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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,260 --> 00:00:04,139 - I take you to be my wife from this time forward, 2 00:00:04,139 --> 00:00:05,929 to share all there is to come, 3 00:00:06,990 --> 00:00:09,570 to help and to encourage in all circumstances 4 00:00:09,570 --> 00:00:10,500 in our life together. 5 00:00:10,500 --> 00:00:13,230 [suspenseful piano music] 6 00:00:13,230 --> 00:00:16,289 - Welcome, Libby, into our family. 7 00:00:16,289 --> 00:00:20,010 We wish you happiness, love, 8 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:24,510 and a wonderful, happy life. 9 00:00:24,510 --> 00:00:27,300 - I thought this is a dream come true. 10 00:00:27,300 --> 00:00:30,690 - Not only do I love Libby very, very much, 11 00:00:30,690 --> 00:00:33,210 but she's my best friend. 12 00:00:34,289 --> 00:00:37,530 - I would have never thought that Ted was capable 13 00:00:37,530 --> 00:00:39,719 of committing such acts. 14 00:00:39,719 --> 00:00:42,090 [tense musical crescendo] 15 00:00:42,090 --> 00:00:44,399 And that was a colossal mistake on my part. 16 00:00:44,399 --> 00:00:45,990 ♪ ♪ 17 00:00:45,990 --> 00:00:47,820 - It was terrible. 18 00:00:47,820 --> 00:00:50,250 - How do you think you're not going to get caught? 19 00:00:50,250 --> 00:00:52,409 - You wonder, is he really a sociopath? 20 00:00:52,409 --> 00:00:55,018 [tense music] 21 00:00:55,018 --> 00:00:57,869 It was dire, and I felt awful for her. 22 00:00:59,039 --> 00:01:03,531 - Ted told me, "That guy might kill you and our daughter." 23 00:01:03,531 --> 00:01:08,025 ♪ ♪ 24 00:01:08,025 --> 00:01:12,516 [tense music] 25 00:01:12,516 --> 00:01:17,010 ♪ ♪ 26 00:01:17,010 --> 00:01:21,503 [tense somber music] 27 00:01:23,500 --> 00:01:25,995 - I'm Andrea Gunning, and this is "Betrayal," 28 00:01:27,150 --> 00:01:29,430 a show about the people we trust the most 29 00:01:29,430 --> 00:01:31,829 and the deceptions that change everything. 30 00:01:33,569 --> 00:01:35,430 Meet Libby Henry. 31 00:01:35,430 --> 00:01:37,829 She married into a rich and powerful family. 32 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:43,469 Her husband was handsome, personable, and successful. 33 00:01:43,469 --> 00:01:45,689 Libby was devoted to him, 34 00:01:45,689 --> 00:01:48,900 but she says he was only devoted to himself. 35 00:01:52,739 --> 00:01:55,590 - I always thought Ted would protect me 36 00:01:55,590 --> 00:01:59,579 and that he would never allow something bad to happen to me. 37 00:01:59,579 --> 00:02:01,230 But he did. 38 00:02:01,230 --> 00:02:04,290 I thought we were partners for life. 39 00:02:04,290 --> 00:02:09,840 I never dreamed that he would turn on me like that. 40 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:12,378 It was as if I was the enemy. 41 00:02:12,378 --> 00:02:14,918 [somber music] 42 00:02:14,918 --> 00:02:17,456 [trumpet plays fanfare] 43 00:02:17,456 --> 00:02:19,996 [upbeat rustic music] 44 00:02:19,996 --> 00:02:22,534 ♪ ♪ 45 00:02:23,276 --> 00:02:25,074 - I grew up in Louisville, Kentucky. 46 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:28,650 ♪ ♪ 47 00:02:28,650 --> 00:02:33,629 My dad sold insurance and my mother was a homemaker. 48 00:02:33,629 --> 00:02:35,759 ♪ ♪ 49 00:02:35,759 --> 00:02:39,599 Unfortunately, my mother suffered from mental illness. 50 00:02:39,599 --> 00:02:41,969 [somber music] 51 00:02:41,969 --> 00:02:42,689 - They believe she had 52 00:02:42,689 --> 00:02:44,550 borderline personality disorder, 53 00:02:44,550 --> 00:02:46,950 which made Libby's childhood really hard. 54 00:02:46,950 --> 00:02:49,379 ♪ ♪ 55 00:02:49,379 --> 00:02:53,400 - My mother, she would pretend to kill herself. 56 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:55,620 And then by dinner, she's fine. 57 00:02:56,819 --> 00:03:00,509 - I never saw her mom soft 58 00:03:00,509 --> 00:03:03,419 or warm towards Libby. 59 00:03:03,419 --> 00:03:04,229 - I could feel that. 60 00:03:04,229 --> 00:03:05,669 I was always trying to get out of the house 61 00:03:05,669 --> 00:03:07,259 and going to neighbors' homes. 62 00:03:07,259 --> 00:03:09,960 - To add stress to the family, they didn't have much money. 63 00:03:11,490 --> 00:03:14,129 - My family life was so chaotic, 64 00:03:14,129 --> 00:03:16,064 I wanted to create a normal one. 65 00:03:16,064 --> 00:03:23,550 [soft upbeat music] 66 00:03:23,550 --> 00:03:25,500 - I met Libby in the first grade. 67 00:03:25,500 --> 00:03:28,860 She was very outgoing, very sociable. 68 00:03:28,860 --> 00:03:31,530 She just had that bubbly personality. 69 00:03:31,530 --> 00:03:33,240 People wanted to be friends with Libby. 70 00:03:34,288 --> 00:03:35,610 - Libby's an attractive girl, 71 00:03:35,610 --> 00:03:39,539 but she never thought of herself as being attractive. 72 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:42,090 Kind of like the ugly duckling. 73 00:03:42,090 --> 00:03:45,990 She had really thick glasses and a froggy voice. 74 00:03:45,990 --> 00:03:47,759 And then in high school, 75 00:03:47,759 --> 00:03:51,090 she just really blossomed to be the prettiest. 76 00:03:51,090 --> 00:03:54,509 ♪ ♪ 77 00:03:54,509 --> 00:03:58,379 - I went to the University of Kentucky in Lexington, 78 00:03:58,379 --> 00:03:59,655 and I studied history. 79 00:04:01,530 --> 00:04:04,110 But I never thought, oh, I'm going to have a career. 80 00:04:04,110 --> 00:04:08,400 I just wanted to get married and have a normal family 81 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:10,500 because I knew mine was not normal. 82 00:04:10,500 --> 00:04:11,580 That was my goal. 83 00:04:13,620 --> 00:04:17,100 - I first met Libby her sophomore year. 84 00:04:17,100 --> 00:04:18,300 We always had fun 85 00:04:18,300 --> 00:04:21,209 and we ended up getting an apartment together. 86 00:04:21,209 --> 00:04:22,620 She's very pretty, 87 00:04:22,620 --> 00:04:25,850 so she was never lacking for dates or a boyfriend. 88 00:04:25,850 --> 00:04:28,949 ♪ ♪ 89 00:04:28,949 --> 00:04:32,939 - In August 1991, I went to the Big Blue Bash, 90 00:04:32,939 --> 00:04:35,363 which is a big party to kick off football season. 91 00:04:37,019 --> 00:04:39,819 And one of my girlfriends told me about a guy 92 00:04:39,819 --> 00:04:42,329 that she knew was in one of my history classes. 93 00:04:42,329 --> 00:04:44,040 His name was Ted House. 94 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:47,009 And she said "He'd really like to go out with you." 95 00:04:47,009 --> 00:04:49,980 I knew who he was because he was very tall, 96 00:04:49,980 --> 00:04:52,680 like 6'4" tall, so, you know, stood out. 97 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:54,060 A very good-looking guy. 98 00:04:54,060 --> 00:04:57,660 Really cute smile, dimple, blue eyes. 99 00:04:57,660 --> 00:05:00,720 Kind of a Ken doll. That's what I thought of him. 100 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:04,019 [energetic rock music] 101 00:05:04,019 --> 00:05:07,379 And later that night, we were at a bar, 102 00:05:07,379 --> 00:05:08,490 and Ted was there. 103 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:11,160 He approached me 104 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:13,576 and he started talking about the history syllabus. 105 00:05:13,576 --> 00:05:15,449 ♪ ♪ 106 00:05:15,449 --> 00:05:17,220 So it didn't impress me at first. 107 00:05:17,220 --> 00:05:18,959 I was kind of bored. 108 00:05:18,959 --> 00:05:21,899 And then Ted called me on the phone a few days later 109 00:05:21,899 --> 00:05:23,182 and asked me to go out. 110 00:05:23,182 --> 00:05:26,069 ♪ ♪ 111 00:05:26,069 --> 00:05:29,399 He took me to a French restaurant. 112 00:05:29,399 --> 00:05:32,550 When he was there, he wasn't that dull guy anymore. 113 00:05:32,550 --> 00:05:34,139 I mean, he had all this personality 114 00:05:34,139 --> 00:05:37,043 and was very charming and I was like, OK, now I like this guy. 115 00:05:37,043 --> 00:05:39,149 [peaceful music] 116 00:05:39,149 --> 00:05:40,928 - After their first date, 117 00:05:40,928 --> 00:05:43,800 I come out and she's, like, peeking through the blinds, 118 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:45,959 watching him walk down the walk. 119 00:05:45,959 --> 00:05:48,060 And I was like, what are you doing? 120 00:05:48,060 --> 00:05:50,079 She's like, oh! You know? 121 00:05:50,079 --> 00:05:51,689 And really embarrassed and flustered 122 00:05:51,689 --> 00:05:53,610 that I'd caught her, like, watching him. 123 00:05:53,610 --> 00:05:55,920 But she had been super excited about the date 124 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:56,879 and really liked him. 125 00:05:59,250 --> 00:06:01,379 - Ted was in my fraternity. 126 00:06:01,379 --> 00:06:03,709 Sharp, smart guy, very confident. 127 00:06:05,879 --> 00:06:08,790 - Ted came from a well-to-do family in Indiana. 128 00:06:08,790 --> 00:06:11,129 He had gone to private schools, 129 00:06:11,129 --> 00:06:13,980 drove nice cars, had nice clothes, 130 00:06:13,980 --> 00:06:16,439 was used to nicer things in life. 131 00:06:16,439 --> 00:06:19,860 - Ted came from a very politically connected family. 132 00:06:19,860 --> 00:06:21,990 ♪ ♪ 133 00:06:21,990 --> 00:06:24,689 - The first time I met Ted's parents, 134 00:06:24,689 --> 00:06:28,920 we were at a party for the governor of Indiana. 135 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:31,350 And that was so intimidating, 136 00:06:31,350 --> 00:06:34,079 because I didn't come from a family like that. 137 00:06:34,079 --> 00:06:35,670 - They didn't let their backgrounds 138 00:06:35,670 --> 00:06:37,290 get in the way of their relationship. 139 00:06:37,290 --> 00:06:39,449 ♪ ♪ 140 00:06:39,449 --> 00:06:42,810 - I liked that Ted was very close to his family. 141 00:06:42,810 --> 00:06:46,199 His parents were very involved in their children's lives, 142 00:06:46,199 --> 00:06:49,350 and that made me feel like it would be nice 143 00:06:49,350 --> 00:06:51,660 to marry into this type of family. 144 00:06:54,029 --> 00:06:56,910 Ted and I had been dating over a year, 145 00:06:56,910 --> 00:06:59,009 and I think we were 23 and 24. 146 00:06:59,009 --> 00:07:01,800 ♪ ♪ 147 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:03,329 I was in my apartment. 148 00:07:03,329 --> 00:07:04,709 And Ted was the kind of guy 149 00:07:04,709 --> 00:07:06,959 that wasn't really comfortable with his emotions. 150 00:07:08,069 --> 00:07:13,259 So he proposed to me by just giving me a big hug 151 00:07:13,259 --> 00:07:15,779 and then on his finger was the ring. 152 00:07:17,670 --> 00:07:20,406 And he got down on his knee and I did say yes. 153 00:07:20,406 --> 00:07:23,141 ♪ ♪ 154 00:07:23,141 --> 00:07:25,877 It was so sweet because it was so Ted. 155 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:30,029 ♪ ♪ 156 00:07:30,029 --> 00:07:31,769 - When Libby told me they were engaged, 157 00:07:31,769 --> 00:07:33,629 I was ecstatic for her, 158 00:07:33,629 --> 00:07:36,000 because we'd always talked about meeting that one, 159 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:37,470 and Libby had found that one. 160 00:07:37,470 --> 00:07:39,720 ♪ ♪ 161 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:42,180 - Ted's parents took us out to dinner 162 00:07:42,180 --> 00:07:44,279 to celebrate our engagement 163 00:07:44,279 --> 00:07:48,600 and his mom presented me with a circle pearl pendant 164 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:50,550 and that meant I was part of the family, 165 00:07:50,550 --> 00:07:52,019 that the family was a circle. 166 00:07:52,019 --> 00:07:53,009 And I liked that. 167 00:07:53,009 --> 00:07:54,600 I liked feeling a part of something. 168 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:57,870 [suspenseful music] 169 00:07:57,870 --> 00:07:59,939 - As wonderful as Ted seemed, 170 00:07:59,939 --> 00:08:03,149 Libby still saw some troubling signs early on. 171 00:08:03,149 --> 00:08:06,029 He was the kind of guy that was easily irritated. 172 00:08:07,230 --> 00:08:12,269 - When we got engaged, we had an argument where he was 173 00:08:12,269 --> 00:08:14,610 angry in a way I hadn't seen before. 174 00:08:14,610 --> 00:08:15,600 It stunned me. 175 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:18,620 I thought maybe he's not the right person for me. 176 00:08:20,459 --> 00:08:23,939 Problem was my mother was so upset. 177 00:08:25,529 --> 00:08:27,870 She's like, you know, the invitations have gone out, 178 00:08:27,870 --> 00:08:29,220 and what will everybody think? 179 00:08:29,220 --> 00:08:31,410 And that's the way she was growing up. 180 00:08:31,410 --> 00:08:34,620 But she made it very obvious 181 00:08:34,620 --> 00:08:38,519 that if I called off the engagement, 182 00:08:38,519 --> 00:08:40,043 that wouldn't be very acceptable. 183 00:08:44,730 --> 00:08:47,039 - The biggest thing everybody's been asking me about is 184 00:08:47,039 --> 00:08:48,090 are you nervous? 185 00:08:48,090 --> 00:08:50,429 And I'm not really that nervous. 186 00:08:50,429 --> 00:08:52,080 I'm more nervous speaking to you all now 187 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:54,659 than I am about getting married, actually. 188 00:08:54,659 --> 00:08:55,409 [laughter] 189 00:08:55,409 --> 00:08:57,840 I met Libby almost two years ago. 190 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:01,679 It was on my roommate that I had to meet her, 191 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:03,720 and that worked out. 192 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:05,519 Libby, I love you very, very much. 193 00:09:05,519 --> 00:09:07,385 You are my best, best friend. 194 00:09:07,385 --> 00:09:09,253 I love you. all: Aw. 195 00:09:09,253 --> 00:09:11,119 [applause] 196 00:09:11,119 --> 00:09:12,985 - Our wedding was a big wedding. 197 00:09:12,990 --> 00:09:15,539 It was, to me, very elaborate, 198 00:09:15,539 --> 00:09:17,933 nothing that I thought I would ever have. 199 00:09:23,669 --> 00:09:26,769 - It was beautiful. It was a perfect June night. 200 00:09:29,418 --> 00:09:32,518 - Libby and Ted, this is Christine, as you know, 201 00:09:32,518 --> 00:09:34,908 and I just want to let you know that I wish you both many years 202 00:09:34,923 --> 00:09:36,442 of happiness and success. 203 00:09:39,164 --> 00:09:42,264 - I had a lot of fun and I was so excited at the end 204 00:09:42,269 --> 00:09:43,830 to be Mrs. Edward House. 205 00:09:43,830 --> 00:09:46,830 I'll just tell Ted that I love him very much. 206 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:50,009 I felt very proud. 207 00:09:50,009 --> 00:09:51,480 I thought I was going to have the life 208 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:53,460 that my parents never did. 209 00:09:53,460 --> 00:09:55,830 This is a dream come true. 210 00:09:55,830 --> 00:09:57,690 I just thought everything was just going 211 00:09:57,690 --> 00:10:00,450 to magically unfold for me. 212 00:10:00,450 --> 00:10:02,490 And for a while, I kind of felt like it did. 213 00:10:03,895 --> 00:10:06,985 - It is not the question of what will happen to you, 214 00:10:06,985 --> 00:10:10,916 but it is a question of how you will face what happens. 215 00:10:10,916 --> 00:10:12,655 You will face it together. 216 00:10:14,096 --> 00:10:15,686 - Unfortunately, it would fall apart later. 217 00:10:24,390 --> 00:10:27,243 After we got married, I got pregnant 218 00:10:29,306 --> 00:10:33,475 When we had our daughter, I thought, I've got my family. 219 00:10:33,475 --> 00:10:34,586 Like, I'm on my way. 220 00:10:38,186 --> 00:10:40,105 - When their daughter was ten months old, 221 00:10:40,105 --> 00:10:42,235 Ted got a job in the mortgage industry. 222 00:10:42,235 --> 00:10:44,485 ♪ ♪ 223 00:10:44,485 --> 00:10:46,466 - Ted excelled in that business. 224 00:10:46,466 --> 00:10:50,719 He was their top producer and I was working full-time. 225 00:10:51,985 --> 00:10:54,115 And then I woke up one morning 226 00:10:54,115 --> 00:10:57,806 and I started to get a bad, sharp pain in my lower back. 227 00:10:57,806 --> 00:11:00,385 [tense music] 228 00:11:00,385 --> 00:11:03,326 And I started to have pain chronically. 229 00:11:04,556 --> 00:11:05,966 Nothing alleviated it. 230 00:11:05,966 --> 00:11:09,655 ♪ ♪ 231 00:11:09,655 --> 00:11:12,836 Really, it was that my lower level of my back. 232 00:11:12,836 --> 00:11:14,118 It had deteriorated. 233 00:11:14,118 --> 00:11:18,686 I had the spine of somebody 60 years old 234 00:11:18,686 --> 00:11:23,149 and I was in my 20s and I needed a spinal fusion. 235 00:11:24,926 --> 00:11:27,926 I had three back surgeries in three years. 236 00:11:27,926 --> 00:11:33,296 [somber music] 237 00:11:33,296 --> 00:11:35,515 - Because of Libby's issues with her back, 238 00:11:35,515 --> 00:11:39,535 she couldn't sit for extended periods of time, 239 00:11:39,535 --> 00:11:43,826 and that made work pretty much impossible for her. 240 00:11:43,826 --> 00:11:45,775 - Ted said that he made enough money 241 00:11:45,775 --> 00:11:48,265 for me to be a stay-at-home mom. 242 00:11:48,265 --> 00:11:49,285 But looking back, 243 00:11:49,285 --> 00:11:51,505 I did not keep an iron in the workplace fire 244 00:11:51,505 --> 00:11:52,975 so if anything ever happened, 245 00:11:52,975 --> 00:11:54,985 I could always rely on myself, and I didn't do that. 246 00:11:56,755 --> 00:11:58,255 Ted took care of everything. 247 00:12:01,466 --> 00:12:06,265 As far as paying bills, our taxes. 248 00:12:07,615 --> 00:12:09,566 I had a checking account 249 00:12:09,566 --> 00:12:12,115 and he would put money in that checking account. 250 00:12:12,115 --> 00:12:13,586 He oversaw all of it. 251 00:12:14,666 --> 00:12:19,046 - Libby was blissfully ignorant of what their finances were. 252 00:12:19,046 --> 00:12:21,355 - And that was a colossal mistake on my part. 253 00:12:23,426 --> 00:12:24,355 - At this point, 254 00:12:24,355 --> 00:12:27,505 Ted is a very successful mortgage loan officer. 255 00:12:27,505 --> 00:12:29,995 So successful, he decides to start a side business 256 00:12:29,995 --> 00:12:33,265 flipping houses, and that becomes really successful too. 257 00:12:33,265 --> 00:12:35,245 - They were members of the country club. 258 00:12:35,245 --> 00:12:36,655 They traveled a lot. 259 00:12:37,765 --> 00:12:39,566 - We were going to Costa Rica. 260 00:12:39,566 --> 00:12:41,966 We were going to Martha's Vineyard. 261 00:12:41,966 --> 00:12:45,686 We were able to just take off and go places. 262 00:12:45,686 --> 00:12:48,115 I finally had that life that I wanted, 263 00:12:48,115 --> 00:12:50,005 that I dreamed about in high school. 264 00:12:50,005 --> 00:12:50,755 And I was happy. 265 00:12:52,826 --> 00:12:55,885 - Ted was always busy juggling family life 266 00:12:55,885 --> 00:12:57,235 and flipping houses, 267 00:12:57,235 --> 00:12:59,725 but he appeared to be handling it like a pro. 268 00:12:59,725 --> 00:13:00,769 For a while, anyway. 269 00:13:02,035 --> 00:13:05,936 - In 2002, there was a house for sale in Indian Hills. 270 00:13:05,936 --> 00:13:08,785 [suspenseful music] 271 00:13:08,785 --> 00:13:10,826 - Indian Hills was one of the nicest places 272 00:13:10,826 --> 00:13:12,475 that you could live. 273 00:13:12,475 --> 00:13:13,975 The area is great. 274 00:13:13,975 --> 00:13:17,515 The homes were very expensive, very hard to get in. 275 00:13:17,515 --> 00:13:21,775 - Ted bought the house and we put our house up for sale. 276 00:13:21,775 --> 00:13:23,666 And I was kind of surprised, 277 00:13:23,666 --> 00:13:28,645 because he sold it to his business partner, 278 00:13:28,645 --> 00:13:28,941 Khalid. 279 00:13:31,285 --> 00:13:35,875 I met Khalid a couple of times and he was an imposing figure, 280 00:13:35,875 --> 00:13:37,135 a giant man. 281 00:13:39,475 --> 00:13:40,196 ♪ ♪ 282 00:13:40,196 --> 00:13:41,216 - Ted had searched for me. 283 00:13:42,505 --> 00:13:44,326 Heard that I was active in the West End, 284 00:13:44,326 --> 00:13:47,905 and he was looking to get into different areas of the city. 285 00:13:47,905 --> 00:13:51,446 - Ted said that Khalid was very good at flipping houses, 286 00:13:51,446 --> 00:13:53,755 but some were in bad parts of town 287 00:13:53,755 --> 00:13:58,885 and Khalid was from the area of town where these houses were. 288 00:13:58,885 --> 00:14:00,926 ♪ ♪ 289 00:14:00,926 --> 00:14:02,005 - What I was supposed to do 290 00:14:02,005 --> 00:14:05,725 was finding properties, buyers, sellers, 291 00:14:05,725 --> 00:14:08,155 and I take them straight to Ted. 292 00:14:09,296 --> 00:14:10,645 And we closed a lot of deals. 293 00:14:14,066 --> 00:14:17,426 - Once we had settled into the house in Indian Hills, 294 00:14:17,426 --> 00:14:19,645 we started renovations. 295 00:14:19,645 --> 00:14:21,115 And then all of a sudden, 296 00:14:21,115 --> 00:14:25,885 Ted started to experience what he called work stress. 297 00:14:25,885 --> 00:14:28,586 [tense music] 298 00:14:28,586 --> 00:14:30,475 Things would aggravate him 299 00:14:30,475 --> 00:14:32,125 that didn't used to aggravate him. 300 00:14:32,125 --> 00:14:34,166 It wasn't like it was one day. 301 00:14:34,166 --> 00:14:35,725 Everybody has a bad day. 302 00:14:35,725 --> 00:14:37,166 This was all the time. 303 00:14:38,966 --> 00:14:41,155 - There appeared to be some cracks in the marriage. 304 00:14:41,155 --> 00:14:44,125 Ted was a great guy, wonderful, wonderful father, 305 00:14:44,125 --> 00:14:46,046 and then there was a switch 306 00:14:46,046 --> 00:14:49,046 and Ted became somebody that she didn't recognize anymore. 307 00:14:50,666 --> 00:14:54,561 - It was like he was in a panic all the time. 308 00:14:56,275 --> 00:14:59,485 He would wake up at like 3:00 in the morning 309 00:14:59,485 --> 00:15:01,375 every single morning. 310 00:15:01,375 --> 00:15:03,385 He would be on the computer. 311 00:15:03,385 --> 00:15:05,096 I'm like, what is so pressing? 312 00:15:05,096 --> 00:15:08,306 And that would anger Ted very quickly. 313 00:15:08,306 --> 00:15:11,605 And he would start belittling me, 314 00:15:11,605 --> 00:15:13,855 yelling at me, calling me names. 315 00:15:15,086 --> 00:15:18,385 - He just always blamed it on the stress of work, 316 00:15:18,385 --> 00:15:21,775 and she had absolutely no idea to the extent 317 00:15:21,775 --> 00:15:23,365 of what he was even talking about. 318 00:15:23,365 --> 00:15:26,816 ♪ ♪ 319 00:15:26,816 --> 00:15:31,105 - One day, he had his hands resting on the sink. 320 00:15:32,395 --> 00:15:34,466 He looked like he was crying. 321 00:15:35,936 --> 00:15:39,056 And he goes, he's gonna screw me over. 322 00:15:40,466 --> 00:15:44,275 I don't know what that Khalid will do. 323 00:15:44,275 --> 00:15:45,985 And I go, I'm not sure what we're talking about. 324 00:15:45,985 --> 00:15:46,916 What do you mean? 325 00:15:46,916 --> 00:15:49,946 And he looked at me and he goes, 326 00:15:49,946 --> 00:15:53,216 that guy might kill you and our daughter. 327 00:16:02,846 --> 00:16:08,125 - When Ted told me what Khalid might do, I was terrified. 328 00:16:08,125 --> 00:16:10,346 [tense music] 329 00:16:10,346 --> 00:16:11,816 And I didn't think I heard that right. 330 00:16:11,816 --> 00:16:15,446 I go, what do you mean when you say he could kill us? 331 00:16:15,446 --> 00:16:17,426 And Ted just said, 332 00:16:17,426 --> 00:16:19,375 he's got me involved in something. 333 00:16:21,326 --> 00:16:23,216 And I kept asking, why would you think 334 00:16:23,216 --> 00:16:25,105 somebody that you work with, 335 00:16:25,105 --> 00:16:27,716 that you like and you say is successful, 336 00:16:27,716 --> 00:16:30,505 would want to kill your wife and daughter? 337 00:16:30,505 --> 00:16:31,946 But he didn't explain it. 338 00:16:31,946 --> 00:16:35,816 He just said, I'm going to go to the office, and he left. 339 00:16:38,096 --> 00:16:41,605 I was so shocked and I didn't know what to do. 340 00:16:41,605 --> 00:16:43,556 And I start just a flood of emotion. 341 00:16:43,556 --> 00:16:44,275 I'm just crying. 342 00:16:44,275 --> 00:16:47,125 ♪ ♪ 343 00:16:47,125 --> 00:16:48,799 - She called Ted's parents. 344 00:16:50,905 --> 00:16:52,826 If there was anyone that was going to be concerned, 345 00:16:52,826 --> 00:16:53,418 it would be them. 346 00:16:54,865 --> 00:16:56,485 - I was so panicked, 347 00:16:56,485 --> 00:16:59,035 I could barely get through the conversation. 348 00:16:59,035 --> 00:17:02,365 My heart was beating and I was expecting 349 00:17:02,365 --> 00:17:06,684 this reaction that was dramatic, the way I felt. 350 00:17:06,684 --> 00:17:09,355 But Ted's mother wasn't like that. 351 00:17:11,516 --> 00:17:14,635 And she said, we talked to Ted. 352 00:17:15,986 --> 00:17:18,836 She goes, Khalid didn't say that. 353 00:17:18,836 --> 00:17:20,694 It's just Ted got scared. 354 00:17:22,105 --> 00:17:24,655 And he realizes that he's been consorting 355 00:17:24,655 --> 00:17:26,786 with somebody he shouldn't, 356 00:17:26,786 --> 00:17:30,865 and he was just not going to do business with him anymore. 357 00:17:30,865 --> 00:17:32,125 And I believed that. 358 00:17:33,296 --> 00:17:36,865 But I felt like my mother-in-law was saying to me, 359 00:17:36,865 --> 00:17:38,365 don't step out of line. 360 00:17:38,365 --> 00:17:40,165 Toe the rope here. 361 00:17:40,165 --> 00:17:40,796 And I did. 362 00:17:43,736 --> 00:17:47,516 - I don't know why Ted chose to do that. 363 00:17:47,516 --> 00:17:49,766 He knew he was lying on me. 364 00:17:49,766 --> 00:17:52,855 I would never come for Libby or anybody else. 365 00:17:52,855 --> 00:17:55,943 ♪ ♪ 366 00:17:55,943 --> 00:17:59,032 - After a period of time, Ted seems to change. 367 00:17:59,036 --> 00:18:01,675 [peaceful music] 368 00:18:01,675 --> 00:18:06,026 - It seemed like the work stress dissipated. 369 00:18:06,026 --> 00:18:08,516 And I didn't know if that was because 370 00:18:08,516 --> 00:18:10,976 Ted and Khalid had parted ways, 371 00:18:10,976 --> 00:18:13,016 because he refused to talk to me about it. 372 00:18:14,096 --> 00:18:16,586 But he was more laid-back 373 00:18:16,586 --> 00:18:19,316 and we were having a better time together. 374 00:18:19,316 --> 00:18:24,326 ♪ ♪ 375 00:18:24,326 --> 00:18:28,316 But then Ted got angry at me at an antique mall 376 00:18:28,316 --> 00:18:31,615 because I bought this antique platter. 377 00:18:31,615 --> 00:18:34,766 And I don't think it was very much money, maybe like $50. 378 00:18:34,766 --> 00:18:37,885 And he threw such a fit about this platter. 379 00:18:37,885 --> 00:18:38,635 He exploded. 380 00:18:41,846 --> 00:18:44,846 I just didn't understand how we bought this house 381 00:18:44,846 --> 00:18:47,306 that was close to $1 million, 382 00:18:47,306 --> 00:18:49,405 and he cared about this platter. 383 00:18:49,405 --> 00:18:51,625 And I had on my sunglasses 384 00:18:51,625 --> 00:18:54,050 and he got so mad that he ripped them off, 385 00:18:55,586 --> 00:18:58,316 crumpled them in his hand, and threw him out the window. 386 00:18:58,316 --> 00:19:01,976 And that cut the side right here on my nose. 387 00:19:01,976 --> 00:19:03,326 He was just escalating. 388 00:19:03,326 --> 00:19:06,865 ♪ ♪ 389 00:19:06,865 --> 00:19:11,905 - She certainly was feeling the brunt of Ted's irritability 390 00:19:11,905 --> 00:19:14,096 and his outbursts. 391 00:19:14,096 --> 00:19:16,286 She knew definitely that things weren't right. 392 00:19:17,546 --> 00:19:21,236 - One night, Libby was watching a program on TV 393 00:19:21,236 --> 00:19:22,615 and she heard this woman's story 394 00:19:22,615 --> 00:19:24,655 about her white-collar husband 395 00:19:24,655 --> 00:19:26,846 keeping her in the dark about finances. 396 00:19:26,846 --> 00:19:30,236 And Libby saw herself in that woman, 397 00:19:30,236 --> 00:19:32,635 and she started asking Ted questions. 398 00:19:34,615 --> 00:19:37,915 - I decided that I wanted Ted to make a folder for me 399 00:19:37,915 --> 00:19:41,125 explaining where all our money was, 400 00:19:41,125 --> 00:19:44,786 all the bank accounts, and he wouldn't do it. 401 00:19:44,786 --> 00:19:46,135 And I couldn't understand. 402 00:19:46,135 --> 00:19:47,996 And I kept asking him 403 00:19:47,996 --> 00:19:49,586 and he would get madder 404 00:19:49,586 --> 00:19:51,536 and madder and madder at me about it. 405 00:19:51,536 --> 00:19:53,605 And it got worse and worse and worse. 406 00:19:55,286 --> 00:20:00,056 And then one day, he got so angry at me that he leaves, 407 00:20:00,056 --> 00:20:02,185 and it was three days before Christmas. 408 00:20:02,185 --> 00:20:05,215 ♪ ♪ 409 00:20:05,215 --> 00:20:07,226 Ted moved into an apartment 410 00:20:07,226 --> 00:20:09,385 and I stayed at the house with my daughter. 411 00:20:10,521 --> 00:20:12,531 - I was shocked when Libby told me that 412 00:20:12,531 --> 00:20:14,541 they were getting separated 413 00:20:14,541 --> 00:20:18,172 because they had such a good marriage as far as I thought. 414 00:20:18,172 --> 00:20:21,172 [somber music] 415 00:20:21,172 --> 00:20:24,832 - One day when my daughter was at school, 416 00:20:24,832 --> 00:20:27,291 he charges in the house 417 00:20:27,291 --> 00:20:32,392 and he tells me that we were in financial trouble, 418 00:20:32,392 --> 00:20:36,172 that he had made some bad business decisions, 419 00:20:36,172 --> 00:20:38,084 and that we were going to need to sell the house. 420 00:20:38,084 --> 00:20:40,132 [clock ticking] 421 00:20:40,132 --> 00:20:43,432 We put our house up for sale very quickly. 422 00:20:43,432 --> 00:20:45,622 I was crushed. 423 00:20:45,622 --> 00:20:49,311 I put my heart and soul into renovations on that house. 424 00:20:49,311 --> 00:20:51,862 It was humiliating. 425 00:20:51,862 --> 00:20:53,422 If he needed money, 426 00:20:53,422 --> 00:20:56,001 I would have thought he would have gone to his parents. 427 00:20:56,001 --> 00:20:58,612 But he said that he didn't want to 428 00:20:58,612 --> 00:21:00,711 and he wouldn't tell me why. 429 00:21:00,711 --> 00:21:02,932 And then Ted told me that 430 00:21:02,932 --> 00:21:04,971 we needed to go see a bankruptcy attorney... 431 00:21:04,971 --> 00:21:07,402 [tense music] 432 00:21:07,402 --> 00:21:10,011 That we were going to have to file bankruptcy 433 00:21:10,011 --> 00:21:12,352 and there would be complete liquidation. 434 00:21:12,352 --> 00:21:13,791 I couldn't believe it. 435 00:21:13,791 --> 00:21:15,951 I just didn't know 436 00:21:15,951 --> 00:21:18,201 how much worse it was going to get. 437 00:21:25,372 --> 00:21:27,703 T ed and I had been married for 12 years 438 00:21:27,721 --> 00:21:29,662 and we just could not get along. 439 00:21:29,662 --> 00:21:31,942 ♪ ♪ 440 00:21:31,942 --> 00:21:33,892 But when we were separated, 441 00:21:33,892 --> 00:21:36,382 I thought some time away 442 00:21:36,382 --> 00:21:39,711 would bring some sort of clarity to him 443 00:21:39,711 --> 00:21:40,642 where he would understand 444 00:21:40,642 --> 00:21:43,642 why I needed to know about our finances. 445 00:21:43,642 --> 00:21:46,731 But we just ended up putting our house up for sale 446 00:21:46,731 --> 00:21:50,001 because of what he called bad business decisions. 447 00:21:50,001 --> 00:21:52,821 ♪ ♪ 448 00:21:52,821 --> 00:21:54,711 - She was cut off financially. 449 00:21:54,711 --> 00:21:56,571 Ted was handling all the financials. 450 00:21:56,571 --> 00:21:58,672 She had $11 in her bank account. 451 00:22:00,231 --> 00:22:01,761 - Libby confronts Ted 452 00:22:01,761 --> 00:22:04,882 and she asks him for money for groceries. 453 00:22:06,291 --> 00:22:09,112 - Ted told me to use our debit card, 454 00:22:09,112 --> 00:22:11,632 and when I went to pay, there was no money there. 455 00:22:13,672 --> 00:22:16,162 It wasn't just to feed myself. 456 00:22:16,162 --> 00:22:18,231 It was to feed our daughter. 457 00:22:18,231 --> 00:22:23,031 And I called Ted and he said, "Get a J-O-B, bitch." 458 00:22:23,031 --> 00:22:25,221 [tense music] 459 00:22:25,221 --> 00:22:27,862 - Sure, someone needs a job. 460 00:22:27,862 --> 00:22:31,942 What bothers me is the cocky attitude. 461 00:22:31,942 --> 00:22:33,951 Are you just going to leave them high and dry 462 00:22:33,951 --> 00:22:35,092 and laugh about it? 463 00:22:35,092 --> 00:22:36,352 Yeah, that's exactly what he did. 464 00:22:37,491 --> 00:22:38,152 It's puzzling. 465 00:22:40,132 --> 00:22:43,311 - I couldn't understand the way he treated me. 466 00:22:44,811 --> 00:22:48,682 And things just continued to get worse. 467 00:22:48,682 --> 00:22:51,112 I was like, I'm going to file for divorce. 468 00:22:51,112 --> 00:22:56,332 ♪ ♪ 469 00:22:56,332 --> 00:22:58,761 - Shortly after filing for divorce, 470 00:22:58,761 --> 00:23:00,615 Libby starts getting calls from creditors. 471 00:23:00,615 --> 00:23:03,321 ♪ ♪ 472 00:23:03,321 --> 00:23:06,021 There are accounts that were opened in her name, 473 00:23:06,021 --> 00:23:07,642 such as car loans and credit cards 474 00:23:07,642 --> 00:23:09,936 that she had never opened, never signed for. 475 00:23:09,936 --> 00:23:17,061 ♪ ♪ 476 00:23:17,061 --> 00:23:18,862 - Before we separated, 477 00:23:18,862 --> 00:23:21,771 Ted had gotten me an SUV that I loved. 478 00:23:21,771 --> 00:23:25,971 ♪ ♪ 479 00:23:25,971 --> 00:23:30,352 One day, Ted had come to the house and he said, 480 00:23:30,352 --> 00:23:33,412 there's something I left you back in the guest bedroom. 481 00:23:33,412 --> 00:23:37,983 ♪ ♪ 482 00:23:37,983 --> 00:23:38,991 I walked back there. 483 00:23:40,041 --> 00:23:41,262 There's nothing there. 484 00:23:42,442 --> 00:23:45,051 And when I came out, Ted had taken my car. 485 00:23:45,051 --> 00:23:46,192 ♪ ♪ 486 00:23:46,192 --> 00:23:53,061 He didn't care. He had no remorse whatsoever. 487 00:23:53,061 --> 00:23:55,102 No worry about taking care of his family. 488 00:23:57,172 --> 00:24:00,261 - The bank called me and said they were looking for that SUV 489 00:24:00,261 --> 00:24:04,642 that Ted took because they want to repossess it. 490 00:24:04,642 --> 00:24:08,721 And I told the representative what happened, 491 00:24:08,721 --> 00:24:13,041 but he said, you better locate this vehicle. 492 00:24:13,041 --> 00:24:14,811 You're the guarantor. 493 00:24:14,811 --> 00:24:16,791 I go, I never signed anything. 494 00:24:16,791 --> 00:24:18,531 He goes, I have the paperwork. 495 00:24:18,531 --> 00:24:21,201 So I got a copy and I see my name, 496 00:24:21,201 --> 00:24:23,152 except it's not my signature. 497 00:24:23,152 --> 00:24:24,231 It was forged. 498 00:24:26,602 --> 00:24:28,011 I said, that's not my signature. 499 00:24:28,011 --> 00:24:28,942 He did not care. 500 00:24:28,942 --> 00:24:30,352 He's like, well, you were married. 501 00:24:30,352 --> 00:24:33,801 But I did not give up my identity at the altar. 502 00:24:33,801 --> 00:24:36,321 It doesn't matter that I was his wife. 503 00:24:36,321 --> 00:24:37,221 I didn't sign it. 504 00:24:38,422 --> 00:24:41,152 I don't know what happened with that SUV, 505 00:24:41,152 --> 00:24:44,481 but finally, at some point, the bank stopped calling me. 506 00:24:44,481 --> 00:24:48,652 [tense music] 507 00:24:48,652 --> 00:24:51,652 One day, I came home to find 508 00:24:51,652 --> 00:24:54,231 Ted standing by the kitchen table. 509 00:24:54,231 --> 00:24:56,632 And he said, I've called my attorney, 510 00:24:56,632 --> 00:24:59,902 and I've told him that I've called off the divorce. 511 00:24:59,902 --> 00:25:02,571 Then he said, I wrote this letter to you. 512 00:25:02,571 --> 00:25:04,791 And in that letter, 513 00:25:04,791 --> 00:25:07,821 he's telling me how much he loved me, 514 00:25:07,821 --> 00:25:09,801 how he wanted to stay together, 515 00:25:09,801 --> 00:25:11,692 how he would make sure 516 00:25:11,692 --> 00:25:15,682 that I knew all about his business practices. 517 00:25:15,682 --> 00:25:17,842 He said, I will educate you. I will show you. 518 00:25:17,842 --> 00:25:20,692 Really, everything I was asking for, 519 00:25:20,692 --> 00:25:22,011 all that was in this letter. 520 00:25:22,011 --> 00:25:26,001 [soft suspenseful music] 521 00:25:26,001 --> 00:25:28,281 By the time he asked me to come back, 522 00:25:28,281 --> 00:25:30,412 being apart from him 523 00:25:30,412 --> 00:25:33,787 gave me a little confidence that I didn't have. 524 00:25:33,787 --> 00:25:35,902 I wasn't getting berated anymore. 525 00:25:35,902 --> 00:25:40,162 I said, you know, Ted, I'm not going to stay married to you. 526 00:25:41,632 --> 00:25:45,261 We ended up getting divorced on September 14th, 2005. 527 00:25:45,261 --> 00:25:45,741 ♪ ♪ 528 00:25:51,082 --> 00:25:55,432 In the divorce settlement, Ted's parents had a condo, 529 00:25:55,432 --> 00:25:59,991 and I was going to be allowed to live there just two years 530 00:25:59,991 --> 00:26:02,152 and I was going to get child support. 531 00:26:03,922 --> 00:26:07,821 The child support started at $1,200 a month 532 00:26:07,821 --> 00:26:09,501 and Ted got it reduced. 533 00:26:12,501 --> 00:26:12,801 ♪ ♪ 534 00:26:12,801 --> 00:26:15,531 To $149 a month. 535 00:26:15,531 --> 00:26:17,332 Not a week, a month. 536 00:26:17,332 --> 00:26:18,352 - That was obscene. 537 00:26:18,352 --> 00:26:21,561 [tense music] 538 00:26:21,561 --> 00:26:24,051 - That's maybe a week's worth of groceries, 539 00:26:24,051 --> 00:26:27,652 so she was always trying to scrape by. 540 00:26:29,061 --> 00:26:31,132 - My life was on fire. 541 00:26:31,132 --> 00:26:34,612 I just couldn't understand what was going on with Ted 542 00:26:34,612 --> 00:26:36,172 and why he had no money. 543 00:26:36,172 --> 00:26:39,471 ♪ ♪ 544 00:26:39,471 --> 00:26:40,971 - Libby realized that 545 00:26:40,971 --> 00:26:43,311 she wasn't going to get answers from Ted, 546 00:26:43,311 --> 00:26:47,602 but she knows that she can go to the Louisville rumor mill. 547 00:26:47,602 --> 00:26:50,182 Someone's got to know something here. 548 00:26:50,182 --> 00:26:50,961 And she was right. 549 00:26:52,852 --> 00:26:55,192 It was a friend's husband who was an attorney 550 00:26:55,192 --> 00:26:57,741 that said, hey, he's being investigated. 551 00:26:57,741 --> 00:27:00,137 [tense music] 552 00:27:00,137 --> 00:27:04,102 - He said Ted was being investigated by the FBI 553 00:27:04,102 --> 00:27:06,112 because he's involved in a fraud scheme. 554 00:27:06,112 --> 00:27:09,471 ♪ ♪ 555 00:27:09,471 --> 00:27:12,286 I was so shocked. I couldn't make sense of it. 556 00:27:12,286 --> 00:27:14,152 ♪ ♪ 557 00:27:14,152 --> 00:27:18,382 I asked, Ted, are you being investigated by the FBI? 558 00:27:18,382 --> 00:27:22,292 And he goes, if I go down, I'm taking you with me. 559 00:27:23,759 --> 00:27:27,671 You're a co-conspirator. And I'm like, to what? 560 00:27:34,026 --> 00:27:37,936 - Ted and I had had an altercation 561 00:27:37,942 --> 00:27:41,692 when I asked him if he was being investigated by the FBI. 562 00:27:41,692 --> 00:27:43,551 [indistinct shouting] 563 00:27:43,551 --> 00:27:47,301 And he had told me that he was taking me down. 564 00:27:47,301 --> 00:27:49,461 And he'd never threatened me like that. 565 00:27:49,461 --> 00:27:50,772 It scared me. 566 00:27:52,791 --> 00:27:54,711 So I called an attorney, 567 00:27:54,711 --> 00:27:58,132 and he said that we needed to talk to the FBI. 568 00:27:58,132 --> 00:28:01,221 And then he took me to the U.S. attorney's office. 569 00:28:03,231 --> 00:28:05,031 They asked me some questions. 570 00:28:05,031 --> 00:28:06,711 And of course, I said, 571 00:28:06,711 --> 00:28:09,442 I don't know, you know, much of anything. 572 00:28:11,001 --> 00:28:13,942 And they said Ted's involved in mortgage fraud 573 00:28:13,942 --> 00:28:15,892 and he was in very serious trouble. 574 00:28:18,622 --> 00:28:21,592 I'm like, that's what this was the whole time. 575 00:28:21,592 --> 00:28:24,112 ♪ ♪ 576 00:28:24,112 --> 00:28:26,632 So I pulled out, you know, the letter. 577 00:28:29,182 --> 00:28:32,211 - Libby was trying to show the investigators 578 00:28:32,211 --> 00:28:35,692 that the letter that Ted wrote to her to get her back 579 00:28:35,692 --> 00:28:37,761 actually proved she didn't know anything. 580 00:28:37,761 --> 00:28:40,582 [tense music] 581 00:28:40,582 --> 00:28:42,519 - And then the agents left the room. 582 00:28:43,971 --> 00:28:45,741 And that just felt like an eternity 583 00:28:45,741 --> 00:28:47,152 'cause I didn't know what they thought of me. 584 00:28:48,682 --> 00:28:50,451 And I was so nervous. 585 00:28:50,451 --> 00:28:53,092 ♪ ♪ 586 00:28:53,092 --> 00:28:57,682 And then they came back in and the lead agent says, 587 00:28:57,682 --> 00:28:59,811 you're only guilty of trusting your husband. 588 00:28:59,811 --> 00:29:05,480 [tense music fading] 589 00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:07,071 I mean, it was like a sigh of relief. 590 00:29:08,241 --> 00:29:09,412 [tense music] 591 00:29:09,412 --> 00:29:11,692 - The investigation into Ted's crimes 592 00:29:11,692 --> 00:29:13,942 was part of a much broader effort 593 00:29:13,942 --> 00:29:16,521 by the FBI to investigate mortgage fraud. 594 00:29:16,521 --> 00:29:19,432 We were having a housing boom across the country, 595 00:29:19,432 --> 00:29:22,221 and then mortgage rates went very low. 596 00:29:22,221 --> 00:29:24,352 So it became so competitive 597 00:29:24,352 --> 00:29:27,382 that the underwriting standards got loosened. 598 00:29:27,382 --> 00:29:28,912 So this was a new fraud, 599 00:29:28,912 --> 00:29:31,432 and it's a document-heavy investigation. 600 00:29:31,432 --> 00:29:33,382 It can take years sometimes. 601 00:29:33,382 --> 00:29:37,551 ♪ ♪ 602 00:29:37,551 --> 00:29:40,102 - In July 2007, Ted was charged 603 00:29:40,102 --> 00:29:42,261 with conspiracy to commit mortgage fraud, 604 00:29:42,261 --> 00:29:44,571 bank fraud, and wire fraud. 605 00:29:44,571 --> 00:29:47,902 These charges could yield a sentence of 18 months 606 00:29:47,902 --> 00:29:48,884 to 8 1/2 years. 607 00:29:51,021 --> 00:29:53,872 - White-collar crimes are crimes of greed, not need. 608 00:29:53,872 --> 00:29:55,672 Ted was college-educated. 609 00:29:55,672 --> 00:29:57,352 He was well-known in his community. 610 00:29:57,352 --> 00:29:59,721 His parents, you know, well-established family. 611 00:29:59,721 --> 00:30:01,372 He had connections. He had money. 612 00:30:01,372 --> 00:30:04,192 He could have gone off and made a legitimate life 613 00:30:04,192 --> 00:30:05,721 for himself and his family. 614 00:30:05,721 --> 00:30:09,892 But fraud was a path he chose to take. 615 00:30:09,892 --> 00:30:12,991 - Ted got greedy and he didn't have to. 616 00:30:12,991 --> 00:30:15,480 A lot of the people that use drugs 617 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:17,432 or they got a gambling habit. 618 00:30:18,541 --> 00:30:19,951 I never saw that with Ted. 619 00:30:19,951 --> 00:30:22,321 Ted was drunk off of money. 620 00:30:22,321 --> 00:30:23,342 - I still didn't understand 621 00:30:23,342 --> 00:30:26,041 the full scope of what he had done. 622 00:30:26,041 --> 00:30:28,741 But what I did learn is that 623 00:30:28,741 --> 00:30:31,442 Ted had never cut off relations with Khalid. 624 00:30:33,092 --> 00:30:36,617 And he, too, was indicted along with Ted. 625 00:30:38,011 --> 00:30:40,382 - I saw no red flags up front. 626 00:30:40,382 --> 00:30:42,480 But I remember one time, 627 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:47,011 we got a loan done that I didn't think would go through. 628 00:30:47,011 --> 00:30:50,251 And I'm saying, what lender did we use for that? 629 00:30:50,251 --> 00:30:51,932 Ted said, don't even worry about that. 630 00:30:51,932 --> 00:30:55,163 We did something that we're only going to do once. 631 00:30:56,521 --> 00:31:00,751 I shouldn't have, but I closed my eyes on whatever it was 632 00:31:00,751 --> 00:31:04,832 until the indictments start coming out 633 00:31:04,832 --> 00:31:08,912 and I'm like, ah, come on, bro. 634 00:31:08,912 --> 00:31:11,011 ♪ ♪ 635 00:31:11,011 --> 00:31:16,261 Ted falsified documents that had nothing to do with me. 636 00:31:16,261 --> 00:31:20,701 ♪ ♪ 637 00:31:20,701 --> 00:31:23,281 - Ted would buy a very cheap house, 638 00:31:23,281 --> 00:31:25,382 usually in a depressed neighborhood, 639 00:31:25,382 --> 00:31:29,521 then resell the house at a very inflated price 640 00:31:29,521 --> 00:31:31,951 and get what's called a straw buyer 641 00:31:31,951 --> 00:31:35,011 to go in and sign the paperwork. 642 00:31:35,011 --> 00:31:35,882 - It's simple. 643 00:31:35,882 --> 00:31:38,432 A fake buyer signs documents to buy a home 644 00:31:38,432 --> 00:31:39,721 for much more than it's worth. 645 00:31:41,551 --> 00:31:44,672 - Ted would get that fake buyer approved for a fake loan 646 00:31:44,672 --> 00:31:47,102 using fake documents, and a fake appraisal. 647 00:31:48,361 --> 00:31:50,300 So he could buy it for 30,000 648 00:31:50,300 --> 00:31:53,672 and then he would have this fake loan approved 649 00:31:53,672 --> 00:31:55,230 by the lenders that he worked with. 650 00:31:55,230 --> 00:31:57,182 He was a mortgage loan officer. 651 00:31:57,182 --> 00:31:58,711 And he would get that loan approved 652 00:31:58,711 --> 00:32:00,842 as if the house was valued at $75,000. 653 00:32:02,851 --> 00:32:04,230 It's really only worth 30,000. 654 00:32:04,230 --> 00:32:07,111 So he would get 75,000 bucks. 655 00:32:07,111 --> 00:32:09,061 He would then pay off that 30,000 656 00:32:09,061 --> 00:32:12,122 to the real guy he actually bought the house from. 657 00:32:12,122 --> 00:32:14,851 And then there's $45,000 left 658 00:32:14,851 --> 00:32:15,977 and he would pocket the difference. 659 00:32:15,977 --> 00:32:19,682 ♪ ♪ 660 00:32:19,682 --> 00:32:20,611 - We don't do it once. 661 00:32:20,611 --> 00:32:23,221 We do it again and again and again, 662 00:32:23,221 --> 00:32:24,932 and sometimes two or three of these 663 00:32:24,932 --> 00:32:26,521 were happening within a week. 664 00:32:28,051 --> 00:32:29,912 Ted made millions of dollars 665 00:32:29,912 --> 00:32:32,480 through these fraudulent transactions. 666 00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:36,001 ♪ ♪ 667 00:32:36,001 --> 00:32:37,771 - When the first payment comes due, 668 00:32:37,771 --> 00:32:40,082 that straw buyer disappears, 669 00:32:40,082 --> 00:32:42,751 so eventually, the banks are experiencing losses 670 00:32:42,751 --> 00:32:45,001 and they refer that over to the FBI. 671 00:32:45,001 --> 00:32:49,082 - I think that he thought because of who he was 672 00:32:49,082 --> 00:32:51,092 and the connections he had 673 00:32:51,092 --> 00:32:53,461 that I can do what I want 674 00:32:53,461 --> 00:32:55,741 and there's really no accountability. 675 00:32:55,741 --> 00:32:58,531 - Most people are embarrassed getting caught in a crime, 676 00:32:58,531 --> 00:33:00,301 but this emboldened Ted. 677 00:33:00,301 --> 00:33:03,480 You know, he thought of himself as almost a celebrity. 678 00:33:05,461 --> 00:33:08,071 - I asked him why, how-- 679 00:33:08,071 --> 00:33:09,902 I wanted him to tell me something 680 00:33:09,902 --> 00:33:12,692 because it affected me and my daughter 681 00:33:12,692 --> 00:33:14,701 and it affected my life profoundly. 682 00:33:14,701 --> 00:33:17,611 But never, never would say that he did it. 683 00:33:17,611 --> 00:33:20,115 Never. 684 00:33:20,115 --> 00:33:22,619 [tense music] 685 00:33:22,619 --> 00:33:25,124 ♪ ♪ 686 00:33:25,124 --> 00:33:27,627 Some people would talk about him in front of me like, 687 00:33:27,632 --> 00:33:30,332 oh, he just made a mistake at work. 688 00:33:30,332 --> 00:33:32,642 And I'd think, a mistake at work? 689 00:33:32,642 --> 00:33:34,561 My whole life has been upended. 690 00:33:36,301 --> 00:33:39,182 And then I also remember getting asked a million times, 691 00:33:39,182 --> 00:33:40,261 you didn't know? 692 00:33:40,261 --> 00:33:42,211 I hated that question. 693 00:33:42,211 --> 00:33:45,001 Yes, I knew. I knew all about the fraud. 694 00:33:45,001 --> 00:33:45,872 You want to go to lunch now? 695 00:33:45,872 --> 00:33:49,291 ♪ ♪ 696 00:33:49,291 --> 00:33:51,241 - Libby learned that she wasn't alone. 697 00:33:51,241 --> 00:33:53,342 She found a community of other women 698 00:33:53,342 --> 00:33:55,351 that were married to white-collar criminals, 699 00:33:55,351 --> 00:33:56,672 and there were a lot of them. 700 00:33:58,652 --> 00:34:01,382 - Libby and I met through this great support group 701 00:34:01,382 --> 00:34:03,480 that she has helped me cultivate 702 00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:04,672 for innocent spouses. 703 00:34:06,361 --> 00:34:09,420 The support group is now 150 members-strong 704 00:34:09,420 --> 00:34:10,891 on five continents. 705 00:34:10,891 --> 00:34:13,351 The majority of us lived middle-class lives, 706 00:34:13,351 --> 00:34:16,771 but the white-collar criminals we tend to hear about 707 00:34:16,771 --> 00:34:19,920 are the big, big-deal guys, the Bernie Madoffs, 708 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:24,262 but there's 5,000 white-collar cases indicted a year. 709 00:34:24,262 --> 00:34:25,681 ♪ ♪ 710 00:34:25,681 --> 00:34:28,952 And then when the husband has been indicted criminally, 711 00:34:28,952 --> 00:34:31,112 these women are so stigmatized. 712 00:34:32,342 --> 00:34:33,902 - I was a social pariah. 713 00:34:33,902 --> 00:34:35,882 People no longer 714 00:34:35,882 --> 00:34:38,311 make eye contact with you in the grocery store. 715 00:34:38,311 --> 00:34:39,782 And phone stops ringing. 716 00:34:39,782 --> 00:34:40,976 They didn't understand. 717 00:34:40,976 --> 00:34:43,112 ♪ ♪ 718 00:34:43,112 --> 00:34:44,822 - And I think that initially, 719 00:34:44,822 --> 00:34:47,762 there's kind of this justification that perps make 720 00:34:47,762 --> 00:34:50,581 that, oh, I'm doing it for my family 721 00:34:50,581 --> 00:34:52,322 to make their lives better. 722 00:34:52,322 --> 00:34:53,342 It's going to be for them. 723 00:34:55,382 --> 00:34:57,302 But looking at all the detriment, 724 00:34:57,302 --> 00:34:59,461 all the horrors, all the disasters 725 00:34:59,461 --> 00:35:02,641 that this has caused, everybody pays the price. 726 00:35:02,641 --> 00:35:04,771 You're doing it to your family. 727 00:35:04,771 --> 00:35:07,652 Your actions puts them in dire straits financially, 728 00:35:07,652 --> 00:35:09,211 emotionally, physically. 729 00:35:10,561 --> 00:35:13,532 - Being tried in the court of public opinion 730 00:35:13,532 --> 00:35:15,152 is one of the worst things 731 00:35:15,152 --> 00:35:18,121 because you're sentenced by them, 732 00:35:18,121 --> 00:35:20,641 but you never get a chance to speak for yourself. 733 00:35:20,641 --> 00:35:23,402 ♪ ♪ 734 00:35:23,402 --> 00:35:26,612 And then I found out even more stuff that Ted did to me 735 00:35:28,592 --> 00:35:32,731 that would add a whole new layer to my life 736 00:35:32,731 --> 00:35:34,742 that was already falling apart. 737 00:35:43,501 --> 00:35:47,972 - In my mind, I thought, oh, there'll be a trial, 738 00:35:47,972 --> 00:35:51,092 and I'll get to see how this started. 739 00:35:51,092 --> 00:35:53,041 But I was never in a courtroom, 740 00:35:53,041 --> 00:35:54,572 because there was never a trial. 741 00:35:56,641 --> 00:35:58,706 Because in the end, Ted pleads guilty. 742 00:36:01,442 --> 00:36:04,282 Ted could have been sentenced to 8 1/2 years. 743 00:36:06,512 --> 00:36:09,001 - Ultimately, Ted was sentenced to 18 months 744 00:36:09,001 --> 00:36:10,072 and 3 years' probation. 745 00:36:10,072 --> 00:36:13,244 ♪ ♪ 746 00:36:13,244 --> 00:36:17,702 - He got the minimum, and he was very happy about that. 747 00:36:17,702 --> 00:36:19,802 He told me that everyone clapped. 748 00:36:19,802 --> 00:36:21,722 I felt like he was like the hero, you know. 749 00:36:21,722 --> 00:36:23,132 Yay, Ted. 750 00:36:23,132 --> 00:36:25,021 And I thought, you destroyed my life. 751 00:36:27,061 --> 00:36:29,702 - He orchestrated all of this stuff 752 00:36:29,702 --> 00:36:31,621 with all these different parties, 753 00:36:31,621 --> 00:36:32,851 and he only did 18 months. 754 00:36:32,851 --> 00:36:35,192 Isn't that crazy? 755 00:36:35,192 --> 00:36:36,692 - Khalid also pled guilty 756 00:36:36,692 --> 00:36:38,942 and was sentenced to 25 months in prison. 757 00:36:40,742 --> 00:36:44,731 - In the mid-'80s, I jumped into the drug game. 758 00:36:44,731 --> 00:36:46,021 I did time in prison. 759 00:36:46,021 --> 00:36:50,041 And so I was facing 1,040 months. 760 00:36:50,041 --> 00:36:51,512 - If you cooperated, 761 00:36:51,512 --> 00:36:54,032 then you took that sentencing guideline down. 762 00:36:55,112 --> 00:36:56,731 - I went ahead and pled guilty. 763 00:36:56,731 --> 00:36:58,952 So I accepted responsibility. 764 00:37:00,811 --> 00:37:03,722 The judge said, we know you didn't do this, 765 00:37:03,722 --> 00:37:06,302 but you had some knowledge of something somewhere, 766 00:37:06,302 --> 00:37:07,532 and that was a correct statement. 767 00:37:08,972 --> 00:37:10,442 - While Ted was in jail, 768 00:37:10,442 --> 00:37:12,811 Libby was trying to rebuild her life. 769 00:37:12,811 --> 00:37:14,521 She had no money. 770 00:37:14,521 --> 00:37:17,492 [somber music] 771 00:37:17,492 --> 00:37:19,262 And in a moment of desperation, 772 00:37:19,262 --> 00:37:20,942 she called Ted's mother 773 00:37:20,942 --> 00:37:22,706 and asked for financial assistance. 774 00:37:23,972 --> 00:37:28,711 - $300 a month to help pay for our daughter's school. 775 00:37:28,711 --> 00:37:33,036 And her exact response was, no, you're getting $149. 776 00:37:33,512 --> 00:37:34,711 That's what the courts say. 777 00:37:37,141 --> 00:37:39,842 - I think they figured Libby's got her own, 778 00:37:39,842 --> 00:37:42,181 you know, family, and they'll take care of her. 779 00:37:42,181 --> 00:37:44,762 So that was kind of a closed door to her. 780 00:37:46,112 --> 00:37:48,842 - I just felt so betrayed. I did. 781 00:37:48,842 --> 00:37:51,751 ♪ ♪ 782 00:37:51,751 --> 00:37:54,512 In the middle of my daughter's high school years, 783 00:37:54,512 --> 00:37:55,702 Ted would get out of prison. 784 00:37:55,702 --> 00:37:57,842 ♪ ♪ 785 00:37:57,842 --> 00:38:00,164 And he was out having the best time in Louisville. 786 00:38:03,331 --> 00:38:05,731 It's almost like I got a prison sentence 787 00:38:05,731 --> 00:38:07,501 much longer than he did 788 00:38:07,501 --> 00:38:10,802 because I watched him just climb easily right back up. 789 00:38:10,802 --> 00:38:13,711 Not so much for me. I never financially rebounded. 790 00:38:13,711 --> 00:38:17,461 ♪ ♪ 791 00:38:17,461 --> 00:38:19,831 Ted always had a roof over his head. 792 00:38:19,831 --> 00:38:22,351 He moved right into his parents' condo, 793 00:38:24,032 --> 00:38:27,452 driving his Mercedes, driving a Range Rover. 794 00:38:27,452 --> 00:38:30,331 - He was laughing about it and living the big life. 795 00:38:30,331 --> 00:38:32,882 ♪ ♪ 796 00:38:32,882 --> 00:38:34,652 - I believe people can change. 797 00:38:35,972 --> 00:38:37,202 I don't know with him. 798 00:38:37,202 --> 00:38:39,271 I've not spoken to him in ten years. 799 00:38:39,271 --> 00:38:42,782 That's because years after he got out of prison, 800 00:38:42,782 --> 00:38:45,811 I would find out that he used me in his fraud scheme. 801 00:38:45,811 --> 00:38:47,822 ♪ ♪ 802 00:38:47,822 --> 00:38:49,621 A friend called me and said, Libby, 803 00:38:49,621 --> 00:38:52,322 you might want to check on land deed records. 804 00:38:52,322 --> 00:38:53,581 You might find yourself there. 805 00:38:54,661 --> 00:38:56,911 So when I did, I saw the deed 806 00:38:56,911 --> 00:38:58,021 and I saw my name. 807 00:38:58,021 --> 00:38:59,882 It said Libby House. 808 00:39:02,371 --> 00:39:04,262 I knew that wasn't my signature. 809 00:39:04,262 --> 00:39:05,882 My legal name is Elizabeth. 810 00:39:05,882 --> 00:39:08,041 I never sign my name Libby on any legal document. 811 00:39:10,532 --> 00:39:11,882 And it was notarized. 812 00:39:11,882 --> 00:39:15,391 And I see tons of deeds with my forged signature. 813 00:39:15,391 --> 00:39:19,681 And I thought, oh my God, this makes so much sense. 814 00:39:19,681 --> 00:39:22,360 That's why Ted, all those years ago, 815 00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:24,001 was saying you're a co-conspirator, 816 00:39:24,001 --> 00:39:25,351 because he made me one. 817 00:39:25,351 --> 00:39:27,692 On paper, it looked like I helped facilitate that fraud. 818 00:39:31,688 --> 00:39:33,152 I just couldn't understand it 819 00:39:33,152 --> 00:39:34,472 because, you know, there's a closing. 820 00:39:34,472 --> 00:39:36,992 You have to present IDs. I wasn't there. 821 00:39:36,992 --> 00:39:39,211 I called the notary specifically, 822 00:39:39,211 --> 00:39:43,231 and she told me that someone had to have impersonated me. 823 00:39:43,231 --> 00:39:45,541 And then she said, I'm going to have to get a lawyer. 824 00:39:45,541 --> 00:39:47,851 And I was like, well, do that. - Yeah. 825 00:39:47,851 --> 00:39:50,791 - After Libby started discovering all of this, 826 00:39:50,791 --> 00:39:54,632 she fought for eight years to get an amendment to the deeds. 827 00:39:54,632 --> 00:39:56,311 It states that her name was forged. 828 00:39:57,572 --> 00:39:59,791 - In order to amend the online deeds, 829 00:39:59,791 --> 00:40:01,411 you have to petition the court to do that, 830 00:40:01,411 --> 00:40:03,271 because they're the holders of the records. 831 00:40:03,271 --> 00:40:04,742 I applaud Libby for doing that, 832 00:40:04,742 --> 00:40:06,661 because that's not easy to do. 833 00:40:09,420 --> 00:40:11,911 - Ted, man, when he was saving himself, 834 00:40:11,911 --> 00:40:14,492 he sacrificed everything and everybody around him. 835 00:40:16,391 --> 00:40:17,862 Coward. 836 00:40:17,862 --> 00:40:21,222 We had a good business, and we made some good money. 837 00:40:21,222 --> 00:40:25,362 He didn't have to do the deception and the deceit, 838 00:40:25,362 --> 00:40:27,942 the lies, and the betrayal. 839 00:40:27,942 --> 00:40:30,851 Now, as far as Libby, she had his back. 840 00:40:30,851 --> 00:40:31,961 She loved that man. 841 00:40:33,431 --> 00:40:35,876 I'm sorry that she had to go through that. 842 00:40:35,876 --> 00:40:38,320 [somber music] 843 00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:40,764 ♪ ♪ 844 00:40:40,764 --> 00:40:43,208 - Financial crime is extremely invasive. 845 00:40:43,211 --> 00:40:45,251 I mean, her credit was completely destroyed. 846 00:40:45,251 --> 00:40:46,572 She had no money. 847 00:40:46,572 --> 00:40:49,481 Employers would run her credit or could do a background check 848 00:40:49,481 --> 00:40:50,862 and see everything that was going on, 849 00:40:50,862 --> 00:40:52,992 and so they didn't trust her. 850 00:40:52,992 --> 00:40:55,811 ♪ ♪ 851 00:40:55,811 --> 00:40:59,351 - I felt bad about myself for such a long time, 852 00:40:59,351 --> 00:41:01,692 but I feel good about myself now. 853 00:41:03,461 --> 00:41:05,472 I have a job today. 854 00:41:05,472 --> 00:41:06,371 I wrote a book, 855 00:41:08,172 --> 00:41:10,391 because my story's a cautionary tale. 856 00:41:11,501 --> 00:41:14,501 Being financially illiterate was horrible. 857 00:41:14,501 --> 00:41:17,472 [soft upbeat music] 858 00:41:17,472 --> 00:41:20,052 - You put a lot of trust in Ted. 859 00:41:20,052 --> 00:41:22,061 - I did. I put a lot of trust. 860 00:41:22,061 --> 00:41:24,731 I didn't plan for anything bad to happen. 861 00:41:24,731 --> 00:41:26,322 You need to think ahead. 862 00:41:26,322 --> 00:41:27,972 You need to rely on yourself. 863 00:41:27,972 --> 00:41:29,001 ♪ ♪ 64057

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