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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:05,742 --> 00:00:08,325 (gentle music) 2 00:00:16,987 --> 00:00:21,794 ♪ Oh, troubled mind ♪ 3 00:00:21,794 --> 00:00:26,794 ♪ You make love so hard to find ♪ 4 00:00:30,110 --> 00:00:33,590 ♪ Oh, troubled mind ♪ 5 00:00:33,590 --> 00:00:38,590 ♪ I don't want to look behind ♪ 6 00:00:42,246 --> 00:00:45,111 ♪ You may be strange ♪ 7 00:00:45,111 --> 00:00:48,357 ♪ You were born and raised ♪ 8 00:00:48,357 --> 00:00:53,357 ♪ By usual hands of need and praise ♪ 9 00:00:54,890 --> 00:00:59,890 ♪ And now set your mind ♪ 10 00:01:00,290 --> 00:01:03,457 ♪ You'll be my slave ♪ 11 00:01:03,457 --> 00:01:07,774 ♪ And I'll be kind ♪ 12 00:01:07,774 --> 00:01:12,027 ♪ Oh, silly mind ♪ 13 00:01:12,027 --> 00:01:15,086 ♪ You make me feel ♪ 14 00:01:15,086 --> 00:01:18,863 ♪ Drunk and fine ♪ 15 00:01:18,863 --> 00:01:23,863 ♪ And stains the world wants you ♪ 16 00:01:24,407 --> 00:01:29,407 ♪ Are today oh, oh, only one ♪ 17 00:01:30,892 --> 00:01:33,668 ♪ Oh ♪ 18 00:01:33,668 --> 00:01:38,668 ♪ Oh ♪ 19 00:01:42,289 --> 00:01:45,074 ♪ Oh ♪ 20 00:01:45,074 --> 00:01:46,824 ♪ Oh ♪ 21 00:02:19,012 --> 00:02:19,845 - Mom. 22 00:02:23,260 --> 00:02:24,543 It's Christmas again. 23 00:02:26,642 --> 00:02:29,059 (soft music) 24 00:03:19,734 --> 00:03:20,793 - [Shivaani] Kabir? 25 00:03:20,793 --> 00:03:23,376 - What's the point in knocking? 26 00:03:31,347 --> 00:03:32,280 You don't have to do this. 27 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:34,210 - You shouldn't eat all this stuff. 28 00:03:34,210 --> 00:03:35,333 - I like this stuff. 29 00:03:36,531 --> 00:03:37,407 - Why didn't you eat the food that I brought for you? 30 00:03:37,407 --> 00:03:39,363 I brought you fresh food. 31 00:03:41,415 --> 00:03:43,233 Because you don't like it? 32 00:03:44,770 --> 00:03:45,770 - I never said that. 33 00:03:50,497 --> 00:03:52,357 (water running) 34 00:03:52,357 --> 00:03:53,907 Shivaani, I said don't do that. 35 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:56,780 - You can't live like this. 36 00:03:56,780 --> 00:03:57,613 - Like what? 37 00:03:57,613 --> 00:03:58,548 - Like this. 38 00:03:58,548 --> 00:03:59,381 - I said I'll get to it. 39 00:03:59,381 --> 00:04:00,425 Just let it go. 40 00:04:00,425 --> 00:04:01,258 - [Shivaani] You know your mother would have never-- 41 00:04:01,258 --> 00:04:02,175 - Shivaani. 42 00:04:04,370 --> 00:04:05,343 - She wouldn't. 43 00:04:16,912 --> 00:04:18,162 - Come help us. 44 00:04:19,290 --> 00:04:21,090 - I think you both have this under control. 45 00:04:21,090 --> 00:04:23,290 - He prefers to supervise. 46 00:04:23,290 --> 00:04:25,430 - Except when it's time to eat. 47 00:04:25,430 --> 00:04:26,390 You used these dishes. 48 00:04:26,390 --> 00:04:27,263 Help wash them. 49 00:04:28,214 --> 00:04:29,290 - Uh huh. 50 00:04:29,290 --> 00:04:30,190 - Okay I'm coming. 51 00:04:31,690 --> 00:04:32,940 It's just that I am stuck 52 00:04:36,123 --> 00:04:38,540 in this dimensional time warp 53 00:04:42,163 --> 00:04:44,080 that lives down pat. 54 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:44,913 - Smart ass. 55 00:04:46,216 --> 00:04:47,883 - I am almost there. 56 00:04:50,691 --> 00:04:52,767 - Why don't you practice the song you're gonna sing tonight. 57 00:04:52,767 --> 00:04:55,009 - But Kabir is stuck in a time warp. 58 00:04:55,009 --> 00:04:58,410 - Yes, so he has to watch without criticizing. 59 00:04:58,410 --> 00:05:00,009 - [Mom] Oh you're right. 60 00:05:00,009 --> 00:05:02,342 - I can still hear you guys. 61 00:05:03,813 --> 00:05:05,342 ♪ Boy you're mine ♪ 62 00:05:05,342 --> 00:05:06,277 ♪ Boy you're mine ♪ 63 00:05:06,277 --> 00:05:07,542 ♪ All to my heart ♪ 64 00:05:07,542 --> 00:05:08,375 - Okay, okay. 65 00:05:08,375 --> 00:05:09,228 Stop, stop, stop, stop, stop. 66 00:05:09,228 --> 00:05:10,061 I'm here, I'm here, I'm here. 67 00:05:10,061 --> 00:05:10,894 Stop, stop. 68 00:05:10,894 --> 00:05:11,727 Come on, you're not gonna really sing like that tonight? 69 00:05:11,727 --> 00:05:12,890 Are you please? 70 00:05:12,890 --> 00:05:14,270 - She's teasing you. 71 00:05:14,270 --> 00:05:17,486 - I will if you're stuck in a dimensional time warp ever. 72 00:05:17,486 --> 00:05:18,578 - No, seriously don't do that please. 73 00:05:18,578 --> 00:05:19,783 - Seriously come on. 74 00:05:23,790 --> 00:05:25,773 - All right, what do you want? 75 00:05:31,410 --> 00:05:32,590 I said don't do that. 76 00:05:36,980 --> 00:05:38,650 - Are you going into the city? 77 00:05:38,650 --> 00:05:39,483 - Yes, I am. 78 00:05:40,390 --> 00:05:41,638 - And? 79 00:05:41,638 --> 00:05:42,555 - And what? 80 00:05:43,620 --> 00:05:44,643 - What are you gonna tell them? 81 00:05:44,643 --> 00:05:46,210 - What we discussed. 82 00:05:46,210 --> 00:05:47,800 - So you're going back? 83 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:49,807 - Yes, I said yes, Shivaani. 84 00:05:50,850 --> 00:05:52,450 - What time is your appointment? 85 00:05:54,010 --> 00:05:54,843 - Come on, Shivaani. 86 00:05:54,843 --> 00:05:55,676 What do you want? 87 00:05:55,676 --> 00:05:56,509 - Seriously what do I want? 88 00:05:56,509 --> 00:05:57,813 - You know what I mean. 89 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:01,620 - No, I don't know what you mean, Kabir. 90 00:06:01,620 --> 00:06:03,540 - Well then just let it go. 91 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:08,483 - Look, we all loved your mother. 92 00:06:09,717 --> 00:06:10,924 - Shivaani, please. 93 00:06:10,924 --> 00:06:12,424 - You've got-- - Got to what? 94 00:06:14,010 --> 00:06:15,410 - [Shivaani] Nothing. 95 00:06:15,410 --> 00:06:17,760 - No, tell me what I need to do. 96 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:19,650 I'm already going back to med school. 97 00:06:19,650 --> 00:06:21,410 What more do you want me to do? 98 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:23,900 - How 'bout living together? 99 00:06:23,900 --> 00:06:26,293 How 'bout being normal? 100 00:06:27,334 --> 00:06:28,820 - Shivaani, you're the one who told me to move here. 101 00:06:28,820 --> 00:06:30,030 - I didn't know that you were gonna live 102 00:06:30,030 --> 00:06:31,414 in your mother's house forever. 103 00:06:31,414 --> 00:06:32,247 - It's only been a year. 104 00:06:32,247 --> 00:06:33,220 - It's a long time, Kabir. 105 00:06:33,220 --> 00:06:34,620 I seriously think you should start thinking 106 00:06:34,620 --> 00:06:35,709 about selling this house. 107 00:06:35,709 --> 00:06:38,730 - Shivaani, don't you dare tell me to sell this house again. 108 00:06:38,730 --> 00:06:39,563 - Don't I dare? 109 00:06:39,563 --> 00:06:41,280 - Yeah okay 'cause I'm done talking about that. 110 00:06:41,280 --> 00:06:42,750 - [Shivaani] Where are you going? 111 00:06:42,750 --> 00:06:43,883 - [Kabir] I need some space. 112 00:07:04,390 --> 00:07:06,573 - Look, come to the party tomorrow. 113 00:07:07,790 --> 00:07:08,690 - I don't want to. 114 00:07:13,310 --> 00:07:15,660 - If not for my sake, then come for my parents. 115 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:21,550 - What does this have to do with your parents? 116 00:07:21,550 --> 00:07:24,710 - If you don't come, then everybody's gonna 117 00:07:24,710 --> 00:07:26,910 ask them where you are. 118 00:07:26,910 --> 00:07:28,160 It'll put them in a spot. 119 00:07:29,380 --> 00:07:30,830 It's not fair on them, Kabir. 120 00:07:39,210 --> 00:07:40,083 Try to come. 121 00:07:45,500 --> 00:07:47,536 Come say hi to everybody. 122 00:07:47,536 --> 00:07:48,369 Okay? 123 00:07:51,186 --> 00:07:52,136 I'll see you later. 124 00:08:10,570 --> 00:08:13,237 (phone ringing) 125 00:08:22,950 --> 00:08:24,680 - Hey, how's it going? 126 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:26,640 - [Catherine] Are you gonna come by? 127 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:28,523 - I told you I have that party tonight. 128 00:08:29,550 --> 00:08:31,290 - You're gonna be at the hospital today right? 129 00:08:31,290 --> 00:08:32,600 - Yeah, I'm gonna be at the hospital. 130 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:35,163 - So, come by after. 131 00:08:38,290 --> 00:08:39,340 - Catherine, listen. 132 00:08:39,340 --> 00:08:40,243 - Only for a sec. 133 00:08:41,180 --> 00:08:44,180 I wanna give you your Christmas present before I leave town. 134 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:47,823 - Okay all right. 135 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:50,470 Only for a second. 136 00:08:50,470 --> 00:08:51,303 - Awesome. 137 00:08:52,370 --> 00:08:53,420 Text me when you're coming. 138 00:08:53,420 --> 00:08:55,070 - Yeah okay. 139 00:08:55,070 --> 00:08:55,903 All right. 140 00:09:40,207 --> 00:09:42,624 (soft music) 141 00:09:54,650 --> 00:09:55,550 - Hey KB. 142 00:09:55,550 --> 00:09:56,503 - [Kabir] Hey Paddy. 143 00:10:04,530 --> 00:10:05,820 - Oh, give me that. 144 00:10:05,820 --> 00:10:07,440 This Shivaani's cooking? 145 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:08,273 - Yup. 146 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:12,090 - How come you just give this stuff away? 147 00:10:16,060 --> 00:10:17,390 How you doing, man? 148 00:10:17,390 --> 00:10:18,223 - Okay. 149 00:10:19,410 --> 00:10:20,660 Paddy, that's disgusting. 150 00:10:22,734 --> 00:10:24,250 - No, it's delicious. 151 00:10:24,250 --> 00:10:26,490 - No, how could you eat like that? 152 00:10:26,490 --> 00:10:27,323 - Like this. 153 00:10:28,314 --> 00:10:29,237 Wanna try one? 154 00:10:29,237 --> 00:10:30,070 Here try. 155 00:10:30,070 --> 00:10:30,903 Try some. 156 00:10:30,903 --> 00:10:31,736 - Oh no way. 157 00:10:31,736 --> 00:10:32,983 - My fingers are clean. 158 00:10:32,983 --> 00:10:34,338 You can try one. 159 00:10:34,338 --> 00:10:36,080 - Paddy, I know for a fact your fingers are filthy. 160 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:36,913 - What? 161 00:10:36,913 --> 00:10:38,110 - [Kabir] You don't wash your hands. 162 00:10:38,110 --> 00:10:39,350 - Of course I do. 163 00:10:39,350 --> 00:10:40,600 State law requires me to. 164 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:43,720 - Paddy, I've seen you come of that bathroom 165 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:44,880 without washing your hands okay. 166 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:46,420 - You get some alcohol on your fingers, 167 00:10:46,420 --> 00:10:48,120 you don't have to wash it off. 168 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:49,720 Why are you so squeamish anyway? 169 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:52,120 - Med school. 170 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:55,110 You don't wanna know the things that I know. 171 00:10:55,110 --> 00:10:56,874 - Ain't much that worse, man. 172 00:10:56,874 --> 00:10:57,791 Believe me. 173 00:11:01,656 --> 00:11:02,489 - What? 174 00:11:02,489 --> 00:11:04,260 - You're all dressed up and looking nice. 175 00:11:04,260 --> 00:11:05,093 - So? 176 00:11:05,992 --> 00:11:08,490 - Well, I just haven't seen you look like. 177 00:11:08,490 --> 00:11:09,323 - Like what? 178 00:11:10,220 --> 00:11:12,033 - Look like you for a long time. 179 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:14,280 What's the occasion? 180 00:11:16,750 --> 00:11:18,810 - I've got that meeting at school. 181 00:11:18,810 --> 00:11:21,276 - Oh, you think they'll let you back? 182 00:11:21,276 --> 00:11:23,320 - What does that even mean? 183 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:24,660 - I don't know. 184 00:11:24,660 --> 00:11:27,433 Maybe they filled their quota on good looking doctors. 185 00:11:30,770 --> 00:11:31,770 So Shivaani. 186 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:34,910 Any improvement? 187 00:11:34,910 --> 00:11:36,450 - [Kabir] In what? 188 00:11:36,450 --> 00:11:38,190 - Getting back together. 189 00:11:38,190 --> 00:11:39,023 - No. 190 00:11:39,023 --> 00:11:40,070 Not happening. 191 00:11:40,070 --> 00:11:41,366 - Seriously? 192 00:11:41,366 --> 00:11:42,843 Do I have to tell you what it means 193 00:11:42,843 --> 00:11:44,483 when a woman brings you food? 194 00:11:46,560 --> 00:11:47,520 - Yeah, tell me what it means. 195 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:48,923 - It means she loves you. 196 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:52,330 - Maybe she's doing what she thinks a wife would do. 197 00:11:52,330 --> 00:11:54,580 - No, she's doing it because she wants 198 00:11:54,580 --> 00:11:56,103 to get back together with you. 199 00:11:58,070 --> 00:11:59,880 - Okay Paddy, let's drop it. 200 00:11:59,880 --> 00:12:00,870 - Okay. 201 00:12:00,870 --> 00:12:01,790 All right. 202 00:12:01,790 --> 00:12:02,930 Hey, you coming to the party? 203 00:12:02,930 --> 00:12:03,825 - No. 204 00:12:03,825 --> 00:12:04,658 - No? 205 00:12:04,658 --> 00:12:05,491 - [Kabir] No. 206 00:12:05,491 --> 00:12:06,870 - [Paddy] Why not? 207 00:12:06,870 --> 00:12:08,655 - Paddy, what were we just talking about? 208 00:12:08,655 --> 00:12:09,500 - About Shivaani. 209 00:12:09,500 --> 00:12:10,333 - Okay, I'm gonna go. 210 00:12:10,333 --> 00:12:11,950 - Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey. 211 00:12:11,950 --> 00:12:12,783 Just cheer up, man. 212 00:12:12,783 --> 00:12:13,616 It's Christmas okay. 213 00:12:13,616 --> 00:12:14,890 - I don't care if it's Christmas. 214 00:12:14,890 --> 00:12:16,178 - That was your mother's favorite holiday. 215 00:12:16,178 --> 00:12:17,217 - What do you know about my mother? 216 00:12:17,217 --> 00:12:18,140 - Are you serious? 217 00:12:18,140 --> 00:12:19,923 - Yeah you think Christmas was her favorite holiday. 218 00:12:19,923 --> 00:12:21,290 - Yeah, I know it was. 219 00:12:21,290 --> 00:12:22,123 - Well you don't know anything. 220 00:12:22,123 --> 00:12:23,858 - Hey, hey, chill out, man. 221 00:12:23,858 --> 00:12:24,700 - [Kabir] You chill off, Paddy. 222 00:12:24,700 --> 00:12:25,533 Fuck off. 223 00:12:31,916 --> 00:12:34,333 (soft music) 224 00:12:40,705 --> 00:12:45,705 ♪ In separated chamber ♪ 225 00:12:46,427 --> 00:12:51,427 ♪ High school told me ♪ 226 00:12:52,357 --> 00:12:57,357 ♪ We work so we remember ♪ 227 00:12:58,070 --> 00:13:02,630 ♪ The burning can be sweet ♪ 228 00:13:02,630 --> 00:13:04,382 ♪ So sweet ♪ 229 00:13:04,382 --> 00:13:09,382 ♪ We waste this time being sorry ♪ 230 00:13:09,962 --> 00:13:14,962 ♪ Time that people go ♪ 231 00:13:16,078 --> 00:13:21,078 ♪ Your soul is all I'll carry ♪ 232 00:13:21,822 --> 00:13:26,822 ♪ Your face is all I know ♪ 233 00:13:29,086 --> 00:13:31,693 ♪ Like to win ♪ 234 00:13:31,693 --> 00:13:34,369 ♪ You like to fight ♪ 235 00:13:34,369 --> 00:13:39,369 ♪ Is one true love worth all your might ♪ 236 00:13:40,755 --> 00:13:45,755 ♪ Or maybe play my favorite game ♪ 237 00:13:46,592 --> 00:13:49,101 ♪ Of lose and find ♪ 238 00:13:49,101 --> 00:13:52,747 ♪ Of lose ♪ 239 00:13:52,747 --> 00:13:57,747 ♪ And find ♪ 240 00:13:59,522 --> 00:14:01,272 ♪ Oh ♪ 241 00:14:10,657 --> 00:14:12,407 ♪ Oh ♪ 242 00:14:24,275 --> 00:14:29,275 ♪ Oh ♪ 243 00:14:33,773 --> 00:14:38,476 ♪ Oh troubled mind ♪ 244 00:14:38,476 --> 00:14:43,476 ♪ You make love so hard to find ♪ 245 00:14:46,617 --> 00:14:50,362 ♪ Oh troubled mind ♪ 246 00:14:50,362 --> 00:14:54,195 ♪ I don't want to look behind ♪ 247 00:15:10,310 --> 00:15:12,250 - Looks like you've been out for a year. 248 00:15:12,250 --> 00:15:14,533 You just left after your third semester. 249 00:15:16,450 --> 00:15:18,400 Do you think you're ready to come back? 250 00:15:20,250 --> 00:15:21,173 Mister Bakshi? 251 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:24,400 - Sorry what? 252 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:26,943 - [Woman] I understand it was your mother who departed. 253 00:15:29,820 --> 00:15:30,820 - [Man] Your mother. 254 00:15:32,490 --> 00:15:34,106 - What about her? 255 00:15:34,106 --> 00:15:35,939 - [Man] She collapsed. 256 00:15:38,869 --> 00:15:40,869 - [Woman] Mister Bakshi? 257 00:15:43,490 --> 00:15:44,450 - What if I'm not ready yet? 258 00:15:44,450 --> 00:15:46,420 - Well, we usually don't allow students 259 00:15:46,420 --> 00:15:49,180 to be gone longer than a year, even for bereavement. 260 00:15:49,180 --> 00:15:52,150 We have to consider the impact such a long absence 261 00:15:52,150 --> 00:15:53,700 would have on your studies. 262 00:15:53,700 --> 00:15:54,800 This curriculum is designed-- 263 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:57,140 - Couldn't I apply for a longer leave of absence? 264 00:15:57,140 --> 00:15:58,934 - There's a lot of paperwork you'd have to submit 265 00:15:58,934 --> 00:16:01,643 and there's no guarantee it'd be granted. 266 00:16:02,704 --> 00:16:05,440 - When would I have to make that request? 267 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:07,140 - I don't think that's such a good idea. 268 00:16:07,140 --> 00:16:07,973 Sometimes it's-- 269 00:16:07,973 --> 00:16:09,650 - Ma'am, when would I have to apply for the request? 270 00:16:09,650 --> 00:16:11,090 - As soon as possible. 271 00:16:11,090 --> 00:16:12,503 Right after the holidays. 272 00:16:33,130 --> 00:16:34,197 - Hey (speaks in foreign language). 273 00:16:38,780 --> 00:16:40,610 - Sorry what did you call me? 274 00:16:40,610 --> 00:16:42,433 - Can you help me ease my suffering? 275 00:16:48,660 --> 00:16:49,493 - [Kabir] Hey. 276 00:16:50,500 --> 00:16:52,430 Don't click somebody's picture without asking. 277 00:16:52,430 --> 00:16:53,850 - Or without paying huh. 278 00:16:53,850 --> 00:16:54,720 - I'm sorry. 279 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:56,760 Asking would've ruined the moment. 280 00:16:56,760 --> 00:16:59,460 - Yeah, you mean it would've ruined your shot? 281 00:16:59,460 --> 00:17:00,293 - Yeah, I-- 282 00:17:00,293 --> 00:17:01,490 - No, you don't do that. 283 00:17:01,490 --> 00:17:02,323 Okay? 284 00:17:20,877 --> 00:17:23,294 (soft music) 285 00:17:29,490 --> 00:17:30,323 - Ow. 286 00:17:30,323 --> 00:17:31,660 - Watch where the fuck you're going. 287 00:17:31,660 --> 00:17:32,610 - Hey fuck you. 288 00:17:32,610 --> 00:17:33,600 - Fuck you. 289 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:34,523 - [Mom] Kabir. 290 00:17:34,523 --> 00:17:35,356 - Ouch. 291 00:17:35,356 --> 00:17:36,640 Ow Mom, what the hell? 292 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:37,953 - This is Christmas. 293 00:18:04,404 --> 00:18:07,760 - (laughs) Look who's returned. 294 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:08,593 - Hey listen. 295 00:18:08,593 --> 00:18:09,630 Did you see where she went? 296 00:18:09,630 --> 00:18:10,872 - Who? 297 00:18:10,872 --> 00:18:12,633 - The girl, the photographer. 298 00:18:14,293 --> 00:18:15,126 - Who? 299 00:18:18,830 --> 00:18:19,773 - [Kabir] Where is she? 300 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:21,810 - She went that way. 301 00:18:21,810 --> 00:18:22,643 - That way? 302 00:18:29,662 --> 00:18:30,611 Hey. 303 00:18:30,611 --> 00:18:31,693 Hey, hey, hey. 304 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:33,890 - Hey. 305 00:18:33,890 --> 00:18:34,723 - Listen. 306 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:38,830 I wanted to apologize about earlier. 307 00:18:38,830 --> 00:18:39,663 - It's okay. 308 00:18:39,663 --> 00:18:40,880 I think it was my fault. 309 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:41,713 - Oh no, no. 310 00:18:41,713 --> 00:18:42,546 It was my fault. 311 00:18:42,546 --> 00:18:45,046 It's Christmas and I should be nicer to people, 312 00:18:45,046 --> 00:18:47,010 especially to people visiting. 313 00:18:47,010 --> 00:18:49,170 I assume you're not from here. 314 00:18:49,170 --> 00:18:50,951 - I'm from Kenya. 315 00:18:50,951 --> 00:18:51,784 - Oh Kenya. 316 00:18:51,784 --> 00:18:53,600 Hey, you followed me here? 317 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:55,423 - I had my picture taken, too. 318 00:18:56,660 --> 00:18:58,760 Old lady's gotta eat huh. 319 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:00,335 - Yeah. 320 00:19:00,335 --> 00:19:01,335 - Thank you. 321 00:19:02,173 --> 00:19:03,006 - You got your money. 322 00:19:03,006 --> 00:19:03,839 You can go now. 323 00:19:03,839 --> 00:19:04,672 Thank you. 324 00:19:04,672 --> 00:19:05,505 - Hold on. 325 00:19:09,540 --> 00:19:14,030 There is something special between you two. 326 00:19:14,030 --> 00:19:15,620 No, no. 327 00:19:15,620 --> 00:19:16,620 Really. 328 00:19:16,620 --> 00:19:19,793 Just take a moment and look at each other. 329 00:19:21,120 --> 00:19:21,953 - We can go. 330 00:19:21,953 --> 00:19:22,786 - No really. 331 00:19:22,786 --> 00:19:27,280 Just take a moment and really look at her. 332 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:29,210 Just look at her for a moment. 333 00:19:29,210 --> 00:19:30,770 You too, miss. 334 00:19:30,770 --> 00:19:34,250 Take a moment and really look at him. 335 00:19:34,250 --> 00:19:35,390 - Okay come here. 336 00:19:35,390 --> 00:19:36,590 - No, no, this is silly. 337 00:19:37,610 --> 00:19:39,473 - Come on, just take a moment. 338 00:19:41,633 --> 00:19:44,050 (soft music) 339 00:19:59,383 --> 00:20:00,216 - [Homeless Woman] That's it. 340 00:20:00,216 --> 00:20:02,270 - Okay anyways, this is enough. 341 00:20:02,270 --> 00:20:04,110 - What about you, miss? 342 00:20:04,110 --> 00:20:06,490 Do you believe in karma? 343 00:20:06,490 --> 00:20:07,808 - I do. 344 00:20:07,808 --> 00:20:08,803 - Come this way. 345 00:20:08,803 --> 00:20:09,636 Just come on, come on. 346 00:20:09,636 --> 00:20:10,469 Thank you very much. 347 00:20:10,469 --> 00:20:11,302 Have a good day. 348 00:20:11,302 --> 00:20:12,610 Come, come. 349 00:20:12,610 --> 00:20:14,003 - Merry Christmas you two. 350 00:20:17,540 --> 00:20:19,540 - Well, it was nice meeting you 351 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:22,850 and I suppose she won't follow us around anymore. 352 00:20:22,850 --> 00:20:24,770 - She's a strange woman. 353 00:20:24,770 --> 00:20:25,960 - She's a crazy woman. 354 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:27,720 - But I think she means well. 355 00:20:28,630 --> 00:20:30,880 - I think it's better you stay away from people like that 356 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:33,940 because the city can be pretty dangerous sometimes. 357 00:20:33,940 --> 00:20:35,120 - [Kioni] What's your name? 358 00:20:35,120 --> 00:20:36,070 - My name is Kabir. 359 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:39,393 - [Kioni] Kabir. 360 00:20:39,393 --> 00:20:41,880 - Well, my friends call me KB sometimes. 361 00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:43,813 - Which do you like? 362 00:20:43,813 --> 00:20:44,950 - Whatever. 363 00:20:44,950 --> 00:20:46,620 - I like Kabir. 364 00:20:46,620 --> 00:20:47,960 Is it Indian? 365 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:49,320 - Yes it is. 366 00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:50,370 And what's your name? 367 00:20:51,250 --> 00:20:52,897 - Kioni. 368 00:20:52,897 --> 00:20:54,155 - Kioni? 369 00:20:54,155 --> 00:20:55,330 You're on vacation? 370 00:20:55,330 --> 00:20:56,780 - Kind of. 371 00:20:56,780 --> 00:20:57,670 - Kind of? 372 00:20:57,670 --> 00:20:59,630 - I applied to film school here. 373 00:20:59,630 --> 00:21:01,800 I just finished my interview. 374 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:03,320 - And how'd that go? 375 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:05,350 - [Kioni] Pretty good I guess. 376 00:21:05,350 --> 00:21:07,840 - Yeah, I guess you never really know about those things. 377 00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:10,350 So Kioni, do you know where you're going? 378 00:21:10,350 --> 00:21:11,730 - I wanna see more of the city. 379 00:21:11,730 --> 00:21:13,840 I wanna see the Christmas decorations. 380 00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:16,480 - Okay, so you should take the train uptown 381 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:17,630 because there's a lot of beautiful 382 00:21:17,630 --> 00:21:19,800 Christmas decorations up there, 383 00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:21,180 but you don't wanna go that way 384 00:21:21,180 --> 00:21:23,174 'cause you might bump into the homeless lady again. 385 00:21:23,174 --> 00:21:26,630 If you want, I can show you another subway entrance. 386 00:21:26,630 --> 00:21:27,463 - Can I walk? 387 00:21:27,463 --> 00:21:28,296 - From here? 388 00:21:28,296 --> 00:21:29,550 - [Kioni] Yeah. 389 00:21:29,550 --> 00:21:30,743 - No, that's too far. 390 00:21:39,330 --> 00:21:40,610 Listen. 391 00:21:40,610 --> 00:21:43,163 Since you're a visitor here, if you want, 392 00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:47,770 I can show you a few interesting places. 393 00:21:47,770 --> 00:21:48,603 - That'd be nice. 394 00:21:48,603 --> 00:21:49,436 Thank you. 395 00:21:50,584 --> 00:21:53,167 (gentle music) 396 00:22:00,583 --> 00:22:04,083 (camera shutter clicking) 397 00:22:13,890 --> 00:22:15,810 - Whoa, you really like all these buildings. 398 00:22:15,810 --> 00:22:17,950 - Never seen anything like them. 399 00:22:17,950 --> 00:22:18,783 - Never? 400 00:22:18,783 --> 00:22:20,920 - I mean we have tall buildings in Kenya, 401 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:22,950 but the architecture's different. 402 00:22:22,950 --> 00:22:24,903 No way they're altogether like this. 403 00:22:26,791 --> 00:22:28,020 (camera shutter clicking) 404 00:22:28,020 --> 00:22:29,720 - But you keep taking pictures of all of them. 405 00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:31,143 - I know it's silly. 406 00:22:37,002 --> 00:22:39,585 (gentle music) 407 00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:57,000 - Well I've never really thought about the buildings. 408 00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,670 I mean, there are famous ones in New York 409 00:22:59,670 --> 00:23:03,230 like the Empire State Building, the Flatiron Building, 410 00:23:03,230 --> 00:23:05,240 the Chrysler Building, so many, 411 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:08,847 but it's not like I thought about the buildings. 412 00:23:08,847 --> 00:23:10,934 - [Kioni] Why not? 413 00:23:10,934 --> 00:23:12,507 - [Kabir] They're just buildings. 414 00:23:12,507 --> 00:23:13,640 - You see a building. 415 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:15,170 I see a story. 416 00:23:15,170 --> 00:23:16,530 - [Kabir] You see a story? 417 00:23:16,530 --> 00:23:17,580 - Sure. 418 00:23:17,580 --> 00:23:19,313 Each one has a story. 419 00:23:21,250 --> 00:23:24,300 - That reminds me of my first year in medical school. 420 00:23:24,300 --> 00:23:25,283 - You're a doctor? 421 00:23:26,933 --> 00:23:27,766 - A med student. 422 00:23:29,030 --> 00:23:31,250 During my first year in medical school, 423 00:23:31,250 --> 00:23:33,950 I lived in the student housing in a building on Park Avenue. 424 00:23:33,950 --> 00:23:35,369 - Nice. 425 00:23:35,369 --> 00:23:36,470 - No not nice. 426 00:23:36,470 --> 00:23:37,570 Not nice. 427 00:23:37,570 --> 00:23:39,330 It was an old rundown building 428 00:23:39,330 --> 00:23:41,000 that must have been housing medical students 429 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,060 for like 200 years or something, 430 00:23:43,060 --> 00:23:45,320 but what you just said made me realize 431 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:46,889 that all the students who ever lived there 432 00:23:46,889 --> 00:23:50,498 must have had stories and conversations 433 00:23:50,498 --> 00:23:53,193 and revelations about their time there. 434 00:23:53,193 --> 00:23:57,150 - And all the people made friends then fell in love. 435 00:23:57,150 --> 00:23:59,780 - And lost their minds in their studies, 436 00:23:59,780 --> 00:24:01,890 but no one would ever know walking by 437 00:24:01,890 --> 00:24:03,793 unless they were a part of that story. 438 00:24:04,710 --> 00:24:07,310 To everyone else it'd just be another building. 439 00:24:07,310 --> 00:24:08,423 - Or another story. 440 00:24:11,666 --> 00:24:14,249 (bright music) 441 00:25:47,909 --> 00:25:49,482 Show me the pictures you took of me. 442 00:25:49,482 --> 00:25:50,909 Show me, show me, show me, show me, show me, show me. 443 00:25:50,909 --> 00:25:52,387 - Okay, look, look, look, look. 444 00:25:52,387 --> 00:25:54,263 - Thank you so much. 445 00:25:55,810 --> 00:25:56,643 - I'm married. 446 00:25:57,810 --> 00:25:58,693 - Okay. 447 00:26:01,090 --> 00:26:02,240 - Sorry, I don't know why I said that. 448 00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:03,910 I don't know why I said that. 449 00:26:03,910 --> 00:26:04,743 Forget it. 450 00:26:04,743 --> 00:26:05,684 - It's okay. 451 00:26:05,684 --> 00:26:07,110 I'm not trying to come on to you. 452 00:26:07,110 --> 00:26:08,490 - No, no, I know, I know. 453 00:26:08,490 --> 00:26:09,470 That's why I don't know why I said that. 454 00:26:09,470 --> 00:26:11,580 I didn't mean to make it all awkward. 455 00:26:11,580 --> 00:26:12,413 Listen. 456 00:26:12,413 --> 00:26:13,246 - Really it's okay. 457 00:26:18,950 --> 00:26:20,360 - Listen. 458 00:26:20,360 --> 00:26:24,000 Okay, the thing is my wife and I recently separated 459 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,100 and haven't been living together for some time. 460 00:26:26,100 --> 00:26:27,860 So, I just. 461 00:26:27,860 --> 00:26:28,850 - Hey we're just hanging out. 462 00:26:28,850 --> 00:26:29,683 Okay? 463 00:26:29,683 --> 00:26:31,560 You don't have to explain anything to me. 464 00:26:32,980 --> 00:26:33,813 - Okay. 465 00:26:41,984 --> 00:26:44,550 - You're kind of a dork you know. 466 00:26:44,550 --> 00:26:45,390 - A dork? 467 00:26:45,390 --> 00:26:46,473 - Total dork. 468 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:48,192 - Why? 469 00:26:48,192 --> 00:26:49,025 What? 470 00:26:49,025 --> 00:26:50,490 - A girl kisses you on the cheek 471 00:26:50,490 --> 00:26:52,633 and you get all flustered and blush. 472 00:26:54,470 --> 00:26:55,730 - That's not fair okay. 473 00:26:55,730 --> 00:26:56,563 You surprised me. 474 00:26:56,563 --> 00:26:57,396 - Sure, sure. 475 00:26:58,440 --> 00:26:59,490 - You wanna sit here? 476 00:27:05,890 --> 00:27:08,170 Do people give gifts in Kenya on Christmas? 477 00:27:08,170 --> 00:27:11,520 - Some people do but the focus is also on community 478 00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:15,450 and celebrating the birth of Jesus, which the churches do. 479 00:27:15,450 --> 00:27:18,083 My family had a tradition of eating cake. 480 00:27:20,690 --> 00:27:22,930 - You know, my family is not Christian, 481 00:27:22,930 --> 00:27:26,390 so for us Christmas was never about the birth of Jesus. 482 00:27:26,390 --> 00:27:27,540 - Are you Muslim? 483 00:27:27,540 --> 00:27:29,180 - No, not Muslim. 484 00:27:29,180 --> 00:27:30,620 Not really anything. 485 00:27:30,620 --> 00:27:32,130 I mean, my parents were Hindus, 486 00:27:32,130 --> 00:27:35,800 but at home we never really spoke about it. 487 00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:37,450 - So what do you do on Christmas? 488 00:27:40,999 --> 00:27:43,990 - I never really liked Christmas. 489 00:27:43,990 --> 00:27:45,775 - You don't like Christmas? 490 00:27:45,775 --> 00:27:47,360 - You know if it was more about religion 491 00:27:47,360 --> 00:27:49,590 than about gift giving maybe I would but. 492 00:27:49,590 --> 00:27:50,423 - [Kioni] But? 493 00:27:58,250 --> 00:28:00,840 - My mom raised me alone. 494 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:02,490 My dad died when I was very young 495 00:28:03,630 --> 00:28:05,330 and we never really had much money 496 00:28:06,630 --> 00:28:08,530 and so I never really liked Christmas. 497 00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:11,990 I would hate that after the holidays 498 00:28:11,990 --> 00:28:13,860 when all the kids came back to school, 499 00:28:13,860 --> 00:28:15,327 they'd show off all the amazing gifts 500 00:28:15,327 --> 00:28:17,890 that they got from Santa Claus, 501 00:28:17,890 --> 00:28:19,290 and I'd just tried to hide the fact 502 00:28:19,290 --> 00:28:20,670 that the most amazing gifts I got 503 00:28:20,670 --> 00:28:23,856 from Santa were new underwear and socks. 504 00:28:23,856 --> 00:28:25,253 - Those are good gifts. 505 00:28:26,350 --> 00:28:28,040 - Well, I see that now. 506 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,030 You know, that my mom was being practical 507 00:28:30,030 --> 00:28:32,680 and only got me things that I needed, 508 00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:36,280 but you know as a kid, it hurts when you realize 509 00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:39,710 that you got all the things you got because you're poor. 510 00:28:39,710 --> 00:28:41,920 Everything during Christmas revolves around 511 00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:42,980 how much money you have. 512 00:28:42,980 --> 00:28:45,610 The more you have, the better it is. 513 00:28:45,610 --> 00:28:47,988 - That's true about everything though, isn't it? 514 00:28:47,988 --> 00:28:49,270 - Yeah, but for kids it's not. 515 00:28:49,270 --> 00:28:50,670 They don't know any of that. 516 00:28:51,710 --> 00:28:55,824 As a child I could have a stick and call it a sword. 517 00:28:55,824 --> 00:28:56,730 You know? 518 00:28:56,730 --> 00:28:59,510 I could have a cardboard box and it'd be my castle 519 00:28:59,510 --> 00:29:01,360 and I'd be the kind and I'd be happy. 520 00:29:02,350 --> 00:29:04,800 - So why is Christmas any different? 521 00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:06,440 - It's different because one day you realize 522 00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:08,700 that Santa Claus is actually your mom 523 00:29:08,700 --> 00:29:10,190 and what you get has nothing to do 524 00:29:10,190 --> 00:29:11,187 with how good or bad you are, 525 00:29:11,187 --> 00:29:12,970 but about how much money you had, 526 00:29:12,970 --> 00:29:16,120 and that's when all the realities of life hit me. 527 00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:17,570 - You realized this as a kid? 528 00:29:19,236 --> 00:29:24,236 - I was 10 years old and my dad had been gone for sometime 529 00:29:24,636 --> 00:29:26,550 and that particular year my mom 530 00:29:26,550 --> 00:29:30,200 got a fake plastic Christmas tree instead of the real one 531 00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:33,050 and I remember when that happened, I was so angry. 532 00:29:33,050 --> 00:29:35,443 I was so upset, I cried and I yelled at her. 533 00:29:36,930 --> 00:29:39,790 I mean, that moment ruined Christmas for me. 534 00:29:39,790 --> 00:29:40,623 - Why? 535 00:29:40,623 --> 00:29:43,000 - Because I knew we got a fake plastic Christmas tree 536 00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:45,000 because we couldn't afford the real one 537 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:48,000 and all the illusions of Christmas came crashing down on me. 538 00:29:49,330 --> 00:29:50,480 - I think we can all relate 539 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:52,650 to feeling like money's a problem, 540 00:29:52,650 --> 00:29:55,587 but you look like you're doing pretty good now. 541 00:29:55,587 --> 00:29:57,423 - Don't judge a book by it's cover. 542 00:29:58,950 --> 00:30:00,120 - Let's get something to eat. 543 00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:01,290 I'm hungry. 544 00:30:01,290 --> 00:30:04,150 I wanna try New York pizza. 545 00:30:04,150 --> 00:30:06,105 - You haven't had New York pizza? 546 00:30:06,105 --> 00:30:07,150 - No. 547 00:30:07,150 --> 00:30:08,743 - Oh okay, let's go. 548 00:30:11,870 --> 00:30:12,703 Pizza. 549 00:30:12,703 --> 00:30:13,758 - [Kioni] Yes. 550 00:30:13,758 --> 00:30:14,591 - [Kabir] You have to try it. 551 00:30:14,591 --> 00:30:16,841 New York pizza is the best. 552 00:30:24,010 --> 00:30:25,543 - That was really good. 553 00:30:26,457 --> 00:30:27,453 - Told you. 554 00:30:34,820 --> 00:30:37,093 - The first Christmas movie I remember seeing 555 00:30:38,122 --> 00:30:40,870 was the "Miracle on 34th Street". 556 00:30:40,870 --> 00:30:43,220 The color version, not the black and white one. 557 00:30:43,220 --> 00:30:45,160 - I saw the black and white one. 558 00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:48,130 It's about that old man who plays Santa 559 00:30:48,130 --> 00:30:49,960 in the department store and pretends 560 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:51,840 to be the real Santa Claus. 561 00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:54,123 Wasn't there something about a house? 562 00:30:55,410 --> 00:30:56,360 - Yeah. 563 00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:58,010 The little girl wants her dream house 564 00:30:58,010 --> 00:31:00,440 for her family to live in and by the end, 565 00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:02,580 they get it and it's a miracle. 566 00:31:02,580 --> 00:31:03,750 - Yeah. 567 00:31:03,750 --> 00:31:05,647 I sort of remember that. 568 00:31:05,647 --> 00:31:07,700 - It had a huge impact on me. 569 00:31:07,700 --> 00:31:10,064 I was orphaned really young and I-- 570 00:31:10,064 --> 00:31:11,230 - You're an orphan? 571 00:31:11,230 --> 00:31:14,923 - Yeah, my parents died when I was eight but I wasn't-- 572 00:31:14,923 --> 00:31:17,180 - I'm so sorry to hear that. 573 00:31:17,180 --> 00:31:18,240 I feel like such an asshole. 574 00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:20,230 I've been talking about being poor 575 00:31:20,230 --> 00:31:21,760 and about all my problems. 576 00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:22,593 So sorry. 577 00:31:22,593 --> 00:31:23,980 - No, don't worry about it. 578 00:31:23,980 --> 00:31:26,670 I realized long ago that my life is my journey 579 00:31:26,670 --> 00:31:29,500 and it's just as amazing and difficult as anyone else 580 00:31:29,500 --> 00:31:30,550 that's on the planet. 581 00:31:32,890 --> 00:31:34,560 - [Kabir] When did you realize that? 582 00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:36,280 - It's kind of connected to that movie. 583 00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:38,000 To all Christmas movies. 584 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:39,980 Those movies were fantasy. 585 00:31:39,980 --> 00:31:43,380 Like the idea that you could ask for whatever you wanted 586 00:31:43,380 --> 00:31:48,260 and just get it, that's amazing, and I totally fell for it. 587 00:31:48,260 --> 00:31:50,490 I didn't really understand who Santa was 588 00:31:50,490 --> 00:31:52,620 until after my parents died, 589 00:31:52,620 --> 00:31:54,870 and so my first Christmas without them, 590 00:31:54,870 --> 00:31:58,180 my first in the orphanage, I used to write letters to Santa 591 00:31:58,180 --> 00:32:00,350 and I'd wish for a house and a family 592 00:32:00,350 --> 00:32:03,043 and I'd cry when it didn't happen. 593 00:32:03,043 --> 00:32:04,531 - How can you still like Christmas? 594 00:32:04,531 --> 00:32:06,620 I'd hate it if I were you. 595 00:32:06,620 --> 00:32:09,920 - All those hopes and wishes and unanswered letters to Santa 596 00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,160 revealed to me what I want in life. 597 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,050 The dreams of a child are basic, 598 00:32:14,050 --> 00:32:17,320 but they're the backbone of who we are when we grow up. 599 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:18,880 - But what if you don't get any of those things? 600 00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:20,850 - I already have those things. 601 00:32:20,850 --> 00:32:22,930 We have everything we want all our lives. 602 00:32:22,930 --> 00:32:25,523 We just have to change our perspective. 603 00:32:26,780 --> 00:32:30,510 I wanted a family growing up and I had one. 604 00:32:30,510 --> 00:32:32,190 The kids I grew up with. 605 00:32:32,190 --> 00:32:34,100 The women who raised me. 606 00:32:34,100 --> 00:32:36,450 The lady from my church who helped me get here. 607 00:32:39,930 --> 00:32:40,913 They're my family. 608 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:45,163 And I've always had a place to live and food in my belly. 609 00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:50,860 I may not have my mom and dad anymore, but I have them. 610 00:32:50,860 --> 00:32:51,693 I'm blessed. 611 00:32:52,570 --> 00:32:55,380 - And you're willing to leave all that and come to America? 612 00:32:55,380 --> 00:32:56,320 You wouldn't want to stay back 613 00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:57,980 and help the kids in the orphanage? 614 00:32:57,980 --> 00:32:59,630 - But I will. 615 00:32:59,630 --> 00:33:01,770 Coming here and continuing my education 616 00:33:01,770 --> 00:33:04,720 is the best thing I can do to help my people. 617 00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:06,750 Once I'm done with school, I can go back 618 00:33:06,750 --> 00:33:09,097 and help other people tell their stories 619 00:33:09,097 --> 00:33:12,380 and while I'm here, I can meet people like you 620 00:33:12,380 --> 00:33:14,463 and tell them about Kenya. 621 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:19,530 - Kioni, I must say you're a very brave girl. 622 00:33:19,530 --> 00:33:21,830 - If I was brave, I would've gone ice skating. 623 00:33:23,020 --> 00:33:24,850 - No, I said brave not crazy. 624 00:33:24,850 --> 00:33:25,700 - [Catherine] KB? 625 00:33:47,683 --> 00:33:49,183 - What time is it? 626 00:33:51,943 --> 00:33:53,433 - It's 10 after eight. 627 00:33:55,410 --> 00:33:58,240 - Oh no listen. 628 00:33:58,240 --> 00:33:59,860 I'm late. 629 00:33:59,860 --> 00:34:02,050 I was supposed to be home by nine to sing with my mom. 630 00:34:02,050 --> 00:34:03,900 She's gonna be upset. 631 00:34:03,900 --> 00:34:04,733 - Nine? 632 00:34:04,733 --> 00:34:05,566 You've plenty of time. 633 00:34:05,566 --> 00:34:07,506 Just stay a couple more minutes. 634 00:34:07,506 --> 00:34:08,339 - No listen, listen. 635 00:34:08,339 --> 00:34:09,172 I can't. 636 00:34:09,172 --> 00:34:10,150 I can't miss this. 637 00:34:10,150 --> 00:34:10,983 - Well. 638 00:34:12,250 --> 00:34:14,593 At least open your gift before you go. 639 00:34:16,620 --> 00:34:17,453 Here. 640 00:34:19,750 --> 00:34:22,293 - Wow, it's beautiful. 641 00:34:23,660 --> 00:34:26,140 - That is just the wrapping, knucklehead. 642 00:34:26,140 --> 00:34:26,973 Open it. 643 00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:37,255 - I don't know why I'm feeling so nervous. 644 00:34:37,255 --> 00:34:38,705 - What are you nervous about? 645 00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:42,294 - How 'bout I open this when you get back? 646 00:34:42,294 --> 00:34:43,127 - No. 647 00:34:43,127 --> 00:34:43,970 No, open it now. 648 00:34:43,970 --> 00:34:44,967 Come on. 649 00:34:44,967 --> 00:34:45,820 - But I feel bad. 650 00:34:45,820 --> 00:34:46,653 I didn't get you anything. 651 00:34:46,653 --> 00:34:47,540 - Well it doesn't matter. 652 00:34:47,540 --> 00:34:48,383 Open mine. 653 00:34:55,180 --> 00:34:56,013 - Catherine, listen. 654 00:34:56,013 --> 00:34:57,540 How 'bout we both open our gifts together 655 00:34:57,540 --> 00:34:58,997 when we see each other next? 656 00:34:58,997 --> 00:35:00,803 - KB, you are killing me. 657 00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:10,033 - Listen. 658 00:35:11,990 --> 00:35:13,865 I wanna do this right. 659 00:35:13,865 --> 00:35:15,484 - Yeah. 660 00:35:15,484 --> 00:35:16,317 - Yeah. 661 00:35:18,330 --> 00:35:19,365 Look at me. 662 00:35:19,365 --> 00:35:24,365 When you're back from the holidays, let's do this for real. 663 00:35:25,977 --> 00:35:27,560 - Do what for real? 664 00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:30,873 - Be together you and me. 665 00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:35,793 - And what about your wife? 666 00:35:47,570 --> 00:35:48,403 - No wife. 667 00:35:50,060 --> 00:35:50,893 - No wife. 668 00:35:55,342 --> 00:35:58,290 - I think it's time I called it quits. 669 00:35:58,290 --> 00:35:59,497 - You mean leave her? 670 00:36:07,511 --> 00:36:09,960 - Is that okay with you? 671 00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:10,873 - Seriously? 672 00:36:13,410 --> 00:36:15,010 Are you sure you don't wanna? 673 00:36:15,010 --> 00:36:15,913 - I want this. 674 00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:18,960 I wanna be with you. 675 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:21,793 Okay? 676 00:36:22,858 --> 00:36:23,691 - Yeah. 677 00:36:31,386 --> 00:36:32,219 Okay. 678 00:36:35,466 --> 00:36:37,098 - Hi. 679 00:36:37,098 --> 00:36:37,931 - Hi. 680 00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:41,070 Hi, I'm Catherine. 681 00:36:41,070 --> 00:36:42,283 - Hello, I'm Kioni. 682 00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:47,953 - So how have you been? 683 00:36:49,460 --> 00:36:51,020 I haven't seen you since-- 684 00:36:51,020 --> 00:36:53,009 - Yeah, I've been all right. 685 00:36:53,009 --> 00:36:54,159 - Did you leave school? 686 00:36:56,190 --> 00:36:59,070 - No, I've been on leave. 687 00:36:59,070 --> 00:37:00,593 You know the bereavement. 688 00:37:01,650 --> 00:37:02,590 My mother. 689 00:37:02,590 --> 00:37:03,590 - Your mother, yeah. 690 00:37:06,770 --> 00:37:07,670 - How've you been? 691 00:37:08,860 --> 00:37:10,320 - Good. 692 00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:12,013 I graduate next semester. 693 00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:15,600 We've all been going crazy trying to get placed. 694 00:37:16,550 --> 00:37:18,240 Are you a med student? 695 00:37:18,240 --> 00:37:20,530 - No, I've applied to film school. 696 00:37:20,530 --> 00:37:21,480 - Oh, that's great. 697 00:37:27,670 --> 00:37:29,833 I tried to call you like a million times. 698 00:37:31,170 --> 00:37:32,513 I was just wondering. 699 00:37:34,410 --> 00:37:38,013 I mean, I just was hoping that you were okay. 700 00:37:40,570 --> 00:37:43,130 - Yeah, I've been okay. 701 00:37:43,130 --> 00:37:43,963 - That's good. 702 00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:45,753 That's great. 703 00:37:45,753 --> 00:37:46,586 That's great. 704 00:37:48,692 --> 00:37:50,683 And Shivaani, she's okay? 705 00:37:53,157 --> 00:37:54,490 - Shivaani's great. 706 00:37:54,490 --> 00:37:55,840 Shivaani's been good, yeah. 707 00:37:58,870 --> 00:38:02,017 - Well, it was so good to see you. 708 00:38:03,187 --> 00:38:04,493 - It was good to see you, too. 709 00:38:11,010 --> 00:38:12,110 - I'm getting married. 710 00:38:13,410 --> 00:38:15,110 I don't know why I just said that. 711 00:38:16,620 --> 00:38:18,320 I guess I just wanted you to know. 712 00:38:22,820 --> 00:38:24,370 - I'm happy for you, Catherine. 713 00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:26,383 Congratulations. 714 00:38:27,980 --> 00:38:28,813 - Thanks. 715 00:38:32,590 --> 00:38:33,423 Okay. 716 00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:36,863 So, Merry Christmas. 717 00:38:37,780 --> 00:38:38,613 - To you, too. 718 00:38:41,977 --> 00:38:43,477 - Merry Christmas. 719 00:38:45,491 --> 00:38:48,074 (gentle music) 720 00:39:25,217 --> 00:39:28,090 You've been pretty quiet since we ran into Catherine. 721 00:39:28,090 --> 00:39:29,103 Everything okay? 722 00:39:33,350 --> 00:39:34,700 - No, it's just this night. 723 00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:38,150 I mean, not this night, but this night last year 724 00:39:38,150 --> 00:39:39,760 when my mother died. 725 00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:40,593 - Yeah? 726 00:39:41,980 --> 00:39:43,530 - I was going to leave my wife. 727 00:39:45,530 --> 00:39:47,663 - To be with that woman Catherine? 728 00:39:48,590 --> 00:39:49,423 - Yeah. 729 00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:56,730 - But then your mom died. 730 00:40:01,996 --> 00:40:02,829 - Yeah. 731 00:40:06,366 --> 00:40:07,699 - What happened? 732 00:40:13,015 --> 00:40:15,432 (soft music) 733 00:40:21,300 --> 00:40:22,500 - Kabir, where you been? 734 00:40:23,566 --> 00:40:24,850 - What are you talking about? 735 00:40:24,850 --> 00:40:25,683 It's only nine. 736 00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:27,753 - Your mother. 737 00:40:29,550 --> 00:40:30,720 - What about her? 738 00:40:30,720 --> 00:40:32,150 - [Man] She collapsed. 739 00:40:32,150 --> 00:40:33,800 They think it was a heart attack. 740 00:40:40,423 --> 00:40:42,450 - She had a heart attack. 741 00:40:42,450 --> 00:40:43,553 - [Kioni] I'm so sorry. 742 00:40:46,110 --> 00:40:49,470 - My wife's family has this annual Christmas party 743 00:40:50,310 --> 00:40:52,351 and my mother and I were supposed to sing. 744 00:40:52,351 --> 00:40:53,740 - Sing? 745 00:40:53,740 --> 00:40:54,613 Like karaoke? 746 00:40:56,340 --> 00:40:58,183 - No, this song. 747 00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:06,897 But I was with Catherine at her house while my mother. 748 00:41:17,772 --> 00:41:21,543 You know, I think I killed her. 749 00:41:23,980 --> 00:41:25,520 I think that killed her, you know. 750 00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:27,403 Sounds ridiculous, right? 751 00:41:28,260 --> 00:41:30,473 - No, it doesn't. 752 00:41:32,088 --> 00:41:34,671 (gentle music) 753 00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:43,370 For a long time I thought I'd killed my parents. 754 00:41:43,370 --> 00:41:44,203 - Why? 755 00:41:44,203 --> 00:41:45,160 What happened to them? 756 00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:46,193 - Car accident. 757 00:41:48,233 --> 00:41:51,616 (gentle music) 758 00:41:51,616 --> 00:41:53,153 - How could you think that was your fault? 759 00:41:53,153 --> 00:41:53,986 - I don't know. 760 00:41:53,986 --> 00:41:55,450 It's what people think. 761 00:41:55,450 --> 00:41:58,520 Maybe if I'd done this or done that, they'd still be alive. 762 00:41:58,520 --> 00:41:59,353 That's not true. 763 00:41:59,353 --> 00:42:00,693 It's beyond our control. 764 00:42:01,700 --> 00:42:04,500 The question you've got to answer is what's next? 765 00:42:04,500 --> 00:42:07,193 How do I go on without this person? 766 00:42:07,193 --> 00:42:09,083 - Easier said than done. 767 00:42:13,710 --> 00:42:14,750 - Why were you with Catherine 768 00:42:14,750 --> 00:42:17,093 that night instead of your family? 769 00:42:17,093 --> 00:42:17,926 - I don't know. 770 00:42:19,890 --> 00:42:20,723 - Yes, you do. 771 00:42:22,060 --> 00:42:24,643 (gentle music) 772 00:42:28,540 --> 00:42:30,620 - [Kabir] Making me follow traditions from India 773 00:42:30,620 --> 00:42:31,830 when I was raised in America 774 00:42:31,830 --> 00:42:33,580 is like having a split personality. 775 00:42:34,470 --> 00:42:36,530 It drove me crazy until I finally said enough is enough. 776 00:42:36,530 --> 00:42:38,710 - [Kioni] You mean by being with Catherine? 777 00:42:38,710 --> 00:42:39,950 - [Kabir] Yeah. 778 00:42:39,950 --> 00:42:41,450 - [Kioni] But when I kissed your cheek, 779 00:42:41,450 --> 00:42:43,230 you told me you're married. 780 00:42:43,230 --> 00:42:44,550 - [Kabir] I don't know why I said that. 781 00:42:44,550 --> 00:42:46,963 - [Kioni] Because in your heart, you're married. 782 00:42:48,540 --> 00:42:50,313 - [Kabir] Yeah, maybe. 783 00:42:51,219 --> 00:42:53,802 (gentle music) 784 00:43:31,580 --> 00:43:32,700 - [Kioni] What was the song? 785 00:43:32,700 --> 00:43:33,533 - [Kabir] The song? 786 00:43:33,533 --> 00:43:35,450 - [Kioni] The song that you were gonna sing with your mom? 787 00:43:35,450 --> 00:43:36,283 - [Kabir] You wouldn't know it. 788 00:43:36,283 --> 00:43:37,330 My mom picked it. 789 00:43:37,330 --> 00:43:38,860 - [Kioni] Oh, let's go there. 790 00:43:38,860 --> 00:43:40,283 Can you sing it? 791 00:43:40,283 --> 00:43:41,116 - [Kabir] Now? 792 00:43:41,116 --> 00:43:42,390 - [Kioni] Yeah, come on. 793 00:43:42,390 --> 00:43:43,790 - [Kabir] No, it's too cold. 794 00:43:45,863 --> 00:43:48,100 - Don't be a dork. 795 00:43:48,100 --> 00:43:49,140 - [Kabir] I can really sing. 796 00:43:49,140 --> 00:43:49,973 - [Kioni] Hold on. 797 00:43:49,973 --> 00:43:51,256 Let me take a picture. 798 00:43:51,256 --> 00:43:52,350 Sure you can. 799 00:43:52,350 --> 00:43:53,183 - [Kabir] I can. 800 00:43:53,183 --> 00:43:54,620 - [Kioni] Then let's hear it. 801 00:43:54,620 --> 00:43:55,640 - [Kabir] No, I've got a better idea. 802 00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:56,932 - [Kioni] What's that? 803 00:43:56,932 --> 00:43:57,867 - [Kabir] Dyker Heights. 804 00:43:57,867 --> 00:43:58,700 - [Kioni] What? 805 00:43:58,700 --> 00:44:00,263 - [Kabir] Oh you're going to love this place. 806 00:44:01,455 --> 00:44:04,038 (gentle music) 807 00:44:35,685 --> 00:44:38,352 - [Kioni] This place is amazing. 808 00:44:39,370 --> 00:44:42,290 - Yup, it's American Christmas on steroids. 809 00:44:42,290 --> 00:44:46,063 - I knew people put up decorations, but this is unreal. 810 00:44:47,780 --> 00:44:48,730 - Like a fairytale? 811 00:44:50,860 --> 00:44:52,590 My mother used to love this place. 812 00:44:52,590 --> 00:44:54,179 She'd come every year. 813 00:44:54,179 --> 00:44:55,429 - You don't like it? 814 00:44:55,429 --> 00:44:56,262 - I don't know. 815 00:44:56,262 --> 00:44:58,740 It's just another way for some rich people 816 00:44:58,740 --> 00:44:59,587 to show how rich they are. 817 00:44:59,587 --> 00:45:02,983 - But you could also say it's pretty magical, right? 818 00:45:08,230 --> 00:45:10,030 - That's what my mother used to say. 819 00:45:10,990 --> 00:45:12,053 It's so magical. 820 00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:18,033 Anyways. 821 00:45:25,279 --> 00:45:27,862 (gentle music) 822 00:46:03,850 --> 00:46:07,890 How did the people of Kenya react to 9/11? 823 00:46:07,890 --> 00:46:11,363 I heard the response around the world was very mixed. 824 00:46:12,780 --> 00:46:14,573 - I think most people mourned. 825 00:46:15,570 --> 00:46:18,860 I was pretty young but I remember seeing the images 826 00:46:18,860 --> 00:46:20,373 and they stayed with me. 827 00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:22,560 It was the first time I'd ever 828 00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:24,450 really thought about the United States 829 00:46:24,450 --> 00:46:27,650 and the first time I ever saw New York. 830 00:46:27,650 --> 00:46:30,550 All those tall buildings and I remember thinking, 831 00:46:30,550 --> 00:46:32,950 who would wanna destroy something like that? 832 00:46:32,950 --> 00:46:34,673 It was very confusing for me. 833 00:46:41,884 --> 00:46:44,957 (camera beeping) 834 00:46:44,957 --> 00:46:45,910 - [Kabir] What's the matter? 835 00:46:45,910 --> 00:46:48,150 - My memory card is full. 836 00:46:48,150 --> 00:46:49,280 - Did you take that many pictures? 837 00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:51,390 - [Kioni] I guess so. 838 00:46:51,390 --> 00:46:52,864 - [Kabir] What is that like 1000? 839 00:46:52,864 --> 00:46:54,114 - I don't know. 840 00:46:56,260 --> 00:46:57,573 I'll have to buy another one. 841 00:46:57,573 --> 00:46:59,400 - All right, I'll give you one. 842 00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:00,970 I have some at home. 843 00:47:00,970 --> 00:47:02,700 - You're a photographer? 844 00:47:02,700 --> 00:47:04,350 - My mom was fond of photography. 845 00:47:14,030 --> 00:47:16,040 Are people racist in Kenya? 846 00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:18,670 - People are racist everywhere I think. 847 00:47:18,670 --> 00:47:21,866 - I know but after 9/11, it got worse. 848 00:47:21,866 --> 00:47:22,699 - Worse? 849 00:47:23,690 --> 00:47:25,040 - Yeah, I mean you know when I was growing up, 850 00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:27,790 there were always these jerks who were making fun of me 851 00:47:27,790 --> 00:47:29,140 because of my skin color. 852 00:47:29,140 --> 00:47:30,400 You know, brown. 853 00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:31,650 Whatever. 854 00:47:31,650 --> 00:47:35,210 But after 9/11, it seemed like I was the terrorist 855 00:47:36,290 --> 00:47:37,510 and that was really confusing to me 856 00:47:37,510 --> 00:47:39,060 because I had no idea why they were saying 857 00:47:39,060 --> 00:47:40,210 such mean things to me. 858 00:47:41,270 --> 00:47:43,681 - Do you resent white people? 859 00:47:43,681 --> 00:47:45,090 - Do I resent white people? 860 00:47:45,090 --> 00:47:46,010 - Yeah. 861 00:47:46,010 --> 00:47:47,510 I can see how some people, 862 00:47:47,510 --> 00:47:50,183 especially in this country, could resent them. 863 00:47:50,183 --> 00:47:52,100 - No I mean, I get what you're saying, 864 00:47:52,100 --> 00:47:56,250 but if my friend Paddy doesn't resent white people, 865 00:47:56,250 --> 00:47:57,800 then I see no reason why I can. 866 00:47:58,990 --> 00:47:59,823 - Who's Paddy? 867 00:48:01,140 --> 00:48:03,030 - Paddy's like an uncle to me. 868 00:48:03,030 --> 00:48:05,410 He gave my mother a job as a bookkeeper 869 00:48:05,410 --> 00:48:06,493 after my father died. 870 00:48:07,660 --> 00:48:10,370 So he's pretty much had a hand in supporting us 871 00:48:10,370 --> 00:48:11,760 and taking care of us. 872 00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:12,986 - Is he Indian? 873 00:48:12,986 --> 00:48:14,853 - No, Paddy's African American. 874 00:48:15,930 --> 00:48:18,250 He was born during the Civil Rights movement, too. 875 00:48:18,250 --> 00:48:19,450 He's much older than me. 876 00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:23,510 But he's seen a lot of crazy stuff. 877 00:48:23,510 --> 00:48:24,430 - Racist stuff? 878 00:48:24,430 --> 00:48:26,480 - Yeah but you know even with all of that, 879 00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:29,340 he's remained such a positive person his whole life. 880 00:48:29,340 --> 00:48:30,700 If I had to pick I'd say 881 00:48:30,700 --> 00:48:32,650 Paddy's the kindest person that I know. 882 00:48:39,220 --> 00:48:40,053 - What? 883 00:48:42,421 --> 00:48:43,254 - I don't know. 884 00:48:43,254 --> 00:48:44,810 I was a real asshole to him today. 885 00:48:44,810 --> 00:48:45,790 - To Paddy? 886 00:48:45,790 --> 00:48:46,883 What happened? 887 00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:49,700 - I actually don't know what happened. 888 00:48:49,700 --> 00:48:51,530 I just bit his head off for no reason. 889 00:48:51,530 --> 00:48:53,110 - But if he's kind as you say, 890 00:48:53,110 --> 00:48:54,860 he's probably already forgiven you. 891 00:48:55,930 --> 00:48:56,763 - Yeah maybe. 892 00:48:57,918 --> 00:48:59,910 - But you should tell him though. 893 00:48:59,910 --> 00:49:00,743 - That I'm sorry? 894 00:49:00,743 --> 00:49:01,576 - That you're a jerk. 895 00:49:07,194 --> 00:49:08,123 Click. 896 00:49:12,125 --> 00:49:15,970 You have some nice Christmas decorations. 897 00:49:15,970 --> 00:49:17,680 - They're my mom's. 898 00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:19,050 - So they've been out for? 899 00:49:19,050 --> 00:49:20,300 - Since she passed, yeah. 900 00:49:22,740 --> 00:49:24,770 - Can we turn them on? 901 00:49:24,770 --> 00:49:26,505 - The lights on the tree? 902 00:49:26,505 --> 00:49:28,642 - Yeah, come on. 903 00:49:28,642 --> 00:49:29,475 Come on. 904 00:49:31,485 --> 00:49:34,068 (gentle music) 905 00:49:42,994 --> 00:49:44,970 How do we turn them on? 906 00:49:58,217 --> 00:50:00,823 These are really nice decorations. 907 00:50:02,460 --> 00:50:04,943 - Yeah my mom used to make ornaments. 908 00:50:06,987 --> 00:50:07,820 Like this one. 909 00:50:11,940 --> 00:50:12,990 - That's really nice. 910 00:50:14,630 --> 00:50:16,680 - People used to gift her ornaments all the time 911 00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:19,193 because they knew how much she loved Christmas. 912 00:50:20,650 --> 00:50:21,483 Like this one. 913 00:50:21,483 --> 00:50:22,520 This one's from Paddy. 914 00:50:26,620 --> 00:50:28,220 It's been a wonderful day today. 915 00:50:30,420 --> 00:50:32,403 - It has been really nice. 916 00:50:33,290 --> 00:50:35,873 (gentle music) 917 00:50:45,950 --> 00:50:46,850 What was her name? 918 00:50:48,240 --> 00:50:49,073 - My mom's? 919 00:50:49,073 --> 00:50:49,906 - Yeah. 920 00:50:51,220 --> 00:50:52,053 - Aasha. 921 00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:54,573 Aasha means hope in Hindi. 922 00:50:56,950 --> 00:50:58,200 - Aasha. 923 00:50:58,200 --> 00:50:59,253 That's a pretty name. 924 00:51:04,990 --> 00:51:06,453 Merry Christmas, Aasha. 925 00:51:10,500 --> 00:51:11,650 - Merry Christmas, mom. 926 00:51:25,230 --> 00:51:26,063 - Kabir? 927 00:51:47,708 --> 00:51:48,980 - Shivaani. 928 00:51:48,980 --> 00:51:50,600 Shivaani, wait. 929 00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:52,070 - You disgust me. 930 00:51:52,070 --> 00:51:52,950 - Shivaani, it's not what you think. 931 00:51:52,950 --> 00:51:54,010 - No, then what is it? 932 00:51:54,010 --> 00:51:54,843 - She's just a friend. 933 00:51:54,843 --> 00:51:55,676 She's from Kenya. 934 00:51:55,676 --> 00:51:58,190 - I don't care where she's from, Kabir. 935 00:51:58,190 --> 00:51:59,390 - [Kabir] Just come inside, Shivaani. 936 00:51:59,390 --> 00:52:00,223 It's not what you think. 937 00:52:00,223 --> 00:52:03,030 - You know, when you dishonor me, you dishonor yourself. 938 00:52:03,030 --> 00:52:04,320 You dishonor your mother. 939 00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:05,510 - No, you're misunderstanding. 940 00:52:05,510 --> 00:52:08,180 - I spend a year being patient with you. 941 00:52:08,180 --> 00:52:10,270 To give you space to go through all your stuff, 942 00:52:10,270 --> 00:52:12,420 but the truth is that you were just like this 943 00:52:12,420 --> 00:52:14,450 even before your mother passed away. 944 00:52:14,450 --> 00:52:15,520 You don't see me. 945 00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:16,873 You only see yourself. 946 00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:20,863 I'm done, Kabir. 947 00:52:21,879 --> 00:52:22,712 - Done? 948 00:52:22,712 --> 00:52:23,545 Done with what? 949 00:52:23,545 --> 00:52:24,383 Shivaani, where you going? 950 00:52:25,957 --> 00:52:27,457 Shivaani, listen to me please. 951 00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:36,243 - You know I didn't want to marry you? 952 00:52:37,170 --> 00:52:38,540 - You didn't? 953 00:52:38,540 --> 00:52:41,030 - Well, I thought it worked for our parents, 954 00:52:41,030 --> 00:52:43,259 so why wouldn't it work for us? 955 00:52:43,259 --> 00:52:44,850 I mean it sounded better than all the dating apps 956 00:52:44,850 --> 00:52:46,200 and all the other nonsense. 957 00:52:49,330 --> 00:52:51,217 It was such a mistake. 958 00:52:51,217 --> 00:52:52,050 - No. 959 00:52:52,050 --> 00:52:53,017 No, Shivaani, it wasn't a mistake. 960 00:52:53,017 --> 00:52:54,830 - I'm not finished. 961 00:52:54,830 --> 00:52:57,410 Maybe I'm not a trophy but I'm not a mat 962 00:52:57,410 --> 00:52:59,160 that you can just walk all over me. 963 00:53:03,170 --> 00:53:05,879 I'm a strong and capable woman, Kabir, 964 00:53:05,879 --> 00:53:08,433 and I won't be disrespected like this. 965 00:53:09,670 --> 00:53:11,473 I'm done trying to make you happy. 966 00:53:13,270 --> 00:53:15,520 I'm done trying to make you notice me. 967 00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:17,943 Or to make you feel loved and cared for. 968 00:53:18,860 --> 00:53:20,410 I need those things for myself. 969 00:53:21,270 --> 00:53:22,211 - I understand that. 970 00:53:22,211 --> 00:53:23,044 That's what I'm saying. 971 00:53:23,044 --> 00:53:23,900 This is a good start. 972 00:53:23,900 --> 00:53:25,150 - I'm really done, Kabir. 973 00:53:26,939 --> 00:53:27,772 - [Kabir] Shivaani, I think we need 974 00:53:27,772 --> 00:53:29,370 to talk about this please. 975 00:53:29,370 --> 00:53:30,590 - Please. 976 00:53:30,590 --> 00:53:32,290 Let's just go through the holidays 977 00:53:33,190 --> 00:53:35,520 and then we'll get a divorce and you can go back 978 00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:38,000 to whatever life you want. 979 00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:39,610 - No, no, no, going back okay. 980 00:53:39,610 --> 00:53:40,443 I've had a bad year. 981 00:53:40,443 --> 00:53:41,276 That's it. 982 00:53:41,276 --> 00:53:42,109 Just come inside. 983 00:53:42,109 --> 00:53:44,564 - It's too late, Kabir. 984 00:53:44,564 --> 00:53:47,080 - Shivaani, I realize I have wronged you okay. 985 00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:49,000 I know that but please understand. 986 00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:50,457 You have to know that I-- 987 00:53:50,457 --> 00:53:52,540 - You think I don't know? 988 00:53:55,333 --> 00:53:56,823 I don't need your confession. 989 00:54:03,605 --> 00:54:05,300 - Then I don't know what else to say. 990 00:54:05,300 --> 00:54:07,233 - That's it then I guess. 991 00:54:11,150 --> 00:54:12,620 - No, Shivaani. 992 00:54:12,620 --> 00:54:13,490 Don't go like this. 993 00:54:13,490 --> 00:54:14,323 Come inside. 994 00:54:14,323 --> 00:54:15,660 We can talk. - Goodbye, Kabir. 995 00:54:17,309 --> 00:54:19,892 (gentle music) 996 00:55:05,750 --> 00:55:06,650 - Everything okay? 997 00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:11,770 - Not really. 998 00:55:11,770 --> 00:55:13,700 - I feel like I should go. 999 00:55:13,700 --> 00:55:14,870 - No, no you stay. 1000 00:55:14,870 --> 00:55:16,139 It's okay. 1001 00:55:16,139 --> 00:55:18,320 - I don't wanna cause any trouble. 1002 00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:21,470 - Any trouble that I'm in is my fault. 1003 00:55:21,470 --> 00:55:22,963 - Still I should get home. 1004 00:55:25,210 --> 00:55:27,600 Can I still get the memory card please? 1005 00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:28,433 - Oh yes. 1006 00:55:28,433 --> 00:55:29,266 Sorry. 1007 00:55:29,266 --> 00:55:30,628 One second. 1008 00:55:30,628 --> 00:55:31,663 I think it's. 1009 00:55:41,899 --> 00:55:43,338 Here. 1010 00:55:43,338 --> 00:55:44,943 - Thanks. 1011 00:55:44,943 --> 00:55:47,440 Is there anything on it? 1012 00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:49,460 - No, I don't think so. 1013 00:55:49,460 --> 00:55:51,860 - If there is, I'll send it to you okay. 1014 00:55:51,860 --> 00:55:53,320 - Okay. 1015 00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:54,153 Yeah. 1016 00:55:59,703 --> 00:56:02,133 Kioni, did you wanna grab some breakfast? 1017 00:56:08,839 --> 00:56:09,967 - Silly man. 1018 00:56:10,890 --> 00:56:13,473 (gentle music) 1019 00:56:16,527 --> 00:56:19,240 - Hey everybody, Mister bah hum bug is here. 1020 00:56:19,240 --> 00:56:20,370 - Hey Paddy. 1021 00:56:20,370 --> 00:56:21,830 Meet my friend Kioni. 1022 00:56:21,830 --> 00:56:23,110 (camera shutter clicking) 1023 00:56:23,110 --> 00:56:23,943 - Oh Jesus, man. 1024 00:56:23,943 --> 00:56:25,950 What'd you bring the paparazzi up in here for? 1025 00:56:25,950 --> 00:56:27,360 - I'm an anthropologist studying 1026 00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:29,320 the primitive habits of New Yorkers. 1027 00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:30,700 - I'll take it as a compliment. 1028 00:56:30,700 --> 00:56:31,675 Where you from? 1029 00:56:31,675 --> 00:56:32,508 - Kenya. 1030 00:56:32,508 --> 00:56:33,614 - Kenya? 1031 00:56:33,614 --> 00:56:37,930 Oh, we have a Christmas special for folk from Kenya today. 1032 00:56:37,930 --> 00:56:39,417 Food and drinks on the house. 1033 00:56:39,417 --> 00:56:40,635 - On the house? 1034 00:56:40,635 --> 00:56:41,468 - [Paddy] Yeah. 1035 00:56:41,468 --> 00:56:42,301 - He means for free. 1036 00:56:43,490 --> 00:56:44,323 - You hungry? 1037 00:56:44,323 --> 00:56:45,260 - [Kioni] Starved. 1038 00:56:45,260 --> 00:56:46,770 - I'm gon' get you a Paddy special. 1039 00:56:46,770 --> 00:56:48,360 - Oh no, you don't want that. 1040 00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:50,320 - KB, you love the Paddy special, man. 1041 00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:51,153 Come on. 1042 00:56:51,153 --> 00:56:52,060 - Paddy, it's not even special. 1043 00:56:52,060 --> 00:56:55,190 It's french fries, eggs, salsa, gravy, 1044 00:56:55,190 --> 00:56:56,023 and God knows what else. 1045 00:56:56,023 --> 00:56:57,060 - [Paddy] It's delicious. 1046 00:56:57,060 --> 00:57:00,220 - I'll try it and an Irish coffee. 1047 00:57:00,220 --> 00:57:01,053 - Irish coffee? 1048 00:57:01,053 --> 00:57:01,886 - [Kioni] Yes please. 1049 00:57:01,886 --> 00:57:03,380 - You know that's got whiskey in it? 1050 00:57:03,380 --> 00:57:05,330 - That's the Irish part right? 1051 00:57:05,330 --> 00:57:06,810 - Okay, okay, okay. 1052 00:57:06,810 --> 00:57:08,230 She's dangerous. 1053 00:57:08,230 --> 00:57:09,063 Okay. 1054 00:57:09,063 --> 00:57:09,896 - Yeah, I'll have the same. 1055 00:57:10,980 --> 00:57:12,313 - Two Paddy specials. 1056 00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:14,713 - Thank you. 1057 00:57:15,974 --> 00:57:16,807 What? 1058 00:57:16,807 --> 00:57:18,553 - Food ain't gonna make itself, man. 1059 00:57:19,658 --> 00:57:20,491 - Oh come on, Paddy. 1060 00:57:20,491 --> 00:57:21,324 Not right-- 1061 00:57:21,324 --> 00:57:22,157 - But you know where the kitchen is. 1062 00:57:22,157 --> 00:57:22,990 Get cooking. 1063 00:57:22,990 --> 00:57:24,250 Come on. 1064 00:57:24,250 --> 00:57:25,250 - All right sir. 1065 00:57:25,250 --> 00:57:27,500 - And make it three Paddy specials 1066 00:57:27,500 --> 00:57:29,370 if you want one for yourself. 1067 00:57:29,370 --> 00:57:30,770 - [Kabir] All right captain. 1068 00:57:39,100 --> 00:57:42,010 - So when did you meet Mister Charming? 1069 00:57:42,010 --> 00:57:43,280 - Yesterday in the city. 1070 00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:44,473 He showed me around. 1071 00:57:45,415 --> 00:57:46,540 - What did he show you? 1072 00:57:46,540 --> 00:57:47,890 - I'm kind of obsessed with Christmas, 1073 00:57:47,890 --> 00:57:50,640 so I made him show me all the Christmas stuff. 1074 00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:52,195 - He showed you Christmas stuff? 1075 00:57:52,195 --> 00:57:53,240 - Yeah. 1076 00:57:53,240 --> 00:57:54,190 We've been all over. 1077 00:57:54,190 --> 00:57:56,550 We even went to Brooklyn. 1078 00:57:56,550 --> 00:57:57,383 - Dyker Heights? 1079 00:57:57,383 --> 00:57:59,743 - Yeah, it was amazing. 1080 00:57:59,743 --> 00:58:01,910 - Yeah, sound like the place. 1081 00:58:01,910 --> 00:58:03,300 You take any pictures there? 1082 00:58:03,300 --> 00:58:05,460 - Sure, but they're on my other memory card. 1083 00:58:05,460 --> 00:58:07,640 I can show you the picture I took of you now. 1084 00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:08,473 - Even better. 1085 00:58:08,473 --> 00:58:09,306 - Okay. 1086 00:58:11,299 --> 00:58:13,716 (soft music) 1087 00:58:16,961 --> 00:58:17,794 - Yeah. 1088 00:58:17,794 --> 00:58:18,627 - What's this? 1089 00:58:19,554 --> 00:58:20,804 - What is that? 1090 00:58:22,023 --> 00:58:23,333 Where'd you take this picture? 1091 00:58:28,650 --> 00:58:30,343 Hey, what's taking so long, man? 1092 00:58:30,343 --> 00:58:31,176 - It's coming. 1093 00:58:31,176 --> 00:58:32,009 It's coming. 1094 00:58:32,009 --> 00:58:32,842 Paddy listen. 1095 00:58:32,842 --> 00:58:34,060 I wanna talk to you about yesterday. 1096 00:58:34,930 --> 00:58:35,763 - About what? 1097 00:58:37,260 --> 00:58:38,670 - I wanna apologize okay. 1098 00:58:38,670 --> 00:58:41,290 I didn't really mean to say all those things. 1099 00:58:41,290 --> 00:58:42,390 - You wash your hands? 1100 00:58:43,320 --> 00:58:44,153 - Yeah of course. 1101 00:58:44,153 --> 00:58:44,986 - Liar. 1102 00:58:47,260 --> 00:58:49,000 Aw man that's disgusting. 1103 00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:50,586 - [Kabir] It smells like fresh roses okay. 1104 00:58:50,586 --> 00:58:52,303 - You're gonna burn the food. 1105 00:58:54,870 --> 00:58:55,703 - I got it. 1106 00:58:55,703 --> 00:58:57,570 Listen, I'm just saying that I'm sorry. 1107 00:58:57,570 --> 00:58:58,670 I didn't mean to say all those things. 1108 00:58:58,670 --> 00:58:59,720 I was just in a very bad mood. 1109 00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:00,740 - [Paddy] Really? 1110 00:59:00,740 --> 00:59:02,080 - Yeah. 1111 00:59:02,080 --> 00:59:03,790 - You wanna make it up to me? 1112 00:59:03,790 --> 00:59:05,300 - [Kabir] Sure. 1113 00:59:05,300 --> 00:59:06,940 - Come to the party tonight. 1114 00:59:06,940 --> 00:59:07,773 - Party? 1115 00:59:09,380 --> 00:59:10,360 Shivaani's parents? 1116 00:59:10,360 --> 00:59:11,193 - [Paddy] Yup. 1117 00:59:13,150 --> 00:59:15,060 - No Paddy, I don't know about that. 1118 00:59:15,060 --> 00:59:16,607 Listen, I had a fight with Shivaani this morning. 1119 00:59:16,607 --> 00:59:18,220 It was just a mess. 1120 00:59:18,220 --> 00:59:21,213 - You just apologize because you're gonna come to the party. 1121 00:59:24,220 --> 00:59:25,683 - Come on don't do this to me. 1122 00:59:25,683 --> 00:59:27,800 - Man, but you disrespected me. 1123 00:59:27,800 --> 00:59:29,970 You disrespected Christmas which is the same thing 1124 00:59:29,970 --> 00:59:31,883 as disrespecting your mom. 1125 00:59:32,820 --> 00:59:34,360 - Okay now that's a stretch. 1126 00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:36,050 - You missed the party last year. 1127 00:59:36,050 --> 00:59:37,250 Don't miss it this year. 1128 00:59:38,422 --> 00:59:39,600 - That's just not fair. 1129 00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:40,680 - It's not about what's fair. 1130 00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:41,933 It's about what's right. 1131 00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:47,470 Good? 1132 00:59:47,470 --> 00:59:49,750 Hey, don't burn my food. 1133 00:59:49,750 --> 00:59:51,702 And don't spit in it either. 1134 00:59:51,702 --> 00:59:53,452 All right I know you. 1135 00:59:57,795 --> 01:00:00,378 (gentle music) 1136 01:00:16,397 --> 01:00:19,060 - You wanna grab breakfast tomorrow morning? 1137 01:00:19,060 --> 01:00:22,833 - I'd like that but let's not have the Paddy special okay. 1138 01:00:24,290 --> 01:00:25,150 - You don't like that? 1139 01:00:25,150 --> 01:00:26,593 - No, not really. 1140 01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:28,990 - It wasn't good. 1141 01:00:28,990 --> 01:00:30,440 - It was horrible. 1142 01:00:30,440 --> 01:00:32,242 Gravy and salsa? 1143 01:00:32,242 --> 01:00:33,075 - I warned you. 1144 01:00:33,075 --> 01:00:35,492 - You should've tried harder. 1145 01:00:37,157 --> 01:00:39,913 - Listen I hope this isn't a goodbye. 1146 01:00:41,060 --> 01:00:42,463 - No, of course not. 1147 01:00:50,371 --> 01:00:52,954 (gentle music) 1148 01:01:23,230 --> 01:01:24,080 - What do you think about this tree? 1149 01:01:24,080 --> 01:01:26,700 This tree's about nine, 10 feet. 1150 01:01:26,700 --> 01:01:27,533 What do you think? 1151 01:01:27,533 --> 01:01:28,366 Yeah? 1152 01:01:28,366 --> 01:01:30,470 - You know, it's a little too big. 1153 01:01:30,470 --> 01:01:32,210 - All right, well I got more trees out here. 1154 01:01:32,210 --> 01:01:33,720 Come on. 1155 01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:34,767 Have you been here before? 1156 01:01:34,767 --> 01:01:35,820 - [Kabir] No. 1157 01:01:35,820 --> 01:01:36,653 - No? 1158 01:01:36,653 --> 01:01:37,486 Watch your step over here. 1159 01:01:37,486 --> 01:01:38,319 I know it's a little bit muddy. 1160 01:01:38,319 --> 01:01:39,730 Sorry about that. 1161 01:01:39,730 --> 01:01:41,830 So what size tree you looking for? 1162 01:01:41,830 --> 01:01:42,663 - Don't know. 1163 01:01:42,663 --> 01:01:43,590 - Don't know? 1164 01:01:43,590 --> 01:01:44,530 So I'll give you an example. 1165 01:01:44,530 --> 01:01:45,380 Like for this tree right here, 1166 01:01:45,380 --> 01:01:46,420 if you wanna know the size of it, 1167 01:01:46,420 --> 01:01:48,370 it's right here at the bottom. 1168 01:01:48,370 --> 01:01:49,203 Take a look. 1169 01:01:49,203 --> 01:01:50,251 It says five, six foot. 1170 01:01:50,251 --> 01:01:52,253 Is that something you're looking for? 1171 01:01:52,253 --> 01:01:53,753 It's a little bit much larger. 1172 01:01:57,120 --> 01:01:58,458 - That's the one. 1173 01:01:58,458 --> 01:01:59,830 - That's a good choice. 1174 01:01:59,830 --> 01:02:00,848 I'll take it to the front for you. 1175 01:02:00,848 --> 01:02:01,681 - Yeah. 1176 01:02:01,681 --> 01:02:02,514 - Tie it on your car? 1177 01:02:02,514 --> 01:02:03,347 - Thank you, yes. 1178 01:02:03,347 --> 01:02:04,264 - Let's go. 1179 01:02:13,632 --> 01:02:14,465 Okay. 1180 01:02:27,735 --> 01:02:30,318 (gentle music) 1181 01:02:50,912 --> 01:02:52,662 ♪ Oh ♪ 1182 01:03:02,415 --> 01:03:04,165 ♪ Oh ♪ 1183 01:03:19,145 --> 01:03:22,463 ♪ Oh ♪ 1184 01:03:22,463 --> 01:03:25,066 ♪ Oh ♪ 1185 01:03:25,066 --> 01:03:26,770 ♪ Oh ♪ 1186 01:03:26,770 --> 01:03:28,520 ♪ Oh ♪ 1187 01:03:48,885 --> 01:03:53,885 ♪ Don't waste this time being sorry ♪ 1188 01:03:54,011 --> 01:03:59,011 ♪ This time that people go ♪ 1189 01:04:00,232 --> 01:04:05,232 ♪ Your soul is all I'll carry ♪ 1190 01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:10,932 ♪ Your face is all I'll know ♪ 1191 01:04:10,932 --> 01:04:13,015 ♪ Oh, oh ♪ 1192 01:04:17,047 --> 01:04:18,847 - You would've loved this tree, Mom. 1193 01:04:26,803 --> 01:04:29,720 (soft piano music) 1194 01:05:01,530 --> 01:05:02,730 - [Shivaani] You shaved. 1195 01:05:05,460 --> 01:05:06,293 - Yeah. 1196 01:05:09,916 --> 01:05:13,384 I wanted to talk to you about what happened earlier. 1197 01:05:13,384 --> 01:05:15,551 - It's okay, I understand. 1198 01:05:16,750 --> 01:05:18,230 - You understand? 1199 01:05:18,230 --> 01:05:19,910 - Paddy explained the situation to me. 1200 01:05:19,910 --> 01:05:21,910 He told me about your friend from Kenya. 1201 01:05:25,700 --> 01:05:30,700 - You know, you're right about what you said earlier. 1202 01:05:30,900 --> 01:05:34,453 I don't know what's next. 1203 01:05:35,570 --> 01:05:37,360 - We don't have to talk about it right now. 1204 01:05:37,360 --> 01:05:38,193 - Just. 1205 01:05:40,210 --> 01:05:41,043 Please. 1206 01:05:45,260 --> 01:05:46,093 - Okay. 1207 01:05:50,900 --> 01:05:55,060 - I don't know what's next but I do know 1208 01:05:55,060 --> 01:05:58,170 that letting you go without trying harder 1209 01:05:59,150 --> 01:06:02,303 or doing something about it would be a big mistake. 1210 01:06:05,557 --> 01:06:08,200 Shivaani, you deserve to be happy. 1211 01:06:08,200 --> 01:06:10,900 And if being apart is what makes you happy, then okay, 1212 01:06:12,620 --> 01:06:14,563 but I'm not sure that's what I want. 1213 01:06:16,870 --> 01:06:18,383 You said I only see myself. 1214 01:06:20,802 --> 01:06:22,623 And I hate to admit it but it's true, 1215 01:06:26,567 --> 01:06:29,143 but I swear Shivaani I wanna see you, too. 1216 01:06:30,095 --> 01:06:31,843 I really wanna see you, too. 1217 01:06:34,247 --> 01:06:35,080 - Thanks. 1218 01:06:39,183 --> 01:06:41,250 Thank you for saying this. 1219 01:06:46,331 --> 01:06:49,748 But I can't give you an answer right now. 1220 01:06:52,680 --> 01:06:54,143 - Yeah, I know. 1221 01:06:58,890 --> 01:07:00,323 - Maybe after the holidays. 1222 01:07:07,474 --> 01:07:08,307 - Okay. 1223 01:07:12,429 --> 01:07:13,262 - Hey. 1224 01:07:16,340 --> 01:07:17,503 I'm glad you came. 1225 01:07:23,280 --> 01:07:24,113 - Me too. 1226 01:07:33,452 --> 01:07:36,369 (soft piano music) 1227 01:08:01,539 --> 01:08:02,690 Hey. 1228 01:08:02,690 --> 01:08:03,627 I thought. 1229 01:08:03,627 --> 01:08:04,680 What are you doing here? 1230 01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:05,913 - Paddy invited me. 1231 01:08:06,860 --> 01:08:08,150 - Oh he did, huh? 1232 01:08:08,150 --> 01:08:10,150 - He said there's going to be something. 1233 01:08:11,530 --> 01:08:12,363 - Some what? 1234 01:08:12,363 --> 01:08:14,043 - He just said that I should be here. 1235 01:08:16,250 --> 01:08:18,530 - Hey, is everybody having a good time? 1236 01:08:18,530 --> 01:08:19,586 Are you having a good time? 1237 01:08:19,586 --> 01:08:20,463 - [Crowd] Yes. 1238 01:08:20,463 --> 01:08:21,328 - That's more like it. 1239 01:08:21,328 --> 01:08:23,258 Listen, can you all join me in this room over here please? 1240 01:08:23,258 --> 01:08:24,091 This next room. 1241 01:08:24,091 --> 01:08:24,924 Come on, come on, come on. 1242 01:08:24,924 --> 01:08:25,757 I like the walk. 1243 01:08:25,757 --> 01:08:26,590 I like the walk. 1244 01:08:26,590 --> 01:08:28,673 That's good, that's good. 1245 01:08:33,470 --> 01:08:34,303 Hey everybody. 1246 01:08:34,303 --> 01:08:39,240 Last year as you all know we lost a dear friend. 1247 01:08:40,430 --> 01:08:41,850 Aasha. 1248 01:08:41,850 --> 01:08:43,120 Aasha Bakshi. 1249 01:08:43,120 --> 01:08:47,540 And if you recall last year, she sang this beautiful song 1250 01:08:47,540 --> 01:08:50,360 and we thought in honor of her memory. 1251 01:08:50,360 --> 01:08:53,086 Well just watch for yourselves. 1252 01:08:53,086 --> 01:08:54,340 All right that's good, that's good, that's good. 1253 01:08:54,340 --> 01:08:55,270 Okay we're good? 1254 01:08:55,270 --> 01:08:56,520 Okay Aasha, take it away. 1255 01:08:58,950 --> 01:09:01,300 - Merry Christmas everyone. 1256 01:09:01,300 --> 01:09:05,070 This is a beautiful song that my son really loves. 1257 01:09:05,070 --> 01:09:08,020 We were supposed to sing it together as duet tonight, 1258 01:09:08,020 --> 01:09:09,800 but since he's not here, 1259 01:09:09,800 --> 01:09:11,650 he will just have to watch the video. 1260 01:09:12,810 --> 01:09:14,160 - Come on. 1261 01:09:14,160 --> 01:09:14,993 - Please. 1262 01:09:16,968 --> 01:09:19,643 ♪ Boy of mine ♪ 1263 01:09:19,643 --> 01:09:22,148 ♪ Boy of mine ♪ 1264 01:09:22,148 --> 01:09:26,589 ♪ Although my heart was aching ♪ 1265 01:09:26,589 --> 01:09:31,209 ♪ I seemed to know that you'd want to go ♪ 1266 01:09:31,209 --> 01:09:36,209 ♪ Pride in your manhood waking ♪ 1267 01:09:36,661 --> 01:09:39,865 ♪ Boy of mine ♪ 1268 01:09:39,865 --> 01:09:42,181 ♪ Boy of mine ♪ 1269 01:09:42,181 --> 01:09:47,181 ♪ Although my heart was aching ♪ 1270 01:09:49,237 --> 01:09:54,237 ♪ I seemed to know that you'd want to go ♪ 1271 01:09:55,646 --> 01:10:00,646 ♪ Pride in your manhood waking ♪ 1272 01:10:02,540 --> 01:10:05,624 ♪ I'll be here ♪ 1273 01:10:05,624 --> 01:10:08,588 ♪ Waiting here ♪ 1274 01:10:08,588 --> 01:10:13,588 ♪ 'Til at the glad dawn's breaking ♪ 1275 01:10:14,661 --> 01:10:19,661 ♪ I hear you say you're home to stay ♪ 1276 01:10:22,348 --> 01:10:27,348 ♪ Dear little boy of mine ♪ 1277 01:10:28,970 --> 01:10:32,473 ♪ Mom of mine ♪ 1278 01:10:32,473 --> 01:10:35,665 ♪ Mom of mine ♪ 1279 01:10:35,665 --> 01:10:40,665 ♪ It's Christmas and I'm waking ♪ 1280 01:10:42,017 --> 01:10:44,439 ♪ I'm here to stay ♪ 1281 01:10:44,439 --> 01:10:47,800 ♪ There's no place to go ♪ 1282 01:10:47,800 --> 01:10:52,800 ♪ Pride in the merry making ♪ 1283 01:10:54,364 --> 01:10:57,641 ♪ Mom of mine ♪ 1284 01:10:57,641 --> 01:11:00,141 ♪ Mom of mine ♪ 1285 01:11:07,860 --> 01:11:10,406 ♪ I'm here to stay ♪ 1286 01:11:10,406 --> 01:11:14,064 ♪ There's no place to go ♪ 1287 01:11:14,064 --> 01:11:19,064 ♪ Pride in the merry making ♪ 1288 01:11:19,922 --> 01:11:23,858 ♪ Mom of mine ♪ 1289 01:11:23,858 --> 01:11:26,358 ♪ Mom of mine ♪ 1290 01:11:44,541 --> 01:11:46,291 Merry Christmas, Mom. 1291 01:12:00,020 --> 01:12:01,413 You are a tricky man. 1292 01:12:02,890 --> 01:12:04,020 - Hey, it wasn't me. 1293 01:12:04,020 --> 01:12:04,853 It was her. 1294 01:12:06,220 --> 01:12:07,380 - Kioni? 1295 01:12:07,380 --> 01:12:08,773 - [Paddy] It was all her idea. 1296 01:12:09,729 --> 01:12:10,562 - But how did you-- 1297 01:12:10,562 --> 01:12:12,373 - It was on the memory card you gave me. 1298 01:12:15,560 --> 01:12:17,580 - I don't know what to say. 1299 01:12:17,580 --> 01:12:18,413 Thank you. 1300 01:12:20,730 --> 01:12:25,730 Thank you, Paddy and thank you Kioni again okay. 1301 01:12:25,900 --> 01:12:26,733 - Sure. 1302 01:12:26,733 --> 01:12:28,769 - And now I want you to meet some of these guests. 1303 01:12:28,769 --> 01:12:29,602 All right come on. 1304 01:12:29,602 --> 01:12:31,102 After both of you. 1305 01:12:52,837 --> 01:12:55,420 (bright music) 1306 01:13:10,307 --> 01:13:12,510 - You look different today. 1307 01:13:12,510 --> 01:13:13,800 - Why different? 1308 01:13:13,800 --> 01:13:15,977 - There's a saying in Swahili (speaks in foreign language). 1309 01:13:20,217 --> 01:13:22,220 - What does that mean? 1310 01:13:22,220 --> 01:13:25,533 - The letter from the heart can be read on the face. 1311 01:13:28,570 --> 01:13:30,350 - Is that what you see? 1312 01:13:30,350 --> 01:13:31,980 A letter from my heart? 1313 01:13:31,980 --> 01:13:33,853 - I see your heart is happy again. 1314 01:13:38,622 --> 01:13:39,872 - It really is. 1315 01:13:44,910 --> 01:13:48,583 - A gift because we know each other's secrets. 1316 01:13:57,200 --> 01:14:02,200 - I will grab your luggage now and thank you for this. 1317 01:14:31,380 --> 01:14:33,250 So I hope we see each other again some time. 1318 01:14:33,250 --> 01:14:34,110 - We will. 1319 01:14:34,110 --> 01:14:34,943 I'm sure of it. 1320 01:14:37,596 --> 01:14:39,373 - And I wish I had a gift to give you. 1321 01:14:46,532 --> 01:14:50,032 (camera shutter clicking) 1322 01:14:51,050 --> 01:14:52,210 - This is enough. 1323 01:14:52,210 --> 01:14:53,043 - Sweet. 1324 01:14:56,180 --> 01:14:57,079 You take care. 1325 01:14:57,079 --> 01:14:57,912 - Bye. 1326 01:14:58,856 --> 01:15:01,439 (gentle music) 1327 01:15:08,440 --> 01:15:09,633 You're blushing. 1328 01:15:09,633 --> 01:15:10,466 - No, I'm not. 1329 01:15:10,466 --> 01:15:11,299 - Dork. 1330 01:15:12,289 --> 01:15:14,872 (gentle music) 1331 01:15:22,327 --> 01:15:24,610 - And Merry Christmas, Kioni. 1332 01:15:24,610 --> 01:15:25,897 - Merry Christmas. 1333 01:15:30,412 --> 01:15:32,995 (gentle music) 1334 01:17:34,618 --> 01:17:38,118 (moves into bright music) 83576