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- I take you to be my wife
from this time forward,
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to share all there is to come,
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to help and to encourage
in all circumstances
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in our life together.
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[suspenseful piano music]
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- Welcome, Libby,
into our family.
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We wish you happiness, love,
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and a wonderful, happy life.
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- I thought
this is a dream come true.
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- Not only do I love Libby
very, very much,
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but she's my best friend.
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- I would have never thought
that Ted was capable
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of committing such acts.
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[tense musical crescendo]
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And that was a colossal mistake
on my part.
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♪ ♪
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- It was terrible.
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- How do you think
you're not going to get caught?
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- You wonder,
is he really a sociopath?
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[tense music]
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It was dire,
and I felt awful for her.
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- Ted told me, "That guy might
kill you and our daughter."
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♪ ♪
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[tense music]
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♪ ♪
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[tense somber music]
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- I'm Andrea Gunning,
and this is "Betrayal,"
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a show about the people
we trust the most
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and the deceptions
that change everything.
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Meet Libby Henry.
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She married into
a rich and powerful family.
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Her husband was handsome,
personable, and successful.
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Libby was devoted to him,
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but she says he was
only devoted to himself.
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- I always thought
Ted would protect me
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and that he would never allow
something bad to happen to me.
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But he did.
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I thought
we were partners for life.
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I never dreamed that
he would turn on me like that.
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It was as if I was the enemy.
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[somber music]
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[trumpet plays fanfare]
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[upbeat rustic music]
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♪ ♪
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- I grew up in Louisville,
Kentucky.
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♪ ♪
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My dad sold insurance
and my mother was a homemaker.
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♪ ♪
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Unfortunately, my mother
suffered from mental illness.
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[somber music]
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- They believe she had
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borderline
personality disorder,
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which made Libby's childhood
really hard.
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♪ ♪
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- My mother, she would pretend
to kill herself.
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And then by dinner,
she's fine.
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- I never saw her mom soft
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or warm towards Libby.
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- I could feel that.
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I was always trying
to get out of the house
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and going to neighbors' homes.
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- To add stress to the family,
they didn't have much money.
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- My family life was
so chaotic,
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I wanted to create
a normal one.
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[soft upbeat music]
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- I met Libby
in the first grade.
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She was very outgoing,
very sociable.
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She just had
that bubbly personality.
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People wanted
to be friends with Libby.
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- Libby's an attractive girl,
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but she never thought of
herself as being attractive.
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Kind of like
the ugly duckling.
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She had really thick glasses
and a froggy voice.
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And then in high school,
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she just really blossomed
to be the prettiest.
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♪ ♪
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- I went to the University
of Kentucky in Lexington,
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and I studied history.
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But I never thought, oh,
I'm going to have a career.
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I just wanted to get married
and have a normal family
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because I knew mine was
not normal.
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That was my goal.
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- I first met Libby
her sophomore year.
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We always had fun
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and we ended up
getting an apartment together.
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She's very pretty,
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so she was never lacking
for dates or a boyfriend.
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♪ ♪
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- In August 1991,
I went to the Big Blue Bash,
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which is a big party
to kick off football season.
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And one of my girlfriends
told me about a guy
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that she knew was in one
of my history classes.
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His name was Ted House.
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And she said "He'd really like
to go out with you."
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I knew who he was
because he was very tall,
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like 6'4" tall,
so, you know, stood out.
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A very good-looking guy.
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Really cute smile, dimple,
blue eyes.
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Kind of a Ken doll.
That's what I thought of him.
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[energetic rock music]
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And later that night,
we were at a bar,
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and Ted was there.
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He approached me
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and he started talking
about the history syllabus.
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♪ ♪
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So it didn't impress me
at first.
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I was kind of bored.
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And then Ted called me
on the phone a few days later
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and asked me to go out.
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♪ ♪
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He took me
to a French restaurant.
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When he was there, he wasn't
that dull guy anymore.
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I mean,
he had all this personality
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and was very charming and I was
like, OK, now I like this guy.
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[peaceful music]
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- After their first date,
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I come out and she's, like,
peeking through the blinds,
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watching him
walk down the walk.
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And I was like,
what are you doing?
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She's like, oh!
You know?
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And really embarrassed
and flustered
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that I'd caught her,
like, watching him.
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But she had been super excited
about the date
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and really liked him.
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- Ted was in my fraternity.
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Sharp, smart guy,
very confident.
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- Ted came from
a well-to-do family in Indiana.
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He had gone
to private schools,
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drove nice cars,
had nice clothes,
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was used to nicer things
in life.
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- Ted came from a very
politically connected family.
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♪ ♪
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- The first time
I met Ted's parents,
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we were at a party
for the governor of Indiana.
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And that was so intimidating,
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because I didn't come
from a family like that.
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- They didn't
let their backgrounds
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get in the way
of their relationship.
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♪ ♪
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- I liked that Ted was
very close to his family.
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His parents were very involved
in their children's lives,
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and that made me feel like
it would be nice
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to marry into this type
of family.
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Ted and I had been dating
over a year,
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and I think we were 23 and 24.
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♪ ♪
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I was in my apartment.
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And Ted was the kind of guy
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that wasn't really comfortable
with his emotions.
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So he proposed to me
by just giving me a big hug
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and then on his finger
was the ring.
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And he got down on his knee
and I did say yes.
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♪ ♪
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It was so sweet
because it was so Ted.
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♪ ♪
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- When Libby told me
they were engaged,
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I was ecstatic for her,
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because we'd always talked
about meeting that one,
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and Libby had found that one.
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♪ ♪
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- Ted's parents took us
out to dinner
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to celebrate our engagement
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and his mom presented me
with a circle pearl pendant
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and that meant
I was part of the family,
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that the family was a circle.
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And I liked that.
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I liked feeling
a part of something.
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[suspenseful music]
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- As wonderful as Ted seemed,
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Libby still saw
some troubling signs early on.
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He was the kind of guy that
was easily irritated.
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- When we got engaged,
we had an argument where he was
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angry in a way
I hadn't seen before.
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It stunned me.
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I thought maybe he's not
the right person for me.
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Problem was
my mother was so upset.
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She's like, you know,
the invitations have gone out,
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and what will everybody think?
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And that's the way she was
growing up.
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But she made it very obvious
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that if
I called off the engagement,
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that wouldn't
be very acceptable.
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- The biggest thing everybody's
been asking me about is
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are you nervous?
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And I'm not really
that nervous.
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I'm more nervous
speaking to you all now
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than I am about
getting married, actually.
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[laughter]
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I met Libby
almost two years ago.
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It was on my roommate
that I had to meet her,
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and that worked out.
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Libby, I love you very,
very much.
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You are my best, best friend.
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I love you.
all: Aw.
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[applause]
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- Our wedding was
a big wedding.
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It was, to me, very elaborate,
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nothing that
I thought I would ever have.
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- It was beautiful.
It was a perfect June night.
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- Libby and Ted,
this is Christine, as you know,
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and I just want to let you know
that I wish you both many years
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of happiness and success.
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- I had a lot of fun
and I was so excited at the end
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to be Mrs. Edward House.
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I'll just tell Ted that
I love him very much.
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I felt very proud.
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I thought
I was going to have the life
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that my parents never did.
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This is a dream come true.
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I just thought
everything was just going
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to magically unfold for me.
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And for a while,
I kind of felt like it did.
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- It is not the question
of what will happen to you,
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but it is a question of how
you will face what happens.
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You will face it together.
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- Unfortunately,
it would fall apart later.
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After we got married, I got
pregnant
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When we had our daughter,
I thought, I've got my family.
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Like, I'm on my way.
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- When their daughter was
ten months old,
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Ted got a job
in the mortgage industry.
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♪ ♪
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- Ted excelled
in that business.
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He was their top producer
and I was working full-time.
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And then I woke up one morning
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and I started to get a bad,
sharp pain in my lower back.
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[tense music]
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And I started to have pain
chronically.
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Nothing alleviated it.
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Really, it was that
my lower level of my back.
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It had deteriorated.
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I had the spine
of somebody 60 years old
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and I was in my 20s
and I needed a spinal fusion.
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I had three back surgeries
in three years.
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[somber music]
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- Because of Libby's issues
with her back,
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she couldn't sit for
extended periods of time,
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and that made work pretty much
impossible for her.
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- Ted said that
he made enough money
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for me to be
a stay-at-home mom.
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But looking back,
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I did not keep an iron
in the workplace fire
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so if anything ever happened,
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I could always rely on myself,
and I didn't do that.
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Ted took care of everything.
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As far as paying bills,
our taxes.
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I had a checking account
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and he would put money
in that checking account.
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He oversaw all of it.
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- Libby was blissfully ignorant
of what their finances were.
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- And that was
a colossal mistake on my part.
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- At this point,
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Ted is a very successful
mortgage loan officer.
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So successful, he decides
to start a side business
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flipping houses, and that
becomes really successful too.
257
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- They were members
of the country club.
258
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They traveled a lot.
259
00:12:37,765 --> 00:12:39,566
- We were going to Costa Rica.
260
00:12:39,566 --> 00:12:41,966
We were going
to Martha's Vineyard.
261
00:12:41,966 --> 00:12:45,686
We were able to just take off
and go places.
262
00:12:45,686 --> 00:12:48,115
I finally had that life
that I wanted,
263
00:12:48,115 --> 00:12:50,005
that I dreamed about
in high school.
264
00:12:50,005 --> 00:12:50,755
And I was happy.
265
00:12:52,826 --> 00:12:55,885
- Ted was always busy
juggling family life
266
00:12:55,885 --> 00:12:57,235
and flipping houses,
267
00:12:57,235 --> 00:12:59,725
but he appeared to be handling
it like a pro.
268
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For a while, anyway.
269
00:13:02,035 --> 00:13:05,936
- In 2002, there was a house
for sale in Indian Hills.
270
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[suspenseful music]
271
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- Indian Hills was one
of the nicest places
272
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that you could live.
273
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The area is great.
274
00:13:13,975 --> 00:13:17,515
The homes were very expensive,
very hard to get in.
275
00:13:17,515 --> 00:13:21,775
- Ted bought the house and
we put our house up for sale.
276
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And I was kind of surprised,
277
00:13:23,666 --> 00:13:28,645
because he sold it
to his business partner,
278
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Khalid.
279
00:13:31,285 --> 00:13:35,875
I met Khalid a couple of times
and he was an imposing figure,
280
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a giant man.
281
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♪ ♪
282
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- Ted had searched for me.
283
00:13:42,505 --> 00:13:44,326
Heard that I was active
in the West End,
284
00:13:44,326 --> 00:13:47,905
and he was looking to get into
different areas of the city.
285
00:13:47,905 --> 00:13:51,446
- Ted said that Khalid was
very good at flipping houses,
286
00:13:51,446 --> 00:13:53,755
but some were
in bad parts of town
287
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and Khalid was from the area of
town where these houses were.
288
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♪ ♪
289
00:14:00,926 --> 00:14:02,005
- What I was supposed to do
290
00:14:02,005 --> 00:14:05,725
was finding properties,
buyers, sellers,
291
00:14:05,725 --> 00:14:08,155
and I take them
straight to Ted.
292
00:14:09,296 --> 00:14:10,645
And we closed a lot of deals.
293
00:14:14,066 --> 00:14:17,426
- Once we had settled into
the house in Indian Hills,
294
00:14:17,426 --> 00:14:19,645
we started renovations.
295
00:14:19,645 --> 00:14:21,115
And then all of a sudden,
296
00:14:21,115 --> 00:14:25,885
Ted started to experience what
he called work stress.
297
00:14:25,885 --> 00:14:28,586
[tense music]
298
00:14:28,586 --> 00:14:30,475
Things would aggravate him
299
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that didn't used
to aggravate him.
300
00:14:32,125 --> 00:14:34,166
It wasn't like it was one day.
301
00:14:34,166 --> 00:14:35,725
Everybody has a bad day.
302
00:14:35,725 --> 00:14:37,166
This was all the time.
303
00:14:38,966 --> 00:14:41,155
- There appeared to be
some cracks in the marriage.
304
00:14:41,155 --> 00:14:44,125
Ted was a great guy,
wonderful, wonderful father,
305
00:14:44,125 --> 00:14:46,046
and then there was a switch
306
00:14:46,046 --> 00:14:49,046
and Ted became somebody that
she didn't recognize anymore.
307
00:14:50,666 --> 00:14:54,561
- It was like he was
in a panic all the time.
308
00:14:56,275 --> 00:14:59,485
He would wake up at like 3:00
in the morning
309
00:14:59,485 --> 00:15:01,375
every single morning.
310
00:15:01,375 --> 00:15:03,385
He would be on the computer.
311
00:15:03,385 --> 00:15:05,096
I'm like, what is so pressing?
312
00:15:05,096 --> 00:15:08,306
And that would anger Ted
very quickly.
313
00:15:08,306 --> 00:15:11,605
And he would start
belittling me,
314
00:15:11,605 --> 00:15:13,855
yelling at me,
calling me names.
315
00:15:15,086 --> 00:15:18,385
- He just always blamed it
on the stress of work,
316
00:15:18,385 --> 00:15:21,775
and she had absolutely
no idea to the extent
317
00:15:21,775 --> 00:15:23,365
of what he was
even talking about.
318
00:15:23,365 --> 00:15:26,816
♪ ♪
319
00:15:26,816 --> 00:15:31,105
- One day, he had his hands
resting on the sink.
320
00:15:32,395 --> 00:15:34,466
He looked like he was crying.
321
00:15:35,936 --> 00:15:39,056
And he goes,
he's gonna screw me over.
322
00:15:40,466 --> 00:15:44,275
I don't know what
that Khalid will do.
323
00:15:44,275 --> 00:15:45,985
And I go, I'm not sure
what we're talking about.
324
00:15:45,985 --> 00:15:46,916
What do you mean?
325
00:15:46,916 --> 00:15:49,946
And he looked at me
and he goes,
326
00:15:49,946 --> 00:15:53,216
that guy might kill you
and our daughter.
327
00:16:02,846 --> 00:16:08,125
- When Ted told me what Khalid
might do, I was terrified.
328
00:16:08,125 --> 00:16:10,346
[tense music]
329
00:16:10,346 --> 00:16:11,816
And I didn't think
I heard that right.
330
00:16:11,816 --> 00:16:15,446
I go, what do you mean when
you say he could kill us?
331
00:16:15,446 --> 00:16:17,426
And Ted just said,
332
00:16:17,426 --> 00:16:19,375
he's got me involved
in something.
333
00:16:21,326 --> 00:16:23,216
And I kept asking,
why would you think
334
00:16:23,216 --> 00:16:25,105
somebody that you work with,
335
00:16:25,105 --> 00:16:27,716
that you like
and you say is successful,
336
00:16:27,716 --> 00:16:30,505
would want to kill your wife
and daughter?
337
00:16:30,505 --> 00:16:31,946
But he didn't explain it.
338
00:16:31,946 --> 00:16:35,816
He just said, I'm going to go
to the office, and he left.
339
00:16:38,096 --> 00:16:41,605
I was so shocked
and I didn't know what to do.
340
00:16:41,605 --> 00:16:43,556
And I start just
a flood of emotion.
341
00:16:43,556 --> 00:16:44,275
I'm just crying.
342
00:16:44,275 --> 00:16:47,125
♪ ♪
343
00:16:47,125 --> 00:16:48,799
- She called Ted's parents.
344
00:16:50,905 --> 00:16:52,826
If there was anyone that
was going to be concerned,
345
00:16:52,826 --> 00:16:53,418
it would be them.
346
00:16:54,865 --> 00:16:56,485
- I was so panicked,
347
00:16:56,485 --> 00:16:59,035
I could barely
get through the conversation.
348
00:16:59,035 --> 00:17:02,365
My heart was beating
and I was expecting
349
00:17:02,365 --> 00:17:06,684
this reaction that was
dramatic, the way I felt.
350
00:17:06,684 --> 00:17:09,355
But Ted's mother wasn't
like that.
351
00:17:11,516 --> 00:17:14,635
And she said,
we talked to Ted.
352
00:17:15,986 --> 00:17:18,836
She goes,
Khalid didn't say that.
353
00:17:18,836 --> 00:17:20,694
It's just Ted got scared.
354
00:17:22,105 --> 00:17:24,655
And he realizes
that he's been consorting
355
00:17:24,655 --> 00:17:26,786
with somebody he shouldn't,
356
00:17:26,786 --> 00:17:30,865
and he was just not going to
do business with him anymore.
357
00:17:30,865 --> 00:17:32,125
And I believed that.
358
00:17:33,296 --> 00:17:36,865
But I felt like my
mother-in-law was saying to me,
359
00:17:36,865 --> 00:17:38,365
don't step out of line.
360
00:17:38,365 --> 00:17:40,165
Toe the rope here.
361
00:17:40,165 --> 00:17:40,796
And I did.
362
00:17:43,736 --> 00:17:47,516
- I don't know why
Ted chose to do that.
363
00:17:47,516 --> 00:17:49,766
He knew he was lying on me.
364
00:17:49,766 --> 00:17:52,855
I would never come for Libby
or anybody else.
365
00:17:52,855 --> 00:17:55,943
♪ ♪
366
00:17:55,943 --> 00:17:59,032
- After a period of time,
Ted seems to change.
367
00:17:59,036 --> 00:18:01,675
[peaceful music]
368
00:18:01,675 --> 00:18:06,026
- It seemed like the
work stress dissipated.
369
00:18:06,026 --> 00:18:08,516
And I didn't know
if that was because
370
00:18:08,516 --> 00:18:10,976
Ted and Khalid had
parted ways,
371
00:18:10,976 --> 00:18:13,016
because he refused to talk
to me about it.
372
00:18:14,096 --> 00:18:16,586
But he was more laid-back
373
00:18:16,586 --> 00:18:19,316
and we were having
a better time together.
374
00:18:19,316 --> 00:18:24,326
♪ ♪
375
00:18:24,326 --> 00:18:28,316
But then Ted got angry at me
at an antique mall
376
00:18:28,316 --> 00:18:31,615
because I bought
this antique platter.
377
00:18:31,615 --> 00:18:34,766
And I don't think it was very
much money, maybe like $50.
378
00:18:34,766 --> 00:18:37,885
And he threw such a fit
about this platter.
379
00:18:37,885 --> 00:18:38,635
He exploded.
380
00:18:41,846 --> 00:18:44,846
I just didn't understand
how we bought this house
381
00:18:44,846 --> 00:18:47,306
that was close to $1 million,
382
00:18:47,306 --> 00:18:49,405
and he cared about
this platter.
383
00:18:49,405 --> 00:18:51,625
And I had on my sunglasses
384
00:18:51,625 --> 00:18:54,050
and he got so mad
that he ripped them off,
385
00:18:55,586 --> 00:18:58,316
crumpled them in his hand,
and threw him out the window.
386
00:18:58,316 --> 00:19:01,976
And that cut the side
right here on my nose.
387
00:19:01,976 --> 00:19:03,326
He was just escalating.
388
00:19:03,326 --> 00:19:06,865
♪ ♪
389
00:19:06,865 --> 00:19:11,905
- She certainly was feeling
the brunt of Ted's irritability
390
00:19:11,905 --> 00:19:14,096
and his outbursts.
391
00:19:14,096 --> 00:19:16,286
She knew definitely that
things weren't right.
392
00:19:17,546 --> 00:19:21,236
- One night, Libby was
watching a program on TV
393
00:19:21,236 --> 00:19:22,615
and she heard
this woman's story
394
00:19:22,615 --> 00:19:24,655
about her white-collar husband
395
00:19:24,655 --> 00:19:26,846
keeping her in the dark
about finances.
396
00:19:26,846 --> 00:19:30,236
And Libby saw herself
in that woman,
397
00:19:30,236 --> 00:19:32,635
and she started
asking Ted questions.
398
00:19:34,615 --> 00:19:37,915
- I decided that I wanted Ted
to make a folder for me
399
00:19:37,915 --> 00:19:41,125
explaining where
all our money was,
400
00:19:41,125 --> 00:19:44,786
all the bank accounts,
and he wouldn't do it.
401
00:19:44,786 --> 00:19:46,135
And I couldn't understand.
402
00:19:46,135 --> 00:19:47,996
And I kept asking him
403
00:19:47,996 --> 00:19:49,586
and he would get madder
404
00:19:49,586 --> 00:19:51,536
and madder and madder
at me about it.
405
00:19:51,536 --> 00:19:53,605
And it got worse
and worse and worse.
406
00:19:55,286 --> 00:20:00,056
And then one day, he got
so angry at me that he leaves,
407
00:20:00,056 --> 00:20:02,185
and it was three days
before Christmas.
408
00:20:02,185 --> 00:20:05,215
♪ ♪
409
00:20:05,215 --> 00:20:07,226
Ted moved into an apartment
410
00:20:07,226 --> 00:20:09,385
and I stayed at the house
with my daughter.
411
00:20:10,521 --> 00:20:12,531
- I was shocked when
Libby told me that
412
00:20:12,531 --> 00:20:14,541
they were getting separated
413
00:20:14,541 --> 00:20:18,172
because they had such a good
marriage as far as I thought.
414
00:20:18,172 --> 00:20:21,172
[somber music]
415
00:20:21,172 --> 00:20:24,832
- One day when my daughter
was at school,
416
00:20:24,832 --> 00:20:27,291
he charges in the house
417
00:20:27,291 --> 00:20:32,392
and he tells me that we were
in financial trouble,
418
00:20:32,392 --> 00:20:36,172
that he had made
some bad business decisions,
419
00:20:36,172 --> 00:20:38,084
and that we were going
to need to sell the house.
420
00:20:38,084 --> 00:20:40,132
[clock ticking]
421
00:20:40,132 --> 00:20:43,432
We put our house up for sale
very quickly.
422
00:20:43,432 --> 00:20:45,622
I was crushed.
423
00:20:45,622 --> 00:20:49,311
I put my heart and soul into
renovations on that house.
424
00:20:49,311 --> 00:20:51,862
It was humiliating.
425
00:20:51,862 --> 00:20:53,422
If he needed money,
426
00:20:53,422 --> 00:20:56,001
I would have thought he would
have gone to his parents.
427
00:20:56,001 --> 00:20:58,612
But he said that
he didn't want to
428
00:20:58,612 --> 00:21:00,711
and he wouldn't tell me why.
429
00:21:00,711 --> 00:21:02,932
And then Ted told me that
430
00:21:02,932 --> 00:21:04,971
we needed to go see
a bankruptcy attorney...
431
00:21:04,971 --> 00:21:07,402
[tense music]
432
00:21:07,402 --> 00:21:10,011
That we were going
to have to file bankruptcy
433
00:21:10,011 --> 00:21:12,352
and there would be
complete liquidation.
434
00:21:12,352 --> 00:21:13,791
I couldn't believe it.
435
00:21:13,791 --> 00:21:15,951
I just didn't know
436
00:21:15,951 --> 00:21:18,201
how much worse
it was going to get.
437
00:21:25,372 --> 00:21:27,703
T ed and I had been married
for 12 years
438
00:21:27,721 --> 00:21:29,662
and we just could
not get along.
439
00:21:29,662 --> 00:21:31,942
♪ ♪
440
00:21:31,942 --> 00:21:33,892
But when we were separated,
441
00:21:33,892 --> 00:21:36,382
I thought some time away
442
00:21:36,382 --> 00:21:39,711
would bring
some sort of clarity to him
443
00:21:39,711 --> 00:21:40,642
where he would understand
444
00:21:40,642 --> 00:21:43,642
why I needed to know
about our finances.
445
00:21:43,642 --> 00:21:46,731
But we just ended up
putting our house up for sale
446
00:21:46,731 --> 00:21:50,001
because of what he called
bad business decisions.
447
00:21:50,001 --> 00:21:52,821
♪ ♪
448
00:21:52,821 --> 00:21:54,711
- She was cut off financially.
449
00:21:54,711 --> 00:21:56,571
Ted was handling
all the financials.
450
00:21:56,571 --> 00:21:58,672
She had $11
in her bank account.
451
00:22:00,231 --> 00:22:01,761
- Libby confronts Ted
452
00:22:01,761 --> 00:22:04,882
and she asks him for money
for groceries.
453
00:22:06,291 --> 00:22:09,112
- Ted told me
to use our debit card,
454
00:22:09,112 --> 00:22:11,632
and when I went to pay,
there was no money there.
455
00:22:13,672 --> 00:22:16,162
It wasn't just to feed myself.
456
00:22:16,162 --> 00:22:18,231
It was to feed our daughter.
457
00:22:18,231 --> 00:22:23,031
And I called Ted and he said,
"Get a J-O-B, bitch."
458
00:22:23,031 --> 00:22:25,221
[tense music]
459
00:22:25,221 --> 00:22:27,862
- Sure, someone needs a job.
460
00:22:27,862 --> 00:22:31,942
What bothers me
is the cocky attitude.
461
00:22:31,942 --> 00:22:33,951
Are you just going to
leave them high and dry
462
00:22:33,951 --> 00:22:35,092
and laugh about it?
463
00:22:35,092 --> 00:22:36,352
Yeah,
that's exactly what he did.
464
00:22:37,491 --> 00:22:38,152
It's puzzling.
465
00:22:40,132 --> 00:22:43,311
- I couldn't understand
the way he treated me.
466
00:22:44,811 --> 00:22:48,682
And things just continued
to get worse.
467
00:22:48,682 --> 00:22:51,112
I was like,
I'm going to file for divorce.
468
00:22:51,112 --> 00:22:56,332
♪ ♪
469
00:22:56,332 --> 00:22:58,761
- Shortly after
filing for divorce,
470
00:22:58,761 --> 00:23:00,615
Libby starts getting calls
from creditors.
471
00:23:00,615 --> 00:23:03,321
♪ ♪
472
00:23:03,321 --> 00:23:06,021
There are accounts that were
opened in her name,
473
00:23:06,021 --> 00:23:07,642
such as car loans
and credit cards
474
00:23:07,642 --> 00:23:09,936
that she had never opened,
never signed for.
475
00:23:09,936 --> 00:23:17,061
♪ ♪
476
00:23:17,061 --> 00:23:18,862
- Before we separated,
477
00:23:18,862 --> 00:23:21,771
Ted had gotten me an SUV
that I loved.
478
00:23:21,771 --> 00:23:25,971
♪ ♪
479
00:23:25,971 --> 00:23:30,352
One day, Ted had come
to the house and he said,
480
00:23:30,352 --> 00:23:33,412
there's something I left you
back in the guest bedroom.
481
00:23:33,412 --> 00:23:37,983
♪ ♪
482
00:23:37,983 --> 00:23:38,991
I walked back there.
483
00:23:40,041 --> 00:23:41,262
There's nothing there.
484
00:23:42,442 --> 00:23:45,051
And when I came out,
Ted had taken my car.
485
00:23:45,051 --> 00:23:46,192
♪ ♪
486
00:23:46,192 --> 00:23:53,061
He didn't care.
He had no remorse whatsoever.
487
00:23:53,061 --> 00:23:55,102
No worry about
taking care of his family.
488
00:23:57,172 --> 00:24:00,261
- The bank called me and said
they were looking for that SUV
489
00:24:00,261 --> 00:24:04,642
that Ted took because
they want to repossess it.
490
00:24:04,642 --> 00:24:08,721
And I told the representative
what happened,
491
00:24:08,721 --> 00:24:13,041
but he said,
you better locate this vehicle.
492
00:24:13,041 --> 00:24:14,811
You're the guarantor.
493
00:24:14,811 --> 00:24:16,791
I go, I never signed anything.
494
00:24:16,791 --> 00:24:18,531
He goes, I have the paperwork.
495
00:24:18,531 --> 00:24:21,201
So I got a copy
and I see my name,
496
00:24:21,201 --> 00:24:23,152
except it's not my signature.
497
00:24:23,152 --> 00:24:24,231
It was forged.
498
00:24:26,602 --> 00:24:28,011
I said,
that's not my signature.
499
00:24:28,011 --> 00:24:28,942
He did not care.
500
00:24:28,942 --> 00:24:30,352
He's like, well,
you were married.
501
00:24:30,352 --> 00:24:33,801
But I did not give up
my identity at the altar.
502
00:24:33,801 --> 00:24:36,321
It doesn't matter
that I was his wife.
503
00:24:36,321 --> 00:24:37,221
I didn't sign it.
504
00:24:38,422 --> 00:24:41,152
I don't know what happened
with that SUV,
505
00:24:41,152 --> 00:24:44,481
but finally, at some point,
the bank stopped calling me.
506
00:24:44,481 --> 00:24:48,652
[tense music]
507
00:24:48,652 --> 00:24:51,652
One day, I came home to find
508
00:24:51,652 --> 00:24:54,231
Ted standing
by the kitchen table.
509
00:24:54,231 --> 00:24:56,632
And he said,
I've called my attorney,
510
00:24:56,632 --> 00:24:59,902
and I've told him that
I've called off the divorce.
511
00:24:59,902 --> 00:25:02,571
Then he said,
I wrote this letter to you.
512
00:25:02,571 --> 00:25:04,791
And in that letter,
513
00:25:04,791 --> 00:25:07,821
he's telling me
how much he loved me,
514
00:25:07,821 --> 00:25:09,801
how he wanted
to stay together,
515
00:25:09,801 --> 00:25:11,692
how he would make sure
516
00:25:11,692 --> 00:25:15,682
that I knew all about
his business practices.
517
00:25:15,682 --> 00:25:17,842
He said, I will educate you.
I will show you.
518
00:25:17,842 --> 00:25:20,692
Really,
everything I was asking for,
519
00:25:20,692 --> 00:25:22,011
all that was in this letter.
520
00:25:22,011 --> 00:25:26,001
[soft suspenseful music]
521
00:25:26,001 --> 00:25:28,281
By the time he asked me
to come back,
522
00:25:28,281 --> 00:25:30,412
being apart from him
523
00:25:30,412 --> 00:25:33,787
gave me a little confidence
that I didn't have.
524
00:25:33,787 --> 00:25:35,902
I wasn't getting
berated anymore.
525
00:25:35,902 --> 00:25:40,162
I said, you know, Ted, I'm not
going to stay married to you.
526
00:25:41,632 --> 00:25:45,261
We ended up getting divorced
on September 14th, 2005.
527
00:25:45,261 --> 00:25:45,741
♪ ♪
528
00:25:51,082 --> 00:25:55,432
In the divorce settlement,
Ted's parents had a condo,
529
00:25:55,432 --> 00:25:59,991
and I was going to be allowed
to live there just two years
530
00:25:59,991 --> 00:26:02,152
and I was going to get
child support.
531
00:26:03,922 --> 00:26:07,821
The child support started
at $1,200 a month
532
00:26:07,821 --> 00:26:09,501
and Ted got it reduced.
533
00:26:12,501 --> 00:26:12,801
♪ ♪
534
00:26:12,801 --> 00:26:15,531
To $149 a month.
535
00:26:15,531 --> 00:26:17,332
Not a week, a month.
536
00:26:17,332 --> 00:26:18,352
- That was obscene.
537
00:26:18,352 --> 00:26:21,561
[tense music]
538
00:26:21,561 --> 00:26:24,051
- That's maybe
a week's worth of groceries,
539
00:26:24,051 --> 00:26:27,652
so she was always trying
to scrape by.
540
00:26:29,061 --> 00:26:31,132
- My life was on fire.
541
00:26:31,132 --> 00:26:34,612
I just couldn't understand
what was going on with Ted
542
00:26:34,612 --> 00:26:36,172
and why he had no money.
543
00:26:36,172 --> 00:26:39,471
♪ ♪
544
00:26:39,471 --> 00:26:40,971
- Libby realized that
545
00:26:40,971 --> 00:26:43,311
she wasn't going
to get answers from Ted,
546
00:26:43,311 --> 00:26:47,602
but she knows that she can go
to the Louisville rumor mill.
547
00:26:47,602 --> 00:26:50,182
Someone's got to know
something here.
548
00:26:50,182 --> 00:26:50,961
And she was right.
549
00:26:52,852 --> 00:26:55,192
It was a friend's husband
who was an attorney
550
00:26:55,192 --> 00:26:57,741
that said, hey,
he's being investigated.
551
00:26:57,741 --> 00:27:00,137
[tense music]
552
00:27:00,137 --> 00:27:04,102
- He said Ted was
being investigated by the FBI
553
00:27:04,102 --> 00:27:06,112
because he's involved
in a fraud scheme.
554
00:27:06,112 --> 00:27:09,471
♪ ♪
555
00:27:09,471 --> 00:27:12,286
I was so shocked.
I couldn't make sense of it.
556
00:27:12,286 --> 00:27:14,152
♪ ♪
557
00:27:14,152 --> 00:27:18,382
I asked, Ted, are you
being investigated by the FBI?
558
00:27:18,382 --> 00:27:22,292
And he goes, if I go down,
I'm taking you with me.
559
00:27:23,759 --> 00:27:27,671
You're a co-conspirator.
And I'm like, to what?
560
00:27:34,026 --> 00:27:37,936
- Ted and I had
had an altercation
561
00:27:37,942 --> 00:27:41,692
when I asked him if he was
being investigated by the FBI.
562
00:27:41,692 --> 00:27:43,551
[indistinct shouting]
563
00:27:43,551 --> 00:27:47,301
And he had told me that
he was taking me down.
564
00:27:47,301 --> 00:27:49,461
And he'd never threatened me
like that.
565
00:27:49,461 --> 00:27:50,772
It scared me.
566
00:27:52,791 --> 00:27:54,711
So I called an attorney,
567
00:27:54,711 --> 00:27:58,132
and he said that
we needed to talk to the FBI.
568
00:27:58,132 --> 00:28:01,221
And then he took me to
the U.S. attorney's office.
569
00:28:03,231 --> 00:28:05,031
They asked me some questions.
570
00:28:05,031 --> 00:28:06,711
And of course, I said,
571
00:28:06,711 --> 00:28:09,442
I don't know, you know,
much of anything.
572
00:28:11,001 --> 00:28:13,942
And they said Ted's involved
in mortgage fraud
573
00:28:13,942 --> 00:28:15,892
and he was
in very serious trouble.
574
00:28:18,622 --> 00:28:21,592
I'm like, that's what
this was the whole time.
575
00:28:21,592 --> 00:28:24,112
♪ ♪
576
00:28:24,112 --> 00:28:26,632
So I pulled out, you know,
the letter.
577
00:28:29,182 --> 00:28:32,211
- Libby was trying
to show the investigators
578
00:28:32,211 --> 00:28:35,692
that the letter that Ted wrote
to her to get her back
579
00:28:35,692 --> 00:28:37,761
actually proved
she didn't know anything.
580
00:28:37,761 --> 00:28:40,582
[tense music]
581
00:28:40,582 --> 00:28:42,519
- And then the agents
left the room.
582
00:28:43,971 --> 00:28:45,741
And that just felt
like an eternity
583
00:28:45,741 --> 00:28:47,152
'cause I didn't know
what they thought of me.
584
00:28:48,682 --> 00:28:50,451
And I was so nervous.
585
00:28:50,451 --> 00:28:53,092
♪ ♪
586
00:28:53,092 --> 00:28:57,682
And then they came back in
and the lead agent says,
587
00:28:57,682 --> 00:28:59,811
you're only guilty
of trusting your husband.
588
00:28:59,811 --> 00:29:05,480
[tense music fading]
589
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:07,071
I mean, it was like
a sigh of relief.
590
00:29:08,241 --> 00:29:09,412
[tense music]
591
00:29:09,412 --> 00:29:11,692
- The investigation
into Ted's crimes
592
00:29:11,692 --> 00:29:13,942
was part of
a much broader effort
593
00:29:13,942 --> 00:29:16,521
by the FBI
to investigate mortgage fraud.
594
00:29:16,521 --> 00:29:19,432
We were having a housing boom
across the country,
595
00:29:19,432 --> 00:29:22,221
and then mortgage rates
went very low.
596
00:29:22,221 --> 00:29:24,352
So it became so competitive
597
00:29:24,352 --> 00:29:27,382
that the underwriting
standards got loosened.
598
00:29:27,382 --> 00:29:28,912
So this was a new fraud,
599
00:29:28,912 --> 00:29:31,432
and it's a document-heavy
investigation.
600
00:29:31,432 --> 00:29:33,382
It can take years sometimes.
601
00:29:33,382 --> 00:29:37,551
♪ ♪
602
00:29:37,551 --> 00:29:40,102
- In July 2007,
Ted was charged
603
00:29:40,102 --> 00:29:42,261
with conspiracy
to commit mortgage fraud,
604
00:29:42,261 --> 00:29:44,571
bank fraud, and wire fraud.
605
00:29:44,571 --> 00:29:47,902
These charges could yield
a sentence of 18 months
606
00:29:47,902 --> 00:29:48,884
to 8 1/2 years.
607
00:29:51,021 --> 00:29:53,872
- White-collar crimes
are crimes of greed, not need.
608
00:29:53,872 --> 00:29:55,672
Ted was college-educated.
609
00:29:55,672 --> 00:29:57,352
He was well-known
in his community.
610
00:29:57,352 --> 00:29:59,721
His parents, you know,
well-established family.
611
00:29:59,721 --> 00:30:01,372
He had connections.
He had money.
612
00:30:01,372 --> 00:30:04,192
He could have gone off
and made a legitimate life
613
00:30:04,192 --> 00:30:05,721
for himself and his family.
614
00:30:05,721 --> 00:30:09,892
But fraud was a path
he chose to take.
615
00:30:09,892 --> 00:30:12,991
- Ted got greedy
and he didn't have to.
616
00:30:12,991 --> 00:30:15,480
A lot of the people
that use drugs
617
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:17,432
or they got a gambling habit.
618
00:30:18,541 --> 00:30:19,951
I never saw that with Ted.
619
00:30:19,951 --> 00:30:22,321
Ted was drunk off of money.
620
00:30:22,321 --> 00:30:23,342
- I still didn't understand
621
00:30:23,342 --> 00:30:26,041
the full scope
of what he had done.
622
00:30:26,041 --> 00:30:28,741
But what I did learn is that
623
00:30:28,741 --> 00:30:31,442
Ted had never
cut off relations with Khalid.
624
00:30:33,092 --> 00:30:36,617
And he, too,
was indicted along with Ted.
625
00:30:38,011 --> 00:30:40,382
- I saw no red flags up front.
626
00:30:40,382 --> 00:30:42,480
But I remember one time,
627
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:47,011
we got a loan done that I
didn't think would go through.
628
00:30:47,011 --> 00:30:50,251
And I'm saying, what lender
did we use for that?
629
00:30:50,251 --> 00:30:51,932
Ted said,
don't even worry about that.
630
00:30:51,932 --> 00:30:55,163
We did something that
we're only going to do once.
631
00:30:56,521 --> 00:31:00,751
I shouldn't have, but I closed
my eyes on whatever it was
632
00:31:00,751 --> 00:31:04,832
until the indictments
start coming out
633
00:31:04,832 --> 00:31:08,912
and I'm like,
ah, come on, bro.
634
00:31:08,912 --> 00:31:11,011
♪ ♪
635
00:31:11,011 --> 00:31:16,261
Ted falsified documents that
had nothing to do with me.
636
00:31:16,261 --> 00:31:20,701
♪ ♪
637
00:31:20,701 --> 00:31:23,281
- Ted would buy
a very cheap house,
638
00:31:23,281 --> 00:31:25,382
usually in
a depressed neighborhood,
639
00:31:25,382 --> 00:31:29,521
then resell the house
at a very inflated price
640
00:31:29,521 --> 00:31:31,951
and get what's called
a straw buyer
641
00:31:31,951 --> 00:31:35,011
to go in
and sign the paperwork.
642
00:31:35,011 --> 00:31:35,882
- It's simple.
643
00:31:35,882 --> 00:31:38,432
A fake buyer signs documents
to buy a home
644
00:31:38,432 --> 00:31:39,721
for much more than it's worth.
645
00:31:41,551 --> 00:31:44,672
- Ted would get that fake buyer
approved for a fake loan
646
00:31:44,672 --> 00:31:47,102
using fake documents,
and a fake appraisal.
647
00:31:48,361 --> 00:31:50,300
So he could buy it for 30,000
648
00:31:50,300 --> 00:31:53,672
and then he would have
this fake loan approved
649
00:31:53,672 --> 00:31:55,230
by the lenders
that he worked with.
650
00:31:55,230 --> 00:31:57,182
He was a mortgage loan officer.
651
00:31:57,182 --> 00:31:58,711
And he would
get that loan approved
652
00:31:58,711 --> 00:32:00,842
as if the house was valued
at $75,000.
653
00:32:02,851 --> 00:32:04,230
It's really only worth 30,000.
654
00:32:04,230 --> 00:32:07,111
So he would get 75,000 bucks.
655
00:32:07,111 --> 00:32:09,061
He would then pay off
that 30,000
656
00:32:09,061 --> 00:32:12,122
to the real guy he actually
bought the house from.
657
00:32:12,122 --> 00:32:14,851
And then there's $45,000 left
658
00:32:14,851 --> 00:32:15,977
and he would
pocket the difference.
659
00:32:15,977 --> 00:32:19,682
♪ ♪
660
00:32:19,682 --> 00:32:20,611
- We don't do it once.
661
00:32:20,611 --> 00:32:23,221
We do it again
and again and again,
662
00:32:23,221 --> 00:32:24,932
and sometimes
two or three of these
663
00:32:24,932 --> 00:32:26,521
were happening within a week.
664
00:32:28,051 --> 00:32:29,912
Ted made millions of dollars
665
00:32:29,912 --> 00:32:32,480
through these
fraudulent transactions.
666
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:36,001
♪ ♪
667
00:32:36,001 --> 00:32:37,771
- When the first payment
comes due,
668
00:32:37,771 --> 00:32:40,082
that straw buyer disappears,
669
00:32:40,082 --> 00:32:42,751
so eventually, the banks
are experiencing losses
670
00:32:42,751 --> 00:32:45,001
and they refer that over
to the FBI.
671
00:32:45,001 --> 00:32:49,082
- I think that he thought
because of who he was
672
00:32:49,082 --> 00:32:51,092
and the connections he had
673
00:32:51,092 --> 00:32:53,461
that I can do what I want
674
00:32:53,461 --> 00:32:55,741
and there's really
no accountability.
675
00:32:55,741 --> 00:32:58,531
- Most people are embarrassed
getting caught in a crime,
676
00:32:58,531 --> 00:33:00,301
but this emboldened Ted.
677
00:33:00,301 --> 00:33:03,480
You know, he thought of himself
as almost a celebrity.
678
00:33:05,461 --> 00:33:08,071
- I asked him why, how--
679
00:33:08,071 --> 00:33:09,902
I wanted him
to tell me something
680
00:33:09,902 --> 00:33:12,692
because it affected me
and my daughter
681
00:33:12,692 --> 00:33:14,701
and it affected my life
profoundly.
682
00:33:14,701 --> 00:33:17,611
But never,
never would say that he did it.
683
00:33:17,611 --> 00:33:20,115
Never.
684
00:33:20,115 --> 00:33:22,619
[tense music]
685
00:33:22,619 --> 00:33:25,124
♪ ♪
686
00:33:25,124 --> 00:33:27,627
Some people would talk
about him in front of me like,
687
00:33:27,632 --> 00:33:30,332
oh, he just made a mistake
at work.
688
00:33:30,332 --> 00:33:32,642
And I'd think,
a mistake at work?
689
00:33:32,642 --> 00:33:34,561
My whole life has been upended.
690
00:33:36,301 --> 00:33:39,182
And then I also remember
getting asked a million times,
691
00:33:39,182 --> 00:33:40,261
you didn't know?
692
00:33:40,261 --> 00:33:42,211
I hated that question.
693
00:33:42,211 --> 00:33:45,001
Yes, I knew.
I knew all about the fraud.
694
00:33:45,001 --> 00:33:45,872
You want to go to lunch now?
695
00:33:45,872 --> 00:33:49,291
♪ ♪
696
00:33:49,291 --> 00:33:51,241
- Libby learned
that she wasn't alone.
697
00:33:51,241 --> 00:33:53,342
She found a community
of other women
698
00:33:53,342 --> 00:33:55,351
that were married
to white-collar criminals,
699
00:33:55,351 --> 00:33:56,672
and there were a lot of them.
700
00:33:58,652 --> 00:34:01,382
- Libby and I met through
this great support group
701
00:34:01,382 --> 00:34:03,480
that she has
helped me cultivate
702
00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:04,672
for innocent spouses.
703
00:34:06,361 --> 00:34:09,420
The support group is now
150 members-strong
704
00:34:09,420 --> 00:34:10,891
on five continents.
705
00:34:10,891 --> 00:34:13,351
The majority of us
lived middle-class lives,
706
00:34:13,351 --> 00:34:16,771
but the white-collar criminals
we tend to hear about
707
00:34:16,771 --> 00:34:19,920
are the big, big-deal guys,
the Bernie Madoffs,
708
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:24,262
but there's 5,000 white-collar
cases indicted a year.
709
00:34:24,262 --> 00:34:25,681
♪ ♪
710
00:34:25,681 --> 00:34:28,952
And then when the husband has
been indicted criminally,
711
00:34:28,952 --> 00:34:31,112
these women are
so stigmatized.
712
00:34:32,342 --> 00:34:33,902
- I was a social pariah.
713
00:34:33,902 --> 00:34:35,882
People no longer
714
00:34:35,882 --> 00:34:38,311
make eye contact with you
in the grocery store.
715
00:34:38,311 --> 00:34:39,782
And phone stops ringing.
716
00:34:39,782 --> 00:34:40,976
They didn't understand.
717
00:34:40,976 --> 00:34:43,112
♪ ♪
718
00:34:43,112 --> 00:34:44,822
- And I think that initially,
719
00:34:44,822 --> 00:34:47,762
there's kind of this
justification that perps make
720
00:34:47,762 --> 00:34:50,581
that, oh,
I'm doing it for my family
721
00:34:50,581 --> 00:34:52,322
to make their lives better.
722
00:34:52,322 --> 00:34:53,342
It's going to be for them.
723
00:34:55,382 --> 00:34:57,302
But looking
at all the detriment,
724
00:34:57,302 --> 00:34:59,461
all the horrors,
all the disasters
725
00:34:59,461 --> 00:35:02,641
that this has caused,
everybody pays the price.
726
00:35:02,641 --> 00:35:04,771
You're doing it to
your family.
727
00:35:04,771 --> 00:35:07,652
Your actions puts them
in dire straits financially,
728
00:35:07,652 --> 00:35:09,211
emotionally, physically.
729
00:35:10,561 --> 00:35:13,532
- Being tried in the court
of public opinion
730
00:35:13,532 --> 00:35:15,152
is one of the worst things
731
00:35:15,152 --> 00:35:18,121
because you're
sentenced by them,
732
00:35:18,121 --> 00:35:20,641
but you never get a chance
to speak for yourself.
733
00:35:20,641 --> 00:35:23,402
♪ ♪
734
00:35:23,402 --> 00:35:26,612
And then I found out even more
stuff that Ted did to me
735
00:35:28,592 --> 00:35:32,731
that would add
a whole new layer to my life
736
00:35:32,731 --> 00:35:34,742
that was already
falling apart.
737
00:35:43,501 --> 00:35:47,972
- In my mind, I thought,
oh, there'll be a trial,
738
00:35:47,972 --> 00:35:51,092
and I'll get
to see how this started.
739
00:35:51,092 --> 00:35:53,041
But I was never in a courtroom,
740
00:35:53,041 --> 00:35:54,572
because there was
never a trial.
741
00:35:56,641 --> 00:35:58,706
Because in the end,
Ted pleads guilty.
742
00:36:01,442 --> 00:36:04,282
Ted could have been sentenced
to 8 1/2 years.
743
00:36:06,512 --> 00:36:09,001
- Ultimately,
Ted was sentenced to 18 months
744
00:36:09,001 --> 00:36:10,072
and 3 years' probation.
745
00:36:10,072 --> 00:36:13,244
♪ ♪
746
00:36:13,244 --> 00:36:17,702
- He got the minimum, and
he was very happy about that.
747
00:36:17,702 --> 00:36:19,802
He told me that
everyone clapped.
748
00:36:19,802 --> 00:36:21,722
I felt like he was
like the hero, you know.
749
00:36:21,722 --> 00:36:23,132
Yay, Ted.
750
00:36:23,132 --> 00:36:25,021
And I thought,
you destroyed my life.
751
00:36:27,061 --> 00:36:29,702
- He orchestrated
all of this stuff
752
00:36:29,702 --> 00:36:31,621
with all
these different parties,
753
00:36:31,621 --> 00:36:32,851
and he only did 18 months.
754
00:36:32,851 --> 00:36:35,192
Isn't that crazy?
755
00:36:35,192 --> 00:36:36,692
- Khalid also pled guilty
756
00:36:36,692 --> 00:36:38,942
and was sentenced
to 25 months in prison.
757
00:36:40,742 --> 00:36:44,731
- In the mid-'80s,
I jumped into the drug game.
758
00:36:44,731 --> 00:36:46,021
I did time in prison.
759
00:36:46,021 --> 00:36:50,041
And so I was
facing 1,040 months.
760
00:36:50,041 --> 00:36:51,512
- If you cooperated,
761
00:36:51,512 --> 00:36:54,032
then you took
that sentencing guideline down.
762
00:36:55,112 --> 00:36:56,731
- I went ahead
and pled guilty.
763
00:36:56,731 --> 00:36:58,952
So I accepted responsibility.
764
00:37:00,811 --> 00:37:03,722
The judge said,
we know you didn't do this,
765
00:37:03,722 --> 00:37:06,302
but you had some knowledge
of something somewhere,
766
00:37:06,302 --> 00:37:07,532
and that was
a correct statement.
767
00:37:08,972 --> 00:37:10,442
- While Ted was in jail,
768
00:37:10,442 --> 00:37:12,811
Libby was trying
to rebuild her life.
769
00:37:12,811 --> 00:37:14,521
She had no money.
770
00:37:14,521 --> 00:37:17,492
[somber music]
771
00:37:17,492 --> 00:37:19,262
And in a moment
of desperation,
772
00:37:19,262 --> 00:37:20,942
she called Ted's mother
773
00:37:20,942 --> 00:37:22,706
and asked
for financial assistance.
774
00:37:23,972 --> 00:37:28,711
- $300 a month to help pay
for our daughter's school.
775
00:37:28,711 --> 00:37:33,036
And her exact response was,
no, you're getting $149.
776
00:37:33,512 --> 00:37:34,711
That's what the courts say.
777
00:37:37,141 --> 00:37:39,842
- I think they figured
Libby's got her own,
778
00:37:39,842 --> 00:37:42,181
you know, family,
and they'll take care of her.
779
00:37:42,181 --> 00:37:44,762
So that was kind of
a closed door to her.
780
00:37:46,112 --> 00:37:48,842
- I just felt so betrayed.
I did.
781
00:37:48,842 --> 00:37:51,751
♪ ♪
782
00:37:51,751 --> 00:37:54,512
In the middle of my daughter's
high school years,
783
00:37:54,512 --> 00:37:55,702
Ted would get out of prison.
784
00:37:55,702 --> 00:37:57,842
♪ ♪
785
00:37:57,842 --> 00:38:00,164
And he was out having
the best time in Louisville.
786
00:38:03,331 --> 00:38:05,731
It's almost like
I got a prison sentence
787
00:38:05,731 --> 00:38:07,501
much longer than he did
788
00:38:07,501 --> 00:38:10,802
because I watched him just
climb easily right back up.
789
00:38:10,802 --> 00:38:13,711
Not so much for me.
I never financially rebounded.
790
00:38:13,711 --> 00:38:17,461
♪ ♪
791
00:38:17,461 --> 00:38:19,831
Ted always had a roof
over his head.
792
00:38:19,831 --> 00:38:22,351
He moved right into
his parents' condo,
793
00:38:24,032 --> 00:38:27,452
driving his Mercedes,
driving a Range Rover.
794
00:38:27,452 --> 00:38:30,331
- He was laughing about it
and living the big life.
795
00:38:30,331 --> 00:38:32,882
♪ ♪
796
00:38:32,882 --> 00:38:34,652
- I believe people can change.
797
00:38:35,972 --> 00:38:37,202
I don't know with him.
798
00:38:37,202 --> 00:38:39,271
I've not spoken to him
in ten years.
799
00:38:39,271 --> 00:38:42,782
That's because years
after he got out of prison,
800
00:38:42,782 --> 00:38:45,811
I would find out that
he used me in his fraud scheme.
801
00:38:45,811 --> 00:38:47,822
♪ ♪
802
00:38:47,822 --> 00:38:49,621
A friend called me
and said, Libby,
803
00:38:49,621 --> 00:38:52,322
you might want to check
on land deed records.
804
00:38:52,322 --> 00:38:53,581
You might find yourself there.
805
00:38:54,661 --> 00:38:56,911
So when I did,
I saw the deed
806
00:38:56,911 --> 00:38:58,021
and I saw my name.
807
00:38:58,021 --> 00:38:59,882
It said Libby House.
808
00:39:02,371 --> 00:39:04,262
I knew that wasn't
my signature.
809
00:39:04,262 --> 00:39:05,882
My legal name is Elizabeth.
810
00:39:05,882 --> 00:39:08,041
I never sign my name Libby
on any legal document.
811
00:39:10,532 --> 00:39:11,882
And it was notarized.
812
00:39:11,882 --> 00:39:15,391
And I see tons of deeds
with my forged signature.
813
00:39:15,391 --> 00:39:19,681
And I thought, oh my God,
this makes so much sense.
814
00:39:19,681 --> 00:39:22,360
That's why Ted,
all those years ago,
815
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:24,001
was saying
you're a co-conspirator,
816
00:39:24,001 --> 00:39:25,351
because he made me one.
817
00:39:25,351 --> 00:39:27,692
On paper, it looked like
I helped facilitate that fraud.
818
00:39:31,688 --> 00:39:33,152
I just couldn't understand it
819
00:39:33,152 --> 00:39:34,472
because, you know,
there's a closing.
820
00:39:34,472 --> 00:39:36,992
You have to present IDs.
I wasn't there.
821
00:39:36,992 --> 00:39:39,211
I called the notary
specifically,
822
00:39:39,211 --> 00:39:43,231
and she told me that someone
had to have impersonated me.
823
00:39:43,231 --> 00:39:45,541
And then she said, I'm going
to have to get a lawyer.
824
00:39:45,541 --> 00:39:47,851
And I was like, well, do that.
- Yeah.
825
00:39:47,851 --> 00:39:50,791
- After Libby started
discovering all of this,
826
00:39:50,791 --> 00:39:54,632
she fought for eight years to
get an amendment to the deeds.
827
00:39:54,632 --> 00:39:56,311
It states that
her name was forged.
828
00:39:57,572 --> 00:39:59,791
- In order
to amend the online deeds,
829
00:39:59,791 --> 00:40:01,411
you have to petition the court
to do that,
830
00:40:01,411 --> 00:40:03,271
because they're the holders
of the records.
831
00:40:03,271 --> 00:40:04,742
I applaud Libby
for doing that,
832
00:40:04,742 --> 00:40:06,661
because that's not easy to do.
833
00:40:09,420 --> 00:40:11,911
- Ted, man,
when he was saving himself,
834
00:40:11,911 --> 00:40:14,492
he sacrificed everything
and everybody around him.
835
00:40:16,391 --> 00:40:17,862
Coward.
836
00:40:17,862 --> 00:40:21,222
We had a good business,
and we made some good money.
837
00:40:21,222 --> 00:40:25,362
He didn't have to do
the deception and the deceit,
838
00:40:25,362 --> 00:40:27,942
the lies, and the betrayal.
839
00:40:27,942 --> 00:40:30,851
Now, as far as Libby,
she had his back.
840
00:40:30,851 --> 00:40:31,961
She loved that man.
841
00:40:33,431 --> 00:40:35,876
I'm sorry that
she had to go through that.
842
00:40:35,876 --> 00:40:38,320
[somber music]
843
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:40,764
♪ ♪
844
00:40:40,764 --> 00:40:43,208
- Financial crime
is extremely invasive.
845
00:40:43,211 --> 00:40:45,251
I mean, her credit was
completely destroyed.
846
00:40:45,251 --> 00:40:46,572
She had no money.
847
00:40:46,572 --> 00:40:49,481
Employers would run her credit
or could do a background check
848
00:40:49,481 --> 00:40:50,862
and see everything
that was going on,
849
00:40:50,862 --> 00:40:52,992
and so they didn't trust her.
850
00:40:52,992 --> 00:40:55,811
♪ ♪
851
00:40:55,811 --> 00:40:59,351
- I felt bad about myself
for such a long time,
852
00:40:59,351 --> 00:41:01,692
but I feel good
about myself now.
853
00:41:03,461 --> 00:41:05,472
I have a job today.
854
00:41:05,472 --> 00:41:06,371
I wrote a book,
855
00:41:08,172 --> 00:41:10,391
because my story's
a cautionary tale.
856
00:41:11,501 --> 00:41:14,501
Being financially illiterate
was horrible.
857
00:41:14,501 --> 00:41:17,472
[soft upbeat music]
858
00:41:17,472 --> 00:41:20,052
- You put a lot of trust
in Ted.
859
00:41:20,052 --> 00:41:22,061
- I did.
I put a lot of trust.
860
00:41:22,061 --> 00:41:24,731
I didn't plan for anything bad
to happen.
861
00:41:24,731 --> 00:41:26,322
You need to think ahead.
862
00:41:26,322 --> 00:41:27,972
You need to rely on yourself.
863
00:41:27,972 --> 00:41:29,001
♪ ♪
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