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(Civil Service Exam D-Day) Next week...

I wonder when Mom will be back.

She says she's going to be late.

Really?

Were you watching porn?

Why did you suddenly close your laptop?

Is that all you ever think of?

I just wanted to get up, okay?

It's okay. I understand.

But don't let your wife catch you.

No woman likes catching their boyfriend

watching other women.

It wasn't porn.

And she's not my wife yet.

Stop overreacting.

You're going to marry her as soon as you pass your test.

So she's pretty much your wife.

If you're going to keep talking nonsense, just go inside and sleep.

Hey, when is your test again?

It's in two months.

Then I guess you won't have much time to do me a favor.

Are you serious?

You started acting funny so you could ask for a favor?

I'm going on an overnight trip with my boyfriend.

Can you tell Mom and Dad that I'm going with my friends?

An overnight trip with your boyfriend?

Yes.

(It's Okay to be Sensitive 2020)

Let's say I do that for you.

That's not what I want to hear. Just say "yes."

Don't you think you're too young

to be going on an overnight trip with your boyfriend?

You just turned 18.

What's with you? You're only 26.

I thought you'd be more open-minded since you're friends with Do-eun.

That's not important.

Don't you think 18 is too young of an age?

What does that matter?

You go on trips with your wife, and we're doing just the same.

It's just a trip.

How is it just a trip?

You'll be spending the night together.

I know you watch porn, so stop acting all innocent.

We'll take care of ourselves, so just help us out here.

Why lie if you're so confident about it?

Just go tell Mom and Dad the truth.

My gosh, come on.

You and I are different.

Mom and Dad think of me

as an immature teenage daughter.

Meanwhile, you're the school president of Seoul National University.

And once you pass the civil service exam, you'll have a stable job.

They'll have to rely on you once they grow old.

That's why you have a duty

to help me out as the middle generation

between me and our parents.

I bet Do-eun would've helped me.

Think of Hae-jun. Do you know how vulgar guys can be...

My gosh, seriously. Why are you so narrow-minded?

You are narrow-minded.

And I'm not vulgar.

I just don't think of sex as that big of a deal.

You put too much meaning to it.

How am I narrow-minded?

She's 18 years old, which means she's still a minor by law.

It's natural for me to worry.

You also drank alcohol and dated girls back in high school.

Yes, you're right. He used to date Ju-yeon...

My gosh, Ju-yeon? That really nice girl?

Did you not do anything else other than kiss her?

Anyway, you're being too nosy.

Teenagers these days are very discreet.

Don't be quick to judge. Just have some faith in Myeong-sun.

She's right. Stop being so narrow-minded.

You guys can only say that

because you don't have a little sister.

You guys are so mean.

But I do agree that teenagers these days aren't like how we used to be.

My cousin is also a teenager,

and his Instagram has tons of photos of him and his girlfriend going on trips.

He doesn't even try to hide it.

We would've been embarrassed and kept it a secret.

Teenagers are no longer embarrassed of having sex.

They even buy condoms wearing uniforms.

I feel like people are becoming more open-minded like foreigners.

I think that's how it should be.

It's not like teenagers don't have sex.

You have a point.

I heard the average age to have sex of the first time these days is 13.

What? 13 years old?

Gosh, is that normal?

How did the world end up like this?

The internet is filled with racy photos and sexual jokes.

How do you expect teenagers to not have sex?

He's right.

I see at least 100 sexual posts on Facebook every day.

So tell me.

What did you tell her?

Don't tell me you refused to help.

No way.

Well...

I didn't refuse to help.

I told her I'll think about it.

I couldn't be cool about it

and tell her to go have fun.

Myeong-sun is being smart about it.

You'll regret it later on, you know.

He's right.

She could've lied to you as well,

but she was honest about it with you.

Well, that's...

Gosh, is that how I'm supposed to take it?

Just let her go.

We'll never be able to understand them anyway.

It's better to just accept it.

Just give her a condom.

Hae-jun, don't you have a lot of condoms?

He can give her yours.

Mine?

No way.

They're expensive.

- Just give him one. - You're a pervert.

Hey, Mom. Are you going to be late again?

I'm thinking about eating with Myeong-sun if you're going to be late.

Oh, by the way, Mom.

About Myeong-sun...

Why don't you let her go on an overnight trip with her friends?

No, it's not that.

I talked to her this morning, and she seemed really depressed.

She's usually not like that.

It looks like

she's stressed with her studies since she's going to be a senior now.

And they can't go on a school trip because of the corona virus.

So I thought it might cheer her up

if she goes on a trip with her friends before she becomes a senior.

Mom, wait. Let's hang up.

I'll call you back. Bye.

(Kim Su-jin: Will you be having sex for the first time this weekend?)

What is this?

(Kim Su-jin: Will you be having sex for the first time this weekend?)

(Yes, I guess so.)

(Do guys like it when girls are shy? Or do they like it when girls are daring?)

(Aren't you scared? It's going to be your first time.)

(Not really. Everyone has to go through it one day.)

(Birth control pill side effects, Virgin girlfriend, First time having sex)

(But what if the condom falls off? What do I do then?)

(You'll be fine if you take the pill.)

My gosh.

First of all,

let me apologize for calling you narrow-minded.

Sorry.

What am I going to do now?

What should I do?

So in other words,

Myeong-sun is a virgin and isn't ready to have sex.

But you think she's just trying to do it

because it's her boyfriend's birthday?

Yes.

If that's the case, I feel like it might be a bit dangerous.

Don't you think you should stop her?

I know, right?

You know what? I can't do this.

I'll just tell her she can't go on the trip.

I'll just be a narrow-minded brother.

Hey.

Don't even think about it.

Do you really think she'll listen to you

if she finds out you read her Facebook messages?

But I can't let her go.

She'll be leaving tomorrow.

You know what?

You boys can stay out of it.

Leave it to the girls.

You guys?

Me?

What are you going to do?

It's time for us to step in.

What?

I don't get people who are in their 20s.

You guys act all cool, young, and smart.

But you guys are so lame.

Hey, kid. We're not lame.

You're not allowed to drink alcohol.

Yes, this is all because...

You guys drank back in high school.

She drank a lot more than me.

Hey, be quiet.

What's wrong with people in their 20s?

My brother told you everything, didn't he?

Does he not respect my secret?

Well...

It's true that Myeong-min told us.

But we're not here to give you a lecture.

We just thought it might be nice to have a chat just between us girls.

Then let me join the fun.

- Cheers. - Cheers.

Has he lost his mind?

That jerk seriously said that to you?

Hey, don't call him a jerk.

He's still my boyfriend.

But if you think about it, he's not entirely wrong.

Kids at school all have sex before their 100th day anniversary.

So I get why he's so agitated.

I can't believe you're taking his side just because he's your boyfriend.

What do you mean he's not wrong?

He told you he wants to have sex just because his friends all had sex?

And why do you only think of it in his perspective?

You should think about what you want.

She's right. It's your body, not his.

And let me tell you something as someone who's a little older.

All of my friends who had their first experience that way

were only left with bad memories.

I can't be a virgin forever.

I'll have to have sex one day.

Being too careful about it isn't cool.

I don't want to be that kind of girl.

Ouch.

You owe an apology to all the women in this world.

That's not considered cool.

I'm sorry.

Myeong-sun, I personally think

you're being too hasty because you feel pressured to do it.

She's right. You keep comparing yourself with others.

Did I do that?

My gosh.

Think about what you said.

You never said anything about what you really want.

You just kept taking your boyfriend's side.

I just agree with my boyfriend's opinion.

But you need to have sex because you want to,

not because you feel like you have to.

Who care if others have sex or not?

Stop scolding me.

I don't know much, so it's natural that I think this way.

To be honest, I'm a bit worried.

It's my first time.

What kind of guy is your boyfriend? Is he nice?

He's kind at heart.

But I want to beat him up sometimes because he can be really selfish.

My hunch tells me he's not a good guy.

But it's your choice, so I won't say much.

Oh, right. I've seen some cases

where guys suddenly break up with their girlfriends

after they have sex with them.

Really? There are guys who are still like that?

A lot more than you think.

Gosh, I guess jerks like that always exist.

Exactly.

There's a reason why Myeong-min is so worried.

Myeong-sun, listen.

If anyone tells you whom had sex with whom

and gossips about how many times someone had sex,

just cut ties with them regardless of their gender.

Of course.

I bet they all felt lost at first. They're just acting cool.

Then what should I do tomorrow?

What do you think?

Sex is just sex.

Do you understand what I mean?

It's nothing special or precious.

What's precious is yourself.

You don't need to have sex just because someone wants to sleep with you

and you really don't need to do it to please anyone.

And of course, you also should be considerate of the other person.

She's right.

If your boyfriend gets frustrated

for not getting what he wants,

just tell him to bugger off.

You should break up with him if he isn't considerate of you.

Okay?

Okay.

But why am I even talking about this with you guys?

Hey, we're embarrassed too, you know.

Let's drink.

- Sure. - Sounds nice.

- Cheers. - Cheers.

What do you think? Does it taste nice?

Yes.

Why don't we drink soju now?

Beer is too bland.

You teenagers are unbelievable.

Couldn't you buy a better snack?

(It's Okay to be Sensitive 2020)

Do you want another can of beer?

Do you think Do-eun and A-yeong are going to be late?

They probably won't be able to come home.

Myeong-sun isn't an easy kid

unlike what you guys think.

You guys, let's go to a coin karaoke one more time.

- What's wrong with you? - What did you say?

Really?

Then I should get going now.

I have a date.

You made plans already?

Who is it this time? The girl you went out with last time?

Last time? Who?

The girl with short hair and a tattoo.

Short hair and a tattoo?

Oh, that was two months ago.

You're seeing someone else already?

What do you mean? I already went out with 4 or 5 different women.

When will you settle down?

They're not serious relationships, but they're not one-night stands either.

When will you break up?

How can you date someone for seven years?

Do you guys even keep in touch?

Forget it. Just get out of here.