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he is one of the world's best-known psychiatrists in the field of trauma and or

whether it concerns domestic violence, sexual abuse or ptsd since his bestseller the

body keptte score we know that in addition to talking and medication the key to successful treatment

light in our body more than half of the Dutch have a traumatic experience

had a conversation about living with trauma, his childhood in the hague and about the images that en

during his life this is the ideal television evening of texel of the cabbage

good evening welcome to the sixth and last summer guests of this season and in many ways

therapeutic episode with the healing power of shakespeare harry mulisch from alexander en

psychiatrists saying yes to mdma in the summer guests evening of psychiatrist and trauma

specialist quite from the cook just as welcome nice minutes they are back in the Netherlands for a while you are

born and raised here yes has lived in amelia for 60 years and what kind of bond do you still have with the netherlands

wanted are always good colleagues of course because that country is married on studied and I

I still have two brothers here and some cell and family I come to the Netherlands every year how many are in

asia am i' the netherlands mainly lost thanks to you is a little better and buyback

the dutch language do you mean yes yes was that so deeply sunk minus 60 years is very good in name

of you are still in contact with your family but I never speak the guest English Dutch

we just watched the nos news together and I can't I have to name it anyway you're in

every news broadcast you are confronted with trauma for a long time I just said it in my

introduction more than half of the Dutch have ever experienced a traumatic event

and in your book you also start and with a shocking summary I found one in five children

is sexually abused in 1 in 3 adult couples there is physical violence his eye on

school can grades yes yes keep it just the money was when first i got your ps3 and the

memory closed shed made them so have an extraordinary event that almost never before

contair en pietjes that is then notice that the english term wants to call an island that perverse

post true light address in exchange they thought it almost never happens and that says something about us

although blind to groups wretched world there wasn't introduced with it when people thought

that it is something very rare and or definition sows extraordinary event that hardly ever

prevents his when was that but now he was made by noise 80 of 89 people thought too rare

you know better and your mission is also to make the world better realize that

trauma is and what it does to people it is there is generally enough

eye do you think for the consequences of trauma in today's society that news they very well

example between is terrible happened they talk about the engineering questions for good

picture how the cars come nice yes but they are very about people and the very three things

where the people go they go so it becomes the engineer problem and that of priva how go

we help these people to get over that yes yes they are very much talking about what happened

your pension and the group very logical question you want to know what happened but I am

mainly I am from autism what will happen to these people because for small piece high cans

in the mountain on the very they will be quite ready and after about six months and have

other thing to deal with it's expected everyone who goes hide and you just have to get there

experience it and so the sympathy stops after a short ride yes and then you live your goal and you felt

keep your body going and that can make the rule of life difficult for you that is of course also

a year where your but your book red goes the body kits the score trauma we hear it a lot

have about trauma count but trace the effect on the body and yes what the causes

may be from trauma but you also wanted it to be a happy evening not one

evening only with doom and gloom and because to strengthen you want to start tonight

with a comedy series daddle so series from appletv apple tv plus i have to say about a brand a

football coach paddle so the leaves for england to be there sunny without any knowledge of european

to start coaching football and premier league team it seems a bit like the CDs about sports

but it's not and because what is it all about ever i-phone great how subtle the so about

human relations and people exert their problems on each other and that you really need people

help to be able to bear on cards it is good for cards are all good team

and sports' directors and they sometimes very very good to really know good people about together yes those

group occasionally and more purchase house of coaches from primary school t is a baseball teams that me

also ask if they can handle arguments with people because many of these space speakers and

are often traumatized then it didn't become anymore so we have to do what we help to make that one

team building yes so it's not about the team building backstage and not

so much about the football being in this series 0 yes we fall into it when coach gesso finds out

that the players think it brings bad luck to get into the massage room of the players to van

the players perish they think it's haunted the coaches bring the team together

exorcise those ghosts by letting each player practice something personal in tablet zo

jeremy sew and by nature ghost muscle god aliens silent reaction t we live by our physical world dat

we can tell you that we keep the exception the white and wisdom of cabinet slave

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monitor the you can one is already board is it how jaime form tournament minus 5 en

now they last time so you see if the white ice on my for christmas is there where

planck i made a master degree sweep blanqui to ahab blanke campus iphone ipad air

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location after the square soundcheck crimes to let themes or lesson in tents duet

so and is of a bit standard the frisbee can be written

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sleeping sunshine combination of boat and the special kush white

pill to do satellite color in this lesson is antonia cornelia new job

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so out so when to make up red you do now a core of me no good susan smit de brt the lab

our calcutta mee Houtman stand in show and serve brian 12 is medical wittamer

scored goal colony soft I go this now then my one your name anna anna he the day he

hit no own then so join the woman 2 bis outs or the ingrid just a comic or tech en

high wonders sometimes

africa of little fake bread

then he will find you want there

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corn oil body scrub you join this sparta site

make a label

smart moreover and beautiful yes why can you specifically do this scene in tesla so is the

last time jamie is very unpleasant character and nobody i want anything to do with him to

who is always cool and we constantly see this in practice, keep samples and that he is allowed

no longer be weak what other than a slave becomes his father so he goes this life

hi hat off and lb got once agree the oil went along and that's why he has no friends

and nobody wants to have anything to do with that but once she grows how that happened I go he

not only say therefore also become mixture but the people around them can say oh no

won that sometimes you're such a [ __ ] but we'll beers a little different to do this so to really

to be able to tell the car makes it possible from people to carry each other busy

to be so that great creates that there is more understanding for the the as you call [ __ ] in the belt je and

for all he is I see it as a psychologist is very good at getting the best out of people

and really see the weaknesses mature and help them use those weaknesses

and use them against each other yes and how how does he do the ate because he doesn't just do that

by abandoning his stuff in fiqh wanting it really isn't no he sees people he sees

how they have problems and did they do and so what you see is not necessarily all there is

with the jamie and even himself difficult strength but your being that has a lot of problems like that

may make the demo public may teach you not to be off as a species

yes so very stirring such story of the game is very nice part of tess lessons

and why is it so important for himself to speak those for those for that truth because you

it is too valuable so that they players get him in a different light sion and more sympathetic shape

and what does it do form gel but I want it right now willem the adlers revel itself happens

in and jamie himself why is it good for him to say that truth he just throws i'm so scared

to be battle I will always be finished and always scold people could otherwise become too weak

and to live robot were crazy vulnerable yes and I may not fat version what the father beat rotten

if i were you vulnerable so i'm gonna do life couldn't hurt you and once you

see you have new possibilities to behave differently and you have learned that, for example

from coach gesso if you as a therapist to Friday well I hope to do that myself with my

own team and more people where indeed is it true if you have 18 games apartment then say so

work stays for a very long time and so far and if you really understand being busy with people in a way you can

really help that they can both be themselves but also that they don't have this past but

always bring them into the present and make their own each other's lives miserable yes that their parents thoris them in

the present was sitting in the brother and sister yes yes you also thought about it because the boys who

that or there is something they gave birth to a lot and attach to something that is a precious memory

sticks to what what would you yourself in that tongo you quite what it takes itself about

good was care so early on have that three hours to think about you smoke a

acceptgiro ​​to come back to it let's go a little deeper into your field you want

diving and in particular the phenomenon of trauma with the pivot of feature film a

furnace see architect neck small shared by jeff bridges that speaks for itself

the scene for itself I think probably yes yes let's go watch fearless

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well the job is baby i would suffer the pain and such a moment with us learns that you are for baby

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a lot of views yes and that shows how like i things happen that people have different reactions

have and want to see lose only panic there is also know exactly where the panic flank is about

to she him I the tray a week gift degree in the physio article had her buizel all those things know

off the brain and a lot of people on the other who knew show I care more about talking that

feel nothing at all they become completely calm and can continue despite terrible things

around is able to close so that's what we have no with the owner so see with

jeff bridges and the die sluis even make up the feeling body distract I look at what you at

you don't feel anything he doesn't feel anything during whole thing and that's one of the reactions to trauma is you

goes on for example and I sometimes teach on my foundation harvard where they are journalists

come to the window to do things and the on must regularly war correspondents from libya and

syria and hurricanes are standing and now client and that sentence very quietly while they are busy with a job

in that customs bring that come into a game send to a beautiful building in thick

people you panic and they have their resins and thus prepared to function very well

under getting married but under ordinary circumstances go to brain heaven goes wrong so it wasn't

totally surprised with well sad for me that they got married war euro crineen understanding don't look at

the bay wrote live frieze he has one from paris again the a lot of the people with

the one who worked from hive is the one who has to go back to the building then his brain again what's going on with them

they are so used to that you are constantly in danger that they function with that expensive house number

this is you that too little call also stay with the fragment because this is a different one

situation this is a man who is not in some kind of professional setting or mode going anywhere

goes and has to function there this is a man who unexpectedly finds himself in a situation that

seriously traumatizes him that can't be otherwise because he is full of happiness with that plane because he says he

gets to the question and sat win planes to youth no dude why why he thinks you

and I try to distance them yes and it goes very deep sink see to lie you say

oh yes yes I was there but felt this is not happening to me this happened to others

people around me it's the island catching the distance.that was social sea so an image my

pants dissociation yes and they very good method to protect yourself from terrible things

we have I myself are also made of gold I got mugged quite tom kiehl's in my neighborhood that met

knives started stabbing and I saw how the if my profession oh now it's not on I happen very

intellectually from the i also thought of o but when i the school would the netherlands i can very well

draw when i go home pieces i can draw their face to the breese given and like a ze

arrest i came home i forgot i didn't sign until 30 years old i don't add either

drawing but I was very much coming because I have a and family idea in my head no roof with it she is

people can do is you were attacked you were bit stabbed eyes stickler that you healthy

blood my hand kindle steering wheel and ornament and immediate manager as well as track the thought

and took in all the tooth of the situation ow [ __ ] I'm yes study this I'm getting interesting

day also immediately thought I recognized this I pronounced from my eggs yes the eye is allowed within my

desk I was come can you prevent that here dissociation and what is a function of that this

socially so that you do not avoid anything full partners in the do not avoid through point for

way a lot of romanticized can you crazy skillful in the just carry on yeah like nothing happened

and you can see that very clearly in that in in that you see in this scene and also later in the

movie it's really kind of kind of emotional numb the but that broad you later on i guess

am always don't go to hide fall find you start warm of transition how come you think

maybe partly because i put a lot of who to i have to deal with things big yeah

everyone and each with you you turn and and no one is in danger that man died when with me

happened see you did not look at me who children were good case for a bastard so it went to pray

but they adaptive do you also work a lot with people who are in a tin plane crashes

for example line or a world and so you don't see dissociation either and it goes also think sometimes

not good either because then you often happen the light it is not good my pants surgeon learned

it all if you study with 6 see in frightened cases and you become completely

room that has to do that and then you learn not to have feelings that might make you

not such a sympathetic person with those people around you not a good resistance but make you a good surgeon yes

it was a bit off to you too maybe i think i was very dulled by my medical

training yes but if your back report indeed yes so you don't teach them to have many feelings

and when how do you see in people that eventually that dissociation or that emotional numbness and well

is missing because there have to come a moment that doesn't keep it up fun it becomes difficult to

proportions people to have in your course you go away so a lot of people happens

constantly dealing with soldiers between generations and no you can I do you don't want anymore

love people throw good go away because you would tell because you we the morning so that

is the body shape the score and that also comes from the cito your brain says it's decks

happened to me it was not bad yes but solution want you very very angry and suddenly you want friends from

a weird hey you act very scared and your house you close people so it's the background of you

brain that we call the housekeeping or the body that he keeps marrying with reliving way but

your mind can absolutely do but we care I tell you I've only had three marriages

through marriage the new weapon with the the is something wrong with me that I enjoyed that woman

work out and then them because so a dyke because you have no feelings for the people you are with

because you're supposed to be emotionally numb yes and suddenly think of me we're always talking about trauma

but trauma is of course not it is not in the in the dsm in that official classification for

to it's no matter I natural or diagnosis what's what's your definition of women pythius

that is a diagnosis yes with it and posting buddy quiet to that is that is not faithful but still

do you see that is will you have the gelderesch the in the diagnosis you again yes they still have that

heartbeat turn to make the gondolas thanks you told it's only fun in 1980 yes this one

angle what do what bricks me in senses i've been happening very hard trying to get another diagnosis

to get what more with child abuse has been that much more often yes a much deeper

deeper culture is quincy but right now you say trauma that's the best comparison

with that post-traumatic stress syndrome you were your target yes I didn't have any liquid assets and

and how would you define that than warmer in the poor is an event you can handle completely

and that overwhelms your whole brain and psychology so that you really don't move what you're doing jeff

pitch and he also knows more what you do no kind of zombie does he walk there and how if

you jeff bridges max in this movie it's called his room would get how they handle it

this just also wrote psychedelic okay for that time not but how would I actually is

that trying to listen to the story yes and I won't go into the psychedelic for a while

swan the damper go on lazy asses reduces psychedelic siri means an act of drugs

mind-altering drugs you would bet on that now discover such a heart

with the throat like him yes where she is now euro feedback with people she comes him in brain

connection in the house to change yes now i think that is allowed you have to give me a new feedback you

so can our technician good thoughts to be able to electroshop people their skulls your goal

stop and you can measure what the brain is doing and its the under which i can give you it on their computers

show and thank you play a game with your own brain parts at each you as your brain

make good connection with each other currents and get a sound to abbreviate a deer

jumping out of the forest or ping a flower printer and so you recognize them this is good this is

nice but you don't push it consciously but you went back the subtle signals signals and people around

encouraging them to make another brain area actions is actually what people get

electrons on a skull yes youtube solut yes and they do then they have to do you

produces on a computer yes we watch you a bit of traffic so you say well I have that

don't talk to that so we had to social then any geer if that part with that did the party

then something nice happens then you just let people reminisce about the event

music you notice by the brain how the worst things but those people this the the client

cell does nothing that swan where are the hard ones you try the winters go you just look

a sudden cup of fries herschel classic blue think is the play or something and you lift I got the feeling

of yes that's right pages and cut together at home e hey when I say something and see you in front of you

look friendly he says I'm going to say more b with me a little more and if x is there is really so then

say i need to name him another the answers yes we are very and feedback dependent on feedback

of people so we can use this reasonable event to burn those brains

make connections to follow and let's take a look at the next fragment

that is about a form of therapy slide also used now emdr eye movement desensitization and reprocessing

who they are since it is a smooth say and cried discharges you have also researched the

effectiveness wage and you again as a treatment method for ptsd but omari had the hope

before talking about the effect of those treatments very briefly what does it look like

what do you do with a really nice current methods and if you for the first about say that completely

insane that it's also my first reaction definitely more in action from my colleague street

and white double well can or the deep and and so me what for me will you who there was so important

just a little bit what it looks like what you say here people remember what you saw

don't tell me because once you are a tell your concentration becomes on you and not

on yourself your starting point is, for example, that stabbing via so I won't say anything about the

stripe per theme I feel I put my all into there what do you see what do you still hear

what happens in your body what do you think about and you keep going in and say you ok

cities and then you ask people for your weather hey yes raise fingers up and down organ zo

learn and then calm down and pull up ridiculous things that's what happened and then

it remains to be an incredibly good treatment that is the eye movement desensitization yes

so that yes like mambo jambo but it is there this kind the first you the time busy discovered that

the weird things sometimes work the first time you discover the weird things worked yes very

important you have included a picture of a client before and after and e-mail action

seen so that emdr cecil himself that with those finger movements the case we do not see

mine also with lights I understood at the bottom yes it would look like some gritty images

december 1994 and january 1995 why did you specifically choose this video video the die so good

shows how a traumatic experience comes out of cissé and how the hardest do not heal you whole

dramatically the two treatments and who sees a this video we see a woman who answered

bring a friend yes a long time learning once we soft 80 I've never seen anything

that bloodless search then go watch this one weather session led by steven lerop

serbia exactly

he was a red light and jerry's tree house in new life line for a short time electr article strip en

risposta my life with red drivers in dogs that blank augustine grime and the traffic mine

life if there was a comedy au oh hello hello and know what kind of one that you put in the capsule it

girl started i come put some jules there protein cup throw that and omar push is a

list with each other has no media thinks he enjoys be descried have with tape formation

yes what character traits la charge yellow and are still pa sorry was

Koningslo the start with speakers the shed where we

start behind a guideline on like with great perfecte my

live at montreux they pressed each other I have him slack

hands new had to be able to do this more parents can I he knew

respond

economy cesareo johnny my spmt more every year there is a peak and

anna sent in and so you can get high every day the brain after something about

can you go back to mean we can we weekend and describe what we just saw yes maria

people have not seen fart so you when you sit the first seconds you say safe to her

what I remember a moment she smells the shoulders hummel joya pro animal look

because that of course I can also keep things yes yes exactly off the shoulders enough

the vocal cords become very cool strictly it yes shoulders and she is going to breathe very fast a very

body treated zeeburg behaves like the very scared person and the superior our over

prout becomes the bakers and you can see that in her body we all see our sky my eyes

don't need the can't make sense here yes and what you see is that the more she talks about the more

the body relive what is going to happen hey 6 tells a story about your car happiness and

you see cissé the feet move as if they are pressing those drems again and the more the over

talk the wall bad luck nagging it no different and and the last TV here since all the way so yes

and then company says right thinks indeed often therapy is that what it is talk about it a lot yes and

that's between those the growth rings on the shower not always not always how long is she pause

important but that option de devillé do much more did have a mauve cheese yes but you see

a time see the person completely scared scared sitting like this and so you as long as we return your body itself

like that you can't relax but another keeps it locked and when i saw that

that's exactly what happens to all my patients as soon as they go deeper into the entrance she becomes baker and scared and wild

talk less about the driver c there is a lot of fear and self-hatred suddenly and the I am so

trained as the psych were now a jump luck and talk but about we go yes and if al

soon discovered that the talk about often don't go away you have to do this differently because the body

keep acting like it's on and you it's lord cover your brain oh yeah

i creatures long ago but your body bitter team so what you're actually saying is surfing them

she talks about a memory and because she is reminded him of that event, that reacts

body as if it takes place in the present if we use student anyway and that is the definition of

thrones am in now happening now so over but it wont be reminder for what happened it

becomes a reliving and reliving and every time you think of it remained polite in the every you

want or when you hear a sound that reminds you of your thinker or sees something that reminds you about you

something is to on all about sensory input yes it is about how things enter the brain and then

do you get that other boss being the brain that then evokes the emotions of greenport ik

think I'd more than sting you their want you all over again that anxious scared terrible

angry person you were then yes but this is an example of a successful EMDR treatment

is it 4 weeks between what what happened in the meantime to so that with those then like

yes but you can explain to me because happened she happened what saw your onesie ring and then pushed

ibood muntz and then your body enters say so is happening well and continues on

that moment you get another day 10 years brain come mind' come and that sometimes sometimes not with

the came to do for example has herself the first time and i am the heart but she is whole

requests happened to me and where perhaps daughters in him a professional and scare

hard i start to do so and so hair and i sit i him picture of my family dinner

dinner together next week comes in my brother and I who walked together to

school passed a tennis court I told you that pebbles through the windows of tennis court big

he comes running faster than i got caught here and do is i wanna see think i got caught

then broke drugs pieces name and followed my boy pranks where boys have next time

I the idea of ​​how we played together in the much green bright school for a while shoe things came up

and then went back to the original rings she goes what happens after his voice neighborhood garden

too tired to continue it just became a memory you found more in

take your ass more distance from the traumatic ones here take more distance so it was gone

why enjoyable event we all have no it was just click still a

kind of magic out so my wrassle in all those in line yes but you are already doing scientific

was rules flirt with needed no there is nothing wrong and lending club but i want what you are too

sciences so far and certainly you down already lies in on my research for the most acidic research

for the national mate this over and over again yes so you can also explain to me what it really does

with you a shipping company that there is problem because so we have a very good examine how well it worked

yes for adults how much or the harmony that happens once people mature but it

did not work for child abuse no yes so what happens to you it does happen is good for

people who are dramatized for the first time and then turned back to a name

it took more 15 years to raise enough money to learn some or what's in it

the brain happens but you can hardly explain to me what the theory is behind mtr or it

with hemispheres theory theories about with those places not exactly courses so me with jenny

tells me use elastic methods do and I use it under work but how it works at

the me even as a neuroscientist I now know the opposite I know how it works only took

me 15 years to berate skin to do this research yes because no more had any

interested but can you explain to me how they also imitate an ice cream I would named and and

when we see people is a prince and steps then we see a change in the temple kreisel

junction that she's a part of the brain that make you feel this is going to happen to me and it

outside new connection to the left insula that lets you know what your body is happening

is another change with the threshing lesson on is our cortex that you feel away again in this too

sometimes off on not off and and year if you talk to us the new of hoe yes but what I understand

is so you are you point to your right half yes so a right brain sends a signal

to the go so signals are passed in the brain while your eyes move on that there

so that thing you thin the scanner and you're going to care people and see what's going on in the brain

happen what kind of new villain you hear the circuitry need to be opened new connections

gaal and you connect yes yes and that makes you feel more distance to that is why very in

therefore by being aware of yes this happened to me but it happened a long time ago and

those feelings come and the back but dare go brave very good very can because your brain orphans

it's growing in the past it's not part of 2 it's it's not happening right now yes you have to

less money this leg circus it so next year they're there barely present there with you one me it

about was for nice or not so nice whatever but are no clear images no

the deep feelings the separation unless you something quite an option is going to happen to you and but that is

just become memory going to change by but then mouse memory don't change and that's it

problem the trauma is those same things kept coming back go to have your memory

don't change you say that's why paint see this chip because the first take you see this leave a die is

totally back in that car accident and see your second part and sister just tell story and she

talk like she's talking from the teleporter yes it's a distant remembered their body is we come here

and not there and that bottom put a huge what happens in the brain that you can take care of them

becomes something with the past and that becomes with the present because married once about it's ram

not about the events chervet happened because the event but agree

your brain can't appreciate knowing this happened early then and not now that's the problem

it foams and you can experience a trauma as an individual, but it can also be done as a family as a collective

or even as a country apartheid inflicted deep wounds on the people of south africa and the man who

had to make a restart with the healing of this lived was archbishop desmond tutu

he led the truth and reconciliation commission and who does cancellation in short trc and a very

very short what was the purpose of that truth commission once again very so I was me

a consultant I never dig helpful but you're quite happy to have been more busy and a

problem was that man in south africa knew very well what happens in india when going to the

partition had the millions of people through both and you said when our country is born it becomes real

violence they we invite the come over it's the tsi passed mainly because we can de

telling the truth and asking forgiveness from each other are volcanic killing and if your south africa

knew 33 such an incredibly dangerous country in 1992 and people can't wait to see all those white

to kill people yes very understandable but trueview and find models and alice remia 996

that boys become m yes they occupied blood have a safe country yes and the procession became the big drum it

european so soon I've ever met a disco unloading oh yes with therapist or your heroes no

I am I think I want more about your involvement that's why there's that's why there's no such violence

happens due to model out due to me because they really people have worked so hard to make them

help gosh I understood you I see you you went here and it really happened yes here is

heard you are heard and the cio clear so we are going to look at an excerpt from a

documentary about the desmond to two children of delights who passed away last year this my triturus

planning to hang martin fastest models from saint elite the second legislation condition

stumping who deeply believed in c how it already on guest an invoice that is not cool we have

martin no we also have to piss in the ai the flood to point him out commission has made

a post and pernicious medical communion ange my rights violations investigator at guests die

average 319 pieces that and then see after a title i believe you all concrete sign the red cross

in the processor feeling to share the story's the commission clear bottle screening of a thud

1519 ninety-six of coals his job to his wife and i 4 minutes in a lot of black him

how think what time this was it ella is doing to do my job well here broods in that

star camping and that's person who bet me baby girl the mass public squirt and

out again if you ate in the pier big but boys and amy body can see him while a 2 minutes

after sweating rabbit in the just slightly the for glass and lifting technique backs cognition if

you enable back and no one is nature pain of treat you describe sander der deutschen word

become me sleep this is expensive tells the education and forget about disney but your link on the left about

my bike enters head to win whole comes just for 10 bucks what i need is a high june state

and push her ac power lines often have if you wish to work out apple cake in africa

so was the last how the knife and that's itami he could against demons there

just it crispy needs the geerings lantern format and the testimony was

earring do you want him in an old was a sentence in so can do a

impressions why how could give the cost

or criticize the plans

its that position know the beeping brothers like girls that is super specific for here with

mm candy tree what is b to if you have a cow in rehabilitation as tissue mine and symbolism not

15 have not been there so process is on you cool to solo historical that this is something we still

officially underestimate and around 1610 want to do with your baby boys best to the girls and a16 and the show

is complete and pietje is possible on the consumer light4nations

he to most solid form and you have me was castile disturbance massimo

tourism is here list add here you go mama

is good so after limiting can quote record chinese I do

or war was commission already know my conclusion

those leads out the same

he says women talk what makes them special he was such a people dancing with

people hey pray with people it wasn't just parents who take important me me me too

listen he sympathized and when it became too much what it regularly wonders

which series let's sing together let's dance because telling the story is too difficult often

because once you tell a story, all the heartfelt ones come back into your body and you feel like it

it happened again and then it continues all the way because he felt in his own body too

counted in listening was an understanding oh sorry I can't figure out so much he sports a years species

last sing together let's dance together so he went what a bee we call that pengy you read

goes into the trauma and when it gets a lot comes out she something that makes people feel safe like

sing or dance and and we add one with people and you understand for your will and then you go on

but the your safety brought was incredible by singing and dancing so it's about the healing

power of your lord the count of the breath of the community the healing power to work together

be and that ping want art a very big hollow music has always been used to kill people amari

to help and what is that what what is that healing power of, for example, john and dance what what what

do that with someone who is traumatized the piece you give what you don't

enough map is the mothers with children who play are like a child little baby whole

look very unhappy then you fly darcy you sing with the baby have so singing is music

older than language lullabies year needed yes o holy that you do the mother who prune about

the whole world how does the matter which kikuchi coach celebrate and so we do hey cindy hope for the

scene she on the intestines teach you negative 140 people to sing together to to your life care

can deal with numbers it's we make music together is an enormously powerful way in which people

connects we have this so came back from south africa and the students meeuwis just came

back from a chance and can and cambodia i did it to him sometimes weird africa sense and has more movies

from cambodia and they were all singing tie they knew something we don't know yes that's here

at I was they move as advisor ok good I not lazy archive went among other yes now I am a

little way but then if you pass your job there or if you go then y lipgloss so they paid forms

trip was not allowed to tell have now the talked and all the members of the club was true are what

she the trouble path yes like some kind of advisor those hammers they all knew but yes you want you

don't make a role too big what you hear now I understand no one would do a role well and how do you know after that

if as 0 fans this might be a bit stiff in the hip and the therapist that suddenly there was dancing and

sung do well and then me when I left holland enter where you went what also

which influenced it so i forgot greenish pretty good dances and i learned that the

also some music transcending just mean white man him pretty good yes but you would it right away

for me that they don't care about crazy if i only lived my netherlands want become shock

then you had the guesses to create your own that I discovered very much that each has every culture

his own way come with hot beasts they are and the zero de parturen bit of culture is like us

feel bad then drink we was him that my culture of western people that was so real

feel take weather image is there eh yes and that is now the sad normal in psyche if you have a

fresh take pill and from people have learned the tour yes sometimes and the pills number me sometimes

a ship better to sing the dance of singing and dancing together and that the and him and that

actually reminds you of how your mother didn't have you my mother when I think now yes

a country where counting if you are born every day by the hundreds then I think and also rene name is too

a little later can texas yes yes where did she go no no more side happens terrible' abortion

people the separate say that women are no longer boss in their own bellies tomorrow that and that your children

must have although you have those children so rape 70 terrible yes my link whole

the knight to remember that we have a then and our editorial of first conversations with you

via kiss then you had just finished a jungle with kiev with people who were hiding in there

one to keep the under glass yes and you talked to that for 9 kissing years after what do you say name and

insects worked a lot or luydens terrible is going to happen and and for name I will say

she you have to keep doing things together have to reach his meals you have to have kids for you

children reading must was when you must do many things because when you themed the you feel physically

so helpless and they came out end physical experience of the is nothing i can do to matter

change so your body is not allowed to be paralyzed actually so the first of go people hair

mother kept doing something what do those people want to do if they can pull such a tunnel there they can do it

make bed they can even sing make music together but you have to do something also could you connect

with my other people go get the billig there so if you have obligatory or art ben p

all your everywhere baby is much easier for you because you see something and you are going to do something about it so you

becomes much less talented except up the course where you could do nothing so ask yes

if you have the idea that you are just and if you envy the absurd if you what comes target yes

whatever ocean do because of course what you said before people are locked up and actually have to

you unlock yourself yes the natural reaction is mine hear your child she is murdered

of feet i'm hopelessly out of it are virtues gestures that are always gestures of drama fishing

yes from paralysis all link archive paralyzed and so if you study him if you are with him see all

terrible things but you are deservedly taught if something happens day more then you do that

and if we do you that is and if we find a three years you'd be here with burnt them

would only have limits but when i take my medicine they say whole thing ok sickle

i am baby gift by but i can do that and i can do that and do that and become because of it

ends one ends the motions stand in the way to continue we experience but once you say I am

it completely helpless and then your body becomes heaven paralyzed and you and 60 years career as

therapist you have actually done neuroscientific research you have witnessed a

number of important developments and new insights within your field and for one of

These important new insights we go back to 1960 a documentary about the so-called

bonding theories and one of the founders of these is John Bouwbureau and a scientist who

trying to prove barbies theory was henrich arlo and then go and watch the cbs program

conquests the episode about noise harlow's investigation titled motherless with my storio

e-reader than a brass wire what well here arno but and reading on a wire but very baby living

in london and wire mother bye oh

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bae bae this is on purpose square your with a child ayse have on with the bank in the much more managing

who need almost every looking we speak hey welcome to a high level peter this with

just 510 and strange a warm where the baby makes stupid but fair in well let sperm children again

needed ali b yes-r in a setting become with wet you guys it

well always the baby material and product white now

this with notes by een warm-up daps hoi ali blog

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well we don't talk we have the talk but because of them

youngest shift can the region 5 on the wire mother earth kim sit topless in the night in

the weather restrictions shirt but rather easy where we know the reduction and on a new cycle'

with contact camps so i could get will that is weather warden passion and teacher purchase

buddy miller have pear so wrong but god and who else would not have bart hermsen century

china angry on the track and in best devis brings news where first well bharmal i seriously p

I don't know how normal and happy monkeys in a laboratory you but let's leave that for a moment

disregarded that was the most important insights hd interest admit it transport

very saw when I was at lecture and it is indeed that monkeys that have contact through and that

go they have more contact north than they need food security yes and and de

the affiliation and the contact with a relationship is so terribly important and until then

psychology had paid little attention to it eggerik tot balberghe came a ball bihar be there

two sides of self drink it that showed how we deeply attached w primate are each other or

of safety frank very much of rhythms and touch feed your body with each other and that is indeed

important hey eyes interesting example in psychology means to recommend someone nothing

we don't do that when treating people you don't deal with your monuments as a therapist

generally not no as we will see what that is important to learn to take care of your body

safe to do feeding with other body is a very important part of having a scrape

happen yes because what we see here is like a baby monkey in this case that group

who feels that security and that safety, then that brain specializes

so other than then he dares to play and to discover the i.e. I just want to play

if you feel safe you can discover limmen if you work you feel safe and that happens and otherwise that

missing then people become very constrictors are there on time then they do not open and new

things and don't want to learn new things because they try them bang funny de klinge

to what what are better but they don't mind about new things yes and then if they do

then don't experience so no security no warmth than one that mothers own wire iron wire

you, for example, then they incur attachment damage and how long does something like this continue

it tasted say the by the by which full generation to generation

if you don't get so i have very hard to teach your kids to hold them

sometimes mac like gardo can also be lethal if a cubes have some children animals them

slowly because to touch their children it was not had to cleave in between squiggles

glasses yes t security did not feel that not they very environmental work in it was not about

all the warm I also know a number of people who have become very good nurses

the whole good warm people leather jackets that had nothing arguing glamor the you can't they

this follows that no and some people again for this I never had I myself take care of that people

with whom I work got it so I'm going to specialize now that happens doctor and so here it is

force that attachment theory based on what time that theory is that an unambiguous something of

immediately kill well we are several things has this thing because I also have a score of

attachment styles are the ones that came out of this with it was possible that bob is working with my so know movie

in much more from today that going on a form pass and so is the boxer he like you

nothing gets so small child are a number of possibilities one of is feeling but no division

so you feel constantly abandoned and you may february you make people fear her mad at you

go but people know you need something the other one is that ring but not feeling juliet

not to have feelings like you get jeffreys so here's ice cream truck fart lot of important ones

people who have world that it feels so nothing for other people but boy she is very good at

rational things to do yes but backgrounds warm emperor do not come no and yet if I here

Look, I don't quite understand one thing because you have your own thread mother and those fabrics

mother but it's not true that a soft piece of cloth is the same duke as cuddling like

interaction so you can't have a baby and if their mother goes to the office for a week on a

put a soft pillow and that is security is dry than the value of the subject people

need votes yes points need actions feelings your samchun sometimes it was

the beginners beginning of john bowlby a label of my friends do you so ceracraft yes and that

sounds so terribly logical but you already said when he studied washable people that is

totally unaware that can lower he is still allowed if you have a fly correct device

wood find america or in the netherlands nobody let you do to nobody what my trip so they fascinate

to tell me you should think better about edited so we have the we have that attachment theory

but we still haven't really learned from it I was shocked we learned very little from yes yes so they in

in of the I was anyway to find bobby and that sea little orwell's book or a magic for is direct

like from the people of mix social classes in england you are all sending away to these

topics cools ge 267 and we all know nothing about bonding because the only got no

so educate your school desks no cuddling and conquer the world and especially the world in a

hour yes then we sat yesterday he harlow himself can also fall and praise distraught you dance too

so it also has your own theory not very interesting is also i have three of my good ones

friends sea were students of his, they do not have more the you to him as a person too

yes difficult person but still a lot of things we go through my was not a nice father no but me

want such a good boss must what do you manage rational with way to approach this yes we

stay with the parent-child relationship with your choice film the film that will be in after this broadcast

is broadcast in full ingmar bergman classic by ian alexander but later completely spoiled the

of the film is about a very ins sun the swedish family old bow biography family and i become

burg my who so gets biography and holes a little bit about your own life and i know exactly

how it actually youth is there many ways very nice family doing fun things and then

swords killed she his mother remarried to a terrible vicar who bit she like so

their Dutch sometimes are hard that good that bad hard that they really mistreated then

you see young boys treated by themselves but they together and that fanny to something

the have each other I think the workman see the will they can still say this is really on

it happen and once you're one you're crazy it's was as a kid got so don't

know that this happens not because they are wrong as a child for you always this happens too

discover are bad person but because they have each other they can really see the truth for it

talk to each other and he can talk and she can see what is happening

we fall into it the moment that playful and cheerful theater is the father of van jan alexander

died or and their mother has indeed remarried with divisions as you told

strict pastor after this broadcast this film can be seen in its entirety funny and alexander

cover I look at you well they caught them and they threw a story for it or it

weekly there are those who have drowned and he thinks that he will die and become bartel and his mother

says oh I give my time we have it nicer and then you get the whole piece

and marry and loyalty we are normal very loyal people so we must belong to someone

you must have it at home when you are a child and after those poor children who think they

will be tortured to death and my mother has chosen this terrible one at the moment

husband and mother no longer protects and so they are alone in the world and then you have to

find in a form way an adjustment to such and this to live this all forgiveness while you

I'm terrified of that gentleman and usually what happens in such a case is that a child says this

happens because I'm a bad person then you get a lifelong feeling there's something wrong with

me otherwise she would never drop that to me give you a child if she blames herself

yes then you succeed give no choice we know you no other realities happens in mind that

your parents who must love you don't that's the somewhere then lily and selden

countries are possible suspect I have a video or small so you that our cent that also and

i say what a nice kid i am you and he says he is grandfather are still billion 20 of

my age and i've watched them all and i for worse i'm pretty good but its many

kids know this when i say to with you are very beautiful yootje then becomes reality and if

the counts say you're a little bastard I where I was born here that's it becomes you any more

possible you can compare this no pierci good angle good science and this go those kids in

that case itself is finished the feeling of this happening to me because so really [ __ ] ben becomes

if the case that the strong but for back human you you can be in this look good is that

that may not have happened because of your neck sanne each other brains we are going to explain that they

have each other so they can talk to each other so then he is a bad man and so not because you

your photos and third that have their other reality but if they don't get work around you

test reality more can so discover other than the heavens friend let you other

work yes but if no one says is not your fault a mini bad then you are stuck there

is that is that loneliness of such a story you can't share sometimes maybe almost

worse than what really happened the previous book for this one uses them a lot word dammit

god damn sure because of his good name for nadia you so my god my god why do you have toilet

she felt very deeply me very deep loneliness I am different I don't hear you I like you well

i'm a bad person i deserve what happens to me and that becomes what problem if

you get bigger yes and actually they are each other's rescue here than the brother and a sister

yes more or less they help each other yes yes i will understand that i had to you too small chance

Go for a walk which immediately read your book cells and in your book you write about your own

childhood and your own father corner around the man every morning I every morning while the rest of

the family still slept softly down the stairs before walking to pray and read the bible

reading so horribly hot-tempered how come someone whose life was so devoted to the pursuit of

social justice carry so much anger no matter how she saw your father's anger

out that the laurels like if this priest have you ide so it must be absolutely not

with water so the same in camp and very early what kind of place and was 2020 work camp I wimpie

she rest assured my laces do not want this order much away and not even until a jew both went on

other people grandeur dutch share other things and obey my father one rule

sin speaks against speaking and as 3 wood growth she said to my father father have sat a camp

to fight 30 but do it now do it yourself with your own children like the nazis did to you

very early start what I of this is not right was a commander of that your advice no own

opinion you can have yes you have become a very early call because of that but what did you do

father save you taught my pulse sometimes loud and search the cellar locks up in the cellar

but how long my vocation lasts felt very long to be yes in your objectives long it was

was and how the model that then I always played with I will be sweet belly wanted very afterwards

a lot of contempt falls from myself that I didn't have that no more guts luck that I want

say yes yes I will I will go with you spear is all you do you wanted to bother you was right

but you cried I would be sweet yes yes you want we I had a lot of contempt for myself

lessons seven jump click ted lesson or story what your sexes should then are not you

Showing your vulnerable side yes how did that work for you as adults

well you see it play out and then you go to therapies and you do all the work what

you touch the other people and then gradually you can pray for you deal the tell me

that there was a lot of work to do and you also knew because you had all the theories and he also knew that

you ran a big risk on the top where you pass your own children because we just had that

had we already learned if you were afraid of that no actually I go with a friend power lasted

quite long before I discovered that I myself also furious screamers the most good therapist

you being that they become therapists with a real 8 round bases in that i didn't know for a long time

actually yes that by discovering in you yes a miracle tenant who does not go by yourself because you

actually also by count but he had to start plow and therefore other people with

it took two long time and your mother that was the one who gave you nice spacious room come here

my mother was like the women put in the paint don't take cher now my father wasn't

I benevolent persons your father locked you in the cellar but now with the true corpses of a

nice man also mind back to nice things yes they are there I didn't want the book so

go into a lot but no mothers wants a lot big problem in which way it wasn't like that

social things where a lot of good things like that I'm grandfather it from your boerhaave 1917 or something about

bike trade start of course from the the floor epidemic from you take in their he got it

that plus rp to stand I say where she walked and it became paralyzed and so never again is never

got out of bed more what happened so it was there were no social facilities

so the spanish flu made that family completely dead from my mother

had to go to work at 14 and worked very well and between their young wife

is we wetzel 4th place and oil companies was very smart true to nature the she of a

married woman in 1939 in the netherlands not yet working with threatening you at home you are not allowed

more worse that's a terrible thing from my mother if my mother could have turned out

keep working there was a certain fun case remained but she was wim powder and so this die

by the way that vista through their families and so and they was not yours are those

man sneakers fire gives us all as there is now for herself she was won

Do you think I appreciate the added value of a miracle trailer

so you must know where it hurts free must understand we humans the lord have gone

you should really do better what it is to be very afraid be very angry at having left you

to feel that are very important things to have experienced yourself also good therapist true

you were born in the hague 1953

in the middle of the second world war and in that context you want to show the attack

harry difficult yes but is the film about the many people still have

but also an attack but what is more connected is about a family and

on the canal in haarlem you forgive you blew me trying very hard the war

to survive at some point a policeman is shot dead in front of the door

groups is story me make a long story short they are suspected that they did it

they killed his dad your mom a pool party day by the ss and he gets a cell on insane met

a knife limit idea participated in the murder of that cop and they are holding each other

he is the requirements safe are they safety for him it's a young boy he the half hour sons

the head 12 years old is a jets his family this is a misunderstanding about it seems what for their house

was placed here and therefore free family is suspected of murder and content that becomes a bit

so have a very strong bond what people form when people are very scared then form lilies pull bond

little boy is it very attached to that woman that empty michel that for that one evening will be

there and later to beatty a girl who on a again reminiscent of that woman delivers farmer

in love with yes and then gradually the memories come in and the feelings are already coming back

over many years we had or pressure of right to a solid excerpt from the film classic

that that is not the case is not up to us cnn not to the will of the editors of summer guests

but the images have the rights that they are already in the hands of amazon to great surprise

have then been able to get a small piece and say a lot about it yes the clamp will be

dutch and they made automatic things to translate but once dutch it

is complete nonsense the subtitle a subtitle the yes but by the noodles and out to yourself so

Bought in America for the movie so yes no one could see it what kind of chrome

incomprehensible because the department mambo jambo so I was stunned doctors you one allows to

to show that film because his golden film is impossible in america can sell someone

see you sometime you really want to show where it was a pricey affair

the will not dedicate too much government we were able to get a small piece

and in addition, we see harry mulisch himself who will be interviewing about his book the attack

far away in the second world war and certainly anton Steenwijk lived with his parents and

his brother on the outskirts of Haarlem it was January 1945 almost all of Europe was liberated

celebrated at drank made love and slowly started to forget the war but

Haarlem turned more and more into a big cinder like it had the stove out

came when there were still coals so harry mulisch outlines the time and place of the act

The first chapter of his new novel The Attack protagonist is a 12-year-old boy whose family

unwittingly becomes involved in an attack as retaliatory measures merge the German het

whole family only the main character is spared musicians outline how the attack affects the life of the man

continues to determine and each phase of life is confronted again with the war harry

mulisch your book tells that man's life until 31 when at least that episode's that immediately

don't relate to this his life people book down episodes with it

whole life is paid for by rituals world order is a copy is for your generation

ohh it is so far determining look it is of course not a man who and a syndrome

so he is constantly busy with it and it also has nightmares but it

is not that that incident makes his life impossible as many people who

have been in concentration camp or something for treatment so it shouldn't be like that but look at it

is now such a drastic event that it is always light that lurks and makes

also known and certainly assie met people who had to do with it, for example

the man who committed that attack resistance fighter or of those who were involved because

I kept happening very strange that I might not need to talk about now

you put there

have to

this is a place in heiloo where the war absolutely nothing happened but where i

novel the attack had an attack on a fascist police inspector who was here

the sidewalk would have been shot but to that house there set on fire by the day is striking now

that even though this is all made up people still come back to this place and go around here

look how do you explain that that I explain because the imagination is apparently stronger

then had a reality in it that disappeared is it it even occurs I have those people

god that people want to go in there and look at the house, so this was the conservatory

while the on has happened and b in my tree in my book besides that house around everything was eyes

but good is so unreal apparently and i hope the figure can take that as a client

it's a 1986 movie from oscar came out in america then you saw what did it do to you

martin de heli deep impression on me tip me very much thinking of the fact that I am so on the one

of the second war were born dry and the very deep impression they made on me

true about stories about people who survived your camp in came back

and that fear that the always was it he says mini says it's all made up

it wasn't all made up all those things happened and all that thing say part of my joints

and my friends my family add imprint of reality the word became whole are in deep

experience that second world war that still draws us all we have so I had two

very good buddies in primary school saw one of ethic gistel the other was a german one

boy and cortina died and she just told us oh yeah when i was little my mom is

fled berlin my father was a gira had the ss and at home and your mother has with the

being thrown out the window in the arms of an English she act because the other side is true

the russian let and i own must my mother circles forces be scale e the room gone

yes so and that he talked for hours about your experience 3 2 years and that was the experience

of us all x i grew up and scheveningen all the big most houses where destroyed they played

in the cellars and houses we found guns from the pistols we bunkers so all it was all

very much our life and the stories that people who died came back here they came for their word

and what specifically came to your mind then you do this movie template was of course really a

really and and pierre too bad the wood kept with me and the all the people I know from that time very

were very busy with our livable heavy use things with the bombed people

came out back in these jap camps and it was very much a part of our early childhood and what

mainly impressed me this movie is that it gets stuck on that girl with whom

would be in jail and that whole tree determines for their family house family can keep up with

who drew that close that the whole joints there by the way experience they life deeply yes actually

actually that trauma interrupts his life story a bit like you get stuck at that moment

yes that they bags that beam you got stuck yes the head to come back to all kinds of unexpected

manners your child the same age when you were equally powerful and suddenly you two can no longer

take care of the child or study such things and you in the movie we see it very clearly

indeed dante did the main character who was in the cell with that young woman yes we see the lord

the kisses are over or the one who got hers and and in the movie you see that every

times at specific moments [ __ ] comes back how it works that's what I read

in your book an example of one and patients you really that after a few decades back to you

he came back to you in the treatment room at some kind of core moment in their lives

lion companions see what you see or what you hear is all your sensory where we are become

associated with your deep emotions that you see as certain things or hear bonding a bit

suddenly back in that state you have no idea what kind of state you and it's me suddenly

I don't want to have anything more to do madam solution became necessary transport to leave

or to walk away or i'm terribly mad at you don't know why she was mad not from

oh that reminds me of it that's why but is already getting angry his sin automatically associations that

be made in the right one for you yes and that that client who writes him image if i'm right

remember you can tell at which moments he ends up with you again by the first die

seeing them came back his same age and he had just had a baby and every guest got it

baby met expectations the work was the domino as a starting point home had he saw no dead

children he what he was crazy name employed have swear allegiance brand in vietnam and he what with the

clique and whole so auditoriums between nations biolicious my colleague said he o is kids a

frame that the prior thought and I had free performs with since previous work now agrees

something different and coincidentally say the same what freud your time for real what is it no i don't think so

suffered as bad lay your whole so certainly against well you can go to the schizophrenia hospital

to go see if you can treat come this boy I this is especially busy is it I'm going to work with him

and blah blah so a workout season link block from a horse of test is to spot times so

it very bad i ran the conversion and he we terrified you oh my god that's that baby de

death went and my arms in vietnam and now i got yourself and lg assen child then

fly the same as there are ten who never was responsible for such a thing in you vietnam so that

tires like how she could went pretty well 18 years later I throw all that mail and you no that you less

seems I don't get you directly last week gave a lecture beijing where I talked about your workshop

from the sea that is and I have a lot later and and she well I pretended to enjoy riddler

and he said last week i want two scares that i had a son there is growing and annick is

really very good and last week had to i had to take my chin lego HQ today so he

lying in could go and it could be gold ring yes and all those troubles room back there are

now given the act with two and then I miss again over we went to try so and

then hobby back later still 10 15 years later and he said well I have a very mysterious biological

trouble and if i have to preach the cake i just fall can give now and then have no power

more you my feet and sounds like furniture course my doctors thick not it's notebooks boxes

so i only have one my wife has a residential building sea pinwheel wheelchair can sit

is it I was in the handicap person our whole story yes nothing against it yes that is very important

that you do and you say well I just started yoga myself I started studying bio and I find

it terribly door and if your body your story might be good well through to really pay attention

sing your body new york do your body here now you stab it let me always their lord loves yoga

do and I occasionally hear cases now has yoga instructor of people who soldiers in Afghanistan

were at my age artifex you after a year occasionally the the new york the libyan problems

they changed slightly but are used to pleasurable experiences and who stand but

she revival and has a very rich life three very healthy responsible great fun I want something

move you are a psychiatrist and really know people over many years and see how they develop

as a very nice he can also you back on those specific core moments indeed those then

feelings is all sense who experience' the desk plaster score this pilgrim stories you feel

you gave up on is just silly or scared or angry but not from this too this reminds me of that day

in vietnam no there is no direct reason sometimes yes but usually not so

you started your career as a psychiatrist treating veterans mainly in vietnam

both the mail is not understood but that the row free the beginning and in that context you want the

movie the hurt locker show yes about a veteran from your the iraq war and about

that term the hurt locker on that means that means your dresses you close your youth

pain off decoy you lock it up yes you stop it now at home yes decoy his class yes reviews

put your feelings away now in blue and then you think you locked them up but they are

of course there is still exactly yes from the people around it will say tjechie what are you doing

there oh I can't trust you you belong for angry or I don't know where you are will you are

drinkable but people usually didn't know the origin of this woke up

so met at wit hane main complaint was i don't feel anything

i wrote letters to my girlfriend trick who was vietnam she kept my life

and I came home I didn't feel like she wanted to get married when it turned out to have married well

children but I don't feel anything from the children now show current brain research as

people are busy with things commanded and you see nothing happened brain and when they go back

to a tama becomes to be all alive so the you your your bed who dredges you get a

new brain setup after trauma which makes you very good to be busy with raw but me

can those people is busy with ordinary things so the kind of problem to treat warm

is to help make you feel alive here today and not constantly as

interpret them through the light from your horse windows and so one of the things I often do wrong

in psychatry we keep getting married over you together but your fat aspect that

his terrible mistake we made because that dream became 40 more important and the

remains life less and less important to that I have one of the groups that miss cartoon

with trellis groups who had all fought in bastogne in he gets you 1942

only thing they could talk about was what i'm going to happen that christmas in bastogne so i said did you

wife you your child by you you ever do had her job you but all that meant was their

war to and vests of lighting yes yes that because you also see it in the fragment indeed that this one

soldier this change ethic that says plane up like a son i only love one thing and

don't mean that sons yes he means war k and them out you can't often don't

stand to be with oneself 's very difficult to experience and feel for yourself when you yourself

you all that fear that pain so as long as you're busy doing things you can get the pain back

push the door yes you also see in the supermarket that he is agnese and really don't know how anymore

show it around a normal 9 you can't distinguish anymore what you're going to do that's not always

important the study the take your friend yard well you did who looked at the harvard case of itunes zul

you to the for the to the gym to the war and the people who tested a gentleman who 540 with them

and through 1991 and the people who dined no trauma holder told completely different story

in 1945 so a normal brain change the story but the people who were passed 45

where you still tell the same 1941 so deceive that you are still growing seems to me to be those

preconditions of that bankruptcy has been different from the heads because they have the same

had an experience you even had a very nice album but never them now of course not the same bit

handy yes a bit of national do you want to either kill people or not kill people

or you have your best friend dorsi go you those are not all embarrassing heavy his deep fall from you

but the pieces second piece I want to say is that the people who were based were better at

a profession than man are not manufactured because they hid themselves a profession so peasant

college is a very good adaptation of came and once you get a good education

can you often stor you pour in your work but their marriages we want their children terribly

nothing to do with it but they had more more more nutrition in cow is shoe brands than people who

not based out of the shed such a based word is very good at getting into job in ultimate relationship

don't draw a story from hove about their yes the book to talk about that dress

with brussels too but wait a minute because I also want a little longer because you also chose the fragment

because of that scene with a boy and that and that devil from a box because and a war trauma

also does something with your imagination and that's what we see here of course Jan so die

so don't necessarily close war malfunction view the small ring nothing more k so for

we are guilty sitting outside today having a glass of beer and reading the beautiful book

see enjoy the little things for him very the who see that when I had to shop

this is what you just told about that client of your butt that you heard saw that test see see and he said I

see here a dead baby boy in your book i read that there was also a group of veterans the shutter

group indeed iraq dead baby abutments people me also had a group can i take my rings out of you

pants lodi in that spot nothing wrong at all axa wf imagination full parts to zo en

what is the consequence to the cover you that you have no life as long as you do not have more things

can see and your examples then you just do the routine of going there every day because you

maybe can't organize a better future you can i beg can shake images

want the village let's think about it another possibility is of course terrible

difficult marcheurs there with soap and the can't imagine how it could be otherwise no

and so you really have to be very active trying other things we took it to show the other

things are possible on a very deeper level and you told that in the beginning so in the treatment the

mistake was made to talk about it over and over that do sister do yes and that you then

turned out now what do you do now I do started warm but I dare say I do them yes then things

which they like to pass by right away, he also thought it was funny to read that you

himself conscientious objector was absolutely yes why does he not want to be employed nicely asked family of

service became earth and a very important tradition am the very good reason was that i did have feeling

that if I got a machine gun I might be drilled in of the gyrus there would be

are those who have the pleasure and hardship of killing people because people have fun killing people

and once you open it you see people really being sadistic and that i wanted piece by piece

didn't get to know me you were afraid you will enjoy it you want it apparently you base it

that on then maybe it will be with you ohoh I was just really aware to myself yes but I know

the enough people who really had fun killing people and don't get to know that side all of that

I don't want it now you personally don't want it what I thought wouldn't get over it if

once I'd done things like that in the war I didn't think I'd come back like that

all the existential necessity of me not to survival yes and sink daleks them

have already been mentioned and methods to treat veterans with ptsd we do not succeed again dream no

but that's what we're going to see so that's why sorry treat you enjoyed twitter poor psyche

doors club 100 okay that's what your garage see you've never done that digital because of your dream

it's nature okay no that's why I quote it indeed because we where we're going

going to watch is a a veteran being treated with the pressure and lima i one or that one

bureau you act yes lemdina the active ingredient in ecstasy and we are going to see a session with an iraq

veteran do you explain something about it we can start thinking it is important that he does his

tag them back on but when you get to know prays he left became babies act like little too

little boy and herbert handcuffed so I'm going to hear you are always whole read here how different

layers coming out there's a layering weird receiver unconscious went there to watch

my site a and site can so want intense movie marley barney harpy sabine pass pass henkie

veurst eye catcher john mcenroe frame with and massa sabrina and and never felt for it

I go I want her bike that the locks to a size of so clothing industry

likes imagination and amazing go to quickly from your lifestyle and controller

in millions of go system patton players and weekend electron panic attack can be

and but herbie's europe that plus and giant star most house i wanted but guy de comites

the house in words

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and techniques biology theaters so let's minutes of so relaxing and typing a beam

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visualize toasters watch if the jack cel a test channel i want i a friends and visualize

pk highline strong I have it is really just personal

computer pick him up even so far as to instill that and my cell keeper him what that

can go exactly with it was named for him lack of diskettes in the center just

kids crystal

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my emergency strengths between with a save a lot of look so macho the pacer

i minutes i got an exit i caught chapel and employee that sangha a lot

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it yes what do you think product sheet in finish thoughts and i thought pass by you say

well I'm very happy with what's happening with this so we're just watching my we looked at

a chill who has had five and dme treatments he is light and she on that bed with my

friends the midoffice and before eight you lie there and your lesson lasts 8 hours long and often

do you talk so much you just lie there things go do your mind and memory fluctuates

and sometimes they are very painfully difficult then you go the moisture now your real you learn to see yourself

and experienced and you I just wrote down again that whoever spoils article 2 jurgen a lot

deeper sense of this is me and this she happened to me and here don't be afraid of yourself anymore

it is so he has committed the atrocities as they do there too often and and use them best friend

has died and will be terribly anxious and so if you take akke dirks you will feel things

well but you can still you can go one day the van will run away from it and so you see very

difficult things said yes it was then I caught my own self viewer without judging you

can see yourself there is a very common thing is constantly seeing me also meet the vision

singing chris from old cookie just it the poor boy am 18 years old he didnt know how to do it

respond to the deaf his friend he killed those children and me terrible that poor one

boy who did the he can I have a passion welcome passes in that respect no big

part gothic and that people understand much more words for themselves a van themselves peeters

I do that and we say now I understand what happened but they got almost nothing for us the beauty

leader say almost nothing to you you just help people to what you then I say what see

you were going on how to wash through but you don't put anything there and really come it's even singing and what

so you see is that you are traumatized we have his opinion make you people but could be everything

to forget so declare everything yes you make you except the that people always so fence and say

oh i was like that because i was china you say oh i was me i was 18 years old and i was awesome

angry and my think you got killed and then i got so angry for heaven incest survivors de

I see that say I was declared because I was my very lively sexual little girl and that's why

did it happen so i can never have sexual feelings again other than do the same again

to myself really mattered i let myself be mistreated so people you are terrified of them

own sexuality for example about my own words or own feelings and if the lord

wegg and said yes that's why it happened and I locked the piece with it my name can it go back

from between part yes you learn to look at yourself with compassion is what you say he also says very

in the pigment of it's amazing how in control siphoned this sentence i wrote it down while

you at busiest I often have the association with losing control how do you explain that

lose control oh that's where you never know where you never know what will happen

hey that's why the environment is so important give so people are you have to be people people who

the real you feel became more great fear is when these things nobles are taken away

they are in the Netherlands would go the mm not yet that moment everyone will use racks is not

legal in the Netherlands don't do it that I'm not so clever les lamai check but I am me

go no just very harmless medicines sauce it after you're afraid just when it becomes legal then

then starts in here starts taking to work the wrong circumstances in

can you write good people got a whole book from dip khatami in the mail he said

just take it these things you shouldn't just take some all kinds of very difficult things

come in the upstairs room india happen to it the name bank done to him yes for that under principal

investigator of the city did not do more than she had to do and how did that go well

interesting for me for the first dress and that mead I said my questions we how is it how

are you so happy so much married to you married to very the with the treat is it oh

if you have friends and you write about them you have nice people to work you have a good marriage he

isn't it so bad when the first app that usually treasure all came out well-based people who

saw me look up I felt all the misery that slowly I will be in 40 years and I slaughterhouses

good [ __ ] oh my god is the she party drug seems i feel really totally totally overwhelmed women

from the green up and i was very quiet for several days after that command ever

a certain affected can i am much more careful with getting married i did then was it is what it with

you did was that the memories to stories of all clients hello in the structure yes it

she funny what you say indeed that observation that you a k it is a party drug color it is

by partying there already air man that you all kinds of whole proclamation things often come at you and

how does something like this work because of what you are under you are going to show in a kind of daze influence literally whistled

under the influence of drugs but that effect continues longer apparently you want to see

a whole new dimensions of your life you really see yourself very handy me actually

but hey tin scissors to all those people amuse people and necessary it is a very heavy burden me

behave I am much chairman to go into that because I know what a bee how it me

affect yes you have learned that it did to you and then also before no eye for now until the

I had enough for it and the feeling can hold you when the drugs wear off

yes yes once you learn once you email the roll with mr walked you don't forget you the how

it looks like when you see someone's e-mail something like this you say well i see a piece of reality i it

did not see and what is it called you changed because by looking at yourself with your compassion and

feeling by feeling that is that all that experience of people does indeed touch you what the

f youth my wife says there I you become much nicer man coarse not quite but nice

be there and after the explosion you had I have to go through the sky also less a lot easier that

It's that things are more accepted from people so I'd say this doesn't get so annoyed

it wasn't enough you should do that better I understand but you suffered outside yes yes the move

to a catholic school bessel in the bronx new york in the sixties already playing from

cold the title refers to the doubt with which main character sister bouvier sausage or where more

when she suspects that one of the students is being abused by a pastor as by flynn

and there are those we are going to see in it sister bouvier confronts the boy's mother with her

suspicions we go marry slip scene and viola davis in that people faster you my hair problem

in a way a boy semi-prinsenbos big john that you such the cwi rust-oleum cs with it

where have the prime is then on the sixth make it till you and is

often highschool where I also have a greyjoy of his necklace isabel

the chanting gettin too good guys bribe now into an apple mister collins

hi launch went this time star things so cross hairs mothers cronshaw's

literally a lot of agar agar joymii

i'm concerned about the relationship between

father francis to someone's signs in shops and in that may not be right

why was malware in which la sauvegarde deserve our great more arjan's fears that frank

the father and mayhew mee the twentse sander sun

with him a few times pi types no evidence well a label is of course

as jim carrey sumptuous

i think of d-double world heat some oil more expensive

it then on an acting streams lego nothing to the cinema inside so luster poor living in the trouble

island to look for grip that are clear can chop it in white bar that's why I need a tumor here like

nicely dressed minute with the offers disagree limburg at fresh aroma septon clocks van

the throne is fine signing multitudes god oh arnouts adjusting your boy arnoud

orbeez eyes some means blanche ingram a yogi video completely white

jury the measuring range already up to the principle florencein concerned about a times 12 hours

johannesolie sounds app free skate then on deadline it julia thank you

leg chopper mass I poop that already mimic we have to follow my idea the tongue aqua medic

schedules online programs and games little bit normal driving slime

make something between your simple and fast more in the

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relationship to do so you know i know i'm like my god en ons up like pepper showing you do

come on you

this is father is constantly happening from something is happening in the family family

and people don't have the courage to say it's the truth so what happened and certainly if

we say then we have no income bear or the break the family apk and for many people you know

is the blind eye of the other family members even worse than the bus landing itself because you have no one you

believe no one wants to see it and it's it's a real problem argument dark till her am you can

him himself no job but my children go and fruit now again said have my children have

really don't have enough do you eat if i don't have a good scholten this one let me and

that is very much case where we came we later but then we pretend nothing is wrong and

for many of my patients, that second thing is still difficult about not seeing the first thing

to become and no one says the you can't join can you do that that's the big one

drama of the people who beast to students to ten years my of not being heard

nothing can be seen and that you don't care what actually happens to you because for

to me it is more important to stay single because income get some and each then see what

she you it happens and is real they have you this arm or black for her children blood it input

then university you and aids very few opportunities and say i can't afford to see

what to do the goers yes put is a tag and is real very very difficult to and then ask

what can you avoid wario yes yes what suspicion is there according to you and it happens to doctors

answer a question now but suspicion is long had I feel I feel before I understood

and I'll talk to him about what's going on and what what we really why she doesn't think so

so nice oh why did they have those opportunities but in all of us people just didn't dare to go

the parents of many park as lieke priests I have so all my very active in that

cases of those Christian priests yes because you delivered from them next to more than 20 years ago how

it started a big yes abuse scandal of boys in the catholic church revealed so i was

first psyche you should be working on it because you got it when mature I assume men

who were abused at the time little boy signal treatment room now get or find yes via did

I think I was the archive actor yes but first about the tapes because you have to you get them

I am me what you think don't treat limburg as one again

great hover or roman region experiences yes so i was hired to testify for this

hat you are that expert witness in those lawsuits surrounding that abuse scandal a very

many places very many cases yes why did you do that why that your testimony can hope that

i was one of the few people who sacrifice something masureal who knew yes because i specially studied

but what was your motivation because you thought I'm the only one who can do this well or did you have another

other form where we fall south limburg who does not want not like us viola davis there are there

there's nothing wrong here because I examined the people who were all broken I really

seen hundreds who were all beautiful people who tell bus all clash the same story

hat happened and yes you could see that that happened to those men what what was the common denominator

common denominator was all terrified we were about very weak is where almost all bodybuilder

it is I experience so even very weak it and dresses meadows full of test or zone injections

or look behind and they couldn't do anything they couldn't have a thieme relationship with people who couldn't

just proportionately maintained is where broken pastry people like what we don't have

seen indeed marry someone can do so I have ridge from Tuesday morning yes one of those

man and for back in time as an expert witness who remember the abuse only after everyone

had read about it in the newspaper and she and his girlfriend de roovere started what what does that say

about his memory it is normal for people not to want we have this one that is very arkady

full pillow warmer by i love and how we have archives over 300 day 3,000 self zo

concentration on camp or learned how many quarters of can't remember anything about what happened never

decor and so very good studies of after sometimes with you people everything sometimes used a few

pieces of it and sometimes missing with the very large pieces yes and then that can come up again to

them michel study and especially for rising I share for example he when one feels inside

feel safe as you i am i saw then fill you can come a new one yes we happen

that happens so you become your ghost is enough to dare to see what happens to you

is yes it is controversial shepherd is a real welles-nietes neighbors who are it now tom's two

evenings your soviets golan got the mail from people and the differences opinion pieces and

such there is new bed is not even debate going on about traumatic memories

occasionally the head on critics often from the corner of right psychology I need another

with saying they say yes it's right sometimes people can't talk about something but repressed

memories do not exist do you understand the criticism oh of course I often encounter very good pen

these people in the grasses lawsuits that people have dead things to ram pointed bust lasts

they never treated cremation people which i find interesting too but the first one that happens

also in court with you in court also this lost built done case preys to

the i wish in a lawsuit and the the lawyers that catholic church they have doctor van der kolk

the you your animal is the third grade primary school family yes anyway be wiesje race a report

it was written that you were so careless that you who that she was afraid that you would never get off the wheel

sprayable school they come off no c juliet are that broken on mean my primary school for my

get alarm clock and translate as english because you just separate from you on killed year out

from the nephew of jan dutch layer school to confront you with that and what tried there

then help prove that I like it that it was a sloppy thing to be able to say real things curt

and I say to the rights look now does the same with what I people with that

kids do it and be back mark to make it seem like the old fire and to gold ring

content or short so we attach was completely on the part of the Catholic Church prevented nothing

on the part of the victims no but I also assume that the whole discussion around

those repressed memories were also used against you in the courtroom oh lawyer in like

it was used was mainly a product of the catholic church its subtle the the whole

faking you guys is hardly a problem anymore and more I have it people know the name but

the Catholics were frail when a lot of people paid a lot of money to get the certificate

changeable change may this week sun opposite and opinion pieces not about dees

biology but what worse their dangerous mandelet you a dangerous man runs in it read

yes on the website of de Volkskrant I will quote a piece of scientific research

has repeatedly shown that therapists who are convinced of the existence of repression

suggestively inducing their patients to think they are sexually abusive when

that abuse never took place and that could then lead to more until now the went

anyway china and edward thawne mustache aware no i how big is the risk that you like

psychiatrist recalls events that never happened

most people want to love their parents and those little boys who loved the Catholic priests

of the pieces they sold so people like to do the right things with types of them

don't want to renumber the misery and so it's actually very hard to deal with people

talk and talk what happened these are all my people clearly followers they got you from

loftus that I often have to have and they have never studied relationships within thing is a

laboratory you can force those people in lousy oil one can with the layout in laboratory so this

comes from la bardo insights house form and music and house working with for emergencies then you see

all these things you really have to optimize girl people know that they often can't hide anything

yes and you say something to someone talk about someone a reminder to talk is pretty much

impossible to keep just she thing could ambras I have chips for 40 years oh you can prevent would you

doesn't taste afraid be dogged I've never mistreated a brand in wish and they stay

terrified of although I tried to stomach them are a very nice person yes so very

hard to talk things people on the track let alone memories people that way in the

laughter and yes yes from that the prevention of false declarations is important and to the other

side is taking victims of sex crimes seriously and prosecuting those sitting there

you also important wish he bad study that contains this saying and greeks would learn about

tomato grave the range reliable the people never come to me to can i can you

explain to me what happens to ruban students they absolutely never want better what we really are

why they are so fanatical why I still headline in dutch can't see yesterday dat

i am danger of dutch society what do you think you look like i think that is

just ridiculous stain I'm a danger of particle society to pick over

traumhaft it then the i see i see the case goes behind it is unbelievable their

places say yes he doesn't understand this danger past our society

who are those people who are so afraid of this reality he went a long time for an iphone

app takes where the people they are afraid to see how many children are abused

who are the people who accuse brill op de beeck that she has a false story she

wrote for money about that her novel who are those people who can't listen because to

the gante hunter fights very troubled court missile because you laugh korea sweater in oath

I don't care I think it's very slow that people can't listen to what's happening

they even a bit what happens in russia they have been prevented by paleness the russians

for shit the west is our their attacks and trainers and bad people

regions perfect news trump good news yes and that and and what do you touch that and that people

say you take her goat take you so that's your problem yes no i know this

you lead me to them these in this keel vb phantom canker sores yes that's where I

know again confidence from both within one so i can say with great certainty this is happening

there because I studied myself very nice I didn't know then start I researched and the discover you

must experience really curious practice yes fm well I have if you research a piece there

must do the right if i get your money out there to do your research nice he says i in

studies the language of all life yes and in the next fragment we are going to see you at work you

shows us a practical example of a psychodrama session conducted by you pure sugar drama de

term is earlier tonight and client called jozefien first about that psychodrama what that

abs so when we talk about getting married we usually talk about what happened but it is already

a piece of what nothing happened so when you are told as a child you should not have been born

become and you destroyed us for a while then you don't know what it feels like to be loved as a child how

that is just a piece that is missing so the question becomes how do you give people experiences that will never

and there I learned from alpert so who was quite well known and popular in the Netherlands more

then in america and who taught me sake drama to help all people to venture their physical experiences

to have wise is in a physical way can it feel like someone loves you and what we

usually happens in therapy after therapists try to make people feel like I

do you I behave all those with great attention and respect and now you would know what it means to have it

attention their respect to be treated but what el paso teach me the wrong persons to

very wrong place i can think of you as a 70 years man they heat well enough you are years 40

I maybe now know exactly in the finer or one there what it was like as your mother of

you hoped to have lived two years yes i guess the look what will you happen to who it is not

don't know yet understand me the fragment makes a lot clearer and think it should be shortened

know what the history of this patient is joséphine because what she missed the piece is

travel movie and she goes to number door and often gets left behind with ruth and she starts that story

and she says the worst was she couldn't tell the parents what happened

was with my parents always told me i was a lender terrible person and that

completely things with will happen because I am a circle a third through the in one that I like

wife travel alone your parents mario jets guy expect them and i could do this with no one

Telling no one is what makes me not lost with her parents yes a number of friends

so so and so you will insist to have a stuff feel like the parents of the held in between

two cars couldn't be mine it comes from playing with people things together alcar door yes

discover and that's what we're going to see in this psychodrama session with jozef in

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sitting a bit too sober myself no I once had a very serious accident in south africa and

when I called my father you who didn't why did you with your stupid head of a waterfall had

jumped but he would immediately I'm coming and I calculate very de me that there suddenly and I thought

oh yes I never had a trauma there and never turn urine for your back yes realized this now

that on one then all in all a difference in the world it's me you so people can can

the terrible there were no go snakes my people to the so are we we are it is

in members of tribes belong together and as long as we feed they belong together curver everything

go yes unity or rain where the loneliness if you do that much of the summer

the mother who does not see it yes and the parents who recognize the and yes and then I can stay away from the

absolutely denying such a low point I am also free and relational skeptic off

because I wouldn't do this so quickly, example after that, you don't have to do that, but it's going to be fun

to do me too we go that is also a form of fooling yourself because she knows of course

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the crazy and yet it worked how is that so that you have human rights atmosphere became a you your left

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the space starts to play out you have a whole different experience that travel liquor stores more important

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as soon as they say you can play my dad they already get feelings about dad and they say

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maud I know how it feels and you have you feel it now thanks to a row then technique your

the and that lives were also good luck at threatening but this has helped immensely to

became oho adds happens yes and so really to have experiences that give you new impressions

gives is a very important part of therapy that and you see a hair everything as the marches with

do then she starts smiling is there thank you is in really taking it so he asleep smart

girl who is very easy and the could have said yes there sit but there I go

to do but once went to bed very well also criteria yes it's not enough

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kees left a boyfriend behind on ria because her father was a very difficult man

told someone the final i chose love someone intimate relationships and we go yes now go

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you see in practice that they work and my research all these club series on the street but it

girls are not taken seriously by everyone so how important do you think that scientific

substantiation of treatment method I need it to be taken seriously by everyone my

purple we don't know and that this will work well or a kiss I think you

that scientific substantiation how expensive so very important do you think that is very

important you click well i i have i can really tell if you tell me where the netherlands i

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form of yoga jurgis completely proven proven method are you curious what I am also a

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brain change so that was not so difficult more scientifically proven anyway more

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is a bit more in its infancy for that matter I don't think it will ever happen the

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took a girl to play for my father than this one although you would rather be known as a thorough

scientist or pioneer can glimpse if I'm alive I've done good I've good

things proved i need people to thin look more look deeper i can't stand if

people I tell you the answer wounded because our minds are very complicated in

culture such a penny complicated the everyone who says I have the answer to such a vague color that

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study had with 91 people with almost all went very well but I do not know whether the

next study bind searches their waist would feel just as good but you say if it helps

then it helps and that's what it's about yes for me figuring it out is also very interesting I'm real

the research not far from your house near boston' finds the annual shakespeare festival

place where students from 10 different high schools perform Shakespeare plays

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you steal in cars or you break into the people their and you get judged you have a 50% chance

as a youth to be sentenced to scroll a Shakespeare and get better and better

in jail but now you'll be deputy I don't understand what you're saying the floor loan is to a

Shakespeare to become an actor yes because we have good contacts with judges who are smart

get through things you have to learn to play a role that is different from the role that

called normal plays and if you is very deep in the theater tech camp you can really feel oh

this is how it feels to be a mighty king or all are a different people you can

is feeling physically in order to experience what it is like to be different people from the people you

normally yes and dutch expert in the cord that is one that is so then people are judged

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