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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:11,220 If you think swingers are something out of 70s movies and back -of -the -rack 2 00:00:11,220 --> 00:00:13,400 magazines, think again. 3 00:00:14,060 --> 00:00:19,280 These days, couples from all walks of life are embracing the lifestyle, and 4 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:23,340 they're changing the way people think about marriage. I'm standing outside a 5 00:00:23,340 --> 00:00:28,220 luxurious mansion with some sexy, very happy couples. 6 00:00:28,940 --> 00:00:30,980 are having the time of their lives. 7 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:36,220 Now a new couple who's never done anything like this before is about to 8 00:00:36,220 --> 00:00:37,260 on the action, too. 9 00:00:37,540 --> 00:00:38,680 Take a look at this. 10 00:00:39,900 --> 00:00:41,480 Hi, I'm Daryl. Nikki. 11 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:42,940 And we're from Barfield, California. 12 00:00:43,220 --> 00:00:44,900 We've been married for seven and a half years. 13 00:00:45,220 --> 00:00:47,640 I am very happy with my current sex life. 14 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:49,080 I always wish I could have more. 15 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:52,960 It feels like to have sex five times a day, every day. 16 00:00:53,180 --> 00:00:58,040 I'm looking for just overall sexual raw energy, like fun, excitement. 17 00:00:58,510 --> 00:01:01,590 I'm interacting with guys and girls, so I'm pretty open. 18 00:01:02,210 --> 00:01:04,489 We're here to find out if it's cool or not. 19 00:01:04,690 --> 00:01:10,050 I'm giving Daryl and Nikki an exclusive pass into the hot, passionate, clothing 20 00:01:10,050 --> 00:01:12,570 -optional party going on inside. 21 00:01:14,190 --> 00:01:18,490 Can they really share their partner with someone else? And how will it affect 22 00:01:18,490 --> 00:01:19,490 their relationship? 23 00:01:19,690 --> 00:01:22,110 I'm Anna David. Hold on tight. 24 00:01:22,570 --> 00:01:24,090 This is Twig. 25 00:01:37,810 --> 00:01:39,190 Well, I think this is like a big step for us. 26 00:01:39,550 --> 00:01:40,570 I think it's going to be awesome. 27 00:01:41,050 --> 00:01:43,290 It'll be just another day in paradise. 28 00:01:43,870 --> 00:01:46,350 It was Daryl's idea to start swinging. 29 00:01:46,570 --> 00:01:49,450 I thought he was crazy. There's no way. You know, what am I doing wrong? 30 00:01:49,870 --> 00:01:53,590 I'm really nervous and scared, wondering what these people are going to be like. 31 00:01:54,730 --> 00:01:57,630 You know, I'd like to see you get pleased by a guy. I think it's going to 32 00:01:57,630 --> 00:01:59,890 awesome. The group dynamic, definitely the whole girl -girl thing. 33 00:02:00,690 --> 00:02:02,370 But overall, I'd like to see you just... 34 00:02:02,620 --> 00:02:07,280 to be yourself and have a good time. That's really what this is about, us as 35 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:11,980 couple. After having a couple of kids, I was kind of looking for extra stuff to 36 00:02:11,980 --> 00:02:13,500 spice up our relationship and marriage. 37 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:15,920 So I kind of came upon this whole swinging thing. 38 00:02:16,260 --> 00:02:20,280 After a year of talking to her, she kind of gave me a good thumbs up, said, 39 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:21,219 let's try it. 40 00:02:21,220 --> 00:02:25,500 Ultimately, I guess it was my decision, but since it's a team effort, I couldn't 41 00:02:25,500 --> 00:02:26,500 have done it without her. 42 00:02:26,980 --> 00:02:27,980 Honey, we're home. 43 00:02:35,300 --> 00:02:36,300 We're here. Are you ready? 44 00:02:36,900 --> 00:02:37,900 Ready as I'm going to get. 45 00:02:37,940 --> 00:02:38,940 Let's do this. 46 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:44,000 Hi. 47 00:02:44,300 --> 00:02:45,300 I'm Anna. Nikki. 48 00:02:46,060 --> 00:02:47,140 And you must be Daryl. 49 00:02:47,340 --> 00:02:48,980 Yes, ma 'am. Nice to meet you both. 50 00:02:49,420 --> 00:02:50,540 How are you guys doing? Good. 51 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:52,620 Outstanding. Outstanding. Outstanding. 52 00:02:53,020 --> 00:02:55,640 Any nervousness? Any butterflies? 53 00:02:55,980 --> 00:02:58,780 That's why I'm so outstanding. I'm just bundling nerves right now. You're 54 00:02:58,780 --> 00:02:59,780 outstandingly nervous? Yes. 55 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:01,080 There's just one thing. 56 00:03:01,300 --> 00:03:04,040 Before I let you loose in the house, we need to talk about something. So you 57 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:04,759 want to follow me? 58 00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:06,760 Yes, ma 'am. All right. All right, let's do it. 59 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:15,260 I introduced you to the lifestyle because that's kind of where I knew I 60 00:03:15,260 --> 00:03:16,260 to be always. 61 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:20,520 Funny because you didn't really introduce me. You just kind of threw me 62 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:22,560 It's a good thing I'm a good swimmer. 63 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:27,200 So, what I have here is a contract. 64 00:03:27,460 --> 00:03:31,500 Okay. And we're going to sign it, and it basically says that, you know, you give 65 00:03:31,500 --> 00:03:33,960 each other permission to hook up with other people while you're here. 66 00:03:34,460 --> 00:03:37,420 Right now, we're on the threshold of something that a lot of people dream 67 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:40,040 a lot of people fantasize about. And here we are, ready to take that step 68 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:41,040 the threshold. 69 00:03:41,180 --> 00:03:42,860 One of you want to actually read it out loud? 70 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:45,000 I'll do that. 71 00:03:45,300 --> 00:03:49,500 We have agreed to take part in a sexual venture over the next two days, during 72 00:03:49,500 --> 00:03:53,320 which all the normal rules of a monogamous relationship will be 73 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:56,940 aside. We promise not to hold what happens here against each other once the 74 00:03:56,940 --> 00:04:00,140 venture is over. What happens in the swing house stays in the swing house. 75 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:02,860 Daryl and I have been together for almost nine years. 76 00:04:03,290 --> 00:04:07,350 Coming to the house, I was really scared, not knowing what was going to 77 00:04:07,490 --> 00:04:11,590 I'm hoping for just overall good time with a bunch of different couples. 78 00:04:11,930 --> 00:04:15,150 Any special rules we have for each other during our time will be written in the 79 00:04:15,150 --> 00:04:19,709 space below. We hope to have fun and explore everything the lifestyle has to 80 00:04:19,709 --> 00:04:23,250 offer, knowing that the ultimate goal is a stronger, healthier, more fulfilling 81 00:04:23,250 --> 00:04:28,550 relationship. Okay, so do you have any of these additional rules? And if so, 82 00:04:28,550 --> 00:04:29,810 you write them in the space there? 83 00:04:30,490 --> 00:04:33,030 Same room. Same room until we're comfortable? 84 00:04:33,450 --> 00:04:34,189 Mm -hmm. 85 00:04:34,190 --> 00:04:35,710 No taking one from the team. 86 00:04:36,050 --> 00:04:37,050 Yep. 87 00:04:37,130 --> 00:04:39,010 And then sign at the bottom. 88 00:04:46,250 --> 00:04:47,490 I'm going to hold on to this. 89 00:04:48,130 --> 00:04:52,570 So, why don't you guys, you know, go up to your room, get refreshed, do what you 90 00:04:52,570 --> 00:04:55,790 want to do, and come downstairs. I know the other guys are excited to meet you. 91 00:04:56,110 --> 00:04:57,089 Ready to do this? 92 00:04:57,090 --> 00:04:58,130 Yep. All standing. 93 00:05:05,340 --> 00:05:06,700 Huge. Awesome. 94 00:05:07,820 --> 00:05:09,300 This house is amazing. 95 00:05:09,540 --> 00:05:12,840 It's huge. It has a lot of things that I would like in my own personal house, so 96 00:05:12,840 --> 00:05:14,180 I'm ecstatic. 97 00:05:14,780 --> 00:05:15,739 Are you nervous? 98 00:05:15,740 --> 00:05:19,540 I get nervous meeting new people anyway, even when I'm just being myself, and 99 00:05:19,540 --> 00:05:22,240 these people are going to see me naked. 100 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:24,420 We're going out to meet the couples. 101 00:05:25,220 --> 00:05:29,580 We're excited. We're nervous, wondering what these people are going to be like. 102 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:30,880 Rock and roll. 103 00:05:41,900 --> 00:05:43,120 How you guys doing? 104 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:44,480 I'm Nicoletta. Nikki. 105 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:47,900 Nikki, nice to meet you. I'm Daryl. Hi. 106 00:05:48,340 --> 00:05:53,380 I felt comfortable once I got out there. All of the couples that were out there, 107 00:05:53,420 --> 00:05:55,820 they were all very good looking. There was no weird vibes. 108 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:58,160 They just seemed like a great group of people. 109 00:05:58,740 --> 00:06:02,860 Hi, Ashley. Nice to meet you. Daryl. I don't really know if my jaw actually 110 00:06:02,860 --> 00:06:07,860 dropped and hit the ground, but I was shocked with the quality of people. 111 00:06:07,860 --> 00:06:09,220 single woman there is outstanding. 112 00:06:10,740 --> 00:06:13,140 And I stared at everybody's ass and tits. 113 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:15,160 Probably was annoying. 114 00:06:15,300 --> 00:06:16,460 Probably wouldn't do a very good job of peeking. 115 00:06:17,840 --> 00:06:21,160 More of like a... Darryl, it's Clayton. Nice to meet you. 116 00:06:21,540 --> 00:06:22,540 Hi, Amanda. 117 00:06:22,580 --> 00:06:24,500 Hi. I'm Black Guy 1. Black Guy 1. 118 00:06:25,660 --> 00:06:26,780 I'm Early. Nice to meet you. 119 00:06:27,020 --> 00:06:29,720 He's Early. I'm Clayton. Nice to meet you. You too? Darryl. Nice to meet you. 120 00:06:29,820 --> 00:06:30,940 Amanda. Amanda. Nikki. 121 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:32,139 Nice to meet you. 122 00:06:32,140 --> 00:06:34,640 I'm Mike. And you're Black Guy 2? Darryl. 123 00:06:35,540 --> 00:06:41,030 The first time we met, Nikki and her other half, They walked out the door. We 124 00:06:41,030 --> 00:06:42,030 all waved hello. 125 00:06:42,150 --> 00:06:43,370 I gave them a quick glance. 126 00:06:44,630 --> 00:06:49,530 And as she swept her eyes across the whole crowd, she looked at me for a 127 00:06:49,530 --> 00:06:53,210 second, but she didn't stare at me. And then she looked away. 128 00:06:53,690 --> 00:06:57,010 The lack of eye contact is what gave her away. 129 00:06:57,750 --> 00:07:01,130 So that the next time we made eye contact, I could totally read her 130 00:07:01,130 --> 00:07:04,050 her thought was, that guy I would do. 131 00:07:04,570 --> 00:07:05,790 So how long have you guys been together? 132 00:07:06,090 --> 00:07:07,970 We've been married seven, but we've been together nine. 133 00:07:09,540 --> 00:07:10,540 Nine days? 134 00:07:10,740 --> 00:07:11,740 Nine years. 135 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:16,580 Are you confident in your ability to communicate together and to be open 136 00:07:16,580 --> 00:07:17,600 things are happening? 137 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:23,140 First thing I know about Kristen, blonde hair, very gorgeous body and eyes and 138 00:07:23,140 --> 00:07:23,919 she had a good smile. 139 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:25,560 She was very open and warm. 140 00:07:25,900 --> 00:07:29,840 You know, are you wanting to do more girl action or are you guys okay with 141 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:30,960 exploring couples? 142 00:07:31,300 --> 00:07:35,960 I think we're pretty much open to... Or just good old -fashioned orgies. Just 143 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:38,500 about anything. Pretty open to... 144 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:41,820 Like I said, jumping head first in the water. Hopefully we don't hit our head 145 00:07:41,820 --> 00:07:42,759 the bottom of the pool. 146 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:45,280 What about you guys? We have a couple. No fish hooking, no eye gouging. 147 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:49,580 I think at one point in time we talked about no kissing, but then we're like... 148 00:07:49,850 --> 00:07:52,370 Kissing and sex is like peanut butter and jelly. It kind of meshes together. 149 00:07:52,710 --> 00:07:53,710 Okay, 150 00:07:54,670 --> 00:07:56,290 so I'm taking your drink orders really quick. 151 00:07:56,530 --> 00:07:57,530 Anybody need anything? 152 00:07:57,650 --> 00:07:59,110 Can I order a dirty leprechaun? 153 00:08:01,890 --> 00:08:07,350 Don't forget that Jeff, the body painter, is inside with his assistant, 154 00:08:07,550 --> 00:08:09,370 So as soon as you guys get a chance, go get painted. 155 00:08:09,850 --> 00:08:11,890 And he's amazing. 156 00:08:13,150 --> 00:08:16,450 Awesome. Sexy body painting. I've never seen it done. 157 00:08:16,690 --> 00:08:17,669 I've seen pictures online. 158 00:08:17,670 --> 00:08:18,910 I've never seen it before in person. 159 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:23,780 But I like a room with full sexual intention and a pool of cool people. 160 00:08:23,780 --> 00:08:25,060 what I had envisioned. 161 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:31,760 You know, when a new couple comes in and exploring fantasies with them, it's 162 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:35,919 just so much easier if they're confident enough to say what they're looking for 163 00:08:35,919 --> 00:08:37,020 and to say what they want. 164 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:43,080 They know that we're more experienced and that we're apt to help them achieve 165 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:44,980 that. And not only... 166 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:51,020 Telling us their fantasies, but also discussing between each other before so 167 00:08:51,020 --> 00:08:57,920 it's not a surprise to them when You know I want to be tied up comes out and 168 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:02,600 other partner just freaks out and and knowing what their boundaries are and 169 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:07,740 bringing it up to us correct and Letting what happened happen? 170 00:09:15,199 --> 00:09:21,320 The first shocker for me is when I looked over and there are girls naked, 171 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:23,480 completely fuck -ass naked. 172 00:09:23,700 --> 00:09:25,980 It was extremely smoking hot. 173 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:27,940 All right. Okay. 174 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:29,280 Get you started. 175 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:33,840 So we get inside, and Megan sits down to nothing real quick. Now, I'm used to 176 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:40,760 that. But Daryl, he was like... I thought it was the funniest 177 00:09:40,760 --> 00:09:41,760 thing I ever saw. 178 00:09:44,860 --> 00:09:48,020 Sometimes when you have new couples in this environment for the first time, you 179 00:09:48,020 --> 00:09:50,980 have to take them by the hand and leave them. Megan and I have done that for a 180 00:09:50,980 --> 00:09:51,980 lot of new couples. 181 00:09:52,060 --> 00:09:55,000 We really like doing it, and we are really good at it. 182 00:10:03,940 --> 00:10:07,660 As the other girls were getting body painted, at that time I was not hoping 183 00:10:07,660 --> 00:10:09,380 it was me because I was feeling nervous. 184 00:10:15,990 --> 00:10:18,490 And halfway through playing with them, you could even be like, I'm sorry, I'm 185 00:10:18,490 --> 00:10:20,490 not really feeling it. Like, I thought I would. 186 00:10:20,810 --> 00:10:23,950 And nobody's going to judge you. Nobody's going to be like, oh, well, you 187 00:10:24,290 --> 00:10:26,350 Or if you even just say no. 188 00:10:26,610 --> 00:10:30,810 All the girls had a lot of good information about the whole swinging 189 00:10:31,190 --> 00:10:33,450 After talking about it, I loosened up. 190 00:10:33,910 --> 00:10:38,530 Some of the newbies, when they get into the lifestyle, they come not of any 191 00:10:38,530 --> 00:10:40,790 fault of their own, but with their roles, they never pass this. 192 00:10:41,390 --> 00:10:43,190 And they're all in anticipation. 193 00:10:43,890 --> 00:10:47,790 It takes an awful lot of time to break. It takes time to get past that. It 194 00:10:47,790 --> 00:10:48,790 really does. 195 00:10:48,870 --> 00:10:51,650 Everybody asks that same question. How do you deal with the jealousy? 196 00:10:52,230 --> 00:10:54,650 Jealousy is an emotion based in insecurity. 197 00:10:55,190 --> 00:10:56,650 Plain and simple. Or trust. 198 00:10:57,570 --> 00:11:03,150 Well, it's either insecurity in the relationship or insecurity within 199 00:11:03,150 --> 00:11:06,610 themselves. So, yeah, lack of trust is an insecurity in a relationship. 200 00:11:06,870 --> 00:11:08,250 Absolutely. You're not secure. 201 00:11:09,770 --> 00:11:10,770 Who's next? 202 00:11:11,740 --> 00:11:12,780 Nikki is next. 203 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:14,840 Nikki, you said you're next. 204 00:11:15,700 --> 00:11:16,960 Are you going to get body painted? 205 00:11:17,180 --> 00:11:18,180 Yeah. 206 00:11:18,380 --> 00:11:19,700 Have fun. 207 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:23,780 I've never been body painted, and I was really nervous, but it was an experience 208 00:11:23,780 --> 00:11:24,780 I didn't want to miss. 209 00:11:25,060 --> 00:11:26,440 You ready? Yeah. Okay. 210 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:30,320 After having a few drinks, I felt really comfortable getting body painted. I 211 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:32,300 took all my clothes off. Don't worry, honey, it won't hurt. 212 00:11:41,620 --> 00:11:44,680 One thing that's been really important to me as a body painter is the person's 213 00:11:44,680 --> 00:11:47,460 comfort level and what they're real comfortable with. You can usually tell 214 00:11:47,460 --> 00:11:48,419 off the bat. 215 00:11:48,420 --> 00:11:51,160 If somebody wants to get naked, they'll just stand there, get naked, and boom, 216 00:11:51,260 --> 00:11:52,260 they're right on the table. 217 00:11:52,560 --> 00:11:56,180 So what I'll do is if somebody isn't too sure whether they want to be naked, 218 00:11:56,260 --> 00:11:59,680 we'll paint the top first, and then ask for comfort. If she starts to feel more 219 00:11:59,680 --> 00:12:03,040 and more comfortable about it, realize what the body paint is, and we kind of 220 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:04,040 progress on it. 221 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:08,400 I go down there looking at her, watching the brush, and paint her form a little 222 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:10,940 bit. It was awesome. The girl's being completely naked. 223 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:14,140 But you're not really seeing anything because everything's all painted. It's 224 00:12:14,140 --> 00:12:15,140 very hot. 225 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:17,160 Swing's all about you. 226 00:12:17,780 --> 00:12:19,100 It's about you as a couple. 227 00:12:19,620 --> 00:12:21,620 You're the most important part of Swing. 228 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:25,720 Because without you being a couple, it's just another single part. 229 00:12:26,180 --> 00:12:27,820 So you guys having a good time so far? 230 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:30,020 Yes, it's very fun. I enjoy myself. 231 00:12:30,300 --> 00:12:33,840 After getting naked and getting body painted, I felt really comfortable 232 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:37,060 all the girls were naked and body painted as well. 233 00:12:39,600 --> 00:12:42,920 I know, like, when we first started talking about it, she was, like I said, 234 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:44,620 they, moms don't do this. 235 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:47,440 When she relaxes and she's herself, she's awesome. 236 00:12:47,680 --> 00:12:51,280 Now she walks around naked, so, yeah. You know, people have their little boxes 237 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:54,380 sometimes, and they can't escape that box. They're going to try to make you 238 00:12:54,380 --> 00:12:59,440 bad about yourself, you know? And that's just, when you say, oh, I'm a mom, how 239 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:00,319 do I feel? 240 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:01,320 Are you still a person? 241 00:13:02,100 --> 00:13:04,440 Just because you had kids, just because you have a family. 242 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:07,520 It doesn't mean you're not a person and you don't have things you like to do. 243 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:11,260 Just because you're a mom, it doesn't have to define you. You can still fish, 244 00:13:11,460 --> 00:13:14,940 ski, have group sex, whatever you like to do. That is true. It ain't no 245 00:13:14,940 --> 00:13:18,620 different from baseball practice or any other thing you do as a family. It's 246 00:13:18,620 --> 00:13:20,020 just a different thing you like to do. 247 00:13:20,340 --> 00:13:21,340 So I got a plan. 248 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:24,700 Now I just have to go out and execute it. As long as Daryl's cool with it, 249 00:13:24,700 --> 00:13:25,900 will be a very interesting night. 250 00:13:26,380 --> 00:13:28,420 You know, life is short. 251 00:13:29,460 --> 00:13:30,880 May not have a lot of time in the future. 252 00:13:31,660 --> 00:13:33,740 I know what I'd like to have happen tonight. 253 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:36,080 I'd like to get to know Nikki in the bedroom. 254 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:39,120 So in the world of Karen, there are always three P's. 255 00:13:39,980 --> 00:13:42,180 Patience, persistence, and perseverance. 256 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:44,480 And three P's will get you four. 257 00:13:45,020 --> 00:13:47,260 And that's whatever the fourth P you want it to be. 258 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:49,040 Prosperity, pussy. 259 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:53,800 Okay, guys, so it's time to get ready for the night. You're going to go 260 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:56,980 upstairs, do your last touch -up, and come back down here when you're done. 261 00:13:57,720 --> 00:13:58,720 Ready? 262 00:13:59,620 --> 00:14:02,560 I think people in the lifestyle definitely have... 263 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:07,800 at least 10 times more sex than vanilla couples because we appreciate it more 264 00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:11,020 and we keep it interesting and we know how to spice it up. 265 00:14:11,940 --> 00:14:15,440 Even if it's the same person, after you've been with somebody else, it 266 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:17,180 feel like the same person when you go back. 267 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:35,040 I can see us having fun with anybody. I mean, 268 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:42,260 I guess it's kind of broad in general, but I think... Earlier in the day, Daryl 269 00:14:42,260 --> 00:14:46,320 had actually planned Garen out and was like, yeah, you think he's cute and 270 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:47,420 you're going to hook up with him. 271 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:49,040 And I'm like, okay, yeah, whatever. 272 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:50,680 But he was cute. 273 00:14:51,860 --> 00:14:52,860 How about you? 274 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:53,880 I thought that's all of them. 275 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:56,660 That's a top -out answer. 276 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:02,060 Really happy with the communication level that this couple has. 277 00:15:02,260 --> 00:15:06,260 He definitely knows how to communicate with her more, and I think that if 278 00:15:06,260 --> 00:15:09,700 they're uncomfortable with something, I'm thinking they're going to be more 279 00:15:09,700 --> 00:15:10,740 comfortable voicing it. 280 00:15:11,140 --> 00:15:14,420 You know, I sat down and talked to her, and she actually seems pretty confident, 281 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:15,520 pretty straightforward. 282 00:15:15,860 --> 00:15:17,500 She seems to be okay with everything. 283 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:22,340 I didn't get a sense of any boundaries with them other than they want it to be 284 00:15:22,340 --> 00:15:24,520 fun, and as long as it's fun, they're fine with it. 285 00:15:25,460 --> 00:15:27,460 Got any idea what you think is going to happen tonight? 286 00:15:27,930 --> 00:15:34,690 Um, I think it'll happen a little bit, maybe role reversal, where maybe you 287 00:15:34,690 --> 00:15:38,690 can just jump in the middle and I'll just stand in the back. Because I don't 288 00:15:38,690 --> 00:15:40,350 feel like she's really in the girl. 289 00:15:40,690 --> 00:15:43,830 I don't know where it's going to go, but I do know at some point. Once I've got 290 00:15:43,830 --> 00:15:47,390 the all clear from her guy, I'm just going to walk up to her and take her by 291 00:15:47,390 --> 00:15:48,970 hand and see if she follows me. 292 00:15:49,210 --> 00:15:52,550 But I just got this really strong feeling that she'll follow me. 293 00:15:52,930 --> 00:15:57,110 Do you have anybody picked out or is that on? 294 00:16:09,700 --> 00:16:15,060 Sometimes we go to a party and nothing happens and that's okay. We have fun 295 00:16:15,060 --> 00:16:18,360 about anywhere we go. So it doesn't really matter. And that's kind of what 296 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:21,680 focused on. So you may go to a party and nothing happened. 297 00:16:21,880 --> 00:16:24,680 You may go to a party and just flirt all night. 298 00:16:25,070 --> 00:16:30,710 You know, if we go to a party with expectations, that's where we found that 299 00:16:30,710 --> 00:16:32,030 have issues, that we get upset. 300 00:16:32,410 --> 00:16:38,210 If you go in without expectations and you just let things happen the way they 301 00:16:38,210 --> 00:16:42,950 naturally will happen, and your focus is just having a good time, you'll end up 302 00:16:42,950 --> 00:16:48,190 having a good time. And if it ends up going somewhere, fantastic. But if not, 303 00:16:48,190 --> 00:16:49,190 get to go home with him. 304 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:06,720 Okay, so you guys ready for your first night in the lifestyle? 305 00:17:07,319 --> 00:17:08,700 Yes, most definitely. 306 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:11,740 And how are you feeling? Are we, like, excited, nervous? 307 00:17:12,339 --> 00:17:15,960 I think I'm a little over the nervous bug and more excited now. 308 00:17:16,839 --> 00:17:19,460 So, see anything you like around here? 309 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:21,800 Most definitely. 310 00:17:22,220 --> 00:17:26,200 Well, remember, this is not window shopping. You actually get to touch. 311 00:17:27,230 --> 00:17:30,190 You have to live with what happens. You don't get to, like, wake up tomorrow 312 00:17:30,190 --> 00:17:33,830 morning, have an extra person in your bed, and go, what the hell are they 313 00:17:33,830 --> 00:17:34,890 here? You know what I'm saying? 314 00:17:35,150 --> 00:17:36,910 Only if you drink too much, you'll remember it. 315 00:17:38,350 --> 00:17:43,950 May I propose a toast to a night of indecent proposals? 316 00:17:44,630 --> 00:17:45,630 Outstanding. Cheers. 317 00:17:45,950 --> 00:17:47,030 Cheers. Cheers. 318 00:17:48,510 --> 00:17:51,850 Have a blast, guys. And who knows, maybe even more than one blast. 319 00:17:52,370 --> 00:17:54,530 There you go. Right now, I'm feeling... 320 00:17:54,890 --> 00:17:55,890 I'm excited. 321 00:17:55,930 --> 00:18:00,310 Hey, I think it's a good time for us fellas to adjourn to the living room and 322 00:18:00,310 --> 00:18:03,250 let's let the girls give us a nice little fashion show with their new body 323 00:18:03,250 --> 00:18:04,250 paint. Okay. 324 00:18:04,470 --> 00:18:05,470 Sounded like a plan. 325 00:18:06,750 --> 00:18:10,410 Sounded like a good idea at the time, but then I got really nervous and didn't 326 00:18:10,410 --> 00:18:11,249 want to do it. 327 00:18:11,250 --> 00:18:13,190 I was still just really nervous. 328 00:18:19,790 --> 00:18:20,790 Megan, 329 00:18:21,150 --> 00:18:23,430 she has an outstanding body. 330 00:18:25,250 --> 00:18:29,530 Pan everything's where it's supposed to be and you know, so it's outstandingly 331 00:18:29,530 --> 00:18:30,530 awesome. 332 00:18:35,550 --> 00:18:38,630 Ashley is probably more my type than anybody. She's a petite blonde. 333 00:18:39,350 --> 00:18:43,490 Yeah, definitely more my quote -unquote type for Miss Ashley. 334 00:18:46,470 --> 00:18:51,230 I love fashion shows. Seeing sexy ladies stretch themselves is my definite idea 335 00:18:51,230 --> 00:18:52,230 of a good time. 336 00:18:56,220 --> 00:18:57,480 Nicolette seems gorgeous. 337 00:18:57,700 --> 00:19:03,740 The blonde hair, the tall, just awesome personality. First impressions, just 338 00:19:03,740 --> 00:19:04,740 amazing. 339 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:10,200 I was really nervous about the fashion show, and I didn't want to do it, but 340 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:11,900 Kristen helped me out, so I walked out with her. 341 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:19,640 I felt weird just because I was the last one. I think I'd have been better if I 342 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:21,840 was mixed up in the middle of it. 343 00:19:22,590 --> 00:19:23,590 Attention, everybody. 344 00:19:23,690 --> 00:19:29,950 We're going to play a game. We are going to mix Finn the cock and Jack Finn the 345 00:19:29,950 --> 00:19:30,950 hat. All right. 346 00:19:31,310 --> 00:19:34,970 So Nikki looks really good in her body paint, but it's obvious she's a little 347 00:19:34,970 --> 00:19:36,950 nervous. Hey, that happens sometimes. 348 00:19:37,430 --> 00:19:41,130 But once she settles in, once I flirt with her a little while and break that 349 00:19:41,130 --> 00:19:42,430 ice, I'll move in. 350 00:19:49,980 --> 00:19:51,860 Okay Have 351 00:19:51,860 --> 00:20:05,320 someone 352 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:10,720 lick and suck one body part you choose Wow 353 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:16,520 Okay, I choose Megan to lick 354 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:18,840 Amanda's pussy 355 00:20:31,710 --> 00:20:35,030 It was sexy seeing another woman to another woman. 356 00:20:36,250 --> 00:20:40,170 It was actually hot. 357 00:20:51,630 --> 00:20:57,150 Seeing that go on like live action porn is pretty awesome because they're both 358 00:20:57,150 --> 00:21:00,870 pretty smoking hot and the only way it could get better is if my wife was 359 00:21:00,870 --> 00:21:01,870 involved in it. 360 00:21:25,990 --> 00:21:29,770 Give the gift of one free blank to the person of choice. 361 00:21:30,150 --> 00:21:32,910 Whatever you want, you get to give to one person of your choice. 362 00:21:33,870 --> 00:21:35,310 Slow job. 363 00:21:36,950 --> 00:21:39,270 I get to give it, so you say I get to fuck you in the ass? 364 00:21:41,750 --> 00:21:48,590 So it's good to see that Nikki's not as nervous 365 00:21:48,590 --> 00:21:50,570 now. She's in a much more playful mood. 366 00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:54,720 Like the way this is going you're starting to float a little more and have 367 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:55,720 fun 368 00:22:33,430 --> 00:22:35,930 This one is my favorite. 369 00:22:36,870 --> 00:22:43,410 Ride the Sibian or command someone else to do until they 370 00:22:43,410 --> 00:22:49,590 orgasm. This is my favorite toy. Who wants to go Sibian? 371 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:51,580 I will make it cream tonight. 372 00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:55,200 Seeing that go on, like, it's outstanding. 373 00:22:55,700 --> 00:22:57,600 It's better than TV because it's all 3D. 374 00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:00,860 That's hotter than just about anything else I can think of. 375 00:23:04,820 --> 00:23:05,820 On top of this? 376 00:23:05,980 --> 00:23:06,980 Yeah. Okay. 377 00:23:29,900 --> 00:23:34,340 During the game, Garrett kept rubbing his feather on me and tickling me, and I 378 00:23:34,340 --> 00:23:36,020 thought that was a form of flirting. 379 00:23:37,100 --> 00:23:42,660 At that point in time, I was excited. I thought it was hot, it was exciting, and 380 00:23:42,660 --> 00:23:44,780 we should do it some more. 381 00:23:53,620 --> 00:23:59,160 So everyone gets real quiet watching Ashley and Nicoletta do their thing. 382 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:03,180 It's a huge turn on, so I'm really ready to take this thing to the next level. 383 00:24:03,820 --> 00:24:06,140 Oh, oh, yeah. 384 00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:08,700 Oh, oh, oh. 385 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:11,860 Oh, oh, oh. 386 00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:15,700 Oh, oh, oh. 387 00:24:16,020 --> 00:24:17,560 Oh, oh, oh. 388 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:21,100 Oh, oh, oh. 389 00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:25,480 I believe everybody's well on their way to get hot and heavy. Like for me, I 390 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:28,860 know it was a good start. I am ready to go. 391 00:24:29,610 --> 00:24:30,950 I'm hot and bothered. I love you. 392 00:24:34,190 --> 00:24:38,450 So the 393 00:24:38,450 --> 00:24:43,730 next plan of action is giving Nikki what she wants. 394 00:24:44,410 --> 00:24:47,690 So I'm going to have to find Daryl and sit down with Daryl and explain to him 395 00:24:47,690 --> 00:24:48,690 what's going on. 396 00:24:59,070 --> 00:25:00,510 But first, I always ask the guy's permission. 397 00:25:01,250 --> 00:25:04,130 Like, you know, is it cool that I pursued your idea? 398 00:25:05,110 --> 00:25:06,110 Why possibly? 399 00:25:06,330 --> 00:25:07,450 Okay, see, there you go. 400 00:25:08,610 --> 00:25:10,530 That's the most important part. Make sure you know how he feels. 401 00:25:11,270 --> 00:25:15,070 I was a little shocked when Garen had said that. 402 00:25:15,370 --> 00:25:19,610 I was kind of freaking out. I was like, wow, it's really going to happen. 403 00:25:20,110 --> 00:25:22,810 If you could give us a little time to talk about it, and we'll get back to 404 00:25:22,850 --> 00:25:23,850 sir. Perfect. 405 00:25:24,150 --> 00:25:25,150 That is perfect. 406 00:25:25,170 --> 00:25:27,850 Are you digging it? 407 00:25:28,580 --> 00:25:29,580 Are you digging him? 408 00:25:30,140 --> 00:25:31,780 Oh, yeah, but I'm not going to leave you left out. 409 00:25:33,620 --> 00:25:36,460 I mean, I'm cool with such the group thing. 410 00:25:37,100 --> 00:25:42,020 Let me know what you're looking for, you know, what you want, and then we can go 411 00:25:42,020 --> 00:25:43,020 from there and let him know. 412 00:25:44,060 --> 00:25:45,160 Okay. Deal? Yep. 413 00:25:46,900 --> 00:25:53,860 We had talked, and we decided that Daryl was not okay doing one -on -one, that 414 00:25:53,860 --> 00:25:56,000 he wanted to do the whole group dynamic. 415 00:25:56,700 --> 00:25:57,700 We're cool with it. 416 00:25:58,180 --> 00:26:01,920 Our biggest thing is I don't want to be left out, she don't want to be left out, 417 00:26:02,060 --> 00:26:06,840 and she's not sure if it's going to be a group thing or a one -on -one. We like 418 00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:07,840 to group it. Okay. 419 00:26:08,020 --> 00:26:09,420 I don't want to go play without my friends. 420 00:26:09,820 --> 00:26:13,580 I was longing for the whole party to be in one place. Oh, yeah, no, no, no. It's 421 00:26:13,580 --> 00:26:14,580 much more fun. 422 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:18,400 She didn't want me to be left out because... Oh, of course not. 423 00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:25,600 I don't want to be left out either, so... My girl, she's pretty much 90 % 424 00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:26,600 lesbian, 10%. 425 00:26:27,380 --> 00:26:31,260 whatever so That's all that you'd have to try to cut your own. 426 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:35,540 I'm gonna be a lot easier to do It's a really gross award to that, but that's 427 00:26:35,540 --> 00:26:38,860 what the whole group thing is. Yeah, everybody does things at their own speed 428 00:26:38,860 --> 00:26:44,440 You know we all have a good time I'm glad we can see eye to eye I like this 429 00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:46,440 my speed Alright, 430 00:26:48,060 --> 00:26:52,540 everybody we've come to the conclusion that we're all gonna take this party 431 00:26:52,540 --> 00:26:53,600 upstairs to the bedroom upstairs 432 00:26:54,360 --> 00:26:55,960 And have a good time, just like our game. 433 00:26:56,420 --> 00:26:57,420 Sounds good. 434 00:26:57,580 --> 00:27:00,620 When Daryl and Garen had come down to tell all the girls that we were going to 435 00:27:00,620 --> 00:27:05,540 go back upstairs, at that point in time, I was excited. I thought mine and 436 00:27:05,540 --> 00:27:06,820 Daryl's fantasy was going to come true. 437 00:27:32,789 --> 00:27:33,830 We get upstairs. 438 00:27:34,050 --> 00:27:35,049 Megan's not shy. 439 00:27:35,050 --> 00:27:39,210 She throws me down into bed, and she immediately starts to give me a feast to 440 00:27:39,210 --> 00:27:42,370 see it, and they realize, okay, we'll get comfortable and get started, and so 441 00:27:42,370 --> 00:27:44,850 they do the same, and we're ready to get this party started. 442 00:27:59,659 --> 00:28:03,280 So here we go. Megan gets things started like she always does. 443 00:28:03,740 --> 00:28:07,080 And when the time is right, I'm going to get Nikki and I'm going to show what 444 00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:08,240 the lifestyle is really all about. 445 00:28:10,300 --> 00:28:11,400 I did bring a towel. 446 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:17,360 We really didn't waste any time. 447 00:28:26,570 --> 00:28:27,930 We just got right down to business. 448 00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:12,840 There were three couples on our bed. It was hot. And at one point in time, I 449 00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:14,560 were on the bed. Me and Daryl were messing around. 450 00:29:15,100 --> 00:29:18,060 And then me and Darren started messing around. 451 00:29:31,700 --> 00:29:35,660 I am into the whole oral sex group pleasure thing. 452 00:29:36,260 --> 00:29:39,280 Everybody was having a good time. My wife started moaning like she was giving 453 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,120 head. I knew she was enjoying herself, so it was even more of a turn -on for 454 00:29:47,020 --> 00:29:50,480 Nikki's giving Daryl head, and I'm laying next to them, and I'm kind of 455 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:54,380 on her, letting her know I'm there, and really just letting them experience the 456 00:29:54,380 --> 00:29:56,720 experience of being not alone while having sex. 457 00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:58,360 So we're all good. 458 00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:02,220 Everything's a go. We just got to keep him comfortable, me comfortable, her 459 00:30:02,220 --> 00:30:04,400 comfortable, and most of all, Megan comfortable. 460 00:30:09,810 --> 00:30:10,810 Thank you. 461 00:31:14,410 --> 00:31:19,170 Me and Garen started fucking, and it was awesome. He has an amazing body. 462 00:32:01,500 --> 00:32:05,100 Nikki really let loose. She kind of let her hair down, so to speak. It really 463 00:32:05,100 --> 00:32:08,460 got kind of wild, and we both drifted off into some really good sex. 464 00:32:50,260 --> 00:32:56,140 This is a fantasy that she had, two guys and her, maybe even a deeper fantasy of 465 00:32:56,140 --> 00:32:57,140 the big black cock. 466 00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:01,080 And this is what we're about. We're still in fantasy and having a good time. 467 00:33:39,079 --> 00:33:44,240 Right now I'm feeling I have to work with the team because Clayton and 468 00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:46,980 they got so hot and bottled they wanted to have their own sex instead of sharing 469 00:33:46,980 --> 00:33:47,579 with everybody. 470 00:33:47,580 --> 00:33:49,720 I was hoping for... 471 00:33:50,460 --> 00:33:56,820 the whole group thing you know maybe maybe give me get another female on my 472 00:33:56,820 --> 00:34:02,040 well i can go down to her i probably failed to try to close the deal 473 00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:08,639 but i'm a happy person so i kind of i think the whole time it was hot 474 00:34:08,639 --> 00:34:15,420 um female life get pleasure karen ramon is a very very awesome thing for me 475 00:34:15,420 --> 00:34:18,179 because her fancy coming true tonight was 476 00:34:19,370 --> 00:34:20,630 An awesome gift just for myself. 477 00:34:20,969 --> 00:34:23,230 Even if it's something I can just give her one night. 478 00:35:03,690 --> 00:35:04,710 How do you feel about last night? 479 00:35:04,950 --> 00:35:07,030 Last night was interesting. 480 00:35:07,930 --> 00:35:11,390 A lot went on, a lot of cool stuff. 481 00:35:12,770 --> 00:35:16,510 Still kind of processing, trying to figure out where everything fits in. 482 00:35:16,910 --> 00:35:22,690 Last night was bittersweet. Not meeting my ideal foursome kind of was a downer. 483 00:35:22,730 --> 00:35:27,030 On the bright note, my wife got to achieve one of her fantasies, which I'm 484 00:35:27,030 --> 00:35:30,830 ecstatic for, and I'm sure I'll hear more stories about it later on when we 485 00:35:30,830 --> 00:35:31,830 home. 486 00:35:31,839 --> 00:35:35,760 Kind of took one for the team so to speak there's only like three people for 487 00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:39,280 people upstairs that I guess maybe he even heard that we're all coming up here 488 00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:43,440 and It's just so happy. They were just into women. 489 00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:50,700 I don't know I think how the The dice landed who hooked up with who and it's 490 00:35:50,700 --> 00:35:57,000 I enjoy watching and seeing you With the other guy and also with me same time, 491 00:35:57,020 --> 00:35:58,020 you know, too. 492 00:35:58,080 --> 00:35:59,080 That's just pretty hot 493 00:35:59,820 --> 00:36:02,400 I really don't feel like I took one for the team. I really don't. There's going 494 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:04,360 to be some fantasies that I may not be involved in. 495 00:36:04,860 --> 00:36:07,560 She may want to tie me to a chair and make me watch, which is cool. 496 00:36:07,860 --> 00:36:10,320 I respect that because I know she has fantasies about women, and sometimes 497 00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:13,360 women with me involved or women with just women. 498 00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:15,840 She's cool with it, or I'm cool with it. 499 00:36:16,380 --> 00:36:18,900 I absolutely did not take one for the team. I really didn't. 500 00:36:19,140 --> 00:36:22,500 I do wish that maybe some kind of action. 501 00:36:22,860 --> 00:36:24,480 Why? Because you get that at home. 502 00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:27,680 But it's still very nice. 503 00:36:27,700 --> 00:36:30,400 If you're not getting anything added, then it's kind of pointless. 504 00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:34,240 Even being with you, I'm not doing this to replace you, so it's not like you're 505 00:36:34,240 --> 00:36:37,540 not doing enough for me. You could just sit at home and be the babysitter, and I 506 00:36:37,540 --> 00:36:38,540 could go out and have fun. 507 00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:45,660 And this experience, I learned that Daryl is a lot more open to 508 00:36:45,660 --> 00:36:46,660 things than I thought. 509 00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:51,220 I figured he'd be somewhat jealous, but he seems not to be. I love you. I love 510 00:36:51,220 --> 00:36:52,220 you, too. 511 00:37:16,710 --> 00:37:20,530 She needed somebody to lead the way. That's what you're really good at, 512 00:37:20,790 --> 00:37:27,590 When you told her that she wanted you in the bar, she was like, nuh -uh, nuh 513 00:37:27,590 --> 00:37:28,950 -uh, nuh -uh. 514 00:37:30,410 --> 00:37:34,210 And her husband was like, stop lying. 515 00:37:35,730 --> 00:37:40,670 And you could just tell I was They were like in middle school. 516 00:37:42,150 --> 00:37:46,150 Who wrote the do you like me, yes or no letter? 517 00:37:46,710 --> 00:37:50,090 They communicated really well, both with themselves and with me. They didn't 518 00:37:50,090 --> 00:37:54,990 have hang -ups. They were really good with each other, which made it really 519 00:37:54,990 --> 00:37:57,350 easy. It's just they were so good with each other. 520 00:37:57,730 --> 00:37:59,430 Everything else was simple. 521 00:38:00,090 --> 00:38:04,110 That was an experience she wanted, and so he gave it to her. Any guy can give a 522 00:38:04,110 --> 00:38:05,530 girl a diamond ring, a car. 523 00:38:06,540 --> 00:38:10,260 whatever it is that's monetary, but not every guy can give that girl another 524 00:38:10,260 --> 00:38:14,800 guy. Or it's a big smile on their face and say, hey, is there something we 525 00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:17,640 get at home or buy at the store? I brought home the bacon last night. 526 00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:19,140 You sure did. 527 00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:21,240 And we're eating it this morning. 528 00:38:26,460 --> 00:38:29,040 Morning. Morning. How are you guys? 529 00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:30,280 Wonderful. 530 00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:31,560 How was last night? 531 00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:33,560 Good. It was great. Pretty awesome. 532 00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:34,800 Good. 533 00:38:35,240 --> 00:38:39,080 The thing about something like swinging or any kind of fantasy, it's like you 534 00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:42,760 have the fantasy and it's one thing, and then actually feeling it may have 535 00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,120 stirred up some emotion. 536 00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:50,000 Either way, downstairs we have a relationship expert. She specializes in 537 00:38:50,180 --> 00:38:54,520 and she's going to talk to you and help you sort out everything that happens. 538 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:55,698 Sounds like a plan. 539 00:38:55,700 --> 00:38:58,660 Okay, good. And after that, you get more time in the house. 540 00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:00,480 Outstanding. Ready? 541 00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:03,069 Let's go. 542 00:39:03,070 --> 00:39:06,410 If you're thinking about this as a fantasy situation, and sometimes fantasy 543 00:39:06,410 --> 00:39:10,110 isn't as great as reality, this is going to fast -forward your relationship. 544 00:39:10,430 --> 00:39:15,070 You're either going to grow and be really committed with your relationship, 545 00:39:15,070 --> 00:39:19,610 you're not, because you know what people, their general intentions are. 546 00:39:19,610 --> 00:39:20,830 want to have sex with you guys. 547 00:39:21,090 --> 00:39:27,290 I mean, they want to play with you guys. It'll help you see your partner a lot 548 00:39:27,290 --> 00:39:28,290 better. 549 00:39:29,930 --> 00:39:31,270 Welcome, Daryl and Nikki. 550 00:39:31,850 --> 00:39:37,310 I'm Dr. Lori Buckley, and I'm a therapist who works with individuals and 551 00:39:37,310 --> 00:39:39,490 around relationship and sexual issues. 552 00:39:39,870 --> 00:39:45,850 So I know last night you were able to explore some fantasies. What were your 553 00:39:45,850 --> 00:39:49,290 expectations before you actually got here? When we came here, it was kind of 554 00:39:49,290 --> 00:39:51,030 just like almost like a preview. 555 00:39:51,630 --> 00:39:55,710 Okay, maybe like an experiment. Yes, that's a good word for it. And whose 556 00:39:55,710 --> 00:39:56,408 was it? 557 00:39:56,410 --> 00:39:57,049 It was his. 558 00:39:57,050 --> 00:40:00,310 Yeah, and when he first told you about it, what were your thoughts? 559 00:40:00,860 --> 00:40:02,440 Are you crazy? Like, what am I doing wrong? 560 00:40:02,740 --> 00:40:05,720 Like, you know, like... Wide -eyed enough. 561 00:40:05,940 --> 00:40:09,020 Yeah, yeah. That type of thing, you know? Yeah. What was it like for you 562 00:40:09,020 --> 00:40:10,020 night? 563 00:40:10,820 --> 00:40:14,320 It was a lot last night. It wasn't what I expected, I guess. 564 00:40:14,660 --> 00:40:19,020 Seeing her with, like, another guy, it was hot. It really was. You know, got 565 00:40:19,020 --> 00:40:19,879 motor running. 566 00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:24,160 And then later on, the old questions pop in. You know, was he better, you know, 567 00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:27,720 bigger or smaller? Just kind of... Those aren't really normal, common concerns. 568 00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:29,160 Yeah. No, she's not going to leave me over her penis. 569 00:40:29,500 --> 00:40:30,980 When one just does, I'm always top dog. 570 00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:33,200 Now it's like, am I really top dog anymore? 571 00:40:33,780 --> 00:40:38,320 Yeah. So in the moment, it seemed fine. Yeah, it was awesome. You were actually 572 00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:42,840 aroused by it. Yeah, and then when you started thinking about it, then you had 573 00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:45,660 those insecurities. Nikki, what's that like for you? 574 00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:50,300 I felt bad last night just because he didn't think anything. He got stuck with 575 00:40:50,300 --> 00:40:54,400 me, which, you know, it probably isn't a bad thing, but, you know, he gets that 576 00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:56,480 all the time when he wants something different, you know? 577 00:40:56,920 --> 00:41:00,870 The way the cards fell that night just... All the girls went somewhere 578 00:41:00,930 --> 00:41:02,030 Maybe they're not attracted to me. 579 00:41:02,350 --> 00:41:07,510 Maybe I just can't close the deal. But until I get my half of it or whatever, I 580 00:41:07,510 --> 00:41:09,770 won't really know if it's something that we want to do. Like watching her last 581 00:41:09,770 --> 00:41:11,710 night, we could do that again. It'd be awesome. 582 00:41:12,050 --> 00:41:15,150 But I just don't want it to be where I'm always like the third wheel. 583 00:41:15,470 --> 00:41:20,150 I feel bad because I feel like he's not really getting, I guess, the whole 584 00:41:20,150 --> 00:41:22,790 benefit of the whole swinging thing. 585 00:41:23,050 --> 00:41:28,010 So you won't feel so bad if he's able to be sexually pleased by another woman? 586 00:41:28,110 --> 00:41:31,040 No. Do you feel bad now that you had sex with another guy? 587 00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:35,340 I feel bad because he didn't get any attention. 588 00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,020 So you feel bad for him? For him, yes. 589 00:41:39,260 --> 00:41:40,600 You don't feel bad about what you did? 590 00:41:40,820 --> 00:41:42,500 No. Not at all. 591 00:41:45,130 --> 00:41:49,270 I can see it sounds like you're both open to having some other experiences. 592 00:41:49,750 --> 00:41:55,790 And if that should happen, to make sure that, again, you two are really 593 00:41:55,790 --> 00:41:59,930 communicating. And just go out there and enjoy the rest of your time here. Okay. 594 00:41:59,950 --> 00:42:00,950 Thank you. You're welcome. 595 00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:24,640 Sandy, how are you? Yeah. What time did you guys end up going in last night? 596 00:42:24,740 --> 00:42:26,100 Probably about 3 .30. Yeah. 597 00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:33,540 So did you guys have any concerns or issues from your night that you had to 598 00:42:33,540 --> 00:42:34,540 through? 599 00:42:35,240 --> 00:42:36,460 No, not really. I didn't. 600 00:42:37,020 --> 00:42:38,660 We enjoyed it. I have no regrets last night. 601 00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:40,120 It's all about experiences. 602 00:42:40,340 --> 00:42:43,180 Some are learning experiences. Some are just experiences. You sit back and go, 603 00:42:43,220 --> 00:42:44,720 ha, ha, ha, ha, you know. 604 00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:47,440 And it's fun for you guys to have this experience. 605 00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:48,779 It is. 606 00:42:48,780 --> 00:42:49,780 I'm glad I came. 607 00:42:49,950 --> 00:42:50,950 I'm glad you came. 608 00:42:51,130 --> 00:42:54,190 Even though we decided not to do it, I'm still glad I came, because at least by 609 00:42:54,190 --> 00:42:56,290 then I'll know it's not for me or it's for me. 610 00:42:56,630 --> 00:42:58,410 I'm glad you came. 611 00:43:00,250 --> 00:43:06,190 Me or... Both of you. Oh, God. You never know where you're going to find a 612 00:43:06,190 --> 00:43:10,370 friend. Nikki and Daryl came here looking for that something special, and 613 00:43:10,370 --> 00:43:14,390 to give it to them. I got to have sex with Nikki and have a great time, and he 614 00:43:14,390 --> 00:43:17,530 got to watch her have sex and probably do some things with me he's never seen 615 00:43:17,530 --> 00:43:21,400 before. It was just a great night all the way around. When new people come 616 00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:26,200 the lifestyle, I think there's a dynamic that they don't understand yet. When 617 00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:30,200 you're married, your spouse's emotions are now number one to you. 618 00:43:30,500 --> 00:43:34,700 So when, you know, I could be getting really turned on and I could be having a 619 00:43:34,700 --> 00:43:38,900 great time and I look over and I see my husband and he's not playing. We're not 620 00:43:38,900 --> 00:43:42,760 feeling it. He's not having a good night. It doesn't matter what my 621 00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:43,780 at that point in time. 622 00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:46,580 His emotions are number one and I need to cater to him. 623 00:43:47,230 --> 00:43:51,570 And unfortunately, sometimes what happens is because I need to cater to 624 00:43:51,590 --> 00:43:56,550 then to me, other people can feel shunned or hurt. 625 00:43:56,770 --> 00:44:02,810 So initially, like I kind of didn't even allow myself to really get into what 626 00:44:02,810 --> 00:44:07,550 was going on last night just because I'm thinking of how is this going to work? 627 00:44:07,750 --> 00:44:14,310 How are we going to make everybody happy here? And so I had to cater to him and 628 00:44:14,310 --> 00:44:16,010 say, okay, we have to pull back. 629 00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:21,560 no matter what I might be feeling. Kristen said that just because a woman 630 00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:24,560 attracted to me, but it may not be me, but it might be just an issue with her 631 00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:29,140 husband that they have a rule that she can't play with me even though she wants 632 00:44:29,140 --> 00:44:32,220 to just because of this issue that's going on with their significant other, 633 00:44:32,300 --> 00:44:35,240 which I took to heart because sometimes I take it personal. 634 00:44:35,780 --> 00:44:39,540 You never know what the dynamics are. 635 00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:43,280 Generally, the hardest thing is to learn to not take things personal. 636 00:44:43,980 --> 00:44:49,140 and it's really, really hard to do. Sometimes things hurt, and you have to 637 00:44:49,220 --> 00:44:50,860 you know, I am a good guy. 638 00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:55,240 I'm married to a great girl, so there probably was something else going on. 639 00:44:55,460 --> 00:44:57,760 But you still look in the mirror and go, yeah, that's probably not me. 640 00:44:58,700 --> 00:45:03,720 Daryl did not get any action, and it comes out that, you know, there's some 641 00:45:03,720 --> 00:45:07,360 personal issues that the couples are going through, and so it wasn't nothing 642 00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:09,800 do with Daryl, and I think that made him feel a lot better. 643 00:45:10,660 --> 00:45:11,660 Hello. 644 00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:12,920 Hi. 645 00:45:12,980 --> 00:45:13,980 How is everybody? 646 00:45:14,140 --> 00:45:15,140 Good. How are you? 647 00:45:15,180 --> 00:45:16,180 I'm good. 648 00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:18,400 Alas, I'm the buzzkill. 649 00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:23,440 Yeah. It's time for you guys to sort of say your goodbyes to everybody. Time for 650 00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:25,900 you guys to say your goodbyes to them. And then you want to meet me out front? 651 00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:28,120 I'll see you soon. 652 00:45:29,180 --> 00:45:32,280 When Darrell had first talked to me about swinging, I thought he was crazy. 653 00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:33,280 was never going to happen. 654 00:45:33,610 --> 00:45:37,550 but actually as an experience in it, I think it's going to be a great thing. 655 00:45:37,550 --> 00:45:38,670 communication is there. 656 00:45:38,910 --> 00:45:43,870 You're able to go out and have fun and have sex with other people without being 657 00:45:43,870 --> 00:45:47,010 jealous and just without cheating. 658 00:45:47,660 --> 00:45:48,660 All right, darling. 659 00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:50,640 We'll see you guys. 660 00:45:50,780 --> 00:45:55,620 Say goodbye to the couple. It's kind of sad. 661 00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:57,720 They're not afraid to hide anything. 662 00:45:58,000 --> 00:45:59,720 They're not afraid to flirt or, you know, have a good time. 663 00:45:59,920 --> 00:46:03,280 Just to be themselves and be honest with each other. Thank you for sharing your 664 00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:07,940 beautiful... I had a lot of good conversations with everybody. I'm not 665 00:46:07,940 --> 00:46:09,420 call any of these folks my friends at all. 666 00:46:09,660 --> 00:46:10,660 Nice meeting you guys. Bye, guys. 667 00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:21,520 Okay, there's just one more thing before you guys go back to your regular life. 668 00:46:21,580 --> 00:46:25,160 I have the contract that you signed when you got here. Remember that? Yes. Gave 669 00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:29,000 you permission to hook up with other people. So do you want to tear it up 670 00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:32,800 million little pieces, forget any of this ever happened? Do you want to put 671 00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:33,960 in the family album? 672 00:46:34,220 --> 00:46:38,740 I guess what I'm asking is, was this a fling, or do you think you want to swing 673 00:46:38,740 --> 00:46:39,740 again? 674 00:46:50,830 --> 00:46:51,830 I thought you were going to swing. 675 00:46:53,710 --> 00:46:56,850 Well, thank you, you guys. You've been really great guests. Thanks for having 676 00:46:56,850 --> 00:46:58,490 us. Have a safe trip home. Thank you. 677 00:46:58,850 --> 00:46:59,890 There you go. Yep. 678 00:47:03,510 --> 00:47:05,790 It was a good time. It was an awesome experience. 679 00:47:06,830 --> 00:47:12,710 And I'm glad that we could, I'm glad me and Nikki could do this on a kind of 680 00:47:12,710 --> 00:47:13,830 like a trial by fire basis. 681 00:47:14,270 --> 00:47:17,610 And we were trusting enough to each other, give each other a free pass just 682 00:47:17,610 --> 00:47:18,850 do it. It was awesome. 683 00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:22,100 I guess what I had built in my head, the whole perfect fantasy when it comes to 684 00:47:22,100 --> 00:47:23,140 real life, now it's perfect. 685 00:47:23,820 --> 00:47:27,440 But I enjoyed watching you get pleased. 686 00:47:28,260 --> 00:47:29,260 It was awesome. 687 00:47:29,740 --> 00:47:33,620 It's still a fantasy, but it wasn't, I guess, the main one that I wanted to 688 00:47:33,620 --> 00:47:37,420 fulfill this time. Any fantasies that you fulfilled or didn't fulfill that you 689 00:47:37,420 --> 00:47:38,058 wanted to? 690 00:47:38,060 --> 00:47:41,120 I'm going to have to say mine was not fulfilled. 691 00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:43,480 It's because I wanted to see you get pleased. 692 00:47:44,620 --> 00:47:45,620 Awesome. 58428

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