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[Manon] Previously on "90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way."

Today, I am finally going to Tasmania to see my honey.

My biggest concern about going to Australia is his mom being

so darn close to us.

I think it's about time that he gets off his mom's nipple.

[laughing]

Oh, my God.

[giggling]

I feel like I can start living life now, so.

-Ring. -It's coming.

Please make yourself comfortable.

[Greta] OK.

In Oklahoma, I get weekly massages.

I couldn't afford the life that you want.

I don't want you to make choices because you feel like

that's what I want in the future.

You don't necessarily appreciate how much I give to this.

I have an idea for a business here.

Are you, like, for real?

[Anthony] Manon will always be hustling.

I know what that leads to --

us divorcing.

[tense music playing]

[Kerriana] Do you see him?

[Chloe] Jonathan asked me to stop his location sharing,

but my eyesight doesn't need to stop tracking him.

What if something happens and I just gave everything up?

[upbeat music playing]

[lyrics in French]

[speaking French]

I started learning French when me and Manon began dating.

She always says I mispronounce everything,

so Manon's taking every opportunity she can

to test my French.

[speaking French]

Yeah.

Right?

[speaking French]

[Manon] Everything's gonna be quatre now?

[Anthony] All right.

[speaking French]

-For sure. -Oh, my.

[Manon] You're too much.

[Anthony] I say we, uh...

[speaking French]

What do you want, Ben?

You want to play? You want to drink?

You want to eat?

[Anthony] Go play, dude.

[speaking French]

No. "Jouir" it's...something else.

-[Anthony] It's play. -No.

"Jouir" it's having an orgasm.

[laughs]

-"Jouer" it's play. -[Anthony] That's what I said.

No, you said, "Jouir."

[Manon] You don't wanna say that, no.

[Anthony] So the baptism's tomorrow...

Yeah, I know. I'm scared and I'm excited.

This weekend, Benjamin is going to be baptized,

and I invited my whole family to the baptism,

just to be polite.

And honestly, I'm pretty shocked

because everyone said they are going to be there.

You know, people that I haven't seen in a long time.

Some people have beef with each other,

like, in every each family, you know.

But once you said to me, and actually I remember,

I took it really at heart,

you said, like, "You know what?

If you go to France, it may be also a good opportunity

for you to make amends or bury the hatchet with everyone,

and you are going to be seen like the first and the only one

who actually initiate something positive."

We only see each other during, like, funerals,

which is very sad.

No one is doing an initiative to actually meet up

and have a good time.

Yeah.

It's really turned into, like, this big thing

with all your family.

And to be honest, like, for me, it's a little weird.

-I'm not religious. -So?

I don't agree with that. It's uncomfortable for me.

[Anthony] I don't believe in Catholicism

and just the establishment of religion in general.

I feel like a lot of people hide behind it

when they do bad things.

I feel like a lot of it's greed, power.

I would say that, like, for the baptism,

I'm against it, you know?

I'm for doing it for Manon,

but as long as we're not practicing, I'm good.

I get it. I get it.

But we've done a lot of things your way

because it was your country, your family.

It's about my roots.

We are French.

We are Christian-Catholic.

The entire family is. I am.

And this is just one thing that I want.

I am doing this for you.

And I'm there for you.

And I love it, and I see it.

Thank you.

My family and my extended family really stresses me out.

They always peek at me, and they always like to --

Anthony said, being the "black sheep" of the family.

So I'm worried that a lot of uncomfortable moments

are gonna happen,

and the fire in me is gonna have to...

be put down.

Yeah, it's stressful.

♪ Ah ♪

[lyrics in foreign language]

I invited Kerriana to come tonight.

Yeah, she's a very, very sweet girl.

[Johny speaking]

[Chloe] Yeah, I'm excited to go out tonight.

-Yeah? -It should be fun.

I hope.

Johny's version of going out and my version actually

couldn't be more different.

I feel like I need to relax.

Johny doesn't even drink. And I myself...

I don't want to say I'm an avid drinker,

but I mean, I'm not going out sober.

-Man, you really don't like him. -No.

I don't like it that you don't like Keyner so much.

[Chloe speaking]

Keyner's a longtime best friend of Jonathan,

and they work together.

Before I got serious with Jonathan,

I was already made well aware

of Keyner and Jonathan's nights out.

They went out together after work,

and were partying it up and taking random people home.

They are definitely partners in crime,

to say the literal least.

OK, remember he's my friend too, so, you know.

[bleep]

My elbow is, like, itchy.

I think there's, like, a mosquito problem here.

There it is.

-[Johny] Nice spot, huh? -[Chloe] It is nice.

So I actually saw Kerriana today.

We actually went and spied on you.

You spying on me just makes me feel like there's no trust

in this relationship.

But I feel like one day, like, asking me,

it's OK, let's not share a location to the next day,

I feel like I need more time than just...

a day or two to feel better.

But the thing is, like, what I don't like is that

you from the distance thinks that I go with, like,

a young girl on my back and flip,

but, like, it's not like that.

-No, I can see. -No, you can't.

You cannot tell me what I can and cannot see.

I am there. I see it.

You don't see it. It's from too far.

It makes me feel better.

I would really, really like her to trust me enough

where she wouldn't have to worry

about where I am and what I'm doing.

The things that worry me a lot is that

she'll never get over it.

Hi, guys!

[both] Hey.

Hey, Kerriana. How are you?

Good. How are you?

Good, come to me because I don't want to stand up.

OK.

-Hi! -How are you?

You got your drink ready, all ready?

I did. I already got a drink.

She couldn't be sober around us, so.

Kerriana, I heard you went spying on me with Chloe today.

I did.

You're viewing it as malicious.

We're viewing it as...

helpful. -[Kerriana] Helpful and fun.

I view it as that you don't trust me.

If it's making you feel better, just let it be.

If your boyfriend was working, would you go spy on him too?

-She does spy on her boyfriend. -Probably.

Probably, yeah.

Why are you women crazy like that?

-Because you make us crazy. -You guys make us crazy.

-[Keyner] Hey, man! -[Johny] My man!

Finally some backup, man.

Finally, man.

Sorry that I'm a little late.

-Oh, man. -Hi, Chloe.

-Hey, Keyner. -How are you?

-Good. -Nice to see you.

-Welcome back. -Hi.

Thanks. So happy to be here.

I'm perfectly OK with Jonathan and Keyner having a friendship.

But once I found out that he had cheated,

it kind of opened that door for me to view him differently

because Keyner...

he's the one to create the perfect space

to enable Johny's bad behavior.

-I am? -Yeah, a little bit.

-You are. -Yeah, right? Yeah.

I no longer dislike you. Thank you.

[laughing]

She went spying on me at work today.

I saw you. Yeah.

-You didn't tell me? -Keyner, you did not see me.

I didn't see her.

-You didn't see her? -I didn't see her.

Well, she was over there. I saw her.

[Chloe] Were you guys together?

No, it's not that I said, "He's with Keyner, he's fine."

I said, "Oh, [bleep]!

He's with Keyner -- nothing's fine."

Why?

-What do you mean? -[Johny] Oh, man...

You better be nice.

I don't -- I don't wanna have a problem with you.

You better not.

No, Keyner, you better not.

-You better not. -We both better not, yeah.

Yeah, no, we better not.

Don't try to start a fight right here,

please, right now.

If you've seen me fight, this isn't me fighting.

This is me conversating.

That's how you talk to people?

Yes, don't be intimidated by me.

No, I stand on business.

You have to stand on business with people

or they walk over you.

You should see me when I'm actually getting mad.

[Keyner talking]

[laughing]

My trust issues come from your actions,

but you work with him and you go out with him.

So what am I not going to like?

Him.

So you're telling me right now that you don't like me?

-I'm not exactly a fan, no. -OK.

-I have such an issue with him going out with you. -Exactly.

Then he's not going to go out with you anymore.

That's something that you have to do with him.

I want to go out with my friend, OK?

You can't control me like that.

You can't do that kind of thing.

Respect me. Respect what I [bleep] say.

I do respect what you say.

Clearly not, because I'm saying

I don't like to [bleep] go out with him.

Oh, my God. This is getting crazy.

-Chloe, come on. -No, it's not come on.

It's a serious thing.

Like, Chloe, I'm not defending him, OK?

I'm just trying to tell you --

Well, you're not defending me either,

so you can't play [bleep] Switzerland.

Would you be OK with me cooking my way a little bit?

Dylan, he's a very controlled type of person.

I don't like to be told what to do.

I would just love to, like, tell you what I'd like

and then you cook it.

-Is it this whole house? -Yes.

[Matthew] Looks lovely.

[Greta] When I picture Matthew and I

getting our first place together,

I did not envision this three-bedroom house.

Two little twin beds here.

Twins is on the agenda then.

♪ One little spark is all it will take ♪

♪ To set this whole world on fire ♪

♪ I'm finally fine ♪

-Welcome to Australia. -Australia!

[Pattiya] It's really pretty.

I'm glad you like it.

No, really, it's so pretty. It's so nature.

[Dylan] Aw!

♪ Nothing can hold me ♪

♪ [indistinct lyrics] ♪

-All right. -Is that it?

Yeah, that's it, babe.

Oh, it's totally different from what I expected.

Seriously.

I'm very much excited to show Pattiya our home

for the first time here in Tasmania.

I own a couple of properties here,

and I rent them out for income.

And I recently renovated this one

for Pattiya and I to live in.

[Dylan] That's coming out. That's coming out.

I know it's not a ring, but it's a house.

That's got to count for something, right?

[Pattiya] Oh, my gosh, babe, it's super cute.

You did good with the decorating and the plants.

Oh, and you have our pictures up.

This is when we first met.

-I love it. -You like that?

So you're ready for the rest of the house tour?

-Yes. -All right.

This is obviously the lounge room.

We need to buy a couch.

-OK. -We can go shopping.

And we can pick out something that you like.

I love that word, the sound.

-Shopping. -Yep.

It's been years since Pattiya and I lived together full time,

so there's going to be a little bit of an adjustment period.

We're polar opposites.

I like to keep things simple, but Pattiya prefers

a more luxurious lifestyle.

[Dylan] So this is the master.

[Pattiya] It gets a lot of sunlight in here.

It's nice, huh?

OK, you did good with the bed in here.

Do you like the bedding or not really?

I do, I like the bedding. I like the curtains.

Yeah?

I'm very sort of structured.

I like to get all the laundry done,

everything folded.

And this is my closet, I take it?

That and this is your closet. And there you get that.

And that's your closet there, too.

That's a good size. Oh, and up here for my purses.

And her laundry basket is overflowing.

So it makes for an interesting dynamic.

[Pattiya] Something smells good.

[Dylan] You're cute with your mask on.

[Pattiya] Oh, my God. Sorry.

You know, when I travel, I have to put the mask on.

Is that the secret to your fountain of youth?

One. I have many.

Oh, the salmon looks so fresh.

Well, this is fresh Tasmanian salmon.

And then you're going to be having 50 grams of asparagus,

and you're going to be having 150 grams of brown rice.

So that's going to be 379 calories.

[Dylan] I like to be very strict with my diet.

During the day, I will have 100 grams of kangaroo,

and then 150 grams of brown rice,

and then maybe a little bit of broccoli or green beans.

And I repeat that meal about five times throughout the day,

every two or three hours.

You season it?

Well, you know how I like to cook.

You're going to have to learn to cook with seasonings for me

now that I'm here.

Yes, well, let's spice things up a bit.

-You want to make it hot? -[Pattiya] Hot chili flakes.

Oh, and chipotle seasoning. I like that.

You really are going nowhere, aren't you?

Thank you. I want it on my salmon, too.

Are you going to season my salmon?

Yes.

The difference between me and Dylan and how we eat

is like night and day.

Like, he will literally boil his chicken

to get the fat out.

I'm like, "There's no fat in chicken breast."

Me and Dylan argue a lot about food.

I don't know if it's going to ever stop, really.

And we'll probably be arguing to our graves.

I'm so happy that you cooked for me,

but I want to do some of the cooking too.

I know how you're strict with your diet,

but would you be OK with me cooking my way a little bit?

Yes, you can cook your way, but I need 30 grams of protein,

100 grams of carbohydrates,

and some micronutrients in every meal.

Why do you always make it like a science project?

Sometimes the way that you eat,

it's lots of sugar, lots of oil.

It is a fun cheat meal for me.

Cheat meal? My cooking's not that bad.

And you're calling it a cheat meal?

No, it's just like all those sauces that you use.

No, I don't.

And then all the oil that you use.

I don't use that much oil.

You don't even measure when you put the oil in.

You just throw it in.

You don't even put the measuring cup.

No, but I eye it. I know.

-Well, there's no eyeing here. -Babe, I know.

-We're precision. -I've been cooking a long time.

I know just by eyeing it.

I know you know how to cook, but I'm just saying,

if I'm trying to keep my physique in shape,

I can't just be eating whatever.

You act like you're doing a modeling shoot every day.

You have to lighten up and enjoy.

But what if that's how I like to live?

[Pattiya] Ugh, gosh.

Dylan, he's a very controlled type of person.

He likes things specific ways.

I'm very independent.

I don't like to be told what to do.

And he does that to me.

We haven't been together in years.

And Dylan, he needs to compromise with me

or it's just going to be really hard

for me and Dylan to succeed.

I'd just love to, like, tell you what I'd like,

and then you cook it.

[upbeat music playing]

♪ 'Cause I will love you more ♪

♪ And I will listen for the sound of... ♪

-Look! Sheep! -Bah!

[Greta] Are you excited to look at houses?

Yeah, very excited.

I know Greta is keen to move out of my parents' place,

so I've arranged for us to see a rental property today.

[Matthew] The estate agents picked out some things.

I've asked for character, decent size.

I mean, is it going to be in an urban area?

It's probably not as urban as you were hoping for,

but we can make it work.

One of the reasons I left Oklahoma was because

I really wanted to live in a walkable city

with public transportation.

I like to be able to walk to a coffee shop

and walk to the store.

I do that in Oklahoma sometimes,

and people think I'm weird.

[Matthew] There's some really nice houses around here.

I wonder what the average age of the people

who live here, though, are.

Matthew's lived in cities before,

but he also loves the countryside.

So, I'm hoping we can find a compromise.

All right, here we are.

This looks really nice, actually.

There's our estate agent.

Very good, thank you.

That's a good spot. You've got a nice courtyard.

Nice and quiet.

[Greta] Very cute, yeah.

Let's go inside and take a look around, shall we?

-[Greta] OK. -[Matthew] Absolutely.

Is it this whole house?

-Yes, it is, yeah. -Oh, wow, that's huge.

[Matthew] Looks lovely.

-So, come on through. -[Greta] Wow.

-Nice entrance hallway. -Uh-huh.

-This is like a legit house. -This is good.

[Nigel] Yeah, very nice and spacious.

So, take it through to the sitting room.

The sitting room? Is that a living room?

Same as a living room. You may call it that.

So, dual aspects.

You've got nice light flowing through here.

View out to the front.

So, right across the hallway, you've got the kitchen.

Oh, look how cute the oven is. It's so small.

[Matthew] Yeah, nice little English oven.

How do you even cook anything in here?

It's so small.

-Yeah, this is an average oven. -That's it.

[Matthew] It's only the first place we're seeing,

but I could picture us living here.

This is good. This is a nice functional area.

This house could be a really good stepping-stone for us.

[Nigel] So, then we're into the principal bedroom.

You can even maybe put in a desk as well in this room.

-[Nigel] Definitely. -Have an office space.

Yeah.

When I picture Matthew and I getting

our first place together,

I picture us in a tiny flat cooking vegan meals

in our kitchen and cuddling up on the couch with our cat.

I did not envision this three-bedroom house

meant for a family with multiple kids.

Let's show you the bathroom now.

OK.

[Greta] If he's so concerned about our finances,

why would he want to pay for space

we don't even need?

Let's show you the other bedroom.

So, this traditionally would be the second bedroom,

so you've got space for a double bed.

I think it would make an excellent kids' bedroom as well.

It would, definitely.

Two little twin beds here. What do you think, Greta?

I mean, yeah.

[laughing]

Twins is on the agenda.

OK, let's take it through, then.

Matthew pointing out that the second bedroom could be

for our two kids...

-Bye, thank you. -See you.

...definitely put a rock in my stomach because...

I've become really unsure if I want kids.

But I haven't told him yet.

Sharp road.

So...

the real estate guy was nice, wasn't he?

[Greta talking]

But, like, I don't think I'm ready to settle down

in a neighborhood village yet.

I would just feel really isolated here.

It's just, like...

it doesn't make any sense for a house to, what?

Fill out for no reason right now.

You know what I mean? Like, it's just --

it doesn't make any sense to me.

I am...

feeling really overwhelmed.

My wants and needs were kind of mowed over.

Matthew seems pretty certain about our future,

but I just don't think I'm in a place

to be moving into a house

in the middle of nowhere, with a set of twins.

So no...[indistinct]

[speaking French]

[Anthony] She's already a little tipsy.

I'm going to get out of here before it gets ugly.

[church organ playing]

[speaking French]

Benjamin's baptism is happening today.

My relationship with my sister Marie has been a little bit

complicated, especially since I moved to the US.

She always kind of left a little bit

of a distance between us.

So that's why I decided to make up the godmother

to help us reconnect.

[speaking French]

[upbeat music playing]

-[indistinct chatter] -[glass clinking]

[speaking French]

[Manon] I haven't seen most of these people for 10 plus years.

I'm kind of proud of what I've done

and just enjoying and having a good time.

That feels good.

Because everything is so good in France, though.

I know it's going to be very good.

Everything is so good, like my sausage thing I had.

You're American sausage.

No, I mean the sausage thing I got at the boulangerie.

I haven't had the chance to taste your own sausage

for like two months, you know that?

Taste?

-I haven't had -- -That's been like over a year.

No, I'm not talking about that.

-Yeah, the way you phrase it. -I'm talking about --

[Anthony] We're at the dinner table with your family.

Relax...

Mary's [indistinct].

She doesn't hear.

Who cares? It's just me and you.

[speaking french]

It is definitely an overwhelming day.

And all of these pessimistic, toxic, negative,

intrusive thoughts won't go away.

My parents, they never went to high school.

They've never moved abroad.

They don't realize how hard it is coming back to France.

I cannot stop remembering about my life in LA and what I left.

And I feel like a total failure.

Hey, so he's getting pretty unruly.

Yeah.

So I'm going to take him home to get him to sleep.

-You're OK with me staying here? -Yeah.

[speaking French]

I have no idea what's been going on, but Manon was crying.

She's already a little tipsy.

I know how stressed she gets and overwhelmed

when she's around her family.

Nothing good can come from it.

I'm going to get out of here before it gets ugly.

[speaking French]

That was a lot.

-[Jo] Hey. -Hi, how are you?

I'm good, and you? Oh, Pattiya.

[Dylan] My mom and Pattiya basically hate each other.

-You're here. -Yes.

Don't know how long until things are just going

to explode.

So when do you think you'll do furniture shopping?

Probably this week.

You might have to keep an eye on her, Dylan.

♪ Oh, oh, hey, hey ♪

♪ Oh, oh, hey, hey ♪

♪ Oh, oh, hey, hey ♪

♪ Oh, oh, oh, hey, hey ♪

[Dylan] Hey, babe, do you want a protein shake?

Sure.

Hey, what's a tuna for?

You going to put that in the protein shake?

No, I'm not.

I mean, I'm crazy, but I'm not that crazy.

[phone ringing]

-Oh. -Is that your phone?

Hello?

[Jo over the phone] Hi, it's me.

Hi, how are you, Mom?

[Jo over the phone] Yeah, not bad -- I'm in the area.

I thought I'd pop in and see you guys.

Oh, beautiful.

[Jo over the phone] Is that OK?

-I'm not intruding or anything? -No, that's great.

[Jo ovet the phone] All right, I'll be there shortly.

All right, can't wait to see you.

[Jo ovet the phone] OK, can't wait to see you too either.

Bye.

Hey. Why is she coming now?

I don't want to look like this.

Well, I looked at you and you said it was OK.

Babe, I haven't seen her in years --

I want to look appropriate.

The first time she saw you in Hawaii, her jaw hit the floor

and she's just like, "She's gorgeous."

Yeah, but I don't want her to see me like this.

She's gonna be about five minutes.

[Pattiya] All right.

I talk to my mom two, three times a week,

and I do confide in her.

She gives great advice, but Pattiya and my mom

don't really get along.

Pattiya thinks I have this abnormal relationship

with my mom, and my mom sees the animosity

that Pattiya has for her, and she's not a big fan.

So I'm hoping they can get off on the right foot

and not just start fighting immediately.

I can't believe she's already in her business already.

I just got here.

How long is she staying?

[Dylan] I don't know.

Probably just stopping by for five minutes.

-This is -- -[knocking]

Oh, God.

She's here.

-Hey. -Hi, how are you?

I'm good and you? Oh, Pattiya!

[Pattiya giggles]

I didn't know you were coming over.

Sorry, I look like this.

[Jo] That's OK.

I got you some flowers.

And I brought a vase because I didn't know if Dylan had one.

Oh, that's so sweet.

And there's some Australian biscuits for you.

Oh, my gosh. How are you?

So you're here. Welcome to Tassie.

Thank you so much.

-You look beautiful. -Thanks, you do too.

-You look great. -Thank you.

-You look healthy. -You're having your brekkie?

Yes, Dylan made me some breakfast.

So you've got the orchids going?

Yes, that's her favorite flower.

That's lovely. That's lovely.

[Jo] I actually haven't seen Pattiya in 11 years.

I've never had the problem with her.

I think that she's always had the problem with me,

because I feel that there's jealousy towards me

with my relationship with Dylan.

I just think it's a little bit off that she would want

to get in between our relationship

because, you know,

mother and son, you're bound for life.

So I really hope she's happy to share Dylan with me.

-You're here. -Yes, I'm here.

-I can't believe it -- -He can't believe it either.

-That's fabulous. -I know.

It was so good seeing him at the airport.

-Yeah. -[Jo] Yeah.

-Yeah. -[Dylan] Yeah, yeah.

-What do you want to sit, Jo? -Anyway, it's fine.

Yeah, that's fine. Thank you.

[Dylan] My mom and Pattiya basically hate each other.

And so far, everything's going great.

They're both playing a game of who could be the nicest.

Thank you so much for the beautiful roses.

-That's OK. -Oh, look at those.

Would you like to put some water in there, Dylan?

-Yes. -[Dylan] But I don't know

how long until things are just going to boil up

and they're just going to explode.

Yellow for friendship. I love it.

[Jo] Yeah.

So what do you think of the pad?

-Isn't it fab? -[Pattiya] It is.

But Dylan and I did talk about going furniture shopping

since there's only, like, a few items in here.

Yes, he needs a bit of a sofa or something.

Well, I was thinking, like, maybe a cream-colored

L-shaped section here. -Yeah.

And, you know, since there's not much of a dining space

in this area, I was thinking something like that,

but right over here.

You might have to keep an eye on her, Dylan.

[laughing]

Don't worry, both eyes on her.

-Now I've gotten better. -[Jo] Have you?

-Yes, I have. -Oh, good girl.

-Yes, yeah. -Good girl.

So I've settled with it.

-With the spending? -Yes.

I've only been here less than 24 hours, and she's already

like about my finances.

I'm like, the [bleep].

It's none of her business, and she shouldn't be putting in

her two cents.

Yeah, I don't want to put you on the spot right now,

but I just find it, sometimes I find it hard to believe.

OK, well, I'll just prove it to you.

-Yeah, prove it to me. -Yeah.

[Jo] All right, well, I'm going to have to go.

I really hope that we can all spend some time together.

That'd be great.

[Jo] Particularly you and I, Pattiya.

-Oh, OK, definitely. -Oh, you're dumping me off, eh?

[Jo] No, no one's getting dumped.

We're going to have a coming-together.

It makes me nervous and it makes me mad that she's already

automatically installed into our relationship.

Thank you for stopping by.

This is exactly what I was worried about.

[Jo] Bye.

[Pattiya] Dylan so needs to stop talking about our personal business

with his mom.

I'm so damn sick of it.

I'm glad she came by, but I still feel like

we still need to, you know, talk about some things.

Yeah.

I mean, obviously, you talked to your mom

about the spending habits...

Look, I had opened up to her.

...because she said something here.

Yes, I had opened up to my mom, and I had told her,

because before you came, you were down on your bills.

You were struggling with rent.

You were fighting to pay all the -- you couldn't make

your bills, you know?

Well, that's because I had all --

Then you went out and dropped a huge shopping spree,

and now you're saying that you've changed,

and that was, like, a week ago.

[Dylan] I wish my mom didn't bring up Pattiya's spending,

but Pattiya does have a spending problem,

and it's been going on for years.

I'm going to be financially supporting her now,

and if she wants to come here

and have the champagne lifestyle, unfortunately,

that's not going to work.

I've learned I don't need all the nice,

fancy things anymore.

[Dylan] Pattiya's been asking for a commitment

pretty much for 12 years.

I do love her, and I want things to work out,

but I'm not there yet.

I need to see some changes in you,

because it's very easy

to slip back into old habits, you know?

No, no, no, no, no, no. I've been there, done that.

I have changed.

You have to understand that letting you come here

to live with him and move with him and everything,

that's a big thing also. -It's not the same.

He doesn't have anything to lose.

I risk my entire future going out the [bleep] window.

He doesn't risk that.

[upbeat music playing]

[Chloe] If you guy want to go out alone, then fine,

but at least get me to a point where I'm like,

"OK, Keyner doesn't hate me. I don't hate Keyner.

I trust you."

I no longer have an issue with it.

But don't push it.

OK, but I'm trying to get there, Chloe.

I'm trying to get there.

Like, I'm bringing you to my house.

I'm showing you how I live. I'm giving you my schedule.

I'm giving you access to my cameras, my location,

just so you can see that you can trust me enough

where I can just go out peacefully with my friends.

You have to understand that he getting into a relationship

with you and letting you come here to live with him

and move with him and everything,

that's a big thing also. -It's not the same.

He doesn't have anything to lose.

Do you think that he needs somebody to live with him,

to be with somebody? -No, he doesn't need anything.

That's what I mean. He's showing you a lot.

But it's not the same as if he's risking the same.

It is kind of the same.

If you put a balance, it is kind of the same.

OK, pause. What is he risking?

Ready? Go ahead, I'll wait.

He doesn't need somebody to live with him

and to be like -- -That's not a risk.

That's a want.

It is a risk.

I risk my entire future going out the [bleep] window.

He doesn't risk that.

If anything, he has something to gain.

He has a partner. He has someone he can be with.

I left a business that my mom built from the ground-up.

That's all I've ever known.

And I'm coming here with no job now.

You're not gaining anything with me.

But I am.

But you're not losing as much as I'm losing.

I'm leaving everything I've ever known to come here

to pursue this relationship with Jonathan,

and not that I'm looking for a gold star,

but I just don't see him giving up...

anything other than his, like, young Johny lifestyle

of hooking up with these random tourists, which...

I don't know, I guess that's a big deal to him and Keyner.

It's a big deal.

If you guys are both putting a lot to be with each other,

why, like, why you guys don't trust each other, like...?

Because there's a lot to lose.

But at this point, we just have to trust each other, Chloe.

But it doesn't -- you're right, we do.

But we've had so many issues in the past to get where we are

that I'm afraid for something to happen again.

Because I don't want to lose you,

and I don't want to lose this.

I don't want to have to move back home.

The trust has been broken in the past,

which is why I am...

the way I am.

[Johny] I want to go out with my friend, OK?

Really?

You know, you can't control me like that.

You can't hold me down like that.

You know what I mean?

[Chloe] Jonathan needs to understand how serious I'm actually being.

My anxiety is through the roof every day

because I'm so nervous that he's going to just

break my trust again.

I don't want to stop being with Jonathan

because I do see it in the future.

I just think that I have a very fine line between you wanting

to live your life and you wanting to cheat on me.

That's not controlling.

If I'm controlling you to not cheat on me,

then you should go be single.

and, you know, you want to break up with me

because you thought this and this happened,

when nothing really, really happened.

I wouldn't break up with you on a thought

of something happening.

I would break up with you because something happened.

You have to trust me more then that.

If I saw something and I had proof,

I'm not staying.

[Manon] Next time on "90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way."

I have [bleep] up. I want to be with you.

[Chloe] Mom!

My mom is coming down with a certain expectation

in her head.

I hope Jonathan is ready for all the scrutiny.

-[Johny] Welcome to my home. -Johny's house,

would it be where I want my daughter to live?

Absolutely not!

You're deciding to live here, and I can't finance it.

You are going to have to make your own way.

I'm cutting her off.

[speaking French]

My aunt said, I was talking [bleep] about the family.

This is my chance to talk to her.

[speaking French]

I'm freaking tired of always being

the black sheep of the family.

[speaking French]

I just want to pack up all my [bleep]

and go back to LA.