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This programme contains strong
language, scenes of sexual nature
and nudity
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I'm nervous. I'm going to take it
one step at a time.
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In a world saturated with sex...
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I'm absolutely petrified.
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...more young adults than ever
are living without it.
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The thought of having sex
with someone... Scares me.
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It gives me the ick.
I'm missing out.
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Terrified. Nerve-racking.
Gut-wrenching.
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Embarrassing.
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All I think about is
what I'm going to get wrong.
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Can you point to the outer labia?
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Nope.
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Now... Oh, my God!
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...12 virgins are getting
a crash course in intimacy.
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Social media, porn, dating apps.
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There are so many negative messages
and we can help them blossom.
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Use it by stimulating the area.
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They'll be guided by experts...
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You see yourself as...? Repulsive.
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...to explore all aspects of
intimacy...
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...and maybe even have sex
with a trained therapist.
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Do you want to put a condom on?
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Or each other.
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Get a room, guys!
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THEY SCREAM
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I really do need to change my life.
Who will be ready...
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Desperate times call for
desperate measures.
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...to go all the way?
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{\an8}Horny Island!
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{\an8}Over the past few days on
Virgin Island...
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I'm slutty Stephanie.
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...things got steamy
in the seductive phase.
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It's not how I thought I would feel.
It feels good.
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Marianne got to grips with a naked
Andre.
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I could do this all day.
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THEY LAUGH
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Can I give you a spank? Yes.
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Bertie found his voice
in the bedroom.
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Thanks for asking.
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And Callum and Katie's
connection deepened.
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HE KISSES
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THEY LAUGH
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Now...
KISSING
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...as the group enter the climax
phase...
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HEAVY BREATHING
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...time is running out
to fulfil their island ambitions.
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{\an8}A lot of people think climax is just
about orgasm,
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but climax is actually having a peak
sexual experience.
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Your partner might be
stimulating your clit.
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And we want all of
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them to have their peak
sexual experiences in their lives.
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After 15 days...
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Ah, the last letter.
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...the group are nearing graduation
from Virgin Island.
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Let's see what the last phase is.
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"Prepare for the end of the course
as it reaches its climax."
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Well, I'm pleased
that they took my advice on the pun.
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I'm actually quite excited.
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This one could be quite a fun one.
A lot of the stuff
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we've done previously
has got me into a confident mood.
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Yeah, I'm looking forward to it.
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100%.
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For me, being on the island,
it has had an ending.
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It was sex and reaching orgasm.
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Um...
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Twice.
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I wonder what we're going to be
doing because it's, like,
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have we not?
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I mean, I've already climaxed.
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THEY LAUGH
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While some of the group have found
what they came for...
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The final phase! Hmm.
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...others have yet to reach
their goals.
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It's going to come to an end soon.
I know.
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Today has to be positions,
right? Surely. No, climax.
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We're going to get in front of each
other and have a wank.
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THEY LAUGH
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For the final workshop of
the retreat...
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Callum, are you ready?
Yeah. So ready.
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...the experts want the group
to realise...
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There's actually a literal bed.
...just how far they've come.
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Morning, guys. Morning, all.
Morning.
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All right.
The final phase of the course,
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the climax.
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Climax is really having
this peak experience
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that you can have in your sex life.
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And we want to make sure
that you get every tool
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that you need in order to do that.
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Now, if you remember the very
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first demo we showed you at
the start of the course,
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pillow talk. Mm-hm.
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Most of you were like deer
in the headlights.
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My God, your eyes are so beautiful.
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When they first saw the pillow talk
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demo, they couldn't even look.
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They were extremely intimidated.
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It's a bit, "Uh!" Yeah.
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So now,
with everything you've discovered,
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it's time to step
up and try it yourself.
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I'll go, if anyone's keen.
If anyone's keen!
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First up, advanced students
Alex and Joy.
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You look so nice today.
No, no. No "nice".
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"Beautiful," "sexy"... Like,
not anything that's sweet.
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That's great.
It's important communication here.
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You look so sexy today. Thank you.
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You drive me crazy.
That turns me on. Good.
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Move your legs on top of me.
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I really want to kiss you
right now. Do it.
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THEY APPLAUD
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It's not just Alex and Joy...
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You smell so good.
You're giving me the eyes.
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...who are keen to show off their
pillow talk prowess.
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{\an8}We can get lost together.
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Amazing.
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But the final exercise will teach
the group the ultimate sex tips.
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So for your final lesson,
we will show you some sex moves.
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It's really, really important
that they practise with
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the different sexual positions
to be erotically confident.
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We've chosen these sex positions
because they're the most common.
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Which include one partner
on top...
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...missionary position.
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Also, oral sex is really,
really important.
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SHE EXHALES
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And doggy style.
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No-one's going
to be doing wheelbarrow out there.
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SHE LAUGHS
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Mm!
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GIGGLING
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Who want to start? I'll do it.
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CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
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After a nervy start...
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Put this leg between her legs.
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Like this? Yeah.
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...Bertie has thrown himself into
more and more of the exercises.
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Good, good. Perfect.
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And it's paying off.
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Good. Is this right? Yeah.
Very smooth.
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I want to get out from the retreat
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as much as I can, but
so many people just do it naturally.
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They know what they're doing.
They're confident in themselves.
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I just want to be that guy.
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HE LAUGHS
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Do you want a spank? Always.
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THEY LAUGH
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Woohoo!
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I feel really proud.
If you had a strap-on,
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it would be a great position
for that.
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At first they were all hesitant.
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I assume.
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HE LAUGHS
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But they have completely supported
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each other through
the whole process.
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Yeah! Do you want a spank?
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Um... I'll have a pat.
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It's unprecedented.
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APPLAUSE
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And for one couple... You ready?
Oh, go on, then.
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Don't act like you haven't been
doing this in the day bed anyway.
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THEY LAUGH
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...the bond has intensified.
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Naughty.
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THEY LAUGH
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I've always grown
up reading, like, sexy stories,
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even when I was a teenager.
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But the word virgin means you
haven't had sex.
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But in my head, I know what I like.
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OK, take a second to connect.
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{\an8}I don't really want to be intimate
with someone I don't know.
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When I build a connection
up, start laughing with them
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and have a fun time with them,
that's what I want in the future.
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Pull her on top of you.
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Ready? Mm-hm. Yeah. Perfect.
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Change to missionary
and connect your pelvises together.
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Yeah. There you go. Perfect.
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The next one is going down.
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You can flip her into doggy style.
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Yeah! Exactly.
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CHEERING
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How did it feel to do that? I think,
like, doing half these workshops,
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it just leaves me, like, massively,
like, horny all day.
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Well, that's great.
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Bye!
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How do we feel?
That was our last ever workshop.
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I didn't expect that. There were
times when people would say,
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"I want to do it,
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"but I'm not comfortable doing it
with someone in the group."
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That was practically my catchphrase
at one point.
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The sex positions,
like, they were a bit awkward,
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but when you're
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in the mood with your partner,
it'll all just flow. Yeah.
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For Callum and Katie...
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Pew, pew, pew, pew, pew,
pew...
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...as they near the end of
the retreat,
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their mutual affection...
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Oh, you're funny. I like you.
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...is on full display.
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{\an8}I'm very excited to see a budding
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{\an8}romance in this environment.
It's beautiful
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people feel the freedom to use
the skills
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and the tools they're learning
in the retreat.
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That's actually my dream.
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I can bloody feel you on my stomach.
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It's like that all the time.
Don't worry about it.
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It's... it's quite a hard life.
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Literally.
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My main focus moving forward
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is obviously getting closer
to Katie because,
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like, I'm not being funny,
I like her.
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Stop teasing yourself.
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THEY LAUGH
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I've never felt this way with a boy
before.
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I've never been close to a boy
before,
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but I don't think I know my body
at all.
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And I have literally no experience.
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So I think I'm just scared for,
like,
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not knowing what to do.
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Mm-mm!
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SHE GIGGLES
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As Callum and Katie
get closer than ever,
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the experts want to make sure
they're properly prepared.
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Katie, she has this budding romance
with Callum,
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which is very sweet,
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and I also feel like there's
so much more
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for her to learn around her own body
and pleasure.
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Yeah. I want this session to be
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about her starting
to step into her womanhood,
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building some kind of a relationship
with her genitals.
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Kat, you're going
to be seeing Callum today.
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And this is your last session
with him.
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Yes. We're going to be doing
clothes off, erotic touch,
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and I feel like it's a good
place stopping him here
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because he has the skills
to go forth and enjoy with Katie.
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THEY LAUGH
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I have no sexual history at all.
I haven't done anything.
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I haven't ever had an orgasm.
When I was younger,
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I thought I would have been married
and had kids by now.
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Multiple kids.
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Hello, beautiful.
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And I feel disappointed in myself
that I haven't
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been able to achieve anything
that I wanted to.
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So have you explored your vagina
in any way?
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I haven't. With time at the retreat
running out...
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So what could be motivating
about getting to know your genitals?
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So I'm able to tell them exactly
what I like already.
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Yeah. ..Katie's meeting sexological
bodyworker Ilil
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to learn more about pleasure.
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Something that can feel
really nice is
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if you have your finger
in, or your partner has,
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and it kind
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of might be stimulating your clit at
the same time.
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Hmm. I mean, just doing
that could feel really nice.
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I never went to,
like, sex ed at school or anything.
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So this is, like, totally new to me.
254
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I don't know why I get
so uncomfortable over my own body.
255
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Exactly. While Katie
has her very own sex ed lesson...
256
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How's it going? Me and Katie,
we've hit it off a lot.
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How's that feeling? Awesome.
...Callum is responding well
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to hands-on therapy
with surrogate partner Kat.
259
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What do you feel like you want to do
with Katie?
260
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I just want to experience everything
that I can in the right way.
261
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I have
never touched anyone intimately.
262
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So when it comes to it, the fear
is not knowing anything
263
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about it and what to do.
OK, so we'll start.
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I'll let you kind of lead.
It's a lot of pressure.
265
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And, you know, you don't
want to have sex
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with someone
if you don't know how to have sex.
267
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Sex should be something
that should be cherished,
268
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not something that should just be
a quick form of just getting off.
269
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While you're holding my hand down,
start to touch me.
270
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Yeah.
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How does that feel,
me touching you? Great.
272
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Yeah. Like that.
273
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I think I need more boy knowledge.
OK.
274
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Do you want to explore some dicks?
Let's do it!
275
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So it really changes
from a person to a person.
276
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But usually the parts that have the
most pleasure is, like, the head.
277
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So you can kind of, like, go around.
278
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The balls can feel really nice.
For some, it's very sensitive,
279
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and for some,
you can really squeeze them.
280
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Thank you. You're welcome.
281
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This has been so good.
282
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It's quite scary
because it's just very unknown.
283
00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:34,439
But I know what to explore,
so it's going to be fun.
284
00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:37,760
I felt you, like, really present
and, like, following things.
285
00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:42,079
Good job. Genuinely, I can't
explain how much you've helped me.
286
00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:43,599
I never thought I'd
be at this point.
287
00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:45,239
Ever. That's amazing.
288
00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:48,119
Like, just to do this alone
is unbelievable.
289
00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:50,680
You really have all of the tools
you need. Yeah.
290
00:14:51,880 --> 00:14:53,879
It's crazy how much I've changed
as a person.
291
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I've actually got closer to Katie.
292
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The heart wants
what the heart wants.
293
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It's afternoon on Virgin Island.
294
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This is really good.
295
00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:13,039
It's good? Mm. Good.
296
00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:16,719
While Callum and Katie's chemistry
is impossible to miss...
297
00:15:16,720 --> 00:15:18,680
Is it fun, Callum? Yeah, it is.
298
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THEY LAUGH
299
00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:24,759
...Marianne has been steadily
300
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exploring her own connection
with surrogate partner Andre.
301
00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:30,559
What I love about Andre is he has
302
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a way of making people feel calmer
and relaxed,
303
00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:36,439
and he reads you very well.
You arrive with boundaries in terms
304
00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:38,399
of, "I'm just too scared
to try something,"
305
00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:43,599
but now it's more just
about having fun exploring.
306
00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:49,399
Marianne, she's really embracing her
sexiness. She really is glowing.
307
00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:52,599
And you're going to be having
a session with her, Andre, today.
308
00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:56,039
She's a very curious individual.
She wants to learn about herself.
309
00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:59,959
She's very interested to see
if she wants to go even further.
310
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So we'll check in.
But there's that potential.
311
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{\an8}Everyone expects a virgin to be
like this horrible,
312
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{\an8}ugly thing that hides
and has no confidence.
313
00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:13,000
But I'm a very sexual person.
314
00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:18,439
I read a lot of books,
and I have one fantasy,
315
00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:21,319
which it's a recurring one.
316
00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:23,439
I love the idea of spanking
317
00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:25,359
and maybe having that dominance,
318
00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:27,879
but I still feel
as if I have my autonomy.
319
00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:30,160
I'm good and I'm safe.
320
00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:34,680
Knock, knock! Hello.
321
00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:39,599
Though making good progress,
Marianne is still setting
322
00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:42,359
her own pace with Andre.
How are you doing today?
323
00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:45,000
Doing well. You? I'm good today.
324
00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:50,439
Surrogate partner therapy
is structured around consent.
325
00:16:50,440 --> 00:16:54,519
And it's all about
their full body understanding
326
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that this is their time
and they get to choose.
327
00:16:57,560 --> 00:16:59,639
So today, was there anything
328
00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:03,319
that you came
in with wanting to try?
329
00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:04,799
Mm...
330
00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:08,839
Can we try the mutual
massage? Mm-hm.
331
00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:12,399
And... possibly a spanking.
332
00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:14,039
OK. So I was like, that's... Yeah.
333
00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:16,519
I love... I love that.
How did you learn about it?
334
00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:19,679
You said you know... Books. Books.
Read a LOT of books.
335
00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:21,199
And just take my inspiration
from that.
336
00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:24,279
I'm like, "Cool. Noted."
You deserve to be happy.
337
00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:25,679
You deserve to feel pleasure.
338
00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:28,999
And sometimes
that can also allow the building
339
00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:30,679
in of trust and safety
340
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to other intimate connection
that we could
341
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potentially share.
342
00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:37,400
To get things started...
343
00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:42,240
...Andre performs a sensual massage.
344
00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:46,080
It feels so lovely. Hmm.
345
00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:49,320
I'm glad you're enjoying it. Mm-hm.
346
00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:58,519
Next...
347
00:17:58,520 --> 00:18:01,079
Can we do the spanking? OK.
348
00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:03,919
...Marianne has some ideas of
her own.
349
00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:08,079
Put your body over. Like this?
Mm-hm. Yeah.
350
00:18:08,080 --> 00:18:10,599
If you want, you can even lean on
it. How does that feel?
351
00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:12,640
It feels nice. OK, good.
352
00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:18,999
I like starting slowly,
to just feel your skin.
353
00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:24,720
You feel my hand getting familiar
with my touch, waking up the skin.
354
00:18:26,360 --> 00:18:28,719
And I usually like working on
a number scale
355
00:18:28,720 --> 00:18:33,319
so I get to know how hard you want
to be spanked.
356
00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:37,639
So from zero to five, zero being,
357
00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:39,079
"I didn't feel that at all,"
358
00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:41,880
and five being, "That's the hardest
hit I can take."
359
00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:44,720
What is that? That's zero.
360
00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:52,359
How about that. Hmm, two.
It's a two?
361
00:18:52,360 --> 00:18:55,639
So we'll stay with the two. Mm-hm.
362
00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:57,200
SHE MOANS
363
00:18:59,840 --> 00:19:01,520
SHE BREATHES HEAVILY
364
00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:04,000
How does that feel?
365
00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:06,480
Really good. Really good? Mm-hm.
366
00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:11,240
SHE LAUGHS
367
00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:17,759
What would feel good to receive
in the way of care?
368
00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:18,999
Cuddles.
369
00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:20,399
THEY LAUGH
370
00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:21,640
OK, let's do that.
371
00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:28,520
Thank you for the spanks. Oh.
372
00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:32,840
Why don't we go ahead
and get dressed?
373
00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:40,959
Thank you, Andre.
You're welcome. Thank you.
374
00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:43,519
That was so fun.
And super fucking hot.
375
00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:44,720
SHE LAUGHS
376
00:19:46,280 --> 00:19:51,879
It was nice because I felt really
in it and really safe and horny.
377
00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:53,080
Very, very horny.
378
00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:57,559
When I first came, everything seemed
so far away.
379
00:19:57,560 --> 00:20:00,679
And now it made me confident
in what I'm feeling,
380
00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:04,720
how I can communicate it,
and asking for what I want as well.
381
00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:12,039
Hi! Hi, Marianne. Welcome back.
382
00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:14,559
Oh, you guys are back on the bed.
383
00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:16,799
Marianne, you've missed so much.
What happened?
384
00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:18,319
Oh, my God. Where do you think
385
00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:20,999
Katie and Callum have
gone? On a date?
386
00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,599
They're having a special nap.
Swear on your life.
387
00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:26,559
Genuinely, they are.
With their relationship
388
00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:28,079
the talk of the island...
389
00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:29,919
I'm really excited
for this connection.
390
00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:31,359
Yeah? Yep.
391
00:20:31,360 --> 00:20:34,679
...Callum and Katie are keen
to spend some time alone together.
392
00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:36,639
In order to make sure
that everyone feels safe,
393
00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:39,159
I wanted to check a little
bit about your readiness.
394
00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:40,359
Anything that you feel
395
00:20:40,360 --> 00:20:41,959
like it's hard
for you to share with each other,
396
00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:45,479
and you want to use me
to support you in sharing that?
397
00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:47,039
I think I've pretty
much told you everything,
398
00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:48,799
like my worries and stuff. Mm-hm.
399
00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:50,679
Obviously, I had a lot
before coming here,
400
00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:52,479
but I've gone through the entire
experience.
401
00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:56,160
All them worries and everything
that I've felt have gone.
402
00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:02,479
Consent is essential to everything
we do at the retreat.
403
00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,359
One of the most powerful things is
404
00:21:04,360 --> 00:21:08,159
that we teach people
to speak their boundaries.
405
00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:12,919
So when they actually consent,
they mean it.
406
00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:14,519
You're both adults.
407
00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:18,439
Always feel like you can say no
and say yes.
408
00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:21,319
I'm really proud of seeing both
of you really blooming,
409
00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:24,959
and I'm excited
for your developing connection.
410
00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:27,680
Thank you. Thank you.
You're so cute.
411
00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:34,759
I would love to have a partner.
I would love to have a boyfriend.
412
00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:40,239
I have kindness
and patience to offer to someone.
413
00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:42,999
I want to do that,
and I can't wait to do that.
414
00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,120
One day.
415
00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,399
I feel like a genuine
connection comes from,
416
00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:50,519
you know, meeting someone in person.
417
00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:54,600
I want to see if I can
really, actually let it happen.
418
00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:57,800
Oh, fancy.
419
00:21:59,120 --> 00:22:00,480
KATIE LAUGHS
420
00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:04,639
Are you ready? Mm-hm.
Take your top off.
421
00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:06,399
You take it off.
422
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:08,359
What begins as foreplay...
423
00:22:08,360 --> 00:22:10,359
That tickles!
SHE LAUGHS
424
00:22:10,360 --> 00:22:11,880
...eventually evolves...
425
00:22:18,360 --> 00:22:21,440
...as Callum and Katie take
a significant step together.
426
00:22:41,360 --> 00:22:43,800
MOANING
427
00:22:52,360 --> 00:22:54,520
HEAVY BREATHING
428
00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:01,599
CALLUM LAUGHS
429
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:03,600
BOTH LAUGH
430
00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:07,800
Oh, my God!
431
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,160
Mm-hm. Mm-hm.
432
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:20,160
Mm-hm.
433
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:26,919
When I first arrived on this island,
I was scared.
434
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:30,199
And I was shy and so insecure.
435
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:33,519
I didn't expect to lose my virginity
at all.
436
00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,639
But I think it was really a natural
437
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:40,359
thing because I trust Callum so
much, and it was really good.
438
00:23:40,360 --> 00:23:42,359
I'm just so excited to go back
439
00:23:42,360 --> 00:23:44,840
and show everyone this new version
of me.
440
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:49,479
Such a good nap.
Yeah. Yeah, sorry.
441
00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:52,560
Very, very good nap. Yeah.
We made the experience ours.
442
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:57,600
We both helped each other a lot,
and what a perfect way to end it.
443
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:12,159
It's the start of the final day on
Virgin Island.
444
00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:14,600
Good morning, guys.
Good morning. Morning.
445
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:20,159
Oh, mushrooms. Oh, I like mushrooms.
Did you sleep well, Callum?
446
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:22,559
Mm-hm. Bet you did.
447
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:24,399
Got a lot of muscle pain today.
448
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:25,800
JOY LAUGHS
449
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,079
Millie, do you think you'll fit
in my suitcase?
450
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:32,280
If you give me a little bit of room
to breathe.
451
00:24:35,360 --> 00:24:36,719
How are you feeling, Bertie,
about the end?
452
00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:38,279
It'll be nice to go back
453
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,679
and see my friends and family,
but at the same time,
454
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:42,719
I am going to miss this.
455
00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:44,719
I feel like it's going to be weird,
just not being horny every day.
456
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:46,479
Who says you're not
going to be horny every day?
457
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:47,600
Yeah, that's true.
458
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:52,319
Ahead of this evening's
graduation ceremony,
459
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:55,839
the experts have set the group
one final exercise.
460
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:57,719
Read it out to us, Tegan.
461
00:24:57,720 --> 00:24:59,999
"Now you're at the end of the
course,
462
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,999
"we want you to write a letter
to your past self
463
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:07,040
"to read out in front of the group
at this graduation ceremony."
464
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,719
So I've got to think of a bloody
speech to say.
465
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:11,999
I think mine will be
466
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:16,159
quite short, actually,
because it's the climax phase.
467
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:17,879
THEY LAUGH
468
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:22,239
Realising how far you've come
is really emotional.
469
00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:25,479
It's a moment to reflect
and help them cement
470
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:29,359
the journey of their progress
and development.
471
00:25:29,360 --> 00:25:32,240
Having made real progress
in his previous session...
472
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:35,159
...Bertie's due
473
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:38,119
to meet surrogate partner Kat
for the final time.
474
00:25:38,120 --> 00:25:41,559
Bertie was like the real sleeper.
When I first saw him,
475
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:43,559
you felt like he was going to talk
himself out of everything,
476
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:45,519
and then he talked himself
into everything.
477
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:48,479
And I think he has
so much sensuality.
478
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:52,279
As soon as he gets aroused,
he really surprised me.
479
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:56,359
He's been so fun to work with.
So we're going to see what he wants
480
00:25:56,360 --> 00:25:58,560
to do today to feel,
like, really complete.
481
00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:05,600
I'm not getting any younger,
in terms of the dating game.
482
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,799
I just want to try my
very best to do
483
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:15,919
all the things
that I want to push myself to do
484
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:18,999
and to come back telling
people how much
485
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:22,839
of a different person I am
and being able to just...
486
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:24,080
...feel free.
487
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:27,640
Good afternoon. Can I have a hug?
488
00:26:29,360 --> 00:26:30,999
For the first time,
489
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,919
Kat feels Bertie is ready
for the bedroom
490
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:37,239
and the next step
in his sexual education.
491
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,760
So would you want to try oral?
492
00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:44,999
Um...
493
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,200
It's the nervous excitement, but,
uh, yeah.
494
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:50,999
So...
HE LAUGHS
495
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,519
So I'm going to let you practise
leading.
496
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:54,880
Um, OK.
497
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:07,079
Oh. Will you take off my shirt?
498
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:08,640
I thought you'd never ask.
499
00:27:11,360 --> 00:27:13,839
OK, so I want you to just relax
500
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:17,520
and just notice the sensations,
OK? OK.
501
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:21,120
Mm!
502
00:27:23,360 --> 00:27:26,360
HEAVY BREATHING
503
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:33,360
Do you want to try switching? Yeah.
504
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,199
Where's...? Where do you like to
be...?
505
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:40,239
Um, I would say first,
just explore. Just, like, it's new,
506
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:41,599
it's weird.
507
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:44,720
So see what it feels like for you,
and if you even like it.
508
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:49,759
It's quite salty, actually.
509
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:51,959
THEY LAUGH
510
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:56,239
I'm not sure if oral is going
to be for me, but, uh...
511
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:59,079
Would you
like to pivot to do what is for you?
512
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,479
Yeah. Yeah? Let's do that.
513
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:03,239
Oral experiment over...
514
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:06,719
What would feel good?
Maybe you can keep doing that.
515
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:09,159
...Bertie leads the way.
516
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,319
I can touch you like this.
517
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:12,640
Yeah. That's it.
518
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:15,160
That feels really good. Yeah?
519
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:17,840
KAT BREATHES HEAVILY
520
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:22,760
This is so nice.
521
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:28,160
So fucking sexy.
522
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,160
HEAVY BREATHING
523
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:42,279
Didn't go in your this time.
I'm very happy.
524
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:43,800
So that's some progress made.
525
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,039
How are you feeling?
I'm feeling super good.
526
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,399
How are you feeling?
I'm feeling amazing.
527
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,119
You've been so good to me
528
00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:56,839
when we've done our sessions and
some of the things that I've done,
529
00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:58,639
I never thought I'd do
in a million years.
530
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:02,080
And then you came along.
And you honestly mean so much.
531
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:13,240
Thank you for everything. Thank you.
532
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:19,879
It's just this experience that I've
533
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:24,080
had has been nothing short
of surreal...
534
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:29,599
...fantastic. I never thought
that in such quick succession,
535
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:33,599
I'd be able to have my first kiss,
536
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:37,880
touch my first vagina,
make a woman orgasm.
537
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:41,479
I will never forget Kat
538
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:46,079
and never forget the ups
and downs that I've had here.
539
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:47,600
It's been nothing short
of phenomenal.
540
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:55,800
Fuck me sideways. That was amazing.
That was a great experience.
541
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:03,919
As Bertie reaches the end
of his surrogate partner therapy...
542
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:06,079
...ahead of her final
session with Andre,
543
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,919
Marianne meets
with clinical therapist Abby...
544
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:10,279
Hi. Hello.
545
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,039
Come on in.
546
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:15,519
...to reflect on how far she's come
547
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:17,240
and how far she wants to go.
548
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:20,879
How's everything been?
It's been good.
549
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:23,239
Yeah. I just wanted to, like,
check in,
550
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:25,399
see how your work is going
with Andre.
551
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:27,799
I think everything's
been going really well,
552
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:29,519
which has surprised me. Yeah.
553
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:30,919
I feel like before when I came in,
I was like,
554
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:33,919
there's no possible way I could
see myself,
555
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:37,759
like, maybe having sex,
all these blocks and stuff,
556
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:41,279
that I could see myself doing,
like, comfortably. Yeah.
557
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,679
I've still got my
one-on-one session today.
558
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:47,039
And noticing where you're finding
your flexibility.
559
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:51,119
Like saying, "I know how to check
in. I know how to use my voice."
560
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,799
I'm not... Yeah, I'm not feeling
panicked about anything.
561
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:55,199
I'm feeling very supported.
562
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:57,599
Take all of that in
because you really do
563
00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:00,359
deserve everything that you're doing
for you.
564
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:06,279
Marianne is a superstar
and a straight A+ student.
565
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:11,040
She's really learning in
a somatic way how to trust her body.
566
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:18,799
Being a virgin at 26,
I think about sex every day.
567
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,439
It's just nagging in my ear.
568
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:24,880
And I think that's
because I haven't done it.
569
00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:30,319
Hello! I want to lose my virginity
because I could
570
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:32,119
just get on with my life.
571
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,800
I could just not think about it
all the time.
572
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,480
I'm just going to lay out
all the possibilities for today.
573
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:45,719
Continued escalation of kissing.
574
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:47,559
Mutual erotic touch.
575
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:50,639
Touching breasts, touching genitals.
576
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:54,039
Oral pleasure. Those sound good, yeah.
577
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:58,559
And if there is a desire
and you feel comfort
578
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:01,400
and you're in your full
yes, penetration.
579
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:13,399
In her final session...
Allowing yourself just a moment
580
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:15,319
to think about being able to be
581
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:17,839
in a vulnerable
state with someone else.
582
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:19,679
...Marianne has reached a defining
583
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:22,239
moment in the surrogate partner
programme.
584
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:25,600
You can feel nervous.
You can feel orgasmic.
585
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:28,200
I want to kiss you.
586
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:49,520
Mm-hm.
587
00:32:56,840 --> 00:33:00,599
Can we try it?
Me being inside you? Mm-hm.
588
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:01,800
Yes, we can.
589
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:08,840
I might need your help. OK.
590
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:13,040
Good. Mm-hm.
591
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:35,800
SHE MOANS
592
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:41,480
SHE MOANS LOUDLY
593
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:45,440
SHE MOANS
594
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:49,960
SHE EXHALES LOUDLY
595
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,440
SHE MOANS
596
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:08,080
How did that feel?
597
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:13,720
Did it feel like a milestone?
598
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:17,879
It felt good. Really nice
and natural.
599
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:19,959
Hmm.
600
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:22,120
Thank you so much for trusting me.
601
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:25,360
For trusting yourself.
602
00:34:26,720 --> 00:34:28,040
Let's get dressed.
603
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:35,559
How are you feeling?
Kind of have a clear head.
604
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,759
Like, "Ooh!" You know?
In a good way. Mm-hm.
605
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:40,879
Feeling happy as well.
606
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:42,080
Good. Yeah. Me, too.
607
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:46,159
Thank you. Thank you
for making me feel safe.
608
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:47,639
Mm-hm.
609
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:49,240
It's such a pleasure.
610
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:57,279
I knew the possibility of having sex
611
00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:00,240
was on the table,
and so I'm no longer a virgin.
612
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:05,999
I felt comfortable in my body
and safe in my environment.
613
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:09,879
And Andre was incredible.
So I wasn't really nervous.
614
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:13,359
Like, I haven't lost anything.
I've just gained something.
615
00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:16,599
And I just had pure elation.
616
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:19,120
So I'm very,
very lucky with that.
617
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:25,600
As a therapeutic part
of the course draws to a close...
618
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,600
...the sun sets on the retreat
for the final time.
619
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:34,399
Graduation is such an important
620
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,399
moment in this group's journey.
621
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,039
It helps them see
all the achievements
622
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:43,639
that they've got throughout
this process.
623
00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:47,719
All that remains is for everyone
to dress up for one last step.
624
00:35:47,720 --> 00:35:51,320
I'm really sad to be saying goodbye.
Yeah. It's hard.
625
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:54,999
I'm looking forward to graduation.
626
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,479
It'll be a nice way to celebrate
all of the weird
627
00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:01,079
and wonderful things
we've done on this island.
628
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:03,599
Very bittersweet, how I'm feeling.
629
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:06,399
It's been an incredible three weeks.
630
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:09,959
A few weeks ago,
they were complete strangers.
631
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:11,839
Fire smells nice.
632
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:13,799
Yeah, they're going to sacrifice us,
aren't they?
633
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:15,799
THEY LAUGH
634
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:17,040
Hi!
635
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:21,799
Wow. Look at you.
636
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:23,519
Now, together,
637
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:27,639
they have reached the climax
of their time on Virgin Island.
638
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:29,759
It's graduation!
639
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:32,599
THEY CHEER
640
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,000
You made it!
641
00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:36,879
And we're so proud of you.
642
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:40,959
Your bravery
and your courage is unparalleled.
643
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:45,799
Earlier today, we asked you to write
a letter to your younger self,
644
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:48,520
and now we want you each to come
up and share that.
645
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:53,280
Who want to start?
646
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:58,759
Arriving as one of the least
confident,
647
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:01,880
Ellen now has the courage
to step forward with pride.
648
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:06,639
A letter to my younger self.
Don't listen to them.
649
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:09,759
It will be hard.
But what they say isn't true.
650
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:12,559
It's OK to look and fancy girls.
You're gay.
651
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:15,079
It's a thing. And it's OK.
652
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:17,679
You get to choose the life you lead.
653
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:19,560
You do you at your speed.
654
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:23,639
For goodness' sake,
go buy a vibrator.
655
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:25,159
Fuck it. Buy two.
656
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:27,280
CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
657
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:34,319
And Ellen isn't alone in confronting
the way they see themselves.
658
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:35,799
You may find you like
certain things.
659
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:36,919
Don't be embarrassed.
660
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:39,959
Don't be afraid to embrace
the kinkier side of life.
661
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:42,759
Be a sexy Viking,
not a whiny little bitch.
662
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,639
It's important
for you to experience cringe,
663
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:46,959
and that's OK,
because it's growth.
664
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:49,519
Don't worry
about being thicker around the body.
665
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:51,519
It's more to be grabbed and spanked.
666
00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:53,160
THEY LAUGH
667
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:58,200
Dear my younger self, you are gay.
Like, super gay.
668
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:00,519
I promise you, you'll end
669
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:02,719
up actually liking the person
you are.
670
00:38:02,720 --> 00:38:05,599
FYI, you'll love being held
and cuddling, even
671
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:07,640
if you do deny it
to your last breath.
672
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:15,599
For others, reflection brings
a new kindness towards who they are.
673
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:19,040
Dear baby Alex, you are enough.
You are worthy of love.
674
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:22,039
Don't ever feel
like you never do enough.
675
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:24,560
You always bring smiles
and laughter to everyone around you.
676
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:29,079
Dear Bertie, in a decade
or so's time,
677
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:30,919
you'll be on an intimacy retreat.
678
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:34,920
Now, believe it or not, it's there
where you will find more confidence.
679
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:40,359
I know how hard it has been
for you to feel truly safe,
680
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:43,719
appreciated, and free. But trust me,
681
00:38:43,720 --> 00:38:45,360
you feel that almost every day now.
682
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,520
Pay no mind to those who try
to bring shame into your life.
683
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:54,679
You will still be a virgin
and unmarried at 22.
684
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:58,159
But you still like boys
with brown curly hair.
685
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:00,399
Love, Joy from the future.
686
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:03,399
PS - when you get your own money,
invest in a short pink wig.
687
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:04,639
Just trust me.
688
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:05,999
THEY LAUGH
689
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:07,200
Woo!
690
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:12,199
For Katie, this journey meant facing
691
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:15,279
the internal voices
that had been holding her back.
692
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:18,959
Katie, I'm so sorry for treating you
like shit for so many years.
693
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:20,520
You deserve so much better.
694
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:24,280
You really went through
so much and are truly so strong.
695
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:28,879
I'm so proud of you
and everything you have achieved.
696
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:30,239
You are beautiful, so kind
697
00:39:30,240 --> 00:39:32,360
and deserve every little bit
of love you receive.
698
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:36,159
Stop letting your anxiety
and bullies hold you back in life.
699
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:37,360
Its so upsetting to see.
700
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:40,919
Don't let others bring you
down or dictate your life.
701
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:42,640
I love you so much, beautiful girl.
702
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:55,999
Wow.
703
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:58,799
Having realised how much they've
all changed...
704
00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:00,879
Can I stand
up and say a couple of things?
705
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:02,639
Yeah, of course.
706
00:40:02,640 --> 00:40:04,680
...Marianne takes a moment to
reflect.
707
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:10,159
I would like to thank you, Celeste
and Danielle, for everything.
708
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,279
We love you so much.
709
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:14,720
And then I will direct
my whole attention to Andre.
710
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:21,760
Thank you for making me feel safe.
711
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:28,239
And thank you for allowing me
to just feel no judgment and enjoy.
712
00:40:28,240 --> 00:40:29,520
So thank you.
713
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:39,799
After struggling to find his voice,
Jason now has the courage to speak.
714
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:41,519
I know for the first, like, week
or two,
715
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:43,639
I was very difficult to work with.
716
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:45,399
It took a lot
for me to kind of, like,
717
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:48,520
speak more about myself
and be more emotional.
718
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:54,680
Um... Thank you, Aisha, as well.
719
00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:57,840
Um...
720
00:40:59,240 --> 00:41:00,480
I'm good. You're good.
721
00:41:07,720 --> 00:41:09,640
Um, yeah. I'm sorry. I'm...
722
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:12,799
HE EXHALES
723
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:14,359
Honestly, I don't really know what's
in my head,
724
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:17,479
so it's a bit difficult for someone
else to figure it out as well.
725
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:18,960
Thank you for everything.
726
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:27,759
One by one...
727
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:31,359
Ilil, you probably provided
the biggest breakthrough for me.
728
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:34,039
...the others take their opportunity
to give back.
729
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:36,999
Getting over the pressure,
performance anxiety of sex.
730
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:40,999
Thank you so much for that.
Risdon, you've got my heart.
731
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:44,959
You showed me how to use a strap-on,
and that is all I can ask for.
732
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:46,639
Thank you.
733
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:50,240
Thank you very much
for helping me get over my fears.
734
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:53,519
You've changed my life.
735
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:56,399
The empathy that you lead with
in every single session
736
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:59,280
has just made me feel so safe
and so understood.
737
00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:02,599
All I can say is I'm not a virgin
any more.
738
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:05,120
Thank you very much.
Thank you, everyone.
739
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:14,920
Taking things at his own pace
is Bertie with the final word.
740
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:18,199
This has been the most
741
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:21,120
fantastic experience
of my entire life.
742
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:24,639
Some of the workshop
activities, I thought
743
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:26,319
I'd never be able to do.
744
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:29,639
But that growth was all thanks
to you both.
745
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:34,959
Kat, you are an amazing person
and I will never forget you.
746
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,599
I would like to thank all of you.
747
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:40,199
Yes, I know that I'm not the most
sociable person,
748
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:41,959
but regardless of that,
749
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:46,279
you still made me feel like
that I was part of you
750
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:50,839
and you still accepted me
for who I was.
751
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:53,399
And that means so...
752
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:55,879
...so much more than you could know.
753
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:58,360
If someone said to me,
"Would you do this again?"...
754
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:02,200
...in a fucking heartbeat!
755
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:11,600
We just need a moment, OK?
756
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:19,039
The retreat is a huge success,
beyond anyone's imagination.
757
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:20,520
It makes me emotional.
758
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:25,599
It is really beautiful
to see how much they got here.
759
00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:28,520
I'm so proud of them.
They're so brave.
760
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:31,599
Now that they have all of
these tools,
761
00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:34,759
they're ready to go out into
the world and create the lives
762
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:37,159
and relationships they want
for themselves.
763
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:41,839
I think
to myself, "My work here is done."
764
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:44,959
The world is so not ready for me.
Big, bad world,
765
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:48,039
I am coming for you.
It's changed me.
766
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:51,319
I'm so much happier as a person.
I enjoy life again.
767
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,719
And I lost my virginity.
768
00:43:53,720 --> 00:43:55,559
Yay!
769
00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:58,839
I've not graduated anything
in my life,
770
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:04,639
so to graduate sex camp
is just amazing.
771
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:06,799
I'm excited to go back to the real
world.
772
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:09,839
I came here really shy and insecure.
773
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:13,839
I'm leaving really confident,
really sure of myself
774
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:15,999
and no longer a virgin!
775
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:18,119
The first time that we started to
connect
776
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:22,439
in an erotic way,
I was like, "Holy shit."
777
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:24,359
THEY LAUGH
778
00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:25,959
I feel fantastic.
779
00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:30,159
I didn't go into this island with
the intention of having any firsts.
780
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:32,479
If they happened, they happened.
781
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:35,039
And well, they did bloody happen.
782
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:37,999
What an absolute ride I've been on.
783
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:40,119
You did it! Congratulations!
784
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:42,160
THEY CHEER
785
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:45,599
We graduated!
786
00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:46,840
Woo!
787
00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:53,119
We're ready for a group orgy now.
788
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:54,679
Cheers to orgies!
789
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:56,360
CHEERING AND LAUGHTER
790
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:29,719
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791
00:46:29,720 --> 00:46:32,760
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