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Based on real events

I'm Ella.

I'm moving away from home to study.

I have several assistants
who work for me.

- Can you give me that one?
- This one?

Just do it! Go!

What the heck, Ella!

- Was he mad?
- Very.

- Bye.
- Bye!

Ella, what are you doing?
Did you pour water in Axel's bed?

"Based on the above, I apply to have
the decision regarding PA transferred" -

- "from Vang municipality."

I think this is very well written.

- A solid application.
- Thanks.

Here it goes.

MY FIRST LOVE

- Please help yourself.
- It looks delicious.

- How exciting. College.
- I'm really looking forward to that.

Yes, of course.
So, I understand you require assistance.

She's had personal assistance for years,
and everything is smooth.

So we think
you can transfer that decision.

Maybe it should have been that simple.

Is this the first time you're moving
to another municipality?

We have to make
a new assessment in our municipality.

That's why we need to get to know you.
Therefore we have some...

These are standard check-off forms
with some questions.

You grade your answers from 1 to 5.

1 is managing independently,
and 5 that you require total assistance.

We also establish a time-based mapping
of the needs for assistance.

That means that we time... we measure
how long you need for every task you do.

Yes. Go ahead.

Then there's "goods and services".
Like going to the grocery store.

Well, you...
you can't reach all the shelves...

She definitely knows what she needs.
So maybe a four?

- Four?
- Yes.

I probably score four myself.

A lot of the time I return with bread
and coffee instead of flour and milk.

Yes...

- You don't buy sliced bread?
- This is home made.

What about eating?

You do that on your own.
Please proceed.

Personal hygiene.

- Yes?
- That entails visits to the toilet.

Washing your intimate areas...

It's all explained in her application,
maybe we don't need to...

The application is great.

This is just a standard form we need
because it is linked to a record.

It's a utility we use
to determine her need for services, etc.

It may be a bit peculiar.
If it's OK, about personal hygiene.

Well...

Most of our food
is produced here on the farm.

Everything we serve is organic.

- Welcome!
- Would you have a little taste?

Can you hand out the drinks?
Thank you.

This is dried reindeer meat
with chimichurri.

There. That's it.

Will you be able to do the work
without me?

Hello and welcome!
Here we have... a "rake fisk".

There you go.

- You're going to miss me.
- Nah... I'm not all that sure.

But I'm pretty convinced
you'll miss me a lot.

So it'll be just Mom, Dad and you...

Yes.

I like the one with the bus.
It gives me sort of a "big city" vibe.

- No?
- No...

Mom. Dad. "The municipality
of Lillehammer has sent you a letter."

"Log into your mailbox to read it."
Is that ...?

It's probably a reply
to your application.

- There you are! OK.
- Can you enlarge it?

Use these.

What?

Lillehammer Municipality

You can't be serious about
her living in an institution.

Housing institution.

But Ella has applied for PA.

PA is just one of several ways
to organize our services.

We assess the consumer's needs
and arrive at what is our best offer.

Let me just explain further...

Regarding occasional services during
the night, you need some assistance.

In that sense, Soltun is very practical.
Considering the services at night.

It's important that you realize -

- that at Soltun people are capable of
attending to your needs.

- No question about it.
- That must feel safe for Mom and Dad.

The main thing is
that Ella is her own master.

If you object to our decision, there are
ways to forward such complaints.

And you are welcome to
pursue those possibilities.

I don't think we'll get any further,
so thank you all for a fruitful meeting.

I don't think I'll keep that.
Put it in that floral-patterned thing.

- Yes. I love that one. I'll keep it.
- OK.

Hi there.
We thought we'd have a little chat.

OK. That's nice.

- What's up?
- I'm trying to dispose of a few things.

- Put that in the flower-patterned bag.
- Yes.

Ella...

Mom and I have had a talk,
and we think...

We need to have a chat.

We've made some considerations,
and we...

What we think, Daddy and I, is that...

That it would be wise to postpone.

- Postpone?
- Lillehammer, that is.

- Postpone Lillehammer?
- Yes, for a year.

Then we can complain about the decision
and arrange an apartment and assistants.

- For next year.
- There's that...

And you could have
more responsibilities at the farm.

You can have more freedom
if you want to.

You can live on the mountain farm.
That's almost like leaving home.

- It'll be like a sabbatical year.
- Are you messing with me?

Actually, it's... You shouldn't live
at an institution! No way!

- It's just temporary!
- You can't live at an institution!

You make a complaint,
and it will be fine.

This is totally out of the question.

Guro even comes with me at first.

I could stay for a few extra days, too.
If that's any help.

Yes. That helps.

That will solve it.

Just file that complaint.
Can't you just do that?

- It's bigger than Ås, I think.
- For sure.

It looks nice.

Should we get a coffee?
Is there anything you want, Ella?

No, thank you. But you go ahead.
I'll just flutter about.

What word would rhyme with "party"?

"Hearty"?

Yeah. That works.

Thanks.

- Hi there.
- Hello. Let's see.

- All right?
- Yes.

- Hi.
- Hello.

- Welcome. I guess you're...
- Ella.

Ella. Pleased to meet you.
We've been waiting for you.

- Halvard.
- Sigrun Haugen.

- Jon Haugen.
- We talked on the phone. You found us.

- And...
- Guro.

- That's right.
- I'm staying for a few days.

Welcome to Soltun.

Just leave your luggage,
and I'll show you your room.

We'll have a thorough tour later,
but let's start there.

Just follow me.
You can adjust your parking later.

Soltun was a camp for YWCA and YMCA.

The municipality bought it
to facilitate respite care in 1996.

Sort of a center for nursing and care.
It's a good thing to gather expertise.

You're having an art exhibition.

- Absolutely. Look forward to it.
- We do. Very good.

Hi there.

- Nice music, Ole.
- Thank you.

It looks a bit empty now, but...

When you're settled in,
I think it will be nice.

This is one of our rooms
with a nice view.

Here you see the path
which is very nice for wheelchair walks.

What do you think?

- I think it's up to you, Ella.
- I have to stay. I can't go home now.

So...

Yes.
Goodbye, sweetheart.

Bye, Mom.

Bye, Daddy.

- We're not getting any sleep tonight.
- No.

It's a bit like
the TV show "Power of the Spirits".

Oh, don't say that!

At Welcome Week, you make new friends.
Be open and curious.

There's room for you all.

Maybe you've heard him before
at Christmas leave or an afterparty.

He's to kick off this academic year.
Please welcome Oliver!

- Hi, you all. Ready for Welcome Week?
- Yes!

Nola was supposed to play for you today.

But she broke her leg. So here I am.

I only learned about that yesterday,
so... OK.

First day, first hour,
First day, new faces.

Living life, student life,
New friends, parties and paces.

The week, the week, the best week.
The week, the week, Welcome Week.

The week, the week, the best week.
Welcome Week.

Don't want to study, just party,
Hanging out with the hearty.

Forget tomorrow, forget the past.
Welcome Week, it's ours at last!

The week, the week, the best week.
The week, the week, Welcome Week.

The week, the week, the best week.
Welcome Week.

The week, the week, the best week.
The week, the week, Welcome Week.

The week, the week, the best week.
Welcome Week!

- Did you get the wristband?
- Does that pay?

I'm afraid I'll get worn out.

- Yes, you will.
- I think you can relax about that.

"Oh, I can't be worn out
during Welcome Week!"

Cheers, you all.

- OK.
- The light that flares in the North

The place where everyone...

- Don't stop.
- I only know the chorus.

- Let the flame shine ...
- Hey! How are you doing?

- Superstar!
- I'm Oliver.

- Ingeborg.
- Laila. Your song was very nice.

- Ella.
- Oliver. We've already met.

Now you're here, I have one question:

- Have you heard of The Olympics 94?
- Of course. That was here.

- OK.
- But it's just you! The wights!

- I'm so happy I got to know you now.
- Yeah. I agree.

I don't know what I would have done
without you the first week.

- You have to find the right people.
- Yes, you do!

I am that old student.

Marius!

- Cool song.
- I can't hear you.

- Cool song.
- Oh. Thank you.

- Isn't Welcome Week the best week?
- It is.

- Profound.
- Yes, it carries a lot of meaning.

That's the sort of songwriter I am.
Profound lyrics soaked with meaning.

Did you get the message?

It has to be... the environment.

No...

The climate crisis, then?
Religion? That's a profound theme.

That's profound.
But that's not it.

- Cancer. That's it!
- Yes, cancer. You're getting close.

- Excellent thoughts.
- Thanks.

But wrong.
It's about Welcome Week.

That's what the song is about.

- Are you catching a bus?
- No, I have a car.

OK.

- Where do you live?
- In the boondocks.

The boondocks?
Where in the boondocks?

Just in the boondocks.
Have you heard of that place?

- OK...
- Oliver! Emergency! You must help us.

"Do You Trust Me" goes live next week,
and we have to rehearse.

Two of our participants didn't show up.

What do you say?
Have you been at a TV production?

TV?
No, that's really awkward.

- No, no. This is just rehearsal.
- It won't be awkward. I promise.

OK. If you promise.

TV SCHOOL

OK. We'll have to start again.
Is everyone ready?

Five, four, three...

If you fall, will someone pick you up?
Will your secret be safe with me?

Welcome to "Do You Trust Me?"

Let's hear your animal sound.

A dog.

One point for Team Blue.

OK...
What's my favorite hobby?

I don't know...

Driving your wheelchair, maybe?

One point deducted.

Straight ahead.

In front of your right hand
there's a ball.

Where?

- Has a lie tested your friendship?
- Like right now, Oliver?

You said
this was not going to be awkward!

Come on! Whip away!

- We have a clear leader.
- Are you ready? Ichiban!

Congratulations! You're the Ichiban
of the day. That's all from us.

We'll see you next Saturday. Good night.

You can now chat with Oliver.
Write something.

Did you make it to the boondocks?

Morning care is at 7 a.m.
We have dinner at 4 p.m.

Evening care is about 9 p.m.

- 9 o'clock?
- The night watch doesn't do care.

Evening care has to be done
before the evening watch ends.

OK...

After a few days,
they only date two people.

If they want to meet in person,
one of them must propose.

- But then they've met in real life?
- No! They're still inside capsules.

- That's what is so exciting.
- So it's all about what's inside.

That's what made me fall for Frank.
What he had inside.

Oh, that's fine to experience.

You still have a few years to make it.

Tick-tack...

- "New and improved". Sverre?
- Did she eat too little?

- Still a bit short.
- No! No, no, no!

- What a shame.
- Too short again.

- Do you know how to shoot?
- Yes. Pressing A, right?

- No, press B. The red one.
- Oh, I see!

Hi! Do you want to
play a video game with us?

I'm actually busy.
We have this Welcome Week, you see.

- Some other time, then.
- Yes.

- See you.
- Bye, then.

It's a bit like...

"Youth club meets
old people's home", in a way.

- If that sounds like a thing.
- Yes. Is it OK to say it's like...

...an atmosphere of brain damage?

Ella!
We both know you can't say that.

I'll mount the ramp for you.

It's stuck again.

- Problems?
- It's the gravel that causes it.

Try this.

No. You'll have to catch the next bus.
I have a schedule to keep.

TOURISM

- Just say so if you need help.
- I'll manage. I can be tall.

- Don't you just want me to...
- All right. Thank you.

- Exciting book.
- At least it matches my nail polish.

- Yes. And good for...
- Sorry.

I took a wrong turn and then
couldn't find a parking spot. Sorry.

- Is it OK if I get something to drink?
- Yes, of course.

How does it work with your assistant?

Is she with you all the time?

There's always someone working for me.

Right now it's just Guro
since I'm waiting to hire more people.

But... do you live at the same place?

- No, no. They work wherever I am.
- I see.

So you live on your own
or in a shared house?

Well, yes. I live in a shared house.
But want to move to a studio apartment.

That'll be good.

And CPM covers all cultural activities.
So it's more extensive.

- Why do you use a chair like that?
- You see, that's because -

- if I tell my legs to walk,
they won't obey.

Do you think it's a nice chair?
Do you want me to show you?

- Try pressing this one.
- This one?

We can do it together.

That turns on a flashing light.

Should we turn on even more lights?
Then you press that one. Yes, that one.

Wow! Isn't that cool?

- Is it fun to ride a wheelchair?
- Yes. You can go fast too. That's fun.

- Ingrid, we're leaving.
- OK.

- Bye.
- Good bye!

- This is the technique.
- You don't use a lift?

No, I must be lifted into the car
and when I'm out and about.

We'll have to start training CrossFit,
isn't that the term?

Hello, ladies.
How are you doing?

It'll be fine.
You're very good at teaching us.

So...
We'll get there together.

- Super. Because you leave...
- Tomorrow.

Tomorrow, that's right.
I'll make a note of that.

Before we meet again,
I want you to work together...

Are you going to the party tonight?

Yes! See you there.

OK. Good luck with the assignment.
I think we'll leave it at that today.

- Getting ready at your place or mine?
- Your place.

- I'm so ready to party really hard!
- Yeah! A ton of fun!

You're strong.

- Would you like a drink?
- Yes please.

It's not a good wine.
A friend made some plum wine.

That works. Nice.

- Here you are.
- Thank you.

- You have a nice place.
- Thank you.

- Does it work?
- That one? It does.

Do you want to listen to something?
Let's see what's on it.

I found it at a flee market,
so I don't know what it is. Let's try.

OK.
What did you think of me?

- Of you?
- Yes...

There was this guitar. So...

- To be honest...
- Did you think it was lame?

No, no. Not lame.

But I didn't quite get
if you were serious or ironic about it.

- What do you think?
- Hm...

Maybe you pretend to be ironic.

But really, you think it is cool. Maybe?

Maybe.

What about you?
If you're honest.

- What did you think?
- About you?

Maybe I thought...
Or I thought that...

- That you were scary.
- Scary?

A little.

I didn't know how...

Guro is always there.

And I don't know anyone else who...

- I can say it's a bit scary?
- Yes. You can.

MISSED CALL

Shit.
What the fuck is this?

What's wrong?

Where have you been? We've called.

You can't just take a resident
and not return!

- My job is to do what Ella says.
- The day shift was confused.

The police are here.
Everyone is waiting for morning care.

In what way is that relevant?

- Where has she been?
- I've just been out.

So, then everything is OK?
I can just leave?

Well, we didn't know.

- One has to react, right?
- OK. I'll file it as case solved.

Do that. We're really sorry.
A minor misunderstanding.

- What's all this?
- It's fucking insane.

Now it feels...
completely wrong to leave you.

Wouldn't it be better to go home
until everything is solved?

You know I can't do that.

It sucks, but I'm here now.
And that... well.

It just has to work.

Yeah.

- So long.
- Bye.

- How are things, then?
- I have something they call a team.

- A team?
- Yes, several people.

- OK...
- But where were you? Last night.

What about the complaint?
Have you heard anything?

We spoke to the local authorities,
and I found them vague.

But... My impression is
that it's not going to take too long.

That's good.

But...
But where were you?

- Well... just out.
- Have you been out all night?

- Aren't you curious!
- Yes, I'm curious. I want to know.

- You're curious, too.
- Yes, but...

- Maybe she doesn't want to share.
- I know, but she can say where she was.

Too much?

I'm impressed.
So many products.

On my daughter's birthday,
she was given several kits.

Shampoo, cream, and all sorts of stuff.

- I'll hang this remote here.
- Yes.

- Is everything OK?
- My cell phone.

Here you are. And just press here
if there's anything you need.

OK.
But you hear me if I call out, right?

- Yes, the night watch is here.
- OK.

- Fine.
- That's good.

Don't close the door completely.

Let's see.
Like this?

- Open it a bit more.
- Like this?

- Yes.
- OK. Good night.

We're watching a movie at Marius's.
Are you in?

Oh, cool!
Not this evening. Tomorrow maybe!

There you go.
Just continue.

- That went smoothly.
- Thank you.

- Bye-bye.
- Bye.

It was okay.

But it wasn't that scary,
more atmospheric.

- I wanted to see it, but...
- You didn't miss much.

Hi. Are you Ella?
You need help going to the toilet?

Eh... No.

- It's in our schedule.
- No...

Have you seen Saw?

- Your name is Ella?
- Yes, but...

- You've been scheduled.
- No, I'm not.

They've got to figure this out.
This can't happen.

We'll call our superiors.

What was that about?

- I need assistance, right?
- Yes. Guro.

Yes. But...

There's been a mix-up
at the municipality.

- OK?
- Yes...

They don't approve of me having that.
She left yesterday, so...

The thing is that I...

The thing is that I live in... a place.

What sort of...

An institution.

Oh.
Wow.

- It's temporary. I've made a complaint.
- OK. That's good.

That's why
I didn't come to Marius's yesterday.

- Because I was in bed.
- You have bedtimes?

- I have to go to bed at 9!
- Seriously?

Could you please open the window?
Wide.

- Are you too hot?
- Yes, I am.

- Super.
- Good night.

The coast is clear!

- Ella.
- Hi.

You found it.

- Are you OK?
- Yes. Maybe not all that sexy.

You make a lot of noise.

Shit!

Do you want to go again?

Do you like it? PPM?

- CPM.
- Oh no! I don't understand.

PPM is production project management.
CPM is cultural project management.

What about tourism?
Is that what you want to do?

I don't really know what I want to do.
I only know that I love to travel.

And I just wanted to start studying.

So... What do you want to do?

Well, there's...

Music.

It probably sounds silly,
but in a way, that's when...

...I feel that I'm myself.
Oh, sorry. This sounds silly.

- That isn't silly at all.
- Thanks.

- Do you want to know a secret?
- Yes.

- Or I'll show you a secret.
- OK.

- Promise not to tell.
- Exciting.

If you tell people,
they'll play this at every party.

- I promise.
- Ready?

I'm sitting here thinking of
how good it was before.

It's you!

...this is our song.

Everything we were.

- I remember that song!
- Do you?

It's you!

You were the one and only.
Why can't you see that?

- You're really good.
- Thank you. This is a long time ago.

It was supposed to be us.
You were the only one...

Ugh! No more.

Now you know.

- Are you warm?
- A little, maybe.

- You don't need to be so careful.
- I don't want to crush you.

You can't crush me.

Hey. Oliver.

Oliver.

Hey.

Good morning.

Good morning!

Sorry, sorry, sorry!

I'm sorry.

- Hello? Is there someone with you?
- Yes.

He must leave. Now.

Sorry.

Hurry up. Right now. Come on.

- I'm sorry.
- It's all right. See you.

One can't just have visitors here.

And she's supposed to shower now.

Elsebeth, can you see to morning care?
I'll have a chat with Gunn.

Shit, that was embarrassing.
I hope you're OK.

No worries!

Are you doing anything tonight?

I'm thinking: "How do I approach this?"

- Unanticipated events.
- I've never experienced this before.

I didn't know that she was able to.
I don't know what they did.

I really understand it was unpleasant.

- Does she use contraceptives?
- I'll have to check the decision.

- That should be registered.
- We don't have any documentation.

And if she uses contraceptives,
and we don't know about it...

That's a deviation.

We should gather the team
and have a meeting to address it.

Have a coffee break.

Well, Ella.
Come in.

My employees need
a certain degree of predictability.

It's about the workplace environment.
It's about HSE. About trustworthiness.

What happened today
is not part of Gunn's job description.

Rules. They apply to everyone.
You understand, don't you?

And we've been generous towards you.

Please understand your responsibility.
This is a place of work.

- I thought this was my home.
- Yes, but...

Don't you do whatever you like at home?
Have sex with whomever you like?

You know what? I've talked to Gunn
and we'll have a team meeting.

OK... I'm done.

- Oh...
- What is it?

Well...
I think you've got...

OK.
You can start with my panties.

- The other side.
- Wait. I think the pad is wrinkled.

Oh.

It got late last night. I watched
this series of yours. I'm hooked.

- Totally hooked. I was up until 2 a.m.
- Really?

- Does Frank watch too?
- No, he spends time in his "pout cave".

I don't know what he's up to.
What people sign up? Would you do that?

- If you had, I'd watch every episode.
- I've seen all the episodes.

Hey, Ella.

I have candy. Would you like powdered
toads, crocodiles, and Hockey Powder?

- What are you doing?
- I'm taking out the candy we're having.

Oh.
Did you hide it?

- Do you have candy in there?
- In here too.

- Why do you hide your candy?
- To prevent the staff from seeing it.

- You can't have candy when you want?
- No.

- That's stupid. Aren't you an adult?
- That's how it is.

- I don't want to be fat.
- No...

- But today ...!
- Today is an exception.

- What a lot of goodies.
- Yes. You can pick and choose.

- What would you like?
- Could I have that Snap & Crackle?

- Yes, there.
- Let's see.

- There you are.
- Thank you.

I'll start with a Fox.

A gentle start.

- Have you lived here for long?
- I've been here for... four years.

OK.

- Do you like it here?
- I'm like you. I don't like it much.

You see,
I can tell you aren't OK.

No.

I got yelled at by Halvard earlier.

Oh?
Why was that?

- Do you want to know a secret?
- Mhm.

I think I maybe got myself a boyfriend.

He slept over last night.

That was really nice, but...
not allowed.

I can't wait to move out.

Me too.
I want to move into another place.

Why another place?

A place where I can live
with five other people.

- Do you have friends there?
- Yes. And a girlfriend.

- A girlfriend! That's nice!
- It is. It's nice.

- How is she?
- She's very lovely.

If there are things you find unpleasant,
you can talk to me about it.

That's really, really nice.
To come here.

Here you are.
Aren't you enjoying yourselves?

What day is it today?

- We've talked about this many times.
- We have.

No candy unless it's Saturday.
Ella, did you bring all this?

No, but...

Ole. Look at me.
We've discussed this before, haven't we?

- Candy is for Saturdays. OK?
- Yes, it is.

- We'll have to talk about it again.
- We can do that.

- Let's hope it...
- It'll be fine. It'll be fine.

It'll be fine, right.

- Are you watching a movie?
- Yes. But now the evening is spoiled.

Oh? Did I spoil it?
I don't think so.

You can watch a movie whenever you like,
and you can have apples and carrots.

- What are you doing tonight?
- I'm just chilling out at home.

Ella! Come!

What's that you have there?
What is that?

- And food. We have to have tacos.
- Yes, of course.

I thought that maybe you could pay,
and then we could all transfer.

Yes, I'll pay. No problem.

- Nice.
- Should people buy their own drinks?

I think it would be best
that each brings their own.

You and I can go shopping.

- OK. All of us.
- Do you have a car?

Lillehammer municipality has
sent you a letter.

Your complaint has not been upheld.

- Hello. Ready?
- I haven't ordered a cab.

- Aren't you going to Soltun?
- No, I'm not going there.

Should we do a...

One at a time?

- Ollie, my man!
- Hey!

- Where are Jaffe and Arild?
- On their way. They're picking up Lea.

Hi.

- A late night yesterday?
- A bit.

- I think it was late.
- How did I get home? I was pissed.

- Me too.
- I threw up in a bush.

I was going to call you,
but then I thought it would be a hassle.

Sneaking out and...

Or...

I just...
To be honest, I think it's just...

I feel this whole situation
is a bit difficult.

You think it's difficult?

Well... I'm not used to
being busted by 50-year-old ladies...

- I'm really used to that!
- That's not what I meant.

Do you think I find it normal for
50-year-olds to interrupt sex?

Please.
I thought you knew that I like you.

It's not you, it's just that...

- When you move...
- Speak up. I don't hear shit.

- It'll be easier not living there.
- Now I'm staying there.

- What?
- I'm staying. I have to stay there.

My complaint was not upheld, so...

What does that mean?
What do you do then?

That means that you get what you want.

- What?
- You don't want to hang out with me.

Ella, stop it. Please.

- Hello!
- I'm...

- You're just leaving?
- I'm going home.

Are you kidding? Are you such a
coward that you can't say anything?

Shit!

- Ella?
- Ella!

Ella, are you OK?

Hi, my little sweetheart.

- Hi.
- Sweety.

- Hi!
- Hi.

- They're all sending their love.
- Thanks.

- What do the doctors say?
- They say I'll never walk again.

I'm sorry.

- I'm sorry.
- I didn't mean to...

I know.

I've decided to go back home.

What?

It's not that I want to, but I just...

- I can't cope with staying here.
- Are you sure?

There must be a solution. Can I help?
Could we do something together?

I don't want to be something you have to
find a solution for and cope with.

- You don't decide what I can cope with.
- But I can't cope with that.

It feels so wrong.

It ends even before it has begun.

You are...

You are my first...

- When do you have to leave?
- I have to finish this bag of fluids.

Maybe... half an hour.

Half an hour.

I know some parents need time to adjust.

Adjust to a life
based on the premises that are given.

I can understand that one assumes
that everything is possible.

But you won't be as disappointed
if your expectations reflect reality.

That's what I do
when faced with difficulties.

Like public transport or things that
worry me, like the cost of electricity.

I have those services.
There are places where they don't exist.

So one is grateful for what one is
offered. That's worth keeping in mind.

It's fantastic your daughter is allowed
to experience what it's like to study.

All of us ought to be proud of that.

Of course, she's to be a student!
What the hell are you talking about?

Why shouldn't she? Why do you feel
entitled to deprive her of her rights?

Should she live in confinement?

She never had an assistant here.
We don't deprive her of anything.

- But ...!
- We give her an offer.

You don't consider that
people should live a worthy life.

If you give someone an unworthy life,
then it's an unworthy budget, -

- and an unworthy municipality!

Lillehammer is not
an unworthy municipality.

Do you think a 9 o'clock
curfew for a 19-year-old is OK?

- A simple question.
- It's give and take. Now she can study.

And that's great, isn't it?

And I find it acceptable to accept
a few restrictions in other areas.

- This is madness to listen to!
- I think you should calm down.

I'll calm down.
We'll have a constructive conversation.

- We're trying to understand each other.
- You haven't facilitated anything! Adjust?

What would you like, Ella?

Nothing.

There must be something you want.
This one?

- Have some French Fries.
- I'm not hungry! I don't want food.

- You have to. Look.
- You can't decide for me!

- Listen...
- Don't.

I understand this sucks.
Low blood sugar makes...

I don't want to eat.
Please stop it!

- Just one sandwich.
- I can't stand you!

- Ella... Hey.
- Ella.

Can't you shut up? Are you capable of
being quiet for like two seconds?

- What is this?
- Stop it! Don't touch me.

Did you know about this?

We tried to tell you
that maybe you should postpone.

That's not it.
Did you know...

...that there are such places
where people like me live? Did you?

- What do you mean by "people like you"?
- Don't you understand "people like me"?

So, who am I?

You are...

You are our little girl,
and we want the very best for you.

And then everyone else can be fucked.
As long as it's not me, you're fine?

We just want you to be fine.

- We haven't been able to fight it all.
- We could probably have done more.

But we just want you to have a good life
and to have every opportunity.

It doesn't matter what you think when
the rest of the world thinks otherwise!

I can't take it anymore!

Sweetheart...

So what... do you think?

Do you think it's...

...impossible?

I don't know.

I think I've thought
all my life that...

...everything would be normal,
if you know what I mean.

That I would... study.

Travel.
Have some kids.

So you would become an uncle.

But...

Now I think
it won't be like that after all.

Not for...
Not for me.

Where... I don't understand
where that comes from.

If anyone has made you think that.

That... you can't do whatever you want.

You are the coolest,
most intelligent, funniest...

Well...

You are...

...Ella. Right?

You are Ella!

Welcome to my favorite place
on the farm. The storehouse.

Here I performed for my parents.
I learned traditional dance.

What rights do people
with physical disabilities have?

For many years
I felt like I lived in a small cage.

I thought I had to become super skillful
at not making much fuss.

I had to become so good
at not taking up too much space.

One does not get enough
personal assistance to obtain freedom.

Many aren't allowed to participate.

What about new legislation to provide
rights to this important measure -

- for human rights and inclusion?

Marita wants home.
Not Toftetunet.

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Legal studies (master)

human

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human rights

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That'll be fine.

Let's start again. Our next speaker
has personal experience with -

- being dependent of the municipality.
Now she's going to study law.

Ella Haugen, the floor is yours.

Thank you.

Do you remember what it was like
to move out for the first time?

Do you...
Do you have any memories?

I lived with a buddy of mine
and I remember lacking furniture.

So we moved the garden furniture inside.

Anyone else?

Yes. I lived with someone who
cooked sausages in our electric kettle.

I remember feeling that
now anything is possible.

Yes. That's nice.

I have to admit
it was very different for me.

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