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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:06,120 How do you feel now when you look back at your career? My biggest asset has 2 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:10,320 my confidence People feel that I have inspired people or Geet has inspired 3 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:14,700 people. That character so much. But the way Geet thinks with her heart, you 4 00:00:14,700 --> 00:00:18,180 don't see that these days. Even in the Gen Z, I think. Where do you get your 5 00:00:18,180 --> 00:00:20,420 gossip from? I think from Instagram these days. 6 00:00:20,660 --> 00:00:24,240 What is Kareena, the mom, doing for her kids? In terms of what do you keep 7 00:00:24,240 --> 00:00:27,960 telling them? Right now, it's just like, don't fight with each other. 8 00:00:28,220 --> 00:00:30,160 Wait till the time they discover WWE. 9 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:32,740 They have, because Taimur already has. 10 00:00:33,340 --> 00:00:38,130 So he's wearing his gloves and he's like, come on. How do you dress at home? 11 00:00:38,130 --> 00:00:40,430 dress like, I've been like, put so strange. 12 00:00:40,650 --> 00:00:47,610 Saif today is like, God, to go to a fake event, so many people, so many 13 00:00:47,610 --> 00:00:51,630 clothes. What was the most attractive thing at first when you got to know Saif 14 00:00:51,630 --> 00:00:54,210 Ali Khan? I think I'm still discovering Saif. Really? 15 00:00:54,450 --> 00:00:56,070 Yeah. You ever felt lonely? 16 00:00:56,650 --> 00:00:59,650 Like throughout this journey? Well, I mean, of course, I think people will 17 00:00:59,650 --> 00:01:02,650 really understand what you are feeling at that time. Because sometimes you have 18 00:01:02,650 --> 00:01:06,230 to do so many things for others, no matter what you are going through. 19 00:01:06,490 --> 00:01:09,410 That you are dying from 102 fever, but there is no one with you. 20 00:01:09,670 --> 00:01:10,670 They don't care. 21 00:01:12,870 --> 00:01:17,270 There's really not much to say in this intro. It's Kareena Kapoor Khan on The 22 00:01:17,270 --> 00:01:18,270 Ranveer Show. 23 00:01:18,710 --> 00:01:21,190 Absolutely beautiful, in -depth conversation. 24 00:01:21,610 --> 00:01:24,410 I honestly feel that there's very few Indians. 25 00:01:24,910 --> 00:01:27,710 who've reached an out -and -out iconic status. 26 00:01:28,110 --> 00:01:33,610 And they've usually reached that point because of years of hard work, years of 27 00:01:33,610 --> 00:01:36,710 self -conditioning, years of sacrifice. 28 00:01:37,350 --> 00:01:41,870 That's what we tried speaking about today with Kareena Kapoor Khan. But it's 29 00:01:41,870 --> 00:01:42,930 also a fun conversation. 30 00:01:43,270 --> 00:01:48,790 You'll get an insight into her mind, into her heart, and hopefully her soul. 31 00:01:48,790 --> 00:01:52,590 new film, Crew, is releasing in theatres on the 29th. 32 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:57,020 of March. Make sure you go check it out. But for now, it's Kareena Kapoor Khan 33 00:01:57,020 --> 00:01:59,000 on The Ranveer Show. 34 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:25,500 Because the sun is shining outside the studio and inside the studio, we have 35 00:02:25,500 --> 00:02:28,460 Kareena Kapoor with us. Thank you. Kareena Kapoor Khan. 36 00:02:28,820 --> 00:02:29,960 Yes. How are you? 37 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:35,380 Very well, very happy to be here talking to you, Ranveer. And it's always nice 38 00:02:35,380 --> 00:02:41,820 because talking to you, it feels like I've known you forever, somehow. 39 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:46,540 Even when you came on my show, we met for the first time actually there. 40 00:02:46,740 --> 00:02:51,560 But I somehow feel like... I've always known you. I feel the same. And it's not 41 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:55,340 something I'm saying to just warm you up and to break ice here. Yeah. But I felt 42 00:02:55,340 --> 00:02:59,500 it was very easy speaking with you for some reason. I don't know why. And I'd 43 00:02:59,500 --> 00:03:06,400 probably say that seeing Kareena Kapoor's career from the outside was 44 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:10,360 inspirational. Because since I was a kid, I was very messed up and deep. 45 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:15,060 I would see it and I think that there's a lot of hard work and discipline that's 46 00:03:15,060 --> 00:03:17,700 going on here. But it's all behind the scenes. Yeah, it's all behind the 47 00:03:17,780 --> 00:03:18,980 Everything should be behind the scenes. 48 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:24,040 How do you feel now when you look back at just your career? 49 00:03:26,180 --> 00:03:30,440 I just look back at it as like, you know, I've done so many things that I've 50 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:32,460 really wanted to do and enjoyed doing. 51 00:03:33,300 --> 00:03:37,880 I'm very, very lucky and one of those lucky few that I have actually enjoyed 52 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:44,380 being on set every minute that I have from the age of 17 today. 53 00:03:45,340 --> 00:03:46,340 I'm 43. 54 00:03:46,420 --> 00:03:52,700 And I think that journey and that every day of me being in front of the camera, 55 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:58,360 being, you know, on set, meeting my actors, directors, playing different 56 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:04,380 has been, I think, something that has given me so much happiness and so much 57 00:04:04,380 --> 00:04:06,260 joy. And I'm very lucky that I love my job. 58 00:04:07,060 --> 00:04:10,820 Because if you don't really love what you're doing, it's very tough. 59 00:04:11,450 --> 00:04:14,030 you know, to keep doing it, to go ahead with it. 60 00:04:14,330 --> 00:04:17,529 And I feel most people somehow don't really get to enjoy their jobs. 61 00:04:17,850 --> 00:04:18,990 Have you loved it throughout? 62 00:04:20,250 --> 00:04:22,910 I think I've loved it even before I face the camera. 63 00:04:23,430 --> 00:04:30,010 Because I think acting is a ghost, it's a drug, in a good sense. 64 00:04:30,950 --> 00:04:37,930 And that is actually like a feeling of like, you know, that trance. I feel 65 00:04:37,930 --> 00:04:41,070 that trance every time I'm in front of the camera. That's why every... 66 00:04:41,310 --> 00:04:45,910 time you see a shot of mine i'm giving it my 100 i'm giving it my best because 67 00:04:45,910 --> 00:04:51,430 i love it so much have you seen this pixar film called soul called soul s -o 68 00:04:51,430 --> 00:04:54,890 -l no i haven't okay i highly recommend it okay i recommend you watch it with 69 00:04:54,890 --> 00:05:00,330 your kids like oh nice yeah of course but it's a very spiritual film oh nice 70 00:05:00,330 --> 00:05:03,670 they talk about a state of flow in it and i've spoken about this a lot on the 71 00:05:03,670 --> 00:05:07,490 show it's basically what you're saying right right the best acting and best art 72 00:05:07,490 --> 00:05:10,540 always comes out of a deeper place Yeah, of course. I think so. 73 00:05:10,980 --> 00:05:17,720 And a deep place of like wanting to do your best, giving your best 74 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:18,720 somehow. 75 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:25,620 Have you ever had a role where you really, really had to go extremely deep 76 00:05:25,620 --> 00:05:27,500 within your own head to pull out that performance? 77 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:32,460 Or do all your roles come out of like a similar place of just being Kareena 78 00:05:32,460 --> 00:05:33,460 Kapoor Khan? No. 79 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:38,680 I think most people like to feel that because I make a lot of things look... 80 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:45,080 Easy. Yeah. But there are roles that I think I have given a lot to. And in 81 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:48,280 maybe those films haven't been box office successes. 82 00:05:48,580 --> 00:05:53,680 Whether it was Lal Singh Chadda, whether it was Heroin, whether it was Tashan. 83 00:05:53,940 --> 00:06:00,380 These are films that I loved and, you know, enjoyed doing and gave a lot to a 84 00:06:00,380 --> 00:06:03,340 lot of thought. Like Rupa was such a deep character in Lal Singh. 85 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:07,120 Somehow she was dark, but yet like a ray of sunshine. 86 00:06:08,190 --> 00:06:12,050 So, you know, doing those kind of paths really excite me. Do you remember a chat 87 00:06:12,050 --> 00:06:13,050 we had on your show? 88 00:06:13,350 --> 00:06:17,090 Yeah, yeah. About bad girls and bad boys. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 89 00:06:17,630 --> 00:06:20,770 I didn't get a chance to expand on that thought. But what I was basically trying 90 00:06:20,770 --> 00:06:24,270 to say is that all of us are a little bit grey. Of course. And those human 91 00:06:24,270 --> 00:06:28,370 beings, I think, are... The most interesting to play also. 92 00:06:28,590 --> 00:06:31,990 Yeah. In terms of... The grey people are the most interesting in real life and 93 00:06:31,990 --> 00:06:33,810 the most interesting roles. I think so, no? 94 00:06:34,490 --> 00:06:38,670 Are you still like the same shade of grey that you were in your 20s? 95 00:06:38,950 --> 00:06:40,690 Or are you a different person now? 96 00:06:41,090 --> 00:06:42,910 In the 2020s? 97 00:06:43,370 --> 00:06:50,050 I think I'm... When I was in my 20s, I was a lot more like... 98 00:06:50,050 --> 00:06:53,590 There is a different kind of fire inside. 99 00:06:54,150 --> 00:06:55,810 There is a different kind of spirit. 100 00:06:56,090 --> 00:06:59,670 There is a different kind of spirit that has to prove that I have to be the 101 00:06:59,670 --> 00:07:01,130 best. I want to do this. 102 00:07:01,830 --> 00:07:03,530 That's a different kind of... 103 00:07:04,130 --> 00:07:05,130 Constantly on the go. 104 00:07:05,670 --> 00:07:06,710 You know, 105 00:07:08,170 --> 00:07:14,030 all of that. But I think now, after having almost reached 25 years of my 106 00:07:14,230 --> 00:07:17,270 there's a different kind of hunger. 107 00:07:17,750 --> 00:07:22,330 Hunger for a little bit of peace also in the characters that I play. 108 00:07:23,550 --> 00:07:28,270 A little bit of more deeper understanding. 109 00:07:28,530 --> 00:07:30,450 Because as a human being also, I've grown. 110 00:07:31,530 --> 00:07:35,030 And between 20 and 43, there's no growth as a person. I think there'll be no 111 00:07:35,030 --> 00:07:36,030 growth as an actor. 112 00:07:36,350 --> 00:07:38,970 And I feel like I have grown as a person. 113 00:07:39,630 --> 00:07:40,630 Recently how? 114 00:07:41,590 --> 00:07:43,890 Recently how? I mean, motherhood has changed me. 115 00:07:44,310 --> 00:07:46,050 Being a wife has changed me. 116 00:07:46,630 --> 00:07:49,770 I think there are different types of responsibilities in life. 117 00:07:51,570 --> 00:07:52,970 You're not chasing... 118 00:07:53,580 --> 00:07:57,700 Just that one end point, you know, which when you're in your 20s, you're like, 119 00:07:57,800 --> 00:07:59,140 success is everything. 120 00:07:59,580 --> 00:08:01,020 Box office hits are everything. 121 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:07,320 My life revolves on the fact that I need to prove myself as a good actor or a 122 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:08,320 star. 123 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:13,220 Now, I feel my mind has also expanded. 124 00:08:13,460 --> 00:08:19,540 And my husband, my children, my friends have allowed me and helped me grow 125 00:08:19,540 --> 00:08:24,710 into... you know, the person I am and hopefully the person I will become. 126 00:08:25,050 --> 00:08:27,030 Is there like a challenge at this stage? 127 00:08:28,490 --> 00:08:33,309 There's a challenge of, you know, how far I can go with mental peace, how far 128 00:08:33,309 --> 00:08:36,030 can stretch myself to be at peace with myself. 129 00:08:36,890 --> 00:08:41,850 And that is a constant battle which one has to keep, you know, doing. 130 00:08:42,090 --> 00:08:44,630 Can I add to your peace a little bit? Yeah, of course. 131 00:08:45,110 --> 00:08:48,830 So, because you are the sunflower of India. 132 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:56,780 oh god something this is for you wow thank you so beautiful yeah i love 133 00:08:56,780 --> 00:09:00,300 sunflowers should i keep it here you can keep it next to you wherever you wish 134 00:09:00,300 --> 00:09:05,640 but uh this is actually what you are for a lot of india and i know this is a 135 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:11,720 little gimmicky but no i i think getting flowers is never a gimmick i think it's 136 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:13,580 so nice You like receiving flowers? Yeah. 137 00:09:13,980 --> 00:09:17,520 We thought long and hard about which one to give you. Yeah, sunflower. 138 00:09:18,060 --> 00:09:21,740 There's no flower that I could think of that's as similar to your soul, like how 139 00:09:21,740 --> 00:09:25,860 we know Kareena Kapoor. I think that's a lovely compliment for me. 140 00:09:26,100 --> 00:09:31,880 Like, you know, whether it's you in a photo or you on screen, or I remember 141 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:36,540 like my early memories of seeing Kareena Kapoor, you always like stood out. 142 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:41,820 And that came from a place of deep internal self -confidence. That I 143 00:09:41,820 --> 00:09:42,820 right now. Yeah. 144 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:47,800 So were you acting with self -confidence then? Or was it actually that deep? 145 00:09:48,540 --> 00:09:52,980 You know, I'm actually... I can only act to play my character. 146 00:09:53,320 --> 00:10:00,140 In real life, I don't think I can act. Because I'm that kind of person 147 00:10:00,140 --> 00:10:03,600 that anything... It just appears on my face. 148 00:10:04,140 --> 00:10:05,140 It appears in my eyes. 149 00:10:05,740 --> 00:10:07,560 That... If I'm in a bad mood. 150 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:09,920 That I'm upset about something. 151 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:11,360 Or anything. 152 00:10:12,100 --> 00:10:13,240 I'm extra happy. 153 00:10:14,020 --> 00:10:15,180 That's why when you see me. 154 00:10:16,560 --> 00:10:18,120 Sometimes I'm like so happy. 155 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:21,300 I'm like all OTT over the top. Because it comes from that. 156 00:10:21,700 --> 00:10:25,320 I just react instantly to people. To things. 157 00:10:27,500 --> 00:10:29,900 You know. I'm a very reactive person. 158 00:10:30,550 --> 00:10:34,390 And I think that has helped me. So self -confidence, I don't think it can, 159 00:10:34,470 --> 00:10:36,450 confidence is something that you can put on. 160 00:10:36,910 --> 00:10:40,610 It was always there. You either have it or you don't have it. I don't remember 161 00:10:40,610 --> 00:10:41,930 you being without confidence. 162 00:10:42,870 --> 00:10:49,090 In this profession, I think my biggest ammunition and my biggest 163 00:10:49,090 --> 00:10:52,190 asset has been my confidence. 164 00:10:52,670 --> 00:10:55,030 And that's why I feel that. 165 00:10:55,690 --> 00:11:01,230 Maybe people feel that I have inspired people or Geet has inspired people, that 166 00:11:01,230 --> 00:11:06,270 character so much. Because she was lovable but with confidence. 167 00:11:07,230 --> 00:11:10,130 That I'll go, I'll run away, I'll get married to that guy, I'll do it. 168 00:11:10,490 --> 00:11:17,430 That level of confidence, that level of innocence also, I think that is in me. 169 00:11:17,770 --> 00:11:19,970 Do you get bored of being asked Jab We Met questions? 170 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:25,440 Because see, the topic is very hot on reels and shorts. So if anyone talks 171 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:27,620 Jab We Met, it blows up on the algorithm. 172 00:11:28,180 --> 00:11:33,980 But it's just amazing because the film released recently and people were 173 00:11:33,980 --> 00:11:37,680 me videos because I have some of my own friends who went to watch it. 174 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:40,780 People have recited the whole film. 175 00:11:41,380 --> 00:11:43,880 They're like as though they're reading a book. 176 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:48,400 They're just reading, they were saying the dialogues one after the other, not 177 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:52,040 just mine, but Shahid's, everybody's, every single character. 178 00:11:52,860 --> 00:11:57,780 So it's just the impact on people. 179 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:04,600 So very few films in a person's career have that. Very few films in general age 180 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:06,000 that well also. Yeah. 181 00:12:06,460 --> 00:12:10,700 And, like, I think Geet as a character has influenced a lot of people's heads 182 00:12:10,700 --> 00:12:14,440 general. It's a very, like, sunflower positive character. Yeah, somewhere, you 183 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:18,980 know. I mean, you know, like, 16, 17 years later, you're still giving 184 00:12:18,980 --> 00:12:19,819 of that. 185 00:12:19,820 --> 00:12:21,340 Even though so many films have released. 186 00:12:22,100 --> 00:12:27,360 But I feel those love stories, these days, we're missing that, no? Yeah, I 187 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:30,000 the same. I feel the same about the film world in general all over the world. 188 00:12:30,140 --> 00:12:32,780 Like, I remember growing up seeing a lot of rom -coms. I don't know where all 189 00:12:32,780 --> 00:12:34,320 the rom -coms have gone. I don't know where they've gone. 190 00:12:34,780 --> 00:12:37,220 Where have they gone? Yeah, where have they gone? Where have all the love 191 00:12:37,220 --> 00:12:43,140 stories gone? Where are all those Shah Rukh, Kajol moments? Where are those? I 192 00:12:43,140 --> 00:12:44,340 also miss those. 193 00:12:44,620 --> 00:12:47,740 But what's the internal chatter in the film industry? Where have they gone? 194 00:12:48,340 --> 00:12:51,300 Now everyone is watching action. Hopefully you'll watch comedy next week. 195 00:12:51,820 --> 00:12:54,700 So we're trying to bring back different genres. 196 00:12:55,360 --> 00:13:02,180 But I think somehow the action films are appealing a lot to the audiences. 197 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:03,480 But I feel... 198 00:13:03,770 --> 00:13:06,270 The audiences, their tastes change also. 199 00:13:06,610 --> 00:13:12,650 They like good films. They are so accepting and loving that the fact is 200 00:13:12,650 --> 00:13:17,090 you give them something that interests them, give them a good story, be it in 201 00:13:17,090 --> 00:13:19,670 any form, I think they just stick to it. 202 00:13:21,310 --> 00:13:24,850 Have you ever wondered about why Jab We Met was this evergreen? 203 00:13:25,070 --> 00:13:28,410 Because I'll give you a little Gen Z perspective on Jab We Met. Yeah, of 204 00:13:28,410 --> 00:13:29,410 I'd love to know. 205 00:13:30,450 --> 00:13:32,830 There's a lot of green flag and red flag chatter. 206 00:13:33,260 --> 00:13:35,040 Like, according to everyone, Anshuman was a red flag. 207 00:13:35,420 --> 00:13:36,420 Yeah, yeah. 208 00:13:36,700 --> 00:13:39,520 Of course, no? And have you heard of the word situationship? 209 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:43,100 I mean, I've read, like, people say that. 210 00:13:43,500 --> 00:13:46,960 So, there's a relationship, and then on the other end of the spectrum, there's, 211 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,740 like, a casual, like, friends with benefits. Yeah. Somewhere in the middle. 212 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:54,530 Where you're... You're a friend with benefits with someone where there's also 213 00:13:54,530 --> 00:13:58,530 emotional benefits. Yeah. So that's why people are connecting, you see. 214 00:13:58,730 --> 00:14:02,850 Yeah. I think with time, people are connecting. We met with a lot of stuff 215 00:14:02,850 --> 00:14:05,270 that's happening in the 2020s. Yeah. 216 00:14:05,630 --> 00:14:08,650 Everyone's like that film was way ahead of its time. Could be. Yeah, that's 217 00:14:08,650 --> 00:14:09,609 true. 218 00:14:09,610 --> 00:14:12,550 What advice would you give Geet now? 219 00:14:12,990 --> 00:14:15,250 The character with everything you've learned about life. 220 00:14:16,810 --> 00:14:18,770 I mean, Geet was somehow. 221 00:14:21,199 --> 00:14:25,760 Her innocence actually has taken her and this longevity is because of her. 222 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:29,900 She did everything and thought so much from her heart. 223 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:31,880 So 224 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:42,100 that's 225 00:14:42,100 --> 00:14:46,720 how somehow they are connecting that they also want to be like that. You 226 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:49,500 but somehow I feel people are thinking a lot more with their. 227 00:14:50,290 --> 00:14:55,390 mind in the 2020s. But people are getting very effed up in the head 228 00:14:55,770 --> 00:15:00,610 Like it's just an outcome of living in the 2020s with social media and 229 00:15:00,610 --> 00:15:01,770 comparison and all that. 230 00:15:02,370 --> 00:15:06,390 That's what I sense is happening a lot. And Geet was pre -social media. 231 00:15:06,890 --> 00:15:09,010 Her innocence was still intact. 232 00:15:09,650 --> 00:15:13,610 That's why people are connecting with the characters even more now. Yeah, I 233 00:15:13,610 --> 00:15:14,610 think so. 234 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:18,420 It's scary, but I mean, like, as much as I love it, I love, like, I love 235 00:15:18,420 --> 00:15:22,600 Instagram and I get to, you know, be in my bed and travel the world. 236 00:15:23,140 --> 00:15:28,160 And, but it's just, I know how damaging, like, it could be to the mind and how 237 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:32,840 carried away, you know, people can get with the way everything has to be, like, 238 00:15:32,860 --> 00:15:36,640 picture perfect. Everything has to be, like, get ready for the event, be seen 239 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:38,940 this event, go collect this award, do this. 240 00:15:42,860 --> 00:15:46,760 I think we're somewhere in between. We're like also forgetting to like, you 241 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:51,500 know, live a little bit for ourselves, for our families, for our friends. Enjoy 242 00:15:51,500 --> 00:15:52,339 the moment. 243 00:15:52,340 --> 00:15:56,420 Like every dinner, at least three times we have to tell our friends or each 244 00:15:56,420 --> 00:15:57,460 other, come on, leave that phone. 245 00:15:58,180 --> 00:16:04,580 So I think it's like we're just caught up in so many things. So I feel we 246 00:16:04,580 --> 00:16:07,600 should still bring back that innocence. 247 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:12,500 And that's why people are still like loving that and going to see. 248 00:16:12,830 --> 00:16:13,830 That film. 249 00:16:14,850 --> 00:16:17,890 Is Geet inside Kareena Kapoor or is Kareena Kapoor inside Geet? 250 00:16:20,610 --> 00:16:22,310 Simpler way of asking. Yeah, no? 251 00:16:23,310 --> 00:16:26,590 Is there a Geet inside you? Like, are you that person completely? 252 00:16:26,830 --> 00:16:28,670 Completely. I think I am that person. 253 00:16:29,290 --> 00:16:32,750 Because Geet always thoughts from her heart. And I honestly, Ranveer, in my 254 00:16:32,750 --> 00:16:36,410 life, I have taken every decision from my heart. 255 00:16:36,940 --> 00:16:38,320 I never thought about it. 256 00:16:38,660 --> 00:16:42,100 Otherwise, then you can see my career graph. You can see some people will say, 257 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:45,140 oh, she said no to this film, that film, this film, that film. And there are so 258 00:16:45,140 --> 00:16:47,700 many discussions about that, that sometimes I'm like, okay, right? 259 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:50,880 You know, every film has its destiny. 260 00:16:51,620 --> 00:16:53,960 It wasn't written in my destiny, it was written in someone else's destiny. 261 00:16:55,080 --> 00:17:01,080 But I have always taken my decisions from my heart that I want to do this. 262 00:17:02,670 --> 00:17:05,750 This is what I want to do right now. This is what I don't want to do right 263 00:17:05,810 --> 00:17:07,010 So that's why I feel. 264 00:17:08,349 --> 00:17:09,349 Somewhere you're. 265 00:17:09,950 --> 00:17:12,329 You know you associate the sunflower girl in me. 266 00:17:12,829 --> 00:17:15,270 You know. I'm a bit of that also. 267 00:17:15,770 --> 00:17:16,770 How's life right now? 268 00:17:18,230 --> 00:17:19,930 How's life right now? Exciting. 269 00:17:22,650 --> 00:17:23,650 I'm very very. 270 00:17:24,390 --> 00:17:25,390 Excited for crew. 271 00:17:25,849 --> 00:17:28,470 All female centric kind of film. Comedy. 272 00:17:30,950 --> 00:17:31,950 Excited to have. 273 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:36,440 collaborated with my long -time producers, Ria and Ekta. 274 00:17:36,780 --> 00:17:38,940 We're an all -women kind of army. 275 00:17:40,020 --> 00:17:44,680 Tabu, Kriti, all of us. I feel like in between so many action films, a 276 00:17:44,680 --> 00:17:51,280 female heist, Ocean 11, Ocean 8 kind of vibe, film, comedy, nice if it comes. 277 00:17:51,600 --> 00:17:57,300 You've always seen the males do it, but now I think we're ready for the female 278 00:17:57,300 --> 00:17:59,660 kind of heist comedy, which I think it is. 279 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:04,080 I think girls have generally gotten very active in content, which is very good. 280 00:18:04,140 --> 00:18:04,999 Very good. 281 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:07,000 I think we had had this discussion that time as well. 282 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:09,700 There's a lot of female content creators coming up. 283 00:18:09,900 --> 00:18:13,840 Lots of girls are expressing themselves more on social media, which is great. 284 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:18,220 Which is great. And which I think is great for them, for themselves, for 285 00:18:18,220 --> 00:18:20,520 self -confidence, for their mental health. 286 00:18:21,460 --> 00:18:22,480 Conversations are on. 287 00:18:23,360 --> 00:18:24,660 Women are in the forefront. 288 00:18:25,180 --> 00:18:27,800 I mean, I think everywhere around the globe. 289 00:18:29,270 --> 00:18:34,310 So I'm happy that it's a good time. So I'm very confident again that I feel 290 00:18:34,310 --> 00:18:35,810 people will enjoy watching us. 291 00:18:36,890 --> 00:18:38,330 Do you change with every film? 292 00:18:39,590 --> 00:18:45,390 Or do you stay the same? No, I think I should change with every film. I mean, 293 00:18:45,390 --> 00:18:51,650 terms of look, I don't know. Size, look, those are all things that don't bother 294 00:18:51,650 --> 00:18:52,650 me as much. 295 00:18:52,750 --> 00:18:56,890 but i should change my character should change the way i perform should change 296 00:18:56,890 --> 00:19:02,250 things like that to change when you went down to the size zero i remember this 297 00:19:02,250 --> 00:19:07,630 was like what india was obsessed with at that point yeah uh was there a downside 298 00:19:07,630 --> 00:19:12,110 of that that didn't come out in the public or was that still easy for you 299 00:19:12,110 --> 00:19:16,630 because what i can tell about you now especially after speaking to you but i 300 00:19:16,630 --> 00:19:21,940 could tell this even then like you're very deeply ambitious So like in that 301 00:19:21,940 --> 00:19:26,340 phase, for sure. Yeah. No, I'm ambitious. You have read me well. I am 302 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:33,740 But I'm not ambitious to the point that I would harm myself, my mental frame of 303 00:19:33,740 --> 00:19:35,400 mind. You tend to, no? 304 00:19:35,660 --> 00:19:40,380 When ambition is so high in your life that you have nothing else to look 305 00:19:40,380 --> 00:19:42,960 to. So I'm not like that. But I'm ambitious. 306 00:19:43,260 --> 00:19:46,560 Did you ever harm your mental health? No. 307 00:19:47,020 --> 00:19:51,640 Size Zero also, I took that time. I took almost a year, year and a half to get 308 00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:53,060 into that look. 309 00:19:53,500 --> 00:19:54,880 And it was like a challenge. 310 00:19:55,120 --> 00:19:57,120 That I said, that I have to do it once in life. 311 00:19:57,440 --> 00:20:01,120 For this action film. Because I've never done an action film actually after that 312 00:20:01,120 --> 00:20:04,420 also. That I have to do this in life, so I have to do this. Would you do it 313 00:20:04,420 --> 00:20:05,420 again? 314 00:20:06,620 --> 00:20:11,180 Now I think that we're living in a generation where everything is accepted. 315 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:14,000 And I wouldn't like to... 316 00:20:15,060 --> 00:20:18,640 say that okay this certain body type would be accepted for an action film or 317 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:25,540 this not i think today everything and everyone can do what they want to do so 318 00:20:25,540 --> 00:20:31,380 think i'm ready for an action film now also i don't need to be a size zero um 319 00:20:31,380 --> 00:20:34,320 i have like too many questions 320 00:20:35,020 --> 00:20:38,620 Okay. And I mean, I'm going to be like very straightforward. 321 00:20:38,980 --> 00:20:42,900 Okay. So normally we shoot in a studio and the studio has its own energy. Yeah. 322 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:47,960 So I'm able to go way deeper into my guest's mind also. Okay. Usually the 323 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:51,240 of the show. Right. Because I get to meet people from a lot of industries and 324 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:55,400 get to gauge where people are. So I'm still trying to get closer to like the 325 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:58,760 real. And then what will happen? Then you will assess me and will you say 326 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:02,660 something? I can say so much even now, but we'll hold that for like the end of 327 00:21:02,660 --> 00:21:03,660 the podcast. 328 00:21:03,820 --> 00:21:05,260 How are you feeling till this point? 329 00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:10,440 I really like and enjoy talking to you because I think you are also honest. You 330 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:17,220 come across as very honest and come across as somebody who is an interviewer 331 00:21:17,220 --> 00:21:23,680 who most people like I feel here when they do interviews they ask 332 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:25,500 questions but don't listen to the answers. 333 00:21:26,260 --> 00:21:27,780 They have to go to the next question. 334 00:21:31,340 --> 00:21:36,840 So the interviewer is asking the question, but not really listening to 335 00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:37,840 interviewee. 336 00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:45,240 So I like to talk to people where they would also engage me and actually try 337 00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:50,540 like you said, you know, kind of understand or get into my mind. 338 00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:56,180 I think an interview is for the tabloids and the headlines and the clicks. A 339 00:21:56,180 --> 00:22:00,040 podcast is for the heart. Yeah. So I'm actually doing it for me. Then that's 340 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:02,600 very good because that's why I'm happy I'm here. 341 00:22:03,870 --> 00:22:07,410 Ask you the same questions if you gave me the time at a party or a social 342 00:22:07,410 --> 00:22:08,389 function also. 343 00:22:08,390 --> 00:22:11,490 These are just my actual questions. Yeah, which is good. That's why it's 344 00:22:11,490 --> 00:22:13,150 different. I'd also ask you for gossip. 345 00:22:15,450 --> 00:22:20,230 That I don't have. You said that you have so many different, you know, 346 00:22:20,250 --> 00:22:21,390 celebrities, guests. 347 00:22:21,710 --> 00:22:25,130 So you should know. I am like, I have such a reputation. 348 00:22:25,930 --> 00:22:26,930 Yeah, why? 349 00:22:27,330 --> 00:22:28,330 I don't know. 350 00:22:28,510 --> 00:22:32,530 I think just like that. I think I have no... Time to have also so much 351 00:22:32,530 --> 00:22:34,750 information. Nowadays, everything comes on Instagram. 352 00:22:35,750 --> 00:22:37,490 Where do you get your gossip from? 353 00:22:38,130 --> 00:22:39,870 I think from Instagram these days. 354 00:22:40,230 --> 00:22:41,490 You're active on Insta? 355 00:22:41,810 --> 00:22:48,370 I mean, as active as one can be, you know. You enjoy it? I enjoy it. I have 356 00:22:48,370 --> 00:22:52,690 say that the journey started slow for me because I was new to it. But now I'm 357 00:22:52,690 --> 00:22:55,710 enjoying it. Like, I'm enjoying the fact that, okay, let's go. Everybody's 358 00:22:55,710 --> 00:22:57,930 posting pictures. Let's go. I'll post pictures. But then... 359 00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:01,900 If I know it's getting too much into my personal space, then I pull back. 360 00:23:02,820 --> 00:23:06,560 Then I'm like, no, no, no. That thing you said about social media affecting 361 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,280 mental health. Does it affect Kareena Kapoor Khan? 362 00:23:10,140 --> 00:23:13,360 No. Because everyone else would feel a sense of comparison. 363 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:16,700 Yeah. I don't think there's anyone you'd compare yourself with. There's nothing. 364 00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:20,440 People compare themselves to you. No, no, nothing like that. I feel like I 365 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:21,440 would. 366 00:23:23,380 --> 00:23:24,380 I. 367 00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:28,660 Even if you know sometimes there's a thought in my mind but I'm always like I 368 00:23:28,660 --> 00:23:30,040 don't want to like it's okay. 369 00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:36,640 You know and I wouldn't want to compare because I know that 370 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:39,960 there's place for everybody. 371 00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:43,580 Have you been competitive earlier in life? 372 00:23:44,380 --> 00:23:50,860 I mean I think I definitely in my 20s and 30s I must have surely been for 373 00:23:51,180 --> 00:23:52,480 For sure because 374 00:23:54,060 --> 00:23:57,920 Like I said, you know, that time when you're younger, I think that energy goes 375 00:23:57,920 --> 00:23:58,920 to a different level. 376 00:23:59,540 --> 00:24:03,040 Your wavelength, you're on a different wavelength in your 20s, 30s. 377 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:07,240 That's why in so many interviews I've also said that I never want to go back 378 00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:08,039 that time. 379 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:09,620 I'm very much at peace now. 380 00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:14,860 Now I'm like if I know that like this is it and like I'm taking like 10 -15 days 381 00:24:14,860 --> 00:24:18,140 off from work, I'm confident that I'm going to do this. 382 00:24:18,360 --> 00:24:19,740 And this is what I want to do. 383 00:24:20,020 --> 00:24:21,360 And then nothing can... 384 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:27,720 change my mind you know from that but before we never wanted we don't want a 385 00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:30,880 holiday because then it used to happen that if there is a holiday then there is 386 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:36,400 no work you know you should have 5 films you should have 10 films now it's like 387 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:43,340 you know in your head you were aiming only for the top always it was 388 00:24:43,340 --> 00:24:46,980 always like I want to climb up the mountain was that what was going on in 389 00:24:46,980 --> 00:24:50,100 head my mom always told me that if you aim for the stars 390 00:24:51,030 --> 00:24:52,150 You'll end up on the tree. 391 00:24:53,470 --> 00:24:58,530 So she was like. As high as I can be. 392 00:24:59,350 --> 00:25:00,710 And then whenever you land. 393 00:25:01,630 --> 00:25:02,630 We'll land. 394 00:25:03,450 --> 00:25:04,750 Okay another straight question. 395 00:25:05,090 --> 00:25:06,590 About this came to peace. 396 00:25:07,270 --> 00:25:08,270 With things. 397 00:25:08,870 --> 00:25:11,790 I have a lot of friends in the world of acting. Okay. 398 00:25:12,379 --> 00:25:14,740 And I have a lot of friends in media in general, but I see this specifically 399 00:25:14,740 --> 00:25:15,740 with actors. 400 00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:20,180 Actors are usually like the best looking people in any friend group or anywhere 401 00:25:20,180 --> 00:25:21,079 they go. 402 00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:23,340 But in their heads, they're not good looking. 403 00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:25,300 Okay. Have you ever had that doubt? 404 00:25:25,540 --> 00:25:26,499 No, I don't. 405 00:25:26,500 --> 00:25:27,900 You've always known that you're gorgeous. 406 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:30,040 I don't want to lie. 407 00:25:30,740 --> 00:25:35,760 Because if I say that, I'm not that girl. So I can't lie. Have you had any 408 00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:37,200 insecurity related to looks? 409 00:25:42,890 --> 00:25:43,890 No, I'm not. 410 00:25:44,250 --> 00:25:45,250 I don't think so. 411 00:25:46,990 --> 00:25:48,830 I think I get it from my parents. 412 00:25:50,590 --> 00:25:55,550 I don't want to say that, oh, okay, I am. Because I'm not that person, so I 413 00:25:55,550 --> 00:25:56,550 don't want to. 414 00:25:56,570 --> 00:26:01,310 And if I lie, I guess you'll catch me. And this show is a podcast, as you said. 415 00:26:01,710 --> 00:26:02,890 So you'll know from my eyes. 416 00:26:04,090 --> 00:26:05,290 And then the world will know. 417 00:26:05,790 --> 00:26:10,390 So I'd rather answer straight. That I have no qualms at all. I have no doubt 418 00:26:10,390 --> 00:26:11,390 my mind. 419 00:26:12,030 --> 00:26:16,410 Been in the limelight over so long that people know your character. But there 420 00:26:16,410 --> 00:26:19,490 are still parts of you that people don't understand that are hidden. Yeah. Which 421 00:26:19,490 --> 00:26:22,370 is the art of stardom according to me at least. 422 00:26:22,650 --> 00:26:23,650 Completely. Right. 423 00:26:24,190 --> 00:26:25,530 Creating an interest. 424 00:26:28,950 --> 00:26:31,310 That is also part of stardom. 425 00:26:32,110 --> 00:26:34,510 Which not everyone understands nowadays. 426 00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:38,960 No, that doesn't exist anymore. I'm sorry. I'm being honest. No, it's fine. 427 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:41,680 The line is completely gone. 428 00:26:42,460 --> 00:26:43,359 It's sad. 429 00:26:43,360 --> 00:26:44,440 I feel bad. 430 00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,020 Why do you feel bad? For this generation because it doesn't exist. 431 00:26:48,300 --> 00:26:53,340 Because it was a different time, you know, where there was a different reach. 432 00:26:54,100 --> 00:27:01,080 And also, I just feel like the way I have been, I've been extremely honest 433 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,440 my fans, audiences, everyone. 434 00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:10,780 as much and I've they also respect a lot of my private life you know like 435 00:27:10,780 --> 00:27:14,820 with the kids or the family or whatever I also put it a lot on social media and 436 00:27:14,820 --> 00:27:21,300 you know we are from a film family so it'll always be in the limelight and we 437 00:27:21,300 --> 00:27:28,260 that but I think that there is a side to them that automatically that people 438 00:27:28,260 --> 00:27:31,580 know that okay this is it 439 00:27:32,490 --> 00:27:36,390 How did Kapoor Khanan blood feel running through your veins in your childhood? 440 00:27:38,850 --> 00:27:45,510 I didn't, there was never, I don't think we realized that what, you 441 00:27:45,510 --> 00:27:46,710 know. Family. 442 00:27:46,950 --> 00:27:50,210 Yeah, my family. I never really thought because my parents never really let me 443 00:27:50,210 --> 00:27:55,830 feel that. My mother was extremely, she came from a very, very middle class 444 00:27:55,830 --> 00:27:56,830 family. 445 00:27:57,770 --> 00:27:59,750 And she was. 446 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,220 My father, my nana was also an actor. 447 00:28:02,500 --> 00:28:05,220 He acted in a lot of films in different roles. 448 00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:11,700 So, but we were never really meant to feel like, you know, that we come from 449 00:28:11,700 --> 00:28:15,160 this family or like what. We didn't even know because I mean, like going to a 450 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:20,380 shoot, the first shoot I went on was like when I was, I think, eight or nine 451 00:28:20,380 --> 00:28:26,700 years old at Tinto Uncle's shoot in Kashmir. He was doing a film with Rekha 452 00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:30,220 And we had gone, Ranbir and all of us had gone for that shoot. 453 00:28:30,780 --> 00:28:34,020 I think it was Sheshnag, one of the films, I don't remember. And it was 454 00:28:34,020 --> 00:28:35,020 shot in Gulmarg. 455 00:28:35,360 --> 00:28:38,620 So it was actually the first time, you know, like I had remembered that I had 456 00:28:38,620 --> 00:28:39,619 seen a shoot. 457 00:28:39,620 --> 00:28:43,680 Before that, I know that when I was very small, I was at my father's set. 458 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:47,160 He had done a film with Amit uncle called Pukar. 459 00:28:48,010 --> 00:28:51,750 And in that film, I had gone for the shoot. But I was like barely one year 460 00:28:51,750 --> 00:28:55,910 or something. So, I have no memory that I was ever made to feel. 461 00:28:56,230 --> 00:29:00,270 In those days, it was like my grandfather and all. They were also like 462 00:29:00,270 --> 00:29:01,270 chill, relaxed. 463 00:29:01,330 --> 00:29:03,490 Nobody had this that media is going crazy. 464 00:29:05,050 --> 00:29:06,470 There was paparazzi culture. 465 00:29:07,590 --> 00:29:09,870 There was never, nobody felt that... 466 00:29:11,310 --> 00:29:15,330 You know that they were really big stars or superstars. My family was also very 467 00:29:15,330 --> 00:29:19,070 into passionate. My grandfather was very passionate about art, music, cinema. 468 00:29:20,790 --> 00:29:23,370 He would play the harmonium. He would make his songs. 469 00:29:23,610 --> 00:29:26,510 We've always heard him sing like that. Never any thought. 470 00:29:27,690 --> 00:29:29,850 Shosha bazi type ka thing. There was never. 471 00:29:30,130 --> 00:29:33,910 It's an art oriented family first and foremost. Yes, because we were always. 472 00:29:34,910 --> 00:29:36,950 Whether it was Shashi uncle who was into theatre. 473 00:29:38,420 --> 00:29:43,000 Shami uncle and my grandfather were very passionate about films, music. 474 00:29:43,380 --> 00:29:48,180 So I'm saying that it was never really thought that, yes, of course, parties 475 00:29:48,180 --> 00:29:50,140 all, I'm sure happened, but we were never part of that. 476 00:29:51,020 --> 00:29:57,840 And then, of course, my mom moved on and we were shown a childhood that was 477 00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:01,340 very, very basic and simple. My mom used to make me go and drop me to the school 478 00:30:01,340 --> 00:30:06,980 bus. My mom still today has no idea of this paparazzi culture and she's like, 479 00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:11,560 I don't understand what this is. Of course, she's like, you must work. 480 00:30:11,980 --> 00:30:15,220 And work when I see you on the silver screen or when I see your film. 481 00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:17,780 Then I will tell you how good or bad you are. 482 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:21,120 It's not like you're doing this or that. 483 00:30:22,020 --> 00:30:24,800 And today, they don't even understand that culture. 484 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,860 That the paps are running after you. Why are they running after you? Yeah, okay. 485 00:30:28,020 --> 00:30:29,020 But it's okay. 486 00:30:29,180 --> 00:30:31,800 But for them, it's like, act well. 487 00:30:32,860 --> 00:30:33,860 Make a good picture. 488 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:35,720 Your mom... 489 00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:40,020 contributed to your personality too much as is any as the case with anyone 490 00:30:40,020 --> 00:30:44,080 anyone's mom contributes a lot but i feel with especially career yeah 491 00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:50,840 people a career so uh multi -faceted yeah that one of your parents usually 492 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:54,840 a very big role in creating mindset and whatever i've seen about you talking on 493 00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:57,700 other interviews you always bring it up when you're talking about confidence 494 00:30:57,700 --> 00:31:00,200 yeah personality now you're bringing it up when you're talking about ambition 495 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:05,100 also of course i feel you get it like from your mom definitely i do because my 496 00:31:05,100 --> 00:31:11,760 mom is very self -made and she's she's a very very uh strong 497 00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:17,620 woman whoever in the industry also when you talk about my mom they will tell you 498 00:31:17,620 --> 00:31:22,120 she is that kind of lady she was like known like as the iron lady because she 499 00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:28,040 was very like strong about the way her children were how You know, like women 500 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:31,740 the family should work. She always asserted for the right things, you know. 501 00:31:31,740 --> 00:31:32,740 were you as a teenager? 502 00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:34,880 I was very naughty. 503 00:31:35,660 --> 00:31:37,640 I was very naughty. I troubled her a lot. 504 00:31:37,900 --> 00:31:39,160 But you were good at studies, no? 505 00:31:39,420 --> 00:31:44,580 I mean, I was good, yeah. Like 65 -70%. I was very good. 506 00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:48,800 And like I had interest. I enjoyed going to school. I went to a boarding school. 507 00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:50,000 I enjoyed all of that. 508 00:31:50,940 --> 00:31:53,480 But I was naughty. 509 00:31:54,300 --> 00:31:57,020 Was she grooming you to become Garena Kapoor then? 510 00:31:57,340 --> 00:32:02,260 No, I think that she was very strongly involved in my sister's career. 511 00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:04,540 You know, a lot more. 512 00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:09,540 Because Karishma also started at 14 and it was a different time. And she was 513 00:32:09,540 --> 00:32:13,400 actually one of the first in the family who actually, you know, was working. 514 00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:19,360 People used to say that light -eyed girls never make it in Bollywood. As if 515 00:32:19,460 --> 00:32:22,480 old kind of, you know, thoughts were there. And my mom was like, no. 516 00:32:22,700 --> 00:32:24,280 And sister really wanted to act. 517 00:32:24,540 --> 00:32:26,360 So, she had a huge hand in that. 518 00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:32,000 And then, of course, I think that paved the way for me. But little Kareena 519 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:33,520 Kapoor was just like watching all that. 520 00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:34,720 Watching constantly. 521 00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:37,620 And like also being. For me, I feel like I've lived two careers. 522 00:32:38,460 --> 00:32:41,600 Like I know before things can happen, I know exactly how it's going to pan out. 523 00:32:42,300 --> 00:32:44,500 Sometimes I like get scared. Because I know. 524 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:46,820 Because I've seen so much. 525 00:32:47,100 --> 00:32:50,420 I mean, I've seen my sister's career. My sister started shooting at the age of 526 00:32:50,420 --> 00:32:53,000 15. I'm six years younger than her. 527 00:32:53,620 --> 00:32:56,380 I was there when she gave her first shot. 528 00:32:56,620 --> 00:32:58,280 So I've seen her journey. 529 00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:03,240 You know, like, I mean, like I was what? I mean, seven years old. I was Taimur's 530 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:06,680 age. So I mean, for me, I've been seeing it since then. 531 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:10,600 So I think I'm lucky enough to have that guidance also. 532 00:33:11,180 --> 00:33:13,020 Like you said, not just watching in the wings. 533 00:33:13,900 --> 00:33:17,520 It was literally like that. It can be a movie through my eyes. 534 00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:21,200 Yeah. What was it like growing up in front of the world? Because your debut 535 00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:23,180 happened when you were a teenager. 536 00:33:23,740 --> 00:33:25,960 Yeah. No, I started shooting at 18. 537 00:33:26,180 --> 00:33:28,840 18. Film released in 2000. I was 20. 538 00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:33,640 But you're still growing up in front of the world. Like 20 is too young in terms 539 00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:35,660 of... I was an idiot when I was 20. 540 00:33:36,860 --> 00:33:40,560 I wasn't doing the regular things at 20. You can say that. 541 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:45,220 College or restaurant, parties, friends house, sleepovers. 542 00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:46,980 I never had that normal. 543 00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,300 Was there a price you paid in your own eyes? This only? 544 00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:53,640 Letting go of all this stuff? I think so. You thought about it then? 545 00:33:55,700 --> 00:33:59,760 I mean, I... But that's when that ambition was there. 546 00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:03,440 That this is more important. 547 00:34:04,030 --> 00:34:05,890 That I want to be an actor. 548 00:34:06,390 --> 00:34:09,949 And for that, I have to maybe sacrifice a lot or like do this. 549 00:34:10,330 --> 00:34:11,690 That passion was there. 550 00:34:12,210 --> 00:34:15,630 So I never really thought about that. But now when I sit back and look and 551 00:34:15,630 --> 00:34:19,949 think, that what happens normally, like, you know, sleeping over at friends' 552 00:34:20,010 --> 00:34:23,510 homes, you know, just chilling that time with your friends. 553 00:34:24,139 --> 00:34:28,219 I'm working since I was 18. That chilling and all. Now I feel sometimes I 554 00:34:28,219 --> 00:34:29,900 out time and want to chill with my friends. 555 00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,860 Because 18 to like, you know, almost 30. 556 00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:37,080 I don't remember a time that we didn't even know that time. 557 00:34:37,639 --> 00:34:40,760 What is the meaning of that? 558 00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:47,040 Our parties were like, we're sitting and chilling with our crew, with our 559 00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:50,159 people. Growing up in that set. 560 00:34:51,139 --> 00:34:52,239 So that was life. 561 00:34:53,739 --> 00:34:55,639 So which is... Would you change anything? 562 00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:57,080 No. 563 00:34:57,200 --> 00:35:00,400 Fully like love the journey and everything? I love the journey. I love 564 00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:04,500 mistakes. I love the journey. I love the... Every single thing. Because I've 565 00:35:04,500 --> 00:35:05,500 learnt everything here. 566 00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:11,100 Would you want your kids to become actors or is it too early to... Seven 567 00:35:11,100 --> 00:35:17,080 three, yeah. I think it's... It's too early. I would definitely want them 568 00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:20,180 Take their decision. 569 00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:21,600 They're great looking boys. 570 00:35:22,470 --> 00:35:28,450 They are, but they have to fly their, you know, their own way. 571 00:35:29,030 --> 00:35:30,090 That's their journey. 572 00:35:30,570 --> 00:35:36,290 And both Saif and me are very like different because we both have had such 573 00:35:36,290 --> 00:35:40,850 strong journeys in our individual life. So both of us are very individually, 574 00:35:40,890 --> 00:35:47,330 very strong parents in our thoughts, in our approach. 575 00:35:48,779 --> 00:35:52,620 Plus, we've always lived our life the way we want to live our lives, that we 576 00:35:52,620 --> 00:35:54,960 will never tell our children what to do. 577 00:35:56,220 --> 00:36:01,060 So let them fly. They'll figure out their direction somewhere or the other 578 00:36:01,060 --> 00:36:02,060 they have to land. 579 00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,820 What's like the main advice you're giving them at this stage? 580 00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:08,480 Because I know you get asked a lot of questions about the paparazzi angle. I 581 00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:13,640 don't ask you that, but I'm sure as a parent, there's a human side to you, 582 00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:16,100 is also like thinking about like. 583 00:36:16,430 --> 00:36:21,810 You know, your son's long -term self -image, like what your mom did for you. 584 00:36:21,930 --> 00:36:22,629 Yeah, of course. 585 00:36:22,630 --> 00:36:25,410 So what is Kareena, the mom, doing for her kids? 586 00:36:26,150 --> 00:36:27,610 In terms of what do you keep telling them? 587 00:36:29,370 --> 00:36:32,710 Right now, it's just like, don't fight with each other. 588 00:36:33,450 --> 00:36:37,750 Because right now, also, we were at home and I was getting ready and suddenly I 589 00:36:37,750 --> 00:36:39,830 hear Seth screaming on top of his voice. 590 00:36:40,110 --> 00:36:41,210 And I was like, what happened? 591 00:36:41,630 --> 00:36:44,130 And he's yelling, you will not do that. You will not. 592 00:36:44,410 --> 00:36:46,650 Because right now, it's just pulling them apart. 593 00:36:47,390 --> 00:36:53,170 Because they're both finding their identities right now. And Taimur is now 594 00:36:53,170 --> 00:36:58,950 older brother. So he's like, hak jamauing and, you know, bullying him, 595 00:36:58,950 --> 00:37:01,910 him, pulling him. The little one is just trying to be like, but I'm also. 596 00:37:02,210 --> 00:37:03,750 You can't do that to me. 597 00:37:04,130 --> 00:37:07,910 So right now, it's like, both happen. And you're like, kya ho raha hai yaar? 598 00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:12,160 It's like so difficult. Like we didn't think that we're two boys. It's like 599 00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:13,160 crazy. 600 00:37:14,020 --> 00:37:15,680 And they're both very strong individuals. 601 00:37:16,180 --> 00:37:21,440 You can tell from now, you know, they have their own personality because my 602 00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:25,160 younger one is like, I'm not going to be a, you know, the younger sibling always 603 00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:26,160 has that. 604 00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:31,260 The older sister will always have that older brother. So he's like, I'm not a 605 00:37:31,260 --> 00:37:34,180 pushover. This is mine. You will not come to my room. 606 00:37:35,570 --> 00:37:39,390 I'm like, yaar, yeh toh sir filmon mein dekha tha. Ab toh life mein ho raha hai. 607 00:37:39,510 --> 00:37:42,830 You know, when boys are growing up with each other, violence is their love 608 00:37:42,830 --> 00:37:44,150 language. Oh, no, yaar. 609 00:37:45,110 --> 00:37:48,410 There's a lot more. Wait till the time they discover WWE. 610 00:37:48,810 --> 00:37:51,210 They have, because Taimur already has. 611 00:37:51,790 --> 00:37:56,250 So he's wearing his gloves and he's like, come on, come on. And I'm like, 612 00:37:56,250 --> 00:38:00,990 three. And he's like doing these flying kicks and some bicycle kicks. And I'm 613 00:38:00,990 --> 00:38:02,950 just like, har yaar. 614 00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:04,259 Nice. Fun. 615 00:38:04,260 --> 00:38:08,480 Yeah, it's fun. I'm learning also. Because, you know, we come from an all 616 00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:09,480 household, man. 617 00:38:10,220 --> 00:38:12,120 So, what's it like seeing boys? 618 00:38:12,540 --> 00:38:13,540 Just boys? 619 00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:17,380 Yeah. I'm like, you know, I need somebody like, I need Saif to tell me 620 00:38:17,380 --> 00:38:20,360 fine. Relax. Just chill out. It's okay. It happens. It happens. 621 00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:22,138 You know. 622 00:38:22,140 --> 00:38:28,680 So, it's just crazy, man. It's just like every day there's, every 15 minutes 623 00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:29,680 their mood changes. 624 00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,280 And I realize they only want to run. 625 00:38:32,910 --> 00:38:34,170 And they only want to eat food. 626 00:38:35,030 --> 00:38:38,250 They only want to give food and they want to run. 627 00:38:39,550 --> 00:38:42,130 Football and cricket. 628 00:38:42,750 --> 00:38:47,010 Yeah, but one minute, they don't just want to sit for a second. 629 00:38:48,470 --> 00:38:49,470 Sounds familiar. 630 00:38:49,610 --> 00:38:51,250 You were like that. To all the guys. 631 00:38:52,390 --> 00:38:54,930 I think boys are like that when they're growing up. 632 00:38:55,270 --> 00:38:59,390 Yeah. You have a need for inflicting pain upon your sibling, but it's 633 00:38:59,390 --> 00:39:02,950 love. You never cross a threshold with the pain you're inflicting. Yeah. Even 634 00:39:02,950 --> 00:39:03,669 when you're a kid. 635 00:39:03,670 --> 00:39:08,650 And then if like I fire Jay and I'll say, why did you kick Taimur? Then 636 00:39:08,650 --> 00:39:09,609 will start crying. 637 00:39:09,610 --> 00:39:12,930 So I'm like, but I'm firing him for you. Why are you crying? He's like, don't 638 00:39:12,930 --> 00:39:16,550 talk to Jay like that. I'm like, they'll figure it out. 639 00:39:17,830 --> 00:39:19,110 Brotherhood. Yeah. Exactly. 640 00:39:19,370 --> 00:39:20,370 I think so. 641 00:39:20,810 --> 00:39:23,850 Did you receive flying kicks from Karishma Kapoor? 642 00:39:25,570 --> 00:39:29,190 No, but like, I'm still very assertive with her. I think. 643 00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:32,100 It is always the other way around. 644 00:39:32,860 --> 00:39:34,420 I was hug -chamowing on her. 645 00:39:35,660 --> 00:39:38,720 There is... I can't believe I'm giving you a football example. 646 00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:40,360 But to explain. 647 00:39:40,620 --> 00:39:44,960 So there's a pair of footballers called Kevin Prince Boateng and Jerome Boateng. 648 00:39:45,020 --> 00:39:47,640 They grew up in a ghetto. Kevin Prince was also great. He was the older one. 649 00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:48,840 Are they playing now? 650 00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,540 They're just about to retire. They might know them. 651 00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:53,080 Yeah. They were playing for what? 652 00:39:53,300 --> 00:39:54,300 Bayern Munich. 653 00:39:54,340 --> 00:39:55,840 Oh, he loves Bayern Munich. 654 00:39:56,140 --> 00:39:59,540 So they say that the younger one became a legend. 655 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:03,720 Because the older one who's also great, protected the younger one always. 656 00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:07,940 I'm actually comparing this to Karishma Kapoor and Kareena Kapoor also. 657 00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:12,020 In terms of, I'm sure she's given you like a lot of mentoring, guidance. Of 658 00:40:12,020 --> 00:40:17,380 course. She is like, I mean like, she's like my go -to for everything. 659 00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:21,040 Like I just call her for every little thing. 660 00:40:21,860 --> 00:40:24,580 And honestly, she's like the anchor of the family. 661 00:40:25,180 --> 00:40:30,400 Because everyone in my family, which is the Kapoors, as well as the Pataudis, 662 00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:31,480 only calls Karishma. 663 00:40:32,020 --> 00:40:35,180 They'll all call her. So she's like, whatever happens, call Lolo. 664 00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:38,180 If you need a doctor, who do you need? Call Lolo. 665 00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:43,080 Any problem, this problem has happened, I need a cook, I need a... Karishma will 666 00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:48,740 know. So, you know, she's like, because she has this very strong, like, 667 00:40:48,780 --> 00:40:53,220 personality, you know. She takes control, takes charge of everything. 668 00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,720 She always has the right thing to say. 669 00:40:57,040 --> 00:41:00,240 So I think that she just draws people towards her. 670 00:41:00,500 --> 00:41:01,660 How does sisterhood evolve? 671 00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:04,480 Best friends. 672 00:41:05,380 --> 00:41:09,140 From like looking up to the older sister to wanting to be like her. 673 00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:12,520 To now like I think pretty much equals and best friends. 674 00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:17,160 I think we have that equation now where we can tell each other that oh I didn't 675 00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:18,160 like this. 676 00:41:19,130 --> 00:41:22,070 I don't like this. And there's a certain amount of respect that comes in when 677 00:41:22,070 --> 00:41:23,590 you're in your 40s and 50s. 678 00:41:24,050 --> 00:41:25,630 And we're six and a half years apart. 679 00:41:26,910 --> 00:41:33,770 So it's, we're more like friends, like, you know, who respect each 680 00:41:33,770 --> 00:41:36,590 other. Like, she respects my space as well. 681 00:41:37,650 --> 00:41:39,810 You know, if I don't want to talk. And I, vice versa. 682 00:41:40,350 --> 00:41:41,570 Do you have days like that? 683 00:41:41,830 --> 00:41:43,610 I think so. We all, yeah, no? 684 00:41:43,850 --> 00:41:48,290 I can't, I mean, see, this is the curse of your fame. Like, I've seen your fame. 685 00:41:48,620 --> 00:41:54,740 Like for a big section of my life. So I really can't imagine you pissed off out 686 00:41:54,740 --> 00:41:55,319 and all. 687 00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:58,420 You know what I mean? I can't imagine you sad or pissed off or anything. 688 00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:03,280 No, sad is different. Pissed off is different. 689 00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:06,620 My anger is like, I'm like a soda bottle. 690 00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:09,840 I'll just go, go, go, go, go, react. 691 00:42:10,100 --> 00:42:13,720 And then after that, I've forgotten also about it. Like exactly five minutes 692 00:42:13,720 --> 00:42:14,720 later, I'm just like. 693 00:42:15,290 --> 00:42:16,930 I've forgotten what the issue is. 694 00:42:17,190 --> 00:42:20,390 I'm like, why? What is the issue? I've gone to another, moved on to another 695 00:42:20,390 --> 00:42:23,770 topic. So when I'm fighting with Saif also, he's like, but you said you're 696 00:42:23,770 --> 00:42:25,330 pissed off. I'm like, yeah, yeah, but now I'm fine. 697 00:42:25,850 --> 00:42:30,990 So I'm from a generation of urban men, all of whom have a man crush on your 698 00:42:30,990 --> 00:42:33,750 husband. Oh, really? I know. I've heard that before. 699 00:42:34,050 --> 00:42:38,530 Like any guy who I've grown up with loves Saif Ali Khan. 700 00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:42,120 Whenever Saif Ali Khan's name is taken, there's a lot. And I told him this on 701 00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:45,860 the show as well. That he's taught an entire generation how to be cool. Yeah, 702 00:42:45,860 --> 00:42:51,200 completely. The entire 2000s Dil Chaata Hai Time, Hum Tum Salaam Namaste, Bing 703 00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:55,580 Cyrus. An entire generation was written coolness. I mean, today you can't, I 704 00:42:55,580 --> 00:42:59,820 don't think any actor, he's also quite irreplaceable in those parts. 705 00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:05,920 Like, I don't know, like if Kalona had to be made again, I can't see anyone 706 00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:06,779 that part. 707 00:43:06,780 --> 00:43:08,080 Because Saif is just... 708 00:43:08,330 --> 00:43:10,010 He has that vibe like, you know. 709 00:43:10,710 --> 00:43:15,530 Relaxed. And also like, you know, he can talk shit very well. Yeah. And still be 710 00:43:15,530 --> 00:43:17,030 manly. Yeah. And intellectual. 711 00:43:17,390 --> 00:43:21,010 And intellectual. So that combination doesn't happen these days. 712 00:43:21,470 --> 00:43:23,650 What was the most attractive thing at first? 713 00:43:24,070 --> 00:43:26,670 And then during the honeymoon phase, what was the most attractive? When you 714 00:43:26,670 --> 00:43:27,670 to know Saif Ali Khan. 715 00:43:30,630 --> 00:43:34,970 I think, of course, the first was the fact that he's, I think, extremely 716 00:43:34,970 --> 00:43:35,970 handsome. 717 00:43:36,980 --> 00:43:41,900 and he was like I mean when I saw him first I was like I've never seen 718 00:43:41,900 --> 00:43:48,420 so handsome and so like good looking and you know has that natural royal aura 719 00:43:48,420 --> 00:43:52,720 yeah like he just had a natural glint in his eye that was like really charming 720 00:43:52,720 --> 00:43:59,080 and you know he also has very kind eyes which I think women like in 721 00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:03,960 men where they look that when you have an eye that's so kind where you feel 722 00:44:04,750 --> 00:44:07,310 It's a natural caring, kind eyes that he has. 723 00:44:07,570 --> 00:44:09,630 So I think that was the first thing, you know. 724 00:44:09,910 --> 00:44:12,690 And then, of course, I mean, like, I think I'm still discovering Saif. 725 00:44:13,050 --> 00:44:14,050 Really? Yeah. 726 00:44:14,350 --> 00:44:18,770 I know him. There's no one better in the world who knows Saif than me. And I can 727 00:44:18,770 --> 00:44:19,790 confidently say that. 728 00:44:20,110 --> 00:44:21,230 He also knows that. 729 00:44:21,930 --> 00:44:24,390 Like, I know exactly what he's thinking and what he's going to think next. 730 00:44:24,850 --> 00:44:29,930 But I think you're always, because you're a partner and you are also always 731 00:44:29,930 --> 00:44:31,270 evolving, you know. 732 00:44:32,750 --> 00:44:33,750 So. 733 00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:37,260 We're going to keep discovering each other, which I think is nice. 734 00:44:37,540 --> 00:44:41,080 But is intelligence like one of the core reasons? 735 00:44:41,500 --> 00:44:46,480 No, but is intelligence, this idea of says intelligent, I don't know where, of 736 00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:50,440 course, he's always like, why do always, why is everybody saying that, okay, he 737 00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:54,060 reads books because books, reading books, books are meant to be read and 738 00:44:54,060 --> 00:44:55,140 the most normal thing ever. 739 00:44:55,420 --> 00:44:58,500 So I'm like, yeah, I don't know. So he's like, yeah, I don't know. 740 00:44:59,180 --> 00:45:03,420 Intelligent in the sense, he thinks. 741 00:45:04,939 --> 00:45:10,200 He thinks, you know, and he's, yeah, he's, I mean, well -read because he's 742 00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,300 interested in reading, you know. 743 00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:16,900 But, I mean, like, he's not interested, like, in worldly politics or, like, I 744 00:45:16,900 --> 00:45:19,580 mean, I don't know. It's not like he's some, you know. 745 00:45:20,910 --> 00:45:24,530 some economist or something like that or you know he's not that's why there's 746 00:45:24,530 --> 00:45:30,230 peace in his eyes yeah exactly he's not like you know he's like i also am like 747 00:45:30,230 --> 00:45:34,850 as normal and whatever this stereotype comes from one of the older coffee with 748 00:45:34,850 --> 00:45:41,430 karan episodes that you were on where you said you you you caused this yeah 749 00:45:41,430 --> 00:45:45,370 said something like they don't make men like that anymore who read and who are 750 00:45:45,370 --> 00:45:48,090 intellectual i mean intellectual in the sense that 751 00:45:49,799 --> 00:45:51,560 Maybe he thinks a lot more. 752 00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:53,460 More deeply. 753 00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:54,760 Yeah. 754 00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:58,740 You know, this is like my 650th something episode. 755 00:45:59,020 --> 00:46:00,980 He was my 9th or 8th episode. 756 00:46:01,300 --> 00:46:02,840 Then you should talk to him now. 757 00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:04,240 Yeah. You make it happen. 758 00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:10,820 No, but my point is I wasn't prepared to do a good podcast with him that time 759 00:46:10,820 --> 00:46:13,700 because I was also too young. Yeah. Now I think after this, I'm going to tell 760 00:46:13,700 --> 00:46:18,700 him that it's been like it's fun and you'll get to like speak a lot of what. 761 00:46:19,240 --> 00:46:22,820 And people will get to know the deep, deeper side to you. Yeah. 762 00:46:23,780 --> 00:46:27,280 I, again, people, I'm getting to know the deeper side of you right now. 763 00:46:28,580 --> 00:46:34,120 Which is, which is again, like, what you said, whatever's inside is happening on 764 00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:35,800 your face. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's a very Punjabi thing. 765 00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:37,400 My, 766 00:46:37,660 --> 00:46:40,880 my whole, like, my nature is like my mom. 767 00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:47,380 But my entire personality is born Punjabi. 768 00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:51,680 means I am like a chapa of my father. 769 00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:57,240 And I have no bones about it. And if anybody has problems, I don't care. I am 770 00:46:57,240 --> 00:46:58,520 like this only. 771 00:46:59,060 --> 00:47:03,540 Me and my father are mirror images of each other. Like our sense of humor, the 772 00:47:03,540 --> 00:47:07,260 way we eat, the way we talk, the way we sit. 773 00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:09,980 He also enjoys all these comedy movies. 774 00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:12,080 And like my taste. 775 00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:16,720 Like I'm just born and bred like a... 776 00:47:18,060 --> 00:47:19,360 Punjabi. Full on. 777 00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:23,900 What's your favorite food other than Chinese food? It is Chinese, right? No, 778 00:47:23,980 --> 00:47:28,220 Chinese, of course, because I think all the kapoors are obsessed with Chinese. 779 00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:35,900 But my hardcore food is the hardcore desi Punjabi food 780 00:47:35,900 --> 00:47:42,620 like kadhi chawal, rajma chawal. I'm like hardcore into all of that. 781 00:47:42,860 --> 00:47:46,780 That's comfort food. That is not comfort. That is like my proper khana. 782 00:47:47,870 --> 00:47:54,090 In the day, like, I mean, come what may, in my house, like, Saif eats, 783 00:47:54,210 --> 00:47:59,130 he's very spartan in the day. Like, he likes to, because he's working in the 784 00:47:59,130 --> 00:48:05,090 and he's, whatever. So, he's like vegetarian and he'll like, you know, 785 00:48:05,170 --> 00:48:09,650 simple dal sabzi. And he can eat that every day. In the day, he prefers. 786 00:48:09,870 --> 00:48:15,870 Okay. So, he likes the fact that, you know, he'll eat the same food. 787 00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:17,360 Every day. 788 00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:20,160 The dal and sabzi. 789 00:48:20,700 --> 00:48:23,000 That gobi and bhindi ka sabzi. 790 00:48:23,820 --> 00:48:26,640 Will be made every day. But for me. 791 00:48:27,240 --> 00:48:30,760 It's like with a passion. I like tell my cook knows. 792 00:48:31,340 --> 00:48:35,000 Like ek din rajma hai. Ek din kadhi chawal hai. Ek din chane hai. 793 00:48:35,620 --> 00:48:36,980 It has to. 794 00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:40,280 Punjabi swaad has to be there. 795 00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:43,640 100%. My food is totally different from these three. 796 00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:45,880 These three. 797 00:48:46,270 --> 00:48:48,010 Kids also. So they eat like him? 798 00:48:48,270 --> 00:48:53,130 They also eat like him. My younger one is more like me because he also is like 799 00:48:53,130 --> 00:48:55,230 that paratha and white butter and all of that. 800 00:48:55,750 --> 00:48:57,610 For me, that is like my daily food. 801 00:48:58,230 --> 00:49:01,550 One meal I have to have that. And cheat meals? 802 00:49:02,170 --> 00:49:04,730 But I am eating paratha every 2 -3 days. 803 00:49:06,170 --> 00:49:07,610 What do you like in Chinese food? 804 00:49:07,990 --> 00:49:09,470 I like Punjabi Chinese. 805 00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:16,380 That Manchurian and Chow Mein. I'm telling you, it's crazy. 806 00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:18,200 My taste is like that. 807 00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:21,560 Like now also talking about food, I'm like, oh God, wow. 808 00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:22,819 Too good. 809 00:49:22,820 --> 00:49:28,620 So, but that is the real Geet also. That Punjabi, that is me also. 810 00:49:29,460 --> 00:49:34,900 Sundays are nice because at my home, I'll have Sindhi curry, aloo took. 811 00:49:35,100 --> 00:49:36,800 Otherwise, I'll have biryani. 812 00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:38,400 Cookie roti. 813 00:49:39,300 --> 00:49:40,300 You're Sindhi? 814 00:49:40,490 --> 00:49:41,610 I have a lot of Sindhi friends. 815 00:49:42,310 --> 00:49:43,310 That's Koki. 816 00:49:44,470 --> 00:49:46,850 I've grown up. My mom is also half Sindhi. 817 00:49:47,310 --> 00:49:49,410 So that combination is very scary. 818 00:49:49,690 --> 00:49:51,590 Can you speak Sindhi? No. You can understand? 819 00:49:52,990 --> 00:49:54,650 No. You feel Sindhi on the inside? 820 00:49:55,710 --> 00:49:57,090 No, I feel full Punjabi. 821 00:49:57,370 --> 00:49:58,390 Yeah? Yeah. 822 00:49:58,630 --> 00:50:02,090 I can't speak Punjabi but I can understand when Punjabis are talking. 823 00:50:02,310 --> 00:50:03,510 I know. 824 00:50:03,890 --> 00:50:07,170 Also because I love the sound of the language. 825 00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:10,220 This is a very Bombay Punjabi thing to say. Yeah. 826 00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:12,740 Same. It's very sweet. 827 00:50:13,020 --> 00:50:17,940 That internally you are very Punjabi but you can't speak Punjabi. Yeah. Because 828 00:50:17,940 --> 00:50:18,940 I was born in Bombay. 829 00:50:19,540 --> 00:50:25,640 But I feel like I'm full like Desi. Yeah. Punjabi Desi. 830 00:50:25,980 --> 00:50:30,080 That look that people know that is me only. That I am for sure. 831 00:50:30,300 --> 00:50:34,020 I feel there's a lot of similarities between you and your cousin Ranbir 832 00:50:34,020 --> 00:50:36,420 also. Yeah, I know a lot of people say that also. 833 00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:42,280 He also is, I think, similar because he has an attitude and a confidence and an 834 00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:46,600 air that, again, is just nobody has, I think. 835 00:50:47,650 --> 00:50:51,030 In the Indian film industry. I'm very biased. I don't know if I'm biased. I 836 00:50:51,030 --> 00:50:53,930 don't even actually think I'm biased. Because I genuinely think there's no one 837 00:50:53,930 --> 00:50:54,930 like Ranbir Kapoor. 838 00:50:55,270 --> 00:50:58,050 It's the Raj Kapoor genes that have like trailed down. 839 00:50:58,650 --> 00:51:01,350 He is so like a deadly combination. 840 00:51:01,670 --> 00:51:04,390 Because Chintu uncle also is such a fine actor. 841 00:51:04,670 --> 00:51:06,570 Neetu aunty is such a great actress. 842 00:51:07,750 --> 00:51:08,750 Plus he has. 843 00:51:09,210 --> 00:51:15,650 What do people not know about him? 844 00:51:16,790 --> 00:51:19,150 And or the question could be, how is he like as a brother? 845 00:51:19,930 --> 00:51:23,450 I think Ranbir also is like, I find Ranbir and Saif also are very similar, 846 00:51:23,510 --> 00:51:24,510 extremely kind. 847 00:51:24,890 --> 00:51:29,090 Also, they have very kind eyes. Even Ranbir's eyes are very kind, you know, 848 00:51:29,090 --> 00:51:33,750 because he's genuinely, also I think he's a very no -nonsense person. I think 849 00:51:33,750 --> 00:51:37,710 he really likes you, he likes you. If he doesn't like you, he's the kind of 850 00:51:37,710 --> 00:51:41,850 person to, you know, he doesn't make too much of an effort then, you know. 851 00:51:42,770 --> 00:51:44,130 What you see is what you get. 852 00:51:46,069 --> 00:51:47,069 Extremely loving. 853 00:51:48,370 --> 00:51:49,490 Also very charming. 854 00:51:49,730 --> 00:51:55,270 I think that's why he has the entire nation dancing to his tunes. 855 00:51:55,650 --> 00:51:59,230 So I think that he's also very unique, I think, in a way. 856 00:51:59,570 --> 00:52:03,010 I think if you're not charming, you can't have a film career. Because the 857 00:52:03,010 --> 00:52:06,030 shows up on screen, but you also need it in the off -camera. 858 00:52:06,270 --> 00:52:07,630 Yeah, and it has to be natural. 859 00:52:08,010 --> 00:52:09,250 It can't be put on. 860 00:52:09,490 --> 00:52:11,870 That put on, I think people pick up. 861 00:52:12,700 --> 00:52:15,840 So I feel Ranbir has a very natural air to him. 862 00:52:16,500 --> 00:52:20,500 Where did this darkness that we see in Animal come from? Like in his eyes, like 863 00:52:20,500 --> 00:52:21,740 the way he's delivering some of those scenes. 864 00:52:22,240 --> 00:52:27,960 Like, I'm like, how did he become that person in that scene? Like, and I'll 865 00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:31,820 you the other way of asking the same question. The same thought has been 866 00:52:31,820 --> 00:52:35,840 by me to Mukesh Chhabra also on the show. I was asking about what creates a 867 00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:39,020 actor. And it was like life experiences. Then it went into this whole nepotism, 868 00:52:39,020 --> 00:52:40,580 like, conversation. 869 00:52:41,470 --> 00:52:47,830 And then he said that, but the exception is Ranbir Kapoor, Kareena Kapoor. So I 870 00:52:47,830 --> 00:52:50,490 tried asking him, what's special about you guys? 871 00:52:51,150 --> 00:52:54,650 So he said that usually people who are good actors are also very empathetic. 872 00:52:54,870 --> 00:52:57,730 And perhaps empathy runs in that gene pool. 873 00:52:58,450 --> 00:53:01,630 That you can pick up other people's emotions much more easily. Yeah. I'm 874 00:53:01,670 --> 00:53:05,130 I know this is like too deep. No, but empathy is such an important aspect, 875 00:53:05,230 --> 00:53:06,510 you've said. It is. 876 00:53:07,350 --> 00:53:09,210 In your performance. 877 00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:16,040 To be empathetic towards another person and to feel that what the other 878 00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:21,420 characters are also feeling and to bring out that emotion is also so important. 879 00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:24,220 So empathy is very important in performances. 880 00:53:24,780 --> 00:53:26,220 You can read other people easily? 881 00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:28,580 I think, yeah. And that's tiring. 882 00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:32,920 Why? Because then you can read, you know exactly like what that person is, what 883 00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:35,180 the person is going to say, whether they actually mean it. 884 00:53:36,260 --> 00:53:38,020 That's why I like to keep my circle small. 885 00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:40,920 Because it also tires you, drains you. 886 00:53:41,860 --> 00:53:45,540 Everyone's viewing you with the nether of, oh, I'm talking to Kareena Kapoor. 887 00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:47,340 Yeah. That gets tiring? 888 00:53:47,740 --> 00:53:49,920 Of course that gets tiring. Gets tiring a little bit. 889 00:53:50,220 --> 00:53:51,220 Now it does. 890 00:53:51,860 --> 00:53:54,960 Now you just want to like be yourself. 891 00:53:56,660 --> 00:54:01,500 With YouTube fame, which is hyper niche, I feel tired. So I can't imagine what 892 00:54:01,500 --> 00:54:04,640 your reality is in terms of stamina and exhaustion. 893 00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:06,700 I don't know how to. 894 00:54:08,430 --> 00:54:11,910 I mean, explain it. But that's why I always, I think, off late because 895 00:54:11,910 --> 00:54:17,190 obviously, I mean, I've been around for so long. I keep my circle small. I don't 896 00:54:17,190 --> 00:54:22,390 do too many interviews. I don't like to do too much because I'm like, Abhi, you 897 00:54:22,390 --> 00:54:28,150 know, you should also enjoy your stardom and your fans from watching you also on 898 00:54:28,150 --> 00:54:33,010 the screen because you have, there's always going to be a part of you little 899 00:54:33,010 --> 00:54:35,750 in each character, you know, that you kind of pick up. 900 00:54:37,020 --> 00:54:38,020 That's also important. 901 00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:42,540 So I want people to pick up that also through Eat Film. 902 00:54:42,780 --> 00:54:45,220 Have you ever felt lonely throughout this journey? 903 00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:52,680 Well, I mean, of course. I think people will never really understand what you 904 00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:55,460 are feeling at that time. Because sometimes you have to do so many things 905 00:54:55,460 --> 00:54:58,000 others no matter what you are going through. 906 00:54:58,240 --> 00:55:01,140 That you are dying from 102 fever but there is no one with you. 907 00:55:01,420 --> 00:55:02,419 They don't care. 908 00:55:02,420 --> 00:55:04,200 If you want to give a shot, you have to give it. If you want to go, you have to 909 00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:05,038 go. 910 00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:10,840 And people have done that. So what you're feeling inside, sometimes nobody, 911 00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:11,840 much can they understand? 912 00:55:12,380 --> 00:55:13,520 You have to be a professional. 913 00:55:14,060 --> 00:55:16,240 In this job, yes. 914 00:55:16,980 --> 00:55:19,520 Plus, you know, people will... There's no sick leave. 915 00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:26,480 There's also no room to have a bad day if you're going out in public. If you're 916 00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:30,900 having a worse day, people will... There's no room to feel emotion for 917 00:55:30,900 --> 00:55:33,140 apart from that you have to make sure that... 918 00:55:34,660 --> 00:55:37,820 You're just being that perfect star at that time. 919 00:55:39,540 --> 00:55:44,120 So many things can be happening. So many, I mean, anything could have had a 920 00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:48,340 fight with my mom, could have had a fight with my son, with anything. But at 921 00:55:48,340 --> 00:55:51,400 that time, it just has to be you and the camera. 922 00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:57,560 In that sense, this profession is, that is the demanding. 923 00:55:58,520 --> 00:55:59,520 Not keep promotion. 924 00:55:59,720 --> 00:56:04,020 That also is demanding. 925 00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:06,020 That has now taken out the juice of. 926 00:56:07,180 --> 00:56:09,480 Becoming an act. Being an actor. Or being a star. 927 00:56:10,240 --> 00:56:10,979 You know. 928 00:56:10,980 --> 00:56:15,420 But it's the internal emotion. That if tomorrow anything is happening around 929 00:56:15,420 --> 00:56:16,420 you. Anything. 930 00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:18,920 Somebody could be dying. But if you are in the shot. That's it. 931 00:56:20,220 --> 00:56:25,160 It's just you and the camera. It's very selfish. But that's the price you have 932 00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:26,160 to pay. 933 00:56:26,720 --> 00:56:28,440 And that's what I feel is demanding. 934 00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:32,920 All these other things are all unnecessarily. They're not important. 935 00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:39,860 Like events, this and that, film promotions, all that is all 936 00:56:39,860 --> 00:56:42,740 temporary. Honestly, it doesn't matter. 937 00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:46,020 That is not demanding. 938 00:56:47,940 --> 00:56:49,900 Just this craft aspect. 939 00:56:50,180 --> 00:56:54,380 Craft. You always have to give that a 200 % even if you're... 940 00:56:55,839 --> 00:56:57,640 That is where the job is demanding. 941 00:56:58,040 --> 00:57:00,420 Is your craft going on outside of a film set ever? 942 00:57:01,720 --> 00:57:05,040 No. As in, in the sense, performing or? 943 00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:07,920 No, I mean, when you go out in public, you are maintaining that brand. 944 00:57:08,860 --> 00:57:10,300 That, of course, has to happen. 945 00:57:11,280 --> 00:57:12,620 How do you dress at home? 946 00:57:13,620 --> 00:57:17,740 I dress like, I mean, like, put so strange. Saif today is like, God. 947 00:57:18,620 --> 00:57:19,620 To go to an event. 948 00:57:21,100 --> 00:57:23,900 So many people. So many clothes. 949 00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:26,600 He's like what has happened to. 950 00:57:27,820 --> 00:57:31,640 Actors. I said I don't know. I don't want to do this. I want to also just go 951 00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:32,640 like you know. 952 00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:35,980 Like you know. 953 00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:37,979 Interviews also. 954 00:57:37,980 --> 00:57:40,640 Sometimes in my old interviews. I'm wearing some dirty t -shirt and jeans. 955 00:57:41,100 --> 00:57:42,700 But I'm like that had its charm. 956 00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:44,560 But I don't know. 957 00:57:45,600 --> 00:57:47,040 These days there's a lot of pressure. 958 00:57:49,930 --> 00:57:56,670 like look hot diva everyone wants to be that fashion so i 959 00:57:56,670 --> 00:58:01,250 mean you know i guess you look like a diva even in the t -shirt yeah but 960 00:58:01,250 --> 00:58:05,090 what i'm like i'm happy so he's like why are you doing all this he's like the 961 00:58:05,090 --> 00:58:11,290 entire house has been taken over with clothes and like people so he's like is 962 00:58:11,290 --> 00:58:13,650 this really what it is i'm like yeah 963 00:58:14,690 --> 00:58:19,210 I think that old time is going to come back now. That's my thoda gut feel. I 964 00:58:19,210 --> 00:58:21,770 hope so, yeah. You don't feel so? I hope so, honestly. 965 00:58:22,650 --> 00:58:25,050 I have like one more compliment for you. 966 00:58:25,450 --> 00:58:27,930 Okay? You can just deliver the compliment. Apart from the sunflower. 967 00:58:28,550 --> 00:58:32,390 This whole podcast has been a string of compliments. I don't know. But I'm also 968 00:58:32,390 --> 00:58:35,390 carrying all the compliments I got from people who I told. 969 00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:37,120 about this podcast. 970 00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:40,840 Like, I always talk to these people who are very, like, deeply, like, you know, 971 00:58:40,840 --> 00:58:45,020 they're film nerds and they're film industry nerds. Oh, really? And lots of 972 00:58:45,020 --> 00:58:46,020 people are Kareena Kapoor fans. 973 00:58:46,620 --> 00:58:52,920 So, most people told me to ask you about the following topic, okay? Okay. Before 974 00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:54,220 I tell you the topic, I'll tell you the compliment. 975 00:58:55,180 --> 00:58:59,000 The compliment is, like, we spoke about this whole tiring thing, kids get 976 00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:04,090 demanding, okay? And it's been a while that you've been, like, relevant yeah 977 00:59:04,090 --> 00:59:08,450 yeah fight for relevance it doesn't just happen there is hard work there's 978 00:59:08,450 --> 00:59:12,710 discipline there's working on being like you know on exhausted days you have to 979 00:59:12,710 --> 00:59:19,590 still um but it doesn't ever show up on your face usually with a 980 00:59:19,590 --> 00:59:25,070 lot of people who age yeah their noor goes away like you know but uh 981 00:59:33,070 --> 00:59:36,090 Still like there. Like what's happening in your heart. 982 00:59:37,750 --> 00:59:39,950 Because I feel. The day I. 983 00:59:40,450 --> 00:59:41,450 This hunger. 984 00:59:42,650 --> 00:59:46,110 So it's same. Because it's like. 985 00:59:47,270 --> 00:59:48,790 I'm at peace with myself. 986 00:59:49,030 --> 00:59:50,050 Like with whatever. 987 00:59:50,290 --> 00:59:52,350 But I'm still hungry for. 988 00:59:53,670 --> 00:59:54,670 More. 989 00:59:56,830 --> 01:00:00,090 I'm satisfied. But I'm not satiated. 990 01:00:00,790 --> 01:00:01,930 If I'm making sense. 991 01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:05,460 Like you feel gratitude for everything that's there already and everything 992 01:00:05,460 --> 01:00:06,259 that's happened. 993 01:00:06,260 --> 01:00:07,260 Of course. 994 01:00:07,420 --> 01:00:09,280 But some more feel even better. 995 01:00:10,380 --> 01:00:13,500 It's more like that hunger should constantly be there. 996 01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:19,360 And there should always be a feeling of like, but I can do that. 997 01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:25,980 The day that goes away, I will just be like, I'm done. 998 01:00:27,210 --> 01:00:28,210 So that is still there. 999 01:00:28,430 --> 01:00:32,390 But it might go, I don't know, 5, 10 years, 15 years, 20 years. I don't know. 1000 01:00:32,910 --> 01:00:35,130 Like people who know me say that I'll be working till I'm 80. 1001 01:00:36,190 --> 01:00:37,470 Because they know me. 1002 01:00:38,410 --> 01:00:41,510 And I always say that, oh, yeah, yeah, whatever. 1003 01:00:41,790 --> 01:00:46,170 But I always feel like, no, but I can do that. But I can do this film. But I can 1004 01:00:46,170 --> 01:00:50,550 do that. So that is what keeps you, you know, on your toes. 1005 01:00:51,710 --> 01:00:53,150 Are you doing it for someone? 1006 01:00:53,870 --> 01:00:56,070 Are you doing it for your mother? Are you doing it for your kids? 1007 01:00:56,490 --> 01:00:58,730 No. I'm doing it for myself. 1008 01:00:59,590 --> 01:01:00,690 I'm doing it for myself. 1009 01:01:02,970 --> 01:01:07,210 My kids like today my son has asked me that again you're doing makeup mama you 1010 01:01:07,210 --> 01:01:08,510 like makeup lots I think. 1011 01:01:08,770 --> 01:01:10,250 So he's still figuring out. 1012 01:01:10,510 --> 01:01:12,970 But it's not that. I'm doing it for myself. 1013 01:01:13,290 --> 01:01:19,430 I'm doing it to be you know satisfied satiated for myself be happy. 1014 01:01:21,130 --> 01:01:27,880 And To prove to myself that, you know, that I want to always be this 1015 01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:31,860 person that you've just asked me this question that hopefully 25 years later 1016 01:01:31,860 --> 01:01:33,540 also you might ask me this question. 1017 01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:38,200 What's been like the most difficult phase through all this? 1018 01:01:38,660 --> 01:01:41,940 Has there been any phase that stood out as like that was challenging? 1019 01:01:42,580 --> 01:01:47,280 I mean, a phase, I think that in 25 years, there's been too many ups and 1020 01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:49,840 In fact, the amount of failures I have seen. 1021 01:01:51,630 --> 01:01:56,370 If you go back to a trajectory of my career, there have been a string of 1022 01:01:56,370 --> 01:01:58,850 that have happened. And if it happened to anybody, honestly, nobody would 1023 01:01:58,850 --> 01:01:59,850 survive this. 1024 01:02:00,510 --> 01:02:07,350 Nobody. But we never talk about that because there is a certain aura 1025 01:02:07,350 --> 01:02:12,850 or perception, a feeling that that's her or whatever. 1026 01:02:13,070 --> 01:02:15,310 And I've never let people feel that. 1027 01:02:16,090 --> 01:02:19,570 because maybe I've been good in those films or however it is I've worked hard 1028 01:02:19,570 --> 01:02:23,350 for that but there are there have been a string of films that have not worked 1029 01:02:23,350 --> 01:02:28,050 before Jab Be Met where I've always tried to be like okay none of the films 1030 01:02:28,050 --> 01:02:31,710 working what's going to happen now and a lot of things people don't know that 1031 01:02:31,710 --> 01:02:35,610 after before Jab Be Met I had not worked for a year I had said no to so many 1032 01:02:35,610 --> 01:02:38,590 films and I was at home because I was like so many films are not doing well I 1033 01:02:38,590 --> 01:02:43,310 need to take a step back to reassess why the hell this is happening 1034 01:02:45,230 --> 01:02:47,090 To wait for that perfect script. 1035 01:02:48,850 --> 01:02:52,450 Which will come. Which might take a year or two. But I must be prepared to pull 1036 01:02:52,450 --> 01:02:56,130 back. Why was it happening? Because you were rushing with like. 1037 01:02:56,370 --> 01:03:00,170 Yeah just doing any and every film. Not really thinking maybe about it. Films 1038 01:03:00,170 --> 01:03:01,390 were not working at the box office. 1039 01:03:01,670 --> 01:03:03,970 And ultimately box office success is important. 1040 01:03:05,230 --> 01:03:06,310 At the end of the day. 1041 01:03:06,610 --> 01:03:08,330 Numbers matter. You are chasing that. 1042 01:03:11,040 --> 01:03:15,280 Whatever it is, we are chasing the craft. We are chasing the art. But with 1043 01:03:15,340 --> 01:03:20,660 we are also chasing the fact that this longevity has happened also because of 1044 01:03:20,660 --> 01:03:21,660 the box office. 1045 01:03:21,960 --> 01:03:25,400 Also, yes, of course, like you said, my confidence, personality, blah, blah, 1046 01:03:25,440 --> 01:03:28,940 blah. Of course, my performance is that I have been at it. 1047 01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:30,780 That gumption is there. 1048 01:03:31,380 --> 01:03:35,140 But we can't deny that. We can't take away from that also. 1049 01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:37,880 Did you internalize the pain of those failures? 1050 01:03:38,380 --> 01:03:39,820 Or did you just let go of it? 1051 01:03:40,200 --> 01:03:46,620 No, of course, I was very upset. I was like traumatized. I would cry myself to 1052 01:03:46,620 --> 01:03:50,900 sleep for many nights that why are my films not working? What is it that is 1053 01:03:50,900 --> 01:03:55,020 happening that like everybody, because even people were like, she's so good. 1054 01:03:55,020 --> 01:04:00,240 that one film, it just needed that one turn, which was not happening. 1055 01:04:01,660 --> 01:04:07,520 So that phase will always happen, I think. And in 25 years, I feel, in fact, 1056 01:04:07,540 --> 01:04:10,670 my... I'm known more for my failures than my success. 1057 01:04:12,190 --> 01:04:18,690 If my failures were not known, then I would not have that one, 1058 01:04:18,910 --> 01:04:23,510 you know, feeling of, wow, okay, that's success, that has happened. 1059 01:04:24,610 --> 01:04:27,590 Do you realize that at this stage you're beyond failure and success? 1060 01:04:28,910 --> 01:04:30,850 I'm sorry, I'm softening it. 1061 01:04:31,290 --> 01:04:35,310 like for you because i know you've got a whole warrior spirit about yeah so i 1062 01:04:35,310 --> 01:04:39,390 don't mean to take away from that at all yeah like i admire that about you but 1063 01:04:39,390 --> 01:04:44,570 there's very few people who've gone and reached that icon status out of years of 1064 01:04:44,570 --> 01:04:51,250 hard work behind them but i never want to know that sorry i 1065 01:04:51,250 --> 01:04:53,430 never want to get into this like you know 1066 01:04:57,120 --> 01:05:01,280 I want to know that this picture has to work. How it has to work? What has to be 1067 01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:03,460 done? You know, we have to give it our best. 1068 01:05:04,380 --> 01:05:06,860 Let's make it work. What is it like? 1069 01:05:07,100 --> 01:05:10,960 You know, how do we improve it? Let's try and do that. 1070 01:05:11,420 --> 01:05:14,580 You know, so that feeling has to be there. 1071 01:05:15,100 --> 01:05:18,520 Because otherwise then... What's the meaning of life? 1072 01:05:18,760 --> 01:05:21,980 Yeah, so I don't want to ever have that feeling. 1073 01:05:22,400 --> 01:05:26,300 Do you have a visual of your 70s and 80s? 1074 01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:33,640 in your head with Ranveer I don't know what is your thing you don't want to 1075 01:05:33,640 --> 01:05:37,720 maybe you don't want to be doing podcast I don't know what you want to do I want 1076 01:05:37,720 --> 01:05:42,400 to leave civilization and that's not something cool like actually I don't do 1077 01:05:42,400 --> 01:05:46,880 that you want to be in Mumbai I don't know Mumbai or where now I don't know 1078 01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:52,740 wherever now once the kids grow up who knows I don't know maybe somewhere in 1079 01:05:52,740 --> 01:05:56,060 hills in the mountains yeah same no maybe you'll be neighbors 1080 01:05:57,430 --> 01:05:58,430 Dharamshala. Yeah. 1081 01:05:58,850 --> 01:06:00,750 Somebody, somewhere, beautiful hills. 1082 01:06:01,190 --> 01:06:07,970 You know, I mean, we are, I mean, of course, I think our country is gorgeous 1083 01:06:07,970 --> 01:06:13,070 we've never really, we've not even had the time to explore it, you know. 1084 01:06:13,330 --> 01:06:18,350 So, I keep seeing images where I would like to go, you know. 1085 01:06:19,010 --> 01:06:23,210 And, who knows, a retired life somewhere. 1086 01:06:23,850 --> 01:06:24,850 Kasoli time. 1087 01:06:25,880 --> 01:06:26,880 So beautiful. 1088 01:06:27,620 --> 01:06:29,360 Deeper. Deeper into the mountain. 1089 01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:30,820 Deeper into the mountain. 1090 01:06:31,120 --> 01:06:32,120 That you will go. 1091 01:06:33,460 --> 01:06:34,920 What do you want from life? 1092 01:06:37,320 --> 01:06:43,460 I mean, for me, I just want to be like happy and content. 1093 01:06:44,500 --> 01:06:45,640 In the middle of both. 1094 01:06:47,160 --> 01:06:48,160 You're there right now? 1095 01:06:48,360 --> 01:06:52,420 The middle of both. I think I'm happy being with my family, my children. 1096 01:06:52,830 --> 01:06:56,590 And my husband. I think that gives me a lot. My work gives me that. 1097 01:06:57,950 --> 01:06:58,950 But. 1098 01:06:59,930 --> 01:07:02,110 I think. One has to keep striving. 1099 01:07:02,650 --> 01:07:04,030 To find that. 1100 01:07:05,310 --> 01:07:09,850 Perfection. And we don't know if there is perfection or not. No one really 1101 01:07:09,850 --> 01:07:10,850 that. 1102 01:07:11,650 --> 01:07:14,490 People who are not Kareena Kapoor. Know that perfection exists. 1103 01:07:14,810 --> 01:07:15,810 No. I think. 1104 01:07:16,650 --> 01:07:18,550 I am also a completely imperfect. 1105 01:07:19,350 --> 01:07:21,070 I am also like. 1106 01:07:22,230 --> 01:07:25,890 Trying to also figure out what to do and what not to do. 1107 01:07:26,450 --> 01:07:28,730 Half of my life is spent satisfying people. 1108 01:07:29,310 --> 01:07:33,810 What do they want? What do I need to do? What do I want to do? 1109 01:07:34,110 --> 01:07:36,410 That comes later. 1110 01:07:37,550 --> 01:07:38,910 So that has just started. 1111 01:07:40,190 --> 01:07:44,890 What I want to do. You do a very good job of not letting people know these 1112 01:07:44,890 --> 01:07:49,830 things. That's what I say. Because there are a lot of common narratives about 1113 01:07:49,830 --> 01:07:50,830 you in people's heads. 1114 01:07:53,009 --> 01:07:56,590 there is no envy that I sense from anyone. There's a lot of aspiration. 1115 01:07:56,890 --> 01:08:03,390 Yeah. Guys, girls, everyone like loves your family life, loves what you've done 1116 01:08:03,390 --> 01:08:06,610 with your work and at the core loves your self -confidence. 1117 01:08:06,850 --> 01:08:10,970 Yeah, I think that's where it comes from now. Everything. Like everyone now 1118 01:08:10,970 --> 01:08:17,569 deals with some level of a lack of self -love and we sense 1119 01:08:17,569 --> 01:08:19,250 that you're at the other end of the spectrum. 1120 01:08:19,720 --> 01:08:22,720 You know, that someone... Like Pooh. Yeah. You know? 1121 01:08:23,859 --> 01:08:25,520 That's why those characters are iconic. 1122 01:08:25,800 --> 01:08:27,560 They are more relevant now than then. 1123 01:08:28,160 --> 01:08:31,399 Yeah. Evergreen. Because people want to be that. Yeah. Still. 1124 01:08:32,200 --> 01:08:36,439 Before we let you go, Kareena, you want to talk a little bit about Kru? 1125 01:08:37,439 --> 01:08:39,500 I think it's a really cool, fun film. 1126 01:08:40,060 --> 01:08:41,060 I think... 1127 01:08:42,010 --> 01:08:45,670 After a few days, after action -action films, a good comedy film is coming out. 1128 01:08:46,050 --> 01:08:47,790 And also it's like, it's fun. 1129 01:08:48,210 --> 01:08:53,250 You know, it has this all women -centric, women kind of female energy, 1130 01:08:53,250 --> 01:08:55,810 fun. Like there's Tabu, Kriti, me, I think. 1131 01:08:57,390 --> 01:09:02,050 Yeah, I think that people are looking forward to that little mad, crazy, fun 1132 01:09:02,050 --> 01:09:04,210 friendship film, which I think this is. 1133 01:09:04,990 --> 01:09:09,529 And hopefully our people will love me because it's comedy after a long time 1134 01:09:09,529 --> 01:09:10,529 I'm doing. 1135 01:09:10,720 --> 01:09:14,760 All of us need that. I think all of us need that now in the cinemas for a bit. 1136 01:09:14,899 --> 01:09:18,620 Yeah, we've been missing that vibe. And what I will say is that the trailer is 1137 01:09:18,620 --> 01:09:19,519 looking fantastic. 1138 01:09:19,520 --> 01:09:24,040 Yeah, I think so. It's like got a vibe. Everybody's like the buzz is like quite 1139 01:09:24,040 --> 01:09:25,040 like exciting. 1140 01:09:25,540 --> 01:09:29,880 I've always felt like a connection with you. I have two things to say to you 1141 01:09:29,880 --> 01:09:31,040 before you go. Three things. 1142 01:09:31,319 --> 01:09:35,240 The first thing I'll say is that give us a chance to host you at our space. 1143 01:09:35,520 --> 01:09:36,680 Yeah, of course. 1144 01:09:37,710 --> 01:09:38,710 Okay, it's different. 1145 01:09:38,890 --> 01:09:41,069 Yeah, there's an energy in that. Where is that space? 1146 01:09:41,290 --> 01:09:41,849 It's nearby. 1147 01:09:41,850 --> 01:09:44,350 Oh, where you say. 1148 01:09:44,890 --> 01:09:49,109 But it'll make a difference to the conversation whenever you wish. The 1149 01:09:49,109 --> 01:09:53,350 thing I'll say is that because you love Chinese food, I've got you something. 1150 01:09:53,410 --> 01:09:56,190 This is from me. There's no brand sponsor involved. 1151 01:09:56,430 --> 01:10:00,430 Okay. It's just a gift from one human being to another. It's like Chinese 1152 01:10:00,470 --> 01:10:01,470 Oh my God. 1153 01:10:03,010 --> 01:10:06,090 Wow. Chili sauce and all that. So sweet. 1154 01:10:06,390 --> 01:10:10,210 These are all like my favorite things which suit my palate. So maybe the 1155 01:10:10,210 --> 01:10:13,610 in me is gifting the Punjabi in you. All the Asian sauces I can see. 1156 01:10:14,450 --> 01:10:15,450 Wow. 1157 01:10:15,690 --> 01:10:18,790 And the third thing I'll say is your time is a blessing. 1158 01:10:19,240 --> 01:10:23,480 So thank you for being the sunflower of India, Kareena Kapoor. Thank you for 1159 01:10:23,480 --> 01:10:26,080 having me on your lovely podcast. 1160 01:10:26,560 --> 01:10:30,460 I hope you had fun. Yeah, I think it was a nice casual chat. It's so nice. Like 1161 01:10:30,460 --> 01:10:32,100 I said, it's always you make it comfortable. 1162 01:10:32,320 --> 01:10:35,920 The whole country admires Kareena Kapoor. So I'm glad that you gave us the 1163 01:10:35,920 --> 01:10:40,040 chance to show another side of Kareena Kapoor to the world. Thank you. Thank 1164 01:10:40,040 --> 01:10:41,040 for having me. 1165 01:10:41,840 --> 01:10:45,500 As I'm recording this outro, Kareena Kapoor Khan has just left the room. 1166 01:10:45,820 --> 01:10:50,080 And so has all that magnetic energy. There's nothing much for me to say other 1167 01:10:50,080 --> 01:10:53,900 than the fact that I really want to do one more conversation with her at some 1168 01:10:53,900 --> 01:10:56,100 point. Perhaps in Hindi the next time. 1169 01:10:57,560 --> 01:11:03,500 For some reason, I do feel a deeper connection with her. Even though she is 1170 01:11:03,500 --> 01:11:08,180 Kareena Kapoor Khan, when I'd gone on her show, I was just able to flow with 1171 01:11:08,180 --> 01:11:09,180 in terms of conversation. 1172 01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:14,500 Call that a Punjabi connect. Call that a type A personality connect. I don't 1173 01:11:14,500 --> 01:11:20,620 know what it is. But if you truly get to be in her presence, you get to see who 1174 01:11:20,620 --> 01:11:25,660 she is as a human being, a lot of the misconceptions around Kareena Kapoor 1175 01:11:25,660 --> 01:11:26,660 will fade away. 1176 01:11:27,060 --> 01:11:31,080 There's a lot of misconceptions surrounding her. That's what I feel. And 1177 01:11:31,080 --> 01:11:36,760 sure that this podcast showed you what the real Kareena Kapoor Khan is all 1178 01:11:36,760 --> 01:11:40,890 about. Hopefully, she'll be back on TRS. And the next time, it's going to be in 1179 01:11:40,890 --> 01:11:45,370 our studio. Make sure you go watch Crew. And make sure you keep watching The 1180 01:11:45,370 --> 01:11:46,370 Ranveer Show. 103417

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