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[Luke] Previously on "90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way."
What do you think? Like...
The café has to be successful, because if we're not,
we'll be living with the parents forever.
So when do you think you'll do furniture shopping?
Probably this week.
You might have to keep an eye on it, Dylan.
She's already like, "Rawr" about my finances, I'm like,
"What the [bleep]?"
This is exactly what I was worried about.
-[Dylan] Yeah, but I can see... -Obviously, you talked to your mom about
the spending habits? -[Dylan] I can see --
Yes, I had -- I opened up to my mom, and I had told her.
Pattiya does have a spending problem.
If she wants to come here
and have the champagne lifestyle, unfortunately,
that's not gonna work.
[realtor] Let's show you the other bedroom.
[Matthew speaking]
-Two little twin beds here. -Twins is on the agenda then.
I've become really unsure if I want kids,
but I haven't told him yet.
I just don't feel like we're in a place for a house at all.
I have [bleep] up. I wanna be with you.
It's hard for me to believe you, really.
[foreign music playing]
[Sumit speaking]
We hope so.
We're going to cook and make money!
It's been a week now, and things are starting
to come together. The café now looks like a café.
Construction's done, equipment is in,
and today is just final touches. It's really exciting.
[speaking Hindi]
So today, we're gonna prepare the café and some food
to show a lot of people that we are opening
a new café over here.
[speaking Hindi]
Make coffee.
[speaking Hindi]
Making coffee is also an art.
Like, if you make good coffee, it can be the star
of our menu.
Since the main customer in our area is students,
we are focusing on the home-cooked food,
like bread roll,
Coffee machine is here.
-[Jenny] Nice. -[Anil] Oh, good, yeah.
[Sumit] Mostly people in India drink chai,
but coffee is also getting popular.
But people serve instant coffee.
So if we get a machine which will grind the beans
and make a fresh coffee, we're definitely gonna attract
a lot of customers.
[all speaking Hindi]
Eggs are delivered, we got...
All the stuff -- looks like all the stuff is here.
Yeah.
We get a stove, we get fridge,
we get another, like, cooking station.
[Jenny] See how crowded it is already?
We're not even working yet.
This is such a small space.
How are we gonna all fit in here?
[Jenny] Yay!
[Sumit] Family Café.
When I first showed the location to my family,
everybody seemed disappointed.
But I wanna show them that the location is so good
that we will gonna get good customer over here.
Now I think we should start cleaning the place.
Uh, we have a lot to do.
A lot of people will be coming over here.
-I'm so nervous. -[Sumit] Uh, I'm nervous too.
[Jenny] Is this preparation for the bread rolls?
-[Sumit] Yes. -[Sadhana] Yes.
[Sumit speaking]
We need to make a very good impression,
otherwise they're not gonna come back.
-[Jenny] Yay! -Whoa, great!
[Jenny] Looks so good.
[all speaking Hindi]
I -- I -- I can't believe my eyes!
Well, I don't know what makes him think that he can take
water from the bathroom and use it for the kitchen.
That's not going to happen in my kitchen.
[all speaking Hindi]
What happened?
What happened?
Like, they fill the water from the bathroom
and using it for cooking.
[all speaking Hindi]
[Sumit] I think my parents are right.
It's my failure, it's not just theirs.
All the hard work is gone.
We are planning to do opening tomorrow,
and if we can't even prepare the food,
I don't know how we will even able to run the café.
So what now? What are we gonna do?
-What happens now? -[Sumit speaking]
Maybe this is why people get sick a lot
when they eat in India.
♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh ♪
[Pattiya] Oh, babe, I feel so special.
[Dylan] You are.
OK, furniture shopping.
[Pattiya] Furniture shopping!
♪ Ooh, ooh, we just can't get enough ♪
♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh ♪
[both] Wow.
[Pattiya] Oh, my God, this is super comfortable, isn't it?
[Dylan] Oh, it is, isn't it? Oh, that suits you.
-Oh, yeah. -[Pattiya] Is it comfortable?
-[Dylan] It's not too bad. -How about that one?
-No, go ahead, babe. -No, you go ahead.
[Pattiya] Just sit in there, please.
You love bossing me around, don't you?
No, I'm not bossing you around.
Do you like that one versus that one?
This one's a bit more comfortable, yeah.
See? Told you.
Oh, here it is. This is what I like.
[Dylan] You really like that one.
It looks like a movie theater thing.
[Pattiya] It does.
When I'm shopping for furniture, I look for quality,
I look for comfort, and I look for durability.
And if it fits that category, it's perfect.
You do need to look at the price tag also.
That does come into it, my love.
You can't just ignore it.
You have to at least just graze your eyes across it.
I can't help it if I have expensive taste.
Oh.
So this is, like, $2,699, and this one is $2,099.
What do you think?
I'd say $1,000 is cheap for a couch.
Wouldn't it be better to get something more cost-effective,
and then we can put the rest of the money towards your debt?
We did have the conversation about budgeting
and slowing down the spending.
Oh, my gosh, we're furniture shopping!
You have to really talk about this now?
I know, love, but it's important.
You still have this debt looming over you
and this credit card interest that's accumulating every month.
Pattiya's relationship with money is reckless.
She would have these big spending sprees
in Vegas where she'd drop $5,000 to $10,000.
She'd walk into these clothing stores,
and the shop assistants would just absolutely love her,
throwing clothes at her.
She'd buy one of every color.
If she's got money, she's gonna spend it, all of it.
And once we get married,
our finances are gonna be intertwined,
so it's a -- it's a big issue.
I want you to be 100% honest with me.
How much debt?
What's the actual number?
20.
20.
So like, how -- how many credit cards in total
have you maxed out? -[Pattiya] Five.
All of them.
[Dylan] Why is there five credit cards maxed out?
How does that happen?
I had no debt when we went to Thailand,
and then when I came back, I accumulated the debt again
because I had to start all over.
OK.
This is your fault, I had no debt
when I moved to Thailand with you.
When I met Dylan, I was in a lot of debt,
but I worked really hard myself and was able to pay it off.
But then we moved to Thailand, and we broke up
11 months later.
I had to move back to the United States
and start from scratch.
I hadn't been working in Thailand.
I had zero savings.
I felt like I was at the lowest of my lowest.
So I have a lot of resentment
regarding my financial situation,
because I sacrificed a lot for Dylan.
I understand that some of it was possibly my fault,
but that was four years ago,
and you've been dancing for the last four years,
making pretty good money.
It just seems like the same problem just keeps occurring.
Are your spending habits going to change?
Yes, I'm not the same. I've learned from my mistakes.
That's why I'm asking you to sell that house to help me
with this debt.
I'm scared that if I do sell one of my properties,
that there's gonna be something else
and something else and something else.
I own a couple of properties in Launceston
and they generate some income.
But I don't think selling one of those properties
to pay off her debt is the right financial choice,
because it just feels like she's not taking any accountability
for her spending habits.
And it's rubbish that she's in debt
just because she moved to Thailand.
She's been spending this way her whole life.
When I first met Pattiya, I thought she was,
you know, rich or something.
I thought, you know, she's a stripper,
she's got heaps of money.
But then I found out she was 60K in debt.
And I mean, I love Pattiya and I want to be with her,
but I don't wanna have to be always cleaning up her mess.
You keep asking me for a ring.
The main reason you haven't got that ring
and I haven't proposed yet
is because of the spending issues
that you've had.
My fear is that this spending thing is never gonna stop.
[Caroline] I'm hoping there's gonna be lots and lots
of little babies and children.
[Greta] I didn't plan on opening up to Matthew's family,
but it all just kind of came out.
I've been having, like, a lot of anxiety about
having children lately.
Me and Madelein got into it a couple times.
She called off the wedding.
You're completely just manipulated
and controlled all the time.
Wake the [bleep] up!
You don't have to go through with this.
[solemn music playing]
[Greta] Hi!
[Caroline] Greta!
-Hiya! -It's been so long!
Since I've arrived in England, things have been up and down.
It feels like Matthew and I are on different pages
about everything, like money and where we're gonna live
and the future. It's been a bumpy start.
-What type of tea is this? -English breakfast.
OK, I don't know why I asked that, that was, like...
The only tea that we have actually.
Right?
Matthew is working today.
So Matthew's mother has invited me to tea with her,
Matthew's grandma, and also Matthew's brother's fiancée.
I don't think we're meant to say normal, are we?
Oh, it's OK, I'm used to it.
[Caroline] These are vegan.
We're not saying you're abnormal.
It's OK, I -- I realize I probably am.
So this is the vegan plate here.
-[Greta] That's the vegan, that's... -Oh, my goodness!
[Greta] Matthew and I did English afternoon tea once before.
I just loved it!
I felt very posh, as English would say it.
You drink tea together and you normally have a tray
of little sandwiches and pastries
set in the middle of the table,
which is why in those old English TV shows,
when people are trying to speak to each other and they have to,
like, look over the little rack of food.
-[Caroline] This is vegan cheese? -[Greta] Yeah, vegan cheese.
I think I'm gonna have ham.
Sorry, Greta, are you alright with me eating this?
[Greta] Yeah, I figured, no worries.
[Caroline] Greta, I just want you to know how welcome you are
in our family and how much it means to have you with us.
If you stay in our house for three weeks or three months,
or even perhaps not quite three.
Three years would be far too long.
-Especially in such a small house. -Yeah.
Yeah, but you know you are most welcome, and, um...
-Thank you so much, thank you. -[Caroline] I just want you to know that.
I've said to Matthew, I think you're his soulmate.
[all] Aw.
You were pulled together from across the world.
It was meant to happen, wasn't it?
-It was fate. -Sorry, that's, like, so sweet.
Yeah, I mean, it really, like, it really means the world
to be so accepted in the family.
-Like, I -- like, don't know what that's like, really. -[Caroline] Yeah.
We have -- the last two years,
we've had some wonderful Christmases,
haven't we, together. -[both] Yeah.
Yeah, they really have.
And I know you said that that's not what you have done
in the past with your family.
Yeah, and, like, holidays are especially really challenging,
because I -- my mother and my sister and I,
we made homemade ornaments for the tree.
And the first time we were decorating the tree
after she had passed,
my father was in a new relationship,
and I was, like, so excited to hang up the ornaments
on the tree.
And this -- this person that my father was in a --
in a relationship basically said, like,
the ornaments were really ugly and that she didn't want them
hanging on the tree. -She wasn't very nice... so she was very --
-Yeah, and so, like, one of my first, um... -Oh, but that sounds so sad.
...memories was, like, me, like, trying to hide
some of the ornaments in the -- in the tree... -Oh, no!
...and so, like, we could still -- yeah. -[Caroline] Oh, you shouldn't
have to hide them. -[Josie] Have you still got them?
No, 'cause she, uh, she, um, she threw them out.
-[Caroline] Oh, my God, that's awful, that's dreadful. -Yeah, so, yeah, I...
Oh, Greta, oh, Greta, I want to hug you.
I'm sorry, I've got to hug you.
Let me hug you, I can't bear that.
I tell you what, we've got lots of family traditions,
and we will have some Christmas family traditions,
and you can be part of those traditions.
-And your babies. -Yeah.
[Caroline] Yes, we'll hang ornaments.
-Yeah. -[Caroline] We'll make them.
In fact, we've got lots of Christmas ornaments
and we will buy some new ones. -[Denise] You buy new ones every year.
And you can make some ornaments.
Yeah.
-We will start -- -You'll be able to do that with your children.
Yes, you will.
I'm hoping there's gonna be lots and lots
of little babies and children.
Oh, my God.
Excellent.
Yeah, I mean, I think, like, when we first met,
uh, we both wanted children, like, a lot.
But I've been having, like, a lot of anxiety
about having children lately.
And I can't tell if it's, like, a phase or not.
Like, if I'll want them more later, like, if we have a house
together and I can, like, feel it more.
I mean, I know he wants children, and I think he should
have children. Like, I...
And I, like, I think he -- he's the type of person who would be
a -- a really amazing dad, and I -- I don't wanna
take that from him.
It's hard as well because your upbringing in your childhood
and, um, not having your mother to see as a role model... -[Denise] Such a young age.
...that means being a mother yourself must be quite
a big thing.
Yeah.
I loved having babies myself, and I've always looked forward
to the day when perhaps they would go on
and have children of their own, so I would be disappointed
if I didn't have any grandchildren,
but it's quite a big decision
whether you're gonna have children or not.
It is the sort of thing that could break up a relationship
if one desperately wants children and one doesn't.
Relationships, if they last the long haul,
they don't go easy.
There's tricky times and you have to get
through them together.
[Greta] I didn't plan on opening up to Matthew's family,
but it all just kind of came out.
I didn't wanna ruin this perfect image
they had of the future.
But they're so excited for me to be here,
and they love me so much, and they've been so accepting.
I don't want to get their hopes up
about something that may never happen.
Matthew, he loves you dearly and he wants the best for you,
so you'll have to navigate that decision together
and hopefully, um, you know, reach a compromise.
The last time Matthew and I talked about kids
was almost six months ago.
And Matthew and I talked about it
and agreed that we would want kids together.
But when I've really started to picture it recently,
like house, marriage, kids, I feel really conflicted.
I feel nervous that I'm going to now have to break this news
to Matthew, because it could really determine the course
of our relationship.
I accumulated this debt because of you.
Every time there's a problem, it's like it's my fault.
It's almost like he wants to see me suffer through the debt.
Like, "Let's watch you squirm." He needs to move past this
because if he doesn't propose, I'm done!
[upbeat music playing]
[Luke] What's up, man? How you doing?
-Good. -[Luke] Start without me?
Let me grab a -- let me grab a beer, I'll be right back.
Brian is one of my closest friends.
We met in Colombia.
He was married to one of Madelein's friends.
But Madelein and Brian hate each other.
Madelein started a rumor that I was unfaithful to my ex-wife.
Just to get back at me telling Luke what happens
when he's not there.
It's Madelein's world, and we're just living in it.
Like, she says, "Jump," and Luke says,
"How high?"
She says, "Bark," and Luke barks.
-[Luke] Here you go, man. -[Brian] Thank you.
Cheers, [speaking Spanish].
Madelein does not want me to see Brian, but to be honest,
I think that we should be able to talk,
and I could use it just about now.
-How you been, man? -Good.
How's it going? So you've been here
for a couple days now, right? -Yeah, it's been dramatic, man.
Me and Madelein got into it a couple times.
She called off the wedding.
I mean, it's been stressful, man, you know,
but trying to work through it.
-Yeah. -It sounds real healthy, Luke.
Sounds like you're really making progress.
Yeah, I mean, I -- you have a point, dude.
I feel like you have, like, Stockholm syndrome.
-You know, the... -What's -- what's that?
[Brian] When someone, like, kidnaps somebody
and takes them hostage,
then the hostage starts to fall in love
with the captive?
[Luke] We've been through a lot, you know?
I mean, maybe there's a little bit of a trauma bond there.
Like, I've kind of been at, like, my -- my lowest low
in life, you know?
Like, financially unstable.
Yeah, but you've been saying this since the moment
you met her, so you're --
everything you're telling me, nothing's changed.
It's bad, bro.
And you're completely just manipulated and controlled
all the time.
What is it about her?
Like, why do you wanna be with her?
Sell her to me, please.
[Luke] Really, like, me seeing you and -- and your life,
I wanted to move here.
I wanted to be in a different country
as an entrepreneur,
living the life.
I just wanted to live the dream and not have to work how I did
in the United States. -Sell me her.
Not the dream, sell me her.
I -- I think, ultimately, I'm a little bit scared
of being alone. And she has been there.
Is she there for you?
Because last time I talked, you're like,
"Oh, sometimes she ignores me for days."
That's someone that's there for you?
I'm telling you to sell me her.
You haven't said one nice thing about her.
And you're [bleep] getting married.
Like, what about this sounds like a good idea?
You don't have to go through with this.
Did I wanna be going through this stuff, like,
weeks before my marriage? No.
You know, am I happy right now?
No, I feel like I'm walking on eggshells.
But the way she makes me feel when I'm with her makes me
forget a lot of the stress, a lot of the things
that I'm going through.
I see my future and I -- I wanna be happy.
I wanna be happy with her. I -- I just, I want it so bad.
It's just, I -- I felt like I haven't been myself
in a really long time
because really, like, I -- I can't hit home
on the financial stress that I'm going through.
So where is the root of your financial problems?
How much money did you spend on Madelein in a year?
A lot.
[Brian] Any woman will love you
if you send your whole paycheck to them.
That doesn't mean it's true love.
A real woman knowing that you're in financial ruin
won't push the limits of what you can
or cannot give her.
It's hard to be your friend
when you keep making the same mistakes with the same girl.
Wake the [bleep] up!
[Luke] Brian is saying some pretty nasty [bleep],
but there's some truth in that.
I -- I've boughten her cars, I've boughten her --
her beauty studio, I pay her rent,
I pay her food, I pay everything.
It's been horrible since I've moved here,
and it's not how I want my future to be.
It's not the relationship that I had envisioned.
I don't know. I don't know what to do.
[Dylan] You keep asking me for a ring,
but my fear is that this spending thing
is never gonna stop.
I haven't seen the changes.
I need to see those changes before we commit
and get married.
It's -- it's an addiction that you have.
It's a chronic addiction, and, uh, it's --
it's detrimental, love.
It's gotta stop. And it's serious.
You brought me to tears with it,
'cause it's like, "When is this woman
going to stop spending?"
There's been many months where you have not had
the money for rent, and I've had to pay it for you.
-Many, many months. -What are you talking about?
That's because you put me in that place.
You've got a very deluded view of what has and hasn't happened.
I didn't know, like, deep down, how you really felt
about my spending issue.
In the past, every time I expressed it,
you'd get really upset and mad
and just told me to stay out of your business,
and it would just start a fight, and so I just kind of gave up.
You're right.
But I accumulated this debt because of you.
[Dylan] The debt that you had when you met me,
whose fault was that?
When I met Dylan, I just moved to Vegas.
And I was in a lot of debt.
As performers, strippers, we had to look the part.
And it's expensive. We had to tan.
We had to do the nails, the hair.
You have to spend to make it.
But I did not spend like I used to.
Babe, I've learned from my mistakes,
but this debt, I swear,
honestly, I -- I feel like it's your fault.
You know it's your fault.
Every time there's a problem, it's like, it's my fault.
It just seems it's just easiest to blame stuff on me
and then just keep spending.
[Pattiya] It makes me mad!
This last debt was because of him.
If it bothers you, help me, help me pay it!
It's almost like he wants to see me suffer through the debt.
Like, "Let's watch you squirm
and see what you can do," you know?
I'm not that same girl anymore.
I've gotten better.
Now that we're together, it's gonna be your money,
and I'm not gonna be doing that.
I don't know what more I can do or say to say,
"Look, I'm not that high-maintenance girl
like I was back in the days."
He needs to move past this, because if he doesn't propose,
I'm done. I'm moving on.
[speaking Hindi]
[singing in Hindi]
[Sumit] Here we go.
[all speaking Hindi]
Patties and French fries.
That was -- that was so bad.
[Sumit] OK, there we are.
-[Anil] Yeah. -We have water over here?
[Jenny] Yeah, big jug.
[Sumit speaking]
I feel like I need to take a coffee-making class.
I'm here. I'll teach you.
That's not an issue.
OK, so to make Americano, single cup.
Single sosh -- shot. This is for double shots.
-Double shot. -[Shree] Press it.
-[Jenny] Your espresso will come out... -[Shree] Espresso is ready.
Then put the water here, and your Americano is ready.
[Jenny] I was really excited to get this coffee machine,
and now I'm looking at it like, "What the hell?"
Temper this and steam that. I'm in way over my head here.
I'm lost.
-[Shree] Shall I help you? -[Jenny] Yeah.
[Shree] Yeah, you have to be really very fast.
-Simple. -OK.
I mean, what the hell did I get into?
My fingers are crossed everything works out.
We'll see.
I already forget what to do.
[singing in Hindi]
Before the main ceremony begins,
the priests come into, uh,
every individual café and bless every shop.
-Did you say "cow urine"? -Yeah, you -- you heard it right.
[Jenny] Throwing cow urine around while you're cooking?
We would never do something like that in America.
You use holy water, we use cow urine.
[all speaking Hindi]
[Sumit] Now our café is blessed.
[Shree speaking]
End of the day, I'm very proud of the work we did.
Like, it's -- it's really good. We served a lot of people.
Hundreds of plates went out of the kitchen.
It really makes it feel good that we can do it.
[Jenny] You guys, you know, all I saw was food going out the door
and no money coming in.
I know how important this was, but we made no money.
When they said we were gonna be handing out samples,
I thought it was gonna be small, but they're handing out
whole plates of food, and there's gotta be at least
100 people here.
So at this point, we might as well
just be throwing money out.
[Sumit] So there's a lot of people.
So I thought this is our chance.
We are letting people know that, look,
what we are having over here,
which you won't find in the neighborhood.
[Shree] See, we are new today.
And they are running business for months now.
So how will people recognize Family Café?
Yes, don't worry.
It will be all fine.
[Jenny] Are these people delusional?
Am I the only one realizing we didn't make any money today,
on top of all the food we had to throw away yesterday?
Like, what the hell?
Now I'm worried it's gonna take us longer
to start making any money,
and we might be stuck living with the family forever.
I've been having a lot of anxiety lately
because I've been thinking about something.
Um...
[Matthew speaking]
[Greta] I don't think I've ever picked apples before.
-[Matthew] Really? -[Greta] No.
It's Greta's third day here,
and things still feel unsettled.
-I hear some snorts. -[gasps] Oh, my God!
-Piggy! -[Matthew chuckles] Aw, aw.
Aw, hey, honey.
Look at their ears, they're just like...
Hi! How are you?
Do you have a name? It's OK.
If you don't wanna come to us, you don't have to.
We just wanna say hello.
I think we should go pick some apples for them, honey,
so they trust us more. -Yep, let's go get some apples.
Do apples grow in Oklahoma?
Um, I'm sure they do, but it's not really
a thing in Oklahoma.
I'm gonna get some of the apples down here
on this low branch. -[Matthew] Yeah, they look good.
Oh, God.
[Matthew] You know, who'd have thought that three years after we met
on a vegan dating app,
we would go on this journey together
and share these experiences?
Yeah, I'm really grateful that you love animals as well,
because I've felt like I've always struggled finding
a partner who feels the same way that I do about animals.
So thank you for allowing me to have that space.
I feel exactly the same.
I thought I'd have to go my whole life
being in relationships with people
or probably getting married to someone that I just accepted
wasn't a vegan or doesn't love animals
to the same extent as me.
And it surprised me when I was able to find you.
And maybe what I'm trying to say is thank you for being
in my life. -[Greta] Aw.
[Matthew] Greta moved to a new country.
She's left her cat behind, her friends behind,
to be with me.
And although it hasn't been perfect,
I just wanna reassure her that she's my person
and I'm looking forward to a life with her.
That's very sweet.
And I mean, you helped me be unapologetically myself,
but I've been having a lot of anxiety lately because, um...
I've been thinking about something...
like really struggling with it.
And I didn't talk to you about it because I wanted to know
if I was going through a phase or not.
But where my head's at now, um...
I feel so unsure if I do want kids anymore.
That's a bombshell!
Yeah.
I am, like, really struggling because I think you were meant
to be a dad and I think, like, you would be
an amazing dad.
I absolutely want kids, and I want those kids
with you 'cause you are the one for me.
Do you think maybe the reason why you feel like you don't want
kids is because
you had a difficult childhood?
No, I think my childhood would -- would actually be
one of the reasons why I would --
I would want kids, because I would be able
to build a family life that I've always dreamed of
but never got to experience.
[Matthew] This is a complete shock to me.
Me and Greta have spoken together about kids dozens,
if not hundreds of times.
We've even named what all of our kids would be called.
The hobbies they would have, the way we would raise them,
all the way down to the kinds of schools
we want them to go to.
I don't know where this has come from.
[Greta] I was really sure about having kids,
and then I started to really think about
what having a child would mean and, like,
what my life would look like if I had a kid.
And I think having a kid would --
and a family life would be a major deterrent to being
the type of advocate that I've always wanted to be.
I don't think you should see it purely from your impact.
I think you should see how much of an impact
they could have as well.
Your ability to raise people in the image that you always
wanted to be raised in as a child,
I think it's such opportunity for you,
and if you don't have the time to be a mother,
I will be 200% of the father.
Still to come on 90 Day Fiancé , The Other Way .
[upbeat music playing]
This is the happiest I've seen you since we got here.
I have a surprise for you.
[squeals excitedly]
I love you.
I feel like our life is really starting here.
It's giving me anxiety.
There's no food deliveries, no taxi, nothing.
We are finally moving to our home sweet home.
It's in the ass[bleep] of France.
I've got one, Pattiya.
Dylan's mom is the reason why we are not married today.
I feel like you're a needy mother, Jo.
I'm not going to be classed as needy.
Every [bleep] day you have to talk to your mom.
It's [bleep] ridiculous.
Ah, [bleep]
[pounding]
At the beginning, I felt like he was Mr. Darcy
and I was Elizabeth...
Honey, I'm home.
...and that's not how I'm feeling right now.
[sniffles]
I already told your parents we're moving out.
We are depending on them right now.
We cannot move out of there.
If you don't want to go with me,
I guess I'll have to move out by myself.
You can be marrying my son, but...
Is this really what you want?
[speaking Spanish]
[speaking English]
Oh, God.
I feel like I was in a relationship
with a total different person.
Chloe.
Those are not [bleep] mine!
[suspensful music climbs]
[music fades]
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