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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:02,711 --> 00:00:03,761 (Knock on door) 2 00:00:10,427 --> 00:00:11,887 What's going on with you? 3 00:00:12,011 --> 00:00:13,061 nothing. 4 00:00:15,599 --> 00:00:18,018 then why aren't you 5 00:00:15,599 --> 00:00:18,018 answering your phone? 6 00:00:18,143 --> 00:00:20,395 and why haven't 7 00:00:18,143 --> 00:00:20,395 I seen you in class? 8 00:00:22,021 --> 00:00:23,106 ned, what are you- 9 00:00:23,231 --> 00:00:26,151 I've just been thinking, 10 00:00:23,231 --> 00:00:26,151 that's all. 11 00:00:26,276 --> 00:00:27,903 I was thinking 12 00:00:26,276 --> 00:00:27,903 about stuff. 13 00:00:28,028 --> 00:00:29,404 away from everyone. 14 00:00:31,114 --> 00:00:32,407 ok. 15 00:00:34,952 --> 00:00:36,578 including-including me? 16 00:00:39,122 --> 00:00:40,499 ok. 17 00:00:42,835 --> 00:00:43,961 how's your face? 18 00:00:42,835 --> 00:00:43,961 does it still hurt? 19 00:00:44,085 --> 00:00:45,963 it's fine. 20 00:00:45,964 --> 00:00:46,086 let me take a look 21 00:00:46,087 --> 00:00:47,045 at it. 22 00:00:47,046 --> 00:00:49,257 no, don't. Just stop. 23 00:00:51,886 --> 00:00:53,136 (sighs) 24 00:00:55,096 --> 00:00:58,099 you can talk to me, 25 00:00:55,096 --> 00:00:58,099 you know. 26 00:00:58,225 --> 00:01:00,602 are you still really 27 00:00:58,225 --> 00:01:00,602 angry, is that it? 28 00:01:00,728 --> 00:01:02,187 you want to go beat 29 00:01:00,728 --> 00:01:02,187 him up or something? 30 00:01:02,312 --> 00:01:04,523 no, that's not- 31 00:01:07,693 --> 00:01:10,362 is this how it felt 32 00:01:07,693 --> 00:01:10,362 when I hit you? 33 00:01:11,780 --> 00:01:12,830 what? 34 00:01:12,948 --> 00:01:15,242 this is how it felt, 35 00:01:12,948 --> 00:01:15,242 isn't it? 36 00:01:18,579 --> 00:01:19,872 ned, it's not the same. 37 00:01:19,997 --> 00:01:21,749 i-i don't know about that 38 00:01:21,874 --> 00:01:25,377 'cause this is- 39 00:01:21,874 --> 00:01:25,377 this is bad. 40 00:01:25,502 --> 00:01:27,504 and I don't know why. 41 00:01:27,629 --> 00:01:29,172 if it's me 42 00:01:27,629 --> 00:01:29,172 or if it's you 43 00:01:29,297 --> 00:01:31,341 or if it's something 44 00:01:29,297 --> 00:01:31,341 about the two of us 45 00:01:31,342 --> 00:01:31,465 when we're together 46 00:01:31,466 --> 00:01:32,516 that makes me- 47 00:01:34,762 --> 00:01:37,264 I don't like it when 48 00:01:34,762 --> 00:01:37,264 I get angry at you. 49 00:01:37,389 --> 00:01:39,391 I don't like it when 50 00:01:37,389 --> 00:01:39,391 you end up crying. 51 00:01:39,516 --> 00:01:41,393 ned. 52 00:01:39,516 --> 00:01:41,393 no, listen to me! 53 00:01:41,518 --> 00:01:43,437 I've been thinking 54 00:01:41,518 --> 00:01:43,437 about this. 55 00:01:43,562 --> 00:01:45,146 this is what I've 56 00:01:43,562 --> 00:01:45,146 been thinking about. 57 00:01:46,565 --> 00:01:51,361 the two of us, 58 00:01:46,565 --> 00:01:51,361 it's just not good. 59 00:01:51,486 --> 00:01:52,536 that's not true. 60 00:01:52,571 --> 00:01:54,823 and I want it 61 00:01:52,571 --> 00:01:54,823 to be over. 62 00:01:54,949 --> 00:01:56,033 I want you 63 00:01:54,949 --> 00:01:56,033 to leave me. 64 00:01:56,157 --> 00:01:57,826 or I'll leave you. 65 00:01:57,952 --> 00:01:59,828 it doesn't matter. 66 00:01:59,954 --> 00:02:02,122 am I supposed 67 00:01:59,954 --> 00:02:02,122 to say thank you? 68 00:02:02,247 --> 00:02:03,540 you can't make a decision 69 00:02:02,247 --> 00:02:03,540 like this on your own. 70 00:02:03,665 --> 00:02:04,833 yes, I can. 71 00:02:04,959 --> 00:02:06,835 no, that's not fair! 72 00:02:06,961 --> 00:02:09,004 you can't punish me 73 00:02:06,961 --> 00:02:09,004 for what Griffin did. 74 00:02:09,129 --> 00:02:11,298 you can't punish me 75 00:02:09,129 --> 00:02:11,298 for the fact 76 00:02:09,129 --> 00:02:11,298 that you get angry. 77 00:02:11,423 --> 00:02:14,635 I'm not punishing you. 78 00:02:11,423 --> 00:02:14,635 I'm just saying enough. 79 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:16,637 you should be glad 80 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:16,637 I'm doing this, Julia, 81 00:02:16,762 --> 00:02:21,391 'cause I don't want you 82 00:02:16,762 --> 00:02:21,391 to end up like this. 83 00:02:21,516 --> 00:02:24,478 and I can't be sure of 84 00:02:21,516 --> 00:02:24,478 that unless you go away. 85 00:02:24,603 --> 00:02:27,481 no, no, you have 86 00:02:24,603 --> 00:02:27,481 to go away. 87 00:02:47,001 --> 00:02:49,962 ? Everybody wants to live ? 88 00:02:50,087 --> 00:02:51,630 ? like they wanna live ? 89 00:02:51,755 --> 00:02:55,050 ? and everybody 90 00:02:51,755 --> 00:02:55,050 wants to love ? 91 00:02:55,174 --> 00:02:56,314 ? like they wanna love ? 92 00:02:56,426 --> 00:03:00,221 ? and everybody 93 00:02:56,426 --> 00:03:00,221 wants to be ? 94 00:03:00,347 --> 00:03:05,393 ? closer to free ? 95 00:03:05,519 --> 00:03:07,771 ? closer to free... ? 96 00:03:16,446 --> 00:03:18,782 Just-just relax, ok. 97 00:03:16,446 --> 00:03:18,782 it's not a test. 98 00:03:18,907 --> 00:03:21,618 I know. Ha ha ha. 99 00:03:21,619 --> 00:03:21,742 you want me 100 00:03:21,743 --> 00:03:22,785 to take her back? 101 00:03:22,786 --> 00:03:25,164 no, not yet. 102 00:03:27,582 --> 00:03:29,043 (gurgling) 103 00:03:29,168 --> 00:03:31,670 ha ha ha. 104 00:03:29,168 --> 00:03:31,670 wow, that's- 105 00:03:31,795 --> 00:03:33,547 she kind of looks 106 00:03:31,795 --> 00:03:33,547 more like me now, 107 00:03:33,548 --> 00:03:34,714 don't you think? 108 00:03:34,715 --> 00:03:35,673 you mean her mouth? 109 00:03:35,674 --> 00:03:36,716 yeah. Ha ha ha. 110 00:03:36,717 --> 00:03:38,177 yeah, yeah, definitely. 111 00:03:38,301 --> 00:03:40,512 she recognizes you. 112 00:03:38,301 --> 00:03:40,512 you can tell. 113 00:03:40,637 --> 00:03:43,098 (gurgling) 114 00:03:43,223 --> 00:03:44,273 no. 115 00:03:44,349 --> 00:03:45,684 yeah. Look 116 00:03:44,349 --> 00:03:45,684 how calm she is. 117 00:03:45,809 --> 00:03:47,186 she's never that way 118 00:03:45,809 --> 00:03:47,186 with strangers. 119 00:03:47,310 --> 00:03:49,897 I am a stranger. 120 00:03:47,310 --> 00:03:49,897 (gurgles) 121 00:03:52,195 --> 00:03:53,273 there's no harm done, 122 00:03:53,274 --> 00:03:54,324 you know. 123 00:03:54,359 --> 00:03:55,694 I mean, 124 00:03:54,359 --> 00:03:55,694 she doesn't understand. 125 00:03:55,819 --> 00:03:57,320 she doesn't- 126 00:03:55,819 --> 00:03:57,320 she doesn't blame you. 127 00:03:57,445 --> 00:03:59,073 Charlie. 128 00:03:57,445 --> 00:03:59,073 I'm just saying. 129 00:03:59,198 --> 00:04:03,535 what? What is he saying? 130 00:04:03,660 --> 00:04:06,705 what is your daddy 131 00:04:03,660 --> 00:04:06,705 saying to me, hmm? 132 00:04:06,830 --> 00:04:09,875 what is he saying? 133 00:04:06,830 --> 00:04:09,875 do you know? Oh! 134 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:12,086 you're not supposed to 135 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:12,086 have favorite students? 136 00:04:12,211 --> 00:04:13,587 that's, like, 137 00:04:12,211 --> 00:04:13,587 something they 138 00:04:12,211 --> 00:04:13,587 tell you not to have 139 00:04:13,712 --> 00:04:15,130 because the other kids 140 00:04:13,712 --> 00:04:15,130 pick up on it? 141 00:04:15,255 --> 00:04:16,673 but I couldn't help it. 142 00:04:16,798 --> 00:04:19,843 as soon as Owen 143 00:04:16,798 --> 00:04:19,843 came into my classroom, 144 00:04:16,798 --> 00:04:19,843 Mr. salinger? 145 00:04:19,968 --> 00:04:22,846 he's bright. He's sweet. 146 00:04:19,968 --> 00:04:22,846 he's got this glow? 147 00:04:22,971 --> 00:04:24,806 I know. I know. I've been 148 00:04:22,971 --> 00:04:24,806 spending time with him. 149 00:04:24,932 --> 00:04:27,475 more than usual and he's 150 00:04:24,932 --> 00:04:27,475 all the stuff you're saying. 151 00:04:27,601 --> 00:04:30,270 so you must 152 00:04:27,601 --> 00:04:30,270 have been surprised 153 00:04:27,601 --> 00:04:30,270 when I called you in? 154 00:04:30,395 --> 00:04:31,897 uh, the parent-teacher 155 00:04:30,395 --> 00:04:31,897 conference. 156 00:04:32,022 --> 00:04:33,648 isn't this 157 00:04:32,022 --> 00:04:33,648 the usual thing? 158 00:04:33,774 --> 00:04:35,400 the usual thing's 159 00:04:33,774 --> 00:04:35,400 in the fall. 160 00:04:35,525 --> 00:04:38,528 I called you 'cause 161 00:04:35,525 --> 00:04:38,528 I'm observing something. 162 00:04:38,653 --> 00:04:42,282 something that 163 00:04:38,653 --> 00:04:42,282 could be a problem, 164 00:04:38,653 --> 00:04:42,282 but I'm not sure? 165 00:04:42,407 --> 00:04:43,825 a problem? 166 00:04:42,407 --> 00:04:43,825 what kind of problem? 167 00:04:46,703 --> 00:04:49,123 ok. Owen was 168 00:04:46,703 --> 00:04:49,123 one of those kids 169 00:04:49,248 --> 00:04:51,416 who was already reading 170 00:04:49,248 --> 00:04:51,416 when he started school? 171 00:04:51,417 --> 00:04:52,666 then I started noticing 172 00:04:52,667 --> 00:04:54,962 how he'd get 173 00:04:52,667 --> 00:04:54,962 word order wrong? 174 00:04:55,087 --> 00:04:57,714 typical problems. 175 00:04:57,839 --> 00:04:58,889 typical of what? 176 00:04:59,007 --> 00:05:00,968 kids with l.D. 177 00:05:01,093 --> 00:05:02,343 learning disabilities. 178 00:05:02,469 --> 00:05:05,264 but you were just saying 179 00:05:02,469 --> 00:05:05,264 how bright he is. 180 00:05:05,388 --> 00:05:07,682 that's exactly 181 00:05:05,388 --> 00:05:07,682 what we look for, 182 00:05:07,808 --> 00:05:09,851 when they're bright and 183 00:05:07,808 --> 00:05:09,851 there's still a problem. 184 00:05:11,145 --> 00:05:12,771 Ms. lo? 185 00:05:12,896 --> 00:05:16,483 could this be at all because 186 00:05:12,896 --> 00:05:16,483 he's stressed out at home? 187 00:05:16,608 --> 00:05:18,902 because my brother Charlie's 188 00:05:16,608 --> 00:05:18,902 got this new baby. 189 00:05:19,027 --> 00:05:21,947 and-and it's been 190 00:05:19,027 --> 00:05:21,947 really rough on him. 191 00:05:22,072 --> 00:05:24,449 I couldn't say. 192 00:05:24,574 --> 00:05:25,951 maybe that's what 193 00:05:24,574 --> 00:05:25,951 the test will tell us? 194 00:05:27,161 --> 00:05:28,287 tests? 195 00:05:28,411 --> 00:05:30,164 we usually don't 196 00:05:28,411 --> 00:05:30,164 give them this young, 197 00:05:30,289 --> 00:05:32,291 but if 198 00:05:30,289 --> 00:05:32,291 something's wrong, 199 00:05:32,415 --> 00:05:34,251 the sooner the better? 200 00:05:35,961 --> 00:05:40,257 she held her for 201 00:05:35,961 --> 00:05:40,257 like 45 minutes. 202 00:05:40,381 --> 00:05:41,591 she wouldn't even 203 00:05:40,381 --> 00:05:41,591 let me take her back. 204 00:05:41,716 --> 00:05:43,218 they were-they were 205 00:05:41,716 --> 00:05:43,218 giggling with each other. 206 00:05:43,342 --> 00:05:46,138 it was, uh- 207 00:05:46,263 --> 00:05:47,346 I haven't say 208 00:05:46,263 --> 00:05:47,346 anything to her yet 209 00:05:47,472 --> 00:05:49,516 about what I'm thinking, 210 00:05:47,472 --> 00:05:49,516 but, uh, 211 00:05:49,641 --> 00:05:51,935 they were so good 212 00:05:49,641 --> 00:05:51,935 together. Ha ha ha. 213 00:05:52,060 --> 00:05:53,895 Daphne was so good 214 00:05:52,060 --> 00:05:53,895 with her. 215 00:05:54,021 --> 00:05:55,563 this might actually 216 00:05:54,021 --> 00:05:55,563 work out. 217 00:05:57,941 --> 00:05:59,860 Kirsten? 218 00:05:59,985 --> 00:06:04,614 what? Oh, that's great, 219 00:05:59,985 --> 00:06:04,614 Charlie. 220 00:06:04,739 --> 00:06:06,241 that's really great. 221 00:06:08,451 --> 00:06:10,578 you don't have to hang 222 00:06:08,451 --> 00:06:10,578 around with me, you know. 223 00:06:10,704 --> 00:06:12,164 I'll be fine by myself. 224 00:06:12,289 --> 00:06:15,542 I'm not going to run out 225 00:06:12,289 --> 00:06:15,542 and beat up someone. 226 00:06:15,667 --> 00:06:18,170 just in case, 227 00:06:15,667 --> 00:06:18,170 you know, I'll stay. 228 00:06:23,967 --> 00:06:25,635 Did you try 229 00:06:23,967 --> 00:06:25,635 calling her again? 230 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:28,722 doesn't seem like 231 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:28,722 much of a point right now. 232 00:06:32,184 --> 00:06:35,562 Griffin, are you 233 00:06:32,184 --> 00:06:35,562 still in love with her? 234 00:06:37,231 --> 00:06:39,566 she doesn't 235 00:06:37,231 --> 00:06:39,566 deserve it, Griffin. 236 00:06:39,691 --> 00:06:41,526 you care and care 237 00:06:39,691 --> 00:06:41,526 and care about someone 238 00:06:41,651 --> 00:06:44,029 and they don't do 239 00:06:41,651 --> 00:06:44,029 anything back. 240 00:06:47,115 --> 00:06:48,658 it's not that simple. 241 00:07:01,129 --> 00:07:03,506 I'm not doing this. 242 00:07:03,631 --> 00:07:05,092 what? Julia- 243 00:07:05,217 --> 00:07:07,594 I'm not doing this your way 244 00:07:05,217 --> 00:07:07,594 just 'cause you say so. 245 00:07:07,719 --> 00:07:09,637 that's not how it works 246 00:07:07,719 --> 00:07:09,637 with 2 people. 247 00:07:11,890 --> 00:07:13,350 ok, but could we not- 248 00:07:13,474 --> 00:07:14,851 I did this last year. 249 00:07:14,976 --> 00:07:17,604 ned, I had a relationship. 250 00:07:17,729 --> 00:07:19,773 I was in love with someone. 251 00:07:19,898 --> 00:07:21,733 and things got bad 252 00:07:19,898 --> 00:07:21,733 and I walked away. 253 00:07:21,858 --> 00:07:23,360 and I'm not doing it again. 254 00:07:25,237 --> 00:07:26,446 maybe it's about me. 255 00:07:26,571 --> 00:07:27,989 'cause I don't- 256 00:07:26,571 --> 00:07:27,989 I don't want to say 257 00:07:28,115 --> 00:07:30,784 that every person 258 00:07:28,115 --> 00:07:30,784 that I choose 259 00:07:28,115 --> 00:07:30,784 is the wrong person. 260 00:07:30,909 --> 00:07:32,619 or that I don't know 261 00:07:30,909 --> 00:07:32,619 what the hell I'm doing 262 00:07:30,909 --> 00:07:32,619 when I fall in love. 263 00:07:32,744 --> 00:07:34,079 or maybe, I don't know, 264 00:07:34,204 --> 00:07:36,664 I just don't want to be 265 00:07:34,204 --> 00:07:36,664 the kind of person 266 00:07:36,790 --> 00:07:39,209 who gives up on things 267 00:07:36,790 --> 00:07:39,209 as soon as they get bad. 268 00:07:43,380 --> 00:07:45,340 ned, I love you. 269 00:07:45,465 --> 00:07:48,135 I love being with you. 270 00:07:48,260 --> 00:07:50,929 I love sleeping with you. 271 00:07:48,260 --> 00:07:50,929 I love the way 272 00:07:48,260 --> 00:07:50,929 that you take care of me. 273 00:07:51,054 --> 00:07:56,226 'cause no one has 274 00:07:51,054 --> 00:07:56,226 taken care of me 275 00:07:51,054 --> 00:07:56,226 in a really long time. 276 00:07:57,602 --> 00:07:59,062 ok, maybe you have a problem. 277 00:07:59,187 --> 00:08:01,522 so, you get angry and you 278 00:07:59,187 --> 00:08:01,522 don't know how to control it. 279 00:08:01,648 --> 00:08:03,524 but that doesn't make you 280 00:08:01,648 --> 00:08:03,524 a bad person. 281 00:08:05,526 --> 00:08:07,528 and you can get help 282 00:08:05,526 --> 00:08:07,528 for stuff like that. 283 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:13,368 I can help you get help, 284 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:13,368 and I'll stay with you. 285 00:08:16,288 --> 00:08:18,665 I'll stay with you 286 00:08:16,288 --> 00:08:18,665 if you get help. 287 00:08:21,501 --> 00:08:24,171 I don't know. 288 00:08:21,501 --> 00:08:24,171 I thought we could, um, 289 00:08:24,296 --> 00:08:25,588 take a walk 290 00:08:24,296 --> 00:08:25,588 or something. 291 00:08:25,713 --> 00:08:28,591 go down to the pier, 292 00:08:25,713 --> 00:08:28,591 walk around. 293 00:08:28,716 --> 00:08:30,802 I have to go to work. 294 00:08:30,927 --> 00:08:33,554 right now at this hour? 295 00:08:33,680 --> 00:08:35,598 it's telephone 296 00:08:33,680 --> 00:08:35,598 solicitation, Charlie. 297 00:08:35,723 --> 00:08:38,810 this is when people 298 00:08:35,723 --> 00:08:38,810 are at home. 299 00:08:38,935 --> 00:08:39,985 right. 300 00:08:43,898 --> 00:08:45,066 what? 301 00:08:45,192 --> 00:08:47,068 what what? 302 00:08:47,194 --> 00:08:49,404 oh, come on. 303 00:08:49,529 --> 00:08:51,448 don't do this to me, ok? 304 00:08:49,529 --> 00:08:51,448 what do you want? 305 00:08:51,572 --> 00:08:55,327 you come down to L.A., 306 00:08:51,572 --> 00:08:55,327 and you tell me stuff 307 00:08:51,572 --> 00:08:55,327 about my life 308 00:08:55,452 --> 00:08:56,870 that I guess 309 00:08:55,452 --> 00:08:56,870 I'm supposed to face. 310 00:08:56,995 --> 00:09:00,874 and now we're 311 00:08:56,995 --> 00:09:00,874 just hanging out. 312 00:09:00,999 --> 00:09:03,751 and I don't know 313 00:09:00,999 --> 00:09:03,751 what you expect, 314 00:09:00,999 --> 00:09:03,751 walks on the pier? 315 00:09:03,877 --> 00:09:06,087 what do you think 316 00:09:03,877 --> 00:09:06,087 is going to happen? 317 00:09:09,049 --> 00:09:10,425 I want you 318 00:09:09,049 --> 00:09:10,425 to come back with me. 319 00:09:12,796 --> 00:09:13,844 Charlie- 320 00:09:13,845 --> 00:09:14,895 listen. 321 00:09:14,929 --> 00:09:17,391 I went to 322 00:09:14,929 --> 00:09:17,391 a psychiatrist. 323 00:09:17,516 --> 00:09:20,352 and-and I showed her 324 00:09:17,516 --> 00:09:20,352 the police report. 325 00:09:20,477 --> 00:09:21,561 and I told her 326 00:09:20,477 --> 00:09:21,561 the whole story. 327 00:09:21,686 --> 00:09:22,770 everything 328 00:09:21,686 --> 00:09:22,770 that happened. 329 00:09:22,771 --> 00:09:22,895 you shouldn't 330 00:09:22,896 --> 00:09:23,854 have done that. 331 00:09:23,855 --> 00:09:25,732 listen to me. Listen. 332 00:09:25,857 --> 00:09:27,692 she said that- 333 00:09:25,857 --> 00:09:27,692 that it makes sense. 334 00:09:27,817 --> 00:09:29,110 all this stuff with Diana. 335 00:09:29,236 --> 00:09:30,945 everything that you're 336 00:09:29,236 --> 00:09:30,945 feeling or can't feel 337 00:09:31,071 --> 00:09:32,947 is because of 338 00:09:31,071 --> 00:09:32,947 what happened to you. 339 00:09:34,157 --> 00:09:35,242 and? 340 00:09:35,367 --> 00:09:38,870 and...now that 341 00:09:35,367 --> 00:09:38,870 we know that, 342 00:09:38,995 --> 00:09:41,956 we can-we can 343 00:09:38,995 --> 00:09:41,956 deal with it together. 344 00:09:43,875 --> 00:09:45,793 oh, no. 345 00:09:45,919 --> 00:09:50,131 no, Charlie, no, no. 346 00:09:50,257 --> 00:09:51,307 oh. 347 00:09:53,009 --> 00:09:55,762 god, you are 348 00:09:53,009 --> 00:09:55,762 a sweet man 349 00:09:55,887 --> 00:09:57,305 and everything 350 00:09:55,887 --> 00:09:57,305 you've done for me. 351 00:09:57,431 --> 00:09:58,765 and don't get me wrong, 352 00:09:57,431 --> 00:09:58,765 it's wonderful. 353 00:09:58,890 --> 00:10:00,641 I want the truth. 354 00:10:00,767 --> 00:10:03,186 believe me, it is 355 00:10:00,767 --> 00:10:03,186 a hell of a lot easier 356 00:10:00,767 --> 00:10:03,186 for me to hate my mom 357 00:10:03,311 --> 00:10:04,812 than it is 358 00:10:03,311 --> 00:10:04,812 to hate myself. 359 00:10:04,938 --> 00:10:08,275 but-but this is 360 00:10:04,938 --> 00:10:08,275 who I am. 361 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:11,736 ok? This is 362 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:11,736 really who I am. 363 00:10:11,861 --> 00:10:13,780 and that's all 364 00:10:11,861 --> 00:10:13,780 you've proved. 365 00:10:13,905 --> 00:10:16,074 so it's not my fault, 366 00:10:13,905 --> 00:10:16,074 so what? 367 00:10:16,199 --> 00:10:17,700 children grow up 368 00:10:16,199 --> 00:10:17,700 all the time 369 00:10:17,825 --> 00:10:21,371 with-with defects 370 00:10:17,825 --> 00:10:21,371 that are no their fault. 371 00:10:21,496 --> 00:10:25,792 so just think of me 372 00:10:21,496 --> 00:10:25,792 as someone who was 373 00:10:21,496 --> 00:10:25,792 born with a bad heart. 374 00:10:34,342 --> 00:10:35,676 That's giving up. 375 00:10:35,802 --> 00:10:37,929 and it's not even true. 376 00:10:38,054 --> 00:10:40,390 I mean, talk 377 00:10:38,054 --> 00:10:40,390 to the psychiatrist 378 00:10:38,054 --> 00:10:40,390 I talked to. 379 00:10:40,515 --> 00:10:43,935 talk to anybody. 380 00:10:40,515 --> 00:10:43,935 you're not doomed 381 00:10:40,515 --> 00:10:43,935 unless you decide to be. 382 00:10:44,060 --> 00:10:46,813 and it's not like you 383 00:10:44,060 --> 00:10:46,813 have some kind of fatal 384 00:10:44,060 --> 00:10:46,813 disease or something. 385 00:10:46,938 --> 00:10:48,982 even if you did, 386 00:10:46,938 --> 00:10:48,982 you'd try to fight it. 387 00:10:49,107 --> 00:10:52,611 you'd try 388 00:10:49,107 --> 00:10:52,611 to-to survive. 389 00:10:54,321 --> 00:10:56,114 (sighs) 390 00:10:56,239 --> 00:10:59,075 so, I'm-I'm happy you 391 00:10:56,239 --> 00:10:59,075 got all the facts, but- 392 00:11:01,869 --> 00:11:04,831 just so you know, 393 00:11:01,869 --> 00:11:04,831 from this point on, 394 00:11:04,956 --> 00:11:07,501 you can stop blaming 395 00:11:04,956 --> 00:11:07,501 your mom... 396 00:11:07,626 --> 00:11:08,876 and start 397 00:11:07,626 --> 00:11:08,876 blaming yourself. 398 00:11:15,592 --> 00:11:17,177 You understand that 399 00:11:15,592 --> 00:11:17,177 anything you say to me 400 00:11:17,302 --> 00:11:19,554 is completely confidential. 401 00:11:19,678 --> 00:11:21,181 I may work for 402 00:11:19,678 --> 00:11:21,181 the university, 403 00:11:21,306 --> 00:11:22,849 but this is 404 00:11:21,306 --> 00:11:22,849 just between us. 405 00:11:22,974 --> 00:11:24,024 ok. 406 00:11:24,142 --> 00:11:25,192 ok. 407 00:11:27,521 --> 00:11:29,356 what did you want 408 00:11:27,521 --> 00:11:29,356 to talk to me about? 409 00:11:42,035 --> 00:11:46,581 I hit sometimes. 410 00:11:46,705 --> 00:11:48,166 I hit- 411 00:11:50,544 --> 00:11:52,504 I hit her. 412 00:11:58,677 --> 00:12:00,679 Owen's tests- 413 00:12:00,680 --> 00:12:00,802 the district psychologist 414 00:12:00,803 --> 00:12:01,971 will follow up. 415 00:12:02,096 --> 00:12:03,931 but meanwhile, 416 00:12:02,096 --> 00:12:03,931 it looks like he's got 417 00:12:04,057 --> 00:12:06,476 what we call 418 00:12:04,057 --> 00:12:06,476 a processing disorder. 419 00:12:06,601 --> 00:12:08,769 translation? 420 00:12:08,895 --> 00:12:13,274 look, we asked him 421 00:12:08,895 --> 00:12:13,274 to draw a picture 422 00:12:08,895 --> 00:12:13,274 about a story he read. 423 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:16,194 what he said about the story 424 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:16,194 was, like, brilliant, 425 00:12:16,319 --> 00:12:19,489 but here's the picture. 426 00:12:22,701 --> 00:12:25,828 that's way below the level 427 00:12:22,701 --> 00:12:25,828 of what other kids can draw. 428 00:12:27,372 --> 00:12:29,457 the good news is 429 00:12:27,372 --> 00:12:29,457 in the long run 430 00:12:29,583 --> 00:12:31,042 he can do what 431 00:12:29,583 --> 00:12:31,042 any other kid can do. 432 00:12:31,167 --> 00:12:32,627 the bad news is? 433 00:12:32,751 --> 00:12:34,504 it's gonna be 434 00:12:32,751 --> 00:12:34,504 harder for him. 435 00:12:34,629 --> 00:12:37,465 and for the people 436 00:12:34,629 --> 00:12:37,465 around him. 437 00:12:37,591 --> 00:12:40,677 there's a study routine 438 00:12:37,591 --> 00:12:40,677 2-3 hours a night. 439 00:12:40,801 --> 00:12:42,011 2-3 hours? 440 00:12:42,136 --> 00:12:43,971 same time, same room. 441 00:12:44,097 --> 00:12:45,390 but it works. 442 00:12:45,515 --> 00:12:49,394 that's if you're willing 443 00:12:45,515 --> 00:12:49,394 to do it with him. 444 00:12:49,519 --> 00:12:51,145 we are. 445 00:12:51,271 --> 00:12:53,648 I am. 446 00:12:53,772 --> 00:12:56,859 can I suggest something else, 447 00:12:53,772 --> 00:12:56,859 Mr. salinger? 448 00:12:56,984 --> 00:12:59,820 sure. Yeah. 449 00:12:56,984 --> 00:12:59,820 like I said, 450 00:12:56,984 --> 00:12:59,820 I'll do whatever. 451 00:12:59,946 --> 00:13:01,322 then come to class. 452 00:13:01,448 --> 00:13:03,450 we have parent volunteers. 453 00:13:03,575 --> 00:13:05,243 you'd be the first father 454 00:13:03,575 --> 00:13:05,243 we've seen in awhile. 455 00:13:07,287 --> 00:13:08,337 father? 456 00:13:08,413 --> 00:13:10,248 sorry. You know what i- 457 00:13:10,373 --> 00:13:12,125 yeah, I do. 458 00:13:17,297 --> 00:13:18,881 Julia? 459 00:13:19,006 --> 00:13:20,759 oh, hey. 460 00:13:19,006 --> 00:13:20,759 what are you- 461 00:13:20,883 --> 00:13:21,933 is something wrong? 462 00:13:22,009 --> 00:13:23,678 no. No. I just-i was 463 00:13:22,009 --> 00:13:23,678 looking for you. 464 00:13:23,802 --> 00:13:25,888 I wanted to talk 465 00:13:23,802 --> 00:13:25,888 for a minute. 466 00:13:26,013 --> 00:13:28,224 no one's gonna know what 467 00:13:26,013 --> 00:13:28,224 we're talking about. 468 00:13:28,349 --> 00:13:30,560 I promise. 469 00:13:30,685 --> 00:13:32,312 all right. 470 00:13:32,437 --> 00:13:35,064 um, look, I don't know 471 00:13:32,437 --> 00:13:35,064 if you know this, 472 00:13:35,189 --> 00:13:37,984 but apart from any 473 00:13:35,189 --> 00:13:37,984 of the sessions that 474 00:13:35,189 --> 00:13:37,984 I have with you and ned, 475 00:13:38,109 --> 00:13:40,903 the university also 476 00:13:38,109 --> 00:13:40,903 has a group for women. 477 00:13:40,904 --> 00:13:41,027 for women? 478 00:13:41,028 --> 00:13:42,078 yeah. 479 00:13:42,155 --> 00:13:43,535 who are similar situations. 480 00:13:43,657 --> 00:13:44,741 so that they can talk 481 00:13:43,657 --> 00:13:44,741 to each other 482 00:13:44,865 --> 00:13:47,201 and get counseling 483 00:13:44,865 --> 00:13:47,201 and advice. 484 00:13:47,327 --> 00:13:48,536 ok. 485 00:13:48,662 --> 00:13:50,246 I don't-i don't 486 00:13:48,662 --> 00:13:50,246 think I need that. 487 00:13:50,371 --> 00:13:51,421 but ok. Thanks. 488 00:13:53,916 --> 00:13:55,502 look, I'm not trying 489 00:13:53,916 --> 00:13:55,502 to push you. 490 00:13:55,627 --> 00:13:57,878 but there are a lot 491 00:13:55,627 --> 00:13:57,878 of things that go on 492 00:13:58,004 --> 00:14:00,173 when you're the victim of 493 00:13:58,004 --> 00:14:00,173 violence in a relationship. 494 00:14:00,298 --> 00:14:01,549 there are issues of 495 00:14:00,298 --> 00:14:01,549 self-esteem- 496 00:14:01,675 --> 00:14:05,886 I'm not a victim 497 00:14:01,675 --> 00:14:05,886 of violence, ok? 498 00:14:06,012 --> 00:14:07,764 look, Julia, I know- 499 00:14:07,888 --> 00:14:10,350 what is this, 500 00:14:07,888 --> 00:14:10,350 some kind of battered 501 00:14:07,888 --> 00:14:10,350 women's group? 502 00:14:10,475 --> 00:14:12,811 'cause that's- 503 00:14:10,475 --> 00:14:12,811 that is not what's 504 00:14:10,475 --> 00:14:12,811 going on here. 505 00:14:12,935 --> 00:14:14,646 and once you talk 506 00:14:12,935 --> 00:14:14,646 to ned a little more, 507 00:14:12,935 --> 00:14:14,646 you'll see that.9 508 00:14:14,771 --> 00:14:18,065 he just-he has 509 00:14:14,771 --> 00:14:18,065 problems with his anger 510 00:14:14,771 --> 00:14:18,065 sometimes, that's all. 511 00:14:18,191 --> 00:14:21,611 Julia, ned is not 512 00:14:18,191 --> 00:14:21,611 here right now. 513 00:14:21,736 --> 00:14:25,615 if this is the kind 514 00:14:21,736 --> 00:14:25,615 of help that you want, 515 00:14:25,740 --> 00:14:28,075 but you're afraid of 516 00:14:25,740 --> 00:14:28,075 what ned will think- 517 00:14:28,201 --> 00:14:30,745 if you're afraid 518 00:14:28,201 --> 00:14:30,745 of ned in any way- 519 00:14:30,746 --> 00:14:31,870 that's what you think? 520 00:14:31,871 --> 00:14:33,373 you think 521 00:14:31,871 --> 00:14:33,373 I'm afraid of ned 522 00:14:33,498 --> 00:14:34,957 and that's why 523 00:14:33,498 --> 00:14:34,957 I came to see you? 524 00:14:34,958 --> 00:14:36,249 I'm just listening to you. 525 00:14:36,250 --> 00:14:38,044 I'm giving you 526 00:14:36,250 --> 00:14:38,044 the opportunity- 527 00:14:38,169 --> 00:14:39,920 don't patronize me, ok? 528 00:14:40,046 --> 00:14:42,923 you don't know me. 529 00:14:40,046 --> 00:14:42,923 you don't know us. 530 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:47,261 right. 531 00:14:50,973 --> 00:14:52,726 I'll see you 532 00:14:50,973 --> 00:14:52,726 at the session. 533 00:15:01,317 --> 00:15:02,367 Hey. 534 00:15:04,028 --> 00:15:05,946 you wouldn't happen 535 00:15:04,028 --> 00:15:05,946 to know anything about 536 00:15:06,072 --> 00:15:08,115 the, uh, imagery of 537 00:15:06,072 --> 00:15:08,115 birth and renewal 538 00:15:08,241 --> 00:15:10,159 in Shakespeare's 539 00:15:08,241 --> 00:15:10,159 the tempest, would you? 540 00:15:10,284 --> 00:15:13,120 uh...no. 541 00:15:13,246 --> 00:15:15,874 yeah. Same here. 542 00:15:17,333 --> 00:15:19,419 what's with 543 00:15:17,333 --> 00:15:19,419 the suitcase? 544 00:15:19,544 --> 00:15:22,463 oh. Um, I'm gonna go away 545 00:15:19,544 --> 00:15:22,463 for a little while. 546 00:15:22,589 --> 00:15:24,965 what? Why? 547 00:15:25,091 --> 00:15:28,803 well, I haven't seen 548 00:15:25,091 --> 00:15:28,803 my parents in a really 549 00:15:25,091 --> 00:15:28,803 long time. 550 00:15:28,928 --> 00:15:30,889 and I thought it would be 551 00:15:28,928 --> 00:15:30,889 a perfect opportunity. 552 00:15:31,013 --> 00:15:35,101 ok. But Charlie's 553 00:15:31,013 --> 00:15:35,101 gonna be kind of bummed. 554 00:15:35,226 --> 00:15:37,771 I mean, he's been 555 00:15:35,226 --> 00:15:37,771 leaning on you a lot 556 00:15:35,226 --> 00:15:37,771 lately. 557 00:15:37,896 --> 00:15:39,564 and if you're not here 558 00:15:37,896 --> 00:15:39,564 when he gets back... 559 00:15:39,689 --> 00:15:41,566 I don't think he's 560 00:15:39,689 --> 00:15:41,566 gonna mind that much. 561 00:15:41,691 --> 00:15:43,192 to be honest with you, 562 00:15:41,691 --> 00:15:43,192 I think I'd just- 563 00:15:43,317 --> 00:15:45,612 I'd kind of be in the way. 564 00:15:45,737 --> 00:15:47,113 that's not true. 565 00:15:47,238 --> 00:15:49,449 in any case, um, 566 00:15:49,574 --> 00:15:51,951 it's not good for me 567 00:15:49,574 --> 00:15:51,951 to be here right now. 568 00:15:52,076 --> 00:15:53,994 I'm not liking myself 569 00:15:52,076 --> 00:15:53,994 very much. 570 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:58,416 sitting here waiting for- 571 00:15:58,541 --> 00:16:00,334 I'm just rooting for 572 00:15:58,541 --> 00:16:00,334 all the wrong things. 573 00:16:00,460 --> 00:16:03,254 it's just-it's just 574 00:16:00,460 --> 00:16:03,254 rotten timing. 575 00:16:03,379 --> 00:16:04,923 I'm not getting this. 576 00:16:07,174 --> 00:16:09,385 never mind. Just, um... 577 00:16:09,510 --> 00:16:11,429 will you just give 578 00:16:09,510 --> 00:16:11,429 this to Charlie 579 00:16:11,554 --> 00:16:13,180 when he gets back? 580 00:16:13,306 --> 00:16:15,015 it's just a little 581 00:16:13,306 --> 00:16:15,015 good-bye note. 582 00:16:15,141 --> 00:16:17,977 tell him I'll be away 583 00:16:15,141 --> 00:16:17,977 for a few weeks. 584 00:16:18,102 --> 00:16:20,438 can he call you 585 00:16:18,102 --> 00:16:20,438 in Chicago if he wants? 586 00:16:22,356 --> 00:16:24,150 if he wants. 587 00:16:25,944 --> 00:16:27,445 I'll see you later, ok? 588 00:16:33,451 --> 00:16:35,369 Hi. Ok. 589 00:16:35,495 --> 00:16:37,497 ok. I'm making a rash, 590 00:16:37,622 --> 00:16:39,791 spur-of-the-moment, 591 00:16:37,622 --> 00:16:39,791 caution-to-the-wind 592 00:16:37,622 --> 00:16:39,791 kind of decision here. 593 00:16:39,916 --> 00:16:41,960 shh. Diana's 594 00:16:39,916 --> 00:16:41,960 still sleeping. 595 00:16:42,084 --> 00:16:43,837 (whispering) 596 00:16:42,084 --> 00:16:43,837 oh. Sorry. 597 00:16:43,962 --> 00:16:46,589 I'm sorry. Um... 598 00:16:49,300 --> 00:16:50,677 I'm gonna go back 599 00:16:49,300 --> 00:16:50,677 with you. 600 00:16:50,802 --> 00:16:54,555 I'm gonna try, ok? 601 00:16:54,681 --> 00:16:57,433 and I'm not gonna let 602 00:16:54,681 --> 00:16:57,433 my mother have the last 603 00:16:54,681 --> 00:16:57,433 word in my life. 604 00:16:57,558 --> 00:17:01,312 and I will see 605 00:16:57,558 --> 00:17:01,312 that psychiatrist 606 00:16:57,558 --> 00:17:01,312 expert person of yours. 607 00:17:01,437 --> 00:17:03,481 great. That's great. 608 00:17:03,606 --> 00:17:05,483 except that, um, 609 00:17:03,606 --> 00:17:05,483 we have to leave now. 610 00:17:05,608 --> 00:17:07,485 I mean, we have to go 611 00:17:05,608 --> 00:17:07,485 immediately because 612 00:17:07,610 --> 00:17:08,778 I'm really, really 613 00:17:07,610 --> 00:17:08,778 not sure. 614 00:17:08,903 --> 00:17:10,363 right now? 615 00:17:08,903 --> 00:17:10,363 yeah. 616 00:17:10,488 --> 00:17:14,074 um, I've packed up 617 00:17:10,488 --> 00:17:14,074 all the essentials. 618 00:17:22,124 --> 00:17:24,377 Put me on a plane, Charlie. 619 00:17:26,379 --> 00:17:28,214 I'm not gonna do that. 620 00:17:28,339 --> 00:17:30,299 oh, for god's sake. 621 00:17:30,424 --> 00:17:31,968 this is it, daph. 622 00:17:32,092 --> 00:17:33,469 this is it. This is 623 00:17:32,092 --> 00:17:33,469 the final move. 624 00:17:33,470 --> 00:17:33,593 and we gotta 625 00:17:33,594 --> 00:17:34,636 do this right. 626 00:17:34,637 --> 00:17:35,930 meaning? 627 00:17:36,055 --> 00:17:38,016 you got a job, right? 628 00:17:38,140 --> 00:17:40,518 mm-hmm. 629 00:17:40,643 --> 00:17:43,229 are you owed any money? 630 00:17:43,230 --> 00:17:44,396 mm-hmm. 631 00:17:44,397 --> 00:17:45,732 ok, then. 632 00:17:45,857 --> 00:17:47,650 go pick up 633 00:17:45,857 --> 00:17:47,650 your final paycheck. 634 00:17:47,775 --> 00:17:49,318 then go back and pack up 635 00:17:47,775 --> 00:17:49,318 all your stuff. 636 00:17:49,443 --> 00:17:51,571 Diana and I'll take care 637 00:17:49,443 --> 00:17:51,571 of renting the u-haul, 638 00:17:51,696 --> 00:17:53,322 and we'll meet you back 639 00:17:51,696 --> 00:17:53,322 at your place. 640 00:17:53,447 --> 00:17:56,200 I'll have you home 641 00:17:53,447 --> 00:17:56,200 by midnight. 642 00:17:58,202 --> 00:18:00,120 is that fast enough 643 00:17:58,202 --> 00:18:00,120 for you? 644 00:18:09,338 --> 00:18:11,382 Everything ok, 645 00:18:09,338 --> 00:18:11,382 Mr. salinger? 646 00:18:11,507 --> 00:18:13,885 he's just plain Bailey. 647 00:18:14,010 --> 00:18:16,095 just plain, that's me. 648 00:18:16,220 --> 00:18:17,430 yeah, I'm fine. 649 00:18:19,098 --> 00:18:20,641 are you 650 00:18:19,098 --> 00:18:20,641 Owen's father? 651 00:18:20,767 --> 00:18:21,935 nope. My brother. 652 00:18:22,060 --> 00:18:23,686 actually, I'm 653 00:18:22,060 --> 00:18:23,686 nobody's father. 654 00:18:23,811 --> 00:18:24,896 well, are 655 00:18:23,811 --> 00:18:24,896 you married? 656 00:18:25,021 --> 00:18:26,773 nope. Not even married. 657 00:18:26,898 --> 00:18:29,275 you got really long arms, 658 00:18:26,898 --> 00:18:29,275 Owen's brother. 659 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:31,193 you could be 660 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:31,193 Ms. lo's boyfriend. 661 00:18:31,318 --> 00:18:33,195 she doesn't 662 00:18:31,318 --> 00:18:33,195 have one. 663 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:34,948 well, she did, 664 00:18:35,073 --> 00:18:36,282 but he couldn't 665 00:18:35,073 --> 00:18:36,282 get his act together 666 00:18:36,407 --> 00:18:38,451 and get a job, 667 00:18:36,407 --> 00:18:38,451 so she dumped him. 668 00:18:38,576 --> 00:18:39,744 I see. 669 00:18:39,869 --> 00:18:42,329 I can ask for you 670 00:18:39,869 --> 00:18:42,329 if you want. 671 00:18:42,455 --> 00:18:43,790 he's got a girlfriend. 672 00:18:44,999 --> 00:18:46,584 you've got a girlfriend. 673 00:18:46,709 --> 00:18:48,502 you think I don't know? 674 00:18:49,963 --> 00:18:52,715 hey. You're not tracing. 675 00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:54,634 better grab a marker 676 00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:54,634 before there's 677 00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:54,634 none of me left. 678 00:18:54,759 --> 00:18:57,177 I wanted red. 679 00:18:54,759 --> 00:18:57,177 hughly took the red. 680 00:18:57,303 --> 00:18:58,763 you can have it. 681 00:19:04,644 --> 00:19:06,520 Thanks for coming, bay. 682 00:19:12,944 --> 00:19:14,320 It's just like I said- 683 00:19:14,445 --> 00:19:17,740 he was always critical 684 00:19:14,445 --> 00:19:17,740 all the time. 685 00:19:17,865 --> 00:19:20,576 nothing I did was ever 686 00:19:17,865 --> 00:19:20,576 good enough for him. 687 00:19:20,701 --> 00:19:23,830 Julia knows. 688 00:19:20,701 --> 00:19:23,830 she saw it. 689 00:19:23,955 --> 00:19:25,414 so that's gotta mean 690 00:19:23,955 --> 00:19:25,414 something, right? 691 00:19:25,539 --> 00:19:27,541 that my dad was 692 00:19:25,539 --> 00:19:27,541 always angry? 693 00:19:27,667 --> 00:19:29,543 I'm not sure. 694 00:19:29,669 --> 00:19:32,338 you mean, is that the reason 695 00:19:29,669 --> 00:19:32,338 why you're angry? 696 00:19:32,463 --> 00:19:33,714 because your father 697 00:19:32,463 --> 00:19:33,714 was angry? 698 00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:35,424 yeah, I guess. 699 00:19:35,425 --> 00:19:35,548 well, it's not a question 700 00:19:35,549 --> 00:19:36,717 of being angry. 701 00:19:36,843 --> 00:19:38,302 everybody gets angry. 702 00:19:38,427 --> 00:19:40,304 it's a question of being able 703 00:19:38,427 --> 00:19:40,304 to control your anger. 704 00:19:41,973 --> 00:19:43,557 ok. But still- 705 00:19:43,683 --> 00:19:45,518 did your father 706 00:19:43,683 --> 00:19:45,518 ever hit you? 707 00:19:45,643 --> 00:19:46,727 no. 708 00:19:46,853 --> 00:19:48,646 ok. 709 00:19:50,648 --> 00:19:52,108 well, what about 710 00:19:50,648 --> 00:19:52,108 your brother? 711 00:19:52,232 --> 00:19:53,359 tell me about Richie. 712 00:19:53,484 --> 00:19:56,029 Richie has nothing 713 00:19:53,484 --> 00:19:56,029 to do with this. 714 00:19:56,154 --> 00:19:59,448 uh-huh. What kind 715 00:19:56,154 --> 00:19:59,448 of a kid was he? 716 00:19:59,573 --> 00:20:04,537 was he, uh, really 717 00:19:59,573 --> 00:20:04,537 quiet and withdrawn? 718 00:20:04,662 --> 00:20:07,081 I guess. Sometimes. 719 00:20:07,206 --> 00:20:08,708 did he ever get violent? 720 00:20:08,833 --> 00:20:11,085 some autistic children 721 00:20:11,210 --> 00:20:14,755 can exhibit bouts of 722 00:20:11,210 --> 00:20:14,755 aggressive behavior. 723 00:20:14,881 --> 00:20:17,675 I don't know. 724 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:19,844 ned, it's ok. 725 00:20:19,969 --> 00:20:22,722 was Richie ever violent? 726 00:20:22,847 --> 00:20:25,016 look, even if he was, 727 00:20:22,847 --> 00:20:25,016 it's got nothing 728 00:20:22,847 --> 00:20:25,016 to do with this. 729 00:20:25,141 --> 00:20:26,893 he's not responsible 730 00:20:25,141 --> 00:20:26,893 for what he does. 731 00:20:27,018 --> 00:20:29,187 I'm not saying that he 732 00:20:27,018 --> 00:20:29,187 is responsible for this. 733 00:20:29,311 --> 00:20:31,939 what you do, you're 734 00:20:29,311 --> 00:20:31,939 responsible for. 735 00:20:32,065 --> 00:20:33,149 I'm just trying 736 00:20:32,065 --> 00:20:33,149 to find out why. 737 00:20:33,273 --> 00:20:35,193 and you want to blame 738 00:20:33,273 --> 00:20:35,193 your father. 739 00:20:35,317 --> 00:20:36,610 no, I don't. 740 00:20:35,317 --> 00:20:36,610 yes, you do. 741 00:20:36,736 --> 00:20:38,404 because you're angry 742 00:20:36,736 --> 00:20:38,404 at your father. 743 00:20:38,405 --> 00:20:39,696 what did your father do? 744 00:20:39,697 --> 00:20:41,908 I don't know. 745 00:20:42,033 --> 00:20:44,994 what did your father do 746 00:20:42,033 --> 00:20:44,994 when Richie got violent? 747 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:46,169 nothing. 748 00:20:46,204 --> 00:20:47,454 he did nothing? 749 00:20:47,455 --> 00:20:47,579 did he tell Richie 750 00:20:47,580 --> 00:20:48,630 to stop? 751 00:20:51,959 --> 00:20:54,879 look, this has got 752 00:20:51,959 --> 00:20:54,879 nothing to do with 753 00:20:51,959 --> 00:20:54,879 why I hit people. 754 00:20:55,004 --> 00:20:57,381 did your father blame you? 755 00:20:57,506 --> 00:21:00,176 when you and Richie 756 00:20:57,506 --> 00:21:00,176 were together 757 00:20:57,506 --> 00:21:00,176 when you were younger, 758 00:21:00,300 --> 00:21:01,427 and he got violent- 759 00:21:01,552 --> 00:21:02,872 did your father blame you? 760 00:21:02,970 --> 00:21:04,597 you know what? 761 00:21:02,970 --> 00:21:04,597 I'm not doing this? 762 00:21:04,722 --> 00:21:06,099 ned- 763 00:21:04,722 --> 00:21:06,099 just shut up. 764 00:21:06,224 --> 00:21:07,683 what's the matter, ned? 765 00:21:07,808 --> 00:21:10,644 is this not going exactly 766 00:21:07,808 --> 00:21:10,644 the way you planned it to go? 767 00:21:10,770 --> 00:21:12,688 is that why you lose 768 00:21:10,770 --> 00:21:12,688 your temper sometimes? 769 00:21:15,733 --> 00:21:18,111 I guess I might lose 770 00:21:15,733 --> 00:21:18,111 my temper sometimes, too- 771 00:21:18,236 --> 00:21:20,362 if I'd been raised 772 00:21:18,236 --> 00:21:20,362 the way you were- 773 00:21:20,487 --> 00:21:23,824 hit by my brother 774 00:21:20,487 --> 00:21:23,824 and blamed by my parents. 775 00:21:27,745 --> 00:21:29,956 ok. You know what I 776 00:21:27,745 --> 00:21:29,956 don't get about college? 777 00:21:30,081 --> 00:21:33,459 the teachers, 778 00:21:30,081 --> 00:21:33,459 they have these ph.D.'S 779 00:21:30,081 --> 00:21:33,459 and everything, right? 780 00:21:33,584 --> 00:21:35,335 and they're supposed 781 00:21:33,584 --> 00:21:35,335 to know a million things 782 00:21:33,584 --> 00:21:35,335 that we don't, 783 00:21:35,461 --> 00:21:36,754 which is why we go 784 00:21:35,461 --> 00:21:36,754 to them to study. 785 00:21:38,589 --> 00:21:39,799 I'm with you so far. 786 00:21:39,924 --> 00:21:42,927 ok. So, my poetry 787 00:21:39,924 --> 00:21:42,927 professor, Ms. kellard, 788 00:21:43,052 --> 00:21:46,305 assigns a paper on 789 00:21:43,052 --> 00:21:46,305 Madonna's second album. 790 00:21:46,430 --> 00:21:49,642 I mean, we can do 791 00:21:46,430 --> 00:21:49,642 Madonna on our own, 792 00:21:46,430 --> 00:21:49,642 you know? 793 00:21:49,767 --> 00:21:51,310 we can be the kids. 794 00:21:51,435 --> 00:21:53,520 it's Emily Dickinson 795 00:21:51,435 --> 00:21:53,520 that we need 796 00:21:51,435 --> 00:21:53,520 the help with. 797 00:21:53,646 --> 00:21:54,730 Emily who? 798 00:21:54,855 --> 00:21:56,023 what label's she on? 799 00:21:57,691 --> 00:21:58,859 I'm kidding. 800 00:22:01,862 --> 00:22:04,323 I'm definitely kidding. 801 00:22:04,448 --> 00:22:08,619 but you do remember that 802 00:22:04,448 --> 00:22:08,619 I at least half-sucked 803 00:22:04,448 --> 00:22:08,619 at school? 804 00:22:08,744 --> 00:22:11,080 don't remember you 805 00:22:08,744 --> 00:22:11,080 on the inter-school 806 00:22:08,744 --> 00:22:11,080 math squad, 807 00:22:11,205 --> 00:22:12,414 but you had 808 00:22:11,205 --> 00:22:12,414 your moments. 809 00:22:12,539 --> 00:22:13,707 I was smart. 810 00:22:13,833 --> 00:22:15,751 I'm not saying 811 00:22:13,833 --> 00:22:15,751 that I wasn't. 812 00:22:15,876 --> 00:22:20,047 just never showed up 813 00:22:15,876 --> 00:22:20,047 in my grades-homework. 814 00:22:20,173 --> 00:22:23,634 I could have died from 815 00:22:20,173 --> 00:22:23,634 homework the other kids 816 00:22:20,173 --> 00:22:23,634 just zipped right through. 817 00:22:27,429 --> 00:22:30,099 you know what, Sarah? 818 00:22:30,224 --> 00:22:32,101 I think that's why I need 819 00:22:30,224 --> 00:22:32,101 to be there for Owen. 820 00:22:32,226 --> 00:22:34,436 what do you mean, 821 00:22:32,226 --> 00:22:34,436 Bailey? 822 00:22:34,561 --> 00:22:35,771 you are there for him. 823 00:22:35,896 --> 00:22:38,232 yeah. But I think 824 00:22:35,896 --> 00:22:38,232 I understand how he feels. 825 00:22:38,356 --> 00:22:40,818 I think I know- 826 00:22:40,943 --> 00:22:42,569 I think I know 827 00:22:40,943 --> 00:22:42,569 what he's going through. 828 00:22:44,613 --> 00:22:47,867 I need to make sure he gets 829 00:22:44,613 --> 00:22:47,867 all the help he needs. 830 00:22:49,035 --> 00:22:50,786 everything. 831 00:22:50,911 --> 00:22:53,747 it all gets 832 00:22:50,911 --> 00:22:53,747 twisted around. 833 00:22:53,873 --> 00:22:54,923 no, ned- 834 00:22:54,999 --> 00:22:56,709 yes. 835 00:22:56,834 --> 00:22:58,460 he takes everything 836 00:22:56,834 --> 00:22:58,460 and turns it against me. 837 00:22:58,585 --> 00:23:03,549 my brother...And you. 838 00:23:05,634 --> 00:23:08,721 he's just trying 839 00:23:05,634 --> 00:23:08,721 to figure out how all 840 00:23:05,634 --> 00:23:08,721 the pieces fit together. 841 00:23:08,846 --> 00:23:10,597 what pieces? 842 00:23:10,723 --> 00:23:12,058 I lose my temper 843 00:23:10,723 --> 00:23:12,058 sometimes. 844 00:23:12,183 --> 00:23:13,351 that's all it is. 845 00:23:13,475 --> 00:23:14,525 I don't think so. 846 00:23:14,601 --> 00:23:16,020 that's all it is. 847 00:23:22,068 --> 00:23:24,402 No. Don't. 'Cause i- 848 00:23:27,323 --> 00:23:28,699 (door opens) 849 00:23:28,824 --> 00:23:30,701 hey. 850 00:23:30,826 --> 00:23:32,870 didn't know 851 00:23:30,826 --> 00:23:32,870 you guys were- 852 00:23:32,995 --> 00:23:34,496 what's going on? 853 00:23:34,621 --> 00:23:37,083 get out of here, ray. 854 00:23:34,621 --> 00:23:37,083 what? 855 00:23:37,208 --> 00:23:38,258 get out of here! 856 00:23:39,752 --> 00:23:42,004 do you mind? 857 00:23:39,752 --> 00:23:42,004 I'm sorry. 858 00:23:42,129 --> 00:23:44,464 no. 859 00:23:44,590 --> 00:23:46,092 it's ok. 860 00:23:47,467 --> 00:23:48,844 god. 861 00:23:52,223 --> 00:23:54,392 it doesn't matter 862 00:23:52,223 --> 00:23:54,392 what he thinks. 863 00:23:54,516 --> 00:23:57,103 no. I want to get 864 00:23:54,516 --> 00:23:57,103 out of here. 865 00:23:57,228 --> 00:23:59,146 I want us 866 00:23:57,228 --> 00:23:59,146 to get out of here. 867 00:23:59,272 --> 00:24:02,233 I can't do therapy 868 00:23:59,272 --> 00:24:02,233 any other way. 869 00:24:02,358 --> 00:24:05,611 I can't go through 870 00:24:02,358 --> 00:24:05,611 all that and have 871 00:24:02,358 --> 00:24:05,611 to come home to him... 872 00:24:05,736 --> 00:24:08,906 or Maggie. 873 00:24:09,031 --> 00:24:11,658 I just want 874 00:24:09,031 --> 00:24:11,658 to come home to you. 875 00:24:15,121 --> 00:24:17,455 you cannot find 876 00:24:15,121 --> 00:24:17,455 parking for a u-haul 877 00:24:15,121 --> 00:24:17,455 in this neighborhood. 878 00:24:18,868 --> 00:24:19,916 you're not done yet, 879 00:24:19,917 --> 00:24:20,875 huh? 880 00:24:20,876 --> 00:24:23,503 um, no. 881 00:24:23,629 --> 00:24:25,256 Daphne? 882 00:24:25,381 --> 00:24:27,091 what've you been doing 883 00:24:25,381 --> 00:24:27,091 all afternoon? 884 00:24:27,216 --> 00:24:28,926 you're only 885 00:24:27,216 --> 00:24:28,926 half way done. 886 00:24:29,051 --> 00:24:31,387 I know. See... 887 00:24:33,013 --> 00:24:34,063 what's going on? 888 00:24:36,392 --> 00:24:39,770 oh. We should have 889 00:24:36,392 --> 00:24:39,770 left this morning. 890 00:24:36,392 --> 00:24:39,770 I told you. 891 00:24:39,895 --> 00:24:42,106 what? 892 00:24:42,231 --> 00:24:43,523 don't get mad at me, ok? 893 00:24:43,649 --> 00:24:45,359 are you getting cold feet, 894 00:24:43,649 --> 00:24:45,359 is that what it is? 895 00:24:45,483 --> 00:24:46,986 it's more 896 00:24:45,483 --> 00:24:46,986 than just that. 897 00:24:47,111 --> 00:24:49,238 what's the problem? You 898 00:24:47,111 --> 00:24:49,238 want to talk about it again? 899 00:24:49,239 --> 00:24:49,362 you want to talk about what 900 00:24:49,363 --> 00:24:50,683 the psychiatrist told me? 901 00:24:50,781 --> 00:24:51,949 no. 902 00:24:52,074 --> 00:24:53,200 no. You don't want 903 00:24:52,074 --> 00:24:53,200 to talk about it? 904 00:24:53,326 --> 00:24:55,453 you're just changing 905 00:24:53,326 --> 00:24:55,453 your mind. 906 00:24:55,577 --> 00:24:57,288 I mean, did you listen 907 00:24:55,577 --> 00:24:57,288 to anything I even said? 908 00:24:57,413 --> 00:24:58,914 I listened 909 00:24:57,413 --> 00:24:58,914 to everything. 910 00:24:57,413 --> 00:24:58,914 no, you couldn't have! 911 00:24:59,039 --> 00:25:00,333 yes, I did! 912 00:24:59,039 --> 00:25:00,359 you really couldn't have! 913 00:25:00,458 --> 00:25:01,834 I listened 914 00:25:00,458 --> 00:25:01,834 to everything, 915 00:25:00,458 --> 00:25:01,834 and I believed you. 916 00:25:01,959 --> 00:25:03,009 and that's why. 917 00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,547 I can't go. 918 00:25:09,383 --> 00:25:11,051 what? 919 00:25:11,177 --> 00:25:13,053 because of what you 920 00:25:11,177 --> 00:25:13,053 said in the diner 921 00:25:11,177 --> 00:25:13,053 yesterday morning. 922 00:25:13,179 --> 00:25:15,806 you said that 923 00:25:13,179 --> 00:25:15,806 she didn't blame me. 924 00:25:15,931 --> 00:25:17,766 and that no damage 925 00:25:15,931 --> 00:25:17,766 had been done. 926 00:25:17,891 --> 00:25:19,685 yeah? 927 00:25:19,810 --> 00:25:24,648 so that's, um, 928 00:25:19,810 --> 00:25:24,648 that's what I've been 929 00:25:19,810 --> 00:25:24,648 thinking about. 930 00:25:27,234 --> 00:25:28,861 what? 931 00:25:28,986 --> 00:25:32,823 see? It's not- 932 00:25:28,986 --> 00:25:32,823 it's not that my mother 933 00:25:28,986 --> 00:25:32,823 abandoned me. 934 00:25:32,948 --> 00:25:36,743 it's that she did it 935 00:25:32,948 --> 00:25:36,743 when I was old enough 936 00:25:32,948 --> 00:25:36,743 to understand. 937 00:25:36,869 --> 00:25:40,122 it's like she gave me 938 00:25:36,869 --> 00:25:40,122 this disease that she 939 00:25:36,869 --> 00:25:40,122 passed on to me. 940 00:25:40,247 --> 00:25:41,332 but see, 941 00:25:40,247 --> 00:25:41,332 I've stopped it. 942 00:25:41,457 --> 00:25:42,749 as of right now, 943 00:25:41,457 --> 00:25:42,749 I have stopped it. 944 00:25:44,460 --> 00:25:47,505 but if I go home, 945 00:25:44,460 --> 00:25:47,505 and I go in therapy, 946 00:25:47,629 --> 00:25:49,089 and I try to get well, 947 00:25:49,215 --> 00:25:51,758 and all this time, 948 00:25:49,215 --> 00:25:51,758 I convince Diana 949 00:25:49,215 --> 00:25:51,758 to depend on me- 950 00:25:51,884 --> 00:25:54,552 and then I fail- 951 00:25:54,678 --> 00:25:56,805 then I will have 952 00:25:54,678 --> 00:25:56,805 given my daughter 953 00:25:56,930 --> 00:25:58,891 what my mother 954 00:25:56,930 --> 00:25:58,891 passed on to me. 955 00:25:59,016 --> 00:26:02,436 that-that is so many ifs. 956 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:06,648 but I can't take 957 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:06,648 that risk. 958 00:26:06,773 --> 00:26:08,984 she's already 959 00:26:06,773 --> 00:26:08,984 growing up. 960 00:26:09,109 --> 00:26:11,820 you can see it. 961 00:26:11,945 --> 00:26:14,448 you can see it 962 00:26:11,945 --> 00:26:14,448 in the way that 963 00:26:11,945 --> 00:26:14,448 she looks at you. 964 00:26:14,572 --> 00:26:18,285 and in the way that 965 00:26:14,572 --> 00:26:18,285 she listens to you. 966 00:26:18,411 --> 00:26:20,413 and in the way that 967 00:26:18,411 --> 00:26:20,413 she understands you. 968 00:26:28,254 --> 00:26:29,671 So... 969 00:26:33,300 --> 00:26:35,261 this has to be it. 970 00:26:35,386 --> 00:26:37,971 and there's 971 00:26:35,386 --> 00:26:37,971 no more good-byes. 972 00:26:40,891 --> 00:26:44,478 you can't ever 973 00:26:40,891 --> 00:26:44,478 come here ever again. 974 00:26:46,188 --> 00:26:48,899 and I can't- 975 00:26:49,024 --> 00:26:50,943 I can't ever hold her 976 00:26:49,024 --> 00:26:50,943 again. 977 00:26:51,068 --> 00:26:52,486 and I can't ever 978 00:26:51,068 --> 00:26:52,486 kiss her again. 979 00:26:52,610 --> 00:26:55,989 and I can't ever...Tell 980 00:26:52,610 --> 00:26:55,989 her that I love her. 981 00:26:56,115 --> 00:26:58,158 so... 982 00:27:03,163 --> 00:27:04,915 Take her and go. 983 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:06,750 go. 984 00:27:33,611 --> 00:27:35,362 Don't go right 985 00:27:33,611 --> 00:27:35,362 to work, Bailey. 986 00:27:35,488 --> 00:27:37,239 I can't come in 987 00:27:35,488 --> 00:27:37,239 every day, Owen. 988 00:27:37,364 --> 00:27:39,283 I told Mrs. lo 989 00:27:37,364 --> 00:27:39,283 I'd come in 990 00:27:39,408 --> 00:27:41,118 one afternoon 991 00:27:39,408 --> 00:27:41,118 every week, and I will. 992 00:27:41,243 --> 00:27:42,293 I promise, ok? 993 00:27:42,328 --> 00:27:43,870 sometimes 994 00:27:42,328 --> 00:27:43,870 I'll make it 2. 995 00:27:43,996 --> 00:27:45,914 don't worry 996 00:27:43,996 --> 00:27:45,914 about me being there. 997 00:27:46,039 --> 00:27:48,417 you're gonna 998 00:27:46,039 --> 00:27:48,417 have a great day 999 00:27:46,039 --> 00:27:48,417 at school today. 1000 00:27:48,542 --> 00:27:50,503 and tonight, after we read 1001 00:27:48,542 --> 00:27:50,503 some more dinosaur... 1002 00:27:50,628 --> 00:27:52,045 Charlie'll come pick you up. 1003 00:27:52,046 --> 00:27:53,212 oh, boy. 1004 00:27:53,213 --> 00:27:54,381 oh, come on. 1005 00:27:54,507 --> 00:27:56,175 you're gonna do great 1006 00:27:54,507 --> 00:27:56,175 with Charlie. 1007 00:27:56,300 --> 00:27:58,177 I'm gonna be great 1008 00:27:56,300 --> 00:27:58,177 at school. 1009 00:27:58,302 --> 00:27:59,761 I'm gonna be great 1010 00:27:58,302 --> 00:27:59,761 with Charlie. 1011 00:27:59,886 --> 00:28:01,847 how come 1012 00:27:59,886 --> 00:28:01,847 you know so much? 1013 00:28:01,848 --> 00:28:02,930 because I'm smart, 1014 00:28:02,931 --> 00:28:04,558 like you. 1015 00:28:04,682 --> 00:28:05,732 come here. 1016 00:28:09,647 --> 00:28:10,697 go on. 1017 00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,111 hello! 1018 00:28:16,236 --> 00:28:18,238 anybody home?! 1019 00:28:18,364 --> 00:28:19,823 hey. 1020 00:28:18,364 --> 00:28:19,823 hey. 1021 00:28:19,948 --> 00:28:21,200 let me help. 1022 00:28:21,325 --> 00:28:24,203 oh! Diana. Ohh. 1023 00:28:21,325 --> 00:28:24,203 look at you, girl. 1024 00:28:24,328 --> 00:28:25,787 look at you. 1025 00:28:25,788 --> 00:28:26,954 come here. 1026 00:28:26,955 --> 00:28:28,332 (Diana coos) 1027 00:28:28,457 --> 00:28:29,507 ahh. 1028 00:28:32,961 --> 00:28:34,296 what? 1029 00:28:34,421 --> 00:28:35,922 you got my message? 1030 00:28:36,048 --> 00:28:38,133 about Daphne? 1031 00:28:38,258 --> 00:28:39,308 Charlie, i- 1032 00:28:39,385 --> 00:28:41,220 yeah, I gave her 1033 00:28:39,385 --> 00:28:41,220 another chance, 1034 00:28:41,345 --> 00:28:42,929 for herself, 1035 00:28:41,345 --> 00:28:42,929 not for me. 1036 00:28:43,055 --> 00:28:46,600 it's up to her 1037 00:28:43,055 --> 00:28:46,600 to take it or not take it. 1038 00:28:46,725 --> 00:28:48,185 but we're copacetic, 1039 00:28:46,725 --> 00:28:48,185 right, girl? 1040 00:28:49,853 --> 00:28:50,937 what's up here? 1041 00:28:51,063 --> 00:28:53,566 Kirsten around? 1042 00:28:53,691 --> 00:28:57,361 i-i think 1043 00:28:53,691 --> 00:28:57,361 she figured that you'd 1044 00:28:53,691 --> 00:28:57,361 be back with Daphne. 1045 00:28:57,486 --> 00:28:58,904 that's what 1046 00:28:57,486 --> 00:28:58,904 you told her. 1047 00:29:01,198 --> 00:29:04,618 well, she just figured 1048 00:29:01,198 --> 00:29:04,618 she'd go and make room 1049 00:29:01,198 --> 00:29:04,618 for everyone. 1050 00:29:04,743 --> 00:29:07,120 she went back 1051 00:29:04,743 --> 00:29:07,120 to her folks in Chicago. 1052 00:29:07,246 --> 00:29:08,296 ppfft. Chicago. 1053 00:29:08,330 --> 00:29:10,708 but she left 1054 00:29:08,330 --> 00:29:10,708 a note for you. 1055 00:29:10,832 --> 00:29:12,125 I put it upstairs. 1056 00:29:12,251 --> 00:29:14,920 she said that you 1057 00:29:12,251 --> 00:29:14,920 could call her for sure. 1058 00:29:15,045 --> 00:29:16,755 ok. 1059 00:29:25,174 --> 00:29:27,181 Where's Julia? 1060 00:29:27,182 --> 00:29:28,232 what? Oh. 1061 00:29:28,267 --> 00:29:30,310 I told her 1062 00:29:28,267 --> 00:29:30,310 not to come. 1063 00:29:30,436 --> 00:29:33,188 uh-huh. 1064 00:29:33,313 --> 00:29:34,898 I think that's a mistake. 1065 00:29:35,023 --> 00:29:36,316 I think that, uh... 1066 00:29:36,442 --> 00:29:38,569 you should be 1067 00:29:36,442 --> 00:29:38,569 dealing with this together. 1068 00:29:38,694 --> 00:29:40,279 no, I don't think so. 1069 00:29:40,404 --> 00:29:42,740 I mean, 1070 00:29:40,404 --> 00:29:42,740 a lot of this stuff... 1071 00:29:42,864 --> 00:29:46,410 I just-i just 1072 00:29:42,864 --> 00:29:46,410 don't think she needs 1073 00:29:42,864 --> 00:29:46,410 to hear everything, ok, 1074 00:29:46,535 --> 00:29:48,328 all this crap 1075 00:29:46,535 --> 00:29:48,328 you drag out. 1076 00:29:48,329 --> 00:29:49,412 it's difficult. 1077 00:29:49,413 --> 00:29:50,914 huh? 1078 00:29:51,039 --> 00:29:52,291 and it's embarrassing. 1079 00:29:52,416 --> 00:29:54,042 but the two of you- 1080 00:29:54,167 --> 00:29:56,378 look, she's part 1081 00:29:54,167 --> 00:29:56,378 of the problem, ok? 1082 00:29:56,503 --> 00:29:59,172 she makes me get angry. 1083 00:29:56,503 --> 00:29:59,172 I told you that. 1084 00:29:59,298 --> 00:30:00,966 and I don't 1085 00:29:59,298 --> 00:30:00,966 need her here- 1086 00:30:01,091 --> 00:30:02,259 come off it, ned. 1087 00:30:02,384 --> 00:30:03,434 what? 1088 00:30:03,469 --> 00:30:04,720 you gonna stand there 1089 00:30:04,844 --> 00:30:07,640 and tell me you hit her 1090 00:30:04,844 --> 00:30:07,640 because of what she does? 1091 00:30:07,765 --> 00:30:10,684 come on. It's just 1092 00:30:07,765 --> 00:30:10,684 the two of us now. 1093 00:30:10,809 --> 00:30:12,561 this has nothing 1094 00:30:10,809 --> 00:30:12,561 to do with her. 1095 00:30:12,686 --> 00:30:13,736 it's you! 1096 00:30:13,812 --> 00:30:16,148 you hit because 1097 00:30:13,812 --> 00:30:16,148 you're a hitter. 1098 00:30:16,273 --> 00:30:17,941 how the hell 1099 00:30:16,273 --> 00:30:17,941 do you know? 1100 00:30:18,066 --> 00:30:20,235 you don't know anything 1101 00:30:18,066 --> 00:30:20,235 about her or me or us. 1102 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,613 have you ever hit 1103 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,613 anyone else? 1104 00:30:22,738 --> 00:30:24,072 if it's Julia, 1105 00:30:24,197 --> 00:30:27,033 if Julia 1106 00:30:24,197 --> 00:30:27,033 makes you hit her, 1107 00:30:27,159 --> 00:30:29,995 then I assume that you've 1108 00:30:27,159 --> 00:30:29,995 never hit anyone else. 1109 00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:31,955 have you ever hit 1110 00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:31,955 anyone else, ned? 1111 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:33,248 I'm not doing this. 1112 00:30:33,373 --> 00:30:35,208 have you ever 1113 00:30:33,373 --> 00:30:35,208 hurt anyone, ned? 1114 00:30:35,334 --> 00:30:37,210 I mean really hurt 1115 00:30:35,334 --> 00:30:37,210 someone? 1116 00:30:37,336 --> 00:30:38,587 no. 1117 00:30:38,712 --> 00:30:40,213 well, do you think 1118 00:30:38,712 --> 00:30:40,213 that's impossible? 1119 00:30:40,339 --> 00:30:42,341 do you want to know 1120 00:30:40,339 --> 00:30:42,341 the statistics 1121 00:30:42,466 --> 00:30:43,842 on beaters 1122 00:30:42,466 --> 00:30:43,842 who put their wives 1123 00:30:43,967 --> 00:30:45,302 or their girlfriends 1124 00:30:43,967 --> 00:30:45,302 in the hospital? 1125 00:30:45,427 --> 00:30:46,512 just cut it out. 1126 00:30:46,637 --> 00:30:48,263 do you love her? 1127 00:30:48,388 --> 00:30:51,975 do you want her 1128 00:30:48,388 --> 00:30:51,975 to end up with a broken nose 1129 00:30:48,388 --> 00:30:51,975 or a broken arm? 1130 00:30:52,100 --> 00:30:55,145 or maybe things really 1131 00:30:52,100 --> 00:30:55,145 get out of control one time 1132 00:30:55,270 --> 00:30:57,022 with a concussion 1133 00:30:55,270 --> 00:30:57,022 or worse. 1134 00:31:04,321 --> 00:31:06,490 No. 1135 00:31:08,158 --> 00:31:11,119 then let's sit down 1136 00:31:08,158 --> 00:31:11,119 and talk about what you do. 1137 00:31:15,791 --> 00:31:17,292 (plucking strings) 1138 00:31:21,380 --> 00:31:23,507 baby still sleeping? 1139 00:31:23,632 --> 00:31:24,924 yeah. 1140 00:31:25,050 --> 00:31:26,844 traveling really 1141 00:31:25,050 --> 00:31:26,844 knocked her out. 1142 00:31:26,968 --> 00:31:28,220 Griffin: Hey, Claudia. 1143 00:31:28,345 --> 00:31:30,180 hey, I'm going 1144 00:31:28,345 --> 00:31:30,180 to the market. 1145 00:31:30,305 --> 00:31:32,015 I didn't know 1146 00:31:30,305 --> 00:31:32,015 if you wanted... 1147 00:31:32,140 --> 00:31:34,601 hey, Charlie. 1148 00:31:34,727 --> 00:31:36,144 what are you 1149 00:31:34,727 --> 00:31:36,144 doing here? 1150 00:31:36,269 --> 00:31:39,398 what? 1151 00:31:39,523 --> 00:31:42,108 man, don't you have 1152 00:31:39,523 --> 00:31:42,108 any sense of when 1153 00:31:39,523 --> 00:31:42,108 it's time to go? 1154 00:31:42,234 --> 00:31:44,778 you heard 1155 00:31:42,234 --> 00:31:44,778 about what happened. 1156 00:31:42,234 --> 00:31:44,778 I didn't- 1157 00:31:44,903 --> 00:31:47,531 pack your bags 1158 00:31:44,903 --> 00:31:47,531 and get out. 1159 00:31:47,656 --> 00:31:49,157 and leave 1160 00:31:47,656 --> 00:31:49,157 Julia alone. 1161 00:31:49,282 --> 00:31:51,243 listen, Charlie, 1162 00:31:49,282 --> 00:31:51,243 it's-it's kind of 1163 00:31:49,282 --> 00:31:51,243 complicated. 1164 00:31:51,368 --> 00:31:53,704 no, no, claud. 1165 00:31:51,368 --> 00:31:53,704 everything else in my life 1166 00:31:51,368 --> 00:31:53,704 is complicated, ok? 1167 00:31:53,829 --> 00:31:55,372 this is real simple. 1168 00:31:55,497 --> 00:31:57,165 Charlie- you beat up 1169 00:31:55,497 --> 00:31:57,165 my sister's boyfriend. 1170 00:31:57,290 --> 00:31:58,667 now get your stuff 1171 00:31:58,792 --> 00:31:59,842 and get out. 1172 00:32:01,545 --> 00:32:03,714 I was just gonna say 1173 00:32:01,545 --> 00:32:03,714 that you're right. 1174 00:32:17,728 --> 00:32:19,521 That one's 1175 00:32:17,728 --> 00:32:19,521 got trees, too? 1176 00:32:19,646 --> 00:32:20,696 mm-hmm. 1177 00:32:20,731 --> 00:32:21,781 nice. 1178 00:32:40,292 --> 00:32:41,342 Sarah... 1179 00:32:44,212 --> 00:32:47,591 why does Charlie 1180 00:32:44,212 --> 00:32:47,591 have to be the one 1181 00:32:44,212 --> 00:32:47,591 to raise Owen? 1182 00:32:47,716 --> 00:32:48,884 to be his father? 1183 00:32:52,512 --> 00:32:54,180 I'm thinking 1184 00:32:52,512 --> 00:32:54,180 of keeping Owen. 1185 00:32:54,306 --> 00:32:55,933 uh... 1186 00:32:56,057 --> 00:32:58,310 i-i don't think I... 1187 00:32:58,435 --> 00:33:00,270 like keep, raise him? 1188 00:33:00,395 --> 00:33:01,730 Charlie's 1189 00:33:00,395 --> 00:33:01,730 not his father. 1190 00:33:01,855 --> 00:33:03,732 he's his brother, 1191 00:33:01,855 --> 00:33:03,732 like I am. 1192 00:33:03,857 --> 00:33:06,485 yeah, but isn't he 1193 00:33:03,857 --> 00:33:06,485 his legal guardian? 1194 00:33:03,857 --> 00:33:06,485 I mean, isn't that- 1195 00:33:06,610 --> 00:33:07,986 he's his legal guardian 1196 00:33:08,111 --> 00:33:10,656 because 1197 00:33:08,111 --> 00:33:10,656 when we all decided, 1198 00:33:08,111 --> 00:33:10,656 I was 16 years old, 1199 00:33:10,781 --> 00:33:12,699 but a lot has changed 1200 00:33:10,781 --> 00:33:12,699 since then. 1201 00:33:12,825 --> 00:33:15,702 I'm older now, and- 1202 00:33:12,825 --> 00:33:15,702 and taking care of Owen 1203 00:33:15,828 --> 00:33:18,497 is suddenly 1204 00:33:15,828 --> 00:33:18,497 a bigger deal, 1205 00:33:15,828 --> 00:33:18,497 a lot of work. 1206 00:33:18,622 --> 00:33:19,672 but Charlie... 1207 00:33:19,790 --> 00:33:21,750 Charlie's got Diana now, 1208 00:33:21,875 --> 00:33:23,335 and with Daphne 1209 00:33:21,875 --> 00:33:23,335 coming back, 1210 00:33:23,460 --> 00:33:25,921 he's gonna be more 1211 00:33:23,460 --> 00:33:25,921 into his own thing 1212 00:33:23,460 --> 00:33:25,921 than ever. 1213 00:33:26,045 --> 00:33:27,965 Bailey, having Owen 1214 00:33:26,045 --> 00:33:27,965 here full-time- 1215 00:33:28,089 --> 00:33:30,634 have you-have you thought 1216 00:33:28,089 --> 00:33:30,634 about what it means? 1217 00:33:30,759 --> 00:33:32,594 do you know 1218 00:33:30,759 --> 00:33:32,594 what it means to me? 1219 00:33:32,719 --> 00:33:34,220 you don't. 1220 00:33:34,346 --> 00:33:37,390 you don't, 1221 00:33:34,346 --> 00:33:37,390 because I'm just 1222 00:33:34,346 --> 00:33:37,390 realizing it myself. 1223 00:33:37,516 --> 00:33:39,685 it's about knowing 1224 00:33:37,516 --> 00:33:39,685 that I can be the one 1225 00:33:39,810 --> 00:33:41,311 that makes a difference 1226 00:33:39,810 --> 00:33:41,311 for him. 1227 00:33:41,436 --> 00:33:42,896 I can make 1228 00:33:41,436 --> 00:33:42,896 the difference 1229 00:33:43,021 --> 00:33:44,898 between him 1230 00:33:43,021 --> 00:33:44,898 growing up and doing 1231 00:33:43,021 --> 00:33:44,898 anything he wants 1232 00:33:45,064 --> 00:33:47,609 or always struggling, 1233 00:33:47,734 --> 00:33:50,236 being behind 1234 00:33:47,734 --> 00:33:50,236 other people. 1235 00:33:50,362 --> 00:33:53,031 how do I not be there 1236 00:33:50,362 --> 00:33:53,031 for him, Sarah? 1237 00:33:58,954 --> 00:34:00,205 It's nice. 1238 00:34:00,330 --> 00:34:02,916 yeah. I think- 1239 00:34:00,330 --> 00:34:02,916 I think it's pretty good. 1240 00:34:03,041 --> 00:34:05,210 I mean, it's not 1241 00:34:03,041 --> 00:34:05,210 amazing or anything, 1242 00:34:05,335 --> 00:34:06,962 but we can afford it, 1243 00:34:07,086 --> 00:34:09,965 and, uh, 1244 00:34:07,086 --> 00:34:09,965 there's enough space 1245 00:34:07,086 --> 00:34:09,965 we can both work 1246 00:34:10,089 --> 00:34:12,759 and not climb all over 1247 00:34:10,089 --> 00:34:12,759 each other's backs. 1248 00:34:16,638 --> 00:34:18,348 the kitchen's 1249 00:34:16,638 --> 00:34:18,348 not so terrible. 1250 00:34:18,473 --> 00:34:20,642 I said it was nice. 1251 00:34:20,767 --> 00:34:22,185 come. 1252 00:34:22,310 --> 00:34:23,687 uh, sit. 1253 00:34:23,812 --> 00:34:26,648 sit, uh, 1254 00:34:23,812 --> 00:34:26,648 sit right here. 1255 00:34:26,773 --> 00:34:27,858 look around. 1256 00:34:30,151 --> 00:34:33,196 it feel big from 1257 00:34:30,151 --> 00:34:33,196 this perspective? 1258 00:34:33,321 --> 00:34:34,447 it feels... 1259 00:34:34,573 --> 00:34:35,623 like our place? 1260 00:34:36,610 --> 00:34:38,701 yeah. 1261 00:34:38,702 --> 00:34:40,078 it kind of does. 1262 00:34:40,203 --> 00:34:42,247 this is gonna be good. 1263 00:34:42,372 --> 00:34:44,041 this is what we needed, 1264 00:34:44,165 --> 00:34:47,836 just to get away 1265 00:34:44,165 --> 00:34:47,836 from all those 1266 00:34:44,165 --> 00:34:47,836 other pressures. 1267 00:34:47,961 --> 00:34:50,171 yeah. It'll be fun 1268 00:34:47,961 --> 00:34:50,171 to do this place. 1269 00:34:50,296 --> 00:34:52,758 you're perfect for me. 1270 00:34:52,883 --> 00:34:54,051 I mean it. 1271 00:34:54,175 --> 00:34:55,761 I love you. 1272 00:34:55,886 --> 00:34:59,472 and even with 1273 00:34:55,886 --> 00:34:59,472 all the bad stuff 1274 00:34:55,886 --> 00:34:59,472 that's between us, 1275 00:34:59,598 --> 00:35:00,891 it's really... 1276 00:35:01,016 --> 00:35:03,351 you're the only person 1277 00:35:01,016 --> 00:35:03,351 I can talk to. 1278 00:35:03,476 --> 00:35:05,437 I know. 1279 00:35:05,562 --> 00:35:07,814 can't talk 1280 00:35:05,562 --> 00:35:07,814 to that other guy, 1281 00:35:05,562 --> 00:35:07,814 that therapist guy. 1282 00:35:07,940 --> 00:35:09,482 ned- 1283 00:35:07,940 --> 00:35:09,482 no, I mean it. 1284 00:35:09,608 --> 00:35:11,693 he makes me feel 1285 00:35:09,608 --> 00:35:11,693 like I'm a criminal, 1286 00:35:11,818 --> 00:35:13,236 like I'm evil 1287 00:35:11,818 --> 00:35:13,236 or something. 1288 00:35:13,237 --> 00:35:14,403 no, that's not- 1289 00:35:14,404 --> 00:35:15,906 no, I'm telling you, 1290 00:35:16,031 --> 00:35:19,117 he can't just say, 1291 00:35:16,031 --> 00:35:19,117 "what do you two 1292 00:35:16,031 --> 00:35:19,117 fight about?" 1293 00:35:19,242 --> 00:35:22,079 it's always, 1294 00:35:19,242 --> 00:35:22,079 "let's find out what's 1295 00:35:19,242 --> 00:35:22,079 wrong with you." 1296 00:35:22,203 --> 00:35:25,082 "let's find out what's 1297 00:35:22,203 --> 00:35:25,082 really wrong with you." 1298 00:35:25,206 --> 00:35:27,834 do you think 1299 00:35:25,206 --> 00:35:27,834 there's something 1300 00:35:25,206 --> 00:35:27,834 really wrong with me? 1301 00:35:29,461 --> 00:35:31,379 no. 1302 00:35:31,504 --> 00:35:34,007 and then I just feel... 1303 00:35:34,132 --> 00:35:35,926 I don't know, ashamed... 1304 00:35:36,051 --> 00:35:37,260 and angry. 1305 00:35:37,385 --> 00:35:39,638 I mean, why is that 1306 00:35:37,385 --> 00:35:39,638 a good thing? 1307 00:35:39,763 --> 00:35:41,807 I mean, that just 1308 00:35:39,763 --> 00:35:41,807 makes it worse. 1309 00:35:41,932 --> 00:35:44,350 I'm supposed to try 1310 00:35:41,932 --> 00:35:44,350 not to be angry. 1311 00:35:44,476 --> 00:35:46,770 angry is exactly what 1312 00:35:44,476 --> 00:35:46,770 I'm trying to avoid. 1313 00:35:46,895 --> 00:35:48,021 right. 1314 00:35:48,146 --> 00:35:51,274 but if I'm here 1315 00:35:48,146 --> 00:35:51,274 with you... 1316 00:35:51,399 --> 00:35:52,484 (sighs) 1317 00:35:53,902 --> 00:35:55,445 so here's 1318 00:35:53,902 --> 00:35:55,445 what I'm thinking. 1319 00:35:55,570 --> 00:35:57,530 we put one desk 1320 00:35:55,570 --> 00:35:57,530 in the bedroom 1321 00:35:57,656 --> 00:36:00,241 and one desk out here 1322 00:35:57,656 --> 00:36:00,241 in the living room, 1323 00:36:00,366 --> 00:36:03,787 or we could put both desks 1324 00:36:00,366 --> 00:36:03,787 out here in the living room, 1325 00:36:03,912 --> 00:36:06,372 and then you could choose 1326 00:36:03,912 --> 00:36:06,372 which wall you want. 1327 00:36:06,498 --> 00:36:08,333 so which wall 1328 00:36:06,498 --> 00:36:08,333 do you want? 1329 00:36:08,458 --> 00:36:09,626 oh, I don't know. 1330 00:36:13,630 --> 00:36:14,680 that one, I guess. 1331 00:36:15,924 --> 00:36:16,974 good. 1332 00:36:19,928 --> 00:36:20,978 good. 1333 00:36:30,015 --> 00:36:31,981 Charlie. 1334 00:36:31,982 --> 00:36:32,731 hey. 1335 00:36:32,732 --> 00:36:32,731 hi. 1336 00:36:32,732 --> 00:36:33,732 hi. 1337 00:36:33,733 --> 00:36:34,775 how you doing? 1338 00:36:34,776 --> 00:36:36,736 I mean, 1339 00:36:34,776 --> 00:36:36,736 are you doing ok? 1340 00:36:36,862 --> 00:36:38,947 'cause I heard that 1341 00:36:36,862 --> 00:36:38,947 Daphne's coming back. 1342 00:36:39,072 --> 00:36:40,448 no, that's, uh... 1343 00:36:40,573 --> 00:36:41,658 that's not happening 1344 00:36:40,573 --> 00:36:41,658 actually, 1345 00:36:41,659 --> 00:36:42,783 at all. 1346 00:36:42,784 --> 00:36:43,869 oh. 1347 00:36:43,994 --> 00:36:45,411 what's not happening? 1348 00:36:45,537 --> 00:36:48,289 Daphne. Decided that she, 1349 00:36:45,537 --> 00:36:48,289 uh, she couldn't hack it, 1350 00:36:48,414 --> 00:36:51,292 made up her mind 1351 00:36:48,414 --> 00:36:51,292 that she couldn't hack it, 1352 00:36:51,417 --> 00:36:54,046 that she was gonna fail. 1353 00:36:51,417 --> 00:36:54,046 it's-it's a long story. 1354 00:36:54,171 --> 00:36:55,922 so sit. Tell it. 1355 00:36:56,048 --> 00:36:58,383 actually, no. 1356 00:36:56,048 --> 00:36:58,383 she, uh, she didn't come home 1357 00:36:56,048 --> 00:36:58,383 is the thing, 1358 00:36:58,508 --> 00:37:00,635 which means I gotta 1359 00:36:58,508 --> 00:37:00,635 get back to Diana now. 1360 00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:02,804 Claudia's got her, 1361 00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:02,804 and of course Claudia 1362 00:37:02,929 --> 00:37:04,681 would rather do Diana 1363 00:37:02,929 --> 00:37:04,681 than do her homework, so... 1364 00:37:04,806 --> 00:37:06,599 did you pack up 1365 00:37:04,806 --> 00:37:06,599 Owen's stuff? Owen! 1366 00:37:06,725 --> 00:37:09,561 wait. Hey, he's- 1367 00:37:06,725 --> 00:37:09,561 hey, he's-he's conked. 1368 00:37:06,725 --> 00:37:09,561 he's asleep. 1369 00:37:11,563 --> 00:37:13,398 well, he's asleep, man. 1370 00:37:11,563 --> 00:37:13,398 you know, why- 1371 00:37:13,523 --> 00:37:15,567 why get him up? 1372 00:37:13,523 --> 00:37:15,567 kids need their sleep. 1373 00:37:15,692 --> 00:37:17,819 right. So you don't 1374 00:37:15,692 --> 00:37:17,819 have to wake him up. 1375 00:37:17,944 --> 00:37:19,863 I'll just-I'll just 1376 00:37:17,944 --> 00:37:19,863 carry him out to the truck. 1377 00:37:19,988 --> 00:37:21,740 that's a mistake. 1378 00:37:21,865 --> 00:37:24,868 it's a mistake 1379 00:37:21,865 --> 00:37:24,868 because we had to do 1380 00:37:21,865 --> 00:37:24,868 all this work tonight, 1381 00:37:24,993 --> 00:37:26,912 and he'll wake up 1382 00:37:24,993 --> 00:37:26,912 exhausted, 1383 00:37:27,037 --> 00:37:29,206 and then school 1384 00:37:27,037 --> 00:37:29,206 will be even harder 1385 00:37:27,037 --> 00:37:29,206 for him tomorrow, 1386 00:37:29,330 --> 00:37:31,583 and he's gotta 1387 00:37:29,330 --> 00:37:31,583 do the same 2 hours 1388 00:37:29,330 --> 00:37:31,583 of work tomorrow night. 1389 00:37:31,708 --> 00:37:32,788 he's in kindergarten. 1390 00:37:32,876 --> 00:37:35,128 where's he getting 1391 00:37:32,876 --> 00:37:35,128 2 hours of work? 1392 00:37:35,253 --> 00:37:37,505 bay, look, thanks 1393 00:37:35,253 --> 00:37:37,505 for taking care of him, 1394 00:37:37,630 --> 00:37:39,883 but you obviously don't know 1395 00:37:37,630 --> 00:37:39,883 what you're talking about. 1396 00:37:40,008 --> 00:37:41,509 actually, Charlie... 1397 00:37:41,634 --> 00:37:43,762 I've had a couple 1398 00:37:41,634 --> 00:37:43,762 of long talks 1399 00:37:41,634 --> 00:37:43,762 with Michelle. 1400 00:37:43,887 --> 00:37:45,471 Michelle who? 1401 00:37:45,597 --> 00:37:47,265 Ms. lo, his teacher. 1402 00:37:45,597 --> 00:37:47,265 that's her name. 1403 00:37:47,390 --> 00:37:48,892 whatever. You're- 1404 00:37:47,390 --> 00:37:48,892 you're being weird, bay. 1405 00:37:49,017 --> 00:37:50,185 I'll just get him. 1406 00:37:50,309 --> 00:37:52,604 I can take him out 1407 00:37:50,309 --> 00:37:52,604 without waking him up. 1408 00:37:52,729 --> 00:37:53,980 that's- 1409 00:37:52,729 --> 00:37:53,980 that isn't possible, 1410 00:37:54,106 --> 00:37:55,815 to carry somebody 1411 00:37:54,106 --> 00:37:55,815 without waking them up. 1412 00:37:55,941 --> 00:37:58,235 what is going on 1413 00:37:55,941 --> 00:37:58,235 with you? 1414 00:37:58,359 --> 00:38:00,445 just let him sleep. 1415 00:38:00,570 --> 00:38:01,947 ok? 1416 00:38:02,072 --> 00:38:04,490 and then tomorrow, 1417 00:38:02,072 --> 00:38:04,490 you can get him 1418 00:38:02,072 --> 00:38:04,490 from school. 1419 00:38:04,616 --> 00:38:05,825 or I'll get him. 1420 00:38:05,951 --> 00:38:07,535 no. I'll get him. 1421 00:38:09,328 --> 00:38:11,081 I haven't seen him, 1422 00:38:09,328 --> 00:38:11,081 you know. 1423 00:38:14,042 --> 00:38:16,628 so, fine, 1424 00:38:14,042 --> 00:38:16,628 keep him for the night. 1425 00:38:16,753 --> 00:38:18,546 you know, Charlie, 1426 00:38:16,753 --> 00:38:18,546 you could still sit. 1427 00:38:18,671 --> 00:38:20,423 I mean, you haven't 1428 00:38:18,671 --> 00:38:20,423 seen us either. 1429 00:38:20,548 --> 00:38:23,093 thanks, but I 1430 00:38:20,548 --> 00:38:23,093 should get back 1431 00:38:20,548 --> 00:38:23,093 to the house. 1432 00:38:28,056 --> 00:38:29,682 Bailey, 1433 00:38:28,056 --> 00:38:29,682 why didn't you- 1434 00:38:29,808 --> 00:38:31,851 I know. 1435 00:38:31,977 --> 00:38:33,478 I couldn't. 1436 00:38:33,603 --> 00:38:34,653 not yet. 1437 00:38:39,234 --> 00:38:42,028 so you have to promise 1438 00:38:39,234 --> 00:38:42,028 that you'll call me 1439 00:38:42,154 --> 00:38:45,073 and give me the number 1440 00:38:42,154 --> 00:38:45,073 of where you're gonna be. 1441 00:38:45,198 --> 00:38:46,658 I'm not gonna do that. 1442 00:38:48,326 --> 00:38:49,744 yes, you are. 1443 00:38:49,869 --> 00:38:52,455 even if no one else 1444 00:38:49,869 --> 00:38:52,455 in this family 1445 00:38:52,580 --> 00:38:54,624 wants anything to do 1446 00:38:52,580 --> 00:38:54,624 with you anymore... 1447 00:38:54,749 --> 00:38:56,293 I do. 1448 00:38:56,417 --> 00:38:59,378 they've all got their own 1449 00:38:56,417 --> 00:38:59,378 stupid stuff to deal with, 1450 00:38:59,504 --> 00:39:02,966 but you care 1451 00:38:59,504 --> 00:39:02,966 about me, and... 1452 00:39:03,091 --> 00:39:05,010 I care about you. 1453 00:39:05,135 --> 00:39:07,179 I think it works 1454 00:39:05,135 --> 00:39:07,179 pretty well. 1455 00:39:08,888 --> 00:39:10,974 yeah. We do love 1456 00:39:08,888 --> 00:39:10,974 each other, but... 1457 00:39:20,608 --> 00:39:21,860 (Rings) 1458 00:39:22,437 --> 00:39:24,528 hello. 1459 00:39:24,529 --> 00:39:25,529 Mr. salinger? 1460 00:39:25,530 --> 00:39:26,823 this is Michelle? 1461 00:39:26,948 --> 00:39:29,450 uh, Ms. lo? 1462 00:39:29,451 --> 00:39:30,617 Owen's teacher. 1463 00:39:30,618 --> 00:39:32,871 yeah. Is, uh, 1464 00:39:30,618 --> 00:39:32,871 is he all right? 1465 00:39:32,996 --> 00:39:35,540 well, the psychologist 1466 00:39:32,996 --> 00:39:35,540 spent a good hour? 1467 00:39:35,665 --> 00:39:37,416 psychologist? 1468 00:39:37,542 --> 00:39:39,502 why is a psychologist 1469 00:39:37,542 --> 00:39:39,502 seeing Owen? 1470 00:39:39,627 --> 00:39:43,006 I told you this was 1471 00:39:39,627 --> 00:39:43,006 her day to swing by 1472 00:39:39,627 --> 00:39:43,006 the school, 1473 00:39:43,131 --> 00:39:45,133 and she did some 1474 00:39:43,131 --> 00:39:45,133 multisensory stuff 1475 00:39:43,131 --> 00:39:45,133 with him? 1476 00:39:45,258 --> 00:39:46,843 uh, multisensory? 1477 00:39:46,968 --> 00:39:48,887 what? 1478 00:39:49,012 --> 00:39:52,224 'cause l.D. Kids, 1479 00:39:49,012 --> 00:39:52,224 that-that's one thing 1480 00:39:49,012 --> 00:39:52,224 they have trouble with, 1481 00:39:52,349 --> 00:39:53,850 is coordinating senses? 1482 00:39:53,975 --> 00:39:56,228 are you asking me 1483 00:39:53,975 --> 00:39:56,228 or telling me? 1484 00:39:56,353 --> 00:39:58,396 look, you... 1485 00:39:56,353 --> 00:39:58,396 you gotta back up. 1486 00:39:58,521 --> 00:40:01,107 I don't even know 1487 00:39:58,521 --> 00:40:01,107 what you're talking about. 1488 00:40:01,233 --> 00:40:03,401 ok, look, I suffer 1489 00:40:01,233 --> 00:40:03,401 from upspeak, you know? 1490 00:40:03,526 --> 00:40:05,362 I can't help it? 1491 00:40:03,526 --> 00:40:05,362 it's a condition? 1492 00:40:05,486 --> 00:40:07,655 and-and in all the times 1493 00:40:05,486 --> 00:40:07,655 we've talked lately, 1494 00:40:07,780 --> 00:40:09,074 you've been 1495 00:40:07,780 --> 00:40:09,074 perfectly nice, 1496 00:40:09,199 --> 00:40:11,659 and now I don't see 1497 00:40:09,199 --> 00:40:11,659 why you're teasing me 1498 00:40:11,784 --> 00:40:13,619 about something 1499 00:40:11,784 --> 00:40:13,619 I can't help? 1500 00:40:13,745 --> 00:40:16,248 Ms. lo, this is... 1501 00:40:16,373 --> 00:40:19,625 I think you've been 1502 00:40:16,373 --> 00:40:19,625 talking to-to Owen's 1503 00:40:16,373 --> 00:40:19,625 other brother, Bailey. 1504 00:40:21,836 --> 00:40:25,298 you didn't come here 1505 00:40:21,836 --> 00:40:25,298 and-and lie on the floor? 1506 00:40:25,423 --> 00:40:26,799 what? No. No. 1507 00:40:26,925 --> 00:40:28,843 that was-that was 1508 00:40:26,925 --> 00:40:28,843 Bailey, I guess. 1509 00:40:28,968 --> 00:40:31,637 but I still 1510 00:40:28,968 --> 00:40:31,637 need to know why Owen's 1511 00:40:28,968 --> 00:40:31,637 seeing a psychologist, 1512 00:40:31,763 --> 00:40:33,181 so can you... 1513 00:40:33,306 --> 00:40:35,850 could we just start 1514 00:40:33,306 --> 00:40:35,850 at the beginning? 1515 00:40:35,975 --> 00:40:38,811 I have to say 1516 00:40:35,975 --> 00:40:38,811 I've seen people do this 1517 00:40:35,975 --> 00:40:38,811 with Chinese, 1518 00:40:38,937 --> 00:40:40,939 and I've seen people 1519 00:40:38,937 --> 00:40:40,939 do this with pizza, 1520 00:40:41,064 --> 00:40:44,025 but I've never seen 1521 00:40:41,064 --> 00:40:44,025 anyone do this with 1522 00:40:41,064 --> 00:40:44,025 Chinese and pizza. 1523 00:40:44,150 --> 00:40:45,443 hey, we're celebrating. 1524 00:40:44,150 --> 00:40:45,443 aha. 1525 00:40:45,568 --> 00:40:47,737 besides, the Chinese 1526 00:40:45,568 --> 00:40:47,737 invented pasta, 1527 00:40:45,568 --> 00:40:47,737 you know. 1528 00:40:47,862 --> 00:40:50,615 right, and I'm sure 1529 00:40:47,862 --> 00:40:50,615 that means something. 1530 00:40:50,740 --> 00:40:52,409 ok. 1531 00:40:52,533 --> 00:40:53,659 the new rule: 1532 00:40:53,785 --> 00:40:56,288 from now on, our life 1533 00:40:53,785 --> 00:40:56,288 is our business, 1534 00:40:56,413 --> 00:40:57,830 our business 1535 00:40:56,413 --> 00:40:57,830 and nobody else's. 1536 00:40:57,956 --> 00:40:59,791 meaning? 1537 00:40:59,916 --> 00:41:02,961 meaning my family's 1538 00:40:59,916 --> 00:41:02,961 never been anything 1539 00:40:59,916 --> 00:41:02,961 but a big, big hassle, 1540 00:41:02,962 --> 00:41:04,128 and your family... 1541 00:41:04,129 --> 00:41:05,922 your family's 1542 00:41:04,129 --> 00:41:05,922 even worse. 1543 00:41:06,047 --> 00:41:07,424 oh, really? 1544 00:41:09,050 --> 00:41:10,100 ok. 1545 00:41:10,176 --> 00:41:12,262 "no family" 1546 00:41:10,176 --> 00:41:12,262 sounds like a good plan. 1547 00:41:12,387 --> 00:41:13,846 no anybody. 1548 00:41:13,972 --> 00:41:16,099 no Maggie. No ray. 1549 00:41:16,224 --> 00:41:17,976 no nobody but us. 1550 00:41:18,101 --> 00:41:19,936 if we have stuff 1551 00:41:18,101 --> 00:41:19,936 to talk about, 1552 00:41:20,061 --> 00:41:21,687 then we talk 1553 00:41:20,061 --> 00:41:21,687 to each other. 1554 00:41:21,813 --> 00:41:24,690 if we have a problem, 1555 00:41:21,813 --> 00:41:24,690 then we deal 1556 00:41:21,813 --> 00:41:24,690 with each other. 1557 00:41:24,816 --> 00:41:27,860 everyone else can mind 1558 00:41:24,816 --> 00:41:27,860 their own beeswax. 1559 00:41:27,986 --> 00:41:29,946 all right. 1560 00:41:30,071 --> 00:41:31,406 to the new plan. 1561 00:41:31,530 --> 00:41:32,865 the new plan. 1562 00:41:34,826 --> 00:41:38,246 pass the kung pao 1563 00:41:34,826 --> 00:41:38,246 and the pepperoni please. 1564 00:41:39,705 --> 00:41:41,124 thank you. 1565 00:41:43,918 --> 00:41:45,337 Bailey! 1566 00:41:45,462 --> 00:41:46,754 great! 1567 00:41:46,879 --> 00:41:47,929 how's my man? 1568 00:41:47,964 --> 00:41:49,507 led the pledge 1569 00:41:47,964 --> 00:41:49,507 allegiance today. 1570 00:41:49,632 --> 00:41:50,682 yeah? 1571 00:41:50,758 --> 00:41:52,302 didn't forget 1572 00:41:50,758 --> 00:41:52,302 any of it. 1573 00:41:52,427 --> 00:41:53,477 that's excellent. 1574 00:41:53,511 --> 00:41:55,013 how come you came 1575 00:41:53,511 --> 00:41:55,013 anyway, Bailey? 1576 00:41:55,138 --> 00:41:56,348 yeah. 1577 00:41:55,138 --> 00:41:56,348 good question. 1578 00:41:56,473 --> 00:41:57,807 didn't figure we'd 1579 00:41:56,473 --> 00:41:57,807 see you here today. 1580 00:41:57,932 --> 00:41:59,517 no, I know. 1581 00:41:59,642 --> 00:42:01,686 it's good, 1582 00:41:59,642 --> 00:42:01,686 'cause we need to talk 1583 00:41:59,642 --> 00:42:01,686 about the, uh... 1584 00:42:01,811 --> 00:42:03,062 (low) 1585 00:42:01,811 --> 00:42:03,062 testing and so forth. 1586 00:42:03,188 --> 00:42:04,856 you don't need 1587 00:42:03,188 --> 00:42:04,856 to lower your voice. 1588 00:42:04,981 --> 00:42:07,275 Owen and I have talked 1589 00:42:04,981 --> 00:42:07,275 about it already, right? 1590 00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:10,445 how the school thinks 1591 00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:10,445 his mind works differently 1592 00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:10,445 than other kids, 1593 00:42:10,569 --> 00:42:11,904 handles words and sounds 1594 00:42:10,569 --> 00:42:11,904 differently. 1595 00:42:12,030 --> 00:42:13,406 whoa, whoa. 1596 00:42:12,030 --> 00:42:13,406 wait a minute. 1597 00:42:13,531 --> 00:42:15,158 I've been away 1598 00:42:13,531 --> 00:42:15,158 a few days, 1599 00:42:15,283 --> 00:42:17,076 and you're deciding 1600 00:42:15,283 --> 00:42:17,076 that Owen's this 1601 00:42:15,283 --> 00:42:17,076 and he's that, 1602 00:42:17,202 --> 00:42:18,619 and you're talking 1603 00:42:17,202 --> 00:42:18,619 to him about it 1604 00:42:18,744 --> 00:42:20,205 without even me having 1605 00:42:18,744 --> 00:42:20,205 any idea what's up? 1606 00:42:20,330 --> 00:42:22,332 well, we can talk 1607 00:42:20,330 --> 00:42:22,332 about it, Charlie. 1608 00:42:22,457 --> 00:42:24,959 listen, Ms. lo 1609 00:42:22,457 --> 00:42:24,959 filled me in 1610 00:42:22,457 --> 00:42:24,959 this afternoon 1611 00:42:25,084 --> 00:42:27,379 on what she- 1612 00:42:25,084 --> 00:42:27,379 what she thinks, 1613 00:42:27,504 --> 00:42:30,256 the diagnosis 1614 00:42:27,504 --> 00:42:30,256 of a perfectly nice 1615 00:42:27,504 --> 00:42:30,256 22-year-old 1616 00:42:30,382 --> 00:42:31,883 with almost zero 1617 00:42:30,382 --> 00:42:31,883 teaching experience. 1618 00:42:32,008 --> 00:42:34,386 so, you're an expert now? 1619 00:42:34,511 --> 00:42:36,679 I don't have to be. 1620 00:42:34,511 --> 00:42:36,679 I'm his parent. 1621 00:42:36,804 --> 00:42:38,223 it's my responsibility. 1622 00:42:38,348 --> 00:42:39,807 Owen is 1623 00:42:38,348 --> 00:42:39,807 my responsibility. 1624 00:42:39,932 --> 00:42:42,852 well, maybe 1625 00:42:39,932 --> 00:42:42,852 he should be mine. 1626 00:42:48,691 --> 00:42:50,943 Look, I'm... 1627 00:42:51,069 --> 00:42:52,278 I'm not hearing this. 1628 00:42:52,404 --> 00:42:53,530 let's go, Owen. 1629 00:42:52,404 --> 00:42:53,530 come on. 1630 00:42:56,782 --> 00:42:59,618 you're gonna hear this, 1631 00:42:56,782 --> 00:42:59,618 Charlie. 1632 00:42:59,744 --> 00:43:01,787 Charlie, listen to me. 1633 00:43:01,913 --> 00:43:04,416 this-this l.D. That he has, 1634 00:43:01,913 --> 00:43:04,416 possibly dyslexia, 1635 00:43:04,541 --> 00:43:06,376 I may have had that 1636 00:43:04,541 --> 00:43:06,376 my whole life, 1637 00:43:06,501 --> 00:43:08,503 and I can help him 1638 00:43:06,501 --> 00:43:08,503 with it. 1639 00:43:08,627 --> 00:43:10,505 they're talking about 1640 00:43:08,627 --> 00:43:10,505 3 hours of work every night. 1641 00:43:10,629 --> 00:43:13,091 you know what? 1642 00:43:10,629 --> 00:43:13,091 I did it all this week, 1643 00:43:10,629 --> 00:43:13,091 Owen and me, 1644 00:43:13,216 --> 00:43:14,300 and it was great. 1645 00:43:14,426 --> 00:43:15,476 I want him, Charlie. 1646 00:43:15,552 --> 00:43:17,136 I want Owen 1647 00:43:15,552 --> 00:43:17,136 to come live with me, 1648 00:43:17,262 --> 00:43:19,722 and I want 1649 00:43:17,262 --> 00:43:19,722 to be in charge of him, 1650 00:43:17,262 --> 00:43:19,722 responsible from now on. 1651 00:43:19,847 --> 00:43:21,474 you can't be serious. 1652 00:43:21,599 --> 00:43:23,768 well, give me one reason 1653 00:43:21,599 --> 00:43:23,768 why not, why I can't be. 1654 00:43:23,893 --> 00:43:25,144 you were 1655 00:43:23,893 --> 00:43:25,144 baby-sitting him, 1656 00:43:23,893 --> 00:43:25,144 Bailey. 1657 00:43:25,270 --> 00:43:27,063 you had him 1658 00:43:25,270 --> 00:43:27,063 for a couple of days. 1659 00:43:27,188 --> 00:43:29,774 you don't think I'd know 1660 00:43:27,188 --> 00:43:29,774 if there was something 1661 00:43:27,188 --> 00:43:29,774 wrong with him, huh? 1662 00:43:29,899 --> 00:43:32,318 look, I'll take him in 1663 00:43:29,899 --> 00:43:32,318 for the testing now that 1664 00:43:29,899 --> 00:43:32,318 they think that- 1665 00:43:32,444 --> 00:43:34,195 no, but you won't 1666 00:43:32,444 --> 00:43:34,195 do what I would do. 1667 00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:35,572 you- 1668 00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:35,572 you have a baby, 1669 00:43:35,696 --> 00:43:36,896 and you've got Claudia, 1670 00:43:36,989 --> 00:43:38,366 and you've got 1671 00:43:36,989 --> 00:43:38,366 a job that doesn't pay 1672 00:43:38,491 --> 00:43:39,617 and nobody 1673 00:43:38,491 --> 00:43:39,617 to help you out, 1674 00:43:39,742 --> 00:43:41,619 so don't say 1675 00:43:39,742 --> 00:43:41,619 that you would do it, 1676 00:43:41,744 --> 00:43:43,538 that you'd sit with him 1677 00:43:41,744 --> 00:43:43,538 for the 3 hours, 1678 00:43:43,539 --> 00:43:43,661 because that's 1679 00:43:43,662 --> 00:43:44,704 what it takes. 1680 00:43:44,705 --> 00:43:45,915 you think 1681 00:43:44,705 --> 00:43:45,915 I can't do it? 1682 00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:47,125 I think 1683 00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:47,125 I can do it better. 1684 00:43:47,250 --> 00:43:49,085 and if you want 1685 00:43:47,250 --> 00:43:49,085 what's best for Owen, 1686 00:43:49,210 --> 00:43:50,587 then you 1687 00:43:49,210 --> 00:43:50,587 would admit that. 1688 00:43:50,711 --> 00:43:52,464 if I want what's best 1689 00:43:50,711 --> 00:43:52,464 for Owen? 1690 00:43:54,924 --> 00:43:57,009 who do you think 1691 00:43:54,924 --> 00:43:57,009 you are, man? 1692 00:43:58,719 --> 00:43:59,887 I want him, Charlie. 1693 00:44:00,012 --> 00:44:01,062 that's it. 1694 00:44:01,091 --> 00:44:03,023 I want him. 1695 00:44:03,024 --> 00:44:07,574 Repair and Synchronization by Easy Subtitles Synchronizer 1.0.0.0 96430

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