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-[Trisha] Maki Maki. -Maki Maki.

Yes.

[Emma] Previously on Before the 90 Days...

This trip is very important, but before we meet her family,

I have to tell Trish about spending time

with my ex in Colombia.

I just don't know how she's gonna take it.

Tell me something interesting about Birkan?

[speaking Turkish]

[speaking Turkish]

She said what?

I have been with a woman before, yes, sir.

[Lisa] No, sir.

I am not a liar, uncle.

[Modestus speaking]

I am thrilled I have the blessing, but...

I mean, is that not romantic?

Like, making sure your lights is on because you're at home

and then I'm working. -I'm getting tired of this.

You lie about something --

OK, the -- the difference between Ziad and I.

-Everything I've said -- I know, but I... -[Ziad speaking]

...I'm speaking. Everything I've said...

I do respect you, but...

[Ziad speaking]

You are, you are, you are, you are.

[Noamane speaking Arabic]

[speaking in English]

So you're saying in this very moment, you see zero percent

chance of me being your wife?

But you're at zero?

[Ziad] Emma, I need to sleep. I'm so tired.

[Emma] So there's zero percent chance you wanna marry me?

-Are we not gonna discuss it? -I wanna just sleep.

[Emma] Zero percent, Ziad?

So that's what you're feeling right now about us?

Zero percent?

And I don't know why you would say that in front

of your friends when it's, like, my first time meeting them.

Do you not think that's disrespectful

to talk to me like that in front of your friends?

-We can't speak. -I listened.

-All I do is listen to you. -[Ziad speaking]

[Emma] I'm always difficult?

-Please. -How am I difficult, Ziad?

You've said one thing to me online, and then I get here...

No, you speak.

So you don't care about my feelings that I'm upset

right now? -[Ziad speaking]

-OK, Ziad. -[Ziad speaking]

[Emma] OK.

[Emma] OK.

[scoffs]

[tense music playing]

I have some tea for you.

Thank you.

This morning I woke up and I'm just almost

at my breaking point.

I came all the way to Morocco and I've given

this relationship my all, and to hear that Ziad is 0% sure

of having a future with me, I'm just confused.

Before I came to Morocco, he showed me an engagement ring

saying that it was here and waiting for me.

I spent thousands of dollars to come here, just to be sitting

here right now with Ziad, and then for Ziad to be saying

he's 0% sure,

I really feel like I deserve some answers.

So how are you feeling after,

like, what happened with your father last night?

[Emma] Yeah.

[Ziad speaking]

[Emma] I mean, it was nice to meet your friends.

And I know that we have a lot to work on,

but before I got here,

you made it seem like we were ready to be engaged,

and then I meet your friends,

and you're like, zero percent sure.

It makes me feel like we're never gonna get married,

we're never gonna get engaged.

This whole trip was a waste of my time and money

that I don't have, and I'm basically here for,

like, no reason.

[Ziad speaking]

It's like, why now?

-You don't -- you don't understand me, so... -But how am I not under...

I understand what that means,

so what did I -- what am I not understanding

about that? -No, in your -- in your mind.

Do you realize everything you said about me since I got

here has been negative?

It seems like you're always mad at me.

I'm always doing something wrong.

Like, when we were talking online, you were always so nice

and cute and sweet and would send me nice messages and,

you know, say all these, like, cute romantic things.

And then since I've gotten here, it's been like,

you're, like, mad all the time.

Am I the girl that you wanna be with?

Yeah.

And you -- all this thing you said, it's right?

OK.

At this moment, I don't know

if I will be married her or not.

[speaking Arabic]

No fights.

Aw.

You can come here.

This feels nice to me.

This is the very first time that I felt any physical

chemistry between us.

And I feel like things are slowly progressing with Ziad.

Very slowly. Extremely slowly.

But yes, they are progressing.

And I'm hoping that this is

just a really good sign that we're moving forward.

I think we have a lot to work on.

But I think we'll be OK.

Just with time, everything will be...

-[Emma] OK. -[Ziad] ...good.

[upbeat music playing]

[Lisa] My head hurts, it itches.

The glue is like bubble gum right now, stuck to my head.

This has been on for about a week.

This is the absolute longest I've ever had it on.

I've only ever slept with it overnight once,

and it wasn't even on for 24 hours.

My head hurts.

It's time. I have to take it off.

I mean, it's...it's...

it's awful right now.

I've never been this nasty before in my life.

I have been in Nigeria in the heat for days,

and I have yet to change my wig.

No matter how much you pull, it's not going anywhere.

[laughs]

So I don't even know how it's gonna feel

coming off of my head, actually, um...

Ouch. It actually hurts.

It -- it hurts. It's stuck to my hair.

My head itches. I have headaches.

My scalp hurts. I have sores.

I feel them growing.

I see the redness around where my wig cap is.

I need to take it off. It's time.

Oh, my God!

[sighs]

Ah, it itches.

[laughs]

I have some sores on the side of my head

where the glue was...

I hate to say this, but the wig actually has

an odor to it right now

from all the sweating.

I've been keeping my wig on because I know Daniel loves me

with my long hair, but I need to feel the --

the air touching my scalp.

It just feels so incredible.

It feels so light and airy, and it's not itchy anymore.

At this moment, I don't care what Daniel feels

when he sees me.

I'm not putting the wig back on anytime soon.

God, I've gone through so much in these last few days,

and it's not just my hair.

We got the approval from Daniel's uncle

to be married,

but I feel like it was under false pretenses.

I don't know what to feel about his uncle.

I think if he had known

how many women I had actually been with,

I wouldn't have gotten the blessing.

I mean, it's 21 years of being with women.

On top of that, I've been so nervous to speak

to my daughter, Faith, because I promised her I wouldn't get

engaged to Daniel until after I revealed all of my secrets.

But yesterday, I finally ripped off the Band-Aid.

We started leaving the airport, and there was a festival

in the street with African dancers

and music playing. It was for me,

Daniel planned a festive parade for me.

You're sending him money all the time,

yet somehow he's able to buy a whole parade?

I don't know, I don't know.

And there's more.

[Faith] What else?

Um, he dropped to his knee.

And he pulled out a ring.

And I was kind of stuck, so I shook my head yes.

-You're awfully quiet. -[Faith] Um, I don't know what to say.

Why would someone do that on the first day?

Like, it doesn't make sense.

At this point, it's beyond love-bombing, it's like...

God, ma, this isn't good.

You've been lying since day one of the relationship.

The other thing I personally have an issue with is

you haven't asked Daniel about the women he's been with.

You know he's been with tons of women.

You know he's a playboy.

How could you let all this slide and just blindly

agree to marry him?

As far as Faith is concerned, a lot of what she said is

actually weighing on my brain, um...

I'm thinking a lot about it.

I've been so focused on my past and what I've been keeping

from Daniel. But Faith is right.

Daniel hasn't been forthcoming about his past,

or even other women he's been with.

There's been lots of things with Daniel I've let slide,

and maybe I should be asking him more questions about it.

Daniel said that we are going to meet up with his friends

tonight, and I'm excited.

I'm hoping that his friends can shed some light and share

some stories about who Daniel actually is.

[phone vibrating]

Hmm...

Daniel just texted me.

Let me gather some laundry up.

Oh, God.

I have no idea what he's gonna think about me.

Daniel makes me feel like the most beautiful,

special woman in the world,

but he's used to seeing me wear my wig.

At home, I don't wear my wig 24/7, seven days a week.

So if he's gonna marry me, he has to get used to it.

[anticipatory music playing]

-Hey. -[Daniel speaking]

Oh, my God.

[Rick] I'm waiting, my jungle queen.

I think it's stupid. It's not even sexy.

Oh!

[Trisha screams] Not right now!

[Rick] That sounds like a plan!

[Annalyn] I'm so frustrated.

Sometimes I feel like I'm stepping on landmines,

and I don't know how to navigate around the landmines.

I don't wanna do this right now.

It's hard to be with him.

[Jovon] Anna, why are you so emotional?

Something you will never understand,

'cause you don't have that.

[suspenseful music playing]

Well, I mean, I don't -- I don't know what to say.

'Cause no matter what I say, you know, if I apologize,

that's not gonna be good enough.

You know?

So I don't know what to do in this situation.

[suspenseful music continues]

The argument started about

me saying you're not romantic.

It has nothing to do with money, but you have to remind me

every time we argue...

about what you do for me, you throw it to my face,

and I feel like it's so unfair because you wanna be

a provider, but at the same time,

you're always using it as an ammunition.

Where did all this go wrong?

[sighs] Just, you're unbelievable.

OK.

I didn't wanna bring up my role in, uh, in the marriage,

but sometimes I feel like

I'm not being appreciated.

Sometimes I feel like if I bring it up, she might come

around and say, "Hey, you know, he does a lot

for me, maybe I should just be a little bit nicer."

But obviously, that doesn't work.

You know, I -- I would definitely want things to be

a lot more peaceful between us, but sometimes I feel like

I'm stepping on landmines unintentionally.

I don't know how to navigate around the landmines.

[Annalyn] I'm so frustrated.

[sighs]

[Jovon] Alright, I'm not gonna bother you.

I'm just...

I'm gonna take a shower. I don't wanna do this right now.

I don't know. I don't really know

what's going on in his head, honestly.

...and it's really confusing because...

Just because I'm, you know, I'm not providing as much

as he provides monetarily doesn't mean

I'm not doing my part.

It's just -- it's hard to be with him.

I've been patient so long.

That was my contribution.

That I stayed all along.

But sometimes he just doesn't get me.

He knows what sets me off.

He knows what hurts my feelings.

He knows what offends me.

I'm just not used to it, like, arguing in person.

We've never been together before, so...

But then, how much more, like, of this I could take?

♪ Oh, ooh, ooh ♪

♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh ♪

[Trisha] Whoo-hoo!

[Rick speaking]

-[Trisha speaking] -Oh, hell no.

Oh, hell!

[Rick] Babe.

[Trisha] Here we are.

Whoo! [giggles]

It's a little bit of a -- a hike up, but it'll be worth it

in the end. Believe me.

We only have a few more days left of island hopping

before we have to head out to meet Trisha's family.

It's beautiful up here.

There's a lot weighing heavy on my mind

after our conversation about meeting her dad

and all this pressure about having to have kids.

But right now, I'm just trying my best to stay focused

on being in such a beautiful place.

[Trisha speaking]

[Rick] It'll be worth it once we get up there, honey.

[Trisha] Oh!

[Rick] I got us the most incredible place to stay

on a very secluded part of Nosy Komba.

It's totally off-grid, and I just love the --

the privacy of it.

I see it now, babe.

I'm really excited for her to see it and to show her

how romantic I can be.

Alright, we're here, baby.

-Ooh, it's our own private quarters, baby. -[Trisha screams and laughs]

[Rick] Baby, yeah!

[Trisha] Oh!

-[Rick] Ha-ha! Yeah, baby. -[Trisha] Oh, my God, this is...

-[Rick laughs] You like it? -[Trisha] Yeah.

[Rick] Come here. Let's check it out.

[Trisha] Oh, my God.

You see the whole island, baby, here.

[Trisha speaking]

[Rick speaking]

[Trisha speaking]

[Rick speaking]

Be careful, baby. Watch your step here.

We got our own little waterfall and private pool.

Oh, my God.

I've never stayed to a place like this before.

It's very beautiful, the view, the house.

I'm living here, but I didn't know that place like this could

exist in Madagascar.

[Rick] I did this for you, honey.

[Trisha] Ooh!

[Rick] I got another little surprise for you.

[Trisha speaking]

Here we go.

-[Trisha] Let me see. -There you go.

-This is yours right here. -[Trisha] Oh, my God...

[Rick] Yeah.

I was hoping you'd wanna try it and spice things up.

I'll put mine on, and you put yours on.

[Trisha] OK.

Role-playing is something that I recently got into,

and I just think it's -- it's something fun to do.

Playing as if I'm king of the jungle

and chasing her around.

I mean, it's hot.

I'm waiting, my jungle queen.

You look beautiful.

I can't, seriously.

Come on, baby, you look -- you look sexy, baby.

Let's just go run around and...

What? What is this?

I think it's stupid. It's not even sexy.

Come on, baby, get into it.

[Trisha speaking]

But I'm doing it

because Rick did a lot to organize this trip,

so I'm willing to give it a try to make him happy.

You're my fantasy girl.

But the way I'm dressing, I don't know.

Oh!

That sounds like a plan.

-Let's walk naked. -[screams]

-Not right now! -[Rick] Come on, baby.

Nobody's gonna see.

We can be Adam and Eve.

[tender music playing]

-[Trisha speaking] -How could I not be?

That's what I'm laying next to.

We had a wonderful night.

The way that she was holding me tight

and -- and bringing me in.

I feel so connected to Trish, but in the back

of my mind, um,

I feel guilty because I know that I've held back

for -- for...

[sighs] ...for too long now.

Time is getting close to when we go to meet her family.

I don't wanna take such a serious step

without telling her about my ex.

And so, I think that she needs to know the truth.

It's so cool here. -[Rick speaking]

Yeah!

[Rick] Yeah, it's a beautiful view, baby.

The last few days have been wonderful, I think.

It's been -- been like a -- like dream.

[Trisha] Yeah, yeah.

I'm -- I'm happy.

But baby...

there -- there's something that I've --

I've been keeping from you.

You make me afraid. I don't know what you...

Explain yourself.

I don't know how I -- I should do this.

I don't know what words to --

to say that's gonna make it...

be a forgivable act.

I'm -- I'm worried that she'll wanna end things

and I'll never see or hear from her again.

Just know that I'm -- what I'm about to tell you,

I -- I regret it.

What you mean?

[Laura] Can you tell me where your debt came from?

-[Birkan speaking] -[Laura] Yeah.

[playful music playing]

[Birkan speaking]

[Laura] Good morning.

I really had fun meeting everybody yesterday.

I've been in Turkey for almost a week now,

and it's going OK.

We've had some difficult conversations about his debt

and my friendship with my best friend, Michael.

And then last night, I got to meet Birkan's best friends,

and they kept having conversation in Turkish,

and I can't help but feeling

like they were keeping another secret from me.

I don't know.

I don't know what to be excited about.

I don't even know what to pack.

Yeah, you better pack.

[Laura] Last night, Birkan told me that we're going on this surprise

romantic getaway, and I'm honestly having

mixed feelings about it.

I am incredibly nervous at the thought

of a romantic getaway right now.

I'm learning about his debts and the issues that he's having

with jobs and money.

And maybe I'm wrong,

but it comes across to me as manipulative.

You're trying to win me back over with something sweet.

Like, I don't -- I don't like that.

Like, I just don't like the timing of it.

But it also could be a good thing

that we're getting away

right now because maybe we'll have more time to,

like, process and... be in a more lovey state.

So we'll see.

[speaking Turkish]

[indistinct]

I'm not sure I packed my hairbrush for this.

-It will be a problem. -You don't need to brush your hair.

I will need to brush my hair while I'm here, yeah.

I think we will find a fork and we will...

-[Laura] A fork? -Yeah.

I'm not the Little Mermaid.

[Birkan] You are.

[Laura] I didn't realize we were gonna be right on the water.

-This is amazing! -[Birkan] I like the view, you know?

[Laura] This is incredible.

Çeme is a romantic place, you know?

It's peaceful. There's sea.

Perfect place to reconnect.

[Laura] Wow!

I didn't know there was a castle here.

-[Birkan] Do you wanna visit there? -[Laura] I would love

to visit there. -[Birkan] We will go up and up and up and up again.

[Laura] I am so ready.

I still have to tell her about my gambling.

My friends are right...

So if you're ready, let's start our tour.

[Laura] I've always wanted to visit a castle.

I feel like...

When do I get to be the princess?

I have no idea.

[tour guide speaking Turkish]

[Laura] Oh, my God! Hold on, is this a bathroom?

[Birkan] What? What?

-[Laura] Is that a bathroom? -[Birkan] Nah.

[Laura] I feel like that's a bathroom.

Çeme is incredible.

It's really old, and it's just beautiful.

This is, like, exactly what I was envisioning when I was

talking about coming to Turkey.

Would you take our picture?

-[person #1] Yeah, of course. -[Laura] Thank you.

-Thank you. -Thank you.

-Are you enjoying your day? -I am enjoying my day.

I -- I couldn't have asked for a better surprise, seriously.

You know, I always try my best.

[Laura] I know.

[Birkan] Because I care about you and I love you.

[Laura] I know you do.

You know, we are still thinking about marriage.

I -- you still think about it. I still think about it.

We didn't decide what are we gonna do.

And you have a lot of questions, so...

What do you wondering? I know you're wondering.

Well, I guess...

I know it's hard to have conversations that can feel

personal and embarrassing, but can you tell me

where your debt came from?

[Birkan speaking]

-Back when? -2019 and 2020.

-[Laura] OK. -I had my first...

Then I bought my second place.

After that...

OK, so you had three places?

And...

Hm.

I sell my car, sell my house, sell my places.

I sell everything I have.

I find another way to pay that debt.

[Laura] How -- how is that even possible?

[Birkan speaking]

[Laura] Yeah.

I gamble.

A lot.

[Laura] How often are you gambling?

If I have money, I gamble.

So actually...

[Lisa] I took it off so it could breathe.

I was hoping Daniel would say I look beautiful,

and touch my hair and give me a kiss.

I wasn't expecting him to pull back like he has.

It's like you're embarrassed to be seen with me

right now or something.

You don't think I'm pretty without my wig?

♪ Do you love me, babe ♪

♪ I just need to know ♪

[singing in Tagalog]

[Jovon] Are you alright?

Mm-hmm.

[worker] Room service.

[both speaking Tagalog]

Hey, we're just packing.

[worker #2] Good morning!

-[Annalyn] Oh! -Oh, thank you, yes, sure.

Let's go.

It's the last morning of our honeymoon,

and we're going to Cavite, you know, where she lives.

But me and Annalyn are still not talking.

My strategy after last night, uh,

just to give her space.

Every time we fight, he has this habit of,

you know, silent treatment that he gives me instead of,

you know, talking it out and fixing things.

Before we met in person, if we don't talk for a few days,

it was normal because we are

in a long-distance relationship.

Ooh!

But I just can't believe we're doing this right now,

and we're in the same room together physically.

Do you wanna talk about last night?

You know, clearly we have problems, you know,

because you're hard on me a lot of the times.

But providing for you is not easy.

And I believe that,

you know, it's my duty to do that,

but when I...when I say...

when I'm telling you that, like, I'm not trying to,

like, throw it in your face.

I basically want you to just cut me a little slack, like --

It's like, what you're saying is...

Because if I react certain way, you're uncomfortable

with my emotion.

Anna, I don't bring it up to say, "Hey, look, look what

I did, so shut up." You know what I'm saying?

Like, that -- that's not what I'm saying.

That's exactly what I feel.

[Jovon] Maybe I'm just, like, not translating it right

to you, but the way I view it is, it's like, "Look,

you know, and I work hard to do X, Y, and Z," so, you know,

I want a light bulb to come on and be like, "You know,

"my husband works really hard, so I'm gonna make sure his day

is positive when I talk to him on his break for 15 minutes."

But, no, you're nagging me all the time.

You don't think how that makes me feel, like, sometimes?

Like when somebody's constantly criticizing you

when they're supposed to be on your side.

But it's not easy

being your woman, putting up with your...

tantrums, stubbornness, whining.

It takes a lot of patience to be with you.

I know some women would have been --

would have given up already.

All I hear is, like, you just constantly complaining

about me all the time.

I mean, you tell me I'm a downer.

You tell me I'm not romantic.

I mean, Anna, you're this perfect picture,

and I'm this project that you're working on.

So do you regret, like... marrying me?

[tense, upbeat music playing]

-Hey. -[Daniel speaking]

[music continues]

Let's get money out of the ATM.

And then I wanna go for a walk.

[Lisa] What?

What's wrong?

[Lisa] I took it off so it could breathe.

[Daniel] How?

[Lisa] It was itchy and hot, and I've worn it

for quite a while.

No, I didn't tell you I was taking it off.

[Daniel speaking]

[Lisa] Thank you so much.

[Daniel speaking]

[Lisa] What?

Like you wish I would have had it on to go out?

Yes.

But you know it's a wig,

and I need to be natural sometimes.

It's like you're embarrassed to be seen with me

right now, or something.

[Lisa] My hair needed to be washed,

and my head needs to air out, babe.

[Daniel speaking]

So you don't think I'm pretty without my wig?

Well, I don't have long hair.

I have short hair.

I'm hurt, and now I feel ugly, and I feel

unwanted and unloved.

I wanna go back upstairs and just cry.

I don't even wanna look at him.

I wanna be away from him.

OK?

I mean, I mean, I -- I -- I can't wear it all the time.

I'm not saying all the time, but when we are going out

to meet friends, families...

You're being rude. You don't understand.

I was very scared for you to see me without my wig.

[Daniel speaking]

And I want you to feel that I'm beautiful without it just

as much as I am with it.

OK? You are.

[Lisa] I -- I don't feel he means it.

I was hoping Daniel would say I look beautiful

and touch my hair and give me a kiss.

I wasn't expecting him to pull back like he has.

I -- I don't know, I have so many questions,

but I -- I have to get answers.

And I'm hoping tonight with his friends I'll get some.

'Cause right now, I'm starting to see

red flags and cracks where I never did before.

We were getting along really well, getting really flirty.

I mean, I was feeling so, like, lonely and abandoned.

I thought that you didn't want me anymore.

[Trisha speaking]

Did you?

Just know -- just now that what I'm about to tell you,

I -- I regret it.

You make me afraid. I don't know what you...

Explain yourself.

[tense music playing]

You remember... in those five days that...

that you weren't talking to me?

Why you bring up five days? What's wrong with five days?

I already explained everything, so what's the problem now?

The problem isn't that. It's --it's what I did.

What...

What's wrong?

I'm trying tell you now.

You make me afraid. Say it, Rick.

I don't know why you hesitate. What's wrong?

When you...

When you weren't talking to me, I...

I started talking to my ex.

She was, like, the only one that, you know, was there to...

to listen to me.

So I decided to book a trip, going to Colombia to be

with my ex.

I mean, I was feeling so, like,

lonely and abandoned.

I -- I thought that you didn't want me anymore.

[Trisha speaking]

Did you?

[Rick speaking]

[sighs] Mm.

[exhales]

Ooh. [sighs]

-Ooh. -I'm sorry, baby.

I -- I -- I messed up. I know I did.

And I regret what -- what I did.

But this is something we can work through, baby.

-[Trisha] Shut up. -[Rick] It was a mistake.

Shut up.

-[Rick] Baby, I... -How?

Rick, how could you do that to me?

We were together.

Baby, you weren't there.

And I told you after a couple days, I said, "If I don't hear

"from you, then I'm gonna assume that it's over,

that you don't want me anymore,"

and I still didn't hear from you

until a couple of days after that.

And by then, I had already booked a flight there.

I did reply to your messages.

I did reply to your call.

And I even told you, "I'll call you when I'm free."

And when I -- you told me that you would call -- call me

when you get back

from the police station. I wouldn't hear from you.

I would call you, and then you said

that I was stalking you.

That sounds like to me that you didn't wanna be with me.

Why did you wait, like, for a long time to tell me?

Why?

Why?

Because I wanted -- I wanted us to build something together,

I wanted to share, you know, precious time with you.

[Trisha speaking]

[Rick] No, no.

It's -- it's -- it's over, it's over, it's over now.

I swear I'm not talking to her anymore.

I haven't had any contact with her.

I thought you were...different.

That I can trust you.

You even promised me there, like, "I won't hurt you,

Trisha, I'm not like your ex." And what you did?

Guess what? Same thing.

But baby, it's not the same because --

[Trisha] It's the same. You cheated.

[sighs] Jesus. I thought you were a good guy.

-I am a good guy, baby. -You are not.

[Rick] You can -- can trust me, baby.

It's -- it's different now. We've met in person.

We've consummated our relationship,

we have a stronger bond now.

-Don't -- don't you see that? -No.

[stammers]

[Rick] Can't we just start from -- from there?

Can't we just start from --

If I knew, Rick, if I knew you went there...

[Rick] ...from the day that we first touched?

-...I would never talk to you. -[Rick] Baby, can't we just start from...

-No. -[Rick] Baby.

[Trisha] No. Shut up.

Don't call me baby.

-Shut up, Rick, shut up. -Maybe we look at relationships differently.

[Trisha] Shut up.

-[Rick] Where are you going? -[Trisha] I don't care.

[upbeat music playing]

[Ziad and Kabira speaking Turkish]

♪ Yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo ♪

♪ Yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo ♪

Oh, babe, what are you cooking?

-[Emma] And wait for you? -Yeah.

-Alright. -[Ziad speaking]

OK, babe.

[Ziad speaking]

[Kabira speaking Turkish]

[Ziad speaking]

Babe, you can just put it there.

Babe, this is so cute. Thank you, babe.

-[Ziad speaking] -Thanks, babe.

You look very handsome tonight. What did you make?

[Emma] Yeah.

Tagine.

Let's see.

Ooh, that actually looks very good.

[Ziad speaking]

[Emma] Yeah.

-Mm-hmm. -Like, "bon appétit?"

[Ziad] Yeah, here.

Mm, so good.

It's fine if you eat it or not.

No, it's so good.

Thank you for doing all this.

I love the sweet side of you, 'cause that makes me feel like

you actually, like, love me.

It's...

Do you feel romance in the air?

[Ziad speaking]

[Emma] Unreal, mm-hmm.

That was very sweet, babe.

Look at you being so romantic today.

I'm happy to be here, too.

-So it's only at seven now? -[Ziad] Yeah.

It's...

[Emma] What percent do you need to actually get engaged, 100%?

Exactly.

And you're only at seven right now?

It's just numbers.

Alright.

On a scale from zero to 100%, how much do you love me?

'Cause I need to know.

-70%? OK. -Yeah, it's -- it's...

So you --you love me more

than if you're sure you want to get

engaged to me, OK.

OK, alright, but you love me at 70%.

-Mm-hmm. -OK, that's good.

You know what would have made this dinner

a hundred times better? Some dessert.

Mm, mm-hmm.

-Huh? -[Ziad speaking]

[Emma] Dessert.

-Dessert? -Not -- not the desert.

-Dessert. -Ah...

[Emma] Yeah, like ice cream.

But yes, I do wanna go to the desert.

[indistinct]

That's funny, because when we talked the first time,

you told me you never see a camel...

...and I know it's your birthday tomorrow,

so I plan to take you to the desert.

It will be nice.

Aw, babe.

I'm excited.

That's like my dream, to go to the desert and ride a camel.

[Ziad] Yeah, yeah.

I think it's really sweet

that Ziad is planning this desert trip

for the both of us.

I know that he's only at 7%, but I only have two weeks left

of my trip, and I'm really hoping that a romantic getaway

outside of the city will speed things up.

What do you wear

to ride a camel? Pants?

[both laugh]

[Emma] I'm in a good mood.

We're packing up, and we're going to,

like, a romantic getaway in the desert.

And it's my birthday, so happy birthday to me.

We were getting along really well,

getting really flirty.

And he came into my room, and we made out.

And then we had sex.

Twice.

So I finally

got all the physical touch I've been wanting,

and it felt really good.

And it was nice.

I would say it's, like, a normal...

it's, like, average size.

It's nothing crazy, but it's not teeny tiny.

It, like, it fits in your hand.

That's, like, the best way to describe it.

I could deal with it.

But I think he's really worried about how people are gonna

view him, especially because he is Muslim and, like,

his religion and everything.

But I had to tell someone.

I feel like after having sex, we were in, like,

a perfect place.

He was being just so much nicer to me,

and he was like telling me how much he loved me

and how much he cared about me and how,

like, he does want a future with me.

So with the way the last night went,

I could really see a proposal, and I think,

hopefully, he changed his mind and he's feeling just as sure

as I am.

I do feel I feel better now that we finally did have sex.

I think this means that we're getting a lot closer,

but he still doesn't know about the whole Mohamed situation.

I know that he does have questions about everything,

and I feel like if I'm gonna be that serious about him

and our relationship, I don't want there to be any secrets.

I don't wanna lie to him about anything.

My friends and family have kind of warned me

that once he finds out about Mohamed,

he's probably gonna break up with me.

That's the last thing that I want to happen.

I know that I'm gonna need to tell him

sooner rather than later.

♪ Come on unwind for me ♪

♪ You know I like when you slip ♪

♪ And you slide for me ♪

♪ You do the thing, grind for me ♪

♪ now I'm giving the time of a life for me ♪

♪ Come on and wind for me ♪

You look handsome. I like this on you.

You really do. You look really...

[Daniel speaking Igbo]

[in English]

♪ You do the thing, grind for me ♪

♪ Now I'm given to the time of a life for me ♪

♪ Come on unwind for me ♪

-I will teach you... -"Thank you" is important.

-I wanna know how to say thank you. -[both speaking Igbo]

...is thank you? [speaking Igbo]

Thank you.

Going without my wig for the first time in front

of Daniel was a very vulnerable experience for me,

and Daniel didn't respond the way I had hoped.

Putting the wig back on today was horrible,

and now he's responding to me

like I'm the most beautiful creature on Earth yet again.

Does he not love me for who I am?

I'm thinking about what Faith said,

and I'm starting to question what Daniel's intentions

really are.

I'm a little nervous. Is there anything I should know?

I mean, I know they're your friends,

but they're not my friends, and I'm going,

and they're gonna judge me. But needless to say,

I'm gonna judge you through them.

Daniel tonight is taking me to meet his friends

and his cousin.

And I'm hoping they can shed some light

on a few things about Daniel.

Daniel and I don't talk about our past relationships.

That's why mine has never been mentioned,

'cause I -- every time I try to talk to Daniel, he shuts up.

He doesn't talk about his past at all.

So meeting his friends is a great opportunity to know

more about Daniel and understand who he is.

Yeah, you're welcome.

-How are you? -[speaking Igbo]

-Have a seat. -[Lisa] Thank you.

Her name is Lisa.

[Lisa] Thank you.

Thank you so much.

[Daniel speaking]

George, yeah.

Hi, Loveday, hi.

How long have you known Daniel?

-Oh, my goodness. -[Daniel speaking]

[George] Wow.

[Loveday] I know...

-Really? -[Loveday] Yeah.

You didn't tell me these things.

[Lisa] Is that true? Really?

-[Lisa] Why? -Do you know why?

[Lisa] No.

Because...

Well, it's not easy.

I have to say, it's not easy helping Daniel.

I -- I work 15-hour days, seven days a week.

That's how Daniel is changing, because I'm working

the hard times.

And it concerns me, because he doesn't share much

of his past with me.

I wanna know more about your old life, baby.

OK, so I do have a question.

Was he very popular with ladies?

No, yeah, he do, he do.

-[Daniel speaking] -[Loveday] He do.

-Oh. -He's a handsome guy.

Yes.

When -- when Daniel came at me on social media,

out of the blue,

I thought he was a scam artist. I thought he was fake.

I did not think he was real.

So I didn't totally trust Daniel for a little while.

It took me -- It took him a minute to get me to trust him.

But the thing is, I -- I'm just surprised

that he's only been

with me since December and he's already proposed.

Then you say you've helped him in different areas.

All I'm hearing right now is, I am Daniel's savior.

He is a new man. It's given me a bit of a pause.

You know, there's something that happened before I came

to Nigeria that Daniel hasn't been able to explain to me.

He's truthful.

You seem to be sweating a little bit over this, though.

I have to sweat because I -- I don't know.

[Lisa] Yes, but the thing is,

Daniel was talking to another girl on social media

at the same time he was talking to me.

Be honest, because I will walk out if you're not.

[Laura] Are we going to have more debt, more financial problems,

because you can't stop gambling?

For Valentine's Day, I sent you money.

Did you gamble that?

Do you regret, like, marrying me?

[tense music playing]

No.

I mean, it seemed like you had to think about it for a minute.

No, I love you.

It's just that I want you to, you know, like...

I guess I want you to be more, like, positive.

I just want you to overlook the negativity.

You're making me feel uncomfortable, like you're not

enjoying your time with me. -I'm enjoying the time.

It makes me feel really...

Did you see me yesterday when I was doing this?

-[Annalyn] Yeah, but... -[Jovon] And I couldn't fit?

You're doing all the things that you have to do,

but you always have to leave a remark.

[Jovon] Look, I can promise you this.

I'm gonna do my best...

to not...

you know, throw in your face about what I do

in the marriage.

Like provide for you.

And I promise you not to be so negative, but... I mean,

could you make me a promise and just ease up on me

a little bit, cut me a little bit of slack?

I actually feel bad when you feel bad,

and I feel guilty.

I feel like sometimes I act, I overreact to things.

I just really wanna have a good time, please.

OK, well, I do too.

But I feel like you always look constipated, like, ugh!

'Cause I'm always getting my ass chewed out, like,

it's just like [bleep], like...

You're like this, Jovon.

[sighs]

"Oh, my God, boo! It's so sunny today.

Yeah..."

Thank God it stopped raining.

I thought we'd be stuck in the room the whole time.

I don't want you to get too comfortable,

'cause it still might rain. -Oh, my God!

Don't say that. You jinx it.

You have to try it with cheese.

I mean, but don't you think that's a weird combination?

[Annalyn speaking]

-A two? Really? -[Jovon] Yeah.

-This is a 90-year-old man

in the last stages of his life. -You're only 38 years old!

Basically, that's how you're making me sound.

So we good?

Alright.

Yes, we made up right now,

but because of the last few days,

I kind of worried about the future.

We struggled to get along during our honeymoon.

How are we gonna get along for the rest of our lives?

Come here. Come sit on my lap.

Come on.

We've been together six years in a long-distance relationship,

and now that we finally get to be together physically,

you see everything about your partner.

And I hope that Jovon and I can take all the good

with the bad. But right now, I don't know.

-I'm so sweaty. -I know.

How often are you gambling?

[Laura] Is gambling part of all of this debt?

[Birkan speaking]

[Laura] I'm angry, I'm hurt.

I am shocked.

I think gambling is fine, like, when you have money

to lose, but he doesn't have anything.

The fact that he thinks that he can gamble of actually

going out and finding a job is ridiculously concerning to me.

Uh, that's not a job.

I don't even understand what he's thinking.

So...

instead of a gift for Valentine's Day,

I sent you money. -Yeah.

Did you gamble that?

Like $150, yeah.

[Birkan speaking]

But what if you would have lost that?

[Laura] But I...

That was money that I sent you for you, and if you would

have lost it and been like, "Hey, I lost the money that

you gave me," I would be livid.

I'm actually kind of livid right now.

That seems irresponsible to me.

[Laura] So if you...

Gambling is not an addiction for me.

If I was addicted,

I don't care if I lose or win. But I care.

And I'm winning.

If you come to America and we're sharing our life,

we're sharing our money, we're sharing our banks... -[Birkan] Yeah.

...are you gonna pick it up and gamble it?

Because you just...

Well, it would be our money.

How is it...

But how do you have something that's specifically yours

if we're married? Wouldn't it always be ours?

[Laura] No?

[Birkan continues]

If we do go through with this and apply for that K-1 visa,

I am financially responsible for you

for like 10 years. -[Birkan] Mm-hmm, OK.

And I guess that's my concern is that,

are we going to have more debt, more financial problems

because you can't stop gambling?

No, because...

So until you feel like you're successful,

you're gonna keep gambling?

[tense music playing]

It's super alarming to me to hear that he thinks that this

is the best way to make money.

And knowing that I will be financially responsible

for him, concerns me greatly.

This is really serious, and I feel like I should just

pull the plug and go home now.

This girl ended up calling me

and pretty much told me he's a scam artist,

because he's going after more women

than just me that are in America.

I am here begging you for some truth

of what Daniel actually is.

And if I don't come home with everything on Daniel,

I will not be coming back to this country.

Daniel was talking to another girl on social media

at the same time he was talking to me.

Be honest,

'cause I will walk out if you're not.

[tense music playing]

Yes. [clears his throat]

This girl ended up calling me.

And talking to me,

telling me all these things that Daniel

was saying to her.

And she also pretty much told me he's a scam artist

because he's going after more women than just me

that are in America.

Did you know about this woman that he was talking to?

Um...

A couple months ago,

an American woman got in touch with me on social media

and basically told me Daniel was talking to her

at the same time he was talking to me.

She sent me screenshots

of her and Daniel's conversation.

She sent me personal pictures Daniel sent to her of himself.

And he called her "baby."

That hurt me. It still hurts me.

Daniel said, "She's just a friend,"

and after he blocked her,

I gave him the benefit of the doubt, and I deleted

the screenshots because I believed him.

But the more I'm hearing his friends say how I changed

his life, the more I'm wondering

if this woman was right.

And Daniel was just looking for any American woman

who was willing to respond.

She said that you were going after her strong

and she wasn't giving you the time of the day.

So what do you wanna say about that, Daniel?

It is on social media.

[Lisa] You do, you do,

but we're not talking... about them, we're talking --

no, no, put your hand down, please.

I'm asking you about her

-because you did talk to her. -No, I -- yeah....

But she wasn't. You were going after her.

That's the -- yes, you were, Daniel,

yes, you did.

You wanted her as an American. She told me so.

[Lisa speaking]

[Daniel speaking]

Um...

Um, I do talk to other women.

Yes, from America.

I do talk to other women from America.

But I've not tried, um, to date an American lady before.

No, Lisa is the first lady that, you know,

that came into my life.

-[Lisa] Well, I love Daniel. -Yes.

But nobody is perfect.

And I am here begging you for some truth

of what Daniel actually is.

I need to clear all this up before we get married.

Maybe she lies.

-Um... -[Lisa] It's not funny.

[George speaking]

Why should I? Tell me why.

He cannot disappoint you.

I'm the one working 15-hour days.

I'm the one working seven days a week to make sure he

looks like this.

So I am giving up stuff to be here.

My family is worried about me. They have every concern.

And if I don't come home with everything on Daniel,

I will not be coming back to this country.

And if you're not gonna share it with me, I will find it.

I feel like his friends are protecting him,

as every friend, if they're a really good friend,

should have your back. But I feel like a sugar mom.

They kept saying it over and over and over again.

I'm an angel. I have saved

Daniel from the street.

I'm sitting here wondering is he a scam artist?

Is he after me for my money?

I just don't think he's telling me the full truth.

I think he's giving me little nibbles

of what is reality.

And it's gonna be up to me

to put together this puzzle piece.

I appreciate you guys coming and meeting me.

I was just hoping for a little bit more than this.

[Trisha speaking]

I cannot be with someone

who still have feelings for their ex.

I cannot, I'm sorry.

I know now that I was wrong.

[Rick] Our boat back to Nosy Bay is here.

[Trisha speaking]

Don't touch me. Don't touch me.

Don't make it worse. Just leave me alone.

Trish.

Just bring your luggage, I'll bring mine, and let's go.

I don't wanna even look at him.

I'm waiting for you.

[Trisha speaking]

[Rick speaking]

[Trisha] Uh-uh, just don't talk.

[Rick speaking]

[Trisha] Why you care about that, how long I'm gonna talk or not?

'Cause I wanna resolve this.

[Trisha] Resolve what? You do remember what you did?

[Rick] I do remember.

I've seen the love in your eyes.

You know, just allow me the opportunity to show you

how committed I am to you.

I told you I was ashamed of what I did.

-I'm not proud of it. -[Trisha] You were not even ashamed.

Because I explained to you after the five days,

but you still went to Colombia. So why didn't you cancel?

[Rick] 'Cause even after those five days,

things still didn't add up. -[Trisha] Oh, OK.

[Rick] And I felt like I was just getting strung along 'cause...

-[Trisha] Oh! -...I thought you were cheating on me, and I felt like...

Oh, OK! It's my fault!

It's my fault.

We didn't really start

communicating like -- like before until I got back.

So in your mind is...

In some ways, that's true.

I -- I -- I know now that I was wrong.

Hm.

[Rick speaking]

I have nothing to say, Rick.

I cannot be with someone

who still have feelings for their ex.

I'd rather that he told me, like, 'for coming here.

Now...

My whole family.

[Trisha] Don't touch me!

-[indistinct] -Don't touch me, please.

We just have to work to...

No, I cannot, I'm sorry.

[Jovon] Next time on "Before the 90 Days."

[screams] Oh, my God!

Ziad and I are going for a little romantic getaway

outside of the city.

[Ziad speaking]

-A surprise? -[Ziad] Yeah.

We're really connecting, and Ziad's always known

that I've wanted a proposal on my birthday.

OK.

[Annalyn] This is us.

[Jovon] I'm very excited to see where my wife lives

and where my money is going.

Oh, wow, boo.

This is a lot bigger than what I initially thought.

Everywhere I look, I just see dollar signs,

a lot of travel photos.

Huge closets, it makes me feel taken advantage of.

I know it is hard

to understand my lifestyle, my choices.

Birkan has what I can only consider to be

a gambling problem.

And it's really making me second guess any kind of future

I could have with Birkan.

That is why you are so special to me.

Even if we have problems,

we will find solution.

Until yesterday, you did not know anything

about Sheena's finances.

You didn't know the truth about her relationship

with her family.

Is this a person you can trust?

These were big lies, Forrest!

She did lie about almost everything.

But I can't be with someone

who is going to constantly lie to me.

[Spring] Hi!

Tonight, we're meeting up with my aunt Spring.

Heard a lot about you.

And there's some things that I do have questions about.

I do understand why Aviva has fallen for Stig,

but I don't think that he is the great person

that she believes him to be.

So I have heard some things.

I mean, this is you, isn't it?

I came here to be with you, but I want answers.

Say it!

I don't wanna find out by her!

I wanna find out from you!

I can't.

He is lying to me,

and he's trying to make me look insane.

I don't wanna believe there's others.

I need this lady to write back to me because I need to know.

Is he a scammer?

Yes, she wrote a lot.

Oh, God!