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If you think swingers are something out
of 70s movies and back -of -the -rack
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magazines, think again.
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These days, couples from all walks of
life are embracing the lifestyle, and
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they're changing the way people think
about marriage. I'm standing outside a
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luxurious mansion with some sexy, very
happy couples.
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are having the time of their lives.
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Now a new couple who's never done
anything like this before is about to
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on the action, too.
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Take a look at this.
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Hi, I'm Daryl. Nikki.
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And we're from Barfield, California.
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We've been married for seven and a half
years.
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I am very happy with my current sex
life.
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I always wish I could have more.
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It feels like to have sex five times a
day, every day.
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I'm looking for just overall sexual raw
energy, like fun, excitement.
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I'm interacting with guys and girls, so
I'm pretty open.
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We're here to find out if it's cool or
not.
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I'm giving Daryl and Nikki an exclusive
pass into the hot, passionate, clothing
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-optional party going on inside.
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Can they really share their partner with
someone else? And how will it affect
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their relationship?
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I'm Anna David. Hold on tight.
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This is Twig.
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Well, I think this is like a big step
for us.
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I think it's going to be awesome.
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It'll be just another day in paradise.
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It was Daryl's idea to start swinging.
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I thought he was crazy. There's no way.
You know, what am I doing wrong?
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I'm really nervous and scared, wondering
what these people are going to be like.
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You know, I'd like to see you get
pleased by a guy. I think it's going to
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awesome. The group dynamic, definitely
the whole girl -girl thing.
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But overall, I'd like to see you just...
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to be yourself and have a good time.
That's really what this is about, us as
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couple. After having a couple of kids, I
was kind of looking for extra stuff to
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spice up our relationship and marriage.
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So I kind of came upon this whole
swinging thing.
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After a year of talking to her, she kind
of gave me a good thumbs up, said,
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let's try it.
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Ultimately, I guess it was my decision,
but since it's a team effort, I couldn't
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have done it without her.
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Honey, we're home.
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We're here. Are you ready?
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Ready as I'm going to get.
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Let's do this.
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Hi.
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I'm Anna. Nikki.
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And you must be Daryl.
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Yes, ma 'am. Nice to meet you both.
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How are you guys doing? Good.
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Outstanding. Outstanding. Outstanding.
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Any nervousness? Any butterflies?
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That's why I'm so outstanding. I'm just
bundling nerves right now. You're
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outstandingly nervous? Yes.
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There's just one thing.
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Before I let you loose in the house, we
need to talk about something. So you
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want to follow me?
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Yes, ma 'am. All right. All right, let's
do it.
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I introduced you to the lifestyle
because that's kind of where I knew I
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to be always.
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Funny because you didn't really
introduce me. You just kind of threw me
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It's a good thing I'm a good swimmer.
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So, what I have here is a contract.
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Okay. And we're going to sign it, and it
basically says that, you know, you give
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each other permission to hook up with
other people while you're here.
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Right now, we're on the threshold of
something that a lot of people dream
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a lot of people fantasize about. And
here we are, ready to take that step
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the threshold.
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One of you want to actually read it out
loud?
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I'll do that.
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We have agreed to take part in a sexual
venture over the next two days, during
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which all the normal rules of a
monogamous relationship will be
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aside. We promise not to hold what
happens here against each other once the
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venture is over. What happens in the
swing house stays in the swing house.
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Daryl and I have been together for
almost nine years.
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Coming to the house, I was really
scared, not knowing what was going to
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I'm hoping for just overall good time
with a bunch of different couples.
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Any special rules we have for each other
during our time will be written in the
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space below. We hope to have fun and
explore everything the lifestyle has to
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offer, knowing that the ultimate goal is
a stronger, healthier, more fulfilling
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relationship. Okay, so do you have any
of these additional rules? And if so,
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you write them in the space there?
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Same room. Same room until we're
comfortable?
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Mm -hmm.
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No taking one from the team.
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Yep.
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And then sign at the bottom.
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I'm going to hold on to this.
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So, why don't you guys, you know, go up
to your room, get refreshed, do what you
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want to do, and come downstairs. I know
the other guys are excited to meet you.
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Ready to do this?
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Yep. All standing.
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Huge. Awesome.
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This house is amazing.
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It's huge. It has a lot of things that I
would like in my own personal house, so
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I'm ecstatic.
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Are you nervous?
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I get nervous meeting new people anyway,
even when I'm just being myself, and
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these people are going to see me naked.
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We're going out to meet the couples.
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We're excited. We're nervous, wondering
what these people are going to be like.
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Rock and roll.
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How you guys doing?
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I'm Nicoletta. Nikki.
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Nikki, nice to meet you. I'm Daryl. Hi.
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I felt comfortable once I got out there.
All of the couples that were out there,
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they were all very good looking. There
was no weird vibes.
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They just seemed like a great group of
people.
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Hi, Ashley. Nice to meet you. Daryl. I
don't really know if my jaw actually
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dropped and hit the ground, but I was
shocked with the quality of people.
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single woman there is outstanding.
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And I stared at everybody's ass and
tits.
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Probably was annoying.
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Probably wouldn't do a very good job of
peeking.
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More of like a... Darryl, it's Clayton.
Nice to meet you.
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Hi, Amanda.
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Hi. I'm Black Guy 1. Black Guy 1.
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I'm Early. Nice to meet you.
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He's Early. I'm Clayton. Nice to meet
you. You too? Darryl. Nice to meet you.
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Amanda. Amanda. Nikki.
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Nice to meet you.
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I'm Mike. And you're Black Guy 2?
Darryl.
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The first time we met, Nikki and her
other half, They walked out the door. We
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all waved hello.
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I gave them a quick glance.
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And as she swept her eyes across the
whole crowd, she looked at me for a
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second, but she didn't stare at me. And
then she looked away.
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The lack of eye contact is what gave her
away.
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So that the next time we made eye
contact, I could totally read her
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her thought was, that guy I would do.
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So how long have you guys been together?
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We've been married seven, but we've been
together nine.
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Nine days?
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Nine years.
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Are you confident in your ability to
communicate together and to be open
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things are happening?
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First thing I know about Kristen, blonde
hair, very gorgeous body and eyes and
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she had a good smile.
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She was very open and warm.
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You know, are you wanting to do more
girl action or are you guys okay with
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exploring couples?
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I think we're pretty much open to... Or
just good old -fashioned orgies. Just
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about anything. Pretty open to...
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Like I said, jumping head first in the
water. Hopefully we don't hit our head
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the bottom of the pool.
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What about you guys? We have a couple.
No fish hooking, no eye gouging.
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I think at one point in time we talked
about no kissing, but then we're like...
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Kissing and sex is like peanut butter
and jelly. It kind of meshes together.
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Okay,
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so I'm taking your drink orders really
quick.
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Anybody need anything?
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Can I order a dirty leprechaun?
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Don't forget that Jeff, the body
painter, is inside with his assistant,
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So as soon as you guys get a chance, go
get painted.
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And he's amazing.
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Awesome. Sexy body painting. I've never
seen it done.
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I've seen pictures online.
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I've never seen it before in person.
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But I like a room with full sexual
intention and a pool of cool people.
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what I had envisioned.
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You know, when a new couple comes in and
exploring fantasies with them, it's
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just so much easier if they're confident
enough to say what they're looking for
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and to say what they want.
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They know that we're more experienced
and that we're apt to help them achieve
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that. And not only...
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Telling us their fantasies, but also
discussing between each other before so
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it's not a surprise to them when You
know I want to be tied up comes out and
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other partner just freaks out and and
knowing what their boundaries are and
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bringing it up to us correct and Letting
what happened happen?
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The first shocker for me is when I
looked over and there are girls naked,
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completely fuck -ass naked.
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It was extremely smoking hot.
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All right. Okay.
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Get you started.
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So we get inside, and Megan sits down to
nothing real quick. Now, I'm used to
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that. But Daryl, he was like... I
thought it was the funniest
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thing I ever saw.
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Sometimes when you have new couples in
this environment for the first time, you
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have to take them by the hand and leave
them. Megan and I have done that for a
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lot of new couples.
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We really like doing it, and we are
really good at it.
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As the other girls were getting body
painted, at that time I was not hoping
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it was me because I was feeling nervous.
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And halfway through playing with them,
you could even be like, I'm sorry, I'm
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not really feeling it. Like, I thought I
would.
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And nobody's going to judge you.
Nobody's going to be like, oh, well, you
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Or if you even just say no.
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All the girls had a lot of good
information about the whole swinging
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After talking about it, I loosened up.
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Some of the newbies, when they get into
the lifestyle, they come not of any
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fault of their own, but with their
roles, they never pass this.
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And they're all in anticipation.
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It takes an awful lot of time to break.
It takes time to get past that. It
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really does.
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Everybody asks that same question. How
do you deal with the jealousy?
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Jealousy is an emotion based in
insecurity.
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Plain and simple. Or trust.
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Well, it's either insecurity in the
relationship or insecurity within
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themselves. So, yeah, lack of trust is
an insecurity in a relationship.
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Absolutely. You're not secure.
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Who's next?
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Nikki is next.
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Nikki, you said you're next.
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Are you going to get body painted?
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Yeah.
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Have fun.
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I've never been body painted, and I was
really nervous, but it was an experience
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I didn't want to miss.
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You ready? Yeah. Okay.
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After having a few drinks, I felt really
comfortable getting body painted. I
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took all my clothes off. Don't worry,
honey, it won't hurt.
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One thing that's been really important
to me as a body painter is the person's
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comfort level and what they're real
comfortable with. You can usually tell
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off the bat.
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If somebody wants to get naked, they'll
just stand there, get naked, and boom,
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they're right on the table.
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So what I'll do is if somebody isn't too
sure whether they want to be naked,
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we'll paint the top first, and then ask
for comfort. If she starts to feel more
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and more comfortable about it, realize
what the body paint is, and we kind of
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progress on it.
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I go down there looking at her, watching
the brush, and paint her form a little
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bit. It was awesome. The girl's being
completely naked.
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But you're not really seeing anything
because everything's all painted. It's
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very hot.
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Swing's all about you.
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It's about you as a couple.
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You're the most important part of Swing.
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Because without you being a couple, it's
just another single part.
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So you guys having a good time so far?
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Yes, it's very fun. I enjoy myself.
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After getting naked and getting body
painted, I felt really comfortable
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all the girls were naked and body
painted as well.
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I know, like, when we first started
talking about it, she was, like I said,
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they, moms don't do this.
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When she relaxes and she's herself,
she's awesome.
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Now she walks around naked, so, yeah.
You know, people have their little boxes
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sometimes, and they can't escape that
box. They're going to try to make you
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bad about yourself, you know? And that's
just, when you say, oh, I'm a mom, how
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do I feel?
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Are you still a person?
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Just because you had kids, just because
you have a family.
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It doesn't mean you're not a person and
you don't have things you like to do.
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Just because you're a mom, it doesn't
have to define you. You can still fish,
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ski, have group sex, whatever you like
to do. That is true. It ain't no
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different from baseball practice or any
other thing you do as a family. It's
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just a different thing you like to do.
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So I got a plan.
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Now I just have to go out and execute
it. As long as Daryl's cool with it,
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will be a very interesting night.
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You know, life is short.
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May not have a lot of time in the
future.
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I know what I'd like to have happen
tonight.
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I'd like to get to know Nikki in the
bedroom.
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So in the world of Karen, there are
always three P's.
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Patience, persistence, and perseverance.
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And three P's will get you four.
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And that's whatever the fourth P you
want it to be.
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Prosperity, pussy.
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Okay, guys, so it's time to get ready
for the night. You're going to go
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upstairs, do your last touch -up, and
come back down here when you're done.
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Ready?
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I think people in the lifestyle
definitely have...
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at least 10 times more sex than vanilla
couples because we appreciate it more
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and we keep it interesting and we know
how to spice it up.
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Even if it's the same person, after
you've been with somebody else, it
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feel like the same person when you go
back.
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I can see us having fun with anybody. I
mean,
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I guess it's kind of broad in general,
but I think... Earlier in the day, Daryl
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had actually planned Garen out and was
like, yeah, you think he's cute and
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you're going to hook up with him.
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And I'm like, okay, yeah, whatever.
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But he was cute.
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How about you?
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I thought that's all of them.
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That's a top -out answer.
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Really happy with the communication
level that this couple has.
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He definitely knows how to communicate
with her more, and I think that if
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they're uncomfortable with something,
I'm thinking they're going to be more
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comfortable voicing it.
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You know, I sat down and talked to her,
and she actually seems pretty confident,
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pretty straightforward.
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She seems to be okay with everything.
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I didn't get a sense of any boundaries
with them other than they want it to be
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fun, and as long as it's fun, they're
fine with it.
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Got any idea what you think is going to
happen tonight?
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Um, I think it'll happen a little bit,
maybe role reversal, where maybe you
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can just jump in the middle and I'll
just stand in the back. Because I don't
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feel like she's really in the girl.
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I don't know where it's going to go, but
I do know at some point. Once I've got
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the all clear from her guy, I'm just
going to walk up to her and take her by
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hand and see if she follows me.
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But I just got this really strong
feeling that she'll follow me.
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Do you have anybody picked out or is
that on?
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Sometimes we go to a party and nothing
happens and that's okay. We have fun
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about anywhere we go. So it doesn't
really matter. And that's kind of what
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focused on. So you may go to a party and
nothing happened.
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You may go to a party and just flirt all
night.
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You know, if we go to a party with
expectations, that's where we found that
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have issues, that we get upset.
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If you go in without expectations and
you just let things happen the way they
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naturally will happen, and your focus is
just having a good time, you'll end up
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having a good time. And if it ends up
going somewhere, fantastic. But if not,
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get to go home with him.
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Okay, so you guys ready for your first
night in the lifestyle?
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Yes, most definitely.
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And how are you feeling? Are we, like,
excited, nervous?
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I think I'm a little over the nervous
bug and more excited now.
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So, see anything you like around here?
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Most definitely.
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Well, remember, this is not window
shopping. You actually get to touch.
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You have to live with what happens. You
don't get to, like, wake up tomorrow
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morning, have an extra person in your
bed, and go, what the hell are they
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here? You know what I'm saying?
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Only if you drink too much, you'll
remember it.
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May I propose a toast to a night of
indecent proposals?
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Outstanding. Cheers.
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Cheers. Cheers.
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Have a blast, guys. And who knows, maybe
even more than one blast.
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There you go. Right now, I'm feeling...
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I'm excited.
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Hey, I think it's a good time for us
fellas to adjourn to the living room and
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let's let the girls give us a nice
little fashion show with their new body
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paint. Okay.
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Sounded like a plan.
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Sounded like a good idea at the time,
but then I got really nervous and didn't
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want to do it.
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I was still just really nervous.
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Megan,
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she has an outstanding body.
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Pan everything's where it's supposed to
be and you know, so it's outstandingly
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awesome.
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Ashley is probably more my type than
anybody. She's a petite blonde.
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Yeah, definitely more my quote -unquote
type for Miss Ashley.
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I love fashion shows. Seeing sexy ladies
stretch themselves is my definite idea
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of a good time.
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Nicolette seems gorgeous.
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The blonde hair, the tall, just awesome
personality. First impressions, just
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amazing.
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I was really nervous about the fashion
show, and I didn't want to do it, but
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Kristen helped me out, so I walked out
with her.
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I felt weird just because I was the last
one. I think I'd have been better if I
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was mixed up in the middle of it.
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Attention, everybody.
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We're going to play a game. We are going
to mix Finn the cock and Jack Finn the
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hat. All right.
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So Nikki looks really good in her body
paint, but it's obvious she's a little
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nervous. Hey, that happens sometimes.
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But once she settles in, once I flirt
with her a little while and break that
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ice, I'll move in.
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Okay Have
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someone
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lick and suck one body part you choose
Wow
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Okay, I choose Megan to lick
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Amanda's pussy
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It was sexy seeing another woman to
another woman.
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It was actually hot.
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Seeing that go on like live action porn
is pretty awesome because they're both
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pretty smoking hot and the only way it
could get better is if my wife was
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involved in it.
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Give the gift of one free blank to the
person of choice.
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Whatever you want, you get to give to
one person of your choice.
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Slow job.
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I get to give it, so you say I get to
fuck you in the ass?
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So it's good to see that Nikki's not as
nervous
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now. She's in a much more playful mood.
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Like the way this is going you're
starting to float a little more and have
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fun
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This one is my favorite.
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Ride the Sibian or command someone else
to do until they
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orgasm. This is my favorite toy. Who
wants to go Sibian?
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I will make it cream tonight.
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Seeing that go on, like, it's
outstanding.
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It's better than TV because it's all 3D.
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That's hotter than just about anything
else I can think of.
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On top of this?
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Yeah. Okay.
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During the game, Garrett kept rubbing
his feather on me and tickling me, and I
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thought that was a form of flirting.
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At that point in time, I was excited. I
thought it was hot, it was exciting, and
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we should do it some more.
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So everyone gets real quiet watching
Ashley and Nicoletta do their thing.
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It's a huge turn on, so I'm really ready
to take this thing to the next level.
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Oh, oh, yeah.
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Oh, oh, oh.
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Oh, oh, oh.
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Oh, oh, oh.
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Oh, oh, oh.
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Oh, oh, oh.
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I believe everybody's well on their way
to get hot and heavy. Like for me, I
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know it was a good start. I am ready to
go.
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I'm hot and bothered. I love you.
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So the
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next plan of action is giving Nikki what
she wants.
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So I'm going to have to find Daryl and
sit down with Daryl and explain to him
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what's going on.
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But first, I always ask the guy's
permission.
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Like, you know, is it cool that I
pursued your idea?
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Why possibly?
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Okay, see, there you go.
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That's the most important part. Make
sure you know how he feels.
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I was a little shocked when Garen had
said that.
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I was kind of freaking out. I was like,
wow, it's really going to happen.
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If you could give us a little time to
talk about it, and we'll get back to
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sir. Perfect.
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That is perfect.
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Are you digging it?
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Are you digging him?
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Oh, yeah, but I'm not going to leave you
left out.
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I mean, I'm cool with such the group
thing.
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Let me know what you're looking for, you
know, what you want, and then we can go
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from there and let him know.
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Okay. Deal? Yep.
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We had talked, and we decided that Daryl
was not okay doing one -on -one, that
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he wanted to do the whole group dynamic.
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We're cool with it.
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Our biggest thing is I don't want to be
left out, she don't want to be left out,
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and she's not sure if it's going to be a
group thing or a one -on -one. We like
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to group it. Okay.
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I don't want to go play without my
friends.
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I was longing for the whole party to be
in one place. Oh, yeah, no, no, no. It's
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much more fun.
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She didn't want me to be left out
because... Oh, of course not.
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I don't want to be left out either,
so... My girl, she's pretty much 90 %
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lesbian, 10%.
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whatever so That's all that you'd have
to try to cut your own.
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I'm gonna be a lot easier to do It's a
really gross award to that, but that's
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what the whole group thing is. Yeah,
everybody does things at their own speed
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You know we all have a good time I'm
glad we can see eye to eye I like this
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my speed Alright,
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everybody we've come to the conclusion
that we're all gonna take this party
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upstairs to the bedroom upstairs
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And have a good time, just like our
game.
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Sounds good.
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When Daryl and Garen had come down to
tell all the girls that we were going to
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go back upstairs, at that point in time,
I was excited. I thought mine and
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Daryl's fantasy was going to come true.
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We get upstairs.
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Megan's not shy.
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She throws me down into bed, and she
immediately starts to give me a feast to
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see it, and they realize, okay, we'll
get comfortable and get started, and so
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they do the same, and we're ready to get
this party started.
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So here we go. Megan gets things started
like she always does.
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And when the time is right, I'm going to
get Nikki and I'm going to show what
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the lifestyle is really all about.
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I did bring a towel.
446
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:17,360
We really didn't waste any time.
447
00:28:26,570 --> 00:28:27,930
We just got right down to business.
448
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:12,840
There were three couples on our bed. It
was hot. And at one point in time, I
449
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:14,560
were on the bed. Me and Daryl were
messing around.
450
00:29:15,100 --> 00:29:18,060
And then me and Darren started messing
around.
451
00:29:31,700 --> 00:29:35,660
I am into the whole oral sex group
pleasure thing.
452
00:29:36,260 --> 00:29:39,280
Everybody was having a good time. My
wife started moaning like she was giving
453
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,120
head. I knew she was enjoying herself,
so it was even more of a turn -on for
454
00:29:47,020 --> 00:29:50,480
Nikki's giving Daryl head, and I'm
laying next to them, and I'm kind of
455
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:54,380
on her, letting her know I'm there, and
really just letting them experience the
456
00:29:54,380 --> 00:29:56,720
experience of being not alone while
having sex.
457
00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:58,360
So we're all good.
458
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:02,220
Everything's a go. We just got to keep
him comfortable, me comfortable, her
459
00:30:02,220 --> 00:30:04,400
comfortable, and most of all, Megan
comfortable.
460
00:30:09,810 --> 00:30:10,810
Thank you.
461
00:31:14,410 --> 00:31:19,170
Me and Garen started fucking, and it was
awesome. He has an amazing body.
462
00:32:01,500 --> 00:32:05,100
Nikki really let loose. She kind of let
her hair down, so to speak. It really
463
00:32:05,100 --> 00:32:08,460
got kind of wild, and we both drifted
off into some really good sex.
464
00:32:50,260 --> 00:32:56,140
This is a fantasy that she had, two guys
and her, maybe even a deeper fantasy of
465
00:32:56,140 --> 00:32:57,140
the big black cock.
466
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:01,080
And this is what we're about. We're
still in fantasy and having a good time.
467
00:33:39,079 --> 00:33:44,240
Right now I'm feeling I have to work
with the team because Clayton and
468
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:46,980
they got so hot and bottled they wanted
to have their own sex instead of sharing
469
00:33:46,980 --> 00:33:47,579
with everybody.
470
00:33:47,580 --> 00:33:49,720
I was hoping for...
471
00:33:50,460 --> 00:33:56,820
the whole group thing you know maybe
maybe give me get another female on my
472
00:33:56,820 --> 00:34:02,040
well i can go down to her i probably
failed to try to close the deal
473
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:08,639
but i'm a happy person so i kind of i
think the whole time it was hot
474
00:34:08,639 --> 00:34:15,420
um female life get pleasure karen ramon
is a very very awesome thing for me
475
00:34:15,420 --> 00:34:18,179
because her fancy coming true tonight
was
476
00:34:19,370 --> 00:34:20,630
An awesome gift just for myself.
477
00:34:20,969 --> 00:34:23,230
Even if it's something I can just give
her one night.
478
00:35:03,690 --> 00:35:04,710
How do you feel about last night?
479
00:35:04,950 --> 00:35:07,030
Last night was interesting.
480
00:35:07,930 --> 00:35:11,390
A lot went on, a lot of cool stuff.
481
00:35:12,770 --> 00:35:16,510
Still kind of processing, trying to
figure out where everything fits in.
482
00:35:16,910 --> 00:35:22,690
Last night was bittersweet. Not meeting
my ideal foursome kind of was a downer.
483
00:35:22,730 --> 00:35:27,030
On the bright note, my wife got to
achieve one of her fantasies, which I'm
484
00:35:27,030 --> 00:35:30,830
ecstatic for, and I'm sure I'll hear
more stories about it later on when we
485
00:35:30,830 --> 00:35:31,830
home.
486
00:35:31,839 --> 00:35:35,760
Kind of took one for the team so to
speak there's only like three people for
487
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:39,280
people upstairs that I guess maybe he
even heard that we're all coming up here
488
00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:43,440
and It's just so happy. They were just
into women.
489
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:50,700
I don't know I think how the The dice
landed who hooked up with who and it's
490
00:35:50,700 --> 00:35:57,000
I enjoy watching and seeing you With the
other guy and also with me same time,
491
00:35:57,020 --> 00:35:58,020
you know, too.
492
00:35:58,080 --> 00:35:59,080
That's just pretty hot
493
00:35:59,820 --> 00:36:02,400
I really don't feel like I took one for
the team. I really don't. There's going
494
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:04,360
to be some fantasies that I may not be
involved in.
495
00:36:04,860 --> 00:36:07,560
She may want to tie me to a chair and
make me watch, which is cool.
496
00:36:07,860 --> 00:36:10,320
I respect that because I know she has
fantasies about women, and sometimes
497
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:13,360
women with me involved or women with
just women.
498
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:15,840
She's cool with it, or I'm cool with it.
499
00:36:16,380 --> 00:36:18,900
I absolutely did not take one for the
team. I really didn't.
500
00:36:19,140 --> 00:36:22,500
I do wish that maybe some kind of
action.
501
00:36:22,860 --> 00:36:24,480
Why? Because you get that at home.
502
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:27,680
But it's still very nice.
503
00:36:27,700 --> 00:36:30,400
If you're not getting anything added,
then it's kind of pointless.
504
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:34,240
Even being with you, I'm not doing this
to replace you, so it's not like you're
505
00:36:34,240 --> 00:36:37,540
not doing enough for me. You could just
sit at home and be the babysitter, and I
506
00:36:37,540 --> 00:36:38,540
could go out and have fun.
507
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:45,660
And this experience, I learned that
Daryl is a lot more open to
508
00:36:45,660 --> 00:36:46,660
things than I thought.
509
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:51,220
I figured he'd be somewhat jealous, but
he seems not to be. I love you. I love
510
00:36:51,220 --> 00:36:52,220
you, too.
511
00:37:16,710 --> 00:37:20,530
She needed somebody to lead the way.
That's what you're really good at,
512
00:37:20,790 --> 00:37:27,590
When you told her that she wanted you in
the bar, she was like, nuh -uh, nuh
513
00:37:27,590 --> 00:37:28,950
-uh, nuh -uh.
514
00:37:30,410 --> 00:37:34,210
And her husband was like, stop lying.
515
00:37:35,730 --> 00:37:40,670
And you could just tell I was They were
like in middle school.
516
00:37:42,150 --> 00:37:46,150
Who wrote the do you like me, yes or no
letter?
517
00:37:46,710 --> 00:37:50,090
They communicated really well, both with
themselves and with me. They didn't
518
00:37:50,090 --> 00:37:54,990
have hang -ups. They were really good
with each other, which made it really
519
00:37:54,990 --> 00:37:57,350
easy. It's just they were so good with
each other.
520
00:37:57,730 --> 00:37:59,430
Everything else was simple.
521
00:38:00,090 --> 00:38:04,110
That was an experience she wanted, and
so he gave it to her. Any guy can give a
522
00:38:04,110 --> 00:38:05,530
girl a diamond ring, a car.
523
00:38:06,540 --> 00:38:10,260
whatever it is that's monetary, but not
every guy can give that girl another
524
00:38:10,260 --> 00:38:14,800
guy. Or it's a big smile on their face
and say, hey, is there something we
525
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:17,640
get at home or buy at the store? I
brought home the bacon last night.
526
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:19,140
You sure did.
527
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:21,240
And we're eating it this morning.
528
00:38:26,460 --> 00:38:29,040
Morning. Morning. How are you guys?
529
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:30,280
Wonderful.
530
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:31,560
How was last night?
531
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:33,560
Good. It was great. Pretty awesome.
532
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:34,800
Good.
533
00:38:35,240 --> 00:38:39,080
The thing about something like swinging
or any kind of fantasy, it's like you
534
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:42,760
have the fantasy and it's one thing, and
then actually feeling it may have
535
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,120
stirred up some emotion.
536
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:50,000
Either way, downstairs we have a
relationship expert. She specializes in
537
00:38:50,180 --> 00:38:54,520
and she's going to talk to you and help
you sort out everything that happens.
538
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:55,698
Sounds like a plan.
539
00:38:55,700 --> 00:38:58,660
Okay, good. And after that, you get more
time in the house.
540
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:00,480
Outstanding. Ready?
541
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:03,069
Let's go.
542
00:39:03,070 --> 00:39:06,410
If you're thinking about this as a
fantasy situation, and sometimes fantasy
543
00:39:06,410 --> 00:39:10,110
isn't as great as reality, this is going
to fast -forward your relationship.
544
00:39:10,430 --> 00:39:15,070
You're either going to grow and be
really committed with your relationship,
545
00:39:15,070 --> 00:39:19,610
you're not, because you know what
people, their general intentions are.
546
00:39:19,610 --> 00:39:20,830
want to have sex with you guys.
547
00:39:21,090 --> 00:39:27,290
I mean, they want to play with you guys.
It'll help you see your partner a lot
548
00:39:27,290 --> 00:39:28,290
better.
549
00:39:29,930 --> 00:39:31,270
Welcome, Daryl and Nikki.
550
00:39:31,850 --> 00:39:37,310
I'm Dr. Lori Buckley, and I'm a
therapist who works with individuals and
551
00:39:37,310 --> 00:39:39,490
around relationship and sexual issues.
552
00:39:39,870 --> 00:39:45,850
So I know last night you were able to
explore some fantasies. What were your
553
00:39:45,850 --> 00:39:49,290
expectations before you actually got
here? When we came here, it was kind of
554
00:39:49,290 --> 00:39:51,030
just like almost like a preview.
555
00:39:51,630 --> 00:39:55,710
Okay, maybe like an experiment. Yes,
that's a good word for it. And whose
556
00:39:55,710 --> 00:39:56,408
was it?
557
00:39:56,410 --> 00:39:57,049
It was his.
558
00:39:57,050 --> 00:40:00,310
Yeah, and when he first told you about
it, what were your thoughts?
559
00:40:00,860 --> 00:40:02,440
Are you crazy? Like, what am I doing
wrong?
560
00:40:02,740 --> 00:40:05,720
Like, you know, like... Wide -eyed
enough.
561
00:40:05,940 --> 00:40:09,020
Yeah, yeah. That type of thing, you
know? Yeah. What was it like for you
562
00:40:09,020 --> 00:40:10,020
night?
563
00:40:10,820 --> 00:40:14,320
It was a lot last night. It wasn't what
I expected, I guess.
564
00:40:14,660 --> 00:40:19,020
Seeing her with, like, another guy, it
was hot. It really was. You know, got
565
00:40:19,020 --> 00:40:19,879
motor running.
566
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:24,160
And then later on, the old questions pop
in. You know, was he better, you know,
567
00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:27,720
bigger or smaller? Just kind of... Those
aren't really normal, common concerns.
568
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:29,160
Yeah. No, she's not going to leave me
over her penis.
569
00:40:29,500 --> 00:40:30,980
When one just does, I'm always top dog.
570
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:33,200
Now it's like, am I really top dog
anymore?
571
00:40:33,780 --> 00:40:38,320
Yeah. So in the moment, it seemed fine.
Yeah, it was awesome. You were actually
572
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:42,840
aroused by it. Yeah, and then when you
started thinking about it, then you had
573
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:45,660
those insecurities. Nikki, what's that
like for you?
574
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:50,300
I felt bad last night just because he
didn't think anything. He got stuck with
575
00:40:50,300 --> 00:40:54,400
me, which, you know, it probably isn't a
bad thing, but, you know, he gets that
576
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:56,480
all the time when he wants something
different, you know?
577
00:40:56,920 --> 00:41:00,870
The way the cards fell that night
just... All the girls went somewhere
578
00:41:00,930 --> 00:41:02,030
Maybe they're not attracted to me.
579
00:41:02,350 --> 00:41:07,510
Maybe I just can't close the deal. But
until I get my half of it or whatever, I
580
00:41:07,510 --> 00:41:09,770
won't really know if it's something that
we want to do. Like watching her last
581
00:41:09,770 --> 00:41:11,710
night, we could do that again. It'd be
awesome.
582
00:41:12,050 --> 00:41:15,150
But I just don't want it to be where I'm
always like the third wheel.
583
00:41:15,470 --> 00:41:20,150
I feel bad because I feel like he's not
really getting, I guess, the whole
584
00:41:20,150 --> 00:41:22,790
benefit of the whole swinging thing.
585
00:41:23,050 --> 00:41:28,010
So you won't feel so bad if he's able to
be sexually pleased by another woman?
586
00:41:28,110 --> 00:41:31,040
No. Do you feel bad now that you had sex
with another guy?
587
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:35,340
I feel bad because he didn't get any
attention.
588
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,020
So you feel bad for him? For him, yes.
589
00:41:39,260 --> 00:41:40,600
You don't feel bad about what you did?
590
00:41:40,820 --> 00:41:42,500
No. Not at all.
591
00:41:45,130 --> 00:41:49,270
I can see it sounds like you're both
open to having some other experiences.
592
00:41:49,750 --> 00:41:55,790
And if that should happen, to make sure
that, again, you two are really
593
00:41:55,790 --> 00:41:59,930
communicating. And just go out there and
enjoy the rest of your time here. Okay.
594
00:41:59,950 --> 00:42:00,950
Thank you. You're welcome.
595
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:24,640
Sandy, how are you? Yeah. What time did
you guys end up going in last night?
596
00:42:24,740 --> 00:42:26,100
Probably about 3 .30. Yeah.
597
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:33,540
So did you guys have any concerns or
issues from your night that you had to
598
00:42:33,540 --> 00:42:34,540
through?
599
00:42:35,240 --> 00:42:36,460
No, not really. I didn't.
600
00:42:37,020 --> 00:42:38,660
We enjoyed it. I have no regrets last
night.
601
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:40,120
It's all about experiences.
602
00:42:40,340 --> 00:42:43,180
Some are learning experiences. Some are
just experiences. You sit back and go,
603
00:42:43,220 --> 00:42:44,720
ha, ha, ha, ha, you know.
604
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:47,440
And it's fun for you guys to have this
experience.
605
00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:48,779
It is.
606
00:42:48,780 --> 00:42:49,780
I'm glad I came.
607
00:42:49,950 --> 00:42:50,950
I'm glad you came.
608
00:42:51,130 --> 00:42:54,190
Even though we decided not to do it, I'm
still glad I came, because at least by
609
00:42:54,190 --> 00:42:56,290
then I'll know it's not for me or it's
for me.
610
00:42:56,630 --> 00:42:58,410
I'm glad you came.
611
00:43:00,250 --> 00:43:06,190
Me or... Both of you. Oh, God. You never
know where you're going to find a
612
00:43:06,190 --> 00:43:10,370
friend. Nikki and Daryl came here
looking for that something special, and
613
00:43:10,370 --> 00:43:14,390
to give it to them. I got to have sex
with Nikki and have a great time, and he
614
00:43:14,390 --> 00:43:17,530
got to watch her have sex and probably
do some things with me he's never seen
615
00:43:17,530 --> 00:43:21,400
before. It was just a great night all
the way around. When new people come
616
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:26,200
the lifestyle, I think there's a dynamic
that they don't understand yet. When
617
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:30,200
you're married, your spouse's emotions
are now number one to you.
618
00:43:30,500 --> 00:43:34,700
So when, you know, I could be getting
really turned on and I could be having a
619
00:43:34,700 --> 00:43:38,900
great time and I look over and I see my
husband and he's not playing. We're not
620
00:43:38,900 --> 00:43:42,760
feeling it. He's not having a good
night. It doesn't matter what my
621
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:43,780
at that point in time.
622
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:46,580
His emotions are number one and I need
to cater to him.
623
00:43:47,230 --> 00:43:51,570
And unfortunately, sometimes what
happens is because I need to cater to
624
00:43:51,590 --> 00:43:56,550
then to me, other people can feel
shunned or hurt.
625
00:43:56,770 --> 00:44:02,810
So initially, like I kind of didn't even
allow myself to really get into what
626
00:44:02,810 --> 00:44:07,550
was going on last night just because I'm
thinking of how is this going to work?
627
00:44:07,750 --> 00:44:14,310
How are we going to make everybody happy
here? And so I had to cater to him and
628
00:44:14,310 --> 00:44:16,010
say, okay, we have to pull back.
629
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:21,560
no matter what I might be feeling.
Kristen said that just because a woman
630
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:24,560
attracted to me, but it may not be me,
but it might be just an issue with her
631
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:29,140
husband that they have a rule that she
can't play with me even though she wants
632
00:44:29,140 --> 00:44:32,220
to just because of this issue that's
going on with their significant other,
633
00:44:32,300 --> 00:44:35,240
which I took to heart because sometimes
I take it personal.
634
00:44:35,780 --> 00:44:39,540
You never know what the dynamics are.
635
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:43,280
Generally, the hardest thing is to learn
to not take things personal.
636
00:44:43,980 --> 00:44:49,140
and it's really, really hard to do.
Sometimes things hurt, and you have to
637
00:44:49,220 --> 00:44:50,860
you know, I am a good guy.
638
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:55,240
I'm married to a great girl, so there
probably was something else going on.
639
00:44:55,460 --> 00:44:57,760
But you still look in the mirror and go,
yeah, that's probably not me.
640
00:44:58,700 --> 00:45:03,720
Daryl did not get any action, and it
comes out that, you know, there's some
641
00:45:03,720 --> 00:45:07,360
personal issues that the couples are
going through, and so it wasn't nothing
642
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:09,800
do with Daryl, and I think that made him
feel a lot better.
643
00:45:10,660 --> 00:45:11,660
Hello.
644
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:12,920
Hi.
645
00:45:12,980 --> 00:45:13,980
How is everybody?
646
00:45:14,140 --> 00:45:15,140
Good. How are you?
647
00:45:15,180 --> 00:45:16,180
I'm good.
648
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:18,400
Alas, I'm the buzzkill.
649
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:23,440
Yeah. It's time for you guys to sort of
say your goodbyes to everybody. Time for
650
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:25,900
you guys to say your goodbyes to them.
And then you want to meet me out front?
651
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:28,120
I'll see you soon.
652
00:45:29,180 --> 00:45:32,280
When Darrell had first talked to me
about swinging, I thought he was crazy.
653
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:33,280
was never going to happen.
654
00:45:33,610 --> 00:45:37,550
but actually as an experience in it, I
think it's going to be a great thing.
655
00:45:37,550 --> 00:45:38,670
communication is there.
656
00:45:38,910 --> 00:45:43,870
You're able to go out and have fun and
have sex with other people without being
657
00:45:43,870 --> 00:45:47,010
jealous and just without cheating.
658
00:45:47,660 --> 00:45:48,660
All right, darling.
659
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:50,640
We'll see you guys.
660
00:45:50,780 --> 00:45:55,620
Say goodbye to the couple. It's kind of
sad.
661
00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:57,720
They're not afraid to hide anything.
662
00:45:58,000 --> 00:45:59,720
They're not afraid to flirt or, you
know, have a good time.
663
00:45:59,920 --> 00:46:03,280
Just to be themselves and be honest with
each other. Thank you for sharing your
664
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:07,940
beautiful... I had a lot of good
conversations with everybody. I'm not
665
00:46:07,940 --> 00:46:09,420
call any of these folks my friends at
all.
666
00:46:09,660 --> 00:46:10,660
Nice meeting you guys. Bye, guys.
667
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:21,520
Okay, there's just one more thing before
you guys go back to your regular life.
668
00:46:21,580 --> 00:46:25,160
I have the contract that you signed when
you got here. Remember that? Yes. Gave
669
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:29,000
you permission to hook up with other
people. So do you want to tear it up
670
00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:32,800
million little pieces, forget any of
this ever happened? Do you want to put
671
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:33,960
in the family album?
672
00:46:34,220 --> 00:46:38,740
I guess what I'm asking is, was this a
fling, or do you think you want to swing
673
00:46:38,740 --> 00:46:39,740
again?
674
00:46:50,830 --> 00:46:51,830
I thought you were going to swing.
675
00:46:53,710 --> 00:46:56,850
Well, thank you, you guys. You've been
really great guests. Thanks for having
676
00:46:56,850 --> 00:46:58,490
us. Have a safe trip home. Thank you.
677
00:46:58,850 --> 00:46:59,890
There you go. Yep.
678
00:47:03,510 --> 00:47:05,790
It was a good time. It was an awesome
experience.
679
00:47:06,830 --> 00:47:12,710
And I'm glad that we could, I'm glad me
and Nikki could do this on a kind of
680
00:47:12,710 --> 00:47:13,830
like a trial by fire basis.
681
00:47:14,270 --> 00:47:17,610
And we were trusting enough to each
other, give each other a free pass just
682
00:47:17,610 --> 00:47:18,850
do it. It was awesome.
683
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:22,100
I guess what I had built in my head, the
whole perfect fantasy when it comes to
684
00:47:22,100 --> 00:47:23,140
real life, now it's perfect.
685
00:47:23,820 --> 00:47:27,440
But I enjoyed watching you get pleased.
686
00:47:28,260 --> 00:47:29,260
It was awesome.
687
00:47:29,740 --> 00:47:33,620
It's still a fantasy, but it wasn't, I
guess, the main one that I wanted to
688
00:47:33,620 --> 00:47:37,420
fulfill this time. Any fantasies that
you fulfilled or didn't fulfill that you
689
00:47:37,420 --> 00:47:38,058
wanted to?
690
00:47:38,060 --> 00:47:41,120
I'm going to have to say mine was not
fulfilled.
691
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:43,480
It's because I wanted to see you get
pleased.
692
00:47:44,620 --> 00:47:45,620
Awesome.
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