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Well it certainly is a typical California

Is pomegranate tree I find that it's best to ask the easy questions first until we loosen up a bit so

How long has YouTube been married just over a year and you're already doing charity work

Describe yourself in just a few

Honest and hard-working straightforward

When you're not volunteering and doing all of your community work I'm a homemaker or at least I will be when we have children and

Describe a

Typical day for Mary Hahn I don't think any day is typical well

What was yesterday like yesterday was

Why can't you be honest about the things you want get my husband doesn't always

I slept horribly

Aura flies in today

Aura flies in today

Is tomorrow before the interview

Hi

Can I help you

You are

Yes

I am Thomas the landscaper your husband called me about an EST

That's enough for the backyard

Can I come in

I'll meet you at

Thanks

Where did you find him

Do some local

Play rather get everything done on the inside first everything's fine on the outside

Play I would rather get it all done at once

Turn off I can take that disappointed tone she get

Get more than one estimate don't just give him the job

Recorded this thing on Dateline about a couple from San Francisco

Play higher this plumber

Install everything

Complete identity the

You're not even listening

Mary I am listening to you

The funeral

Cara

Surprise

I'm sorry

She's blind

Thomas

Yeah

Check with the wife first and make sure it's okay

And we can have a crew here on Monday

We must have just missed each other

It's too bad

You still play no not anymore about injury but have any dreams

I want to watch you rent a car

I'm a survivor

How do I get a job I can tell

Here's the estimate and I wrote my cell number here under the address on the bottom

All right nice to meet you

Pleasures been mine

You cup

Do you want me to get in the car

I want a picture

Beautiful be careful

Fun from the gym baby movies

Can we eat at the park

Don't mention this to Joe okay

What's the busy today

It's no big deal really district manager

So I have to work at 4:00 instead of one you love your job to pretend to love my job because that is what is expected

Do you understand Mary

Play something comes along that I'm truly passionate about

It sounds like you have a kind of security and stability most people spend their entire life

Would anybody like some more wine

Screw the wine

We're not dealing with a major issue here

You said that you would never do this

And when we got married you said that my business was my business

I was in the wrong place at the wrong time I guess

Me too

Believe I'm sorry

Don't be up

We have big problems or

You don't understand

Did you bring the estimate

Do you want to talk about the estimate

How can you marry someone you don't

I love it

I know what I like and sex is not at the top of that

Close College

It was sophomore year

Am I the only one who slept with

You slept with other women

I tell you every detail in my relationship and I never asked what should tell you something

I just don't feel the need to go on and on about every aspect of my love life

How's the weather today

How do you make it to the gym today

How much is a park

What

Fairmont

You went to Fairmount Park

So you go to Fairmount Park

To your room and a clothing optional Hotel

We're the same

I am not in

I can't play pro ball

Play March of the

Nothing more

So what's your excuse now

Me and you and Joe

Joe won't be around long

Turn on your side

Neither am I

I mean a job so you can support yourself I don't want to start over

You're going to be honest

From where

When you're in high school

What happened to you why why didn't you last very long

Coaching is fine

It's an energy that I really really miss

I really want that energy back

I like that

Stronger

The wedding sounds upset

I thought I could make my mother happy and still have the kind of life I wanted

Joe feels exactly the same way

Soul

We could come up with an arrangement that would benefit both of us

Chicken cut me off

Joe could take himself out financially with her help

Never thought you were the kind of person that could lie like that

I'm really only lying to my mother

At least I'm not lying to myself

He knows who he is and I know who I am

Can you turn on this perfect

Business arrangement

Why were you so angry at him

Why are you pretending for him

Emotionally involved with someone else

Stop blaming your mother

Listen if you want to become emotionally involved with someone else and leave me then

When the truth is

You're the one creating

That's why I fell in love

I want

The year

I'm back to bed

Little hungover

I'll be out in a minute

Come sit down

Can't wait to develop this pictures

Four pictures

I just don't want to discuss it

When will you be ready

I don't know

I'll talk to Joe

Maybe we can come up with some sort of an arrangement

It's me

I listen to myself

Does

Relationship

I'm trying to make you understand what I can't make that

Is everything okay everything is fine

I'm sorry I didn't get a lot of sleep

I know you love

Are you with someone last night

Thomas

Come on you can't be serious

We have an understanding we've always had an understanding that doesn't mean we have to get a divorce

Change the rules a little bit

We can make this easy

As long as we don't get too close to anyone we can keep this us together

Good morning is Joe home know he's not when I see him I'll tell him you

I really need to speak with him

Never mind

Hello

Hello

I really really want to see you come on let's get in your car

I really would like to see you

If you find a place

I want you to know Jill and I work things

Be a really good talk

I think I'm ready to go home

I change my ticket

What happened between us wasn't a mistake

Enlighten me

So much for getting things out in the open

Why can't you be honest about the things you want

I know what I want

Maybe I just want an easy life

You're suffocating yourself

Do this now

Joe

I'm not going

I'm going to let you do this

Your husband is old enough to make his own decisions

It's time for you to go

She's not a stupid woman

Guess you'd have to be a cynic

Make sense

Take it out of the garage

How long have you had it

How about a year ago when I first signed

I thought it was going to be the beginning of something really great

How do you know these things because people can always find a way to make himself happy

You're not special to him

What time does your flight leave tonight tonight

Play you are not different

You wrote me a letter where are you going

Make up something you've gotten good at that

Listen when I marry you I did you a favor

I'm just past this now

Well it certainly is a typical California winter the sun is shining and everything is dead but it really is

How long have YouTube been married

Describe yourself in just a few words Mary Ellen

Honest and hard-working

We're debt free

And her mother

Describe a typical

Typical day for Mary Hahn I don't think any day is typical

Well what was yesterday like yesterday was

Yesterday was

Perfect well what's your secret to a happy marriage I think we just

It's an excellent question and

I don't think anybody ever really knows what they're getting into I think we

So what what are Mary's needs Mary

She's been described as honest and straightforward hard-working yet something of a

We all make mistakes

Is everything okay everything's perfect

What's next for Mary Hahn

Dear Mary I know that none of this comes as a surprise to you but I felt the need to write this letter

We've been so empty for so long and I know that it's

Finally time that we filled our lives with something meaningful when I was younger I believed that

Life was about taking risks and pursuing dreams and we had forgotten how to do both

I've been thinking about that a lot and I'm thinking about it I began to remember remember what it's like

Dislike to hope for something to want something and now I'm ready to pursue that and accept

The risks embrace the risks

Play terrified and I don't expect my life

I'd like to be perfect because I know that it can never be perfect but it can be honest it can be mine

And understanding that has made me feel so relieved and it's made me feel free

Everyone deserves to feel free you deserve that

An opportunity to truly love someone to love yourself and love life