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NARRATOR: Previously...
(CHILLING ORGAN RIFF PLAYS)
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JOHN: Well, here we are,
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one of my favourite moments
of the whole experiment.
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I'm feeling sexy and I'm ready!
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..the participants returned for
the traditional reunion dinner party
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I'm back, baby.
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(CHEERING)
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Still together, going strong!
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The experiment's biggest love story
continued to shine.
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Yeah, I got down on one knee.
(ALL EXCLAIM)
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ALESSANDRA: I love this!
MEL: How wonderful!
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JOHN: Happy days.
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No!
Oh, no!
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Rachel and Steven's
confusing break-up...
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I don't want to be like this.
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I don't want it
to be like this either.
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This is why I'm so hurt.
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I'm not getting them broken up.
No.
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I'm getting them trying to
resolve something
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and come back together here.
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(SHOUTS) Who do you think you are!
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Ink hasn't dried
on our divorce papers
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and you're messaging
another bride.
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Danny denied allegations that
he expressed interest in Stephanie.
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She messaged me first.
She reached out to me.
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JOHN: He's not validating
any of what she's saying.
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I just don't know how I've fallen in
love with a man that I don't know.
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And when Bec asked him for empathy
for leaving her at final vows...
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What you did was cruel!
No, Bec...
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I believed you when you told me
you were falling in love with me.
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..her plea fell on deaf ears.
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Tonight...
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after three life-changing months,
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Australia's biggest social experimen
comes to a close.
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Steven, can you make her a priority?
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But not before the experts
seek clarity on the burning issues
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one final time.
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I can't...
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That is not acceptable.
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A woman you're not even showing
the respect to...
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I've explained it...
Stop speaking over her!
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
Tyson, this is unacceptable!
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Respect.
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Continual bad behaviour
will be addressed once and for all.
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I'm sincerely sorry.
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This is just painful to listen to.
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MEL: I mean, even in that, Bec,
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we're hearing a lot of excuses
and qualifications.
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And never-before-seen footage
is played...
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(GASPING)
..leaving the room speechless.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
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(EVOCATIVE MUSIC PLAYS)
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JOHN: Greetings.
ALESSANDRA: Hello.
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JOHN: Come on in.
MEL: Welcome back, everyone.
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TYSON: Ladies, gentlemen,
how are we? Looking good.
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Welcome.
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Great to see you all.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
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STELLA: This is exciting.
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Welcome back, everybody,
to the final reunion ceremony.
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Now, it has been some time
since we've seen you all,
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so tonight is an opportunity
for all of you to get back together
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so that we can see
exactly where you're at
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and also explore how you've felt
throughout this experiment.
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Now, last night,
at the reunion dinner party,
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certainly there were some people
who reconnected
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in a fairly civil way.
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Unfortunately, there were others
that had plenty to say
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they were carrying around a good dea
of hurt, anger and raw emotion.
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That also was evident last night
at the dinner party.
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So, before we begin,
it's worthwhile acknowledging
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that there are some people
from the dinner party last night
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that didn't come back tonight
for the reunion.
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Juliette...
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and Danny.
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I should also say
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that it speaks volumes
that Danny is not here tonight
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to be held to account.
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And for all of you
that have shown up tonight,
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it will be an opportunity
and one final time
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to get some questions answered,
share what you want to share
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and if there are things
that you're sitting on,
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now is the time to get it all out.
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So, now we're gonna take it back
to where it all started.
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12 weeks ago,
each and every one of you
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made the decision
to marry a complete stranger.
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Let's take you back now
to that very moment.
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Yes!
Let's go!
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(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
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(EVOCATIVE MUSIC PLAYS)
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STELLA: I do want to find
a soulmate.
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I'm not accepting anything less.
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STEPHANIE: Everyone always tells me
that love is the best feeling
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and to fall in love in this
experiment would mean everything.
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RACHEL: I've not experienced, like,
a man making me feel beautiful.
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(RIP!)
BEC: Oh! Oh!
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(MUSIC WARPS)
Oh, my god. What the (BLEEP)!
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(LAUGHTER AND APPLAUSE)
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I know!
Cheers!
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(WOMEN LAUGH)
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(KNOCK AT DOOR)
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Hey, calm down.
Babe, you need to stop.
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You're right.
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Shut the (BLEEP) up, will you?
No...
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Gia.
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(LAUGHTER)
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(WOMAN SPEAKS INDISTINCTLY)
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Cheers to the same penis forever!
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WOMEN: Whoo!
(LAUGHTER)
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I think it's a bit too high maybe.
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The guy at the bus stop says
I look dashing with it high.
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(LAUGHTER)
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TYSON: Well, I think I'm
pretty perfect in a relationship.
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I'm very confident within myself
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and I know what I bring
to this relationship,
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so I don't think
that'll be an issue.
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(LAUGHTER)
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Oh, my god!
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(RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS)
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(ELEVATOR BELL DINGS)
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Do you put the ring on this finger?
Yes.
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That's your marriage finger. Yes.
I don't bloody know.
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I've never been married!
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(LAUGHTER)
ALISSA: Steve!
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(GASPS)
No.
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Oh, no.
You never told me to bring them.
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No, you didn't.
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Get out.
No.
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(LAUGHTER)
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No.
WOMAN: Are they in the bag?
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(LAUGHTER)
No, they're not. They're not.
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(LAUGHTER)
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(RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS)
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ALISSA: I am taking the biggest risk
I've ever taken.
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RACHEL: This is my time.
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I'm looking for someone
who's gonna make me feel good.
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BROOK: I want to be adored. I want
to be loved like I love someone.
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(RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS)
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(GASPS)
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Lovely to meet you.
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(LAUGHTER)
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(RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS)
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(STELLA LAUGHS)
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MEL: Where's my husband?
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Hello!
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Hi.
Hello.
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How you doing?
Good.
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Hello.
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Hey.
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(MUSIC WARPS)
LUKE: Sorry I'm late, everyone.
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Sorry I'm late.
MEL: Where were you?
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Uh, I forgot the rings.
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OTHERS: Oh!
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When I was doing my vows,
he was chewing gum
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sort of with his mouth open.
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I could hear it.
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It's sort of, you know,
one thing after another.
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(LAUGHTER)
REBECCA: Mel!
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
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I don't think I can marry you.
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(LAUGHS)
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That's completely understandable.
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Not until you get on one knee
and propose to me first.
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(LAUGHTER)
WOMAN: Fair enough.
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JOEL: Yes.
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(LAUGHTER)
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DAVID: You got me good.
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Hello, stranger. Let's get married.
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"I'm looking for a connection that
makes me feel safe to slow down,
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"someone who can bring
a little calm to the chaos."
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"I hope you like the great outdoors,
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"because if you haven't guessed,
I'm a farmer."
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"I've explored and dated all kinds
of people of all kinds of shades."
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"I've waited, searched and prayed
for something real
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"and today I'm here to give it
my all."
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Here I stand before you,
baring my heart, soul
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"and sharing my vulnerability..."
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Sorry, I'm getting emotional
already.
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"I'll stand shoulder to shoulder
with you when storms hit."
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"My parents have ingrained in me
the resilience to stick around,
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"no matter what.
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"When things get tough,
I won't run."
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"My mother says I'm perfect
but I most certainly disagree."
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(LAUGHTER)
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"I've actually got many 'floors' -
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"carpet, tiles, wood,
you name it, baby."
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(LAUGHTER)
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The look. "Who's this guy?"
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GIA: Yeah, that was funny.
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(RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS)
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CELEBRANT: You may now
kiss the bride.
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(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
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OK, guys! Too much, too much!
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(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
(LAUGHTER)
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STELLA: I do believe in soulmates.
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There's a saying -
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'start with an end in mind'.
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And my dream outcome would be
that we are the love story,
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because I'm not accepting
anything less.
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(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
JOEL: That's so good!
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GRAYSON: How good!
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I love us.
DAVID: Wow.
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MEL: How surreal to watch yourselves
getting married.
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Did that feel incredible?
PARTICIPANTS: Yeah.
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I could feel the energy in the room
as we were watching it.
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There was so much emotion there.
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Luke...
Yes. (CLEARS THROAT)
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..if only you'd remembered the rings
mate.
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(LAUGHTER)
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And what about for you, Mel, when
you reflect back on that moment?
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What feelings come up for you?
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To be honest with you,
watching it back, I don't have...
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I don't watch it and go...
I don't remember the sadness.
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Like, probably just watching it
and thinking "That's funny."
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Like, that was our experience.
It is what it is. Like...
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RACHEL: It's funny,
'cause we've heard that story.
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Like, we heard the story.
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But actually, like, seeing it,
I'm sorry, it's way more comical,
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like, actually seeing it.
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Like, your face,
I'm sorry, priceless.
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Chris, congratulations
on the birth of your daughter.
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Thank you. Thank you so much.
(APPLAUSE)
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Thank you.
So wonderful.
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Thank you so much. Thank you.
How's fatherhood been so far?
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I'm running on about
four hours sleep a night.
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I can imagine. (LAUGHS)
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But when I saw her,
my whole world completely...
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Oh, god. I'm gonna get emotional.
Oh...
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STELLA: Oh, baby.
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Aw!
Sorry.
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Um... Oh, my god.
I do this every time!
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It's OK.
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My whole world changed
in that moment
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when I saw her at the hospital.
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Nothing else mattered anymore
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and, yeah, this is what I've wanted
for so long.
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Sorry, guys. (LAUGHS)
It's OK.
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Yeah, I just want to be the best
version of myself that I can.
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I want to step up
and be a great father for her
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and also for hopefully
the next partner that comes along
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down the track.
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So my whole world
has completely changed
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but in the most amazing,
amazing way.
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So I'm happy, yeah.
GIA: Yay!
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(APPLAUSE)
Thanks. Thanks, guys.
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Well, let's get our first couple
up on the couch.
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(TENSE MUSIC PLAYS)
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Rachel and Steven.
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Oh, shit.
Yeah, of course. (LAUGHS)
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(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
Oh...
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Oh...
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(STRAINS)
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(PLAYFULLY) How you going?
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Guys, I...I have to ask,
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'cause we're very confused.
256
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What happened?
257
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Where are you at?
258
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(EXHALES)
259
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Want me to speak?
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You're a better speaker than I am.
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Well, I don't know right now.
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Articulate very well.
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Life.
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When Steven came to Melbourne,
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Steven's opening kind of line was...
267
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"I don't think I can be the man
that you need,
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"that can meet your needs."
269
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And it was like... It was just
elephant in the room.
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And what was the elephant?
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Prioritising our relationship.
272
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OK, so at this point,
you were feeling
273
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that you were prioritising
the relationship first...
274
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Yeah.
..and Steven wasn't.
275
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Yeah. Yeah.
276
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So, Steven, is that how you saw
the situation?
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Yeah, pretty much. Yeah.
278
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I mean, I don't like to admit it,
279
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but, yeah, I definitely didn't put
the relationship first.
280
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So, why is that?
281
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I just felt like I had to try
and get my life a bit back in order.
282
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Can I rebuttal that
for just one second,
283
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'cause we spoke about this
and you told me "By next winter."
284
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Yes.
285
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That's a long time
for me to not be a priority
286
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and to work on a relationship
long distance, babe.
287
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It's a long time.
It is a long time, but I...
288
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So, did you ask Rachel to wait
until winter to be a priority?
289
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His work is busy, like,
basically throughout the year
290
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and winter's his free time,
291
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so that's when he can give
the relationship more.
292
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That's not how relationships work.
It's not seasonal.
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294
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Well, it's the distance.
That's the problem.
295
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Hence why I said I don't think
I can be the man that she needs
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in this relationship.
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I've been single for so long.
298
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I've only had to think about Stevo
299
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and I probably still am somewhat
a little bit thinking about Stevo
300
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a bit.
301
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I'm trying to get better at it.
302
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I guess just hearing you say
those things that you've learnt,
303
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it makes it hard to understand,
I guess,
304
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the decision
that you've arrived at...
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in terms of whether or not
Rachel fits in your life.
306
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You've arrived at this decision
to not have Rachel in your life.
307
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Just... It doesn't quite make sense.
308
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Look, I don't know
if it's the right decision.
309
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I mean, we don't want...
we don't want it to be this way.
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It's not like we had a big row
and it was just...
311
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a decision
312
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and we're still jumbled up
at the moment.
313
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We don't really want it to end.
314
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I'm still believing sometimes, is it
the right decision and still...
315
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Do you want to be with Rachel?
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I want to be with Rachel, but...
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Rachel...
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..I go back to that thing, can I be
the man that can meet her needs?
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Rachel, do you want to be
with Steven?
320
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I want to be with Steven.
321
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But I want to be a priority
to Steven.
322
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I want our relationship
to be the priority.
323
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Steven, can you make her a priority?
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(EXHALES)
326
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I can't... It's...
327
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I want to say yes,
but I don't want to bullshit either.
328
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So you do want to be with Rachel
or you don't?
329
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I do want to be with Rachel.
330
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JOHN: Alright.
331
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332
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I've listened to this tonight...
333
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and you need some home truths,
Stevo.
334
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You need to understand
335
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what you're saying at the moment
is not cutting it.
336
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I think it's a cop-out.
And here's why.
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You say you want this.
338
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I think you don't.
339
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I think you're sitting there
trying to talk around the fact
340
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that you don't want to change
your life...
341
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you want to keep everything the same
342
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but in the same breath, you're
trying to wiggle your way out of it.
343
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344
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You've broken up with her
but you're also saying
345
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"I'm not sure if it's the right
decision and I want her."
346
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You need to own it.
347
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You're saying
"I'm not sure if I want this.
348
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"This might be the wrong decision.
349
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"I do want this.
350
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"I think this is the one for me,
351
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"but I'm not prepared to make
any sacrifices."
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I'm not having that.
353
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Don't sugarcoat it.
You're confusing her.
354
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You're telling her all the things
that will give her hope
355
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and then doing nothing about it.
356
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357
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Now...I've given you
some very direct feedback.
358
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Mm-hm.
359
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The question I want you to answer is
do you want to be with Rachel?
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361
00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:04,080
Well...
362
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A big part of me does, yes.
363
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364
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That is not acceptable.
365
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It is a straightforward question.
366
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Does the whole part of you
want to be with Rachel?
367
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(EXHALES)
368
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
369
00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:43,400
(EXHALES)
370
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I'm scared to answer.
I'm scared to answer this.
371
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Yes or no?
372
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Just own it. Just own it.
373
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TYSON: Come on, Stevo. Be honest.
374
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FILIP: Just be honest, man.
375
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Set her free if it's a no.
376
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Come on. She deserves that.
377
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And if it's a yes,
say it with pride.
378
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And quickly.
379
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RACHEL: It's too much. (CRIES)
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This is unfair.
This is really unfair now.
381
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382
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Own it!
383
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I'm gonna say it loud and clear,
right?
384
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I'm just gonna...
385
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put a bullet in it and just say no.
386
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387
00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:36,040
(RACHEL CRIES)
388
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
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JOHN: Do you want to be with Rachel?
391
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
392
00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:02,160
I'm gonna say it loud and clear,
right?
393
00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:07,440
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
394
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I'm just gonna...
395
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put a bullet in it and just say no.
396
00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:16,280
(RACHEL CRIES)
397
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(SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS)
398
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:22,480
RACHEL: Oh, shit.
399
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(SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS)
400
00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:28,080
(CRIES)
401
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What does that do to you,
402
00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:41,200
hearing that, Rachel,
and what does it give you?
403
00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:45,480
Uh, what does it do to me?
404
00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:50,160
It reaffirms for me
that I'm not worth it.
405
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(TEARFULLY) I've just spent
three months with him.
406
00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:58,040
I'm in love with him.
And I'm not worth it.
407
00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:01,840
(SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS)
408
00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:03,440
ALISSA: Yes, you are, babe.
409
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For me, it's yes
with my whole chest.
410
00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:10,200
The reason why we're not together
411
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was because I can't be a priority
for him.
412
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Him sitting here and being, like,
413
00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:17,640
"No, I'm just gonna put a bullet
in it,"
414
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,640
no, why did you come?
415
00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:22,720
Why are we here?
416
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:25,760
(SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS)
417
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:30,560
I predicted it. I saw it coming.
418
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:35,920
I'm a silly girl in love.
419
00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:39,800
(CRIES) Just a silly girl.
420
00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:48,480
JOHN: Let me be very clear
about one thing.
421
00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:50,440
You are absolutely worth it.
422
00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:52,400
There is nothing silly about you.
423
00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:56,840
You are a woman
who fell in love with a man
424
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who wasn't ready for a relationship.
425
00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:03,240
And Steven, I'm not trying to make
you feel like you're a bad guy,
426
00:23:03,360 --> 00:23:06,360
but what I'm doing here...
Well, I feel like it.
427
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:10,440
(SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS)
428
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:12,880
..but what I'm doing here...
429
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:18,240
is pointing out the way in which
you are behaving towards her.
430
00:23:18,360 --> 00:23:21,280
You don't feel the same way
about Rachel.
431
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:24,320
That's OK.
That happens in relationships.
432
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:30,040
But you're at a point where you can
front up, be honest
433
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:31,960
and say
"I'm not into this and it's over.
434
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:33,360
"I don't want this."
435
00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:34,920
And you got there.
436
00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:37,520
MEL: Steve, I think for you
437
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:40,640
it's now about going back into
your life
438
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:43,600
and having
a really strong reflection
439
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:46,040
on this experience with Rachel
440
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:47,560
but also just for yourself
441
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:52,200
in terms of what is it
that you want in your life,
442
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:54,320
because I think John made it
really clear
443
00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:57,400
that if you're going to have
a relationship in your life,
444
00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:59,560
you're gonna need to compromise.
445
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,200
JOHN: Now, is there anything
you'd like to say to Rachel
446
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:07,000
before you leave?
447
00:24:07,120 --> 00:24:10,240
There's lots of things
I want to say.
448
00:24:10,360 --> 00:24:14,000
I mean, I came into the experiment
449
00:24:14,120 --> 00:24:16,440
with what I felt like
was a bit of a black heart.
450
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:19,160
I felt like I was a bit unlovable,
couldn't be loved
451
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:22,400
and I can definitely say now
452
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:26,120
that you changed that opinion -
you made me feel loved.
453
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:30,000
Yep.
454
00:24:30,120 --> 00:24:32,000
(CRIES)
455
00:24:32,120 --> 00:24:34,720
You are a special girl.
456
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:37,800
A special woman.
457
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,720
And I really do apologise
about the bullet...
458
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:44,360
"Put a bullet in it."
459
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:47,480
It's another thing
I need to work on.
460
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:48,920
I say dumb things
at the wrong time.
461
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,440
Constantly.
462
00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:53,040
Still working on it.
463
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:54,960
So I apologise for that.
464
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,800
But I am devastated.
465
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:02,320
JOHN: What about for you, Rachel?
466
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:07,560
We had some really great times.
You made me feel really special.
467
00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:12,720
And I'm devastated
this is where we're at.
468
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:14,360
(CRIES)
469
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,120
And I love you.
470
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:18,640
Yeah.
471
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:21,680
(SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS)
472
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:35,240
Rachel, seeing you take these risks
473
00:25:35,360 --> 00:25:38,320
and put yourself out there
with Stevo
474
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:41,560
and trusting the process
475
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:43,040
has been incredible.
476
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:51,120
Watching your confidence blossom
has been absolutely gorgeous.
477
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:54,120
Seeing the way you started
to speak up within the group
478
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,920
and own your voice
479
00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:59,040
has been really powerful.
480
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:05,880
And you are a gorgeous,
vivacious, amazing woman.
481
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:07,000
Thank you.
482
00:26:07,120 --> 00:26:10,640
(WARM MUSIC PLAYS)
483
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:12,160
So, thank you both.
484
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:15,680
We wish you all the best
in your future relationships.
485
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:16,920
JOHN: Well done.
486
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:18,240
WOMAN: Great job.
MAN: Well done.
487
00:26:18,360 --> 00:26:21,560
(APPLAUSE)
488
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:32,120
Alright, let's talk to
our next couple.
489
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:36,120
(TENSE MUSIC PLAYS)
490
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,160
Gia and Scott.
491
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:43,520
(APPLAUSE)
492
00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:45,080
SCOTT: How are youse?
493
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:46,640
MEL: Hello.
ALESSANDRA: Hello.
494
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:48,600
JOHN: Hello, you two.
Hiya.
495
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:49,600
Oh...
496
00:26:53,120 --> 00:26:56,560
It has been very much
a roller-coaster ride
497
00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:58,160
for the two of you.
498
00:26:58,280 --> 00:26:59,600
What happened?
499
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:03,920
Things really sort of spiralled
and disintegrated
500
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:06,960
in front of our very eyes.
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
501
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,040
We haven't had a chance
to talk to you about all of this.
502
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,760
So, Scott,
503
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:17,400
you walked off,
left the dinner party and ended it.
504
00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:19,800
What happened?
505
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,640
(SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS)
506
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:24,560
What led me to that point was...
507
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,720
I just felt like I was
a shell of a human
508
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:33,720
and I wasn't being myself anymore.
509
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,480
I feel like I was being lied to
towards the end of this experiment.
510
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:40,480
I feel like I had that much pressure
put on me.
511
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:43,360
What were you being lied to about?
512
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:48,000
Like, saying she was in Melbourne
holding her daughter
513
00:27:48,120 --> 00:27:50,480
when I found out she was out
drinking with Chris.
514
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:55,880
And I felt like I got to the point
where I gave up so much of my life.
515
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:57,680
I just gave everything to Gia
516
00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:00,480
and I felt like I couldn't trust her
anymore.
517
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:03,720
I would do every single thing
a man could possibly do.
518
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:07,760
I gave my whole entire energy,
effort, love, support...
519
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,040
Anything -
I gave everything I could
520
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:12,920
and I still was getting
spiralled at.
521
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,720
"You're never gonna get there,
you're not a man..."
522
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:17,400
I just felt like
I wasn't good enough.
523
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:18,960
No matter what I did,
it was never gonna please Gia.
524
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:20,400
Uh-huh.
525
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:22,360
And, like, Grass Is Greener -
like, telling this guy
526
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:25,320
"I finish in a couple of weeks.
You'll find me on MAFS."
527
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:30,680
Like... It's just...
I just don't know.
528
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:31,880
There's just so much shit.
529
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:36,640
I'm sorry,
but there's just too much.
530
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:39,200
OK. No, that gives us
an understanding.
531
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:43,640
Let's take a look
at what led to that decision.
532
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:50,320
SCOTT: Yeah,
so this whole experiment,
533
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,480
like, what's really made it
difficult for myself
534
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:56,000
is I've seen and watched Gia
involve herself in a lot of drama.
535
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:58,680
GIA: Shut up, babe! Like...
Are you OK?
536
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:00,560
I'm so OK, babe. Are you?
537
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:02,840
Take your hair extensions out
and chill.
538
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:06,200
So, let's pull up the receipts,
shall we?
539
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:07,920
I can't be (BLEEP)
with the drama.
540
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,480
They're all a bunch of fake people
left in this experiment.
541
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:13,840
(GUFFAWS)
542
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,560
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
You guys don't know everything!
543
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:18,600
Let me tell you, I would've thrown
that bitch in the ocean.
544
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:21,200
I don't want to be with someone
545
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,600
who's going to be negative
and cause drama.
546
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:27,080
Am I happy the screenshots got out?
Kind of.
547
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,360
(BLEEP) loser bitch.
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
548
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:31,720
This stuff doesn't make me fall.
549
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,240
I could ruin everything for her
right now.
550
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,120
SCOTT: It makes me concerned,
it makes me retract,
551
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,240
it makes me doubt, it makes me fear,
552
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:43,280
because if this continued to happen
over and over again,
553
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,080
how are you supposed to
fall in love with this?
554
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:49,120
There's been a lot of times
where things get tough.
555
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:50,240
Gia likes to walk out.
556
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:57,320
I don't want someone
just getting up,
557
00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:59,400
giving someone an ultimatum
and just walking out the door.
558
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:13,400
There's just been a history
of Gia leaving.
559
00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:14,640
Where is she?
560
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:18,360
No, she's not.
561
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:20,800
What do you mean?
562
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,360
She's threatened to leave me
several occasions.
563
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:40,520
I don't know how much longer I'm
going to be able to put up with it.
564
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:41,920
GIA: I can't believe you right now.
565
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:47,720
I'm going home!
I can't do this anymore!
566
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,640
You never cared about me, Scott.
You never cared about me.
567
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:52,080
Scott, are you joking?
568
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:54,760
(BLEEP) off. We're done.
569
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,520
SCOTT: Outside this,
if there's a tough argument
570
00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:58,640
in a tough environment,
571
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:00,920
are you gonna walk out
every single time?
572
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,920
It's definitely taken a toll on me.
573
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:07,200
(CRIES)
574
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,440
(SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS)
575
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,320
I just feel defeated.
I feel drained. I'm exhausted.
576
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:21,280
I just feel heartbroken.
577
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:23,680
There's only so much
someone can take.
578
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:28,840
What was so hard for me is we had
so many feelings for one another.
579
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,840
I was falling for her.
I was attracted to her.
580
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:33,560
I was emotionally... I was connected
to her in every way.
581
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:37,160
Hi!
582
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:40,400
I feel like myself and Gia,
we started off the strongest couple.
583
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:42,960
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
584
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:46,280
The chemistry, like,
the intimacy is crazy good.
585
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:50,360
Raowrr!
586
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:51,920
I'll tell you what to do
in the bedroom now.
587
00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:54,520
No, Scott and I are not vanilla
at all.
588
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:57,600
Scott and I are quite explorative
as a couple.
589
00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:59,600
Put my whole foot in your mouth.
What, like that?
590
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:00,840
(LAUGHS)
591
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:03,600
What do we call ourselves?
Kissy.
592
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,200
What do you call us?
What do you call us?
593
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,680
Power couple. That's the one.
Power couple.
594
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:09,960
Yeah.
595
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:13,880
Can't get rid of my smile right now.
I feel great. I feel alive.
596
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:15,400
What else could you ask for?
597
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:17,240
Everything was good.
598
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:21,960
But I can't trust the person
that I was falling in love with.
599
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:23,640
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
600
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:25,320
"Press play. The experts."
601
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:29,440
In the real world, if I went out,
yes, I would date you.
602
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:30,760
Yes.
603
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,600
I'm done in a week.
I'm literally done.
604
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:36,720
Yeah. Literally done in a week.
You can find me on MAFS somewhere.
605
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:37,800
I've been posted everywhere.
606
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:41,600
She literally just lied to my face.
607
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:45,280
That is disgusting!
608
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:46,920
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
609
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:49,720
She wanted to leave because she was
scared for me to see
610
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:52,040
what she actually just did
at the final test.
611
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:56,680
I'm torn apart.
612
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:58,400
I just got (BLEEP).
613
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:01,760
I just got (BLEEP) for three months.
614
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:03,440
I just got (BLEEP).
615
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:06,480
(SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS)
616
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,480
(CRIES) She just used me.
617
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:14,640
She used my money, she used my life
and she (BLEEP) me.
618
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,600
It's my time to talk.
619
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:24,360
"I can't be with a woman
620
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,120
"who behind my back proclaims
to the first guy who looks her way
621
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:29,400
"'I only date men with money.'
622
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:32,000
"You told me you had flown home
to Melbourne in tears,
623
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:34,080
"inconsolable,
but I came to find out
624
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:36,360
"that you were still in Sydney
drinking at a bar.
625
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:40,320
"You're not the one for me."
626
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:42,560
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
Sorry, but I'm done.
627
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:47,240
RACHEL: Oh! Scott! Buddy, no!
628
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:48,640
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
(SCOTT CRIES)
629
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:50,840
DAVID: It's OK. It's OK.
630
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:58,800
I don't think Gia understands
what she's really done to me.
631
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:00,480
And I was falling for her.
632
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:06,320
But what she's done the last few
days has shown me who she is.
633
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:10,680
I'm just... I'm broken.
634
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:15,960
(RACHEL EXHALES)
635
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,360
ALISSA: Wow. That's (BLEEP).
636
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:22,840
(SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS)
637
00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:32,000
Gia, what are you thinking
when you look back at that?
638
00:34:41,240 --> 00:34:43,320
I just feel really embarrassed.
639
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:47,960
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
640
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,680
Like, my behaviour,
I didn't know that I was that bad.
641
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,680
(SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS)
642
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:01,040
(CRIES)
643
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:05,080
It's just showed me, like, I have
a lot of work to do on myself.
644
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:09,760
'Cause I don't want to
do that again.
645
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:11,680
So...
646
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:17,680
When you think about the relationshi
that slipped through your fingers...
647
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:19,600
Yeah.
..how does that make you feel...
648
00:35:19,720 --> 00:35:22,440
sitting there now on the couch?
649
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:25,280
Yeah, I mean...
650
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:29,560
it sucks.
651
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:32,200
Like, I was in love with him,
you know.
652
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:34,280
Are you still in love with him?
653
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,720
(SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS)
654
00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:49,240
I can't, like, just not, like...
just not be, you know.
655
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:58,720
You know, when you look at
that montage of your relationship
656
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:00,480
in the experiment...
657
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:04,440
are there any regrets that you have
about your behaviour?
658
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:05,760
Yeah.
659
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:07,520
What...
The whole thing.
660
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:08,880
What sort of regrets?
661
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:12,000
Just, like, everything. Everything.
662
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:13,680
Give me some examples.
663
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:15,280
What...
Like...
664
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:18,600
You watched it. You've lived it.
Yep. Um...
665
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:23,080
Like, pressuring him all the time
666
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:26,040
and making him feel as though
he had no voice
667
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:29,760
and, you know, some of the comments
that I made to him weren't kind
668
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:31,960
and walking away and self-sabotaging
669
00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:36,240
and, like, I should've just realised
that that's a pattern
670
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:37,680
and it's not OK
671
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:39,440
and that I probably should
just go home and work on that
672
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:41,880
'cause I just, like...
the things kept happening
673
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:43,200
and it's, like,
I wasn't addressing them.
674
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:44,840
I was, like,
"Yeah, I won't do it again,"
675
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:46,560
but, like, I don't know
how to not do it again.
676
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:48,560
Like, it's just my pattern from,
you know...
677
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:53,520
Yeah, like, all I can do
is just work on myself.
678
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:55,360
Like, I have a lot of regrets
679
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:58,080
but, you know, I'm glad that we had
this experiment together.
680
00:36:58,200 --> 00:36:59,960
I wouldn't have wanted to do it
with anyone else.
681
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:03,200
And, you know,
I moved to the Gold Coast,
682
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:06,680
so we did actually finally have
a conversation
683
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:12,280
and we decided to have a coffee
and we just decided we'd be friends.
684
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:14,800
I don't wish anything bad on Scott.
685
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:16,240
I think he's a great person
686
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:19,320
and, yeah, I'm sad
it didn't work out.
687
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:22,920
What are you thinking, Scott,
when you look back at that?
688
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:25,800
And what do you feel?
689
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:28,120
It's sad and it sucks
690
00:37:28,240 --> 00:37:32,560
because when we first met,
we were just locked in
691
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:35,680
and I've had such beautiful moments
with Gia.
692
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:38,840
I was definitely falling for her.
693
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:43,480
I do appreciate
so much fun we together.
694
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:44,920
Our families bonded.
695
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:46,680
You have a beautiful family,
your mother, your daughter.
696
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:48,640
I adore them all.
I don't regret anything.
697
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:53,840
I feel like we've brought up so much
more of ourselves, even yourself.
698
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:55,600
You said you've never met someone
like me
699
00:37:55,720 --> 00:37:56,920
and it's brought
another side of you out.
700
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:59,200
Yeah, like,
I'm really grateful for that.
701
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:01,000
You said you used to be a bad bitch
and not let anyone in,
702
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:02,080
but you've allowed someone in
703
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:05,440
and I think you've learnt
how to let your walls down.
704
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:09,680
All I can say is I wish
nothing but the best for you
705
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:11,760
and I really hope you find
true love,
706
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:14,000
'cause everyone deserves it.
Yeah, you too.
707
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:18,280
Gia, is there anything you'd like to
stay to Scott,
708
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:21,000
you know, before you part ways?
709
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:23,200
Um...
710
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:28,200
(CLEARS THROAT)
711
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:30,800
Just that I'm really sorry...
712
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:33,560
(BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS)
713
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:37,240
..for everything and, yeah...
714
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:40,720
(BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS)
715
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,840
(SOME APPLAUSE)
716
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:01,480
Even though you didn't make it
all the way to the end,
717
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:04,920
it doesn't mean this relationship
was a failure.
718
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:06,960
The fact
that you can sit here tonight
719
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:09,920
and really unpack
all of the relationship,
720
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:11,560
take some responsibility,
721
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:15,720
for us, that's real success, even
though you didn't get the fairytale.
722
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:20,040
Thank you for embracing it,
for giving it your all
723
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:21,760
and we wish you all the very best.
724
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:22,880
Thank you.
So, thank you.
725
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:24,280
Thanks, guys.
ALESSANDRA: Thank you, guys.
726
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:25,400
MEL: Thank you both.
Thank you.
727
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:26,680
(APPLAUSE)
Thanks.
728
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:32,360
NARRATOR: Still to come...
729
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:34,920
When you look at Stella,
what do you see?
730
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:36,320
My future.
731
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:39,800
..Stella and Filip's love story
captivates the group.
732
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:42,640
Can I go like this,
because I'm so happy!
733
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:44,920
And later...
734
00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:47,920
I was shaking under the table.
My arms were shaking.
735
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:49,480
..Alissa's emotional confession.
736
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:53,800
That was, like, one of
the hardest days of my life.
737
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:55,120
Oh, I couldn't get out of bed.
738
00:39:55,240 --> 00:39:57,320
But before that...
739
00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:59,480
A lot of women would like to
stay at home,
740
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:02,440
cook and clean
and do all that sort of stuff.
741
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:05,480
..Tyson's controversial views
stir up the group.
742
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:08,920
You didn't do any of those things...
'cause you were too lazy.
743
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:11,160
(WOMEN LAUGH)
744
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:12,360
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
745
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:14,040
Tyson...
You need to be quiet.
746
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:15,080
..this is unacceptable!
747
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:25,120
JOHN: Now, in every experiment,
748
00:40:25,240 --> 00:40:28,280
there is always an individual
who is very unique...
749
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:30,000
WOMAN: Joelly!
750
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:33,400
..who comes with their own beliefs..
751
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:35,800
ALISSA: Tyson.
STELLA: Oh, no. Tyson.
752
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:37,960
(LAUGHTER)
You're under the fire.
753
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:42,800
..and who, essentially,
tends to ruffle some feathers.
754
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:46,720
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
755
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:51,760
This year...it was Tyson.
756
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:53,560
(LAUGHTER)
757
00:40:55,800 --> 00:41:00,200
But equally, his partner,
who he was matched with,
758
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:05,960
also came in
with a very unique set of beliefs,
759
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:08,840
who was ambitious and driven
and independent
760
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:12,760
and they embarked on this experiment
together.
761
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:17,280
And now I'd like to call up
to the couch Tyson and Steph.
762
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:20,120
(APPLAUSE)
Alright.
763
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:24,840
(EXHALES)
764
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:26,200
MEL: Hello.
STEPHANIE: Hi.
765
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:29,040
How are we, guys?
Long time no see.
766
00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:30,640
MEL: It has been a long time.
767
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:34,440
JOHN: Now, you two had
a short-lived experience
768
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:35,640
on the experiment
769
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,440
but it certainly made
a lasting impression.
770
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:40,520
Mm-hm. (CLEARS THROAT)
771
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:45,240
Now, on paper,
you two were highly compatible,
772
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:50,720
but for whatever reason,
you just didn't quite gel.
773
00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:52,480
No.
774
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:55,360
And so, we're gonna take
a look back...
775
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:57,080
Oh, boy.
..at your time...
776
00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:59,520
(LAUGHTER)
JOEL: (LAUGHS) Yes!
777
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:00,640
..on this experiment
778
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:04,560
to really drill down
on some of your greatest hits.
779
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:07,480
(LAUGHS) Oh, boy.
This is gonna be great.
780
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:10,360
(CLEARS THROAT)
Oooh, hang in there.
781
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:13,840
(RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS)
782
00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:20,600
Hello. (GIGGLES)
783
00:42:20,720 --> 00:42:22,240
TYSON: Um...
(MUSIC WARPS)
784
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:26,760
When I saw her walk down the aisle,
I did get some woke vibes there.
785
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:28,160
(LAUGHTER)
786
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:30,000
How old are you?
32.
787
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:31,040
32?
Yeah.
788
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:31,920
Oh, OK.
I'm a cougar.
789
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,680
(LAUGHTER)
Yeah.
790
00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:36,360
I'm not really a huge fan of that.
791
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:39,120
I was hoping to essentially get
a wife maybe in her mid-20s.
792
00:42:39,240 --> 00:42:41,560
(SOME LAUGHTER)
793
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:43,120
Apparently we're having
five children.
794
00:42:43,240 --> 00:42:45,920
Do you want to be
a househusband?
795
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:47,080
Hell, no!
796
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:50,480
You may as well ask me if I want
to wear a skirt around the house.
797
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:52,120
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
798
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:54,960
BEC: What?!
799
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:57,600
She's giving me
those 'boss bitch' vibes.
800
00:42:57,720 --> 00:42:59,920
(LAUGHTER)
801
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:02,720
I was in somewhat of a relationship
802
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:04,800
and she told me how many guys
she slept with.
803
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:07,960
I think it was, like, 78
or something crazy.
804
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:09,480
I had to escort her out of the house
'cause...
805
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:11,680
What? Did you really?
I don't want to get HIV here.
806
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:14,520
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
807
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:17,280
ALISSA: Oh, my god.
808
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:18,760
It's not the Tallywackers.
809
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:21,320
WOMAN: Oh!
(LAUGHS)
810
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:24,800
Too many. Too many.
811
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:26,160
If a woman has a high body count,
812
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:27,560
chances are she's got
daddy issues too.
813
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:28,520
Wow.
814
00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:29,840
GIA: Oh, my gosh.
815
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:31,040
ALISSA: Wow.
816
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:35,040
You've just come across
in the relationship very masculine.
817
00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:37,880
That's just the problem.
(JOEL LAUGHS)
818
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:39,480
True.
819
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:40,840
I'm not looking for a challenge.
820
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:41,960
I'm looking for
a submissive woman...
821
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:43,480
You're looking for someone...
Submissive.
822
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:44,920
..who's gonna bow down
at your feet...
823
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:46,200
No.
..and treat you like a king.
824
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:49,440
Definitely not. Alls I want is just
a submissive wife.
825
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:52,160
So, what does submissive look like
to you, then?
826
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,160
The opposite of you.
827
00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:57,840
I think he would like his wife
to keep her mouth shut,
828
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,880
not disagree with anything
he has said.
829
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:04,560
It's giving small dick energy.
830
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,960
(LAUGHTER)
831
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:09,080
Sweet!
832
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:13,240
To me, a submissive woman is someone
that wants to cook for me.
833
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:15,360
If something is annoying us
or whatever,
834
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:19,400
obviously learn to, you know,
stay quiet.
835
00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:20,960
MEL: Ugh.
836
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:25,640
It was good to talk to the experts
and get their advice.
837
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:27,200
It's good talking to John.
838
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:29,080
John seems like a good bloke.
839
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:30,480
He's really funny.
840
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:34,040
He was like, "Oh, you know,
Johnny, he's a good guy,"
841
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:35,560
but he said nothing
about the women.
842
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:39,440
I just don't think he has respect
for women.
843
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:40,520
Yeah.
844
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:44,520
(GLASS TINKLES)
CHRIS: I have some good news.
845
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:46,160
I'm gonna be a dad.
846
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:51,200
I'm not really used to that whole
gay thing with the kids.
847
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:54,480
I don't know.
I don't know how it works.
848
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:56,360
Tyson, are you having a heart
attack or you're OK with that?
849
00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:57,960
Quite frankly,
I don't want to know.
850
00:44:58,080 --> 00:45:00,240
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
851
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:03,520
STEPHANIE: Do you like gay people?
I like gay people.
852
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:06,440
I'm not gay myself.
I've got gay friends.
853
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:09,120
It doesn't mean I'm gay.
854
00:45:09,240 --> 00:45:10,480
Why do you celebrate being gay?
855
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:13,880
Like, just be gay and do what you
need to do behind closed doors.
856
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:15,680
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
857
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:17,640
(JOEL LAUGHS)
858
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:19,640
(TENSE MUSIC PLAYS)
859
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:22,760
It wasn't so bad, was it?
860
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:27,720
BEC: Ay carumba.
861
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:33,920
Tyson, when you look back on that,
how does it land with you?
862
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:35,440
What do you think about?
863
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:39,120
Yeah, look, it is a bit of
a hard pill to swallow.
864
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:42,720
I probably could've worded things
a little bit better.
865
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:45,120
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
866
00:45:45,240 --> 00:45:46,640
Probably?
867
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:49,600
Sometimes when you're in
the heat of the moment,
868
00:45:49,720 --> 00:45:52,920
you can come out
and just say things that, you know,
869
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:54,080
you probably shouldn't have said.
870
00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:00,240
Who are you to be making
those comments, though?
871
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:02,040
Who are you?
(LAUGHTER)
872
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:05,000
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
873
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:06,240
(MOCKINGLY) "Who are you?"
874
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:09,280
I would never say that.
Yes, you would.
875
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:11,680
You're just as judgemental as me.
I'm sorry, no.
876
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:12,840
Uh, yes, you are.
877
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:15,520
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
878
00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:21,880
What about on the point of someone
who's subservient,
879
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:26,280
or rolls over, defers to you
and says, "You lead, I follow.
880
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:29,560
"You make all the decisions,
you control."
881
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:32,200
Do you really want that?
Um...
882
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:34,560
(TENSE MUSIC PLAYS)
883
00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:37,880
I think, honestly, a lot of women
would actually want that.
884
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:39,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
885
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:44,320
No, honey, they don't.
886
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:48,960
What makes you say that, Tyson?
Well, I feel like...
887
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:51,160
Because you're talking for
a large group of people on Earth.
888
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:52,720
OK. Yeah, yeah.
889
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:55,080
I feel like a lot of women
would like to stay at home,
890
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:59,400
cook and clean
and do all that sort of stuff.
891
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:02,960
When you look at you and Steph,
892
00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:07,800
you know, there were some
strong compatibilities on paper.
893
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:09,680
Why do you think you didn't work out
894
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:12,080
I feel like she wants to be the one
in control,
895
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:15,840
whereas I feel like the man should
take control of the relationship.
896
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:17,880
She wants to be the provider
and the protector or and whatever
897
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:19,600
and...
No, not necessarily.
898
00:47:19,720 --> 00:47:22,040
That's just... That's me.
But you expect me to be a housewife.
899
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:23,000
That's me.
900
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:24,440
You wanted me to clean for you
and cook...
901
00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:25,960
Like, they were the things
that you asked...
902
00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:27,360
You didn't do any of those things.
903
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:29,320
Bullshit. I did your washing
all the time.
904
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:31,280
Who's the one that cooked the salmon
every night? Me.
905
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:33,080
Who's the one that did
the vacuuming? Me.
906
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:34,440
I did all of those things
'cause were too lazy.
907
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:37,560
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
908
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,320
Tyson...
Well, it's true.
909
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:41,960
Someone needs to vacuum the house.
910
00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:47,040
GRAYSON: Bro,
I think there's a difference
911
00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:50,720
between traditional values and like
a misogynistic view on women, mate.
912
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:52,440
BEC: Absolutely.
913
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:53,960
But I did...
I did everything, though.
914
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:58,320
What you didn't do
was build her up, mate.
915
00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:00,720
All you did was cut her down
and you're doing it right now.
916
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:01,920
Yep.
917
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:05,240
STEPHANIE: It was expected
that I would naturally assume
918
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:07,120
those traditional roles
919
00:48:07,240 --> 00:48:10,920
of house-cleaning and cooking
and...but, you know...
920
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:12,000
Mmm. Whatever.
921
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:15,480
(TENSE MUSIC PLAYS)
922
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:20,000
So, you've mentioned the word
'control' a few times
923
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:23,440
in regards to being in
control of the household.
924
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:25,800
Mm-hm.
You also mentioned...
925
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:27,960
The eye rolling doesn't help.
926
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:29,440
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
927
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:32,520
But.. But doesn't...
May I finish, Tyson?
928
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:33,560
Can you listen...
929
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:34,800
We've spoken about this
so many times...
930
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:37,120
I'm sorry, it is interrupting...
We've spoken about it so many times.
931
00:48:37,240 --> 00:48:39,000
It is interrupting my communication
to you.
932
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:40,600
And this is the problem,
because I am a woman...
933
00:48:40,720 --> 00:48:42,120
I spoke about this last time
when I was on the couch...
934
00:48:42,240 --> 00:48:43,520
Because I am a woman,
you're not even showing...
935
00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:44,680
MEL: Stop speaking over her!
936
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:47,560
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
937
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:49,040
I've explained it so many times.
938
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:51,360
Tyson, this is unacceptable!
You need to be quiet.
939
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:54,320
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
940
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:03,160
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
941
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:05,880
We've spoken about this
so many times...
942
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,360
I'm sorry, it is interrupting...
We've spoken about it so many times.
943
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:09,520
It is interrupting my communication
to you.
944
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:11,600
And this is the problem,
because I am a woman...
945
00:49:11,720 --> 00:49:13,200
We spoke about this last time
when I was on the couch...
946
00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:15,000
Because I'm a woman, you're not even
showing the respect...
947
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,600
Stop speaking over her!
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
948
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:20,840
I've explained it so many times.
949
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:23,680
Tyson, this is unacceptable!
You need to be quiet.
950
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:25,680
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
951
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:28,120
(SCOFFS)
952
00:49:28,240 --> 00:49:29,840
Respect.
953
00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:33,040
What do you want me to say?
954
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:34,760
GRAYSON: Listen, mate.
I've listened!
955
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,120
We're going around in circles here.
JOHN: Alright, guys, hold!
956
00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:41,400
(SIGHS)
957
00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:43,400
(TENSE MUSIC PLAYS)
958
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:46,360
The reason why we keep pushing on yo
about this
959
00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:49,440
is because we're not understanding
what you're trying to say.
960
00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:55,160
And what we're hearing is kind of
taking our breath away in disbelief.
961
00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:59,320
And one of the things here
that's noticeable
962
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:01,480
is that when Mel and Alessandra
were talking to you,
963
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:03,160
you talked over them
964
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:05,680
and continued to do that.
965
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:09,920
But you're not talking over me.
966
00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:13,280
And that's a problem.
967
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:15,520
It just... It felt like we were
just going around in circles, John.
968
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:16,920
That's all.
969
00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:19,560
But I'm sorry
if I did talk over you.
970
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:21,080
IF you did?
971
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:24,080
You're sorry IF you spoke over me?
972
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:27,800
Oh, yeah, I didn't mean to.
I got a little bit heated up before.
973
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:29,320
I apologise.
974
00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:34,600
MEL: This is about respect.
975
00:50:34,720 --> 00:50:39,600
When it comes to the way
you communicate with and about women
976
00:50:39,720 --> 00:50:41,920
it is important
that you show respect.
977
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:44,920
Every time you've sat on this couch,
978
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:48,560
you've struggled to even make
eye contact with Alessandra and I.
979
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:50,680
You only ever use John's name.
980
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:54,760
So it's the disrespectful behaviour
that we're calling you out on.
981
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:55,840
Not your views.
982
00:50:55,960 --> 00:51:00,120
This is something that we genuinely
hope that you can learn from
983
00:51:00,240 --> 00:51:01,400
and take away,
984
00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:04,640
because I really don't know
985
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:07,240
how you're gonna have a healthy
relationship with a woman
986
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:08,520
in the future
987
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:11,480
if you're not able to
develop respect for women.
988
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:13,520
I feel like I do have respect
for women, Mel...
989
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:18,280
So, here's a woman telling you
that it doesn't come across that way
990
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:21,680
So that's important for you to hear.
991
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:23,640
Mmm.
992
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:25,600
I apologise.
993
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,920
Thank you to both of you for being
a part of this experiment.
994
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:37,160
I know it has not been easy
for either of you.
995
00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:38,480
Mmm.
996
00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:42,840
It's... It's a brave move for anyone
to come into this experiment
997
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:48,000
and for the two of you, we saw
such promise at the beginning.
998
00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:53,120
We saw some similarities
in some of your values and views
999
00:51:53,240 --> 00:51:57,840
but I guess what developed
as you got to know each other
1000
00:51:57,960 --> 00:51:59,800
were the differences.
1001
00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:04,640
We wish you both the very, very best
for your future.
1002
00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:06,840
Thank you, Mel.
Thank you both.
1003
00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:08,440
Thank you.
JOHN: Good luck, you two.
1004
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:10,680
(APPLAUSE)
1005
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:15,400
BEC: Good job, guys.
1006
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:23,000
Well, one thing that this year
we were all very disappointed by
1007
00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:27,640
was the behaviour of
a lot of the women in this group.
1008
00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:32,280
Some of the women acted in ways
that were not the best.
1009
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:35,280
We saw a lot of you trying to
tear each other down
1010
00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:41,720
and it was incredibly disappointing
and difficult to watch at times.
1011
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:44,160
There was a real lack of sisterhood
1012
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:49,320
and we would be remiss
to end this series this year
1013
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:53,600
without having a further look
at that and addressing it further.
1014
00:52:53,720 --> 00:52:56,400
(SIGHING)
GIA: Oh, no.
1015
00:52:56,520 --> 00:52:58,800
BEC: This is gonna be (BLEEP).
1016
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:00,840
Let's do it.
1017
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:06,600
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1018
00:53:06,720 --> 00:53:08,960
Hi!
1019
00:53:09,080 --> 00:53:10,960
(CHEERING)
1020
00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:12,320
WOMAN: Welcome!
1021
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:13,760
Trust me when I tell you
this one's gonna be spicy.
1022
00:53:15,840 --> 00:53:16,760
BROOK: Oh!
1023
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:19,800
Alright.
1024
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:23,120
Anyhoos, people.
1025
00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:26,360
Should everyone talk about
when their last 'relaish' was?
1026
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:29,400
Bec, yeah, weird bitch.
1027
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:32,240
Relax.
Like, you're a five out of ten.
1028
00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:34,000
So, (BLEEP) chill,
do you know what I mean?
1029
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:35,320
(LAUGHS)
1030
00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:37,840
Your attitude stinks.
1031
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:41,240
She's hot, though.
I'll give her that.
1032
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:43,280
Too bad about the personality.
1033
00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:46,120
Oh, thanks, babe.
1034
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:49,680
I like you in green.
1035
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:51,840
I don't think she looked good
in green.
1036
00:53:51,960 --> 00:53:53,600
Bit Grinchy for me.
1037
00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:57,840
Danny, he was the only groom
1038
00:53:57,960 --> 00:53:59,720
that kind of like looked me
up and down a few times.
1039
00:53:59,840 --> 00:54:02,840
Maybe he's not so happy
with Mrs Grinchy
1040
00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:05,000
and he's looking at me
a bit too much.
1041
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:07,920
He's only human, yeah.
1042
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:09,360
(LAUGHS)
1043
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:10,640
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1044
00:54:10,760 --> 00:54:13,400
Gia, vaffanculo.
1045
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:15,760
(GASPS)
1046
00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:17,120
WOMAN: What does that mean?
She's Italian.
1047
00:54:17,240 --> 00:54:18,520
She'll know what it means.
1048
00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:21,240
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1049
00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:24,760
STELLA: I have never had that much
connection with a person.
1050
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:28,640
Red flags...
Are there any?
1051
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:30,600
Well, that's the thing.
Like, it's...
1052
00:54:30,720 --> 00:54:33,160
I don't believe you!
I don't believe you!
1053
00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:34,480
WOMAN: Let's hear Stella talk.
1054
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:36,480
Surely he gets on your nerves
at times.
1055
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:38,400
No.
I'm sorry, I'm calling bullshit.
1056
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:39,720
(GASPING)
1057
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:42,200
Are you going to? Are you?
1058
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:43,760
I'm, like, "Zip it, bitch!"
1059
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:44,960
(LAUGHS)
1060
00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:47,520
There can be a bit of mean-girl
energy sometimes.
1061
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:51,480
GIA: Alissa, shut up,
1062
00:54:51,600 --> 00:54:53,800
'cause all you do is speak
with an infomercial voice.
1063
00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:55,320
Pipe down, OK?
1064
00:54:56,680 --> 00:54:59,520
No worries, babe. "I'm so deep. I'm
so deep." I don't think you're deep.
1065
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:01,720
I just think you're (BLEEP) up.
1066
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:03,080
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
(GASPS)
1067
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:05,760
You're very abrasive.
1068
00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:07,640
What don't you get back
in your kennel, babe?
1069
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:08,480
Hey?
1070
00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:10,760
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1071
00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:14,360
And you know what, babe,
I think you're a very rude bitch.
1072
00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:15,600
(PEOPLE EXCLAIM)
1073
00:55:15,720 --> 00:55:18,520
Hey, babe, while you're at it,
get the stripper boots off, babe.
1074
00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:20,800
Get the stripper boots off.
1075
00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:22,360
What stripper boots?
1076
00:55:22,480 --> 00:55:23,840
(EXCLAIMS)
1077
00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:27,840
Excuse me. That's not nice, babe.
That's not nice.
1078
00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:30,960
Shut up, Alissa,
you (BLEEP) rat-shit idiot!
1079
00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:33,240
(BLEEP) bullies. (LAUGHS)
1080
00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:34,520
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1081
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:37,960
This is enough. This is enough.
Alissa, shut up!
1082
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:39,960
So, ultimately, girls...
1083
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:43,000
(MOCKINGLY) "Ultimately,
I wanted to be fake, as usual."
1084
00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:46,160
Babe, take your hair extensions out
and chill.
1085
00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:48,400
I'm done with your bullying.
(GIA LAUGHS)
1086
00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:50,440
Loser!
(GIA LAUGHS)
1087
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:52,560
Loser!
1088
00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:55,920
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1089
00:55:56,040 --> 00:55:57,640
MEL: In all my years
working on Married At First Sight,
1090
00:55:57,760 --> 00:56:04,000
I have never experienced a woman
speaking so viciously and nastily
1091
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:06,520
toward other women.
1092
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:09,720
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
I don't want to do this.
1093
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:11,720
BEC: I've worked out
what you're doing!
1094
00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:14,800
You're trying to look like you guys
are this power couple
1095
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:16,000
and actually...
1096
00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:18,280
Don't look at me with those
(BLEEP) evil eyes, Scott.
1097
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:19,640
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1098
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:22,520
JOEL: Bec is vicious.
Bec is vicious.
1099
00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:24,040
(GIA LAUGHS)
She's trouble.
1100
00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:27,000
Wait, wait, wait, Scott. Are you
wearing mirrors in your eyes?
1101
00:56:27,120 --> 00:56:29,720
Shut the (BLEEP) up, newbie!
(GASPING)
1102
00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:33,440
Look, I see Bec
and I see two horns and a tail.
1103
00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:36,160
(SHOUTS) Listen to me! Listen to me!
1104
00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:37,280
She's just out of control.
1105
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:40,400
Neither of you have got any friends
here anymore!
1106
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:42,640
Do you understand?
1107
00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:43,760
(GASPS)
1108
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:45,320
You're a (BLEEP) mean girl
and all you do is...
1109
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:46,560
Oh, I'm the mean girl!
1110
00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:48,840
..and talk shit
about every bitch here!
1111
00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:50,440
Bitch, (BLEEP) you!
1112
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:53,440
No, I'm sorry. Are you guys
having tattoos of each other?
1113
00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:55,320
Or is your husband going to the
strippers every (BLEEP) weekend
1114
00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:56,280
to avoid you?
1115
00:56:56,400 --> 00:56:58,320
WOMAN: There's a bit of chatter
1116
00:56:58,440 --> 00:57:02,080
about Bec trying to
actually dig shit up on Alissa.
1117
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:05,560
Alissa, darling, there can only be
one Queen of Adelaide
1118
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:06,760
and it's me.
1119
00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:07,640
OK?
1120
00:57:07,760 --> 00:57:11,400
Bec is actively
trying to tear me down.
1121
00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:13,600
This is actually disgusting.
1122
00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:19,160
We've had finger bangs so, like...
1123
00:57:19,280 --> 00:57:21,840
(PEOPLE EXCLAIM)
1124
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:26,320
RACHEL: When Bec said that,
I felt really hurt.
1125
00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:28,280
(LAUGHS) I shouldn't laugh.
1126
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:29,800
She's really upset.
1127
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:31,680
(LAUGHS)
1128
00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:32,960
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1129
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:35,720
I just don't even want to be
around here anymore.
1130
00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:38,480
I'm gonna get a T-shirt
with 'finger bang' across it
1131
00:57:38,600 --> 00:57:39,680
and I'm gonna wear it everywhere.
1132
00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:47,960
Babe, you've been saying
the most inappropriate stuff.
1133
00:57:48,080 --> 00:57:49,560
Shush.
1134
00:57:49,680 --> 00:57:52,200
Babe, every night, you've been
the dumbest (BLEEP) here.
1135
00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:54,200
(JOEL LAUGHS)
1136
00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:56,640
Joel, don't laugh.
1137
00:57:56,760 --> 00:57:57,920
You're the puppeteer
and she's the...
1138
00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:00,120
You're the freak here!
..and you've got all your puppets.
1139
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:02,080
GIA: We're the puppeteers?
You're the freak.
1140
00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:07,200
You should be careful with how much
you are upset about me saying that
1141
00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:10,720
when I have screenshots of what
you've said about Alissa and David.
1142
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:12,520
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1143
00:58:12,640 --> 00:58:15,320
How do you have screenshots?
Gia sent them to me.
1144
00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:19,760
"Alissa is going (BLEEP) down.
Rat bitch with her rat husband.
1145
00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:25,400
"I'm gonna go so (BLEEP) hard
on Alissa and her fake relationship.
1146
00:58:25,520 --> 00:58:28,320
"The only fake (BLEEP) in this place
1147
00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:30,400
"are those two (BLEEP) licking
1148
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:32,360
"(BLEEP) influencer
wannabe (BLEEP)."
1149
00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:34,200
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1150
00:58:34,320 --> 00:58:35,640
Wow.
1151
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:37,720
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1152
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:44,040
FILIP: Oh!
1153
00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:45,520
That was a lot.
1154
00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:49,480
That's (BLEEP) trash, guys.
It's always Bec and Gia.
1155
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:54,240
Yeah, what did I do to you?
Like, what did I actually do to you?
1156
00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:57,680
Mean girls. Just mean girls.
1157
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:00,680
Bec and Gia.
1158
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:09,040
Some of the behaviour
was shocking and disgusting.
1159
00:59:09,160 --> 00:59:11,160
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1160
00:59:11,280 --> 00:59:14,000
Could you guys explain?
1161
00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:16,360
Bec?
1162
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:19,480
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1163
00:59:27,200 --> 00:59:29,520
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1164
00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:33,240
ALESSANDRA: Bec and Gia...
1165
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:40,560
some of the behaviour
was shocking and disgusting.
1166
00:59:41,760 --> 00:59:44,400
Could you guys explain?
1167
00:59:44,520 --> 00:59:45,640
Bec?
1168
00:59:45,760 --> 00:59:48,680
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1169
00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:55,240
When I came in here,
it was like a whirlwind of
1170
00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:56,600
"I've heard you say this.
1171
00:59:56,720 --> 00:59:58,360
"I'm just gonna run with it without
having a conversation"
1172
00:59:58,480 --> 00:59:59,400
and it's deplorable.
1173
00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:02,760
Yeah, but that's no excuse
to be so nasty, babe.
1174
01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:06,960
The way I treated you...
It was (BLEEP).
1175
01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:10,320
..was disgusting
1176
01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:14,360
and I vow to you
and promise to you
1177
01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:20,240
that I will never, ever, ever,
ever treat you or another woman
1178
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:23,800
without speaking to them
about it, again.
1179
01:00:23,920 --> 01:00:26,160
MEL: I mean, even in that, Bec,
1180
01:00:26,280 --> 01:00:29,040
we're hearing a lot of excuses
and qualifications.
1181
01:00:29,160 --> 01:00:31,320
OK.
1182
01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:33,600
You know, to say "I'll never treat
another woman like that
1183
01:00:33,720 --> 01:00:35,320
"without having a conversation
first..."
1184
01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:37,440
No, no, no, sorry.
I didn't mean it like that.
1185
01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:39,400
I will never treat another woman
like that again.
1186
01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:40,480
But I meant because...
1187
01:00:40,600 --> 01:00:42,720
Because I didn't even give Alissa
an opportunity.
1188
01:00:42,840 --> 01:00:44,200
I didn't mean for it to sound
like that.
1189
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:45,800
I didn't even have
a conversation with her.
1190
01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:48,880
Bec, you've just said, "I will never
treat another woman like that again"
1191
01:00:49,000 --> 01:00:51,440
yet last night you did
with Stephanie.
1192
01:00:53,760 --> 01:00:55,920
These behaviours keep coming up.
1193
01:00:59,680 --> 01:01:03,160
Yep. Like, that was just unfair
and I'm sincerely sorry.
1194
01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:07,000
Oh, I'm just, like...
This is just painful to listen to.
1195
01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:08,640
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1196
01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:11,560
It should be simple. Just be kind.
1197
01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:12,840
Like...
STELLA: Just be human to human.
1198
01:01:12,960 --> 01:01:14,200
Respect another human.
Just be a kind person.
1199
01:01:14,320 --> 01:01:16,640
Don't tear other people down.
1200
01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:20,120
I just... I don't understand that.
Why do people have to be so cruel?
1201
01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:23,040
How do people even write messages
like that?
1202
01:01:23,160 --> 01:01:26,600
How do people... Like, you must have
had some pretty traumatic shit
1203
01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:28,120
happen to you
1204
01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:29,840
to be able to project that
on someone,
1205
01:01:29,960 --> 01:01:31,120
someone that you don't even know.
1206
01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:35,240
I was a shell of a person
for half of this experiment.
1207
01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:39,000
I couldn't show up as myself
because of how I was treated.
1208
01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:40,680
And that's just not OK.
1209
01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:42,320
Like, that's just not OK
1210
01:01:42,440 --> 01:01:44,960
and I feel sick in my stomach
sitting here tonight
1211
01:01:45,080 --> 01:01:47,240
and having to watch that
and relive that.
1212
01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:49,360
That was hard.
MEL: Of course.
1213
01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:52,040
Alissa, we really felt for you
1214
01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:54,520
in those first few weeks
of this experiment.
1215
01:01:54,640 --> 01:01:56,520
You had done absolutely nothing wron
1216
01:01:56,640 --> 01:01:59,200
and for some unknown reason,
1217
01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:03,360
many of the women in this group
turned on you.
1218
01:02:03,480 --> 01:02:05,760
This is where we look to you, Gia.
1219
01:02:05,880 --> 01:02:06,960
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1220
01:02:07,080 --> 01:02:08,560
GIA: Um...
1221
01:02:08,680 --> 01:02:11,720
At the very beginning, when you
didn't know who your friends were
1222
01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:13,240
and, like, you're trying to
figure everything out,
1223
01:02:13,360 --> 01:02:14,520
we heard all this information
from Bec.
1224
01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:16,560
I jumped on the bandwagon
1225
01:02:16,680 --> 01:02:18,760
and I thought,
"Oh, I'll be friends with her..."
1226
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:20,520
Yeah, but what did I do wrong?
What was it that I did wrong?
1227
01:02:20,640 --> 01:02:22,880
No, you did nothing wrong.
You did nothing wrong.
1228
01:02:23,000 --> 01:02:26,360
It was just rumours
that I'd heard from Bec and I...
1229
01:02:26,480 --> 01:02:28,000
Yeah, but what rumours?
RACHEL: Just a lack of integrity.
1230
01:02:28,120 --> 01:02:31,880
I was about to say, we all know the
difference between right and wrong.
1231
01:02:34,160 --> 01:02:36,480
And in that messaging,
when all that went on,
1232
01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:37,920
that group chat,
1233
01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:39,960
the fact that
not a single one of you went,
1234
01:02:40,080 --> 01:02:43,080
"Bec, what you're gonna do is wrong,
1235
01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:44,760
"you need to handle this
differently..."
1236
01:02:44,880 --> 01:02:46,080
Yeah.
There's right and wrong.
1237
01:02:46,200 --> 01:02:47,280
Yeah.
1238
01:02:47,400 --> 01:02:50,200
And the way it was handled
and what happened was wrong.
1239
01:02:52,600 --> 01:02:56,440
MEL: I would hope there's an
opportunity for some empathy here
1240
01:02:56,560 --> 01:03:01,640
and maybe, Alissa,
if you can help us understand
1241
01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:03,080
how it felt for you
1242
01:03:03,200 --> 01:03:07,000
when you were being treated that way
by Bec, Gia, Brook.
1243
01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:11,920
What was the impact on you
emotionally?
1244
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:15,480
Oh, I couldn't get out of bed.
Like...
1245
01:03:18,080 --> 01:03:20,160
If it wasn't for him, like...
(CRIES)
1246
01:03:21,800 --> 01:03:24,960
He was with me. He stood by me.
1247
01:03:25,080 --> 01:03:27,920
And he was, like, "You're strong.
You've got this."
1248
01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:30,360
And I remember that dinner party,
that second dinner party,
1249
01:03:30,480 --> 01:03:33,440
I sat there and I was shaking
under the table.
1250
01:03:33,560 --> 01:03:35,480
My arms were shaking. Like...
1251
01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:39,520
I... That was, like,
one of the hardest days of my life
1252
01:03:39,640 --> 01:03:43,440
and I didn't shed one tear
and I sat there and I...
1253
01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:45,080
and I called out a bully.
1254
01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:47,520
Like... And I was just,
like, "It's not OK."
1255
01:03:47,640 --> 01:03:52,160
And that's where Rach and I
became so close as well
1256
01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:54,720
'cause she had my back
and she's my girl. (CRIES)
1257
01:03:54,840 --> 01:03:58,080
I'm so grateful because you, babe,
are the definition of a girl's girl
1258
01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:00,760
and I'm so lucky to have you
in my life.
1259
01:04:00,880 --> 01:04:03,960
And I was lucky...
I am lucky to have this man as well
1260
01:04:04,080 --> 01:04:06,720
because he was the one
that helped me get out of bed
1261
01:04:06,840 --> 01:04:09,080
and he was the one that supported me
through that.
1262
01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:11,560
And he was dragged through the mud
with me and I feel bad for him...
1263
01:04:11,680 --> 01:04:12,880
MEL: Mmm.
1264
01:04:13,000 --> 01:04:14,480
..because he and I
didn't have to go through that.
1265
01:04:14,600 --> 01:04:16,800
That was actually... That impacted
our relationship too.
1266
01:04:16,920 --> 01:04:21,120
That shit also really impacted us.
1267
01:04:21,240 --> 01:04:23,000
MEL: Yeah.
It was heavy.
1268
01:04:23,120 --> 01:04:26,280
(SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS)
1269
01:04:26,400 --> 01:04:28,640
DAVID: Yeah, I mean,
I have to give her her flowers.
1270
01:04:28,760 --> 01:04:30,320
Like, you know,
at the end of the day,
1271
01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:33,120
she could've sat there
and come at the girls.
1272
01:04:33,240 --> 01:04:35,680
She probably knew information she
could've pulled out of the woodwork,
1273
01:04:35,800 --> 01:04:39,120
you know, at Bec or whoever,
but she just held herself so well...
1274
01:04:39,240 --> 01:04:41,240
I didn't go down that level.
You know, and that's respectable...
1275
01:04:41,360 --> 01:04:43,640
so I'll give her that.
Thank you. Thank you.
1276
01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:47,000
GIA: Alissa...
1277
01:04:47,120 --> 01:04:49,160
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1278
01:04:49,280 --> 01:04:52,080
..I know you won't accept my apology
and I totally get that.
1279
01:04:52,200 --> 01:04:53,800
I feel like I've given so many
to you...
1280
01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:55,400
I don't know if that's true,
because...
1281
01:04:55,520 --> 01:04:56,400
Yeah.
1282
01:04:56,520 --> 01:04:57,760
..I feel like you repeat
the same behaviour.
1283
01:04:57,880 --> 01:05:00,160
That mean message that you sent me
that day we left the experiment.
1284
01:05:00,280 --> 01:05:01,760
Right.
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1285
01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:04,400
I... Obviously,
we were leaving experiment,
1286
01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:07,040
so you have no way to judge
if my behaviour's gonna change.
1287
01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:10,240
All I can say is I'm really, truly
sorry for anything I've ever said.
1288
01:05:10,360 --> 01:05:13,880
I really, like, wish I could take it
all back
1289
01:05:14,000 --> 01:05:16,600
and be friends with you
from the hen's, honestly.
1290
01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:18,400
Like, I'm really sorry.
1291
01:05:19,800 --> 01:05:21,680
And, like, there's nothing I can say
that's gonna make it better.
1292
01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:23,480
It's just gonna take time
1293
01:05:23,600 --> 01:05:25,280
and one day,
if you want to accept my apology,
1294
01:05:25,400 --> 01:05:28,200
like, you're unblocked, reach out,
you know, any time.
1295
01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:29,120
Yep.
1296
01:05:36,920 --> 01:05:42,720
MEL: You know, I've got to say, in a
decade of doing this experiment...
1297
01:05:43,840 --> 01:05:50,360
I've never seen so much animosity
within the female group.
1298
01:05:52,040 --> 01:05:55,320
And it is unfortunate
that Juliette and Brook are not here
1299
01:05:55,440 --> 01:05:59,000
because they were major players
in this behaviour as well.
1300
01:06:00,200 --> 01:06:04,440
I'd really like you to have
a long, hard look at yourselves.
1301
01:06:05,640 --> 01:06:09,120
Have a real think about
what does this mean
1302
01:06:09,240 --> 01:06:10,560
more broadly
1303
01:06:10,680 --> 01:06:12,840
than just your individual
relationships with each other,
1304
01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:15,800
but in terms of the sisterhood...
1305
01:06:16,920 --> 01:06:20,600
which is a term that I feel quite
reluctant to use in this context.
1306
01:06:20,720 --> 01:06:22,960
STELLA: I wouldn't use it here.
BEC: I wouldn't use it here.
1307
01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:24,200
You can't use it in here.
1308
01:06:24,320 --> 01:06:28,920
What I would love for you
to take away from this experience
1309
01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:31,320
are some lessons around this,
1310
01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:34,000
whether that's about
your own behaviour
1311
01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:36,640
and the respect that you show
1312
01:06:36,760 --> 01:06:38,680
when you speak to
and deal with other women
1313
01:06:38,800 --> 01:06:42,480
or maybe it's about the way
you stand up
1314
01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:44,200
when someone else is being bullied.
1315
01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:48,360
Ultimately, what this is about
is self-respect...
1316
01:06:50,360 --> 01:06:51,840
and that's what we want for you.
1317
01:06:54,120 --> 01:06:56,840
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1318
01:06:56,960 --> 01:06:59,600
NARRATOR: Still to come...
1319
01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:01,880
FILIP: Will you marry me?
STELLA: Yes!
1320
01:07:02,000 --> 01:07:06,040
..the most romantic moment
from this year's experiment.
1321
01:07:06,160 --> 01:07:07,280
(SCREAMS)
1322
01:07:07,400 --> 01:07:08,160
(LAUGHTER)
1323
01:07:08,280 --> 01:07:09,840
You got your love story, Stella.
1324
01:07:09,960 --> 01:07:11,240
Oh, yeah.
1325
01:07:11,360 --> 01:07:12,920
But next...
(CHRIS GASPS)
1326
01:07:13,040 --> 01:07:15,640
BEC: Oh, yuck.
JOHN: Wow.
1327
01:07:15,760 --> 01:07:19,440
..Bec takes a shocking trip
down memory lane.
1328
01:07:26,120 --> 01:07:29,120
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1329
01:07:33,640 --> 01:07:37,960
Well, Bec,
Danny decided not to come tonight
1330
01:07:38,080 --> 01:07:42,480
but we still very much want to hear
about your time in this experiment
1331
01:07:42,600 --> 01:07:44,600
and your overall journey.
1332
01:07:44,720 --> 01:07:47,480
And so, with that being said, we wan
you to come up on the couch.
1333
01:07:47,600 --> 01:07:50,200
(APPLAUSE)
1334
01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:53,040
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1335
01:07:56,400 --> 01:07:57,520
Oh...
1336
01:07:59,160 --> 01:08:00,600
Hello.
1337
01:08:00,720 --> 01:08:03,440
Bec, did you know that Danny
wasn't gonna come tonight?
1338
01:08:03,560 --> 01:08:05,840
I didn't. No.
1339
01:08:05,960 --> 01:08:08,600
Everyone else did, but I didn't, no.
1340
01:08:08,720 --> 01:08:10,480
Yeah.
1341
01:08:10,600 --> 01:08:12,240
How does that sit with you...
1342
01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:16,520
sitting up here alone on the couch?
1343
01:08:16,640 --> 01:08:20,720
To be honest with you,
I...I didn't think he would come
1344
01:08:20,840 --> 01:08:23,520
because last night
he was in the firing line.
1345
01:08:24,720 --> 01:08:30,320
He also doesn't think that
what he did to me that last week
1346
01:08:30,440 --> 01:08:31,640
leading up to final vows
1347
01:08:31,760 --> 01:08:32,960
was wrong.
1348
01:08:33,080 --> 01:08:36,560
In fact, I found out today
that after final vows,
1349
01:08:36,680 --> 01:08:37,880
he went to Melbourne
1350
01:08:38,000 --> 01:08:40,840
and told someone else
in this group of people,
1351
01:08:40,960 --> 01:08:43,920
they looked at him in the eye
and said,
1352
01:08:44,040 --> 01:08:46,360
"Did you tell Bec
you were falling in love with her
1353
01:08:46,480 --> 01:08:48,200
"five days before final vows?"
1354
01:08:48,320 --> 01:08:49,840
And he looked them in the eye
and said no.
1355
01:08:49,960 --> 01:08:51,520
And he did.
1356
01:08:51,640 --> 01:08:56,360
And that has broken me.
1357
01:08:58,160 --> 01:09:00,840
Well, you know what,
there's absolutely no doubt
1358
01:09:00,960 --> 01:09:04,560
that you threw yourself
into this experiment,
1359
01:09:04,680 --> 01:09:06,640
so why don't we take a moment now
1360
01:09:06,760 --> 01:09:09,880
to look back at your time
in this experiment
1361
01:09:10,000 --> 01:09:12,520
and your relationship with Danny?
1362
01:09:17,400 --> 01:09:19,520
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1363
01:09:22,040 --> 01:09:24,880
Sensational all round, people.
1364
01:09:25,000 --> 01:09:27,280
Good shag, good sleep.
(MAN HALF-LAUGHS)
1365
01:09:27,400 --> 01:09:29,040
Good shag.
1366
01:09:29,160 --> 01:09:30,760
DANNY: I'm looking for, like,
1367
01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:34,000
the woman who's gonna be
the mother of my children
1368
01:09:34,120 --> 01:09:37,840
and I'm just concerned there's not
enough chemistry between me and Bec
1369
01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:39,800
for it to be that.
(STELLA GASPS)
1370
01:09:46,720 --> 01:09:49,840
Probably around a three.
1371
01:09:49,960 --> 01:09:52,440
(GASPING)
RACHEL: A what?
1372
01:09:52,560 --> 01:09:54,880
WOMAN: Wow.
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1373
01:10:04,560 --> 01:10:06,880
I feel sick.
1374
01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:09,880
Just feeds into
all of Bec's insecurity.
1375
01:10:22,600 --> 01:10:23,800
I believe him.
1376
01:10:23,920 --> 01:10:27,800
I believe that Danny didn't say that
to Gia.
1377
01:10:27,920 --> 01:10:30,480
So, describe your feelings for him.
1378
01:10:30,600 --> 01:10:31,960
I love you.
1379
01:10:32,080 --> 01:10:34,120
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
1380
01:10:34,240 --> 01:10:36,920
I don't know what to say to that.
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1381
01:10:37,040 --> 01:10:38,240
STELLA: Oh...
1382
01:10:39,640 --> 01:10:41,400
Look, she can tell me 10,000 times.
1383
01:10:41,520 --> 01:10:42,880
If I don't feel it,
I'm not gonna say it back.
1384
01:10:44,640 --> 01:10:46,160
What about the fact
1385
01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:47,840
that I'm not only a wife
but I'm a girlfriend now?
1386
01:10:47,960 --> 01:10:50,720
Men, a lot of the time, we do things
we don't want to do.
1387
01:10:50,840 --> 01:10:52,200
Whatever. We roll with it.
1388
01:10:52,320 --> 01:10:53,920
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1389
01:10:55,720 --> 01:10:57,840
We heard the news
that you're falling in love.
1390
01:11:00,040 --> 01:11:01,040
Stella...
1391
01:11:02,240 --> 01:11:04,280
Let's change the subject.
1392
01:11:04,400 --> 01:11:06,240
Yeah, that was quite an
interesting reaction from Bec.
1393
01:11:06,360 --> 01:11:07,440
Sorry.
1394
01:11:07,560 --> 01:11:10,640
Like, speak about it.
Like, it's quite exciting news.
1395
01:11:10,760 --> 01:11:12,840
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1396
01:11:12,960 --> 01:11:17,000
"Do you think you will fall
in love with me and why?"
1397
01:11:21,160 --> 01:11:23,760
I want to be very careful
how I answer this question.
1398
01:11:26,320 --> 01:11:28,840
I'd assume I will, yeah.
1399
01:11:28,960 --> 01:11:30,080
(RACHEL GASPS)
1400
01:11:30,200 --> 01:11:32,240
(SIGHS)
1401
01:11:32,360 --> 01:11:33,600
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1402
01:11:33,720 --> 01:11:37,000
I'm not surprised in how warmly
Coco took to me
1403
01:11:37,120 --> 01:11:39,440
because all bitches love me.
1404
01:11:39,560 --> 01:11:40,720
(CHRIS GASPS)
1405
01:11:43,320 --> 01:11:45,520
I've never met a bitch
that don't love me.
1406
01:11:45,640 --> 01:11:47,000
(GASPS)
1407
01:11:47,120 --> 01:11:48,760
REBECCA: Oh, my god!
1408
01:11:48,880 --> 01:11:51,960
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1409
01:11:52,080 --> 01:11:53,560
BEC: For Danny to tell me
he loves me,
1410
01:11:53,680 --> 01:11:55,240
that would be
the most amazing thing ever.
1411
01:11:55,360 --> 01:11:58,360
I mean, I know he loves me
already. I know he does.
1412
01:11:58,480 --> 01:11:59,760
Yeah, I do.
1413
01:12:05,560 --> 01:12:06,600
These are...
1414
01:12:06,720 --> 01:12:08,760
I don't want to tie myself
into a loophole
1415
01:12:08,880 --> 01:12:10,240
without my lawyer present.
1416
01:12:11,840 --> 01:12:14,280
My lawyer, I can't see him
beside me,
1417
01:12:14,400 --> 01:12:16,240
so I don't want to talk too much.
1418
01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:20,680
No comment.
1419
01:12:20,800 --> 01:12:22,080
ALISSA: Oh, dear.
1420
01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:24,000
MAN: You've got your husband now.
1421
01:12:24,120 --> 01:12:26,000
So, like, what was it
that you were looking for?
1422
01:12:26,120 --> 01:12:28,840
BEC: Someone probably that wanted to
(BLEEP) me.
1423
01:12:28,960 --> 01:12:30,080
(LAUGHS)
1424
01:12:30,200 --> 01:12:31,560
Oh, no, it's not...
1425
01:12:31,680 --> 01:12:34,680
"I want someone who (BLEEP) me."
It's just an ick.
1426
01:12:34,800 --> 01:12:38,520
How can you want to be intimate
with someone who acts like that?
1427
01:12:38,640 --> 01:12:40,280
It's repulsive.
1428
01:12:43,640 --> 01:12:46,440
I'll never fall in love with her
on a month of Sundays.
1429
01:12:46,560 --> 01:12:47,680
(BLEEP) that.
1430
01:12:47,800 --> 01:12:49,240
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
(GASPS)
1431
01:12:51,080 --> 01:12:54,120
I'm so lucky because I've got, like,
the best husband ever.
1432
01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:55,720
We're stronger than ever.
1433
01:12:55,840 --> 01:12:57,280
We're stronger than ever.
Stronger than ever.
1434
01:12:57,400 --> 01:12:59,040
Stronger than ever.
Stronger than ever.
1435
01:12:59,160 --> 01:13:00,720
Happier and stronger than ever.
1436
01:13:00,840 --> 01:13:03,760
I'm in love with Danny.
We love each other.
1437
01:13:04,960 --> 01:13:06,360
Pretty lucky, right?
1438
01:13:06,480 --> 01:13:08,880
I know that he's gonna tell me
he loves me
1439
01:13:09,000 --> 01:13:11,520
and we're gonna be together.
1440
01:13:13,240 --> 01:13:15,360
(SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS)
1441
01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:21,160
"Stepping away from the experiment
in the last week,
1442
01:13:21,280 --> 01:13:23,480
"I really thought about
how our lives would look together
1443
01:13:23,600 --> 01:13:25,800
"and as much as it breaks my heart
to say this,
1444
01:13:25,920 --> 01:13:28,360
"I've felt a weight
come off my shoulders,
1445
01:13:28,480 --> 01:13:32,440
"particularly at a time where I knew
I should've been missing you.
1446
01:13:32,560 --> 01:13:35,080
"Honestly,
from the bottom of my heart,
1447
01:13:35,200 --> 01:13:36,320
"I'm so sorry to do this to you,
but...
1448
01:13:38,160 --> 01:13:39,720
"I can't be your husband anymore."
1449
01:13:39,840 --> 01:13:42,920
(SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS)
1450
01:13:44,640 --> 01:13:47,360
I wish you well. OK.
1451
01:13:47,480 --> 01:13:50,160
I'm so sorry.
No, Daniel.
1452
01:13:50,280 --> 01:13:53,520
(SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS)
1453
01:13:57,040 --> 01:13:58,240
(BEC CRIES)
1454
01:14:04,480 --> 01:14:06,280
I've been blindsided.
1455
01:14:08,000 --> 01:14:10,760
And I just thought that it was gonna
be my happily ever after.
1456
01:14:12,760 --> 01:14:14,160
My heart is broken.
1457
01:14:15,480 --> 01:14:16,840
Completely.
1458
01:14:16,960 --> 01:14:18,160
(CRIES)
1459
01:14:26,480 --> 01:14:29,760
Wow. That's (BLEEP).
That was a lot.
1460
01:14:30,880 --> 01:14:33,400
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1461
01:14:35,800 --> 01:14:37,600
(GASPING)
MAN: What's happening?
1462
01:14:49,960 --> 01:14:53,480
The future without Bec is...
it would be bright.
1463
01:14:53,600 --> 01:14:54,760
(GASPS)
1464
01:14:54,880 --> 01:14:56,360
PARTICIPANT: What the (BLEEP).
1465
01:14:56,480 --> 01:14:57,640
Do you know what I mean?
1466
01:14:57,760 --> 01:14:59,920
After this, there's gonna be
women queueing up for me.
1467
01:15:00,040 --> 01:15:02,360
PARTICIPANT: Holy shit.
1468
01:15:02,480 --> 01:15:03,800
I won't be able to walk
down the street.
1469
01:15:03,920 --> 01:15:05,520
They'll be throwing their pantyhose
at me.
1470
01:15:05,640 --> 01:15:08,600
So, either way,
it's gonna be alright.
1471
01:15:08,720 --> 01:15:10,880
(LAUGHS)
1472
01:15:11,000 --> 01:15:12,200
(BLEEP).
1473
01:15:12,320 --> 01:15:14,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1474
01:15:16,920 --> 01:15:18,000
No.
1475
01:15:21,000 --> 01:15:22,480
That's a wrap.
1476
01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:25,200
Are we going to the pub now?
1477
01:15:27,640 --> 01:15:30,680
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1478
01:15:40,240 --> 01:15:43,640
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1479
01:15:43,760 --> 01:15:45,400
WOMAN: Alright, Danny...
1480
01:15:48,680 --> 01:15:52,120
The future without Bec is...
it would be bright.
1481
01:15:52,240 --> 01:15:53,400
(GASPS)
1482
01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:55,000
PARTICIPANT: What the (BLEEP).
1483
01:15:55,120 --> 01:15:56,720
Do you know what I mean?
1484
01:15:56,840 --> 01:15:58,800
After this, there's gonna be women
queueing up for me.
1485
01:15:58,920 --> 01:16:00,080
PARTICIPANT: Holy shit.
1486
01:16:00,200 --> 01:16:01,440
Won't be able to walk
down the street.
1487
01:16:01,560 --> 01:16:04,120
They'll be throwing
their pantyhose at me.
1488
01:16:04,240 --> 01:16:07,480
So, either way,
it's gonna be alright.
1489
01:16:07,600 --> 01:16:09,480
(LAUGHS)
1490
01:16:09,600 --> 01:16:10,880
(BLEEP) hell.
1491
01:16:11,000 --> 01:16:13,400
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1492
01:16:15,600 --> 01:16:16,840
No.
1493
01:16:19,360 --> 01:16:20,640
That's a wrap.
1494
01:16:20,760 --> 01:16:23,520
Are we going to the pub now?
1495
01:16:23,640 --> 01:16:25,760
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1496
01:16:29,080 --> 01:16:30,280
(CRIES)
1497
01:16:30,400 --> 01:16:31,880
MAN: Whoa.
MAN: That was tough, man.
1498
01:16:32,000 --> 01:16:34,280
Hectic.
WOMAN: That's heavy.
1499
01:16:34,400 --> 01:16:36,840
That's heavy.
It's hard to watch.
1500
01:16:36,960 --> 01:16:38,960
Yeah.
WOMAN: Wow.
1501
01:16:39,080 --> 01:16:42,400
(SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS)
1502
01:16:55,400 --> 01:16:59,000
What was for you the hardest part
of watching that back?
1503
01:16:59,120 --> 01:17:00,520
(CRIES)
1504
01:17:04,680 --> 01:17:07,840
I think the hardest part
1505
01:17:07,960 --> 01:17:12,720
was to let me walk down the path
to final vows
1506
01:17:12,840 --> 01:17:14,720
in a wedding dress,
1507
01:17:14,840 --> 01:17:17,080
expecting that I was going to
Melbourne in two weeks
1508
01:17:17,200 --> 01:17:20,160
and we were just gonna see
how it goes on the outside.
1509
01:17:20,280 --> 01:17:25,480
To be dumped
and then to not contact me,
1510
01:17:25,600 --> 01:17:27,320
I think that's cruel
to do to someone
1511
01:17:27,440 --> 01:17:28,800
when you know that I love you.
1512
01:17:28,920 --> 01:17:30,960
But that's Danny.
1513
01:17:31,080 --> 01:17:33,400
Danny's out for himself
and no-one else.
1514
01:17:33,520 --> 01:17:36,400
If it benefits Danny, he'll do it.
If it benefits Danny, he's there.
1515
01:17:38,160 --> 01:17:40,040
It just feels icky now.
1516
01:17:40,160 --> 01:17:42,440
You're a time-waster.
1517
01:17:42,560 --> 01:17:44,760
You should've said something.
You knew it.
1518
01:17:44,880 --> 01:17:47,680
You could see it.
He wasn't into me.
1519
01:17:49,960 --> 01:17:54,600
It's just taken a little bit longer
for me to work that out.
1520
01:17:55,800 --> 01:18:01,520
But, you know...
this is life, isn't it?
1521
01:18:01,640 --> 01:18:03,240
Everything's not a fairytale
1522
01:18:03,360 --> 01:18:05,600
and I think I gave it a red-hot go,
1523
01:18:05,720 --> 01:18:07,240
the good, the bad, the ugly.
1524
01:18:07,360 --> 01:18:11,200
You know, and there is a lot of ugly
in what we watched today
1525
01:18:11,320 --> 01:18:13,560
and I take ownership of that.
1526
01:18:18,280 --> 01:18:19,520
ALESSANDRA: Let me ask you this.
1527
01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:23,280
Watching back your journey,
does it give you clarity?
1528
01:18:25,560 --> 01:18:27,960
I was really, really nervous
to come here today.
1529
01:18:28,080 --> 01:18:32,000
I sat there, I sat alone all day
1530
01:18:32,120 --> 01:18:36,320
and I have played back every moment.
1531
01:18:36,440 --> 01:18:39,120
I went through my phone,
I looked at photos
1532
01:18:39,240 --> 01:18:43,680
and I have been in a...
1533
01:18:43,800 --> 01:18:46,200
in a very toxic situation
1534
01:18:46,320 --> 01:18:51,360
that I was so hopeful was going to
work that I was blinded.
1535
01:18:53,320 --> 01:18:54,680
I was so hopeful
1536
01:18:54,800 --> 01:18:57,520
that this was going to be my Stella
and Filip happily ever after
1537
01:18:57,640 --> 01:19:04,520
that I probably turned a blind eye
to the realities of what this was
1538
01:19:04,640 --> 01:19:07,240
and that was that he's just not
that into me.
1539
01:19:10,840 --> 01:19:14,160
Throughout this experiment, I would
say almost from the beginning,
1540
01:19:14,280 --> 01:19:20,400
there has been one kind of big dark
cloud on top of your relationship
1541
01:19:20,520 --> 01:19:23,800
that carried through
for a number of weeks
1542
01:19:23,920 --> 01:19:27,640
and it has to do with comments
that apparently were made
1543
01:19:27,760 --> 01:19:32,840
about Danny being more attracted
to Gia than he would be to you.
1544
01:19:32,960 --> 01:19:37,040
You didn't believe Gia when she said
this had happened.
1545
01:19:37,160 --> 01:19:38,720
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1546
01:19:38,840 --> 01:19:40,960
You believed Danny...
I did.
1547
01:19:41,080 --> 01:19:42,360
..when he said he did not.
1548
01:19:42,480 --> 01:19:45,320
(DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS)
1549
01:19:45,440 --> 01:19:47,960
How do you feel about that now?
1550
01:19:48,080 --> 01:19:49,800
What do you believe now?
1551
01:19:49,920 --> 01:19:52,960
(TENSE MUSIC PLAYS)
1552
01:19:57,760 --> 01:20:00,440
Look, I'll be honest with you.
1553
01:20:02,600 --> 01:20:04,880
I had to believe my husband
1554
01:20:05,000 --> 01:20:08,640
because he was my husband
1555
01:20:08,760 --> 01:20:13,120
and if I didn't believe him,
then this relationship was over.
1556
01:20:14,400 --> 01:20:15,720
And he was very convincing.
1557
01:20:15,840 --> 01:20:21,160
I believe Danny said to Gia
"Bec is not my type
1558
01:20:21,280 --> 01:20:23,000
"and in the real world,
it would be more like you."
1559
01:20:25,040 --> 01:20:28,760
I believe that happened. 100%.
1560
01:20:28,880 --> 01:20:34,000
Because Danny said to me
that he would never speak to Steph
1561
01:20:34,120 --> 01:20:35,680
and he's messaging her
and calling her.
1562
01:20:37,000 --> 01:20:38,840
But he said to me
throughout the whole experiment,
1563
01:20:38,960 --> 01:20:41,600
after she added him on Instagram
when she was still married here,
1564
01:20:41,720 --> 01:20:43,640
he goes, "I would never speak
to her, ever.
1565
01:20:43,760 --> 01:20:46,600
"I have no interest in speaking to
any women" and yet here he is.
1566
01:20:50,160 --> 01:20:51,560
Let me ask you this.
1567
01:20:53,200 --> 01:20:55,240
Watching back your journey,
1568
01:20:55,360 --> 01:20:59,640
you haven't always been at your best
in this process.
1569
01:20:59,760 --> 01:21:01,840
What have you learned
about yourself?
1570
01:21:03,760 --> 01:21:07,720
I've certainly learnt
that I am reactive
1571
01:21:07,840 --> 01:21:10,200
and I need to stop, breathe
and be calm
1572
01:21:10,320 --> 01:21:11,800
and, you know,
1573
01:21:11,920 --> 01:21:14,400
I didn't like some of the things
I saw in myself,
1574
01:21:14,520 --> 01:21:19,320
so that also attributes to...
being an arsehole to people
1575
01:21:19,440 --> 01:21:21,800
and that's not nice.
1576
01:21:21,920 --> 01:21:25,200
Like, I'm turning 36.
Like, sort your shit out.
1577
01:21:26,840 --> 01:21:30,720
I regret the way I treated Alissa,
I regret not believing Gia,
1578
01:21:30,840 --> 01:21:35,240
I regret being so harsh on Steph
last night.
1579
01:21:36,840 --> 01:21:40,880
But I feel like I've shown up
every single time,
1580
01:21:41,000 --> 01:21:43,560
even in the hardest times, you know.
1581
01:21:43,680 --> 01:21:45,360
Even tonight.
1582
01:21:45,480 --> 01:21:49,840
The good news here is that you are
able to look at the situation
1583
01:21:49,960 --> 01:21:51,400
and, you know,
start to maybe reflect on
1584
01:21:51,520 --> 01:21:56,280
what you did and maybe what you
could do differently in relationship
1585
01:21:56,400 --> 01:21:58,440
going forward.
Yeah. For sure.
1586
01:21:58,560 --> 01:22:00,640
Best of luck.
Thanks, guys.
1587
01:22:00,760 --> 01:22:03,960
(APPLAUSE)
1588
01:22:11,520 --> 01:22:11,570
The biggest players from the reunion
1589
01:22:14,440 --> 01:22:18,560
It's time to get our last
couple up on the couch.
1590
01:22:20,960 --> 01:22:22,760
Stella and Filip.
1591
01:22:22,880 --> 01:22:25,040
(BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS)
MEL: Please come up.
1592
01:22:25,160 --> 01:22:28,360
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
1593
01:22:30,840 --> 01:22:32,600
Hello.
STELLA: Hello.
1594
01:22:32,720 --> 01:22:33,800
FILIP: How we going?
Hello!
1595
01:22:33,920 --> 01:22:35,080
Hi.
1596
01:22:35,200 --> 01:22:37,480
Can I go like this,
because I'm so happy!
1597
01:22:37,600 --> 01:22:40,000
Congratulations, you two.
1598
01:22:40,120 --> 01:22:41,360
Thank you. Thanks.
1599
01:22:41,480 --> 01:22:44,200
We've heard all about the engagement
last night.
1600
01:22:44,320 --> 01:22:47,640
And Filip, when did you know
you were ready to, you know,
1601
01:22:47,760 --> 01:22:49,280
get down on one knee?
1602
01:22:49,400 --> 01:22:52,440
So, this was brewing for a few weeks
1603
01:22:52,560 --> 01:22:56,920
and deliberations week,
I spoke to my parents,
1604
01:22:57,040 --> 01:22:58,760
my parents who have been married
for 40 years
1605
01:22:58,880 --> 01:23:01,760
and I've seen it, like,
with my own eyes, how good it is,
1606
01:23:01,880 --> 01:23:03,240
you know, when it's good.
1607
01:23:03,360 --> 01:23:07,760
And I said
that I'm absolutely in love
1608
01:23:07,880 --> 01:23:10,160
and I want to do it
1609
01:23:10,280 --> 01:23:12,200
but, like, "How did you know?"
1610
01:23:12,320 --> 01:23:14,800
And then my old man is, like,
"You just know.
1611
01:23:14,920 --> 01:23:17,240
"Like, you already know the answer.
You have to do it."
1612
01:23:18,840 --> 01:23:21,640
How would you two sum up your time
in this experiment?
1613
01:23:23,440 --> 01:23:29,920
Um... It's really hard to sum up.
Mmm.
1614
01:23:30,040 --> 01:23:34,200
Yeah, I personally had
great experience.
1615
01:23:34,320 --> 01:23:36,120
Yes, we had our ups and downs.
Yeah.
1616
01:23:36,240 --> 01:23:36,400
Fears came out.
1617
01:23:37,160 --> 01:23:37,920
Fears came out.
1618
01:23:39,280 --> 01:23:43,400
But I'm glad that they did
come out in front of you guys
1619
01:23:43,520 --> 01:23:46,720
and whilst we were held
in the experiment
1620
01:23:46,840 --> 01:23:50,840
and I'm forever grateful for that,
to be honest,
1621
01:23:50,960 --> 01:23:53,440
because if not this, if not you,
if not the advice,
1622
01:23:53,560 --> 01:23:56,880
if not him being ready,
if not me being ready...
1623
01:23:57,000 --> 01:23:59,240
Like, so many things had to align
for this to happen,
1624
01:23:59,360 --> 01:24:02,680
so it's a one-of-a-kind experience.
1625
01:24:05,400 --> 01:24:10,720
Well, I think it's a good time
to take a look at your love story.
1626
01:24:10,840 --> 01:24:12,480
Yes, please! (LAUGHS)
1627
01:24:12,600 --> 01:24:13,840
Alright. (LAUGHS)
1628
01:24:18,800 --> 01:24:20,480
FILIP: Seeing Stella
for the first time...
1629
01:24:20,600 --> 01:24:23,600
STELLA: Oh, my goodness.
Love is in the air.
1630
01:24:23,720 --> 01:24:25,920
..this is my person,
this is the one.
1631
01:24:26,040 --> 01:24:27,440
CELEBRANT: You may now kiss.
1632
01:24:27,560 --> 01:24:30,360
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
1633
01:24:30,480 --> 01:24:32,080
I'm feeling great about Filip.
1634
01:24:32,200 --> 01:24:34,560
(BOTH LAUGH)
1635
01:24:34,680 --> 01:24:37,120
Despite the fact that I married
a stranger five days ago...
1636
01:24:37,240 --> 01:24:38,640
You kiss well. Mmm.
1637
01:24:38,760 --> 01:24:40,080
(LAUGHS)
1638
01:24:40,200 --> 01:24:43,440
..it feels like we are in
a full-blown relationship.
1639
01:24:43,560 --> 01:24:46,960
Exclusive as you can get, obviously.
(LAUGHS)
1640
01:24:47,080 --> 01:24:49,920
(LAUGHS) You look amazing.
1641
01:24:50,040 --> 01:24:52,000
Thank you.
1642
01:24:52,120 --> 01:24:55,240
How about we do those push-ups?
(LAUGHTER)
1643
01:24:55,360 --> 01:24:57,760
Yeah, I can see myself
falling in love with him, for sure.
1644
01:24:58,960 --> 01:25:00,160
Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for being you.
1645
01:25:00,280 --> 01:25:01,760
Thanks for being you.
You're amazing.
1646
01:25:01,880 --> 01:25:05,280
She just makes me feel like,
yeah, like I'm at home.
1647
01:25:05,400 --> 01:25:07,720
Like, she's totally different to
anyone that I've ever met.
1648
01:25:07,840 --> 01:25:09,520
Talk less, kiss more.
1649
01:25:09,640 --> 01:25:11,040
(LAUGHS)
1650
01:25:11,160 --> 01:25:13,280
Is this the naughty room?
It's the naughty room.
1651
01:25:13,400 --> 01:25:15,160
(BOTH LAUGH)
1652
01:25:15,280 --> 01:25:16,960
Hold it.
1653
01:25:17,080 --> 01:25:18,840
Obviously not a question, right?
(LAUGHS)
1654
01:25:18,960 --> 01:25:19,960
I'm not going anywhere.
1655
01:25:20,080 --> 01:25:21,880
I wrote 'stay'.
Stay.
1656
01:25:22,000 --> 01:25:23,520
Stay!
I'm staying.
1657
01:25:23,640 --> 01:25:28,240
I asked the experts
to be the love story.
1658
01:25:28,360 --> 01:25:30,440
I am in love with you.
1659
01:25:30,560 --> 01:25:32,760
And I got it.
1660
01:25:32,880 --> 01:25:34,480
GIA: Aw!
1661
01:25:34,600 --> 01:25:37,400
You 100% know
that I am in love with you.
1662
01:25:39,480 --> 01:25:40,880
(BLOWS KISS)
Love you.
1663
01:25:41,000 --> 01:25:41,920
Love you.
1664
01:25:42,040 --> 01:25:47,160
It's crazy. Like, I actually do not
want to spend a day without him.
1665
01:25:47,280 --> 01:25:49,120
He truly became a part of me.
1666
01:25:49,240 --> 01:25:50,800
(LAUGHS)
1667
01:25:50,920 --> 01:25:52,280
We fell in love,
we built a beautiful relationship.
1668
01:25:52,400 --> 01:25:53,800
I have something for you.
1669
01:25:53,920 --> 01:25:56,080
Oh, this is the house keys?
1670
01:25:56,200 --> 01:25:58,760
I actually feel deeper
than I ever felt.
1671
01:26:03,600 --> 01:26:06,960
I really hope this is
our happily ever after.
1672
01:26:07,080 --> 01:26:08,560
(RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS)
1673
01:26:08,680 --> 01:26:11,760
I thought that I was never gonna
experience a love like this.
1674
01:26:12,880 --> 01:26:15,360
I am 100% in love with Stella
1675
01:26:15,480 --> 01:26:18,200
and I want to be with her
for the rest of my life.
1676
01:26:19,720 --> 01:26:21,520
Stella, I love you more than I ever
thought possible
1677
01:26:21,640 --> 01:26:24,040
and have never felt more certain
of anything.
1678
01:26:25,480 --> 01:26:27,880
Though we were married
in this experiment,
1679
01:26:28,000 --> 01:26:30,240
there is something I want to do.
1680
01:26:32,120 --> 01:26:33,640
Are you...
1681
01:26:35,320 --> 01:26:36,440
Will you marry me?
1682
01:26:36,560 --> 01:26:38,000
Yes!
1683
01:26:38,120 --> 01:26:41,120
(RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS)
(APPLAUSE)
1684
01:26:42,200 --> 01:26:44,400
(LAUGHS)
1685
01:26:44,520 --> 01:26:46,400
(SCREAMS)
1686
01:26:46,520 --> 01:26:48,800
(LAUGHTER)
1687
01:26:50,400 --> 01:26:52,240
(LAUGHS)
1688
01:26:53,400 --> 01:26:54,600
Thank you and...
No, no...
1689
01:26:54,720 --> 01:26:56,800
..I can't wait for
what the future holds for us.
1690
01:26:56,920 --> 01:26:58,400
Thanks for being you.
Thanks for being you.
1691
01:26:58,520 --> 01:27:00,200
I love you.
You're the best.
1692
01:27:00,320 --> 01:27:02,240
You're the best.
1693
01:27:02,360 --> 01:27:03,600
(LAUGHS)
1694
01:27:03,720 --> 01:27:05,040
MEL: Aw!
1695
01:27:05,160 --> 01:27:06,680
(APPLAUSE)
(LAUGHS)
1696
01:27:11,160 --> 01:27:13,760
(CRIES)
1697
01:27:13,880 --> 01:27:16,040
(BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS)
Wow.
1698
01:27:16,160 --> 01:27:17,760
Oh, so beautiful.
1699
01:27:21,080 --> 01:27:22,080
(LAUGHS)
1700
01:27:22,200 --> 01:27:24,000
Oh, dear.
That was unreal.
1701
01:27:24,120 --> 01:27:25,640
That was so good to watch.
That was incredible to watch.
1702
01:27:25,760 --> 01:27:27,440
It felt so good watching that.
Yeah.
1703
01:27:27,560 --> 01:27:28,800
All of it.
Yeah.
1704
01:27:28,920 --> 01:27:29,840
Yeah.
1705
01:27:29,960 --> 01:27:31,640
What a love story.
1706
01:27:31,760 --> 01:27:32,840
Oh, god.
1707
01:27:32,960 --> 01:27:35,920
(CRIES)
You got your love story, Stella.
1708
01:27:38,520 --> 01:27:40,200
You got your love story, Filip.
1709
01:27:40,320 --> 01:27:42,040
Absolutely. Absolutely.
1710
01:27:42,160 --> 01:27:45,800
When you look at Stella,
what do you see?
1711
01:27:45,920 --> 01:27:48,480
My future.
1712
01:27:48,600 --> 01:27:50,320
And you, Stella?
1713
01:27:51,280 --> 01:27:53,960
Um... (CLEARS THROAT) Home.
1714
01:27:55,200 --> 01:27:58,920
(GENTLE MUSIC PLAYS)
1715
01:28:02,440 --> 01:28:03,760
Yeah.
1716
01:28:07,880 --> 01:28:10,160
(GENTLE MUSIC PLAYS)
1717
01:28:12,200 --> 01:28:13,480
Um...
1718
01:28:13,600 --> 01:28:17,480
Is it the combination
of not only the dream
1719
01:28:17,600 --> 01:28:19,280
but also your life journey
of coming here
1720
01:28:19,400 --> 01:28:21,680
and actually building a home
with someone?
1721
01:28:21,800 --> 01:28:23,640
Mmm.
1722
01:28:23,760 --> 01:28:25,240
Oh, yeah.
1723
01:28:25,360 --> 01:28:26,400
Yeah.
1724
01:28:26,520 --> 01:28:28,320
It feels that way,
the way you said home.
1725
01:28:28,440 --> 01:28:29,520
Yeah.
Yeah.
1726
01:28:29,640 --> 01:28:32,720
Do you feel more settled here now
with Filip than you ever have?
1727
01:28:32,840 --> 01:28:35,680
I can go anywhere.
I can live with him in a tent.
1728
01:28:35,800 --> 01:28:37,440
I'll be happy with him.
Love it.
1729
01:28:37,560 --> 01:28:39,280
Yeah.
Same.
1730
01:28:39,400 --> 01:28:41,920
Yeah.
That makes me really happy for you.
1731
01:28:42,040 --> 01:28:42,840
(LAUGHS)
Yeah.
1732
01:28:42,960 --> 01:28:43,840
Thank you.
It's good.
1733
01:28:46,080 --> 01:28:48,360
And you have moved to Sydney,
have you not?
1734
01:28:48,480 --> 01:28:50,520
Yeah. Yeah.
You're living together?
1735
01:28:50,640 --> 01:28:52,920
Yeah.
So, when is the wedding?
1736
01:28:53,040 --> 01:28:54,360
(LAUGHTER)
1737
01:28:54,480 --> 01:28:57,080
I said straight away July 24,
you know, next year, but...
1738
01:28:57,200 --> 01:28:59,040
It's like a year.
..that's probably too soon.
1739
01:28:59,160 --> 01:29:00,080
(LAUGHS)
1740
01:29:00,200 --> 01:29:04,040
It's been such a pleasure
to witness this
1741
01:29:04,160 --> 01:29:05,640
and to be a part of it
1742
01:29:05,760 --> 01:29:09,480
and to help you along the way
for all three of us.
1743
01:29:09,600 --> 01:29:12,120
We've commented on it so often
1744
01:29:12,240 --> 01:29:14,800
throughout the experience
of this experiment
1745
01:29:14,920 --> 01:29:16,520
on the two of you, in particular.
1746
01:29:16,640 --> 01:29:18,520
Thank you so much,
the both of you,
1747
01:29:18,640 --> 01:29:21,200
for throwing yourselves in headfirst
to this whole experience.
1748
01:29:21,320 --> 01:29:24,400
You're an incredible team.
1749
01:29:24,520 --> 01:29:26,680
And you really worked together
and had each other's back.
1750
01:29:26,800 --> 01:29:30,520
And we wish you both
all the very best.
1751
01:29:30,640 --> 01:29:31,760
Thank you.
Thank you very much.
1752
01:29:31,880 --> 01:29:33,280
We appreciate.
Thanks for everything. Seriously.
1753
01:29:33,400 --> 01:29:34,680
Well done.
1754
01:29:34,800 --> 01:29:36,920
(APPLAUSE)
1755
01:29:41,760 --> 01:29:42,840
Oh...
1756
01:29:42,960 --> 01:29:45,120
Thanks, guys.
Thank you.
1757
01:29:45,240 --> 01:29:46,320
Thanks, everyone.
1758
01:29:46,440 --> 01:29:47,440
Oh!
1759
01:29:47,560 --> 01:29:51,480
JOHN: Well, that brings the reunion
and the experiment to its conclusion
1760
01:29:53,840 --> 01:29:57,880
We want to tell you just how proud
we are that you've made it this far.
1761
01:29:58,000 --> 01:30:00,800
It took a lot of bravery,
it took a lot of courage
1762
01:30:00,920 --> 01:30:04,720
to essentially throw yourselves
into this process,
1763
01:30:04,840 --> 01:30:08,720
to marry a stranger
and then to really explore
1764
01:30:08,840 --> 01:30:12,920
and go on a journey to see
whether you can get the fairytale.
1765
01:30:14,240 --> 01:30:16,400
Now, for some of you,
it didn't work out
1766
01:30:16,520 --> 01:30:21,520
but we know that you will have
learned some lessons along the way
1767
01:30:21,640 --> 01:30:25,440
that you can take into
your future relationships.
1768
01:30:26,920 --> 01:30:31,080
And for Stella and Filip,
congratulations again
1769
01:30:31,200 --> 01:30:32,560
on your engagement
1770
01:30:32,680 --> 01:30:38,440
and we wish you and everyone else
all the very best for the future.
1771
01:30:38,560 --> 01:30:40,880
MAN: Good luck, everyone.
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
1772
01:30:41,000 --> 01:30:42,520
WOMAN: Thanks, everyone.
MAN: That's a wrap.
1773
01:30:42,640 --> 01:30:45,120
(RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS)
1774
01:30:48,480 --> 01:30:51,680
(LOW-LEVEL CONVERSATION)
1775
01:30:55,200 --> 01:30:56,840
Come on. Come here, girl.
1776
01:30:56,960 --> 01:30:59,000
JULIA: Oh, I finally get to hug you,
Mel.
1777
01:30:59,120 --> 01:31:00,800
Thank you so much.
1778
01:31:07,160 --> 01:31:10,160
(EVOCATIVE MUSIC PLAYS)
1779
01:31:19,720 --> 01:31:22,120
MEL: Hello. Welcome.
1780
01:31:22,240 --> 01:31:26,920
Can I just jump in and share
something here that may help?
1781
01:31:27,040 --> 01:31:31,000
Yes, this experiment
is about finding love
1782
01:31:31,120 --> 01:31:36,120
but there's also another
very important stream
1783
01:31:36,240 --> 01:31:39,200
that runs through this experiment.
1784
01:31:39,320 --> 01:31:43,800
It is about personal development.
It is about finding your worth.
1785
01:31:43,920 --> 01:31:46,720
It is about learning to find
your voice
1786
01:31:46,840 --> 01:31:51,160
and to start really believing
that you deserve love.
1787
01:31:52,600 --> 01:31:54,400
I feel a bit like I'm looking
in the mirror...
1788
01:31:54,520 --> 01:31:55,720
WOMAN: (LAUGHS) Yeah.
1789
01:31:55,840 --> 01:31:57,600
..because I was exactly the same...
Really?
1790
01:31:57,720 --> 01:32:00,320
..and I spent my entire 30s
focused on career.
1791
01:32:00,440 --> 01:32:01,280
Yes.
1792
01:32:01,400 --> 01:32:03,040
And you know what,
I met my partner at 39...
1793
01:32:03,160 --> 01:32:05,800
Yeah, that's amazing.
..and I had my baby at 42.
1794
01:32:05,920 --> 01:32:08,480
JOHN: Your husband, when you ask him
1795
01:32:08,600 --> 01:32:10,360
what sort of feelings
he has for you,
1796
01:32:10,480 --> 01:32:12,240
what might he say?
1797
01:32:12,360 --> 01:32:19,000
He might say
"I feel deeply connected to you,"
1798
01:32:19,120 --> 01:32:22,600
he says I'm his soulmate,
1799
01:32:22,720 --> 01:32:28,000
he says he can stop looking
'cause he's found me.
1800
01:32:31,120 --> 01:32:33,400
Oh, it's beautiful! Look at that!
1801
01:32:33,520 --> 01:32:36,360
She's got a ring on her...
She's got a ring on her finger!
1802
01:32:36,480 --> 01:32:39,560
(LAUGHS) Oh, my god!
1803
01:32:39,680 --> 01:32:41,560
Oh, I want to take a photo.
I love that.
1804
01:32:41,680 --> 01:32:42,880
That's gorgeous.
1805
01:32:43,000 --> 01:32:44,440
(APPLAUSE)
1806
01:32:44,560 --> 01:32:47,760
MEL: Well, thank you so much
for your time in this experiment,
1807
01:32:47,880 --> 01:32:51,200
for your courage, your authenticity.
1808
01:32:51,320 --> 01:32:53,200
We salute you
1809
01:32:53,320 --> 01:32:56,320
and wish you all the best
and all the happiness in the world.
1810
01:33:19,560 --> 01:33:22,560
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