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Previously on Marriage Boot Camp Reality Stars...

A surprise lie detector test exposed dark secrets.

- When Rachel gets married, will it be with you?

- Do you regret getting married?

- Yes.

- Spencer was called out for being fake.

- How can I make sure that we got the real you on here?

- Tempers flared and battles lines were drawn.

- I don't need a stranger getting in my face

and calling me fake.

- As tension mounted in the house.

- It's hell for me.

- Tonight they are pushed over the edge...

- This has become unlivable.

- When everything they love...

- I can never love her more than she loves me.

- Is taken away.

- He would have primary custody.

- Just [ bleep ] shoot me.

- And the unthinkable happens.

- Jake, I love you so much.

- Five famous couples face a whole new reality.

- Who the [ bleep ] are you talking to?

- They must fight to save their failing relationships.

- I'll knock you the [ bleep ] out.

- Or decide whether to call it quits.

- It's time to move on in our lives.

- This has become unlivable.

- You don't want this tornado!

- I'm gonna beat your ass!

- Marriage, that's why I'm here.

- When reality comes crashing down...

- It's disgusting! And it's awful!

- Jim and Elizabeth Carroll are their last chance.

This is Marriage Boot Camp Reality Stars.

- On Day Two I woke up and then I thought

I had to wake up again, 'cause I was in a nightmare.

The bed rocks.

- Can't make a baby in that bed.

- No one's making babies.

- You don't see the bigger picture.

- It [ bleep ] works!

We [ bleep ] live off of that!

- I didn't like waking up this morning.

I didn't like seeing Natalie's ass everywhere.

- Yesterday I was shocked with my bedroom.

But I love the room.

I thought it's actually kind of sexy.

I don't give a [ bleep ] if people see a [ bleep ] nipple!

- Natalie... - She says things really loud.

- Yeah. She's got a high volume.

- What the [ bleep ] is that picture for?

- Riding on the beach, horseback riding.

What is the problem?

- Well, you gonna pull your panties up

just so you can get a better picture of your ass?

- I didn't pull my panties up! That was the cut of the bikini!

- You're being team hater.

- I'm being team photo album to show the kids later.

- Hey, if you want it to rain money...

- Can I shake my ass?

- ...if you wanna act like a stripper,

then you can be a stripper then.

- Oh, my gosh, what a first day.

- I know how you play people.

How can I make sure that we got the real you on here?

Where I'm from in Los Angeles,

you keep getting in peoples' faces,

you get punched in the face.

- What did we get ourselves into?

- We'll find out.

- Attention all couples, to the Boot Camp room now.

- Good morning. - Morning.

- Hey.

- Yesterday, we identified some of the problems,

but today we're gonna look at some harsh futures.

- What are your futures gonna look like if you don't survive

the Marriage Boot Camp?

- So the question is, do you guys have the strength

to get after the stuff that you're struggling with.

- Follow us and let's find out.

- I want to like be excited to see Jim and Elizabeth,

but I'm not.

- Today's drill is designed to show the Boot Campers

one alternative future if they don't dig deep

to put hard work into the Boot Camp.

- I have butterflies.

- Oh, Lord.

- Oh, that's gonna be interesting.

- It's a courtroom.

- Oh, my God.

- Divorce.

Some of you use it as a threat.

Others of you have seriously considered it.

Now you're gonna live it.

- If you do not give 100% to the Boot Camp,

you could very well end up right here.

- I should probably call my lawyer.

- Marriage Boot Camp has an 80% success rate

when it comes to saving relationships.

- For this drill,

we've brought in an expert on failed marriages.

- Say hello to your worst nightmare.

The Honorable Judge Lynn Toler of Divorce Court.

- The minute I saw Judge Toler, I knew that she was a bitch.

- By the end of that court,

Natalie probably gonna go to jail.

- Ladies, we need you over here on the right side.

- Court for bad girls is nothing new, so...

- Natalie and Jacob.

- Natalie's bad girl attitude has been the cause

of a lot of problems in their marriage.

- Jacob needs to step up

and be more assertive in this relationship.

- You two don't have any children.

You are ending your relationship.

I want to see how we got here.

So I'm gonna show you your intake tape...

And then we'll go from there.

- I just didn't see that coming.

- The intake tape is a pre-interview we conduct

with each couple to help us assess the problems

and issues within the relationship prior to Boot Camp.

- Natalie, she's a social media whore.

- I'm definitely not gonna sit here

and tell you I'm gonna put clothes on on my Instagram

because I get more likes when I'm half naked.

- She's a spoiled brat.

- He's more, oh, let's have kids.

Like what?

- If I would have known she was Natalie

from the Bad Girls club, then I probably would have ran.

- You're gonna leave this behind?

I highly doubt it.

- Jacob, why don't you tell me why you think this marriage is ending?

- I'm ready for children.

[ sighs ]

All she's concerned about is what she can do for her career.

- He's always trying to slow somebody down, Your Honor.

All he wants me to do is sit in the house,

pop out a bunch of babies, put an apron on and cook.

- I think you're confusing loud and angry,

which are both signs of fear, with strength.

I think you're scared to death.

- Let me say this.

You gotta put up a whole lot of crash, boom and bang

because you're really not quite sure what your worth is.

- Girl? - Don't call me girl.

- What my worth is?

Okay, let me explain something to you.

With or without Jacob, I'm gonna be good.

I mean, we come from two completely different places on the map.

I feel like, for Jacob, it's you need to sit down

and this is what a woman does.

- Let's not imagine what he thinks.

Let's ask him.

What do you think a good wife looks like?

What does she do?

- A good wife has respect.

They are supportive of what he's doing.

- Do you feel she's not supportive of what you're doing?

- Not 100%.

- Do you at all see that thirsty look in women

when they look at that thing over there?

This man, he can bop out your house tomorrow

and have women 35 deep waiting on him.

Trust that.

- I just don't think he's going anywhere.

- So you don't think he has options?

- Not better than this.

- Okay. I can't talk to her.

And if you can't talk to her,

you gotta ask yourself what you got.

It might be a good thing

that you don't have children with her.

- Like, bitch, shut the hell up

before I come across this damn podium

and smack you in your face.

- There will be no recovery.

- Aviva and Reid, will you please take the stands?

- I prefer if Aviva could explain her issues

at work in three minutes opposed to three hours.

- When I read things on Twitter

that make me feel hurt, he gets sad for me,

but he also gets angry at me.

- I find Aviva more willing to spoil the children.

- When I get my 13 year old an expensive watch,

I don't think it's gonna turn him into a Kardashian.

- I don't think that's great parenting.

- Do you believe you ought to have custody of the children?

- 100%. - Why?

- Because I raise them. I've been a stay at home mom,

and I'm their mother.

- So you would fight hard for your kids?

Are you fighting that hard for your marriage?

- I only believe that divorce should happen

if things become unlivable.

And this has become unlivable.

- Aviva and Reid are faking it.

They should go on Broadway together.

and do like the Aviva and Reid Show where they try

to be real each night for like a couple of hours.

- Tell me about the concerns that you have

about the children of a television mother.

- If there are negative press, she'll be upset about it

and the kids sense that.

- Nothing worse than having a bothered mother.

- I think that my husband is saying this because he wants

full custody of the children really just because he wants

to keep all the money.

- How much of his money do you think you'll end up with?

- Alimony and child support.

- Child support, I have no problem with

as long as the money goes directly to the children.

- You see how controlling he is?

- I don't want the kids being spoiled.

- Oh, please.

- If you want your children to turn out crappy,

give 'em everything they want.

- Thank you, Your Honor.

- Final word, Judge. Who gets the kids?

- I would love to give them to him

but I think she deserves them simply because she has been

the primary caretaker all of this time.

- I learned in divorce court

that I never want to go back to divorce court.

You always can settle.

- I'd like to call Syleena and Kiwane.

- Since Kiwane has retired from the NBA,

Syleena has taken on all the financial responsibilities.

- This has put a strain on their marriage

because Kiwane feels that Syleena has not been

present with the family.

- Syleena focuses on her job

more than the stuff that's going on at home.

- One of the biggest problems I have with Kiwane,

he can talk to our kids real good,

but he doesn't communicate the same with me.

- Intimacy is really not there.

- There's no spontaneity.

In the beginning, we used to just,

boom, let's go over to the closet.

Boom, we were in on the stairs.

- Syleena, I'm gonna start with you.

Make the best case you can for keeping your children.

[ sighs ]

- Well, first of all, I can barely like talk in here

because...

when it comes to my children,

the thought of not having them is a devastation.

I cannot split my family up

because that's just not an option to me.

- Do you give as much to your marriage as he does?

- I don't know.

I've just been really fighting to keep us stable financially.

- I don't have a problem with her working.

I have a problem with her being able to step back from work.

- You know that doesn't bode well for the custody issue.

- If you're gonna take my kids,

just [ bleep ] shoot me right now.

- I would give you visitation,

but he would have primary custody.

Not only is he stable with it,

but he's the primary caregiver at this time.

- Coming up on Marriage Boot Camp Reality Stars...

- You think I'm a bad mother, too.

- No, I don't. - Yes, you do.

- She's always been willing to go with the flow.

- You didn't say I love her.

- Well... - This matter is adjourned.

[ crying ]

- When I ran out, I needed to get out of that room

and I wanted to get away from everybody,

because she took my children.

Right now, I feel like I'm being kicked,

you know, while I'm down.

And this is one of the issues that we have

is that we're not a team.

- Right? To stop these things.

- Oftentimes, things get very emotional during Boot Camp.

And when this happens, we like to give the couples

a chance to work things out before Jim and I step in.

- No, I don't think you're a bad mother.

- Okay.

- I take up for you.

- Whoo, it got hot in here.

- That was intense.

- To work so hard and lose your family...

- This is what happens to people when they don't

work on the issues.

- The reality of my kids being taken from me

means everything that I'm doing is wrong.

- Maybe you are doing something wrong.

That doesn't mean you're a bad person.

It just means you got to figure out what it is and fix it.

So you got a choice.

- I don't want to get into anymore arguments.

- You walk out of Boot Camp right now,

you'll be here five years later.

- I'm not gonna walk out.

- And this is gonna get tough.

- I'm gonna give 100% to myself.

- Me as well.

- Ready to go back in?

- Divorce is not an option.

Nothing makes me fight for change,

that right there is the fight for change.

- Heidi and Spencer?

- Sometimes I feel like Spencer's mom.

And he'll like joke and be like, "I'm the baby."

I'm like, "You are the baby, but you need to grow up."

- Finances are definitely an issue in our relationship

because I don't currently have a job.

- Just turned 28.

I am definitely ready to be a mom.

- All she does is talk about kids

and wanting to have kids,

and it is beyond stressful.

- His idea of a perfect family is just him, I and our puppies.

- We can't even walk down the street

without her literally going up to every kid or baby.

And be like, hi, hi, little baby, hi, kid.

- I need to have kids in the next two years.

- You two have been married for six years,

and you have no children.

That makes divorce court a little easier place to be.

- There's really nothing between the two

to split down the middle because

they've spent all their money on Heidi's plastic surgeries.

- You know she wants kids, right?

Do you love her enough to get a job?

- I would get a job to secure our marriage,

but I'm not sure I'd get a job to secure somebody else.

- Who's somebody else?

- Some little kid.

- Do you have debt?

- Emotional.

- He's still a kid.

He doesn't have a job and he's kicking it.

So what about that to you says good daddy?

- I think he just downplays himself

and doesn't give himself enough credit.

- I don't know what to say,

but get the fairy dust out of your eyes.

Ask yourself do you want to be with a man

who does not want children?

You can't hang on to something

because you hope it's gonna be something else.

- I'm not gonna ask him again to have children.

- You take it so personal. - That is personal.

That is the most personal you can possibly get.

- No, it's not. - Spencer, yes, it is.

- Rachel and Tyson.

- Rachel has approached me numerous times and been like,

"If you really love me, you would marry me."

- It's time. I need a ring on my finger.

- Weddings are a total waste of time and money.

- He did win a million dollars. We can afford it.

- That's $30, $40, or $50 grand

that I could spend on designer jeans.

- Why is she the woman you want to be with?

Go.

- She's always been willing to compromise,

which is what I prefer to do.

- You didn't say I love her.

That's all you told me is that she's convenient.

- As much as I love her,

I can never love her more than she loves me.

- Did you hear that?

- I think he's okay with getting married...

it's just him being kinda lazy.

- Never make a man tell you he don't want you

more than once, ever.

You hearing me?

- Tyson is who I love.

- If you were my daughter, we'd be in the woods

and I'd be hitting on your head with a stick.

You put yourself in an untenable position,

untenable.

No matter what happens with him, create a life of your own.

The stronger you get, the more leverage you have,

'cause right now, you got none.

God bless you, God love you and I hope it gets right.

- Tyson, I have not seen you bring your heart to the Boot Camp yet.

- Not that I'm not trying.

That's just always been the way I am.

- But is it working in the relationship?

Stand up, will you?

If I could rip you open and see your heart right now...

- What would it look like? - Um, physically?

- If everybody in here got to see your heart right now,

what would it look like?

- I really don't know.

- It's super annoying that Jim's always on my case.

I think it's about time

that Tyson feels Jim's bad breath in his face.

- You love her to the best of your ability.

But if you're not able to release this,

I'll bet she will go find some other man someday

that says I think you're so special,

I would do anything to marry you.

If you don't want to lose her, you'd better get in here.

- Rachel and Tyson are on two different pages.

Rachel wants to get married

and Tyson has been manipulating the relationship

to keep Rachel while staying single.

- Since they are not married,

there's not near as much on the line for these two.

- I'll tell you from experience.

Divorce is not an easy way out.

It destroys families.

It destroys a piece of you that you will never get back.

- You don't want this to be your future.

- You might have had it worse than me.

- I did have it worse than you.

- Guess what every one of them said their main problem was.

- Communication. - Yeah.

- So you have to be honest with people.

And when you're honest, people will know it.

- Who has the most trouble coming that you saw today?

- Spencer should no longer get away with the least he can do

and man up and do the most he can do.

- I'm a little worried about Rachel and Tyson.

- Yes. That would be the conversation

my mother would have had with me.

And it wasn't to say leave him.

It's be in a position to leave him.

- Today's not going very well.

This next drill, I don't think it's gonna be much better.

- I think it's something really intense.

- Oh, good. More intense. - Yeah.

- I was hoping for something a little more intense.

[ chuckles ]

- I feel Rachel. I feel her pain.

And like, wanting Tyson to understand

something she's trying to say and it's not really connecting.

- I wanna pee.

- I just want you to be a str--

I want you to be, well, just a little stronger.

- Mm-hmm. - That's it.

I was just watching and I want to be a little bit of you, too.

Like a little softer.

But I was like, you're just a sweet person

which is really nice and you have a great spirit.

- Rachel, what part of that hit you the hardest?

- I'm always just accommodating Tyson.

And I just let that happen.

- I know.

- Tyson manipulates Rachel. It's disgusting.

- Well, I think we should all make a toast.

Cheers to everybody working so hard.

- Sorry, Rachel. - [ bleep ]

- Spilled some...

- Crazy. It's so weird.

- Coming up on Marriage Boot Camp Reality Stars...

- Something really terrible has happened.

- I'll do anything that you say.

- Well, I think we should all make a toast.

Cheers to everybody working so hard.

- Cheers. - Cheers.

- Sorry, Rachel. - [ bleep ]

- When Rachel started crying, that was a deep moment.

I agree that Tyson doesn't care enough

if she agrees that Tyson doesn't care enough.

- I didn't really think that it was worth crying over.

- So I feel like there's a huge selfishness issue going on,

but also that Tyson needs a take little more initiative.

- I don't think so.

- I'm really questioning it at this point.

- Ladies and gentlemen,

meet us in the Boot Camp room now.

Will the following people stand up?

Kiwane, Natalie,

Aviva, Tyson and Spencer.

You five will go with David and Elsa.

- All right, you guys have a seat anywhere you want.

Uh, probably right there.

- Anywhere? - Almost anywhere.

- The rest of you come with Elizabeth and me.

Earlier today, we saw how the Boot Campers' relationships

could end up in a courtroom.

Now they're gonna see how it can potentially end forever.

Let's line up right here, please.

There's been a terrible accident.

Your accident.

- Spouses often have lists of complaints about their partners.

So this next drill is designed to help them

determine what really matters.

We've chosen you all to be in the vehicle,

because your spouse has a very important lesson to learn.

You'll all have a one on one time with Jim and Elizabeth

here in a little bit with your spouse, okay?

We're just gonna have you guys in here.

We're gonna ask you some questions.

We're gonna start with you.

Stand up and let's go back to the courtroom.

Your feelings and your emotions, what all was going on?

- I learned so much from the judge.

She has such good values. And just really...

- Kiwane, I need to have you for a one on one.

- I started following Elizabeth.

I didn't know what to think.

This is definitely not good.

- Stand right here.

Something really terrible has happened.

- So you and Syleena got into it.

She stormed out of the house,

but you continued to fight over text.

I know you've told her many times not to text and drive,

but you guys were so in it.

- She was distracted by your text.

She took her eyes off the road.

[ sirens blaring ]

- The car accident felt real to me.

It was a scene I always think of when Syleena's out.

She's come home late. It could be real.

This could happen.

- Read your last words to her.

- "You put all of yourself into your job.

You're not home. The kids feel it.

You are so selfish."

- So, Kiwane, is that what you want

your last words for her to be?

- Never.

- But you say these things all the time to her.

- I want you to take this moment to speak from your heart.

In these last moments, what you want to say to her.

- I'm so sorry, baby.

I love you.

I would never want anything to happen to you.

I'd do...

I'll do anything to have you back.

[ crying ]

- What would you do different if you had a second chance?

- I'd change me first,

because I know I am part of the problem.

I'd do my best to understand

and make this thing work.

- And, Syleena, tell him what you would do different.

- I would prioritize.

Our family has got to come before everything else.

- Kiwane, Step back.

You get to have a second chance.

- Something's fishy here.

- Read your last words to her.

- "I don't want children now.

I'm so sick of hearing all the baby talk."

- So is this what you want your last words to be to her?

- Absolutely not.

- So I want you to take a moment

and tell her what you would want her to hear from your heart.

- Heidi, I absolutely

want to have children with you.

I just don't feel...

- Is this from your heart? I'm not feeling you.

- I mean, it's the truth. - I'm hearing your head.

I wanna hear your heart.

- We asked two things from every Boot Camper.

Honesty and commitment to the program.

I want you to tell her how much you loved her.

How much she meant to you.

- And right now, Spencer is giving us neither.

Spencer, you're just playing us now.

Why don't you come out of the car?

- Coming up on Marriage Boot Camp Reality Stars...

- All right. Spencer, you're just playing us now.

- I love you so much.

- Spencer, you've become the spoiled brat reality star.

- What I'm trying to understand is why do you shut down?

- I have a hard time being sincere.

And it seems like the harder I try to be sincere,

the more insincere I seem.

- I don't trust a man 100%.

- When I was younger, I was reaching out to my parents

and they weren't there.

- All right, Spencer, you're just playing us now.

- Well, I'd never text and drive, so...

- As you shouldn't. But this is a drill.

And that's another disrespect of the process.

I want you to come out of the car.

There's something missing here. Not sure what it is.

There is a reason for all of the stuff in your life

and I'm not seeing it coming together yet,

and you're not gonna get there

until you can get completely, completely naked.

Don't make a joke.

- The problem is, he's still 18.

He's still immature.

- I really stopped liking their style

when they tried to tell me I wasn't doing it right.

I'm not over here claiming I'm Johnny Depp,

like I can't just snap into like my feelings so deep

and like, I connect to like my heart.

- You know what? You guys got work to do.

- I didn't get anything out of the drill

that I feel like I can apply to us.

- This is all he has.

He doesn't have the emotional intelligence

yet to do much more.

- I wonder if...

You know, he loves her but I wonder if he loves her

like a family member loves a family member.

- He loves her like a boy loves his mama.

- Now we got some work to do. - Yeah, we do.

This drill not only shows how quickly

a loved one can be taken away,

but it's also a diagnostic tool

to see how in touch they are with their emotions.

- Share from your heart what you want to say to him.

What your last minute would be.

- Um, that I think that you're the most incredible

human being I've ever met,

and I'm honored that you're the father of my children.

- Anything else?

- I love you.

- I am definitely not liking how Jim and Elizabeth

are telling me that I'm needing faith.

She's the housewife terminator.

I know she's a cyborg.

- Reid, I want you to be able to share

from your heart what you'd like to say.

- I love you with all my heart.

I wouldn't wanna live without you.

- Is that all you have to say?

Okay, we have some work we need to do.

- She does look real from like where I'm standing.

Like my heart sinks a little bit.

I'm like, oh, I don't wanna see Rachel like this.

- There are times when I texted Jacob mean things.

And storm off and he drives off.

So this hit home.

I was just like this could be real life.

This could really be happening right in front of my eyes.

This is horrible.

- I know you will stay with me if we get married or not.

You're not going anywhere.

- I bring home the money.

I can't be following you all over the world.

I'm going to do what I'm going to do

and I will be good with that.

- Probably not really the last words

you want her to hear, are they?

- No, they're not the last words I want--

- So can you kneel down here?

I want you to share from your heart.

- I just want you to know that I love you

and I always only wanted you to be happy.

- I'm so sorry, Jake. I love you so much.

I hate when I say mean things to you.

I'm so sorry.

- My life without you would be lonely.

And I should've married you.

- I'm so sorry.

- You are the most beautiful,

amazing woman I've ever met in my life.

- Will you open your eyes

and take his hand?

- I love you.

I just want you to know that,

that I always wanted to marry you and to be with you.

- You can let her out of the car.

- I'm glad you're alive. - I'm alive.

- Tyson knows exactly what to say

to pull Rachel right back into his web.

But is that just talk?

Will he ever act on those promises?

- I'm so sorry for always being mean,

'cause I don't wanna hurt you,

and I don't wanna be mean to you.

- Jacob, do you know what she needs from you?

She needs for you to be that container

for the monster that she carries around.

- It's gonna be the hardest thing you've ever done.

- You can give her a hug.

- My baby.

Everything hit home. They are breaking me down.

- Could you relate to it?

- I was relating to the mean things.

Don't make me [ bleep ] feel more sorry.

I already felt that.

- Uh, I don't like stuff like that.

- Uh, just kind of take a deep breath, relax.

That was a very intense exercise.

Each of you handled it very differently.

- And then I want you guys to go on inside

and meet us in the Boot Camp room

for your very first evaluation.

- Are you disappointed about the way this went?

- No, not at all. I think it was good.

- I just felt so disappointed in some of the responses

in the people.

- Well, I think it's really diagnostic.

- Coming up on Marriage Boot Camp Reality Stars...

- We end each night of the Boot Camp

with an evaluation.

Spencer, you've been 18 long enough.

You've become the spoiled brat reality star.

- Why are you saying that I love you more than you love me?

- We love each other different. - Why are you saying that?

- This is fun.

- We end each night of the Boot Camp

with an evaluation.

- This is where we can discuss the progress you've made

or the setbacks you've suffered.

- Today was about what your future might look like

if you don't give 100% to the Boot Camp.

- We have to burn your relationship to the ground

so you can properly rebuild it over your stay in Boot Camp.

We began to peel back the layers of the surface issues

and discover there is much more work than you realized.

- Natalie and Jacob, will you all stand up?

- There are two distinct sides of Natalie.

Today in divorce court, we saw Natalie, the bad girl.

- With or without Jacob, I'm gonna be good.

- And this bad girl part of you stems from fear.

We don't know what you're afraid of,

but we need to find that out.

- I'm not okay with what they're saying.

I'm being nice.

You don't wanna see me start coming out.

Because I don't have any fear.

- And, Jacob, we saw that you don't understand your self-worth.

- So you don't think he has options?

- Not better than this.

- Until you both realize Jacob's worth,

your relationship is moving in the wrong direction fast.

Heidi and Spencer?

Both the divorce court and what we saw in

"Till Death Do Us Part" drills made two things evident.

Spencer, you been 18 long enough.

You're not going to the next level of adulthood.

- I think a lot of it has to do with

I left college at 20 to do a reality show.

The whole time, like I was always rewarded for bad behavior.

- It's amazing how much insight you have.

But, Heidi, he's not gonna go from 18 to 30 overnight.

He has no reason to grow up.

- I definitely thought it was a little inappropriate

when they said I'm an 18 year old.

- Does that make me a cougar?

- Um...

- You have a beautiful maternal side,

but you are stunting his growth.

- When you're a kid, you do certain things that works for you,

pouting, complaining to your parents.

All of a sudden, you're 28

and none of those things work anymore.

And if you don't go through the proper process

of growing out of 'em,

you become this spoiled brat reality star.

If you don't grow up, this thing's gonna fall apart.

- Syleena and Kiwane, stand up.

Syleena, you're motivated by fear.

- I've just been really fighting

to keep us stable financially.

- You recognize the problem which is important.

We just need to find out what you are afraid of.

And, Kiwane, for a man that supposedly doesn't communicate,

in both divorce court and dying breath drill,

you were raw and open.

But you also shut down when we need to find you

the middle ground.

- But if you start shutting down again in this relationship,

you know where it's gonna go.

- Aviva and Reid?

We suspect that there is something deeper

about your parenting issues that we need to discover.

In the divorce court, neither of you

became passionate until the children came up.

In the dying breath drill, Aviva, you reacted

with complete shutdown, almost emotionally comatose.

- Um, that I think that you're the most

incredible human being I've ever met.

- And you know what?

Reid met you in almost the same place.

From that point, he was all in his head.

There is something deeper here.

- Tyson and Rachel, stand up.

- Okay, so in divorce court today,

Tyson, you said two horrible things.

- I can never love her more than she loves me.

But she has always been willing to compromise

or even just go with the flow.

- The only thing worse than that is

that you're probably right.

- It wasn't that I'm holding back love from her

and she's giving me everything.

It was the type of person she is is this much love

and the type of person I am, this is all of my love.

- You've been holding back your love for so long

by being shut down.

It's just a matter of letting that sucker out.

And, Rachel, your entire life revolves around Tyson

and you've lost yourself.

Tyson, the winner in the Boot Camp

is not the last man standing.

It's the man that can learn to love with his heart

and his mind and his spirit.

- For me, the Marriage Boot Camp is harder

than I expected it to be.

I thought I was just gonna come in here.

And everybody's like, whoa, you are so totally perfect.

- Of course you would think that.

- Every problem you all brought up,

everything we've seen, is very common

in the Marriage Boot Camp.

The rest of Boot Camp gets harder.

- When Jim says that, it's the only thing

I do believe out of his mouth

and I'm super excited for it.

- We will see you guys bright and early in the morning.

- Elizabeth and Jim are trying to break us down.

They are trying to dig so deep

that it's probably going to get ugly.

So I'm just giving everyone a heads up now

that I can't make any promises that I'm not going

to act a fool in this house.

- There is no way that she has more love capacity than...

- Yeah, what does that mean? - I totally agree.

- What are you talking about?

- No, it's not.

It just keeps coming out wrong,

so that I look like an [ bleep ].

- Rachel has no idea.

She's just standing there like a deer in the headlights.

I don't like that [ bleep ]. I don't like Tyson.

He makes me [ bleep ] sick.

- Why are you saying that I love you more than you love me?

- We love each other different. - Why are you saying that?

- I got a few friends I could call

and they'd be here in a minute

and they'd marry Rachel on the spot.

- I think that he's [ bleep ] manipulative as [ bleep ].

He's disgusting. I don't like him.

- He's being a boyfriend.

- A boyfriend, yeah, exactly the problem.

- He's being a boyfriend.

- Next on Marriage Boot Camp Reality Stars...

- Who are you?

- You don't want this [ bleep ] tornado!

- Who [ bleep ] knows what you're doing

at 5:00 in the morning running around the streets?

- Natalie, I shot you. - What?

Bitch, we're supposed to be on the same team!

- Let me do an exercise, Rachel!

Let Natalie let you know how I feel!

Here's my exercise.