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Hi!

You're doing tequila?

Gotta warm up!

Did you bring Gemma?

No.

Previously,
on "In the City"...

Since becoming a mom,

my life has been
absolute chaos.

Does Gemma
ever eat this stuff?

My dogs love them.

I would not have been able

to get through
this last year

without my girlfriends.

Is this brunch?

I thought we were going to
some kind of fun--

I mean,
this is fun but...

Just come out
in your scrubs.

No, she needs to change.

Do you even have
anything here?

When I got pregnant,

Georgina was
the first person I called.

Casual clothes,
black tie,

and-and in the little
sterile package,

- bras and underwear.
- Wow.

Black shirt memo.

It's New York.

I've known Kenny
at least ten years.

We had a lot of different
mutual friends.

I'm just getting
to know Whitney,

but she seems awesome.

Growing up in Minnesota,
I always thought, like,

New York felt
so intimidating.

- Yeah.
- And people are actually,

like, way more open
and nice here.

She moved across the country
before the ring.

You can't around
with this.

I'm getting
"I hate men" vibes.

I'm just allergic
to, like, annoying men.

I would love to have
a baby by 38. Yeah.

I'd love to do it
with you.

She's moving in
with this man,

- who's still married.
- No.

You're blowing my mind,
right now!

I need you to stop!

I don't even know
Danielle's guy's name.

On?

I was wondering if
you might be open

to, like, a lunch.

Can I think about it?

I'm a little busy
these days.

I know the therapist was like,
"Let's meet tomorrow."

We're moving backwards.

I'm gonna move out,
and this isn't permanent.

This is, like, a month.

I've never heard of a couple
physically separating

and using that as a tool
to get back together,

but maybe this is
what we need.

New York
is a hustle, baby.

All you do,
is hustle in this city.

- Are you
- ---ing kidding me?

This is a New York moment.

I've heard before,

from an agent of mine,
about the eleven.

The angry elevens.

So, scrunch your eyebrows
together for me.

So, those are the 11s.

Do you see the number 11
in between your eyebrows when--

I see a lot of 11s.

Kyle gets Botox.

Kyle's nine years older
than me.

You're right.

Can a guy pull off
a mockneck?

- Probably not, right?
- Yes.

- No, you can, for sure.
- This is badass.

Yeah, it looks really,
really elevated.

Yeah, it's really,
really nice.

- All amazing.
- These are all the new

sweatshirts
with the embroidery.

Is there still time to just
have Amanda weigh in?

- Today?
- Um, I'll go next door.

Is this the best way
to pack shoes?

I don't even know.

These are good.

Should we go say hi
to mom?

Look who I found.

Hi, Miss Ryder.

What you doin'?

Trying to pack
some of this sh-- up.

This has gotta be the most
organized closet in the house.

I'm organized.

It's just the stuff
that I don't know where to put,

I just don't know
where to put it.

Oh, I like these.

Oh, but I need
the black ones, also.

After dropping
the news to Kyle

and, like, making
the decision to move out,

I feel lighter.
I feel good about this decision.

I feel like this could be
what we need

to potentially
save this relationship.

Are you gonna have enough
stuff where you're gonna need,

like, a van,
or a truck, or what?

I have no idea.

Maybe we could pack up
your car.

I mean, it's not gonna
be, like,

a crazy amount of sh--.

It's like a month long
vacation.

Are you gonna, like,
surprise me?

Like, you're gonna
keep your key

and just, like, pop in,
or how does that work?

Yeah, I'll just show up
at 4 AM and wake you up,

like you do to me
all the time.

Do you not want me here?

I feel like you are
more excited for me to leave.

No, you--
that's the opposite

of how I think this has felt.

- I think you're--
- Okay.

I mean, we're trying
to figure this out, right?

Spending some time apart
but, like,

courting each other
and dating, again.

We knew something drastic
needed to-to happen.

- Oh, I need these.
- I don't think we knew what.

Therapy wasn't necessarily

giving us
everything we needed.

Look, I think that
there was a side of me

that I felt like
we could've kept on continuing

and playing this,
like, broken record.

So, I give you props
for confronting this,

like, head on.

Oh, I need
these sneakers, too,

just in case
I need to run away.

Run away
from your own problems? - From you.

Wow, okay, harsh.

There's so many dudes.

Yo, that's why we get
the hot girls here.

Is it always like this,
like this busy?

- Thursday through Sunday--
- This is crazy!

It's awesome.
Yes, it's awesome.

- Good for you.
- Like, such a vibe.

Oh, my God,
congratulations.

I'm, like,
really excited about it. - What an accomplishment.

I wanted to be in
the hospitality business

before I even knew
it was a business.

I remember having a party
in high school,

and the neighbor came over
the next day

and alerted me that
he was gonna tell my parents.

And then,
before he left, he said,

"But I'm not gonna lie.
You threw a great party."

I told my assistant,

"Yeah, I'm gonna go and meet up
with my friend, Gavin."

And I was, like,
telling her about you.

She asked
if we ever hooked up,

and I said, "No."

Oh!

I thought you were--

You thought I was going in
for the real thing.

I was like, oh, sh--,
it's happening!

Me and Gavin have known
each other many, many years.

I met him through Kyle.

We were both in hospitality.

He's the perfect amount
of fun, flirty, messy.

Like, I enjoy Gavin's vibe.

I love the short kings.

I'm making you laugh.

And I love
that you get messy.

- I do.
- Like, we were giggling

when we were talking
to Kenny.

- So much.
- And-and I was like,

- yes, Gavin, yes.
- I was going for it.

Shooter McGavin--
that's what they call me.

I'm gettin' grilled over here
on relationship.

- This is now a panel.
- This is a panel.

- This is a panel.
- I'm gettin' grilled.

- Wait, so, okay, Kenny.
- Yeah, where do we start?

What is his deal, 'cause
I don't really know Kenny

- or Whitney?
- Yeah.

He was, like,
kind of treating me like,

I'm some sort of,
like, man-hater

just because I was taking
his girlfriend's,

like, perspective.

In order for you

to move across
the entire country,

without a commitment
such as a ring,

it's a very big deal.

You can't around
with this.

I'm getting
"I hate men" vibes.

What you're saying,
is probably true,

and he knows that,

and he wants to, like,
discredit you.

That's what--
that's-that's his--

Oh, you think I struck
a nerve with him.

Kenny is my best friend.

He can dish it out,
but he can't take it.

I can't believe
my stuff's gonna be here

- this week already.
- I know.

We really need to figure out
where it's gonna go.

Mister.

I know.

I think I have
30 boxes coming.

I have my workout outfits.
I have my seasonal stuff.

I have my coats.
I have boots.

- Um...
- A billion things.

I'm not really
an outfit repeater.

So, we might have to turn
that second bedroom

into more of a closet.

I'm down to
let you do your thing

in the second bedroom,

but I want it to still
also be a guest room,

like if your sister
comes into town and DJ.

Like, Gavin has stayed
in that room a million times.

Yeah, we kicked
Gavin out, finally.

Gavin is-- Gavin's done.

My apartment's virtual,

and Gavin's
always had a code.

Gavin used to just show up.

He would walk in,
and he'd be like, "Hey,"

and I'd be like, "Hey,"
and then we'd hang out.

It was kinda like
he lived there,

even though he didn't,
but that has changed.

It's out of--
out of respect for me, too.

What if I'm walking
around naked?

Like, Gavin can't
just, like, walk in.

Well, he came-- he came home
one time, and we were, like,

hookin' up on the couch.

And I'm like,
"No mas on the code."

How are you feeling with
your adjustment to the city?

It's been really nice,
but I think I am,

like, missing that,
like, girl time.

It's just weird, like,
trying to make new friends,

like, at this stage
in life.

- Yeah.
- You know?

I did go to get a pedicure
with Danielle the other day,

which was nice.

Oh, man, finally,
Kenny, like,

this woman is amazing
'cause it's like--

Aww, 'cause you've known him
a while, or...?

Yeah, through Gavin.

It was really nice.

We're just starting
to get to know each other,

and I actually learned
some things

about her relationship
that I didn't realize.

I thought her and Eoin
had been together

- a really long time.
- Okay.

And, they started
officially dating

in, like, April,

and he's been in the process
of a divorce,

which, you know,
can linger,

and she was kind of saying,
like, it was amicable.

But then
she found out about me.

It has not been
as friendly.

When did that
relationship end?

I can't remember exactly,
but she did tell me

that he had been
kind of checked out

of that relationship
for a while.

Oh, sounds like overlap.

What do you think about
Danielle's boyfriend?

Do you wanna get
to know him or no?

I think it's weird
for me to, like,

wanna get to know him

and then, like,
not really talk to her.

I'm just sort of, like,

playing the avoiding game
at the moment.

He didn't tell me we had
a VIP here, so, you know.

Oh, my God!

- It's the boss.
- Hi. Can we reach up?

Can you get over there?

- How are you?
- How are you?

- It's been a while.
- It's been, like, three years.

How's the baby?

- She's amazing.
- Yeah.

Thank you for asking.

My next question is,
whose side are you on?

That's not gonna work.

I don't wanna say, like,

I had a falling out
with Danielle.

I just, like--

We don't need
to talk about...

I just don't need it
in my life.

I don't even want to
relive those moments.

That's--
those are in the past.

I gotta get back there.

- Good seeing you.
- Yeah.

- Wait, Robert is the chef.
- Did we not know this either?

I was, like,
is this gonna be a problem?

I feel like there's a lot
that I don't know.

So, no,
yeah, there's, like,

a lot of history
between Danielle and I.

At least once a year,
she does something,

and I've given her
pass after pass after pass.

She, like, asked me
to go for a coffee,

- and I was like--
- Well, that's good.

Is that like
an olive branch?

I am way more picky about
who I give my energy to

- these days. So...
- Right.

- Well, I feel special then.
- Yeah, you should.

It's wild to me.

We've got Danielle
that is dating a guy,

and the guy
is still married.

Lindsay,
who had a baby with a guy

after, like, two months,

and Lindsay's
interrogating me

about us
moving in together

after hanging out
for a year.

And her and Gavin
were, like, laughing

and making a joke of
what I was going through

- with my mom and, like--
- Gavin said something?

Yeah, he was making, like,
boy comments.

The stages of grief--
anger, pain, ----in' around.

Just really
rubbed me the wrong way.

If anybody in this scenario
knows what I went through

and-and could have my back,
it would be Gavin.

Last fall, we found out that
my mom had stage four cancer,

and it was out of the blue.

I struggle to even
talk about my mom still,

at this point,
'cause we were just very close.

It was a really
difficult period.

Um, Whitney and I
were dating, but, like,

I just felt like
I wasn't in the place

to-to be what she deserved
in a relationship,

and we broke up.

Sometimes this can happen
in dynamics of, like,

best friends and someone
getting in a relationship

when another one isn't.

Does he feel like
you're not spending

- as much time with him...
- I don't know, maybe.

...and that's why he's,
like, saying these comments?

I-- he's-he's just so bad
at using his words

that it's like,
I would never know,

until something blows up.

Coming up...

There are times
where I think

Amanda's already given up,

and now she's telling me
she wants to

- move out of the apartment.
- Dude...

♪ Let's go
flying over mountains ♪

♪ I am now the queen
of the castle ♪

♪ If you want to rule
with me ♪

What are you doin',
girlfriend?

Hi!

- Hello.
- Guess who's here.

- Is that your friend, Gemma?
- It's Eloise!

Is that your friend?

I literally came
straight from the office.

Say hi.

- I came straight from work.
- Hi, Eli.

But I did remember--
I did remember

- the hand-me-downs.
- Hi.

You got some baby Louboutins
in there, actually.

You're giving me
baby Louboutins?

Yeah, you outgrew them.

This is why we love
Eloise's hand-me-downs.

Yeah.

Do you want water
or anything?

- Wine is good. Thank you.
- Okay.

- One of those days, I see.
- Yeah.

If there was, like,
a first aid kit for mothers,

bottle of champagne
would be in there.

I don't know how any parents
do it sober.

I put Gemma to bed,
and I'm, like, wine. Um...

I smell it,
and I feel better.

You're dealing with things that
are just so insanely stupid.

The other day, my son and
my daughter were painting,

and I'm, like, doing the dishes,
and I pop out.

I'm like,
why is it so quiet?

And my son painted
his penis blue,

which was shocking because
green is his favorite color.

I know this is non-toxic,
like, organic paint

but, like, probably not good
for your scrotum.

I look at you
having two kids,

and I think I might just be
one and done.

One and done--
you did it right.

Honestly, like, I don't know
how I would have

- gotten through without you.
- You would have been fine.

No, I wouldn't have.
I don't have any, like,

other friends
that are in similar situations.

Over summer, no one ----ing knew
about anything

I was dealing with

that was, like,
very serious, like, legal.

No one at the ----ing
Summer House

is gonna understand.
Like, nobody has kids.

What is going on
with mediation?

- I don't know.
- How is he with that stuff?

- Like, do you agree on anything?
- We basically--

- Like, school-wise, at least?
- Well, we agree on a lot.

It's amazing that
you're supposed to plan

18 years in, like, now.

My baby daddy and I
are near the end

of mediation for Gemma,

and it's been an
up and down roller coaster.

You know,
we are making decisions

that are very impactful
on Gemma's entire future.

So, the sooner we can
get through

all of the legal stuff,
then the easier it will be.

And, hopefully, that document
is just in a drawer somewhere

and doesn't have to
ever be taken out.

It can fit in the bottom drawer
of my nightstand,

next to the condoms
that are never used.

That's the hope and dream
for the agreement,

not the condoms.

I wanted, at one point,
when I was still hoping

it would work out,
to put into

the custody agreement
that we all had to hang out

with each other
one time per week

for at least three hours.

I wanted to force
family time.

This lawyer was like,

"You can't force somebody
to hang out with you."

My relationship
with my ex, Bobby,

is in a good place,
right now.

Obviously, it's taken
a lot to get here.

This is the guy
who moved out on me

when I was 30 weeks pregnant
and had a toddler to raise,

but I've made
a conscious effort to put aside the hatred,

focus on what's gonna be best
for my kids

and for my own health.

It's better than planning to buy
a ----ing voodoo doll

and stab it every night.

I choose civil and friendly
over voodoo doll.

Well, you know, that's still
in the back of my head.

Did you do a poopy?

- No, okay. Um--
- Is it mine?

- Do you smell poop?
- No, no, no.

She farts a lot.

All right. All right.

Boys night.

Boys night-- I know.

- What's up, D?
- How we doin', Kenny?

- How you doin', brother?
- Chilling, bro.

- There he is.
- Good to see you.

What's going on?

Is this ----ing real?
We have good taste.

- Good taste.
- That's what it is.

Gav, you want a shot
and a beer?

Come on.
You know that's my drink, bro.

- I-- It is.
- Friends that drink together

stay together,
all right?

- Boys night.
- Yes.

- Oh, you guys just rip one?
- Rip-rip the shot.

Oh, my goodness.

Drinks on the house tonight,
right, Gavin?

Yeah, exactly, my man.

Has Whitney witnessed
a boys night?

Whitney has witnessed
too many boys nights.

That's the problem.

I've had nights,
but I've been pretty good.

Cleaning my act up.

Does she-does she
get after it?

Whitney has
an alter ego...

- Oh!
- ...named Claire.

How is that going, actually?

She has a really,
really, really good friend group in L.A.

She's gotta have a good one
in New York, too.

I know.
It's just difficult

when you are trying
to introduce your girlfriend

and have her welcomed
by a group of girls,

and there's one girl
that's, like,

kinda causing
all this drama.

Last time we were here,

Lindsay was, like,
hammering me.

I'm like, "Lindsay,
we don't even know each other.

- You're comin' in hot."
- And I was-- I was--

- Were you poking the fire?
- I was poking.

We had Kenny in, like,
a nice situation.

I know Kenny can handle it.

I'm saying
it's a big commitment

to move across the country
for a guy.

- This is now a panel.
- This is a panel.

This is a panel.

It came across
very judgy,

and then she was making
comments about, like,

all men,
and-and this and that.

She just came across
the wrong way.

Do you think it was
projecting or just, like,

- asking from a good place?
- It was either projecting.

- No, no, no.
- I will say,

I think she was just
trying to be a girls' girl.

You're rubbing me
the same way, honestly,

that you rubbed me that night
where it was, like,

it was a dogpile.

Lindsay has her little crew,
her little minions,

and for some reason,
you were, like,

standing over there
with Lindsay.

I am not happy
with the way that went down.

You gotta have
your boy's back.

Gavin is used to Kenny
being in a relationship,

but he's used to Kenny
probably having issues

or being unhappy, and,

you know,
Gavin's there for him.

Like, "Oh, let's go have
a boys night."

I don't think Gavin's used to
Kenny in a relationship, happy,

and I think that's-that's what
we're-we're dealing with here.

Like, Gavin thinks
he's about to lose his boy.

And maybe I'm being
over-overly protective,

overly sensitive.
It's a real possibility.

No, but you have every right.
Dude, you love this girl.

Always defend your woman.

Lexi's been great,
by the way.

She loves-she loves Lexi,

and Lexi's been very, like,
she reaches out,

she's welcoming.

"Let's grab brunch.
Let's do this."

How are you feeling?

I mean, moving in together
is a big step.

Totally. I feel like
it'll just take some time,

but it's, like,
an exciting chapter.

I feel like we're in
a really good place.

Oh, my God,
this is just chaos. Like--

I know.
Like, this is really crazy.

I've never seen
so many fire trucks.

To the chaotic
New York life.

Literally,
welcome to New York.

We're doing a kind of
welcome to New York party.

That's nice.

Obviously, we're boys,
and we spend time together,

and I want her
to feel comfortable

- and welcomed in this group.
- Yeah.

I mean, listen,

Amanda and I have been
goin' through a lot,

- and so she probably--
- I've said that.

- I'm like, listen.
- She-she's almost been in,

like, a-a-
a no new friends headspace.

You know,
I'm Team Amanda and Kyle.

I mean, listen,
I'm trying to be receptive

and open-minded about
the kind of drastic measures

that we need to take
to try to figure out

if we're meant to be.

There are times where I think
Amanda has already given up,

and she's just waiting for me
to do something stupid,

so she can
officially end it.

And now, she's telling me
she wants to

- move out of the apartment.
- Dude...

She keeps talkin' about, like,
this is for a month or two.

Yeah, listen, Kyle.

Bro, I think that speaks
for itself.

I am Team Kyle and Amanda,

but I'm also Team Kyle,
and I'm Team Amanda,

if they're not
Team Kyle and Amanda.

You need to take the space
and see how that feels,

and maybe it feels
great for you.

That ----in' sucks.
Let's be honest.

Whoa, that was way too much.

I haven't, like,
celebrated

someone moving
to New York in--

- ever, it feels like.
- I know.

My life the last year
has been so ultra serious,

and I almost feel like
I'm coming out of the other end.

Now, I can have fun.
That's all I'm interested in.

That's called self-love,
and you deserve this.

It's time to have fun.

It's not always easy to get
a night out on the town

like I used to.

Yvonne and I
are hospitality girls.

When I was 23,
I was running the entire city,

opening a club, restaurant,
and hotel lounge bar

every single month.

Between the two of us,
you really had

- an all-access pass to the city.
- I love Yvonne so much.

I just wish that she would
remember that I'm a mom now.

Are you gonna be around,
around, like, 11:00?

No.

Can you come and meet me
for a glass of wine?

I have a baby.

She's like,
"Yvonne...

- I'm a mom."
- I'm a mom.

Sometimes
she says yes, though,

but, like, then sometimes
she gets activated.

There is a brand-new restaurant
opening tonight.

Oh, my God.

I'm so excited for tonight.

I'm actually surprised
Kenny invited me.

Andrea was telling me
this week,

he's like, "Yeah,
Kenny doesn't really like you

because you pressured him
to propose."

I was like, what?

What are you wearing
tonight?

I think I'm gonna wear
this brown cocktail dress.

That's hot.
I think I'm gonna do this linen.

I think I'm gonna do
the black on black

with the T-shirt.

I think you're gonna
love this space.

It's the Campbell Building
up in Grand Central.

I know you don't like to go
above 14th Street,

- but, you know.
- For you...

I'll go anywhere
in Manhattan,

maybe not Brooklyn.

I think it's just like,
here's this party

that I'm throwing for you,

so you forget about
the lack of closet space

that you have
in my apartment.

So, when's my party?

You're not getting a party.

Do you think we'll ever
get to the stage

where I don't just have, like,
one little closet,

and then your stuff isn't, like,
in the living room?

I don't want this
out here either,

but I have a lot of jackets.

I mean, closet space
in New York

is hard to come by, right?

You've been here
for two months, right?

I know.

I feel like I can graduate on
to a little bit more space.

I think I've been pretty
generous, actually.

Anyway, how are you feeling
about tonight

'cause you-you haven't seen
Lindsay since you,

uh, got turned down by her
for your date?

Yeah, turned down
is the right word.

I'm just, like,
I guess I'm nervous.

I'm anxious.

There's tons of history there,
so, like, you know.

Yeah.

It makes-- it makes it
a little heavier,

but I'll figure it out.

I've never been here.
Hi.

Can I get you started
with a drink?

I think I'm gonna start
with an espresso martini.

I think we're around here.

That's what I was
gonna go with, too.

- Okay.
- Done. Perfect.

Thank you.

Oh, they're here.

- Hi!
- Hey.

- How we doin'?
- Good. How are you?

- Thanks for coming.
- Of course.

- You look beautiful.
- Aww, thank you. So do you.

- Hi.
- Hi. How are you?

- Good. How are you?
- Hi.

- Good to see you, Linds.
- Hi. How are you?

How are you doing?

How you been?
You look sharp.

- Hi.
- Hi.

Thank you for having us.

Hi.
Welcome to New York.

Hi. How are you?
Good to see you.

How are we doing?
Good to see you. - Good. Good.

Uh, where's Kyle?

He had to drop
something off for work,

so I just came up
with Katie.

Hi, Gavin.

It's so good to see you.

- Too long. Too long.
- It's been too long.

- Welcome to New York.
- Hey, you look beautiful.

How was your anniversary?

We had, like, a really
nice time at dinner,

- and drinks, and stuff.
- Okay, good.

But, um, I told Kyle
that I'm moving out.

Oh, my God, you did.

But then I explained
to him

I'm gonna find somewhere,
like, temporary.

- Right.
- Like, we're not separating.

We're not calling off
the relationship.

- Yeah.
- Like, we're still gonna

see each other, dating.

Like, we're gonna have to
make efforts

- with each other.
- Yeah, yeah.

I was so nervous to say
something to him,

but he took it so well.

- He did?
- Yeah.

Like, something
just has to change.

He's like, "I don't think
it's, like, the worst idea.

Like, it's"--

Um, but yeah.

Hey!

- Flirting versus charming.
- Charming.

Where am I at with--

You're chirting.

Don't ----ing kiss my girl.

Gavin's a little sh--.

- Muah!
- Nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you.
How are you? - Hi. How are you?

- Frank. Nice to meet you.
- Yvonne. Nice to meet you.

I got ready
at the office today.

I used the laser hair removal
to shave my legs.

I was like,
you know what?

I don't have time to go home,
so this is what it is.

- Yo, how we doin'?
- How you doin'? How you doin'?

- Ciao!
- I wanted to say hello to the ladies.

- Who is that?
- What perfect timing.

Rico Suave with the hair.

What did he just say?

No!

Frank, come meet the ladies.

- This is Lindsay.
- Hi, Lindsay.

- Hi, Frank. Lindsay.
- Frank Acosta.

- Nice to meet you. How are you?
- Nice to meet you.

You guys were,
uh, at my wedding.

- Oh, that's right.
- Oh.

If I think two people
are amazing,

and they're single,
I try to get them together.

And, Frank
remembered Lindsay.

He remembered exactly the dress
she was wearing that night.

I thought she was
wearing red,

but then she was
wearing green,

and Frank knew,
and I didn't.

And he's
a great-looking guy,

and Lindsay's
great-looking,

so I think
it's a good match.

I can see some steam...

- Yeah.
- ...coming in.

Where are you from
originally?

Michigan--
I moved to New York,

started a milk
and dairy company.

Milk and dairy.

Frank is so ----ing hot.

But I don't like
to party-party.

- Do you?
- Those days are long gone.

Um, I have
a ten-month-old baby.

She's, like, the most
perfect baby on earth.

It's been a while
since I've gotten,

like, flustered like this.

I'm gonna run to
the restroom real quick.

I'll be right back.

I'm, like,
sweating a little.

I think Andrea brought
this guy to introduce me to,

and I'm drinking
an espresso martini

and eating
cheese and meats,

and I'm like, I need
to go to the bathroom

and, like,
spray something in my mouth.

Let me see.

Oh, yeah, you're good.

Hi!

- Hello.
- Hey, how are you doing?

How are you?

- This is a vibe.
- Hi. How are you?

I'm good. How are things?
Good to see you.

- Good to see you, homie.
- How are you things?

Good, good, good.

Thanks for having us.
This is great.

Hey, absolutely.

I wanna get a cocktail.

- What are you drinking?
- Prosecco.

- Hi, Lindsay.
- Prosecco-- oh, hi.

- How are you?
- Nice to see you.

Good. How are you?

Um, okay, so...

- Yeah, now I need one.
- Yeah, I get it.

What is going on,
right now?

Yeah, tell me.
What's going on?

- Danielle just showed up--
- What?

And gave me a kiss
on the cheek to say hi.

Like, what?

She stiffed me for wanting
to go out for coffee and chat,

and now she can't even, like,
say two sentences to me.

It just feels like
I'm a stranger to her now.

It just sucks.

What is happening
around here?

- Next time--
- There is so much going on.

It's just so sh---y.

She looked at me, and she
was just, like, cold as ice.

It makes me so sad.

This is Jackson's
best friend.

- As in your dog?
- Yeah.

- Okay.
- Oh, we're-we're homies, bro.

And he's got the ----ing
best hair in New York.

- Can we give you a mullet?
- He's on his--

Yeah, I did.
That was an era.

Kyle just keeps
walking right past me.

Does he even know
that I'm here?

Kyle used to be a little
more fun with a mullet.

Now, he's like, uh, you know,
growing up, being--

Don't tempt me, Nick.

The place is busy.

- Hi.
- I know.

Why didn't you say
hi to me?

I-I guess
I walked by you.

I heard you, your voice,
right behind me.

I said,
"Oh, Kyle's here."

- I walked in and--
- I could feel the vibrations

in my chest
of you talking.

I said my--
I think Kyle's here.

You know, Amanda,
she's moving out.

But we're not separated,
We're just creating separation.

But it's confusing.
This is foreign territory.

I don't know
how I'm supposed to act.

- Did you feed the dogs?
- Yeah.

- Did you take 'em out?
- No.

It's still hard to believe
this is happening.

Hey, hey, hey,
hey, hey, hey, hey!

I wanted to give
a toast to Whitney.

We're all here
as, you know,

her welcome to New York.

She is the best person
that I know

and the best person
in my life,

and I'm so excited
to be dragging her

across the country
to New York.

- On the subway.
- We took the subway today for the first time.

She's an amazing woman.
To Whitney.

Go, Whitney!

- I love you.
- Whoo!

Katie,
I like that green on you.

- I do, too.
- Thank you, honey.

Green's
my favorite color. So...

Oh, thank you.
I appreciate that.

- Is that right?
- He's obsessed with it, though.

It's really weird.

Green shoes, green socks,
green underwear, green shorts,

green shirt,
green jacket, green hat.

Aww, that's adorable.

- I love that.
- It's a lot of laundry.

- Do you want a drink?
- Yeah.

Did you and Lindsay
get the lace memo?

- No, I don't know.
- This is a vibe, I'm not gonna lie.

We don't talk.
So, that would be--

Can I steal you
for a minute?

Yeah, 100%.

Fill me in
on the ----ing tidbits

'cause I-I've got
a bone to pick, as well.

I was joking 'cause in an--
in an alternative universe,

you and Lindsay would have
coordinated a little lace.

I-I miss you.

I didn't mean to, like,
be insensitive.

- Eoin!
- How are you?

- Good to see you.
- Good to see you.

How are things?
I love your hair.

I'm trying to broker
a common ground.

We're too closeknit
for there to be awkwardness.

Just confront her now
and squash it.

You own it, she owns it.

She literally
texted me that summer.

She said,
"You said something punchy."

The beach was harsh.

I mean, we don't even
live together, let alone--

- You don't live together?
- No.

You don't live
with this man?

- No.
- And he has put

- a baby inside you?
- Yeah.

And now, she has
all sorts of opinions

about how you've
carried yourself.

I think Lindsay-- I don't want
to say the word "slut,"

but she has opinions
on your behavior.

Before Carl and I
got engaged,

she gave him a hand job
in the back of an Uber

a week after we broke up.

The word "boy crazy"
has come up.

- Are you ----ing kidding me?
- I'm not.

Are you ----ing
out of your mind

bringing this to me?

Don't freaking
shoot the messenger.

that.

Now, all of a sudden that
I'm in a serious relationship,

you have this laundry list
of issues with me

about guys
that I have dated.

I mean, to call me
boy crazy,

like, I wouldn't be
pointing in this direction.

Like, girl...

What did you think was
gonna come from that, Kyle?

There's no chance I'm gonna
go over and be like,

"Hey, can we have
a conversation.

I'm so sorry
about everything."

No, thanks.

Of course.

Excellent.

You're tan, which means you
were out in the sun

without sunscreen,
but I'll let it pass.

- He looks great for 45.
- Yeah, yeah, so, you're good.

- Really?
- Yeah.

It's 99% genetic, honestly.

My job is the 1%.

- Okay, can we talk?
- Okay.

What's that?
Can we talk? Yeah.

First of all,
lovely party, lovely speech.

Thank you for coming.

Well, thank you
for inviting me.

Um, I did hear that
you felt grilled by me

at The Garrett, right?

That's correct.
It felt like you were

grilling me,
interrogating me.

- You were--
- Was it just me?

You were recruiting people.

- I didn't recruit people.
- Literally, you were,

like, literally,
like, "Come over here."

I was just asking
you questions

'cause that's how you
get to know somebody.

This is who I am.

Like, I just-- and I question
everyone in my life.

I'm a very curious person,

and I want to get to know

everyone's interpersonal
relationships.

I-I wish it felt
genuine like that.

You think that that line
of questioning was normal,

and everyone ----ing rolling in
and piling in--

It's normal in my life
with all of my friends.

...was normal?
Is it?

Well, I love that
for you and your friends

'cause it seems
like you have

a lot of disagreements
with a lot of people.

It's just like
drama, drama, drama,

and it feels like
it's just you're creating

these narratives that just
are, like, unnecessary.

- No, I call out
- ---ing truths and facts,

and I'm sorry that
you don't like to hear

the ----ing truth.

You're grilling me
about moving a girl

across the country
after knowing her for a year.

You had a kid with a guy

- after ----ing two months.
- You're right.

So, what's
the problem about that?

The problem is,
don't project your insecurities

on my relationship.

- I'm not.
- It feels like you are.

You're grilling me
about moving a girl

across the country
after knowing her for a year.

You had a kid with a guy

- after ----ing two months.
- You're right.

So, what's
the problem about that?

The problem is,
don't project your insecurities

on my relationship.

- I'm not.
- It feels like you are.

You're telling me that you,
and your personal life,

and the fact that you had
this relationship with this guy,

and you have a child has
nothing to do with the fact

that you are grilling me
on-on my commitment level.

It sounds like
you're judging me.

It sounds like
you're judging me. No.

No, I just don't need to
be pressed on my commit--

- on my commitment level.
- You and your commitment level.

Kenny acts like
he knows who I am,

and he doesn't know sh--,
but I know narcissistic men,

and that's what
he's giving, right now.

So, Whitney, good luck.

You just asked me
about bringing someone

across the country
without a ring.

- No, I didn't.
- I'm like--

- Stop with the nonsense.
- What I said was--

- and maybe you're not
- ---ing remembering-- was,

"Wow, she moved across
the country for you

"without you putting
a ring on her finger.

- "That shows commitment."
- That's a normal occurrence.

That shows--
no, it's not.

I have multiple girlfriends
that would never do that

without a ring
on their ----ing finger.

- That's a you thing.
- That is--

Oh, they're still going.

I don't really wanna step in
because I feel like--

I know. I'm like you,
where, like,

it's other people's problems,
not mine.

I obviously wanna, like,
stand up for my relationship,

and that's why I stepped
into that conversation

at The Garrett
when you weren't there.

But I don't think she's
questioning your relationship.

I think she wants
the best for you,

and I think she's trying
to protect you.

Why is she trying
to protect me, like,

when we know
what we're doing?

- Yeah.
- And that's, like,

- our own decisions and--
- Lindsay-- she's a mom.

- She's just like mama bear.
- Yeah.

It's just
her personality.

I just think you have drama
that follows you around

everywhere you go.

Like, I don't have time
for drama.

- I don't care for that.
- Think about it.

You're in the middle
of a fight with me

in the middle of Whitney's
welcome to New York party.

Is that dramatic?

You're the one
fighting with me.

Okay.

Thank you for inviting me.

I'm glad you came.

♪ We got what you need ♪

♪ You know you need me ♪

♪ You know it ♪

Two-bedroom--
that was my, uh,

- highly requested.
- Oh, this is nice.

- Primary's this way.
- Okay, perfect.

That's where you're gonna be
spending all your time.

Potentially.

You got
a great soaking tub.

- Oh, wow.
- Oh, my God!

- No, that's a pool.
- Wait, this is a hot tub.

I'm bringing Gemma
to bathe in your tub.

Oh, Gemma
wants bathtime.

No, she can--
she can splash around.

I'm trying to find somewhere
that's, like, furnished,

month to month,
outdoor space,

pet-friendly,
with a doorman,

and has sunlight.

- Good size primary.
- Yeah, and good lighting.

My bedroom, right now,
faces, like, a brick wall,

so it's a dungeon.

I wanna wake up with
the sun beating on my face

where I leave my house
in the morning,

and I have sunburn.

All right, and then
there's a second bedroom.

Oh, my God.

Also, gets
really great light.

You get a little bit of
a water view here, too.

Beautiful, yeah,
this gets really nice light.

- More closets.
- More closet--

this would be my closet,
like a clo-office.

You know,
a closet-office situation.

I've never lived
by myself before.

The last apartment
I looked for

before moving in
with Kyle,

our budget was, like,
next to nothing.

We were looking for, like,
a two-closet apartment,

you know,
not even a two-bedroom.

Just, like, give us
two closets.

Oh, look at
all the wine.

Is the wine available
for grabs?

- That's a selling point for me.
-.

I'll let you guys chat.
I'll leave you alone.

Okay, thank you
so much. Yes.

All right,
have a good one, ladies.

- Thank you.
- Thank you so much.

- I mean, it's a cool view.
- It's really nice.

Have you talked to
your parents at all

- about any of this?
- Not yet.

Oh.

I don't wanna
make them worried.

I get it, yeah.
It's hard with parents, yeah.

Because especially
at this point, right now,

when, like, we're really
on that brink of, like,

will they, won't they.

I hate change so much.

When I was younger,
I handcuffed myself

to our cast iron railings
in our house

because my parents wanted
to get beautiful,

new, solid wooden ones,

and I did not want them
to change them.

But, at this point,

whatever I'm doing
has not been enough,

and I need to make
a bigger change,

and it's scary.

I just wanna be happy.

I just want to be with someone
that, like, adores me.

He needs to just,
like, understand

- that you're gonna
- ---ing lose her

if you don't
get it together.

All right, Ryder,
I heard you ate bread

out of this trash bag.
I know.

You're like, if it's this low,
it's fair game.

Not anymore.

All right.

Hey!

Kyle Cooke.

I love when you use
my first and last name.

Well, uh,
fancy hearing from you

in the middle
of a workday.

I know. I know.

How are you?
How-how was surgery?

How's recovery?

Um, you know,
I'm doing well,

and dad got
precancerous melanoma,

and he's having that
dug out tomorrow.

What the?

We're looking to 2026
to be a big comeback year.

- All right, same.
- Same for you?

Oh, yeah, yeah,
this was a rough one.

I've been open to you guys
about the business front

and, you know,
some of the challenges

that Amanda
and I have had.

We had
a pretty rough summer.

I told you bits
and pieces of that.

Yeah.

And, we've kind of
been in this place before,

where even if we have
a good summer,

it-it quickly
slips into us living

kinda two different lives.

Like, we don't
do anything together.

I mean, like, I'm like
pickleball,

kickball, traveling.

Like, I'll-- tell me
what you want to do.

She wants to go shopping,
you know.

You married me.

That's just weird, ma.

Um, Amanda and I,
we're like, all right,

what are we-- what are
we gonna do differently?

And-and her idea
was some separation.

Well, not like we are
separated, but, like,

I think she needs a fresh,
clean start,

and I need to feel like,
you know,

I can walk into my home

and not feel like it's
as cluttered and stressful

as the rest of my life.

She was in the mindset of,
like, all right,

maybe we need, like,
a month apart.

Oh, gee...

She's trying to find
an apartment. Uh--

Ooh, this is big.

Well, we know you've been
unhappy, you guys,

for quite a while.

And, uh, you know,
I know you also have love

for each other.

So, it's, you know,
I feel so sad.

Um...

I just feel guilty because,
in-in-in the heat of the moment,

she'll yell at me
and tell me

I-I've wasted
ten years of her life,

and, like,
I don't really--

It's just, like,
I tried to make it work.

That's-- yeah, that's not
a good thing to hear.

You know,
but think of dad.

He was in
a ten-year marriage.

He knows what feeling stuck
feels like.

He had two kids, so it was
really hard to leave,

but he did,
and it gave me a chance

to, you know, find him.

This isn't,
like, the end,

but it-it does feel like
a huge, drastic move.

- I know.
- Like, I'm--

it's just-- it-it's been
a-a tough year.

I feel sad for you both.

I wanna be with you.

You have
the keys to my heart.

It's about time you get
the keys to my apartment.

Kyle.

Your coming out
and supporting Loverboy

means the world to us.

Will you marry me?

Yes!

So, Kyle thinks he may
or may not have COVID.

No, we can't catch a break
with this ----ing wedding.

If we can make it
through this,

I feel like we can make it
through anything.

You never gave up on us,
on our love,

and I promise
to do the same.

I can't wait to spend
a lifetime loving you.

There was
a period of time

we were building
a life together,

building a business together.

Yeah, I just never thought
I'd be sitting here alone.

Now, I just feel
like a failure.

You know, I--
I think you can't--

you can't look at yourself
as a failure.

The key thing is, sweetie,
we want you happy.

Next time,
on "In The City"...

Look at us.

This makes me so happy,
right now.

You guys gotta
eventually just, like,

chill out, all right?

West has been fighting
for this his whole life.

So, you're a master
in the streets,

but how are you
in the sheets?

Yeah.

That was a joke,
by the way.

So, I finally
found a place.

It is a year-long lease.

Kenny told me,

"Sometimes I worry
we don't have that spark."

You moved your whole life
here for him.

And, like, I will
move it right back out.