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Some of the world's
top trauma specialists
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have proven that our brains
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may forget the traumas we survive...
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but our bodies,
especially our nervous systems,
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always keep score.
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BP's dropping.
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Can you mobilize the liver better?
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It's the IVC. Clamp.
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What?
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No, I need a clamp!
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Maybe you should've thought of that
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before skipping out on community service.
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- We've got it.
- But I...
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- Let's get two units of blood.
- I'm on it.
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We need distal and proximal control.
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- Clamp.
- Let's do total vascular exclusion.
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Mom.
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I don't feel good.
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Me either, ZoZo.
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Memories are stored
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in our shoulders, spines,
stomach, or hands,
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without us ever knowing.
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It was one of the worst fires
I've ever seen.
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Smoke was so thick...
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and the roof... it wouldn't hold...
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It was...
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Is that your way of telling me
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I'm taking Tuck to school today?
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Isn't he in college yet?
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Ben.
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Ben, I have to
talk to you about something.
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Go ahead. I'm just, uh,
you know, I'm measuring the bed.
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Okay.
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Uh... here I go.
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I... am...
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We...
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We... are...
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pregnant.
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We assume a painful backache
or a shaky hand
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is something harmless, random.
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But it could be more.
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Ellis, eat your cereal.
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Where's your orange vest?
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No orange vest today.
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The mean judge is making
Mommy go to court
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because she's missed so much work.
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So I cannot be late. Hey, Zola.
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Is your head still hurting you?
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My eyes, too.
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Really?
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Oh. Okay, sweetie.
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It might be our bodies reminding us
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of what we've endured
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and warning us not to let it
happen again.
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Eyes on the road there, Doctor.
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Gemma. You're in awful early.
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I could say you're out awful late.
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No, all night surgery.
I cannot wait to crawl into bed.
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Oh, and to think
I was gonna get my paycheck
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and then take you to breakfast.
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Um, I should probably...
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Richard Webber, if the second
half of that sentence
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isn't "Grab a stack
of pancakes with you,"
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I don't want to hear it.
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I am hungry.
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Okay. Stay right here. Don't go anywhere.
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Okay, Mr. Wilkerson
is stable this morning,
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post-op day 1 from his ACDF,
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and you also have an aneurysm
coiling this afternoon.
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And how are we getting your girlfriend
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to undo the mountain of damage
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she did with her article?
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Well, you'll have to ask her.
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Oh, I see. You think
I put you on my service
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because of all the promise I see in you.
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I don't. But I do think
you could talk her
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into suing that website for libel.
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Maybe you could withhold sex
until she cracks?
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Yeah, that's not going to work.
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What? What? The sex not good enough?
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Are you two on the rocks?
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Tom.
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- I need a CT for my daughter.
- What's wrong?
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She's been vomiting
and she has a headache.
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Well, it sounds like the flu.
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She also has a VP shunt for spina bifida.
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So I need you to get her in
right away, please.
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- Okay.
- All right.
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Hey, Zola. Not feeling well?
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I read that hyperbaric chambers
were invented
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before oxygen was even discovered.
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A British doctor in 1662
used organ bellows
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to hand-pump air into an enclosed space.
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So cool, right?
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I mean, terrible that our
patient needs it.
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But since she does... So cool.
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What do you need?
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Carly Davis, 46-year-old female,
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possible suicide attempt,
carbon monoxide poisoning.
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Hoping a 90-minute dive in the chamber
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can revive her,
although it might take longer.
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I know her.
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Karev!
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You in or out?
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In.
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All right, Schmitt,
that means you're out.
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But you said I could...
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Goodbye, Schmitt.
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Do you think it's a shunt revision,
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or is it just maybe the flu?
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It's just my lawyer telling me
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that I'm supposed to be
in court in 10 minutes.
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Don't.
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I wasn't gonna say anything.
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How is she? Is her shunt obstructed?
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Oh, goodie. It's a family affair.
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Anyone want to bring some snacks?
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Play a rousing game of UNO?
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Oh, and Simon says...
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enlarged ventricles.
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She'll need a shunt revision.
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This is very common with growth...
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I would do it laparoscopically...
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No, I'd do it laparoscopically,
because she's not my niece.
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She'll be in and out in an hour.
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Book an OR, DeLukes.
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Look, it's a simple surgery, okay?
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You need to go to court.
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I'll be with her the whole time.
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And I'll update you
every step of the way.
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I promise. Are you kidding me right now?
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Got it. Okay. Yep.
You're not gonna go anywhere.
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- Okay.
- Book an OR, please.
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Yep, you got it.
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Synced & corrected by -robtor-
www.addic7ed.com
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I want you texting me from that gallery
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every step of the way,
and don't let Koracick
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or anyone else kick you out.
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Texting you?
As in, your own phone number?
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Okay... um, I mean, absolutely, Dr. Grey.
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Uh, she's so smart and tough.
She'll be great.
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Why are you still talking?
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Hey, it's just gonna be
a quick little nap,
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and when you wake up, you're
gonna feel so much better.
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I know, Mommy. I pay attention.
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I'm gonna be right here the whole time.
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And by "right here,"
she means in the waiting room
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with the other moms and dads
who don't work here.
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Are you scared?
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You are so brave.
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I love you.
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Love you, too.
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Hey. I've got her.
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Let's go.
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I can get someone to cover if
you want some company out there.
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No. You should be in there with her.
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Okay.
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You mean to tell me
you locked yourself in here
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with your therapist and you
didn't think that was against...
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oh, I don't know... all the rules?
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Technically she was just one
of my therapists
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when I was in residential treatment.
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How many did you have?
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Three.
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Different therapists,
different modalities.
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Kind of like when a trauma
comes in and we need to
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figure out how many surgeons
we need to send in
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from how many different angles.
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Except in your brain.
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Yeah, pretty much.
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Okay.
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Do you know anything
about her medical history?
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Anything to indicate why
she would do this?
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Uh... all I know is that
she's 13 years sober
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and has a serious addiction
to almonds and science fiction.
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But other than that, she seemed good.
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Happy.
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I just... I don't know
why she would do this.
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Dr. Karev, are you all right?
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Yeah, no, she would just...
she would just kill me
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because I've forgotten
everything she taught me
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about how to just, you know,
calm my nervous system.
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So if she woke up, she'd be
so pissed at me right now.
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So...
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I'm guessing the two of you were close.
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I couldn't stand her. She was the worst.
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Let me guess, you're pissed
I'm taking away your pool time.
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I already had Michelle for therapy today,
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three hours of group,
and it's fruit punch day,
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which is the worst.
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And now I'm... I'm what?
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I'm supposed to stare at a light bar
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and all my troubles are gonna disappear?
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Appendectomies...
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pig parts replacing aortic valves.
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And if I read correctly,
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you put tiny little livers into mice
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'cause the one liver wasn't working?
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I'm just saying
I wanna know the first guy
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who said to somebody, "My brain hurts."
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And the other guy was like,
"If I cut it open,
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I promise it'll feel better."
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And the first guy was like, "Cool."
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But, hey, science.
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I get it. EMDR is just another way
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to get at the root of my trauma.
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You spent your media time
looking up EMDR?
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Yep. I like to know what
I'm getting into.
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In that case, tell me
what it is in under 30 seconds,
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I'll let you get your swim on.
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Ready?
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- Mm-hmm.
- Go.
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Eye Movement Desensitization
and Reprocessing.
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The lights force bilateral
sensory output,
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allowing you to make connections
about your traumas
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and desensitize you to them.
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Aw, so close.
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You forgot it helps to illuminate
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the capital "T" trauma in your life.
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I don't have any capital "T" trauma.
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I found out awful news
about how I was born,
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and my mother couldn't deal.
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I have been through way worse.
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You know, if you're gonna eat
in front of me,
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could you at least share?
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No.
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Because?
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Because boundaries. I don't share food.
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Okay.
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Deep breath.
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You've already established
your safe place with Michelle.
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An OR. Any OR.
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If this becomes too much,
we can always go back there.
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Okay?
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What's happening for you right now?
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What are you feeling?
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Shame. I feel shame.
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I feel worthless that I'm not in an OR.
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Is there an image you have
in your mind growing up
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that gave you that message?
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That you're worthless?
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I never spent long enough in foster homes
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to remember the wallpaper,
let alone the people.
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I had a husband who beat me,
but he's dead now, so...
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So no trauma.
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Any specific memories or moments
that play over and over?
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No, nothing. It's... I'm... It's nothing.
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It's stupid.
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Then there's no harm in telling me.
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I reached out my hand
to my mom at a crappy diner,
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and she pulled away.
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She couldn't stand to touch me.
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But it's just... it's so small
compared to everything else,
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so I don't...
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So let's start "small,"
see what happens next.
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Okay?
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I shouldn't be in here with her.
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I was doing fine.
I was back at work kicking ass.
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Everything with Alex is great.
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And then I just... I screw it all up
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00:10:12,541 --> 00:10:14,188
by sticking myself in here,
and now I'm...
262
00:10:14,213 --> 00:10:16,099
and now I'm back to square one.
263
00:10:17,712 --> 00:10:19,865
I need to get out of here.
I need to get out of here.
264
00:10:19,890 --> 00:10:21,188
Dr. Karev, you know we can't...
265
00:10:21,213 --> 00:10:22,616
I know, I know! But if the one person
266
00:10:22,641 --> 00:10:24,670
who could help me feel okay
could just go off one day
267
00:10:24,695 --> 00:10:25,784
and try and kill themselves,
268
00:10:25,809 --> 00:10:27,836
then what does that say about me? Huh?
269
00:10:35,594 --> 00:10:37,483
Okay.
270
00:10:37,508 --> 00:10:39,060
Okay. Okay.
271
00:10:39,085 --> 00:10:41,635
Dr. Karev...
272
00:10:41,660 --> 00:10:42,958
Raise the arm of the patient
273
00:10:42,983 --> 00:10:45,285
and count down to
the 4th intercostal space.
274
00:10:45,310 --> 00:10:47,045
Prep and drape in sterile fashion.
275
00:10:47,070 --> 00:10:49,552
Then why are you listing the
steps for a chest tube insertion
276
00:10:49,577 --> 00:10:50,733
if it's not indicated?
277
00:10:50,758 --> 00:10:53,064
Inject with lidocaine,
make an incision above the rib.
278
00:10:53,089 --> 00:10:55,071
A Kelly clamp...
279
00:10:55,096 --> 00:10:57,055
- Jo, what's going on?
- This is supposed to help me.
280
00:10:57,080 --> 00:10:58,243
She's the one who taught me this.
281
00:10:58,243 --> 00:11:00,377
Feet on the ground, list
the things you know by heart.
282
00:11:00,401 --> 00:11:01,935
It's supposed to trick
your nervous system
283
00:11:01,959 --> 00:11:03,235
into thinking that you're safe.
284
00:11:03,259 --> 00:11:04,777
But it's not working. It's not working.
285
00:11:04,801 --> 00:11:06,464
Okay, well, how can I help you?
What do you need?
286
00:11:06,488 --> 00:11:07,963
What I need... I need
to think of something else.
287
00:11:07,987 --> 00:11:09,000
I need to think of something else.
288
00:11:09,024 --> 00:11:10,028
I'm pregnant!
289
00:11:11,701 --> 00:11:15,086
100% p-r-e-g-o.
290
00:11:15,111 --> 00:11:17,020
With a live baby...
291
00:11:17,045 --> 00:11:18,099
inside.
292
00:11:18,124 --> 00:11:20,662
Ben's baby. Our baby. Super pregnant.
293
00:11:22,574 --> 00:11:24,847
Okay, yeah, that worked.
294
00:11:27,613 --> 00:11:31,016
Nurse Potter, 5411. Nurse Potter, 5411.
295
00:11:32,264 --> 00:11:36,044
♪ _
296
00:11:37,228 --> 00:11:38,653
_
297
00:11:41,057 --> 00:11:42,980
Okay. Everything's good so far.
298
00:11:43,005 --> 00:11:44,882
Koracick just started the shunt revision.
299
00:11:46,854 --> 00:11:49,509
So, tell me what we're doing.
300
00:11:49,534 --> 00:11:52,336
Am I walking you through the surgery
301
00:11:52,337 --> 00:11:53,809
step by step in real time?
302
00:11:54,489 --> 00:11:59,098
Are we ignoring it altogether
and watching bad TV?
303
00:11:59,122 --> 00:12:03,399
We're sitting in silence,
thinking the worst about Zola.
304
00:12:03,424 --> 00:12:04,617
And about court.
305
00:12:04,642 --> 00:12:06,414
Yeah, I didn't give you that option.
306
00:12:08,237 --> 00:12:12,458
Derek did a beautiful job
with her shunt the first time.
307
00:12:12,483 --> 00:12:15,312
All Koracick has to do
is go in and revise it.
308
00:12:15,337 --> 00:12:17,940
And as someone whose brain
he has poked around in before,
309
00:12:17,965 --> 00:12:19,639
I turned out great.
310
00:12:20,990 --> 00:12:22,914
Tumor-wise.
311
00:12:22,939 --> 00:12:25,720
As for court, I know absolutely nothing
312
00:12:25,745 --> 00:12:27,182
about the legal system whatsoever,
313
00:12:27,207 --> 00:12:28,648
so I'm guessing you are either fine
314
00:12:28,673 --> 00:12:30,900
or locked up for life?
315
00:12:32,154 --> 00:12:34,162
Very helpful, thank you.
316
00:12:34,187 --> 00:12:35,833
I have a very specific set of skills.
317
00:12:35,858 --> 00:12:37,121
- Beyond that, I'm...
- How is she?
318
00:12:37,146 --> 00:12:39,409
Uh, they just got started on Zola.
319
00:12:39,434 --> 00:12:40,906
She is wallowing.
320
00:12:40,931 --> 00:12:43,065
Not wallowing, preparing for the worst.
321
00:12:43,090 --> 00:12:45,292
Okay, that's not an option.
Pick another thing.
322
00:12:45,317 --> 00:12:46,511
That's what I said.
323
00:12:46,536 --> 00:12:48,878
I appreciate the two of you
being here, I do,
324
00:12:48,903 --> 00:12:50,339
but I don't need the distraction.
325
00:12:50,364 --> 00:12:52,463
Yes, you do. I'll go first.
326
00:12:52,488 --> 00:12:55,178
I just finished
a quadruple valve replacement.
327
00:12:55,203 --> 00:12:57,860
Only two other people in
the U.S. have ever done that,
328
00:12:57,885 --> 00:13:02,279
and I felt more in love
and alive and seen
329
00:13:02,304 --> 00:13:03,706
while my hands were in that heart
330
00:13:03,731 --> 00:13:05,622
than I did the entire time
I was with Jackson.
331
00:13:05,647 --> 00:13:09,658
There was no endless talking
about feelings, or arguing.
332
00:13:09,683 --> 00:13:11,294
I-I made a plan, I came in there,
333
00:13:11,319 --> 00:13:12,721
and I did it, and the rush!
334
00:13:12,746 --> 00:13:16,048
I mean, clearly I'm still feeling it.
335
00:13:16,073 --> 00:13:18,519
Now you go.
336
00:13:18,544 --> 00:13:21,617
My daughter is in an OR,
and I am abandoning court,
337
00:13:21,642 --> 00:13:23,270
and I might go to jail.
338
00:13:25,006 --> 00:13:26,706
Have we lost her?
339
00:13:29,219 --> 00:13:32,243
And Andrew thought I was
still going to court.
340
00:13:32,268 --> 00:13:33,740
I think he's just worried that...
341
00:13:33,765 --> 00:13:35,565
No, wait, I'm not even done yet.
342
00:13:35,590 --> 00:13:39,358
First he thought that I would
abandon my child to go to court.
343
00:13:39,383 --> 00:13:42,572
And then he offered to skip
the entire surgery
344
00:13:42,597 --> 00:13:45,622
so that he could hold his crying
girlfriend's hand?
345
00:13:45,647 --> 00:13:46,737
It's kind.
346
00:13:46,762 --> 00:13:48,790
No, it's incredibly stupid.
347
00:13:48,815 --> 00:13:51,164
Cristina and I would have
mocked him mercilessly
348
00:13:51,189 --> 00:13:53,845
for volunteering to skip out
on a shunt revision
349
00:13:53,870 --> 00:13:55,689
to be someone's human tissue!
350
00:13:55,714 --> 00:13:57,778
I rescheduled a spinal decompression.
351
00:13:57,803 --> 00:13:59,135
You're not a resident.
352
00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:01,768
You're not volunteering
to skip surgeries.
353
00:14:03,350 --> 00:14:04,927
For the woman he loves.
354
00:14:04,952 --> 00:14:06,980
Oh, well... well, you know,
when you say it like that,
355
00:14:07,005 --> 00:14:08,477
you make me sound like an ass.
356
00:14:08,502 --> 00:14:09,997
- No.
- Not at all.
357
00:14:11,482 --> 00:14:13,861
He's kind. He's trying.
358
00:14:13,886 --> 00:14:16,576
But he's not a parent,
and he does not get it.
359
00:14:16,601 --> 00:14:18,367
Okay, so let me get this straight.
360
00:14:18,392 --> 00:14:21,395
He was wrong to assume
that you would go to court,
361
00:14:21,420 --> 00:14:25,431
but also wrong to support you
while you wait for Zola.
362
00:14:25,456 --> 00:14:27,033
I already said I sound like an ass.
363
00:14:27,058 --> 00:14:28,217
But...
364
00:14:28,242 --> 00:14:29,992
He's sexy, and he's fun,
365
00:14:30,017 --> 00:14:32,143
and he's so good to the kids.
366
00:14:32,168 --> 00:14:33,285
But...
367
00:14:33,310 --> 00:14:35,149
I don't know if he'll ever
be more than that.
368
00:14:35,619 --> 00:14:37,461
I don't know if I want him to be.
369
00:14:39,374 --> 00:14:41,347
_
370
00:14:41,372 --> 00:14:44,746
Oh, they're tunneling
in the new shunt tubing.
371
00:14:47,450 --> 00:14:51,706
Okay, someone say something
that isn't about my stuff.
372
00:14:51,731 --> 00:14:52,834
Uh...
373
00:14:52,859 --> 00:14:57,010
I... don't know Link's parents' names.
374
00:14:57,035 --> 00:15:01,152
I don't know his taste
in movies or his favorite song
375
00:15:01,177 --> 00:15:03,414
or if he actually
likes breakfast for dinner
376
00:15:03,439 --> 00:15:05,279
or just pretends to because
it's all I can make.
377
00:15:05,304 --> 00:15:09,559
And I am having a baby with him.
378
00:15:09,584 --> 00:15:12,413
I am tied to him, no matter what,
379
00:15:12,438 --> 00:15:15,441
no matter how things go between
us for the rest of my life
380
00:15:15,466 --> 00:15:20,869
because we made a decision
to have a child.
381
00:15:20,894 --> 00:15:23,376
Together.
382
00:15:23,401 --> 00:15:26,242
And I will learn
his parents' names eventually.
383
00:15:26,267 --> 00:15:30,105
But, um... I don't know him.
384
00:15:30,605 --> 00:15:35,999
I'm just tying my life to his
"you jump, I jump" style,
385
00:15:36,024 --> 00:15:37,357
which sounds...
386
00:15:37,382 --> 00:15:39,306
Exactly like what you do.
387
00:15:40,968 --> 00:15:43,807
Okay, I sometimes leap and hope
the net will appear...
388
00:15:43,832 --> 00:15:45,273
Yeah, all the time.
389
00:15:45,298 --> 00:15:46,515
I had a brain tumor.
390
00:15:46,540 --> 00:15:49,090
You also have a personality
apart from that tumor.
391
00:15:49,115 --> 00:15:50,831
Which is a wonderful thing,
392
00:15:50,856 --> 00:15:53,706
and sometimes it is your Achilles' heel.
393
00:15:54,948 --> 00:15:57,011
We will love you and that baby
394
00:15:57,036 --> 00:15:58,821
no matter what happens with Link.
395
00:15:59,871 --> 00:16:02,753
Okay, now it really feels like
it's taking too long.
396
00:16:02,778 --> 00:16:03,988
It's taking too long, right?
397
00:16:04,013 --> 00:16:06,211
They're probably confirming the...
398
00:16:06,236 --> 00:16:08,125
Confirming the shunt patency,
399
00:16:08,150 --> 00:16:10,110
which means they should be almost done.
400
00:16:10,754 --> 00:16:12,555
Okay.
401
00:16:12,937 --> 00:16:14,375
Andrew's a good guy.
402
00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:15,663
We know.
403
00:16:15,688 --> 00:16:17,466
- I think I love him.
- We know.
404
00:16:17,467 --> 00:16:19,496
We're just at two different
places in our lives,
405
00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:22,418
and I'm just waiting for my gut
to tell me one way or the other.
406
00:16:22,442 --> 00:16:24,295
My gut only says yes.
407
00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:27,009
Ever. Or like 99% of the time.
408
00:16:27,034 --> 00:16:29,411
It just screams yes,
but maybe that's okay
409
00:16:29,436 --> 00:16:31,903
because I like the leap and having faith,
410
00:16:31,928 --> 00:16:34,130
and if I fall, I learn.
411
00:16:34,155 --> 00:16:37,063
I think surgery might be my truest love.
412
00:16:38,008 --> 00:16:39,887
And I don't think
that's ever gonna change.
413
00:16:39,912 --> 00:16:41,476
And I don't think it needs to.
414
00:16:43,511 --> 00:16:45,227
This is taking too long.
I'm going in there.
415
00:16:45,252 --> 00:16:46,306
- No.
- No, no.
416
00:16:46,331 --> 00:16:48,174
I know that you want to, but you can't.
417
00:16:48,199 --> 00:16:50,818
If something were wrong,
they would've definitely...
418
00:16:50,843 --> 00:16:52,503
My gut is telling me something is wrong.
419
00:16:52,528 --> 00:16:54,870
Have you seen my life?
The people that I've lost?
420
00:16:54,895 --> 00:16:57,654
Until someone comes in here
and tells me otherwise...
421
00:16:57,679 --> 00:16:59,602
Come here.
422
00:16:59,627 --> 00:17:01,135
They should be closing up any minute now,
423
00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:03,501
and I am sure they went in
through a part in her hair
424
00:17:03,526 --> 00:17:04,998
so she won't even see a scar.
425
00:17:06,117 --> 00:17:08,326
Dr. Grey, she's out of surgery
and she's...
426
00:17:08,351 --> 00:17:10,185
She's perfect, I'm perfect.
427
00:17:10,210 --> 00:17:11,856
You can see her
when she gets out of post-op.
428
00:17:11,881 --> 00:17:13,674
Thank you, Tom. Thank you.
429
00:17:13,699 --> 00:17:14,776
Yeah. Yeah, a-and...
430
00:17:14,801 --> 00:17:16,362
but not before that, all right?
431
00:17:16,387 --> 00:17:17,859
Okay. Thank you, Tom.
432
00:17:18,915 --> 00:17:20,283
Thank you.
433
00:17:21,666 --> 00:17:22,964
Will you stay with her, please?
434
00:17:22,989 --> 00:17:24,165
- Of course.
- Okay.
435
00:17:26,900 --> 00:17:28,072
Go.
436
00:17:28,919 --> 00:17:31,351
She's good!
437
00:17:36,809 --> 00:17:38,282
I am serious.
438
00:17:38,306 --> 00:17:41,448
He is a CPA that counts on his fingers,
439
00:17:41,472 --> 00:17:43,640
and he had the nerve to give me grief
440
00:17:43,664 --> 00:17:45,739
for leaving the office
15 minutes early...
441
00:17:45,739 --> 00:17:47,238
My work already done.
442
00:17:47,262 --> 00:17:48,708
I'd expect nothing less.
443
00:17:50,401 --> 00:17:52,377
He's an idiot.
444
00:17:52,401 --> 00:17:53,961
But it pays the bills.
445
00:17:54,478 --> 00:17:56,257
And for that, I have to thank you.
446
00:17:56,281 --> 00:17:57,753
I just told the truth.
447
00:17:57,777 --> 00:18:00,119
That I'm a pain in the ass,
but great with deadlines?
448
00:18:00,143 --> 00:18:01,476
I softened it a bit.
449
00:18:01,500 --> 00:18:04,538
Well, I have a lot to thank you
for, not just that job.
450
00:18:04,562 --> 00:18:06,382
Well, you would've done the same for me.
451
00:18:06,406 --> 00:18:07,808
Damn straight.
452
00:18:07,832 --> 00:18:09,675
But if you had shown up on my doorstep
453
00:18:09,699 --> 00:18:11,182
with a heel in your heart,
454
00:18:11,206 --> 00:18:12,646
you would've been crap out of luck.
455
00:18:14,930 --> 00:18:18,859
So, um, how's the sponsor search going?
456
00:18:19,940 --> 00:18:21,899
It's slim pickings out there.
457
00:18:21,923 --> 00:18:25,572
Everyone at our meetings
is either angry old people
458
00:18:25,597 --> 00:18:30,234
or Millennials who wear spikes
of driftwood as earrings.
459
00:18:30,259 --> 00:18:32,012
I don't know, just maybe
try some other meetings.
460
00:18:32,037 --> 00:18:34,597
Oh, it's... It takes some time
to find the right one.
461
00:18:34,622 --> 00:18:36,790
Well, you know I've never
been one to settle down.
462
00:18:36,815 --> 00:18:38,031
Mm-hmm.
463
00:18:39,791 --> 00:18:42,619
Except for Ollie.
Ollie was the exception.
464
00:18:42,644 --> 00:18:44,569
Yes, she was.
465
00:18:44,594 --> 00:18:46,283
- But...
- Hmm?
466
00:18:46,308 --> 00:18:49,241
If I wanted to talk AA, I'd be in AA.
467
00:18:52,368 --> 00:18:54,189
- How about you?
- Hmm?
468
00:18:54,214 --> 00:18:55,868
Tell me about you.
469
00:18:56,700 --> 00:18:58,776
Uh, well... well...
470
00:18:58,801 --> 00:19:00,275
I'm... I'm fine.
471
00:19:00,300 --> 00:19:03,373
The hospital isn't up to snuff,
but, uh, it's getting there.
472
00:19:03,398 --> 00:19:06,304
Oh, please, we work at the same hospital.
473
00:19:07,338 --> 00:19:08,636
And Catherine?
474
00:19:08,661 --> 00:19:11,073
Uh... she's getting there, too.
475
00:19:11,098 --> 00:19:13,649
Now tell me how this works again
476
00:19:13,674 --> 00:19:16,955
when she's out of the state more
often than she is in your bed.
477
00:19:16,980 --> 00:19:18,522
Gemma.
478
00:19:18,547 --> 00:19:21,298
What, you want to take
the South out of me, too?
479
00:19:21,323 --> 00:19:22,690
I already quit drinking.
480
00:19:24,821 --> 00:19:26,085
You know...
481
00:19:26,110 --> 00:19:28,346
Catherine and I like to fight.
482
00:19:28,950 --> 00:19:31,257
Part of what I love most about her
483
00:19:31,282 --> 00:19:34,772
is her... her passion, her fire.
484
00:19:35,009 --> 00:19:38,429
But it's like the...
the light's gone out,
485
00:19:38,454 --> 00:19:41,180
and I... I don't know
how to get it back, you know?
486
00:19:42,619 --> 00:19:45,626
You have the biggest heart
I've ever known, Richard.
487
00:19:46,116 --> 00:19:50,589
Catherine may be too wrapped up
in her own head
488
00:19:50,888 --> 00:19:53,175
to see that right now.
489
00:19:53,681 --> 00:19:57,449
When my mother died,
the first thing I thought,
490
00:19:57,474 --> 00:20:00,678
and I was a kid... was that my father's
491
00:20:00,703 --> 00:20:04,715
never gonna have that love,
sitting on that porch
492
00:20:04,740 --> 00:20:07,535
beside him, the rest of his life.
493
00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:09,774
See, when my girlfriends
494
00:20:09,799 --> 00:20:12,488
would throw pillowcases
on their heads as veils...
495
00:20:13,509 --> 00:20:16,547
...they was like, "This was
the best day of my life."
496
00:20:16,572 --> 00:20:22,706
I thought the only thing better
than one man to love you...
497
00:20:22,733 --> 00:20:24,623
is a rotation.
498
00:20:25,909 --> 00:20:29,296
I've... never been that.
499
00:20:29,321 --> 00:20:30,828
Ohh.
500
00:20:38,128 --> 00:20:40,887
Ah.
501
00:20:42,269 --> 00:20:44,452
Now, why would you pull away
502
00:20:44,477 --> 00:20:48,069
from the first little bit of comfort
503
00:20:48,094 --> 00:20:49,315
that you've had in weeks?
504
00:20:49,316 --> 00:20:51,557
Because I'm a married man.
505
00:20:51,581 --> 00:20:54,375
I am fully aware that you and Catherine
506
00:20:54,399 --> 00:20:56,893
have rings on your fingers
for better or worse.
507
00:20:56,918 --> 00:21:01,430
Forgive me for thinking that
because you have hit the worst,
508
00:21:01,455 --> 00:21:03,449
that you may be, you know...
509
00:21:03,474 --> 00:21:04,997
looking around.
510
00:21:06,021 --> 00:21:07,667
And don't insult me by pretending
511
00:21:07,692 --> 00:21:09,002
you don't know what I'm talking about.
512
00:21:09,027 --> 00:21:10,870
Because I've known you too well
for too long.
513
00:21:12,740 --> 00:21:14,423
I love my wife.
514
00:21:14,448 --> 00:21:18,669
I have no intentions of
competing with Catherine Fox.
515
00:21:19,570 --> 00:21:22,324
Y'all are having a hard time.
You'll find your way back.
516
00:21:22,349 --> 00:21:23,849
But in the meantime...
517
00:21:23,874 --> 00:21:25,972
you're miserable,
518
00:21:25,997 --> 00:21:28,130
and I'm here,
519
00:21:28,429 --> 00:21:33,067
and life is too short
to deprive ourselves
520
00:21:33,092 --> 00:21:35,484
of what we've been feeling
for so many years.
521
00:21:36,728 --> 00:21:38,722
You know, I think you've
mistaken my friendship
522
00:21:38,747 --> 00:21:40,212
for something else entirely.
523
00:21:40,237 --> 00:21:42,370
And if you think this is just friendship,
524
00:21:42,395 --> 00:21:44,946
than you're as dumb as that man
who counts on his hands.
525
00:21:48,620 --> 00:21:50,405
Okay, um...
526
00:21:50,430 --> 00:21:54,024
if I've done anything
to mislead you, Gemma,
527
00:21:54,049 --> 00:21:55,939
okay, I apologize.
528
00:21:55,964 --> 00:21:58,905
But, uh, there is nothing between us,
529
00:21:58,930 --> 00:22:00,541
and there never has been.
530
00:22:02,063 --> 00:22:04,849
Well, suit yourself,
but if history serves,
531
00:22:04,874 --> 00:22:07,007
when hard times hit, you bury yourself
532
00:22:07,032 --> 00:22:09,791
in a bottle of vodka or another woman.
533
00:22:09,816 --> 00:22:12,089
And we both know which one
you can handle.
534
00:22:21,790 --> 00:22:24,166
Are you really going to just walk away
535
00:22:24,191 --> 00:22:25,803
after what we felt in there?
536
00:22:25,828 --> 00:22:27,596
All that talk about rigorous honesty.
537
00:22:27,621 --> 00:22:30,276
I'm in love with Catherine. My wife.
538
00:22:30,301 --> 00:22:32,164
And you're in love with Adele, too.
539
00:22:32,189 --> 00:22:35,396
Until there was Ellis Grey,
and then it was back to Adele,
540
00:22:35,421 --> 00:22:38,058
and when she lay in that home
dying of Alzheimer's,
541
00:22:38,083 --> 00:22:39,242
who were you with?
542
00:22:39,267 --> 00:22:40,978
I tried to visit Adele all the time.
543
00:22:41,003 --> 00:22:42,197
It only upset her.
544
00:22:42,222 --> 00:22:45,121
And whose arms did you fall into then?
545
00:22:45,146 --> 00:22:46,548
Catherine.
546
00:22:46,573 --> 00:22:48,080
Just because you know my history
547
00:22:48,105 --> 00:22:49,348
doesn't mean you can use it against me
548
00:22:49,373 --> 00:22:51,576
to make yourself less lonely.
549
00:22:51,601 --> 00:22:52,899
Richard!
550
00:22:52,924 --> 00:22:54,952
Call your sponsor. Get a meeting.
551
00:22:54,977 --> 00:22:56,868
That was not sober behavior.
552
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,392
Oh, go ahead, get it over with.
553
00:23:19,416 --> 00:23:21,653
How are you feeling?
554
00:23:21,677 --> 00:23:23,393
How's Ben feeling? Was it planned?
555
00:23:23,417 --> 00:23:25,028
Don't know, doesn't know yet,
556
00:23:25,052 --> 00:23:26,558
and hell no.
557
00:23:26,582 --> 00:23:29,342
Uh... her A.B.G is better.
558
00:23:29,366 --> 00:23:32,229
She's less acidotic,
and CO level is down.
559
00:23:32,253 --> 00:23:34,004
She should be awake up by now.
560
00:23:37,376 --> 00:23:40,135
It's okay to admit
if you're feeling scared.
561
00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,327
What happens in the hyperbaric chamber
562
00:23:42,352 --> 00:23:43,571
stays in the hyperbaric chamber.
563
00:23:43,596 --> 00:23:45,322
- I'm not scared.
- Okay.
564
00:23:45,347 --> 00:23:48,893
I'm... surprised.
565
00:23:50,752 --> 00:23:53,755
Tuck is the light of my life,
566
00:23:53,780 --> 00:23:56,505
but I thought I was done
with diapers and strollers.
567
00:23:56,530 --> 00:23:59,011
Now there's all
these new diapers with wings
568
00:23:59,036 --> 00:24:01,203
and strollers that can
practically fly to the moon.
569
00:24:01,228 --> 00:24:04,093
And I think I... could be happy.
570
00:24:04,118 --> 00:24:05,469
I might be happy...
571
00:24:06,500 --> 00:24:08,285
but out-of-my-mind terrified.
572
00:24:08,310 --> 00:24:10,548
And terrified.
573
00:24:10,573 --> 00:24:12,451
It's a therapy thing.
574
00:24:12,476 --> 00:24:14,121
You listed all these positive feelings
575
00:24:14,146 --> 00:24:16,071
and then you said "but"
as if being terrified
576
00:24:16,096 --> 00:24:17,594
erased everything that you said prior,
577
00:24:17,619 --> 00:24:21,975
but the happy, the terror, it's all true.
578
00:24:24,345 --> 00:24:25,990
Well, I don't like it.
579
00:24:37,875 --> 00:24:39,556
Right on time.
580
00:24:39,580 --> 00:24:41,157
What?
581
00:24:41,505 --> 00:24:43,765
What are you, stalking me?
582
00:24:43,789 --> 00:24:45,399
Nah.
583
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:47,219
Therapists rotate every night.
584
00:24:47,243 --> 00:24:48,804
There's always a runner.
585
00:24:49,098 --> 00:24:52,728
I figured after our session this
afternoon, odds were on you.
586
00:24:53,225 --> 00:24:57,448
Besides, I like staring
at the stars for funzies.
587
00:24:57,472 --> 00:24:59,843
I don't want to run.
588
00:24:59,868 --> 00:25:01,306
It doesn't make any sense.
589
00:25:01,331 --> 00:25:03,255
I feel shame over things
I didn't even do,
590
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:04,695
things that were done to me.
591
00:25:04,801 --> 00:25:08,140
That's all I can feel.
592
00:25:09,995 --> 00:25:11,034
Yep.
593
00:25:14,172 --> 00:25:15,749
Is that all you're gonna say?
594
00:25:15,774 --> 00:25:17,616
Well, technically, I'm off the clock.
595
00:25:21,052 --> 00:25:23,297
You're used to being exceptional.
596
00:25:23,642 --> 00:25:26,383
Right now, you're just like
everybody else here mentally.
597
00:25:27,299 --> 00:25:30,080
You're stuck,
can't see past the one moment
598
00:25:30,105 --> 00:25:31,930
that's defining your entire life.
599
00:25:33,210 --> 00:25:35,447
You mean the moment
where I watched my mom
600
00:25:35,472 --> 00:25:37,436
walk away from me in a diner?
601
00:25:38,730 --> 00:25:40,105
No.
602
00:25:41,086 --> 00:25:42,546
Then what?
603
00:25:44,747 --> 00:25:46,195
For you.
604
00:25:46,732 --> 00:25:48,322
Purple juice day.
605
00:25:49,576 --> 00:25:51,575
Best day ever.
606
00:25:55,619 --> 00:25:59,027
Okay. Okay, boundaries.
607
00:26:00,910 --> 00:26:03,136
If you could move through
that fear and that shame
608
00:26:03,161 --> 00:26:04,806
and let yourself feel angry...
609
00:26:04,831 --> 00:26:06,090
I can't.
610
00:26:07,893 --> 00:26:12,137
Which means I'll be stuck here forever.
611
00:26:16,429 --> 00:26:18,076
Yep.
612
00:26:21,450 --> 00:26:24,274
Tuck's childhood bedtime routine. Go.
613
00:26:24,916 --> 00:26:26,841
Okay, uh...
614
00:26:26,866 --> 00:26:29,556
uh, bath, diaper, PJs,
615
00:26:29,581 --> 00:26:31,505
a glass of milk, brush your teeth,
616
00:26:31,530 --> 00:26:33,211
one book, out like a light...
617
00:26:33,236 --> 00:26:36,726
but then when he got older
and we'd finished the book,
618
00:26:36,751 --> 00:26:38,362
all of a sudden, he needed
to go back to the bathroom...
619
00:26:38,387 --> 00:26:41,099
Just stick to the baby routine. Again.
620
00:26:41,124 --> 00:26:42,201
Baby routine, okay.
621
00:26:42,214 --> 00:26:46,295
Uh, bath, diaper, PJs, glass of milk,
622
00:26:46,319 --> 00:26:49,217
brush your teeth,
one book, out like a light.
623
00:26:49,241 --> 00:26:52,453
- One more time.
- Bath, diaper, PJs,
624
00:26:52,477 --> 00:26:54,821
a glass of milk, brush your teeth,
625
00:26:55,097 --> 00:26:57,717
one book, out like a light.
626
00:27:02,258 --> 00:27:05,922
I swear to God, Karev,
next time I go on sabbatical,
627
00:27:05,947 --> 00:27:07,316
I'm going wherever the hell you went.
628
00:27:07,341 --> 00:27:08,674
You learned all the things.
629
00:27:08,699 --> 00:27:11,613
I learned it all from her.
630
00:27:14,031 --> 00:27:15,851
Oh! Oh, she's seizing.
631
00:27:15,876 --> 00:27:17,035
Okay.
632
00:27:17,060 --> 00:27:18,915
Damn, I thought she was getting better!
633
00:27:18,940 --> 00:27:22,290
Her labs are fine. I can't tell why...
634
00:27:23,917 --> 00:27:25,668
She doesn't share food.
635
00:27:25,693 --> 00:27:27,234
The almonds she was always eating.
636
00:27:27,259 --> 00:27:28,314
What if she's diabetic?
637
00:27:28,339 --> 00:27:29,709
What was her glucose when she came in?
638
00:27:29,734 --> 00:27:30,799
Uh...
639
00:27:32,646 --> 00:27:36,866
78, which is low normal,
but the hyperbaric therapy...
640
00:27:36,891 --> 00:27:39,074
Is using the glucose to
metabolize the oxygen.
641
00:27:39,099 --> 00:27:40,363
- D-50!
- D-50!
642
00:27:43,416 --> 00:27:44,957
Okay, Carly, here we go.
643
00:27:44,982 --> 00:27:46,732
All right.
644
00:27:48,323 --> 00:27:50,177
Now. Okay.
645
00:27:55,807 --> 00:27:58,183
Carly, it's Jo. Can you hear me?
646
00:28:08,114 --> 00:28:10,589
You're good. You're okay. It's okay.
647
00:28:10,614 --> 00:28:13,186
I'm here. You're okay.
648
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:17,040
I'm pissed now, okay?
649
00:28:17,064 --> 00:28:18,884
Are you happy?
650
00:28:18,908 --> 00:28:21,508
Good morning, Carly. Do you
have a few minutes to talk?
651
00:28:21,533 --> 00:28:23,666
10 sessions with you
and that dumb-ass light bar.
652
00:28:23,690 --> 00:28:26,241
Not really fair to take it out
on the light bar, but okay.
653
00:28:26,265 --> 00:28:28,745
I hate everything! My mom.
654
00:28:28,769 --> 00:28:30,207
My rapist dad, Paul.
655
00:28:30,231 --> 00:28:32,608
The fact that I'm here staring
at the same image of my mom
656
00:28:32,632 --> 00:28:36,017
pulling away from me in a diner
over and over and over again,
657
00:28:36,041 --> 00:28:37,640
and never moving past it.
658
00:28:39,068 --> 00:28:41,236
And that. You know what?
I'm adding that to the list,
659
00:28:41,260 --> 00:28:43,672
the fact that I'm in pain and
you're treating it like a joke.
660
00:28:43,696 --> 00:28:45,755
This isn't a joke. It's a breakthrough.
661
00:28:45,780 --> 00:28:47,356
You're finally allowing yourself
662
00:28:47,381 --> 00:28:49,862
to move past your fear and
the shame and into the anger.
663
00:28:49,887 --> 00:28:51,146
This is progress.
664
00:28:51,171 --> 00:28:53,200
Okay, I can't be angry.
665
00:28:53,225 --> 00:28:54,453
Why not?
666
00:28:54,478 --> 00:28:56,542
Because if I start being angry,
I will never stop,
667
00:28:56,567 --> 00:28:58,944
and then I'm Paul.
I'm no better than him.
668
00:28:59,526 --> 00:29:02,766
That's because you don't know
what healthy anger looks like.
669
00:29:03,353 --> 00:29:07,121
No, no, no. I'm not...
I c... I can't do EMDR today.
670
00:29:07,146 --> 00:29:09,105
I'm not doing it.
I know it's... life-changing
671
00:29:09,130 --> 00:29:11,320
or whatever, but just,
I can't, not today.
672
00:29:12,218 --> 00:29:16,229
Hi, I'm Carly, and my core
feeling today is pride
673
00:29:16,254 --> 00:29:18,700
because my patient asked for
what she needed
674
00:29:18,725 --> 00:29:20,846
for the first time in 22 days.
675
00:29:29,071 --> 00:29:30,960
What's happening?
676
00:29:30,985 --> 00:29:32,688
I'm throwing crap at a wall.
677
00:29:34,596 --> 00:29:36,543
Care to join me?
678
00:29:40,387 --> 00:29:42,312
Are we both consenting adults?
679
00:29:42,337 --> 00:29:43,432
Yep.
680
00:29:43,457 --> 00:29:46,494
Are we okay if we agree
to throw things at walls...
681
00:29:46,519 --> 00:29:48,653
not people... just the walls?
682
00:29:49,275 --> 00:29:50,298
Yep.
683
00:29:50,323 --> 00:29:53,326
Right there.
That's what makes you not Paul.
684
00:29:53,351 --> 00:29:56,862
Because you can feel anger while
controlling your behavior.
685
00:30:00,213 --> 00:30:02,326
Throw first, judge later.
686
00:30:02,924 --> 00:30:04,053
Okay.
687
00:30:11,914 --> 00:30:13,421
Remind me not to pick you first
688
00:30:13,446 --> 00:30:14,956
if we ever start a trauma league.
689
00:30:16,469 --> 00:30:17,628
Give me a minute.
690
00:30:49,463 --> 00:30:52,017
I'm gonna go off script here
and admit something.
691
00:30:54,761 --> 00:30:58,215
I used to be the on-call
social worker for Safe Haven.
692
00:30:59,148 --> 00:31:01,455
Moms and dads would drop their babies off
693
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:03,804
at fire stations,
and I would get the call.
694
00:31:03,829 --> 00:31:07,110
And no matter how fast I drove,
by the time I got there,
695
00:31:07,771 --> 00:31:10,185
that baby would be wrapped
in a warm blanket,
696
00:31:11,305 --> 00:31:15,665
in some firefighter's arms,
a crowd around it.
697
00:31:16,363 --> 00:31:18,151
Why are you telling me this?
698
00:31:19,039 --> 00:31:20,712
You were five days old
699
00:31:20,737 --> 00:31:23,393
when your mother abandoned you.
700
00:31:23,418 --> 00:31:24,979
Your brain may not have a memory
701
00:31:25,004 --> 00:31:28,007
of her pulling her hand away
from you, but your body does.
702
00:31:31,721 --> 00:31:34,828
And your body felt the same way
in that diner
703
00:31:35,345 --> 00:31:37,931
when she pulled away
and left you... Alone.
704
00:31:40,994 --> 00:31:42,690
It's why it hurt so much.
705
00:31:45,690 --> 00:31:47,664
Your body felt the same way
706
00:31:47,688 --> 00:31:50,033
it did when you were a baby,
all over again.
707
00:31:58,376 --> 00:32:02,631
And you were surrounded by love.
708
00:32:05,580 --> 00:32:07,051
Still are.
709
00:32:18,934 --> 00:32:21,314
Now, if you want to go home
and take care of yourself,
710
00:32:21,339 --> 00:32:23,160
I can do this part.
711
00:32:23,185 --> 00:32:26,048
No. I should be the one to tell her.
712
00:32:26,073 --> 00:32:28,346
All right, well, I'll be right
out there if you need me.
713
00:32:33,236 --> 00:32:37,527
Today I watched you teeter on that edge,
714
00:32:37,552 --> 00:32:41,250
bring yourself back...
by yourself, bring me back...
715
00:32:41,275 --> 00:32:44,138
and save someone else's life
in the process.
716
00:32:44,163 --> 00:32:46,923
I don't know what "square one"
looks like,
717
00:32:46,948 --> 00:32:49,499
but there was nothing
square one about that.
718
00:33:03,125 --> 00:33:05,363
You're giving me that death look.
719
00:33:05,388 --> 00:33:06,825
I don't have a death look.
720
00:33:06,850 --> 00:33:08,531
You did whenever I gave you homework,
721
00:33:08,556 --> 00:33:10,481
told you something
you didn't want to hear.
722
00:33:10,506 --> 00:33:12,313
It's just my face.
723
00:33:14,935 --> 00:33:16,929
You had carbon monoxide poisoning.
724
00:33:16,954 --> 00:33:19,526
You had a seizure because
your blood sugar bottomed out,
725
00:33:19,551 --> 00:33:22,292
but we were able to bring it
back up and oxygenate you.
726
00:33:22,317 --> 00:33:24,809
And in theory, you should be
well enough to go home tomorrow.
727
00:33:24,834 --> 00:33:26,306
In theory?
728
00:33:26,797 --> 00:33:29,312
You know that I have to call psych now.
729
00:33:29,823 --> 00:33:32,135
I don't want to, but it's the law...
730
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:34,213
all suicide attempts
have to be reported...
731
00:33:34,238 --> 00:33:35,347
Suicide attempt?
732
00:33:35,661 --> 00:33:37,516
Hold up.
733
00:33:37,541 --> 00:33:41,519
One minute, I was 200 pages in
to the newest Margaret Atwood,
734
00:33:41,544 --> 00:33:43,259
curled up next to my heater,
735
00:33:43,284 --> 00:33:45,815
the next I'm in some space
chamber in the hospital.
736
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:47,347
You didn't do this on purpose?
737
00:33:47,372 --> 00:33:48,600
Never again.
738
00:33:48,625 --> 00:33:50,097
You were in your home.
739
00:33:50,458 --> 00:33:53,426
Well, I wasn't in my garage
with a locked door,
740
00:33:53,451 --> 00:33:54,822
a note, and a death wish.
741
00:33:54,847 --> 00:33:57,269
If you want to 5150 me
for forgetting to change
742
00:33:57,294 --> 00:33:59,288
the batteries in
my CO detector, that's fair
743
00:33:59,313 --> 00:34:00,785
because that thing's been out for months,
744
00:34:00,810 --> 00:34:03,639
and I-I could've died.
745
00:34:08,738 --> 00:34:10,565
Thanks for not letting me die.
746
00:34:14,339 --> 00:34:15,497
Breathe.
747
00:34:15,522 --> 00:34:17,099
I'm breathing.
748
00:34:17,124 --> 00:34:18,352
Her chemistries are stable,
749
00:34:18,377 --> 00:34:20,208
but should I get an endocrine consult?
750
00:34:21,290 --> 00:34:23,145
Um...
751
00:34:26,824 --> 00:34:28,331
Carly...
752
00:34:28,356 --> 00:34:30,468
I can't be your doctor anymore.
753
00:34:30,493 --> 00:34:32,451
I never should've been
in the first place.
754
00:34:32,476 --> 00:34:35,862
So Dr. Bailey will take good care of you.
755
00:34:37,871 --> 00:34:39,169
What?
756
00:34:39,194 --> 00:34:40,478
Boundaries.
757
00:34:41,391 --> 00:34:44,220
Looks like somebody learned
something after all.
758
00:34:50,821 --> 00:34:52,198
Okay.
759
00:34:54,555 --> 00:34:56,619
Oh, you're home.
760
00:34:56,644 --> 00:34:59,543
Yes, I am home.
761
00:35:03,326 --> 00:35:05,076
You worked all night again?
762
00:35:05,101 --> 00:35:07,547
Yeah, I did.
763
00:35:07,572 --> 00:35:12,217
I went to breakfast, then, uh,
I came back here to lie down.
764
00:35:12,242 --> 00:35:14,704
I guess I slept all day.
765
00:35:19,921 --> 00:35:21,450
How was your trip?
766
00:35:23,298 --> 00:35:25,592
Same as it always is.
767
00:35:27,371 --> 00:35:29,538
You look tired, Richard.
768
00:35:29,563 --> 00:35:31,475
I am, Catherine.
769
00:35:32,720 --> 00:35:34,282
I really am.
770
00:35:37,986 --> 00:35:39,723
Go back to sleep.
771
00:35:55,081 --> 00:35:57,081
_
772
00:36:09,944 --> 00:36:11,661
I came as fast as I could.
What's... What's going on?
773
00:36:11,686 --> 00:36:13,088
What's... Is... Are you okay?
774
00:36:13,113 --> 00:36:14,468
Is... Is Tuck okay?
775
00:36:16,132 --> 00:36:19,239
Oh, okay, so not an emergency.
776
00:36:19,264 --> 00:36:20,736
Well... Well, can we talk
about it over dinner?
777
00:36:20,761 --> 00:36:22,024
Because I'm starving,
778
00:36:22,049 --> 00:36:23,695
and that... that tandoori chicken
779
00:36:23,720 --> 00:36:25,888
at Monsoon on Main is calling my na...
780
00:36:25,913 --> 00:36:27,377
I'm pregnant!
781
00:36:30,162 --> 00:36:31,814
But... you...
782
00:36:31,839 --> 00:36:32,828
you...
783
00:36:32,853 --> 00:36:35,091
y-you said were going through menopause.
784
00:36:35,116 --> 00:36:38,613
Turns out a lot can be true
at the same time.
785
00:36:42,065 --> 00:36:43,785
It's crazy, right?
786
00:36:43,810 --> 00:36:48,483
And I know, we've...
we've never talked about this,
787
00:36:48,508 --> 00:36:51,562
but I've been thinking
about how much more prepared
788
00:36:51,587 --> 00:36:54,069
I am now compared to when I had Tuck.
789
00:36:54,094 --> 00:36:56,366
I was just a resident.
I thought I knew everything,
790
00:36:56,391 --> 00:36:59,175
but basically knew, uh, nothing.
791
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:02,307
But now I've got mad skills,
nothing can stop me,
792
00:37:02,332 --> 00:37:05,788
and I kind of think this might be great
793
00:37:05,813 --> 00:37:09,894
and something that we'll
have... together. Right?
794
00:37:09,919 --> 00:37:13,723
Or... mm, am I wrong?
795
00:37:13,748 --> 00:37:16,959
Um, and it's okay if I'm...
796
00:37:16,984 --> 00:37:18,845
if, uh...
797
00:37:18,870 --> 00:37:21,003
I'm sorry. Uh...
798
00:37:21,028 --> 00:37:23,266
I've just been spinning all day
waiting to tell you,
799
00:37:23,277 --> 00:37:25,027
and then I got stuck in the chamber...
800
00:37:25,051 --> 00:37:27,428
Oh, we're having a baby!!
801
00:37:27,452 --> 00:37:28,896
Y-Yes.
802
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:32,621
Oh, and nausea is a classic
symptom of pregnancy...
803
00:37:32,646 --> 00:37:34,118
one more spin and we...
804
00:37:38,180 --> 00:37:40,069
We're having a baby.
805
00:37:43,853 --> 00:37:45,360
You happy?
806
00:37:45,385 --> 00:37:48,039
Oh!
807
00:37:48,064 --> 00:37:52,842
Yeah.
808
00:37:52,867 --> 00:37:55,000
Tell them. Tell them.
809
00:37:55,025 --> 00:37:56,846
Hey, hey. We're... We're having a baby.
810
00:37:56,871 --> 00:37:58,378
We're having a baby.
811
00:37:58,403 --> 00:38:00,292
We're having a baby.
812
00:38:00,317 --> 00:38:02,264
Okay.
813
00:38:02,289 --> 00:38:04,074
Trauma doesn't tell time.
814
00:38:04,099 --> 00:38:06,743
It can't tell if we're 8 or 41,
815
00:38:06,768 --> 00:38:08,484
if our kids have the chicken pox,
816
00:38:08,509 --> 00:38:09,842
or if we have
817
00:38:09,867 --> 00:38:11,896
the biggest surgeries
of our lives to perform.
818
00:38:11,921 --> 00:38:14,820
Hey. How was your day?
819
00:38:14,845 --> 00:38:16,694
Rough.
820
00:38:16,961 --> 00:38:19,547
- Do you want to talk about it?
- No.
821
00:38:21,895 --> 00:38:23,193
It doesn't have to be with me.
822
00:38:23,218 --> 00:38:25,108
I just don't want you to keep it
inside like before.
823
00:38:25,133 --> 00:38:26,674
Do you wanna throw crap?
824
00:38:26,699 --> 00:38:28,331
Huh?
825
00:38:29,247 --> 00:38:31,100
And when it sneaks up on us,
826
00:38:31,125 --> 00:38:33,919
it's easy to think we're
right back at square one.
827
00:38:38,714 --> 00:38:40,012
You okay?
828
00:38:40,037 --> 00:38:42,262
Yeah. Getting there.
829
00:38:48,926 --> 00:38:50,364
Lame! You got to...
830
00:38:50,389 --> 00:38:52,925
- You got to really throw it.
- Okay.
831
00:38:57,079 --> 00:38:58,714
That felt oddly satisfying.
832
00:38:58,739 --> 00:38:59,829
Right?
833
00:38:59,854 --> 00:39:01,465
Okay, but let's do it over here.
834
00:39:01,490 --> 00:39:04,562
Let's do it over here, come on.
835
00:39:04,587 --> 00:39:05,978
All right, come on.
836
00:39:07,538 --> 00:39:08,859
This wall. Come on!
837
00:39:10,531 --> 00:39:11,595
Whoo!
838
00:39:11,620 --> 00:39:13,273
One, two, three.
839
00:39:14,735 --> 00:39:16,041
One, two...
840
00:39:16,066 --> 00:39:18,273
- Three.
- Aah!
841
00:39:27,519 --> 00:39:31,497
But the truth is, even when our
brain convinces us we're lost,
842
00:39:31,522 --> 00:39:34,767
if we try hard enough,
our bodies always remind us
843
00:39:34,792 --> 00:39:36,316
there's a way back.
844
00:39:37,016 --> 00:39:38,419
- Okay.
- Okay.
845
00:39:38,444 --> 00:39:40,159
I'll be right back.
846
00:39:42,449 --> 00:39:44,215
Hey. Hey. How's she doing?
847
00:39:44,240 --> 00:39:45,538
She's fully recovered.
848
00:39:45,563 --> 00:39:47,870
She's asking for Jell-O,
so I'm on a hunt.
849
00:39:51,111 --> 00:39:52,618
Thank you.
850
00:39:52,642 --> 00:39:54,253
How are you doing?
851
00:39:54,277 --> 00:39:57,001
I'm glad Zola's okay.
852
00:39:57,025 --> 00:39:59,542
Good. Nancy.
853
00:39:59,566 --> 00:40:01,328
"The girl who cried medical emergency."
854
00:40:01,352 --> 00:40:02,717
That's what the judge called you.
855
00:40:02,741 --> 00:40:04,685
- How's your daughter?
- Much better, thank you.
856
00:40:04,709 --> 00:40:07,098
She had to have neurosurgery,
so I couldn't leave her.
857
00:40:07,122 --> 00:40:09,073
I get that. But sadly, you're
going to have to leave her,
858
00:40:09,097 --> 00:40:10,415
along with the rest of your children
859
00:40:10,439 --> 00:40:11,908
while you make up for your missed hours.
860
00:40:11,932 --> 00:40:14,998
I was able to squeeze a small
drop of humanity from the judge.
861
00:40:15,022 --> 00:40:17,630
Thank you. I will be
at trash duty first thing,
862
00:40:17,654 --> 00:40:20,092
and no more excuses,
as soon as she's sent home.
863
00:40:20,116 --> 00:40:22,989
Dr. Grey, you're not going back
to clean-up duty.
864
00:40:23,013 --> 00:40:25,423
You'll be making up
your missed hours in jail.
865
00:40:25,809 --> 00:40:28,451
And prepares us for
whatever fight lies ahead.
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