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'In 1964, Granada Television
brought together
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'a group of seven-year-olds.'
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When I grow up,
I want to be an astronaut.
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'We have followed their lives
every seven years.'
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I don't want to keep still,
cos life, you know,
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don't wait for nobody.
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'They talked about their dreams...'
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If I could have two girls
and two boys.
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'..their ambitions...'
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I'd quite like to go into politics.
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'..and their fears for the future.'
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Life is what happens while
you're waiting for something else.
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I don't think life is there
to be regretted.
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You've gotta make the most of it
while you've got it.
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That's how you become
the person you are.
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'It's a picture of how,
any person, how they change.'
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'Give me a child until he is seven,
and I will give you the man.'
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Balden, let's have
the present tense of vastare.
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Vasto, vastas, vast...
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..vastat, vastamus, vastatis,
vastant.
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Yes, speak up.
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'When he was seven, Bruce
was at boarding school.'
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Ten-ho!
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My heart's desire is to see my
daddy, who is 6,000 miles away.
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'His parents divorced.
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'At the age of 11,
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'Bruce moved to St Paul's School
in London as a boarder.'
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You know, I'm... I've been getting
on well with my stepfather.
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And I like seeing my father
occasionally.
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And he does come over from Rhodesia.
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At St Paul's,
I like the companionship,
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you know, with other boys.
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'At 21, he was at Oxford University,
studying maths.'
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Well, there was one job, which I...
I'd quite like to make maps, really.
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But there are very few jobs
like that going.
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Chris Omalabi?
Yes, sir.
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'After Oxford,
he worked in the City for a year,
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'then decided to teach.
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'He taught in a state school.
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So, if you think it cost you 25p...
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'It's so different from your own
education,
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'where you're teaching now.'
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'General education is better
for society, I think.
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'Public schools are divisive.'
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Do you understand the game?
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'I think there is a class society,
and I think public schools may...
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'..help its continuance.'
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'At 34, Bruce took a sabbatical
and taught in Bangladesh.'
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OK, because you've got to get
an X squared, OK?
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I see education as a key to it all,
you know, I mean,
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I think once your population
becomes educated,
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it can think for itself a lot more,
and create wealth,
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and create opportunities.
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X, good, OK.
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The straight line, yes...
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'At 42, he was back in the East End,
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'as head of the maths department
at a girls' comprehensive school.'
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'At 49, we found him teaching
at St Albans.
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'An independent school.'
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It divides by three.
You don't multiply by three...
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Divide.Divide by three.
Divide by three. OK.
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'Tell me, then, what's exciting
about teaching here for you?'
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'There is a higher academic level
to teach,
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'and then you can see
pupils at a more developed level.'
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That flash of recognition,
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and then engendering their love
of the subject that they...
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that I had at their age.
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Do your old friends give you
a hard time about what you've done?
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They certainly do, they absolutely
do, they say, you know,
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"Have we joined the Tory party, the
golf club, the Masons?" You know.
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Well, my girlfriend is in Africa,
and I won't,
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I don't think I'll have another
chance of seeing her again.
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Have you got any girlfriends?
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No, no. Not yet.
I'm sure it will come.
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Yes, I haven't got married,
or whatever,
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and I'm supposing that, you know,
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that would have been something
which I hoped had happened.
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Well, you're getting on a bit,
are you getting worried?
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Well, not particularly.
I mean, I'm always optimistic.
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I mean, who knows who I might meet
tomorrow?
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And in the middle of a conversation
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about something completely
different...
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..he just asked if, um...
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..if I'd like to marry him. And if
I hadn't been listening carefully,
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I'd have missed it completely.
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To love and to cherish.
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Till death us do part.
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We don't argue very much.
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Not really, I mean we haven't really
had a sort of full-blown row.
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I just think...Our arguments sort
of tend to be two sentences,
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and I go off and sulk for 24 hours.
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So, is Bruce getting any better
at expressing his feelings to you?
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Um...
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Mmm...
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Hm...
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Not...
Not really, by the sound of that.
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I always say
I would never divorce him,
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but I may well murder him
at some point.
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Meaning what?
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I mean, I have some infuriating
habits, which...
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When he's travelling.
Yeah.
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And he gets into arguments
with vending machines.
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How has being married to Penny
changed you?
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I haven't been lonely,
I've appreciated companionship.
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I mean, is there a balance of power,
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or do you have to run
with imbalance, or what?
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Well, it's...
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I wouldn't go against Penny,
life would not be...
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..easy, after that, but, um,
you know, generally speaking,
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we are in agreement
about most things.
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'We may have children,
if in seven years' time or so
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'we're living in a slightly bigger
house with a young family,
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'that would be nice.'
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Come on, then, Henry, get on.
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'Bruce and Penny had two sons,
Henry and George.'
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On Daddy's head!
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Oh, pull out.
Cos they'll take the lead off.
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He's worse than ever, Father.
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'Are you ambitious for them?'
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'Yeah, I mean,
some people work ferociously hard,
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'and while that is rewarding,
and they enjoy that,
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'and they enjoy the success
and so on,
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'you just hope they get
a nice balance to their lives.
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'We've always had a family holiday,
and this might be one of the last,
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'because the boys are getting older,
19 and 17,
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'and they might want to go off
by themselves.'
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'If, in the future, were we to offer
the boys basically a free holiday,
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'in somewhere exciting
like New York,
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'they wouldn't turn it down.'
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Oh, so we can't get away on our own?
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I don't think we'll ever get away
on our own.Oh, God!
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Henry?
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The bagels, do you mind
getting them out of the oven?
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'Most of my work life is over now,
but I am doing a little bit of work.
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'I'm teaching a bit
in Penny's school now.
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'But I still have plenty to do.
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'Looking after older relatives,
or treasurer for the Quakers.'
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Has the issue of money
been important in the household?
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Well, that's partly why
I'm still working a bit,
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because we have to help the boys
through university.
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Each month we pay in
a certain amount
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into a common sort of bank account,
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and she contributes
more than I do now.
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I mean, I'm quite happy to be
kept by Penny in any style to which
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I happen to be,
you know, accustomed to.
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OK, I just looked up on Twitter,
George, making scrambled eggs...
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'And so, she's still
a successful professional?'
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'Yes, I mean, she's actually
got quite an important job.
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'She's head of sixth form.
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'She's in charge of all the A-level
courses, all the UCAS,
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'university applications.'
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'Are you completely in sync
about bringing up the boys?'
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'We are, generally, yes.
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'We want to give them a good
moral basis, a good education.'
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It's slightly irritating that
neither have got any idea
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what they want to do yet,
but that's...
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Well, what do you put that down to?
Is that the times they're living in?
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Possibly, because in our age,
you tended to have one career.
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'Are they both deeply involved
in the Internet?'
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'Well, they're both on social media,
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'and text, and WhatsApp,
and all that kind of thing.
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'There are various things
I can do that they can't do.
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'They can't change a plug
or change a light bulb,
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'but I can't get on Netflix so...
Oh.
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'I have to ask them to help me.'
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Yes! Chase it on!
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So, is he playing as much,
Bruce, as he used to?
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No.
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No, and when he does, he usually
manages to pull a muscle, so...
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Hey, welcome to Katz's Deli.
How are you doing?Well, thanks.
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You guys want waiter service,
or you wanna do self-service?
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'I'm trying to get my weight down,
which is pathetic,
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'but I should really adjust my diet
as well.
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'There's more of a chance
of getting diabetes,
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'so, I'm trying to ward that off.
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'But I go to the gym, I play golf,
occasionally I play cricket,
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'but that's more and more awkward
these days.'
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'Is Penny on your case about this?'
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'I mean, I suppose
if I asked her to kind of
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'be stricter on what I was
allowed to eat, that would help.
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'It's less easy to do
when the boys are at home,
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'because I can't stand leftovers.'
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So, I'll always finish their plates.
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OK, now, if they're not there,
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I wouldn't have their plates
to finish, so...
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'Do you have any fears
for the future?'
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'I think disabling, degenerative
conditions linked with old age.'
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That... that fills me with dread.
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I said to Penny, if I'm going first,
then quickly, you know.
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I think discipline is fair enough.
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The next farmer,
he gives me nightmares.
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I suppose I was too young,
really, to understand it.
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And I thought it was a bit severe
at the time,
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but then I just got used to it.
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In that school, and the two schools
I went after that,
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I was beaten many times.
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And that's just what happened.
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And sometimes you didn't know why
you are being beaten,
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but nevertheless it's just,
that's, that's what happened.
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Ah, you're, you're a queen-pawn man.
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Er, sometimes.
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'I think we've
talked about this before,
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'about expressing your feelings,
is that still an issue?'
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'I think it is.
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'Whether it's boarding school life,
or wherever it's happened to be,
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'you tend to try and fit in,
and not express yourself so much,'
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because that can be disruptive,
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and I think, to a certain extent,
I've had a sort of restricted,
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if you like, emotional state,
which I've learnt to live with.
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'At 63, we took him back
to the school in the East End,
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'where he started
his teaching career.'
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Looking back, I, I derive most
satisfaction from teaching here.
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'You had to be on your toes.
I mean, it was quite edgy.
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'But, if the students felt
you were committed to them,
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'and their progress, they joined in
with you and worked well.'
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I think it opened up my viewpoint
to what Britain is now.
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'Living in a council flat
over there,
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'coming here, it was a side of
Britain I had never really been in.'
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Six times three is 18,
shared by two is nine...
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I was hoping that the students would
go on and have successful lives,
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and fulfilled lives,
and realise their potential.
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What I didn't want them to do is
thinking, because of our background,
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this is what we're limited to do.
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That anything was possible.
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'Have you experienced failure
in any part of your life?'
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'I've not had a sort of stunningly
successful education career.'
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I've not, say, become
a deputy head, or head teacher,
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but I never particularly wanted to,
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because you tend to move out
of the classroom.
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Fill out the gaps
on the board there.
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I think we should give most
of our money to the poor people.
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I'd help people.
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If I had a chance.
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Basically, we don't care that many
countries are incredibly poor,
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we simply don't care, I mean...
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'At 34, you seemed to have
really strong ideals.
237
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'They were very powerful,
and powerfully expressed.'
238
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And then, suddenly,
there's been a switch.
239
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Well, partly,
I think it's having a family,
240
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because when you get a family,
your priorities change,
241
00:12:47,401 --> 00:12:49,441
and you start looking after
your family
242
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more than looking further afield.
243
00:12:56,401 --> 00:13:00,401
'You look back at life
and is it a good feeling?'
244
00:13:00,401 --> 00:13:04,401
'Lots to look on with fondness,
and pleasure, and good memories.
245
00:13:04,401 --> 00:13:08,401
'A happy marriage, and two
fine boys that we're proud of,
246
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'and a body of work that I had
my successes with, some failures.'
247
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But still plenty to do,
it's not all over yet.
248
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Well, I know he is her,
and he loves her.
249
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I don't, I love him!
250
00:13:38,961 --> 00:13:43,601
I'd like to be able
to have a happy family.
251
00:13:43,601 --> 00:13:46,601
I mean, I know that it's not possible
to be happy all the time,
252
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but as much of the time
that it was possible.
253
00:13:49,641 --> 00:13:53,601
'By the time she was 21,
Jackie had married Mick,
254
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'and moved to the outskirts
of London.
255
00:13:57,281 --> 00:13:58,961
'She and Mick had decided early on
256
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'that they didn't want to have
children.'
257
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'Basically, I would say
because I'm far too selfish.
258
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'I enjoy doing what I want,
when I want, and how I want,
259
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'and, er...'
260
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certainly, at the moment,
261
00:14:14,601 --> 00:14:17,601
..can't see
any way around that.
262
00:14:19,441 --> 00:14:22,441
'By 34, she was divorced.'
263
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We decided between the two of us,
we knew it wasn't going any further.
264
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We both knew,
I think, at the end of the day,
265
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we would be happier leading
our own lives.
266
00:14:33,601 --> 00:14:35,601
And... this one on!
267
00:14:35,601 --> 00:14:37,601
Oh, yeah!
268
00:14:37,601 --> 00:14:41,601
'I had a brief,
very sweet relationship,
269
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'the result of which was Charlie.'
270
00:14:42,641 --> 00:14:45,601
Oi, give us a cuddle!
271
00:14:45,601 --> 00:14:47,601
'I don't really want Charlie
to be an only.
272
00:14:47,601 --> 00:14:50,281
'I'd love him to have brothers
and sisters.'
273
00:14:51,601 --> 00:14:55,601
Right, Charlie,
please eat it all up, and James.
274
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Thanks, Mum.
Good boy.
275
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And last, but not least...
276
00:15:03,281 --> 00:15:04,601
..are you gonna eat that one for me?
277
00:15:04,601 --> 00:15:08,601
'After her relationship with
Charlie's father ended, she met Ian,
278
00:15:08,601 --> 00:15:12,601
'and they moved to Scotland
and had two sons.
279
00:15:12,601 --> 00:15:15,281
'By 42, they had split up.
280
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Has Charlie shown any interest
as to his father?
281
00:15:19,601 --> 00:15:20,601
No.
282
00:15:20,601 --> 00:15:24,121
Ian's his father,
as far as he's concerned.
283
00:15:24,121 --> 00:15:27,601
He's done everything with him,
been everything to him,
284
00:15:27,601 --> 00:15:28,961
taught him everything.
285
00:15:33,601 --> 00:15:35,601
Go on, Lee, go and get them.
286
00:15:35,601 --> 00:15:38,441
'At 49, despite the split,
287
00:15:38,441 --> 00:15:40,641
'the family were living
in the same area of Scotland.
288
00:15:43,601 --> 00:15:44,601
'They are still there.'
289
00:15:46,601 --> 00:15:48,441
And how the boys doing?
290
00:15:48,441 --> 00:15:49,601
Really well.
291
00:15:49,601 --> 00:15:51,601
They're all working away,
which is nice,
292
00:15:51,601 --> 00:15:54,601
especially in this
day and age.
293
00:15:57,601 --> 00:15:59,121
'Charlie's still doing his cheffing.
294
00:15:59,121 --> 00:16:00,601
'He seems to be happy where he is.'
295
00:16:00,601 --> 00:16:02,601
There you go, Chef.
296
00:16:02,601 --> 00:16:05,601
James is in a warehouse.
297
00:16:06,801 --> 00:16:09,601
'Lee is still in the Army.
298
00:16:09,601 --> 00:16:11,121
'He's a medic, basically.'
299
00:16:13,801 --> 00:16:17,601
I've still got two boys
living at home, which I love, but...
300
00:16:17,601 --> 00:16:20,281
they should really have moved on
by now.
301
00:16:20,281 --> 00:16:22,601
It was really nice to see you.
302
00:16:23,801 --> 00:16:26,601
This is my birthday celebration,
303
00:16:26,601 --> 00:16:32,441
and I've invited family and friends,
304
00:16:32,441 --> 00:16:35,601
and obviously my
beautiful grandchildren at the end.
305
00:16:35,601 --> 00:16:38,601
That's Mia, that's Tyler.
306
00:16:39,601 --> 00:16:42,601
My mum, because she's got five
girls,
307
00:16:42,601 --> 00:16:44,601
she's had seven years bad luck,
308
00:16:44,601 --> 00:16:46,601
that's why she's got five girls.
309
00:16:46,601 --> 00:16:50,601
'I was 30 years old
when I lost my mum.'
310
00:16:50,601 --> 00:16:53,601
And my dad was my rock.
311
00:16:53,601 --> 00:16:56,601
Oh, nice!
312
00:16:56,601 --> 00:16:58,801
'But as he got older,
dementia set in,
313
00:16:58,801 --> 00:17:03,601
'he went in for an operation,
and he had the operation done.
314
00:17:03,601 --> 00:17:06,281
'My oldest sister Jan went in.
315
00:17:06,281 --> 00:17:08,601
'She rang me,
and said, "He won't talk to me."'
316
00:17:09,601 --> 00:17:11,601
And I said to him,
"Dad, what are you doing?"
317
00:17:11,601 --> 00:17:13,601
"What's going on,
what are you doing?"
318
00:17:13,601 --> 00:17:15,601
And he said,
"I'm slowly killing myself."
319
00:17:19,601 --> 00:17:20,601
And that...
320
00:17:22,601 --> 00:17:23,601
..was...
321
00:17:23,601 --> 00:17:24,601
that was really awful.
322
00:17:26,601 --> 00:17:28,601
I have to run around
with the kids all day.
323
00:17:28,601 --> 00:17:30,601
'He stopped all his medication.
324
00:17:31,601 --> 00:17:35,121
'He knew... he was dying,
and he wanted to get it over with.'
325
00:17:37,601 --> 00:17:41,601
He really wanted to be wherever
my mum and my step-mum and that are.
326
00:17:41,601 --> 00:17:43,601
So, I imagine they had a big party
when he got there.
327
00:17:43,601 --> 00:17:46,601
My mum and my step-mum might have
had a disagreement about it,
328
00:17:46,601 --> 00:17:48,281
but, you know...
329
00:17:50,601 --> 00:17:54,601
'Unfortunately,
on 18 November, Ian, the boys' dad,
330
00:17:54,601 --> 00:17:57,441
was severely injured
in a road traffic accident.
331
00:17:57,441 --> 00:18:00,601
He subsequently died
of those injuries.
332
00:18:03,601 --> 00:18:04,601
That was a...
333
00:18:06,601 --> 00:18:07,601
..monumental...
334
00:18:09,601 --> 00:18:10,801
..mess.
335
00:18:12,601 --> 00:18:14,441
'He was at a zebra crossing.
336
00:18:14,441 --> 00:18:15,601
'The light to the traffic was red,
337
00:18:15,601 --> 00:18:17,601
'the light on the crossing
was green.'
338
00:18:17,601 --> 00:18:20,601
He walked out,
and she took him off his feet.
339
00:18:23,601 --> 00:18:26,601
'Every bone in his body was broken.
340
00:18:28,601 --> 00:18:29,961
'The boys were devastated.
341
00:18:32,601 --> 00:18:35,601
'Charlie was absolutely terrible.
342
00:18:35,601 --> 00:18:36,601
'He had to have counselling.
343
00:18:38,641 --> 00:18:40,601
'In all, it was nearly
four and a half years
344
00:18:40,601 --> 00:18:42,601
'before we got any justice.'
345
00:18:42,601 --> 00:18:46,601
And we got a guilty verdict,
she had run him over,
346
00:18:46,601 --> 00:18:49,601
and it wasn't anything his fault.
347
00:18:49,601 --> 00:18:51,601
Not half bad, good.
348
00:18:51,601 --> 00:18:54,601
'And did you get any compensation
out of it at the end of the day?'
349
00:18:54,601 --> 00:18:57,441
'No, no. Not at all.'
350
00:18:57,441 --> 00:18:58,601
The boys got...
351
00:18:59,601 --> 00:19:03,281
..I think they got about
£3,000 each, that was it.
352
00:19:04,601 --> 00:19:06,601
That was it.
Great, eh?
353
00:19:06,601 --> 00:19:09,601
Yeah, yeah, that's all
their dad's life was worth.
354
00:19:10,601 --> 00:19:13,601
'As much as Ian and I
didn't live with each other,
355
00:19:13,601 --> 00:19:15,801
it didn't mean that we
didn't love each other.
356
00:19:15,801 --> 00:19:17,601
I couldn't live with him, but...
357
00:19:17,601 --> 00:19:20,121
I don't think I've ever stopped
loving him.
358
00:19:21,601 --> 00:19:24,601
If you think that getting married,
as far as we are concerned,
359
00:19:24,601 --> 00:19:26,801
is a case of going to work,
coming home, cook tea for hubby,
360
00:19:26,801 --> 00:19:30,601
going to bed, getting up, going
to work, you're totally mistaken.
361
00:19:30,601 --> 00:19:32,601
When we were younger,
I kept thinking,
362
00:19:32,601 --> 00:19:35,601
"Why is he asking me
questions about...
363
00:19:35,601 --> 00:19:37,961
"marriage, and men, and...?
364
00:19:37,961 --> 00:19:41,641
"Why is he not asking me questions
about how the country is?"
365
00:19:41,641 --> 00:19:44,641
Do you think you
settled down too young?
366
00:19:44,641 --> 00:19:48,601
No. I've married,
and we do things together, or...
367
00:19:48,601 --> 00:19:52,601
'But I felt that you treated us,
as women, totally different.
368
00:19:52,601 --> 00:19:56,121
And I didn't like it.
369
00:19:56,121 --> 00:20:00,441
Now, I appreciate that
when we started at seven,
370
00:20:00,441 --> 00:20:05,601
most women were in the kitchen,
or were bringing up children.
371
00:20:05,601 --> 00:20:07,601
There weren't many career women.
372
00:20:07,601 --> 00:20:09,601
But by the time we hit 21,
373
00:20:09,601 --> 00:20:12,121
I really thought you'd have
had a better idea of...
374
00:20:13,601 --> 00:20:15,601
..how the world works, shall I say?
375
00:20:15,601 --> 00:20:18,601
Did you meet enough men
before you decided who to marry?
376
00:20:18,601 --> 00:20:20,601
I've been married a year, and...
377
00:20:20,601 --> 00:20:25,601
But you still asked us the most
mundane, domestic questions,
378
00:20:25,601 --> 00:20:27,601
and I really wanted to go, "Argh!"
379
00:20:27,601 --> 00:20:31,601
So, by 49, I actually thought,
you know what, no more,
380
00:20:31,601 --> 00:20:33,441
I'm not having this any more.
381
00:20:33,441 --> 00:20:36,601
And that's why
I got very vocal with you.
382
00:20:36,601 --> 00:20:37,641
What happened at 21?
383
00:20:39,601 --> 00:20:42,601
You asked me if I'd had enough
experience with men
384
00:20:42,601 --> 00:20:44,601
before I got married.
385
00:20:44,601 --> 00:20:47,441
And I thought that was actually
an insulting question,
386
00:20:47,441 --> 00:20:50,601
and I got very angry,
and we actually stopped filming
387
00:20:50,601 --> 00:20:51,601
because of it.
388
00:20:51,601 --> 00:20:54,601
I mean, I don't know!
I don't know what...
389
00:20:54,601 --> 00:20:59,601
I was really angry that you even
thought you could get...
390
00:20:59,601 --> 00:21:02,601
You wouldn't have asked some of
the other people in this programme
391
00:21:02,601 --> 00:21:03,601
that question.
392
00:21:03,601 --> 00:21:08,601
And I just didn't feel
that you had any idea...
393
00:21:08,601 --> 00:21:12,601
of the changing role of women
in the UK at that point.
394
00:21:12,601 --> 00:21:15,601
I've had the opportunities in life
that I've wanted.
395
00:21:15,601 --> 00:21:17,601
I'd say I've had more than Susie.
You've made.
396
00:21:17,601 --> 00:21:18,641
Yeah, right, you've made!
397
00:21:21,121 --> 00:21:24,601
'As you get older, you realise
just how lucky you've been.
398
00:21:24,601 --> 00:21:26,601
'And I do think I've been lucky.
399
00:21:26,601 --> 00:21:30,121
'I walked out of school,
straight into any job I wanted.'
400
00:21:30,121 --> 00:21:31,601
'Could you have done
more education?'
401
00:21:31,601 --> 00:21:34,641
'Oh, yeah. And I should have done.'
402
00:21:34,641 --> 00:21:37,601
All I wanted to do was go out
and earn money.
403
00:21:37,601 --> 00:21:41,601
And that was short-sightedness
that did that, that wasn't...
404
00:21:42,601 --> 00:21:45,601
It wasn't that I particularly
wanted to go to university,
405
00:21:45,601 --> 00:21:48,601
but I probably should have done
further education.
406
00:21:52,281 --> 00:21:54,121
'So, where are we?'
407
00:21:54,121 --> 00:21:55,601
To get up this one, it's not so bad.
408
00:21:55,601 --> 00:21:57,601
'We're in Norfolk.
409
00:21:57,601 --> 00:21:59,601
'This is my sister's home.
410
00:21:59,601 --> 00:22:01,601
'Both our families are grown,
411
00:22:01,601 --> 00:22:03,601
'so, we get to spend
a lot more time together.
412
00:22:03,601 --> 00:22:05,121
'Which is brilliant.'
413
00:22:06,601 --> 00:22:09,601
James, you watch,
you're catching up to him.
414
00:22:09,601 --> 00:22:11,601
'I was working up here
until very recently,
415
00:22:11,601 --> 00:22:15,601
'but they've discovered that
I've got rheumatoid arthritis,
416
00:22:15,601 --> 00:22:19,601
'so, at the moment
that's put work on hold.'
417
00:22:19,601 --> 00:22:21,281
Are you all right?
Yeah, yeah.
418
00:22:21,281 --> 00:22:22,601
Feet.
Oh!
419
00:22:22,601 --> 00:22:24,601
'Rheumatoid arthritis can flare-up,
420
00:22:24,601 --> 00:22:26,601
'and then it can ease down,
it can flare-up.
421
00:22:27,601 --> 00:22:29,961
'And it's so frustrating.'
422
00:22:29,961 --> 00:22:32,601
You just have to live with it,
Michael, you can't...
423
00:22:33,601 --> 00:22:35,601
..you can't let it rule your life.
424
00:22:35,601 --> 00:22:39,601
'Jackie has been getting disability
benefits for over 20 years.
425
00:22:39,601 --> 00:22:41,601
'For nearly a decade,
426
00:22:41,601 --> 00:22:44,601
'the Government has been reassessing
all benefits.'
427
00:22:44,601 --> 00:22:47,601
'I can understand that
the Government needed to make cuts.'
428
00:22:48,601 --> 00:22:50,961
They have people there who
they knew...
429
00:22:52,121 --> 00:22:57,601
..would never get better, and they
still put down, "Fit to work."
430
00:22:59,281 --> 00:23:02,601
'I waited nine months
for my appeal to come through.'
431
00:23:02,601 --> 00:23:05,601
I had to live on £40 a week.
432
00:23:05,601 --> 00:23:07,601
'I was lucky.
433
00:23:07,601 --> 00:23:10,441
'I have family that could help me
with money,
434
00:23:10,441 --> 00:23:13,281
'but a lot of people
haven't got that behind them.'
435
00:23:13,281 --> 00:23:14,601
People were killing themselves
436
00:23:14,601 --> 00:23:17,601
because they were getting into
so much debt.
437
00:23:17,601 --> 00:23:20,601
I would like to get married
when I grow up.
438
00:23:20,601 --> 00:23:24,601
'I've been on my own for a long
while, Michael, with the kids.
439
00:23:24,601 --> 00:23:27,601
'Either men my age
don't want that hassle,
440
00:23:27,601 --> 00:23:30,601
'because my kids are still at home,
441
00:23:30,601 --> 00:23:31,601
'they can't move out.'
442
00:23:31,601 --> 00:23:33,601
They can't afford to.
443
00:23:34,601 --> 00:23:35,601
Or...
444
00:23:36,641 --> 00:23:39,961
..it was just, you know, sort of
a quickie round the bike shed,
445
00:23:39,961 --> 00:23:43,601
and I wasn't really wanting
that either, so...
446
00:23:47,601 --> 00:23:49,601
'I actually rang my sister one day,
447
00:23:49,601 --> 00:23:52,601
'and I said, "Listen, if I need
a plus one, will you come?"
448
00:23:52,601 --> 00:23:54,601
'And she says, "Of course I will."
449
00:23:54,601 --> 00:23:57,601
'So, everything now that I get
invited to, if Ray can make it,
450
00:23:57,601 --> 00:23:58,641
'she's there.'
451
00:23:58,641 --> 00:24:01,601
And we decided that we'd come up
here for a meal for Christmas.
452
00:24:01,601 --> 00:24:05,601
'And we go on holidays,
and considering when we were young,
453
00:24:05,601 --> 00:24:07,601
'and living at home...'
454
00:24:07,601 --> 00:24:10,641
we could have hit each other
as soon as said good morning,
455
00:24:10,641 --> 00:24:14,601
'but the minute she got married
and moved out,
456
00:24:14,601 --> 00:24:16,281
'I was there every weekend.
457
00:24:17,601 --> 00:24:19,601
'We all have ups and downs,
458
00:24:19,601 --> 00:24:23,601
'and my downs are always coinciding
with me ringing Ray,
459
00:24:23,601 --> 00:24:24,601
'and Ray then...'
460
00:24:24,601 --> 00:24:27,601
talks to me and helps me
get through it
461
00:24:27,601 --> 00:24:30,601
and sort out a way
to get through things.
462
00:24:33,601 --> 00:24:36,281
I mean, what's your feeling about
having been in the programme,
463
00:24:36,281 --> 00:24:38,121
and survived it?
464
00:24:38,121 --> 00:24:39,801
I've done more than survived it.
I've loved it.
465
00:24:39,801 --> 00:24:41,601
We're all still alive.
You know I've loved it.
466
00:24:41,601 --> 00:24:42,641
Oh, good.
I have.
467
00:24:42,641 --> 00:24:45,601
People always, you know, "Oh, my
God, you had a right go at him,
468
00:24:45,601 --> 00:24:47,601
"what was that all about?"
And I'm like...
469
00:24:48,601 --> 00:24:49,601
..I told him off.
470
00:24:49,601 --> 00:24:51,441
I didn't kill him!
471
00:24:51,441 --> 00:24:54,961
Jacqueline, what do you think
about boys fighting?
472
00:24:54,961 --> 00:24:56,601
Well, they're...
473
00:24:56,601 --> 00:25:00,601
'When you look at the Seven Up!,
do you think, "That's me"?'
474
00:25:00,601 --> 00:25:03,121
Actually, I think there's
a core of it that, that's...
475
00:25:03,121 --> 00:25:04,601
that rings true.
476
00:25:04,601 --> 00:25:06,601
Because I've never really changed,
Michael,
477
00:25:06,601 --> 00:25:07,601
I mean, you gotta be honest.
478
00:25:07,601 --> 00:25:11,601
I was always talkative
and a bit of a pain in the butt.
479
00:25:11,601 --> 00:25:14,281
♪ If I say that I love you
480
00:25:14,281 --> 00:25:16,601
♪ And you know it's true...♪
481
00:25:16,601 --> 00:25:20,601
'I think your character,
perhaps, is set by seven.
482
00:25:22,601 --> 00:25:25,601
'I just don't think you can predict
what that child's gonna be.
483
00:25:25,601 --> 00:25:29,801
'Because I think... at seven,
your whole world's open.
484
00:25:32,801 --> 00:25:39,281
'Mia now goes, "Do I have to do
homework at high school?"
485
00:25:39,281 --> 00:25:41,281
And I go, "Yes."
486
00:25:41,281 --> 00:25:43,601
"And then you have to do at uni."
487
00:25:43,601 --> 00:25:44,601
"What's uni?"
488
00:25:44,601 --> 00:25:46,601
"University, because you're going."
489
00:25:47,601 --> 00:25:49,601
She looks at me, and she goes,
"Am I?"
490
00:25:49,601 --> 00:25:51,281
I said, "Yeah, you are.
491
00:25:51,281 --> 00:25:53,601
"Because then,
the world's your oyster."
492
00:25:54,601 --> 00:25:56,601
I don't want...
493
00:25:57,601 --> 00:25:59,601
..her to have tunnel vision,
494
00:25:59,601 --> 00:26:02,601
which I think I had
when I was younger.
495
00:26:02,601 --> 00:26:04,601
Oh, dear...
I'm feeling a bit chilly.
496
00:26:04,601 --> 00:26:07,441
Really? I don't know
about anybody else, yeah.
497
00:26:07,441 --> 00:26:11,601
'Children need to know that they
are capable of doing anything.'
498
00:26:12,961 --> 00:26:18,601
If you open a child's mind,
to the possibilities, it's...
499
00:26:18,601 --> 00:26:21,601
Oh, it's probably the best thing
you can do.
500
00:26:38,641 --> 00:26:41,641
I don't think you
ought to go to university
501
00:26:41,641 --> 00:26:42,841
if you want to be an astronaut.
502
00:26:42,841 --> 00:26:44,641
Watch this.
503
00:26:45,641 --> 00:26:48,681
'Peter and Neil were childhood
friends, growing up in Liverpool.'
504
00:26:50,641 --> 00:26:52,641
'Peter went to a comprehensive
school,
505
00:26:52,641 --> 00:26:55,641
'and went on to get a history degree
from London University.'
506
00:26:57,641 --> 00:27:00,321
I would like to think that
democracy is here to stay.
507
00:27:00,321 --> 00:27:01,641
Perhaps we haven't got
full democracy,
508
00:27:01,641 --> 00:27:03,641
in fact, we probably haven't, so...
509
00:27:04,641 --> 00:27:05,641
..it's a pretty good system.
510
00:27:05,641 --> 00:27:09,641
I feel like I'm dragged into party
politics, you know,
511
00:27:09,641 --> 00:27:11,641
basically,
it's the most incompetent,
512
00:27:11,641 --> 00:27:13,681
uncaring, bloody shower
we've ever had.
513
00:27:14,681 --> 00:27:19,641
'After 28 Up, Peter decided
not to continue in the film.
514
00:27:20,641 --> 00:27:23,641
I pulled out because of...
515
00:27:24,641 --> 00:27:30,641
..the responses
and the reactions that...
516
00:27:30,641 --> 00:27:32,641
my participation drew,
517
00:27:32,641 --> 00:27:35,641
particularly in the tabloid press.
518
00:27:35,641 --> 00:27:37,641
They decided
they were going to portray me
519
00:27:37,641 --> 00:27:42,641
as the "angry young red"
in Thatcher's England.
520
00:27:42,641 --> 00:27:44,641
'I think I was articulating
at the time
521
00:27:44,641 --> 00:27:48,641
'what a lot of people of my age
and my background were thinking.
522
00:27:48,641 --> 00:27:51,321
'And I was an easy target.'
523
00:27:51,321 --> 00:27:53,161
They're part of it,
they perpetuate it.
524
00:27:53,161 --> 00:27:55,641
Was it painful coming back?
525
00:27:55,641 --> 00:27:57,321
Do you regret coming back?
526
00:27:57,321 --> 00:27:58,641
Yeah, of course I do.
527
00:27:58,641 --> 00:28:02,641
I'm, I am sitting here talking
to you now, and I'm squirming.
528
00:28:02,641 --> 00:28:06,641
I'm squirming, I'm thinking
every two minutes or so,
529
00:28:06,641 --> 00:28:08,641
I'm replaying
what I just said to you
530
00:28:08,641 --> 00:28:13,641
and thinking, "Oh, my God,
you idiot, why did you say that?"
531
00:28:13,641 --> 00:28:16,641
So, you know, there's that.
532
00:28:16,641 --> 00:28:19,641
'So, why did you come back?'
533
00:28:19,641 --> 00:28:23,641
'Because I want to promote the music
and the band I'm in.'
534
00:28:23,641 --> 00:28:28,641
♪ But when he hit that bank... ♪
535
00:28:28,641 --> 00:28:31,641
'I'd always played in rock bands.
536
00:28:31,641 --> 00:28:34,641
'Some of them
spectacularly bad bands.
537
00:28:35,641 --> 00:28:39,641
'The band has essentially
been a duo.
538
00:28:39,641 --> 00:28:41,641
'It originally was a trio,
539
00:28:41,641 --> 00:28:44,641
'and then we lost Frank
three years ago.'
540
00:28:45,841 --> 00:28:47,641
So, we're the...
541
00:28:47,641 --> 00:28:52,641
essentially the core of it,
and people come in and play with us,
542
00:28:52,641 --> 00:28:54,641
and record with us,
and then drift off again.
543
00:28:54,641 --> 00:28:59,641
Once Carolyn Tetford said
she was going... she loved me.
544
00:29:00,641 --> 00:29:01,641
What do you think about it?
545
00:29:01,641 --> 00:29:05,641
And I'm going to marry her
when I grow up.
546
00:29:05,641 --> 00:29:07,641
So, what you want to do?
Do you just want...?
547
00:29:07,641 --> 00:29:10,001
'We were working in an office
together,
548
00:29:10,001 --> 00:29:11,641
'and we joined the office band,
549
00:29:11,641 --> 00:29:13,681
'and that's how
we got to know each other.'
550
00:29:13,681 --> 00:29:15,641
'Was it love at first sight?'
551
00:29:15,641 --> 00:29:18,641
Well, I had a sneaking
suspicion that Pete liked me,
552
00:29:18,641 --> 00:29:21,641
because he was really rude
and sarcastic to me all the time,
553
00:29:21,641 --> 00:29:23,641
so, I thought, "Oh, I think
he's probably quite keen."
554
00:29:23,641 --> 00:29:25,641
Oh, no, that's not true.
555
00:29:25,641 --> 00:29:29,641
And how's married life been
over the last seven years?
556
00:29:31,321 --> 00:29:33,641
That's a loaded question.
557
00:29:33,641 --> 00:29:34,641
If ever I heard one!
558
00:29:34,641 --> 00:29:36,001
It's absolute bliss.
559
00:29:36,001 --> 00:29:37,641
Totally, yeah!
560
00:29:41,641 --> 00:29:44,641
'When you live with someone
for a long time,
561
00:29:44,641 --> 00:29:46,161
things change and you adapt,
562
00:29:46,161 --> 00:29:50,641
'but you get to a point
where you don't have to have
563
00:29:50,641 --> 00:29:52,641
'preamble conversations.'
564
00:29:52,641 --> 00:29:57,641
You don't have to...
fall out, it's just not worth...
565
00:29:57,641 --> 00:30:00,841
spending a long time sulking
with each other, is it?
566
00:30:00,841 --> 00:30:02,641
Um, true.
567
00:30:03,641 --> 00:30:05,641
That's why I don't do it any more!
568
00:30:08,641 --> 00:30:12,641
♪ Always blue
569
00:30:12,641 --> 00:30:15,001
♪ Every day... ♪
570
00:30:15,001 --> 00:30:18,641
'Writing's just something
I feel compelled to do.'
571
00:30:18,641 --> 00:30:21,641
'You've got a lot more relaxed
about playing me new stuff,
572
00:30:21,641 --> 00:30:23,641
'and not getting really annoyed
573
00:30:23,641 --> 00:30:26,641
'if I say,
"That might need a bit of work."'
574
00:30:26,641 --> 00:30:29,321
'So, you used to be careful
about criticising him?'
575
00:30:29,321 --> 00:30:30,641
Yeah.
576
00:30:32,641 --> 00:30:35,641
But you've got better about
accepting criticism as well.
577
00:30:35,641 --> 00:30:37,641
A little.
578
00:30:37,641 --> 00:30:38,841
Yeah, a little.
579
00:30:38,841 --> 00:30:41,641
We met seven years ago,
580
00:30:41,641 --> 00:30:45,641
what's happened to the two of you
up to now?
581
00:30:45,641 --> 00:30:47,481
Three years ago, my mother died.
582
00:30:48,641 --> 00:30:51,481
Frank died the same year.
583
00:30:51,481 --> 00:30:54,641
In the case of my mother, that was
the normal course of events,
584
00:30:54,641 --> 00:30:58,641
she was in her late 80s,
she... she'd had dementia.
585
00:30:59,641 --> 00:31:01,641
But, of course, you know,
586
00:31:01,641 --> 00:31:03,681
you're never old enough
to lose both your parents,
587
00:31:03,681 --> 00:31:06,321
because then you feel...
588
00:31:06,321 --> 00:31:09,641
"I'm next in the firing line."
589
00:31:09,641 --> 00:31:11,641
I have to put my head
above the parapet now.
590
00:31:11,641 --> 00:31:14,641
And do you have any plans
for children?
591
00:31:14,641 --> 00:31:15,641
Not at the moment, no.
592
00:31:15,641 --> 00:31:17,641
I haven't really thought about it
seriously.
593
00:31:18,681 --> 00:31:21,841
Our son has moved out
into his own home.
594
00:31:21,841 --> 00:31:23,641
He's not very far away.
595
00:31:24,641 --> 00:31:30,641
Our daughter is doing a masters
at Goldsmiths in London.
596
00:31:30,641 --> 00:31:32,641
And she's based at home,
597
00:31:32,641 --> 00:31:35,641
but she's spending
a lot of her time in London.
598
00:31:35,641 --> 00:31:37,641
Because most of the stuff
you come out of school with
599
00:31:37,641 --> 00:31:39,641
is absolutely useless.
600
00:31:39,641 --> 00:31:41,641
You just don't need it.
601
00:31:41,641 --> 00:31:45,641
I mean, do think your children will
get the opportunities you've had,
602
00:31:45,641 --> 00:31:48,641
or do you think life is closing in?
603
00:31:48,641 --> 00:31:50,641
Well, I think,
just at the moment,
604
00:31:50,641 --> 00:31:53,641
it appears life is maybe closing in
a little.
605
00:31:56,641 --> 00:31:59,641
'I do think that the future is not
maybe as bright
606
00:31:59,641 --> 00:32:02,641
'as it would have been for a kid
coming out of university,
607
00:32:02,641 --> 00:32:04,481
'like me, in the late '70s.
608
00:32:06,641 --> 00:32:08,641
'They're going to university,
609
00:32:08,641 --> 00:32:11,841
'they're ending up
working in call centres,
610
00:32:11,841 --> 00:32:15,641
'in hospitality, it's getting
hellishly difficult for them
611
00:32:15,641 --> 00:32:18,641
'to get onto the property ladder.'
612
00:32:18,641 --> 00:32:21,641
I think maybe they're going to be
the first generation that
613
00:32:21,641 --> 00:32:25,321
don't have it better
than their parents.
614
00:32:25,321 --> 00:32:28,641
Teachers are undervalued
and underrated,
615
00:32:28,641 --> 00:32:31,641
And the whole,
the system is beginning to crumble.
616
00:32:31,641 --> 00:32:33,641
'I still get very angry
about things.'
617
00:32:33,641 --> 00:32:37,681
Probably not so much about things
going on in the house, more...
618
00:32:37,681 --> 00:32:40,481
about things going on
in the wider world.
619
00:32:41,841 --> 00:32:44,641
When I was seven years old,
when all this started,
620
00:32:44,641 --> 00:32:48,841
it was effectively illegal
to be actively gay,
621
00:32:48,841 --> 00:32:54,641
it was illegal to have an abortion,
we were still executing people.
622
00:32:54,641 --> 00:32:57,641
You could put up a sign saying,
"No blacks or Irish."
623
00:32:58,641 --> 00:33:04,641
And so, clearly, we've become a more
tolerant and more inclusive,
624
00:33:04,641 --> 00:33:07,641
less prejudiced society
than we were.
625
00:33:08,641 --> 00:33:12,641
I think it's probably a more
peaceful world than it was.
626
00:33:12,641 --> 00:33:18,681
I would also say that we have a way
to go on equal treatment of women.
627
00:33:18,681 --> 00:33:22,641
I was a member of the Labour Party
for most of my adult life,
628
00:33:22,641 --> 00:33:23,641
I am no longer.
629
00:33:23,641 --> 00:33:26,481
Tell me your feelings about Brexit.
630
00:33:26,481 --> 00:33:28,001
Without wishing to sound
patronising,
631
00:33:28,001 --> 00:33:30,641
I don't think a lot of them
knew what they were voting for,
632
00:33:30,641 --> 00:33:35,641
I think they just saw this as a
chance to kick what they perceived
633
00:33:35,641 --> 00:33:39,641
as an establishment
from which they were excluded.
634
00:33:39,641 --> 00:33:41,641
I mean, obviously,
I've got to get a job,
635
00:33:41,641 --> 00:33:42,641
I don't want to laze around
on the dole
636
00:33:42,641 --> 00:33:45,641
for months and months,
I'd go mad.
637
00:33:45,641 --> 00:33:47,841
What is your working life
at the moment?
638
00:33:47,841 --> 00:33:49,321
I still work...
639
00:33:50,641 --> 00:33:55,321
..two days a week in the day job,
the civil service.
640
00:33:56,641 --> 00:34:01,161
'I am currently writing a novel,
midway through the first draft.
641
00:34:01,161 --> 00:34:05,641
'The hardest thing has been to face
down the blank sheet of paper
642
00:34:05,641 --> 00:34:08,641
'and to actually start.'
643
00:34:08,641 --> 00:34:10,841
What have been, for you,
the best times?
644
00:34:10,841 --> 00:34:13,641
I knew you'd ask me this,
because you're, you're gonna hope
645
00:34:13,641 --> 00:34:17,641
I repeat what I said about
the 1977 European Cup final.
646
00:34:17,641 --> 00:34:19,641
Tommy Smith scoring
the second goal in Rome...
647
00:34:20,641 --> 00:34:22,641
..definitely.
648
00:34:22,641 --> 00:34:24,161
One of the all-times.
649
00:34:24,161 --> 00:34:25,641
Which game was that?
650
00:34:25,641 --> 00:34:27,321
Which game was that!
651
00:34:29,321 --> 00:34:31,641
And I'm under a strict warning
not to repeat that.
652
00:34:31,641 --> 00:34:32,641
And...
653
00:34:34,321 --> 00:34:36,641
That was the European Cup final,
1977.
654
00:34:37,641 --> 00:34:40,641
Catch a boy, and kiss a boy.
And kiss a boy.
655
00:34:40,641 --> 00:34:42,161
Sometimes catch...
We get our own back...
656
00:34:42,161 --> 00:34:46,001
So, do you think these Up series
has any value?
657
00:34:46,001 --> 00:34:48,641
I think it's more difficult for me
658
00:34:48,641 --> 00:34:52,641
than the others to stand back
and be wholly objective about that,
659
00:34:52,641 --> 00:34:57,641
because it's been part of my life
as far back as I can remember.
660
00:34:57,641 --> 00:34:58,641
Last time you did the show,
661
00:34:58,641 --> 00:35:02,641
I wouldn't let you look on social
media, and I censored everything,
662
00:35:02,641 --> 00:35:04,841
because people can be
really hurtful.
663
00:35:04,841 --> 00:35:07,641
Except the good bits.
Yeah, I let you see the good bits.
664
00:35:07,641 --> 00:35:08,641
She let me see them.
665
00:35:08,641 --> 00:35:13,321
Well, if I can't be an astronaut,
I'd like to be, um,
666
00:35:13,321 --> 00:35:16,641
a Bridewell Sergeant in the police
force, like my dad is.
667
00:35:17,641 --> 00:35:19,841
One of the concepts behind this is
668
00:35:19,841 --> 00:35:22,681
"show me a child when he seven,
and I will show you the man."
669
00:35:22,681 --> 00:35:24,641
Do you think that's true?
670
00:35:24,641 --> 00:35:29,641
I think, as I've got older,
I'm probably more inclined
671
00:35:29,641 --> 00:35:31,641
to think that
there is something to that.
672
00:35:31,641 --> 00:35:34,641
I can look at myself and think,
673
00:35:34,641 --> 00:35:37,641
"Yes, there is something
of that child still in me."
674
00:35:37,641 --> 00:35:41,321
I think, on the whole,
you are formed
675
00:35:41,321 --> 00:35:44,641
certainly before
you're in your teens.
676
00:35:44,641 --> 00:35:46,641
What do you want out of life?
677
00:35:46,641 --> 00:35:48,641
The satisfaction of knowing...
678
00:35:50,641 --> 00:35:54,481
..that I've left
some sort of imprint.
679
00:35:54,481 --> 00:35:56,641
Rather than just lived out my life.
680
00:35:57,841 --> 00:36:01,641
♪ Someday will rise
681
00:36:01,641 --> 00:36:03,641
♪ That silver way... ♪
682
00:36:03,641 --> 00:36:05,641
'Are there any regrets you have?'
683
00:36:05,641 --> 00:36:08,841
'I think you have to move on
with your life,
684
00:36:08,841 --> 00:36:12,321
'and you learn
from things you've done,
685
00:36:12,321 --> 00:36:16,641
'but that's the tapestry
of a lifetime.
686
00:36:16,641 --> 00:36:19,641
'The only serious regret
I would ever have is
687
00:36:19,641 --> 00:36:21,641
'if I came to the end of my life
and thought,
688
00:36:21,641 --> 00:36:23,641
"I wish I'd tried that."'
689
00:36:23,641 --> 00:36:25,161
♪ When you're blue... ♪
690
00:36:25,161 --> 00:36:29,641
'And I want to get to the end of my
life not with that sort of regret.'
691
00:36:29,641 --> 00:36:32,641
♪ Always blue... ♪
692
00:36:32,641 --> 00:36:34,641
'I want to create something
that will...
693
00:36:35,641 --> 00:36:38,641
'..live on, and I want my life
694
00:36:38,641 --> 00:36:40,641
'to have meant something
in that sense.'
695
00:36:55,841 --> 00:36:58,321
I'm going to work in
Woolworths.
696
00:37:00,321 --> 00:37:03,321
'Lynn grew up in
the East End of London.'
697
00:37:03,321 --> 00:37:05,321
..so that it doesn't scratch
the bottom.
698
00:37:05,321 --> 00:37:09,841
Why am I using a wooden spoon,
please, to stir the saucepan?
699
00:37:09,841 --> 00:37:12,321
Well, in a grammar school,
I don't think you find many girls
700
00:37:12,321 --> 00:37:15,321
that really want to do metalwork
or woodwork.
701
00:37:15,321 --> 00:37:17,321
We had a teacher at school...
702
00:37:17,321 --> 00:37:20,321
that, his favourite reply was, um,
703
00:37:20,321 --> 00:37:24,841
"All you girls want to do is walk
out, get married, have babies,
704
00:37:24,841 --> 00:37:26,321
"and push a pram down the street,
705
00:37:26,321 --> 00:37:29,321
"with a fag hanging out
the side of your mouth."
706
00:37:29,321 --> 00:37:34,321
'At 21, she began a career
as a children's librarian,
707
00:37:34,321 --> 00:37:37,361
'starting off in a mobile library
in East London.
708
00:37:37,361 --> 00:37:40,321
Have I stamped yours?
Yes.Yes.
709
00:37:40,321 --> 00:37:42,321
I've not stamped yours.
710
00:37:42,321 --> 00:37:44,321
Sleeping Beauty.
711
00:37:44,321 --> 00:37:48,321
'Teaching children
the beauty of books,
712
00:37:48,321 --> 00:37:53,681
'and watching their faces as books
unfold to them, is just fantastic.'
713
00:37:53,681 --> 00:37:56,321
To work with children of that age,
you've got to love them,
714
00:37:56,321 --> 00:37:58,321
and I love children.
715
00:37:59,321 --> 00:38:01,521
'Because of cuts
in the education budget,
716
00:38:01,521 --> 00:38:04,321
'the mobile library was shut down.
717
00:38:04,321 --> 00:38:09,001
'At 42,
Lynn was working at Bethnal Green.'
718
00:38:09,001 --> 00:38:10,321
You can draw, better than I can!
719
00:38:10,321 --> 00:38:12,321
Good morning!
720
00:38:12,321 --> 00:38:15,321
'When we went back at 49,
she was still there.'
721
00:38:15,321 --> 00:38:17,681
What about you?
Good morning!
722
00:38:17,681 --> 00:38:19,321
For the last 30 years,
723
00:38:19,321 --> 00:38:21,321
I've banged my head
against a brick wall
724
00:38:21,321 --> 00:38:23,321
to maintain children's services,
725
00:38:23,321 --> 00:38:25,321
but this time around,
no-one's listening.
726
00:38:26,521 --> 00:38:31,321
'They say that the work that I do,
that anybody can do it.
727
00:38:31,321 --> 00:38:34,321
'There would be no specialist
running it.
728
00:38:34,321 --> 00:38:36,321
One!
729
00:38:36,321 --> 00:38:38,321
I may not have a job.
730
00:38:39,321 --> 00:38:40,321
You can speak to me today.
731
00:38:42,321 --> 00:38:46,321
'Despite the cuts, and constant
changing of jobs in the library,
732
00:38:46,321 --> 00:38:47,321
'has it been worth it?'
733
00:38:47,321 --> 00:38:48,321
'Yeah, very much.'
734
00:38:51,321 --> 00:38:54,361
'All these things
I've said over the years
735
00:38:54,361 --> 00:38:57,321
'are flowing through my mind
at the moment, um,'
736
00:38:57,321 --> 00:38:58,681
but, yes, it has been worth it.
737
00:39:01,321 --> 00:39:02,321
Hmm.
738
00:39:02,321 --> 00:39:06,321
And you better cut it,
because otherwise I'm gonna cry.
739
00:39:07,321 --> 00:39:10,321
'At that library review,
I got a job.
740
00:39:10,321 --> 00:39:13,321
'Two years later, another review.'
741
00:39:13,321 --> 00:39:17,321
And... cutting departments, again.
742
00:39:19,321 --> 00:39:21,321
That time, I didn't get a job.
743
00:39:21,321 --> 00:39:26,321
If I could, I would have,
um, two girls and two boys.
744
00:39:26,321 --> 00:39:28,321
Yes, so would I.
745
00:39:28,321 --> 00:39:31,321
I've been married a year and...
A couple of months.
746
00:39:31,321 --> 00:39:35,321
Um, you do think,
"Christ, what have I done?"
747
00:39:36,321 --> 00:39:39,321
'When she was 19, she married Russ.
748
00:39:40,321 --> 00:39:45,321
'They had two daughters,
Sarah and Emma.'
749
00:39:45,321 --> 00:39:47,681
I'm very much geared
to the family unit.
750
00:39:47,681 --> 00:39:50,321
I mean, us all...
751
00:39:50,321 --> 00:39:53,321
we do things together all the time.
752
00:39:54,681 --> 00:39:58,321
'At 42, the girls were both doing
very well at school.'
753
00:39:58,321 --> 00:40:00,161
All right, darling?
Yeah.
754
00:40:00,161 --> 00:40:02,321
Neither of the girls
went to university?
755
00:40:02,321 --> 00:40:05,321
No. No.
Was that disappointing to you?
756
00:40:05,321 --> 00:40:08,321
No.
Their choice, we discussed it.
757
00:40:08,321 --> 00:40:11,841
They felt that the academic side
wasn't for them.
758
00:40:11,841 --> 00:40:16,841
'When Emma was 19,
she had a son, Connor.
759
00:40:16,841 --> 00:40:19,361
'Nine years later, she had Riley.'
760
00:40:19,361 --> 00:40:21,321
'How much did he weigh
when he was born?
761
00:40:21,321 --> 00:40:25,321
'Two pounds, and a quarter ounce.
762
00:40:25,321 --> 00:40:28,321
'As soon as he was born,
they took him straight through
763
00:40:28,321 --> 00:40:33,361
'to the Neonatal Intensive Care
Unit, and he's absolutely fine.'
764
00:40:33,361 --> 00:40:36,321
'And how's old Connor doing?'
765
00:40:36,321 --> 00:40:37,841
'He's doing great.'
766
00:40:37,841 --> 00:40:40,321
'How does he deal with Riley?'
767
00:40:40,321 --> 00:40:45,841
'He loves Riley to bits,
but Riley is just a two-year-old.'
768
00:40:45,841 --> 00:40:47,321
The hunting dogs are in this one.
769
00:40:47,321 --> 00:40:51,321
'Sarah and Adam have got married
since we last saw you.
770
00:40:51,321 --> 00:40:55,321
'They've got a little boy called
Harry, he's getting on fine.'
771
00:40:55,321 --> 00:40:57,321
I didn't know
I was getting into this!
772
00:40:58,321 --> 00:41:00,521
Are you all right?
Yeah, I think so.
773
00:41:00,521 --> 00:41:03,321
This is unbelievable.
774
00:41:03,321 --> 00:41:04,321
Look, look up!
775
00:41:04,321 --> 00:41:07,321
'Russ is still such
a great support for me,
776
00:41:07,321 --> 00:41:10,161
'and he is still my soulmate...
777
00:41:10,161 --> 00:41:12,361
Take care, I love you!
778
00:41:12,361 --> 00:41:14,321
'..after all this time.'
779
00:41:15,321 --> 00:41:17,321
We've flourished together.
780
00:41:18,321 --> 00:41:22,321
I had an all-white wedding.
All white.
781
00:41:22,321 --> 00:41:25,321
We were both in white,
and my bridesmaid was in white.
782
00:41:27,321 --> 00:41:31,321
'37 years, gone extremely quickly.
783
00:41:31,321 --> 00:41:33,321
We've just grown together.
784
00:41:33,321 --> 00:41:37,361
We learned to be friends
before we had children.
785
00:41:37,361 --> 00:41:41,361
We established a solid foundation
from which to work from.
786
00:41:41,361 --> 00:41:44,321
All right, watch it, you!
You'll go to bed as well.
787
00:41:44,321 --> 00:41:47,841
'When she was 35,
Lynn was having health problems.'
788
00:41:47,841 --> 00:41:50,321
'They stuck all these tubes
up inside me,
789
00:41:50,321 --> 00:41:53,321
'and discovered I've got
these veins...'
790
00:41:53,321 --> 00:41:56,321
up here, that shouldn't be there.
791
00:41:56,321 --> 00:41:57,321
In your brain?
Mm-hm.
792
00:41:59,321 --> 00:42:01,161
And what can they do about it?
793
00:42:01,161 --> 00:42:02,321
Not a lot at the moment.
794
00:42:03,321 --> 00:42:06,321
Well, it's never gonna go away,
I've still got this...
795
00:42:07,841 --> 00:42:09,321
..brain malformation.
796
00:42:09,321 --> 00:42:10,321
It will always be there.
797
00:42:10,321 --> 00:42:12,321
Obviously I had it from birth.
798
00:42:12,321 --> 00:42:15,321
Oh, it's just problems, Neil.
799
00:42:15,321 --> 00:42:16,321
'Do you think about dying a lot?'
800
00:42:16,321 --> 00:42:18,681
'No, doesn't worry me at all.
801
00:42:18,681 --> 00:42:21,321
'I think my dad taught me that.
802
00:42:21,321 --> 00:42:24,321
'He wasn't scared of death at all,
and...'
803
00:42:24,321 --> 00:42:26,321
it's the people
that are left behind...
804
00:42:29,321 --> 00:42:30,321
..that...
805
00:42:31,321 --> 00:42:34,321
..take the brunt of someone dying.
806
00:42:34,321 --> 00:42:37,321
So, how long ago is it
since your mother died?
807
00:42:38,321 --> 00:42:40,681
Five years.
Five years? Mm.
808
00:42:40,681 --> 00:42:45,321
And how long before that
did you know that she was...
809
00:42:45,321 --> 00:42:49,321
in serious trouble... with health?
We didn't.We didn't.
810
00:42:49,321 --> 00:42:51,321
48 hours' notice.
811
00:42:51,321 --> 00:42:52,321
Not even that.
Not even that.
812
00:42:53,321 --> 00:42:56,001
Very, very, very sudden.
813
00:42:57,321 --> 00:42:59,681
'She was minding Riley at the park,
814
00:42:59,681 --> 00:43:03,321
'and she accidentally
got in the way of the...'
815
00:43:03,321 --> 00:43:06,321
the swing hit her on the...
on the arm.
816
00:43:06,321 --> 00:43:09,321
She had quite a lot of bruising.
817
00:43:09,321 --> 00:43:15,321
This caused a poisoning of her
system, but she self-medicated,
818
00:43:15,321 --> 00:43:18,321
and went to bed
because of the pain,
819
00:43:18,321 --> 00:43:21,321
when she should have been,
really, hydrating herself,
820
00:43:21,321 --> 00:43:24,321
so, eventually,
her kidneys shut down.
821
00:43:24,321 --> 00:43:26,321
We knew none of this was going on.
822
00:43:26,321 --> 00:43:29,001
It went on from there,
it caused a domino effect.
823
00:43:29,001 --> 00:43:31,321
Her organs shut down very rapidly,
824
00:43:31,321 --> 00:43:34,321
and she tried to go to work
the following day,
825
00:43:34,321 --> 00:43:36,321
she had a part-time job
at the hospital,
826
00:43:36,321 --> 00:43:41,321
so, when she more or less collapsed
in the hospital, they admitted her.
827
00:43:41,321 --> 00:43:43,321
Couldn't have chosen a better day.
828
00:43:43,321 --> 00:43:45,161
'The hospital had kept telling us
829
00:43:45,161 --> 00:43:47,321
'that she just needs to be
rehydrated,
830
00:43:47,321 --> 00:43:49,321
"'We'll put on a drip for 48-hours."
831
00:43:49,321 --> 00:43:51,161
'So, we didn't know...'
832
00:43:51,161 --> 00:43:54,321
that anything sinister was going on,
833
00:43:54,321 --> 00:43:56,321
and, was it three hours later,
834
00:43:56,321 --> 00:43:58,321
we get the call
to say that she collapsed,
835
00:43:58,321 --> 00:44:00,321
and we need to get back in.
836
00:44:00,321 --> 00:44:05,321
We trusted what we were being told,
and we left her, you know,
837
00:44:05,321 --> 00:44:07,321
I kissed on the forehead,
838
00:44:07,321 --> 00:44:10,321
and said to her, "We'll be back
first thing in the morning."
839
00:44:10,321 --> 00:44:14,321
We don't know what she went through
in those three hours.
840
00:44:14,321 --> 00:44:18,321
So, yes, it's not our fault,
of course it's not,
841
00:44:18,321 --> 00:44:20,321
but you do hold a lot of guilt.
842
00:44:20,321 --> 00:44:23,321
They had all the pieces
of the puzzle in front of them...
843
00:44:24,521 --> 00:44:26,321
..but they didn't put it together.
844
00:44:29,321 --> 00:44:32,321
'We talk about her every day.
845
00:44:32,321 --> 00:44:35,321
'She's there,
she's in our lives still, every day,
846
00:44:35,321 --> 00:44:40,321
'but I like to focus on
the happy, the positive times.
847
00:44:40,321 --> 00:44:42,321
'You know, our kids need us
to carry on and, you know,
848
00:44:42,321 --> 00:44:45,321
'we've got our lives still to live,
and Mum wouldn't definitely
849
00:44:45,321 --> 00:44:50,321
'have wanted us to spend it
constantly crying over her.'
850
00:44:50,321 --> 00:44:52,361
'No, on a daily basis, it is hard,
851
00:44:52,361 --> 00:44:56,841
'but I like to think about Mum
and memories...'
852
00:44:56,841 --> 00:44:59,321
and it's only when
you start to then...
853
00:44:59,321 --> 00:45:01,321
speak to other people about it,
854
00:45:01,321 --> 00:45:03,841
that then the emotion kind of
really kicks in.
855
00:45:03,841 --> 00:45:09,321
And I don't think I realised
just how much she was adored
856
00:45:09,321 --> 00:45:12,321
by, like, the wider community
around here.
857
00:45:14,841 --> 00:45:18,321
In grateful memory of Lynn,
858
00:45:18,321 --> 00:45:21,321
for all that she's done
for the children of Poplar
859
00:45:21,321 --> 00:45:24,321
and Tower Hamlets over 27 years,
860
00:45:24,321 --> 00:45:26,321
we are both pleased, and very proud,
861
00:45:26,321 --> 00:45:29,321
to dedicate this new library area
to Lynn.
862
00:45:31,321 --> 00:45:32,361
'That's what she dedicated
her life to.
863
00:45:33,841 --> 00:45:36,361
'35 years of looking after
the children
864
00:45:36,361 --> 00:45:39,321
'in such a diverse community.
865
00:45:39,321 --> 00:45:43,361
'Every child, she just gave that
time and that commitment to.'
866
00:45:43,361 --> 00:45:46,321
Right, the story
I've got for you this morning
867
00:45:46,321 --> 00:45:48,321
is called The Magic Bicycle.
868
00:45:48,321 --> 00:45:51,321
'She loved it, and she was brilliant
at it, you know,
869
00:45:51,321 --> 00:45:53,321
'she just had a way with them,
they'd just open up to her.'
870
00:45:55,321 --> 00:45:57,321
'The kids that she worked with,
871
00:45:57,321 --> 00:46:01,321
'she'd become a governor, and then
chair of governors at the school.
872
00:46:01,321 --> 00:46:03,321
'She just loved kids, basically.'
873
00:46:09,321 --> 00:46:11,681
'There's things
we all do that...
874
00:46:11,681 --> 00:46:14,321
"'Oh, I wish I'd done that
different,"
875
00:46:14,321 --> 00:46:16,321
'but you take it on board, and...
876
00:46:17,321 --> 00:46:20,321
'..you learn from that experience.
877
00:46:20,321 --> 00:46:22,321
'My family have always come first.'
878
00:46:24,321 --> 00:46:26,361
'So, for you, that's...?'
879
00:46:26,361 --> 00:46:29,521
'I'm happy with the way my life
has gone.'
880
00:46:43,321 --> 00:46:45,321
'And what about the other children?
881
00:46:45,321 --> 00:46:47,321
'Where are they now?
882
00:46:48,321 --> 00:46:49,321
'What are they doing?'
883
00:46:50,321 --> 00:46:53,321
I read The Observer and The Times.
884
00:46:53,321 --> 00:46:56,321
I feel like bundling in when
there's already a go...
885
00:46:56,321 --> 00:46:58,161
when there's already a fight.
886
00:46:58,161 --> 00:47:00,321
What does university mean?
887
00:47:00,321 --> 00:47:03,321
When I grow up,
I want to be an astronaut,
888
00:47:03,321 --> 00:47:07,361
but if I can't be an astronaut,
I think I'll be a coach driver.
71649
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