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Hon, are you awake?
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Hon?
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Are you awake, babe?
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Yeah.
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I just can't fall asleep.
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Shocking.
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What's up?
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I'm just... I'm thinking about the movie
tonight.
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How she had to choose between her job
and moving to be with him and his kid.
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Not just her job, but her whole life,
her home, and moving to a new country.
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I think about myself in that position,
and I play it through in my head, and I
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just don't know what I would do.
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That would be a tough choice.
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Maybe it would be better for the kid.
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Maybe her making that change would be
the right thing to do.
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But I'm sure whatever they did, they
would make it work.
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Right, babe?
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Yeah, you're probably right.
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Is that it?
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Yeah.
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That's it.
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You know, babe, we don't have to do this
if you don't want to.
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What? No.
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I do.
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I really want to be a dad.
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I want us to be dads.
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Because nothing has gone into escrow
yet, so we can... No.
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I'm just thinking about the movie.
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Okay. That's it.
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I'm glad we got to do our date night
tonight. I'm excited for tomorrow.
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Me too.
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I have to get some sleep.
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Do you remember how they said they
hadn't gotten a single night together
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their twins were born?
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Yeah.
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Doesn't that scare you?
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I mean, it's already hard enough for us
to find one night a week to just watch a
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movie together.
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It's just gonna get so much harder.
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Well, I guess it might.
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I know it will. Of course it will.
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But we talked about this.
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We have plenty of people who are happy
to baby fit. We won't be doing this
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alone.
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That's true.
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What am I saying?
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Wow.
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We're really going to do this.
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Only if you really want to.
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You keep saying that.
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I do.
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But it's really big, you know? Yeah, I
know.
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I'm sorry, I... I just need to go
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to the bathroom.
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Are there things you feel like you
haven't done before we wanted to have
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Baby, we need to go to bed.
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I know.
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Do you? Because it feels like you don't
think we've got a big day tomorrow. Yes,
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I remember that we have the all day
tomorrow, Chris. I didn't forget that.
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can we go to bed, please?
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Can you answer my question, please? Do
you think this has anything to do with
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signing the contract with the
gestational carrier tomorrow? Why do you
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bringing up the all day?
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I'm not talking about the all day. I
asked you a question.
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Okay.
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What was it?
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Don't you feel like there were things
that you wanted to have done before we
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kids?
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Well, I wanted to have a bigger career
by now.
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But we talked about this, hon. If we
don't do this now, maybe we never will.
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know, I know, but... Or like, aren't
there all these things that we haven't
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talked about that we want to be able to
talk about before we don't have any time
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together anymore?
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Like what?
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I don't know!
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There are a lot of things.
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I've always liked the molding in this
room. If we ever renovate a house, I
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to use molding like that.
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For example.
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Okay, I like that.
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There are a lot of things like that.
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And more that I feel like I don't even
know about yet.
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We have our whole lives for that, hon.
So why do I feel like we need to do this
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now before everything changes? Okay,
calm down. You're doing this again.
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I am not.
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Doing anything, Chris, I am having a
feeling, okay?
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And... Okay, so what do you want to do?
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I want to... I... I... Okay, okay.
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Come here.
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Come here with me.
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Sorry.
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I'm sorry.
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I'm sorry.
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What are you scared upon?
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Are you scared of the kid?
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Yeah.
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No.
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No, not the kid. It's just...
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else.
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There are these times in your life that
are before and after these big, huge
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changes that make everything different.
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And I would like a graduation or when we
moved or this.
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There are only so many of them in a
person's life. And we're hurtling
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what might be one of the last ones for
us.
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Not hurtling, but very slow.
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Like the Titanic, and... I just feel
like we only have so much time, you
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We only have so much time before it
happens, and then it's all after.
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We will... You... I... There won't be
any other time before than right now,
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and there's not much before left.
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So... I want things to be different.
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I want things to change. I'm not exactly
happy with how things are now.
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And you going down this rabbit hole like
this, I don't know how to feel about
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that. Chris, I am not spiraling.
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I am having feelings, and I am trying to
communicate them to you, all right? I
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thought you might be feeling at least a
little bit the same way, but apparently
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I'm wrong. Basically keep saying you
don't want to do this over and over
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How am I supposed to take that? That is
not what I'm saying.
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I'm saying the exact opposite. I'm just
all so scared.
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Hun, my God, I'm sorry. I guess I
shouldn't have said anything.
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You're not happy with how things are
right now?
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Well, honestly, Hun, no, I'm not.
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I mean, we're doing fine, but I'm not
exactly doing what I want to be doing in
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my work.
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I feel like I've been pounding my head
against a wall for the last five years,
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never getting up to the next level.
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Part of me feels like this will at least
be moving forward in some way.
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You know we can't have a kid to make
ourselves feel better. Yes, I know.
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That's not why I'm doing it, but still.
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I thought you felt good about moving to
this new firm.
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I do.
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And they've always said there's upward
mobility, and I think they're sincere.
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But it's not here yet, and after...
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What happened last time, I'm not sure
that I can trust it.
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Baby, you're not going to get let go
again like that.
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Well, I wasn't good enough to survive
the downsides last time, so why would it
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be any different that time?
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You're very good.
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Your career will come for you. I know
it.
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So, I'm looking forward to the next big
change.
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Our big change. I don't want to have to
worry if you're not going to be able to
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do this because you're freaking out
every step of the way.
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It is completely normal for me to be a
little bit terrified, Chris.
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I'm sorry that I'm actually trying to
communicate it instead of pretending it
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isn't there.
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Okay.
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Okay.
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I was scared.
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Really scared when I went off to
college.
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I would get this anxiety in my stomach
any time I thought about moving in or
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being in the dorms or meeting so many
new people.
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I thought I would end up alone in this
new place and that would
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prove that I had always been someone who
was meant to end up alone.
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And that lasted from the end of senior
year all the way to the day I was
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supposed to move in.
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And mom found me sitting on my bed
stalling.
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I decided I wouldn't go.
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But she got me up.
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She drove me to the dorm. She helped me
move in one thing at a time.
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And while I was doing that, I met some
new people.
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And then that night we all hung out in
the lounge.
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talked about our majors and what to do
on campus and moving in.
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And all of a sudden, sitting in that
lounge with these new friends, I was
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off to the next part of my life.
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All the fears, everything that I was
afraid of just vanished.
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You're right, there was a before and an
after, but I think the after had just
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been waiting to happen all along.
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And I think, if you trust it, that will
happen here too.
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Is that the kind of thing you wanted to
talk about?
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Yeah.
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Actually, yeah.
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I think part of me doesn't want anything
to change.
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There's so much of me that's excited for
the change.
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I'm jealous of straight couples.
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Sometimes it feels like this would be
easier if it was a surprise.
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For you, it probably would be.
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You're going to be such a good dad.
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I hope I'm a good dad.
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You already are.
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What if I'm not?
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Well, then I'll divorce you and find a
better one.
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You could never survive without me.
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Maybe that's true.
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Then I guess we're stuck together.
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What do you think her name should be?
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Her?
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Oh, there, I guess. Oh.
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I'm sorry.
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I can't help but picture a girl.
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What do you think?
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Hayley.
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Or... Hayley.
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Me too.
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Like the leaves.
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