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I am Lola Riley, and this is my husband,
Devon Riley.
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Before we met, I did a lot of
experimenting, actually, with men and
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And we kind of got into the lifestyle
together as a couple out together.
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The more I got to understanding and
loving her is when it became more about
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being pleased and having pleasure and
being happy.
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And as long as she's having fun and
likes it, I love it.
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You are watching YC .com.
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How are
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you
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feeling? I'm great.
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I go home and lose my wife because I'm
pretty.
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what's good it's hollywood cast i'm back
on set today i like the studio today we
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got lola and devon i'll be all ready for
that beautiful
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How are you?
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How are you?
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Better now.
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Keep on. Take care of yourself. All
right. I think you're ready for that. I
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Are you ready? I'm confident.
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You have no idea.
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I'm ready.
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I'm ready to go.
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Just a little token of our appreciation.
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Aww. To be part of the Wacky family.
Right? Yay.
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All right. You ready to do this?
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Fuck yeah. Let's go.
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Louisville, Kentucky.
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And he's from Frankfort. I'm sorry. No,
you're fine.
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Sorry, I'm originally from Frankfort,
Kentucky, so right down the street from
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where she's from. So our first date
would have been I invited her, some
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friends of mine, down to Gatlinburg,
Tennessee for a weekend, just kind of
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getaway.
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At the time, I was actually separating
from my marriage and happened to meet
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this little fairy here who was just...
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I invited her to come down and hang out
with me and my friends, but it was
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honestly just a platonic kind of hangout
down in Gatlinburg, Tennessee. It's
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always a fun time.
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The problem was all my friends backed
out. The only person who did not back
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was this one, so we wound up having a
two -room, very large resort all weekend
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by ourselves.
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Two completely separate. Yeah, two
separate rooms connected, but it was
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ours for the whole weekend, and we
haven't been apart since.
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We stayed in the pull -out couch while
they all stayed in the big bed.
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I think the moment that I knew that this
one was for me was that first weekend
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we hung out together because if it
wasn't, I don't think we would have
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every weekend after that together.
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So much so that we drove down separate
but wound up riding back together, if
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that makes sense. We put her car on a
tow dolly and drug it with us back to
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Kentucky. Towed it back.
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I didn't want her to go yet. We did not
want to leave.
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Before we met, I did a lot of
experimenting, actually, with men and
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couples.
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And I know you have as well. What?
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No, me?
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You? Crazy. No, as far as, like,
experimenting before we were together, I
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I had got to experience and see a lot of
few different kind of lifestyle -type
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things. I'd been to a couple parties.
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You know, been into, like, I got invited
to a gangbang once that was... That was
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fun. It was in college. I wound up being
one of my professor's wives on
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accident. So at the time, I think
Craigslist was the way people
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with each other.
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And I think I responded to like a
gangbang ad. And I realized it was like
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down the street from where I was staying
in college.
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I show up to this nice house. This guy
opens the door, and he legit has a
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handheld camera in his hand.
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And then he has a charcuterie board in
the other hand. It was like, hey, you
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want a snack? Everybody else is in the
back. And I was like, okay, this is
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happening. Got back.
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Everybody kind of did a little
introduction and whatnot.
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And the husband starts telling, you
know, like who they are and whatnot.
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Next thing out of his mouth was, yeah,
I'm a professor right down the street.
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And he was like, this at a third. And my
eyes got big. He was like, why?
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I was like, I go there. He was like, I
said, trust me, if I'm here, I'm not
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telling on you. So that was that
experience.
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And luckily, I never had to have that
professor again.
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We discovered a lifestyle together in a
new way. So I had, like I said, I had
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been seeing a party or two, but didn't
really enjoy what I had, I guess, come
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across. So when I met my lovely wife
here, I think I asked her.
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I asked her what she was interested in,
what she had done before.
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Like, I tried to, like, ease it in to,
like, have you ever had a threesome,
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with a girl? I didn't want to come out
and be like, you trying to do a
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Or you want to do a orgy, you know, 12
men and you, what are you trying to do?
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So I broke it in easy, and once I saw
how she responded to that simple
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I let her take it from there and explain
what she was into. So from that, I just
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kind of worked on what she wanted or
wanted to try.
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It was the easiest way instead of me
trying to say, I want this.
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And I let her do it. And five years
later, you're still in it? I figured
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cracked the code, fella. It's never up
to you.
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What they say is gold.
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The things that he brought up to me to
basically get us
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into the lifestyle was, of course, he
started with the girl on girl.
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Have you ever done that? Yes.
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Have you ever been with multiple guys?
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Yes. Have you ever been with a couple? I
have.
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So I was lifestyle before I was
lifestyle.
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She didn't know it. Before I knew it.
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But after we had met and talked about
those things, I wanted to try more. I
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did want to try gangbangs.
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I wasn't ready for that. I honestly did
not know that that was coming.
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But once I got used to it versus being
in relationships that... didn't have
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level of honesty it was it was
automatically like feelings i was like
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like no no what no and the more i got to
understanding and loving her is when it
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became more about her being pleased and
having pleasure and being happy and as
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long as she's having fun if she likes it
i love it after getting together our
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lifestyle group we came up with is
called inclusive um we after again after
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getting together we went to a party our
first party together um and we kind of
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got into the lifestyle together at the
Couple out the gate. So seeing a lot of
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the lifestyle, different events,
different parties, different functions,
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different gatherings, we kind of took
what we felt like was the best of all
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worlds and brought it back to where
we're from and to start throwing and
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our own events.
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Our plan was to grow a community of like
-minded people who had the same kind of
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outlook and, you know, kind of just
passion for life as we did.
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So when you have that many people around
you who feel and think like you do,
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nothing feels weird, nothing feels out
of place, nothing feels lost. So it's...
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easy for someone who may have been
hidden before or didn't really i guess
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felt like who they were was good enough
or be able to come out of a shell we
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built that shell around them people and
told them it's okay to be you and just
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watching people over a year or a couple
months time of visiting an event is
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insane they grow and learn different
things
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How do you feel about that? Like when
you first started seeing all of our
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friends together, like different, not to
mention everybody's different
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background, play styles and whatnot. So
it's as you are, come as you who you
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are, because a lot of different groups
and whatnot doesn't doesn't allow male
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male play or different kind of
homosexual type play.
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But whereas we were like, it doesn't
matter if it's not something that we
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or she likes.
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You know, you can do it over there. It's
not going to bother us. But.
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There's never a place where we feel like
we have an opinion about what you do,
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what you like, and that it should be
looked down upon. So we just move past
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Like he says, you like it, I love it.
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And not to mention, there's also the
thing with different races, different
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play, racial play.
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Race comes into a large effect of
different groups, believe it or not. So
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even just so much as playing, you know,
with black and white or whatever it is.
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It may necessarily be this group.
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just collectively doesn't necessarily
cross over to different races.
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And that can feel kind of stingy
sometimes, but at the same time I was
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don't ever want no one to feel like that
when they're with us.
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Being an interracial couple, not just in
the regular life and regular world, but
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then crossing over and going to a world
that feels a lot of hush -hush and a lot
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of different kind of rules that they
play with.
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I think I've come to the point where
I've learned to really just ignore if
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not for me, and if it is, then play into
it. But I know she gets bothered
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sometimes when we see people talking.
Their first thing out of their mouth is,
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well, we don't play with BBC.
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Or I want to try it. That's not
something you try.
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No. As a person.
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I do get a little bothered by that
sometimes.
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Okay, a lot of bothering.
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But we don't do any of that in our
group.
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So our first official hot wife
experience, we had found
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somebody on 3Fun.
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It was one of the dating apps.
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And had him come over where we were at
the time.
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And we had him come over.
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I did not know what to expect or what to
do, honestly, with two at first.
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Kind of start with him and then go
through the other guy together.
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And it was great because I think that
was the first time that I got DVP'd.
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Yeah. Yeah.
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So that was fun. Two bones, one hole.
Love that.
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And to be fair, I think probably like
the first experience like that,
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together as a new couple, it's kind of
awkward, kind of weird. It's like you
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don't know how much fun you're allowed
to like really have and how much you're
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actually allowed to enjoy with your
partner watching.
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Thinking that he actually likes it. Are
they upset?
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Are they not happy that you're having a
lot of fun or what?
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We've seen that too where couples were
doing that and the husband or wife got
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mad because they had too much fun
while...
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playing with someone else and being a
couple you should together want you know
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both of you all to be happy and both of
you all to be satisfied and and we try
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to stay away from the well you had fun
so it's my turn now that was never that
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was never one of our things that you
know played into a factor of how we
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or what we played but mine more so was
did you have fun yet did you come here
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like that i love freaking love this and
she makes a noise when she comes That,
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I'm sorry, I know it's wild, but listen,
she makes a noise when she comes in.
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Everybody knows. Like, it doesn't matter
what room she's in, the moment she
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comes, it is, whoops, Lola's coming.
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It's automatic. So I know she's always
having a good time with that.
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Okay, cheeks.
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Why are you not in uniform?
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When jealousy comes up, I tend to think
of it in the very back of my head.
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Like, sometimes there's a little...
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bit of jealousy there but then I think
why why am I jealous I have somebody who
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is with me who lets me be me I let him
be him we're just better
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together and the jealousy just kind of
goes away the love that I have for him
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shows that there's no reason to be
jealous the way we've been for the past
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years I don't see that again I don't
need to be jealous i'm not doing it
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again this is it this is my death buddy
like this is over but i think in terms
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of like for me if jealousy or kind of
like things like that would come up it's
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more so of is it me that i'm projecting
some kind of like energy out on what's
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happening or you know just trying to
assume the worst or don't want the worst
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happen it just comes from reassurance
Before, after, during, let your partner
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know, I'm here because I love you. I
love you. I'm not worried about this or
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that or the third. Are you having fun?
Are you enjoying it?
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That's what I cared about. Now, anytime
the feelings did come up, it was a
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conversation afterwards that we had
between ourselves.
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And we knew no matter how this
conversation goes, we still love each
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the end of it, no matter what. So we
chose to do this action. Now, I can't be
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upset that the action happened and want
to make us think about it.
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It was supposed to have been okay.
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So anytime there was something that may
have happened during the situation, hey,
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babe, I didn't like that too much. I
don't know if I like that, you know, or
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however it comes out. We talk matter of
fact, blunt and just straight to the
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point. Like, no, I'm not going outside.
Leave me alone.
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I love you. I don't know.
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That kind of thing. So it's not
necessarily ever like really angry. I
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think there's anybody in our household
that could be upset longer than 15
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seconds. It's not possible.
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So a lot of talking, a lot of.
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Like, reassuring, a lot of, you know,
just confirmation of you're my person.
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That's all that matters.
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So one thing I love about him is he is
very open -hearted and kind and caring.
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He will help anyone off the street. He
will help when disasters happen,
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like the flood that we had in Frankfort,
Kentucky.
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It was really bad, and he...
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Took his time to go down there, drive
back and forth from where we live to
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Frankfurt multiple times and help bring
clothes, bring food, whatever the case
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was. He always is trying to help other
people and better other people.
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What I love most about Lola is the fact
that she discovers herself every day.
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She wakes up and there's a new version
of herself that she may have not known
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yet. But I can see it because I get to
watch her change every day. From the
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moment I met her until now, this is not
the same person that I met when we met
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on Tinder.
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It was a whole different atmosphere, a
whole different personality, attitude.
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The way she carried herself, the way she
walked, talked, and the way she cared
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about others has completely changed
because someone told her it was okay to
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herself first.
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So the moment she loved herself, you
knew you could see it on her physically.
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It's just that.
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It's a lot to be able to find somebody
that every day can be easy, and it
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doesn't ever feel like work, even though
no matter how many times in our lives
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we've been told, it's a lot of work,
it's hard work, it's this, and I'm like,
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I'm waiting for the honeymoon phase to
end. It has not, and it's been five
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years, and I don't think that it'll ever
go away.
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I'd probably say hot wifing has helped
our relationship in terms of
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communication, because it takes so much
communication and trust.
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Especially with us, at the beginning, we
started out doing it separately.
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You know, where she would go off and
play and then come back and tell me
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it. But that part of the time is when
communication wasn't super great. So it
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would come home, how was it? Fine. It
was good.
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All right, yeah, that's not a lot for me
to go off of here, ma 'am. Okay, I'm
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trying to, you know, rub one out here.
That's not any good fodder. I mean, you
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know, what happened? Did he lick your
toe? Did he push you over?
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F you? What did he say? You know, those
kind of things. It got better.
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Yeah. But it's about being together.
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It's about us.
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doing the experience together so hot
wifing is has made our relationship
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stronger because of that i was not a
people person until i got in the
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and it was rough a couple months even he
was not a people first but i am who i
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am now because of him no because of you
you decided to change it i just told you
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it was okay you said it was okay for me
to be me
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The lifestyle brings out personal traits
of you that you didn't know you had,
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hopefully. Some people can't.
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People reading.
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Understanding people's body language,
things that they don't say, is probably
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the most important part, I believe, in
the lifestyle. Because you can tell me
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what you want to say, but that doesn't
mean that you're believing it or doing
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it. Now, if you're saying, yes, I would
love to come in here with you, but your
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feet are trying to move this way while
your body's going forward.
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There's just, you know, small things
like that. It matters a lot.
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And being able to read body language
also helps our relationship a lot, too.
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Because I can tell when it's his fist,
mad, happy, glad. I don't know.
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I kind of like throw a pebble in the
room, test the waters first, see how far
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ripples out.
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Throw me a cookie.
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There is and there are a lot of
different, like, you know, cookie
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Are y 'all swingers? Are y 'all
kinksters? Are y 'all, you know,
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love. I was like, oh, okay. There's a
lot of terms. Let's call it lifestyle.
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And the lifestyle gives it that umbrella
term.
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If I had to describe it to somebody so
they could understand if they didn't
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us at all, I would say we're swingers
that are just swingers.
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We don't poke everything that walks by.
That's what a lot of people's
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misconception is. Like, oh, you're
swingers. I don't want to have sex with
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I promise.
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We didn't want to play with you. And
then it's for us to play more into
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the personalities, attitudes, everything
else. So it's not just first meet and
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greet and dump and pump.
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Get to know people sometimes and then
kind of go from there. The best pot
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-waving experience I had was the
pregnancy gangbang.
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So again, the pregnancy gangbang was
four guys, myself, my pregnant self.
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Was that your favorite one? We're going
to have to because...
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First of all, I would say that we're
more so like fag and vixen for the most
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part, unless she wants me to join in
every whatever.
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Towards the beginning, when we were
still learning ourselves and how
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worked, I had to quickly realize that I
did have to step further back from the
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hot wife situation just because the
other men would have problems performing
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once I was involved.
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Then I started thinking it was something
about me, and then I realized what was
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actually happening. So I actually, I'll
leave the room and I'll let whoever the
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other person is get, I guess, warmed up
and acclimated before I kind of creep in
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and, you know, sit in the corner like,
yeah, you cool, babe. I like that.
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Yeah, what you doing? You know, that
kind of thing. But probably the best one
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that happened was the one she was
talking about because we all were
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was hot, heavy, and for the most part, I
got to sit there and watch that too.
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before we got together, I was previously
married. I started a Pornhub page with
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my ex -wife. Yeah.
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Shocking enough that she was even okay
that that allowed that to happen because
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you got to have, you know, signatures
and consent forms and all that stuff. So
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she signed all that just to not be okay
with it.
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But, like, still, like, allowed me to do
it and post it, but she was like, it
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can only be this, that, or the third.
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However, it's ours now, and we have over
five -something million. Oh, no,
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there's, well, yeah, there's five
million views on there now, but.
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We go to Glory Holes, so we do a lot of
content there.
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So even before the hot wife experience,
which was in the very beginning of our
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relationship, he took me to an adult
theater, an adult bookstore, where they
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have toys and they have books, videos.
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Don't make it sound like a library.
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I know it sounds like a library. But a
secret door.
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There's a couple secret doors. You go
behind those doors and there are rooms.
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We're at the booth.
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set up to where there's a chair in
there, there's something you can watch,
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different horns you can watch, and
there's a hole in the wall.
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See a dick?
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You suck it.
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I loved going to the glory hole.
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We used to have people meet us there so
I could have somebody on the other side.
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That's fun.
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It's really fun for me.
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It's my favorite. I get to sit in the
back of the corner where it's already
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dark. I'm good.
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It's kind of an open play with the whole
being on the wall, but then it's still
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privacy because we're in a small booth
that locks.
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So she can stop if she's too hot and
wants to just play with me. We can just
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that at the same time.
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So it kind of adds a couple of different
variables for our dynamic of whatever
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we choose to do while in that room with
our own privacy.
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And then, not to mention, there's porn
playing on the TV, too.
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Oh, fuck.
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I think it's really important to see
real couples like us to see what the
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lifestyle can offer you. I'm not going
to say that's what the lifestyle is, but
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it can definitely offer you that in your
relationship if you take the time to
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communicate and just be okay with each
other, whatever that case is,
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boundaries, things like that.
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We feel like it's important for people
to see couples like us in this
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Just to give a variety.
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Not so much as in a racial couple, but a
couple who's actually happy.
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A couple who is not constantly fighting.
A couple who, it's more than just
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whatever it is that y 'all are there
for.
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It just has to mean more.
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And I feel like it does when people get
to see us.
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along with us meeting us meeting our
friends us meeting other people who are
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around the lifestyle who's got 10 20
years in it the only thing that we asked
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was like what makes it work like you
know you said 20 years great what did it
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one really ever gave us real answers
aside from you know it's a lot of hard
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you just got to stick it out i'm not
sticking shit out if i'm not happy
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dumb but that was never a thing with
meeting lola it was we met and instantly
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We just never separated. I mean, not a
joke. We literally have been together.
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It's been ever since then.
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Nonstop. Of course, there's a couple
days here and there, but we have nonstop
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been together.
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But just to be able to see somebody you
love every day.
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Like I said, we were asking our other
friends we met what they felt like was
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most important to them, and they all
used love.
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They all said love.
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Um, we love love.
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And I was like, I've never heard anybody
explain it like that or say it, but I
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was like, that's exactly what we feel
and how we feel. So making our group and
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anybody that we had around us, if your
relationship wasn't the same, I mean,
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saying the same as ours, but you all
have to love each other for us to feel
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comfortable around you and want to be
around you. And when we get to see our
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friends who are happy, when we see our
friends who pop back up and they're
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Oh my God, we tried this for the first
time because you all were this at a
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third. And we was like, great that we
love it.
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We've seen more couples stay together or
get together and go further in their
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relationship since we've been together
than we've seen split up. And I say that
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like that because outside the lifestyle,
a lot of couples get together and break
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up instantly over whatever is crazy.
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A little jealousy thing.
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Blaming on getting into hot wiping or
anything of the sort. Talk.
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is the only.
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thing I will even offer anybody's
advice.
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Make sure you have boundaries and rules
and things set up because you go into
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it, some people are like, oh, we don't
have any rules at all. We don't have any
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boundaries. That's a bad idea.
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Yeah, we're okay.
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What I hope to get out of this
experience today, for one, is honestly
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to know how to do different poses,
different positions on camera, the
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angles of the camera or where they are.
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I wanted to feel like, honestly, get all
done up and just feel
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really good and really self -confident
about myself.
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And it really has helped me.
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And I feel like I just look like a
million bucks right now.
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She does.
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I don't say that often.
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Ever, actually. She's never said it,
ever. Let's be honest.
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And you look fucking gorgeous. And not
to mention, typically she's not in
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colorful items. So it's awesome to get
to see her seeing herself as we all
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else see her.
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You look so hot.
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Thank you.
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You look sexy on the couch.
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You look sexy anywhere you go, girl.
Shit.
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Well, we have Hollywood Cash.
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Excited to meet you. Are you ready to
share your wifey experience with the
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world? I absolutely am.
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Let's get started.
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Appreciate
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you.
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And be nice, too, okay? She fights back.
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Okay.
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I'm going to get you out of this church.
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Oh.
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Thank you.
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Tears of joy going.
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Mmm.
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Thank you.
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Mmm.
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Mm -hmm.
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I think my most favorite part, besides
the sex, was
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how everybody has been so nice.
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And they have done so much for me.
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Hair done, makeup done.
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I got all dolled up and dressed.
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And it made me feel so great about
myself. And I loved every minute of
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here. And I would love to be back.
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That was so hot.
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How's everyone feeling?
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I feel great.
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Amazing.
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That was fun. I'm happy.
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I wouldn't even hit it, but I'm happy.
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I'm good.
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It was better than I expected.
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Amazing. I don't know what to expect,
but I'm happy with what I got, for sure.
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I actually really did like that
Hollywood walk -a -face.
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Yeah, that was fun.
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My favorite part was probably I love it.
And the fact that, you know, like, it
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was able to relax after a minute, and
you really got comfortable. You can kind
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of see when you got.
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It's more relaxed. It was like, okay,
nobody here is going to bite me. Yeah,
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that was definitely my favorite part.
The moment when you completely let me
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I was like, oh, yeah.
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Are you all serious? No. Yeah.
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If you want a wifey experience of your
own, visit wifey .com forward slash
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casting.
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