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Previously on "90-Day Fiancé: The Other Way."

This is gonna be in my name.

I value everything that you do.

We're struggling to cross the finish line

on us getting married.

Just let me do what I need to do

to make our dreams a reality.

Jenny?

My rum.

I knew living and working together was gonna be tough.

Stop calling me fat.

All?

There's just no way I'm gonna be able to handle this.

With you trying to start a business,

and living at your parents, what if it gets to the point

where it's just too much?

We moved to France to save our marriage,

and I just can't get over the fact that

she's going back to her old ways.

I don't wanna go back to how it was.

The easiest way for me to be legal is to get married.

- This is a bad idea. - He has been cheating.

- Lately, no. - Is he just lying better?

Everybody on the island knows that Johny

has a reputation with girls.

If something were to happen, I would pack my so fast.

Just prepare yourself, that's all I'm saying.

Baby, this is so frustrating.

Look at this mess.

Look it, clothes are everywhere.

This place is terrible.

Like, I have nowhere to put anything.

In the apartment we lived in before,

I had a whole bedroom,

a whole extra bedroom for our stuff.

Big mistake to move here. It sucks.

Like...

OK, well, I can't even stand it here.

Nothing works. Power keeps going out.

And the shower sucks.

The water, like, trickles out of my head.

I have to, like, stand up against the pipes

to get the water. It just sucks.

Like, everything about this place is bad.

We've been here for a couple of weeks, and oh my God,

this house is turning in to be a nightmare.

The lights go out, fluctuates between rooms.

You go to turn on the hot water for a hot shower,

and nope, no electricity there.

So, so far, not so good.

We can't leave our alcohol out. We have to hide it.

Like, how old are we? If we wanna have a drink,

we have to shut the door, lock it, hide a drink.

I like it.

You like hiding our alcohol and drinking in the room

like we're teenagers?

Are you listening to yourself?

Like, you know, you are complaining...

- Well-- - ...so much, baby.

Yeah, well, I'm not happy here.

I'm frustrated as hell.

All I wanna do is just scream at the top of my lungs.

Between this terrible apartment and the stress of the cafe,

I feel like Sumit and I are already growing apart.

When we were living on our own in the house and the apartment,

sex life was great, at least three or four times a week.

But now we got Mom living with us, we got a three-year-old

living next door to us. Our sex life is basically done.

It's over. There's no more.

I just feel like it's one thing after another here,

one thing after another is happening.

And your mom is complaining about how I do things.

It's not good enough, and I can't live like this.

It gives me anxiety.

She's expecting so much from me.

Why are you so casual about all of this?

This doesn't bother you at all?

Well, that's you.

That's you. It's not me.

I'm not you. I'm a different person.

I just don't know how I'm gonna be able to handle your mom.

As soon as I wake up in the morning, I'm frustrated.

I don't even feel like you have my back.

- Oh. - Does this look good?

I know.

It'll be fine, baby. He loves you.

The wedding is tomorrow.

And this morning, my dad is arriving in Guatapé.

My dad has never met Madelein before in person.

So I'm super anxious. My dad means the world to me.

He's one of my best friends. And I need them to get along.

I don't know why I so nervous.

You'll be OK.

Oh, there he is. Hey, Dad.

- Finally got here. - How was the flight?

- How you doing? - Brilliant, good boy, good.

- This is Madelein, Madelein my dad. - Hi, Madelein.

- Nice to meet you. - Finally get to meet you.

Finally!

I love your country already.

- Beautiful country, beautiful scenery. - Aw.

Yeah.

Have you started learning your signature yet?

- To sign those checks? - Yeah.

Don't give her a checkbook.

Welcome. Everything here is beautiful.

Like, really, this is a paradise.

This is my, like, my favorite place in the world.

Across the water, that's where I asked Madelein to marry me.

So it's a special place.

Gorgeous.

- I need to put my stuff down. - Yeah, yeah, yeah.

You're first room up on the right.

So go put your things.

Everyone else, they'll grab your things.

Don't worry about it.

And yeah, we're gonna go see the property.

Today, we're gonna go?

Yeah-- yeah, we're gonna go, like, right now.

- All right. - Sounds good?

- I've got my running shoes on. - All right.

- Let's go. - All right, let's get it.

Good job. You did good.

My plans with my dad is to show him the property.

My dad runs a really successful business.

He's done well for himself. So I want his advice.

All right, baby.

We wish you could come, but I know you have to...

Yeah, I have so many-- -- things to do.

I really want his approval. But at the back of my head,

I'm thinking, "Oh, .

"I've made some really dumb decisions in the past.

"So what if he doesn't approve? What if he doesn't like it?

"What if he thinks that this is just another one

of my dumb business decisions?"

Welcome.

So I'll have to construct the road.

It'll be drivable, but right now we gotta walk it.

There's a cow right here.

I think it's my cow.

So this is all yours from that gate we walked in.

- Yeah. - How far down does it go?

From here all the way down, basically all the way down

to the valley where the creek comes.

It's massive. It's-- it's huge.

I like it.

But here, let me-- let me show you some designs.

There it's gonna be the hotel,

two stories with the-- the infinity pool down below,

discoteca, a restaurant.

I understand why you're so excited.

I mean, it's a beautiful piece of property.

But how much is the hotel gonna cost?

And you've got to run power, water.

Right.

I don't think it's as expensive as you might think.

Hmm.

Part of me finishing the plans

is to find the costs for everything.

- So I haven't quite gotten to that part yet. - Yeah.

Wow!

You've got to be very careful

and take small steps because there's gonna be

many other things that haven't even crossed your mind yet.

If you say two million, it'll probably end up three.

- OK-- mm-hmm. - It's just the way is.

And that's serious money that you don't have.

Right.

A property like this, it's-- it's beautiful.

You could expand it into something incredible.

But he may be getting a little bit over his head,

because Luke doesn't look at all the-- the whole picture.

He's not a multimillionaire.

And unfortunately, in today's world,

everything costs money, and a lot of it.

- You're gonna be a married man tomorrow. - Yeah.

Is Madelein's name gonna be on the, uh, on the deed?

Yeah, I mean, we-- we talked about it briefly yesterday.

You know, Madelein wants to be included in the property name.

- She's a firecracker. - Yeah.

Yeah, take it from me.

I...married the same kind of person, and it's not easy.

You've got to let her know,

"Listen, look what I'm giving you.

"Everything we obtain from tomorrow on

is both of ours."

Right.

"Anything before, what was yours is yours,

and what was mine is mine."

I've tried to say that, and she just

has trouble understanding.

- Well, 'cause she's trying to dominate you. - Yeah.

Don't let her, otherwise you-- you're done.

- Yeah. - She'll be the first woman

I know with a vagina and a pair of nuts.

- Yours. - Yeah.

So don't let that happen.

I'm really worried for Luke.

I can actually, in the end, see Luke buckling a little bit,

because she's got a lot of power over Luke.

That's where we're not alike. I need to protect my son.

You know, I'm willing to speak to Madelein,

and if I have to spend an hour

just trying to explain that to her,

she's just got to understand, "Listen, this is the way

business is done. So just eat it and forget it."

I was less than seven years old, helping my mom doing

the calculations on how much money we owe to the bank.

Chloe has given up everything for you,

and you haven't really changed doing what you do.

You messaged another girl.

Yum, yum, yum.

Last week, I had a little fight with Anthony

about my partnership with Dorian.

And it feels like every single time Anthony and I talk about

money or jobs, we end up fighting all the freaking time.

The thing is, like, we still need to provide

and pay the bills and save and everything.

We're not rich.

But spending time with Ben,

I've seen him hugging me, wanting me.

This feels pretty dang good.

And I'm like, " money."

I'm like, "I just wanna be with my son."

I grew up with anxiety around money

all the freaking time.

My dad was a business owner working in security.

Sometimes, actually, he never paid himself.

He had to make sure the employees were paid first.

I was less than seven years old, helping my mom doing

the calculations on how much money we owe to the bank.

That was a game. So I never have enough.

I'm always thinking that I'm gonna lack money,

and I absolutely don't want Ben to go through that.

Hearing from Anthony and from my mother,

I'm starting to realize that maybe, actually, they are right.

You miss on motherhood if you focus too much on career.

...and Anthony sent me pictures, "Look," and I'm, like,

on my phone here and I'm like, "Great, I'm not home."

I don't wanna miss any other first moment ever anymore.

I'd rather slow down my career.

So I think my business is gonna come a little bit later.

It's just on hold for now.

Chloe, what would it take for you to be like,

"OK, actually, I'm gonna take my best friend's advice

that this is a bad idea"?

If something were to happen,

I would pack my so fast.

Just prepare yourself. That's all I'm saying.

Now knowing what my mom is taking away,

I'm not gonna throw everything I know away

for someone who's gonna cheat.

Maria and Camila have told me in the past

that I should probably pack my and leave.

But I obviously did not listen.

Are you worried right now?

- No. - No?

I think I can trust him again. I truly do, 'cause I see it.

Like, I do see it changing.

Yes, we have issues, and yes, I do cry about it.

But to me, now, I'm like, "I am making the right decision."

I mean, it sucks to know that they don't have hope

for our relationship, but their opinions,

at the end of the day, don't really change

how I feel.

Should we keep going?

- I'm going. - I have to go home.

I have to leave you guys.

I do love him, and I wanna be with him,

so I hope that he can show me

everything I'm doing for him is worth it.

So, you know how much I love...

to go out with you?

OK.

Unfortunately, or fortunately, Jonathan's gonna come.

It's meatball night.

It's gonna be meatball night, but I think it's also important

that we all talk it out.

Jonathan and I have one rule that if I'm going to a bar,

I will always extend the invite to him,

and Maria absolutely hates it.

But at the end of the day, a relationship is

a relationship, and I think it needs to be respected

on both sides.

So you can't go to a bar with your friend alone?

- No, I think... well, no. - Ah!

Can I take your order, please?

Um, I'll do a vodka Sprite

with a little bit of grenadine, please.

Reposado with pineapple juice, please.

He's coming because he doesn't--

he doesn't trust you at a bar.

He has no reason not to trust me.

Yeah, but he's still coming tonight.

Johny, whenever he goes out with Keyner,

he's doing stuff.

So he thinks Chloe and I are doing the same.

- Come take a seat. - Welcome back.

How does it feel?

- I'm exhausted, but good. - Yeah?

In Spanish, you call it machista,

like a-- like a macho, kind of like,

"I have the upper hand, you have to do this,

you have to do that, but I can do this."

And he kind of has that trait.

We were saying, like, it's important,

like, for you to be OK with me and Maria going out,

'cause this is literally what we do.

Now you're living here, it's not vacation mode anymore.

Like, you can't be, you know, going out till late.

You just can't, you know what I mean?

Like, maybe once or twice in a year, you know, like...

- Once or twice in a year? - Yeah.

- Am I in jail? - No, you're just--

you're just... - What do you mean?

What do you mean, what--

What if it, yeah, but it just...

like, it'll just, maybe one day it just happens.

Like, if you were having a night where you were having

so much fun, and you're like, "It's just gonna be

a late night."

- OK, so... - I can't pry you out of it.

...if you have a late night, I'll have a late night.

- Don't do it out of spite. - That's not out of spite.

But I mean, just saying, I don't want it to be a habit.

The thing is, like, I feel like you recently

have done things that are questionable.

And I feel like you project that on her

thinking that she might be doing the same.

I didn't do anything.

- You didn't physically do anything. - Exactly.

But you should not have messaged another girl.

- Don't lie. - What girl did I message?

The girl...

I'm not getting into this.

- I'm not-- - You messaged-- you messaged another girl

that you met on Jolly Pirate.

That's why you're smiling. You do this--

you do this when you know exactly what I'm talking about.

Yeah.

So now-- now you're gonna tell me that you didn't?

I-- I didn't.

You didn't actually have a threesome with another girl.

No, but you implied that you were going to.

You didn't say-- no.

You didn't say you were going to, you just--

I don't even wanna look at you guys right now.

But you can't say, "That didn't happen."

OK, yeah, it happened-- OK?

You know, like, it's hard to say, but before Chloe,

I was doing whatever I want.

And then when I started with Chloe,

that habit really was still there

with me for a little bit.

So, like a few months ago, there's these crazy girls that

came on the boat, hang out and stuff like that.

I gave her my social.

And then when I got home, she messaged me.

And she said, "Hey, are you going to go out?"

I said, "No, I don't go out. I don't really drink."

And she's like, "What if I come with my friend?"

And I put as a joke saying, "Only if it's a threesome."

And then, of course, Chloe saw the message like an hour later.

I let-- she checks my phone.

I mean, yeah.

It's a joke, man. It's a joke.

OK, so what I'm worried about is that obviously Chloe...

has given up everything for you.

You know, head over heels, Mom's company, everything.

And I'm just worried that...

you haven't really changed doing what you do.

I'm, like, I'm just worried, like, honestly.

I know you're concerned, but honestly, this is--

she's living with me, you know what I mean?

I never had any woman live with me in my house, you know?

So it's like, probably very, very serious.

You know, I did up, you know,

a couple times, and, you know, I-- I learned my lesson,

and now I really, really wanna take this seriously.

I don't wanna let her, nor her mom, or nor you down.

It's so frustrating because you engage

in a conversation with him, and he just takes you in.

You know, Johny is such a charming guy.

I believe that he loves her and that he wants to believe

what he's saying, but it's just a matter of time

until he just does it again. Like, it's-- it's a habit.

You know, she's young, and she's like,

"Oh, yeah, I'm in love, I wanna get married,"

and I'm like, "Oh, God."

Let's go.

- Yeah, picnic! - Picnic!

- This place is very beautiful. - Yeah.

Today's holiday, so the cafe's closed,

and we are going to a park

to have a picnic and play cricket.

- I think this is a good spot. - Yeah.

Jenny is not into any kind of sport...

Like cricket? No, no, nothing.

So it should be interesting.

- Wow! - I hit it!

- Whoa! - Whoa!

You don't expect me to chase that, do you?

- Good, very good. - Yeah, wow.

Oh.

Wow!

Jenny, dive.

Oh!

On the head.

Jenny?

Sorry.

I wasn't paying attention.

- Yeah. - You did that on purpose, didn't you?

Thank God that was a...

rubber ball-- yeah. - A soft ball.

Yeah, not a real cricket ball. I'd have been dead.

- Oh, tired, we had-- - That was fun.

Come sit next to me.

- Jenny? - Oh.

Oh, my gosh-- sorry.

No shoes on the mat.

- What happened? - Nothing.

She's just getting emotional

that finally we all are living together.

I'm just thinking, "Here we go again."

We're always walking on eggshells with Sumit's mom.

And now that we're living with her,

it's just gotten so much worse.

What is she upset about?

Things have to be, like, the way they want it, like...

I agree. She needs to chill.

I'm gonna go check on Kairo, OK?

Madelein, calling the wedding off three,

four times, I mean, that's not a very good indicator.

Yeah.

♪ Señorita, como tu te mueves, oh, como te lo haría ♪

♪ Como te lo haría ♪

♪ Señorita, baila conmigo ésta noche ♪

"Nice to meet you."

- Nice... - Nice

- To... - To.

- Meet... - Meet.

- You. - You.

Nice to meet--

- Nice you... - Meet you.

...meet you.

It's the night before our wedding, and we're having

a family dinner.

My dad meeting Madelein's family is a huge deal.

It's their first meeting. I want it to go smoothly.

There's a huge language barrier. It's a little bit awkward.

It's weird.

My mom, she coming tomorrow.

- Oh, it's gonna be beautiful. - Yeah.

It's going to be a beautiful day.

Can you translate for me?

This is what weddings are about, the joining of families

and, you know, happiness and just being in the moment.

Aw!

Oh, no!

She can't wait until--

You're gonna need one of these.

- Been a long time coming. - Yeah.

And it was meant to be. Two become one tomorrow.

The weather here is so crazy.

God, please don't raining tomorrow.

I'm gonna go check on Kairo, OK?

OK.

Love you, bye.

All right, boy.

- Si, I so excited. - You know what I'm saying?

I see it in my eyes, is that too close.

In the rain, they're setting up for your wedding tomorrow, so.

Yeah.

It's gotta go down, girl, either way.

It is.

Madelein, she's lovely. Luke's a very lucky man.

But I must be honest, I've heard she can be

quite controlling and the stripper, and, you know,

throwing the cake at Luke's face

and calling the wedding off three, four times.

I mean, that's not a very good indicator

going into a marriage.

You're gonna be marrying my son.

And I am gonna protect my son.

But, you know, he's made

so many sacrifices to spend the rest of his life

with you until the day he dies.

But it hasn't been an easy road, you know.

There's been-- there's been a lot of bumps in the road.

I've got one question for you before I go to bed

and then put that suit on in the morning.

- The three weeks that he's been here... - Yeah.

...the things that have gone wrong, it's...

You've had a couple of arguments,

'cause he's told me about it. - Yeah.

Is this really what you want?

There's no making this woman happy.

I'm hitting a breaking point here.

I'm just done.

Someone needs to put her in her place.

Why is she so upset? Is she mad at me?

No.

Mom is very hard, isn't she? She's very--

It's very difficult to make her happy.

- Yeah. - Very difficult to make her happy.

She needs to calm down. She needs to relax.

She's gonna give herself a heart attack.

God, man.

Who can enjoy their life behaving like that?

It was only a matter of time before Sadhna lost it.

I can't take this anymore.

It's been six years living in India

dealing with Mom's freakouts.

There's no making this woman happy.

It's making me realize that

this is how it's always gonna be with her.

Screw that.

I'm not gonna live with someone yelling at me

all the time just because they're not getting what they want.

I'm hitting a breaking point here.

I'm just done.

She takes this "I'm the boss of the family" stuff too far.

Someone needs to put her in her place.

Next time on "90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way."

- Oh. - Oh

- Oh. - Away we go.

Pattiya said she wants to go back to the US,

and go back to dancing.

Hey, don't peck him.

But I want us to stay together.

I want this to work.

When something's meant to be, it always finds a way.

Now I feel like our life is really starting here.

We finally found the perfect house,

and we are about to be moving in.

Pulling in...

...for the first time. - Oh, my God!

Hey, first-time jitters.

I'm not gonna just follow Mom's orders.

I'm ready to leave.

The arguments and the fighting.

I'm too old for this.

He has cheated.

But when he was younger.

You should have no doubts in your mind.

No man alive would sacrifice what he sacrificed for you.

Jonathan, he left his phone on his nightstand,

so I respectively went through it.

I don't think I've ever experienced

this much hurt.

I don't wanna be around him. Like, I don't wanna see him.