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Previously on "90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way."

What? I could never go in that.

I feel like Chloe is not being honest with herself.

Chloe likes much nicer things,

and she's going to want those things.

I've given you a minimum of 20,000 dollars.

I'm cutting her off.

You're deciding to live here, and I can't finance it.

- I got you some flowers, and I brought a vase... - Aw, thank you so much!

...'cause I didn't know if Dylan had one.

I actually haven't seen Pattiya in 11 years,

but I really hope she's happy to share Dylan with me.

So when do you think you'll do furniture shopping?

Probably this week.

You might have to keep an eye on her, Dylan.

It makes me mad that she's already automatically

inserting herself into our relationship.

No, I've gotten better.

- Have you? - Yes.

Dylan so needs to stop talking about our personal business

with his mom. I'm so damn sick of it.

My sister, my mom, my dad,

they assume Manon is starting [bleep].

And Marie's like, "You create drama with everyone,"

I'm like, "Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa!"

I'm tired of always being the black sheep of the family.

OK.

We made no money.

They're handing out whole plates of food.

All I saw was food going out the door

and no money coming in.

We might as well be throwing money out.

We might be stuck living with the family forever.

My gosh, babe, I'm so excited for our night out.

Should have a good time.

It's been about a week since Pattiya arrived in Tasmania.

Oh, is it like an Irish pub

or something? - Yep.

And tonight I'm taking her out

to one of the best spots in town.

- What do you think about this place? - Different.

Uh...

It's not that busy.

Well, it's only a Tuesday night.

Oh.

I did not expect to go out to an Irish pub.

I'm like, "Irish pub in Australia?"

And it's so quiet.

Where are all the people?

We're a long way from Dallas and Vegas.

Thank God we're gonna be hanging out

with his best friend, Chris, and his brother, Glenn.

- Drink. - I'll have a Moscato, please.

- Moscato, alright. - Do they have that here?

- I hope so. - I'm not a beer drinker.

- Oh, mate. - Pattiya!

- Chris, oh, my God! - How you going?

Long time no see!

Chris was with "Thunder From Down Under."

They were really, really close.

Oh, my God, Glenn!

- Hello, darling. - Oh, my God, hi!

Long time no see. This is amazing.

I haven't seen Glenn in 11 years.

Glenn is a lot of fun.

He loves to shop, loves to wine and dine,

all in my category.

- Here's to Pattiya. - Here, here.

- To Pattiya. - To new beginnings,

to her new life in Tasmania, Australia. - Down under.

I cannot believe I'm here, seriously.

- Do you guys get together-- - I've been teaching her some Australian slang, too.

- What have you got? - "Bugger."

- Yeah? - Yeah, yeah.

And "tinnies."

I love the way you said it, "tinnies."

Have you met the rest of the fam?

- Like Dylan's mom? - I met his mom.

- She came over the other day. - Oh, she's a sweetie.

She's such a sweetheart, yeah.

- Huh? - You got on well with her?

- Yeah. - OK, cool.

Me and his mom have a long history

of not liking each other.

But it's not something I wanna bring out

in front of his brother.

Because Dylan always, like, tells me, you know,

"Don't trust Glenn, he'll, like, be nice to your face

and stab you in the back."

- Yes. - I'm working on that.

- I'm working on that. - Thank you, Chris, it's been, what, 12 years?

- Yeah, 12 years. - Wow.

It's been 12 years.

Because we had some issues to sort out first.

- Yes, we did. - Well, that just got serious.

What are-- what are the issues that you need to sort out?

I don't know if now's the right time

to bring them up.

You know how many times we broke up, Chris?

A lot.

- You know? - Excuse me, guys.

- I'm just gonna go to the restroom. - OK.

I love Pattiya, and I love Dylan.

And I know that they have a rocky relationship.

I know that it's a very passionate relationship.

The happiest Dylan

has ever been is when he's with Pattiya,

um, but then things happen.

It's all very good now, but six months down the track,

I don't know.

- Moving to Tassie, this is it. - Yeah, it's crazy.

- Oh. - Oh, what is going on over there?

That young lady over there, Pattiya,

- Woo! - I've written a song for her.

I'm a little bit rusty, but sometimes I feel like

I don't express myself properly to Pattiya.

But if I can put it in a song,

that's how I feel like I can get the message across.

My heart was jumping around like a kangaroo when I first

laid my eyes on you.

I never thought I could fall in love so fast,

but then I gave you a ring, and I took it right back,

and I'm sorry for that.

Welcome down under, baby.

From the outback to the ocean.

You got all of my emotions,

and they're running like a river to your heart.

If you're not coming,

I'm not going.

And I hope that I die knowing that we never

spend another minute apart,

And I promise to be more gentle with your heart.

Thank you so much.

Oh, babe.

Hearing that song tonight makes me wanna fight harder

for our relationship.

I want us to finally tie the knot, get married.

I just hope we don't fall back into our old patterns

and break up again. I honestly feel like

I couldn't take it anymore.

Aw.

♪ You've been on my brain, I've been missing you ♪

Bye.

It's a two-step walk, come on, it's just water.

Still, I don't-- no, I have my beautiful jacket on.

OK?

It's been a little bit tense at my parents' house

because of the drama that I had with my sister.

We texted last night, and I'm fine

with my sister now.

It is what it is, but the dynamic with my parents

uh, attacking my character, like, it just really lit

the fire in me to just get the hell out of there ASAP.

And Anthony and I, we actually made it

really clear from the start, we were only gonna live there

just temporarily until we found a house.

I'm so excited to see this house, like,

so freaking excited,

'cause it's exactly 100% what I want.

Today, we are going to... [speaking French],

which is a very nice place in Provence with lakes,

waterfalls, a very nice small village,

to visit a beautiful house

that we found online that's, uh, for sale.

It's only an hour and something away from the city.

It's, uh, I think, three, four, five bedrooms.

I don't remember, but it's like just in what we need.

There's the pool and the view.

You, you are going to love the view.

- How much is this one? - It's under our budget.

$375, this one.

And then it's just wiped out.

Yeah, so it's a little-- it's, yeah,

but-- but there's negotiation. We are in France.

And if they want, like, a guaranteed French income,

we don't even have an account

at a French bank yet.

There's even the option of renting.

- No, no! - It-- it's an option to rent.

There would be a lot less worry when it comes

to renting an apartment.

Plus, we have the money

to do that long term.

Or even, like, buy an apartment if we really wanted to.

- We have that money. - I don't want-- oh, my Lord.

Get me out of here.

Get me out of the [bleep] car now.

- Whoa, it's just an option. - Anthony.

Chill.

I am not putting my money down the drain,

and I am not living in an apartment.

You will not put me in a [bleep] cell jail.

I am not living in an apartment.

I've seen some pretty nice apartments.

Good for you. Go live there.

Go live in an apartment.

I'll live in the house by myself.

You're reacting as if I'm, like, saying we're getting

an apartment or we're moving somewhere cheaper.

Because I know you-- but you know what?

- Yeah, you know why? - I am--

- Why? - You know why?

Because I always end up doing what you want.

And I'm [bleep] tired of [bleep].

If we can make getting this house happen,

we'll do that. - But then be positive.

As long as-- as long as we're in a good space.

Yes.

But we're not, like, in the [bleep] financially.

Yes, I agree.

But if I'm sitting here putting other options

on the table, it's because those might have to be considered.

No, I wanna buy a house.

I wanna be out of Manon's parents' house

just as much as she does.

But there's options that we need to look at

that are really what make the most sense,

financially speaking.

And if that means we have to stay at her parents' place

for a little bit longer,

I feel like that's a small sacrifice to be made.

You got, like, tunnel vision.

I want to buy a house.

You want me to help you or...?

I have no idea how to make this work.

I'm doing my best, OK?

There's a lot of costs involved.

And you and Chloe are going to need a more solid plan.

I'm doing all I can.

- We are doing all I can to figure it out. - I feel like--

There is a way that I would be able to support both of you.

- Oh, we need a ladder. - That's OK.

We can fix it later.

Today is the first day of our actual business.

It's the first big day, so we're gotta try to make

some money today.

Whatever we spent yesterday, we try to recover as much

as possible, alright?

Yesterday, we made absolutely no money

because we were giving it away for free.

And I was just standing there like, "Don't you guys

understand the concept of business?"

I'm more worried about making money so I can get out

of the house and go back into our own apartment.

I wanna make money. We need to make money.

OK, what's this?

Cappuccino?

Oh, I gotta find the milk container.

This coffee machine that we're renting is so cool.

It's the real deal.

I mean, comes with the fresh coffee beans,

grinder, and everything attached.

There's nothing like it anywhere else,

unless you go to Starbucks.

OK, I don't know where that container,

the milk container is. Ha!

Find it.

I've been put in charge of the coffee machine

by the family, and Shree showed me how to use it.

But I'm not totally comfortable with it yet.

I mean, I can make coffee at home,

no problem, but this thing?

I don't even know where to start.

Oh, I have to grind the beans. I don't know how to do that.

Papa!

I have a customer standing here waiting

for his coffee,

and I have no idea how to make this grinder work.

Sorry...

How? How, how, how?

Sorry, new, I'm new.

OK.

Plugged in.

We didn't plug it in.

Come to find out, it wasn't plugged in.

That's why it wouldn't turn on.

You want me to help you or...?

Jenny.

Yeah?

What do you mean "No, no?" That's how you do it.

OK.

That's a bad sale.

You know what I can do? I can go home.

- That's what I can do. - You're a part of Family Cafe.

This is our idea.

You know, first customer loss is a big loss.

Yeah, just like yesterday giving away free food

was a big loss, too. I'm doing my best, OK?

I feel like so disappointed, so frustrated.

We were preparing for such a long time,

like our first customer, and we lost it.

I'm frustrated with her, but at the same time,

I don't want other people to get mad at her because everybody

in the family is finally getting along,

and I don't want the stress of the business to ruin that.

Thank you so much.

Oh.

Earlier today, my mom and I went car shopping,

and she kinda dropped the bomb that she's going

to financially cut me off.

Hello, hello, good evening.

Oh, hi, Johnny.

I thought you were a waiter, the way you came over.

I think, in a way, my mom is trying to create

shocking situations so I can just switch up and be like,

"You know what, Mom?

I'm coming home,"

but no, that's just not happening.

So how was the whole car lot thing?

Did you find anything interesting?

Any cars?

The price point was much higher.

Uh, we couldn't even get it close to, um,

the range that you had thought it should be at.

- OK. - It would be something

that we would need to purchase on,

like, the internet in order to get anywhere near

that pricing point.

Yes, that was a total fail today.

But now we just need to find a plan B

because that's not...

gonna work. - Right.

And I think at that point, it should--

you should just bring her car, maybe.

I don't know that that's an option either.

'Cause Chloe and I had a conversation, you know,

that I wasn't gonna contribute financially anymore.

So this is something that, you know, Chloe needs

to work through, right?

Right.

The thing about Chloe is that

she's always been catered her whole life,

always had that safety net,

so she doesn't really know the concept of money, you know?

You know, and like,

maybe it's a good thing that Chloe's mom

is actually cutting her off because, you know,

I think she needs some more sense of reality.

And I feel like if she doesn't have the funds

to just do whatever she wants,

she's gonna really have to think smart

on what she's gonna do next.

So, like, I feel like now is a good time to see

if she really wants this, and, like,

who she really is, you know?

Chloe's gonna need, you know, a more solid plan.

You and Chloe are going to need a more solid plan.

Yeah.

You know, getting the-- the worker's permit

is a-- is a really big deal.

What is needed to get them?

Um, you, yeah, you have to pay for the first permit.

How much do you have to pay for the first permit?

- $600. - $600?

- Yeah, for the first permit. - But if-- no.

You have to pay, like, a permit every three months.

- But if a company signs for you, they pay it. - Yeah.

Wait a second, $600 to $800, and you have to do this

every three months?

The other way to go about it is if Jonathan and I went

to the office together, and Jonathan sponsors me.

How could he sponsor you if he doesn't--

if he doesn't own a company? - Because he has a--

No, this is a different paper.

- This is like a partnership paper. - It's a partnership paper.

- Hang on, partnership? - Partnership, partnership...

What does that mean? Like, married partner?

- No, not married. - No, that's a marriage certificate.

It sounds like you have a lot more obstacles, um,

just with papers than I thought that you did.

Maybe you're just not listening.

- I am listening, I'm hearing that there's... - Clearly not.

- ...there's a lot... - So what's hard

about walking into an office?

There's a lot of costs involved.

Why are you being so negative about the situation,

being like, "Oh, well, it sounds like you have

so many obstacles?" Really?

Well, I just, I wasn't aware

of the high costs, you know that.

But I'm not asking you to pay for it.

And I've made it clear that I'm not going to.

Exactly, so don't make it so, like, out of reach.

- Like, just trust me. - I'm not, I'm not.

Be like, "She's gonna do it."

Enough of the drama, to be quite honest with you.

It's not about drama, but, like, stop.

I flew all the way out here, and you know what?

This isn't the first time I've come out here, OK? I've invested a lot of money.

- I know, you've been here many times, I understand. - Yes, I have.

- And visiting you... - But stop making it out to be like that,

'cause it's frustrating. - But, you know what,

if you're gonna decide to move here permanently,

then, you know what? We need to have these conversations,

and I don't care if you're frustrated or you're not. - And we're having them.

Have it in the back of your mind,

as in, like, OK, like, stop, I'm trying to give you some ease.

No, I want specific-- yeah, right, but it's general ease,

I need specific ease, OK?

This is my daughter living in a foreign country.

I don't wanna make things up to make you feel better. I'm doing all I can.

- We are doing all I can to figure it out. - I feel like--

I feel like a lot more could have been done

up until this point. - No.

You have to get here to do it, you--

it's not something you can do from home.

OK, if you say so.

So I said that I will not financially support any longer.

- 700 times. - Um, yes.

Agreed, however...

there is a way that I would be able to support both of you.

The lottery?

Trust me, I play every weekend.

If you both move to Boston.

Immediately to the left, you will find

a bijoux of the house.

I love it.

I thought we were supposed to be playing it cool?

Yeah, that's exactly what I've done.

Oh, look at that view!

- Hello. - Hello.

- ... - Hi.

Hi, nice to meet you.

- Nice to meet you too. - You speak, uh, French?

No French?

OK, so lets's-- let's do it in English.

- Yeah. - Sounds good with me.

So then everybody will understand it.

- Let's, uh, start our journey. - Please, let's go, yes, please, let's go.

- Because I see that you are... - Oh, yeah, oh, yeah.

Follow me.

- Entering the living room. - Thank you.

The kitchen, everything together.

OK, oh, the kitchen.

The thing that I like it, you can still try

to modernize it a little bit.

Yes, you can, and keep the style of Provence, yes.

But keeping the style and without spending too much.

- Correct, correct, correct. - It's not like crazy expensive to-- to redo.

I wanna see more, please. I wanna see more.

So...

and then, um, you have the first room here.

- OK. - For your guests.

- Children, maybe, you have one kid. - Ah!

Or even an office space.

Because I do sometimes like remote work.

So I'm gonna need a room, actually, for work for sure.

- Or, yeah, keep-- - For Ben.

No, there's multiple rooms, wait.

And here you will find a bijoux of the house.

Handmade, not standard.

Exceptional.

Look at that sink, I love it!

I [bleep] love it! Look at that bathtub.

It is really nice.

And then you can go to the left to the, uh, first, uh, big room.

And there's another shower in this,

it's the master? - Yes, yes, yes.

There are three showers.

There's three showers.

I thought we were supposed to be playing it cool.

Yeah, that's exactly what I've done.

You show them interest, you show them you're excited,

so they are like, "Ooh, she wants it."

OK, like, who's the queen of networking, like you said?

Huh? BB right here.

Who doesn't have any friends, doesn't have any network?

You, so please, trust me.

Whoa, I'm not on my own anymore.

I've got my companion. His name is Ben.

Well, he's a baby who doesn't speak yet.

Speaks to me.

Oh, my gosh, can you imagine waking up naked from your bed

with your cup of coffee? - Um, I mean...

You just took your shower.

- Hear the birds. - Hear the birds and--

oh, look at that view!

- Can I cry? - Go ahead.

- It has charm. - Yeah.

- Right, yeah. - Yeah--

You can go in the pool naked, and no one see you.

It's so, like, private and stuff.

I love what I see.

There's a lot of potential, even if it's not completely

quite perfect yet.

There's a pool, which I said it's what I want.

,

it's an hour away from my parents' house.

Far, but not too far.

Close, but not too close. You know what I mean?

Alright, um, the price at the moment, uh, is 375.

You were looking for this house, so I guess it's in--

in your budget, because I guess you already talked

with the banks, I-- I guess, or not yet? - Not yet.

Mm-hmm.

I don't have any loan.

- I don't have any debt, nothing. - Sure, sure, sure.

My husband is a stay-at-home dad.

He's not going to work just yet, because he speaks English.

He has to learn French. It's gonna take time.

On my end, I still have a little bit of source

of income from my agency, because I do have a business

on my own. - What are you doing? What are you doing?

I have a social media and digital marketing agency.

We sold our house in Los Angeles.

We sold our car. We sold everything.

We have right now a total of like around $100,000

cash that we have. - Cash, OK.

So based on your experience, do you think it's possible

for us to get a loan through a French bank?

Um, I think, with everything what you were telling me,

I don't know that many persons today who has, uh,

one-third in cash immediately. - MHz-hmm.

So, uh, I think it's gonna be doable.

But there-- there is a "but," I'm gonna be very honest.

- That's my job also. - Of course.

Because I'm there also to be-- tell you everything

in all transparency. - I will do the same.

So the place is perfect. The house is perfect.

But there is in the, uh,

in the roof, asbestos. - Um, oh, there's asbestos.

So there-- there are works to do on the-- on the roof,

and around 40,000 to 45,000

to do all the works. - Oh, wow!

So she is ready to deduct that from this price.

- Oh. - Uh...

- So like, 335 instead of 375? - Correct, correct.

Manon really knows how to make a house a home.

I can see the wheels turning in her head.

But I'm sitting there thinking, "How well is it gonna hold up?

And there's asbestos."

This is the first house we're seeing,

and I know that we could find something better out there.

I just hope that she can step back and understand

where I'm coming from,

because it always ends up in a fight

or some type of argument, and I don't wanna get into it.

Bon appétit.

Very tender.

Mom, you got a little something in your head.

I hope it's not kangaroo.

Wait a minute. Is it really kangaroo?

Oh, my God, that's beautiful. Look at that lake.

Have you ever swam over there?

Tonight we're having a family dinner at mom's house.

And I know that Pattiya can't stand my mom.

But at the end of the day, my relationship with my mom

isn't going to change.

She's always gonna be in my life.

So tonight I'm hoping they can really bury the hatchet.

Hello.

- Hi. - Hi.

- Welcome, Pattiya. - How are you doing?

- I'm good, what about you? - Good, good.

- Good, you settling in? - Yes.

- Hi. Glenn! - Hi, Pattiya. Good to see you.

- You look gorgeous, dear. - Thank you.

Being at Jo's house,

I'm putting on a little bit of a front.

What a beautiful view.

- It's gorgeous, isn't it? - Yes.

Like, I really wanna make a good impression,

and I want her to accept me, but at the same time

I'm, like, really dreading to have to sit down

and talk to her because I really deep inside

don't like her.

Why don't I do some cooking?

You guys relax, and, uh,

I'll let you know when it's ready.

- OK. - Where's my sous-chef?

Here.

Hey, you look good with that apron on.

I'm so relieved that Dylan's cooking,

because I have this phobia

that if somebody else cooks for me and they don't like me,

I feel like just the thought of them not liking me,

that the food is gonna be contaminated.

Is that sausage you're cooking?

Do you like sausages?

- Yeah. - Good.

My mom always taught me not to eat

out of your enemy's hands.

I'm surprised Dylan hasn't kicked off

those dirty big boots, Dylan. - Yes, ma'am.

- I will take them off right now. - Good boy.

You should know better.

You've got a lot of wallabies running around.

You end up with poo on the carpet.

It's naughty.

I feel like my mom and Pattiya are both kind

of putting on a performance.

Dylan, you didn't tell me that your mom

collects elephants, too.

It appears we have quite a bit in common, Pattiya.

Yeah, I know.

I was like, crystals and elephants.

It's like I wanna see them sort of get along

and be friends, but they both need to be honest first

and stop pussyfooting around.

Come on down.

- It looks good. - Alright, bon appétit.

Bon appétit.

- Very nice. - Yes.

Very tender.

Mom, you've got a little something on your head.

I hope it's not kangaroo.

Wait a minute. That's not kangaroo, is it?

Stop.

Is it really kangaroo? I don't wanna eat kangaroo.

I know it was a little mean, but I just wanted you to try it,

and I knew if I said it was kangaroo, you wouldn't try it.

I mean, this is-- this is how we eat down under.

I told him not to feed me kangaroo,

and he fed me kangaroo for dinner.

Tasted like, you know, steak.

But still, when I look at the kangaroo, I'm like,

"Oh, my God, I can't eat you."

It's actually really good to see

you and Pattiya in the same space.

I know that Pattiya sort of felt like

we were sort of talking too much.

You didn't like our relationship,

that we were a bit close, did you?

Well, I don't...

- And you can be honest. - No, no.

In the past, Dylan told me that you wanted him

to marry somebody younger,

closer to his age, and give him kids.

It just made me so mad.

I'm like, "Oh, I want nothing to do with her, I don't wanna

to talk to her, I don't want her calling you."

That's been embedded in my mind, and that's--

that's where the resentment

with you talking to Dylan comes from.

I've never said that. And you know what?

I couldn't give a toss about grandchildren.

Yeah, that's the only...

Do you think maybe that was, like, just a thought,

a-- a fear that you had? - No, no, no, no, no.

You-- you said it, babe. You said it.

You were very mad and you said that several times.

Did you, Dylan?

Because I've never ever said that.

I don't remember saying that, no.

OK, well, I've never--

I've never said anything like that.

Liar, liar, pants on fire.

I feel like they're in cahoots with each other

and they won't admit that they said it.

I mean, why would I make it up?

Why, I mean, I'm not crazy.

Who makes that crap up?

So that comment never happened.

So aside from that, is there anything else... - No.

...underneath any of that? - No, that's it.

- That's it. - I can't believe it.

- I just sort of felt sometimes when Dylan's been on the phone. - Mm-hmm.

I've said, "Oh, hi, Pattiya, how are you going?"

Like, you know, I'm happy to engage,

but I don't think you like that.

No, it's because of what he said.

I've never said to Dylan that he should be

with somebody younger.

I can't imagine Dylan saying that to Pattiya.

- I really can't. - It's an odd thing to say.

- It's very odd. - It is an odd thing to say.

It just seems strange. Two and two's not adding up.

I'm so sorry, Jo, really, it--

it stemmed from-- from that comment.

Well, thank you. I-- I really appreciate that.

- Yes. - Because all these years

I thought, "God, I haven't done the thing."

I just, you know, I was happy for you.

- Really? - Yeah.

I've never, ever had an issue with the age.

So he must have said that to try to make me mad or something.

- He'll say some hateful things and that's where... - Oh, I know--

...'cause he just lashes out. - Yeah, I get that.

- Yeah. - But then he regrets it afterwards.

- Mm-hmm. - Don't you, Dylan?

Yes.

Hmm.

I may have said that when I was-- when I was angry,

but I don't remember the specifics.

It was a long time ago.

So that's-- that's put to bed, alright?

Finally.

But now there's still the constant issue

of me talking to my mom, and it's always a problem.

Well, that's where it stems from,

is the fact that you said that. so it made me...

I think-- I think that's a bit of a cop-out, really.

- No, it's not. - It's like...

No, it's not a cop-out.

just feel like us chatting on the phone every now and then

is still gonna be an issue when we move here.

No, it's not gonna be an issue.

- Are you sure? - Yes.

If you wanna talk to Dylan as much as you want,

then I'm OK with it now.

Problem solved.

I'm so mad at Dylan because I hated her,

I resented her, and I held this resentment

and hate for many, many years.

Well, thank you for having us come over.

You're very welcome.

Now, I'm looking at Dylan, and I'm questioning

my relationship, because Dylan had been lying to me about it.

I don't wanna be in a relationship like that.

It's going to take you so long to find a job here,

and you're gonna make pennies.

It's very hurtful to hear.

It makes me feel like I'm not good enough for her.

You are never, ever going to be able to make like I do.

- That was amazing. - That was insightful.

Today, Anthony and I saw a home for sale,

and I'm excited just thinking about it.

Well, there's a lot to talk about, honey.

- Oh, my American boy. - No boy, I am a man.

You're a man.

Yes, you are my American man, who I love so much.

He said, he's confident we can make it happen.

- You know? - I mean,

I definitely think it's possible,

but I think it's like looking at other stuff... - Yeah.

- ...because you might find something else you like more... - Yeah.

- ...that's not gonna need a new roof. - OK.

Honestly, I was really in love with the house,

but there's asbestos in the roof,

so I understand Anthony,

and I'm kind of grateful for him nitpicking.

But the good news...

So let's just go visit a little more and maybe I can manifest

actually my dream house, you know?

So like a big thing I feel that need to be addressed

the most is employment. - Yeah, OK.

Mm-hmm. That's the next step, I agree.

We cannot buy a house without income.

If I build a business for a long time,

I'm not gonna be able to get a salary or to make money.

So I don't know. I can find something else too.

Part-time, remote.

But, you know, speaking of, like, working,

I like where we are now.

I know we're living with your parents,

but Ben has been way better with you.

Oh, yeah, I know, I love it, I know.

You've taken a lot more initiative with the food,

with everything.

You're, instead of, like, asking me if I need help,

you're actually, like, doing things.

Yeah.

- I'm gonna run some errands. - Yeah.

It'll be time for his lunch soon, so you just...

bread, cheese, whatever.

Got it?

- OK, I love you. - I love you too.

We're starting to get the balance we need.

But granted, we're not working, but I'm starting to see

the positive changes already in moving to France.

But we cannot deny that in life, we are not rich.

We don't have, like, money coming in

from the sky every month.

We're still gonna need to find income.

- I-- I understand that. - But it's or not, we still gonna have to.

I'm just scared that you are gonna go overboard,

I know how passionate--

- Why not? - I know how passionate you get

with work and you're already

talking about starting your own business here

and another thing about moving here

was that you would step back and maybe

I would take over the providing more, right? - Yeah.

And now it seems like you're full-steam ahead on you doing

the solo providing again.

It's because it's going to take you so long to find

a job here, and even if you find a job here,

you are never, ever going to be able to make like I do.

- Still, you don't speak French. - I get it.

How are you going to find a job?

And what type of job? What type of job?

Without speaking French, the only thing that comes

to mind is speaking English to kids

so that they can learn it.

But you're gonna make pennies doing that here.

It's very hurtful to hear.

She would love for me to be providing,

but I'll never make as much as her.

And the term I hate the most that she uses is

that I would make pennies. I feel like it's not true.

It just would take time for me to get to that space.

And it makes me feel

like I'm not good enough for her, essentially.

I love you, and we moved here to stay together.

I want to be married.

I want our family to be together.

I'm just scared

because I've seen how passionate you can get

with work. - If I work less, I'll be fine.

Anthony and I wants to be out of my parents' house,

and I'm not trying to be harsh or anything, you know?

Like, I know France, and he doesn't.

I know the economy here...

I don't want to survive in France.

If I moved to France, it's to actually be

more comfortable and thrive.

Or I would have stayed in the U.S.

Next time on "90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way."

I know he's here to judge and to be negative.

I don't trust him at all.

No, I'm not going there.

This is awesome.

This is like all I've wanted to do since we've been here.

Seeing Manon's reaction to the farm...

...I'm questioning my decision on the surprise.

I found out on social media that he was with...

a girl for her birthday.

I am absolutely pissed that Johny was not faithful

to my daughter.

I can't even put into words how disappointed I am.

If you can't trust somebody, you shouldn't be committing

anything to him, let alone, um, changing your entire life.

Look at this.

I had to move some money around.

It was $2,000. Is this a good use of money?

I don't know.

I think I, like, give you a pretty good life,

and it seems like you're always mad at me.

Exactly, so like, what are we doing here?

If this is anything like what our marriage is gonna be,

holy [bleep], do we have problems.

This isn't the life that I signed up for.