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Narrator: Coming up on "Marriage Boot Camp: Reality Stars"...

Now it's time for the really hard work.

You allow men to hurt you.

- I despise and hate you. - Such a [ bleep ].

- You're turning on me. - That's what I'm doing.

Shut the [ bleep ]-- shut up, shut up.

- You get mad! - Shut up.

I'm about to punch you in your face.

I dare you!

What the [ bleep ], don't-- don't [ bleep ] with me.

You will be asked to make a choice, a sacrifice.

- This is my final decision. - I don't think I can choose.

Something's wrong here.

Five famous couples face a whole new reality.

- Gonna hit me? - They must fight to save their failing relationships

or decide whether to call it quits.

Gretchen: I might love him more than he loves me.

Jenni: I don't want to know what it's like to be without you.

- Kevin: You degrade me. - Traci: Treat me like a child.

Ryan: You make me feel like I'm not a priority.

Tanisha: Stand up and be a man.

Narrator: When reality comes crashing down...

[ bleep ] this place.

Jim and Elizabeth Carroll are their last chance.

This is "Marriage Boot Camp: Reality Stars."

[ laughs ]

[ indistinct conversations ]

Ryan: Look at chef Clive, man.

Dude, I'm gonna come give you my order every morning now.

I'm gonna get you a shirt that says Chef Clive.

Look at that. That's awesome.

- I try, I try. - Dude.

It's been an exhausting few days in Boot Camp,

but we've finally rounded the corner,

and were going down the final stretch.

Yeah, today's gonna be really interesting

because the exercises are all about choices.

Jim: This first drill will help them grow as individuals

then the second drill will force them to make a decision

as to whether or not they will grow together or apart.

First, Jenni and Roger aren't here,

and I'm extremely disappointed.

Yeah, I think today could have really helped them.

Elizabeth: On the other hand, I think the fact that Roger

accompanied Jenni to the East Coast

is a real a sign of self-sacrifice.

So I think that's a really good sign for them.

Trista and Ryan, I mean, they seem like they got

all their stuff together,

but they got hate toward this ex.

My girlfriend, she was naked in bed with this guy.

If they can let go of the bitterness and anger

that they have towards their past,

it will revolutionize their relationship.

- Jim: Now Tanisha and Clive-- - There is so much pain here.

Everything is about you, and your whole attitude

and personality towards me, it changed.

Because I couldn't respect you anymore.

Until they can let go of this and work on themselves,

the anger inside both of them will continue to fester

and hold him back from growing individually and as a couple.

Okay, let's go take care of it.

Tanisha: What's happening?

Oh, my God. Oh, my God, I'm so happy.

I'm so happy. [ laughs ]

Wow, oh, my God, I'm so excited.

I just got a call from my manager.

She goes, "I heard back from the audition that you did,

and they pretty much said that you are hired."

Oh, my God, thank you so much.

Yes, oh, my God.

It's a big deal for me.

Take care, bye-bye.

Nothing. [ sighs ]

I got to get water. Hi, guys.

Really good news. I got all the jobs I wanted.

Like, now they're fighting for me, so I'm happy.

[ all chattering excitedly ]

I really wish my dad was here to share this.

Yeah.

Clive is here. [ giggles ]

I just got a job, that's all.

Thanks.

I feel like you are always feel like I'm leaving you.

You're upset that I'm moving up and I'm moving forward.

Where is this coming from?

I've always felt like that.

That's why I stopped telling you things.

So you shall not tell me anything,

that's what you're trying to tell me.

I never Shakespeare'd it.

I never said I shall not do anything.

Clive: But that's the way you're making it seem.

I'm overwhelmed with emotion.

Tanisha: Thank you again. Thank you for everything.

I'll call you later so we can talk--

we can call the production company together and thank them.

Okay, bye-bye.

- Can I ask you something? - What?

Do you feel like that it's gonna take me leaving

to get you to take care of yourself?

I don't want you to do that.

You're not in control of it.

I know I'm not in control of it,

but you can't help but wanting to fix it.

But how are we gonna do that if you sit here and you sulk?

I get what you're saying. It's just not that easy.

I'm mentally exhausted.

Jim: Attention all couples, come to the Boot Camp Room now.

Good morning, Boot Campers.

We are near the end of the Boot Camp,

and we've seen tremendous growth in each of you.

We've put you through challenges and tests

that have forced you to look hard in the mirror.

And now it's time for the really hard work.

Today we will be turning a corner,

but we will be pushing you harder than ever.

Jim: We all have somebody in the past

or several people in the past

that have caused hurt and damage.

Most of the time, that has a major impact

on the way we go forward in our lives.

When you hold on to bitterness, resentment, and anger, okay,

ultimately you are transferring that into your relationship.

So not only are you hurting yourself by hanging onto it,

you're hurting your spouse

and you're hurting your marriage.

And by forgiving someone who's wronged you,

you release yourself from the pain.

If you can dig into the pain and forgive,

then you've released this thing for good and forever.

So I want you to close your eyes for a second.

I want you to think of somebody or something

that has hurt you bad.

Who do you have the most resentment toward

at this very moment in time?

Open your eyes.

All right, Slade.

I personally feel like I've spent so much time

kind of putting up a wall

and trying to push the past aside

that I'm not very excited

about having to strip all of those feelings.

Who do you need to forgive?

I don't even know where to start.

I really don't know where to start.

Start by being real, the real feelings,

the real emotion, the real you, got it?

Who am I?

My God.

What are you mad at me about?

For using my son.

Slade: My 13-year-old son was diagnosed with brain cancer

at age five.

He is currently recovering from his 16th brain surgery,

which left him in ICU in New York

for five and a half months.

Why my son?

Jim: Is the bitterness you have making it worse

or better by hanging onto it?

I have to let it go, and I really don't know how.

I despise and hate you beyond all measure.

Hate's hurting you, your son,

and that hate's hurting this relationship.

Not one good reason for you to keep that.

Slade: I feel like I don't deserve anything.

I have a hard time focusing on me

knowing that he's struggling every single day.

Will you forgive me for not healing him?

I forgive you.

I want you to take care of your son as long as you can, okay?

Tanisha: I really, really got to like Slade a lot,

and I am literally, like, shaking.

I am hurting for him.

I'm upset for him. It's heartbreaking.

Gretchen: I'm so proud of you.

Jim: All right, Tanisha?

Ilsa is your caretaker.

- All right? - Okay.

And first I want you to tell her what she did to you

and how it's impacting your life.

My parents, they thought they were putting me

in the care of someone that could be trusted,

and unfortunately, that was not the case.

I know, baby, but you want to be free?

I want you to be free.

That was just a job for me.

And I was gonna do my own thing,

and I was gonna get rid of you the best that I could.

So I was setting you up with those little kids.

They weren't that bad.

They weren't that bad on you, were they?

Well, they weren't little kids. They were teenagers.

Oh, whatever. You can handle yourself.

Five or six?

- Really? - Yes.

So you felt the need to abuse a helpless five-year-old.

It was not abuse. That's dramatic.

I'm-- I'm like-- this is not good.

This is not-- I'm not doing good with-- I--

Jim: You are doing exceptional. Stay with it.

I can't do it. I can't. I'm upset.

- Can you help me? - Give her just a second.

Can you help me? [ breathing heavily ]

I'm so pissed.

She's not the person I'm mad at. It's not fair to hit her.

That's the only-- I only know--

I don't know how to say it.

What I want to do is just go "boom!" like that.

I just want to go "boom! boom!"

- Elizabeth: Tell her. - I don't know what to say to you.

- I just want-- I want to kick your ass. - Let's trade out for second.

- I am the caretaker. - Jim. [ laughs ]

I am the caretaker.

You've wanted to hit me all your life,

and you think that takes care of the problem,

and so you swing your arms in the air

and you yell and you come over-the-top at everybody.

- It's your fault. - And it's my fault!

And I have control,

and the only way you get it back is what?

You got to hit me? Let's do it.

Jim, this is not gonna be good for you.

You want to hit me?

I really do want to hit you.

Narrator: Coming up on "Marriage Boot Camp"...

You allow men to hurt you.

I hate you. You're such a [ bleep ].

I can't do this anymore.

I came here to make a decision. We're getting a divorce.

Jim: I am the caretaker.

You've wanted to hit me all your life,

and you think that takes care of the problem,

and so you swing your arms in the air

And I have control,

and the only way you get it back is what?

You got to hit me? Can you take it back?

You pound me and put me on the floor?

Let's do it.

Jim, this is not gonna be good for you.

You want to hit me?

I really do want to hit you.

I am never, ever going away.

You are going away today.

The only way you've gonna take it back is to beat me up,

but you've gotta do it the right way.

You have to forgive me.

I'm not gonna [ bleep ] forgive--

that's not happening!

- Who has control? - Me!

- No, who has control? I control you. - You do not control me.

You used to control me back then.

I'm still mad about what you did,

- but you don't control me. - Look at you! [ growls ]

But I am who I am because I made myself that way.

I'm successful. I'm intelligent.

All of that stuff happened as a result of your bull [ bleep ].

So in a way, I did win.

The only thing that you hold over me is the past.

Okay, and I control you. You can't see that?

I can't do this anymore.

I want you to forgive me for the first fight.

I'm not forgiving you. I'm can't.

Jim, I'm gonna be lying if I told you I forgive her.

I can't forgive her.

I'm angry. I'm shaking.

You abused me emotionally. You were there.

[ crying ] You let a guy take advantage of me.

I can't even tell my parents.

When I told me dad, he had a heart attack.

I'm so upset!

I don't know how to forg-- I can't.

This is too bad. It's too much, guys.

Who's forgiveness for?

I don't know what to say.

You. It's for you.

It's for you, sweetie.

[ Tanisha sobs ]

I forgive you for everything.

Okay, now say it and mean it.

I feel like I can't breathe.

Come on, come on. Come on, you're almost there.

I forgive you for everything,

for... all the pain,

all the suffering you caused me...

and all the things I'm too embarrassed to talk about.

Yeah. Good job.

- You've taken a big step. - Thank you.

Thank you.

Jim: Kevin, you'll come stand up here.

All right, Kevin, who are you mad at?

- My father. - I'm your dad.

You tell me what I did that's pissing you off so bad.

You wasn't there.

My whole young life, you wasn't there.

You neglected me.

You cheat on your wife? I am disappointed in you.

I'm not like you.

How are you not like me? You're worse than me.

I'd never let that happen.

Who do you need to forgive?

I feel like I need to forgive myself.

Jim: What do you need to forgive yourself for?

For making bad decisions,

and now it's hurting my relationship

'cause of the things that you allowed to have happen to me.

Jim: Ilsa is your ex-girlfriend.

You-- you lied to me.

You took my confidence.

You took the belief I had in myself.

It's your fault I did what I did.

This is you.

The pain that you're bringing me is running through me

into other people in my life.

She was like one of my best friends.

Tell her how she hurt you.

You were supposed to be a sister to me.

When I couldn't depend on my husband, you left.

When hard times was coming, you left.

I am just so mad you.

I hate you.

I don't want you to be happy.

Jim: How long are you gonna let her have this power?

[ voice breaks ] I don't her to anymore.

Son, I am sorry that I am such a lousy dad.

Will you forgive me?

For me and my family, I will.

We all make mistakes, right? How can you be free?

I forgive you.

I just forgive you so that I be free of this.

I forgive you.

I forgive you for everything.

Jim: How'd that feel?

Very powerful stuff.

Jim: Clive.

Tell Jim who you want to forgive.

Clive: Um... Tanisha.

You come be Tanisha.

Tanisha: Whoa, out of all the things,

I'm the biggest issue?

It's hard to hear, and I'm--

I'm hoping I can stay in my seat the entire time.

This is gonna be tough.

Mnh-mnh. Mnh-mnh.

You say a lot of hurtful stuff.

Sometimes you just don't listen.

I gotta try to go over you--

Because you don't listen to what I'm saying.

Of course, why would I listen to you?

Because you never shut up so I can talk.

- There's respect. - You bother me. Respect?

- Yeah, respect. - You need to earn my respect.

Why would I respect you?

Man...

Because you want that respect.

Yeah, of course, I deserve respect.

Are you kidding me? I provide for myself.

- I provide for you. - No, you don't provide for me.

Who got you dressed?

I buy my own things.

I help you get dressed. I helped with your ear.

I helped with your mom. I provide.

I earn respect. You don't.

You're a loser.

Ilsa's portrayal of me was kind of so accurate,

and, to my surprise, I feel bad.

Grab hands.

I do the best I can.

For all the mean-ful things you ever said to me,

I always do forgive you.

I'm sorry I don't appreciate you more.

Clive: Wow.

I'm sorry I don't show you a respect

the way you feel respected.

Will you forgive her for her being who she is?

I honestly don't want to lose you, you know?

I forgive you, Tanisha.

How does it feel now to know that that person

that hurt you no longer has any power,

that you've let go of the bitterness,

you've let go of the anger and the resentment,

and you can now start growing and going on

to bigger and better things?

We want you to take this time to cool off and relax

because the next drill will bring you face-to-face

with some tough decisions.

[ Slade sighs ] I hate this.

Gretchen: Heavy, yeah. Do you guys feel better?

I actually do feel better.

I didn't realize how deep it affected me.

Did you even realize how much it was affecting her?

Ryan: I knew it was affecting her,

but I just didn't realize a lot of the arguments,

a lot of my insecurities I think

are stemming from that stupid little failed relationship,

and I didn't give it, I guess, enough credit.

It's eye-opening, what-- yeah.

I just feel like-- Slade,

like we've known each other when we were 18.

And I feel like he's still there,

and I feel so guilty, and I feel so bad,

and I swear to you, I feel like-- yesterday,

when I got a little frazzled, he was helpless.

- Help me, Clive! - These pieces--

- Help me! - [ bleep ]

I'm just like, Jesus.

I honestly just feel I don't have any problem.

The only thing is just she has her issue

of maybe no self-control.

That's her defense mechanism, man.

Gonna [ bleep ] you up!

You [ bleep ]! [ bleep ] you!

She have to work on that.

If I change,

will that be good enough for Tanisha?

Is it enough for you?

Yeah.

She actually ahead of the game.

It's gonna make you whole, right?

- Yeah. - That's the key.

I came here to make a decision.

I really don't know what I'm gonna do yet.

One day I am, like, yes, I can see this working.

The next day, I'm like, "We're getting a divorce."

If I was your daughter...

would you be okay with me staying married to Clive?

I would not.

Narrator: Coming up on "Marriage Boot Camp"...

One door represents the dream of motherhood

but without Slade.

I don't think I can choose.

What's the problem?

You're turning on me.

I'm done.

- So what's the deal? - You know what? Don't--

No, I don't know what.

You just keep mentioning if I know what.

I don't know what.

- What's the problem? - You're turning on me.

[ laughs ] No, I'm not.

I've come to realize that I'm afraid

of that whatever I might do

might not be good enough for you.

You know, something has changed.

'Cause all of a sudden, you have a different tone.

You want me to speak up. That's what I'm doing.

Tanisha: Today your hearing is clear.

You can hear. God has healed you.

and you're speaking clear--

baby, you sound like you came straight from Harvard,

and you have this stance like Chuck Norris,

and I don't know what the [ bleep ]

is about to go down in this mother [ bleep ],

but I don't got the nails for it.

I don't got the nails for it.

You need to go talk to Slade.

- Why? - Because--

- Slade... - Excuse me.

And I and you and the rest of the people

who are in this house are here for reasons,

to fix issues in their marriage.

I'm done.

I hope you freeze out here.

Now we told you earlier today that today was gonna be a day

about making tough choices, and earlier,

you went through forgiveness,

and you found by forgiving others,

you inadvertently free yourself.

This next exercise will force them

to make a difficult decision

that will define the direction of that growth.

You will be asked to make a choice.

For some, a sacrifice.

There may not necessarily be a right or wrong

to your decision, but I promise you

these will be life-changing choices.

One at a time, we'll take you into the other room.

Man, you will be coming with me.

Women, you'll be going with Elizabeth.

Elizabeth: The rest of you will stay here with Bobby and Ilsa.

We will be back for you shortly.

Gretchen and Slade, please come with us.

The purpose of this exercise is to force

each of the campers to make a choice.

Standing before them are two doors.

One door represents the selfless choice,

and one door represents the selfish choice.

Jim: The only way for couples to meet in the middle

is for both of them to make the selfless choice.

In this exercise,

the selfless act hopefully leads to a future

with your spouse in it, where the selfish act

probably leads to a future alone.

Stop right there.

You can take your blindfold off.

Here are two choices.

Here are two doors that represent

your life's dilemma.

"Heal yourself"...

and "Gretchen."

One door represents the dream of motherhood.

It's the one thing that you've talked about most

during this Boot Camp.

This door represents that but without Slade.

This door represents your life as it is now,

with the man that you love but without children.

Jim: If you go through this door on the right,

you choose to remain with Gretchen, but

you're never gonna be able to give her the things she needs

and wants the most.

If you go through the door on your left,

you're choosing to heal yourself

regardless of the effect it'll have on your relationship.

I mean, I can't imagine my life without Slade

because when I think of motherhood,

I think of it as Slade and I together.

If I choose to heal myself,

I'm walking away from that thing that I love most.

Those are your two choices.

I don't think I can choose.

I need you to make a choice.

Pick a door.

[ crying ]

Slade chose to heal himself

rather than be in a relationship with Gretchen

where he can't fulfill her needs.

That was actually a selfless act.

Elizabeth: Gretchen, on the other hand,

chose her desire to have children

over the man that she loves.

This was an act of self-interest

as opposed interest in the relationship.

In this case, however,

Gretchen choosing the selfish act

might be a good thing for her and Slade

given their codependency issues.

Gretchen, you face a choice,

which is to be-self interested versus selfless

and giving up my dreams

and potentially being bitter and angry about that.

If you want to be together, you're gonna have to be

self-interested, at the same time,

a giving, loving person, and it's hard

with the kind of personalities that the two of you have.

It felt like I got punched in the gut.

Even though in my head,

I'm thinking it's the right decision

and this is what we're being taught at this camp,

it's a horrific feeling to know

that the person you love most in this world didn't choose you.

You can take your blindfold off.

Kevin, you've been very clear

about the issues in your marriage.

You do not feel like a priority in Traci's life.

Look at these two different doors.

The door here on the left,

you will always remain second priority

to her sisters and to her career.

If you go through the door on the right,

your partner will put you

and your marriage above all else,

but that partner won't be Traci.

This door represents putting Kevin at the top

of your priority list--

no television career, no music career.

This door over here represents your sisters,

your passion for your music, your career,

but then Kevin falls down on the priority list,

and your relationship could be destroyed.

The question is, where does your husband fall

in the priority list of your life?

Tell me what you see if you go down this path.

I will have to sacrifice

and allow Traci to continue to grow.

I love what I do, and I love my sisters.

Mm-hmm.

I'm just confused.

I love him.

But I sacrificed before.

If you go down this path, what's gonna happen to you

in five years, 10 years?

I don't know.

I feel like we're in a major transition right now.

You gonna be able to handle that?

So I'd like you to step up in front of

the door that you choose.

Go stand in front of that door.

Elizabeth: Go ahead.

Narrator: Coming up on "Marriage Boot Camp"...

I don't see anything but a door.

It's like I just got hit in my gut.

This is my final decision.

I see where this is going.

Jim: Something's wrong here.

She should've come in through the door by now.

You should focus 100% on figuring out

what is gonna make you happy.

- You got it in you. - Let me ask you a question--

when you have to cook, does it feel like work?

No, it's like it feels good. Feel like a passion.

I mean, I like food,

so I'm gonna go to school for that.

Do you know how excited she would be to be able to say,

"Hi, this is Clive, my husband. He's a chef"?

- No doubt. - I see it in you.

Clive: Man...

I'm telling you. That's powerful.

Go stand in front of the door.

I don't see anything but a door.

Elizabeth: What's going through your head right now?

It's a blow.

It's like I just got hit in my gut.

Jim: All right, go ahead.

[ laughs ]

[ crying ]

Kevin chose to take you and be in second place

the rest of his life to your sisters and career

instead of getting to be first place

in somebody else's life and be number one.

Elizabeth: And Traci had the same dilemma

to choose priorities.

She chose a sacrifice.

She sacrificed for me before, though.

Jim: Mm-hmm.

And I'm-- I'm willing to do it again.

I don't like that.

If I had to do it all over again,

I would do it all over.

Felt good to see you there.

It did.

So, Trista, I want you to look at these two doors.

There are two pathways in front of you.

If you go through this door,

you get the Ryan that you wish he was,

the romantic, the less critical,

- more outgoing. - Mm-hmm.

and if you choose this door,

you go home with the Ryan that you came with.

Um...

Ryan, if you go through this door on your left,

you will be leaving here the Ryan

that Trista wants you to be-- more affectionate,

a Ryan that that's not jealous about her career.

On the other hand,

there's a Ryan that you want to be,

which is adventurous and successful,

but in order to have this, you have to leave Trista behind.

I wasn't worried about our relationship,

but I think we realize that we're flawed.

I mean, I'm here because I want to grow.

Everything that I do is because I want to grow.

If it's everything that I want, then it would have Trista.

This door is why we came here.

I'm an ambitious person.

Perhaps I'd be more happy there.

So I'm gonna have you make a decision.

So I'm gonna ask you which of these you would pick.

Step up in front of the door that you choose.

So if Ryan is on the other side of this door,

you guys are clearly on the exact same path.

Three, go.

Let's walk back around there,

- and we'll figure out what happened, okay? - Okay.

So what what this represents is the path

and the vision that you have for your relationship.

He made the decision to do-- to change himself.

But that's not necessarily in his self-interest.

[ laughs ]

I don't know why he would be here

if he didn't want to change.

Ryan picked a path where he becomes

what Trista wants him to be.

That was a selfless act.

Trista also chose the Ryan that she wants him to be,

but that was a selfish act.

If she had chosen the door

that represented Ryan as he is now,

she would have found her husband.

I don't know that I've ever been able to tell you

completely, with 100% certainty

that it hurts me when--

when you make me feel like I'm not a priority.

It brings back the insecurities that I have.

I'm sorry for hurting you.

Can you forgive me?

I forgive you.

Trista: We chose the same door

because I think we're on the same page.

- We didn't choose the same door. - Yes, we did, essentially.

- I love you. - I love you, too.

Here we go.

Okay.

Clive, I want you to turn and look at the doors.

I'm gonna give you a tough choice, okay?

If you go through the door on your left,

your life will continue as is-- beside the Tanisha's side

while she puts her career first.

The door on the right represents a chance

for you and your career to blossom,

but it does not include Tanisha.

You have two doors in front of you.

[ groans ]

This door marked "career"

represents the career you've been driving towards,

but... it may not include Clive.

This door over here represents your life with Clive,

the man you married,

the man you've been committed to,

but... it may cause your career to falter.

I have to choose?

Oh, wow.

I see where this is going.

I worked hard to get everything that I have.

He's been with me from day one.

If it wasn't for him, I wouldn't even be here.

I'm never worried about her career or the money.

I was just afraid that I'd probably lose her, you know?

This is unfair.

I know it is. Life is unfair.

Got to make a decision.

[ sighs ] All right.

Stand in front of the door that you're gonna go through.

I hope I don't regret this.

This is my final decision.

Elizabeth: Three...

two...

one.

Walk through your door.

You've chosen to make your career your priority.

What's not in this picture?

[ chuckles ]

You chose your career over me?

What the hell has gotten into you?

That I got to focus on myself

and stop worrying about what you're doing.

Elizabeth: As we're seeing with Tanisha and Clive,

they both chose a path that represented

individual growth for each of them.

Unfortunately, it was also a door

of separation as a couple.

I don't know if I could wait for you again.

I already lost eight years of my life

that I can never get back.

Elizabeth: Clive, isn't that also true for you?

You told me you don't respect me

because I don't step up to the plate or do anything.

I feel like you could look at me as the man

that you want as your husband so that you can respect me.

Clive, I've gambled with you many times.

If you give me that second chance...

Hopefully I can show you something better.

I don't like this.

Narrator: Coming up on "Marriage Boot Camp"...

I dare you!

What the [ bleep ], don't-- don't [ bleep ] with me.

- Don't [ bleep ] with me. - I'm not scared of you!

So get up! What's up?!

So today was about working through really tough issues.

Elizabeth: In the first drill,

you guys had to choose to forgive someone,

let go of the past, and move on to healing.

And the second drill was about choices

that could potentially and dramatically

affect your future and what that looks like.

We gave you a really tough choice to make,

but now you've seen how you and your partner have chosen.

This was just a door.

The really hard choice is coming up.

Jim: Tonight, there will be no evaluation.

Elizabeth: Instead, we'd like you to think

about today's exercises

and the decisions you will need to make.

We will see you guys tomorrow.

[ indistinct conversations ]

Jenni: We're back from New York.

I am so exhausted. I know Roger is.

But, you know, I'm really excited to go to bed and wake up

because I know tomorrow's gonna be a rough day.

Tanisha: Clive, come here. Come here.

Cli-- [ growls ]

- What? - Come here.

I'm trying to get away from that.

I don't want to argue.

This is what happens when you have a spouse

who just kind of remains a little bit stagnant.

They get jealous-- I feel like you're jealous.

- No, I'm not jealous. - Yes, you are.

Why do you like-- why do you like trying

to put me down every [ bleep ] time, yo?

That's your problem.

- [ chuckles ] Here we go. - That's your problem right there.

You always feel-- you know what it is?

You want that attention from me.

You want to feel that, you know? That's the way I feel.

You have a lot that you do to me, too.

Yes, but I'm trying to say I want to change,

and I want to do other things.

That's not even important right now.

Wow.

Apparently, I talk at you and not to you, so...

It's worse than that.

Tanisha: Wait a minute, shut up. I'll let you speak.

You have every right-- shut up.

- No. No. No. - Shut up. Shut up.

- No. No. - Okay.

You see? That's the problem. You do not respect me.

I don't!

Is that a [ bleep ] secret?!

Oh, so now you get a little phone call.

Now you're taking it to your [ bleep ] head now, right?

Here we go.

Oh, my God, thank you so much.

I just got a job, that's all.

The fact that you got a little happy--

you got a happy moment, and I thought I could have been

happy to hear that for you, but obviously,

you didn't want me to hear [ bleep ]

because you don't give a damn about me.

- I don't. - Exactly.

You know, the way you doing, I just let it slide, you know?

When I sit down and I think about all the stuff

you tell me during our little arguments,

I just sit down and just think, meditate.

When I'm thinking that, oh, this is my wife.

I can trust her.

I can talk to her about anything.

No, it's not safe.

I can't talk [ bleep ] to you about anything no more

because you take that info--

Shut the [ bleep ]-- shut up, shut up.

- You get mad! - Shut up. Shut up.

- You mad now? You mad now? - Yeah, 'cause you pushing me.

- Shut up! Shut up! - You see?

- Shut up! Shut up! Shut up! - When I speak the truth, you don't like it.

Clive, I'm about to punch you in your face.

- Why? - Because you keep coming for me.

This is so unhealthy for both of us.

That's the way I feel.

- Lower your voice. - Why?

- Because I said so. - I dare you!

What the [ bleep ]? Don't [ bleep ] with me.

- Don't [ bleep ] with me. - I'm not sacred of you, yo!

- So get up! What's up?! - I'm not sacred of you.

So what up?! Come on, get up! Get up!

I'm not getting up for you.

All right, so then [ bleeping ]. Stop talking [ bleep ].

I'm not a waste of time. You a waste of time.

Hit harder! Hit harder!

- I'm done with this interview. - Get out of here, man!

I'm gonna kick your ass, Clive. That's [bleep ] up of you.

I'm done with this interview. Carlos, get secur--

Listen, I'm not talking to-- shut the [ bleep ] up!

- That's not disrespectful. - I will punch you in your face, Clive.

- That's not disrespectful. - Yes, it is disrespectful.

Punk-ass. You a punk!

- Get the [ bleep ] out of here, man. - Bye! Bye!

[ Tanisha coughs ] Oh, this is bad.

[ bleep ] I'm having a heart attack.

It's really bad. You have to call 911.

Seriously. Tell them to call it now.

Man: I need help. Tanisha needs a doctor.

Call an ambulance. She's having chest pains.

- Tanisha: I'm scared. - Ryan: I know, I'm here.

Knowing that Ryan is am EMT,

I know that he's gonna know what to do.

Ryan: Run some aspirin over here ASAP, guys.

We're finding out that Tanisha seems like

she might be having a heart attack.

It was-- it was tough to watch.

Ryan: What's going on, Tanisha?

Let me just ask you a couple questions.

You got any tingling in your arms or legs or anything?

Tanisha: My heart is beating fast.

Ryan: Do you have any medical conditions?

- Tanisha: Nothing. Mnh-mnh. - Ryan: Nothing?

Ryan: What about family history?

- Did your dad have a heart attack? - Yeah.

- Ryan: Your dad had a heart attack? - Tanisha: Yeah.

Tanisha? Where's Tanisha?

Roger: Just give her some space. Don't get her more upset.

Jenni: We just got back. We're extremely tired.

But now who can sleep when Tanisha's going to the hospital?

Scary stuff.

Ryan: Tanisha, can you keep looking at us really quick?

I gotta keep you with me for a couple minutes.

Do you see me? Do you know where you are?

[ siren chirps ]

- Man: They're just pulling up now. - Ryan: They're here?

Here they come. They're here.

I'm like, oh, my God.

[ siren wailing ]

Narrator: Next time on "Marriage Boot Camp"...

We are going to tackle truth.

Oh [ bleep ].

Elizabeth: Do you really want to get married?

Have you been faithful to Traci?

Oh, the truth [ bleep ] hurts [ bleep ]!

Elizabeth: You will have to make a very important decision.

I love you, but--

Are you guys not gonna be together?

Please open your ring boxes.