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I'm nervous.

I'm going to take it one step at a time.

I'm going to take it one step at a time.

I'm absolutely petrified.

I'm absolutely petrified.

12 virgins are travelling to a unique island retreat...

12 virgins are travelling to a unique island retreat...

..that could change their lives forever.

..that could change their lives forever.

This is maybe the strangest day of my life.

Being a virgin at the age of 22 feels very lonely.

Being a virgin at the age of 22 feels very lonely.

I've just sort of given up all hope.

I've just sort of given up all hope.

In a world saturated with sex,

In a world saturated with sex,

more young adults than ever are caught in an intimacy epidemic.

more young adults than ever are caught in an intimacy epidemic.

more young adults than ever are caught in an intimacy epidemic.

The thought of having sex with someone...

Scares me.

It gives me the ick.

I don't feel confident.

I'm missing out. Terrified of the thought of it.

I'm missing out. Terrified of the thought of it.

Nerve-racking. Gut-wrenching.

Embarrassing.

All I think about is what I'm going to get wrong.

All I think about is what I'm going to get wrong.

Can you point to the outer labia?

Nope.

Now...Oh, my God!

Now...Oh, my God!

..they're getting a crash course in intimacy.

..they're getting a crash course in intimacy.

Social media, porn, dating apps.

Social media, porn, dating apps.

There are so many negative messages and we can help them blossom.

There are so many negative messages and we can help them blossom.

Use it by stimulating the area.

Use it by stimulating the area.

Guided by a team of experts...

Guided by a team of experts...

You see yourself as... Repulsive.

You see yourself as... Repulsive.

..they'll confront their insecurities...

..they'll confront their insecurities...

I'm hiding how upset I actually feel.

I'm hiding how upset I actually feel.

..exploring intimacy...

..in every form...

Yes, yes.

Good.

..and maybe...

Do you want to put a condom on?

..have sex with a trained therapist...

..have sex with a trained therapist...

Desperate times call for desperate measures.

THEY CHEER

..or even one another.

Why are you nervous around me?

I don't know.

That's so good.

I really do need to change my life.

I really do need to change my life.

The question is...

Get a room, guys!

..who will finally be ready...

..who will finally be ready...

Just, like, get a bit anxious.

..to go all the way...

Mm-hm.

..on Virgin Island?

In the first phase of the course...

Shame really interrupts pleasure.

Shame really interrupts pleasure.

..the group confronted their shame.

..the group confronted their shame.

Have I got a lipstick stain? No, you haven't. Excellent.

Have I got a lipstick stain? No, you haven't. Excellent.

Bertie made small steps forward...

What do you think? Let's go!

What do you think? Let's go!

..but witnessing intimacy

..but witnessing intimacy

stirred up Joy's feelings of religious shame...

stirred up Joy's feelings of religious shame...

I literally thought that God cursed me with vaginismus

I literally thought that God cursed me with vaginismus

to stop me from having sex.

..and Alex revealed the extent of his anxiety.

..and Alex revealed the extent of his anxiety.

Penny for your thoughts?

Penny for your thoughts?

The main overriding thing is still that worry

The main overriding thing is still that worry

of not getting an erection.

The phase ended...

For me, shame is feeling ugly.

For me, shame is feeling ugly.

Sorry.

..with the group letting their shame...

ALL CHANTING:Let it go, let it go!

ALL CHANTING:Let it go, let it go!

..go up in flames.

CHEERING

CHEERING

Now, things are set to escalate...

Imagine that your cock is going inside my vagina.

Imagine that your cock is going inside my vagina.

..with the second phase of the course...

Good.

..turn-ons.

In society, a lot of people feel ashamed to talk about sex.

In society, a lot of people feel ashamed to talk about sex.

It can be very embarrassing.

Take a moment to look at your vulva.

Take a moment to look at your vulva.

But to have a really fulfilling sex life,

But to have a really fulfilling sex life,

you have to know what turns you on.

Good morning. Morning.

Morning!

It's the morning of day three on Virgin Island...

It's the morning of day three on Virgin Island...

Oh!

Here we go, then.

Here we go, then.

..and time for the group to discover what's in store

..and time for the group to discover what's in store

over the next two days.

over the next two days.

"The next phase is turn-ons."

"The next phase is turn-ons."

I think turn-ons might involve a lot of dirty talk.

I think turn-ons might involve a lot of dirty talk.

It is quite a step up from hugging and stroking people's arms.

It is quite a step up from hugging and stroking people's arms.

Talking about, like, what turns you on is a private thing,

Talking about, like, what turns you on is a private thing,

but I guess nothing is private on this island.

but I guess nothing is private on this island.

Morning! Good morning.

I'm feeling nervous and tense over this.

I'm feeling nervous and tense over this.

I'm feeling nervous and tense over this.

It's going to be a very big challenge.

It's going to be a very big challenge.

Turn-ons, guys.

Your aim is to find everyone's turn-ons!

Your aim is to find everyone's turn-ons!

LAUGHTER

Thing is, I know all my turn-ons,

Thing is, I know all my turn-ons,

but talking about it feels quite daunting.

but talking about it feels quite daunting.

If one of the guys gets a boner, like, they're going to be like,

"We're so proud of you." Very proud.

I'm very nervous.

It just all feels like something I'm not allowed to think about.

It just all feels like something I'm not allowed to think about.

Like, oh, my gosh.

No, no, no, no, no.

Are you ready to know your turn-ons?

No.

Do you know your turn-ons?

Harry Styles. LAUGHTER

Harry Styles. LAUGHTER

The group may be sexual beginners...

The group may be sexual beginners...

Hi!

Hi!

..but Celeste and Danielle want them to imagine they're experts

..but Celeste and Danielle want them to imagine they're experts

and embrace their turn-ons.

and embrace their turn-ons.

People get really confused. They're like, "What turns me on?

People get really confused. They're like, "What turns me on?

"Is it positions or do I need to buy a new toy?"

"Is it positions or do I need to buy a new toy?"

But what really turns us on is the feeling that we get during sex.

But what really turns us on is the feeling that we get during sex.

But what really turns us on is the feeling that we get during sex.

We call this our core desires.

We call this our core desires.

This is the cornerstone of the whole course.

This is the cornerstone of the whole course.

Everyone should know their core desires.

If you want to have an amazing sex life,

find out what you want to feel during sex and tell your partners.

find out what you want to feel during sex and tell your partners.

For me, in sex, it's all about feeling very special.

For me, in sex, it's all about feeling very special.

For me, in sex, it's all about feeling very special.

I want to feel powerful.

I want to feel powerful.

I want to feel like they're lucky to have me.

I want to feel like they're lucky to have me.

And for me, I really like to feel like I'm the queen.

And for me, I really like to feel like I'm the queen.

And for me, I really like to feel like I'm the queen.

People have many different feelings that they want to have during sex,

People have many different feelings that they want to have during sex,

and all of them are beautiful.

We don't shame any of them.

So you can just lie down, relax.

So you can just lie down, relax.

To get them in the mood,

Danielle begins with a visualisation exercise.

Danielle begins with a visualisation exercise.

I want you to start thinking about a fantasy that you might be having.

I want you to start thinking about a fantasy that you might be having.

I want you to start thinking about a fantasy that you might be having.

It can be something that you saw in a movie

It can be something that you saw in a movie

or some erotics that you read,

or some erotics that you read,

and then start noticing -

and then start noticing -

what is the feeling that you want to feel in that moment?

what is the feeling that you want to feel in that moment?

what is the feeling that you want to feel in that moment?

You might want to feel loved or precious.

You might want to feel loved or precious.

Might want to feel masterful, desired.

Might want to feel masterful, desired.

Might want to feel masterful, desired.

Whenever you're ready, come back.

Whenever you're ready, come back.

Sit at the edge of your mat.

With their core desires in mind...

Thank you.

..the experts want the group to write them down on a stone

..the experts want the group to write them down on a stone

and share with each other.

Could just play noughts and crosses.

LAUGHTER

OK, so who feels like they are ready to come up?

OK, so who feels like they are ready to come up?

I'm going to go. Great. Wonderful.

I'm going to go. Great. Wonderful.

For Joy, her desires have always been complicated.

For Joy, her desires have always been complicated.

When I was in year seven and eight,

I thought it wasn't OK to be gay.

I thought it wasn't OK to be gay.

Um...

I spoke to a church pastor

I spoke to a church pastor

and he started going on a rant

about gay people being really sexual and slutty and promiscuous.

about gay people being really sexual and slutty and promiscuous.

And I realised myself that I was bisexual.

And I realised myself that I was bisexual.

But sex with a woman is like an undiscovered landscape.

But sex with a woman is like an undiscovered landscape.

But sex with a woman is like an undiscovered landscape.

I do feel a bit guilty for wanting to explore it.

I do feel a bit guilty for wanting to explore it.

So I put cherished.

So I put cherished.

Um...

Revered, lost in the moment, free

Revered, lost in the moment, free

and ultimately ravished.

and ultimately ravished.

Yay! That's my girl.

Yay! That's my girl.

APPLAUSE

APPLAUSE

As others step up...

I'll do it.

..some themes emerge.

For me, I think the most important thing is to feel wanted.

For me, I think the most important thing is to feel wanted.

Feeling wanted...

I put wanted.

I've mainly put wanted.

..and appreciated are common desires...

..and appreciated are common desires...

I want to feel loved.

Loved. Everyone wants to feel loved.

I've only got pampered on mine.

Special.

Praised, and then it would feel nice to have a safe space.

Praised, and then it would feel nice to have a safe space.

..while some want to be dominated.

..while some want to be dominated.

I want to feel on edge and teased.

Dominated.

I feel like a little bit of a perv telling you this, but, yeah.

I feel like a little bit of a perv telling you this, but, yeah.

Oh, we love pervs. We love pervs.

LAUGHTER

So far, only 24-year-old Bertie hasn't stepped up.

So far, only 24-year-old Bertie hasn't stepped up.

I do a lot of volunteering work in charity fundraising events.

I do a lot of volunteering work in charity fundraising events.

I do a lot of volunteering work in charity fundraising events.

I'm the one to try and get a lot of rich people

I'm the one to try and get a lot of rich people

to give money for charity.

You'll be disappointed in it, but, er...

But when it comes to discussing,

But when it comes to discussing,

you know, sexual things,

I don't see myself as a confident player.

I don't see myself as a confident player.

I think turn-ons,

I think turn-ons,

especially from the more sexual aspect,

especially from the more sexual aspect,

should not be shared in front of everybody.

should not be shared in front of everybody.

It should be kept as a secret between you and your partner,

It should be kept as a secret between you and your partner,

which is why I wrote,

"I have turn-ons, but I'm not sharing them in front of everyone.

"I have turn-ons, but I'm not sharing them in front of everyone.

"It should only be a secret between you and your partner."

"It should only be a secret between you and your partner."

That's about it, really.

APPLAUSE

APPLAUSE

APPLAUSE

How are we all feeling?

I really liked it. Yeah.

I was just like, "Oh, wow, this feels a bit different."

I was just like, "Oh, wow, this feels a bit different."

Felt something in my nipples as well, you know what I mean?

Felt something in my nipples as well, you know what I mean?

Oh, yeah? Yeah. Like, it felt a bit...

Oh, yeah? Yeah. Like, it felt a bit...

The turn-ons exercise may have worked for some...

The turn-ons exercise may have worked for some...

When I go home, if I'm ever in a relationship with someone,

When I go home, if I'm ever in a relationship with someone,

I'm just going to put it by their bedside table.

I'm just going to put it by their bedside table.

Turn-ons!

..but Bertie is just not feeling it.

..but Bertie is just not feeling it.

I was the only person in the group to not do it.

I was the only person in the group to not do it.

I didn't want to, like, say things in front of everybody, you know?

I didn't want to, like, say things in front of everybody, you know?

I do kind of feel like I've been, like,

I do kind of feel like I've been, like,

the odd one out in the group now. Mm-hm.

I feel like I've just taken a bit of a setback after that.

I feel like I've just taken a bit of a setback after that.

It certainly wasn't the most enjoyable workshop, put it that way.

It certainly wasn't the most enjoyable workshop, put it that way.

I felt a bit of uncomfortableness,

I felt a bit of uncomfortableness,

like, everywhere, really.

like, everywhere, really.

To help the group discover their turn-ons...

To help the group discover their turn-ons...

Who's got the one-to-ones today, mate?

Who's got the one-to-ones today, mate?

..they'll all have one-on-ones...

You've got Ilil.

Ilil? OK. Which one's Ilil?

Ilil? OK. Which one's Ilil?

She's a sexological body worker.

Island vibes.

Ah, thank you. Now, I know.

Ah, thank you. Now, I know.

..starting with Alex,

who has struggled to get turned on under the pressure of intimacy.

who has struggled to get turned on under the pressure of intimacy.

Sex has been a sense of anxiety for me.

Sex has been a sense of anxiety for me.

Growing up, my dad was quite emotionally repressed himself.

Growing up, my dad was quite emotionally repressed himself.

We had sex education in school at year five,

We had sex education in school at year five,

and I talked to my dad about it and he said,

and I talked to my dad about it and he said,

"Oh, that's rude. Don't talk about that."

I then became so embarrassed to talk or think about sex.

I then became so embarrassed to talk or think about sex.

I then became so embarrassed to talk or think about sex.

Whenever sex or relationships or anything came on TV,

Whenever sex or relationships or anything came on TV,

I used to leave the room.

I used to leave the room.

It's estimated that half of modern men

It's estimated that half of modern men

have experienced performance anxiety.

have experienced performance anxiety.

To help Alex, sexological bodyworker Ilil plans to get physical.

To help Alex, sexological bodyworker Ilil plans to get physical.

To help Alex, sexological bodyworker Ilil plans to get physical.

I want to work with him on receiving touch for me

I want to work with him on receiving touch for me

and recognising when that performance anxiety kicks in,

and recognising when that performance anxiety kicks in,

and letting me know what he needs in order to bring arousal up.

and letting me know what he needs in order to bring arousal up.

So hopefully the erections will come when he has a lot of pleasure.

So hopefully the erections will come when he has a lot of pleasure.

So hopefully the erections will come when he has a lot of pleasure.

Hello!

So the idea of today is for us to do

So the idea of today is for us to do

full-body pleasure mapping. Mm-hm.

full-body pleasure mapping. Mm-hm.

You're gonna be guiding the whole thing.

You're gonna be guiding the whole thing.

Whenever you feel yourself starting to worry about performance,

Whenever you feel yourself starting to worry about performance,

Whenever you feel yourself starting to worry about performance,

you can just say, like, "Can we slow down?"

you can just say, like, "Can we slow down?"

So take your clothes off.

I think I'd like to keep my boxers on.

I think I'd like to keep my boxers on.

Yeah. OK.

Pleasure mapping is an exercise

Pleasure mapping is an exercise

where Ilil touches Alex all over his body...

where Ilil touches Alex all over his body...

So we can start laying down.

So we can start laying down.

..including his genitals,

so Alex can lie back and concentrate on pleasure.

so Alex can lie back and concentrate on pleasure.

Is this the touch that...

That feels nice, yeah. ..you want?

I've had three people that I would describe as a girlfriend...

I've had three people that I would describe as a girlfriend...

I've had three people that I would describe as a girlfriend...

..but I never had sex with anyone.

..but I never had sex with anyone.

The first time I tried, I had a panic attack.

The first time I tried, I had a panic attack.

I was so nervous, I couldn't get an erection.

And, um...

..I then convinced myself that

..I then convinced myself that

sex is something, I guess, scary or nerve-racking.

sex is something, I guess, scary or nerve-racking.

It's constantly playing on my mind.

Is this the right speed? Yeah, that's great.

Is this the right speed? Yeah, that's great.

Very erotic.

So touching close to your underwear line,

So touching close to your underwear line,

it's almost, like, teasing you.

Yeah. All right.

What are you noticing?

Getting more turned on. Mm-hm.

Getting more turned on. Mm-hm.

Really getting, like, excited.

Mm-hm.

Mm-hm.

It felt really nice when you were brushing past my genitals.

It felt really nice when you were brushing past my genitals.

Would you like me to do that? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Would you like me to do that? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

And I love when you move like that.

It kind of really lets me know that you're enjoying yourself.

It kind of really lets me know that you're enjoying yourself.

All right.

Amazing.

Amazing, amazing, amazing.

I'm gonna take my hand off very slowly.

I'm gonna take my hand off very slowly.

So, did you feel me fully aroused?

So, did you feel me fully aroused?

Yeah.

Could you feel you fully aroused? Yeah, yeah.

Could you feel you fully aroused? Yeah, yeah.

Amazing.

Have you ever felt aroused like that with someone?

Have you ever felt aroused like that with someone?

Not like that. Not to the point where I'm, like,

Not like that. Not to the point where I'm, like,

moving my hips and feeling tingly.

moving my hips and feeling tingly.

You were very, very erect. Yeah.

You were very, very erect. Yeah.

You did so good. Thank you so much.

Bye-bye.

I don't think I've ever felt that sort of level of eroticism before.

I don't think I've ever felt that sort of level of eroticism before.

She just has such a calming presence.

So, yeah, feeling really good

and sort of inspires confidence going forward.

and sort of inspires confidence going forward.

Hey, guys. How did your one-on-one go?

Hey, guys. How did your one-on-one go?

Good. It went into genital touching

and, yeah, that felt really good.

and, yeah, that felt really good.

I bet!

LAUGHTER

LAUGHTER

It was really windy last night. Yeah.

Like, for a while, I think, like, my tent was going to blow away.

Like, for a while, I think, like, my tent was going to blow away.

Oh, my God. Do a Dorothy!

Go to the yellow brick road.

Celeste and Danielle have turned into a tin man and a scarecrow.

Celeste and Danielle have turned into a tin man and a scarecrow.

I'll probably be the lion because I'm the cowardly one.

I'll probably be the lion because I'm the cowardly one.

It's the afternoon on Virgin Island.

It's the afternoon on Virgin Island.

How does that feel?

Yeah, it feels good.

As the one-on-one sessions continue...

As the one-on-one sessions continue...

It's good.

You seem more open to me.

It's just baby steps.

..the turn-on phase of the course is gathering pace...

..the turn-on phase of the course is gathering pace...

May I direct you in touching my breasts?

May I direct you in touching my breasts?

Yes. Yes.

Yes. Yes.

And a little more pressure. OK.

And a little more pressure. OK.

..and the group continues to open up to each other.

..and the group continues to open up to each other.

When I was at school, all the boys, like, would walk past

When I was at school, all the boys, like, would walk past

and be like, "Oh, you're all lesbians

"because you go to an all-girls school." Yeah.

"because you go to an all-girls school." Yeah.

When I was, like, 12, I remember thinking, "Oh, my gosh.

When I was, like, 12, I remember thinking, "Oh, my gosh.

"Why has God given me so many gay friends?

"Why has God given me so many gay friends?

"I now have to convert all of them!"

Took me a couple of years to realise that I was, in fact, one of them.

Took me a couple of years to realise that I was, in fact, one of them.

Years of sexual anxiety have taken a physical toll on Joy.

Years of sexual anxiety have taken a physical toll on Joy.

I have vaginismus,

this physical and psychological problem.

this physical and psychological problem.

It causes pain.

If I can't insert a finger into my vagina,

If I can't insert a finger into my vagina,

you know, how can I physically have sex?

you know, how can I physically have sex?

With guidance from Ilil,

she'll learn how to relax her body around touch.

she'll learn how to relax her body around touch.

We can actually practise

We can actually practise

towards penetration in a very slow process,

towards penetration in a very slow process,

creating an alignment between what the head wants to do

creating an alignment between what the head wants to do

and what the body actually feels comfortable with.

and what the body actually feels comfortable with.

Hello, beautiful.

So our intention for today is if you feel comfortable,

So our intention for today is if you feel comfortable,

we can explore the opening of your vagina.

we can explore the opening of your vagina.

Sometimes that's been hard because it all, like, closes up.

Sometimes that's been hard because it all, like, closes up.

Maybe we can see it today.

I want you to just start by maybe putting your hands on your vulva.

I want you to just start by maybe putting your hands on your vulva.

Would you like to have a look where you're touching? Yeah.

Would you like to have a look where you're touching? Yeah.

Ilil encourages Joy to explore her body...

Ilil encourages Joy to explore her body...

Oh, my gosh, this is so weird. Can you see?

Oh, my gosh, this is so weird. Can you see?

..and in doing so, change the way she feels about it.

..and in doing so, change the way she feels about it.

Take a moment to look at your vulva and connect to her.

Take a moment to look at your vulva and connect to her.

Take a moment to look at your vulva and connect to her.

She's beautiful.

It's weird because I feel like she looks ugly.

It's weird because I feel like she looks ugly.

When I was 12,

I had this realisation that I had been masturbating.

I had this realisation that I had been masturbating.

I went to Christian camp

and there was this call to come to the front for prayer,

and there was this call to come to the front for prayer,

for sexual sin.

I felt convicted.

Like, "Oh, my gosh, they're speaking about me.

"I've sinned."

And I told my youth pastor

And I told my youth pastor

and then she staged an intervention.

and then she staged an intervention.

Yeah, it's stuck with me.

It's been hard to get that out of my head.

It's been hard to get that out of my head.

And now I want to be free to explore a sexual side to myself.

And now I want to be free to explore a sexual side to myself.

I want to enjoy my life and accept myself.

I want to enjoy my life and accept myself.

So what part are you curious about?

So what part are you curious about?

I think I want to just touch the outer labia.

I think I want to just touch the outer labia.

Awesome.

You can do like that.

You can do like that.

You can, like, bring a little bit of vibration. OK.

You can, like, bring a little bit of vibration. OK.

That's quite nice.

A bit arousing? Mm-hm. Yeah. Yeah,

A bit arousing? Mm-hm. Yeah. Yeah,

Do you want to try it with oil? Yeah.

Put it all over your vulva. Mm-hm.

Put it all over your vulva. Mm-hm.

It does feel totally different. Yeah.

It does feel totally different. Yeah.

Can you see your opening? Yeah.

You can see a tiny dot there? Yeah.

You can see a tiny dot there? Yeah.

So that's your clit.

Oh, that's so interesting.

The clit is like a miniature penis.

You will feel there's, like, a shaft.

You will feel there's, like, a shaft.

See if you can feel the shaft. OK.

See if you can feel the shaft. OK.

Sexological bodywork includes one-way touch...

Sexological bodywork includes one-way touch...

Can I? Yeah.

Here.

Oh!

..allowing Ilil, with consent, to help Joy discover pleasure.

..allowing Ilil, with consent, to help Joy discover pleasure.

..allowing Ilil, with consent, to help Joy discover pleasure.

So how does it feel?

It feels really good.

I can feel arousal.

That's new.

Awesome.

Thank you very much for giving me this experience.

Thank you very much for giving me this experience.

It's such a precious feeling.

It feels...

..really special.

It's like she's safe.

It's like she's safe.

She's safe. She's good.

You got her. Yeah.

And I know what she looks like now as well.

Hiya!

How was your thingy?

Um, it was really good.

Um, it was really good.

Was it? Yeah, it was really good.

She was like, "You need to focus on what feels good for you."

She was like, "You need to focus on what feels good for you."

I think it's just like, "Really?"

I think it's just like, "Really?"

I'm allowed?!

I feel really good. I feel really good, yeah.

I feel really good. I feel really good, yeah.

I just keep learning all these things about myself.

I just keep learning all these things about myself.

So proud to really connect with my body

So proud to really connect with my body

and so pleased that I felt like we just had this breakthrough.

and so pleased that I felt like we just had this breakthrough.

Joy has leapt forwards, but not everyone is riding high.

Joy has leapt forwards, but not everyone is riding high.

Joy has leapt forwards, but not everyone is riding high.

Bertie, would you like to join us, slash, would you like a blanket?

Bertie, would you like to join us, slash, would you like a blanket?

Um... Go on, then.

Um... Go on, then.

What, "go on, then" to the blanket or "go on, then" to joining us?

What, "go on, then" to the blanket or "go on, then" to joining us?

I'll see what... I'll see. See how you feel.

I'll see what... I'll see. See how you feel.

Yeah. I think it's quite a chill convo at the moment.

Yeah, I'll see what I can do.

Lovely to talk to you. Nice to talk to you. Yeah.

Lovely to talk to you. Nice to talk to you. Yeah.

I can socialise, don't worry. I know you can!

I can socialise, don't worry. I know you can!

I'm just inviting you to.

I'll see.

Da-da-da.

Da-da-da.

Here are the clipboards.

It's late afternoon.

It's late afternoon.

"This questionnaire is multiple choice.

"Please choose all that apply."

To help the group explore the type of person that turns them on...

To help the group explore the type of person that turns them on...

I've put boobs so far.

..the experts have handed out a list of questions.

..the experts have handed out a list of questions.

HE CHUCKLES Body hair.

HE CHUCKLES Body hair.

I like my girls with a full beard, mate.

I like my girls with a full beard, mate.

Face shape. I've never thought about this.

Face shape. I've never thought about this.

What's mine? Sq...

Are you calling me a square?

Are you calling me a square?

THEY LAUGH

I don't think the colour of hair or the colour of eyes matter,

I don't think the colour of hair or the colour of eyes matter,

I don't think the colour of hair or the colour of eyes matter,

as long as the hair looks presentable.

as long as the hair looks presentable.

Great hygiene.

Yeah. Clean hands, clean nails.

Yeah. Clean hands, clean nails.

And they've gotta have - I'm gonna put banter.

And they've gotta have - I'm gonna put banter.

And they've gotta have - I'm gonna put banter.

You know, a bit of banter!

For Marianne, the questionnaire proves revealing.

For Marianne, the questionnaire proves revealing.

"Ideal first date setting."

"Ideal first date setting."

I just want to go hiking and then have a picnic somewhere,

I just want to go hiking and then have a picnic somewhere,

but then I don't really necessarily want to be alone

with a guy hiking on a first date. Yeah.

with a guy hiking on a first date. Yeah.

It depends on how safe I feel, you know?

It depends on how safe I feel, you know?

A lot goes on in my head all the time

A lot goes on in my head all the time

because I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was about four,

because I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was about four,

and there's just a lot of emotions.

Like, I'm never not thinking about safety.

Like, I'm never not thinking about safety.

Like, when people do one-night stands, in my head, I'm like,

Like, when people do one-night stands, in my head, I'm like,

"X, Y, Z could go wrong.

"How are you going to an unknown place?"

My brain goes sort of into overdrive.

My brain goes sort of into overdrive.

I don't trust men.

I don't trust men.

Right. We're done and dusted.

High five.

Cool.

Yeah, I know it is me,

but I don't know how to move forward.

Marianne is very much in her head.

Marianne is very much in her head.

She's trying to manage

She's trying to manage

her boundaries, so she won't get hurt.

her boundaries, so she won't get hurt.

And in that way, she is holding herself back

And in that way, she is holding herself back

from fully experiencing life.

from fully experiencing life.

Good to see you.

Good to see you.

Danielle wants to try and help Marianne confront her barriers.

Danielle wants to try and help Marianne confront her barriers.

Danielle wants to try and help Marianne confront her barriers.

What do you want for yourself in the retreat?

What do you want for yourself in the retreat?

When it comes to sort of intimacy, I always just have...

When it comes to sort of intimacy, I always just have...

My first thought is just safety.

My first thought is just safety.

So a lot of what you're trying to do now is really, like,

So a lot of what you're trying to do now is really, like,

keep yourself in check.

It...

It just feels like

I'm all alone and I have to put up a guard.

I'm all alone and I have to put up a guard.

I'm just saying sort of no to everything

and I think my younger self feels quite sad

and I think my younger self feels quite sad

that I'm still stuck with that feeling.

I feel like I had a lot of issues growing up in South Africa.

I feel like I had a lot of issues growing up in South Africa.

In school, I was one of three mixed-race girls,

In school, I was one of three mixed-race girls,

and we didn't really know how to fit in because we weren't, like,

and we didn't really know how to fit in because we weren't, like,

black enough or the black guys, white enough for the white guys.

black enough or the black guys, white enough for the white guys.

I get viewed as this exotic thing.

I get viewed as this exotic thing.

Sweetheart.

Is it OK if I put my hand on your knee? That's fine.

Is it OK if I put my hand on your knee? That's fine.

It has been sort of, like, a competition with guys.

It has been sort of, like, a competition with guys.

They would never be in a relationship with us,

but they just want to, like, get our clothes off.

but they just want to, like, get our clothes off.

And so it's really, really hard for me to, like, trust men.

And so it's really, really hard for me to, like, trust men.

And so it's really, really hard for me to, like, trust men.

I just feel...

I just feel...

Yeah. ..that I'm missing out on things

and I can't differentiate, like,

what's actual fear and what's just, like...

what's actual fear and what's just, like...

Protection. Yeah.

Can I please have a hug?

Oh, I would love to.

Oh, I would love to.

Marianne needs to learn to trust that men

Marianne needs to learn to trust that men

don't necessarily want to take advantage of her.

don't necessarily want to take advantage of her.

And working with the men to deal with all those issues,

And working with the men to deal with all those issues,

that's her biggest challenge on the island.

that's her biggest challenge on the island.

Thank you so much. My pleasure.

Thank you so much. My pleasure.

I knew I was going to be emotional, but everything sort of hit me.

I knew I was going to be emotional, but everything sort of hit me.

It was nice to have this session because, like, I can just

It was nice to have this session because, like, I can just

think more clearly about what's to come,

think more clearly about what's to come,

but that's quite daunting.

but that's quite daunting.

Morning. Morning.

Morning, Marianne.

Another day begins on Virgin Island...

Another day begins on Virgin Island...

Oh, got hot dog down my boob. LAUGHTER

Oh, got hot dog down my boob. LAUGHTER

That'll be a treat for someone later!

That'll be a treat for someone later!

..and it's the turn-ons phase of the course.

..and it's the turn-ons phase of the course.

Nothing like a proper cuppa.

Nothing like a proper cuppa.

This phase is pretty intimidating.

This phase is pretty intimidating.

I always thought myself as dead playful, dead flirty,

I always thought myself as dead playful, dead flirty,

but I started being really sheltered.

but I started being really sheltered.

So I do feel like I've got a lot to learn.

So I do feel like I've got a lot to learn.

I personally feel a bit deflated,

I personally feel a bit deflated,

a bit dejected.

I'm lagging behind.

I know it's a marathon and not a sprint,

I know it's a marathon and not a sprint,

but some people are running.

I'm trudging.

The phase is exposing deep-seated fears.

The phase is exposing deep-seated fears.

When it comes to younger people, around intimacy and touch,

When it comes to younger people, around intimacy and touch,

there's just a lot more self-consciousness.

A lot of people are afraid, you know -

"Oh, maybe I'm going to get cancelled or cross a boundary."

"Oh, maybe I'm going to get cancelled or cross a boundary."

Nowadays, there is a lot of risk

in saying the wrong thing.

Like, if I make a weird, stupid mistake

Like, if I make a weird, stupid mistake

talking to a girl, that's done, isn't it?

talking to a girl, that's done, isn't it?

I don't want to do something wrong.

I don't want to do things too fast

or too slow.

If I do come across as a creep in any way,

shape or form, I don't mean to.

I'm so scared of the thought of that happening.

I'm so scared of the thought of that happening.

What do you think we're gonna do?

I have no idea.

Having already worked on discovering their turn-ons...

Having already worked on discovering their turn-ons...

Oh, this is so scary.

..Celeste and Danielle now want the group

to feel it in their bodies.

to feel it in their bodies.

This is a really safe place that we can practise

This is a really safe place that we can practise

touching all over each other's bodies.

touching all over each other's bodies.

This exercise can definitely get people aroused

This exercise can definitely get people aroused

and frankly, I hope it does.

and frankly, I hope it does.

OK.

One of the things that really gets in the way of us

One of the things that really gets in the way of us

feeling our turn-ons is inhibition.

feeling our turn-ons is inhibition.

And today's workshop is all about letting out your inner animal.

And today's workshop is all about letting out your inner animal.

And today's workshop is all about letting out your inner animal.

So we're going to do a little demo

and then you'll get a chance to practise with each other.

and then you'll get a chance to practise with each other.

Sex doesn't have to be this thing that is very curated.

Sex doesn't have to be this thing that is very curated.

It can be animalistic and fun.

It can be animalistic and fun.

Animal game, you don't need much to be good at it.

Animal game, you don't need much to be good at it.

It's more about connecting with your own impulses

It's more about connecting with your own impulses

and unleashing your inner animal.

and unleashing your inner animal.

THEY MOAN

THEY MOAN

There's another animal just next to you.

There's another animal just next to you.

There's another animal just next to you.

You can smell.

You can smell.

THEY MOAN

THEY MOAN

THEY MOAN

THEY MOAN

THEY MOAN

THEY MOAN

THEY LAUGH

THEY LAUGH

Love-gasm!

THEY LAUGH

THEY LAUGH

APPLAUSE

APPLAUSE

OK.

I'm looking for a brave volunteer.

I'm looking for a brave volunteer.

Bertie? I've got an injured foot.

Bertie? I've got an injured foot.

I know it sounds like a lame excuse,

but with my foot and everything, it's...

but with my foot and everything, it's...

OK. Anyone else?

OK. Anyone else?

Can I do it with you, Marianne? Yeah!

I'm going to go with Marianne. Great, wonderful.

I'm going to go with Marianne. Great, wonderful.

Joy takes the opportunity to practise with a woman.

Joy takes the opportunity to practise with a woman.

So just take some nice, deep breaths,

So just take some nice, deep breaths,

in and out.

in and out.

When you feel ready, start exploring each other with your hands.

When you feel ready, start exploring each other with your hands.

When you feel ready, start exploring each other with your hands.

Good. I love that you're staying with the sensation

Good. I love that you're staying with the sensation

and with your own bodies.

THEY GIGGLE

THEY GIGGLE

APPLAUSE

APPLAUSE

And how was that for you?

Marianne made me feel very safe.

Same! It was very fun.

As more of the group step up...

As more of the group step up...

Just follow what your body wants to do.

Just follow what your body wants to do.

..their animal instincts start to emerge.

..their animal instincts start to emerge.

Touching and sensing.

Touching and sensing.

Woohoo! APPLAUSE

Woohoo! APPLAUSE

Anyone else?

Fuck it.

Yes, Bertie. CHEERING

Yes, Bertie. CHEERING

Up until now, Bertie keeps holding back.

Up until now, Bertie keeps holding back.

If I don't do it now, I'll regret it later.

I think this is the worst time to be a young adult,

I think this is the worst time to be a young adult,

I think this is the worst time to be a young adult,

because if you're someone like me who struggles with

because if you're someone like me who struggles with

approaching and talking to women,

approaching and talking to women,

it's near impossible.

Right.

I constantly think about what I could do wrong,

I constantly think about what I could do wrong,

rather than what I could do right.

rather than what I could do right.

But I have to do this because I want to improve my life.

But I have to do this because I want to improve my life.

Start noticing that there's an animal inside you

Start noticing that there's an animal inside you

Start noticing that there's an animal inside you

and you can rub against them.

and you can rub against them.

Mm.

You can hold.

Oh! BERTIE LAUGHS

Are you OK? I'm good, yeah.

Are you sure? Yeah, I'm fine. OK.

You get in a comfy position. Yeah.

You get in a comfy position. Yeah.

That's OK. Yeah?

That's OK. Yeah?

Let yourself feel how good it feels.

Let yourself feel how good it feels.

APPLAUSE

APPLAUSE

Amazing. You want to share a little bit?

Amazing. You want to share a little bit?

I was a bit apprehensive about doing it at first.

I mean, I thought you were doing a good job.

It just all felt natural and, like, really nice.

It just all felt natural and, like, really nice.

You've got nice hair to touch as well.

All that wax has come in handy. That's what it is.

All that wax has come in handy. That's what it is.

APPLAUSE

APPLAUSE

APPLAUSE

There we go.

Well done to you. Thank you.

So how was that?

LAUGHTER

I was still in that, like, "Ooh!"

I was still in that, like, "Ooh!"

Like, frisky mood, let's say.

And I was like, "OK, so I'm gonna just have to calm myself back down

And I was like, "OK, so I'm gonna just have to calm myself back down

"and start from Bertie's level."

All right, Bertie? Hello. How did you find it?

All right, Bertie? Hello. How did you find it?

Good, good. You had the right amount of pressure on me that I like.

Good, good. You had the right amount of pressure on me that I like.

It felt so natural. And I was like, "This is..."

It felt so natural. And I was like, "This is..."

Yeah. Oh!

Yeah. Oh!

To say this is one of the bravest things I've done

would be the understatement of the millennium.

would be the understatement of the millennium.

This isn't peer pressure or anything like that.

This isn't peer pressure or anything like that.

I just feel like I kind of have to participate

I just feel like I kind of have to participate

because if I am going on this island

because if I am going on this island

to be the same old person

to be the same old person

that I was for all my life, what am I doing here?

that I was for all my life, what am I doing here?

As the course is going on, I can see people learning and changing.

As the course is going on, I can see people learning and changing.

Everybody's trying new things,

but for some people, therapy is very slow

but for some people, therapy is very slow

and totally goes at the pace of the client.

and totally goes at the pace of the client.

Bertie may be working things out,

Bertie may be working things out,

but discovering turn-ons for some is slow progress.

but discovering turn-ons for some is slow progress.

Guys, do you like hairy vaginas?

Guys, do you like hairy vaginas?

I actually don't care. Yeah. Each to their own.

I actually don't care. Yeah. Each to their own.

When it starts coming out of their knicker line and you're like,

When it starts coming out of their knicker line and you're like,

"Oh, God, you need to shave."

Oh, no.

I don't really look after myself very much, but, you know.

I don't really look after myself very much, but, you know.

No-one's seeing it, so...

After this, that won't be true.

After this, that won't be true.

LAUGHTER

LAUGHTER

Intimacy is challenging for everyone on the island,

Intimacy is challenging for everyone on the island,

but for 21-year-old Callum, it's also linked to tragedy.

but for 21-year-old Callum, it's also linked to tragedy.

but for 21-year-old Callum, it's also linked to tragedy.

My dad passed away two years ago.

My dad passed away two years ago.

He was an alcoholic.

He was an alcoholic.

Um...

I don't really know how to respond to it.

I don't really know how to respond to it.

I'm living on my own in his house, where he used to live,

I'm living on my own in his house, where he used to live,

and probably spend...

and probably spend...

It's probably about 16 hours a day, gaming.

It's probably about 16 hours a day, gaming.

I suppose it is a way to escape everything in the world.

I suppose it is a way to escape everything in the world.

I struggle to meet people in person.

I struggle to meet people in person.

It makes me feel alone.

It makes me feel alone.

The experts want Callum to tackle his grief...

The experts want Callum to tackle his grief...

Hi. Hello!

..with clinical therapist Abby.

..with clinical therapist Abby.

Are there times in your life where you felt uncomfortable

Are there times in your life where you felt uncomfortable

talking about these things?

Yeah, I think so.

I'm never really honest or open.

I think it was when my dad passed

that I really started to notice a lot of the stuff about myself.

that I really started to notice a lot of the stuff about myself.

Talk to me a little bit about that.

HE SIGHS

HE SIGHS

I really punished myself about everything.

I really punished myself about everything.

Yeah, he got admitted to hospital because he'd fallen.

Yeah, he got admitted to hospital because he'd fallen.

He was on the floor for two days and he couldn't get up.

He was on the floor for two days and he couldn't get up.

He couldn't reach his phone to tell anyone.

Yeah. And the next day, being told that,

Yeah. And the next day, being told that,

you know, he's not got long left to live, so...

you know, he's not got long left to live, so...

He died within two weeks. Yeah.

He died within two weeks. Yeah.

He got... Oh! It's OK.

He got... Oh! It's OK.

HE SIGHS Liver cirrhosis.

Talk about the feeling that comes up around that.

Talk about the feeling that comes up around that.

I still feel like I failed him.

I still feel like I failed him.

That's not... It's not for you to take on.

That's not... It's not for you to take on.

Is it reasonable for you to take responsibility of that?

Is it reasonable for you to take responsibility of that?

Maybe not.

What are the thoughts running in your head?

Regret. Yeah.

I just want to make him proud and not flatten his name.

I just want to make him proud and not flatten his name.

I just want to make him proud and not flatten his name.

You're making him proud.

It was really emotional because a lot of it is

It was really emotional because a lot of it is

shit, basically, that I hate dealing with.

shit, basically, that I hate dealing with.

But I've never really had that emotional response

But I've never really had that emotional response

and spoke properly with someone who understands it,

and spoke properly with someone who understands it,

and it's kind of a fuzzy feeling.

and it's kind of a fuzzy feeling.

I just feel...

I feel like I want to let off steam. I want to run around.

I feel like I want to let off steam. I want to run around.

Hello! Hello.

Hello. How did it go?

Very emotional.

Looking at shit from a different angle, I suppose.

Looking at shit from a different angle, I suppose.

Do you feel good that it's been, like, off your chest?

Do you feel good that it's been, like, off your chest?

Mm.

Tell you what, though, it's so hot in the tepee.

I sweated it all out, so... LAUGHTER

I sweated it all out, so... LAUGHTER

It wasn't tears. It was just sweat coming out of your eyes.

It wasn't tears. It was just sweat coming out of your eyes.

Yeah, yeah. It weren't tears, no.

Yeah, yeah. It weren't tears, no.

Are you going to bomb it in?

Yeah, yeah.

It's late afternoon...

He just, like, glided in.

He just, like, glided in.

..and many of the group are embracing island life.

..and many of the group are embracing island life.

To be a man, hey?

Get your hair wet and just, like, come out and be fine. Yeah, yeah.

Get your hair wet and just, like, come out and be fine. Yeah, yeah.

Not need your make-up. No moisturiser. Yeah.

Not need your make-up. No moisturiser. Yeah.

Not need to, like, shower.

Well, I think men need showers.

I hope they shower.

As some take a dip,

the experts have decided it's time for others to immerse themselves

the experts have decided it's time for others to immerse themselves

in the retreat's most advanced therapy,

in the retreat's most advanced therapy,

undertaken by three specialists.

undertaken by three specialists.

Surrogate partner therapy works with a surrogate partner and the client,

Surrogate partner therapy works with a surrogate partner and the client,

practising with everything from different kinds of touch,

practising with everything from different kinds of touch,

through genital touching, oral sex or even intercourse,

through genital touching, oral sex or even intercourse,

so that people can practise

the full range of sexual experiences.

the full range of sexual experiences.

First is 35-year-old Ellen.

First is 35-year-old Ellen.

Hello! Hello.

While all surrogate partner therapy

is supported by clinical therapist Abby...

is supported by clinical therapist Abby...

What I do is therapeutic emotional discussion.

What I do is therapeutic emotional discussion.

What I do is therapeutic emotional discussion.

..Kat will be Ellen's surrogate partner therapist.

..Kat will be Ellen's surrogate partner therapist.

So I do the relationship side.

So I do the relationship side.

Doing touch work and relational work's,

like, completely led by you. OK.

like, completely led by you. OK.

And hands are, like, really important in lesbian sex.

And hands are, like, really important in lesbian sex.

Yeah. Yeah.

Meanwhile, Tegan will wear it with surrogate partner therapist Risdon.

Meanwhile, Tegan will wear it with surrogate partner therapist Risdon.

And notice the sensation of me touching you.

And notice the sensation of me touching you.

And notice the sensation of me touching you.

How did that feel?

It felt good. It felt really nice. OK, great.

It felt good. It felt really nice. OK, great.

But before Marianne can consider a surrogate relationship,

But before Marianne can consider a surrogate relationship,

she first has to learn to trust men.

she first has to learn to trust men.

It gets to a point where I can feel the energy,

It gets to a point where I can feel the energy,

I can feel they want more, and I can't cross the boundary.

I can feel they want more, and I can't cross the boundary.

I just can't. My brain just gets stuck.

I just can't. My brain just gets stuck.

I really want to challenge myself.

I want to do it with a guy and see how I feel.

Trust is everything.

Out of all my friends, I'm the only virgin.

Out of all my friends, I'm the only virgin.

And I do feel lonely.

But I do want to be in a relationship with someone.

But I do want to be in a relationship with someone.

If I haven't figured it out by 26 years,

If I haven't figured it out by 26 years,

then clearly I do need some help.

First step for Marianne...

Hello.

..is simply being comfortable in the same room

..is simply being comfortable in the same room

as potential surrogate partner, Andre.

as potential surrogate partner, Andre.

How are you feeling now?

A little bit anxious in my stomach. OK. Um...

A little bit anxious in my stomach. OK. Um...

And that's just because of unknowns and things. Yeah.

And that's just because of unknowns and things. Yeah.

Working with Marianne,

it's very important that we start slowly

it's very important that we start slowly

to build the trust in myself.

to build the trust in myself.

I'm going to be moving around the room

I'm going to be moving around the room

and going to be noticing

and going to be noticing

how your body is reacting to where I am.

how your body is reacting to where I am.

The idea is just to learn how someone being close to you

The idea is just to learn how someone being close to you

can potentially feel. Yeah.

can potentially feel. Yeah.

OK. So go ahead and close your eyes.

And so I've moved.

You might feel I'm further away.

You might feel I'm further away.

See if there's any noticeable change in sensation.

See if there's any noticeable change in sensation.

See if there's any noticeable change in sensation.

Growing up, I really never saw how a relationship should be.

Growing up, I really never saw how a relationship should be.

Growing up, I really never saw how a relationship should be.

My dad just wasn't there.

And seven, eight years ago, I found out I had a new half-sister.

And seven, eight years ago, I found out I had a new half-sister.

My dad was sort of collecting many families.

My dad was sort of collecting many families.

Yeah.

Just noticing what's happening in your body.

Just noticing what's happening in your body.

So anything that reminds me of my dad, you're instantly vetoed.

So anything that reminds me of my dad, you're instantly vetoed.

Trust-wise, I'm very sceptical.

What was, like, kind of going on in your head?

What was, like, kind of going on in your head?

By the end,

I liked it. Hmm.

I liked it. Hmm.

It just felt warm by the end.

It just felt warm by the end.

I felt, if I'm being honest, more sort of turned on

I felt, if I'm being honest, more sort of turned on

with the second one that was there, for some reason.

with the second one that was there, for some reason.

Yeah. Wonderful. OK, great.

Yeah. Wonderful. OK, great.

I feel a lot more relaxed, yeah. Good.

I feel a lot more relaxed, yeah. Good.

After the exercise...

Want a hug? I would love a hug.

..Marianne is clearly calmer.

..Marianne is clearly calmer.

It helps that you smell like salted caramel.

It helps that you smell like salted caramel.

Mm. Do I really? Yeah.

It's very, like... I like that.

It's very, like... I like that.

I'm feeling a lot more reassured working with a guy.

I'm feeling a lot more reassured working with a guy.

He's very lovely and I felt very relaxed.

He's very lovely and I felt very relaxed.

It has helped my brain not be as...

It has helped my brain not be as...

It has helped my brain not be as...

..fearful.

I'm really proud of myself.

Hi! Hi, Marianne. Welcome back!

Hi! Hi, Marianne. Welcome back!

How did your one-to-one go?

It was good.

Hell, yeah. Nice, dude.

How many people can actually fit in this bed? That's the real question.

How many people can actually fit in this bed? That's the real question.

Bertie, do you want to come join us in the bed?

Bertie, do you want to come join us in the bed?

Um... Actually, please do.

It's an open invitation.

It's an open invitation.

All right. No worries.

After getting back on track earlier,

After getting back on track earlier,

the experts don't want Bertie to lose momentum again.

the experts don't want Bertie to lose momentum again.

Bertie jumped up. I thought he was

going to use his foot as an excuse, but he didn't.

going to use his foot as an excuse, but he didn't.

And he was so good.

He seemed so sensual, so, like, um, animalistic.

He seemed so sensual, so, like, um, animalistic.

He seemed so sensual, so, like, um, animalistic.

It's really important that he feels successful. Yeah.

It's really important that he feels successful. Yeah.

When it comes to dating and sex,

When it comes to dating and sex,

I just want to be able to be more confident

I just want to be able to be more confident

in myself and know what I'm doing.

in myself and know what I'm doing.

Because the thought of me approaching

Because the thought of me approaching

a woman and asking them out, it would make them think,

a woman and asking them out, it would make them think,

"Oh, God, this is embarrassing.

"Oh, God, this is embarrassing.

"What have I done to deserve being asked out by Bertie?"

"What have I done to deserve being asked out by Bertie?"

To help boost his confidence... Good afternoon. Good afternoon.

To help boost his confidence... Good afternoon. Good afternoon.

..Celeste wants to push Bertie's boundaries.

..Celeste wants to push Bertie's boundaries.

How was the workshop for you? I know I got a few things wrong,

How was the workshop for you? I know I got a few things wrong,

but that was the first time I didn't really feel uncomfortable.

but that was the first time I didn't really feel uncomfortable.

I was super proud and impressed,

and I think we can use this session to just do more kinds

and I think we can use this session to just do more kinds

of practices that will be helpful for you.

of practices that will be helpful for you.

Sounds good. ..to get more technique together.

Good job I brushed my teeth, then!

Celeste starts...

So try to, like, lay me back.

So try to, like, lay me back.

Like this? Yeah, exactly.

..simulating the missionary position...

..simulating the missionary position...

How am I going to do this? It'll be awkward at first. Yeah.

How am I going to do this? It'll be awkward at first. Yeah.

So don't worry about that, OK? OK.

So don't worry about that, OK? OK.

..teaching Bertie the basics.

..teaching Bertie the basics.

And then you want to line up so that your dick is connected to my pussy.

And then you want to line up so that your dick is connected to my pussy.

And then you want to line up so that your dick is connected to my pussy.

Oh, God. OK. OK!

Oh, God. OK. OK!

Right. Right?

Like this? Yeah, exactly.

CELESTE LAUGHS

And you'll need to hold up some of your weight.

And you'll need to hold up some of your weight.

Yeah. Sorry. No, it's OK.

And if you want me to show you what I mean, I'm happy to do that.

And if you want me to show you what I mean, I'm happy to do that.

That's fine. You can if you want to. Well, if you lie down...

That's fine. You can if you want to. Well, if you lie down...

OK, so if I'm on top of you... Yeah.

OK, so if I'm on top of you... Yeah.

See how, like, I'm not all the way down?

See how, like, I'm not all the way down?

Yeah, no. It's just a little too much pressure on the chest.

Yeah, no. It's just a little too much pressure on the chest.

But when you thrust,

I want you to imagine that your cock is going inside my vagina.

I want you to imagine that your cock is going inside my vagina.

Like... This?

Yes, exactly. Yes, yes!

Yes, exactly. Yes, yes!

You want to try doggy? Let's try it. OK!

Then you get between my legs. Yep.

Then you get between my legs. Yep.

And you pull me up.

Exactly!

You can kind of be all the way up.

Yes. Yes. Yes.

Yes. Yes. Yes.

Good. Yeah. Like that.

Good. Yeah. Like that.

Oh...

Thank you very much. I feel light-headed.

Thank you very much. I feel light-headed.

Oh, yes. I bet!

You are an absolute miracle worker.

I ain't leaving. And thank you very much.

I ain't leaving. And thank you very much.

I'm just going to be rooting you on in every moment.

I'm just going to be rooting you on in every moment.

Yeah. I'm proud of you.

Oh, Bertie, boy! Hiya. Hello. How was it?

Oh, Bertie, boy! Hiya. Hello. How was it?

Good. Celeste taught me how certain sexual positions work.

Good. Celeste taught me how certain sexual positions work.

Good. Celeste taught me how certain sexual positions work.

Wow. Ooh! So, uh... Yeah.

Wow. Ooh! So, uh... Yeah.

I feel very happy at the moment.

I feel very happy at the moment.

It's amazing what a what a bit of, um,

It's amazing what a what a bit of, um,

rolling round on the floor

doing different sexual positions can do to one's mentality.

doing different sexual positions can do to one's mentality.

But I've made progress, and I'm proud of myself for that.

But I've made progress, and I'm proud of myself for that.

But I've made progress, and I'm proud of myself for that.

And I'm thankful for everything that Celeste has taught me.

And I'm thankful for everything that Celeste has taught me.

Oh, my God.

All that thrusting has made me hurt my bollocks.

All that thrusting has made me hurt my bollocks.

Just going to have to sleep on my back tonight.

Christ almighty.

Next time...

Look at my pussy.

I'm definitely a lesbian.

The dating phase panics Ellen.

The dating phase panics Ellen.

I just don't feel like I'm good enough.

MOANING

Alex ups his game.

Do you want to see how hard you are?

And things heat up...

Cheers. ..with island dates.

Cheers. ..with island dates.

I'm so nervous still. Why?

I think it's cos it's you.