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[Jenny]
This season on "90 Day Fiancé,
The Other Way."
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[upbeat music playing]
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I'm leaving a six figure job
to move to Aruba
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because I fell in love
with a man on a pirate ship.
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[chuckles]
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[shrieks excitedly]
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[speaking Spanish]
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-[Madelein screams]
-[Luke chuckles]
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She said,
"You need to move or else."
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[chuckles]
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I'm 58, and I'm still shaking.
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[chuckles]
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But now I'm moving
to Tasmania to be with Dillon.
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Welcome home, beautiful.
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[chuckles]
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[upbeat intense music playing]
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We are going to France, yay!
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The American Dream
is actually killing me.
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So we are moving to France
to save our marriage.
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[Manon]
Oh, the smell.
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[gags]
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I'm going back to LA!
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[Sadhna speaking Hindi]
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[Jenny]
I have no plans of staying
with the family permanently.
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[Sadhna speaking Hindi]
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[bleep] no!
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[Jennifer]
Do you see him?
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[Chloe]
I really wanna trust Jonathan,
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but it's hard
when he's a booze cruise host.
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My trust issues
come from your actions.
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You work with him.
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I wanna go out
with my friend, OK?
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You can't control me like that.
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Respect me!
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Respect what I [bleep] say!
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Ugh...
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I didn't touch her.
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I mean, what?
I didn't.
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[dishes breaking]
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[tense music playing]
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[Madelein speaking Spanish]
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[mystery music playing]
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Chloe has no idea
what she is doing.
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My friend is about to make
the biggest mistake
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of her life,
and I really need to stop her.
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[upbeat music playing]
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♪ Yay ♪
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♪ Yay ♪
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♪ All I need is to have
this one thing ♪
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♪ And it's gonna be alright ♪
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[Chloe] This is probably
the most iconic photo of me.
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This is my personality
in one photo.
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That's it right there.
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I mean, nothing's changed.
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[producer laughs]
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OK.
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[inhales and exhales deeply]
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♪ Gotta have it,
Gotta have it ♪
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♪ It's a wonderful thing ♪
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♪ Because I dream it
and I think it ♪
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♪ And it's all I can see ♪
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♪ Yay ♪
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♪ Yay ♪
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I don't really know where
to start, actually,
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with all this stuff.
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It's really overwhelming.
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My name is Chloe.
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I am 23 years old, and I live
in Boxford, Massachusetts.
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2008, what is that, first grade?
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First grade
already winning trophies.
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I mean,
we're doing something right.
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I'm very competitive
in anything I do.
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These are some accomplishments.
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Of course, these aren't all,
but there was a few.
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I started cheerleading
when I was four or five.
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I did, like, a club team
with my school, and then
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I also did competitive
cheerleading for years.
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Growing up, my mom
was able to give me
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the most amazing life.
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Total, spoiled princess.
I got everything I wanted.
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Now, I work with my mom
as a sales rep,
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and it's always been
my mom's dream
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that I would
take over her shipping
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and logistics business.
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My life was
already set on a path.
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Money, security, comfortability
on a silver platter.
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And then on vacation in Aruba,
I fell in love with a man
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on a pirate ship.
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[chuckles]
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It's true, though.
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♪ Oh, boy, dance with me ♪
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♪ It will make you
Fall in love with me ♪
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♪ Like, ooh, ooh ♪
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♪ Ooh, ooh ♪
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[Chloe]
Jonathan is 32 years old.
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He's from Aruba,
and he's an entertainer
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on a pirate ship party boat.
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We first met when I was
on a girl's trip,
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and I saw him on the boat,
shirtless.
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I just thought he was gorgeous,
and that was it.
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But my first impression was...
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I don't wanna say
kinda he was, like, cocky,
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but he definitely knew,
like, what he had going on.
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And I was like, "Oh, no," like,
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"No, you're not gonna do that
with me."
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Like, "Don't give me that,"
you know, "energy."
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But we later met him at a bar,
and he was really funny,
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and actually really sweet.
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And I remember him just saying,
like, "Oh, like, you'll have
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to come back."
And, like, looked at me.
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I'm like, "You're looking
through my soul."
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I was like, "I -- I don't know,"
and I'm not a shy person,
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but I was like, "Yeah,"
like, "I'm gonna come back."
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A few days
after I got back to Boston,
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I had already booked
my flight back to Aruba.
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I went back another time,
and another time,
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and another time.
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And now, after 11 months
of long distance...
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I'm packing up my entire life
in Boston and moving to Aruba.
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I know that if I don't make
the move to Aruba,
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we would not last long distance,
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and that's not a risk
that I am willing to take.
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This isn't gonna all fit.
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Are you really gonna wear
high heels on the beach?
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I mean, not on the beach, but --
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[Michelle laughs]
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Jeans?
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Well, like a cute tank top.
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Some little heels.
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I've been there five times,
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and I've never once
even put on a pair of pants.
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You know,
not all superheroes wear capes.
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[both laugh]
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[Chloe] Not all people
can wear jeans in Aruba.
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My parents divorced
when I was two or three,
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and I lived
with my mom predominantly.
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She is truly my best friend.
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She was like my rock,
basically, growing up.
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Did you remember to pack
all my makeup stuff?
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I think so.
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I think I did,
I'll double check, honey.
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-I need that eye cream.
-[Michelle] Right.
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If you need this eye cream,
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you probably shouldn't
be living in Aruba,
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because you can't get it there.
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That's why
you're gonna come visit me
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and deliver it to me.
-[Michelle] Ah, oh, really?
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So that's what I am.
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I'm gonna be
your delivery person, huh?
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[chuckles quietly]
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I think living in Aruba
will be challenging,
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to say the least.
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I have always grown up --
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"when I want something,
I kind of get it" type mindset.
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And now I'm going to be
in the middle of nowhere
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in this tiny little,
like, sandbox.
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I actually don't even know
what I'm gonna do.
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I can't believe that you're
gonna go and live in,
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uh, you know, another country.
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Packing your way to school
was one thing.
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This is, um,
this is really hard.
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I'm not going, like, to prison.
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Like, I can also just --
you can come visit and,
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like, I can come see you.
-[both laugh]
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You can come see me.
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When we really look at it,
Chloe, you are moving
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to another country...
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for a pirate.
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I mean, not everyone wants
to work a nine to five.
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Understood,
but how sustainable is piracy?
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I'm -- I'm not gonna be
a pirate, hopefully, you know?
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I -- you never know.
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I mean, you're not gonna have
a ton of options there.
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I'm just gonna...
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wing it.
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[Michelle] You're going
to be leaving a lot behind.
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I feel like I'm getting robbed,
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you know, in a sense.
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I worked so hard so that
she could have opportunities,
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and she's leaving
those opportunities behind.
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She's gonna have
a much harder life,
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and that's not what I want
for my daughter.
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You know, how you live here
is -- is -- it's very different.
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At the end of the day,
are you going to be happy
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not having your $80 face wash...
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and having cold showers
every day?
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[Chloe]
I'm leaving a six figure job
with my mom to move to Aruba,
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which is obviously insane,
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but love does make you do
crazy things.
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[chuckles]
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[melancholic
piano music playing]
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Johnny has a laundry list
of girls behind him,
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and he's not the guy
that you start your life with.
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My husband
has grown up with this guy,
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and I know a lot of things
about him.
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Not all of them are good.
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I really thought
this was just gonna be a fling,
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but now that she's really
serious about moving there,
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I feel like I have to stop her
before she just goes
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to another country
and she doesn't even know
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what she's getting herself into.
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I just wanna get there already
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so I can talk Chloe
out of making this decision.
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[intense music playing]
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[doorbell ringing thrice]
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[upbeat music playing]
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♪ Let's go ♪
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♪ When I walk in the room ♪
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♪ Everybody scatter
like doom, doom, doom ♪
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♪ With a bang and a boom ♪
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♪ A little bit dramatic,
but I'm coming for you ♪
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♪ Danger ♪
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♪ Danger ♪
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♪ Danger ♪
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Love that, love that.
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Looking good.
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♪ Danger ♪
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My name is Manon, I'm 32,
and I am from Marseille,
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South of France, baby.
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But I live in Los Angeles.
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Vogue.
[chuckles]
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Let's do it here
on the pavement.
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In France, everyone is
so judgmental about your weight.
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If you dare to wear
bright outfit,
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but you have a little bit of,
like, curves,
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you're gonna be
stared down all day long.
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So 12 years ago, I actually
started a social media page
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about being plus sized
and living in France.
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[French music playing]
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[Manon]
It started becoming
actually really popular.
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And said, "Hey, I'm the CEO,
and I want to invite you
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to come to LA
for a plus size photo shoot."
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I went,
and I never came back again.
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Three, two...
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[upbeat beats playing]
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Once I was here,
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I was able to meet
so many other girls
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just like me.
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Chastity!
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Yes, queen!
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These women were not afraid
of being who they wanna be,
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and afraid of wearing
beautiful outfits.
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They were just, like,
so proud and confident.
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It really made me feel I belong.
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Scooch out a little bit
to your right.
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-My right?
-[Jorge] The whole body, yeah.
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So I can get your head right
in between those two girls.
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[Manon] My American Dream
was starting to become true.
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But something was missing.
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Come here, sexy.
[exhales deeply]
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[sniffs]
Hmm.
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I'm Anthony.
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I'm 33 years old
and from Corona, California.
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[upbeat music playing]
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[Manon]
We've been married
for actually three years.
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And new parents
of a little baby boy, Benjamin.
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[Anthony and Manon giggle]
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[Benjamin babbles and giggles]
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We are very much opposites.
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Yes, we are
like the yin and the yang.
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[Anthony]
I'm a shy person,
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and she's very outgoing
and passionate.
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[Manon]
He is the stay-at-home dad,
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and I am the one
who works, provide.
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Guys, since I gave birth,
I have cramps in my entire body
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now when I pose,
I cannot do [bleep] anymore.
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♪ Who's that chick ♪
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♪ She a bad bitch,
thick like Bisquick ♪
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♪ She got all her own money ♪
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[Manon speaking]
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I'm gonna go change my lens
and grab another one.
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-I'll be right back.
-[Chastity] OK, cool.
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Oh, well, you did amazing, guys.
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-[Chastity] Thank you.
-[Angela] Thank you so much.
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[Manon]
Let me stand up, whoo!
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[laughing]
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Well, while we are waiting
for the camera, I just wanted
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to say something to you really
quick because you know me
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since I first moved.
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I think I need to touch my hair
for this 'cause it's gonna be --
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it's gonna be something.
-Are you pregnant?
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Girl.
I'm struggling with one kid.
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[Hayley] I don't know
what you are dropping.
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-Get my mind around it.
-Oh, my God.
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OK.
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A few weeks ago, I came
to the point where I'm like,
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I'm at the end of my rope,
because I'm overwhelmed
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and overworked, right?
I don't see my husband.
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I don't see my son.
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Anthony is also
overworked and overwhelmed.
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The dad is
staying at home full time.
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-It is really hard.
-Yeah.
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And the thing is, like,
we both were kind
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of losing each other
a little bit in the process.
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So, um, I'm sorry.
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It's just I wanted
to let you know
something that's really...
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It's been on my heart
for a few weeks now.
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I'm selling my house
and I'm going back
to France full time.
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I'm leaving LA.
300
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[whimpers]
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[Cindy]
Oh, my God.
302
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[Manon]
I don't know if I should,
like, laugh or cry.
303
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It's just -- but that's it.
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I'm going back home
for my family.
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Aw.
306
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Yeah, so it's for my husband,
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for a good quality of life.
-[Chasity] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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He's gonna be the one
working fully now, so I can
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focus on my son
because you know me.
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Here it's, like, it's a lot.
311
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-You know, it's a lot.
-I totally get it.
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The quality of life,
the healthcare, like that --
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everything makes sense.
314
00:14:47.586 --> 00:14:51.056
But like, you're, like,
the most American person I know.
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I -- ironically.
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You're a confident person
that's worked so hard.
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[Chastity]
That's a huge sacrifice.
318
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I'm really shocked
that she's leaving
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because she loves LA.
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She loves working.
321
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And I know the society
hasn't changed as much there,
322
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and isn't as accepting
of curvy bodies
323
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and confident women.
324
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So I'm really nervous
that they're not gonna be ready
325
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for Manon back in France.
326
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You've been working so much,
so long,
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that maybe this is your time
328
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to maybe relax.
-But I'm scared, Cindy,
329
00:15:27.293 --> 00:15:28.794
I'm not gonna be able to --
you know me.
330
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I'm gonna wanna do something
because I need to buy
331
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a house there.
-[Hayley] Yeah, you need time.
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So we are going to stay
with my parents for a little bit
333
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in a very tiny home.
-I support you.
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-I'm just very scared for you.
-Yes, me too.
335
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[Hayley]
You left France because
how you were treated.
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Are you scared at all of, like,
that could happen again?
337
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-[Manon] Oh, I'm scared.
-[Chastity] Yeah.
338
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I've been bullied my whole life
339
00:15:50.482 --> 00:15:51.650
with my family.
340
00:15:51.750 --> 00:15:54.286
I love them, but -- but,
341
00:15:54.386 --> 00:15:57.456
there's a big, big,
big, big but.
342
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They've been living in France
their whole life, right?
343
00:16:00.125 --> 00:16:02.928
So I'm still worried
that all of the old patterns,
344
00:16:03.028 --> 00:16:05.831
they haven't changed
or anything.
345
00:16:05.931 --> 00:16:09.234
When Tony was meeting my family
for the first time ever,
346
00:16:09.335 --> 00:16:11.503
you know, when I went to see
my grandpa, what happened?
347
00:16:11.603 --> 00:16:15.007
The first thing he said to me,
he looked at me, and he's like,
348
00:16:15.107 --> 00:16:18.477
"How a girl like you married
a man like that?"
349
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-What -- that's horrible!
-[Manon] Like, excuse me?
350
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My grandpa and my --
like, even just, like,
351
00:16:23.082 --> 00:16:24.249
like, my mom would be like,
352
00:16:24.350 --> 00:16:27.052
"Oh, did you gain some weight?
Oh, you lost a little bit."
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Just -- why is it a criteria?
354
00:16:29.388 --> 00:16:31.056
You cannot just say,
"Hi, how are you?"
355
00:16:31.156 --> 00:16:33.392
But this type of thing that
makes you feel like [bleep],
356
00:16:33.492 --> 00:16:34.960
you know, makes you feel
you're never enough.
357
00:16:35.060 --> 00:16:36.395
You're never enough.
358
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That's why I wanted
to do that shoot today.
359
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'Cause I was like,
"That's most probably
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going to be the last one."
361
00:16:45.437 --> 00:16:49.008
Over there,
there's no girls like you guys,
362
00:16:49.108 --> 00:16:51.477
over there,
people are bringing you down.
363
00:16:51.577 --> 00:16:53.545
People look at you like a freak,
364
00:16:53.645 --> 00:16:55.014
you know,
when you're big and stuff.
365
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[Chastity] Yeah.
366
00:16:56.181 --> 00:16:58.584
And that's what
I was missing in France,
367
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is people like you that
I could connect with.
368
00:17:01.787 --> 00:17:04.356
'Cause at home,
I was always the fat girl.
369
00:17:04.456 --> 00:17:08.193
Like, why does she want
to dream like that and go to LA?
370
00:17:08.293 --> 00:17:11.730
I've always felt like
I'm a freaking weirdo, you know?
371
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My whole [bleep] life.
And being here in LA
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saved my life.
373
00:17:19.138 --> 00:17:21.874
Growing up in France
always made me feel
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like I was less than --
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00:17:24.777 --> 00:17:27.079
I remember being bullied.
376
00:17:27.179 --> 00:17:29.548
All of the other kids at school
were making fun of me,
377
00:17:29.648 --> 00:17:32.584
chewing gum in my hair,
spitting on me,
378
00:17:32.684 --> 00:17:34.486
calling me "the whale,"
calling me fat.
379
00:17:34.586 --> 00:17:36.455
And I know that my parents,
they were trying
380
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to do their best.
381
00:17:37.856 --> 00:17:41.393
But I do have
a lot of resentment
on how I was raised
382
00:17:41.493 --> 00:17:44.930
and the things
that they said to me.
383
00:17:45.030 --> 00:17:47.800
So moving back to France
with my parents
384
00:17:47.900 --> 00:17:50.035
is definitely going
to be a big challenge,
385
00:17:50.135 --> 00:17:52.237
and I feel very, very stressed.
386
00:17:52.337 --> 00:17:54.373
I love my husband.
I love my son.
387
00:17:54.473 --> 00:17:56.942
I see the bigger picture,
but on the other side,
388
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I'm scared as [bleep],
'cause I'm gonna miss it a lot
389
00:18:00.312 --> 00:18:01.814
here, you know?
390
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[upbeat music playing]
391
00:18:11.490 --> 00:18:13.358 line:5%
[Lizona speaking Spanish]
392
00:18:13.459 --> 00:18:14.626 line:5%
[Madelein speaking]
393
00:18:18.263 --> 00:18:20.299
What do you want me to do,
like this?
394
00:18:20.399 --> 00:18:22.968
It's horrible.
395
00:18:23.068 --> 00:18:25.037
Baby, let's pack.
396
00:18:25.137 --> 00:18:27.673
We are in financial crisis
right now,
397
00:18:27.773 --> 00:18:29.908
and we decide
to move in with the family.
398
00:18:33.912 --> 00:18:35.881
[spiritual music playing]
399
00:18:45.724 --> 00:18:47.693
[car honks]
400
00:18:49.328 --> 00:18:52.764
[upbeat music playing]
401
00:18:52.865 --> 00:18:54.133
♪ Yeah ♪
402
00:18:54.233 --> 00:18:56.502
♪ Yeah, I'm gonna keep you up
Tonight, baby ♪
403
00:18:58.403 --> 00:19:01.874
♪ Yeah, you need some good love
And a good night ♪
404
00:19:01.974 --> 00:19:04.409
♪ Baby, grab a bag
You should pack it light ♪
405
00:19:04.510 --> 00:19:06.078
♪ Let me know feel some ♪
406
00:19:06.178 --> 00:19:07.279
♪ Come on, come on ♪
407
00:19:07.379 --> 00:19:09.014
♪ I can't wait for your touch ♪
408
00:19:09.114 --> 00:19:12.584 line:5%
♪ Yeah, tonight you're
Living out your best life ♪
409
00:19:12.684 --> 00:19:14.987 line:5%
[speaking Hindi]
410
00:19:17.489 --> 00:19:18.924
Look so handsome.
411
00:19:19.024 --> 00:19:21.593
♪ Ooh, ooh ♪
412
00:19:21.693 --> 00:19:23.896
♪ I'll be the reason ♪
413
00:19:23.996 --> 00:19:28.834
♪ Yeah, I'll be the best
You've ever had ♪
414
00:19:30.469 --> 00:19:32.538
What is he putting on your face?
415
00:19:32.638 --> 00:19:36.542
These all natural items
for the good for the skin.
416
00:19:38.577 --> 00:19:39.978
[Sumit giggles]
417
00:19:40.078 --> 00:19:43.115
I'm Jenny, I'm 67 years old.
418
00:19:43.215 --> 00:19:45.851
I'm from Palm Springs,
California,
419
00:19:45.951 --> 00:19:48.954 line:5%
and this is
my cute husband, Sumit.
420
00:19:58.130 --> 00:20:00.566
[upbeat music playing]
421
00:20:03.368 --> 00:20:05.404 line:5%
[Sadhna speaking Hindi]
422
00:20:11.677 --> 00:20:13.512 line:5%
-[Jenny] No, no.
-[Sadhna speaking]
423
00:20:13.612 --> 00:20:15.981
No haircut, no cut.
424
00:20:16.081 --> 00:20:18.450
After 15 years
of being together,
425
00:20:18.550 --> 00:20:22.287
his parents have finally
accepted our relationship.
426
00:20:29.828 --> 00:20:31.029
Aw.
427
00:20:36.101 --> 00:20:37.102
[Sumit chuckles]
428
00:20:38.503 --> 00:20:41.506
[Jenny] But it's been
a long journey to get here.
429
00:20:43.408 --> 00:20:44.610 line:5%
[Sumit speaking]
430
00:20:46.411 --> 00:20:49.348 line:5%
[Jenny]
We continued in a long
distance relationship
431
00:20:49.448 --> 00:20:53.352 line:5%
until I finally decided to move
to India to marry Sumit.
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00:20:53.452 --> 00:20:55.554 line:5%
[Sumit]
Jenny!
433
00:20:55.654 --> 00:20:57.289
Oh, my God!
434
00:20:57.389 --> 00:21:01.560
-There you are, hi!
-Hi!
435
00:21:05.330 --> 00:21:09.268
I thought Sumit and I were
gonna live happily ever after
436
00:21:09.368 --> 00:21:12.938
until I found out he was
already married.
437
00:21:13.038 --> 00:21:14.840
That was a big shock.
438
00:21:16.241 --> 00:21:18.844
What do I do?
I'm scared.
439
00:21:18.944 --> 00:21:20.612
[whimpers]
440
00:21:20.712 --> 00:21:23.081
You know, it's a nightmare,
and how could --
441
00:21:23.181 --> 00:21:24.783
Why is this happening right now?
442
00:21:24.883 --> 00:21:26.318
Why is this happening?
443
00:21:26.418 --> 00:21:27.653 line:5%
I gave --
444
00:21:32.291 --> 00:21:33.825
Why tell me you love me
445
00:21:33.925 --> 00:21:35.193 line:5%
and talk to me
every single day,
446
00:21:35.294 --> 00:21:37.763 line:5%
and still marry somebody else,
and not tell me?
447
00:21:48.707 --> 00:21:51.176 line:5%
It was one
of the most difficult times
448
00:21:51.276 --> 00:21:52.944
of our relationship.
449
00:21:53.045 --> 00:21:56.815
But he told me he was gonna get
a divorce, and he did.
450
00:22:03.989 --> 00:22:05.357 line:5%
[Sadhna speaking Hindi]
451
00:22:14.666 --> 00:22:17.669 line:5%
I am not old enough
to be his grandmother.
452
00:22:19.971 --> 00:22:22.974
It impacted
our relationship a lot.
453
00:22:23.075 --> 00:22:25.177
There were several times
454
00:22:25.277 --> 00:22:28.947
that I threatened
to go back to the US.
455
00:22:29.047 --> 00:22:31.516
You promised me we were gonna
get married this time,
456
00:22:31.616 --> 00:22:33.318
so I would never have
to leave India again.
457
00:22:33.418 --> 00:22:34.986
But do you know
the situation or not?
458
00:22:35.087 --> 00:22:37.689
It's always because
of your parents every time.
459
00:22:39.124 --> 00:22:41.426
I'm not gonna keep coming
back and leaving
460
00:22:41.526 --> 00:22:43.328
every damn six months.
I'm not gonna keep doing it.
461
00:22:43.428 --> 00:22:44.663
You're not gonna keep
telling me you're going
462
00:22:44.763 --> 00:22:46.465
to marry me, you're [bleep] not!
463
00:22:46.565 --> 00:22:47.799
That's it!
464
00:22:50.969 --> 00:22:52.904
[bleep] this [bleep].
465
00:22:54.873 --> 00:22:58.009
We wanted to be together,
we wanted to be married,
466
00:22:58.110 --> 00:23:00.946
but we didn't have
his family's approval.
467
00:23:01.046 --> 00:23:06.218
So we decided
to get married in secret.
468
00:23:06.318 --> 00:23:07.886 line:5%
[officiant speaking]
469
00:23:11.256 --> 00:23:12.457 line:5%
[all clap]
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00:23:24.002 --> 00:23:25.103 line:5%
[Sadhna speaking Hindi]
471
00:23:35.280 --> 00:23:38.650
[Sumit]
My mother was not happy
that I chose Jenny over family.
472
00:23:38.750 --> 00:23:42.921
And that was a very sad time,
very, uh, devastated time.
473
00:23:52.364 --> 00:23:53.432 line:5%
-Oh, my mom.
-Oh!
474
00:23:53.532 --> 00:23:55.734
-What a cute little bun.
-[Sumit laughs]
475
00:23:55.834 --> 00:23:58.470 line:5%
Oh it's a cute little --
anybody got a bow?
476
00:24:08.079 --> 00:24:09.781 line:5%
[Jenny]
She couldn't fight it anymore.
477
00:24:12.651 --> 00:24:14.419 line:5%
Yeah, your skin
looks really nice.
478
00:24:16.288 --> 00:24:18.623 line:5%
-[Sumit] Yeah.
-[Jenny] Such a mom.
479
00:24:18.723 --> 00:24:20.192 line:5%
-It's my mom.
-[Jenny laughs]
480
00:24:21.460 --> 00:24:22.794 line:5%
[speaking Hindi]
481
00:24:35.273 --> 00:24:36.842
-[Jenny] OK.
-OK, Jenny.
482
00:24:36.942 --> 00:24:39.845
-See you soon.
-Yes, OK, bye.
483
00:24:39.945 --> 00:24:41.813
[Jenny]
Bye.
484
00:24:41.913 --> 00:24:43.982
How am I as a daughter-in-law?
485
00:24:44.082 --> 00:24:45.417
Good, good daughter-in-law.
486
00:24:45.517 --> 00:24:49.154
-Yay!
-Whoa, yay, oh my God.
487
00:24:49.254 --> 00:24:52.424
[Jenny]
We have a good time
together, actually.
488
00:24:52.524 --> 00:24:55.694
But now,
the real test is gonna come.
489
00:24:57.562 --> 00:25:00.465
[chill music playing]
490
00:25:04.903 --> 00:25:07.339
Baby, let's pack.
491
00:25:07.439 --> 00:25:10.575
[Jenny]
OK, I have lots of clothes.
492
00:25:10.675 --> 00:25:15.213
Six months ago, we moved
into a nice, fancy apartment.
493
00:25:15.313 --> 00:25:19.150
-It's a gated community.
-And it is brand new.
494
00:25:19.251 --> 00:25:23.321
It's everything I wanted,
but he lost his job,
495
00:25:23.421 --> 00:25:26.391
and so now we can't afford
to pay the rent anymore.
496
00:25:26.491 --> 00:25:30.095
So we are in financial crisis
right now, and we decide
497
00:25:30.195 --> 00:25:31.730
to move in with the family.
498
00:25:33.098 --> 00:25:35.166
Oh, boy.
499
00:25:35.267 --> 00:25:36.501
Yay.
500
00:25:36.601 --> 00:25:38.570
I can't wait to see
what happens.
501
00:25:40.906 --> 00:25:43.808
This really started
to feel like home for me.
502
00:25:43.909 --> 00:25:45.176
I was...
503
00:25:45.277 --> 00:25:48.513
comfortable here, and now
I'm just completely devastated.
504
00:25:48.613 --> 00:25:51.416
It's costing us a lot,
and, you know, I can't handle
505
00:25:51.516 --> 00:25:53.184
that by myself.
506
00:25:53.285 --> 00:25:58.590
But the financial crisis
is giving us a chance that I get
507
00:25:58.690 --> 00:26:01.059
to experience
living with family.
508
00:26:01.159 --> 00:26:02.894
I know how you feel about this.
509
00:26:02.994 --> 00:26:05.564
I know this is what
you've always wanted.
510
00:26:05.664 --> 00:26:07.399
And that's why I'm happy
for you.
511
00:26:07.499 --> 00:26:09.768
And, of course, I love you,
and I'm gonna be right there
512
00:26:09.868 --> 00:26:11.937
with you by your side.
513
00:26:12.037 --> 00:26:13.905
But that doesn't mean
I'm not worried.
514
00:26:16.174 --> 00:26:17.375 line:5%
[Sumit speaking]
515
00:26:36.962 --> 00:26:38.096 line:5%
[Jenny] Absolutely.
516
00:26:38.196 --> 00:26:42.200
But, you know, living with them
is a whole 'nother thing.
517
00:26:42.300 --> 00:26:44.002
We're not gonna be able
to live like we've been
518
00:26:44.102 --> 00:26:46.137
living here, we've been free.
519
00:26:46.237 --> 00:26:49.407
We've been able to do
whatever we want.
520
00:26:49.507 --> 00:26:52.811
And your mom's, you know,
she has a lot of rules.
521
00:26:55.347 --> 00:26:56.414 line:5%
[Sadhna speaking Hindi]
522
00:27:09.728 --> 00:27:12.030
I'm not used to living
with parents.
523
00:27:15.433 --> 00:27:16.501 line:5%
I know.
524
00:27:20.071 --> 00:27:21.706 line:5%
So I mean, we both have
525
00:27:21.806 --> 00:27:23.508 line:5%
a different point of view
about this.
526
00:27:25.477 --> 00:27:28.079
Sumit thinks that we're
all gonna live together
527
00:27:28.179 --> 00:27:32.217
and everything's gonna be
great, but I have my doubts.
528
00:27:33.885 --> 00:27:36.354
The acceptance is new...
529
00:27:36.454 --> 00:27:39.491
and I would rather
not rock the boat
530
00:27:39.591 --> 00:27:41.526
by us all moving in together,
531
00:27:41.626 --> 00:27:43.361
but we don't have a choice.
532
00:27:46.231 --> 00:27:47.966
I hope everything works out OK,
533
00:27:48.066 --> 00:27:52.303
because I don't want anything
to happen to our relationship.
534
00:28:02.080 --> 00:28:03.615 line:5%
We need to follow a budget.
535
00:28:13.158 --> 00:28:15.694 line:5%
♪ Beautiful ♪
536
00:28:15.794 --> 00:28:20.965
♪ Beautiful ♪
537
00:28:21.066 --> 00:28:23.668 line:5%
♪ Beautiful ♪
538
00:28:23.768 --> 00:28:25.136 line:5%
[speaking Spanish]
539
00:28:43.221 --> 00:28:44.989
[Lizona]
Wow, eh! [claps]
540
00:28:47.192 --> 00:28:49.194 line:5%
[speaking Spanish]
541
00:28:49.294 --> 00:28:51.696
Whoo!
542
00:28:51.796 --> 00:28:53.131
♪ I believe, I believe
I believe ♪
543
00:28:53.231 --> 00:28:55.200
♪ It's a brand new start ♪
544
00:28:56.601 --> 00:28:59.037
♪ I believe, I believe,
I believe in that ♪
545
00:29:06.611 --> 00:29:07.979 line:5%
[speaking Spanish]
546
00:29:22.260 --> 00:29:23.261 line:5%
[speaking Spanish]
547
00:29:30.602 --> 00:29:33.438 line:5%
Were like "Oh, oh, oh."
548
00:29:33.538 --> 00:29:34.873 line:5%
[Lizona speaking Spanish]
549
00:29:39.377 --> 00:29:40.645 line:5%
[Madelein speaking]
550
00:30:02.167 --> 00:30:04.435 line:5%
♪ Uno, dos, tres, go ♪
551
00:30:04.536 --> 00:30:05.537 line:5%
[Luke speaking Spanish]
552
00:30:05.637 --> 00:30:07.105 line:5%
[Madelein speaking Spanish]
553
00:30:09.808 --> 00:30:12.277 line:5%
[Luke and Madelein
speaking Spanish]
554
00:30:12.377 --> 00:30:14.212 line:5%
-[Luke] Ready to practice?
-[Madelein] Yes.
555
00:30:15.547 --> 00:30:17.615 line:5%
[Madelein counts in Spanish]
556
00:30:17.715 --> 00:30:19.617
You're so cute.
[Luke counts in Spanish]
557
00:30:22.554 --> 00:30:23.521
Is this good?
558
00:30:23.621 --> 00:30:26.658
My baby.
You want me to be honest?
559
00:30:26.758 --> 00:30:28.593
[Luke]
Yeah.
560
00:30:28.693 --> 00:30:30.962
It's horrible.
561
00:30:31.062 --> 00:30:32.063
My name's Luke.
562
00:30:32.163 --> 00:30:34.899
I'm 31 years old,
and I live in The Hills
563
00:30:34.999 --> 00:30:36.434
north of Los Angeles.
564
00:30:36.534 --> 00:30:38.670
What do you want me to do,
like this?
565
00:30:38.770 --> 00:30:42.307
One, two.
You said, "Do one, two."
566
00:30:42.407 --> 00:30:43.808 line:5%
[Madelein speaking Spanish]
567
00:30:46.711 --> 00:30:48.746 line:5%
You're gonna marry me.
568
00:30:48.847 --> 00:30:50.048
I know.
569
00:30:50.148 --> 00:30:53.952
Two years ago, I met Madelein
on a boy's trip to Colombia.
570
00:30:54.052 --> 00:30:55.887
♪ Looks like ♪
571
00:30:55.987 --> 00:30:57.755
♪ You're a movie star ♪
572
00:30:57.856 --> 00:30:59.924
♪ And I love how you act
Like you think you are ♪
573
00:31:00.024 --> 00:31:01.259
♪ You know it ♪
574
00:31:01.359 --> 00:31:03.528
[Luke]
We picked Medellin because
we've been told they have
575
00:31:03.628 --> 00:31:04.863
the hottest girls there.
576
00:31:04.963 --> 00:31:07.599
My buddies and I downloaded
a couple dating apps,
577
00:31:07.699 --> 00:31:10.602
and I met Madelein
literally day one.
578
00:31:10.702 --> 00:31:13.938
♪ I just fear on my way home ♪
579
00:31:14.038 --> 00:31:15.640
♪ I don't really care for ♪
580
00:31:15.740 --> 00:31:17.809
My jaw dropped.
She was beautiful.
581
00:31:17.909 --> 00:31:20.645
She had this outfit on with
the fur coat, and
582
00:31:20.745 --> 00:31:21.946
I was like, "Damn, girl,"
583
00:31:22.046 --> 00:31:24.782
like, "Who the heck
is this," right?
584
00:31:24.883 --> 00:31:30.455
When I meet him in Party Zone,
he's so [bleep] hot, like, "Oh!"
585
00:31:32.590 --> 00:31:35.994
♪ Touch me here, touch me there,
Touch me everywhere ♪
586
00:31:36.094 --> 00:31:37.829
♪ Don't care, don't care ♪
587
00:31:37.929 --> 00:31:40.098
♪ 'Cause I want you ♪
588
00:31:40.198 --> 00:31:41.666 line:5%
[Madelein speaking]
589
00:31:44.869 --> 00:31:47.572
[Luke]
We got along right away.
590
00:31:47.672 --> 00:31:49.707
Like, "What?
You know, we just met."
591
00:31:49.807 --> 00:31:51.643
How is this that easy?
592
00:32:11.129 --> 00:32:15.400
When I got home,
we talked every day.
593
00:32:15.500 --> 00:32:19.037
After three whole months,
I tattooed her name
594
00:32:19.137 --> 00:32:21.706
next to my penis.
595
00:32:21.806 --> 00:32:24.876
I'm not the biggest tattoo
person, but I wanted her
596
00:32:24.976 --> 00:32:28.279
to know that I was serious
and she was the one.
597
00:32:28.379 --> 00:32:30.014 line:5%
[Madelein speaking]
598
00:32:41.225 --> 00:32:42.927
What?
599
00:32:43.027 --> 00:32:45.630
You're one special
girl, Madelein.
600
00:32:45.730 --> 00:32:47.165
Yes, I am.
601
00:32:47.265 --> 00:32:49.067
♪ I've been dreaming
About you ♪
602
00:32:49.167 --> 00:32:52.036
Nine months after meeting
Madelein, I proposed.
603
00:32:52.136 --> 00:32:55.239
I've never felt like this
with anybody else.
604
00:32:55.340 --> 00:32:58.009
Madelein is a strong
and confident person.
605
00:32:58.109 --> 00:32:59.677
She calls me on my [bleep].
606
00:32:59.777 --> 00:33:01.713
Can she be a little
bit controlling?
607
00:33:01.813 --> 00:33:02.947
Sure.
608
00:33:03.047 --> 00:33:05.917
But, at the end of the day,
I think she's like a voice
609
00:33:06.017 --> 00:33:07.385
of reason for me.
610
00:33:07.485 --> 00:33:10.188
♪ But this is different,
Yeah, the color's more true ♪
611
00:33:10.288 --> 00:33:12.056
[Luke] And I had every
intention to move down
612
00:33:12.156 --> 00:33:14.859
to Colombia so that we could
start our life together.
613
00:33:14.959 --> 00:33:17.495
Unfortunately,
that's not how it played out.
614
00:33:20.298 --> 00:33:21.499 line:5%
[Madelein speaking]
615
00:33:23.368 --> 00:33:24.268
[Luke]
I'm trying, baby.
616
00:33:24.369 --> 00:33:26.104 line:5%
We're supposed to be
in person, and it's --
617
00:33:31.542 --> 00:33:33.678
I'm working on it.
I'll be there soon, OK?
618
00:33:36.314 --> 00:33:37.415 line:5%
[Luke speaking Spanish]
619
00:33:38.816 --> 00:33:40.084
It's been a whole year,
620
00:33:40.184 --> 00:33:43.688
and Madelein is pissed
that I'm still in the States.
621
00:33:43.788 --> 00:33:46.891
But I keep telling Madelein
that I don't have the money
622
00:33:46.991 --> 00:33:47.992 line:5%
to make this move.
623
00:33:54.365 --> 00:33:56.834
[Luke] OK, well,
that's why we're practicing.
624
00:33:56.934 --> 00:33:59.170
Madelein is sick
of the long distance.
625
00:33:59.270 --> 00:34:02.240
She's fed up with waiting.
She's fed up with my excuses.
626
00:34:02.340 --> 00:34:06.010
And basically, she said,
"You need to move to Colombia
627
00:34:06.110 --> 00:34:08.780
so that we could be
together, or else."
628
00:34:08.880 --> 00:34:09.847
I don't know what
629
00:34:09.947 --> 00:34:11.282
would happen if I don't move
to Colombia,
630
00:34:11.382 --> 00:34:12.984
but I don't wanna find out.
631
00:34:13.084 --> 00:34:15.686
So we're getting married
in three weeks,
632
00:34:15.787 --> 00:34:18.189
and after the wedding,
I'll be staying there for good.
633
00:34:19.590 --> 00:34:21.359 line:5%
You excited for the wedding?
634
00:34:25.930 --> 00:34:26.864 line:5%
[Luke]
Why?
635
00:34:26.964 --> 00:34:28.266 line:5%
[Madelein speaking]
636
00:34:30.334 --> 00:34:31.536 line:5%
[Luke]
OK.
637
00:34:34.739 --> 00:34:35.840 line:5%
For what?
638
00:34:42.480 --> 00:34:44.015
So you want me to pay
for a helicopter for you
639
00:34:44.115 --> 00:34:46.584
to show up to the wedding?
-Exactly.
640
00:34:46.684 --> 00:34:48.019
[Luke]
Oh, my God.
641
00:34:48.119 --> 00:34:49.320 line:5%
[speaking Spanish]
642
00:34:50.721 --> 00:34:51.889
I'm about to move.
643
00:34:51.989 --> 00:34:54.792
I'm not gonna have my income
from my job anymore.
644
00:34:54.892 --> 00:34:57.995
So we need to follow a budget.
645
00:34:58.096 --> 00:35:00.264
I promised Madelein
the wedding of her dreams,
646
00:35:00.364 --> 00:35:03.201
but I'm in a lot of debt.
647
00:35:03.301 --> 00:35:06.471
I invested in sunglasses
and a jewelry line,
648
00:35:06.571 --> 00:35:09.273
and it hasn't turned
a profit yet.
649
00:35:09.373 --> 00:35:12.143
So once I quit my job
as a mining engineer,
650
00:35:12.243 --> 00:35:15.680
I am gonna have
no money coming in.
651
00:35:15.780 --> 00:35:19.917
So yeah, that is not
the best situation to be in.
652
00:35:27.158 --> 00:35:28.659 line:5%
[Luke]
I mean, yeah, but...
653
00:35:30.194 --> 00:35:32.463
I don't know, babe, like,
I'll look into it,
654
00:35:32.563 --> 00:35:33.831
and if I can make it happen
655
00:35:33.931 --> 00:35:36.868
I'll try and make it happen,
I mean, we'll see, right?
656
00:35:40.338 --> 00:35:43.307
You still practice dancing,
I don't see you dancing.
657
00:35:48.279 --> 00:35:49.514
[Luke]
I'll be the first to admit
658
00:35:49.614 --> 00:35:53.117
that I have a very hard time
telling Madelein "no."
659
00:35:53.217 --> 00:35:56.387
That's why it's probably better
for me to stay here,
660
00:35:56.487 --> 00:36:00.758
continue to work,
and save money so that I can
661
00:36:00.858 --> 00:36:03.761
fully provide the wedding
and lifestyle that she wants.
662
00:36:05.196 --> 00:36:07.331
But if I stay any longer,
I think Madelein
663
00:36:07.431 --> 00:36:09.133
would leave me for good.
664
00:36:09.233 --> 00:36:12.069
So I need to move,
and I need to make it work.
665
00:36:12.170 --> 00:36:13.638
End of story.
666
00:36:13.738 --> 00:36:15.840
There's so much at stake.
My whole future.
667
00:36:17.575 --> 00:36:18.576
Yeah [bleep].
668
00:36:22.013 --> 00:36:23.681
I think I'm getting
the hang of this, babe.
669
00:36:25.917 --> 00:36:26.984
I don't think so.
670
00:36:31.355 --> 00:36:32.523 line:5%
[Anthony]
For the past year and a half,
671
00:36:32.623 --> 00:36:35.159 line:5%
I've been a full-time,
stay-at-home dad.
672
00:36:35.259 --> 00:36:37.728
You are definitely
a very rare breed.
673
00:36:37.828 --> 00:36:39.197
That's why I married you.
674
00:36:39.297 --> 00:36:40.965
Look at him, like the mustache.
675
00:36:41.065 --> 00:36:42.533
He made my "hm" tingling,
you know?
676
00:36:42.633 --> 00:36:45.236
I was like, "Ooh!"
677
00:36:45.336 --> 00:36:47.805
I feel like I'm a [bleep] mom.
I just can't.
678
00:36:47.905 --> 00:36:50.274
The American Dream is
actually killing me,
679
00:36:50.374 --> 00:36:52.243
and I need to let it go.
680
00:36:57.748 --> 00:37:00.051
[upbeat music playing]
681
00:37:18.569 --> 00:37:20.605
Yeah, daddy's here.
682
00:37:20.705 --> 00:37:21.739
♪ Hold on ♪
683
00:37:21.839 --> 00:37:23.641
♪ I'm telling you the truth ♪
684
00:37:23.741 --> 00:37:25.243
♪ You need me baby ♪
685
00:37:25.343 --> 00:37:27.445
♪ Just like I need you ♪
686
00:37:31.749 --> 00:37:33.851 line:5%
'Cause we cannot post
later than the 24th.
687
00:37:35.386 --> 00:37:36.520
For the past year and a half,
688
00:37:36.621 --> 00:37:39.156
I've been a full-time,
stay-at-home dad.
689
00:37:39.257 --> 00:37:40.958
Benjamin.
690
00:37:41.058 --> 00:37:43.928
Daycare is stupid expensive,
691
00:37:44.028 --> 00:37:47.398
so I quit my job in security
to stay at home with Ben.
692
00:37:47.498 --> 00:37:50.401
[Manon]
Anthony is an amazing,
loving husband,
693
00:37:50.501 --> 00:37:53.070
but what he does the best
and who he is the best
694
00:37:53.170 --> 00:37:54.405
is a baby daddy.
695
00:37:55.973 --> 00:37:58.409
You are definitely
a very rare breed.
696
00:37:58.509 --> 00:37:59.744
That's why I married you.
697
00:38:01.145 --> 00:38:04.248
We met about four years ago.
698
00:38:04.348 --> 00:38:08.419
She actually swiped
left on me at first.
699
00:38:08.519 --> 00:38:09.787
[sighs]
700
00:38:09.887 --> 00:38:12.657
He's terrible at taking
pictures of himself.
701
00:38:12.757 --> 00:38:14.025
You could not see
his face at first.
702
00:38:14.125 --> 00:38:15.693
I'm like, "Oh, that's
probably a creep, right?
703
00:38:15.793 --> 00:38:18.729
But we never know."
I shake the phone.
704
00:38:18.829 --> 00:38:20.231
He goes back on the profile.
705
00:38:20.331 --> 00:38:23.067
And I'm like,
"Oh, actually kind of cute."
706
00:38:23.167 --> 00:38:24.035
Cute dog, also.
707
00:38:24.135 --> 00:38:26.237
[chuckles]
708
00:38:26.337 --> 00:38:29.307
[Anthony]
And then we had
our first date in Malibu.
709
00:38:29.407 --> 00:38:31.742
And I think she kinda did
a double take
710
00:38:31.842 --> 00:38:32.977
when she first saw me.
711
00:38:33.077 --> 00:38:35.946
[Manon]
Look at him, like,
the mustache, Mr. Mustache
712
00:38:36.047 --> 00:38:37.515
He made my "hm" tingling,
you know?
713
00:38:37.615 --> 00:38:39.684
I was like,
"Ooh, I didn't expected that."
714
00:38:39.784 --> 00:38:41.018
You know, keep it.
You better keep it.
715
00:38:41.118 --> 00:38:42.453
Ooh, hoo.
716
00:38:44.055 --> 00:38:45.556
Look at you.
717
00:38:45.656 --> 00:38:48.359
I already knew after our first
date that I wanted
718
00:38:48.459 --> 00:38:49.960
to marry her.
719
00:38:50.061 --> 00:38:51.562
[Manon]
And then, actually, he wrote me
720
00:38:51.662 --> 00:38:55.900
a handwriting letter as well
in my mail a few days after.
721
00:38:56.000 --> 00:38:57.134
How freaking cool is that?
722
00:38:57.234 --> 00:38:59.303
And I was like, "OK, well,
he's not going anywhere."
723
00:38:59.403 --> 00:39:02.306
And then everything
went back-to-back with him.
724
00:39:02.406 --> 00:39:04.575
One month later,
we moved with each other.
725
00:39:06.277 --> 00:39:09.547
Six months after, he proposed.
726
00:39:09.647 --> 00:39:13.050
Nine months after we dated,
we eloped in Las Vegas.
727
00:39:13.150 --> 00:39:14.151
Seven months.
728
00:39:15.653 --> 00:39:17.922
[sighs]
Seven months later, yes.
729
00:39:18.022 --> 00:39:20.725
A year later,
we bought the house,
730
00:39:20.825 --> 00:39:23.594
and then right after, bam!
The baby.
731
00:39:26.897 --> 00:39:29.400
All of that in less
than three years.
732
00:39:35.639 --> 00:39:39.110
OK, finished my meeting.
Come here, my baby.
733
00:39:39.210 --> 00:39:40.745
Is that mama?
734
00:39:40.845 --> 00:39:42.446
Oh, come with mama.
735
00:39:42.546 --> 00:39:43.714
[Benjamin babbles]
736
00:39:43.814 --> 00:39:45.416
Come with me.
Come here.
737
00:39:45.516 --> 00:39:47.685
Come with me.
Yeah.
738
00:39:47.785 --> 00:39:50.588
Yeah.
Oh, OK.
739
00:39:50.688 --> 00:39:52.590
-He wants to play.
-OK.
740
00:39:54.492 --> 00:39:59.630
I had to go back to work after
eight weeks, after giving birth
741
00:39:59.730 --> 00:40:00.965
eight weeks later,
742
00:40:01.065 --> 00:40:02.767
'cause how
are we going to pay our bills?
743
00:40:02.867 --> 00:40:04.602
And it was not just
a nine to five,
744
00:40:04.702 --> 00:40:06.570 line:5%
where at five, I'm done,
I can shut off my phone.
745
00:40:14.245 --> 00:40:18.616 line:5%
Babies thrive on routines,
but his entire routine's
746
00:40:18.716 --> 00:40:20.718
for everything with Anthony.
747
00:40:21.986 --> 00:40:26.424
And sometimes it makes me feel
like the biggest failure
748
00:40:26.524 --> 00:40:27.725
in the world.
749
00:40:27.825 --> 00:40:31.495
I do want to have that bond
with that baby that it took me
750
00:40:31.595 --> 00:40:35.232
nine months to create, to carry.
751
00:40:35.332 --> 00:40:37.768
He's my pride and joy.
752
00:40:37.868 --> 00:40:40.070 line:5%
Good job.
Good job.
753
00:40:44.842 --> 00:40:47.144 line:5%
-[Benjamin cries]
-Come here, come to mommy.
754
00:40:47.244 --> 00:40:50.648
I really cannot stand that,
you know, he's just always
755
00:40:50.748 --> 00:40:51.782
into you, into you.
756
00:40:51.882 --> 00:40:54.585
Every time I try to play
or something, he just goes
757
00:40:54.685 --> 00:40:56.187
straight back at you.
758
00:40:56.287 --> 00:40:57.555
I know.
759
00:40:57.655 --> 00:41:00.891
With Manon working and me
taking care of Ben,
760
00:41:00.991 --> 00:41:03.360
there have been a lot of days
where we were
761
00:41:03.461 --> 00:41:05.429
at each other's throats.
762
00:41:05.529 --> 00:41:09.500
I felt a lot of resentment
coming from her for me spending
763
00:41:09.600 --> 00:41:13.904
so much time with Ben,
building this incredible bond,
764
00:41:14.004 --> 00:41:17.141
you know, and everything was
always falling on me with Ben,
765
00:41:17.241 --> 00:41:19.610
both of us were actually
starting to resent each other.
766
00:41:25.716 --> 00:41:28.486 line:5%
...'cause you provide for us.
767
00:41:28.586 --> 00:41:30.821
Yeah, but I should be there
for him, though.
768
00:41:30.921 --> 00:41:34.458
And you will be in France,
and that's why we're going.
769
00:41:34.558 --> 00:41:36.861
See how excited
he is about France?
770
00:41:36.961 --> 00:41:38.596
Yeah.
771
00:41:38.696 --> 00:41:42.266
-Woo!
-Yeah. [chuckles nervously]
772
00:41:42.366 --> 00:41:44.602
[Anthony]
Our marriage was falling apart,
773
00:41:44.702 --> 00:41:48.439
so I said, "Why don't we sell
our house and move to France?
774
00:41:48.539 --> 00:41:52.710
"And really focus on us
as a family and the quality
775
00:41:52.810 --> 00:41:54.945
of life that can be there."
776
00:41:55.045 --> 00:41:56.347
I thought it seemed --
I'm like, "You know what?
777
00:41:56.447 --> 00:41:57.381
"He is right,
778
00:41:57.481 --> 00:41:59.917
"The American Dream
is actually killing me,
779
00:42:00.017 --> 00:42:01.752
and I need to let it go."
780
00:42:03.254 --> 00:42:04.822
It's gonna be better for us.
781
00:42:04.922 --> 00:42:06.223
You're gonna spend
more time with him.
782
00:42:06.323 --> 00:42:08.292
-Yeah.
-And he's gonna be
783
00:42:08.392 --> 00:42:11.328
more attached
to you than he is to me.
784
00:42:11.428 --> 00:42:13.230
[Manon]*
I am looking forward to it,
785
00:42:13.330 --> 00:42:16.166
but it's not gonna be
completely easy.
786
00:42:16.267 --> 00:42:20.204
It may save our marriage
and also make me have
787
00:42:20.304 --> 00:42:23.140
a good relationship with my son.
788
00:42:23.240 --> 00:42:24.375
That's why I'm doing it.
789
00:42:24.475 --> 00:42:27.144
But you're asking me to go back
to a country that I used
790
00:42:27.244 --> 00:42:30.147
to hate and I wanted to escape.
791
00:42:30.247 --> 00:42:34.485
You ask me to not be a business
entrepreneur girlie that I am.
792
00:42:34.585 --> 00:42:36.520
Like, it's a lot.
793
00:42:36.620 --> 00:42:39.156
So what if it's actually
a bit too much, Anthony?
794
00:42:39.256 --> 00:42:41.525
What if it's too much change
for me?
795
00:42:46.297 --> 00:42:47.631
You wanna go with Dad?
Yeah, go to daddy.
796
00:42:47.731 --> 00:42:48.866
OK.
797
00:42:48.966 --> 00:42:50.301
-[phone chimes]
-Oh [bleep].
798
00:42:50.401 --> 00:42:53.470
I gotta go.
It's my next meeting.
799
00:42:53.571 --> 00:42:55.439
*
800
00:42:55.539 --> 00:42:58.175 line:5%
[Jennifer]
She thinks I'm coming just
to say bye, but I'm really
801
00:42:58.275 --> 00:43:00.477 line:5%
coming to tell her
not to move there.
802
00:43:01.812 --> 00:43:03.514
I think you're making a mistake.
803
00:43:03.614 --> 00:43:04.949
The only thing that he's shown
804
00:43:05.049 --> 00:43:07.251
is that he's not even
faithful to you.
805
00:43:10.087 --> 00:43:13.691
I'm so happy that finally
we all can live together.
806
00:43:13.791 --> 00:43:15.859
-I'm afraid.
-You're afraid?
807
00:43:18.195 --> 00:43:20.965
There are a lot of expectations
from the daughter-in-law.
808
00:43:21.065 --> 00:43:24.902
She can't expect us to be there
always cleaning and cooking.
809
00:43:25.002 --> 00:43:27.071
I don't want to scare you.
810
00:43:27.171 --> 00:43:28.839
-You are scaring me.
-[Shree laughs]
811
00:43:35.946 --> 00:43:38.415 line:5%
[Jennifer]
Chloe is living in,
like, Delululand.
812
00:43:38.515 --> 00:43:40.851 line:5%
She's moving to another country
for the wrong man.
813
00:43:40.951 --> 00:43:42.953 line:5%
He is not the one.
814
00:43:43.053 --> 00:43:45.756
She thinks I'm coming just
to say bye and to wish her luck,
815
00:43:45.856 --> 00:43:48.959
but I'm really coming
to tell her not to move there.
816
00:43:53.030 --> 00:43:57.334
♪ I see the clouds
Breaking over my head ♪
817
00:43:57.434 --> 00:44:00.037
♪ Ground shaking
Under my feet ♪
818
00:44:00.137 --> 00:44:03.941
[Jennifer]
Aruba is where you go to have
fun on vacation,
819
00:44:04.041 --> 00:44:06.477
not where you move
to be with someone.
820
00:44:06.577 --> 00:44:07.778
[doorbell rings]
821
00:44:07.878 --> 00:44:10.381
[Jennifer] I don't wanna break
her heart,
822
00:44:10.481 --> 00:44:12.316
but I think
she's making a mistake.
823
00:44:16.020 --> 00:44:18.155
[both] Hey!
824
00:44:18.255 --> 00:44:19.456
[Chloe] How are you?
825
00:44:19.556 --> 00:44:21.725
-[Jennifer] Good to see you.
-[Chloe] You too.
826
00:44:21.825 --> 00:44:23.894
-My God, I missed you.
-[Jennifer] It's so cold.
827
00:44:23.994 --> 00:44:25.663
[Chloe] I know.
It's freezing.
828
00:44:25.763 --> 00:44:27.131
Alright, you don't really
have to wipe your feet.
829
00:44:27.231 --> 00:44:28.332
It's fine.
830
00:44:28.432 --> 00:44:30.901
Jen's husband grew up
on the same street as Jonathan.
831
00:44:31.001 --> 00:44:33.504
And they met when Jen
was on vacation.
832
00:44:33.604 --> 00:44:35.472
Darren moved to the States
about a year ago,
833
00:44:35.572 --> 00:44:37.708
and they just got married.
834
00:44:37.808 --> 00:44:40.377
You want a snack,
or, like, tea, or something?
835
00:44:40.477 --> 00:44:41.812
Yeah, I'll take some tea.
836
00:44:41.912 --> 00:44:44.515
[Chloe] I met Jen
before they moved to the States.
837
00:44:44.615 --> 00:44:47.084
Jen is, like, my friendship mom.
838
00:44:47.184 --> 00:44:49.953
She'll tell me whether
I'm insane or I'm not insane,
839
00:44:50.054 --> 00:44:52.122
but I don't always want
Jen's advice,
840
00:44:52.222 --> 00:44:54.792
'cause 99% of the time,
she's probably right,
841
00:44:54.892 --> 00:44:57.995
and that's what I try
to avoid at all costs.
842
00:44:58.095 --> 00:44:59.063
How are you?
843
00:44:59.163 --> 00:45:00.497
-[Jennifer] Good.
-Yeah?
844
00:45:00.597 --> 00:45:02.833
-Drive was a little long.
-[Chloe] How long is it?
845
00:45:02.933 --> 00:45:05.636
-Four and a half hours.
-[Chloe] Oh, gosh.
846
00:45:05.736 --> 00:45:09.173
So I know I was coming
to say goodbye...
847
00:45:09.273 --> 00:45:12.409
but I really came to try to...
848
00:45:12.509 --> 00:45:14.178
talk to you.
849
00:45:14.278 --> 00:45:16.947
There is so much more to life
than Aruba,
850
00:45:17.047 --> 00:45:19.550
which I love as a vacation home.
851
00:45:21.018 --> 00:45:22.720
But to live there is
852
00:45:22.820 --> 00:45:25.222
a completely
different commitment.
853
00:45:25.322 --> 00:45:28.992
I need to explain to you
how crazy it is there
854
00:45:29.093 --> 00:45:31.462
with how the culture is.
855
00:45:31.562 --> 00:45:34.098
There's just thousands
of these girls that literally
856
00:45:34.198 --> 00:45:36.934
come to Aruba for one reason,
and that is to party
857
00:45:37.034 --> 00:45:39.303
and hook up with the locals.
858
00:45:39.403 --> 00:45:41.171
I've been going there
for such a long time.
859
00:45:41.271 --> 00:45:43.474
I've seen it so many times,
860
00:45:43.574 --> 00:45:45.042
and I think you're
making a mistake.
861
00:45:47.344 --> 00:45:49.947
I'm so worried that you are
862
00:45:50.047 --> 00:45:52.950
literally leaving
your life here for him,
863
00:45:53.050 --> 00:45:54.118
and the only thing
that he's shown
864
00:45:54.218 --> 00:45:56.587
is that he's not
even faithful to you.
865
00:46:01.191 --> 00:46:04.661
After a few months of Jonathan
and I being together,
866
00:46:04.762 --> 00:46:07.064
I thought we were exclusive.
867
00:46:07.164 --> 00:46:09.199
We were going to be
boyfriend and girlfriend.
868
00:46:09.299 --> 00:46:13.637
And then Jonathan was
on a boy's trip to Florida.
869
00:46:13.737 --> 00:46:17.641
One day, I'm on social media,
and I see that he was actually
870
00:46:17.741 --> 00:46:22.179
taking another girl on a trip
to Florida for her birthday.
871
00:46:25.249 --> 00:46:27.284
[Chloe]
You know, we talked about it.
872
00:46:27.384 --> 00:46:31.855
He told me
he was in an open relationship,
873
00:46:31.955 --> 00:46:34.792
quote, unquote, with the girl.
874
00:46:34.892 --> 00:46:36.794
And I just said,
"I honestly don't understand it,
875
00:46:36.894 --> 00:46:40.531
'cause that's not
how I do things."
876
00:46:40.631 --> 00:46:42.466
He just said, like,
"I really do want this to work.
877
00:46:42.566 --> 00:46:44.434
I made a mistake."
878
00:46:44.535 --> 00:46:46.436
It's just -- it seems
like he definitely jumps
879
00:46:46.537 --> 00:46:49.540
from females.
He's got a long history.
880
00:46:49.640 --> 00:46:52.142
When you say it like that,
it sounds bad.
881
00:46:52.242 --> 00:46:54.478
-It is bad.
-It was bad.
882
00:46:56.713 --> 00:46:57.981
[Jennifer]
And that's why I worry,
883
00:46:58.081 --> 00:47:01.051
because now you're literally
six months later,
884
00:47:01.151 --> 00:47:02.986
making the decision to go
live with him.
885
00:47:03.086 --> 00:47:06.557
I am worried that it's a trend
given the lifestyle
886
00:47:06.657 --> 00:47:07.891
and the culture there.
887
00:47:07.991 --> 00:47:11.061
Having a husband that
also worked in tourism that got
888
00:47:11.161 --> 00:47:14.131
constantly hit on,
it never stopped.
889
00:47:14.231 --> 00:47:17.935
And guys like Johnny
constantly go with these girls.
890
00:47:18.035 --> 00:47:20.237
Like, what do
they say about, like,
891
00:47:20.337 --> 00:47:21.205
"Leopard doesn't
892
00:47:21.305 --> 00:47:22.272
change their spots?"
893
00:47:24.174 --> 00:47:26.844
I think Chloe does see
successful relationships.
894
00:47:26.944 --> 00:47:28.879
Darren and I, for example,
but our situation is
895
00:47:28.979 --> 00:47:31.782
a little bit different,
he left Aruba.
896
00:47:31.882 --> 00:47:35.152
In Aruba, these guys know
how to get away with cheating.
897
00:47:35.252 --> 00:47:37.454
My husband, he saw these things
happen all the time.
898
00:47:37.554 --> 00:47:39.990
The guys on the boat
all have each other's back.
899
00:47:40.090 --> 00:47:42.526
I think Johnny knows
that he can get away with it
900
00:47:42.626 --> 00:47:44.628
if he wants to.
He's already done it before.
901
00:47:44.728 --> 00:47:45.829
Yes, he's gotten caught.
902
00:47:45.929 --> 00:47:48.298
That doesn't necessarily mean
he won't do it again.
903
00:47:48.398 --> 00:47:50.100
He may just get
more clever about it.
904
00:47:51.969 --> 00:47:54.204
[Chloe]
I know you came here
905
00:47:54.304 --> 00:47:56.273
to stop me, in a sense.
906
00:47:56.373 --> 00:48:00.244
-I did.
-But I'm going through with it,
907
00:48:00.344 --> 00:48:03.146
I believe in him.
908
00:48:03.247 --> 00:48:05.616
Whether it's my insanity
909
00:48:05.716 --> 00:48:09.419
or the fact
that I'm just delusional,
910
00:48:09.519 --> 00:48:12.823
I really do feel this
is going to work out.
911
00:48:18.662 --> 00:48:20.597
[upbeat music playing]
912
00:48:35.078 --> 00:48:36.413 line:5%
[Sumit]
Uh-oh, trouble.
913
00:48:38.282 --> 00:48:39.783
[grunts]
914
00:48:41.184 --> 00:48:44.521 line:5%
-How are you?
-Hello!
915
00:48:44.621 --> 00:48:47.891 line:5%
[Jenny]
Look how straight
your hair is, oh my God.
916
00:48:49.893 --> 00:48:52.329
[Sumit]
We are moving in
with my family tomorrow,
917
00:48:52.429 --> 00:48:54.798
and today we are meeting
my brother Amit
918
00:48:54.898 --> 00:48:57.267
and my sister-in-law Shree.
919
00:48:57.367 --> 00:49:00.103 line:5%
So we can buy
some stuff for the house.
920
00:49:04.541 --> 00:49:06.610
-[Jenny] OK, OK,
see you later, bye!
-[Shree] Bye!
921
00:49:08.278 --> 00:49:10.981
I have a great relationship
with Amit and Shree.
922
00:49:11.081 --> 00:49:13.717
We get along really well.
923
00:49:13.817 --> 00:49:15.419
Oh, this is the shop.
924
00:49:15.519 --> 00:49:16.653
-We just missed it.
-This shop?
925
00:49:16.753 --> 00:49:18.422
This shop, yeah.
926
00:49:18.522 --> 00:49:20.624
[Jenny]
They've been living
together with the family
927
00:49:20.724 --> 00:49:22.492
since they got married.
928
00:49:22.592 --> 00:49:25.929
And I know that there's been
some problems lately
929
00:49:26.029 --> 00:49:27.597
between mom and Shree.
930
00:49:27.698 --> 00:49:32.102
So I'm gonna get the --
the 411 on that.
931
00:49:32.202 --> 00:49:34.638
So what do you think
of these pots and pans?
932
00:49:34.738 --> 00:49:36.540
This looks good for chai, right?
933
00:49:36.640 --> 00:49:39.409
-But this little small.
-Too small, OK.
934
00:49:39.509 --> 00:49:41.111
-We need a bigger size
-Yeah, there's
a lot of us there.
935
00:49:41.211 --> 00:49:42.479
[Shree]
Yeah, six people.
936
00:50:02.199 --> 00:50:05.268 line:5%
I think I've only ever made
chai for four people.
937
00:50:05.369 --> 00:50:07.471 line:5%
-That's the max.
-That's the max.
938
00:50:30.827 --> 00:50:32.863 line:5%
Yeah, we've been talking,
939
00:50:32.963 --> 00:50:34.164 line:5%
of course.
-[Shree] Hm, OK.
940
00:50:34.264 --> 00:50:37.200
But I don't think
he's telling me everything.
941
00:50:37.300 --> 00:50:39.569
I think he doesn't want
to scare me.
942
00:50:39.669 --> 00:50:41.938
So you need to, kind of,
fill me in
943
00:50:42.039 --> 00:50:43.407
on what to expect.
944
00:50:44.808 --> 00:50:46.643
So there are
a lot of expectations
945
00:50:46.743 --> 00:50:48.245
from the daughter-in-law.
946
00:50:48.345 --> 00:50:51.114
You know, you have to be
at certain places,
947
00:50:51.214 --> 00:50:53.984
you have to be
wearing certain things
948
00:50:54.084 --> 00:50:57.254
at certain places, and you have
to behave a certain way.
949
00:51:00.123 --> 00:51:01.925
[chill music playing]
950
00:51:03.460 --> 00:51:05.028
[Sumit]
This guy is getting heavy.
951
00:51:05.128 --> 00:51:06.496
[Amit] He's tired.
952
00:51:08.865 --> 00:51:10.033 line:5%
[Sumit chuckles]
953
00:51:13.403 --> 00:51:16.973
I'm so happy that finally
my dream is coming true.
954
00:51:17.074 --> 00:51:20.677
-Like, we all can live together.
-I'm afraid.
955
00:51:20.777 --> 00:51:22.612
You're afraid?
956
00:51:22.712 --> 00:51:24.014
[Amit]
Maybe I'm afraid for my wife.
957
00:51:24.114 --> 00:51:26.983
Like, once we'll start
living together,
958
00:51:27.084 --> 00:51:29.453 line:5%
then the responsibility
will be double.
959
00:51:31.521 --> 00:51:34.424 line:5%
What I think is
will be double for her.
960
00:51:34.524 --> 00:51:37.994 line:5%
Jenny wakes up late.
She doesn't cook food.
961
00:51:38.095 --> 00:51:41.264
Like, you spent
five years together, like,
962
00:51:41.364 --> 00:51:43.700
living by your own way.
963
00:51:43.800 --> 00:51:45.902
But now
the things are different.
964
00:51:46.002 --> 00:51:48.038
With family comes
the responsibility.
965
00:51:53.276 --> 00:51:55.879 line:5%
I don't want my wife
only the one who will be doing
966
00:51:55.979 --> 00:51:57.247
each and everything.
967
00:52:00.117 --> 00:52:02.886
[Sumit] I understand
my brother's concern,
968
00:52:02.986 --> 00:52:04.988
but he also need to understand
969
00:52:05.088 --> 00:52:07.691
it's gonna be very difficult
and different for Jenny.
970
00:52:20.570 --> 00:52:22.672
[Jenny]
You know how I see it, Shree?
971
00:52:22.772 --> 00:52:24.474
Mom...
972
00:52:24.574 --> 00:52:26.209
this is her way of life,
973
00:52:26.309 --> 00:52:27.978
this is what
she's always been doing.
974
00:52:28.078 --> 00:52:31.882
She can't expect us to be there
always cleaning and cooking,
975
00:52:31.982 --> 00:52:33.416
because that's her thing.
976
00:52:33.517 --> 00:52:36.052
-That's what she likes to do.
-Exactly.
977
00:52:36.153 --> 00:52:39.222 line:5%
The thing is, this is where
we have little mismatch things.
978
00:53:12.189 --> 00:53:14.691
Then I
said, "Fine, if you think
979
00:53:14.791 --> 00:53:16.626
that I have not done anything,
980
00:53:16.726 --> 00:53:20.130
then I'll be not doing anything
from today onwards."
981
00:53:20.230 --> 00:53:21.131
Oh, God.
982
00:53:21.231 --> 00:53:24.034
Like, what have
I gotten myself into?
983
00:53:24.134 --> 00:53:25.368
-[Shree chuckles]
-[Jenny] Oh, no.
984
00:53:25.468 --> 00:53:27.671
See, I don't want to scare you.
985
00:53:27.771 --> 00:53:29.706
-You are scaring me.
-[Shree laughs]
986
00:53:29.806 --> 00:53:34.044
But I'm giving you
a very, very reality picture.
987
00:53:34.144 --> 00:53:35.679 line:5%
[Sumit speaking]
988
00:53:38.915 --> 00:53:40.217 line:5%
[Amit]
They are not.
989
00:53:40.317 --> 00:53:43.887 line:5%
Mom just said, "And you have
never done anything for us."
990
00:53:43.987 --> 00:53:47.224
-Oh, like, now?
-[Amit] And Shree...
991
00:53:47.324 --> 00:53:49.359
You are not
the favorite one, huh?
992
00:53:49.459 --> 00:53:53.930
Things have changed.
Now you are the most loved
993
00:53:54.030 --> 00:53:56.666
son and daughter-in-law.
994
00:53:56.766 --> 00:53:59.035
And now the dynamics
will be different
995
00:53:59.135 --> 00:54:01.871
once you guys move in together.
996
00:54:01.972 --> 00:54:06.276
And let's see
who will be the favorite --
997
00:54:06.376 --> 00:54:07.911
favorite daughter-in-law.
998
00:54:09.246 --> 00:54:10.780 line:5%
[Sumit speaking]
999
00:55:01.097 --> 00:55:03.066 line:5%
70,000 is a lot of money!
1000
00:55:03.166 --> 00:55:05.969
I would love to not have
to focus so much
1001
00:55:06.069 --> 00:55:07.704
on money, money, money.
1002
00:55:07.804 --> 00:55:10.006 line:5%
We're on the brink of divorce.
1003
00:55:19.949 --> 00:55:21.918
♪ Whoa ♪
1004
00:55:26.990 --> 00:55:28.658
♪ Take a little ride with me ♪
1005
00:55:28.758 --> 00:55:31.594
♪ Come on,
Take a little ride with me ♪
1006
00:55:31.695 --> 00:55:32.729
[car dealer]
You're the original owner?
1007
00:55:32.829 --> 00:55:33.797
-[Anthony] Yeah.
-[Manon] Yes.
1008
00:55:33.897 --> 00:55:35.065
[car dealer]
Why are you guys
selling the car?
1009
00:55:35.165 --> 00:55:36.833
-[Anthony] Moving to France.
-[car dealer] OK.
1010
00:55:38.435 --> 00:55:43.740
♪ Oh, baby,
You take a look at me now ♪
1011
00:55:43.840 --> 00:55:45.608
♪ Yeah ♪
1012
00:55:45.709 --> 00:55:47.210
Do you know what your payoff is?
1013
00:55:47.310 --> 00:55:49.045
-$27,000.
-Yeah.
1014
00:55:49.145 --> 00:55:50.914
[car dealer] OK,
let me book it out real quick.
1015
00:55:53.350 --> 00:55:55.218
We put our house
on the market a week ago.
1016
00:55:55.318 --> 00:55:57.287 line:5%
And the house
is actually already sold.
1017
00:55:57.387 --> 00:55:58.288 line:5%
OK, so, as you know,
1018
00:55:58.388 --> 00:56:00.290 line:5%
we accepted the offer.
We took it all cash.
1019
00:56:00.390 --> 00:56:01.624 line:5%
-[Manon] Yeah.
-[Kelly] $810.
1020
00:56:01.725 --> 00:56:05.729 line:5%
So the net proceeds we have
right now is $88,778.
1021
00:56:05.829 --> 00:56:07.397 line:5%
But we have two weeks
that you have to be out
1022
00:56:07.497 --> 00:56:09.099 line:5%
of the house.
So just prep yourself.
1023
00:56:09.199 --> 00:56:10.467
Wow.
1024
00:56:10.567 --> 00:56:12.769
-And now we have two weeks...
-Nothing is ready yet.
1025
00:56:12.869 --> 00:56:15.472
...to get out of our house,
pack all of our belongings,
1026
00:56:15.572 --> 00:56:17.273
make sure we have all
of our important paperwork.
1027
00:56:17.374 --> 00:56:19.242
Sell everything, get rid
of everything in two weeks.
1028
00:56:27.183 --> 00:56:30.587
I got auction fee, I got detail,
I gotta put two tires on,
1029
00:56:30.687 --> 00:56:32.021
and then we gotta make
a little bit of money.
1030
00:56:32.122 --> 00:56:34.991
So the number I'd be at is
probably right around 15 grand.
1031
00:56:36.993 --> 00:56:40.397 line:5%
[Manon]
Oh, my Lord, 15K?
1032
00:56:40.497 --> 00:56:42.999 line:5%
[Anthony] Whoa, it's something
to just take a step back
1033
00:56:43.099 --> 00:56:44.134 line:5%
and to consider.
1034
00:56:44.234 --> 00:56:45.902 line:5%
I'm just trying to help
you out the best we can.
1035
00:56:46.002 --> 00:56:47.003
Oh, no, no, no, for sure.
Thank you.
1036
00:56:47.103 --> 00:56:48.772
-I appreciate it.
-We're looking at our options.
1037
00:56:51.608 --> 00:56:52.942 line:5%
Sorry about the news.
1038
00:56:53.042 --> 00:56:54.611 line:5%
Wish it could have been better.
1039
00:56:54.711 --> 00:56:57.013 line:5%
It's OK.
It is what it is, right?
1040
00:56:57.113 --> 00:56:58.648 line:5%
[Manon]
OK, I'm gonna go
to bed and cry.
1041
00:56:58.748 --> 00:56:59.716
Thanks.
1042
00:57:02.786 --> 00:57:06.923
I have to lose $12,000
out of my own money
1043
00:57:07.023 --> 00:57:09.492
to get rid of a car?
That seems like [bleep] insane.
1044
00:57:11.094 --> 00:57:17.167
Fifteen [bleep] K, like,
no [bleep] way, like, no.
1045
00:57:17.267 --> 00:57:18.968
Well, I mean, it's --
it's one option.
1046
00:57:19.068 --> 00:57:21.438
No, but I have to move
to France and go there broke?
1047
00:57:21.538 --> 00:57:23.973
You think the amount of money
we have in our account
1048
00:57:24.073 --> 00:57:26.676
after selling our house
means we're broke?
1049
00:57:26.776 --> 00:57:28.645
We'd be broke, yeah, there,
1050
00:57:28.745 --> 00:57:30.413
because there's nothing
coming in.
1051
00:57:30.513 --> 00:57:31.681
It's only coming out.
1052
00:57:31.781 --> 00:57:34.017
$70,000 is a lot of money!
Between that --
1053
00:57:34.117 --> 00:57:37.287 line:5%
That money is not even enough
for a down payment in France.
1054
00:57:39.856 --> 00:57:41.858
I'm not going to rent anymore.
1055
00:57:41.958 --> 00:57:44.561
I'm not going to have
a [bleep] house that's way
1056
00:57:44.661 --> 00:57:48.498
smaller or something.
-We are not going there broke.
1057
00:57:48.598 --> 00:57:51.634
And we're not going there
with the expectation
1058
00:57:51.734 --> 00:57:53.736
of not working either.
1059
00:57:56.139 --> 00:57:59.909
I know this move isn't easy
for Manon, and financially,
1060
00:58:00.009 --> 00:58:01.344
we're gonna have to take a hit
for a while,
1061
00:58:01.444 --> 00:58:03.346
but we're gonna be OK.
1062
00:58:03.446 --> 00:58:06.316
We'll be staying with your
parents, not paying rent.
1063
00:58:06.416 --> 00:58:08.318
You'll still be
working part time
1064
00:58:08.418 --> 00:58:09.986
with your marketing company,
1065
00:58:10.086 --> 00:58:11.688
and as soon as my French
gets better,
1066
00:58:11.788 --> 00:58:13.490
I can get a job in security
1067
00:58:13.590 --> 00:58:16.025
or in some field
where they're open
1068
00:58:16.125 --> 00:58:18.361
to having someone
that's either still learning
1069
00:58:18.461 --> 00:58:21.231
or whatever level I'll be at.
1070
00:58:21.331 --> 00:58:23.700
-You're delulu.
-I'm motivated.
1071
00:58:23.800 --> 00:58:25.235
-[Manon] Delulu.
-It's different.
1072
00:58:25.335 --> 00:58:26.669
Delusional.
1073
00:58:30.006 --> 00:58:33.576
Stop focusing so much
on we need this amount
1074
00:58:33.676 --> 00:58:35.445
or else we're broke
and it's not gonna work.
1075
00:58:35.545 --> 00:58:37.814
Because, Anthony,
every day as a kid,
1076
00:58:37.914 --> 00:58:39.082
I see my dad and my mom
1077
00:58:39.182 --> 00:58:41.217
stressing because we don't have
enough money.
1078
00:58:41.317 --> 00:58:44.053
And then I lived like [bleep]
1079
00:58:44.153 --> 00:58:47.524
for years in LA
trying to make it, OK?
1080
00:58:47.624 --> 00:58:50.994
I was homeless.
I had nothing under my name.
1081
00:58:51.094 --> 00:58:52.061
Nothing.
1082
00:58:52.161 --> 00:58:53.630
I'm not just
a materialistic bitch
1083
00:58:53.730 --> 00:58:57.066
who wants, like, fancy bags
and, like, a fancy house.
1084
00:58:57.166 --> 00:58:59.802
No, I struggled
to get where I'm at today.
1085
00:58:59.903 --> 00:59:03.406
So I'm not going to do
10 steps backward.
1086
00:59:03.506 --> 00:59:05.808
I wanna enjoy life.
1087
00:59:05.909 --> 00:59:08.845
But not everyone has
the same definition
1088
00:59:08.945 --> 00:59:11.047
of what brings them happiness.
1089
00:59:13.449 --> 00:59:16.386
I would love to not have
to focus so much
1090
00:59:16.486 --> 00:59:18.121
on money, money, money.
1091
00:59:18.221 --> 00:59:20.823
Maybe we don't need
this fancier house
1092
00:59:20.924 --> 00:59:22.625
with the pool and the jacuzzi.
1093
00:59:22.725 --> 00:59:25.261
Why is there
this constant push for more?
1094
00:59:25.361 --> 00:59:27.931
If you make enough
to get by and you're happy
1095
00:59:28.031 --> 00:59:31.100
with your life,
what is wrong with that?
1096
00:59:31.200 --> 00:59:34.671
My version of happiness
is spending time with you,
1097
00:59:34.771 --> 00:59:37.273
spending time with Ben,
the roof over our head,
1098
00:59:37.373 --> 00:59:38.575
being able to pay our bills.
1099
00:59:38.675 --> 00:59:40.810
That's why we are going
completely apart,
1100
00:59:40.910 --> 00:59:44.047
because what brings you
happiness is not the same as me.
1101
00:59:44.147 --> 00:59:45.648 line:5%
And we have, actually,
1102
00:59:45.748 --> 00:59:47.850 line:5%
very different ways
of seeing life now.
1103
00:59:51.888 --> 00:59:55.458
Anthony, he has a certain
standard of, like,
1104
00:59:55.558 --> 00:59:57.827
"As long as I have a roof
above my head
1105
00:59:57.927 --> 01:00:01.698
and food at the table
and I'm surviving, I'm happy."
1106
01:00:01.798 --> 01:00:03.866
Me, it's actually the opposite.
1107
01:00:03.967 --> 01:00:05.768
Makes me feel I'm in danger.
1108
01:00:05.868 --> 01:00:08.204 line:5%
It's being extra comfortable
that makes me feel safe.
1109
01:00:17.680 --> 01:00:21.784
You wanting more has left me
having an amazing relationship
1110
01:00:21.884 --> 01:00:24.420
with Ben,
you resenting me for it.
1111
01:00:24.520 --> 01:00:27.056
It has caused mental health
issues for yourself
1112
01:00:27.156 --> 01:00:29.025
because of how overworked
and stressed you are
1113
01:00:29.125 --> 01:00:32.161
to the point where we're
on the brink of divorce.
1114
01:00:32.261 --> 01:00:33.429
So you know what?
1115
01:00:33.529 --> 01:00:35.331 line:5%
I'm gonna [bleep] say it,
like...
1116
01:00:40.803 --> 01:00:43.239
Why do I always have
to compromise what I want,
1117
01:00:43.339 --> 01:00:45.475
who I am, and stuff?
Why?
1118
01:00:45.575 --> 01:00:50.246
Because your focus on that dream
is why we're here.
1119
01:00:50.346 --> 01:00:53.449
I'm sorry if I'm someone
who's driven in life.
1120
01:00:53.549 --> 01:00:57.253
You can be driven, but you can
still focus on your family, 100%
1121
01:00:57.353 --> 01:00:59.656
Yeah, that's why I'm moving
there and that's why
1122
01:00:59.756 --> 01:01:02.959
I'm changing all of myself
and all of my life for us.
1123
01:01:05.495 --> 01:01:09.766
We need some serenity now
and really think
1124
01:01:09.866 --> 01:01:12.769
about why we're moving to France
1125
01:01:12.869 --> 01:01:16.239
because all of this focus
on just finances
1126
01:01:16.339 --> 01:01:17.707
and finances and finances,
1127
01:01:17.807 --> 01:01:20.243
it is like just
tearing us apart.
1128
01:01:23.880 --> 01:01:25.048
OK.
1129
01:01:29.252 --> 01:01:32.422
[Anthony]
For her to say we're not
compatible, it is very hurtful.
1130
01:01:32.522 --> 01:01:34.257
And to hear her say
those things,
1131
01:01:34.357 --> 01:01:36.526
and not just once,
but multiple times,
1132
01:01:36.626 --> 01:01:39.228
every single time
it's taken a toll.
1133
01:01:39.328 --> 01:01:42.832
But it is very important for me
to fight for our marriage.
1134
01:01:42.932 --> 01:01:46.469
She is easily the best thing
that's happened in my life.
1135
01:01:46.569 --> 01:01:50.206
Moving to France
is very drastic,
1136
01:01:50.306 --> 01:01:55.478
and Manon already has a lot
of skepticism towards this move.
1137
01:01:55.578 --> 01:01:58.748
If this Hail Mary pass
doesn't work out,
1138
01:01:58.848 --> 01:02:03.386
I have no idea
what the future holds for us.
1139
01:02:09.726 --> 01:02:10.927 line:5%
I'm trying
to get this wedding done,
1140
01:02:11.027 --> 01:02:13.162 line:5%
and then I'm trying
to do the hotel.
1141
01:02:13.262 --> 01:02:15.531 line:5%
Yeah, but it's gonna take
a lot of money.
1142
01:02:15.631 --> 01:02:18.167
-I know.
-[Jim] Does Madelein know
1143
01:02:18.267 --> 01:02:19.969
that you're in debt?
1144
01:02:20.069 --> 01:02:22.939
[Luke] It is finally
sinking in that this is
1145
01:02:23.039 --> 01:02:25.742
the highest stakes gamble
that I ever made.
1146
01:02:25.842 --> 01:02:29.011
-I mean, I -- I'm not stupid.
-But you do stupid things.
1147
01:02:34.717 --> 01:02:36.919
[chill beats playing]
1148
01:02:50.900 --> 01:02:52.602 line:5%
You want it to be classy.
1149
01:02:52.702 --> 01:02:55.338 line:5%
You know, you don't wanna look
like a pimp on your wedding.
1150
01:02:55.438 --> 01:02:57.840
-OK.
-You wanna look smart.
1151
01:02:57.940 --> 01:03:00.977
Madelein hated the shoes
that I got for the wedding.
1152
01:03:01.077 --> 01:03:03.780
-Is this pimpy?
-No, no, that's classy.
1153
01:03:03.880 --> 01:03:07.884
So today, I've asked my dad
to tag along to go shop
1154
01:03:07.984 --> 01:03:09.786
for a new pair.
1155
01:03:09.886 --> 01:03:12.054
-I wanted to wear these ones.
-[Jim] Those are nice!
1156
01:03:12.155 --> 01:03:14.123
-That's the perfect color.
-[Luke] It's brown.
1157
01:03:14.223 --> 01:03:16.092
Madelein hates brown.
1158
01:03:16.192 --> 01:03:17.927
[chuckles]
1159
01:03:18.027 --> 01:03:19.128
She texted me.
1160
01:03:19.228 --> 01:03:21.030
She said, "You have
to understand that shoes
1161
01:03:21.130 --> 01:03:25.134
"can't be brown,
that color is old people's,
1162
01:03:25.234 --> 01:03:28.437
and if you wear
brown-colored shoes,
I won't marry you."
1163
01:03:28.538 --> 01:03:29.639
So she's saying
I'm old now, then.
1164
01:03:29.739 --> 01:03:30.907
[Luke]
Yeah.
1165
01:03:31.007 --> 01:03:33.943
"I hate its color,
and you need to hate them, too,"
1166
01:03:34.043 --> 01:03:36.012
is what she texted me.
1167
01:03:36.112 --> 01:03:39.182
Yeah, but at the same time,
you don't want her to walk
1168
01:03:39.282 --> 01:03:40.283
all over you right now.
1169
01:03:40.383 --> 01:03:41.717
You've got to stand your ground.
1170
01:03:41.818 --> 01:03:42.752
[Luke chuckles]
1171
01:03:42.852 --> 01:03:44.420
Otherwise,
your nuts will be gone.
1172
01:03:44.520 --> 01:03:45.855
Right.
1173
01:03:45.955 --> 01:03:49.458
I don't want to ruin her day
over a pair of shoes.
1174
01:03:49.559 --> 01:03:52.195
Well, that's a problem
if the pair of shoes is gonna
1175
01:03:52.295 --> 01:03:53.162
ruin the wedding.
1176
01:03:53.262 --> 01:03:54.163
[Luke chuckles]
1177
01:03:54.263 --> 01:03:56.265
[Jim]
Holy crap.
1178
01:03:56.365 --> 01:03:59.869
My dad has always been
a really big role model for me.
1179
01:03:59.969 --> 01:04:01.304
He runs his own business.
1180
01:04:01.404 --> 01:04:04.507
He makes
very good life decisions.
1181
01:04:04.607 --> 01:04:08.110
I ask my dad for advice
quite often, actually.
1182
01:04:08.211 --> 01:04:10.680
He is my best friend.
We talk all the time.
1183
01:04:12.849 --> 01:04:13.916
I don't get it.
1184
01:04:15.518 --> 01:04:18.321
You just bought a nice pair
of shoes for the wedding,
1185
01:04:18.421 --> 01:04:20.756
and now you gotta buy
another pair.
1186
01:04:20.857 --> 01:04:23.426
You got bills to pay
when we get down there.
1187
01:04:23.526 --> 01:04:25.428
You don't have
to spend a fortune
1188
01:04:25.528 --> 01:04:27.964
for it to be a nice day.
-Yeah.
1189
01:04:29.198 --> 01:04:32.068
You got the rest
of your life with her.
1190
01:04:32.168 --> 01:04:35.905
And you try and save as much
as you can for the future.
1191
01:04:36.005 --> 01:04:38.374
I'm just -- I'm trying to get
this wedding done and then
1192
01:04:38.474 --> 01:04:40.810
I'm trying to do the hotel.
1193
01:04:40.910 --> 01:04:44.413
That's, like, the only things
I care about right now.
1194
01:04:44.513 --> 01:04:46.582
Yeah, but it's gonna take
a lot of money.
1195
01:04:46.682 --> 01:04:48.351
Trust me, I know.
1196
01:04:48.451 --> 01:04:49.585
I know.
1197
01:04:49.685 --> 01:04:53.522
I want to provide for Madelein,
and since I'm passionate
1198
01:04:53.623 --> 01:04:56.893
about investing,
I had the chance to purchase
1199
01:04:56.993 --> 01:04:59.762
a property two hours outside
of Medellin,
1200
01:04:59.862 --> 01:05:04.967
and I plan to build a high-end,
luxurious resort,
1201
01:05:05.067 --> 01:05:08.704
which I'm wholeheartedly
planning to become
1202
01:05:08.804 --> 01:05:10.973
my primary source of income.
1203
01:05:11.073 --> 01:05:13.175
How's your jewelry stuff
coming along?
1204
01:05:13.276 --> 01:05:15.344
You managed
to sell any of that,
and your sunglasses?
1205
01:05:15.444 --> 01:05:17.880
Yeah, I mean --
I mean, a couple,
but I'll be honest,
1206
01:05:17.980 --> 01:05:20.182
like, I haven't done
any marketing, that costs money.
1207
01:05:20.283 --> 01:05:23.319
And with me leaving
my job and then the hotel thing,
1208
01:05:23.419 --> 01:05:27.323
I just allocated funds towards
the hotel and the designs
1209
01:05:27.423 --> 01:05:28.824
to try and get
that up and running.
1210
01:05:28.925 --> 01:05:29.926
You see, that's where
you're going wrong.
1211
01:05:30.026 --> 01:05:31.527
-Yeah, I mean, I...
-No, you are!
1212
01:05:31.627 --> 01:05:33.162
[Luke]
OK.
1213
01:05:33.262 --> 01:05:35.231
[Jim] Everything's like
a knee jerk reaction for you,
1214
01:05:35.331 --> 01:05:37.033
and you go off on tangents.
1215
01:05:37.133 --> 01:05:38.668
You're in quite a lot of debt.
1216
01:05:38.768 --> 01:05:41.070
You spent a fortune
on that jewelry
1217
01:05:41.170 --> 01:05:42.538
and the glasses,
1218
01:05:42.638 --> 01:05:44.307
and now you're putting that
on the back burner
1219
01:05:44.407 --> 01:05:47.043
to do another idea.
1220
01:05:47.143 --> 01:05:49.912
But this -- this property
1221
01:05:50.012 --> 01:05:51.981
wouldn't have been
on the market for long,
1222
01:05:52.081 --> 01:05:54.817
and I just needed to do
what I needed to do.
1223
01:05:54.917 --> 01:05:56.886
I went to school
for mining engineering.
1224
01:05:56.986 --> 01:05:59.922
I went to school for geology,
and I got an MBA in business.
1225
01:06:00.022 --> 01:06:03.392
-I mean, I'm not stupid, right?
-But you do stupid things.
1226
01:06:03.492 --> 01:06:04.460
OK, fine.
1227
01:06:04.560 --> 01:06:07.129
Yeah, I took a risk,
and it is what it is.
1228
01:06:07.229 --> 01:06:09.765
I mean,
I love to see people take risks,
1229
01:06:09.865 --> 01:06:11.434
but educated risks.
1230
01:06:11.534 --> 01:06:13.703
-[Luke] Yeah.
-Calculated risks.
1231
01:06:15.137 --> 01:06:19.008
Luke comes to for advice,
but it's not that he's actually
1232
01:06:19.108 --> 01:06:20.543
wanted my advice.
1233
01:06:20.643 --> 01:06:23.479
He wants me to back him up
on his decisions
1234
01:06:23.579 --> 01:06:26.048
rather than give him
the negatives.
1235
01:06:26.148 --> 01:06:28.918
Even though Luke went
to business school,
1236
01:06:29.018 --> 01:06:33.222
I sometimes question what they
actually taught him,
1237
01:06:33.322 --> 01:06:36.926
because he lets money
roll through his fingers
1238
01:06:37.026 --> 01:06:38.527
like there's no tomorrow.
1239
01:06:38.627 --> 01:06:42.665
He's just a very impulsive
person with everything.
1240
01:06:42.765 --> 01:06:46.068
Now, does Madelein know
that you're in debt?
1241
01:06:47.370 --> 01:06:48.971
She's aware of all the debt.
1242
01:06:50.606 --> 01:06:54.110
It is what it is, and we're --
and we're working through it.
1243
01:06:54.210 --> 01:06:55.544
[Jim]
The main thing you've got
to worry about
1244
01:06:55.644 --> 01:06:57.313
is not the business,
not the hotel,
1245
01:06:57.413 --> 01:06:58.748
not this, not that.
1246
01:06:58.848 --> 01:07:00.449
It's Madelein.
1247
01:07:00.549 --> 01:07:02.118
She's gonna be your wife soon.
1248
01:07:02.218 --> 01:07:06.322
You know, she looks at you
as her knight in shining armor.
1249
01:07:06.422 --> 01:07:07.990
I mean, has that really sunk in?
1250
01:07:08.090 --> 01:07:09.191
-[Luke] Yeah.
-Has it?
1251
01:07:09.291 --> 01:07:10.559
[Luke]
Yeah.
1252
01:07:10.659 --> 01:07:13.863
That's why I'm putting
almost all my eggs
in this basket,
1253
01:07:13.963 --> 01:07:17.600
so I can be there, can be
with the person that I love.
1254
01:07:17.700 --> 01:07:19.602
You know, you called me
the second day you were
1255
01:07:19.702 --> 01:07:21.203
in Colombia, two years ago.
1256
01:07:23.305 --> 01:07:26.208
"I want you to speak to the girl
I'm gonna marry."
1257
01:07:28.811 --> 01:07:30.413
-Which was wonderful.
-Yeah.
1258
01:07:30.513 --> 01:07:31.847
[Jim]
You saw it then.
1259
01:07:31.947 --> 01:07:34.750
Twenty-four hours later,
you knew that she was the one.
1260
01:07:36.318 --> 01:07:37.653
I just hope she can
do you right,
1261
01:07:37.753 --> 01:07:39.622
and you do her right.
1262
01:07:39.722 --> 01:07:42.658
Because I'm worried
about you and your future.
1263
01:07:42.758 --> 01:07:44.393
-I mean, we're blood.
-Yeah.
1264
01:07:44.493 --> 01:07:46.128
I love you to death.
1265
01:07:46.228 --> 01:07:50.733
I don't want to see any harm
of any kind come to you.
1266
01:07:50.833 --> 01:07:53.102
It's gonna hurt you,
and that's gonna hurt me.
1267
01:07:55.004 --> 01:07:57.440
[melancholic music playing]
1268
01:08:02.945 --> 01:08:05.614
I do often worry about Luke
because he's got himself
1269
01:08:05.714 --> 01:08:09.819
into a sticky predicament.
He's got debt to pay.
1270
01:08:09.919 --> 01:08:11.887
He's got hotels to build.
1271
01:08:11.987 --> 01:08:14.690
He's gonna go down to Colombia,
he's not gonna be
1272
01:08:14.790 --> 01:08:17.159
earning the money he earns here.
1273
01:08:17.259 --> 01:08:22.064
And it leaves him no room
to escape or to rectify
1274
01:08:22.164 --> 01:08:25.501
the problems that he might have
thrown at him.
1275
01:08:25.601 --> 01:08:28.437
I love you, Dad.
I mean, you know.
1276
01:08:28.537 --> 01:08:30.139
[Jim sniffs]
1277
01:08:37.913 --> 01:08:40.583
[Luke]
I don't know the last time
I saw my dad cry.
1278
01:08:42.084 --> 01:08:44.286
It adds a lot of weight.
1279
01:08:44.386 --> 01:08:47.957
It is finally sinking in that
I really need this marriage
1280
01:08:48.057 --> 01:08:50.993
to work because I'll lose
everything if it doesn't.
1281
01:08:52.394 --> 01:08:56.799
This is basically
the highest stakes gamble
that I ever made.
1282
01:08:59.735 --> 01:09:01.670
-I'm always here for you.
-[Luke] Thank you.
1283
01:09:08.444 --> 01:09:11.881 line:5%
Goodbye, apartment.
Goodbye, freedom.
1284
01:09:11.981 --> 01:09:13.949 line:5%
Today is move-in day.
1285
01:09:14.049 --> 01:09:15.451 line:5%
[speaking Hindi]
1286
01:09:18.888 --> 01:09:22.057 line:5%
What the hell?
Get out of my stuff!
1287
01:09:22.158 --> 01:09:23.192 line:5%
[speaking Hindi]
1288
01:09:23.292 --> 01:09:24.293 line:5%
Jenny?
1289
01:09:29.632 --> 01:09:31.667
[foreign upbeat music playing]
1290
01:09:42.044 --> 01:09:44.513
[Jenny]
Everything is gone.
1291
01:09:44.613 --> 01:09:46.515
Oh, this is so sad.
1292
01:09:53.489 --> 01:09:56.125
I can't believe we're leaving
this apartment.
1293
01:09:56.225 --> 01:09:59.395 line:5%
Remember how happy I was
to get that chandelier?
1294
01:10:03.766 --> 01:10:05.467
Today is move-in day.
1295
01:10:06.735 --> 01:10:08.771
I'm excited
that I'm gonna move in
1296
01:10:08.871 --> 01:10:10.272
with my family again,
1297
01:10:10.372 --> 01:10:12.841
and I feel like that
it gonna be good.
1298
01:10:15.644 --> 01:10:17.246
I feel like I'm leaving
my freedom.
1299
01:10:17.346 --> 01:10:22.384
I'm giving up everything.
Now I have to go deal with Mom.
1300
01:10:22.484 --> 01:10:25.521
"Work, work!*
1301
01:10:25.621 --> 01:10:26.889
"Do this, clean that.
1302
01:10:26.989 --> 01:10:28.123
Cook this, cook that."
1303
01:10:28.224 --> 01:10:30.259
She's not that bad.
1304
01:10:30.359 --> 01:10:34.597
I mean, do we plan
on living with your parents
forever, though?
1305
01:10:34.697 --> 01:10:37.166
-Yeah, that's what the plan is.
-Forever?
1306
01:10:37.266 --> 01:10:40.402
Yeah.
We're gonna live there.
1307
01:10:40.502 --> 01:10:42.104
My life is over now.
1308
01:10:46.141 --> 01:10:50.446
I have no plans of staying
in this situation
1309
01:10:50.546 --> 01:10:53.882
with the family permanently.
Not gonna happen, no way.
1310
01:10:55.184 --> 01:10:57.853
Goodbye apartment.
Goodbye, freedom.
1311
01:10:57.953 --> 01:11:01.323
Goodbye, life.
Goodbye everything.
1312
01:11:01.423 --> 01:11:02.858
I'll miss you.
1313
01:11:04.960 --> 01:11:08.063
I don't want to pick a fight
with Sumit right now,
1314
01:11:08.163 --> 01:11:11.100
but at some point,
I'm gonna have to tell him,
1315
01:11:11.200 --> 01:11:12.635
"[bleep] no!"
1316
01:11:14.069 --> 01:11:15.271 line:5%
[Sumit speaking]
1317
01:11:21.744 --> 01:11:25.080
Your parents aren't gonna
wanna eat my American food.
1318
01:11:25.180 --> 01:11:26.715
Baby, you just try.
1319
01:11:26.815 --> 01:11:31.320
This will be your chance
to win more love of my mother.
1320
01:11:33.422 --> 01:11:34.823
OK, I'll do my best.
1321
01:11:34.923 --> 01:11:37.626
I hope they
don't hate me for it.
1322
01:11:39.862 --> 01:11:44.533
I'm happy to live together
as a typical Indian family.
1323
01:11:44.633 --> 01:11:47.469
But Jenny is not
traditional housewife.
1324
01:11:59.214 --> 01:12:00.649 line:5%
You want me to carry this?
1325
01:12:00.749 --> 01:12:02.651
[Jenny] Can you?
It's very heavy.
1326
01:12:02.751 --> 01:12:05.154
If Mom tries to tell me
what to do,
1327
01:12:05.254 --> 01:12:06.889 line:5%
it's not gonna go down well.
1328
01:12:13.028 --> 01:12:14.496 line:5%
[Sadhna speaking Hindi]
1329
01:12:18.701 --> 01:12:20.469 line:5%
-[Anil] Welcome, welcome!
-[Shree] Welcome!
1330
01:12:20.569 --> 01:12:21.937 line:5%
[Sadhna speaking Hindi]
1331
01:12:23.605 --> 01:12:26.275 line:5%
-Jenny, can you believe
that this is -- it's you.
-No.
1332
01:12:26.375 --> 01:12:28.210 line:5%
Finally, it took a while.
1333
01:12:28.310 --> 01:12:29.645 line:5%
[Sadhna speaking]
1334
01:12:29.745 --> 01:12:33.248 line:5%
This is unbelievable!
My Mom is welcoming Jenny
1335
01:12:33.349 --> 01:12:35.217
the way they welcome new bride.
1336
01:12:39.421 --> 01:12:40.923 line:5%
[Jenny]
Thank you.
1337
01:12:47.496 --> 01:12:50.265
-[Jenny] Oh!
-[all giggle]
1338
01:12:50.366 --> 01:12:51.767 line:5%
-[Shree] Yay, welcome, welcome.
-[Sumit] Awesome.
1339
01:12:51.867 --> 01:12:55.037 line:5%
-Thank you.
-Most welcome, Jenny.
1340
01:12:55.137 --> 01:12:56.472 line:5%
[speaking Hindi]
1341
01:12:56.572 --> 01:12:58.941 line:5%
[Jenny] Yeah.
[chuckles]
1342
01:12:59.041 --> 01:13:02.211 line:5%
They're doing all these rituals
and accepting me
1343
01:13:02.311 --> 01:13:06.148 line:5%
into the family
and into their home.
1344
01:13:06.248 --> 01:13:10.786
This is something I never
really ever expected to happen.
1345
01:13:10.886 --> 01:13:13.722
[Sumit]
Now touch the feet.
1346
01:13:13.822 --> 01:13:15.290
[Anil]
Stay blessed, stay happy.
1347
01:13:15.391 --> 01:13:16.558 line:5%
[Jenny]
And it feels good,
1348
01:13:16.658 --> 01:13:20.195
but I don't really wanna
live with them forever
1349
01:13:20.295 --> 01:13:22.598
And I don't think I can be
1350
01:13:22.698 --> 01:13:26.802
the traditional
Indian daughter-in-law.
1351
01:13:26.902 --> 01:13:29.138
Now this is our house.
1352
01:13:29.238 --> 01:13:30.305 line:5%
This is our new house.
1353
01:13:30.406 --> 01:13:35.544 line:5%
Yes, I like what you've done
with it, it looks nice.
1354
01:13:35.644 --> 01:13:37.279 line:5%
[car honking]
1355
01:13:37.379 --> 01:13:40.182 line:5%
-[Jenny] The movers are here.
-Are they waiting downstairs?
1356
01:13:40.282 --> 01:13:41.250
[Jenny]
Yeah.
1357
01:13:41.350 --> 01:13:44.286
So we're gonna start
moving stuff in.
1358
01:13:44.386 --> 01:13:46.221
OK.
1359
01:13:49.224 --> 01:13:51.293
[upbeat music playing]
1360
01:13:53.061 --> 01:13:54.396 line:5%
[Sadhna speaking Hindi]
1361
01:13:56.131 --> 01:13:57.599
[both]
Oh!
1362
01:14:03.338 --> 01:14:06.408 line:5%
[Jenny]
We need to hire someone
to come put away all our stuff.
1363
01:14:06.508 --> 01:14:08.010 line:5%
[Sumit speaking]
1364
01:14:10.846 --> 01:14:12.114
[Sadhna]
Jenny?
1365
01:14:12.214 --> 01:14:14.349
Clothes.
1366
01:14:14.450 --> 01:14:15.918 line:5%
Jenny, Jenny, Jenny, Jenny.
1367
01:14:16.018 --> 01:14:17.619 line:5%
[speaking Hindi]
1368
01:14:20.689 --> 01:14:23.058 line:5%
I have a lot of clothes, I know.
1369
01:14:23.158 --> 01:14:24.660 line:5%
[speaking Hindi]
1370
01:14:24.760 --> 01:14:27.362 line:5%
I've had these clothes
for a long time, many years.
1371
01:14:27.463 --> 01:14:29.298 line:5%
[Sadhna speaking Hindi]
1372
01:14:29.398 --> 01:14:31.967 line:5%
It's just too small for Jenny.
1373
01:14:32.067 --> 01:14:34.436 line:5%
[Sadhna speaking Hindi]
1374
01:14:34.536 --> 01:14:37.005
[Jenny]
Why is your mom
going through my stuff?
1375
01:14:37.105 --> 01:14:39.074
"Jenny doesn't need this,
you take it."
1376
01:14:39.174 --> 01:14:41.343
Like, what the hell?
Get out of --
1377
01:14:41.443 --> 01:14:44.646
I want her to say,
"Get out of my stuff."
1378
01:14:44.746 --> 01:14:48.116
Living in a joint family,
everything belongs to everyone.
1379
01:14:48.217 --> 01:14:52.287
But I would never just go
through their stuff.
1380
01:14:52.387 --> 01:14:54.423
I mean,
is this a cultural thing,
1381
01:14:54.523 --> 01:14:56.658
or is this your mom's thing?
1382
01:14:57.960 --> 01:15:00.395
It's more like my mom's thing.
1383
01:15:00.496 --> 01:15:03.899
-Like, she...
-I had a feeling that was it.
1384
01:15:03.999 --> 01:15:05.334
Yeah, she...
1385
01:15:07.436 --> 01:15:08.770 line:5%
[Sadhna speaking Hindi]
1386
01:15:10.172 --> 01:15:11.273 line:5%
Jenny?
1387
01:15:13.475 --> 01:15:14.877 line:5%
My rum!
1388
01:15:14.977 --> 01:15:16.211 line:5%
[speaking Hindi]
1389
01:15:16.311 --> 01:15:18.113 line:5%
Mm-hmm.
1390
01:15:18.213 --> 01:15:19.982 line:5%
If I get a migraine sometimes --
1391
01:15:20.082 --> 01:15:21.583 line:5%
[speaking Hindi]
1392
01:15:23.585 --> 01:15:24.586 line:5%
[speaking Hindi]
1393
01:15:28.423 --> 01:15:30.959 line:5%
Don't, don't, don't do that,
don't do that.
1394
01:15:33.295 --> 01:15:34.730 line:5%
-[speaking Hindi]
-No, no!
1395
01:15:37.366 --> 01:15:38.467
Jenny?
1396
01:15:38.567 --> 01:15:40.102
I've only been here
for an hour,
1397
01:15:40.202 --> 01:15:42.971
and I'm already
being criticized.
1398
01:15:43.071 --> 01:15:45.374
I don't know how
I'm gonna survive this.
1399
01:15:55.651 --> 01:15:58.887 line:5%
So we're gonna move to France.
1400
01:15:58.987 --> 01:16:00.389
Shut the front door.
1401
01:16:00.489 --> 01:16:03.292
[Sara]
I know you guys have
had some hard times.
1402
01:16:03.392 --> 01:16:05.460
It's not a band aid
for a bullet hole.
1403
01:16:05.561 --> 01:16:07.095
Are you gonna piss me off,
Sara, right now?
1404
01:16:07.195 --> 01:16:08.997
-That is why I --
-[Manon] No, I don't
think so, I guess.
1405
01:16:09.097 --> 01:16:10.432
-Oh, because --
-Because look what,
how you do --
1406
01:16:10.532 --> 01:16:12.868
Do not speak over me right now.
1407
01:16:12.968 --> 01:16:14.403 line:5%
-OK, get out of my house.
-[Sara] OK.
1408
01:16:14.503 --> 01:16:15.571 line:5%
[Manon speaking French]
1409
01:16:20.809 --> 01:16:22.778
[piano music playing]
1410
01:16:25.814 --> 01:16:27.382
[Benjamin crying]
1411
01:16:29.818 --> 01:16:31.486
[Anthony] I don't know how
to make these look pretty,
1412
01:16:31.587 --> 01:16:35.190
so, nah.
-I'll make them for you, move.
1413
01:16:37.292 --> 01:16:40.529
[upbeat music keeps playing]
1414
01:16:43.599 --> 01:16:44.967
[Manon]
The baguette needs to be cut.
1415
01:16:45.067 --> 01:16:46.368
-[Anthony] Why?
-Anthony.
1416
01:16:46.468 --> 01:16:47.703
-Just rip it.
-No, you don't.
1417
01:16:47.803 --> 01:16:49.037
It's -- ugh, cut it!
1418
01:16:49.137 --> 01:16:50.672
-[Anthony] Grip it and rip it.
-And then I have nice bread
1419
01:16:50.772 --> 01:16:52.474
everywhere, no.
What the heck is wrong with you?
1420
01:16:52.574 --> 01:16:54.810
It's what's called
breaking bread, right?
1421
01:16:56.778 --> 01:16:59.047
[Manon]
We are moving to France
in just a few weeks,
1422
01:16:59.147 --> 01:17:00.849
but before that,
1423
01:17:00.949 --> 01:17:03.318
I need Anthony
to know how to make
1424
01:17:03.418 --> 01:17:04.987
a really good charcuterie board
1425
01:17:05.087 --> 01:17:07.923
and how to pronounce
it properly.
1426
01:17:08.023 --> 01:17:09.758
-Charcuterie.
-[French pronunciation]
Charcuterie.
1427
01:17:09.858 --> 01:17:11.293
[French pronunciation]
Charcuterie.
1428
01:17:11.393 --> 01:17:12.861
No, no.
[in French accent] Charcuterie.
1429
01:17:12.961 --> 01:17:14.563
[American English pronunciation]
Not charcuterie.
1430
01:17:14.663 --> 01:17:17.633
-[French pronunciation]
Charcuterie.
-Thank you.
1431
01:17:17.733 --> 01:17:18.834
The grapes here.
1432
01:17:22.804 --> 01:17:25.407
I just realized that
that's very French.
1433
01:17:25.507 --> 01:17:27.843
Oh, my God.
I'm really nervous right now.
1434
01:17:27.943 --> 01:17:29.044
[Anthony]
Yeah, I got you.
1435
01:17:29.144 --> 01:17:31.813
And no matter what they say,
it is what it is, right?
1436
01:17:31.913 --> 01:17:34.149
Yeah, look, we're --
we're in this together.
1437
01:17:34.249 --> 01:17:37.019
We know why we're doing this.
It's not your decision.
1438
01:17:37.119 --> 01:17:39.321
It's not mine, it's ours.
1439
01:17:39.421 --> 01:17:40.455
OK.
1440
01:17:40.555 --> 01:17:43.725
Today, we have to tell
Anthony's family that we are
1441
01:17:43.825 --> 01:17:46.528
moving to France and that we
are selling the house.
1442
01:17:46.628 --> 01:17:48.630
We haven't said anything
to anyone yet,
1443
01:17:48.730 --> 01:17:52.167
'cause everything happened,
kind of like so quickly.
1444
01:17:52.267 --> 01:17:54.670 line:5%
-[Sara] Oh, hi!
-[Jacob] Hi, Brandy.
1445
01:17:54.770 --> 01:17:56.538 line:5%
-I know, I did.
-Yeah.
1446
01:17:56.638 --> 01:17:57.639 line:5%
[all]
Hi!
1447
01:18:00.375 --> 01:18:03.679
[Anthony]
Waiting to tell my family is
very much par for the course
1448
01:18:03.779 --> 01:18:06.314
for me and our relationship.
-It's your style.
1449
01:18:06.415 --> 01:18:07.983
I mean, I don't like
to involve my family in,
1450
01:18:08.083 --> 01:18:10.552 line:5%
like, everything that's going
on in our marriage.
1451
01:18:10.652 --> 01:18:12.421 line:5%
You left your sweater
at my house.
1452
01:18:12.521 --> 01:18:14.222 line:5%
Yes, you did.
1453
01:18:14.322 --> 01:18:16.892 line:5%
We have two different dynamics
in terms of families.
1454
01:18:16.992 --> 01:18:20.062
Me, it's like we overshare,
we overcommunicate,
1455
01:18:20.162 --> 01:18:21.463
we say everything.
1456
01:18:21.563 --> 01:18:23.565
Our families are
very different in that respect,
1457
01:18:23.665 --> 01:18:27.269
but they 100% will be sad
that we're leaving.
1458
01:18:27.369 --> 01:18:28.870
[Manon] Yeah, yeah,
I'm not gonna lie, I'm scared.
1459
01:18:28.970 --> 01:18:30.839 line:5%
I'm afraid that they're
gonna hate me forever
1460
01:18:30.939 --> 01:18:34.443 line:5%
for taking away their son
and their first grandson.
1461
01:18:34.543 --> 01:18:36.712 line:5%
Yeah, I'm scared about that.
1462
01:18:36.812 --> 01:18:39.114
Bonjour, everyone!
1463
01:18:39.214 --> 01:18:40.949
[all cheering]
1464
01:18:42.217 --> 01:18:43.518
You want more prosciutto, baba?
1465
01:18:43.618 --> 01:18:45.887
Yes, maybe he wants more.
But just small pieces.
1466
01:18:45.987 --> 01:18:49.157
Small pieces at a time, please.
1467
01:18:49.257 --> 01:18:51.827
Well, thanks for coming,
everyone.
1468
01:18:51.927 --> 01:18:54.529
We appreciate it, and go ahead.
1469
01:18:54.629 --> 01:18:57.332
-I'll let him speak for once.
-[all laugh]
1470
01:18:57.432 --> 01:19:00.969 line:5%
Yeah, so we're selling the house
1471
01:19:01.069 --> 01:19:04.005 line:5%
because we're gonna move
to France.
1472
01:19:05.774 --> 01:19:07.709 line:5%
-[Nick] Wow.
-Shut the front door.
1473
01:19:11.913 --> 01:19:13.882
[Sara] That is still --
that's huge, that's huge.
1474
01:19:13.982 --> 01:19:15.383
-That's a huge.
-Yeah.
1475
01:19:15.484 --> 01:19:17.285
So his first words
are gonna be in French?
1476
01:19:17.385 --> 01:19:21.123 line:5%
No, his first word
was "Brandy," OK?
1477
01:19:21.223 --> 01:19:23.492 line:5%
[Sara]
Is this like a permanent
move to France?
1478
01:19:23.592 --> 01:19:26.394 line:5%
Like, "Oh, this is it,
goodbye forever?"
1479
01:19:26.495 --> 01:19:28.530 line:5%
[Anthony]
Yeah, so we're not --
1480
01:19:28.630 --> 01:19:29.664 line:5%
Yeah, it's already --
1481
01:19:32.300 --> 01:19:33.168 line:5%
[both]
Yeah.
1482
01:19:33.268 --> 01:19:35.237 line:5%
[Sara]
Holy shoot.
1483
01:19:35.337 --> 01:19:37.639
[Manon] It's been hard
thinking about it.
1484
01:19:37.739 --> 01:19:39.875
There's still time
to change your mind.
1485
01:19:39.975 --> 01:19:41.243
No.
1486
01:19:41.343 --> 01:19:44.913
We're set.
Yeah, we're set.
1487
01:19:45.013 --> 01:19:46.948
Yeah, so we are going to France.
1488
01:19:47.048 --> 01:19:49.284
Yay!
1489
01:19:49.384 --> 01:19:50.685
Boo.
1490
01:19:52.154 --> 01:19:54.689
It just feels like two weeks
is a really short amount
1491
01:19:54.790 --> 01:19:56.691
of time with a permanent move.
1492
01:19:56.792 --> 01:19:58.627
You just don't feel like
you're rushing into decisions?
1493
01:19:58.727 --> 01:19:59.861
[Anthony]
Absolutely not.
1494
01:19:59.961 --> 01:20:02.597
No, because what we were doing
was not sustainable
1495
01:20:02.697 --> 01:20:06.535
as a family.
And we're going to essentially
1496
01:20:06.635 --> 01:20:07.803
make it better
and repair things.
1497
01:20:07.903 --> 01:20:09.538
But, like, I know
you guys have had
1498
01:20:09.638 --> 01:20:12.040
some hard times recently.
1499
01:20:12.140 --> 01:20:15.544
I guess it just seems like
you're almost adding more fire
1500
01:20:15.644 --> 01:20:20.215
to that than really water.
-I don't think so.
1501
01:20:20.315 --> 01:20:22.050
OK.
1502
01:20:22.150 --> 01:20:24.052
It's about slowing down.
1503
01:20:24.152 --> 01:20:26.655
Are you going to be able
to slow down, though?
1504
01:20:28.256 --> 01:20:30.058
I know it's gonna be hard
for sure,
1505
01:20:30.158 --> 01:20:31.593
and people think that moving
away,
1506
01:20:31.693 --> 01:20:32.894
moving abroad is like, OK,
1507
01:20:32.994 --> 01:20:34.863
all of your problems disappear.
No, they don't.
1508
01:20:34.963 --> 01:20:35.831
-[Sara] No.
-They come with you.
1509
01:20:35.931 --> 01:20:38.333
They could also
get a lot bigger.
1510
01:20:38.433 --> 01:20:39.568
[Anthony]
Yeah, but there's a flip side.
1511
01:20:39.668 --> 01:20:43.505
We're going there as a means
to really be a family unit.
1512
01:20:43.605 --> 01:20:46.208
I just hope it's not a band aid
for a bullet hole, you know?
1513
01:20:46.308 --> 01:20:48.043
[Anthony] I don't think so.
Sara, Sara,
1514
01:20:48.143 --> 01:20:50.645
we're united
in doing this, and you're...
1515
01:20:50.745 --> 01:20:53.281
kind of starting to push
my buttons a little bit.
1516
01:20:53.381 --> 01:20:57.152
So just quit with the whole,
like, trying to, like,
1517
01:20:57.252 --> 01:20:58.820
push us apart still.
-[Sara] I'm just --
1518
01:20:58.920 --> 01:20:59.821
I'm not trying
to push you apart.
1519
01:20:59.921 --> 01:21:01.389
We're doing this
to stay together, OK?
1520
01:21:01.489 --> 01:21:04.125
I understand that,
but my worry is I don't hear
1521
01:21:04.226 --> 01:21:06.294
any of the work
that has gone into place
1522
01:21:06.394 --> 01:21:08.463
outside of "We're just moving."
1523
01:21:10.665 --> 01:21:12.267 line:5%
-It's not -- I don't need --
-[Manon speaking]
1524
01:21:12.367 --> 01:21:14.202 line:5%
I don't need the solution.
This is your relationship.
1525
01:21:14.302 --> 01:21:18.807 line:5%
And that's why we have come up
with our solution, right?
1526
01:21:18.907 --> 01:21:21.743
Whether or not you think
that more time together
1527
01:21:21.843 --> 01:21:23.078
is gonna be beneficial,
1528
01:21:23.178 --> 01:21:26.715
we think this is
the best for us and him.
1529
01:21:26.815 --> 01:21:28.283
So what's the alternative?
1530
01:21:28.383 --> 01:21:31.620
We stay here and we destroy
our marriage and family?
1531
01:21:31.720 --> 01:21:34.356
Or do we actually go to France
and make it work?
1532
01:21:38.326 --> 01:21:40.295
I mean, I --
I will be honest.
1533
01:21:40.395 --> 01:21:42.430
Manon and I talked
about how you guys
1534
01:21:42.530 --> 01:21:44.099
were in a really hard spot,
1535
01:21:44.199 --> 01:21:45.400
and that things
weren't going well.
1536
01:21:45.500 --> 01:21:47.769
And so I don't want you to think
that I'm trying to drive
1537
01:21:47.869 --> 01:21:51.006
a wedge in between you
or create further separation.
1538
01:21:51.106 --> 01:21:53.742
But you have to understand,
Manon, that conversation
1539
01:21:53.842 --> 01:21:55.277
was really hard to hear, truly.
1540
01:21:55.377 --> 01:21:57.545
Like, it is a lot to take in,
and it only happened
1541
01:21:57.646 --> 01:21:59.014
a few weeks ago,
and now all of a sudden
1542
01:21:59.114 --> 01:22:00.248
everything is great.
1543
01:22:00.348 --> 01:22:01.783
Which is why I'm a little
worried
1544
01:22:01.883 --> 01:22:02.951
about the move to France,
1545
01:22:03.051 --> 01:22:04.920
because I know when tensions
are high and emotions
1546
01:22:05.020 --> 01:22:07.389
run high, we say things
that we don't necessarily mean,
1547
01:22:07.489 --> 01:22:10.892
but there's a reason
sometimes things are said.
1548
01:22:10.992 --> 01:22:14.562
I was feeling bad, and I was
at the end of my rope
1549
01:22:14.663 --> 01:22:16.364
because I felt stuck.
1550
01:22:16.464 --> 01:22:19.868
And I said things on the moment
because I just...
1551
01:22:19.968 --> 01:22:21.703
went crazy, it happens.
1552
01:22:21.803 --> 01:22:23.571 line:5%
We are humans, OK?
1553
01:22:23.672 --> 01:22:25.473 line:5%
[Sara]
So --
1554
01:22:25.573 --> 01:22:26.775 line:5%
-Yes.
-Oh, OK,
1555
01:22:26.875 --> 01:22:28.143 line:5%
so maybe you didn't really
understand me.
1556
01:22:35.116 --> 01:22:37.319
-Sarah, just let it go.
-[Sara] Those were her words.
1557
01:22:37.419 --> 01:22:39.754
Those were not mine.
Those are... OK, I'm not --
1558
01:22:39.854 --> 01:22:41.156 line:5%
[Randy]
And we don't need to...
1559
01:22:41.256 --> 01:22:42.457 line:5%
[Manon] And you probably
called everyone in the family
1560
01:22:42.557 --> 01:22:43.658 line:5%
to say that, right?
1561
01:22:43.758 --> 01:22:44.993 line:5%
Yeah, you're gonna
piss me off, Sara, right now.
1562
01:22:45.093 --> 01:22:47.062
-Sara, let it go.
-[Manon] Because, like --
yeah, let it go.
1563
01:22:47.162 --> 01:22:49.097
-Did I say to you
I want a divorce?
-[Sara] Yes!
1564
01:22:49.197 --> 01:22:51.132
-I said I want a divorce?
-[Sara] Yes, you did, yes!
1565
01:22:51.232 --> 01:22:53.368
You said those words to me,
which is the only reason
1566
01:22:53.468 --> 01:22:55.236
I have these concerns.
1567
01:22:55.337 --> 01:22:58.673
I think she said it
to you in confidence.
1568
01:22:58.773 --> 01:23:00.842 line:5%
I don't even remember
saying the "d" word,
1569
01:23:00.942 --> 01:23:02.744 line:5%
but if I said that, whatever.
-Let me pause --
1570
01:23:02.844 --> 01:23:06.081 line:5%
I was trying to create
a little bond with you
1571
01:23:06.181 --> 01:23:08.750 line:5%
by sharing how hard it can be.
1572
01:23:08.850 --> 01:23:10.885 line:5%
But OK, if you take it
this way, it's fine, Sara.
1573
01:23:10.986 --> 01:23:12.654 line:5%
No, and that bond was real,
but that is why I --
1574
01:23:12.754 --> 01:23:13.922 line:5%
[Manon]
No, I don't think so, I guess.
1575
01:23:14.022 --> 01:23:16.324 line:5%
Because look how you use it
against me right now.
1576
01:23:16.424 --> 01:23:17.792 line:5%
No, no, you just said,
"I didn't say that,"
1577
01:23:17.892 --> 01:23:19.027 line:5%
but then you also just said,
1578
01:23:19.127 --> 01:23:21.162 line:5%
"I was trying to create
a bond by saying that."
1579
01:23:21.262 --> 01:23:24.032 line:5%
You do not speak
over me right now!
1580
01:23:24.132 --> 01:23:25.600 line:5%
-OK, get out of my house.
-[Sara] OK.
1581
01:23:25.700 --> 01:23:27.202 line:5%
[speaking French]
1582
01:23:27.302 --> 01:23:28.803 line:5%
[in English] I'm done, I'm done.
1583
01:23:36.644 --> 01:23:41.316
♪ My heart is jumpin' around
like a kangaroo ♪
1584
01:23:41.416 --> 01:23:43.685 line:5%
♪ ♪
1585
01:23:43.785 --> 01:23:44.586
Yeah!
1586
01:23:44.686 --> 01:23:57.232 line:5%
♪ ♪
1587
01:23:57.332 --> 01:24:00.168
Matthew thinks that I love my
cat, Hazel, more than him.
1588
01:24:00.268 --> 01:24:03.338
That's true,
but I've never had this
1589
01:24:03.438 --> 01:24:05.073
type of connection
with a human before.
1590
01:24:05.173 --> 01:24:06.441
Hey, sweetie.
1591
01:24:06.541 --> 01:24:09.477
I can tell it's been a long
journey because you stink.
1592
01:24:09.577 --> 01:24:10.812
You're welcome.
1593
01:24:13.348 --> 01:24:14.616
What the [bleep] is this?
1594
01:24:14.716 --> 01:24:16.151
There's no windows.
1595
01:24:16.251 --> 01:24:17.352
And it's sound proof.
1596
01:24:17.452 --> 01:24:18.386
Oh.
1597
01:24:18.486 --> 01:24:21.423
I was asking for a sexy,
romantic night away.
1598
01:24:21.523 --> 01:24:26.394
I was definitely not
expecting a...um...
1599
01:24:26.494 --> 01:24:27.362
A sex dungeon.
1600
01:24:27.462 --> 01:24:28.296
[squeals]
1601
01:24:28.396 --> 01:24:29.964
[laughter]
1602
01:24:30.065 --> 01:24:31.933 line:5%
♪
1603
01:24:32.033 --> 01:24:33.635
[cheers]
1604
01:24:38.273 --> 01:24:40.375
Sorry. New.
I'm new.
1605
01:24:42.777 --> 01:24:43.578
...plugged in.
1606
01:24:48.817 --> 01:24:50.752
You know what I can do?
I can go home.
1607
01:24:52.420 --> 01:24:54.322
I don't like that you
control me.
1608
01:24:54.422 --> 01:24:56.391
You don't let me control you.
1609
01:24:57.425 --> 01:25:00.628
If I had control you wouldn't
be working in a strip club.
1610
01:25:01.463 --> 01:25:02.964
You're so [bleep] insecure.
1611
01:25:06.801 --> 01:25:07.969
You want me to just
marry you and all that.
1612
01:25:08.069 --> 01:25:09.304
I've known you for a year.
1613
01:25:09.404 --> 01:25:10.939
Then don't have the conversation
1614
01:25:11.039 --> 01:25:12.974
saying that you're ready
when you're not.
1615
01:25:13.074 --> 01:25:14.609
'Cause I'm telling you,
I'm ready.
1616
01:25:25.320 --> 01:25:26.588
What does this mean?
1617
01:25:26.688 --> 01:25:29.090
[sniffling]
1618
01:25:42.203 --> 01:25:44.572
It was only a matter of time
before Sanja lost it.
1619
01:25:48.109 --> 01:25:50.145
I can't take it anymore!
You understand?
1620
01:25:52.914 --> 01:25:54.749 line:5%
♪
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