All language subtitles for 90.Day.Fiancé_.The.Other.Way.S07E10.en (1)

[Luke] Previously on "90 Day
Fiancé, The Other Way."

What do you think?
Like...

The café has to be successful,
because if we're not,

we'll be living
with the parents forever.

So when do you think
you'll do furniture shopping?

Probably this week.

You might have to keep
an eye on it, Dylan.

She's already like, "Rawr"
about my finances, I'm like,

"What the [bleep]?"

This is exactly
what I was worried about.

-[Dylan] Yeah, but I can see...
-Obviously, you talked
to your mom about

the spending habits?
-[Dylan] I can see --

Yes, I had -- I opened up
to my mom, and I had told her.

Pattiya does have
a spending problem.

If she wants to come here

and have the champagne
lifestyle, unfortunately,

that's not gonna work.

[realtor]
Let's show you
the other bedroom.

[Matthew speaking]

-Two little twin beds here.
-Twins is on the agenda then.

I've become really unsure
if I want kids,

but I haven't told him yet.

I just don't feel like we're
in a place for a house at all.

I have [bleep] up.
I wanna be with you.

It's hard for me
to believe you, really.

[foreign music playing]

[Sumit speaking]

We hope so.

We're going to cook
and make money!

It's been a week now,
and things are starting

to come together.
The café now looks like a café.

Construction's done,
equipment is in,

and today is just final touches.
It's really exciting.

[speaking Hindi]

So today, we're gonna prepare
the café and some food

to show a lot of people
that we are opening

a new café over here.

[speaking Hindi]

Make coffee.

[speaking Hindi]

Making coffee is also an art.

Like, if you make good coffee,
it can be the star

of our menu.

Since the main customer
in our area is students,

we are focusing
on the home-cooked food,

like bread roll,

Coffee machine is here.

-[Jenny] Nice.
-[Anil] Oh, good, yeah.

[Sumit] Mostly people
in India drink chai,

but coffee
is also getting popular.

But people
serve instant coffee.

So if we get a machine
which will grind the beans

and make a fresh coffee,
we're definitely gonna attract

a lot of customers.

[all speaking Hindi]

Eggs are delivered, we got...

All the stuff -- looks like
all the stuff is here.

Yeah.

We get a stove, we get fridge,

we get another,
like, cooking station.

[Jenny]
See how crowded it is already?

We're not even working yet.

This is such a small space.

How are we gonna
all fit in here?

[Jenny]
Yay!

[Sumit]
Family Café.

When I first showed
the location to my family,

everybody seemed disappointed.

But I wanna show them
that the location is so good

that we will gonna get
good customer over here.

Now I think we should start
cleaning the place.

Uh, we have a lot to do.

A lot of people
will be coming over here.

-I'm so nervous.
-[Sumit] Uh, I'm nervous too.

[Jenny]
Is this preparation
for the bread rolls?

-[Sumit] Yes.
-[Sadhana] Yes.

[Sumit speaking]

We need to make
a very good impression,

otherwise they're not
gonna come back.

-[Jenny] Yay!
-Whoa, great!

[Jenny]
Looks so good.

[all speaking Hindi]

I -- I -- I can't believe
my eyes!

Well, I don't know what makes
him think that he can take

water from the bathroom
and use it for the kitchen.

That's not going to happen
in my kitchen.

[all speaking Hindi]

What happened?

What happened?

Like, they fill the water
from the bathroom

and using it for cooking.

[all speaking Hindi]

[Sumit]
I think my parents are right.

It's my failure,
it's not just theirs.

All the hard work is gone.

We are planning
to do opening tomorrow,

and if we can't
even prepare the food,

I don't know how we will even
able to run the café.

So what now?
What are we gonna do?

-What happens now?
-[Sumit speaking]

Maybe this is why people
get sick a lot

when they eat in India.

♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh-ooh,
ooh-ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh ♪

[Pattiya]
Oh, babe, I feel so special.

[Dylan] You are.

OK, furniture shopping.

[Pattiya]
Furniture shopping!

♪ Ooh, ooh,
we just can't get enough ♪

♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh-ooh,
ooh-ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh ♪

[both]
Wow.

[Pattiya] Oh, my God, this
is super comfortable, isn't it?

[Dylan]
Oh, it is, isn't it?
Oh, that suits you.

-Oh, yeah.
-[Pattiya] Is it comfortable?

-[Dylan] It's not too bad.
-How about that one?

-No, go ahead, babe.
-No, you go ahead.

[Pattiya]
Just sit in there, please.

You love bossing me around,
don't you?

No, I'm not
bossing you around.

Do you like that one
versus that one?

This one's a bit
more comfortable, yeah.

See?
Told you.

Oh, here it is.
This is what I like.

[Dylan]
You really like that one.

It looks like
a movie theater thing.

[Pattiya]
It does.

When I'm shopping for furniture,
I look for quality,

I look for comfort,
and I look for durability.

And if it fits that category,
it's perfect.

You do need to look
at the price tag also.

That does come into it,
my love.

You can't just ignore it.

You have to at least just graze
your eyes across it.

I can't help it if I have
expensive taste.

Oh.

So this is, like, $2,699,
and this one is $2,099.

What do you think?

I'd say $1,000
is cheap for a couch.

Wouldn't it be better to get
something more cost-effective,

and then we can put the rest
of the money towards your debt?

We did have the conversation
about budgeting

and slowing down the spending.

Oh, my gosh,
we're furniture shopping!

You have to really
talk about this now?

I know, love,
but it's important.

You still have this debt
looming over you

and this credit card interest
that's accumulating every month.

Pattiya's relationship
with money is reckless.

She would have these
big spending sprees

in Vegas where she'd drop
$5,000 to $10,000.

She'd walk
into these clothing stores,

and the shop assistants
would just absolutely love her,

throwing clothes at her.

She'd buy one of every color.

If she's got money,
she's gonna spend it, all of it.

And once we get married,

our finances
are gonna be intertwined,

so it's a -- it's a big issue.

I want you to be
100% honest with me.

How much debt?

What's the actual number?

20.

20.

So like, how --
how many credit cards in total

have you maxed out?
-[Pattiya] Five.

All of them.

[Dylan] Why is there
five credit cards maxed out?

How does that happen?

I had no debt
when we went to Thailand,

and then when I came back,
I accumulated the debt again

because I had
to start all over.

OK.

This is your fault,
I had no debt

when I moved
to Thailand with you.

When I met Dylan,
I was in a lot of debt,

but I worked really hard myself
and was able to pay it off.

But then we moved to Thailand,
and we broke up

11 months later.

I had to move back
to the United States

and start from scratch.

I hadn't been working
in Thailand.

I had zero savings.

I felt like I was at the lowest
of my lowest.

So I have a lot of resentment

regarding
my financial situation,

because I sacrificed
a lot for Dylan.

I understand that some of it
was possibly my fault,

but that was four years ago,

and you've been dancing
for the last four years,

making pretty good money.

It just seems like the same
problem just keeps occurring.

Are your spending habits
going to change?

Yes, I'm not the same.
I've learned from my mistakes.

That's why I'm asking you
to sell that house to help me

with this debt.

I'm scared that if I do sell
one of my properties,

that there's gonna be
something else

and something else
and something else.

I own a couple of properties
in Launceston

and they generate some income.

But I don't think selling
one of those properties

to pay off her debt
is the right financial choice,

because it just feels like she's
not taking any accountability

for her spending habits.

And it's rubbish
that she's in debt

just because
she moved to Thailand.

She's been spending this way
her whole life.

When I first met Pattiya,
I thought she was,

you know, rich or something.

I thought, you know,
she's a stripper,

she's got heaps of money.

But then I found out
she was 60K in debt.

And I mean, I love Pattiya
and I want to be with her,

but I don't wanna have to be
always cleaning up her mess.

You keep asking me for a ring.

The main reason
you haven't got that ring

and I haven't proposed yet

is because of
the spending issues

that you've had.

My fear is that this spending
thing is never gonna stop.

[Caroline] I'm hoping
there's gonna be lots and lots

of little babies and children.

[Greta] I didn't plan on opening
up to Matthew's family,

but it all just
kind of came out.

I've been having, like,
a lot of anxiety about

having children lately.

Me and Madelein got into it
a couple times.

She called off the wedding.

You're completely
just manipulated

and controlled all the time.

Wake the [bleep] up!

You don't have
to go through with this.

[solemn music playing]

[Greta]
Hi!

[Caroline]
Greta!

-Hiya!
-It's been so long!

Since I've arrived in England,
things have been up and down.

It feels like Matthew
and I are on different pages

about everything, like money
and where we're gonna live

and the future.
It's been a bumpy start.

-What type of tea is this?
-English breakfast.

OK, I don't know why
I asked that, that was, like...

The only tea
that we have actually.

Right?

Matthew is working today.

So Matthew's mother
has invited me to tea with her,

Matthew's grandma, and also
Matthew's brother's fiancée.

I don't think we're meant
to say normal, are we?

Oh, it's OK,
I'm used to it.

[Caroline]
These are vegan.

We're not saying
you're abnormal.

It's OK, I --
I realize I probably am.

So this is
the vegan plate here.

-[Greta] That's
the vegan, that's...
-Oh, my goodness!

[Greta] Matthew and I did
English afternoon tea
once before.

I just loved it!

I felt very posh,
as English would say it.

You drink tea together
and you normally have a tray

of little sandwiches
and pastries

set in the middle of the table,

which is why
in those old English TV shows,

when people are trying to speak
to each other and they have to,

like, look over
the little rack of food.

-[Caroline] This is
vegan cheese?
-[Greta] Yeah, vegan cheese.

I think I'm gonna have ham.

Sorry, Greta, are you alright
with me eating this?

[Greta]
Yeah, I figured, no worries.

[Caroline]
Greta, I just want you
to know how welcome you are

in our family and how much it
means to have you with us.

If you stay in our house
for three weeks or three months,

or even perhaps not quite three.

Three years would be
far too long.

-Especially
in such a small house.
-Yeah.

Yeah, but you know you are most
welcome, and, um...

-Thank you so much, thank you.
-[Caroline] I just want you
to know that.

I've said to Matthew,
I think you're his soulmate.

[all]
Aw.

You were pulled together
from across the world.

It was meant to happen,
wasn't it?

-It was fate.
-Sorry, that's, like, so sweet.

Yeah, I mean, it really, like,
it really means the world

to be so accepted in the family.

-Like, I -- like, don't know
what that's like, really.
-[Caroline] Yeah.

We have --
the last two years,

we've had some wonderful
Christmases,

haven't we, together.
-[both] Yeah.

Yeah, they really have.

And I know you said that
that's not what you have done

in the past with your family.

Yeah, and, like, holidays are
especially really challenging,

because I --
my mother and my sister and I,

we made homemade ornaments
for the tree.

And the first time
we were decorating the tree

after she had passed,

my father was
in a new relationship,

and I was, like, so excited
to hang up the ornaments

on the tree.

And this -- this person
that my father was in a --

in a relationship
basically said, like,

the ornaments were really ugly
and that she didn't want them

hanging on the tree.
-She wasn't very nice...
so she was very --

-Yeah, and so, like,
one of my first, um...
-Oh, but that sounds so sad.

...memories was, like, me,
like, trying to hide

some of the ornaments
in the -- in the tree...
-Oh, no!

...and so, like,
we could still -- yeah.
-[Caroline] Oh, you shouldn't

have to hide them.
-[Josie] Have you
still got them?

No, 'cause she, uh, she, um,
she threw them out.

-[Caroline] Oh, my God,
that's awful, that's dreadful.
-Yeah, so, yeah, I...

Oh, Greta, oh, Greta,
I want to hug you.

I'm sorry, I've got to hug you.

Let me hug you,
I can't bear that.

I tell you what, we've got
lots of family traditions,

and we will have some
Christmas family traditions,

and you can be part
of those traditions.

-And your babies.
-Yeah.

[Caroline]
Yes, we'll hang ornaments.

-Yeah.
-[Caroline] We'll make them.

In fact, we've got lots
of Christmas ornaments

and we will buy some new ones.
-[Denise] You buy
new ones every year.

And you can make
some ornaments.

Yeah.

-We will start --
-You'll be able to do that
with your children.

Yes, you will.

I'm hoping there's gonna be
lots and lots

of little babies and children.

Oh, my God.

Excellent.

Yeah, I mean, I think,
like, when we first met,

uh, we both wanted children,
like, a lot.

But I've been having,
like, a lot of anxiety

about having children lately.

And I can't tell if it's, like,
a phase or not.

Like, if I'll want them more
later, like, if we have a house

together and I can,
like, feel it more.

I mean, I know he wants
children, and I think he should

have children.
Like, I...

And I, like, I think he -- he's
the type of person who would be

a -- a really amazing dad,
and I -- I don't wanna

take that from him.

It's hard as well because your
upbringing in your childhood

and, um, not having your mother
to see as a role model...
-[Denise] Such a young age.

...that means being a mother
yourself must be quite

a big thing.

Yeah.

I loved having babies myself,
and I've always looked forward

to the day when perhaps
they would go on

and have children of their own,
so I would be disappointed

if I didn't have
any grandchildren,

but it's quite a big decision

whether you're gonna have
children or not.

It is the sort of thing that
could break up a relationship

if one desperately wants
children and one doesn't.

Relationships,
if they last the long haul,

they don't go easy.

There's tricky times
and you have to get

through them together.

[Greta]
I didn't plan on opening up
to Matthew's family,

but it all just
kind of came out.

I didn't wanna ruin
this perfect image

they had of the future.

But they're so excited
for me to be here,

and they love me so much,
and they've been so accepting.

I don't want to get
their hopes up

about something
that may never happen.

Matthew, he loves you dearly
and he wants the best for you,

so you'll have to navigate
that decision together

and hopefully, um, you know,
reach a compromise.

The last time Matthew
and I talked about kids

was almost six months ago.

And Matthew and I
talked about it

and agreed that we would
want kids together.

But when I've really started
to picture it recently,

like house, marriage, kids,
I feel really conflicted.

I feel nervous that I'm going
to now have to break this news

to Matthew, because it could
really determine the course

of our relationship.

I accumulated this debt
because of you.

Every time there's a problem,
it's like it's my fault.

It's almost like he wants to see
me suffer through the debt.

Like, "Let's watch you squirm."
He needs to move past this

because if he doesn't propose,
I'm done!

[upbeat music playing]

[Luke]
What's up, man?
How you doing?

-Good.
-[Luke] Start without me?

Let me grab a -- let me grab
a beer, I'll be right back.

Brian is one
of my closest friends.

We met in Colombia.

He was married to one
of Madelein's friends.

But Madelein and Brian
hate each other.

Madelein started a rumor that
I was unfaithful to my ex-wife.

Just to get back
at me telling Luke what happens

when he's not there.

It's Madelein's world,
and we're just living in it.

Like, she says, "Jump,"
and Luke says,

"How high?"

She says, "Bark,"
and Luke barks.

-[Luke] Here you go, man.
-[Brian] Thank you.

Cheers, [speaking Spanish].

Madelein does not want me
to see Brian, but to be honest,

I think that we should
be able to talk,

and I could use it
just about now.

-How you been, man?
-Good.

How's it going?
So you've been here

for a couple days now, right?
-Yeah, it's been dramatic, man.

Me and Madelein
got into it a couple times.

She called off the wedding.

I mean, it's been stressful,
man, you know,

but trying to work through it.

-Yeah.
-It sounds real healthy, Luke.

Sounds like you're
really making progress.

Yeah, I mean, I --
you have a point, dude.

I feel like you have, like,
Stockholm syndrome.

-You know, the...
-What's -- what's that?

[Brian]
When someone, like,
kidnaps somebody

and takes them hostage,

then the hostage
starts to fall in love

with the captive?

[Luke] We've been
through a lot, you know?

I mean, maybe there's a little
bit of a trauma bond there.

Like, I've kind of been
at, like, my -- my lowest low

in life, you know?

Like, financially unstable.

Yeah, but you've been saying
this since the moment

you met her, so you're --

everything you're telling me,
nothing's changed.

It's bad, bro.

And you're completely just
manipulated and controlled

all the time.

What is it about her?

Like, why do you wanna be
with her?

Sell her to me, please.

[Luke] Really, like, me seeing
you and -- and your life,

I wanted to move here.

I wanted to be
in a different country

as an entrepreneur,

living the life.

I just wanted to live the dream
and not have to work how I did

in the United States.
-Sell me her.

Not the dream, sell me her.

I -- I think, ultimately,
I'm a little bit scared

of being alone.
And she has been there.

Is she there for you?

Because last time I talked,
you're like,

"Oh, sometimes
she ignores me for days."

That's someone
that's there for you?

I'm telling you to sell me her.

You haven't said
one nice thing about her.

And you're [bleep]
getting married.

Like, what about this sounds
like a good idea?

You don't have
to go through with this.

Did I wanna be going
through this stuff, like,

weeks before my marriage?
No.

You know,
am I happy right now?

No, I feel like
I'm walking on eggshells.

But the way she makes me feel
when I'm with her makes me

forget a lot of the stress,
a lot of the things

that I'm going through.

I see my future and I --
I wanna be happy.

I wanna be happy with her.
I -- I just, I want it so bad.

It's just, I -- I felt like
I haven't been myself

in a really long time

because really, like,
I -- I can't hit home

on the financial stress
that I'm going through.

So where is the root
of your financial problems?

How much money did you spend
on Madelein in a year?

A lot.

[Brian]
Any woman will love you

if you send
your whole paycheck to them.

That doesn't mean
it's true love.

A real woman knowing
that you're in financial ruin

won't push the limits
of what you can

or cannot give her.

It's hard to be your friend

when you keep making the same
mistakes with the same girl.

Wake the [bleep] up!

[Luke] Brian is saying
some pretty nasty [bleep],

but there's
some truth in that.

I -- I've boughten her cars,
I've boughten her --

her beauty studio,
I pay her rent,

I pay her food,
I pay everything.

It's been horrible
since I've moved here,

and it's not how I want
my future to be.

It's not the relationship
that I had envisioned.

I don't know.
I don't know what to do.

[Dylan]
You keep asking me for a ring,

but my fear is that
this spending thing

is never gonna stop.

I haven't seen the changes.

I need to see those changes
before we commit

and get married.

It's -- it's an addiction
that you have.

It's a chronic addiction,
and, uh, it's --

it's detrimental, love.

It's gotta stop.
And it's serious.

You brought me
to tears with it,

'cause it's like,
"When is this woman

going to stop spending?"

There's been many months
where you have not had

the money for rent,
and I've had to pay it for you.

-Many, many months.
-What are you talking about?

That's because you put me
in that place.

You've got a very deluded view
of what has and hasn't happened.

I didn't know, like,
deep down, how you really felt

about my spending issue.

In the past,
every time I expressed it,

you'd get really upset and mad

and just told me to stay
out of your business,

and it would just start a fight,
and so I just kind of gave up.

You're right.

But I accumulated
this debt because of you.

[Dylan]
The debt that you had
when you met me,

whose fault was that?

When I met Dylan,
I just moved to Vegas.

And I was in a lot of debt.

As performers, strippers,
we had to look the part.

And it's expensive.
We had to tan.

We had to do the nails,
the hair.

You have to spend to make it.

But I did not spend
like I used to.

Babe, I've learned
from my mistakes,

but this debt, I swear,

honestly, I --
I feel like it's your fault.

You know it's your fault.

Every time there's a problem,
it's like, it's my fault.

It just seems it's just
easiest to blame stuff on me

and then just keep spending.

[Pattiya]
It makes me mad!

This last debt
was because of him.

If it bothers you,
help me, help me pay it!

It's almost like he wants to see
me suffer through the debt.

Like, "Let's watch you squirm

and see what you can do,"
you know?

I'm not that same
girl anymore.

I've gotten better.

Now that we're together,
it's gonna be your money,

and I'm not gonna be
doing that.

I don't know what more I can do
or say to say,

"Look, I'm not that
high-maintenance girl

like I was back in the days."

He needs to move past this,
because if he doesn't propose,

I'm done.
I'm moving on.

[speaking Hindi]

[singing in Hindi]

[Sumit]
Here we go.

[all speaking Hindi]

Patties and French fries.

That was -- that was so bad.

[Sumit]
OK, there we are.

-[Anil] Yeah.
-We have water over here?

[Jenny]
Yeah, big jug.

[Sumit speaking]

I feel like I need to take
a coffee-making class.

I'm here.
I'll teach you.

That's not an issue.

OK, so to make Americano,
single cup.

Single sosh -- shot.
This is for double shots.

-Double shot.
-[Shree] Press it.

-[Jenny] Your espresso
will come out...
-[Shree] Espresso is ready.

Then put the water here,
and your Americano is ready.

[Jenny] I was really excited
to get this coffee machine,

and now I'm looking at it like,
"What the hell?"

Temper this and steam that.
I'm in way over my head here.

I'm lost.

-[Shree] Shall I help you?
-[Jenny] Yeah.

[Shree] Yeah, you have to be
really very fast.

-Simple.
-OK.

I mean, what the hell
did I get into?

My fingers are crossed
everything works out.

We'll see.

I already forget what to do.

[singing in Hindi]

Before the main ceremony begins,

the priests come into, uh,

every individual café
and bless every shop.

-Did you say "cow urine"?
-Yeah, you --
you heard it right.

[Jenny] Throwing cow urine
around while you're cooking?

We would never do something
like that in America.

You use holy water,
we use cow urine.

[all speaking Hindi]

[Sumit]
Now our café is blessed.

[Shree speaking]

End of the day, I'm very proud
of the work we did.

Like, it's -- it's really good.
We served a lot of people.

Hundreds of plates
went out of the kitchen.

It really makes it feel good
that we can do it.

[Jenny]
You guys, you know, all I saw
was food going out the door

and no money coming in.

I know how important this was,
but we made no money.

When they said we were gonna
be handing out samples,

I thought it was gonna be small,
but they're handing out

whole plates of food,
and there's gotta be at least

100 people here.

So at this point,
we might as well

just be throwing money out.

[Sumit]
So there's a lot of people.

So I thought this is our chance.

We are letting
people know that, look,

what we are having over here,

which you won't find
in the neighborhood.

[Shree]
See, we are new today.

And they are running business
for months now.

So how will people
recognize Family Café?

Yes, don't worry.

It will be all fine.

[Jenny]
Are these people delusional?

Am I the only one realizing
we didn't make any money today,

on top of all the food we had
to throw away yesterday?

Like, what the hell?

Now I'm worried
it's gonna take us longer

to start making any money,

and we might be stuck
living with the family forever.

I've been having
a lot of anxiety lately

because I've been thinking
about something.

Um...

[Matthew speaking]

[Greta]
I don't think I've ever
picked apples before.

-[Matthew] Really?
-[Greta] No.

It's Greta's third day here,

and things still feel unsettled.

-I hear some snorts.
-[gasps] Oh, my God!

-Piggy!
-[Matthew chuckles] Aw, aw.

Aw, hey, honey.

Look at their ears,
they're just like...

Hi!
How are you?

Do you have a name?
It's OK.

If you don't wanna come to us,
you don't have to.

We just wanna say hello.

I think we should go pick
some apples for them, honey,

so they trust us more.
-Yep, let's go get some apples.

Do apples grow in Oklahoma?

Um, I'm sure they do,
but it's not really

a thing in Oklahoma.

I'm gonna get some
of the apples down here

on this low branch.
-[Matthew] Yeah, they look good.

Oh, God.

[Matthew]
You know, who'd have thought
that three years after we met

on a vegan dating app,

we would go
on this journey together

and share these experiences?

Yeah, I'm really grateful
that you love animals as well,

because I've felt like
I've always struggled finding

a partner who feels the same way
that I do about animals.

So thank you for allowing me
to have that space.

I feel exactly the same.

I thought I'd have to go
my whole life

being in relationships
with people

or probably getting married
to someone that I just accepted

wasn't a vegan
or doesn't love animals

to the same extent as me.

And it surprised me
when I was able to find you.

And maybe what I'm trying
to say is thank you for being

in my life.
-[Greta] Aw.

[Matthew]
Greta moved to a new country.

She's left her cat behind,
her friends behind,

to be with me.

And although
it hasn't been perfect,

I just wanna reassure her
that she's my person

and I'm looking forward
to a life with her.

That's very sweet.

And I mean, you helped me be
unapologetically myself,

but I've been having a lot
of anxiety lately because, um...

I've been thinking
about something...

like really struggling with it.

And I didn't talk to you about
it because I wanted to know

if I was going through
a phase or not.

But where
my head's at now, um...

I feel so unsure
if I do want kids anymore.

That's a bombshell!

Yeah.

I am, like, really struggling
because I think you were meant

to be a dad and I think,
like, you would be

an amazing dad.

I absolutely want kids,
and I want those kids

with you 'cause
you are the one for me.

Do you think maybe the reason
why you feel like you don't want

kids is because

you had a difficult childhood?

No, I think my childhood
would -- would actually be

one of the reasons
why I would --

I would want kids,
because I would be able

to build a family life
that I've always dreamed of

but never got to experience.

[Matthew]
This is a complete shock to me.

Me and Greta have spoken
together about kids dozens,

if not hundreds of times.

We've even named what
all of our kids would be called.

The hobbies they would have,
the way we would raise them,

all the way down
to the kinds of schools

we want them to go to.

I don't know
where this has come from.

[Greta]
I was really sure
about having kids,

and then I started
to really think about

what having a child
would mean and, like,

what my life would look like
if I had a kid.

And I think
having a kid would --

and a family life would be
a major deterrent to being

the type of advocate
that I've always wanted to be.

I don't think you should see it
purely from your impact.

I think you should see
how much of an impact

they could have as well.

Your ability to raise people
in the image that you always

wanted to be raised
in as a child,

I think it's
such opportunity for you,

and if you don't have
the time to be a mother,

I will be 200% of the father.

Still to come on 90 Day Fiancé ,
The Other Way .

[upbeat music playing]

This is the happiest I've seen
you since we got here.

I have a surprise for you.

[squeals excitedly]

I love you.

I feel like our life is really
starting here.

It's giving me anxiety.

There's no food deliveries,
no taxi, nothing.

We are finally moving to
our home sweet home.

It's in the
ass[bleep] of France.

I've got one, Pattiya.

Dylan's mom is the reason why
we are not married today.

I feel like you're a needy
mother, Jo.

I'm not going to be classed
as needy.

Every [bleep] day you have to
talk to your mom.

It's [bleep] ridiculous.

Ah, [bleep]

[pounding]

At the beginning, I felt like
he was Mr. Darcy

and I was Elizabeth...

Honey, I'm home.

...and that's not how
I'm feeling right now.

[sniffles]

I already told your parents
we're moving out.

We are depending on them
right now.

We cannot move out of there.

If you don't want
to go with me,

I guess I'll have
to move out by myself.

You can be
marrying my son, but...

Is this really what you want?

[speaking Spanish]

[speaking English]

Oh, God.

I feel like I was in
a relationship

with a total different person.

Chloe.

Those are not [bleep] mine!

[suspensful music climbs]

[music fades]