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Another very strong motive throughout
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history is bearing witness particularly
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for people who can't speak for
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themselves. writing about people,
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telling the stories of people who have
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been muted or s silenced or even even
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exterminated
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and being the one to tell their stories
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in some of historic form or as
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journalism or as fiction or poetry. I
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think that's a very strong
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very strong impulse. When I began
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writing, the the the field of what women
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would write about was really kind of
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narrow. And when I first published my
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novels, which have a kind of
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sociological or political agenda, I was
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told by some reviewers, quote, I should
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leave the novel of this novel of social
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unrest to Norman Mor. actually that was
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that was a review that I should leave
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this bit this the big novel I should
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leave to people like Norman Maylor which
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I thought was very funny and I thought
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well Norman Mor has his own novels which
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he's doing which are very different from
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what I'm doing women were expected to
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write more about household and domestic
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issues and family life which many women
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do very beautifully but I wasn't I
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wasn't really interested in a domestic
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novel but I'd never really let that
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bother me.
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Always look into the background of one's
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family. If you go far enough back to
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immigrant
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ancestors, you probably find something
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happened, something going on that was
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pretty violent because lots of things
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happened in the 19th century. Today
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things are are a little more reported
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on. Uh you can't get away with murder
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today. In those days you could give a
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baby away. Nobody cared. There were no
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you didn't have to adopt. I mean nobody
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was go there were no social services
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didn't exist. There were no social
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workers. Lots of things went on that are
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not talked about. For instance, I've
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written a lot about domestic abuse and
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uh wife battering and
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uh what we call wife battering didn't
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exist. Domestic violence didn't exist.
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Date rape didn't exist. None of those
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terms that are common today, they didn't
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exist because if you were raped by
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somebody whom you knew, that wasn't
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considered rape. It was probably
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consensual. Well, there was no way you
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could get a police officer to pay any
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slightest attention to anything like
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that. Girls were made pregnant who were
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very young. It's just considered that
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they were consensual or nobody cared. I
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mean, basically, if you were 12, 13
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years old and you were raped, you might
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get married. You have to marry. You're a
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rapist. Nobody cared. Um, there would be
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nobody would make any arrests. Then
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within a family, if a if a father got
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drunk and beat his whole family, the
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police didn't care. Police would not
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come out at all. It sounds a little
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fantastic today, but the police would
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not cross this threshold. They they
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considered domestic violence didn't
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exist. The father could beat his
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children sometimes pretty badly and it
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would be very rare for the police to do
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anything. Now, we lived we lived next
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door when I was a girl to a family that
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was in under the the terror terrorized
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by their own father. So, I was friendly
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with a girl in this with a family like
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that. I've written a lot about this. I
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remember my own father going next door
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and trying to stop this violence and how
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my father almost got killed. This man
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had a gun and my father should not
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really have done that, but he heard all
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the screaming next door. He went over,
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he could have died. And I remember this
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man who was drunk who shot his own dog
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and the dog died in the backyard when I
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was like six years old. So I remember
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all these things going on and there were
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no police officers and nobody would ever
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think of calling the police. So when I
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write about these subjects, they're
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they're really very haunting to me. I'm
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thinking about the girl next door who's
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my friend and she was almost my age. she
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was a year older and she had a family
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and some of those people were written to
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me who who got out you know and that
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girl wrote to me for years and so I'm
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sort of still in contact with that world
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if one can face the darkest elements in
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oneself and things that are secret and
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buried I think the the sto the the
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there's a great deal of power
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I can give you an example example of a
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great work of art
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that is great because the writer was
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writing about a forbidden subject.
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It was absolutely taboo. He could not
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write about it openly. Oscar Wild in the
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picture of Dorian Gay. Now that's a
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novel about homosexuality and the
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repression of desire.
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Oscar Wild was in love with
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some young man. He could not express
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that in any open way. There were laws
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against sodomy that might have actually
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resulted in death. He might have he
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might have been put to death. So the
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novel is a reaction to the taboo. It's a
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great novel. It's actually one of the
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great novels in English literature of
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its time. But it's only I think it's
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only powerful because it's so forbidden
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and you don't know what's going on. So
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Dorian Gay is this very pretty boy. He's
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just so beautiful. He's described as
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beautiful and every man who sees him
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sort of falls in love with him. But but
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Oscar Wild doesn't say that. He doesn't
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use those words. So Dorian Gray is
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seduced by an older man, but
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not in those words. We don't really know
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what's going on. Then Dorian Gay gets
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involved with somebody himself and he
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becomes a predator, but he always stays
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young. Everybody else gets older. He's
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this pretty boy and finally he's like I
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don't know he's like 85 90 years old.
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He's still this pretty boy. And at the
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end of the novel he dies and they see
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his poor this picture up in the attic is
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this elderly wrinkled
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putessescent ciflitic rotted looking
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horrible picture. So that's his soul.
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The picture of Dorian Gay's soul is all
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this rotted
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flesh, but the face of Dorian Gay is
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still this this boy. So that's that's a
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good example of a writer confronting
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taboo, but he knew he couldn't write
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about it directly. Now, if these men
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could have lived o lived open lives and
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and didn't have to be um subversive
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about their writing, would they have
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been as good writers? That's a question.
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I would think maybe not particularly in
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the case of of um Oscar Wild because
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being being
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elliptical gives you a lot of power that
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being headon and direct would not have.
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It's a very interesting paradox. I think
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that the most powerful writing often
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comes from areas that are
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repressed, you know, that one doesn't
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want to talk about. But it's so
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irresistibly interesting for people who
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share that predilction, let's say, or
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share certain obsessions that you you
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will have almost like a guaranteed
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audience of a number of a number of
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people. If you write about certain
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subjects that are have not been written
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about very much because each subject
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that's taboo and and hasn't been
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discussed or is considered vulgar or
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awful or unnatural all those subjects
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relate to many people who share in them
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but they they have no outlet. So
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immediately you'll have a readership
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which may be surprising. So people who
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publish a memoirs on certain subjects
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especially in the past were just
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astonished at how many readers they had.
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Mary Carr writes about very openly about
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her own alcoholism and she writes about
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her parents' alcoholism. So her memoir
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was called is called her first memor is
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called the liars club. That was a
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phenomenal bestseller and I don't think
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Mary Carr expected that at all. That
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kind of openness about drinking and
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about being a teenager and having
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parents who were drunk and then drinking
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herself that hit a that hit a nerve of
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of canandor
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in women young women that probably
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nobody had written about before. In
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every area of something that is
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considered unspeakable, there are many
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people who are waiting to hear about it.
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obesity, bulimia, being feeling that
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one's body is very ugly or or too too
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big or something. All those subjects
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have people yearning to share what they
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feel, but they have no outlet.
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Mainstream literature and conventional
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forms of beauty are so dominant. We have
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uh the image of like the perfect woman
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or girl, the perfect man, the the
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physical fitness, mania, a certain
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healthy attitude toward life
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predominates in our culture. But there
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all these other people don't live up to
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that and they feel maybe resentful, they
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feel intimidated, they feel imperfect.
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So all those people are are yearning to
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have some a spokesperson. One very
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evident example is William Styron wrote
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about depression and darkness visible.
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That's probably 25 years ago. His memoir
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was also an enormous bestseller. I don't
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think Bill Styin whom I knew had any
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idea that so many people would buy his
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book. He felt that he was a failure. He
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felt he was suicidal. He couldn't write.
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He was depressed. I mean he was so
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depressed you know that he managed to
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write that memoir but he felt he was a
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failure he couldn't write fiction and
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yet in writing that memoir he became an
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enormous bestseller
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and I have a friend Jonathan Santer who
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doesn't feel like a failure but he lost
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his wife very very abruptly and Jonathan
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went into a kind of emotional tail spin
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but I suggested to him and maybe other
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people did too. But I said, "Why don't
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you write about it?" Because there are
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no memoirs about by widowers, almost
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none. So he did. He wrote uh the the
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widowers uh a widowerower's notebook. I
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think his book is called a the
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widowers's notebook, Jonathan Satloofer.
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And that's become another surprise um
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bestseller, I think. And Jonathan has
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discovered he gives readings and men
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come up to him and say that their story
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is like his but they they have nobody to
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talk to. So tapping on these um
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these secret audiences is something that
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is the consequence of writing about
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