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Hi,

I'm Paisley, and this is my husband, Justin.

It makes me feel good about myself, and it turns him on, you know? So it made

sex twice as better.

I definitely love the attention part because I'm so open and free.

Our local bar, you pull your tits out, and they've got a special bell for you.

That they ring when she pulls her, yeah.

It's like having your own personal porn star, like, in your living room, in your

face.

You'll change clothes or walk out naked, and you don't even think about it. I

don't. And people are like, you know, their minds blown.

Mailman? Yeah, he's seen my boobs.

And you're watching wifey.com.

Alright guys, we just got here.

Our first time. I'm so nervous.

Yeah, I told her don't be nervous. Just be normal.

Don't know what to expect.

I think it's going to be good though.

Class is playing.

First time in California.

First time flying.

And now we're doing this. Alright, you ready?

I'm ready. Alright, let's go.

Yep, that fits you.

That fits you.

I'm excited now.

Turn around, I think you dropped something.

Oh yeah. Are you excited?

Yeah, for sure.

I always like watching you show off.

This is really nice.

Yeah. I feel all professional.

Yeah. I feel like a star.

Thank you. I look hotter on camera, like good cameras.

Are

you

ready? Let's do this.

have been together for five years from the moment i met him i knew i was going

to spend the rest of my life with him whether we were friends or together we

actually met it was kind of odd thing but uh through her father that he

wasn't really around in her life and they later reconciled a booty call is

how this started and then it just it became way too regular and it's

happening too much and it's like

hey, we need to maybe back off on this or something because I didn't want to

lose the friendship.

The reason I wanted to start dating him was because he has a huge heart and he

is easy to talk to and it's just very comforting to have someone in your life

that you can talk to about anything and feel safe and comfortable.

And originally when we started talking about the feelings part of it,

tried to back off like and just stay at a friendship level but um it uh it

didn't work out like that and i'm i'm happy it didn't now we couldn't have

asked for a better life together honestly so i first got introduced to

the lifestyle through my ex's boss and he was an older guy and he kept

saying about his wife and himself, went to these clubs and wanted us to go, and

I kept pushing it off. I don't want to go to this club. This is crazy to me.

I'm thinking you go in this place, and everybody rips their clothes off, and

you just have a giant pile of people.

That's what I'm envisioning. I've never seen nothing like this.

We finally went, and it wasn't like that. It was just people laughing and

having a good time.

It's like going to a normal bar you would go to or club setting, but it's

more open. Like, there's no reason to worry about an argument or a fight.

Everybody's just so chill.

Well, like our local hole-in-the-wall bar by the house. It's like we know

everybody there, and we know everybody that's cheating on everybody there. And

it's like Joe Schmo will be like, hey, if you see...

my girl don't tell her I was with this girl and then and then you'll see his

girl with some guy be like hey don't tell him I was with but then they're

like oh my god you're you're open about that like how can you do that but

they're doing the same thing except for they're doing it behind their partner's

back which is crazy to me like there's people that work a nine-to-five job and

they they do the same thing every day and they are so scared to come outside

their little box and enjoy life that

We're not here that long. If you're not harming somebody else and you're

enjoying whatever it is that you do, go enjoy that.

Experiment. Have fun.

And there's so many people that are so shallow-minded that are so scared of

that. And there's also so many people that really would love to do something

like that, but they're so scared of what someone else might think.

And we're the couple that's like...

The hell with it. Have fun. It's our life.

I definitely love the attention part because I'm so open and free.

You can't go to a bar and pull your tits out.

Being in the lifestyle, there's so many people that are just open. You can get

compliments without having to go too far with anything.

So I take it all in.

I don't know, though. Our local bar, you pull your tits out, and they've got a

special bell for you.

They ring and she pulls her, yeah, it's a whole different vibe.

So when I first introduced her to the lifestyle, showed her, you know, kind of

what it was about, it was the typical response you get 90% of the time from

anyone. It's like, oh, how can you do that? Ooh, like what is this? And then

it was like, okay, these people are like way cooler than, you know, the vanilla

people, and they're open-minded. They don't judge. Like, I could go there and

be myself and not, you know, not have to have sex with anybody.

I think it kind of opened your eyes to, like, it's not something you're

not expected to perform or be something you want to be. When we originally got

together, I was very vanilla.

And he kind of expanded my mind into thinking about fantasies.

So, I mean, before, I didn't really have too many, but before I met Justin, I

had the hugest crush on my gym teacher.

And I've been working to try and make that happen.

When we first started our relationship, and he had already...

been in the lifestyle before introduced it to me it was i felt like i was

cheating or like i felt like i was doing something wrong and then it finally

clicked and i'm like no this is a cool thing you know like it makes me feel

good about myself and it turns him on you know so it made sex twice as better

yeah it's like i i tell the best way i explain to people that have never been

around it and they can't wrap their head around it it's like Say I've got a

really nice car that I love. I take it to car shows, and I take care of it.

And my buddy's got a really nice car, but it's not my car.

Hell yeah, I want to test drive it. I don't want the payments.

It's a test drive. That's what it is.

You've got a car to show it off.

And I don't want it to sound like I'm with her to show it off, because when we

first got together, like, It wasn't like a physical attraction thing. It was her

heart, you know, and it's led to where it's at now. And, like, I kind of won

because, like, she turned out to be super hot.

But, yeah.

So I got into content making because I have a flirty personality in

general. Like, he had to point it out to me, like, that person's flirting with

you. And I'm like, no way.

You know, but it was just a way for me to be flirty and send pictures

and, you know, to people who hit me up or whatever. And then I'm like, you know

what? Why don't why don't I just start a page? You know, let's try it out. And

it's just my way of being flirty and taking in comments. I love the comments.

I mean, like we're at the house or something like.

you'll change clothes or walk out naked and you don't even think about it. And

people were like, you know, their minds blown.

Mailman. Yeah. He's seen my boobs. You might as well post some content and, you

know, have some fun with it.

So we recently had an experience that was totally her style. It was just

not expected. Like we're playing some beer pong.

and hanging out, and she kind of hit it off with this guy.

And, you know, me, I'm always instigating stuff. So I'm like, what are

you guys playing for?

And they're just like, oh, we're playing for fun.

I'm like, no, we've got to ramp this up. So somebody said, like, we'll play for a

blowjob or something like that.

And she actually liked this guy.

Next thing I know, like, we've got some of our vanilla friends with us and all

this stuff.

She's giving this dude a blowjob.

They start fucking, like, in the middle of the club, like, all over the place.

Like, there's a crowd gathered around. Like, there's applause.

Like, it's like a live set. Like, it was pretty hot. Yeah, and then we decided to

move to a couch because it would be more comfortable.

And we had, like, everybody that was in the room, like, follow like a train.

Hot Wife Thing has...

increased our relationship because when it's you and your partner for a lifetime

you've already committed you know it's fun like he said to show off but it's

also new experiences meeting new people and figuring out fantasies or you know

you set yourself a goal like someone, you know, you think is hot or attractive

and you question about it. It's like open enough to talk about it and then,

you know, to try and pursue that and it all be okay.

Yeah. I think it's, it's a team building exercise in a way, you know, like,

you know, it's just, it's, it's really opened up communication like to where

nothing's taboo. Like you can,

Talk about it with your partner and be comfortable.

To me, it's like a fun situation, then it turns into, like, a vulnerable

situation, and then you have, like, the aftercare, and then you bond again.

Yeah. So it's kind of like, I don't know, it's kind of like you're separated

for a minute and you're enjoying yourself, and then you get back together

and, you know, you get to talk about it.

Enjoy the situation more after and bond and get closer and closer.

I've watched you evolve, you know, with being able to discuss things. It's

easier for you to open up about.

Yeah, like I said.

In the beginning, it's like an awkward situation. I feel like I'm doing

something wrong.

Like before, you would just beat around the bush and hint about something. And

now you're like, hey, I'm really thinking about fucking my teacher.

Yeah. And I'm like, oh, cool. That's a thing.

Yeah, it becomes more and more of a fun thing. Like I'm so happy for you. Yeah.

Normal households, I think it's like weird or frowned upon. And we're like,

high five.

You got this.

So. I think the turn on and the attraction for me is having your own

personal porn star, like in your living room, in your face, like right there,

you know, for you, it's like you get turned on by putting on that show.

My biggest thing. Yeah. Is I love all the attention for one and for

two, I'm a lot younger than he is. So a lot of our, friend group or people we

hang out with are more his age and i'm the younger hot girl that comes in the

picture you know so i get to take in all the compliments and be the star of the

show i do enjoy older men it's um it's become a thing for me since i

met justin because she has daddy issues yeah i have daddy issues But honestly,

if you think more personal, it's because most older men, like, have their head on

their shoulders and they've experienced life and they've got to experience what

they like about themselves, you know. So I feel more comfortable going into

situations with older men because, you know, they're not nervous or they

already know about it and know what they're doing. You know, I find someone

my age and they ain't got rhythm.

You know, there's ups and downs to it all, but I do enjoy older men.

Yeah, that's for sure.

Jealousy and insecurity has come up.

Jealousy, though, is one of Justin's major kinks.

So him being jealous just makes it ten times better for me. I get to have fun

and then have fun again.

So, but, and insecurities, Justin's been like my Superman, you know.

Whether I look at myself different or don't like something about myself, you

know, he helps change my mindset about it, you know.

It makes me more what they call dirtier, you know. Knowing that it's his kink,

you know, I can show off and tease, you know, and enjoy showing off and teasing

because I know it's okay. You know, it's just going to make things better.

And we're just so open with each other, like.

If there ever was any problem, like we stop each other and be like, hey, like

I'm not liking this or, you know, and it's done. Whether we're confronting a

situation or, you know, talking about it later. And, you know, you have

conversations with your partner that are funny or, you know, down the dumps. But,

you know, you have to have like be open to talk about it all.

What I would tell couples about getting into hotlifing is definitely being

secure with your partner. You know, your partner needs to know everything. You

know, how you feel, your likes, your dislikes. You have to be 100%

comfortable with the person you are with and completely honest about every

situation that happens or comes up.

And, I mean, some of it's like the most minute details that you wouldn't even

think matters to your partner.

It might be a big deal to them, but it's the trust.

Don't break that at all because any breach in trust, it's ruined.

But if it's done right, it brings you closer, and it's just an amazing

experience if you do it right. Right, and you need to put your insecurities

and your fears.

on a pause when you're talking to your partner. You know, if they mention

something or a kink or something they'd like to try, you need to keep an open

mind and respect that they're interested in that. It may not be for you, but you

need to, like, approach that situation like it's a vulnerable situation and

understand. Yeah, like, don't dismiss. I feel like that's why so many, I mean,

there's lots of reasons why relationships end.

I feel like that's a major one is like one person will say, hey, I'm interested

in this. I want to try that. And the other person just kind of brushes it

off. And then that other person feels shame. They don't want to talk about it

anymore. And they keep that to themselves.

Right. Or like getting defensive about a situation. You know, I could say, hey, I

want to try three guys at once.

You know, and if you got defensive about it, you'd be like, whoa, like, you know,

like it's not your style.

Honestly, my experience today, I'm hoping to get just, like, my fun

princess superstar moment. Like, it feels awesome to be here and, you know,

being filmed. And, you know, I just feel like a star.

And, like, that's the biggest thing about it is, I mean, not only do I get

to have fun, you know, but it's also, like, I don't know. It's just awesome.

And everybody is super nice and chill.

Like, it feels welcoming.

Like, it's a cool vibe.

Well, we have the amazing Dan Damage ready in the wings. Are you ready to

share your wifey experience with the world?

Let's do it.

Do you like that?

She's so good, baby.

Are you doing the interview and thinking about it?

There you go.

You can just lean back there.

Yeah. Yeah.

Overall today, I have had a blast, and it has been the best experience I think

I've had.

It was so much fun.

And I tell you, when I get home, taking a nice nap.

All right, guys. If you're thinking about it, stop. Just do it. Have fun.

Get out here and enjoy your life.

Everybody that we've met today has been amazing.

It's just been so easy and fun. It's like you're hanging out with your

friends and your wife's getting laid.

So it's a bonus, I guess. But for real, get out here, have some fun, enjoy your

life before it's gone.

It was a lot of fun.

Good times.

It was a blast.

It was pretty cool.

I think it went a lot easier than you thought it would. It went a lot easier

than I thought it was going to. Literally.

It was funner. Is that a word?

A lot more fun. Better than you did before.

For me, like, when she came, because she said she was coming, but, like, you

could feel it, like, tightening.

Yeah? Yeah.

Mine was probably, I don't know. I enjoyed all of it, really.

But I think, like, your confidence, honestly.

Yeah. The vibe is just super chill. Like, we're all having fun. Yeah.

That was a good time. I think everybody had a great time.

That was awesome to watch.

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