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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:06,039 This programme contains strong language, scenes of sexual nature and nudity 2 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:07,919 I'm nervous. I'm going to take it one step at a time. 3 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:10,399 In a world saturated with sex... 4 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:12,279 I'm absolutely petrified. 5 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:16,879 ...more young adults than ever are living without it. 6 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:19,519 The thought of having sex with someone... Scares me. 7 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:21,359 It gives me the ick. I'm missing out. 8 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:23,439 Terrified. Nerve-racking. Gut-wrenching. 9 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:24,799 Embarrassing. 10 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:28,039 All I think about is what I'm going to get wrong. 11 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:31,159 Can you point to the outer labia? 12 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:32,360 Nope. 13 00:00:33,480 --> 00:00:35,559 Now... Oh, my God! 14 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:39,519 ...12 virgins are getting a crash course in intimacy. 15 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:42,199 Social media, porn, dating apps. 16 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:45,719 There are so many negative messages and we can help them blossom. 17 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:47,959 Use it by stimulating the area. 18 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,479 They'll be guided by experts... 19 00:00:50,480 --> 00:00:52,919 You see yourself as...? Repulsive. 20 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:55,280 ...to explore all aspects of intimacy... 21 00:00:56,480 --> 00:01:00,079 ...and maybe even have sex with a trained therapist. 22 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:01,760 Do you want to put a condom on? 23 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:05,079 Or each other. 24 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:06,759 Get a room, guys! 25 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:08,199 THEY SCREAM 26 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:11,799 I really do need to change my life. Who will be ready... 27 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:13,919 Desperate times call for desperate measures. 28 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:15,800 ...to go all the way? 29 00:01:24,320 --> 00:01:25,839 {\an8}Horny Island! 30 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:28,439 {\an8}Over the past few days on Virgin Island... 31 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:30,479 I'm slutty Stephanie. 32 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:33,879 ...things got steamy in the seductive phase. 33 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:36,239 It's not how I thought I would feel. It feels good. 34 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:38,719 Marianne got to grips with a naked Andre. 35 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:40,039 I could do this all day. 36 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:41,479 THEY LAUGH 37 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:44,079 Can I give you a spank? Yes. 38 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,879 Bertie found his voice in the bedroom. 39 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:48,159 Thanks for asking. 40 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:51,399 And Callum and Katie's connection deepened. 41 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:52,519 HE KISSES 42 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:54,039 THEY LAUGH 43 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:56,439 Now... KISSING 44 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:58,639 ...as the group enter the climax phase... 45 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:00,279 HEAVY BREATHING 46 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:03,480 ...time is running out to fulfil their island ambitions. 47 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:09,119 {\an8}A lot of people think climax is just about orgasm, 48 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:13,199 but climax is actually having a peak sexual experience. 49 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:15,319 Your partner might be stimulating your clit. 50 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:16,399 And we want all of 51 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:20,040 them to have their peak sexual experiences in their lives. 52 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:31,480 After 15 days... 53 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:35,199 Ah, the last letter. 54 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:38,280 ...the group are nearing graduation from Virgin Island. 55 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:41,120 Let's see what the last phase is. 56 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:48,279 "Prepare for the end of the course as it reaches its climax." 57 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:50,920 Well, I'm pleased that they took my advice on the pun. 58 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:55,000 I'm actually quite excited. 59 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:58,999 This one could be quite a fun one. A lot of the stuff 60 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:02,199 we've done previously has got me into a confident mood. 61 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:04,159 Yeah, I'm looking forward to it. 62 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:05,719 100%. 63 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:08,519 For me, being on the island, it has had an ending. 64 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:11,439 It was sex and reaching orgasm. 65 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:13,079 Um... 66 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:14,799 Twice. 67 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:17,479 I wonder what we're going to be doing because it's, like, 68 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:19,039 have we not? 69 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:20,759 I mean, I've already climaxed. 70 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:22,400 THEY LAUGH 71 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:26,479 While some of the group have found what they came for... 72 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:28,439 The final phase! Hmm. 73 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:30,959 ...others have yet to reach their goals. 74 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:34,839 It's going to come to an end soon. I know. 75 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:38,559 Today has to be positions, right? Surely. No, climax. 76 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:41,239 We're going to get in front of each other and have a wank. 77 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:42,920 THEY LAUGH 78 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:47,519 For the final workshop of the retreat... 79 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:50,119 Callum, are you ready? Yeah. So ready. 80 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:52,559 ...the experts want the group to realise... 81 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:55,719 There's actually a literal bed. ...just how far they've come. 82 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:57,920 Morning, guys. Morning, all. Morning. 83 00:03:59,960 --> 00:04:03,759 All right. The final phase of the course, 84 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:05,479 the climax. 85 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:08,319 Climax is really having this peak experience 86 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:10,159 that you can have in your sex life. 87 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:12,759 And we want to make sure that you get every tool 88 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:15,119 that you need in order to do that. 89 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:17,679 Now, if you remember the very 90 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:20,839 first demo we showed you at the start of the course, 91 00:04:20,840 --> 00:04:23,039 pillow talk. Mm-hm. 92 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:26,679 Most of you were like deer in the headlights. 93 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:29,999 My God, your eyes are so beautiful. 94 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:32,079 When they first saw the pillow talk 95 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:34,679 demo, they couldn't even look. 96 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:36,799 They were extremely intimidated. 97 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,319 It's a bit, "Uh!" Yeah. 98 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:41,639 So now, with everything you've discovered, 99 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:44,640 it's time to step up and try it yourself. 100 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:49,239 I'll go, if anyone's keen. If anyone's keen! 101 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:52,640 First up, advanced students Alex and Joy. 102 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:58,120 You look so nice today. No, no. No "nice". 103 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:04,399 "Beautiful," "sexy"... Like, not anything that's sweet. 104 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:07,279 That's great. It's important communication here. 105 00:05:07,280 --> 00:05:09,640 You look so sexy today. Thank you. 106 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:15,960 You drive me crazy. That turns me on. Good. 107 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:20,520 Move your legs on top of me. 108 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:25,320 I really want to kiss you right now. Do it. 109 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:32,800 THEY APPLAUD 110 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:39,519 It's not just Alex and Joy... 111 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:42,319 You smell so good. You're giving me the eyes. 112 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:44,920 ...who are keen to show off their pillow talk prowess. 113 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:50,880 {\an8}We can get lost together. 114 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:56,000 Amazing. 115 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:03,159 But the final exercise will teach the group the ultimate sex tips. 116 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:06,360 So for your final lesson, we will show you some sex moves. 117 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:12,759 It's really, really important that they practise with 118 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:16,479 the different sexual positions to be erotically confident. 119 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:19,160 We've chosen these sex positions because they're the most common. 120 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:25,719 Which include one partner on top... 121 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:27,040 ...missionary position. 122 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:30,719 Also, oral sex is really, really important. 123 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:32,359 SHE EXHALES 124 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:33,680 And doggy style. 125 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:37,759 No-one's going to be doing wheelbarrow out there. 126 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:39,759 SHE LAUGHS 127 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:41,239 Mm! 128 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:42,840 GIGGLING 129 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:46,519 Who want to start? I'll do it. 130 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:48,320 CHEERING AND APPLAUSE 131 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:52,399 After a nervy start... 132 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:54,839 Put this leg between her legs. 133 00:06:54,840 --> 00:06:56,239 Like this? Yeah. 134 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:59,759 ...Bertie has thrown himself into more and more of the exercises. 135 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:01,879 Good, good. Perfect. 136 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:03,879 And it's paying off. 137 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:07,799 Good. Is this right? Yeah. Very smooth. 138 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:11,119 I want to get out from the retreat 139 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:15,639 as much as I can, but so many people just do it naturally. 140 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:18,679 They know what they're doing. They're confident in themselves. 141 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:20,519 I just want to be that guy. 142 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:22,000 HE LAUGHS 143 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:25,399 Do you want a spank? Always. 144 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:27,319 THEY LAUGH 145 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:28,760 Woohoo! 146 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:34,559 I feel really proud. If you had a strap-on, 147 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:36,519 it would be a great position for that. 148 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:38,119 At first they were all hesitant. 149 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:39,319 I assume. 150 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:41,079 HE LAUGHS 151 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:43,199 But they have completely supported 152 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:44,960 each other through the whole process. 153 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:48,799 Yeah! Do you want a spank? 154 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:50,719 Um... I'll have a pat. 155 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:52,399 It's unprecedented. 156 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:54,359 APPLAUSE 157 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:57,999 And for one couple... You ready? Oh, go on, then. 158 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:00,799 Don't act like you haven't been doing this in the day bed anyway. 159 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:02,319 THEY LAUGH 160 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:04,439 ...the bond has intensified. 161 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:05,519 Naughty. 162 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:06,919 THEY LAUGH 163 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:09,879 I've always grown up reading, like, sexy stories, 164 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:12,119 even when I was a teenager. 165 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:16,319 But the word virgin means you haven't had sex. 166 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:19,760 But in my head, I know what I like. 167 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:23,239 OK, take a second to connect. 168 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:26,519 {\an8}I don't really want to be intimate with someone I don't know. 169 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:28,799 When I build a connection up, start laughing with them 170 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:32,639 and have a fun time with them, that's what I want in the future. 171 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:33,999 Pull her on top of you. 172 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:37,520 Ready? Mm-hm. Yeah. Perfect. 173 00:08:38,560 --> 00:08:42,479 Change to missionary and connect your pelvises together. 174 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:45,039 Yeah. There you go. Perfect. 175 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:46,360 The next one is going down. 176 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:54,759 You can flip her into doggy style. 177 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:56,480 Yeah! Exactly. 178 00:08:59,680 --> 00:09:01,160 CHEERING 179 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:10,399 How did it feel to do that? I think, like, doing half these workshops, 180 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:13,240 it just leaves me, like, massively, like, horny all day. 181 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:18,240 Well, that's great. 182 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:24,240 Bye! 183 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:31,119 How do we feel? That was our last ever workshop. 184 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:33,319 I didn't expect that. There were times when people would say, 185 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:34,439 "I want to do it, 186 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:37,199 "but I'm not comfortable doing it with someone in the group." 187 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:39,200 That was practically my catchphrase at one point. 188 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:43,239 The sex positions, like, they were a bit awkward, 189 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:44,439 but when you're 190 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:47,640 in the mood with your partner, it'll all just flow. Yeah. 191 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:52,879 For Callum and Katie... 192 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:54,840 Pew, pew, pew, pew, pew, pew... 193 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:59,639 ...as they near the end of the retreat, 194 00:09:59,640 --> 00:10:02,039 their mutual affection... 195 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:04,119 Oh, you're funny. I like you. 196 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:05,640 ...is on full display. 197 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:09,279 {\an8}I'm very excited to see a budding 198 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:11,999 {\an8}romance in this environment. It's beautiful 199 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:14,959 people feel the freedom to use the skills 200 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:17,359 and the tools they're learning in the retreat. 201 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:19,599 That's actually my dream. 202 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:22,319 I can bloody feel you on my stomach. 203 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:24,439 It's like that all the time. Don't worry about it. 204 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:27,559 It's... it's quite a hard life. 205 00:10:27,560 --> 00:10:28,760 Literally. 206 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:31,439 My main focus moving forward 207 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:33,599 is obviously getting closer to Katie because, 208 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:36,319 like, I'm not being funny, I like her. 209 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:37,879 Stop teasing yourself. 210 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:39,040 THEY LAUGH 211 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:44,999 I've never felt this way with a boy before. 212 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:46,839 I've never been close to a boy before, 213 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:49,519 but I don't think I know my body at all. 214 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:52,679 And I have literally no experience. 215 00:10:52,680 --> 00:10:55,759 So I think I'm just scared for, like, 216 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:57,879 not knowing what to do. 217 00:10:57,880 --> 00:10:59,160 Mm-mm! 218 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:04,159 SHE GIGGLES 219 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:07,359 As Callum and Katie get closer than ever, 220 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:10,559 the experts want to make sure they're properly prepared. 221 00:11:10,560 --> 00:11:13,399 Katie, she has this budding romance with Callum, 222 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:14,879 which is very sweet, 223 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:16,439 and I also feel like there's so much more 224 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:19,679 for her to learn around her own body and pleasure. 225 00:11:19,680 --> 00:11:22,239 Yeah. I want this session to be 226 00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:25,719 about her starting to step into her womanhood, 227 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:29,039 building some kind of a relationship with her genitals. 228 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:31,159 Kat, you're going to be seeing Callum today. 229 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:33,399 And this is your last session with him. 230 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:37,119 Yes. We're going to be doing clothes off, erotic touch, 231 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:39,319 and I feel like it's a good place stopping him here 232 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:43,479 because he has the skills to go forth and enjoy with Katie. 233 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:44,840 THEY LAUGH 234 00:11:47,680 --> 00:11:51,519 I have no sexual history at all. I haven't done anything. 235 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:55,359 I haven't ever had an orgasm. When I was younger, 236 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:58,439 I thought I would have been married and had kids by now. 237 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:00,319 Multiple kids. 238 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:01,559 Hello, beautiful. 239 00:12:01,560 --> 00:12:03,639 And I feel disappointed in myself that I haven't 240 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:05,800 been able to achieve anything that I wanted to. 241 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:09,639 So have you explored your vagina in any way? 242 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:12,719 I haven't. With time at the retreat running out... 243 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:16,719 So what could be motivating about getting to know your genitals? 244 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:20,999 So I'm able to tell them exactly what I like already. 245 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:25,279 Yeah. ..Katie's meeting sexological bodyworker Ilil 246 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:27,879 to learn more about pleasure. 247 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:30,039 Something that can feel really nice is 248 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:31,719 if you have your finger in, or your partner has, 249 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:32,959 and it kind 250 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:36,239 of might be stimulating your clit at the same time. 251 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:40,799 Hmm. I mean, just doing that could feel really nice. 252 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:43,319 I never went to, like, sex ed at school or anything. 253 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:45,319 So this is, like, totally new to me. 254 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:48,319 I don't know why I get so uncomfortable over my own body. 255 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:53,159 Exactly. While Katie has her very own sex ed lesson... 256 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:55,599 How's it going? Me and Katie, we've hit it off a lot. 257 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:58,319 How's that feeling? Awesome. ...Callum is responding well 258 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:01,279 to hands-on therapy with surrogate partner Kat. 259 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:03,839 What do you feel like you want to do with Katie? 260 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:07,359 I just want to experience everything that I can in the right way. 261 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:09,359 I have never touched anyone intimately. 262 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:12,719 So when it comes to it, the fear is not knowing anything 263 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:15,039 about it and what to do. OK, so we'll start. 264 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:17,359 I'll let you kind of lead. It's a lot of pressure. 265 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:18,599 And, you know, you don't want to have sex 266 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:21,039 with someone if you don't know how to have sex. 267 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:23,119 Sex should be something that should be cherished, 268 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:26,319 not something that should just be a quick form of just getting off. 269 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:31,479 While you're holding my hand down, start to touch me. 270 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:32,640 Yeah. 271 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:40,440 How does that feel, me touching you? Great. 272 00:13:42,560 --> 00:13:44,400 Yeah. Like that. 273 00:13:48,520 --> 00:13:51,159 I think I need more boy knowledge. OK. 274 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:54,239 Do you want to explore some dicks? Let's do it! 275 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:56,719 So it really changes from a person to a person. 276 00:13:56,720 --> 00:14:01,359 But usually the parts that have the most pleasure is, like, the head. 277 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:03,560 So you can kind of, like, go around. 278 00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:14,079 The balls can feel really nice. For some, it's very sensitive, 279 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:17,520 and for some, you can really squeeze them. 280 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:22,880 Thank you. You're welcome. 281 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:25,560 This has been so good. 282 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:30,279 It's quite scary because it's just very unknown. 283 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:34,439 But I know what to explore, so it's going to be fun. 284 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:37,760 I felt you, like, really present and, like, following things. 285 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:42,079 Good job. Genuinely, I can't explain how much you've helped me. 286 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:43,599 I never thought I'd be at this point. 287 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:45,239 Ever. That's amazing. 288 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:48,119 Like, just to do this alone is unbelievable. 289 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:50,680 You really have all of the tools you need. Yeah. 290 00:14:51,880 --> 00:14:53,879 It's crazy how much I've changed as a person. 291 00:14:53,880 --> 00:14:56,119 I've actually got closer to Katie. 292 00:14:56,120 --> 00:14:58,040 The heart wants what the heart wants. 293 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:09,319 It's afternoon on Virgin Island. 294 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:10,759 This is really good. 295 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:13,039 It's good? Mm. Good. 296 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:16,719 While Callum and Katie's chemistry is impossible to miss... 297 00:15:16,720 --> 00:15:18,680 Is it fun, Callum? Yeah, it is. 298 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:23,359 THEY LAUGH 299 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:24,759 ...Marianne has been steadily 300 00:15:24,760 --> 00:15:28,559 exploring her own connection with surrogate partner Andre. 301 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:30,559 What I love about Andre is he has 302 00:15:30,560 --> 00:15:32,639 a way of making people feel calmer and relaxed, 303 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:36,439 and he reads you very well. You arrive with boundaries in terms 304 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:38,399 of, "I'm just too scared to try something," 305 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:43,599 but now it's more just about having fun exploring. 306 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:49,399 Marianne, she's really embracing her sexiness. She really is glowing. 307 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:52,599 And you're going to be having a session with her, Andre, today. 308 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:56,039 She's a very curious individual. She wants to learn about herself. 309 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:59,959 She's very interested to see if she wants to go even further. 310 00:15:59,960 --> 00:16:02,360 So we'll check in. But there's that potential. 311 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:07,599 {\an8}Everyone expects a virgin to be like this horrible, 312 00:16:07,600 --> 00:16:10,799 {\an8}ugly thing that hides and has no confidence. 313 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:13,000 But I'm a very sexual person. 314 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:18,439 I read a lot of books, and I have one fantasy, 315 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:21,319 which it's a recurring one. 316 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:23,439 I love the idea of spanking 317 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:25,359 and maybe having that dominance, 318 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:27,879 but I still feel as if I have my autonomy. 319 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:30,160 I'm good and I'm safe. 320 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:34,680 Knock, knock! Hello. 321 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:39,599 Though making good progress, Marianne is still setting 322 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:42,359 her own pace with Andre. How are you doing today? 323 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:45,000 Doing well. You? I'm good today. 324 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:50,439 Surrogate partner therapy is structured around consent. 325 00:16:50,440 --> 00:16:54,519 And it's all about their full body understanding 326 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:57,559 that this is their time and they get to choose. 327 00:16:57,560 --> 00:16:59,639 So today, was there anything 328 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:03,319 that you came in with wanting to try? 329 00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:04,799 Mm... 330 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:08,839 Can we try the mutual massage? Mm-hm. 331 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:12,399 And... possibly a spanking. 332 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:14,039 OK. So I was like, that's... Yeah. 333 00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:16,519 I love... I love that. How did you learn about it? 334 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:19,679 You said you know... Books. Books. Read a LOT of books. 335 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:21,199 And just take my inspiration from that. 336 00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:24,279 I'm like, "Cool. Noted." You deserve to be happy. 337 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:25,679 You deserve to feel pleasure. 338 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:28,999 And sometimes that can also allow the building 339 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:30,679 in of trust and safety 340 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:33,759 to other intimate connection that we could 341 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:35,839 potentially share. 342 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:37,400 To get things started... 343 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:42,240 ...Andre performs a sensual massage. 344 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:46,080 It feels so lovely. Hmm. 345 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:49,320 I'm glad you're enjoying it. Mm-hm. 346 00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:58,519 Next... 347 00:17:58,520 --> 00:18:01,079 Can we do the spanking? OK. 348 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:03,919 ...Marianne has some ideas of her own. 349 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:08,079 Put your body over. Like this? Mm-hm. Yeah. 350 00:18:08,080 --> 00:18:10,599 If you want, you can even lean on it. How does that feel? 351 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:12,640 It feels nice. OK, good. 352 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:18,999 I like starting slowly, to just feel your skin. 353 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:24,720 You feel my hand getting familiar with my touch, waking up the skin. 354 00:18:26,360 --> 00:18:28,719 And I usually like working on a number scale 355 00:18:28,720 --> 00:18:33,319 so I get to know how hard you want to be spanked. 356 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:37,639 So from zero to five, zero being, 357 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:39,079 "I didn't feel that at all," 358 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:41,880 and five being, "That's the hardest hit I can take." 359 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:44,720 What is that? That's zero. 360 00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:52,359 How about that. Hmm, two. It's a two? 361 00:18:52,360 --> 00:18:55,639 So we'll stay with the two. Mm-hm. 362 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:57,200 SHE MOANS 363 00:18:59,840 --> 00:19:01,520 SHE BREATHES HEAVILY 364 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:04,000 How does that feel? 365 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:06,480 Really good. Really good? Mm-hm. 366 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:11,240 SHE LAUGHS 367 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:17,759 What would feel good to receive in the way of care? 368 00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:18,999 Cuddles. 369 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:20,399 THEY LAUGH 370 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:21,640 OK, let's do that. 371 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:28,520 Thank you for the spanks. Oh. 372 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:32,840 Why don't we go ahead and get dressed? 373 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:40,959 Thank you, Andre. You're welcome. Thank you. 374 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:43,519 That was so fun. And super fucking hot. 375 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:44,720 SHE LAUGHS 376 00:19:46,280 --> 00:19:51,879 It was nice because I felt really in it and really safe and horny. 377 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:53,080 Very, very horny. 378 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:57,559 When I first came, everything seemed so far away. 379 00:19:57,560 --> 00:20:00,679 And now it made me confident in what I'm feeling, 380 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:04,720 how I can communicate it, and asking for what I want as well. 381 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:12,039 Hi! Hi, Marianne. Welcome back. 382 00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:14,559 Oh, you guys are back on the bed. 383 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:16,799 Marianne, you've missed so much. What happened? 384 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:18,319 Oh, my God. Where do you think 385 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:20,999 Katie and Callum have gone? On a date? 386 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,599 They're having a special nap. Swear on your life. 387 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:26,559 Genuinely, they are. With their relationship 388 00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:28,079 the talk of the island... 389 00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:29,919 I'm really excited for this connection. 390 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:31,359 Yeah? Yep. 391 00:20:31,360 --> 00:20:34,679 ...Callum and Katie are keen to spend some time alone together. 392 00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:36,639 In order to make sure that everyone feels safe, 393 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:39,159 I wanted to check a little bit about your readiness. 394 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:40,359 Anything that you feel 395 00:20:40,360 --> 00:20:41,959 like it's hard for you to share with each other, 396 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:45,479 and you want to use me to support you in sharing that? 397 00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:47,039 I think I've pretty much told you everything, 398 00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:48,799 like my worries and stuff. Mm-hm. 399 00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:50,679 Obviously, I had a lot before coming here, 400 00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:52,479 but I've gone through the entire experience. 401 00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:56,160 All them worries and everything that I've felt have gone. 402 00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:02,479 Consent is essential to everything we do at the retreat. 403 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,359 One of the most powerful things is 404 00:21:04,360 --> 00:21:08,159 that we teach people to speak their boundaries. 405 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:12,919 So when they actually consent, they mean it. 406 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:14,519 You're both adults. 407 00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:18,439 Always feel like you can say no and say yes. 408 00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:21,319 I'm really proud of seeing both of you really blooming, 409 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:24,959 and I'm excited for your developing connection. 410 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:27,680 Thank you. Thank you. You're so cute. 411 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:34,759 I would love to have a partner. I would love to have a boyfriend. 412 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:40,239 I have kindness and patience to offer to someone. 413 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:42,999 I want to do that, and I can't wait to do that. 414 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,120 One day. 415 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,399 I feel like a genuine connection comes from, 416 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:50,519 you know, meeting someone in person. 417 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:54,600 I want to see if I can really, actually let it happen. 418 00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:57,800 Oh, fancy. 419 00:21:59,120 --> 00:22:00,480 KATIE LAUGHS 420 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:04,639 Are you ready? Mm-hm. Take your top off. 421 00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:06,399 You take it off. 422 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:08,359 What begins as foreplay... 423 00:22:08,360 --> 00:22:10,359 That tickles! SHE LAUGHS 424 00:22:10,360 --> 00:22:11,880 ...eventually evolves... 425 00:22:18,360 --> 00:22:21,440 ...as Callum and Katie take a significant step together. 426 00:22:41,360 --> 00:22:43,800 MOANING 427 00:22:52,360 --> 00:22:54,520 HEAVY BREATHING 428 00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:01,599 CALLUM LAUGHS 429 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:03,600 BOTH LAUGH 430 00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:07,800 Oh, my God! 431 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,160 Mm-hm. Mm-hm. 432 00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:20,160 Mm-hm. 433 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:26,919 When I first arrived on this island, I was scared. 434 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:30,199 And I was shy and so insecure. 435 00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:33,519 I didn't expect to lose my virginity at all. 436 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,639 But I think it was really a natural 437 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:40,359 thing because I trust Callum so much, and it was really good. 438 00:23:40,360 --> 00:23:42,359 I'm just so excited to go back 439 00:23:42,360 --> 00:23:44,840 and show everyone this new version of me. 440 00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:49,479 Such a good nap. Yeah. Yeah, sorry. 441 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:52,560 Very, very good nap. Yeah. We made the experience ours. 442 00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:57,600 We both helped each other a lot, and what a perfect way to end it. 443 00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:12,159 It's the start of the final day on Virgin Island. 444 00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:14,600 Good morning, guys. Good morning. Morning. 445 00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:20,159 Oh, mushrooms. Oh, I like mushrooms. Did you sleep well, Callum? 446 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:22,559 Mm-hm. Bet you did. 447 00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:24,399 Got a lot of muscle pain today. 448 00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:25,800 JOY LAUGHS 449 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,079 Millie, do you think you'll fit in my suitcase? 450 00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:32,280 If you give me a little bit of room to breathe. 451 00:24:35,360 --> 00:24:36,719 How are you feeling, Bertie, about the end? 452 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:38,279 It'll be nice to go back 453 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,679 and see my friends and family, but at the same time, 454 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:42,719 I am going to miss this. 455 00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:44,719 I feel like it's going to be weird, just not being horny every day. 456 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:46,479 Who says you're not going to be horny every day? 457 00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:47,600 Yeah, that's true. 458 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:52,319 Ahead of this evening's graduation ceremony, 459 00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:55,839 the experts have set the group one final exercise. 460 00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:57,719 Read it out to us, Tegan. 461 00:24:57,720 --> 00:24:59,999 "Now you're at the end of the course, 462 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,999 "we want you to write a letter to your past self 463 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:07,040 "to read out in front of the group at this graduation ceremony." 464 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,719 So I've got to think of a bloody speech to say. 465 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:11,999 I think mine will be 466 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:16,159 quite short, actually, because it's the climax phase. 467 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:17,879 THEY LAUGH 468 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:22,239 Realising how far you've come is really emotional. 469 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:25,479 It's a moment to reflect and help them cement 470 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:29,359 the journey of their progress and development. 471 00:25:29,360 --> 00:25:32,240 Having made real progress in his previous session... 472 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:35,159 ...Bertie's due 473 00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:38,119 to meet surrogate partner Kat for the final time. 474 00:25:38,120 --> 00:25:41,559 Bertie was like the real sleeper. When I first saw him, 475 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:43,559 you felt like he was going to talk himself out of everything, 476 00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:45,519 and then he talked himself into everything. 477 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:48,479 And I think he has so much sensuality. 478 00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:52,279 As soon as he gets aroused, he really surprised me. 479 00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:56,359 He's been so fun to work with. So we're going to see what he wants 480 00:25:56,360 --> 00:25:58,560 to do today to feel, like, really complete. 481 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:05,600 I'm not getting any younger, in terms of the dating game. 482 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,799 I just want to try my very best to do 483 00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:15,919 all the things that I want to push myself to do 484 00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:18,999 and to come back telling people how much 485 00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:22,839 of a different person I am and being able to just... 486 00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:24,080 ...feel free. 487 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:27,640 Good afternoon. Can I have a hug? 488 00:26:29,360 --> 00:26:30,999 For the first time, 489 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,919 Kat feels Bertie is ready for the bedroom 490 00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:37,239 and the next step in his sexual education. 491 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,760 So would you want to try oral? 492 00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:44,999 Um... 493 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,200 It's the nervous excitement, but, uh, yeah. 494 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:50,999 So... HE LAUGHS 495 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,519 So I'm going to let you practise leading. 496 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:54,880 Um, OK. 497 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:07,079 Oh. Will you take off my shirt? 498 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:08,640 I thought you'd never ask. 499 00:27:11,360 --> 00:27:13,839 OK, so I want you to just relax 500 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:17,520 and just notice the sensations, OK? OK. 501 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:21,120 Mm! 502 00:27:23,360 --> 00:27:26,360 HEAVY BREATHING 503 00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:33,360 Do you want to try switching? Yeah. 504 00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,199 Where's...? Where do you like to be...? 505 00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:40,239 Um, I would say first, just explore. Just, like, it's new, 506 00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:41,599 it's weird. 507 00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:44,720 So see what it feels like for you, and if you even like it. 508 00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:49,759 It's quite salty, actually. 509 00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:51,959 THEY LAUGH 510 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:56,239 I'm not sure if oral is going to be for me, but, uh... 511 00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:59,079 Would you like to pivot to do what is for you? 512 00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,479 Yeah. Yeah? Let's do that. 513 00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:03,239 Oral experiment over... 514 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:06,719 What would feel good? Maybe you can keep doing that. 515 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:09,159 ...Bertie leads the way. 516 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,319 I can touch you like this. 517 00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:12,640 Yeah. That's it. 518 00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:15,160 That feels really good. Yeah? 519 00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:17,840 KAT BREATHES HEAVILY 520 00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:22,760 This is so nice. 521 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:28,160 So fucking sexy. 522 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,160 HEAVY BREATHING 523 00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:42,279 Didn't go in your this time. I'm very happy. 524 00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:43,800 So that's some progress made. 525 00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,039 How are you feeling? I'm feeling super good. 526 00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,399 How are you feeling? I'm feeling amazing. 527 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,119 You've been so good to me 528 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:56,839 when we've done our sessions and some of the things that I've done, 529 00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:58,639 I never thought I'd do in a million years. 530 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:02,080 And then you came along. And you honestly mean so much. 531 00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:13,240 Thank you for everything. Thank you. 532 00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:19,879 It's just this experience that I've 533 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:24,080 had has been nothing short of surreal... 534 00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:29,599 ...fantastic. I never thought that in such quick succession, 535 00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:33,599 I'd be able to have my first kiss, 536 00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:37,880 touch my first vagina, make a woman orgasm. 537 00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:41,479 I will never forget Kat 538 00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:46,079 and never forget the ups and downs that I've had here. 539 00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:47,600 It's been nothing short of phenomenal. 540 00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:55,800 Fuck me sideways. That was amazing. That was a great experience. 541 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:03,919 As Bertie reaches the end of his surrogate partner therapy... 542 00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:06,079 ...ahead of her final session with Andre, 543 00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,919 Marianne meets with clinical therapist Abby... 544 00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:10,279 Hi. Hello. 545 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,039 Come on in. 546 00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:15,519 ...to reflect on how far she's come 547 00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:17,240 and how far she wants to go. 548 00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:20,879 How's everything been? It's been good. 549 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:23,239 Yeah. I just wanted to, like, check in, 550 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:25,399 see how your work is going with Andre. 551 00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:27,799 I think everything's been going really well, 552 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:29,519 which has surprised me. Yeah. 553 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:30,919 I feel like before when I came in, I was like, 554 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:33,919 there's no possible way I could see myself, 555 00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:37,759 like, maybe having sex, all these blocks and stuff, 556 00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:41,279 that I could see myself doing, like, comfortably. Yeah. 557 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,679 I've still got my one-on-one session today. 558 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:47,039 And noticing where you're finding your flexibility. 559 00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:51,119 Like saying, "I know how to check in. I know how to use my voice." 560 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,799 I'm not... Yeah, I'm not feeling panicked about anything. 561 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:55,199 I'm feeling very supported. 562 00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:57,599 Take all of that in because you really do 563 00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:00,359 deserve everything that you're doing for you. 564 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:06,279 Marianne is a superstar and a straight A+ student. 565 00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:11,040 She's really learning in a somatic way how to trust her body. 566 00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:18,799 Being a virgin at 26, I think about sex every day. 567 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,439 It's just nagging in my ear. 568 00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:24,880 And I think that's because I haven't done it. 569 00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:30,319 Hello! I want to lose my virginity because I could 570 00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:32,119 just get on with my life. 571 00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,800 I could just not think about it all the time. 572 00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,480 I'm just going to lay out all the possibilities for today. 573 00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:45,719 Continued escalation of kissing. 574 00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:47,559 Mutual erotic touch. 575 00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:50,639 Touching breasts, touching genitals. 576 00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:54,039 Oral pleasure. Those sound good, yeah. 577 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:58,559 And if there is a desire and you feel comfort 578 00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:01,400 and you're in your full yes, penetration. 579 00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:13,399 In her final session... Allowing yourself just a moment 580 00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:15,319 to think about being able to be 581 00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:17,839 in a vulnerable state with someone else. 582 00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:19,679 ...Marianne has reached a defining 583 00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:22,239 moment in the surrogate partner programme. 584 00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:25,600 You can feel nervous. You can feel orgasmic. 585 00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:28,200 I want to kiss you. 586 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:49,520 Mm-hm. 587 00:32:56,840 --> 00:33:00,599 Can we try it? Me being inside you? Mm-hm. 588 00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:01,800 Yes, we can. 589 00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:08,840 I might need your help. OK. 590 00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:13,040 Good. Mm-hm. 591 00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:35,800 SHE MOANS 592 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:41,480 SHE MOANS LOUDLY 593 00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:45,440 SHE MOANS 594 00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:49,960 SHE EXHALES LOUDLY 595 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,440 SHE MOANS 596 00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:08,080 How did that feel? 597 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:13,720 Did it feel like a milestone? 598 00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:17,879 It felt good. Really nice and natural. 599 00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:19,959 Hmm. 600 00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:22,120 Thank you so much for trusting me. 601 00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:25,360 For trusting yourself. 602 00:34:26,720 --> 00:34:28,040 Let's get dressed. 603 00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:35,559 How are you feeling? Kind of have a clear head. 604 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,759 Like, "Ooh!" You know? In a good way. Mm-hm. 605 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:40,879 Feeling happy as well. 606 00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:42,080 Good. Yeah. Me, too. 607 00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:46,159 Thank you. Thank you for making me feel safe. 608 00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:47,639 Mm-hm. 609 00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:49,240 It's such a pleasure. 610 00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:57,279 I knew the possibility of having sex 611 00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:00,240 was on the table, and so I'm no longer a virgin. 612 00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:05,999 I felt comfortable in my body and safe in my environment. 613 00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:09,879 And Andre was incredible. So I wasn't really nervous. 614 00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:13,359 Like, I haven't lost anything. I've just gained something. 615 00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:16,599 And I just had pure elation. 616 00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:19,120 So I'm very, very lucky with that. 617 00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:25,600 As a therapeutic part of the course draws to a close... 618 00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,600 ...the sun sets on the retreat for the final time. 619 00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:34,399 Graduation is such an important 620 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,399 moment in this group's journey. 621 00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,039 It helps them see all the achievements 622 00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:43,639 that they've got throughout this process. 623 00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:47,719 All that remains is for everyone to dress up for one last step. 624 00:35:47,720 --> 00:35:51,320 I'm really sad to be saying goodbye. Yeah. It's hard. 625 00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:54,999 I'm looking forward to graduation. 626 00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,479 It'll be a nice way to celebrate all of the weird 627 00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:01,079 and wonderful things we've done on this island. 628 00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:03,599 Very bittersweet, how I'm feeling. 629 00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:06,399 It's been an incredible three weeks. 630 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:09,959 A few weeks ago, they were complete strangers. 631 00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:11,839 Fire smells nice. 632 00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:13,799 Yeah, they're going to sacrifice us, aren't they? 633 00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:15,799 THEY LAUGH 634 00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:17,040 Hi! 635 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:21,799 Wow. Look at you. 636 00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:23,519 Now, together, 637 00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:27,639 they have reached the climax of their time on Virgin Island. 638 00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:29,759 It's graduation! 639 00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:32,599 THEY CHEER 640 00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,000 You made it! 641 00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:36,879 And we're so proud of you. 642 00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:40,959 Your bravery and your courage is unparalleled. 643 00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:45,799 Earlier today, we asked you to write a letter to your younger self, 644 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:48,520 and now we want you each to come up and share that. 645 00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:53,280 Who want to start? 646 00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:58,759 Arriving as one of the least confident, 647 00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:01,880 Ellen now has the courage to step forward with pride. 648 00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:06,639 A letter to my younger self. Don't listen to them. 649 00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:09,759 It will be hard. But what they say isn't true. 650 00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:12,559 It's OK to look and fancy girls. You're gay. 651 00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:15,079 It's a thing. And it's OK. 652 00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:17,679 You get to choose the life you lead. 653 00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:19,560 You do you at your speed. 654 00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:23,639 For goodness' sake, go buy a vibrator. 655 00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:25,159 Fuck it. Buy two. 656 00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:27,280 CHEERING AND APPLAUSE 657 00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:34,319 And Ellen isn't alone in confronting the way they see themselves. 658 00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:35,799 You may find you like certain things. 659 00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:36,919 Don't be embarrassed. 660 00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:39,959 Don't be afraid to embrace the kinkier side of life. 661 00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:42,759 Be a sexy Viking, not a whiny little bitch. 662 00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,639 It's important for you to experience cringe, 663 00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:46,959 and that's OK, because it's growth. 664 00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:49,519 Don't worry about being thicker around the body. 665 00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:51,519 It's more to be grabbed and spanked. 666 00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:53,160 THEY LAUGH 667 00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:58,200 Dear my younger self, you are gay. Like, super gay. 668 00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:00,519 I promise you, you'll end 669 00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:02,719 up actually liking the person you are. 670 00:38:02,720 --> 00:38:05,599 FYI, you'll love being held and cuddling, even 671 00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:07,640 if you do deny it to your last breath. 672 00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:15,599 For others, reflection brings a new kindness towards who they are. 673 00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:19,040 Dear baby Alex, you are enough. You are worthy of love. 674 00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:22,039 Don't ever feel like you never do enough. 675 00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:24,560 You always bring smiles and laughter to everyone around you. 676 00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:29,079 Dear Bertie, in a decade or so's time, 677 00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:30,919 you'll be on an intimacy retreat. 678 00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:34,920 Now, believe it or not, it's there where you will find more confidence. 679 00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:40,359 I know how hard it has been for you to feel truly safe, 680 00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:43,719 appreciated, and free. But trust me, 681 00:38:43,720 --> 00:38:45,360 you feel that almost every day now. 682 00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,520 Pay no mind to those who try to bring shame into your life. 683 00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:54,679 You will still be a virgin and unmarried at 22. 684 00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:58,159 But you still like boys with brown curly hair. 685 00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:00,399 Love, Joy from the future. 686 00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:03,399 PS - when you get your own money, invest in a short pink wig. 687 00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:04,639 Just trust me. 688 00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:05,999 THEY LAUGH 689 00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:07,200 Woo! 690 00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:12,199 For Katie, this journey meant facing 691 00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:15,279 the internal voices that had been holding her back. 692 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:18,959 Katie, I'm so sorry for treating you like shit for so many years. 693 00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:20,520 You deserve so much better. 694 00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:24,280 You really went through so much and are truly so strong. 695 00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:28,879 I'm so proud of you and everything you have achieved. 696 00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:30,239 You are beautiful, so kind 697 00:39:30,240 --> 00:39:32,360 and deserve every little bit of love you receive. 698 00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:36,159 Stop letting your anxiety and bullies hold you back in life. 699 00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:37,360 Its so upsetting to see. 700 00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:40,919 Don't let others bring you down or dictate your life. 701 00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:42,640 I love you so much, beautiful girl. 702 00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:55,999 Wow. 703 00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:58,799 Having realised how much they've all changed... 704 00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:00,879 Can I stand up and say a couple of things? 705 00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:02,639 Yeah, of course. 706 00:40:02,640 --> 00:40:04,680 ...Marianne takes a moment to reflect. 707 00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:10,159 I would like to thank you, Celeste and Danielle, for everything. 708 00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,279 We love you so much. 709 00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:14,720 And then I will direct my whole attention to Andre. 710 00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:21,760 Thank you for making me feel safe. 711 00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:28,239 And thank you for allowing me to just feel no judgment and enjoy. 712 00:40:28,240 --> 00:40:29,520 So thank you. 713 00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:39,799 After struggling to find his voice, Jason now has the courage to speak. 714 00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:41,519 I know for the first, like, week or two, 715 00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:43,639 I was very difficult to work with. 716 00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:45,399 It took a lot for me to kind of, like, 717 00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:48,520 speak more about myself and be more emotional. 718 00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:54,680 Um... Thank you, Aisha, as well. 719 00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:57,840 Um... 720 00:40:59,240 --> 00:41:00,480 I'm good. You're good. 721 00:41:07,720 --> 00:41:09,640 Um, yeah. I'm sorry. I'm... 722 00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:12,799 HE EXHALES 723 00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:14,359 Honestly, I don't really know what's in my head, 724 00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:17,479 so it's a bit difficult for someone else to figure it out as well. 725 00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:18,960 Thank you for everything. 726 00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:27,759 One by one... 727 00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:31,359 Ilil, you probably provided the biggest breakthrough for me. 728 00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:34,039 ...the others take their opportunity to give back. 729 00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:36,999 Getting over the pressure, performance anxiety of sex. 730 00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:40,999 Thank you so much for that. Risdon, you've got my heart. 731 00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:44,959 You showed me how to use a strap-on, and that is all I can ask for. 732 00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:46,639 Thank you. 733 00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:50,240 Thank you very much for helping me get over my fears. 734 00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:53,519 You've changed my life. 735 00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:56,399 The empathy that you lead with in every single session 736 00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:59,280 has just made me feel so safe and so understood. 737 00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:02,599 All I can say is I'm not a virgin any more. 738 00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:05,120 Thank you very much. Thank you, everyone. 739 00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:14,920 Taking things at his own pace is Bertie with the final word. 740 00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:18,199 This has been the most 741 00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:21,120 fantastic experience of my entire life. 742 00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:24,639 Some of the workshop activities, I thought 743 00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:26,319 I'd never be able to do. 744 00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:29,639 But that growth was all thanks to you both. 745 00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:34,959 Kat, you are an amazing person and I will never forget you. 746 00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,599 I would like to thank all of you. 747 00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:40,199 Yes, I know that I'm not the most sociable person, 748 00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:41,959 but regardless of that, 749 00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:46,279 you still made me feel like that I was part of you 750 00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:50,839 and you still accepted me for who I was. 751 00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:53,399 And that means so... 752 00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:55,879 ...so much more than you could know. 753 00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:58,360 If someone said to me, "Would you do this again?"... 754 00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:02,200 ...in a fucking heartbeat! 755 00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:11,600 We just need a moment, OK? 756 00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:19,039 The retreat is a huge success, beyond anyone's imagination. 757 00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:20,520 It makes me emotional. 758 00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:25,599 It is really beautiful to see how much they got here. 759 00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:28,520 I'm so proud of them. They're so brave. 760 00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:31,599 Now that they have all of these tools, 761 00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:34,759 they're ready to go out into the world and create the lives 762 00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:37,159 and relationships they want for themselves. 763 00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:41,839 I think to myself, "My work here is done." 764 00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:44,959 The world is so not ready for me. Big, bad world, 765 00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:48,039 I am coming for you. It's changed me. 766 00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:51,319 I'm so much happier as a person. I enjoy life again. 767 00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,719 And I lost my virginity. 768 00:43:53,720 --> 00:43:55,559 Yay! 769 00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:58,839 I've not graduated anything in my life, 770 00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:04,639 so to graduate sex camp is just amazing. 771 00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:06,799 I'm excited to go back to the real world. 772 00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:09,839 I came here really shy and insecure. 773 00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:13,839 I'm leaving really confident, really sure of myself 774 00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:15,999 and no longer a virgin! 775 00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:18,119 The first time that we started to connect 776 00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:22,439 in an erotic way, I was like, "Holy shit." 777 00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:24,359 THEY LAUGH 778 00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:25,959 I feel fantastic. 779 00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:30,159 I didn't go into this island with the intention of having any firsts. 780 00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:32,479 If they happened, they happened. 781 00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:35,039 And well, they did bloody happen. 782 00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:37,999 What an absolute ride I've been on. 783 00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:40,119 You did it! Congratulations! 784 00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:42,160 THEY CHEER 785 00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:45,599 We graduated! 786 00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:46,840 Woo! 787 00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:53,119 We're ready for a group orgy now. 788 00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:54,679 Cheers to orgies! 789 00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:56,360 CHEERING AND LAUGHTER 790 00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:29,719 If you've identified with the issues raised in Virgin Island 791 00:46:29,720 --> 00:46:32,760 and would like to be part of a possible new series, visit... 61209

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