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This programme contains
strong language, scenes of
sexual nature and nudity
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I'm nervous. I'm going to
take it one step at a time.
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In a world saturated with sex...
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I'm absolutely petrified.
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...more young adults than ever
are living without it.
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The thought of having sex
with someone...
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Scares me. It gives me the ick.
I'm missing out.
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Terrified. Nerve-racking.
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Gut-wrenching. Embarrassing.
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All I think about is
what I'm going to get wrong.
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{\an8}Can you point to the outer labia?
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Nope.
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Now...
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Oh, my, God!
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...12 virgins are getting
a crash course in intimacy.
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Social media, porn, dating apps -
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{\an8}there are so many negative messages
- and we can help them blossom.
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{\an8}Use it by stimulating the area.
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{\an8}They'll be guided by experts.
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{\an8}You see yourself as...? Repulsive.
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{\an8}...to explore all
aspects of intimacy...
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{\an8}...and maybe even have sex
with a trained therapist...
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Do you want to put a condom on?
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...or each other.
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Get a room, guys!
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SQUEALING
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I really do need to change my life.
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Who will be ready...
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Desperate times
call for desperate measures.
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...to go all the way?
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{\an8}Whoa! That can kill someone.
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{\an8}LAUGHTER
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{\an8}Over the past few days...
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I've done it a couple of times,
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but I can't quite reach orgasm.
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...the group sharpen technique...
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Kissing travels to the nipples,
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to the pussy, to the toes.
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...putting their new skills...
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I like the stubble on there.
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...into practice.
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HE EXHALES SLOWLY
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Alex climaxed without fear
of losing his erection...
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Everything your body is doing
right now is perfect.
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...and Joy also
made a breakthrough...
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You're all the way in now.
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{\an8}...bringing her one step closer
to pain-free sex.
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{\an8}THEY CHUCKLE
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But it was Tegan who was the first
to lose her virginity on the island.
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That didn't take long!
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THEY LAUGH
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Now the stakes are rising,
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as the group
explores the art of seduction.
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{\an8}The word seduction is very scary
to people
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because they don't understand
how to build erotic energy.
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It's actually saying,
"I'm a sexual being,
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"and I'm going to show it to you."
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{\an8}Just relax
and let your body be.
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It's the penultimate phase
of the course on Virgin Island...
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I have a letter.
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...and things are building
to a seductive peak.
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"This phase of the course
is all about seduction."
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That's going to be...
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...fun...
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...and embarrassing.
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I'm sure Danielle and Celeste have
got something cooked up for us.
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Hopefully I can use
some of that stuff on Joy.
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Are we going to be
seducing each other?
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Yeah, why not?
Super virgin activity.
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SHE LAUGHS
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Being emotionally adept -
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I'm not very good at
that kind of stuff.
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All right, babes? Morning, Princess.
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Seduction.
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Yay! I'm looking forward to it.
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Are you a great seductor?
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I'm not very seductive.
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The eyes tell different story, pal.
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See, that's a great
seduction face. Yeah? Mm.
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Either that, or you're going
to murder me.
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LAUGHTER
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Throughout the workshops,
many have thrown themselves in.
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Good morning. Good morning.
Morning. Morning.
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And in less than two weeks,
the transformation is striking.
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{\an8}Many of them have been
changing throughout the course.
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{\an8}It's amazing to watch.
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To shed this old idea of themselves
and to embrace this new self
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that is sexy and empowered
and ready to go out
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and take the world by storm.
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There's something spicy
happening on the island.
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SHE LAUGHS
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Welcome, everyone.
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This phase is all about seduction.
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We want to demonstrate for you now
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a little exercise to bring together
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all of the different techniques
that you've learned
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into something that's
very seductive -
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up against the wall.
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Up against the wall really
helps you get masterful
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around seduction, and to help
people get into their confidence.
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It is very intense,
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but I really hope that
they're ready to try it.
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OK.
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Thank you.
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OK. Who wants to...
Who wants to try?
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Joy, you want to? Yeah.
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Alex and Joy's blossoming
relationship...
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Shall we do, you push me? OK. Cool.
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...means working together
comes naturally.
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Check with him that
he is ready for you,
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and then you'll move
one step forward.
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And it's easier to practise
when the feelings are real.
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Good.
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You want to be picked up? Yeah.
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CHEERING
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Amazing.
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Also practising
the art of seduction...
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Make sure you're giving
enough pressure here -
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like, around her waist.
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...the island's other lovebirds -
Callum and Katie.
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Beautiful. Yes.
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As more of the group...
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Yes, there you go.
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...take on this advanced exercise...
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Are you good? Yeah. You do it?
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...the progress they've made
on the island is clear.
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That's beautiful.
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Good job.
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OK, who else wants to go?
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Come on, Jase. I'll go up.
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However, so far, 26-year-old Jason
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has kept a low profile
at the retreat.
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You want to push? Yeah. Yeah?
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Jason is so guarded.
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He is the most closed in the group,
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and the least willing
to really experiment.
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But we have to follow his pace,
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and then I think he'll continue
to open up and try more things.
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I'm just... calming my nerves. Mm-hm.
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I'm not antisocial.
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I just don't go out
looking to talk to people.
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I didn't like secondary school.
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I got bullied a lot
cos I'm ginger.
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I was, um, very firmly
in the losers group.
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I bought an old Soviet Polish
coat - over...
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Like, a big winter overcoat.
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And my go-to shoe wear was Crocs.
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I just keep my emotions to myself
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and very rarely even share them
to myself.
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You can walk towards him, Tegan.
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With only a few days left
at the retreat...
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Just like that?
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, sorry. Yeah.
Try again.
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Yeah. Going for the back.
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...the time to push beyond
his boundaries...
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Good. Good. Good.
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...is running out.
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Spread her legs.
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Then you bring Tegan's hands up.
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HE LAUGHS
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No! You're doing great.
Don't cancel it.
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You feel it, right? Good.
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And then you can start doing,
like, light touch. Yeah.
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The face, if she's OK with that.
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OK with this? Mm-hm.
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Is that good? Yeah. Good.
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Great. Easy! Well done, Jase.
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Wonderful. You've done
so good today.
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It was good to do it
and to push myself,
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but it was challenging.
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It felt a little peculiar
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being up there
because it was central stage.
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How did you guys find that?
It was fun. Good.
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So what about the pinning part?
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Yes, please.
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LAUGHTER
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I didn't notice.
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SHE LAUGHS
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To help turn arousal
into seduction...
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Hello! Hello.
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...the experts
have the perfect exercise.
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So, um, who enjoys a massage?
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Yes. OK. Sensual massage
is like starting our sexual engine.
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Kind of getting that arousal going.
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I'm so ready. Yes!
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Is this the bed? Oh, brilliant.
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The important thing
with sensual massage is just
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getting used to touching each other
in less and less clothing.
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Play, and discover the different
erogenous zones that you might have.
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Oh, yeah.
I'm actually feeling my fanny.
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My fanny's feeling too.
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I love that. I want you to be able
to just relax into it
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and not have to think
about anything.
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I like thinking about you.
You'll make me blush.
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HE GIGGLES
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It's not just ticklish.
It's other reasons as well.
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As the couples grow closer...
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You touch me first, please. OK.
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...massage is also helping Marianne
deepen her trust in Andre.
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Feels so nice.
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We have three types of touch -
we have nurturing...
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...sensual...
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...and then you can move into
the erotic.
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As Marianne begins to touch Andre...
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...she's eager to learn.
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I think I'm always a bit
nervous with, like, firm touch.
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Let's see what you got.
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Can I do your...? Mm-hm. You can.
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Is that OK, or does it have to be
a certain...?
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No, that's great.
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As things become more intimate...
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Just dig in.
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...confidence grows.
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A little butt squeeze.
Yeah. I love a good bud squeeze.
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Thank you for making it super safe.
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It was very, very yummy.
Can I hug you? Yeah.
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By the way,
you have a stunningly gorgeous face.
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I feel like
you really should know that.
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Thank you.
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Andre, it's great.
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It's fun to do it
with someone who you trust.
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Yeah, so I'm feeling very happy
with how far we've come so far.
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I would like to maybe do, like,
more escalation,
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so this was a great entrance way
into that.
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As Marianne prepares to go further
with Andre...
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Hi!
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...Ellen has her own questions
on erotic massage.
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Marianne, I'm intrigued to know
what vibrator you preferred.
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The clitoral stimulus one.
It was really, really good.
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And she's got a confession
from last night.
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Stop it!
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Oh! I know! I don't...
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It was pink and it had like a head
and then like...
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Oh, OK. Like the marshmallowy one.
Yeah. But it was so nice.
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I'm so happy for you.
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I have done my homework
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and taken away the shame
of masturbation. Um...
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Yeah.
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I've unlocked the pleasure zone!
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Cheers to orgasms, guys.
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But Ellen doesn't want
to stop there.
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Like, I need to just receive that
from someone else.
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You smell nice. Thank you.
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I haven't sniffed you yet,
so I'm not going to tell you
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if you smell good
until I've had a sniff.
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You smell really good as well.
Thank you.
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With the seduction phase
under way...
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I'm so relaxed I need a wee.
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You're so relaxed you need a wee?
Mm.
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...the virgins consider what they'd
like from this stage of the course.
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If the option of me losing
my virginity here comes around,
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I want to be mentally ready for it.
It's a big thing.
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My dream is to have an orgy.
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Why did you look at me
when you said that?
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My hope would be
that in my next session...
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...I get to have another orgasm.
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Meow! Meow!
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The afternoon one-on-one sessions
start... On your back.
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...with Callum learning to receive
intimate touch.
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I am going to touch you,
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exploring what different
kinds of touch feel good...
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...from surrogate partner Kat.
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Does that feel OK?
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Ticklish.
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Good tickle, bad tickle?
No, good tickle.
266
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Meanwhile... Can you
take off my bra, please? Mm-hm.
267
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...Millie's working with
surrogate partner Risdon...
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Can you move to my waist? Yeah.
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...to get comfortable being naked
with another woman.
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You're doing a really good job.
Thanks.
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I cannot believe how far everyone
has come in this course.
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The group have blown my mind.
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They have taken it on
and just tried everything
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and grown in leaps and bounds.
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All right, Cal? How was your
one-to-one? Perfect. Yeah?
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And now some of them are ready
to connect with someone sexually.
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They've brought a confidence.
It's growing over time.
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However, there is one exception.
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Go on, Jase, what is your dream
before leaving the island?
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I have a fear. What's your fear?
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That I'm not going to catch up.
282
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You're not behind here.
283
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No. You're where you're meant
to be right now.
284
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It was amazing
to see Jason coming up.
285
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And he really did the exercise.
He wasn't holding back.
286
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This is amazing. Like it is such
a huge leap for him to do that.
287
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I want to be able to interact
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with people of the opposite sex
more fluidly.
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I had a lot of like
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not pursuing things well enough
when I was younger.
291
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Hey, Jason. Hi.
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This is an opportunity
to relinquish my control
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of being comfortable.
294
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I'm curious if you feel open
to going into sexual communication.
295
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Yeah. I feel like those feelings
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are kind of a compartmentalised
part of myself.
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{\an8}Really, his issue is not knowing how
to feel his emotions,
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how to express them.
When we don't have words for it,
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we're kind of left with nowhere
to start from.
300
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So Aisha wants Jason
to put his sexual wants into words.
301
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When you're ready,
start to speak your "I wants".
302
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It's, uh...
It's really hard to say,
303
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I don't know.
304
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I'm not sure I'm able to get into
that mindset.
305
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So I'm gonna share one of my wants
as an example.
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I want someone to undo my
trouser zip
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and slowly bring them
down off my legs.
308
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OK.
309
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Uh, like, hair caressing.
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"I want..." I want...
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It's not something I've
said out loud before.
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What about if you wrote these things
down and I said them?
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Yeah, I guess.
314
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I have written down four. Fabulous.
315
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OK if I sit like this?
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Yeah. I'm going to squirm, though.
317
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"I want someone who is blonde
and has nice hair."
318
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Yeah. That's easy.
319
00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:57,440
"I want someone who has
bright eyes.
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"I want someone to initiate with
me." Oh!
321
00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:04,999
I'm dying of cringe.
322
00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:09,199
You're dying in the cutest way.
It's insanely cringe to me.
323
00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:11,559
Yeah, I'm... Oh.
324
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No, take a breath. Come on.
325
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AISHA EXHALES DEEPLY
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"I want to explore someone's
breasts."
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That was great. Yeah.
328
00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:29,839
Progress made, Aisha wants Jason
to try again himself.
329
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I want to see you on the other
side of feeling embarrassed
330
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when you speak
about sexual communication.
331
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OK.
332
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I...
333
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...like it
334
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when someone caresses my hair
and whispers into my ear.
335
00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:47,239
Mm!
336
00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:49,679
An they're breathy. Yeah.
The breathiness.
337
00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:51,639
Yeah. OK. What else?
338
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I like when someone,
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00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:57,519
like, hugs me
340
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from behind with their breasts out.
Mm!
341
00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:04,640
You mean, like... like topless?
Yeah. Yeah.
342
00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:07,199
No, this is so good.
343
00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,040
I love learning this
stuff about you.
344
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I...
345
00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:15,399
HE SIGHS
346
00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:19,119
I found talking
about my sexual desires quite hard,
347
00:19:19,120 --> 00:19:22,239
but once it got started, there was
an enjoyment, yeah,
348
00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:23,919
of just being able to do it.
349
00:19:23,920 --> 00:19:26,760
And I think I made a lot of progress
in the session.
350
00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:35,920
Tegan, will you have sex with me?
Of course. We can help you out.
351
00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:40,279
Though some are still honing their
seduction technique...
352
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ELLEN LAUGHS
353
00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:45,959
Ellen. What are...? What's happening
there?!
354
00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:49,759
Horny Island! ..Ellen is a changed
woman.
355
00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:51,199
I'm going to have to wake up
earlier
356
00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:53,919
for work so I can masturbate
before I go.
357
00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:57,679
Ellen! Love it, Ellen!
358
00:19:57,680 --> 00:19:59,279
After a slow start...
359
00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:00,479
I'm thinking I'm fine,
360
00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:02,759
as long as you're on that chair
and I'm on this chair.
361
00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:07,719
...Ellen has worked with Kat.
May I...kiss your neck?
362
00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:09,159
Yes.
363
00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:11,440
...to gradually increase intimacy.
364
00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:15,159
{\an8}Ellen has grown so much.
365
00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:17,440
{\an8}I feel like she trusts herself a lot
more.
366
00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:21,199
She defines no longer being a virgin
367
00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:23,399
as having an orgasm
from another person.
368
00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:26,559
And it's so nice as the practitioner
when your clients understand
369
00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:29,319
their goals
and you can be a part of it.
370
00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:33,679
Hi. Hello. Really happy.
I did have an orgasm.
371
00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:37,999
It's given me the confidence
to go into my
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one-to-one and hopefully orgasm
from someone else.
373
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So my plan was to be pretty organic.
Undress and move into me
374
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touch you with you directing.
Does that feel OK?
375
00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:53,120
Yeah. Yeah. At 35...
376
00:20:56,360 --> 00:20:59,119
...Ellen's path to intimacy has been
a long one.
377
00:20:59,120 --> 00:21:00,279
I just want you to, like,
378
00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:02,319
really direct me towards
what feels good.
379
00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:04,119
OK. I'll try.
380
00:21:04,120 --> 00:21:05,999
OK. Just like...
381
00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:07,160
Um...
382
00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:12,639
It's really nice. Um...
383
00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:14,560
I've lost my words.
384
00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:24,160
Just relax and let your body be.
385
00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,959
HEAVY BREATHING
386
00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:30,039
Faster.
387
00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:32,440
BREATHING INTENSIFIES
388
00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:50,520
GIGGLING
389
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:55,959
Something happened!
I think I did orgasm.
390
00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:58,480
You did orgasm? Yeah. Yeah.
391
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:01,800
Thank you.
392
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:11,640
Have a good night. You, too.
393
00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:16,319
Just over the moon.
I feel like I've got a big smile,
394
00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:20,959
like, just inside me.
Like, I'm just really happy.
395
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:22,160
Yeah.
396
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:30,879
Hello, Eleanor.
How was your one-to-one, girlie?
397
00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:32,320
Lovely, thank you.
398
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:40,159
I wasn't going to share,
but I'll share with you both.
399
00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:43,519
I'm no longer a virgin! Oh!
400
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:45,159
Oh, congrats.
401
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:47,239
ELLEN LAUGHS
402
00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:49,280
That's so exciting! Well done.
403
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:55,880
Yay!
The lesbians are ruling the roost.
404
00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:00,919
Me next! Me next!
405
00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:03,440
SING-SONG: So exciting!
406
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:13,919
Good morning. Good morning.
407
00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:16,399
It's day 14 on Virgin Island.
408
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:19,720
Cup of tea, please. What do you
reckon? Sausages and eggs today?
409
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:24,639
Sweetcorn. No-one saw that coming.
410
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:27,519
How are you? Good, thank you.
Do you sleep well? Um...
411
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:31,039
Yes. The best I've ever slept. Wow.
That's amazing.
412
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,439
I'm glad to hear it. I wonder why.
413
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:34,999
THEY LAUGH
414
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:38,799
Ellen has joined Tegan as one of
the island's former virgins.
415
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:40,039
Morning, sweetheart.
416
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:43,799
And the seduction phase
is inspiring more of the group.
417
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:45,159
I think it's a great phase because
418
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:48,759
I would 100% describe myself
as a seductive person.
419
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,079
I didn't realise how much I'd
been stopping it
420
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:54,999
until I came here. And being allowed
to explore in a safe space -
421
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:56,719
that's what I'm looking forward to.
422
00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:58,559
Oh, this is a bloody big one, man.
423
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:00,559
Cheers.
424
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:02,199
Do not deep fry your banana.
425
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:03,759
THEY LAUGH
426
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:07,879
I think this phase is fun.
I can really get into seduction.
427
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,799
I definitely feel
like I can really be in control.
428
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:12,719
No! Sorry. I dropped my butter.
429
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,280
THEY LAUGH
430
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:21,519
Dibs on a beanbag! Actually, no.
431
00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:23,559
I want the couch. I want a sofa.
432
00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:25,919
To build on the group's growing
confidence...
433
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:29,559
Yay! We have goodies for you.
...the next exercise will
434
00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:32,719
really help them tap
into their seductive side.
435
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:35,679
Today, you will be stepping
436
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:41,400
into your super self,
your most empowered, proud self.
437
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,559
So we have all sorts
of goodies here.
438
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,239
You can cut things up.
Just make it your own
439
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:52,360
to really represent this powerful,
resilient part of yourself.
440
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:57,359
For the super self, they're going
to choose a costume and a name.
441
00:24:57,360 --> 00:25:00,119
- There we go.
- And we've started.
THEY LAUGH
442
00:25:00,120 --> 00:25:02,799
Bye. Bye.
I hope they learn to explore all of
443
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:05,199
the different
sides of their personality.
444
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:07,639
They can say, "Hey,
I'm not this awkward,
445
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:11,920
"disconnected person.
I am hot and confident."
446
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:14,679
Do you feel confident?
Do you feel empowered?
447
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:17,079
I feel like I would if I was more
naked. Hmm.
448
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:18,759
LAUGHTER
449
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:20,239
Just being honest.
450
00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:23,239
After two weeks of intensive work at
the retreat...
451
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:24,919
You look hot in the hat, girl.
Thanks.
452
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:29,399
So imagine this.
And then just black underwear.
453
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:32,279
...Joy has learnt to shed her shame.
454
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:35,279
I've always kind of
had a fantasy of being a stripper.
455
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:36,679
Oh, really? Yeah.
456
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:39,839
I'm literally going to
live my dream this evening.
457
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:41,639
And she's not the only one.
458
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:44,079
I just always wanted to try being
a hot bunny.
459
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,879
Marianne's losing her inhibitions,
too...
460
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:48,839
Joy. Oh, yes.
461
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:52,199
...allowing her sexy side
out. I really like it.
462
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,639
I need like, a sword. Yes. Yeah, yeah.
463
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:56,999
Even Jason is throwing himself
in.
464
00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,159
Rrrah! I've never seen you more
upbeat, Jason.
465
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:01,799
JASON LAUGHS
466
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:03,920
This jacket, you know,
actually suits me.
467
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,400
I'm just saying.
Yeah, you look quite fit.
468
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:14,319
Yeah, Bert! Fuck, yeah.
Bert is also gaining confidence.
469
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:17,319
Bertie. Yeah? You're 100%
going to have
470
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:19,199
the best outfit tonight,
without a doubt.
471
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:20,719
We'll see. No, there's not,
472
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,600
"We will see,"
because I've already seen.
473
00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:26,960
But the experts know he can
still struggle with connection.
474
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:32,439
I'll be seeing Bertie today,
and I want to work with him on
475
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,999
when there
is something that's awkward.
476
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:39,599
I want to normalise staying
in connection through those moments.
477
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:43,559
For Bertie, communication
has always been a challenge.
478
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:47,839
Since I was born,
I was diagnosed with autism,
479
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:54,039
and that has played a big role
in how I've interacted with people.
480
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:58,919
Sometimes I do give off mannerisms
that are socially different.
481
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,319
Good afternoon. Good afternoon.
482
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:06,199
But when you see other people
in a relationship having sex,
483
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,680
you feel like you're missing
out on something amazing.
484
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:14,639
I've not been romantically touched
by anyone.
485
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:17,920
That's the part
that I have struggled with a lot.
486
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:24,439
So we're going to start standing.
OK. And the goal
487
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:28,719
is to get us lying down,
clothes off,
488
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:31,920
staying connected. OK. Yeah?
All right. All right.
489
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:38,320
How are you feeling? Good.
Thank you for asking.
490
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:48,799
The key... The goal was to go
down here,
491
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:52,239
wasn't it? Undress and go
down. To undress each other.
492
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:55,399
Bertie's awkwardness...
OK. You've got this.
493
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:58,159
All right. ..is hard to shift.
494
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:01,439
First of all, I'm just wondering,
how do I take a top like this off?
495
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:05,319
It's just over the head. Oh, OK.
And I don't even have a bra on,
496
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:06,679
so it makes it much easier.
497
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:08,759
That's funny,
because I've got a bra on.
498
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:10,240
Right. Oh, OK.
499
00:28:12,360 --> 00:28:13,520
It's very tight.
500
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:16,839
SHE LAUGHS
Yeah. I think undressing each
501
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:19,479
other isn't going
to work from now on. It is.
502
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:23,079
It's OK to struggle, though.
That's the point, you know? Yeah.
503
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:25,519
You are so funny and so charming.
504
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:29,439
And if you just relax in moments
like these, you're perfect.
505
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:31,359
Yes? Off? Yeah.
506
00:28:31,360 --> 00:28:34,159
Yay! Naked!
507
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:35,440
BERTIE LAUGHS
508
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:38,239
KAT EXHALES
509
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:39,960
Take a moment and just land here.
510
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:46,000
You're doing great.
511
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:50,119
Where would you like to be touched?
512
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:51,440
Yeah, that feels good.
513
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:56,439
Mm. As things escalate...
You're very juicy.
514
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,559
That's what you want, yeah.
515
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:00,999
...Bertie's communication improves.
516
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,479
Can I give you a spank? Yes.
517
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,879
SLAPPING
Thanks for asking.
518
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:08,479
And the session
leads to mutual pleasure.
519
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:11,160
MOANING
520
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:16,800
Did you just orgasm? Yeah.
521
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:21,880
I'm very aroused at the moment.
It's good to be aroused.
522
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,080
KISSING
523
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,599
Did you just squirt in my hair?
524
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:37,960
THEY LAUGH
525
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:41,759
Can you get it for me?
526
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:43,839
Is this the right time now
to say I'm sorry?
527
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:45,480
No, you don't have to apologise.
528
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:49,920
How much did I get off?!
You got a lot.
529
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:53,439
OK. It's gone.
530
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:54,480
THEY LAUGH
531
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:57,439
KAT SIGHS
532
00:29:57,440 --> 00:30:00,120
That was incredible.
Thank you so much.
533
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:07,439
All right. Have a good day.
I'm feeling excellent.
534
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:09,359
I've managed to do so many things
535
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:11,159
I thought I could never do
in my life.
536
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:15,880
And I'm just so, so, so
grateful for Kat.
537
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:25,439
How was your one-on-one?
538
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:30,479
So we both took it in turns
to touch each other down there.
539
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:32,919
I'm happy for you.
It's quite surreal at the moment
540
00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:34,599
because I never thought I'd get
to this stage.
541
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:36,159
I also didn't think
I'd get this far,
542
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,759
in a sense, because you come
in with a set of, like,
543
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:40,519
"There's no way I could possibly."
544
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:42,639
And then you just end
up feeling safer and safer.
545
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:46,599
Look at us! I know. Absolutely.
Who'd have thought it?
546
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:48,799
Who'd have thought it? Exactly.
547
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:51,279
Oh. I'm so proud of you.
548
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:52,520
Thank you.
549
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:58,800
Are you going to dance? There we go!
550
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:01,600
JOY LAUGHS
551
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:04,719
Um, yeah, they're going to be like,
552
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:06,399
"Guys, you're too affectionate,
actually."
553
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:09,319
"Alex is getting a boner during the
thing, so you've got to stop
filming."
554
00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:11,039
It's going to be like,
555
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,639
"Alex, here's how to avoid getting
a boner."
THEY LAUGH
556
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:15,319
Love is in the air,
557
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:19,399
and Alex and Joy's relationship
has delighted the experts.
558
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:24,399
I'm just so proud
to watch Joy really own who she is.
559
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:25,679
And she's gotten this
560
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:29,799
very sweet little romance blooming
with Alex.
561
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:31,280
It's amazing. I love it.
562
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:34,319
Alex and Joy have asked
563
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,920
to spend time together away from
the group.
564
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:43,239
Well, I know the two of you have
asked for a little bit more privacy.
565
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:46,159
Does that feel like something
that you still want?
566
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:48,479
I'd be keen.
There's no pressure just
567
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:49,999
because you go into
that space together
568
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:51,719
that there's anything
that you need to do. Yeah.
569
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:53,519
No, Alex makes me feel really safe
to do that.
570
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:56,759
So you're great. Thank you. Yeah.
Any questions about that?
571
00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:58,160
Yeah. So when?
572
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:05,479
Having arrived on the island
with their own sexual issues,
573
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:08,639
Alex and Joy have made huge strides.
574
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:12,879
I feel so proud of myself
for the progress I've made.
575
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:14,519
THEY LAUGH
576
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:17,079
I think Joy is really funny,
really nice.
577
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:20,039
She's obviously gorgeous.
I think she's amazing.
578
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,559
So for the first time on the island,
579
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:25,880
two virgins head off
for private time of their own.
580
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:33,599
After you. Thank you.
581
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:35,080
OK, so there's a bed.
582
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,239
Joy, she's still dealing
with vaginismus,
583
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:40,839
but they can explore
584
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:43,639
and see what's possible
between them.
585
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:45,480
KISSING
586
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:53,200
JOY LAUGHS
587
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:04,800
MOANING
588
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:13,000
MOANING
589
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:32,440
JOY LAUGHS
590
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:38,439
Sex is more than just
penetration and,
591
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:39,599
like, feels almost
592
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:43,399
that I've lost my virginity just
because of how everything's changed.
593
00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:44,840
It's been really transformative.
594
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:50,479
In three weeks,
this retreat has undone, like,
595
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:52,999
ten years' worth
of Christian camp trauma.
596
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:55,079
To be, like, alone with a guy
597
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:57,879
in an intimate
setting, to experience pleasure...
598
00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:01,399
Thank you. ..was, like,
such a huge thing for me.
599
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:03,439
Very, very surprised
that you hadn't done it before.
600
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:04,839
I appreciate that.
601
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:06,679
It's like master magician hands.
602
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:07,759
HE LAUGHS
603
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:10,239
I had vaginismus, and now I can
experience penetration,
604
00:34:10,240 --> 00:34:12,239
even if it's just a finger for now.
605
00:34:12,240 --> 00:34:16,039
And I just feel like, oh, such a
weight off my shoulders.
606
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:17,959
I think just, like, thank you
to Celeste and Danielle
607
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:20,199
and to Ilil
for literally changing my life.
608
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:21,400
Yeah.
609
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:30,959
Go on. Give us your best seduction
face.
610
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:34,799
It's late afternoon on day two of
the seduction phase.
611
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:37,319
Actually,
that does turn me on a bit.
612
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:40,599
And many of the virgins
are feeling inspired.
613
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:42,479
Let me take you to bed.
614
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:44,759
I'm really happy for you,
but I am straight.
615
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:47,239
Oh. My fanny's just deflated.
616
00:34:47,240 --> 00:34:49,080
THEY LAUGH
617
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:53,959
But for Jason,
there's still work to do.
618
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:57,159
I don't want to be alone
for the rest of my life.
619
00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:01,399
I'm not very touchy.
I'm probably quite prudish.
620
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:02,599
But I've obviously missed
621
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:04,639
out on something,
so I want to amend it.
622
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:06,360
I wouldn't be here otherwise.
623
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:11,279
To help... Hey, Jason!
624
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:14,840
...Aisha is continuing their
work on breaking down barriers.
625
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:19,759
What did you find most helpful
so far?
626
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:21,239
Basically, anything was helpful
627
00:35:21,240 --> 00:35:23,959
because it was,
like, pushing boundaries.
628
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:25,839
To push his boundaries further...
629
00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:27,199
Is that something you'd
like to explore?
630
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:29,799
Yeah, yeah.
The talk about sexual desire.
631
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:31,239
...Aisha has an exercise
632
00:35:31,240 --> 00:35:34,519
that allows Jason
to request intimate touch.
633
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:37,879
When we can vocalise our desire,
then we can begin
634
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:39,759
to create them.
635
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:43,079
It's really quite a
pivotal exercise.
636
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:46,679
You might ask for touch
and caresses.
637
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:48,479
Cuddles.
638
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:52,759
OK. And I will either say yes, no,
or maybe.
639
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:56,199
OK? OK.
Jason has never experienced
640
00:35:56,200 --> 00:36:00,120
intimate touch,
making this his biggest step yet.
641
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:05,719
Will you move a hand
642
00:36:05,720 --> 00:36:10,799
up towards the top of
my inner thigh...
643
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:13,400
...slowly? OK, I got it.
644
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:26,679
Will you press from my crown
down toward my shoulders?
645
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:27,920
OK. Yes.
646
00:36:40,240 --> 00:36:44,199
As the session progresses,
Jason gets bolder.
647
00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:48,279
Will you clutch my crotch
648
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:51,560
and then hold for five seconds?
649
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:54,720
Yes.
650
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:12,559
Will you lie face down on top of me?
651
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:13,680
OK.
652
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:20,760
Noticing how that feels?
653
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:25,359
Yeah.
I can feel, like, your heartbeat.
654
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:26,480
Mm.
655
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:29,200
RHYTHMIC HEARTBEAT
656
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:31,800
OK.
657
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:39,399
You broke your boundaries. Yeah.
That's so cool.
658
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:41,919
Jason really surprised me.
659
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:44,279
He's achieved a lot from
where he was
660
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:48,319
when he arrived to where we got to
in session today.
661
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:52,399
Bye. I think it was a good session.
Makes me feel like I've...
662
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:54,559
...I've actually progressed.
663
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:57,479
Jason! Hello.
664
00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:00,839
There's a lot I've learned.
My experience has been...
665
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:02,120
I think it's been good.
666
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:07,079
OK. So how was it?
Good. Yes. Perfect.
667
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:08,360
JASON LAUGHS
668
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:15,599
Have you got a one-to-one today,
Marianne? Mm-hm.
669
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,519
Andre calms my nerves. Good, good.
670
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:19,879
But I haven't been full naked with
a guy ever,
671
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:21,120
so a bit nervous.
672
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:27,559
Marianne - you're going to be having
a session with her, Andre.
673
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:30,079
Yeah, I'm just going to check
in to see how she's feeling,
674
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:33,199
about how we've escalated
up to this point
675
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:35,760
and see if we want
to escalate a little bit more.
676
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:40,399
Everyone puts a virgin
677
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:43,879
as either a trophy
or just something that's laughable,
678
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:45,719
{\an8}and it feels as if the stakes
679
00:38:45,720 --> 00:38:47,240
{\an8}get higher and higher.
680
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:50,999
Trust is everything.
I could never do anything
681
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:53,839
with anyone I didn't trust
and I never would.
682
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:54,840
Knock, knock.
683
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:57,880
But I want to be a bit
more adventurous.
684
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:02,759
I want to check
in to see how you're feeling.
685
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:04,759
I'm feeling confident in general.
686
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:06,679
I feel like I'm ready
to go fully nude.
687
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:07,759
That's great. Yeah.
688
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:11,039
I also want to see how
you feel about
689
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:15,079
some of the sensuality
to undressing each other.
690
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:17,240
I'm happy to try it. OK. Yeah.
691
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:22,759
Through sensual undressing,
692
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:25,880
Andre is teaching Marianne the art
of seduction.
693
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:31,159
How does this feel?
It feels very nice.
694
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:32,999
I've got tingles. Mm.
695
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,159
And she's learning fast.
696
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:36,959
Can I take this off? Mm.
697
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:38,000
Mm.
698
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:41,240
Thank you.
699
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:55,000
MARIANNE MOANS
700
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:57,800
SHE SIGHS
701
00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:00,960
SHE MOANS
702
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:18,320
MARIANNE MOANS
703
00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:20,640
How does that feel?
704
00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:26,840
Yes.
705
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:31,640
I've got tingles in my pussy. Mm.
706
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:38,320
But the lesson doesn't end there.
707
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:41,959
You can.
708
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:43,480
You can touch as well.
709
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:46,880
Take your time.
I don't know how to touch it.
710
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:52,160
And you can hold it,
and you can examine.
711
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,199
It's not how I thought
it would feel. It feels good.
712
00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:57,439
So that's the head.
713
00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:01,399
And that's, for me,
the most, like, sensitive part.
714
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:02,640
I'm, like, super curious.
715
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:09,679
I'm soft now, but when I'm aroused,
if we get to that point,
716
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:11,759
you will see a difference in the
size
717
00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:13,999
and also stiffness.
718
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:15,159
I could do this all day.
719
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:16,160
THEY LAUGH
720
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:23,719
It felt safe, lovely,
and very horny at the same time.
721
00:41:23,720 --> 00:41:26,479
I 100% think it's a real prospect
that I could
722
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:30,599
lose my virginity with Andre,
which, when I came here I was like,
723
00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:32,959
"There's no way, it will never
happen."
724
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:34,839
But with all the workshops
725
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:39,920
and the support of everyone,
my confidence is really like, great.
726
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:49,960
It's early evening.
727
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:52,920
This is exciting.
728
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:57,119
And before the seduction phase comes
to an end...
729
00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:59,199
Hello.
730
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:02,240
...the group must present
their sexy super selves.
731
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:06,039
Seduction is not about
being perfect.
732
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:07,239
It's about being comfortable
733
00:42:07,240 --> 00:42:09,719
in your body
and not afraid of being seen.
734
00:42:09,720 --> 00:42:13,959
We can't wait
to see you take on your catwalk.
735
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:18,159
We want you to wear it, strut it
and show yourself off.
736
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:19,919
When you step into the super self,
737
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:22,439
you exaggerate all of
your best qualities
738
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:26,039
and you fully embrace all of
the amazing things about yourself.
739
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:28,319
It's one thing to just put on
make-up and a costume.
740
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:30,559
It's a whole other thing to get on
741
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:34,520
that catwalk
and show who you really are now.
742
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:37,280
CHEERING
743
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:40,240
Oh, yeah.
744
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:46,440
I'm Moxie. Just a bad, bad bunny.
745
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:49,359
And how does it make you feel?
746
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:53,079
I feel, like, cute and sexy
and I'm very... cheeky.
747
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:55,319
I'm just a whole lot of fun.
Yes, you are.
748
00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:56,800
THEY CHEER
749
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:05,599
Some of the group
are embracing their fun side.
750
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:07,000
Woohoo!
751
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:10,719
I am a wolf.
752
00:43:10,720 --> 00:43:11,720
THEY HOWL
753
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:15,200
CHEERING
754
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:19,360
I'm PT Katie.
755
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:23,920
Work out in the day.
Work out in the night.
756
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:30,599
Others are finding their voices.
757
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:31,880
CHEERING
758
00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:37,839
For years I thought that being
a lesbian was a bad thing.
759
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:42,239
So I feel really pleased
that I can just be myself.
760
00:43:42,240 --> 00:43:44,839
And I'm so glad
that I'm not straight.
761
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:46,080
CHEERING
762
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:50,360
Woo!
763
00:43:51,720 --> 00:43:53,279
Hey!
764
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:54,520
CHEERING
765
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:58,479
How does it make you feel
when you wear it?
766
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:00,640
Um... I just feel confident.
767
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:05,680
And a new sense of self begins
to shine.
768
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:10,279
CHEERING
769
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:11,280
Woo!
770
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:13,360
Woo!
771
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:19,080
I'm Sheriff Shalom and
I put naughty people away.
772
00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:24,159
My name's Fanny Flutter.
THEY LAUGH
773
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:25,559
And you know what?
774
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:28,119
Nothing's better than having lots
of sex.
775
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:29,160
Woo!
776
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:33,160
CHEERING
777
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:39,279
I'm Slutty Stephanie.
778
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:40,959
Hot stripper vibes.
779
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,519
While some super selves
are fully formed...
780
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:44,839
I feel confident.
781
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:49,159
Slutty Stephanie does not give
a fuck what anyone thinks about her.
782
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:51,040
...others are still finding their
way.
783
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:53,879
Where's the, uh... There it is.
784
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:54,880
CHEERING
785
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:59,359
But all of them have come on
in leaps and bounds.
786
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:00,879
Does your super self have a name?
787
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:02,599
No, it does not. King Bee.
788
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:05,759
King Bee. King Bee.
King Bee. King Bee. King Bee.
789
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:09,800
The people have spoken. King Bee.
790
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:17,159
Wow. Those are some of the most
amazing super selves I've ever seen.
791
00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:19,559
Give yourself...
CHEERING
792
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:22,439
This is definitely my super self.
793
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:25,439
When I doubt myself for the future,
I'll come back to Moxie.
794
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:26,640
Yay!
795
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:31,399
I'm feeling very confident.
796
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:35,159
Probably wouldn't go around
in a Viking hat and a cloak though.
797
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:36,239
I'm just so thankful
798
00:45:36,240 --> 00:45:40,319
that I've had the experience
and able to lose my virginity.
799
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:44,439
Yeah, it's, um... emotional.
800
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,279
People called me King Bee,
801
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:49,280
but I've decided that I'm actually
the Fresh Prince of Somerset.
802
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:53,119
I am going to miss all this.
803
00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:56,879
Last phase tomorrow. Let's see what
it brings.
804
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:57,919
Next time...
805
00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:00,079
You can flip her into doggy style.
Yeah!
806
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:03,879
...the group enter the climax of
the retreat.
807
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:06,119
Oh, my God. Oh! Wow.
808
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:07,719
And with time running out...
809
00:46:07,720 --> 00:46:09,319
I think... I need more boy knowledge.
810
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:11,479
...which of the remaining virgins...
811
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:13,439
Will you take off my shirt?
812
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:14,559
I thought you'd never ask.
813
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:16,040
...will complete the course?
814
00:46:20,240 --> 00:46:23,479
If you've identified with the issues
raised in Virgin Island
815
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:25,959
and would like to be part of
a possible new series,
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