Original subtitles

This programme contains strong language and scenes of a sexual nature and of nudity

I'm nervous.

I'm going to take it one step at a time.

In a world saturated with sex... I'm absolutely petrified.

...more young adults than ever are living without it.

The thought of having sex with someone... Scares me.

It gives me the ick. I'm missing out.

Terrified. Nerve-racking. Gut-wrenching.

Embarrassing. All I think about is what I'm going to get wrong.

Can you point to the outer labia?

Nope.

Now... Oh, my God!

...12 virgins are getting a crash course in intimacy.

Social media, porn, dating apps.

There are so many negative messages and we can help them blossom.

Use it by stimulating the area. They'll be guided by experts...

You see yourself as? Repulsive.

...to explore all aspects of intimacy...

...and maybe even have sex with a trained therapist...

Do you want to put a condom on?

...or each other.

Get a room, guys.

I really do need to change my life.

Who will be ready...

Desperate times call for desperate measures.

...to go all the way?

Get on your knees.

Over the past few days, the group enjoyed some playtime...

Do you want to bark for me?

Woof! Woof!

...with guest expert Shelby.

How did that feel?

Mm. SHE LAUGHS

Yeah.

Alex worked hard controlling his anxiety.

I genuinely feel amazing.

Ellen made progress...

Is that OK, like, me doing that?

...building trust with surrogate partner Kat.

I feel on top of the world right now.

Yay! On top of Virgin Island!

Yeah!

And Tegan got into the swing of things.

Hit my hand with the dick.

Now, as they enter the next phase of

the course, it's time to get technical.

There's a lot of pressure to know everything around sex,

so technique is really, really important, because many

of them haven't tried anything at all.

This is what's going to prepare them to connect sexually

with each other or with anyone else once they go out and start dating.

Day 11 on Virgin Island and the start of

a new two-day phase of the course.

The next phase of the course is all about technique.

That can mean so many things.

I don't think I...any really good technique.

You want to do everything right and not what I've just seen

online watching porn or anything like that.

So I think the whole phase is going to be good for me.

It's going to be intense, I'll say that.

That I can agree on. Mm-hm.

Oh, we've got sausage.

Maybe we can practise technique with a sausage. If you want to.

I got no clue how we're going to practise technique.

As long as they don't say,

"Right, guys, oral technique on each other right now, in the pavilion."

Red, red, red, red! Red, red, red!

Yeah. Yellow. Er...

THEY LAUGH

Are you feeling good, Bertie?

I don't know what they're going to do, but, er, we'll see.

In this morning's workshop, Celeste and Danielle

will show how mastering simple skills...

Morning, guys. Morning.

...can take sexual intimacy to the next level.

I don't think anything can transform around intimacy

if you're not including some of the basics.

At first they're going

to find this exercise pretty intimidating,

but I know they're going to have fun with it once they dive in.

OK, welcome to the next phase of the course.

You've already learned a lot of skills,

but technique is about putting it

all together into, like, a smooth flowing escalation.

We are going to start with kissing.

STIFLED LAUGHTER

I've never been a fan of it.

I've had, like, one person went, "I'm going to make out with you."

And he went...

...and then that just put me off, and then he started biting me

and I was just, like, "No, this is too much."

Kissing may be seen as first base,

but Celeste and Danielle know it's the gateway to so much more.

For me, kissing is probably the most important thing.

I just love lips and I want them everywhere

on my body, on my face, on my neck, all over my body.

So there's, like, a whole escalation,

even through a single kiss.

It literally travels to the nipples, to the pussy, to the toes,

and that's what creates a lot of warm up.

So who wants to practise with me?

Yeah. Let's do it.

So far, accountant Tegan has thrown herself fully into the course.

I really want to not be a virgin any more,

and to experience the romance, to be able to make love to somebody.

I want all that.

I was born with cerebral palsy.

I grew up being told from a very young age,

"You might not be able to do a lot of things."

They told me I might not be able to walk, so I walked.

I might not be able to talk, so I talked.

You only get out what you put in, you know?

Good, and see if you can keep your mouth open longer

and see if you can bring your teeth in a little bit.

Right, yes.

You really got in there. Yeah, yeah. I felt a lot of contact. Yeah.

LAUGHTER AND CHEERING

Oh, I need another cold shower.

Oh, it's very erotic. Mm-hm. I felt it all the way down.

Yeah, yeah.

Next, the experts want to up the ante...

I want to invite you to try with each other.

...with some peer on peer practice.

Who wants to give any one of these kisses a try.

Fuck it.

LAUGHTER

CHEERING

First up are Katie and Callum, who've been

growing close throughout the retreat.

Initially, I don't think I would be a very good kisser.

I've never gone further than holding someone's hand.

Ever. That's it.

I've never done anything.

I think it's funny, you know, intimacy and sex.

I find it quite humorous.

A lot of people would say I am quite childish.

Working with Kat at the retreat,

Callum is learning to step up from boy to man.

Right.

Hmm.

You need to go a bit slower.

Right.

Katie, I love it that you're giving him feedback.

That's fantastic.

And I like the stubble on it, so... OK. So, yeah.

Yay!

Yeah.

Also quick to pair up...

Yeah, you all right doing it with me? Yeah.

...the island's other potential lovebirds, Alex and Joy.

Do you want to do neck?

Yeah, yeah. Can I...

Yeah. JOY LAUGHS

You can add teeth if you want.

Sorry. I feel like I was just kissing rather than, like...

No, it felt good. And I liked the teeth.

Gorgeous! SHE LAUGHS

And you're OK with me giving you neck kisses?

Yes, please.

JOY LAUGHS

Do you want teeth? Yeah.

How was that? Very good.

Wonderful.

CHEERING AND APPLAUSE

Who else wants to try?

I think that's a bit uncomfortable for me.

OK.

Ellen? It's OK. No? You want... No. Don't worry.

Even if it's just a hand kiss.

I'll do arms only, if anyone wants to do an arm.

I'll do it. Yeah? Yeah. Come on.

CHEERING AND APPLAUSE

Identifying as bisexual...

Hi. Hello.

...theatre usher Millie is filled with horror

by the thought of romance.

When it comes to dating, you know the other person will want intimacy

and, you know, he'll want a kiss. I just can't...

...I can't give them that, really.

I'm scared that I'm not going to enjoy it

and then, like, kill the vibes instantly.

Erm, OK.

You can do it? Yeah? Yeah.

OK.

Is that OK? Good.

Really good. Thanks.

Woohoo! Woo!

Any feelings?

Obviously it's intimate, but, like, it's very, like... I don't know.

I think I need to try and relax.

I think that will be something really good to work on

in one-on-ones.

How's that? Yeah, I broke the seal.

Yeah!

Lovely.

Did the little T-shirt grab. Yeah, I saw it!

And then you did the thing, I was like... I was like, "Woo!"

It was hot.

Also feeling hot after the workshop...

Please, I'm not comfy! Ow! SHE LAUGHS

...Callum and Katie...

...whose relationship has been noticed by the Islanders...

...and the experts.

There's definitely something developing, it feels.

Totally something between them, right? It's spicy.

Yeah. It really looks like something that he's been deeply craving.

Mm. Mm. Mm.

I'm going to work with him a little bit on practising kissing,

because that's a huge insecurity that he has.

In terms of being intimate, getting it to the next stage

after flirting is where it just kind of walled off.

Hello. Hello.

Kissing, it's quite a big step, when it comes to it.

I might be weird about it and then they start thinking I'm weird,

because I've never done it.

Can I squeak in here? You can.

I did enjoy today's workshop,

but I feel like I could be a lot better than that.

Yeah. Yeah.

I mean, we can do it here if you'd like.

Yeah? Does that seem fun? Yeah.

If Kat can boost Callum by teaching him kissing technique...

Then this arm. ..maybe it could help him

to act on his feelings for Katie.

On the lips? Yes, but...

...I want you to...

...go very slowly.

Mm.

And a little more up with your head.

I like... Nope, not that way.

A little bit over.

I have a little bit of space then I can kind of meet you.

OK. Yeah? OK.

Good job. How does that feel? Cool.

SHE LAUGHS

You sounded like such a dude in that moment!

Ah, I'm... I'm flustered.

I can't even... I can't even think right now!

I had my first kiss, basically.

I feel, like, a lot more confident in actually doing that now.

If you told me before coming here, I'd be doing that in there,

like, honestly, I wouldn't believe you.

BUZZING

LAUGHTER You're going straight in!

THEY LAUGH

I think you need to learn the anatomy of a man.

It's the first afternoon of the technique phase.

Are they your balls? Yeah.

And the experts have given

the virgins some toys to add to their sexual skillset.

Sex toys can be seen as taboo,

but it's really important that they have time to just practise

and play with each other

and maybe just not take sex so seriously.

Oh! My God!

You just twatted it!

Oh! I'm so sorry!

Still make babies, yeah?

Maybe, I don't know!

Since pairing up in the kissing workshop,

some of the islanders are getting even closer.

This is nice. This is for internal.

Oh, crumbs. I shouldn't have put that near my eyes!

Alex and I, I feel like we really connect.

It's very easy to feel comfortable around him.

I came here to, like,

overcome my issues with sex and intimacy

and this has happened.

I would definitely say this is, like, unexpected.

Do you want a blankie? I don't want one.

Oh. But just in case. Just if you want one.

Oh, that's nice. Thank you so much.

She makes me feel, like, really at ease.

It's like enjoying getting to know someone,

exploring that romantic connection.

To smooth the road to romance,

they first have individual issues to address.

You have a long tongue! That's what I get told.

That tongue going to go places. Oh, my God!

Ilil will continue to help Joy with her vaginismus,

while surrogate partner Risdon will keep working

on Alex's anxiety with erections.

I'm looking forward to seeing what has shifted now

that there's this romance blossoming.

And we want to make sure that they're equipped

to deal with that. What's your plan?

You know, this is a big thing for Alex is the, like, performing.

My goal is teaching him how

to sustain an erection as well as complete with an orgasm.

OK, so, Ilil, you'll be seeing Joy today? Yeah.

So I want to give her a plan of how she can start integrating

a lot of engorgement, potentially even orgasm,

into her practice of penetration.

If the treatments work,

it could bring Alex and Joy closer together.

If I started dating someone,

that is the assumption,

that we get to a point where we have intercourse.

And yet if somebody tried to touch me there,

like, it would be pain, and that's not a sexy thing.

So we're just going to check in. Yeah. Perfect.

In previous sessions,

Joy has been learning to relax around penetration.

We have dilators here. Mm-hm. Do you have your own ones?

Yes, I have mine. I can show you. Cool.

But now Ilil wants to go further with a new approach.

It's way easier to practise penetration either when

you are very, very engorged and ideally, after you orgasm.

You're more relaxed. Mm-hm. We're rewriting the experiences

around penetration... Mm-hm. ..to let your nervous system and body

know, oh, it's not this painful, scary thing. Mm.

Having made progress with his erection anxiety...

One hand.

One hand!

I can't even do that! Have you been practising that?

No. ..Alex is testing himself further...

Lay back when you're ready.

...in the safe hands of surrogate partner Risdon,

to see if he can stay focused until orgasm.

No pressure.

How's that feel? That's really good.

SHE LAUGHS

Let's just put that on the floor, Just so it's a tiny bit softer.

I know that working through vaginismus entails pain.

It will be uncomfortable at points.

Would you like me to cover one of the pillows,

just in case you want to hump a pillow?

Yeah? Yeah.

I know that some approaches are unconventional.

Doing this, you know, it's clearly whatever it takes!

Uh-huh, good breathing.

HE EXHALES

Mm-hm.

Having really bad performance anxiety, in my head

I am thinking that I'm not good enough,

I'm not masculine enough,

this person doesn't really want to be with me.

I start to lose my erection.

It's then the panic attacks,

massive heart rate, deep breathing, feeling nervous.

HE EXHALES

Keep breathing.

SHE MOANS SOFTLY

Everything your body is doing right now is perfect.

Mm-hm.

SHE MOANS SOFTLY

HE BREATHES DEEPLY Yeah.

BREATHING AND MOANING

That felt amazing. Yeah.

It's like all the tension's just lifted. Totally.

I feel tingly, I feel shaky in a good way.

That felt pretty good.

Before I put so much pressure on me and my genitals,

having come to this island, learned techniques that can calm you

down in the moment and just, like,

lose yourself in your body is... has been, yeah, amazing.

Just give yourself

a moment to kind of feel it spread all over your body.

How crazy is that?

After orgasm, using a dilator should feel easier,

bringing Joy a step closer to pain-free sex.

Just remembering the breathing.

JOY EXHALES

So remembering that the tensing is around the entrance.

Yeah. You're all the way in now.

There's no pain.

Amazing.

Happy with that for today? Yeah, I'm happy with that.

Amazing. I've learned something about myself.

I just masturbated in front of someone.

Like...

...to climax.

Fuck yes! Fuck yes!

And then I use the first size of my dilator,

and it, like, just slipped right in there.

Fuck yes! Fuck yes!

This has been so big for me in terms of rewiring my brain.

I think the idea of penetrative sex is becoming less and less scary.

The therapy that they've been through

has created such a noticeable change.

It's unbelievable.

The more that they practise,

the more prepared they are to go out and do these things in life.

How did your one to one go, Alex? It was really good. Cool.

I had a great time. Do you have to, like, fully shower

after that sort of thing or do you just...

You don't have to. ..baby wipe?

Erm... Does it not just go everywhere? Can you, like...?

I usually shower, personally. After wanking?

Yeah. Jeez, I can't be bothered.

I'd be having six showers a day.

THEY LAUGH

Hello. Hello, honey. How was your one-to-one?

It was very good. Oh, you smell really nice.

Yeah, it's because I was really sweaty, so I had to...

I bet you were!

Was that good? It was really good. Did you finish?

Yeah. Yeah. I now know how the people of Pompeii felt.

But instead of pyroclastic flow of lava,

it was a hot, frothy ejaculant everywhere.

Right, I love kissing. Just something I've really enjoyed doing.

So as soon as they were, like, oh,

we're going to practise kissing, I'm like, "Yeah, boy!"

Do it, do it! Yeah!

THEY LAUGH

At the hang-out, talk has turned to this morning's kissing workshop.

I think, Katie, you looked like you were enjoying yourself.

And I don't think I could have done it with anyone else.

I could. Oh, fuck you.

It was nice to see the progress from being too shy

to do some things to being confident enough now.

Yeah, well done, guys. Thank you. Thank you.

But for Ellen, it just magnifies how far behind she's feeling.

I didn't do the kissing on the neck

because I didn't really feel comfortable.

It was a bit awkward.

For me, it's quite a personal thing to share in a group setting.

You OK, baby? Yeah. I'm good.

You just wanted alone time?

Yeah, but I don't mind if you...

I just wanted to come check you're OK. Yeah. No, I'm all right.

Because I don't want you to feel like you're being left out.

I saw Ellen. She didn't want to do any kissing.

She felt aversion. I noticed

at one point she got very internal and really couldn't watch.

But she would feel comfortable doing it with someone

she feels connected with, someone she feels drawn to.

How are you doing?

To help Ellen get closer to losing her virginity,

Kat's getting her confident with the basics.

I'm not very good at kissing, though.

Well, we can start with practising that.

Yeah. Ready? OK.

And you can relax your lips more, like, really let them...

...explore. OK. Yeah?

You're still a little bit like this.

Sorry!

Can I go again? Yeah.

Is that right? How does it feel?

Like, down below is, like, excited.

Feeling more relaxed, Kat wants to escalate the session

to more intimate touching - uncharted territory for Ellen.

I've never been touched intimately.

I feel like maybe there's something wrong with me.

I feel a bit of an outcast and like I've done something wrong.

Yeah.

Are you feeling OK about directing? Yeah. Yeah?

Where would you like to be touched first?

Softly, like, slow

and then down, like, to my genitals.

Down a little bit.

Yeah, OK.

Just keep letting me know.

Just a second.

Pass, pass. No, it's OK.

Even the anticipation of intimate touch...

Yeah, just breathe. You can look at me.

It's OK.

...is enough to overwhelm Ellen.

What are you feeling right now?

You can't fail.

The only goal is pleasure.

No, you're absolutely not broken. And there's nothing wrong

with your reaction to being touched.

It felt quite intense.

Just cross at myself, really,

because it's my fault that I'm how I am.

And I knew I was going to struggle with it.

As the sun sets on the first day of

the technique phase, progress is mixed.

Some move slow,

others more quickly.

You smell really nice still, by the way. Thank you.

That was actually really smooth! Thank you. Yeah, I liked that.

Do you want me to kiss your neck?

Cheeky! Too much?

Cheeky! No.

It felt good for me too.

Get a room, guys!

LAUGHTER

Those grapes are disappointing. They're not grapes.

What are they? They're olives. Oh!

It's day two of the technique phase of the course.

All right, lads. Boys only table.

Can I come on the boys' table? No, it's for boys only!

Fuck you, then. Yeah, fine! THEY LAUGH

SHE LAUGHS

What are you giggling at? That's the... I just spat on you.

Oh, really? I didn't... I didn't actually, but I pretended to.

Oh, OK. Yeah.

As a member of the male species. That's kind of hot.

It's obvious to see how effective somatic work is

as you start to see people connecting

with each other on an intimate level,

because people actually have the opportunity to practise.

Then you start to gain this sense of confidence and relaxation.

It's beautiful to see.

Alex and Joy have shared their first kiss.

Come here. Come here, baby, come here.

And now she's looking to share the love.

Oh, my first kiss of the island!

Did you just kiss? Yeah. Stop stealing her, Joy.

Oh, are you getting possessive now? Yeah.

Oh, about time.

THEY LAUGH

So if I...if I want Katie more... You can't.

Why? Because she's mine.

Have you said that to Katie? No. No, exactly.

Not even kissed her, have you, so... No.

Go on, then. I'm not doing that in front of everyone!

That's so awkward. Uh-uh.

STIFLED LAUGHTER

KISSING

Oh, fucking hair in my mouth!

LAUGHTER

As Callum and Katie turn up the heat,

Millie is still lukewarm.

The whole socialising with a stranger

and knowing the next bit could be intimacy,

I internally, like, panic,

but I'm hoping I can change

and start doing things that I've never done before,

even though it's going to be very scary.

Millie's tasks are to embrace her sexuality,

I want to help her see how

her experiences don't have to hold her back.

I'm sure there's more secret desires

that Millie has tucked away that we can get into.

Yeah, and I think being teased is

a way to kind of tease it out of her. Mm.

I can handle that. Yeah!

So, a session with playtime expert Shelby...

Are you ready to begin?

Yeah. Come on up here.

...could help Millie unlock her true desires.

Nothing in this whole wide world matters

except your body and my voice.

Experimentation is how we learn about

what we like and what we don't like.

And playing with different sensations

with different people is a great way for us

to figure out what people's true desires are.

Have you ever had your nipples pinched?

No, ma'am. Mm.

Ooh. Shelby's experiment to discover what turns Millie on...

Oh, did you like that? I did. You did? Mm-hm.

...is proving to be enlightening.

Your face is getting a little pink.

Something exciting must be happening.

Yes, ma'am.

THEY GIGGLE

You're so beautiful. Thank you, ma'am.

Shelby is quite hot.

She touched me in places I've never been touched before.

And I'm, like, I really love, like, the whole,

like, girl-on-girl aspect,

so I think I'm still figuring that out for myself.

As the day goes on... Grab that pillow.

Yes, mistress. Put it there.

...Shelby scrutinises Will's technique in self-control...

Is that for me? Yes, mistress.

Good boy.

LAUGHTER

...and dominates Ed...

This is how I want your hair.

A handle to lead you around.

I feel like you could do whatever you want.

Mm. I usually do.

...to build his confidence.

People will go decades thinking about stuff like this

and never trying it out.

You're ahead of the game. Probably the best I've felt

about myself in a long time, being here.

I'm really happy to hear that.

Hey, Ed, how was your one-to-one? It was so much fun. Yeah. It was

a choice between getting laid or another session with Shelby.

I'm picking Shelby. Real! Yeah, like 100%.

For Tegan though, the possibility of sex is becoming real.

I think I still got a lot to learn, but I'm also, like,

I definitely feel ready to go and do it. Yeah.

I think I've got metaphorical blue balls.

LAUGHTER

Having conquered the shame around her sexuality...

You ready to look at my ass? Mm-hm.

I'm definitely a lesbian.

...Tegan has learnt many techniques with surrogate partner Risdon.

Mm.

Is that good? Mm-hm.

So the experts think it's time to see

if she's ready to go all the way.

Tegan and I are getting to the culmination of her goals,

which are to experience pleasure from

the touch of another woman on her genitals.

That's exciting. It is exciting. Yeah.

Tegan is doing phenomenal.

The excitement that she's embodied here at

the retreat is really transformative for her.

She is an ideal client to have a sexual experience.

For this rite of passage,

Risdon has escalated their session to the bedroom.

Up until now, it's been very much

like Risdon's been teaching me a lot of things.

Whereas now, to lose my virginity,

I'm feeling a tad overwhelmed, a bit nervous.

It's hard to describe.

Tegan defines losing her virginity

as receiving an orgasm through the hand of somebody else.

It's a very pivotal moment.

Hello. Hi.

Hi. Hi.

Whoa. That's really comfy, actually. It's not so bad.

Oh. Mm, mm.

Mm. Nervous.

Yeah? Yeah. Mm. That's real.

I'm nervous too.

Just so you know. Are you? Yeah.

Cool.

May I kiss you? Mm-hm.

That was nice. What'd you think?

I like that. I got fanny flutters. Mm-hm. Same. You did?

Yeah!

The session starts with slow, sensual touch.

I want to straddle you. Yeah, great. Yeah? Go for it.

Are you sure? Yeah? Yeah, of course.

It's so bizarre. What's bizarre?

I've just never been in this situation.

Totally, super new. Mm-hm. Yeah. It's really good.

Do you want to try the strap-on? Yeah.

You want to try? Yeah.

Mm. RISDON LAUGHS

Mm. Mm.

You're quite good at this! Thank you.

Thank you!

Now Risdon takes the lead in pleasuring Tegan.

Touching you here OK? Mm-hm.

Soft like that? Mm-hm.

DEEP BREATHING

Wow.

GRUNTS

SIGHING

That was really good.

RISDON LAUGHS

Mm.

That didn't take long.

THEY LAUGH

Thank you. My pleasure.

Tegan! Hello. Hello. How was your thing?

My head's a bit fried right now, I feel great!

Let's just say, I'm not a virgin any more.

Shut up! Yes!

Tegan! Sit down!

Basically, I just lost my virginity.

I feel like jumping for joy!

Oh! Oh!

Confidence. Your cheeks are so rosy.

All these phases have just, like, kind of helped me grow.

I can't wait to take all these different skills

and tricks into the real world,

and hopefully find myself a girlfriend after this.

I have little to no concerns about Tegan out in the world.

I am mostly concerned

for the lesbians of Glasgow because here she comes.

Oh! It's fantastic. Oh! So happy. Well done, Teegs!

Now we're 11 virgins left. Yeah.

APPLAUSE

So happy. Big up, big up.

Shall we have a group hug? Yeah! Let's go.

Everyone can get in.

On three, two, one, say, "Tegan's not a virgin!"

Three, two, one.

Tegan's not a virgin!

Thanks, guys! Well done, Teegs!

It's the afternoon...

Whoa! That can kill someone.

LAUGHTER

...and an advanced sex toy lesson proves pleasure

doesn't always require human touch.

You can use it by stimulating and warming up the area.

Close your eyes and try it out.

Vibrators are really good because the clit often needs

an intense amount of stimulation.

That's heavy.

SHE LAUGHS

And especially for women who have a difficult time coming,

sometimes they won't be able to come

ever if they don't use a vibrator.

Erm, yeah, I've done it like a couple of times,

but I find I can't quite reach orgasm.

I don't think I've ever had an orgasm.

If I do have a sexual thought,

I just try and ignore it because I've never really explored...

...that area.

After feeling overwhelmed in the previous session...

Hello. How are you? ...Kat has tried a different tactic

to get Ellen comfortable with intimate touch.

The reason that I have the table is to make it safe

to have a more non-erotic exploration. OK.

Does that feel OK? Yeah, yeah.

Ready? Yeah.

And if anything makes

you uncomfortable, just let me know.

As Ellen and I move into deeper intimacy,

it's more apparent how she can sometimes shut down.

And so that's something we're really working on,

is helping her to sit with herself in those moments.

To remind her that she is in control so that she feels safe.

And then she can choose to take the final steps.

It's still OK? Yeah.

Can we just stop for a second?

Of course, of course.

Is there anything that you need?

Just a second. Yeah, of course.

OK.

Are you sure? Yeah.

Just, like, I kind of just needed a minute,

but it's OK. OK.

And tell me if anything's, like, too fast, too, yeah?

Mm.

DEEP EXHALATION

Hmm. How are you feeling?

Good. Yeah? Yeah.

Like, very good.

I haven't had that, like, before.

So, really happy that you were able to be, like,

wait, hold on, and kind of go into yourself... Yeah.

...and then know when you were ready to engage again.

That's really good.

OK. Thank you. Yeah.

When I first walked on the island, I didn't even think I would

take my bra off in front of someone else.

So I feel like I've come a long way, and now I'm looking forward

to hopefully losing my virginity on the island.

Do want to try a bit of tongue? Ah, I have to see,

I don't know about the texture. That's fair.

Do a little teeth, but not too hard, if you don't mind.

No, nope. No worries.

GIGGLING

I just need to... I need to get over that blockage.

Yeah.

Since her one-on-one with Shelby, Millie has begun exploring intimacy.

During our one-on-one,

she really got in touch with a lot of new sensations.

I really want to explore with her her feelings around boundaries.

I feel that there's some sort of

shame that holds her back from exploring who she is

and how she can develop deeper romantic relationships.

I definitely want to get over the obstacle of kissing,

because I feel like there's quite a bit of,

like, relationship blooming.

Your hands are freezing. OK!

I didn't even realise I was cold. Alex and Joy,

they've been getting really close to each other.

♪ Can I lean on you? ♪ Yeah, of course.

Do you want to come here? Mm-hm.

And then you've got Callum and Katie.

I can't move! LAUGHTER

They're getting more comfortable in each other's, like, space.

Callum!

La-la-la!

And I'm sort of just, like, watching them.

And I'm just, like, oh, why can't that be me?

So I actually wanted to follow up a little bit on the kissing.

You seemed a little bit, like, yuck... yucked by kissing.

Dunno. My friends just seem to be able to do it easily...

Mm-hm. ..and I'm, like, OK,

why can't I feel nice when it comes to, like... Yeah, yeah.

...dating and things like that?

To help Millie focus on what's holding her back...

Can I hold your hands? Yeah.

...Danielle plans to use a focused breathing technique.

SHE BREATHES DEEPLY

I can feel a thing in my throat. Don't try to push it away.

That's what I do, though. I know. It's OK.

Let's not fight it.

You already know the truth inside you, right?

Mm-hm. Yeah.

Do you want to tell me?

Erm, I feel like I've got more preference to female.

I've never been attractive to, like, guys.

So what's happening when you say about,

I mean, to women? Oh, I just feel like I want to cry.

Yeah. It's not easy to come out.

Oh. It's a lot, huh?

Just saying them words out loud

and it's just, like, I think because I've covered them

for such a long time, it's, like, really hard.

Yeah.

I feel like people won't accept me. Yeah. Yeah.

My older sister's disabled and there's a pressure on me of, like,

I'm the one that's meant to, like, get married and have kids.

And you're scared

that if you're going to come out, you're going to lose love.

And that's normal to feel like that.

We all want to belong. Yeah.

Can you peek with one eye like you're doing now

and see that I don't judge you at all?

Yeah. Yeah? Mm-hm.

And I appreciate you and respect you just the same.

Thanks.

OK, darling. Ready for a hug? Yeah.

I'd quite love a hug.

OK.

As the sun sets...

Can I have everybody's attention?

...the islanders have gathered to say a fond farewell.

Shelby has brought in this beautiful way

of looking at playtime and she's going

to be leaving tomorrow, so we all want to thank her.

Thank you, Shelby.

Woo! Woo!

Shelby helped many unlock hidden desires,

including Millie, who wants to share with the group.

Erm...

For years I was used, like, erm...

...my sexuality, because I'm like, oh, but I like boys, you know,

that's kind of normal.

Erm, sorry...

You got this, Mills.

Yeah. OK. I'm just going to say it. Erm...

I think deep down

I've liked girls.

Yeah, I just thought...

...you need to, like, say it.

Otherwise I'll be living in this life of, like, not being me.

No, well done. Woo!

The ladies like you, Millie.

Cheers to loving women! CHEERING AND APPLAUSE

I'm proud of you.

As hard as it was, I'm really glad I said it.

Erm, yeah, it's lifted, like, a ton of bricks off my shoulders.

I don't need to be ashamed. It's OK to be a lesbian.

Next time...

Tegan, will you have sex with me? Of course.

...the group explores the art of seduction.

Will you clutch my crotch?

More major milestones are reached.

And in an island first, one connection is set to intensify.

What's happening there? Horny island.

Does that feel like something that you want?

I'd be keen.

If you've identified with the issues raised in Virgin Island

and would like to be part of a possible new series, visit...