let me finish.
1050
00:39:52,631 --> 00:39:53,632
- This isn't really
gonna go anywhere.
1051
00:39:53,667 --> 00:39:54,875
- No, it's okay.
It's fine.
1052
00:39:54,909 --> 00:39:56,601
At this point, Rachel
was looking at us like,
1053
00:39:56,635 --> 00:39:59,327
"Who are these bitches?
1054
00:39:59,362 --> 00:40:02,848
Why are these bitches
in my room?"
1055
00:40:02,883 --> 00:40:05,644
- I want you to have everything
in your hopes and dreams.
1056
00:40:05,679 --> 00:40:06,887
You're not even
looking at me.
1057
00:40:06,921 --> 00:40:08,992
- I hear you loud and clear.
1058
00:40:09,027 --> 00:40:10,822
I will be a good wife.
1059
00:40:10,856 --> 00:40:13,618
I am very capable
of doing that.
1060
00:40:13,652 --> 00:40:16,724
I have made a mistake
and I've heard it.
1061
00:40:16,759 --> 00:40:18,554
- Yeah, like, that
really hurt my feelings.
1062
00:40:18,588 --> 00:40:20,314
- It hurt her feelings.
And--and then--
1063
00:40:20,348 --> 00:40:21,764
- Everybody is
a different couple.
1064
00:40:21,798 --> 00:40:23,075
Why does that hurt your
feelings?
1065
00:40:23,110 --> 00:40:24,249
- Because you said it
1066
00:40:24,283 --> 00:40:26,216
in such a bitchy,
condescending way.
1067
00:40:26,251 --> 00:40:27,735
And it's like,
"Come on, Rachel."
1068
00:40:27,770 --> 00:40:29,461
I wouldn't say that
to you and Tyson.
1069
00:40:29,496 --> 00:40:32,395
And for you to come in
and to be so rude to me
1070
00:40:32,430 --> 00:40:33,948
when I've been
so nice to you?
1071
00:40:33,983 --> 00:40:36,951
It's like, who are you?
Like, are you serious?
1072
00:40:36,986 --> 00:40:39,195
Like, that is so rude,
for you just to be like
1073
00:40:39,229 --> 00:40:42,854
so mean to me when
I've done nothing to you.
1074
00:40:42,888 --> 00:40:43,855
No, let's--
1075
00:40:43,889 --> 00:40:44,994
- Look at her.
Look at her face.
1076
00:40:45,028 --> 00:40:45,995
- You're putting
words in her mouth.
1077
00:40:46,029 --> 00:40:47,445
- Look at her face.
1078
00:40:47,479 --> 00:40:48,756
- You're putting words
in her mouth!
1079
00:40:48,791 --> 00:40:50,240
- I'm not putting words
in her mouth [ bleep ]!
1080
00:40:50,275 --> 00:40:52,208
- She's 3-[ bleep ]-5!
I'm 28!
1081
00:40:52,242 --> 00:40:53,347
- She's looking at you
like she doesn't know
1082
00:40:53,381 --> 00:40:54,969
what the [ bleep ]
talking about!
1083
00:40:55,004 --> 00:40:56,833
- Oh, come on, Syleena.
- No, real talk.
1084
00:40:56,868 --> 00:40:58,559
Rachel, say what it is
1085
00:40:58,594 --> 00:40:59,767
the [ bleep ]
you need to say to her.
1086
00:40:59,802 --> 00:41:01,113
- What are you doing?
1087
00:41:01,148 --> 00:41:02,701
She wants to know what
the [ bleep ] you're doing
1088
00:41:02,736 --> 00:41:04,082
at these hours
of the night--
1089
00:41:04,116 --> 00:41:05,428
- And why you're so mad at me
for trying to help you.
1090
00:41:05,463 --> 00:41:06,912
- She doesn't have
to respond...
1091
00:41:06,947 --> 00:41:07,948
- She doesn't.
1092
00:41:07,982 --> 00:41:09,294
- ...to you
mother [ bleep ]
1093
00:41:09,328 --> 00:41:10,640
because it's none of your
[ bleep ] business!
1094
00:41:10,675 --> 00:41:12,504
- Yes, it is!
- No, real talk!
1095
00:41:12,539 --> 00:41:13,816
- When people are asking me
to have my opinion--
1096
00:41:13,850 --> 00:41:16,025
- It's not! It's not!
- Syleena, let her talk!
1097
00:41:16,059 --> 00:41:17,716
- This is none of
our business!
1098
00:41:17,751 --> 00:41:19,269
- You're saying that.
- This is between her and Tyson!
1099
00:41:19,304 --> 00:41:20,512
- Now, if there's an issue--
- Syleena, bow out!
1100
00:41:20,547 --> 00:41:21,755
- Syleena, bow out!
- I won't.
1101
00:41:21,789 --> 00:41:23,066
I won't.
[ bleep ] that.
1102
00:41:23,101 --> 00:41:26,069
You don't want this
mother [ bleep ] tornado!
1103
00:41:26,104 --> 00:41:28,244
If you have a problem with
Heidi,
1104
00:41:28,278 --> 00:41:29,417
then you need to say...
1105
00:41:29,452 --> 00:41:30,695
- Then you need to say it
to me right now.
1106
00:41:30,729 --> 00:41:33,525
- This is my problem.
- Okay. I will.
1107
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:37,011
Heidi, I actually have never
had a problem with you.
1108
00:41:37,046 --> 00:41:38,357
I really haven't.
1109
00:41:38,392 --> 00:41:41,775
And if I've given you that
impression, I apologize.
1110
00:41:41,809 --> 00:41:45,192
- And are you sorry
to how negative
1111
00:41:45,226 --> 00:41:46,745
and rude you were
towards me?
1112
00:41:46,780 --> 00:41:47,850
- Yes.
1113
00:41:47,884 --> 00:41:49,196
- And I'm sorry
for judging you...
1114
00:41:49,230 --> 00:41:50,369
- There you go.
She's sorry.
1115
00:41:50,404 --> 00:41:51,854
- ...and I should've
earlier--
1116
00:41:51,888 --> 00:41:52,855
I am sorry for
judging you and Tyson.
1117
00:41:52,889 --> 00:41:54,442
- Right, there it is.
1118
00:41:54,477 --> 00:41:57,584
- Heidi's so gone,
and she has like one--
1119
00:41:57,618 --> 00:41:59,413
One eye is getting lazy.
1120
00:41:59,447 --> 00:42:02,105
And there comes a point
where I just stand up,
1121
00:42:02,140 --> 00:42:04,522
and I'm like,
that's a wrap,
1122
00:42:04,556 --> 00:42:07,041
and we're done with
this for the day.
1123
00:42:07,076 --> 00:42:08,802
- We don't know
what you're doing
1124
00:42:08,836 --> 00:42:10,597
at 5:00 in the morning,
1125
00:42:10,631 --> 00:42:12,046
and by the time
we leave here,
1126
00:42:12,081 --> 00:42:14,255
I want answers.
1127
00:42:14,290 --> 00:42:17,051
- Heidi and Natalie are crazy.
1128
00:42:17,086 --> 00:42:20,020
- I felt like
Rachel still needed
1129
00:42:20,054 --> 00:42:21,090
to be attacked a little bit.
1130
00:42:21,124 --> 00:42:22,747
So I got Heidi
to do my dirty work.
1131
00:42:22,781 --> 00:42:27,061
- I'm trying to stay calm,
but I can't do this.
1132
00:42:27,096 --> 00:42:28,718
It's too loud,
1133
00:42:28,753 --> 00:42:30,064
and it's too violent,
1134
00:42:30,099 --> 00:42:31,376
and it's too harsh.
1135
00:42:35,691 --> 00:42:37,485
- I feel like, in the end,
1136
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:40,212
that this will hopefully
all be worth it,
1137
00:42:40,247 --> 00:42:43,595
because it's not
looking good so far.
1138
00:42:51,361 --> 00:42:53,881
- Next on "Marriage Boot Camp:
Reality Stars"...
1139
00:42:53,916 --> 00:42:55,814
- I need a baby.
1140
00:42:55,849 --> 00:42:58,161
- Uh, marriage.
That's why I'm here.
1141
00:42:58,196 --> 00:43:01,371
- You don't respect me
as a husband.
1142
00:43:01,406 --> 00:43:02,856
- You two are now a couple.
1143
00:43:02,890 --> 00:43:04,858
- You're gonna be
going on a date.
1144
00:43:04,892 --> 00:43:06,307
- You got to go for a choke.
- Oh, God!
1145
00:43:06,342 --> 00:43:07,515
- We have to take
our pants off?
1146
00:43:07,550 --> 00:43:09,069
- If you want to
take off your shirt...
1147
00:43:09,103 --> 00:43:11,174
Three, two, one.
1148
00:43:11,209 --> 00:43:12,762
- It's inappropriate.
1149
00:43:12,797 --> 00:43:14,039
- Multiple pictures?
1150
00:43:14,074 --> 00:43:15,213
Ugh, no [ bleep ] way.
1151
00:43:15,247 --> 00:43:16,628
Girl, you already know
1152
00:43:16,663 --> 00:43:19,044
I'm gonna beat
your [ bleep ] ass.
80895
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