Original subtitles

Jacob wanted Natalie's privates to be more private.

- What the [bleep] is that picture for?

- That it [bleep] works.

- While Heidi and Spencer

try to joke their way through the boot camp.

Spencer, you're just playing us now.

- Rachel finally got the truth from Tyson...

- I can never love her more than she loves me.

- You didn't say, "I love her."

- But Tyson's sweet-talking got him out of hot water.

- I should have married you.

- Tonight, a friendship is betrayed.

- What, bitch? We supposed to be on the same team!

- And a secret is revealed

that turns the entire house upside-down.

You're being fake as [bleep].

- Who are you? - You don't want this [bleep] tornado.

- Let Natalie let you know

how I feel!

- Five famous couples face a whole new reality.

- Who the [ bleep ] are you talking to?

- They must fight to save their failing relationships...

- I'll knock you the [ bleep ] out.

- ...or decide whether to call it quits.

- It's time to move on in our lives.

- This has become unlivable.

- You don't want this tornado!

- I'm gonna beat your ass.

- Marriage-- that's why I'm here.

- When reality comes crashing down...

- It's disgusting and it's awful!

- ...Jim and Elizabeth Carroll are their last chance.

This is "Marriage Boot Camp: Reality Stars."

[ alarm clock blaring ]

- So you think it's gonna go down today?

- Something outside, - So that was my thought

this is a strange place.

- I'm definitely not too excited to be here.

I'm ready to go home.

- You wanna see my portrait I did of the cast?

- Yeah.

- Here we all are.

- What?

- He drew everybody in the house.

- Mm-hmm. - Um, stick figures, mind you.

- All right, look, there you are, Jay.

You got big old muscles all over your arms.

- That's gotta be so irritating.

- You got a six-pack and you got your beard.

- Spencer's [ bleep ] weird. Like, he's like a kid.

He's just a little kid.

- Today's gonna be pretty intense, I'm sure.

- We'll do just fine. - Maybe.

- Good morning, Boot Campers. Come join us outside.

- So we're onto another drill.

We walk outside and there is a million balls

with marital problems written on them.

I mean, are we all gonna throw the balls?

- I'm not touching anyone's balls.

- I don't wanna touch anyone's balls either.

- Good. - All right. Okay.

- Well, there are somebody's balls you can touch.

- I don't want--

- We've been conducting these boot camps for 20 years,

and the number one thing we hear out of spouses is,

"Will you tell them it's their fault?"

- Yep. - Oh, yeah.

- So now is your chance,

because today is all about blame.

Each of these balls are labeled with a relationship issue.

- So you guys will go and select an issue

that you want to resolve.

Explain why the issue is your spouse's fault

and toss them the ball.

Your spouse will then explain why it's your fault

and throw the ball back.

- Natalie and Jacob, you are first.

- This is gonna be rough for Natalie

'cause I had a little aggression that I needed to let out.

I chose respect.

I feel you respect me, but only to a certain extent.

- Are you [ bleep ] kidding me?

- When people toss around blame, they don't realize

the negative effect it has on their partner

and the relationship.

- Catch that damn ball, girl. - It's a little heavy.

I'm not gonna lie.

- Using heavy medicine balls makes the intangible tangible.

It adds a physical weight to the emotional weight,

and this helps them understand the damage they're doing.

- You disrespect me by the social media posts

you put up, the way you talk to me,

sometimes the way you treat me.

I shouldn't have to demand respect.

- All right. Natalie, now you go pick a ball.

- I'm just thinking to myself,

this whole damn rack is the issues we're working on.

It's gonna get crazy.

The children thing.

It's not that I don't want to have kids,

but I feel like the kid thing is ridiculous

and you're just trying to pin me down.

- You need to slow down.

- Well, having kids doesn't mean

that I just need to slow down.

I don't need to just stop.

- What does that mean then?

- No, the family issue is not going to resolve me

just slowing down.

- Well, your family... - No, keep the ball.

- ...isn't a 100% fond of me either.

- Your family started with all the drama

in the first place, Jacob.

There was no family drama until your family came in

and started attacking me, saying, "Oh, she's bad."

That's [ bleep ] rude.

You're always trying to [ bleep ] blame me for everything.

Oh, she's the bad girl!

So let's throw all the balls at me.

- You're not a bad girl? - Get over in your circle.

- Listen. - Bye, go.

- You don't have to put your hands on me.

- No, go over there. No, seriously.

- Listen--listen.

- Go over there. No, I'm not.

- Don't put your hands on me.

- Don't [ bleeping ] do that. Those are yours.

- You wouldn't put your hands on me at home,

don't put your hands on me here.

- Do it.

- All right, here we go. - Throw your ass in the lake.

- One--one. - Okay.

I don't like this drill...

- Can we talk more about this?

- ...'cause it makes me angry.

I don't like being angry, okay?

- So what are you gonna do with that anger?

- I'm gonna knock this whole [ bleep ] over,

that's what I'm gonna do.

- You tell her from your heart how you're feeling

about all this crap right now.

- You make me so mad

that I possibly can end up in jail.

- And what's gonna happen if you guys cannot resolve

and communicate it out? What's gonna happen?

- We'll probably be in divorce court

and I'll be slapping [ bleep ] in front of the judge.

- That's it. You're done.

- Syleena and Kiwane, come on.

- This should be interesting.

I did not know if I was gonna be able

to throw these heavy balls.

I would change Kiwane's communication.

You--you're terrible with communication, period.

There's nothing really else to even say about it.

You don't be talking, man.

You can't just think some stuff and be thinking

that you talking like-- - Okay, you know what?

- I think he dreams that he talks.

- You know what? You know--

- And then it--like, he woke up and then

he thought he said some stuff.

- You-- - But you was dreaming.

- You're going too far. Separate lives.

This is what goes on in our household.

Me with the kids, you on your phone.

- Maybe they wouldn't be separate if you tried

to join in on some of the things that I'm doing.

- The separate lives thing is really true for both of us.

So I'm gonna put it in the middle.

- We're at a stalemate.

- You the man. You supposed to carry the ball, dude.

- Don't worry about it, I can handle--

- You wouldn't want me to carry balls.

- Never. - Okay then.

- I feel like you don't have a true value of what money is.

And so you get money.

- I think that you're spoiled.

I think that you might have needed less money

to have a better evaluation of what life is about.

- I personally would like our children

to go to the best schools, and you would

be fine with your kids going to public schools.

So you take money 'cause you don't care about money.

- Yeah, I think public school's great,

and I don't want spoiled brats.

So we don't need what you think we need.

I'm the accountant. You don't know.

- Just--just because you have money

does not make you spoiled.

- Okay, it's Heidi's turn.

- Oh, here's the big one.

- All right.

So this is what I care about the most,

is children and family.

And I think it's time for you to kind of open up

and let your fears stop controlling you.

I don't think you respect yourself enough.

- I definitely don't respect myself,

and I don't respect you,

and I don't respect our marriage,

because I feel like

we've made so many bad decisions...

- Oh, wow. - Ohh.

- ...that I'm not ready to have kids right now.

I don't think her daughter or son would care

how old their mom is if their mom is a good mom.

- I think you're putting words in my mouth,

and that's not how I feel,

and that's not why I want children.

We've been together for eight years.

I think you're just wanting another reason

to hold us back, and it's like,

how long are you gonna do that for?

- Okay, you guys are done.

- Whatever. It's done. - Next group.

- I'm just done with this whole thing.

I'm at my snapping point. This is so frustrating.

- The issue is public opinion.

Reid has the problem that I'm on social media

and I'm the only one taking the heat for public negativity.

So I think it's largely your fault.

- Shut it off.

[ groans ]

- Shut off the Internet and focus on our family.

- Next topic. - Reid, go pick one.

- I really am tired of being blamed

for the public opinion situation.

It's not fair.

- Family.

You need to learn to respect my family.

- I totally respect your family.

I would like your family back in our lives.

I think that our kids are missing out

because you won't communicate with your parents.

- I'm shutting out my own parents.

It's been a strain in our relationship.

We haven't been communicating.

We haven't been spending as much time together.

- It's your responsibility to communicate with your family

to make it better.

Otherwise, the kids are gonna be off to college

and never have any memories of their grandparents,

who live five minutes away.

- Great.

Now, come on, Reid. Why won't you do that?

Put the family back together.

- I can't change them.

I'm asking you just to roll with it.

- Oh, wow. - Oh.

- Reid is concerned about Aviva's career

having a negative impact on the relationship.

- But Reid pushing his parents out of his family's life

could prove to be even more damaging.

Okay, here we go. You guys ready?

- Yeah.

- Last couple. Tyson and Rachel. Let's go.

- I feel pretty good. I'm ready to brawl, so...

- Knock him down. - Don't be afraid to...

- Get him, Rachel! Step up! - This is selfishness.

We've been together for six years.

This whole relationship has been around your timeline

and what you want to do.

I've asked for one thing and I haven't been given it yet.

It's time. Like, it's-- it's Rachel time.

- Amen.

- Come on Rachel Time. - Whoo!

- Everybody here is gonna be on Rachel's side no matter what.

And so I'm like, scanning all of the balls,

being like, what can my argument even be?

- Wow. - What?

- Didn't see that coming. - Didn't see that coming.

- So I picked quality time.

How many times have you sent me a text at 6:00 P.M.

saying I'm gonna be home at 6:30

and you get home at two in the morning?

And I don't get a text that says you're coming home

at two in the morning. How many times?

- Whoa.

- A lot of times. - A lot of times.

- [ bleep ] - A lot of times.

- Oh, my God, that's cruel. That's just cruel.

- And now I do the same thing to you,

but only because you do it to me.

- What are you two doing out until two in the morning?

- That's what I'm saying! - I got you Tyson.

I'm done with this marriage.

- Oh, my gosh. Rachel cheating.

- This is crazy.

Oh [ bleep ]. Oh [ bleep ].

- No ring.

- Only bad things happen after midnight.

- Coming up on "Marriage Boot Camp: Reality Stars"...

- 2:00 A.M., Rach. That is crazy.

- 2:30, I heard.

- If Spencer did that to me, I would leave him.

- The thirty rolls around. I'm like, okay, nothing.

11, 12, I hear the door open.

I hear her sneak around to get in the shower.

- In the shower?

- How many times have you sent me a text at 6:00 P.M.

saying I'm gonna be home at 6:30

and you get home at two in the morning?

That's yours.

- First of all, I work at a bar

that closes at one in the morning.

- Once every two weeks!

You work once every two weeks maximum now.

I'm waiting to spend time with you

and you're not there.

- She's been waiting for a wedding ring for how long?

Team Rachel, all the way.

That's right, girl.

You better turn up and let him know what it is!

- That's yours. I'm not taking that one.

- Changes everything. It's a game changer.

- Yeah.

- I'm gonna-- I'm gonna zip up.

- Okay, you guys are done.

- I see Tyson and Rachel's issues

in a completely different light now.

It was so crazy.

- You know, tossing blame back and forth is mentally

and physically exhausting.

Regardless of who's at fault,

it's lost energy you can't put toward positive things.

- This was some intense stuff.

I want you all to head inside and think about

how this drill impacted you.

- Uh, I'm totally Team Tyson right now.

- The purpose of the drill was for them

to see that blame doesn't work.

- 2:00 A.M., Rach. That is crazy.

- 2:30, I heard.

- It's been 6:00 A.M., sometimes.

- Holy [ bleep ]. - Wow.

- Rachel does not have a voice.

And the only place she finds her voice

is when she gets to control him by being late.

- Yeah.

- This is classic passive aggression.

- Yes!

- Or it could be something much darker.

- Natalie and Jacob.

- I have a feeling that the verbal abuse

he takes is way worse... - Much worse.

- ...then anything we just saw.

- Yeah. And when I saw his posture change and I saw--

I was like,

I wouldn't want to face off with that man.

- Uh-uh. - Uh-uh.

- But at least he knows that's an issue

and hopefully through the boot camp,

we can help him address that

and he can verbalize... - Yes.

- ...versus just shutting down.

- Heidi and Spencer. - Heidi and Spencer.

- The number one thing I see in Spencer is fear.

- Mm-hmm. - Mm.

- Fear of bad decisions. - Yes.

- Fear of growing up.

- And Heidi gets in his way

by trying to make him not feel bad.

So she's wanting him to grow up, while at the same time...

- Protecting him.

- We got some great information here.

- Mm-hmm.

- Let's put it to work in the next drill.

- It's crazy how alliances can shift so fast.

- The bar on the weekends closes at 1:00.

- It's not in the bar. I'm not talking about the bar.

You keep bringing up the bar.

- Honey, most of those late nights are after work.

- I'm absolutely flabbergasted.

That sweet girl from Utah has just become

something completely different in my eyes.

- If Spencer did that to me, I would leave him.

That's selfish.

- I think this is getting really exaggerated.

I normally do respond to your texts.

- But not late at night.

- It's not once or twice a week.

- Yes. - It's not like that.

- So I will ask her where she's been

and I tell her it's not okay.

And 8:30 rolls around, I'm like, okay, nothing.

11:00, I go to bed. 3:00, I hear the door open.

I hear her sneak around, get in the shower.

- In the shower?

- That's intense.

If Spencer did that to me twice, I would leave him.

- I know, I've heard you say that.

- Heidi is on her repeat mode. I get it.

Like, they don't realize, I'm hearing them loud and clear.

- That's really gnarly. - Thank you, Heidi, I know.

She is just so stuck on the fact

that I have done this to Tyson.

- You won't hear me say to marry her one more time.

It's a wrap, dog.

- Here's the issue. - Yeah.

- You can't wonder, as the boyfriend...

- But she demands--

- ...every little thing she's doing,

every step of the way.

- Natalie, but she demands--

- A husband now, yes.

- Wow, I really riled people up.

- Everyone's blaming Rachel for being out

until 5:00 o'clock in the morning.

And, honestly, I think Tyson's to blame.

I'm still on your side, girlfriend.

- Oh, you are? - Yeah.

- She demands the same. - Thank you.

- She demands the reciprocate from me, though.

- Guess what? You're just the boyfriend.

Until you can really step up and just say like,

"I've been with you for six years, here's a ring--"

At least a [ bleep ] ring.

Then you can say, "I texted you last night.

Where the [ bleep ] were you? What are you doing?"

- Natalie's the only one that's defending me

in this argument so far.

I appreciate your points. - Right.

- But it has to change, huh? That's fine.

That's fine. I can change.

- Boot campers, come join us outside.

- Oh, hell no. - No.

- Oh, wow.

- Oh, my God.

I don't think this is gonna be any sort of playtime.

It looks like a firing squad.

- This is crazy.

- When we played the blame game outside,

every one of you wanted to think you were right.

- You're always trying to [ bleep ] blame me for everything.

- You're spoiled. - Kiwane, you're terrible.

- That's yours.

- Now it's time for majority rules.

You're about to face a firing squad of your peers.

- Huh? - [ bleep ].

- And they will decide who is to blame

for your biggest issues.

This drill is an opportunity for the boot campers

to gain valuable perspective.

- Normally, when you're pointing a finger at your spouse,

you're not listening to what they have to say.

But when you hear an outside voice saying the same thing,

it often carries more weight.

- One couple at a time will stand against the wall.

You'll name your biggest issue.

And on our mark,

the firing squad will shoot who's to blame.

- Okay, get geared up

and meet us back out here for the firing line.

- [ sighs ] - Here we go.

This is not gonna be good.

Natalie should never have a gun in her hand.

- God.

- This is crazy.

- Do you think it's gonna hurt?

- Yeah.

- When we played the blame game earlier today,

they were all so interested in proving that they were right.

If they don't figure out

blame does not work in a relationship,

then we're gonna have a tough road to follow.

- You want me to step in front of all the bullets for you?

- No. - This is gonna be fun.

We get to shoot people. I'm kind of excited.

- You're really messed up in the head.

- Grab you a gun and line up.

- All right.

- There's gonna be slow singing and flower bringing.

- Rachel and Tyson, step forward.

- I'll remember who shoots me.

- Nice Tyson. - Very funny.

- I'm feeling pretty good about the cup on the outside

'cause that's putting, like, a target on him.

- I'm the [ bleep ].

- Everybody's gonna wanna shoot that.

- Look over here. What was your biggest issue?

- Quality time. - Do you agree with that?

- Yes. - Aww.

- Okay, David, quality time.

- Quality time is the ball that we choose.

- So I'm-- - The ball that she chooses.

I was quiet 'cause I was like,

she's gonna choose marriage

and everybody's still gonna shoot my face off.

She chooses quality time

and I'm like, I'll roll with that.

- Okay, put your masks down.

Put your hands behind your back.

Now that should do it, right there.

You gotta shoot who you think's the most to blame

for their problems.

Lower your mask and raise your guns.

- I went with a sniper shot.

This may be the only time I get to shoot balls

at my fellow campers.

- Ready, aim...

fire!

[ gunshots ]

- Ooh, oww.

- Cease fire. Cease fire.

- Come stand right here.

Okay. So I want you to tell who you shot,

who you blame, and tell them why.

- Well, I shot Rachel.

I'm putting myself in Tyson's shoes

and that would, like,

pretty much break my heart and make me so angry and upset.

- That's good.

Heidi, who'd you shoot and why?

- I shot you because I would never do that

to Spencer and I--

- Not everybody does exactly what Spencer and Heidi do.

- That was so rude.

- I shot Tyson.

- Tyson, I shot you. - I shot you, Tyson.

- I shot Tyson because I just think that

she has given you quality time.

She gave you six years.

- Okay, so your peers have spoken.

- I'm not too surprised

that Tyson got a lot of bullets.

I still think quality time is a small issue

and that the bigger problem is getting married.

- Okay, Heidi and Spencer. - Oh, God.

What was the biggest issue you guys had today?

- Money. - Money it is, David.

- You guys look like the dirty dozen.

- Okay. Ready, fire!

[ gunshots ]

Cease fire!

Guys, come down here.

- Spencer, I shot you. - Spencer.

- I did shoot you. - Spencer, I shot you.

- I shot Spencer.

Uh, growing up, I didn't have any money

and I think you would be a great dad.

I know that you want it, but you-- you scared.

- All right.

Syleena and Kiwane, come on up.

What is the big issue between you guys?

- Communication.

- Uh, communication.

- Ready?

Fire!

[ gunshots ]

Cease fire!

- Oh, God. That hurt.

- All right.

- I shot you, Kiwane. - I shot you, Kiwane.

- I show you, Kiwane. - Kiwane, I shot you.

Speak up and, you know, talk to her.

- Definitely. All right.

- Man, I think she picked that ball so that

everybody can shoot me. 'Cause she...

- How you gonna say I picked the ball

when we both agreed on the ball together?

I didn't really agree on that one.

- I said something else. - Ohh, see.

- They didn't hear me, but I said something.

- It's all fun and games until somebody get shot.

- Natalie and Jacob.

- Oh!

- Jacob, what's the big issue?

- Respect.

I know that Natalie's gonna definitely get shot more.

- Lies. - Fire!

Cease fire!

- I shot Jacob in the chest.

You guys need to come to an agreement.

- Natalie, I shot at you. - Natalie, I shot you.

- What?

Bitch, we're supposed to be on the same team!

Rachel-- Can we do that over again?

'Cause I'm coming for Rachel now.

- Coming up on "Marriage Boot Camp: Reality Stars"...

- I think you're being fake as [ bleep ].

I continuously stick up for you, Rachel.

So, since you wanna keep on being a [ bleep ] smart-ass,

let Natalie let you know how I feel.

- Natalie, I shot you.

- What?

Bitch, we're supposed to be on the same team!

- Now we're being judged by our peers with paintball guns.

Natalie is so upset with Rachel.

- Rachel-- Can we do that over again?

'Cause I'm coming for Rachel.

[ bleep ]

I really don't care what half these people have to say.

I just want to know why Rachel decided that she thought

it was okay to shoot me with her paintball gun

after all that I have done for her.

Like, bitch, are you crazy?

- It is the social media stuff.

I think it's natural that

that makes him feel uncomfortable.

Maybe there's an alternative, since it bothers him.

- Put on a one-piece

so I could look like a housewife?

That's not gonna work.

I'm definitely not the preacher's wife.

My image is the bad girl. That works.

- "Bitch, you gonna shoot me?"

"What, bitch? You look--"

"Bitch! Bitch, bitch, bitch!"

Oh, this is gonna get good.

- Aviva and Reid,

what is the biggest issue between you guys?

- Children, family, and the in-laws.

- I'm very angry about the children, the family issue.

- Okay.

- Do not hit me. - Last one.

- I'm gunning for the leg.

- Fire!

Cease fire! Cease fire!

- [ bleep ]

- Who got me in the face?

- Oh, my God, somebody got my leg.

- I shot both of you because I think your both wrong.

- I shot both of you. - I also shot both of you.

- Throughout this whole thing, I've been Team Reid,

but the fact that the grandparents

aren't in the picture, I had to shoot you.

- I think that our kids are missing out

because you won't communicate with your parents.

- Because for me, when I was a kid,

my grandfather was one of my best friends,

and he's always been one of my biggest supporters.

And he's dead now.

He's been dead for 10 years.

If I wouldn't of had that time with him,

I don't know who I would've been, so...

- I appreciate that.

The kids are very, very happy

when the grandparents are around.

And I--I-- I take responsibility.

I don't fight hard enough

to get them into our home and into our lives.

- Thank you. - Yeah.

- And I want to know...

that felt kind of good, didn't it?

- Yeah. - Okay.

When you're hurting, I want you to go in there

with the feelings instead of the humor.

- Yeah. - Okay.

When you use humor as like a--

a decoy to avoid your feelings,

you're only hurting yourself, okay?

- Okay.

- All right.

- You two both got shot as a couple

because you're both trying so hard to be right.

- And I just can't believe that people actually shot me.

- Okay, you all step back in the line.

- I think you all learned a lot about yourself,

from your peers who are honest with you

and straightforward with you.

Look around. Looks like everyone took a few hits.

So tell me, who won?

We'll discuss this later at evaluations.

Come on in.

- I can't believe Rachel did me like that.

- Heidi! Pop, pop! Pop, pop, pop!

- Did you have an alliance with Rachel?

- Yeah, I did.

- I think all the advice we had out there was just phenomenal.

- A lot of couples did get a lot out of this drill.

- Yeah, well, look at Tyson.

The advice he gives about the grandfather.

- That was so touching. - Yeah, it was. It was.

- I think Reid needed that, big time.

When he gave advice, I think Spencer was serious.

But when advice was given to him

and the rest of the stuff--

He wants to play around so bad.

I'm just so worried about him goofing off

and being silly all the time and not getting in touch.

- Gonna have to dig in hard and see what the baggage is,

so we can help him break through that.

- Yeah. - I really do.

- Jake. - Yeah.

- Why the [ bleep ] did Rachel shoot me?

All that whole time with her and Tyson,

I was, like, still sticking up for her.

I'm pissed.

I just can't believe,

everything I've done for this girl,

she's decided to throw me under the bus and shoot me.

Bitch, you're running the streets

until 5:00 o'clock in the morning.

You're probably [ bleep ] around on Tyson,

but I'm still on your [ bleep ] side.

Like, straight up, bitch,

I'm coming-- I'm coming for you.

I'm about to turn this [ bleep ] house upside down.

- What happened with Natalie and Jacob?

- All the sudden just start calling people out.

- Don't upset me.

- Don't upset you, how? What do you mean?

- Natalie is really starting to get to me.

This is not "Bad Girls Club" anymore.

This is "Marriage Boot Camp."

We're supposed to be worried about our problems.

- I'm just gonna call it how I see it.

I think you're being as fake as [ bleep ].

I continuously stick up for you, Rachel.

And today you shot me,

and it was like a slap in the face.

You need to realize that I felt that was [ bleep ] fake.

You could of just not shot at either one of us.

- Why are you using the word "fake"?

I'm being very real. That was my opinion.

- [ bleep ]. You know that, too.

I stand up for you and I say [ bleep ]

all the [ bleep ] time.

And then now you want to sit up here

and you want to act like you're so [ bleep ]

peaches and cream and a sweetheart.

[ bleep ] you doing 5:00 in the morning

in the [ bleep ] streets for?

- I'm really confused.

- I think Natalie's upset.

- Is she still talking?

- Yeah, I'm gonna mark this is Rachel's life calendar.

This is a fun day for Rachel.

- I'm trying to be [ bleep ] nice

with that fake ass [ bleep ].

I've had--I stayed up with her all night

last night and hung out with her.

- Is she making sense right now?

'Cause I can't make any sense of what she's even saying.

- When she gets upset,

she likes to vent and let it off of her chest.

- Well, when she does that to you,

every time she does,

she's chipping away at you and at your relationship.

- Boot campers, meet us in the boot camp room now.

- I have had a long day being blamed,

people shooting paintball guns at me,

now this thing with Rachel.

I don't know how well this is gonna go.

- Okay, y'all.

Boot camp is a process, okay?

The third stage was today

and it was all about placing blame.

Tell me how that felt.

- I'm just gonna keep it all the way, 100,

because I feel like when you guys come in the room,

I have to be so sweet all the time.

- So you're being fake with us?

- I'm not being fake.

I'm just gonna keep it 100 for today.

I called Rachel a fake-ass bitch

because I feel like she's fake as [ bleep ].

I have been nothing but nice to you.

- Give me a situation,

'cause fake isn't the right word.

- "Fake" meaning that I have been nothing

but giving you a little bit of like, um,

- and you shot me. - Mm-hmm.

- So, since you want

to keep on being a [ bleep ] smart-ass,

like you did at the table, let me do a exercise...

- Natalie!

- You want me to keep it 100, Rachel?

Let me keep it 100. Let Natalie...

- I'm not--I don't want to sit over there.

- ...let you know how I feel.

I feel like you robbed me from my experience today

shooting the gun. Here's my exercise.

So that right there is me shooting you,

with the paintball gun today, okay?

- Natalie!

- Now we can go back to the evaluation.

- Natalie!

- This is why we're here.

- Coming up on "Marriage Boot Camp: Reality Stars"...

- Well, that's a [ bleep ] pretty dress.

- Obviously, it was never meant for Rachel.

- I got in her dress.

Let's show her how to be a wife.

- ♪ Here comes the bride

Whoa!

- You just wrote a poem?

- Would you like to hear it? - Yes.

"- When thinking about 'Marriage Boot Camp,'

my first thought was Robert Frost's

'Fire and Ice.'

The ice in boot camp is Jim and Liz.

They try and freeze you up..."

- I wasn't so much impressed by the poem,

as I was that he took the time to think about it

and actually create it.

- "Having so many haters

definitely makes me know enough of hate..."

And that's where I left off last night.

- Yeah.

- It's heavy [ bleep ]. - It's very poetic.

- Now we can proceed. Well, there it is.

- Let's go to your room.

- There it is, sweetheart.

- Natalie goes bat [ bleep ] crazy.

You just don't do that to wedding dresses.

I mean, they're expensive.

- I want to hear from you.

- To be attacked like that is very, like,

shocking to me.

I had no clue that what I did today would even hurt her.

- Oh, you're feeling betrayed? - Totally betrayed.

- Number one, her shooting you and giving you feedback,

really, that's an indication of a good friend.

So if you wanted to tell her that what she's doing is wrong,

how could you of done that in a manner

that she would of listened to you?

- Be 100. - But not 100% anger.

- That's something that I really don't know

if I'm gonna be able to do.

- The goal is, bad girl for your career,

good girl when you come home.

- Okay. I'm gonna work on it.

- Okay, here we go. - All right.

- So what we've been doing in the boot camp

is peeling that onion.

And every single one of you operates from a system

that happened way before today.

She's showing all of us what that looks like,

to go to the dark side.

So I want to give you all some feedback about today.

Heidi and Spencer, stand up.

Okay, so you've got sort of a spirit of fear.

- I feel like we made so many bad decisions

that I'm not ready to have kids right now.

- You're just wanting another reason to hold us back.

- Something in you is saying "I can't because I don't

have this and this and this and this in place."

And it keeps you from blossoming into the man

that you want to be.

- Now everybody's gonna be looking at me crazy, but--

- We're gonna work

on your conscience later on, okay?

- Jeez, we got at lot to work on.

- Rachel and Tyson.

Your peers gave you a whole new perspective

on your relationship, right?

- I shot Rachel.

Putting myself in Tyson's shoes,

and that would break my heart.

- I shot Tyson because I just think that

she has given you quality time.

She gave you six years.

- The lesson for everybody is

none of this stuff is one-sided.

You guys are one.

- I know Jacob's mad.

- Well, you can apologize to him, can't you?

- Hey.

- Welcome back.

You want to tell us a little bit

about what's going on?

- Well, at first I would like to apologize to my husband.

You know, Jacob, I'm really sorry.

And I'm sorry to everybody else in here, right now.

You know, I'm-- I'm working on anger.

- All right.

Let's practice what we practiced upstairs.

You're gonna work on being

a bad girl in your career and...

- Good girl at home.

- Good girl at home, all right.

So let's--let's continue with our evaluations.

- Aviva and Reid, stand up.

All right, so during the blame game,

I saw both of you in your heads,

instead of dropping into your hearts.

So the question is, would you rather be right

or would you rather be happy?

- Syleena and Kiwane.

- So, Kiwane, since day one,

your job has been to find your voice.

- Yes. - Right?

- Yes.

- You're terrible in communication.

- Syleena will do anything for you.

She just doesn't know what's going on inside of you.

- Right.

- Natalie and Jacob.

Jacob, I think you're learning that you can't

suffocate your emotions anymore.

- And I just want to say to you,

Natalie, that I don't think you realize how close

to the edge you push your man. - Hey, go.

- You don't have to put your hands on me.

- No, go over there. No, seriously.

- Listen--listen. - Go over there and be yours.

- You wouldn't put your hands on me at home,

don't put your hands on me here.

Throw your ass in the lake.

- But because he has this innate self control,

that you've not seen it go dark, but it could.

- You can't win a fight if there's only one winner.

Pointing fingers is not the way to solve problems.

You both end up covered in paint.

- Tomorrow is even harder.

- [ bleep ].

- This camp is crazy.

- Good night.

- After tonight, I can't stand Natalie.

If Rachel were like that, I would sell her to the circus.

- Natalie felt betrayed by Rachel.

So the dynamic is

Natalie's very hesitant to let anybody in.

- To trust. - To trust.

- And this is a behavior she's learned.

It's a behavior she's done all her life.

- Yeah. - And she doesn't know how

to deal with anger when it flares up.

- She is getting encouraged in her role as a bad girl.

And sometimes the line gets blurry

between your role and your feelings.

And--and it's the boot camp vibe.

There's energy in this room from everybody's hearts

that's making every one of them crack open.

- And it's only getting started.

I have the feeling we're about to see a lot more.

[ chattering ]

- We should wear this. I'm marriage material.

That's for damn sure.

I'm marriage material about one million times over.

- Heidi and I get this bad girl itch in us

to just keep going tonight.

- Oh, my God! - This was fit for me.

Honestly, it was never meant for Rachel.

- Honestly. - This is hot.

- I am the best.

I'm very upset with Rachel because she's going

around saying negative things about me

and being super disrespectful.

- We're two different people, and not everybody

does exactly what Spencer and Heidi do.

- Well, that's a [ bleep ] pretty dress, too.

- Duh! I'm the best.

It was triggered to mean girl status.

And I got in her dress and we're like,

"Let's show her how to be a wife."

[ laughing ]

- It's not fitting. It's not fitting.

- She's gonna come in and be pissed.

- Who cares?

- Coming up on "Marriage Boot Camp: Reality Stars"...

- For you to come in and to be so rude to me

when I've been so nice to you,

it's like, "Who are you?"

- She doesn't have to respond to you mother [ bleep ]

because it's none of your [ bleep ] business.

- Syleena, bow out! - I won't! I won't!

[ bleep ] that!

You don't want this mother [ bleep ] tornado!

- This is mean.

- She's never gonna wear it, and she doesn't even care.

She probably doesn't really want to get married. It's fine.

- We try on these wedding dresses to let Rachel know

she doesn't deserve to be a wife at all at this point.

So we decide to rub it in her face that we are wives.

♪ Here comes the bride Whoa!

Honey!

- Honey!

- At this time, I should've thought

it was probably super disrespectful.

But I don't think she really even wants to be married

because she's staying out and doing all this.

- Spencer! - Uh.

- [ bleep ] champagne.

[ shouting ]

- You're supposed to put this on.

- Everybody in the room is inebriated,

but Heidi is drunk as hell.

- I love surgery. Give me ice cream.

Just rub my boobs. I'm great.

- Give her that dress, 'cause it doesn't fit you.

- It definitely doesn't fit. Ass is way too big.

- Exactly.

- Heidi and Natalie are mocking me, like,

"We're in your wedding dresses.

What are you gonna do about it?"

I'm pretty scared of Natalie at this point, so I just joined.

I didn't want to get hurt.

- No, Rachel, when you said that whole thing

about like, "Not everyone's Heidi and Spencer,"

that, like-- that really did offend me.

I know you don't like me anymore and it--

it does hurt my feelings a little bit.

You ignore me, and you have, like, attitudes toward me.

- And I-- - Let's have girl time

and then we can all talk about this

- without the boys there. - Right, like--

[ shouting ]

- Heidi is going in.

She definitely knows what she's saying,

but she does not know the intensity

in which she is saying it.

- When Tyson and I first met and were dating,

Tyson got a call, first time, for "Survivor."

- Right.

- A lot of our relationship has been like,

total cut off.

I've had to go out with my friends.

I do-- I have, like, my...

- Honestly, Rachel-- - Okay, Heidi--

- So we have a very independent relationship.

We're very close.

- No, I want to know--

I don't care about any of this.

Honestly, I really don't.

I just want to hear why you leave Tyson,

three times a week. I find it--

- I just explained it, but you missed it, I think.

- So you leave at 5:00 A.M.

- Rachel, you need to just give up

because you're never gonna win this one.

Heidi is not gonna stop.

- I'm mad because I had your back more than anything

and I really loved you, Rachel.

Not only did you disrespect me today,

but you also disrespected your man.

I-- I think, you were so rude to me.

I mean, you were unnecessary--

Trying to break me down.

I've been nothing but nice to you.

I don't know you.

I've been sticking up for you.

And to say rude things to Natalie and everyone about me?

It's like, who are you?

Like, I've been there for you, and respectfully,

I've been married, honey, for six years.

I've been with my husband happily for eight years.

At least give me the respect of that.

Like, "I hear you. Thank you."

Not like, "Ugh, pfft."

Like, Rachel, check yourself, honey.

That is so rude, what you're doing to me. Like--

- Heidi, I learned my lesson today.

- Right!

- I realized that that's wrong.

- And that's fine,

but you won't even let me finish.

- This isn't really gonna go anywhere.

- No, it's okay. It's fine.

At this point, Rachel was looking at us like,

"Who are these bitches?

Why are these bitches in my room?"

- I want you to have everything in your hopes and dreams.

You're not even looking at me.

- I hear you loud and clear.

I will be a good wife.

I am very capable of doing that.

I have made a mistake and I've heard it.

- Yeah, like, that really hurt my feelings.

- It hurt her feelings. And--and then--

- Everybody is a different couple.

Why does that hurt your feelings?

- Because you said it

in such a bitchy, condescending way.

And it's like, "Come on, Rachel."

I wouldn't say that to you and Tyson.

And for you to come in and to be so rude to me

when I've been so nice to you?

It's like, who are you? Like, are you serious?

Like, that is so rude, for you just to be like

so mean to me when I've done nothing to you.

No, let's--

- Look at her. Look at her face.

- You're putting words in her mouth.

- Look at her face.

- You're putting words in her mouth!

- I'm not putting words in her mouth [ bleep ]!

- She's 3-[ bleep ]-5! I'm 28!

- She's looking at you like she doesn't know

what the [ bleep ] talking about!

- Oh, come on, Syleena. - No, real talk.

Rachel, say what it is

the [ bleep ] you need to say to her.

- What are you doing?

She wants to know what the [ bleep ] you're doing

at these hours of the night--

- And why you're so mad at me for trying to help you.

- She doesn't have to respond...

- She doesn't.

- ...to you mother [ bleep ]

because it's none of your [ bleep ] business!

- Yes, it is! - No, real talk!

- When people are asking me to have my opinion--

- It's not! It's not! - Syleena, let her talk!

- This is none of our business!

- You're saying that. - This is between her and Tyson!

- Now, if there's an issue-- - Syleena, bow out!

- Syleena, bow out! - I won't.

I won't. [ bleep ] that.

You don't want this mother [ bleep ] tornado!

If you have a problem with Heidi,

then you need to say...

- Then you need to say it to me right now.

- This is my problem. - Okay. I will.

Heidi, I actually have never had a problem with you.

I really haven't.

And if I've given you that impression, I apologize.

- And are you sorry to how negative

and rude you were towards me?

- Yes.

- And I'm sorry for judging you...

- There you go. She's sorry.

- ...and I should've earlier--

I am sorry for judging you and Tyson.

- Right, there it is.

- Heidi's so gone, and she has like one--

One eye is getting lazy.

And there comes a point where I just stand up,

and I'm like, that's a wrap,

and we're done with this for the day.

- We don't know what you're doing

at 5:00 in the morning,

and by the time we leave here,

I want answers.

- Heidi and Natalie are crazy.

- I felt like Rachel still needed

to be attacked a little bit.

So I got Heidi to do my dirty work.

- I'm trying to stay calm, but I can't do this.

It's too loud,

and it's too violent,

and it's too harsh.

- I feel like, in the end,

that this will hopefully all be worth it,

because it's not looking good so far.

- Next on "Marriage Boot Camp: Reality Stars"...

- I need a baby.

- Uh, marriage. That's why I'm here.

- You don't respect me as a husband.

- You two are now a couple.

- You're gonna be going on a date.

- You got to go for a choke. - Oh, God!

- We have to take our pants off?

- If you want to take off your shirt...

Three, two, one.

- It's inappropriate.

- Multiple pictures?

Ugh, no [ bleep ] way.

Girl, you already know

I'm gonna beat your [ bleep ] ass.