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How do you feel now when you look back
at your career? My biggest asset has
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my confidence People feel that I have
inspired people or Geet has inspired
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people. That character so much. But the
way Geet thinks with her heart, you
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don't see that these days. Even in the
Gen Z, I think. Where do you get your
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gossip from? I think from Instagram
these days.
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What is Kareena, the mom, doing for her
kids? In terms of what do you keep
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telling them? Right now, it's just like,
don't fight with each other.
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Wait till the time they discover WWE.
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They have, because Taimur already has.
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So he's wearing his gloves and he's
like, come on. How do you dress at home?
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dress like, I've been like, put so
strange.
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Saif today is like, God, to go to a fake
event, so many people, so many
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clothes. What was the most attractive
thing at first when you got to know Saif
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Ali Khan? I think I'm still discovering
Saif. Really?
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Yeah. You ever felt lonely?
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Like throughout this journey? Well, I
mean, of course, I think people will
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really understand what you are feeling
at that time. Because sometimes you have
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to do so many things for others, no
matter what you are going through.
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That you are dying from 102 fever, but
there is no one with you.
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They don't care.
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There's really not much to say in this
intro. It's Kareena Kapoor Khan on The
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Ranveer Show.
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Absolutely beautiful, in -depth
conversation.
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I honestly feel that there's very few
Indians.
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who've reached an out -and -out iconic
status.
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And they've usually reached that point
because of years of hard work, years of
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self -conditioning, years of sacrifice.
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That's what we tried speaking about
today with Kareena Kapoor Khan. But it's
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also a fun conversation.
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You'll get an insight into her mind,
into her heart, and hopefully her soul.
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new film, Crew, is releasing in theatres
on the 29th.
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of March. Make sure you go check it out.
But for now, it's Kareena Kapoor Khan
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on The Ranveer Show.
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Because the sun is shining outside the
studio and inside the studio, we have
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Kareena Kapoor with us. Thank you.
Kareena Kapoor Khan.
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Yes. How are you?
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Very well, very happy to be here talking
to you, Ranveer. And it's always nice
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because talking to you, it feels like
I've known you forever, somehow.
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Even when you came on my show, we met
for the first time actually there.
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But I somehow feel like... I've always
known you. I feel the same. And it's not
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something I'm saying to just warm you up
and to break ice here. Yeah. But I felt
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it was very easy speaking with you for
some reason. I don't know why. And I'd
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probably say that seeing Kareena
Kapoor's career from the outside was
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inspirational. Because since I was a
kid, I was very messed up and deep.
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I would see it and I think that there's
a lot of hard work and discipline that's
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going on here. But it's all behind the
scenes. Yeah, it's all behind the
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Everything should be behind the scenes.
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How do you feel now when you look back
at just your career?
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I just look back at it as like, you
know, I've done so many things that I've
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really wanted to do and enjoyed doing.
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I'm very, very lucky and one of those
lucky few that I have actually enjoyed
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being on set every minute that I have
from the age of 17 today.
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I'm 43.
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And I think that journey and that every
day of me being in front of the camera,
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being, you know, on set, meeting my
actors, directors, playing different
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has been, I think, something that has
given me so much happiness and so much
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joy. And I'm very lucky that I love my
job.
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Because if you don't really love what
you're doing, it's very tough.
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you know, to keep doing it, to go ahead
with it.
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And I feel most people somehow don't
really get to enjoy their jobs.
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Have you loved it throughout?
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I think I've loved it even before I face
the camera.
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Because I think acting is a ghost, it's
a drug, in a good sense.
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And that is actually like a feeling of
like, you know, that trance. I feel
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that trance every time I'm in front of
the camera. That's why every...
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time you see a shot of mine i'm giving
it my 100 i'm giving it my best because
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i love it so much have you seen this
pixar film called soul called soul s -o
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-l no i haven't okay i highly recommend
it okay i recommend you watch it with
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your kids like oh nice yeah of course
but it's a very spiritual film oh nice
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they talk about a state of flow in it
and i've spoken about this a lot on the
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show it's basically what you're saying
right right the best acting and best art
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always comes out of a deeper place Yeah,
of course. I think so.
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And a deep place of like wanting to do
your best, giving your best
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somehow.
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Have you ever had a role where you
really, really had to go extremely deep
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within your own head to pull out that
performance?
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Or do all your roles come out of like a
similar place of just being Kareena
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Kapoor Khan? No.
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I think most people like to feel that
because I make a lot of things look...
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Easy. Yeah. But there are roles that I
think I have given a lot to. And in
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maybe those films haven't been box
office successes.
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Whether it was Lal Singh Chadda, whether
it was Heroin, whether it was Tashan.
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These are films that I loved and, you
know, enjoyed doing and gave a lot to a
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lot of thought. Like Rupa was such a
deep character in Lal Singh.
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Somehow she was dark, but yet like a ray
of sunshine.
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So, you know, doing those kind of paths
really excite me. Do you remember a chat
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we had on your show?
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Yeah, yeah. About bad girls and bad
boys. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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I didn't get a chance to expand on that
thought. But what I was basically trying
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to say is that all of us are a little
bit grey. Of course. And those human
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beings, I think, are... The most
interesting to play also.
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Yeah. In terms of... The grey people are
the most interesting in real life and
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the most interesting roles. I think so,
no?
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Are you still like the same shade of
grey that you were in your 20s?
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Or are you a different person now?
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In the 2020s?
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I think I'm... When I was in my 20s, I
was a lot more like...
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There is a different kind of fire
inside.
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There is a different kind of spirit.
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There is a different kind of spirit that
has to prove that I have to be the
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best. I want to do this.
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That's a different kind of...
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Constantly on the go.
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You know,
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all of that. But I think now, after
having almost reached 25 years of my
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there's a different kind of hunger.
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Hunger for a little bit of peace also in
the characters that I play.
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A little bit of more deeper
understanding.
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Because as a human being also, I've
grown.
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And between 20 and 43, there's no growth
as a person. I think there'll be no
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growth as an actor.
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And I feel like I have grown as a
person.
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Recently how?
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Recently how? I mean, motherhood has
changed me.
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Being a wife has changed me.
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I think there are different types of
responsibilities in life.
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You're not chasing...
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Just that one end point, you know, which
when you're in your 20s, you're like,
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success is everything.
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Box office hits are everything.
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My life revolves on the fact that I need
to prove myself as a good actor or a
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star.
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Now, I feel my mind has also expanded.
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And my husband, my children, my friends
have allowed me and helped me grow
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into... you know, the person I am and
hopefully the person I will become.
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Is there like a challenge at this stage?
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There's a challenge of, you know, how
far I can go with mental peace, how far
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can stretch myself to be at peace with
myself.
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And that is a constant battle which one
has to keep, you know, doing.
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Can I add to your peace a little bit?
Yeah, of course.
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So, because you are the sunflower of
India.
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oh god something this is for you wow
thank you so beautiful yeah i love
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sunflowers should i keep it here you can
keep it next to you wherever you wish
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but uh this is actually what you are for
a lot of india and i know this is a
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little gimmicky but no i i think getting
flowers is never a gimmick i think it's
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so nice You like receiving flowers?
Yeah.
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We thought long and hard about which one
to give you. Yeah, sunflower.
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There's no flower that I could think of
that's as similar to your soul, like how
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we know Kareena Kapoor. I think that's a
lovely compliment for me.
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Like, you know, whether it's you in a
photo or you on screen, or I remember
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like my early memories of seeing Kareena
Kapoor, you always like stood out.
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And that came from a place of deep
internal self -confidence. That I
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right now. Yeah.
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So were you acting with self -confidence
then? Or was it actually that deep?
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You know, I'm actually... I can only act
to play my character.
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In real life, I don't think I can act.
Because I'm that kind of person
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that anything... It just appears on my
face.
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It appears in my eyes.
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That... If I'm in a bad mood.
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That I'm upset about something.
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Or anything.
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I'm extra happy.
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That's why when you see me.
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Sometimes I'm like so happy.
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I'm like all OTT over the top. Because
it comes from that.
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I just react instantly to people. To
things.
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You know. I'm a very reactive person.
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And I think that has helped me. So self
-confidence, I don't think it can,
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confidence is something that you can put
on.
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It was always there. You either have it
or you don't have it. I don't remember
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you being without confidence.
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In this profession, I think my biggest
ammunition and my biggest
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asset has been my confidence.
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And that's why I feel that.
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Maybe people feel that I have inspired
people or Geet has inspired people, that
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character so much. Because she was
lovable but with confidence.
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That I'll go, I'll run away, I'll get
married to that guy, I'll do it.
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That level of confidence, that level of
innocence also, I think that is in me.
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Do you get bored of being asked Jab We
Met questions?
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Because see, the topic is very hot on
reels and shorts. So if anyone talks
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Jab We Met, it blows up on the
algorithm.
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But it's just amazing because the film
released recently and people were
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me videos because I have some of my own
friends who went to watch it.
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People have recited the whole film.
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They're like as though they're reading a
book.
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They're just reading, they were saying
the dialogues one after the other, not
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just mine, but Shahid's, everybody's,
every single character.
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So it's just the impact on people.
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So very few films in a person's career
have that. Very few films in general age
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that well also. Yeah.
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And, like, I think Geet as a character
has influenced a lot of people's heads
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general. It's a very, like, sunflower
positive character. Yeah, somewhere, you
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know. I mean, you know, like, 16, 17
years later, you're still giving
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of that.
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Even though so many films have released.
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But I feel those love stories, these
days, we're missing that, no? Yeah, I
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the same. I feel the same about the film
world in general all over the world.
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Like, I remember growing up seeing a lot
of rom -coms. I don't know where all
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the rom -coms have gone. I don't know
where they've gone.
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Where have they gone? Yeah, where have
they gone? Where have all the love
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stories gone? Where are all those Shah
Rukh, Kajol moments? Where are those? I
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also miss those.
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But what's the internal chatter in the
film industry? Where have they gone?
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Now everyone is watching action.
Hopefully you'll watch comedy next week.
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So we're trying to bring back different
genres.
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But I think somehow the action films are
appealing a lot to the audiences.
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But I feel...
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The audiences, their tastes change also.
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They like good films. They are so
accepting and loving that the fact is
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you give them something that interests
them, give them a good story, be it in
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any form, I think they just stick to it.
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Have you ever wondered about why Jab We
Met was this evergreen?
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Because I'll give you a little Gen Z
perspective on Jab We Met. Yeah, of
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I'd love to know.
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There's a lot of green flag and red flag
chatter.
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Like, according to everyone, Anshuman
was a red flag.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Of course, no? And have you heard of the
word situationship?
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I mean, I've read, like, people say
that.
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So, there's a relationship, and then on
the other end of the spectrum, there's,
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like, a casual, like, friends with
benefits. Yeah. Somewhere in the middle.
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Where you're... You're a friend with
benefits with someone where there's also
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emotional benefits. Yeah. So that's why
people are connecting, you see.
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Yeah. I think with time, people are
connecting. We met with a lot of stuff
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that's happening in the 2020s. Yeah.
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Everyone's like that film was way ahead
of its time. Could be. Yeah, that's
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true.
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What advice would you give Geet now?
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The character with everything you've
learned about life.
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I mean, Geet was somehow.
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Her innocence actually has taken her and
this longevity is because of her.
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She did everything and thought so much
from her heart.
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that's
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how somehow they are connecting that
they also want to be like that. You
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but somehow I feel people are thinking a
lot more with their.
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mind in the 2020s. But people are
getting very effed up in the head
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Like it's just an outcome of living in
the 2020s with social media and
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comparison and all that.
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That's what I sense is happening a lot.
And Geet was pre -social media.
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Her innocence was still intact.
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That's why people are connecting with
the characters even more now. Yeah, I
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think so.
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It's scary, but I mean, like, as much as
I love it, I love, like, I love
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Instagram and I get to, you know, be in
my bed and travel the world.
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And, but it's just, I know how damaging,
like, it could be to the mind and how
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carried away, you know, people can get
with the way everything has to be, like,
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picture perfect. Everything has to be,
like, get ready for the event, be seen
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this event, go collect this award, do
this.
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I think we're somewhere in between.
We're like also forgetting to like, you
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know, live a little bit for ourselves,
for our families, for our friends. Enjoy
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the moment.
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Like every dinner, at least three times
we have to tell our friends or each
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other, come on, leave that phone.
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So I think it's like we're just caught
up in so many things. So I feel we
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should still bring back that innocence.
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And that's why people are still like
loving that and going to see.
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That film.
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Is Geet inside Kareena Kapoor or is
Kareena Kapoor inside Geet?
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Simpler way of asking. Yeah, no?
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Is there a Geet inside you? Like, are
you that person completely?
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Completely. I think I am that person.
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Because Geet always thoughts from her
heart. And I honestly, Ranveer, in my
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life, I have taken every decision from
my heart.
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I never thought about it.
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Otherwise, then you can see my career
graph. You can see some people will say,
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oh, she said no to this film, that film,
this film, that film. And there are so
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many discussions about that, that
sometimes I'm like, okay, right?
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You know, every film has its destiny.
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It wasn't written in my destiny, it was
written in someone else's destiny.
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But I have always taken my decisions
from my heart that I want to do this.
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This is what I want to do right now.
This is what I don't want to do right
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So that's why I feel.
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Somewhere you're.
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You know you associate the sunflower
girl in me.
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You know. I'm a bit of that also.
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How's life right now?
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How's life right now? Exciting.
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I'm very very.
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Excited for crew.
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All female centric kind of film. Comedy.
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Excited to have.
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collaborated with my long -time
producers, Ria and Ekta.
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We're an all -women kind of army.
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Tabu, Kriti, all of us. I feel like in
between so many action films, a
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female heist, Ocean 11, Ocean 8 kind of
vibe, film, comedy, nice if it comes.
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You've always seen the males do it, but
now I think we're ready for the female
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kind of heist comedy, which I think it
is.
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I think girls have generally gotten very
active in content, which is very good.
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Very good.
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I think we had had this discussion that
time as well.
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There's a lot of female content creators
coming up.
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Lots of girls are expressing themselves
more on social media, which is great.
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Which is great. And which I think is
great for them, for themselves, for
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self -confidence, for their mental
health.
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Conversations are on.
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Women are in the forefront.
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I mean, I think everywhere around the
globe.
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So I'm happy that it's a good time. So
I'm very confident again that I feel
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people will enjoy watching us.
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Do you change with every film?
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Or do you stay the same? No, I think I
should change with every film. I mean,
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terms of look, I don't know. Size, look,
those are all things that don't bother
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me as much.
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but i should change my character should
change the way i perform should change
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things like that to change when you went
down to the size zero i remember this
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was like what india was obsessed with at
that point yeah uh was there a downside
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of that that didn't come out in the
public or was that still easy for you
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because what i can tell about you now
especially after speaking to you but i
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could tell this even then like you're
very deeply ambitious So like in that
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phase, for sure. Yeah. No, I'm
ambitious. You have read me well. I am
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But I'm not ambitious to the point that
I would harm myself, my mental frame of
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mind. You tend to, no?
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When ambition is so high in your life
that you have nothing else to look
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to. So I'm not like that. But I'm
ambitious.
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Did you ever harm your mental health?
No.
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Size Zero also, I took that time. I took
almost a year, year and a half to get
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into that look.
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And it was like a challenge.
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That I said, that I have to do it once
in life.
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For this action film. Because I've never
done an action film actually after that
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also. That I have to do this in life, so
I have to do this. Would you do it
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again?
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Now I think that we're living in a
generation where everything is accepted.
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And I wouldn't like to...
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say that okay this certain body type
would be accepted for an action film or
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this not i think today everything and
everyone can do what they want to do so
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think i'm ready for an action film now
also i don't need to be a size zero um
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i have like too many questions
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Okay. And I mean, I'm going to be like
very straightforward.
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Okay. So normally we shoot in a studio
and the studio has its own energy. Yeah.
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So I'm able to go way deeper into my
guest's mind also. Okay. Usually the
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of the show. Right. Because I get to
meet people from a lot of industries and
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get to gauge where people are. So I'm
still trying to get closer to like the
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real. And then what will happen? Then
you will assess me and will you say
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something? I can say so much even now,
but we'll hold that for like the end of
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the podcast.
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How are you feeling till this point?
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I really like and enjoy talking to you
because I think you are also honest. You
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come across as very honest and come
across as somebody who is an interviewer
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who most people like I feel here when
they do interviews they ask
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questions but don't listen to the
answers.
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They have to go to the next question.
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So the interviewer is asking the
question, but not really listening to
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interviewee.
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So I like to talk to people where they
would also engage me and actually try
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like you said, you know, kind of
understand or get into my mind.
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I think an interview is for the tabloids
and the headlines and the clicks. A
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podcast is for the heart. Yeah. So I'm
actually doing it for me. Then that's
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very good because that's why I'm happy
I'm here.
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Ask you the same questions if you gave
me the time at a party or a social
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function also.
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These are just my actual questions.
Yeah, which is good. That's why it's
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different. I'd also ask you for gossip.
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That I don't have. You said that you
have so many different, you know,
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celebrities, guests.
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So you should know. I am like, I have
such a reputation.
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Yeah, why?
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I don't know.
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I think just like that. I think I have
no... Time to have also so much
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information. Nowadays, everything comes
on Instagram.
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Where do you get your gossip from?
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I think from Instagram these days.
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You're active on Insta?
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I mean, as active as one can be, you
know. You enjoy it? I enjoy it. I have
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say that the journey started slow for me
because I was new to it. But now I'm
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enjoying it. Like, I'm enjoying the fact
that, okay, let's go. Everybody's
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posting pictures. Let's go. I'll post
pictures. But then...
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If I know it's getting too much into my
personal space, then I pull back.
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Then I'm like, no, no, no. That thing
you said about social media affecting
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mental health. Does it affect Kareena
Kapoor Khan?
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No. Because everyone else would feel a
sense of comparison.
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Yeah. I don't think there's anyone you'd
compare yourself with. There's nothing.
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People compare themselves to you. No,
no, nothing like that. I feel like I
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would.
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I.
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Even if you know sometimes there's a
thought in my mind but I'm always like I
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don't want to like it's okay.
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You know and I wouldn't want to compare
because I know that
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there's place for everybody.
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Have you been competitive earlier in
life?
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I mean I think I definitely in my 20s
and 30s I must have surely been for
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For sure because
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Like I said, you know, that time when
you're younger, I think that energy goes
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to a different level.
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Your wavelength, you're on a different
wavelength in your 20s, 30s.
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That's why in so many interviews I've
also said that I never want to go back
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that time.
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I'm very much at peace now.
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Now I'm like if I know that like this is
it and like I'm taking like 10 -15 days
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off from work, I'm confident that I'm
going to do this.
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And this is what I want to do.
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And then nothing can...
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change my mind you know from that but
before we never wanted we don't want a
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holiday because then it used to happen
that if there is a holiday then there is
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no work you know you should have 5 films
you should have 10 films now it's like
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you know in your head you were aiming
only for the top always it was
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always like I want to climb up the
mountain was that what was going on in
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head my mom always told me that if you
aim for the stars
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You'll end up on the tree.
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So she was like. As high as I can be.
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And then whenever you land.
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We'll land.
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Okay another straight question.
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About this came to peace.
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With things.
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I have a lot of friends in the world of
acting. Okay.
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And I have a lot of friends in media in
general, but I see this specifically
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with actors.
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Actors are usually like the best looking
people in any friend group or anywhere
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they go.
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But in their heads, they're not good
looking.
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Okay. Have you ever had that doubt?
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No, I don't.
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You've always known that you're
gorgeous.
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I don't want to lie.
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Because if I say that, I'm not that
girl. So I can't lie. Have you had any
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insecurity related to looks?
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No, I'm not.
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I don't think so.
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I think I get it from my parents.
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I don't want to say that, oh, okay, I
am. Because I'm not that person, so I
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don't want to.
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And if I lie, I guess you'll catch me.
And this show is a podcast, as you said.
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So you'll know from my eyes.
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And then the world will know.
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So I'd rather answer straight. That I
have no qualms at all. I have no doubt
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my mind.
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Been in the limelight over so long that
people know your character. But there
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are still parts of you that people don't
understand that are hidden. Yeah. Which
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is the art of stardom according to me at
least.
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Completely. Right.
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Creating an interest.
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That is also part of stardom.
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Which not everyone understands nowadays.
426
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:38,960
No, that doesn't exist anymore. I'm
sorry. I'm being honest. No, it's fine.
427
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:41,680
The line is completely gone.
428
00:26:42,460 --> 00:26:43,359
It's sad.
429
00:26:43,360 --> 00:26:44,440
I feel bad.
430
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,020
Why do you feel bad? For this generation
because it doesn't exist.
431
00:26:48,300 --> 00:26:53,340
Because it was a different time, you
know, where there was a different reach.
432
00:26:54,100 --> 00:27:01,080
And also, I just feel like the way I
have been, I've been extremely honest
433
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,440
my fans, audiences, everyone.
434
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:10,780
as much and I've they also respect a lot
of my private life you know like
435
00:27:10,780 --> 00:27:14,820
with the kids or the family or whatever
I also put it a lot on social media and
436
00:27:14,820 --> 00:27:21,300
you know we are from a film family so
it'll always be in the limelight and we
437
00:27:21,300 --> 00:27:28,260
that but I think that there is a side to
them that automatically that people
438
00:27:28,260 --> 00:27:31,580
know that okay this is it
439
00:27:32,490 --> 00:27:36,390
How did Kapoor Khanan blood feel running
through your veins in your childhood?
440
00:27:38,850 --> 00:27:45,510
I didn't, there was never, I don't think
we realized that what, you
441
00:27:45,510 --> 00:27:46,710
know. Family.
442
00:27:46,950 --> 00:27:50,210
Yeah, my family. I never really thought
because my parents never really let me
443
00:27:50,210 --> 00:27:55,830
feel that. My mother was extremely, she
came from a very, very middle class
444
00:27:55,830 --> 00:27:56,830
family.
445
00:27:57,770 --> 00:27:59,750
And she was.
446
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,220
My father, my nana was also an actor.
447
00:28:02,500 --> 00:28:05,220
He acted in a lot of films in different
roles.
448
00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:11,700
So, but we were never really meant to
feel like, you know, that we come from
449
00:28:11,700 --> 00:28:15,160
this family or like what. We didn't even
know because I mean, like going to a
450
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:20,380
shoot, the first shoot I went on was
like when I was, I think, eight or nine
451
00:28:20,380 --> 00:28:26,700
years old at Tinto Uncle's shoot in
Kashmir. He was doing a film with Rekha
452
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:30,220
And we had gone, Ranbir and all of us
had gone for that shoot.
453
00:28:30,780 --> 00:28:34,020
I think it was Sheshnag, one of the
films, I don't remember. And it was
454
00:28:34,020 --> 00:28:35,020
shot in Gulmarg.
455
00:28:35,360 --> 00:28:38,620
So it was actually the first time, you
know, like I had remembered that I had
456
00:28:38,620 --> 00:28:39,619
seen a shoot.
457
00:28:39,620 --> 00:28:43,680
Before that, I know that when I was very
small, I was at my father's set.
458
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:47,160
He had done a film with Amit uncle
called Pukar.
459
00:28:48,010 --> 00:28:51,750
And in that film, I had gone for the
shoot. But I was like barely one year
460
00:28:51,750 --> 00:28:55,910
or something. So, I have no memory that
I was ever made to feel.
461
00:28:56,230 --> 00:29:00,270
In those days, it was like my
grandfather and all. They were also like
462
00:29:00,270 --> 00:29:01,270
chill, relaxed.
463
00:29:01,330 --> 00:29:03,490
Nobody had this that media is going
crazy.
464
00:29:05,050 --> 00:29:06,470
There was paparazzi culture.
465
00:29:07,590 --> 00:29:09,870
There was never, nobody felt that...
466
00:29:11,310 --> 00:29:15,330
You know that they were really big stars
or superstars. My family was also very
467
00:29:15,330 --> 00:29:19,070
into passionate. My grandfather was very
passionate about art, music, cinema.
468
00:29:20,790 --> 00:29:23,370
He would play the harmonium. He would
make his songs.
469
00:29:23,610 --> 00:29:26,510
We've always heard him sing like that.
Never any thought.
470
00:29:27,690 --> 00:29:29,850
Shosha bazi type ka thing. There was
never.
471
00:29:30,130 --> 00:29:33,910
It's an art oriented family first and
foremost. Yes, because we were always.
472
00:29:34,910 --> 00:29:36,950
Whether it was Shashi uncle who was into
theatre.
473
00:29:38,420 --> 00:29:43,000
Shami uncle and my grandfather were very
passionate about films, music.
474
00:29:43,380 --> 00:29:48,180
So I'm saying that it was never really
thought that, yes, of course, parties
475
00:29:48,180 --> 00:29:50,140
all, I'm sure happened, but we were
never part of that.
476
00:29:51,020 --> 00:29:57,840
And then, of course, my mom moved on and
we were shown a childhood that was
477
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:01,340
very, very basic and simple. My mom used
to make me go and drop me to the school
478
00:30:01,340 --> 00:30:06,980
bus. My mom still today has no idea of
this paparazzi culture and she's like,
479
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:11,560
I don't understand what this is. Of
course, she's like, you must work.
480
00:30:11,980 --> 00:30:15,220
And work when I see you on the silver
screen or when I see your film.
481
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:17,780
Then I will tell you how good or bad you
are.
482
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:21,120
It's not like you're doing this or that.
483
00:30:22,020 --> 00:30:24,800
And today, they don't even understand
that culture.
484
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,860
That the paps are running after you. Why
are they running after you? Yeah, okay.
485
00:30:28,020 --> 00:30:29,020
But it's okay.
486
00:30:29,180 --> 00:30:31,800
But for them, it's like, act well.
487
00:30:32,860 --> 00:30:33,860
Make a good picture.
488
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:35,720
Your mom...
489
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:40,020
contributed to your personality too much
as is any as the case with anyone
490
00:30:40,020 --> 00:30:44,080
anyone's mom contributes a lot but i
feel with especially career yeah
491
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:50,840
people a career so uh multi -faceted
yeah that one of your parents usually
492
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:54,840
a very big role in creating mindset and
whatever i've seen about you talking on
493
00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:57,700
other interviews you always bring it up
when you're talking about confidence
494
00:30:57,700 --> 00:31:00,200
yeah personality now you're bringing it
up when you're talking about ambition
495
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:05,100
also of course i feel you get it like
from your mom definitely i do because my
496
00:31:05,100 --> 00:31:11,760
mom is very self -made and she's she's a
very very uh strong
497
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:17,620
woman whoever in the industry also when
you talk about my mom they will tell you
498
00:31:17,620 --> 00:31:22,120
she is that kind of lady she was like
known like as the iron lady because she
499
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:28,040
was very like strong about the way her
children were how You know, like women
500
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:31,740
the family should work. She always
asserted for the right things, you know.
501
00:31:31,740 --> 00:31:32,740
were you as a teenager?
502
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:34,880
I was very naughty.
503
00:31:35,660 --> 00:31:37,640
I was very naughty. I troubled her a
lot.
504
00:31:37,900 --> 00:31:39,160
But you were good at studies, no?
505
00:31:39,420 --> 00:31:44,580
I mean, I was good, yeah. Like 65 -70%.
I was very good.
506
00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:48,800
And like I had interest. I enjoyed going
to school. I went to a boarding school.
507
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:50,000
I enjoyed all of that.
508
00:31:50,940 --> 00:31:53,480
But I was naughty.
509
00:31:54,300 --> 00:31:57,020
Was she grooming you to become Garena
Kapoor then?
510
00:31:57,340 --> 00:32:02,260
No, I think that she was very strongly
involved in my sister's career.
511
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:04,540
You know, a lot more.
512
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:09,540
Because Karishma also started at 14 and
it was a different time. And she was
513
00:32:09,540 --> 00:32:13,400
actually one of the first in the family
who actually, you know, was working.
514
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:19,360
People used to say that light -eyed
girls never make it in Bollywood. As if
515
00:32:19,460 --> 00:32:22,480
old kind of, you know, thoughts were
there. And my mom was like, no.
516
00:32:22,700 --> 00:32:24,280
And sister really wanted to act.
517
00:32:24,540 --> 00:32:26,360
So, she had a huge hand in that.
518
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:32,000
And then, of course, I think that paved
the way for me. But little Kareena
519
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:33,520
Kapoor was just like watching all that.
520
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:34,720
Watching constantly.
521
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:37,620
And like also being. For me, I feel like
I've lived two careers.
522
00:32:38,460 --> 00:32:41,600
Like I know before things can happen, I
know exactly how it's going to pan out.
523
00:32:42,300 --> 00:32:44,500
Sometimes I like get scared. Because I
know.
524
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:46,820
Because I've seen so much.
525
00:32:47,100 --> 00:32:50,420
I mean, I've seen my sister's career. My
sister started shooting at the age of
526
00:32:50,420 --> 00:32:53,000
15. I'm six years younger than her.
527
00:32:53,620 --> 00:32:56,380
I was there when she gave her first
shot.
528
00:32:56,620 --> 00:32:58,280
So I've seen her journey.
529
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:03,240
You know, like, I mean, like I was what?
I mean, seven years old. I was Taimur's
530
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:06,680
age. So I mean, for me, I've been seeing
it since then.
531
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:10,600
So I think I'm lucky enough to have that
guidance also.
532
00:33:11,180 --> 00:33:13,020
Like you said, not just watching in the
wings.
533
00:33:13,900 --> 00:33:17,520
It was literally like that. It can be a
movie through my eyes.
534
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:21,200
Yeah. What was it like growing up in
front of the world? Because your debut
535
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:23,180
happened when you were a teenager.
536
00:33:23,740 --> 00:33:25,960
Yeah. No, I started shooting at 18.
537
00:33:26,180 --> 00:33:28,840
18. Film released in 2000. I was 20.
538
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:33,640
But you're still growing up in front of
the world. Like 20 is too young in terms
539
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:35,660
of... I was an idiot when I was 20.
540
00:33:36,860 --> 00:33:40,560
I wasn't doing the regular things at 20.
You can say that.
541
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:45,220
College or restaurant, parties, friends
house, sleepovers.
542
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:46,980
I never had that normal.
543
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,300
Was there a price you paid in your own
eyes? This only?
544
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:53,640
Letting go of all this stuff? I think
so. You thought about it then?
545
00:33:55,700 --> 00:33:59,760
I mean, I... But that's when that
ambition was there.
546
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:03,440
That this is more important.
547
00:34:04,030 --> 00:34:05,890
That I want to be an actor.
548
00:34:06,390 --> 00:34:09,949
And for that, I have to maybe sacrifice
a lot or like do this.
549
00:34:10,330 --> 00:34:11,690
That passion was there.
550
00:34:12,210 --> 00:34:15,630
So I never really thought about that.
But now when I sit back and look and
551
00:34:15,630 --> 00:34:19,949
think, that what happens normally, like,
you know, sleeping over at friends'
552
00:34:20,010 --> 00:34:23,510
homes, you know, just chilling that time
with your friends.
553
00:34:24,139 --> 00:34:28,219
I'm working since I was 18. That
chilling and all. Now I feel sometimes I
554
00:34:28,219 --> 00:34:29,900
out time and want to chill with my
friends.
555
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,860
Because 18 to like, you know, almost 30.
556
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:37,080
I don't remember a time that we didn't
even know that time.
557
00:34:37,639 --> 00:34:40,760
What is the meaning of that?
558
00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:47,040
Our parties were like, we're sitting and
chilling with our crew, with our
559
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:50,159
people. Growing up in that set.
560
00:34:51,139 --> 00:34:52,239
So that was life.
561
00:34:53,739 --> 00:34:55,639
So which is... Would you change
anything?
562
00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:57,080
No.
563
00:34:57,200 --> 00:35:00,400
Fully like love the journey and
everything? I love the journey. I love
564
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:04,500
mistakes. I love the journey. I love
the... Every single thing. Because I've
565
00:35:04,500 --> 00:35:05,500
learnt everything here.
566
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:11,100
Would you want your kids to become
actors or is it too early to... Seven
567
00:35:11,100 --> 00:35:17,080
three, yeah. I think it's... It's too
early. I would definitely want them
568
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:20,180
Take their decision.
569
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:21,600
They're great looking boys.
570
00:35:22,470 --> 00:35:28,450
They are, but they have to fly their,
you know, their own way.
571
00:35:29,030 --> 00:35:30,090
That's their journey.
572
00:35:30,570 --> 00:35:36,290
And both Saif and me are very like
different because we both have had such
573
00:35:36,290 --> 00:35:40,850
strong journeys in our individual life.
So both of us are very individually,
574
00:35:40,890 --> 00:35:47,330
very strong parents in our thoughts, in
our approach.
575
00:35:48,779 --> 00:35:52,620
Plus, we've always lived our life the
way we want to live our lives, that we
576
00:35:52,620 --> 00:35:54,960
will never tell our children what to do.
577
00:35:56,220 --> 00:36:01,060
So let them fly. They'll figure out
their direction somewhere or the other
578
00:36:01,060 --> 00:36:02,060
they have to land.
579
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,820
What's like the main advice you're
giving them at this stage?
580
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:08,480
Because I know you get asked a lot of
questions about the paparazzi angle. I
581
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:13,640
don't ask you that, but I'm sure as a
parent, there's a human side to you,
582
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:16,100
is also like thinking about like.
583
00:36:16,430 --> 00:36:21,810
You know, your son's long -term self
-image, like what your mom did for you.
584
00:36:21,930 --> 00:36:22,629
Yeah, of course.
585
00:36:22,630 --> 00:36:25,410
So what is Kareena, the mom, doing for
her kids?
586
00:36:26,150 --> 00:36:27,610
In terms of what do you keep telling
them?
587
00:36:29,370 --> 00:36:32,710
Right now, it's just like, don't fight
with each other.
588
00:36:33,450 --> 00:36:37,750
Because right now, also, we were at home
and I was getting ready and suddenly I
589
00:36:37,750 --> 00:36:39,830
hear Seth screaming on top of his voice.
590
00:36:40,110 --> 00:36:41,210
And I was like, what happened?
591
00:36:41,630 --> 00:36:44,130
And he's yelling, you will not do that.
You will not.
592
00:36:44,410 --> 00:36:46,650
Because right now, it's just pulling
them apart.
593
00:36:47,390 --> 00:36:53,170
Because they're both finding their
identities right now. And Taimur is now
594
00:36:53,170 --> 00:36:58,950
older brother. So he's like, hak
jamauing and, you know, bullying him,
595
00:36:58,950 --> 00:37:01,910
him, pulling him. The little one is just
trying to be like, but I'm also.
596
00:37:02,210 --> 00:37:03,750
You can't do that to me.
597
00:37:04,130 --> 00:37:07,910
So right now, it's like, both happen.
And you're like, kya ho raha hai yaar?
598
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:12,160
It's like so difficult. Like we didn't
think that we're two boys. It's like
599
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:13,160
crazy.
600
00:37:14,020 --> 00:37:15,680
And they're both very strong
individuals.
601
00:37:16,180 --> 00:37:21,440
You can tell from now, you know, they
have their own personality because my
602
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:25,160
younger one is like, I'm not going to be
a, you know, the younger sibling always
603
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:26,160
has that.
604
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:31,260
The older sister will always have that
older brother. So he's like, I'm not a
605
00:37:31,260 --> 00:37:34,180
pushover. This is mine. You will not
come to my room.
606
00:37:35,570 --> 00:37:39,390
I'm like, yaar, yeh toh sir filmon mein
dekha tha. Ab toh life mein ho raha hai.
607
00:37:39,510 --> 00:37:42,830
You know, when boys are growing up with
each other, violence is their love
608
00:37:42,830 --> 00:37:44,150
language. Oh, no, yaar.
609
00:37:45,110 --> 00:37:48,410
There's a lot more. Wait till the time
they discover WWE.
610
00:37:48,810 --> 00:37:51,210
They have, because Taimur already has.
611
00:37:51,790 --> 00:37:56,250
So he's wearing his gloves and he's
like, come on, come on. And I'm like,
612
00:37:56,250 --> 00:38:00,990
three. And he's like doing these flying
kicks and some bicycle kicks. And I'm
613
00:38:00,990 --> 00:38:02,950
just like, har yaar.
614
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:04,259
Nice. Fun.
615
00:38:04,260 --> 00:38:08,480
Yeah, it's fun. I'm learning also.
Because, you know, we come from an all
616
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:09,480
household, man.
617
00:38:10,220 --> 00:38:12,120
So, what's it like seeing boys?
618
00:38:12,540 --> 00:38:13,540
Just boys?
619
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:17,380
Yeah. I'm like, you know, I need
somebody like, I need Saif to tell me
620
00:38:17,380 --> 00:38:20,360
fine. Relax. Just chill out. It's okay.
It happens. It happens.
621
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:22,138
You know.
622
00:38:22,140 --> 00:38:28,680
So, it's just crazy, man. It's just like
every day there's, every 15 minutes
623
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:29,680
their mood changes.
624
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,280
And I realize they only want to run.
625
00:38:32,910 --> 00:38:34,170
And they only want to eat food.
626
00:38:35,030 --> 00:38:38,250
They only want to give food and they
want to run.
627
00:38:39,550 --> 00:38:42,130
Football and cricket.
628
00:38:42,750 --> 00:38:47,010
Yeah, but one minute, they don't just
want to sit for a second.
629
00:38:48,470 --> 00:38:49,470
Sounds familiar.
630
00:38:49,610 --> 00:38:51,250
You were like that. To all the guys.
631
00:38:52,390 --> 00:38:54,930
I think boys are like that when they're
growing up.
632
00:38:55,270 --> 00:38:59,390
Yeah. You have a need for inflicting
pain upon your sibling, but it's
633
00:38:59,390 --> 00:39:02,950
love. You never cross a threshold with
the pain you're inflicting. Yeah. Even
634
00:39:02,950 --> 00:39:03,669
when you're a kid.
635
00:39:03,670 --> 00:39:08,650
And then if like I fire Jay and I'll
say, why did you kick Taimur? Then
636
00:39:08,650 --> 00:39:09,609
will start crying.
637
00:39:09,610 --> 00:39:12,930
So I'm like, but I'm firing him for you.
Why are you crying? He's like, don't
638
00:39:12,930 --> 00:39:16,550
talk to Jay like that. I'm like, they'll
figure it out.
639
00:39:17,830 --> 00:39:19,110
Brotherhood. Yeah. Exactly.
640
00:39:19,370 --> 00:39:20,370
I think so.
641
00:39:20,810 --> 00:39:23,850
Did you receive flying kicks from
Karishma Kapoor?
642
00:39:25,570 --> 00:39:29,190
No, but like, I'm still very assertive
with her. I think.
643
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:32,100
It is always the other way around.
644
00:39:32,860 --> 00:39:34,420
I was hug -chamowing on her.
645
00:39:35,660 --> 00:39:38,720
There is... I can't believe I'm giving
you a football example.
646
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:40,360
But to explain.
647
00:39:40,620 --> 00:39:44,960
So there's a pair of footballers called
Kevin Prince Boateng and Jerome Boateng.
648
00:39:45,020 --> 00:39:47,640
They grew up in a ghetto. Kevin Prince
was also great. He was the older one.
649
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:48,840
Are they playing now?
650
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,540
They're just about to retire. They might
know them.
651
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:53,080
Yeah. They were playing for what?
652
00:39:53,300 --> 00:39:54,300
Bayern Munich.
653
00:39:54,340 --> 00:39:55,840
Oh, he loves Bayern Munich.
654
00:39:56,140 --> 00:39:59,540
So they say that the younger one became
a legend.
655
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:03,720
Because the older one who's also great,
protected the younger one always.
656
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:07,940
I'm actually comparing this to Karishma
Kapoor and Kareena Kapoor also.
657
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:12,020
In terms of, I'm sure she's given you
like a lot of mentoring, guidance. Of
658
00:40:12,020 --> 00:40:17,380
course. She is like, I mean like, she's
like my go -to for everything.
659
00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:21,040
Like I just call her for every little
thing.
660
00:40:21,860 --> 00:40:24,580
And honestly, she's like the anchor of
the family.
661
00:40:25,180 --> 00:40:30,400
Because everyone in my family, which is
the Kapoors, as well as the Pataudis,
662
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:31,480
only calls Karishma.
663
00:40:32,020 --> 00:40:35,180
They'll all call her. So she's like,
whatever happens, call Lolo.
664
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:38,180
If you need a doctor, who do you need?
Call Lolo.
665
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:43,080
Any problem, this problem has happened,
I need a cook, I need a... Karishma will
666
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:48,740
know. So, you know, she's like, because
she has this very strong, like,
667
00:40:48,780 --> 00:40:53,220
personality, you know. She takes
control, takes charge of everything.
668
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,720
She always has the right thing to say.
669
00:40:57,040 --> 00:41:00,240
So I think that she just draws people
towards her.
670
00:41:00,500 --> 00:41:01,660
How does sisterhood evolve?
671
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:04,480
Best friends.
672
00:41:05,380 --> 00:41:09,140
From like looking up to the older sister
to wanting to be like her.
673
00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:12,520
To now like I think pretty much equals
and best friends.
674
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:17,160
I think we have that equation now where
we can tell each other that oh I didn't
675
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:18,160
like this.
676
00:41:19,130 --> 00:41:22,070
I don't like this. And there's a certain
amount of respect that comes in when
677
00:41:22,070 --> 00:41:23,590
you're in your 40s and 50s.
678
00:41:24,050 --> 00:41:25,630
And we're six and a half years apart.
679
00:41:26,910 --> 00:41:33,770
So it's, we're more like friends, like,
you know, who respect each
680
00:41:33,770 --> 00:41:36,590
other. Like, she respects my space as
well.
681
00:41:37,650 --> 00:41:39,810
You know, if I don't want to talk. And
I, vice versa.
682
00:41:40,350 --> 00:41:41,570
Do you have days like that?
683
00:41:41,830 --> 00:41:43,610
I think so. We all, yeah, no?
684
00:41:43,850 --> 00:41:48,290
I can't, I mean, see, this is the curse
of your fame. Like, I've seen your fame.
685
00:41:48,620 --> 00:41:54,740
Like for a big section of my life. So I
really can't imagine you pissed off out
686
00:41:54,740 --> 00:41:55,319
and all.
687
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:58,420
You know what I mean? I can't imagine
you sad or pissed off or anything.
688
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:03,280
No, sad is different. Pissed off is
different.
689
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:06,620
My anger is like, I'm like a soda
bottle.
690
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:09,840
I'll just go, go, go, go, go, react.
691
00:42:10,100 --> 00:42:13,720
And then after that, I've forgotten also
about it. Like exactly five minutes
692
00:42:13,720 --> 00:42:14,720
later, I'm just like.
693
00:42:15,290 --> 00:42:16,930
I've forgotten what the issue is.
694
00:42:17,190 --> 00:42:20,390
I'm like, why? What is the issue? I've
gone to another, moved on to another
695
00:42:20,390 --> 00:42:23,770
topic. So when I'm fighting with Saif
also, he's like, but you said you're
696
00:42:23,770 --> 00:42:25,330
pissed off. I'm like, yeah, yeah, but
now I'm fine.
697
00:42:25,850 --> 00:42:30,990
So I'm from a generation of urban men,
all of whom have a man crush on your
698
00:42:30,990 --> 00:42:33,750
husband. Oh, really? I know. I've heard
that before.
699
00:42:34,050 --> 00:42:38,530
Like any guy who I've grown up with
loves Saif Ali Khan.
700
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:42,120
Whenever Saif Ali Khan's name is taken,
there's a lot. And I told him this on
701
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:45,860
the show as well. That he's taught an
entire generation how to be cool. Yeah,
702
00:42:45,860 --> 00:42:51,200
completely. The entire 2000s Dil Chaata
Hai Time, Hum Tum Salaam Namaste, Bing
703
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:55,580
Cyrus. An entire generation was written
coolness. I mean, today you can't, I
704
00:42:55,580 --> 00:42:59,820
don't think any actor, he's also quite
irreplaceable in those parts.
705
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:05,920
Like, I don't know, like if Kalona had
to be made again, I can't see anyone
706
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:06,779
that part.
707
00:43:06,780 --> 00:43:08,080
Because Saif is just...
708
00:43:08,330 --> 00:43:10,010
He has that vibe like, you know.
709
00:43:10,710 --> 00:43:15,530
Relaxed. And also like, you know, he can
talk shit very well. Yeah. And still be
710
00:43:15,530 --> 00:43:17,030
manly. Yeah. And intellectual.
711
00:43:17,390 --> 00:43:21,010
And intellectual. So that combination
doesn't happen these days.
712
00:43:21,470 --> 00:43:23,650
What was the most attractive thing at
first?
713
00:43:24,070 --> 00:43:26,670
And then during the honeymoon phase,
what was the most attractive? When you
714
00:43:26,670 --> 00:43:27,670
to know Saif Ali Khan.
715
00:43:30,630 --> 00:43:34,970
I think, of course, the first was the
fact that he's, I think, extremely
716
00:43:34,970 --> 00:43:35,970
handsome.
717
00:43:36,980 --> 00:43:41,900
and he was like I mean when I saw him
first I was like I've never seen
718
00:43:41,900 --> 00:43:48,420
so handsome and so like good looking and
you know has that natural royal aura
719
00:43:48,420 --> 00:43:52,720
yeah like he just had a natural glint in
his eye that was like really charming
720
00:43:52,720 --> 00:43:59,080
and you know he also has very kind eyes
which I think women like in
721
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:03,960
men where they look that when you have
an eye that's so kind where you feel
722
00:44:04,750 --> 00:44:07,310
It's a natural caring, kind eyes that he
has.
723
00:44:07,570 --> 00:44:09,630
So I think that was the first thing, you
know.
724
00:44:09,910 --> 00:44:12,690
And then, of course, I mean, like, I
think I'm still discovering Saif.
725
00:44:13,050 --> 00:44:14,050
Really? Yeah.
726
00:44:14,350 --> 00:44:18,770
I know him. There's no one better in the
world who knows Saif than me. And I can
727
00:44:18,770 --> 00:44:19,790
confidently say that.
728
00:44:20,110 --> 00:44:21,230
He also knows that.
729
00:44:21,930 --> 00:44:24,390
Like, I know exactly what he's thinking
and what he's going to think next.
730
00:44:24,850 --> 00:44:29,930
But I think you're always, because
you're a partner and you are also always
731
00:44:29,930 --> 00:44:31,270
evolving, you know.
732
00:44:32,750 --> 00:44:33,750
So.
733
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:37,260
We're going to keep discovering each
other, which I think is nice.
734
00:44:37,540 --> 00:44:41,080
But is intelligence like one of the core
reasons?
735
00:44:41,500 --> 00:44:46,480
No, but is intelligence, this idea of
says intelligent, I don't know where, of
736
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:50,440
course, he's always like, why do always,
why is everybody saying that, okay, he
737
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:54,060
reads books because books, reading
books, books are meant to be read and
738
00:44:54,060 --> 00:44:55,140
the most normal thing ever.
739
00:44:55,420 --> 00:44:58,500
So I'm like, yeah, I don't know. So he's
like, yeah, I don't know.
740
00:44:59,180 --> 00:45:03,420
Intelligent in the sense, he thinks.
741
00:45:04,939 --> 00:45:10,200
He thinks, you know, and he's, yeah,
he's, I mean, well -read because he's
742
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,300
interested in reading, you know.
743
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:16,900
But, I mean, like, he's not interested,
like, in worldly politics or, like, I
744
00:45:16,900 --> 00:45:19,580
mean, I don't know. It's not like he's
some, you know.
745
00:45:20,910 --> 00:45:24,530
some economist or something like that or
you know he's not that's why there's
746
00:45:24,530 --> 00:45:30,230
peace in his eyes yeah exactly he's not
like you know he's like i also am like
747
00:45:30,230 --> 00:45:34,850
as normal and whatever this stereotype
comes from one of the older coffee with
748
00:45:34,850 --> 00:45:41,430
karan episodes that you were on where
you said you you you caused this yeah
749
00:45:41,430 --> 00:45:45,370
said something like they don't make men
like that anymore who read and who are
750
00:45:45,370 --> 00:45:48,090
intellectual i mean intellectual in the
sense that
751
00:45:49,799 --> 00:45:51,560
Maybe he thinks a lot more.
752
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:53,460
More deeply.
753
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:54,760
Yeah.
754
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:58,740
You know, this is like my 650th
something episode.
755
00:45:59,020 --> 00:46:00,980
He was my 9th or 8th episode.
756
00:46:01,300 --> 00:46:02,840
Then you should talk to him now.
757
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:04,240
Yeah. You make it happen.
758
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:10,820
No, but my point is I wasn't prepared to
do a good podcast with him that time
759
00:46:10,820 --> 00:46:13,700
because I was also too young. Yeah. Now
I think after this, I'm going to tell
760
00:46:13,700 --> 00:46:18,700
him that it's been like it's fun and
you'll get to like speak a lot of what.
761
00:46:19,240 --> 00:46:22,820
And people will get to know the deep,
deeper side to you. Yeah.
762
00:46:23,780 --> 00:46:27,280
I, again, people, I'm getting to know
the deeper side of you right now.
763
00:46:28,580 --> 00:46:34,120
Which is, which is again, like, what you
said, whatever's inside is happening on
764
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:35,800
your face. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's a very
Punjabi thing.
765
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:37,400
My,
766
00:46:37,660 --> 00:46:40,880
my whole, like, my nature is like my
mom.
767
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:47,380
But my entire personality is born
Punjabi.
768
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:51,680
means I am like a chapa of my father.
769
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:57,240
And I have no bones about it. And if
anybody has problems, I don't care. I am
770
00:46:57,240 --> 00:46:58,520
like this only.
771
00:46:59,060 --> 00:47:03,540
Me and my father are mirror images of
each other. Like our sense of humor, the
772
00:47:03,540 --> 00:47:07,260
way we eat, the way we talk, the way we
sit.
773
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:09,980
He also enjoys all these comedy movies.
774
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:12,080
And like my taste.
775
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:16,720
Like I'm just born and bred like a...
776
00:47:18,060 --> 00:47:19,360
Punjabi. Full on.
777
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:23,900
What's your favorite food other than
Chinese food? It is Chinese, right? No,
778
00:47:23,980 --> 00:47:28,220
Chinese, of course, because I think all
the kapoors are obsessed with Chinese.
779
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:35,900
But my hardcore food is the hardcore
desi Punjabi food
780
00:47:35,900 --> 00:47:42,620
like kadhi chawal, rajma chawal. I'm
like hardcore into all of that.
781
00:47:42,860 --> 00:47:46,780
That's comfort food. That is not
comfort. That is like my proper khana.
782
00:47:47,870 --> 00:47:54,090
In the day, like, I mean, come what may,
in my house, like, Saif eats,
783
00:47:54,210 --> 00:47:59,130
he's very spartan in the day. Like, he
likes to, because he's working in the
784
00:47:59,130 --> 00:48:05,090
and he's, whatever. So, he's like
vegetarian and he'll like, you know,
785
00:48:05,170 --> 00:48:09,650
simple dal sabzi. And he can eat that
every day. In the day, he prefers.
786
00:48:09,870 --> 00:48:15,870
Okay. So, he likes the fact that, you
know, he'll eat the same food.
787
00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:17,360
Every day.
788
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:20,160
The dal and sabzi.
789
00:48:20,700 --> 00:48:23,000
That gobi and bhindi ka sabzi.
790
00:48:23,820 --> 00:48:26,640
Will be made every day. But for me.
791
00:48:27,240 --> 00:48:30,760
It's like with a passion. I like tell my
cook knows.
792
00:48:31,340 --> 00:48:35,000
Like ek din rajma hai. Ek din kadhi
chawal hai. Ek din chane hai.
793
00:48:35,620 --> 00:48:36,980
It has to.
794
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:40,280
Punjabi swaad has to be there.
795
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:43,640
100%. My food is totally different from
these three.
796
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:45,880
These three.
797
00:48:46,270 --> 00:48:48,010
Kids also. So they eat like him?
798
00:48:48,270 --> 00:48:53,130
They also eat like him. My younger one
is more like me because he also is like
799
00:48:53,130 --> 00:48:55,230
that paratha and white butter and all of
that.
800
00:48:55,750 --> 00:48:57,610
For me, that is like my daily food.
801
00:48:58,230 --> 00:49:01,550
One meal I have to have that. And cheat
meals?
802
00:49:02,170 --> 00:49:04,730
But I am eating paratha every 2 -3 days.
803
00:49:06,170 --> 00:49:07,610
What do you like in Chinese food?
804
00:49:07,990 --> 00:49:09,470
I like Punjabi Chinese.
805
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:16,380
That Manchurian and Chow Mein. I'm
telling you, it's crazy.
806
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:18,200
My taste is like that.
807
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:21,560
Like now also talking about food, I'm
like, oh God, wow.
808
00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:22,819
Too good.
809
00:49:22,820 --> 00:49:28,620
So, but that is the real Geet also. That
Punjabi, that is me also.
810
00:49:29,460 --> 00:49:34,900
Sundays are nice because at my home,
I'll have Sindhi curry, aloo took.
811
00:49:35,100 --> 00:49:36,800
Otherwise, I'll have biryani.
812
00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:38,400
Cookie roti.
813
00:49:39,300 --> 00:49:40,300
You're Sindhi?
814
00:49:40,490 --> 00:49:41,610
I have a lot of Sindhi friends.
815
00:49:42,310 --> 00:49:43,310
That's Koki.
816
00:49:44,470 --> 00:49:46,850
I've grown up. My mom is also half
Sindhi.
817
00:49:47,310 --> 00:49:49,410
So that combination is very scary.
818
00:49:49,690 --> 00:49:51,590
Can you speak Sindhi? No. You can
understand?
819
00:49:52,990 --> 00:49:54,650
No. You feel Sindhi on the inside?
820
00:49:55,710 --> 00:49:57,090
No, I feel full Punjabi.
821
00:49:57,370 --> 00:49:58,390
Yeah? Yeah.
822
00:49:58,630 --> 00:50:02,090
I can't speak Punjabi but I can
understand when Punjabis are talking.
823
00:50:02,310 --> 00:50:03,510
I know.
824
00:50:03,890 --> 00:50:07,170
Also because I love the sound of the
language.
825
00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:10,220
This is a very Bombay Punjabi thing to
say. Yeah.
826
00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:12,740
Same. It's very sweet.
827
00:50:13,020 --> 00:50:17,940
That internally you are very Punjabi but
you can't speak Punjabi. Yeah. Because
828
00:50:17,940 --> 00:50:18,940
I was born in Bombay.
829
00:50:19,540 --> 00:50:25,640
But I feel like I'm full like Desi.
Yeah. Punjabi Desi.
830
00:50:25,980 --> 00:50:30,080
That look that people know that is me
only. That I am for sure.
831
00:50:30,300 --> 00:50:34,020
I feel there's a lot of similarities
between you and your cousin Ranbir
832
00:50:34,020 --> 00:50:36,420
also. Yeah, I know a lot of people say
that also.
833
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:42,280
He also is, I think, similar because he
has an attitude and a confidence and an
834
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:46,600
air that, again, is just nobody has, I
think.
835
00:50:47,650 --> 00:50:51,030
In the Indian film industry. I'm very
biased. I don't know if I'm biased. I
836
00:50:51,030 --> 00:50:53,930
don't even actually think I'm biased.
Because I genuinely think there's no one
837
00:50:53,930 --> 00:50:54,930
like Ranbir Kapoor.
838
00:50:55,270 --> 00:50:58,050
It's the Raj Kapoor genes that have like
trailed down.
839
00:50:58,650 --> 00:51:01,350
He is so like a deadly combination.
840
00:51:01,670 --> 00:51:04,390
Because Chintu uncle also is such a fine
actor.
841
00:51:04,670 --> 00:51:06,570
Neetu aunty is such a great actress.
842
00:51:07,750 --> 00:51:08,750
Plus he has.
843
00:51:09,210 --> 00:51:15,650
What do people not know about him?
844
00:51:16,790 --> 00:51:19,150
And or the question could be, how is he
like as a brother?
845
00:51:19,930 --> 00:51:23,450
I think Ranbir also is like, I find
Ranbir and Saif also are very similar,
846
00:51:23,510 --> 00:51:24,510
extremely kind.
847
00:51:24,890 --> 00:51:29,090
Also, they have very kind eyes. Even
Ranbir's eyes are very kind, you know,
848
00:51:29,090 --> 00:51:33,750
because he's genuinely, also I think
he's a very no -nonsense person. I think
849
00:51:33,750 --> 00:51:37,710
he really likes you, he likes you. If he
doesn't like you, he's the kind of
850
00:51:37,710 --> 00:51:41,850
person to, you know, he doesn't make too
much of an effort then, you know.
851
00:51:42,770 --> 00:51:44,130
What you see is what you get.
852
00:51:46,069 --> 00:51:47,069
Extremely loving.
853
00:51:48,370 --> 00:51:49,490
Also very charming.
854
00:51:49,730 --> 00:51:55,270
I think that's why he has the entire
nation dancing to his tunes.
855
00:51:55,650 --> 00:51:59,230
So I think that he's also very unique, I
think, in a way.
856
00:51:59,570 --> 00:52:03,010
I think if you're not charming, you
can't have a film career. Because the
857
00:52:03,010 --> 00:52:06,030
shows up on screen, but you also need it
in the off -camera.
858
00:52:06,270 --> 00:52:07,630
Yeah, and it has to be natural.
859
00:52:08,010 --> 00:52:09,250
It can't be put on.
860
00:52:09,490 --> 00:52:11,870
That put on, I think people pick up.
861
00:52:12,700 --> 00:52:15,840
So I feel Ranbir has a very natural air
to him.
862
00:52:16,500 --> 00:52:20,500
Where did this darkness that we see in
Animal come from? Like in his eyes, like
863
00:52:20,500 --> 00:52:21,740
the way he's delivering some of those
scenes.
864
00:52:22,240 --> 00:52:27,960
Like, I'm like, how did he become that
person in that scene? Like, and I'll
865
00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:31,820
you the other way of asking the same
question. The same thought has been
866
00:52:31,820 --> 00:52:35,840
by me to Mukesh Chhabra also on the
show. I was asking about what creates a
867
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:39,020
actor. And it was like life experiences.
Then it went into this whole nepotism,
868
00:52:39,020 --> 00:52:40,580
like, conversation.
869
00:52:41,470 --> 00:52:47,830
And then he said that, but the exception
is Ranbir Kapoor, Kareena Kapoor. So I
870
00:52:47,830 --> 00:52:50,490
tried asking him, what's special about
you guys?
871
00:52:51,150 --> 00:52:54,650
So he said that usually people who are
good actors are also very empathetic.
872
00:52:54,870 --> 00:52:57,730
And perhaps empathy runs in that gene
pool.
873
00:52:58,450 --> 00:53:01,630
That you can pick up other people's
emotions much more easily. Yeah. I'm
874
00:53:01,670 --> 00:53:05,130
I know this is like too deep. No, but
empathy is such an important aspect,
875
00:53:05,230 --> 00:53:06,510
you've said. It is.
876
00:53:07,350 --> 00:53:09,210
In your performance.
877
00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:16,040
To be empathetic towards another person
and to feel that what the other
878
00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:21,420
characters are also feeling and to bring
out that emotion is also so important.
879
00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:24,220
So empathy is very important in
performances.
880
00:53:24,780 --> 00:53:26,220
You can read other people easily?
881
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:28,580
I think, yeah. And that's tiring.
882
00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:32,920
Why? Because then you can read, you know
exactly like what that person is, what
883
00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:35,180
the person is going to say, whether they
actually mean it.
884
00:53:36,260 --> 00:53:38,020
That's why I like to keep my circle
small.
885
00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:40,920
Because it also tires you, drains you.
886
00:53:41,860 --> 00:53:45,540
Everyone's viewing you with the nether
of, oh, I'm talking to Kareena Kapoor.
887
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:47,340
Yeah. That gets tiring?
888
00:53:47,740 --> 00:53:49,920
Of course that gets tiring. Gets tiring
a little bit.
889
00:53:50,220 --> 00:53:51,220
Now it does.
890
00:53:51,860 --> 00:53:54,960
Now you just want to like be yourself.
891
00:53:56,660 --> 00:54:01,500
With YouTube fame, which is hyper niche,
I feel tired. So I can't imagine what
892
00:54:01,500 --> 00:54:04,640
your reality is in terms of stamina and
exhaustion.
893
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:06,700
I don't know how to.
894
00:54:08,430 --> 00:54:11,910
I mean, explain it. But that's why I
always, I think, off late because
895
00:54:11,910 --> 00:54:17,190
obviously, I mean, I've been around for
so long. I keep my circle small. I don't
896
00:54:17,190 --> 00:54:22,390
do too many interviews. I don't like to
do too much because I'm like, Abhi, you
897
00:54:22,390 --> 00:54:28,150
know, you should also enjoy your stardom
and your fans from watching you also on
898
00:54:28,150 --> 00:54:33,010
the screen because you have, there's
always going to be a part of you little
899
00:54:33,010 --> 00:54:35,750
in each character, you know, that you
kind of pick up.
900
00:54:37,020 --> 00:54:38,020
That's also important.
901
00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:42,540
So I want people to pick up that also
through Eat Film.
902
00:54:42,780 --> 00:54:45,220
Have you ever felt lonely throughout
this journey?
903
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:52,680
Well, I mean, of course. I think people
will never really understand what you
904
00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:55,460
are feeling at that time. Because
sometimes you have to do so many things
905
00:54:55,460 --> 00:54:58,000
others no matter what you are going
through.
906
00:54:58,240 --> 00:55:01,140
That you are dying from 102 fever but
there is no one with you.
907
00:55:01,420 --> 00:55:02,419
They don't care.
908
00:55:02,420 --> 00:55:04,200
If you want to give a shot, you have to
give it. If you want to go, you have to
909
00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:05,038
go.
910
00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:10,840
And people have done that. So what
you're feeling inside, sometimes nobody,
911
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:11,840
much can they understand?
912
00:55:12,380 --> 00:55:13,520
You have to be a professional.
913
00:55:14,060 --> 00:55:16,240
In this job, yes.
914
00:55:16,980 --> 00:55:19,520
Plus, you know, people will... There's
no sick leave.
915
00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:26,480
There's also no room to have a bad day
if you're going out in public. If you're
916
00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:30,900
having a worse day, people will...
There's no room to feel emotion for
917
00:55:30,900 --> 00:55:33,140
apart from that you have to make sure
that...
918
00:55:34,660 --> 00:55:37,820
You're just being that perfect star at
that time.
919
00:55:39,540 --> 00:55:44,120
So many things can be happening. So
many, I mean, anything could have had a
920
00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:48,340
fight with my mom, could have had a
fight with my son, with anything. But at
921
00:55:48,340 --> 00:55:51,400
that time, it just has to be you and the
camera.
922
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:57,560
In that sense, this profession is, that
is the demanding.
923
00:55:58,520 --> 00:55:59,520
Not keep promotion.
924
00:55:59,720 --> 00:56:04,020
That also is demanding.
925
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:06,020
That has now taken out the juice of.
926
00:56:07,180 --> 00:56:09,480
Becoming an act. Being an actor. Or
being a star.
927
00:56:10,240 --> 00:56:10,979
You know.
928
00:56:10,980 --> 00:56:15,420
But it's the internal emotion. That if
tomorrow anything is happening around
929
00:56:15,420 --> 00:56:16,420
you. Anything.
930
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:18,920
Somebody could be dying. But if you are
in the shot. That's it.
931
00:56:20,220 --> 00:56:25,160
It's just you and the camera. It's very
selfish. But that's the price you have
932
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:26,160
to pay.
933
00:56:26,720 --> 00:56:28,440
And that's what I feel is demanding.
934
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:32,920
All these other things are all
unnecessarily. They're not important.
935
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:39,860
Like events, this and that, film
promotions, all that is all
936
00:56:39,860 --> 00:56:42,740
temporary. Honestly, it doesn't matter.
937
00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:46,020
That is not demanding.
938
00:56:47,940 --> 00:56:49,900
Just this craft aspect.
939
00:56:50,180 --> 00:56:54,380
Craft. You always have to give that a
200 % even if you're...
940
00:56:55,839 --> 00:56:57,640
That is where the job is demanding.
941
00:56:58,040 --> 00:57:00,420
Is your craft going on outside of a film
set ever?
942
00:57:01,720 --> 00:57:05,040
No. As in, in the sense, performing or?
943
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:07,920
No, I mean, when you go out in public,
you are maintaining that brand.
944
00:57:08,860 --> 00:57:10,300
That, of course, has to happen.
945
00:57:11,280 --> 00:57:12,620
How do you dress at home?
946
00:57:13,620 --> 00:57:17,740
I dress like, I mean, like, put so
strange. Saif today is like, God.
947
00:57:18,620 --> 00:57:19,620
To go to an event.
948
00:57:21,100 --> 00:57:23,900
So many people. So many clothes.
949
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:26,600
He's like what has happened to.
950
00:57:27,820 --> 00:57:31,640
Actors. I said I don't know. I don't
want to do this. I want to also just go
951
00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:32,640
like you know.
952
00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:35,980
Like you know.
953
00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:37,979
Interviews also.
954
00:57:37,980 --> 00:57:40,640
Sometimes in my old interviews. I'm
wearing some dirty t -shirt and jeans.
955
00:57:41,100 --> 00:57:42,700
But I'm like that had its charm.
956
00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:44,560
But I don't know.
957
00:57:45,600 --> 00:57:47,040
These days there's a lot of pressure.
958
00:57:49,930 --> 00:57:56,670
like look hot diva everyone wants to be
that fashion so i
959
00:57:56,670 --> 00:58:01,250
mean you know i guess you look like a
diva even in the t -shirt yeah but
960
00:58:01,250 --> 00:58:05,090
what i'm like i'm happy so he's like why
are you doing all this he's like the
961
00:58:05,090 --> 00:58:11,290
entire house has been taken over with
clothes and like people so he's like is
962
00:58:11,290 --> 00:58:13,650
this really what it is i'm like yeah
963
00:58:14,690 --> 00:58:19,210
I think that old time is going to come
back now. That's my thoda gut feel. I
964
00:58:19,210 --> 00:58:21,770
hope so, yeah. You don't feel so? I hope
so, honestly.
965
00:58:22,650 --> 00:58:25,050
I have like one more compliment for you.
966
00:58:25,450 --> 00:58:27,930
Okay? You can just deliver the
compliment. Apart from the sunflower.
967
00:58:28,550 --> 00:58:32,390
This whole podcast has been a string of
compliments. I don't know. But I'm also
968
00:58:32,390 --> 00:58:35,390
carrying all the compliments I got from
people who I told.
969
00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:37,120
about this podcast.
970
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:40,840
Like, I always talk to these people who
are very, like, deeply, like, you know,
971
00:58:40,840 --> 00:58:45,020
they're film nerds and they're film
industry nerds. Oh, really? And lots of
972
00:58:45,020 --> 00:58:46,020
people are Kareena Kapoor fans.
973
00:58:46,620 --> 00:58:52,920
So, most people told me to ask you about
the following topic, okay? Okay. Before
974
00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:54,220
I tell you the topic, I'll tell you the
compliment.
975
00:58:55,180 --> 00:58:59,000
The compliment is, like, we spoke about
this whole tiring thing, kids get
976
00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:04,090
demanding, okay? And it's been a while
that you've been, like, relevant yeah
977
00:59:04,090 --> 00:59:08,450
yeah fight for relevance it doesn't just
happen there is hard work there's
978
00:59:08,450 --> 00:59:12,710
discipline there's working on being like
you know on exhausted days you have to
979
00:59:12,710 --> 00:59:19,590
still um but it doesn't ever show up on
your face usually with a
980
00:59:19,590 --> 00:59:25,070
lot of people who age yeah their noor
goes away like you know but uh
981
00:59:33,070 --> 00:59:36,090
Still like there. Like what's happening
in your heart.
982
00:59:37,750 --> 00:59:39,950
Because I feel. The day I.
983
00:59:40,450 --> 00:59:41,450
This hunger.
984
00:59:42,650 --> 00:59:46,110
So it's same. Because it's like.
985
00:59:47,270 --> 00:59:48,790
I'm at peace with myself.
986
00:59:49,030 --> 00:59:50,050
Like with whatever.
987
00:59:50,290 --> 00:59:52,350
But I'm still hungry for.
988
00:59:53,670 --> 00:59:54,670
More.
989
00:59:56,830 --> 01:00:00,090
I'm satisfied. But I'm not satiated.
990
01:00:00,790 --> 01:00:01,930
If I'm making sense.
991
01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:05,460
Like you feel gratitude for everything
that's there already and everything
992
01:00:05,460 --> 01:00:06,259
that's happened.
993
01:00:06,260 --> 01:00:07,260
Of course.
994
01:00:07,420 --> 01:00:09,280
But some more feel even better.
995
01:00:10,380 --> 01:00:13,500
It's more like that hunger should
constantly be there.
996
01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:19,360
And there should always be a feeling of
like, but I can do that.
997
01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:25,980
The day that goes away, I will just be
like, I'm done.
998
01:00:27,210 --> 01:00:28,210
So that is still there.
999
01:00:28,430 --> 01:00:32,390
But it might go, I don't know, 5, 10
years, 15 years, 20 years. I don't know.
1000
01:00:32,910 --> 01:00:35,130
Like people who know me say that I'll be
working till I'm 80.
1001
01:00:36,190 --> 01:00:37,470
Because they know me.
1002
01:00:38,410 --> 01:00:41,510
And I always say that, oh, yeah, yeah,
whatever.
1003
01:00:41,790 --> 01:00:46,170
But I always feel like, no, but I can do
that. But I can do this film. But I can
1004
01:00:46,170 --> 01:00:50,550
do that. So that is what keeps you, you
know, on your toes.
1005
01:00:51,710 --> 01:00:53,150
Are you doing it for someone?
1006
01:00:53,870 --> 01:00:56,070
Are you doing it for your mother? Are
you doing it for your kids?
1007
01:00:56,490 --> 01:00:58,730
No. I'm doing it for myself.
1008
01:00:59,590 --> 01:01:00,690
I'm doing it for myself.
1009
01:01:02,970 --> 01:01:07,210
My kids like today my son has asked me
that again you're doing makeup mama you
1010
01:01:07,210 --> 01:01:08,510
like makeup lots I think.
1011
01:01:08,770 --> 01:01:10,250
So he's still figuring out.
1012
01:01:10,510 --> 01:01:12,970
But it's not that. I'm doing it for
myself.
1013
01:01:13,290 --> 01:01:19,430
I'm doing it to be you know satisfied
satiated for myself be happy.
1014
01:01:21,130 --> 01:01:27,880
And To prove to myself that, you know,
that I want to always be this
1015
01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:31,860
person that you've just asked me this
question that hopefully 25 years later
1016
01:01:31,860 --> 01:01:33,540
also you might ask me this question.
1017
01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:38,200
What's been like the most difficult
phase through all this?
1018
01:01:38,660 --> 01:01:41,940
Has there been any phase that stood out
as like that was challenging?
1019
01:01:42,580 --> 01:01:47,280
I mean, a phase, I think that in 25
years, there's been too many ups and
1020
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:49,840
In fact, the amount of failures I have
seen.
1021
01:01:51,630 --> 01:01:56,370
If you go back to a trajectory of my
career, there have been a string of
1022
01:01:56,370 --> 01:01:58,850
that have happened. And if it happened
to anybody, honestly, nobody would
1023
01:01:58,850 --> 01:01:59,850
survive this.
1024
01:02:00,510 --> 01:02:07,350
Nobody. But we never talk about that
because there is a certain aura
1025
01:02:07,350 --> 01:02:12,850
or perception, a feeling that that's her
or whatever.
1026
01:02:13,070 --> 01:02:15,310
And I've never let people feel that.
1027
01:02:16,090 --> 01:02:19,570
because maybe I've been good in those
films or however it is I've worked hard
1028
01:02:19,570 --> 01:02:23,350
for that but there are there have been a
string of films that have not worked
1029
01:02:23,350 --> 01:02:28,050
before Jab Be Met where I've always
tried to be like okay none of the films
1030
01:02:28,050 --> 01:02:31,710
working what's going to happen now and a
lot of things people don't know that
1031
01:02:31,710 --> 01:02:35,610
after before Jab Be Met I had not worked
for a year I had said no to so many
1032
01:02:35,610 --> 01:02:38,590
films and I was at home because I was
like so many films are not doing well I
1033
01:02:38,590 --> 01:02:43,310
need to take a step back to reassess why
the hell this is happening
1034
01:02:45,230 --> 01:02:47,090
To wait for that perfect script.
1035
01:02:48,850 --> 01:02:52,450
Which will come. Which might take a year
or two. But I must be prepared to pull
1036
01:02:52,450 --> 01:02:56,130
back. Why was it happening? Because you
were rushing with like.
1037
01:02:56,370 --> 01:03:00,170
Yeah just doing any and every film. Not
really thinking maybe about it. Films
1038
01:03:00,170 --> 01:03:01,390
were not working at the box office.
1039
01:03:01,670 --> 01:03:03,970
And ultimately box office success is
important.
1040
01:03:05,230 --> 01:03:06,310
At the end of the day.
1041
01:03:06,610 --> 01:03:08,330
Numbers matter. You are chasing that.
1042
01:03:11,040 --> 01:03:15,280
Whatever it is, we are chasing the
craft. We are chasing the art. But with
1043
01:03:15,340 --> 01:03:20,660
we are also chasing the fact that this
longevity has happened also because of
1044
01:03:20,660 --> 01:03:21,660
the box office.
1045
01:03:21,960 --> 01:03:25,400
Also, yes, of course, like you said, my
confidence, personality, blah, blah,
1046
01:03:25,440 --> 01:03:28,940
blah. Of course, my performance is that
I have been at it.
1047
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:30,780
That gumption is there.
1048
01:03:31,380 --> 01:03:35,140
But we can't deny that. We can't take
away from that also.
1049
01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:37,880
Did you internalize the pain of those
failures?
1050
01:03:38,380 --> 01:03:39,820
Or did you just let go of it?
1051
01:03:40,200 --> 01:03:46,620
No, of course, I was very upset. I was
like traumatized. I would cry myself to
1052
01:03:46,620 --> 01:03:50,900
sleep for many nights that why are my
films not working? What is it that is
1053
01:03:50,900 --> 01:03:55,020
happening that like everybody, because
even people were like, she's so good.
1054
01:03:55,020 --> 01:04:00,240
that one film, it just needed that one
turn, which was not happening.
1055
01:04:01,660 --> 01:04:07,520
So that phase will always happen, I
think. And in 25 years, I feel, in fact,
1056
01:04:07,540 --> 01:04:10,670
my... I'm known more for my failures
than my success.
1057
01:04:12,190 --> 01:04:18,690
If my failures were not known, then I
would not have that one,
1058
01:04:18,910 --> 01:04:23,510
you know, feeling of, wow, okay, that's
success, that has happened.
1059
01:04:24,610 --> 01:04:27,590
Do you realize that at this stage you're
beyond failure and success?
1060
01:04:28,910 --> 01:04:30,850
I'm sorry, I'm softening it.
1061
01:04:31,290 --> 01:04:35,310
like for you because i know you've got a
whole warrior spirit about yeah so i
1062
01:04:35,310 --> 01:04:39,390
don't mean to take away from that at all
yeah like i admire that about you but
1063
01:04:39,390 --> 01:04:44,570
there's very few people who've gone and
reached that icon status out of years of
1064
01:04:44,570 --> 01:04:51,250
hard work behind them but i never want
to know that sorry i
1065
01:04:51,250 --> 01:04:53,430
never want to get into this like you
know
1066
01:04:57,120 --> 01:05:01,280
I want to know that this picture has to
work. How it has to work? What has to be
1067
01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:03,460
done? You know, we have to give it our
best.
1068
01:05:04,380 --> 01:05:06,860
Let's make it work. What is it like?
1069
01:05:07,100 --> 01:05:10,960
You know, how do we improve it? Let's
try and do that.
1070
01:05:11,420 --> 01:05:14,580
You know, so that feeling has to be
there.
1071
01:05:15,100 --> 01:05:18,520
Because otherwise then... What's the
meaning of life?
1072
01:05:18,760 --> 01:05:21,980
Yeah, so I don't want to ever have that
feeling.
1073
01:05:22,400 --> 01:05:26,300
Do you have a visual of your 70s and
80s?
1074
01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:33,640
in your head with Ranveer I don't know
what is your thing you don't want to
1075
01:05:33,640 --> 01:05:37,720
maybe you don't want to be doing podcast
I don't know what you want to do I want
1076
01:05:37,720 --> 01:05:42,400
to leave civilization and that's not
something cool like actually I don't do
1077
01:05:42,400 --> 01:05:46,880
that you want to be in Mumbai I don't
know Mumbai or where now I don't know
1078
01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:52,740
wherever now once the kids grow up who
knows I don't know maybe somewhere in
1079
01:05:52,740 --> 01:05:56,060
hills in the mountains yeah same no
maybe you'll be neighbors
1080
01:05:57,430 --> 01:05:58,430
Dharamshala. Yeah.
1081
01:05:58,850 --> 01:06:00,750
Somebody, somewhere, beautiful hills.
1082
01:06:01,190 --> 01:06:07,970
You know, I mean, we are, I mean, of
course, I think our country is gorgeous
1083
01:06:07,970 --> 01:06:13,070
we've never really, we've not even had
the time to explore it, you know.
1084
01:06:13,330 --> 01:06:18,350
So, I keep seeing images where I would
like to go, you know.
1085
01:06:19,010 --> 01:06:23,210
And, who knows, a retired life
somewhere.
1086
01:06:23,850 --> 01:06:24,850
Kasoli time.
1087
01:06:25,880 --> 01:06:26,880
So beautiful.
1088
01:06:27,620 --> 01:06:29,360
Deeper. Deeper into the mountain.
1089
01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:30,820
Deeper into the mountain.
1090
01:06:31,120 --> 01:06:32,120
That you will go.
1091
01:06:33,460 --> 01:06:34,920
What do you want from life?
1092
01:06:37,320 --> 01:06:43,460
I mean, for me, I just want to be like
happy and content.
1093
01:06:44,500 --> 01:06:45,640
In the middle of both.
1094
01:06:47,160 --> 01:06:48,160
You're there right now?
1095
01:06:48,360 --> 01:06:52,420
The middle of both. I think I'm happy
being with my family, my children.
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01:06:52,830 --> 01:06:56,590
And my husband. I think that gives me a
lot. My work gives me that.
1097
01:06:57,950 --> 01:06:58,950
But.
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01:06:59,930 --> 01:07:02,110
I think. One has to keep striving.
1099
01:07:02,650 --> 01:07:04,030
To find that.
1100
01:07:05,310 --> 01:07:09,850
Perfection. And we don't know if there
is perfection or not. No one really
1101
01:07:09,850 --> 01:07:10,850
that.
1102
01:07:11,650 --> 01:07:14,490
People who are not Kareena Kapoor. Know
that perfection exists.
1103
01:07:14,810 --> 01:07:15,810
No. I think.
1104
01:07:16,650 --> 01:07:18,550
I am also a completely imperfect.
1105
01:07:19,350 --> 01:07:21,070
I am also like.
1106
01:07:22,230 --> 01:07:25,890
Trying to also figure out what to do and
what not to do.
1107
01:07:26,450 --> 01:07:28,730
Half of my life is spent satisfying
people.
1108
01:07:29,310 --> 01:07:33,810
What do they want? What do I need to do?
What do I want to do?
1109
01:07:34,110 --> 01:07:36,410
That comes later.
1110
01:07:37,550 --> 01:07:38,910
So that has just started.
1111
01:07:40,190 --> 01:07:44,890
What I want to do. You do a very good
job of not letting people know these
1112
01:07:44,890 --> 01:07:49,830
things. That's what I say. Because there
are a lot of common narratives about
1113
01:07:49,830 --> 01:07:50,830
you in people's heads.
1114
01:07:53,009 --> 01:07:56,590
there is no envy that I sense from
anyone. There's a lot of aspiration.
1115
01:07:56,890 --> 01:08:03,390
Yeah. Guys, girls, everyone like loves
your family life, loves what you've done
1116
01:08:03,390 --> 01:08:06,610
with your work and at the core loves
your self -confidence.
1117
01:08:06,850 --> 01:08:10,970
Yeah, I think that's where it comes from
now. Everything. Like everyone now
1118
01:08:10,970 --> 01:08:17,569
deals with some level of a lack of self
-love and we sense
1119
01:08:17,569 --> 01:08:19,250
that you're at the other end of the
spectrum.
1120
01:08:19,720 --> 01:08:22,720
You know, that someone... Like Pooh.
Yeah. You know?
1121
01:08:23,859 --> 01:08:25,520
That's why those characters are iconic.
1122
01:08:25,800 --> 01:08:27,560
They are more relevant now than then.
1123
01:08:28,160 --> 01:08:31,399
Yeah. Evergreen. Because people want to
be that. Yeah. Still.
1124
01:08:32,200 --> 01:08:36,439
Before we let you go, Kareena, you want
to talk a little bit about Kru?
1125
01:08:37,439 --> 01:08:39,500
I think it's a really cool, fun film.
1126
01:08:40,060 --> 01:08:41,060
I think...
1127
01:08:42,010 --> 01:08:45,670
After a few days, after action -action
films, a good comedy film is coming out.
1128
01:08:46,050 --> 01:08:47,790
And also it's like, it's fun.
1129
01:08:48,210 --> 01:08:53,250
You know, it has this all women
-centric, women kind of female energy,
1130
01:08:53,250 --> 01:08:55,810
fun. Like there's Tabu, Kriti, me, I
think.
1131
01:08:57,390 --> 01:09:02,050
Yeah, I think that people are looking
forward to that little mad, crazy, fun
1132
01:09:02,050 --> 01:09:04,210
friendship film, which I think this is.
1133
01:09:04,990 --> 01:09:09,529
And hopefully our people will love me
because it's comedy after a long time
1134
01:09:09,529 --> 01:09:10,529
I'm doing.
1135
01:09:10,720 --> 01:09:14,760
All of us need that. I think all of us
need that now in the cinemas for a bit.
1136
01:09:14,899 --> 01:09:18,620
Yeah, we've been missing that vibe. And
what I will say is that the trailer is
1137
01:09:18,620 --> 01:09:19,519
looking fantastic.
1138
01:09:19,520 --> 01:09:24,040
Yeah, I think so. It's like got a vibe.
Everybody's like the buzz is like quite
1139
01:09:24,040 --> 01:09:25,040
like exciting.
1140
01:09:25,540 --> 01:09:29,880
I've always felt like a connection with
you. I have two things to say to you
1141
01:09:29,880 --> 01:09:31,040
before you go. Three things.
1142
01:09:31,319 --> 01:09:35,240
The first thing I'll say is that give us
a chance to host you at our space.
1143
01:09:35,520 --> 01:09:36,680
Yeah, of course.
1144
01:09:37,710 --> 01:09:38,710
Okay, it's different.
1145
01:09:38,890 --> 01:09:41,069
Yeah, there's an energy in that. Where
is that space?
1146
01:09:41,290 --> 01:09:41,849
It's nearby.
1147
01:09:41,850 --> 01:09:44,350
Oh, where you say.
1148
01:09:44,890 --> 01:09:49,109
But it'll make a difference to the
conversation whenever you wish. The
1149
01:09:49,109 --> 01:09:53,350
thing I'll say is that because you love
Chinese food, I've got you something.
1150
01:09:53,410 --> 01:09:56,190
This is from me. There's no brand
sponsor involved.
1151
01:09:56,430 --> 01:10:00,430
Okay. It's just a gift from one human
being to another. It's like Chinese
1152
01:10:00,470 --> 01:10:01,470
Oh my God.
1153
01:10:03,010 --> 01:10:06,090
Wow. Chili sauce and all that. So sweet.
1154
01:10:06,390 --> 01:10:10,210
These are all like my favorite things
which suit my palate. So maybe the
1155
01:10:10,210 --> 01:10:13,610
in me is gifting the Punjabi in you. All
the Asian sauces I can see.
1156
01:10:14,450 --> 01:10:15,450
Wow.
1157
01:10:15,690 --> 01:10:18,790
And the third thing I'll say is your
time is a blessing.
1158
01:10:19,240 --> 01:10:23,480
So thank you for being the sunflower of
India, Kareena Kapoor. Thank you for
1159
01:10:23,480 --> 01:10:26,080
having me on your lovely podcast.
1160
01:10:26,560 --> 01:10:30,460
I hope you had fun. Yeah, I think it was
a nice casual chat. It's so nice. Like
1161
01:10:30,460 --> 01:10:32,100
I said, it's always you make it
comfortable.
1162
01:10:32,320 --> 01:10:35,920
The whole country admires Kareena
Kapoor. So I'm glad that you gave us the
1163
01:10:35,920 --> 01:10:40,040
chance to show another side of Kareena
Kapoor to the world. Thank you. Thank
1164
01:10:40,040 --> 01:10:41,040
for having me.
1165
01:10:41,840 --> 01:10:45,500
As I'm recording this outro, Kareena
Kapoor Khan has just left the room.
1166
01:10:45,820 --> 01:10:50,080
And so has all that magnetic energy.
There's nothing much for me to say other
1167
01:10:50,080 --> 01:10:53,900
than the fact that I really want to do
one more conversation with her at some
1168
01:10:53,900 --> 01:10:56,100
point. Perhaps in Hindi the next time.
1169
01:10:57,560 --> 01:11:03,500
For some reason, I do feel a deeper
connection with her. Even though she is
1170
01:11:03,500 --> 01:11:08,180
Kareena Kapoor Khan, when I'd gone on
her show, I was just able to flow with
1171
01:11:08,180 --> 01:11:09,180
in terms of conversation.
1172
01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:14,500
Call that a Punjabi connect. Call that a
type A personality connect. I don't
1173
01:11:14,500 --> 01:11:20,620
know what it is. But if you truly get to
be in her presence, you get to see who
1174
01:11:20,620 --> 01:11:25,660
she is as a human being, a lot of the
misconceptions around Kareena Kapoor
1175
01:11:25,660 --> 01:11:26,660
will fade away.
1176
01:11:27,060 --> 01:11:31,080
There's a lot of misconceptions
surrounding her. That's what I feel. And
1177
01:11:31,080 --> 01:11:36,760
sure that this podcast showed you what
the real Kareena Kapoor Khan is all
1178
01:11:36,760 --> 01:11:40,890
about. Hopefully, she'll be back on TRS.
And the next time, it's going to be in
1179
01:11:40,890 --> 01:11:45,370
our studio. Make sure you go watch Crew.
And make sure you keep watching The
1180
01:11:45,370 --> 01:11:46,370
Ranveer Show.
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