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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:02,280 NARRATOR: Previously... (CHILLING ORGAN RIFF PLAYS) 2 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:03,120 JOHN: Well, here we are, 3 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:04,520 one of my favourite moments of the whole experiment. 4 00:00:04,560 --> 00:00:06,520 I'm feeling sexy and I'm ready! 5 00:00:06,560 --> 00:00:10,920 ..the participants returned for the traditional reunion dinner party. 6 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:12,080 I'm back, baby. 7 00:00:12,120 --> 00:00:14,040 (CHEERING) 8 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:16,160 Still together, going strong! 9 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:20,320 The experiment's biggest love story continued to shine. 10 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:23,440 Yeah, I got down on one knee. (ALL EXCLAIM) 11 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:25,280 ALESSANDRA: I love this! MEL: How wonderful! 12 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:26,560 JOHN: Happy days. 13 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:31,520 No! Oh, no! 14 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:34,520 Rachel and Steven's confusing break-up... 15 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:35,720 I don't want to be like this. 16 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:37,120 I don't want it to be like this either. 17 00:00:37,160 --> 00:00:38,440 This is why I'm so hurt. 18 00:00:38,480 --> 00:00:40,640 I'm not getting them broken up. No. 19 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:42,080 I'm getting them trying to resolve something 20 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:43,680 and come back together here. 21 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:46,040 (SHOUTS) Who do you think you are! 22 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:48,120 Ink hasn't dried on our divorce papers 23 00:00:48,160 --> 00:00:49,520 and you're messaging another bride. 24 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:54,880 Danny denied allegations that he expressed interest in Stephanie. 25 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:56,680 She messaged me first. She reached out to me. 26 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:59,640 JOHN: He's not validating any of what she's saying. 27 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:03,400 I just don't know how I've fallen in love with a man that I don't know. 28 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:08,040 And when Bec asked him for empathy for leaving her at final vows... 29 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:10,160 What you did was cruel! No, Bec... 30 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:13,400 I believed you when you told me you were falling in love with me. 31 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:15,960 ..her plea fell on deaf ears. 32 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:23,280 Tonight... 33 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:28,080 after three life-changing months, 34 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:33,360 Australia's biggest social experiment comes to a close. 35 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:36,480 Steven, can you make her a priority? 36 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:41,040 But not before the experts seek clarity on the burning issues 37 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:43,360 one final time. 38 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:45,400 I can't... 39 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:49,080 That is not acceptable. 40 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:51,320 A woman you're not even showing the respect to... 41 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:53,000 I've explained it... Stop speaking over her! 42 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:56,360 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) Tyson, this is unacceptable! 43 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:57,320 Respect. 44 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:01,320 Continual bad behaviour will be addressed once and for all. 45 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:03,040 I'm sincerely sorry. 46 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:05,040 This is just painful to listen to. 47 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:06,280 MEL: I mean, even in that, Bec, 48 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:09,400 we're hearing a lot of excuses and qualifications. 49 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:15,240 And never-before-seen footage is played... 50 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:18,920 (GASPING) ..leaving the room speechless. 51 00:02:24,920 --> 00:02:27,920 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 52 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:31,960 (EVOCATIVE MUSIC PLAYS) 53 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:39,240 JOHN: Greetings. ALESSANDRA: Hello. 54 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:42,560 JOHN: Come on in. MEL: Welcome back, everyone. 55 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:45,440 TYSON: Ladies, gentlemen, how are we? Looking good. 56 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:46,720 Welcome. 57 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:48,120 Great to see you all. 58 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:50,920 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 59 00:02:56,920 --> 00:02:59,000 STELLA: This is exciting. 60 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:02,160 Welcome back, everybody, to the final reunion ceremony. 61 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:07,160 Now, it has been some time since we've seen you all, 62 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:11,960 so tonight is an opportunity for all of you to get back together 63 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:15,560 so that we can see exactly where you're at 64 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:20,040 and also explore how you've felt throughout this experiment. 65 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:24,920 Now, last night, at the reunion dinner party, 66 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:29,240 certainly there were some people who reconnected 67 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:32,520 in a fairly civil way. 68 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:40,440 Unfortunately, there were others that had plenty to say 69 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:47,000 they were carrying around a good deal of hurt, anger and raw emotion. 70 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:52,520 That also was evident last night at the dinner party. 71 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:57,640 So, before we begin, it's worthwhile acknowledging 72 00:03:57,680 --> 00:04:01,200 that there are some people from the dinner party last night 73 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:04,640 that didn't come back tonight for the reunion. 74 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:06,360 Juliette... 75 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:12,040 and Danny. 76 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:14,040 I should also say 77 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:17,880 that it speaks volumes that Danny is not here tonight 78 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:20,240 to be held to account. 79 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:25,480 And for all of you that have shown up tonight, 80 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:28,560 it will be an opportunity and one final time 81 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:35,000 to get some questions answered, share what you want to share 82 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:37,640 and if there are things that you're sitting on, 83 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:40,240 now is the time to get it all out. 84 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:45,720 So, now we're gonna take it back to where it all started. 85 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:50,560 12 weeks ago, each and every one of you 86 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:56,560 made the decision to marry a complete stranger. 87 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:01,640 Let's take you back now to that very moment. 88 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:03,520 Yes! Let's go! 89 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:05,840 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 90 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:19,240 (EVOCATIVE MUSIC PLAYS) 91 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:35,240 STELLA: I do want to find a soulmate. 92 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:39,200 I'm not accepting anything less. 93 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:44,280 STEPHANIE: Everyone always tells me that love is the best feeling 94 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:47,560 and to fall in love in this experiment would mean everything. 95 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:52,360 RACHEL: I've not experienced, like, a man making me feel beautiful. 96 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:55,360 (RIP!) BEC: Oh! Oh! 97 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:58,600 (MUSIC WARPS) Oh, my god. What the (BLEEP)! 98 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:00,880 (LAUGHTER AND APPLAUSE) 99 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:05,360 I know! Cheers! 100 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:06,640 (WOMEN LAUGH) 101 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:08,000 (KNOCK AT DOOR) 102 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:10,800 Hey, calm down. Babe, you need to stop. 103 00:06:10,840 --> 00:06:12,120 You're right. 104 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:13,680 Shut the (BLEEP) up, will you? No... 105 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:14,520 Gia. 106 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:16,640 (LAUGHTER) 107 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:18,120 (WOMAN SPEAKS INDISTINCTLY) 108 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:19,720 Cheers to the same penis forever! 109 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:22,000 WOMEN: Whoo! (LAUGHTER) 110 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:23,560 I think it's a bit too high maybe. 111 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:26,760 The guy at the bus stop says I look dashing with it high. 112 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:29,200 (LAUGHTER) 113 00:06:34,840 --> 00:06:38,320 TYSON: Well, I think I'm pretty perfect in a relationship. 114 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:40,120 I'm very confident within myself 115 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:41,800 and I know what I bring to this relationship, 116 00:06:41,840 --> 00:06:43,400 so I don't think that'll be an issue. 117 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:46,520 (LAUGHTER) 118 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:47,760 Oh, my god! 119 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:50,880 (RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS) 120 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:55,040 (ELEVATOR BELL DINGS) 121 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:58,320 Do you put the ring on this finger? Yes. 122 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:00,520 That's your marriage finger. Yes. I don't bloody know. 123 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:01,760 I've never been married! 124 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:04,160 (LAUGHTER) ALISSA: Steve! 125 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:09,680 (GASPS) No. 126 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:12,120 Oh, no. You never told me to bring them. 127 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:14,640 No, you didn't. 128 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:16,760 Get out. No. 129 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:21,120 (LAUGHTER) 130 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:22,760 No. WOMAN: Are they in the bag? 131 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:27,360 (LAUGHTER) No, they're not. They're not. 132 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:31,640 (LAUGHTER) 133 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:35,960 (RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS) 134 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:42,640 ALISSA: I am taking the biggest risk I've ever taken. 135 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:44,240 RACHEL: This is my time. 136 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:47,360 I'm looking for someone who's gonna make me feel good. 137 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:51,680 BROOK: I want to be adored. I want to be loved like I love someone. 138 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:56,640 (RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS) 139 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:57,880 (GASPS) 140 00:07:57,920 --> 00:07:59,000 Lovely to meet you. 141 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:00,840 (LAUGHTER) 142 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:03,720 (RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS) 143 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:05,000 (STELLA LAUGHS) 144 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:07,000 MEL: Where's my husband? 145 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:10,680 Hello! 146 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:11,640 Hi. Hello. 147 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:12,600 How you doing? Good. 148 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:13,800 Hello. 149 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:15,000 Hey. 150 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:17,040 (MUSIC WARPS) LUKE: Sorry I'm late, everyone. 151 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:19,080 Sorry I'm late. MEL: Where were you? 152 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:21,040 Uh, I forgot the rings. 153 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:24,160 OTHERS: Oh! 154 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:28,560 When I was doing my vows, he was chewing gum 155 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:30,440 sort of with his mouth open. 156 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:32,440 I could hear it. 157 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:34,600 It's sort of, you know, one thing after another. 158 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:36,720 (LAUGHTER) REBECCA: Mel! 159 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:39,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 160 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:41,200 I don't think I can marry you. 161 00:08:42,680 --> 00:08:44,280 (LAUGHS) 162 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:46,680 That's completely understandable. 163 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:49,760 Not until you get on one knee and propose to me first. 164 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:52,200 (LAUGHTER) WOMAN: Fair enough. 165 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:54,680 JOEL: Yes. 166 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:57,520 (LAUGHTER) 167 00:08:57,560 --> 00:08:59,280 DAVID: You got me good. 168 00:09:01,560 --> 00:09:02,840 Hello, stranger. Let's get married. 169 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:07,280 "I'm looking for a connection that makes me feel safe to slow down, 170 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:08,960 "someone who can bring a little calm to the chaos." 171 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:12,040 "I hope you like the great outdoors, 172 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:13,520 "because if you haven't guessed, I'm a farmer." 173 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:18,520 "I've explored and dated all kinds of people of all kinds of shades." 174 00:09:18,560 --> 00:09:22,240 "I've waited, searched and prayed for something real 175 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:25,240 "and today I'm here to give it my all." 176 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:27,720 Here I stand before you, baring my heart, soul 177 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:29,280 "and sharing my vulnerability..." 178 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:30,520 Sorry, I'm getting emotional already. 179 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:34,960 "I'll stand shoulder to shoulder with you when storms hit." 180 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:38,200 "My parents have ingrained in me the resilience to stick around, 181 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:39,360 "no matter what. 182 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:41,760 "When things get tough, I won't run." 183 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,280 "My mother says I'm perfect but I most certainly disagree." 184 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:48,080 (LAUGHTER) 185 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:51,600 "I've actually got many 'floors' - 186 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:54,400 "carpet, tiles, wood, you name it, baby." 187 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:56,960 (LAUGHTER) 188 00:09:58,280 --> 00:09:59,520 The look. "Who's this guy?" 189 00:09:59,560 --> 00:10:01,320 GIA: Yeah, that was funny. 190 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:02,840 (RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS) 191 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:04,800 CELEBRANT: You may now kiss the bride. 192 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:07,040 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 193 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:16,000 OK, guys! Too much, too much! 194 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:17,920 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) (LAUGHTER) 195 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:24,680 STELLA: I do believe in soulmates. 196 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:27,240 There's a saying - 197 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:29,120 'start with an end in mind'. 198 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:32,640 And my dream outcome would be that we are the love story, 199 00:10:32,680 --> 00:10:36,040 because I'm not accepting anything less. 200 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:39,160 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) JOEL: That's so good! 201 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:42,480 GRAYSON: How good! 202 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:45,560 I love us. DAVID: Wow. 203 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:51,680 MEL: How surreal to watch yourselves getting married. 204 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:54,600 Did that feel incredible? PARTICIPANTS: Yeah. 205 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:57,920 I could feel the energy in the room as we were watching it. 206 00:10:57,960 --> 00:10:59,800 There was so much emotion there. 207 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:03,440 Luke... Yes. (CLEARS THROAT) 208 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:06,720 ..if only you'd remembered the rings, mate. 209 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:08,720 (LAUGHTER) 210 00:11:10,520 --> 00:11:13,600 And what about for you, Mel, when you reflect back on that moment? 211 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:15,600 What feelings come up for you? 212 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:18,480 To be honest with you, watching it back, I don't have... 213 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:21,040 I don't watch it and go... I don't remember the sadness. 214 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:23,920 Like, probably just watching it and thinking "That's funny." 215 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:26,480 Like, that was our experience. It is what it is. Like... 216 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:28,880 RACHEL: It's funny, 'cause we've heard that story. 217 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:30,160 Like, we heard the story. 218 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:33,960 But actually, like, seeing it, I'm sorry, it's way more comical, 219 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:35,600 like, actually seeing it. 220 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:39,440 Like, your face, I'm sorry, priceless. 221 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:46,600 Chris, congratulations on the birth of your daughter. 222 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:48,160 Thank you. Thank you so much. (APPLAUSE) 223 00:11:48,200 --> 00:11:49,880 Thank you. So wonderful. 224 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:53,920 Thank you so much. Thank you. How's fatherhood been so far? 225 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:56,000 I'm running on about four hours sleep a night. 226 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:57,360 I can imagine. (LAUGHS) 227 00:11:57,400 --> 00:12:02,000 But when I saw her, my whole world completely... 228 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:04,040 Oh, god. I'm gonna get emotional. Oh... 229 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:06,880 STELLA: Oh, baby. 230 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:07,960 Aw! Sorry. 231 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:11,120 Um... Oh, my god. I do this every time! 232 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:12,280 It's OK. 233 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:14,280 My whole world changed in that moment 234 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:15,880 when I saw her at the hospital. 235 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:19,000 Nothing else mattered anymore 236 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:21,920 and, yeah, this is what I've wanted for so long. 237 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:24,440 Sorry, guys. (LAUGHS) It's OK. 238 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:27,360 Yeah, I just want to be the best version of myself that I can. 239 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:29,880 I want to step up and be a great father for her 240 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:32,440 and also for hopefully the next partner that comes along 241 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:33,920 down the track. 242 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:35,920 So my whole world has completely changed 243 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:38,920 but in the most amazing, amazing way. 244 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:42,200 So I'm happy, yeah. GIA: Yay! 245 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:43,800 (APPLAUSE) Thanks. Thanks, guys. 246 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:48,120 Well, let's get our first couple up on the couch. 247 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:51,040 (TENSE MUSIC PLAYS) 248 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:54,400 Rachel and Steven. 249 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:57,320 Oh, shit. Yeah, of course. (LAUGHS) 250 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:00,400 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) Oh... 251 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:02,920 Oh... 252 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:05,680 (STRAINS) 253 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:08,560 (PLAYFULLY) How you going? 254 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:11,880 Guys, I...I have to ask, 255 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:13,600 'cause we're very confused. 256 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:14,760 What happened? 257 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:16,520 Where are you at? 258 00:13:16,560 --> 00:13:18,280 (EXHALES) 259 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:24,520 (TENSE MUSIC PLAYS) 260 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:30,840 Want me to speak? 261 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:32,560 You're a better speaker than I am. 262 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:35,800 Well, I don't know right now. 263 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:37,640 Articulate very well. 264 00:13:37,680 --> 00:13:39,760 Life. 265 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:43,000 When Steven came to Melbourne, 266 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:46,440 Steven's opening kind of line was... 267 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:52,080 "I don't think I can be the man that you need, 268 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:53,680 "that can meet your needs." 269 00:13:57,720 --> 00:14:02,920 And it was like... It was just elephant in the room. 270 00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:05,240 And what was the elephant? 271 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:08,240 Prioritising our relationship. 272 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:10,600 OK, so at this point, you were feeling 273 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:12,680 that you were prioritising the relationship first... 274 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:14,320 Yeah. ..and Steven wasn't. 275 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:15,920 Yeah. Yeah. 276 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:19,600 So, Steven, is that how you saw the situation? 277 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:22,280 Yeah, pretty much. Yeah. 278 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:25,480 I mean, I don't like to admit it, 279 00:14:25,520 --> 00:14:28,000 but, yeah, I definitely didn't put the relationship first. 280 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:29,280 So, why is that? 281 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:34,840 I just felt like I had to try and get my life a bit back in order. 282 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:37,240 Can I rebuttal that for just one second, 283 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:41,160 'cause we spoke about this and you told me "By next winter." 284 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:42,400 Yes. 285 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:47,520 That's a long time for me to not be a priority 286 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:51,200 and to work on a relationship long distance, babe. 287 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:56,200 It's a long time. It is a long time, but I... 288 00:14:56,240 --> 00:15:00,040 So, did you ask Rachel to wait until winter to be a priority? 289 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:05,840 His work is busy, like, basically throughout the year 290 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:07,400 and winter's his free time, 291 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:10,200 so that's when he can give the relationship more. 292 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:14,120 That's not how relationships work. It's not seasonal. 293 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:15,920 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 294 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:20,400 Well, it's the distance. That's the problem. 295 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:25,320 Hence why I said I don't think I can be the man that she needs 296 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:27,600 in this relationship. 297 00:15:29,240 --> 00:15:31,120 I've been single for so long. 298 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:33,120 I've only had to think about Stevo 299 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:36,120 and I probably still am somewhat a little bit thinking about Stevo 300 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:37,200 a bit. 301 00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:39,560 I'm trying to get better at it. 302 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:43,000 I guess just hearing you say those things that you've learnt, 303 00:15:43,040 --> 00:15:47,640 it makes it hard to understand, I guess, 304 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:49,560 the decision that you've arrived at... 305 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:55,240 in terms of whether or not Rachel fits in your life. 306 00:15:55,280 --> 00:16:00,480 You've arrived at this decision to not have Rachel in your life. 307 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:02,880 Just... It doesn't quite make sense. 308 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:07,840 Look, I don't know if it's the right decision. 309 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:13,600 I mean, we don't want... we don't want it to be this way. 310 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:18,280 It's not like we had a big row and it was just... 311 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:19,720 a decision 312 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:22,040 and we're still jumbled up at the moment. 313 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:24,080 We don't really want it to end. 314 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:27,480 I'm still believing sometimes, is it the right decision and still... 315 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:29,160 Do you want to be with Rachel? 316 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:35,640 I want to be with Rachel, but... 317 00:16:37,040 --> 00:16:38,080 Rachel... 318 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:41,400 ..I go back to that thing, can I be the man that can meet her needs? 319 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:44,600 Rachel, do you want to be with Steven? 320 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:46,320 I want to be with Steven. 321 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:48,920 But I want to be a priority to Steven. 322 00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:51,480 I want our relationship to be the priority. 323 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:54,840 Steven, can you make her a priority? 324 00:16:54,880 --> 00:16:57,800 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 325 00:16:57,840 --> 00:16:59,680 (EXHALES) 326 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:02,080 I can't... It's... 327 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:07,040 I want to say yes, but I don't want to bullshit either. 328 00:17:07,080 --> 00:17:08,720 So you do want to be with Rachel or you don't? 329 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:11,200 I do want to be with Rachel. 330 00:17:11,240 --> 00:17:13,040 JOHN: Alright. 331 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:15,400 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 332 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:22,640 I've listened to this tonight... 333 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:28,720 and you need some home truths, Stevo. 334 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:31,320 You need to understand 335 00:17:31,360 --> 00:17:36,440 what you're saying at the moment is not cutting it. 336 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:39,680 I think it's a cop-out. And here's why. 337 00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:42,680 You say you want this. 338 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:47,040 I think you don't. 339 00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:50,800 I think you're sitting there trying to talk around the fact 340 00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:53,840 that you don't want to change your life... 341 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:56,840 you want to keep everything the same 342 00:17:56,880 --> 00:18:00,560 but in the same breath, you're trying to wiggle your way out of it. 343 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:02,840 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 344 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:08,200 You've broken up with her but you're also saying 345 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:11,520 "I'm not sure if it's the right decision and I want her." 346 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:13,400 You need to own it. 347 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:16,840 You're saying "I'm not sure if I want this. 348 00:18:16,880 --> 00:18:18,480 "This might be the wrong decision. 349 00:18:18,520 --> 00:18:21,040 "I do want this. 350 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:23,600 "I think this is the one for me, 351 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:27,800 "but I'm not prepared to make any sacrifices." 352 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:28,840 I'm not having that. 353 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:33,320 Don't sugarcoat it. You're confusing her. 354 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:38,200 You're telling her all the things that will give her hope 355 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:40,000 and then doing nothing about it. 356 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:43,000 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 357 00:18:43,040 --> 00:18:49,680 Now...I've given you some very direct feedback. 358 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:51,680 Mm-hm. 359 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:57,360 The question I want you to answer is, do you want to be with Rachel? 360 00:18:57,400 --> 00:19:00,400 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 361 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:04,080 Well... 362 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:08,160 A big part of me does, yes. 363 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:12,480 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 364 00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:15,960 That is not acceptable. 365 00:19:17,360 --> 00:19:20,200 It is a straightforward question. 366 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:25,040 Does the whole part of you want to be with Rachel? 367 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:28,240 (EXHALES) 368 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:36,200 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 369 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:43,400 (EXHALES) 370 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:48,960 I'm scared to answer. I'm scared to answer this. 371 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:51,360 Yes or no? 372 00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:52,640 Just own it. Just own it. 373 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:54,280 TYSON: Come on, Stevo. Be honest. 374 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:55,720 FILIP: Just be honest, man. 375 00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:56,920 Set her free if it's a no. 376 00:19:56,960 --> 00:19:59,640 Come on. She deserves that. 377 00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:01,200 And if it's a yes, say it with pride. 378 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:03,040 And quickly. 379 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:04,680 RACHEL: It's too much. (CRIES) 380 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:09,400 This is unfair. This is really unfair now. 381 00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:12,440 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 382 00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:14,920 Own it! 383 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:19,120 I'm gonna say it loud and clear, right? 384 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:23,000 I'm just gonna... 385 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:27,880 put a bullet in it and just say no. 386 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:31,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 387 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:36,040 (RACHEL CRIES) 388 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:38,440 (SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS) 389 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:50,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 390 00:20:50,360 --> 00:20:53,120 JOHN: Do you want to be with Rachel? 391 00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:56,360 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 392 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:02,160 I'm gonna say it loud and clear, right? 393 00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:07,440 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 394 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:08,640 I'm just gonna... 395 00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:12,960 put a bullet in it and just say no. 396 00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:16,280 (RACHEL CRIES) 397 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:19,400 (SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS) 398 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:22,480 RACHEL: Oh, shit. 399 00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:24,240 (SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS) 400 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:28,080 (CRIES) 401 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:38,360 What does that do to you, 402 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:41,200 hearing that, Rachel, and what does it give you? 403 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:45,480 Uh, what does it do to me? 404 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:50,160 It reaffirms for me that I'm not worth it. 405 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:53,560 (TEARFULLY) I've just spent three months with him. 406 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:58,040 I'm in love with him. And I'm not worth it. 407 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:01,840 (SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS) 408 00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:03,440 ALISSA: Yes, you are, babe. 409 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:07,800 For me, it's yes with my whole chest. 410 00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:10,200 The reason why we're not together 411 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:13,400 was because I can't be a priority for him. 412 00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:15,560 Him sitting here and being, like, 413 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:17,640 "No, I'm just gonna put a bullet in it," 414 00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:20,640 no, why did you come? 415 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:22,720 Why are we here? 416 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:25,760 (SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS) 417 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:30,560 I predicted it. I saw it coming. 418 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:35,920 I'm a silly girl in love. 419 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:39,800 (CRIES) Just a silly girl. 420 00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:48,480 JOHN: Let me be very clear about one thing. 421 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:50,440 You are absolutely worth it. 422 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:52,400 There is nothing silly about you. 423 00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:56,840 You are a woman who fell in love with a man 424 00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:58,720 who wasn't ready for a relationship. 425 00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:03,240 And Steven, I'm not trying to make you feel like you're a bad guy, 426 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:06,360 but what I'm doing here... Well, I feel like it. 427 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:10,440 (SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS) 428 00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:12,880 ..but what I'm doing here... 429 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:18,240 is pointing out the way in which you are behaving towards her. 430 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:21,280 You don't feel the same way about Rachel. 431 00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:24,320 That's OK. That happens in relationships. 432 00:23:24,360 --> 00:23:30,040 But you're at a point where you can front up, be honest 433 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:31,960 and say "I'm not into this and it's over. 434 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:33,360 "I don't want this." 435 00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:34,920 And you got there. 436 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:37,520 MEL: Steve, I think for you 437 00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:40,640 it's now about going back into your life 438 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:43,600 and having a really strong reflection 439 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:46,040 on this experience with Rachel 440 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:47,560 but also just for yourself 441 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:52,200 in terms of what is it that you want in your life, 442 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,320 because I think John made it really clear 443 00:23:54,360 --> 00:23:57,400 that if you're going to have a relationship in your life, 444 00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:59,560 you're gonna need to compromise. 445 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,200 JOHN: Now, is there anything you'd like to say to Rachel 446 00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:07,000 before you leave? 447 00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:10,240 There's lots of things I want to say. 448 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:14,000 I mean, I came into the experiment 449 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,440 with what I felt like was a bit of a black heart. 450 00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:19,160 I felt like I was a bit unlovable, couldn't be loved 451 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:22,400 and I can definitely say now 452 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:26,120 that you changed that opinion - you made me feel loved. 453 00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:30,000 Yep. 454 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,000 (CRIES) 455 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:34,720 You are a special girl. 456 00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:37,800 A special woman. 457 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,720 And I really do apologise about the bullet... 458 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:44,360 "Put a bullet in it." 459 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:47,480 It's another thing I need to work on. 460 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:48,920 I say dumb things at the wrong time. 461 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:51,440 Constantly. 462 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:53,040 Still working on it. 463 00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:54,960 So I apologise for that. 464 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,800 But I am devastated. 465 00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:02,320 JOHN: What about for you, Rachel? 466 00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:07,560 We had some really great times. You made me feel really special. 467 00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:12,720 And I'm devastated this is where we're at. 468 00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:14,360 (CRIES) 469 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,120 And I love you. 470 00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:18,640 Yeah. 471 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:21,680 (SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS) 472 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:35,240 Rachel, seeing you take these risks 473 00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:38,320 and put yourself out there with Stevo 474 00:25:38,360 --> 00:25:41,560 and trusting the process 475 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,040 has been incredible. 476 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:51,120 Watching your confidence blossom has been absolutely gorgeous. 477 00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:54,120 Seeing the way you started to speak up within the group 478 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:56,920 and own your voice 479 00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:59,040 has been really powerful. 480 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:05,880 And you are a gorgeous, vivacious, amazing woman. 481 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:07,000 Thank you. 482 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:10,640 (WARM MUSIC PLAYS) 483 00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:12,160 So, thank you both. 484 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:15,680 We wish you all the best in your future relationships. 485 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:16,920 JOHN: Well done. 486 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:18,240 WOMAN: Great job. MAN: Well done. 487 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:21,560 (APPLAUSE) 488 00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:32,120 Alright, let's talk to our next couple. 489 00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:36,120 (TENSE MUSIC PLAYS) 490 00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,160 Gia and Scott. 491 00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:43,520 (APPLAUSE) 492 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,080 SCOTT: How are youse? 493 00:26:45,120 --> 00:26:46,640 MEL: Hello. ALESSANDRA: Hello. 494 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:48,600 JOHN: Hello, you two. Hiya. 495 00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:49,600 Oh... 496 00:26:53,120 --> 00:26:56,560 It has been very much a roller-coaster ride 497 00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:58,160 for the two of you. 498 00:26:58,200 --> 00:26:59,600 What happened? 499 00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:03,920 Things really sort of spiralled and disintegrated 500 00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:06,960 in front of our very eyes. (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 501 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:10,040 We haven't had a chance to talk to you about all of this. 502 00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,760 So, Scott, 503 00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:17,400 you walked off, left the dinner party and ended it. 504 00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:19,800 What happened? 505 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,640 (SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS) 506 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:24,560 What led me to that point was... 507 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,720 I just felt like I was a shell of a human 508 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:33,720 and I wasn't being myself anymore. 509 00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:36,480 I feel like I was being lied to towards the end of this experiment. 510 00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:40,480 I feel like I had that much pressure put on me. 511 00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:43,360 What were you being lied to about? 512 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:48,000 Like, saying she was in Melbourne holding her daughter 513 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:50,480 when I found out she was out drinking with Chris. 514 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:55,880 And I felt like I got to the point where I gave up so much of my life. 515 00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:57,680 I just gave everything to Gia 516 00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:00,480 and I felt like I couldn't trust her anymore. 517 00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:03,720 I would do every single thing a man could possibly do. 518 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:07,760 I gave my whole entire energy, effort, love, support... 519 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:10,040 Anything - I gave everything I could 520 00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:12,920 and I still was getting spiralled at. 521 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:15,720 "You're never gonna get there, you're not a man..." 522 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:17,400 I just felt like I wasn't good enough. 523 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:18,960 No matter what I did, it was never gonna please Gia. 524 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:20,400 Uh-huh. 525 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:22,360 And, like, Grass Is Greener - like, telling this guy 526 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:25,320 "I finish in a couple of weeks. You'll find me on MAFS." 527 00:28:25,360 --> 00:28:30,680 Like... It's just... I just don't know. 528 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:31,880 There's just so much shit. 529 00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:36,640 I'm sorry, but there's just too much. 530 00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:39,200 OK. No, that gives us an understanding. 531 00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:43,640 Let's take a look at what led to that decision. 532 00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:50,320 SCOTT: Yeah, so this whole experiment, 533 00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:52,480 like, what's really made it difficult for myself 534 00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:56,000 is I've seen and watched Gia involve herself in a lot of drama. 535 00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:58,680 GIA: Shut up, babe! Like... Are you OK? 536 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:00,560 I'm so OK, babe. Are you? 537 00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:02,840 Take your hair extensions out and chill. 538 00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:06,200 So, let's pull up the receipts, shall we? 539 00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:07,920 I can't be (BLEEP) with the drama. 540 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:10,480 They're all a bunch of fake people left in this experiment. 541 00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:13,840 (GUFFAWS) 542 00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:16,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) You guys don't know everything! 543 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:18,600 Let me tell you, I would've thrown that bitch in the ocean. 544 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:21,200 I don't want to be with someone 545 00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:23,600 who's going to be negative and cause drama. 546 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:27,080 Am I happy the screenshots got out? Kind of. 547 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:29,360 (BLEEP) loser bitch. (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 548 00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,720 This stuff doesn't make me fall. 549 00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:34,240 I could ruin everything for her right now. 550 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,120 SCOTT: It makes me concerned, it makes me retract, 551 00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,240 it makes me doubt, it makes me fear, 552 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:43,280 because if this continued to happen over and over again, 553 00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:45,080 how are you supposed to fall in love with this? 554 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:49,120 There's been a lot of times where things get tough. 555 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:50,240 Gia likes to walk out. 556 00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:57,320 I don't want someone just getting up, 557 00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:59,400 giving someone an ultimatum and just walking out the door. 558 00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:13,400 There's just been a history of Gia leaving. 559 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:14,640 Where is she? 560 00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:18,360 No, she's not. 561 00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:20,800 What do you mean? 562 00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,360 She's threatened to leave me several occasions. 563 00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:40,520 I don't know how much longer I'm going to be able to put up with it. 564 00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:41,920 GIA: I can't believe you right now. 565 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:47,720 I'm going home! I can't do this anymore! 566 00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:50,640 You never cared about me, Scott. You never cared about me. 567 00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:52,080 Scott, are you joking? 568 00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:54,760 (BLEEP) off. We're done. 569 00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:57,520 SCOTT: Outside this, if there's a tough argument 570 00:30:57,560 --> 00:30:58,640 in a tough environment, 571 00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:00,920 are you gonna walk out every single time? 572 00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,920 It's definitely taken a toll on me. 573 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:07,200 (CRIES) 574 00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:10,440 (SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS) 575 00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,320 I just feel defeated. I feel drained. I'm exhausted. 576 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:21,280 I just feel heartbroken. 577 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:23,680 There's only so much someone can take. 578 00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:28,840 What was so hard for me is we had so many feelings for one another. 579 00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:31,840 I was falling for her. I was attracted to her. 580 00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:33,560 I was emotionally... I was connected to her in every way. 581 00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:37,160 Hi! 582 00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:40,400 I feel like myself and Gia, we started off the strongest couple. 583 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,960 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 584 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:46,280 The chemistry, like, the intimacy is crazy good. 585 00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:50,360 Raowrr! 586 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:51,920 I'll tell you what to do in the bedroom now. 587 00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:54,520 No, Scott and I are not vanilla at all. 588 00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:57,600 Scott and I are quite explorative as a couple. 589 00:31:57,640 --> 00:31:59,600 Put my whole foot in your mouth. What, like that? 590 00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:00,840 (LAUGHS) 591 00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:03,600 What do we call ourselves? Kissy. 592 00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:06,200 What do you call us? What do you call us? 593 00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:08,680 Power couple. That's the one. Power couple. 594 00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:09,960 Yeah. 595 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:13,880 Can't get rid of my smile right now. I feel great. I feel alive. 596 00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:15,400 What else could you ask for? 597 00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:17,240 Everything was good. 598 00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:21,960 But I can't trust the person that I was falling in love with. 599 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:23,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 600 00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:25,320 "Press play. The experts." 601 00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:29,440 In the real world, if I went out, yes, I would date you. 602 00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:30,760 Yes. 603 00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,600 I'm done in a week. I'm literally done. 604 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,720 Yeah. Literally done in a week. You can find me on MAFS somewhere. 605 00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:37,800 I've been posted everywhere. 606 00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:41,600 She literally just lied to my face. 607 00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:45,280 That is disgusting! 608 00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:46,920 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 609 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,720 She wanted to leave because she was scared for me to see 610 00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:52,040 what she actually just did at the final test. 611 00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:56,680 I'm torn apart. 612 00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:58,400 I just got (BLEEP). 613 00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:01,760 I just got (BLEEP) for three months. 614 00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:03,440 I just got (BLEEP). 615 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:06,480 (SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS) 616 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:09,480 (CRIES) She just used me. 617 00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:14,640 She used my money, she used my life and she (BLEEP) me. 618 00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,600 It's my time to talk. 619 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:24,360 "I can't be with a woman 620 00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,120 "who behind my back proclaims to the first guy who looks her way 621 00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:29,400 "'I only date men with money.' 622 00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:32,000 "You told me you had flown home to Melbourne in tears, 623 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,080 "inconsolable, but I came to find out 624 00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:36,360 "that you were still in Sydney drinking at a bar. 625 00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:40,320 "You're not the one for me." 626 00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:42,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) Sorry, but I'm done. 627 00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:47,240 RACHEL: Oh! Scott! Buddy, no! 628 00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:48,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) (SCOTT CRIES) 629 00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:50,840 DAVID: It's OK. It's OK. 630 00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:58,800 I don't think Gia understands what she's really done to me. 631 00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:00,480 And I was falling for her. 632 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:06,320 But what she's done the last few days has shown me who she is. 633 00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:10,680 I'm just... I'm broken. 634 00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:15,960 (RACHEL EXHALES) 635 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,360 ALISSA: Wow. That's (BLEEP). 636 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:22,840 (SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS) 637 00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:32,000 Gia, what are you thinking when you look back at that? 638 00:34:41,240 --> 00:34:43,320 I just feel really embarrassed. 639 00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:47,960 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 640 00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,680 Like, my behaviour, I didn't know that I was that bad. 641 00:34:55,720 --> 00:34:58,680 (SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS) 642 00:34:58,720 --> 00:35:01,040 (CRIES) 643 00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:05,080 It's just showed me, like, I have a lot of work to do on myself. 644 00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:09,760 'Cause I don't want to do that again. 645 00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:11,680 So... 646 00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:17,680 When you think about the relationship that slipped through your fingers... 647 00:35:17,720 --> 00:35:19,600 Yeah. ..how does that make you feel... 648 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:22,440 sitting there now on the couch? 649 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:25,280 Yeah, I mean... 650 00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:29,560 it sucks. 651 00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:32,200 Like, I was in love with him, you know. 652 00:35:32,240 --> 00:35:34,280 Are you still in love with him? 653 00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,720 (SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS) 654 00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:49,240 I can't, like, just not, like... just not be, you know. 655 00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:58,720 You know, when you look at that montage of your relationship 656 00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:00,480 in the experiment... 657 00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:04,440 are there any regrets that you have about your behaviour? 658 00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:05,760 Yeah. 659 00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:07,520 What... The whole thing. 660 00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:08,880 What sort of regrets? 661 00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:12,000 Just, like, everything. Everything. 662 00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:13,680 Give me some examples. 663 00:36:13,720 --> 00:36:15,280 What... Like... 664 00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:18,600 You watched it. You've lived it. Yep. Um... 665 00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:23,080 Like, pressuring him all the time 666 00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:26,040 and making him feel as though he had no voice 667 00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:29,760 and, you know, some of the comments that I made to him weren't kind 668 00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:31,960 and walking away and self-sabotaging 669 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:36,240 and, like, I should've just realised that that's a pattern 670 00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:37,680 and it's not OK 671 00:36:37,720 --> 00:36:39,440 and that I probably should just go home and work on that 672 00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:41,880 'cause I just, like... the things kept happening 673 00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:43,200 and it's, like, I wasn't addressing them. 674 00:36:43,240 --> 00:36:44,840 I was, like, "Yeah, I won't do it again," 675 00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:46,560 but, like, I don't know how to not do it again. 676 00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:48,560 Like, it's just my pattern from, you know... 677 00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:53,520 Yeah, like, all I can do is just work on myself. 678 00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:55,360 Like, I have a lot of regrets 679 00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:58,080 but, you know, I'm glad that we had this experiment together. 680 00:36:58,120 --> 00:36:59,960 I wouldn't have wanted to do it with anyone else. 681 00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:03,200 And, you know, I moved to the Gold Coast, 682 00:37:03,240 --> 00:37:06,680 so we did actually finally have a conversation 683 00:37:06,720 --> 00:37:12,280 and we decided to have a coffee and we just decided we'd be friends. 684 00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,800 I don't wish anything bad on Scott. 685 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:16,240 I think he's a great person 686 00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:19,320 and, yeah, I'm sad it didn't work out. 687 00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:22,920 What are you thinking, Scott, when you look back at that? 688 00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:25,800 And what do you feel? 689 00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:28,120 It's sad and it sucks 690 00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:32,560 because when we first met, we were just locked in 691 00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:35,680 and I've had such beautiful moments with Gia. 692 00:37:35,720 --> 00:37:38,840 I was definitely falling for her. 693 00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:43,480 I do appreciate so much fun we together. 694 00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:44,920 Our families bonded. 695 00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:46,680 You have a beautiful family, your mother, your daughter. 696 00:37:46,720 --> 00:37:48,640 I adore them all. I don't regret anything. 697 00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:53,840 I feel like we've brought up so much more of ourselves, even yourself. 698 00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:55,600 You said you've never met someone like me 699 00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:56,920 and it's brought another side of you out. 700 00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:59,200 Yeah, like, I'm really grateful for that. 701 00:37:59,240 --> 00:38:01,000 You said you used to be a bad bitch and not let anyone in, 702 00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:02,080 but you've allowed someone in 703 00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:05,440 and I think you've learnt how to let your walls down. 704 00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:09,680 All I can say is I wish nothing but the best for you 705 00:38:09,720 --> 00:38:11,760 and I really hope you find true love, 706 00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,000 'cause everyone deserves it. Yeah, you too. 707 00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:18,280 Gia, is there anything you'd like to stay to Scott, 708 00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:21,000 you know, before you part ways? 709 00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:23,200 Um... 710 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:28,200 (CLEARS THROAT) 711 00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:30,800 Just that I'm really sorry... 712 00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,560 (BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS) 713 00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:37,240 ..for everything and, yeah... 714 00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:40,720 (BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS) 715 00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,840 (SOME APPLAUSE) 716 00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:01,480 Even though you didn't make it all the way to the end, 717 00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:04,920 it doesn't mean this relationship was a failure. 718 00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:06,960 The fact that you can sit here tonight 719 00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:09,920 and really unpack all of the relationship, 720 00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:11,560 take some responsibility, 721 00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:15,720 for us, that's real success, even though you didn't get the fairytale. 722 00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:20,040 Thank you for embracing it, for giving it your all 723 00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:21,760 and we wish you all the very best. 724 00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:22,880 Thank you. So, thank you. 725 00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:24,280 Thanks, guys. ALESSANDRA: Thank you, guys. 726 00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:25,400 MEL: Thank you both. Thank you. 727 00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:26,680 (APPLAUSE) Thanks. 728 00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:32,360 NARRATOR: Still to come... 729 00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:34,920 When you look at Stella, what do you see? 730 00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:36,320 My future. 731 00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:39,800 ..Stella and Filip's love story captivates the group. 732 00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:42,640 Can I go like this, because I'm so happy! 733 00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:44,920 And later... 734 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,920 I was shaking under the table. My arms were shaking. 735 00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:49,480 ..Alissa's emotional confession. 736 00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:53,800 That was, like, one of the hardest days of my life. 737 00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:55,120 Oh, I couldn't get out of bed. 738 00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:57,320 But before that... 739 00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:59,480 A lot of women would like to stay at home, 740 00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:02,440 cook and clean and do all that sort of stuff. 741 00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:05,480 ..Tyson's controversial views stir up the group. 742 00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:08,920 You didn't do any of those things... 'cause you were too lazy. 743 00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:11,160 (WOMEN LAUGH) 744 00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:12,360 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 745 00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:14,040 Tyson... You need to be quiet. 746 00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:15,080 ..this is unacceptable! 747 00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:21,800 VOICEOVER: The experiment is over. 748 00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:26,040 But the revelations are about to begin. 749 00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:29,880 Every little secret comes out. 750 00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:35,000 The final four couples return and there's no holding back. 751 00:40:43,720 --> 00:40:47,000 JOHN: Now, in every experiment, 752 00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:50,160 there is always an individual who is very unique... 753 00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:51,880 WOMAN: Joelly! 754 00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:55,280 ..who comes with their own beliefs... 755 00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:57,680 ALISSA: Tyson. STELLA: Oh, no. Tyson. 756 00:40:57,720 --> 00:40:59,840 (LAUGHTER) You're under the fire. 757 00:40:59,880 --> 00:41:04,680 ..and who, essentially, tends to ruffle some feathers. 758 00:41:04,720 --> 00:41:08,600 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 759 00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:13,640 This year...it was Tyson. 760 00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:15,440 (LAUGHTER) 761 00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:22,080 But equally, his partner, who he was matched with, 762 00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:27,840 also came in with a very unique set of beliefs, 763 00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:30,720 who was ambitious and driven and independent 764 00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:34,640 and they embarked on this experiment together. 765 00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:39,160 And now I'd like to call up to the couch Tyson and Steph. 766 00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:42,000 (APPLAUSE) Alright. 767 00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:46,720 (EXHALES) 768 00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:48,080 MEL: Hello. STEPHANIE: Hi. 769 00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:50,920 How are we, guys? Long time no see. 770 00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:52,520 MEL: It has been a long time. 771 00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:56,320 JOHN: Now, you two had a short-lived experience 772 00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:57,520 on the experiment 773 00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:00,320 but it certainly made a lasting impression. 774 00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,400 Mm-hm. (CLEARS THROAT) 775 00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:07,120 Now, on paper, you two were highly compatible, 776 00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:12,600 but for whatever reason, you just didn't quite gel. 777 00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:14,360 No. 778 00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:17,240 And so, we're gonna take a look back... 779 00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:18,960 Oh, boy. ..at your time... 780 00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:21,400 (LAUGHTER) JOEL: (LAUGHS) Yes! 781 00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:22,520 ..on this experiment 782 00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:26,440 to really drill down on some of your greatest hits. 783 00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:29,360 (LAUGHS) Oh, boy. This is gonna be great. 784 00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:32,240 (CLEARS THROAT) Oooh, hang in there. 785 00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,720 (RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS) 786 00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:42,480 Hello. (GIGGLES) 787 00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:44,120 TYSON: Um... (MUSIC WARPS) 788 00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:48,640 When I saw her walk down the aisle, I did get some woke vibes there. 789 00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:50,040 (LAUGHTER) 790 00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:51,880 How old are you? 32. 791 00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:52,920 32? Yeah. 792 00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:53,800 Oh, OK. I'm a cougar. 793 00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:56,560 (LAUGHTER) Yeah. 794 00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:58,240 I'm not really a huge fan of that. 795 00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:01,000 I was hoping to essentially get a wife maybe in her mid-20s. 796 00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:03,440 (SOME LAUGHTER) 797 00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:05,000 Apparently we're having five children. 798 00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:07,800 Do you want to be a househusband? 799 00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:08,960 Hell, no! 800 00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:12,360 You may as well ask me if I want to wear a skirt around the house. 801 00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:14,000 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 802 00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:16,840 BEC: What?! 803 00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:19,480 She's giving me those 'boss bitch' vibes. 804 00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:21,800 (LAUGHTER) 805 00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:24,600 I was in somewhat of a relationship 806 00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:26,680 and she told me how many guys she slept with. 807 00:43:26,720 --> 00:43:29,840 I think it was, like, 78 or something crazy. 808 00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:31,360 I had to escort her out of the house 'cause... 809 00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:33,560 What? Did you really? I don't want to get HIV here. 810 00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:36,400 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 811 00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:39,160 ALISSA: Oh, my god. 812 00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:40,640 It's not the Tallywackers. 813 00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:43,200 WOMAN: Oh! (LAUGHS) 814 00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:46,680 Too many. Too many. 815 00:43:46,720 --> 00:43:48,040 If a woman has a high body count, 816 00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:49,440 chances are she's got daddy issues too. 817 00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:50,400 Wow. 818 00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:51,720 GIA: Oh, my gosh. 819 00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:52,920 ALISSA: Wow. 820 00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:56,920 You've just come across in the relationship very masculine. 821 00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:59,760 That's just the problem. (JOEL LAUGHS) 822 00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:01,360 True. 823 00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:02,720 I'm not looking for a challenge. 824 00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:03,840 I'm looking for a submissive woman... 825 00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:05,360 You're looking for someone... Submissive. 826 00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:06,800 ..who's gonna bow down at your feet... 827 00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:08,080 No. ..and treat you like a king. 828 00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:11,320 Definitely not. Alls I want is just a submissive wife. 829 00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:14,040 So, what does submissive look like to you, then? 830 00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:16,040 The opposite of you. 831 00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:19,720 I think he would like his wife to keep her mouth shut, 832 00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:22,760 not disagree with anything he has said. 833 00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:26,440 It's giving small dick energy. 834 00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:28,840 (LAUGHTER) 835 00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:30,960 Sweet! 836 00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:35,120 To me, a submissive woman is someone that wants to cook for me. 837 00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:37,240 If something is annoying us or whatever, 838 00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:41,280 obviously learn to, you know, stay quiet. 839 00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:42,840 MEL: Ugh. 840 00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:47,520 It was good to talk to the experts and get their advice. 841 00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:49,080 It's good talking to John. 842 00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:50,960 John seems like a good bloke. 843 00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:52,360 He's really funny. 844 00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:55,920 He was like, "Oh, you know, Johnny, he's a good guy," 845 00:44:55,960 --> 00:44:57,440 but he said nothing about the women. 846 00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:01,320 I just don't think he has respect for women. 847 00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:02,400 Yeah. 848 00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:06,400 (GLASS TINKLES) CHRIS: I have some good news. 849 00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:08,040 I'm gonna be a dad. 850 00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:13,080 I'm not really used to that whole gay thing with the kids. 851 00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:16,360 I don't know. I don't know how it works. 852 00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:18,240 Tyson, are you having a heart attack or you're OK with that? 853 00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:19,840 Quite frankly, I don't want to know. 854 00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:22,120 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 855 00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:25,400 STEPHANIE: Do you like gay people? I like gay people. 856 00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:28,320 I'm not gay myself. I've got gay friends. 857 00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:31,000 It doesn't mean I'm gay. 858 00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:32,360 Why do you celebrate being gay? 859 00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:35,760 Like, just be gay and do what you need to do behind closed doors. 860 00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:37,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 861 00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:39,520 (JOEL LAUGHS) 862 00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:41,520 (TENSE MUSIC PLAYS) 863 00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:44,640 It wasn't so bad, was it? 864 00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:49,600 BEC: Ay carumba. 865 00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:55,800 Tyson, when you look back on that, how does it land with you? 866 00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:57,320 What do you think about? 867 00:45:57,360 --> 00:46:01,000 Yeah, look, it is a bit of a hard pill to swallow. 868 00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:04,600 I probably could've worded things a little bit better. 869 00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:07,000 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 870 00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:08,520 Probably? 871 00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:11,480 Sometimes when you're in the heat of the moment, 872 00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:14,800 you can come out and just say things that, you know, 873 00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:15,960 you probably shouldn't have said. 874 00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:22,120 Who are you to be making those comments, though? 875 00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:23,920 Who are you? (LAUGHTER) 876 00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:26,880 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 877 00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:28,120 (MOCKINGLY) "Who are you?" 878 00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:31,160 I would never say that. Yes, you would. 879 00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:33,560 You're just as judgemental as me. I'm sorry, no. 880 00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:34,720 Uh, yes, you are. 881 00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:37,400 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 882 00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:43,760 What about on the point of someone who's subservient, 883 00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:48,160 or rolls over, defers to you and says, "You lead, I follow. 884 00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:51,440 "You make all the decisions, you control." 885 00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:54,080 Do you really want that? Um... 886 00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:56,440 (TENSE MUSIC PLAYS) 887 00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:59,760 I think, honestly, a lot of women would actually want that. 888 00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:01,680 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 889 00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:06,200 No, honey, they don't. 890 00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:10,840 What makes you say that, Tyson? Well, I feel like... 891 00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:13,040 Because you're talking for a large group of people on Earth. 892 00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:14,600 OK. Yeah, yeah. 893 00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:16,960 I feel like a lot of women would like to stay at home, 894 00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:21,280 cook and clean and do all that sort of stuff. 895 00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:24,840 When you look at you and Steph, 896 00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:29,680 you know, there were some strong compatibilities on paper. 897 00:47:29,720 --> 00:47:31,560 Why do you think you didn't work out? 898 00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:33,960 I feel like she wants to be the one in control, 899 00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:37,720 whereas I feel like the man should take control of the relationship. 900 00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:39,760 She wants to be the provider and the protector or and whatever 901 00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:41,480 and... No, not necessarily. 902 00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:43,920 That's just... That's me. But you expect me to be a housewife. 903 00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:44,880 That's me. 904 00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:46,320 You wanted me to clean for you and cook... 905 00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:47,840 Like, they were the things that you asked... 906 00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:49,240 You didn't do any of those things. 907 00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:51,200 Bullshit. I did your washing all the time. 908 00:47:51,240 --> 00:47:53,160 Who's the one that cooked the salmon every night? Me. 909 00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:54,960 Who's the one that did the vacuuming? Me. 910 00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:56,320 I did all of those things 'cause were too lazy. 911 00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:59,440 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 912 00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:02,200 Tyson... Well, it's true. 913 00:48:02,240 --> 00:48:03,840 Someone needs to vacuum the house. 914 00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:08,920 GRAYSON: Bro, I think there's a difference 915 00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:12,600 between traditional values and like a misogynistic view on women, mate. 916 00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:14,320 BEC: Absolutely. 917 00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:15,840 But I did... I did everything, though. 918 00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:20,200 What you didn't do was build her up, mate. 919 00:48:20,240 --> 00:48:22,600 All you did was cut her down and you're doing it right now. 920 00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:23,800 Yep. 921 00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:27,120 STEPHANIE: It was expected that I would naturally assume 922 00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:29,000 those traditional roles 923 00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:32,800 of house-cleaning and cooking and...but, you know... 924 00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:33,880 Mmm. Whatever. 925 00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:37,360 (TENSE MUSIC PLAYS) 926 00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:41,880 So, you've mentioned the word 'control' a few times 927 00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:45,320 in regards to being in control of the household. 928 00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:47,680 Mm-hm. You also mentioned... 929 00:48:47,720 --> 00:48:49,840 The eye rolling doesn't help. 930 00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:51,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 931 00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:54,400 But.. But doesn't... May I finish, Tyson? 932 00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:55,440 Can you listen... 933 00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:56,680 We've spoken about this so many times... 934 00:48:56,720 --> 00:48:59,000 I'm sorry, it is interrupting... We've spoken about it so many times. 935 00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:00,880 It is interrupting my communication to you. 936 00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:02,480 And this is the problem, because I am a woman... 937 00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:04,000 I spoke about this last time when I was on the couch... 938 00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:05,400 Because I am a woman, you're not even showing... 939 00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:06,560 MEL: Stop speaking over her! 940 00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:09,440 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 941 00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:10,920 I've explained it so many times. 942 00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:13,240 Tyson, this is unacceptable! You need to be quiet. 943 00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:16,200 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 944 00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:25,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 945 00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:27,760 We've spoken about this so many times... 946 00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:30,240 I'm sorry, it is interrupting... We've spoken about it so many times. 947 00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:31,400 It is interrupting my communication to you. 948 00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:33,480 And this is the problem, because I am a woman... 949 00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:35,080 We spoke about this last time when I was on the couch... 950 00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:36,880 Because I'm a woman, you're not even showing the respect... 951 00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:39,480 Stop speaking over her! (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 952 00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:42,720 I've explained it so many times. 953 00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:45,560 Tyson, this is unacceptable! You need to be quiet. 954 00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:47,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 955 00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:50,000 (SCOFFS) 956 00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:51,720 Respect. 957 00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:54,920 What do you want me to say? 958 00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:56,640 GRAYSON: Listen, mate. I've listened! 959 00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:59,000 We're going around in circles here. JOHN: Alright, guys, hold! 960 00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:03,280 (SIGHS) 961 00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:05,280 (TENSE MUSIC PLAYS) 962 00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:08,240 The reason why we keep pushing on you about this 963 00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:11,320 is because we're not understanding what you're trying to say. 964 00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:17,040 And what we're hearing is kind of taking our breath away in disbelief. 965 00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:21,200 And one of the things here that's noticeable 966 00:50:21,240 --> 00:50:23,360 is that when Mel and Alessandra were talking to you, 967 00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:25,040 you talked over them 968 00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:27,560 and continued to do that. 969 00:50:29,680 --> 00:50:31,800 But you're not talking over me. 970 00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:35,160 And that's a problem. 971 00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:37,400 It just... It felt like we were just going around in circles, John. 972 00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:38,800 That's all. 973 00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:41,440 But I'm sorry if I did talk over you. 974 00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:42,960 IF you did? 975 00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:45,960 You're sorry IF you spoke over me? 976 00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:49,680 Oh, yeah, I didn't mean to. I got a little bit heated up before. 977 00:50:49,720 --> 00:50:51,200 I apologise. 978 00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:56,480 MEL: This is about respect. 979 00:50:56,520 --> 00:51:01,480 When it comes to the way you communicate with and about women, 980 00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:03,800 it is important that you show respect. 981 00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:06,800 Every time you've sat on this couch, 982 00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:10,440 you've struggled to even make eye contact with Alessandra and I. 983 00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:12,560 You only ever use John's name. 984 00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:16,640 So it's the disrespectful behaviour that we're calling you out on. 985 00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:17,720 Not your views. 986 00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:22,000 This is something that we genuinely hope that you can learn from 987 00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:23,280 and take away, 988 00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:26,520 because I really don't know 989 00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:29,120 how you're gonna have a healthy relationship with a woman 990 00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:30,400 in the future 991 00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:33,360 if you're not able to develop respect for women. 992 00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:35,400 I feel like I do have respect for women, Mel... 993 00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:40,160 So, here's a woman telling you that it doesn't come across that way. 994 00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:43,560 So that's important for you to hear. 995 00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:45,520 Mmm. 996 00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:47,480 I apologise. 997 00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:55,800 Thank you to both of you for being a part of this experiment. 998 00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:59,040 I know it has not been easy for either of you. 999 00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:00,360 Mmm. 1000 00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:04,720 It's... It's a brave move for anyone to come into this experiment 1001 00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:09,880 and for the two of you, we saw such promise at the beginning. 1002 00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:15,000 We saw some similarities in some of your values and views 1003 00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:19,720 but I guess what developed as you got to know each other 1004 00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:21,680 were the differences. 1005 00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:26,520 We wish you both the very, very best for your future. 1006 00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:28,720 Thank you, Mel. Thank you both. 1007 00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:30,320 Thank you. JOHN: Good luck, you two. 1008 00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:32,560 (APPLAUSE) 1009 00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:37,280 BEC: Good job, guys. 1010 00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:44,880 Well, one thing that this year we were all very disappointed by 1011 00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:49,520 was the behaviour of a lot of the women in this group. 1012 00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:54,160 Some of the women acted in ways that were not the best. 1013 00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:57,160 We saw a lot of you trying to tear each other down 1014 00:52:57,200 --> 00:53:03,600 and it was incredibly disappointing and difficult to watch at times. 1015 00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:06,040 There was a real lack of sisterhood 1016 00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:11,200 and we would be remiss to end this series this year 1017 00:53:11,240 --> 00:53:15,480 without having a further look at that and addressing it further. 1018 00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:18,280 (SIGHING) GIA: Oh, no. 1019 00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:20,680 BEC: This is gonna be (BLEEP). 1020 00:53:20,720 --> 00:53:22,720 Let's do it. 1021 00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:28,480 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1022 00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:30,840 Hi! 1023 00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:32,840 (CHEERING) 1024 00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:34,200 WOMAN: Welcome! 1025 00:53:34,240 --> 00:53:35,640 Trust me when I tell you this one's gonna be spicy. 1026 00:53:37,720 --> 00:53:38,640 BROOK: Oh! 1027 00:53:40,720 --> 00:53:41,680 Alright. 1028 00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:45,000 Anyhoos, people. 1029 00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:48,240 Should everyone talk about when their last 'relaish' was? 1030 00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:51,280 Bec, yeah, weird bitch. 1031 00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:54,120 Relax. Like, you're a five out of ten. 1032 00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:55,880 So, (BLEEP) chill, do you know what I mean? 1033 00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:57,200 (LAUGHS) 1034 00:53:58,560 --> 00:53:59,720 Your attitude stinks. 1035 00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:03,120 She's hot, though. I'll give her that. 1036 00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:05,160 Too bad about the personality. 1037 00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:08,000 Oh, thanks, babe. 1038 00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:11,560 I like you in green. 1039 00:54:11,600 --> 00:54:13,720 I don't think she looked good in green. 1040 00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:15,480 Bit Grinchy for me. 1041 00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:19,720 Danny, he was the only groom 1042 00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:21,600 that kind of like looked me up and down a few times. 1043 00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:24,720 Maybe he's not so happy with Mrs Grinchy 1044 00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:26,880 and he's looking at me a bit too much. 1045 00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:29,800 He's only human, yeah. 1046 00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:31,240 (LAUGHS) 1047 00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:32,520 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1048 00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:35,280 Gia, vaffanculo. 1049 00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:37,640 (GASPS) 1050 00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:39,000 WOMAN: What does that mean? She's Italian. 1051 00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:40,400 She'll know what it means. 1052 00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:43,120 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1053 00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:46,640 STELLA: I have never had that much connection with a person. 1054 00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:50,520 Red flags... Are there any? 1055 00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:52,480 Well, that's the thing. Like, it's... 1056 00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:55,040 I don't believe you! I don't believe you! 1057 00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:56,360 WOMAN: Let's hear Stella talk. 1058 00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:58,360 Surely he gets on your nerves at times. 1059 00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:00,280 No. I'm sorry, I'm calling bullshit. 1060 00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:01,600 (GASPING) 1061 00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:04,080 Are you going to? Are you? 1062 00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:05,640 I'm, like, "Zip it, bitch!" 1063 00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:06,840 (LAUGHS) 1064 00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:09,400 There can be a bit of mean-girl energy sometimes. 1065 00:55:11,880 --> 00:55:13,360 GIA: Alissa, shut up, 1066 00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:15,680 'cause all you do is speak with an infomercial voice. 1067 00:55:15,720 --> 00:55:17,200 Pipe down, OK? 1068 00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:21,400 No worries, babe. "I'm so deep. I'm so deep." I don't think you're deep. 1069 00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:23,600 I just think you're (BLEEP) up. 1070 00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:24,960 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) (GASPS) 1071 00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:27,640 You're very abrasive. 1072 00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:29,520 What don't you get back in your kennel, babe? 1073 00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:30,360 Hey? 1074 00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:32,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1075 00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:36,240 And you know what, babe, I think you're a very rude bitch. 1076 00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:37,480 (PEOPLE EXCLAIM) 1077 00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:40,400 Hey, babe, while you're at it, get the stripper boots off, babe. 1078 00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:42,680 Get the stripper boots off. 1079 00:55:42,720 --> 00:55:44,240 What stripper boots? 1080 00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:45,720 (EXCLAIMS) 1081 00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:49,720 Excuse me. That's not nice, babe. That's not nice. 1082 00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:52,840 Shut up, Alissa, you (BLEEP) rat-shit idiot! 1083 00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:55,120 (BLEEP) bullies. (LAUGHS) 1084 00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:56,400 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1085 00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:59,840 This is enough. This is enough. Alissa, shut up! 1086 00:55:59,880 --> 00:56:01,840 So, ultimately, girls... 1087 00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:04,880 (MOCKINGLY) "Ultimately, I wanted to be fake, as usual." 1088 00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:08,040 Babe, take your hair extensions out and chill. 1089 00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:10,280 I'm done with your bullying. (GIA LAUGHS) 1090 00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:12,320 Loser! (GIA LAUGHS) 1091 00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:14,440 Loser! 1092 00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:17,800 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1093 00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:19,520 MEL: In all my years working on Married At First Sight, 1094 00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:25,880 I have never experienced a woman speaking so viciously and nastily 1095 00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:28,400 toward other women. 1096 00:56:28,440 --> 00:56:31,600 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) I don't want to do this. 1097 00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:33,600 BEC: I've worked out what you're doing! 1098 00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:36,680 You're trying to look like you guys are this power couple 1099 00:56:36,720 --> 00:56:37,880 and actually... 1100 00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:40,160 Don't look at me with those (BLEEP) evil eyes, Scott. 1101 00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:41,520 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1102 00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:44,400 JOEL: Bec is vicious. Bec is vicious. 1103 00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:45,920 (GIA LAUGHS) She's trouble. 1104 00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:48,880 Wait, wait, wait, Scott. Are you wearing mirrors in your eyes? 1105 00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:51,600 Shut the (BLEEP) up, newbie! (GASPING) 1106 00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:55,320 Look, I see Bec and I see two horns and a tail. 1107 00:56:55,360 --> 00:56:58,040 (SHOUTS) Listen to me! Listen to me! 1108 00:56:58,080 --> 00:56:59,160 She's just out of control. 1109 00:56:59,200 --> 00:57:02,280 Neither of you have got any friends here anymore! 1110 00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:04,520 Do you understand? 1111 00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:05,640 (GASPS) 1112 00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:07,200 You're a (BLEEP) mean girl and all you do is... 1113 00:57:07,240 --> 00:57:08,440 Oh, I'm the mean girl! 1114 00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:10,720 ..and talk shit about every bitch here! 1115 00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:12,320 Bitch, (BLEEP) you! 1116 00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:15,320 No, I'm sorry. Are you guys having tattoos of each other? 1117 00:57:15,360 --> 00:57:17,200 Or is your husband going to the strippers every (BLEEP) weekend 1118 00:57:17,240 --> 00:57:18,160 to avoid you? 1119 00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:20,200 WOMAN: There's a bit of chatter 1120 00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:23,960 about Bec trying to actually dig shit up on Alissa. 1121 00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:27,440 Alissa, darling, there can only be one Queen of Adelaide 1122 00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:28,640 and it's me. 1123 00:57:28,680 --> 00:57:29,520 OK? 1124 00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:33,280 Bec is actively trying to tear me down. 1125 00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:35,480 This is actually disgusting. 1126 00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:41,040 We've had finger bangs so, like... 1127 00:57:41,080 --> 00:57:43,720 (PEOPLE EXCLAIM) 1128 00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:48,200 RACHEL: When Bec said that, I felt really hurt. 1129 00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:50,160 (LAUGHS) I shouldn't laugh. 1130 00:57:50,200 --> 00:57:51,680 She's really upset. 1131 00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:53,560 (LAUGHS) 1132 00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:54,840 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1133 00:57:54,880 --> 00:57:57,600 I just don't even want to be around here anymore. 1134 00:57:57,640 --> 00:58:00,360 I'm gonna get a T-shirt with 'finger bang' across it 1135 00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:01,560 and I'm gonna wear it everywhere. 1136 00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:09,840 Babe, you've been saying the most inappropriate stuff. 1137 00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:11,440 Shush. 1138 00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:14,080 Babe, every night, you've been the dumbest (BLEEP) here. 1139 00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:16,080 (JOEL LAUGHS) 1140 00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:18,520 Joel, don't laugh. 1141 00:58:18,560 --> 00:58:19,800 You're the puppeteer and she's the... 1142 00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:22,000 You're the freak here! ..and you've got all your puppets. 1143 00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:23,960 GIA: We're the puppeteers? You're the freak. 1144 00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:29,080 You should be careful with how much you are upset about me saying that 1145 00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:32,600 when I have screenshots of what you've said about Alissa and David. 1146 00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:34,400 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1147 00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:37,200 How do you have screenshots? Gia sent them to me. 1148 00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:41,640 "Alissa is going (BLEEP) down. Rat bitch with her rat husband. 1149 00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:47,280 "I'm gonna go so (BLEEP) hard on Alissa and her fake relationship. 1150 00:58:47,320 --> 00:58:50,200 "The only fake (BLEEP) in this place 1151 00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:52,280 "are those two (BLEEP) licking 1152 00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:54,240 "(BLEEP) influencer wannabe (BLEEP)." 1153 00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:56,080 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1154 00:58:56,120 --> 00:58:57,520 Wow. 1155 00:58:57,560 --> 00:58:59,600 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1156 00:59:04,120 --> 00:59:05,920 FILIP: Oh! 1157 00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:07,400 That was a lot. 1158 00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:11,360 That's (BLEEP) trash, guys. It's always Bec and Gia. 1159 00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:16,120 Yeah, what did I do to you? Like, what did I actually do to you? 1160 00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:19,560 Mean girls. Just mean girls. 1161 00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:22,560 Bec and Gia. 1162 00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:30,920 Some of the behaviour was shocking and disgusting. 1163 00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:33,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1164 00:59:33,080 --> 00:59:35,880 Could you guys explain? 1165 00:59:37,120 --> 00:59:38,240 Bec? 1166 00:59:38,280 --> 00:59:41,360 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1167 00:59:48,880 --> 00:59:51,400 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1168 00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:55,120 ALESSANDRA: Bec and Gia... 1169 00:59:56,640 --> 01:00:02,440 some of the behaviour was shocking and disgusting. 1170 01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:06,280 Could you guys explain? 1171 01:00:06,320 --> 01:00:07,520 Bec? 1172 01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:10,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1173 01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:17,120 When I came in here, it was like a whirlwind of 1174 01:00:17,160 --> 01:00:18,480 "I've heard you say this. 1175 01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:20,240 "I'm just gonna run with it without having a conversation" 1176 01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:21,280 and it's deplorable. 1177 01:00:21,320 --> 01:00:24,640 Yeah, but that's no excuse to be so nasty, babe. 1178 01:00:26,440 --> 01:00:28,840 The way I treated you... It was (BLEEP). 1179 01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:32,200 ..was disgusting 1180 01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:36,240 and I vow to you and promise to you 1181 01:00:36,280 --> 01:00:42,120 that I will never, ever, ever, ever treat you or another woman 1182 01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:45,680 without speaking to them about it, again. 1183 01:00:45,720 --> 01:00:48,040 MEL: I mean, even in that, Bec, 1184 01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:50,920 we're hearing a lot of excuses and qualifications. 1185 01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:53,200 OK. 1186 01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:55,480 You know, to say "I'll never treat another woman like that 1187 01:00:55,520 --> 01:00:57,200 "without having a conversation first..." 1188 01:00:57,240 --> 01:00:59,320 No, no, no, sorry. I didn't mean it like that. 1189 01:00:59,360 --> 01:01:01,280 I will never treat another woman like that again. 1190 01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:02,360 But I meant because... 1191 01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:04,600 Because I didn't even give Alissa an opportunity. 1192 01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:06,080 I didn't mean for it to sound like that. 1193 01:01:06,120 --> 01:01:07,680 I didn't even have a conversation with her. 1194 01:01:07,720 --> 01:01:10,760 Bec, you've just said, "I will never treat another woman like that again" 1195 01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:13,320 yet last night you did with Stephanie. 1196 01:01:15,640 --> 01:01:17,800 These behaviours keep coming up. 1197 01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:25,040 Yep. Like, that was just unfair and I'm sincerely sorry. 1198 01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:28,880 Oh, I'm just, like... This is just painful to listen to. 1199 01:01:28,920 --> 01:01:30,520 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1200 01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:33,440 It should be simple. Just be kind. 1201 01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:34,720 Like... STELLA: Just be human to human. 1202 01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:36,080 Respect another human. Just be a kind person. 1203 01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:38,520 Don't tear other people down. 1204 01:01:38,560 --> 01:01:42,000 I just... I don't understand that. Why do people have to be so cruel? 1205 01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:44,920 How do people even write messages like that? 1206 01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:48,480 How do people... Like, you must have had some pretty traumatic shit 1207 01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:50,000 happen to you 1208 01:01:50,040 --> 01:01:51,720 to be able to project that on someone, 1209 01:01:51,760 --> 01:01:53,000 someone that you don't even know. 1210 01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:57,120 I was a shell of a person for half of this experiment. 1211 01:01:57,160 --> 01:02:00,880 I couldn't show up as myself because of how I was treated. 1212 01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:02,560 And that's just not OK. 1213 01:02:02,600 --> 01:02:04,200 Like, that's just not OK 1214 01:02:04,240 --> 01:02:06,840 and I feel sick in my stomach sitting here tonight 1215 01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:09,120 and having to watch that and relive that. 1216 01:02:09,160 --> 01:02:11,240 That was hard. MEL: Of course. 1217 01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:13,920 Alissa, we really felt for you 1218 01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:16,400 in those first few weeks of this experiment. 1219 01:02:16,440 --> 01:02:18,400 You had done absolutely nothing wrong 1220 01:02:18,440 --> 01:02:21,080 and for some unknown reason, 1221 01:02:21,120 --> 01:02:25,240 many of the women in this group turned on you. 1222 01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:27,640 This is where we look to you, Gia. 1223 01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:28,840 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1224 01:02:28,880 --> 01:02:30,440 GIA: Um... 1225 01:02:30,480 --> 01:02:33,600 At the very beginning, when you didn't know who your friends were 1226 01:02:33,640 --> 01:02:35,120 and, like, you're trying to figure everything out, 1227 01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:36,400 we heard all this information from Bec. 1228 01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:38,440 I jumped on the bandwagon 1229 01:02:38,480 --> 01:02:40,640 and I thought, "Oh, I'll be friends with her..." 1230 01:02:40,680 --> 01:02:42,400 Yeah, but what did I do wrong? What was it that I did wrong? 1231 01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:44,760 No, you did nothing wrong. You did nothing wrong. 1232 01:02:44,800 --> 01:02:48,240 It was just rumours that I'd heard from Bec and I... 1233 01:02:48,280 --> 01:02:49,880 Yeah, but what rumours? RACHEL: Just a lack of integrity. 1234 01:02:49,920 --> 01:02:53,760 I was about to say, we all know the difference between right and wrong. 1235 01:02:56,040 --> 01:02:58,360 And in that messaging, when all that went on, 1236 01:02:58,400 --> 01:02:59,800 that group chat, 1237 01:02:59,840 --> 01:03:01,840 the fact that not a single one of you went, 1238 01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:04,960 "Bec, what you're gonna do is wrong, 1239 01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:06,640 "you need to handle this differently..." 1240 01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:07,960 Yeah. There's right and wrong. 1241 01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:09,160 Yeah. 1242 01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:12,080 And the way it was handled and what happened was wrong. 1243 01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:18,320 MEL: I would hope there's an opportunity for some empathy here 1244 01:03:18,360 --> 01:03:23,520 and maybe, Alissa, if you can help us understand 1245 01:03:23,560 --> 01:03:24,960 how it felt for you 1246 01:03:25,000 --> 01:03:28,880 when you were being treated that way by Bec, Gia, Brook. 1247 01:03:30,960 --> 01:03:33,800 What was the impact on you emotionally? 1248 01:03:35,160 --> 01:03:37,360 Oh, I couldn't get out of bed. Like... 1249 01:03:39,960 --> 01:03:42,040 If it wasn't for him, like... (CRIES) 1250 01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:46,840 He was with me. He stood by me. 1251 01:03:46,880 --> 01:03:49,800 And he was, like, "You're strong. You've got this." 1252 01:03:49,840 --> 01:03:52,240 And I remember that dinner party, that second dinner party, 1253 01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:55,320 I sat there and I was shaking under the table. 1254 01:03:55,360 --> 01:03:57,360 My arms were shaking. Like... 1255 01:03:57,400 --> 01:04:01,400 I... That was, like, one of the hardest days of my life 1256 01:04:01,440 --> 01:04:05,320 and I didn't shed one tear and I sat there and I... 1257 01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:06,960 and I called out a bully. 1258 01:04:07,000 --> 01:04:09,400 Like... And I was just, like, "It's not OK." 1259 01:04:09,440 --> 01:04:14,040 And that's where Rach and I became so close as well 1260 01:04:14,080 --> 01:04:16,600 'cause she had my back and she's my girl. (CRIES) 1261 01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:19,960 I'm so grateful because you, babe, are the definition of a girl's girl 1262 01:04:20,000 --> 01:04:22,640 and I'm so lucky to have you in my life. 1263 01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:25,840 And I was lucky... I am lucky to have this man as well 1264 01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:28,600 because he was the one that helped me get out of bed 1265 01:04:28,640 --> 01:04:30,960 and he was the one that supported me through that. 1266 01:04:31,000 --> 01:04:33,440 And he was dragged through the mud with me and I feel bad for him... 1267 01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:34,760 MEL: Mmm. 1268 01:04:34,800 --> 01:04:36,360 ..because he and I didn't have to go through that. 1269 01:04:36,400 --> 01:04:38,680 That was actually... That impacted our relationship too. 1270 01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:43,000 That shit also really impacted us. 1271 01:04:43,040 --> 01:04:44,880 MEL: Yeah. It was heavy. 1272 01:04:44,920 --> 01:04:48,160 (SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS) 1273 01:04:48,200 --> 01:04:50,520 DAVID: Yeah, I mean, I have to give her her flowers. 1274 01:04:50,560 --> 01:04:52,200 Like, you know, at the end of the day, 1275 01:04:52,240 --> 01:04:55,000 she could've sat there and come at the girls. 1276 01:04:55,040 --> 01:04:57,560 She probably knew information she could've pulled out of the woodwork, 1277 01:04:57,600 --> 01:05:01,000 you know, at Bec or whoever, but she just held herself so well... 1278 01:05:01,040 --> 01:05:03,120 I didn't go down that level. You know, and that's respectable... 1279 01:05:03,160 --> 01:05:05,520 so I'll give her that. Thank you. Thank you. 1280 01:05:07,600 --> 01:05:08,880 GIA: Alissa... 1281 01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:11,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1282 01:05:11,080 --> 01:05:13,960 ..I know you won't accept my apology and I totally get that. 1283 01:05:14,000 --> 01:05:15,680 I feel like I've given so many to you... 1284 01:05:15,720 --> 01:05:17,280 I don't know if that's true, because... 1285 01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:18,280 Yeah. 1286 01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:19,640 ..I feel like you repeat the same behaviour. 1287 01:05:19,680 --> 01:05:22,040 That mean message that you sent me that day we left the experiment. 1288 01:05:22,080 --> 01:05:23,640 Right. (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1289 01:05:23,680 --> 01:05:26,280 I... Obviously, we were leaving experiment, 1290 01:05:26,320 --> 01:05:28,920 so you have no way to judge if my behaviour's gonna change. 1291 01:05:28,960 --> 01:05:32,120 All I can say is I'm really, truly sorry for anything I've ever said. 1292 01:05:32,160 --> 01:05:35,760 I really, like, wish I could take it all back 1293 01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:38,480 and be friends with you from the hen's, honestly. 1294 01:05:38,520 --> 01:05:40,280 Like, I'm really sorry. 1295 01:05:41,680 --> 01:05:43,560 And, like, there's nothing I can say that's gonna make it better. 1296 01:05:43,600 --> 01:05:45,360 It's just gonna take time 1297 01:05:45,400 --> 01:05:47,160 and one day, if you want to accept my apology, 1298 01:05:47,200 --> 01:05:50,080 like, you're unblocked, reach out, you know, any time. 1299 01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:51,000 Yep. 1300 01:05:58,800 --> 01:06:04,600 MEL: You know, I've got to say, in a decade of doing this experiment... 1301 01:06:05,720 --> 01:06:12,240 I've never seen so much animosity within the female group. 1302 01:06:13,920 --> 01:06:17,200 And it is unfortunate that Juliette and Brook are not here 1303 01:06:17,240 --> 01:06:20,880 because they were major players in this behaviour as well. 1304 01:06:22,080 --> 01:06:26,320 I'd really like you to have a long, hard look at yourselves. 1305 01:06:27,520 --> 01:06:31,000 Have a real think about what does this mean 1306 01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:32,440 more broadly 1307 01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:34,720 than just your individual relationships with each other, 1308 01:06:34,760 --> 01:06:37,680 but in terms of the sisterhood... 1309 01:06:38,800 --> 01:06:42,480 which is a term that I feel quite reluctant to use in this context. 1310 01:06:42,520 --> 01:06:44,840 STELLA: I wouldn't use it here. BEC: I wouldn't use it here. 1311 01:06:44,880 --> 01:06:46,080 You can't use it in here. 1312 01:06:46,120 --> 01:06:50,800 What I would love for you to take away from this experience 1313 01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:53,200 are some lessons around this, 1314 01:06:53,240 --> 01:06:55,880 whether that's about your own behaviour 1315 01:06:55,920 --> 01:06:58,520 and the respect that you show 1316 01:06:58,560 --> 01:07:00,560 when you speak to and deal with other women 1317 01:07:00,600 --> 01:07:04,360 or maybe it's about the way you stand up 1318 01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:06,080 when someone else is being bullied. 1319 01:07:07,680 --> 01:07:10,240 Ultimately, what this is about is self-respect... 1320 01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:13,720 and that's what we want for you. 1321 01:07:16,000 --> 01:07:18,720 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1322 01:07:18,760 --> 01:07:21,480 NARRATOR: Still to come... 1323 01:07:21,520 --> 01:07:23,760 FILIP: Will you marry me? STELLA: Yes! 1324 01:07:23,800 --> 01:07:27,920 ..the most romantic moment from this year's experiment. 1325 01:07:27,960 --> 01:07:29,160 (SCREAMS) 1326 01:07:29,200 --> 01:07:30,040 (LAUGHTER) 1327 01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:31,720 You got your love story, Stella. 1328 01:07:31,760 --> 01:07:33,120 Oh, yeah. 1329 01:07:33,160 --> 01:07:34,800 But next... (CHRIS GASPS) 1330 01:07:34,840 --> 01:07:37,520 BEC: Oh, yuck. JOHN: Wow. 1331 01:07:37,560 --> 01:07:41,320 ..Bec takes a shocking trip down memory lane. 1332 01:07:47,960 --> 01:07:50,960 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1333 01:07:55,480 --> 01:07:59,800 Well, Bec, Danny decided not to come tonight 1334 01:07:59,840 --> 01:08:04,320 but we still very much want to hear about your time in this experiment 1335 01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:06,440 and your overall journey. 1336 01:08:06,480 --> 01:08:09,320 And so, with that being said, we want you to come up on the couch. 1337 01:08:09,360 --> 01:08:12,040 (APPLAUSE) 1338 01:08:12,080 --> 01:08:14,880 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1339 01:08:18,240 --> 01:08:19,360 Oh... 1340 01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:22,440 Hello. 1341 01:08:22,480 --> 01:08:25,280 Bec, did you know that Danny wasn't gonna come tonight? 1342 01:08:25,320 --> 01:08:27,680 I didn't. No. 1343 01:08:27,720 --> 01:08:30,440 Everyone else did, but I didn't, no. 1344 01:08:30,480 --> 01:08:32,320 Yeah. 1345 01:08:32,360 --> 01:08:34,080 How does that sit with you... 1346 01:08:35,520 --> 01:08:38,360 sitting up here alone on the couch? 1347 01:08:38,400 --> 01:08:42,560 To be honest with you, I...I didn't think he would come 1348 01:08:42,600 --> 01:08:45,360 because last night he was in the firing line. 1349 01:08:46,560 --> 01:08:52,160 He also doesn't think that what he did to me that last week 1350 01:08:52,200 --> 01:08:53,480 leading up to final vows 1351 01:08:53,520 --> 01:08:54,800 was wrong. 1352 01:08:54,840 --> 01:08:58,400 In fact, I found out today that after final vows, 1353 01:08:58,440 --> 01:08:59,720 he went to Melbourne 1354 01:08:59,760 --> 01:09:02,680 and told someone else in this group of people, 1355 01:09:02,720 --> 01:09:05,760 they looked at him in the eye and said, 1356 01:09:05,800 --> 01:09:08,200 "Did you tell Bec you were falling in love with her 1357 01:09:08,240 --> 01:09:10,040 "five days before final vows?" 1358 01:09:10,080 --> 01:09:11,680 And he looked them in the eye and said no. 1359 01:09:11,720 --> 01:09:13,360 And he did. 1360 01:09:13,400 --> 01:09:18,200 And that has broken me. 1361 01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:22,680 Well, you know what, there's absolutely no doubt 1362 01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:26,400 that you threw yourself into this experiment, 1363 01:09:26,440 --> 01:09:28,480 so why don't we take a moment now 1364 01:09:28,520 --> 01:09:31,720 to look back at your time in this experiment 1365 01:09:31,760 --> 01:09:34,360 and your relationship with Danny? 1366 01:09:39,240 --> 01:09:41,360 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1367 01:09:43,880 --> 01:09:46,720 Sensational all round, people. 1368 01:09:46,760 --> 01:09:49,120 Good shag, good sleep. (MAN HALF-LAUGHS) 1369 01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:50,880 Good shag. 1370 01:09:50,920 --> 01:09:52,600 DANNY: I'm looking for, like, 1371 01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:55,840 the woman who's gonna be the mother of my children 1372 01:09:55,880 --> 01:09:59,680 and I'm just concerned there's not enough chemistry between me and Bec 1373 01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:01,640 for it to be that. (STELLA GASPS) 1374 01:10:08,560 --> 01:10:11,680 Probably around a three. 1375 01:10:11,720 --> 01:10:14,280 (GASPING) RACHEL: A what? 1376 01:10:14,320 --> 01:10:16,720 WOMAN: Wow. (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1377 01:10:26,400 --> 01:10:28,720 I feel sick. 1378 01:10:28,760 --> 01:10:31,720 Just feeds into all of Bec's insecurity. 1379 01:10:44,440 --> 01:10:45,640 I believe him. 1380 01:10:45,680 --> 01:10:49,640 I believe that Danny didn't say that to Gia. 1381 01:10:49,680 --> 01:10:52,320 So, describe your feelings for him. 1382 01:10:52,360 --> 01:10:53,800 I love you. 1383 01:10:53,840 --> 01:10:55,960 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 1384 01:10:56,000 --> 01:10:58,760 I don't know what to say to that. (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1385 01:10:58,800 --> 01:11:00,080 STELLA: Oh... 1386 01:11:01,480 --> 01:11:03,240 Look, she can tell me 10,000 times. 1387 01:11:03,280 --> 01:11:04,720 If I don't feel it, I'm not gonna say it back. 1388 01:11:06,480 --> 01:11:08,000 What about the fact 1389 01:11:08,040 --> 01:11:09,680 that I'm not only a wife but I'm a girlfriend now? 1390 01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:12,560 Men, a lot of the time, we do things we don't want to do. 1391 01:11:12,600 --> 01:11:14,040 Whatever. We roll with it. 1392 01:11:14,080 --> 01:11:15,760 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1393 01:11:17,560 --> 01:11:19,680 We heard the news that you're falling in love. 1394 01:11:21,880 --> 01:11:22,880 Stella... 1395 01:11:24,080 --> 01:11:26,120 Let's change the subject. 1396 01:11:26,160 --> 01:11:28,080 Yeah, that was quite an interesting reaction from Bec. 1397 01:11:28,120 --> 01:11:29,280 Sorry. 1398 01:11:29,320 --> 01:11:32,480 Like, speak about it. Like, it's quite exciting news. 1399 01:11:32,520 --> 01:11:34,680 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1400 01:11:34,720 --> 01:11:38,840 "Do you think you will fall in love with me and why?" 1401 01:11:43,000 --> 01:11:45,600 I want to be very careful how I answer this question. 1402 01:11:48,160 --> 01:11:50,680 I'd assume I will, yeah. 1403 01:11:50,720 --> 01:11:51,920 (RACHEL GASPS) 1404 01:11:51,960 --> 01:11:54,080 (SIGHS) 1405 01:11:54,120 --> 01:11:55,440 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1406 01:11:55,480 --> 01:11:58,840 I'm not surprised in how warmly Coco took to me 1407 01:11:58,880 --> 01:12:01,280 because all bitches love me. 1408 01:12:01,320 --> 01:12:02,560 (CHRIS GASPS) 1409 01:12:05,160 --> 01:12:07,360 I've never met a bitch that don't love me. 1410 01:12:07,400 --> 01:12:08,840 (GASPS) 1411 01:12:08,880 --> 01:12:10,600 REBECCA: Oh, my god! 1412 01:12:10,640 --> 01:12:13,800 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1413 01:12:13,840 --> 01:12:15,400 BEC: For Danny to tell me he loves me, 1414 01:12:15,440 --> 01:12:17,080 that would be the most amazing thing ever. 1415 01:12:17,120 --> 01:12:20,200 I mean, I know he loves me already. I know he does. 1416 01:12:20,240 --> 01:12:21,600 Yeah, I do. 1417 01:12:27,400 --> 01:12:28,440 These are... 1418 01:12:28,480 --> 01:12:30,600 I don't want to tie myself into a loophole 1419 01:12:30,640 --> 01:12:32,080 without my lawyer present. 1420 01:12:33,680 --> 01:12:36,120 My lawyer, I can't see him beside me, 1421 01:12:36,160 --> 01:12:38,080 so I don't want to talk too much. 1422 01:12:40,640 --> 01:12:42,520 No comment. 1423 01:12:42,560 --> 01:12:43,920 ALISSA: Oh, dear. 1424 01:12:43,960 --> 01:12:45,840 MAN: You've got your husband now. 1425 01:12:45,880 --> 01:12:47,840 So, like, what was it that you were looking for? 1426 01:12:47,880 --> 01:12:50,680 BEC: Someone probably that wanted to (BLEEP) me. 1427 01:12:50,720 --> 01:12:51,920 (LAUGHS) 1428 01:12:51,960 --> 01:12:53,400 Oh, no, it's not... 1429 01:12:53,440 --> 01:12:56,520 "I want someone who (BLEEP) me." It's just an ick. 1430 01:12:56,560 --> 01:13:00,360 How can you want to be intimate with someone who acts like that? 1431 01:13:00,400 --> 01:13:02,120 It's repulsive. 1432 01:13:05,480 --> 01:13:08,280 I'll never fall in love with her on a month of Sundays. 1433 01:13:08,320 --> 01:13:09,520 (BLEEP) that. 1434 01:13:09,560 --> 01:13:11,080 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) (GASPS) 1435 01:13:12,920 --> 01:13:15,960 I'm so lucky because I've got, like, the best husband ever. 1436 01:13:16,000 --> 01:13:17,560 We're stronger than ever. 1437 01:13:17,600 --> 01:13:19,120 We're stronger than ever. Stronger than ever. 1438 01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:20,880 Stronger than ever. Stronger than ever. 1439 01:13:20,920 --> 01:13:22,560 Happier and stronger than ever. 1440 01:13:22,600 --> 01:13:25,600 I'm in love with Danny. We love each other. 1441 01:13:26,800 --> 01:13:28,200 Pretty lucky, right? 1442 01:13:28,240 --> 01:13:30,720 I know that he's gonna tell me he loves me 1443 01:13:30,760 --> 01:13:33,360 and we're gonna be together. 1444 01:13:35,080 --> 01:13:37,200 (SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS) 1445 01:13:40,840 --> 01:13:43,000 "Stepping away from the experiment in the last week, 1446 01:13:43,040 --> 01:13:45,320 "I really thought about how our lives would look together 1447 01:13:45,360 --> 01:13:47,640 "and as much as it breaks my heart to say this, 1448 01:13:47,680 --> 01:13:50,200 "I've felt a weight come off my shoulders, 1449 01:13:50,240 --> 01:13:54,280 "particularly at a time where I knew I should've been missing you. 1450 01:13:54,320 --> 01:13:56,920 "Honestly, from the bottom of my heart, 1451 01:13:56,960 --> 01:13:58,160 "I'm so sorry to do this to you, but... 1452 01:14:00,000 --> 01:14:01,560 "I can't be your husband anymore." 1453 01:14:01,600 --> 01:14:04,760 (SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS) 1454 01:14:06,480 --> 01:14:09,200 I wish you well. OK. 1455 01:14:09,240 --> 01:14:12,000 I'm so sorry. No, Daniel. 1456 01:14:12,040 --> 01:14:15,360 (SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS) 1457 01:14:18,880 --> 01:14:20,080 (BEC CRIES) 1458 01:14:26,320 --> 01:14:28,120 I've been blindsided. 1459 01:14:29,840 --> 01:14:32,600 And I just thought that it was gonna be my happily ever after. 1460 01:14:34,600 --> 01:14:36,000 My heart is broken. 1461 01:14:37,320 --> 01:14:38,680 Completely. 1462 01:14:38,720 --> 01:14:40,000 (CRIES) 1463 01:14:48,320 --> 01:14:51,600 Wow. That's (BLEEP). That was a lot. 1464 01:14:52,720 --> 01:14:55,240 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1465 01:14:57,640 --> 01:14:59,440 (GASPING) MAN: What's happening? 1466 01:15:11,800 --> 01:15:15,320 The future without Bec is... it would be bright. 1467 01:15:15,360 --> 01:15:16,600 (GASPS) 1468 01:15:16,640 --> 01:15:18,200 PARTICIPANT: What the (BLEEP). 1469 01:15:18,240 --> 01:15:19,480 Do you know what I mean? 1470 01:15:19,520 --> 01:15:21,760 After this, there's gonna be women queueing up for me. 1471 01:15:21,800 --> 01:15:24,200 PARTICIPANT: Holy shit. 1472 01:15:24,240 --> 01:15:25,640 I won't be able to walk down the street. 1473 01:15:25,680 --> 01:15:27,360 They'll be throwing their pantyhose at me. 1474 01:15:27,400 --> 01:15:30,440 So, either way, it's gonna be alright. 1475 01:15:30,480 --> 01:15:32,720 (LAUGHS) 1476 01:15:32,760 --> 01:15:34,040 (BLEEP). 1477 01:15:34,080 --> 01:15:36,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1478 01:15:38,760 --> 01:15:39,840 No. 1479 01:15:42,840 --> 01:15:44,320 That's a wrap. 1480 01:15:44,360 --> 01:15:47,040 Are we going to the pub now? 1481 01:15:49,480 --> 01:15:52,720 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1482 01:16:01,760 --> 01:16:05,160 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1483 01:16:05,200 --> 01:16:06,920 WOMAN: Alright, Danny... 1484 01:16:10,200 --> 01:16:13,640 The future without Bec is... it would be bright. 1485 01:16:13,680 --> 01:16:14,920 (GASPS) 1486 01:16:14,960 --> 01:16:16,520 PARTICIPANT: What the (BLEEP). 1487 01:16:16,560 --> 01:16:18,240 Do you know what I mean? 1488 01:16:18,280 --> 01:16:20,320 After this, there's gonna be women queueing up for me. 1489 01:16:20,360 --> 01:16:21,600 PARTICIPANT: Holy shit. 1490 01:16:21,640 --> 01:16:22,960 Won't be able to walk down the street. 1491 01:16:23,000 --> 01:16:25,640 They'll be throwing their pantyhose at me. 1492 01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:29,000 So, either way, it's gonna be alright. 1493 01:16:29,040 --> 01:16:31,000 (LAUGHS) 1494 01:16:31,040 --> 01:16:32,400 (BLEEP) hell. 1495 01:16:32,440 --> 01:16:34,920 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1496 01:16:37,120 --> 01:16:38,360 No. 1497 01:16:40,880 --> 01:16:42,160 That's a wrap. 1498 01:16:42,200 --> 01:16:45,040 Are we going to the pub now? 1499 01:16:45,080 --> 01:16:47,280 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1500 01:16:50,600 --> 01:16:51,800 (CRIES) 1501 01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:53,400 MAN: Whoa. MAN: That was tough, man. 1502 01:16:53,440 --> 01:16:55,800 Hectic. WOMAN: That's heavy. 1503 01:16:55,840 --> 01:16:58,360 That's heavy. It's hard to watch. 1504 01:16:58,400 --> 01:17:00,480 Yeah. WOMAN: Wow. 1505 01:17:00,520 --> 01:17:03,920 (SOLEMN MUSIC PLAYS) 1506 01:17:16,920 --> 01:17:20,520 What was for you the hardest part of watching that back? 1507 01:17:20,560 --> 01:17:22,040 (CRIES) 1508 01:17:26,200 --> 01:17:29,360 I think the hardest part 1509 01:17:29,400 --> 01:17:34,240 was to let me walk down the path to final vows 1510 01:17:34,280 --> 01:17:36,240 in a wedding dress, 1511 01:17:36,280 --> 01:17:38,600 expecting that I was going to Melbourne in two weeks 1512 01:17:38,640 --> 01:17:41,680 and we were just gonna see how it goes on the outside. 1513 01:17:41,720 --> 01:17:47,000 To be dumped and then to not contact me, 1514 01:17:47,040 --> 01:17:48,840 I think that's cruel to do to someone 1515 01:17:48,880 --> 01:17:50,320 when you know that I love you. 1516 01:17:50,360 --> 01:17:52,480 But that's Danny. 1517 01:17:52,520 --> 01:17:54,920 Danny's out for himself and no-one else. 1518 01:17:54,960 --> 01:17:57,920 If it benefits Danny, he'll do it. If it benefits Danny, he's there. 1519 01:17:59,680 --> 01:18:01,560 It just feels icky now. 1520 01:18:01,600 --> 01:18:03,960 You're a time-waster. 1521 01:18:04,000 --> 01:18:06,280 You should've said something. You knew it. 1522 01:18:06,320 --> 01:18:09,200 You could see it. He wasn't into me. 1523 01:18:11,480 --> 01:18:16,120 It's just taken a little bit longer for me to work that out. 1524 01:18:17,320 --> 01:18:23,040 But, you know... this is life, isn't it? 1525 01:18:23,080 --> 01:18:24,760 Everything's not a fairytale 1526 01:18:24,800 --> 01:18:27,120 and I think I gave it a red-hot go, 1527 01:18:27,160 --> 01:18:28,760 the good, the bad, the ugly. 1528 01:18:28,800 --> 01:18:32,720 You know, and there is a lot of ugly in what we watched today 1529 01:18:32,760 --> 01:18:35,080 and I take ownership of that. 1530 01:18:39,800 --> 01:18:41,040 ALESSANDRA: Let me ask you this. 1531 01:18:41,080 --> 01:18:44,800 Watching back your journey, does it give you clarity? 1532 01:18:47,080 --> 01:18:49,480 I was really, really nervous to come here today. 1533 01:18:49,520 --> 01:18:53,520 I sat there, I sat alone all day 1534 01:18:53,560 --> 01:18:57,840 and I have played back every moment. 1535 01:18:57,880 --> 01:19:00,640 I went through my phone, I looked at photos 1536 01:19:00,680 --> 01:19:05,200 and I have been in a... 1537 01:19:05,240 --> 01:19:07,720 in a very toxic situation 1538 01:19:07,760 --> 01:19:12,880 that I was so hopeful was going to work that I was blinded. 1539 01:19:14,840 --> 01:19:16,200 I was so hopeful 1540 01:19:16,240 --> 01:19:19,040 that this was going to be my Stella and Filip happily ever after 1541 01:19:19,080 --> 01:19:26,040 that I probably turned a blind eye to the realities of what this was 1542 01:19:26,080 --> 01:19:28,760 and that was that he's just not that into me. 1543 01:19:32,360 --> 01:19:35,680 Throughout this experiment, I would say almost from the beginning, 1544 01:19:35,720 --> 01:19:41,920 there has been one kind of big dark cloud on top of your relationship 1545 01:19:41,960 --> 01:19:45,320 that carried through for a number of weeks 1546 01:19:45,360 --> 01:19:49,160 and it has to do with comments that apparently were made 1547 01:19:49,200 --> 01:19:54,360 about Danny being more attracted to Gia than he would be to you. 1548 01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:58,560 You didn't believe Gia when she said this had happened. 1549 01:19:58,600 --> 01:20:00,240 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1550 01:20:00,280 --> 01:20:02,480 You believed Danny... I did. 1551 01:20:02,520 --> 01:20:03,880 ..when he said he did not. 1552 01:20:03,920 --> 01:20:06,840 (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) 1553 01:20:06,880 --> 01:20:09,480 How do you feel about that now? 1554 01:20:09,520 --> 01:20:11,320 What do you believe now? 1555 01:20:11,360 --> 01:20:14,480 (TENSE MUSIC PLAYS) 1556 01:20:19,280 --> 01:20:21,960 Look, I'll be honest with you. 1557 01:20:24,120 --> 01:20:26,400 I had to believe my husband 1558 01:20:26,440 --> 01:20:30,160 because he was my husband 1559 01:20:30,200 --> 01:20:34,640 and if I didn't believe him, then this relationship was over. 1560 01:20:35,920 --> 01:20:37,240 And he was very convincing. 1561 01:20:37,280 --> 01:20:42,680 I believe Danny said to Gia "Bec is not my type 1562 01:20:42,720 --> 01:20:44,520 "and in the real world, it would be more like you." 1563 01:20:46,560 --> 01:20:50,280 I believe that happened. 100%. 1564 01:20:50,320 --> 01:20:55,520 Because Danny said to me that he would never speak to Steph 1565 01:20:55,560 --> 01:20:57,200 and he's messaging her and calling her. 1566 01:20:58,520 --> 01:21:00,360 But he said to me throughout the whole experiment, 1567 01:21:00,400 --> 01:21:03,120 after she added him on Instagram when she was still married here, 1568 01:21:03,160 --> 01:21:05,160 he goes, "I would never speak to her, ever. 1569 01:21:05,200 --> 01:21:08,120 "I have no interest in speaking to any women" and yet here he is. 1570 01:21:11,680 --> 01:21:13,080 Let me ask you this. 1571 01:21:14,720 --> 01:21:16,760 Watching back your journey, 1572 01:21:16,800 --> 01:21:21,160 you haven't always been at your best in this process. 1573 01:21:21,200 --> 01:21:23,360 What have you learned about yourself? 1574 01:21:25,280 --> 01:21:29,240 I've certainly learnt that I am reactive 1575 01:21:29,280 --> 01:21:31,720 and I need to stop, breathe and be calm 1576 01:21:31,760 --> 01:21:33,320 and, you know, 1577 01:21:33,360 --> 01:21:35,920 I didn't like some of the things I saw in myself, 1578 01:21:35,960 --> 01:21:40,840 so that also attributes to... being an arsehole to people 1579 01:21:40,880 --> 01:21:43,320 and that's not nice. 1580 01:21:43,360 --> 01:21:46,720 Like, I'm turning 36. Like, sort your shit out. 1581 01:21:48,360 --> 01:21:52,240 I regret the way I treated Alissa, I regret not believing Gia, 1582 01:21:52,280 --> 01:21:56,760 I regret being so harsh on Steph last night. 1583 01:21:58,360 --> 01:22:02,400 But I feel like I've shown up every single time, 1584 01:22:02,440 --> 01:22:05,080 even in the hardest times, you know. 1585 01:22:05,120 --> 01:22:06,880 Even tonight. 1586 01:22:06,920 --> 01:22:11,360 The good news here is that you are able to look at the situation 1587 01:22:11,400 --> 01:22:12,920 and, you know, start to maybe reflect on 1588 01:22:12,960 --> 01:22:17,800 what you did and maybe what you could do differently in relationships 1589 01:22:17,840 --> 01:22:19,960 going forward. Yeah. For sure. 1590 01:22:20,000 --> 01:22:22,160 Best of luck. Thanks, guys. 1591 01:22:22,200 --> 01:22:25,480 (APPLAUSE) 1592 01:22:33,600 --> 01:22:37,040 The biggest players from the reunion will be joining us on the couch 1593 01:22:37,080 --> 01:22:39,960 and it is going to be the most jam packed show of the year. 1594 01:22:40,000 --> 01:22:43,320 David and Alissa face off more bombshell unseen footage 1595 01:22:43,360 --> 01:22:45,080 and Bec and Steph settle the score. 1596 01:22:45,120 --> 01:22:48,720 Plus Stella and Filip have some very exciting news to share. 1597 01:22:48,760 --> 01:22:51,320 MAAFs After The Reunion, see you soon. 1598 01:22:55,960 --> 01:23:00,080 It's time to get our last couple up on the couch. 1599 01:23:02,480 --> 01:23:04,280 Stella and Filip. 1600 01:23:04,320 --> 01:23:06,560 (BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS) MEL: Please come up. 1601 01:23:06,600 --> 01:23:09,880 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 1602 01:23:12,360 --> 01:23:14,120 Hello. STELLA: Hello. 1603 01:23:14,160 --> 01:23:15,320 FILIP: How we going? Hello! 1604 01:23:15,360 --> 01:23:16,600 Hi. 1605 01:23:16,640 --> 01:23:19,000 Can I go like this, because I'm so happy! 1606 01:23:19,040 --> 01:23:21,520 Congratulations, you two. 1607 01:23:21,560 --> 01:23:22,880 Thank you. Thanks. 1608 01:23:22,920 --> 01:23:25,720 We've heard all about the engagement last night. 1609 01:23:25,760 --> 01:23:29,160 And Filip, when did you know you were ready to, you know, 1610 01:23:29,200 --> 01:23:30,800 get down on one knee? 1611 01:23:30,840 --> 01:23:33,960 So, this was brewing for a few weeks 1612 01:23:34,000 --> 01:23:38,440 and deliberations week, I spoke to my parents, 1613 01:23:38,480 --> 01:23:40,280 my parents who have been married for 40 years 1614 01:23:40,320 --> 01:23:43,280 and I've seen it, like, with my own eyes, how good it is, 1615 01:23:43,320 --> 01:23:44,760 you know, when it's good. 1616 01:23:44,800 --> 01:23:49,280 And I said that I'm absolutely in love 1617 01:23:49,320 --> 01:23:51,680 and I want to do it 1618 01:23:51,720 --> 01:23:53,720 but, like, "How did you know?" 1619 01:23:53,760 --> 01:23:56,320 And then my old man is, like, "You just know. 1620 01:23:56,360 --> 01:23:58,760 "Like, you already know the answer. You have to do it." 1621 01:24:00,360 --> 01:24:03,160 How would you two sum up your time in this experiment? 1622 01:24:04,960 --> 01:24:11,440 Um... It's really hard to sum up. Mmm. 1623 01:24:11,480 --> 01:24:15,720 Yeah, I personally had great experience. 1624 01:24:15,760 --> 01:24:17,640 Yes, we had our ups and downs. Yeah. 1625 01:24:17,680 --> 01:24:19,440 Fears came out. 1626 01:24:20,800 --> 01:24:24,920 But I'm glad that they did come out in front of you guys 1627 01:24:24,960 --> 01:24:28,240 and whilst we were held in the experiment 1628 01:24:28,280 --> 01:24:32,360 and I'm forever grateful for that, to be honest, 1629 01:24:32,400 --> 01:24:34,960 because if not this, if not you, if not the advice, 1630 01:24:35,000 --> 01:24:38,400 if not him being ready, if not me being ready... 1631 01:24:38,440 --> 01:24:40,760 Like, so many things had to align for this to happen, 1632 01:24:40,800 --> 01:24:44,200 so it's a one-of-a-kind experience. 1633 01:24:46,920 --> 01:24:52,240 Well, I think it's a good time to take a look at your love story. 1634 01:24:52,280 --> 01:24:54,000 Yes, please! (LAUGHS) 1635 01:24:54,040 --> 01:24:55,360 Alright. (LAUGHS) 1636 01:25:00,320 --> 01:25:02,000 FILIP: Seeing Stella for the first time... 1637 01:25:02,040 --> 01:25:05,120 STELLA: Oh, my goodness. Love is in the air. 1638 01:25:05,160 --> 01:25:07,440 ..this is my person, this is the one. 1639 01:25:07,480 --> 01:25:08,960 CELEBRANT: You may now kiss. 1640 01:25:09,000 --> 01:25:11,880 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 1641 01:25:11,920 --> 01:25:13,600 I'm feeling great about Filip. 1642 01:25:13,640 --> 01:25:16,080 (BOTH LAUGH) 1643 01:25:16,120 --> 01:25:18,640 Despite the fact that I married a stranger five days ago... 1644 01:25:18,680 --> 01:25:20,160 You kiss well. Mmm. 1645 01:25:20,200 --> 01:25:21,600 (LAUGHS) 1646 01:25:21,640 --> 01:25:24,960 ..it feels like we are in a full-blown relationship. 1647 01:25:25,000 --> 01:25:28,480 Exclusive as you can get, obviously. (LAUGHS) 1648 01:25:28,520 --> 01:25:31,440 (LAUGHS) You look amazing. 1649 01:25:31,480 --> 01:25:33,520 Thank you. 1650 01:25:33,560 --> 01:25:36,760 How about we do those push-ups? (LAUGHTER) 1651 01:25:36,800 --> 01:25:39,280 Yeah, I can see myself falling in love with him, for sure. 1652 01:25:40,480 --> 01:25:41,680 Thanks for sharing. Thanks for being you. 1653 01:25:41,720 --> 01:25:43,280 Thanks for being you. You're amazing. 1654 01:25:43,320 --> 01:25:46,800 She just makes me feel like, yeah, like I'm at home. 1655 01:25:46,840 --> 01:25:49,240 Like, she's totally different to anyone that I've ever met. 1656 01:25:49,280 --> 01:25:51,040 Talk less, kiss more. 1657 01:25:51,080 --> 01:25:52,560 (LAUGHS) 1658 01:25:52,600 --> 01:25:54,800 Is this the naughty room? It's the naughty room. 1659 01:25:54,840 --> 01:25:56,680 (BOTH LAUGH) 1660 01:25:56,720 --> 01:25:58,480 Hold it. 1661 01:25:58,520 --> 01:26:00,360 Obviously not a question, right? (LAUGHS) 1662 01:26:00,400 --> 01:26:01,480 I'm not going anywhere. 1663 01:26:01,520 --> 01:26:03,400 I wrote 'stay'. Stay. 1664 01:26:03,440 --> 01:26:05,040 Stay! I'm staying. 1665 01:26:05,080 --> 01:26:09,760 I asked the experts to be the love story. 1666 01:26:09,800 --> 01:26:11,960 I am in love with you. 1667 01:26:12,000 --> 01:26:14,280 And I got it. 1668 01:26:14,320 --> 01:26:16,000 GIA: Aw! 1669 01:26:16,040 --> 01:26:18,920 You 100% know that I am in love with you. 1670 01:26:21,000 --> 01:26:22,400 (BLOWS KISS) Love you. 1671 01:26:22,440 --> 01:26:23,440 Love you. 1672 01:26:23,480 --> 01:26:28,680 It's crazy. Like, I actually do not want to spend a day without him. 1673 01:26:28,720 --> 01:26:30,640 He truly became a part of me. 1674 01:26:30,680 --> 01:26:32,320 (LAUGHS) 1675 01:26:32,360 --> 01:26:33,800 We fell in love, we built a beautiful relationship. 1676 01:26:33,840 --> 01:26:35,320 I have something for you. 1677 01:26:35,360 --> 01:26:37,600 Oh, this is the house keys? 1678 01:26:37,640 --> 01:26:40,280 I actually feel deeper than I ever felt. 1679 01:26:45,120 --> 01:26:48,480 I really hope this is our happily ever after. 1680 01:26:48,520 --> 01:26:50,080 (RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS) 1681 01:26:50,120 --> 01:26:53,280 I thought that I was never gonna experience a love like this. 1682 01:26:54,400 --> 01:26:56,880 I am 100% in love with Stella 1683 01:26:56,920 --> 01:26:59,720 and I want to be with her for the rest of my life. 1684 01:27:01,240 --> 01:27:03,040 Stella, I love you more than I ever thought possible 1685 01:27:03,080 --> 01:27:05,560 and have never felt more certain of anything. 1686 01:27:07,000 --> 01:27:09,400 Though we were married in this experiment, 1687 01:27:09,440 --> 01:27:11,760 there is something I want to do. 1688 01:27:13,640 --> 01:27:15,160 Are you... 1689 01:27:16,840 --> 01:27:17,960 Will you marry me? 1690 01:27:18,000 --> 01:27:19,520 Yes! 1691 01:27:19,560 --> 01:27:22,640 (RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS) (APPLAUSE) 1692 01:27:23,720 --> 01:27:25,920 (LAUGHS) 1693 01:27:25,960 --> 01:27:27,920 (SCREAMS) 1694 01:27:27,960 --> 01:27:30,320 (LAUGHTER) 1695 01:27:31,920 --> 01:27:33,760 (LAUGHS) 1696 01:27:34,920 --> 01:27:36,120 Thank you and... No, no... 1697 01:27:36,160 --> 01:27:38,320 ..I can't wait for what the future holds for us. 1698 01:27:38,360 --> 01:27:39,920 Thanks for being you. Thanks for being you. 1699 01:27:39,960 --> 01:27:41,720 I love you. You're the best. 1700 01:27:41,760 --> 01:27:43,760 You're the best. 1701 01:27:43,800 --> 01:27:45,120 (LAUGHS) 1702 01:27:45,160 --> 01:27:46,560 MEL: Aw! 1703 01:27:46,600 --> 01:27:48,200 (APPLAUSE) (LAUGHS) 1704 01:27:52,680 --> 01:27:55,280 (CRIES) 1705 01:27:55,320 --> 01:27:57,560 (BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS) Wow. 1706 01:27:57,600 --> 01:27:59,280 Oh, so beautiful. 1707 01:28:02,600 --> 01:28:03,600 (LAUGHS) 1708 01:28:03,640 --> 01:28:05,520 Oh, dear. That was unreal. 1709 01:28:05,560 --> 01:28:07,160 That was so good to watch. That was incredible to watch. 1710 01:28:07,200 --> 01:28:08,960 It felt so good watching that. Yeah. 1711 01:28:09,000 --> 01:28:10,320 All of it. Yeah. 1712 01:28:10,360 --> 01:28:11,360 Yeah. 1713 01:28:11,400 --> 01:28:13,160 What a love story. 1714 01:28:13,200 --> 01:28:14,360 Oh, god. 1715 01:28:14,400 --> 01:28:17,440 (CRIES) You got your love story, Stella. 1716 01:28:20,040 --> 01:28:21,720 You got your love story, Filip. 1717 01:28:21,760 --> 01:28:23,560 Absolutely. Absolutely. 1718 01:28:23,600 --> 01:28:27,320 When you look at Stella, what do you see? 1719 01:28:27,360 --> 01:28:30,000 My future. 1720 01:28:30,040 --> 01:28:31,840 And you, Stella? 1721 01:28:32,800 --> 01:28:35,480 Um... (CLEARS THROAT) Home. 1722 01:28:36,720 --> 01:28:40,440 (GENTLE MUSIC PLAYS) 1723 01:28:43,960 --> 01:28:45,280 Yeah. 1724 01:28:49,400 --> 01:28:51,680 (GENTLE MUSIC PLAYS) 1725 01:28:53,720 --> 01:28:55,000 Um... 1726 01:28:55,040 --> 01:28:59,000 Is it the combination of not only the dream 1727 01:28:59,040 --> 01:29:00,800 but also your life journey of coming here 1728 01:29:00,840 --> 01:29:03,200 and actually building a home with someone? 1729 01:29:03,240 --> 01:29:05,160 Mmm. 1730 01:29:05,200 --> 01:29:06,760 Oh, yeah. 1731 01:29:06,800 --> 01:29:07,920 Yeah. 1732 01:29:07,960 --> 01:29:09,840 It feels that way, the way you said home. 1733 01:29:09,880 --> 01:29:11,040 Yeah. Yeah. 1734 01:29:11,080 --> 01:29:14,240 Do you feel more settled here now with Filip than you ever have? 1735 01:29:14,280 --> 01:29:17,200 I can go anywhere. I can live with him in a tent. 1736 01:29:17,240 --> 01:29:18,960 I'll be happy with him. Love it. 1737 01:29:19,000 --> 01:29:20,800 Yeah. Same. 1738 01:29:20,840 --> 01:29:23,440 Yeah. That makes me really happy for you. 1739 01:29:23,480 --> 01:29:24,360 (LAUGHS) Yeah. 1740 01:29:24,400 --> 01:29:25,360 Thank you. It's good. 1741 01:29:27,600 --> 01:29:29,880 And you have moved to Sydney, have you not? 1742 01:29:29,920 --> 01:29:32,040 Yeah. Yeah. You're living together? 1743 01:29:32,080 --> 01:29:34,440 Yeah. So, when is the wedding? 1744 01:29:34,480 --> 01:29:35,880 (LAUGHTER) 1745 01:29:35,920 --> 01:29:38,600 I said straight away July 24, you know, next year, but... 1746 01:29:38,640 --> 01:29:40,560 It's like a year. ..that's probably too soon. 1747 01:29:40,600 --> 01:29:41,600 (LAUGHS) 1748 01:29:41,640 --> 01:29:45,560 It's been such a pleasure to witness this 1749 01:29:45,600 --> 01:29:47,160 and to be a part of it 1750 01:29:47,200 --> 01:29:51,000 and to help you along the way for all three of us. 1751 01:29:51,040 --> 01:29:53,640 We've commented on it so often 1752 01:29:53,680 --> 01:29:56,320 throughout the experience of this experiment 1753 01:29:56,360 --> 01:29:58,040 on the two of you, in particular. 1754 01:29:58,080 --> 01:30:00,040 Thank you so much, the both of you, 1755 01:30:00,080 --> 01:30:02,720 for throwing yourselves in headfirst to this whole experience. 1756 01:30:02,760 --> 01:30:05,920 You're an incredible team. 1757 01:30:05,960 --> 01:30:08,200 And you really worked together and had each other's back. 1758 01:30:08,240 --> 01:30:12,040 And we wish you both all the very best. 1759 01:30:12,080 --> 01:30:13,280 Thank you. Thank you very much. 1760 01:30:13,320 --> 01:30:14,800 We appreciate. Thanks for everything. Seriously. 1761 01:30:14,840 --> 01:30:16,200 Well done. 1762 01:30:16,240 --> 01:30:18,440 (APPLAUSE) 1763 01:30:23,280 --> 01:30:24,360 Oh... 1764 01:30:24,400 --> 01:30:26,640 Thanks, guys. Thank you. 1765 01:30:26,680 --> 01:30:27,840 Thanks, everyone. 1766 01:30:27,880 --> 01:30:28,960 Oh! 1767 01:30:29,000 --> 01:30:33,000 JOHN: Well, that brings the reunion and the experiment to its conclusion. 1768 01:30:35,360 --> 01:30:39,400 We want to tell you just how proud we are that you've made it this far. 1769 01:30:39,440 --> 01:30:42,320 It took a lot of bravery, it took a lot of courage 1770 01:30:42,360 --> 01:30:46,240 to essentially throw yourselves into this process, 1771 01:30:46,280 --> 01:30:50,240 to marry a stranger and then to really explore 1772 01:30:50,280 --> 01:30:54,440 and go on a journey to see whether you can get the fairytale. 1773 01:30:55,760 --> 01:30:57,920 Now, for some of you, it didn't work out 1774 01:30:57,960 --> 01:31:03,040 but we know that you will have learned some lessons along the way 1775 01:31:03,080 --> 01:31:06,960 that you can take into your future relationships. 1776 01:31:08,440 --> 01:31:12,600 And for Stella and Filip, congratulations again 1777 01:31:12,640 --> 01:31:14,080 on your engagement 1778 01:31:14,120 --> 01:31:19,960 and we wish you and everyone else all the very best for the future. 1779 01:31:20,000 --> 01:31:22,400 MAN: Good luck, everyone. (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 1780 01:31:22,440 --> 01:31:24,040 WOMAN: Thanks, everyone. MAN: That's a wrap. 1781 01:31:24,080 --> 01:31:26,640 (RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS) 1782 01:31:30,000 --> 01:31:33,200 (LOW-LEVEL CONVERSATION) 1783 01:31:36,720 --> 01:31:38,360 Come on. Come here, girl. 1784 01:31:38,400 --> 01:31:40,520 JULIA: Oh, I finally get to hug you, Mel. 1785 01:31:40,560 --> 01:31:42,320 Thank you so much. 1786 01:31:48,680 --> 01:31:51,680 (EVOCATIVE MUSIC PLAYS) 1787 01:32:01,240 --> 01:32:03,640 MEL: Hello. Welcome. 1788 01:32:03,680 --> 01:32:08,440 Can I just jump in and share something here that may help? 1789 01:32:08,480 --> 01:32:12,520 Yes, this experiment is about finding love 1790 01:32:12,560 --> 01:32:17,640 but there's also another very important stream 1791 01:32:17,680 --> 01:32:20,720 that runs through this experiment. 1792 01:32:20,760 --> 01:32:25,320 It is about personal development. It is about finding your worth. 1793 01:32:25,360 --> 01:32:28,240 It is about learning to find your voice 1794 01:32:28,280 --> 01:32:32,680 and to start really believing that you deserve love. 1795 01:32:34,120 --> 01:32:35,920 I feel a bit like I'm looking in the mirror... 1796 01:32:35,960 --> 01:32:37,240 WOMAN: (LAUGHS) Yeah. 1797 01:32:37,280 --> 01:32:39,120 ..because I was exactly the same... Really? 1798 01:32:39,160 --> 01:32:41,840 ..and I spent my entire 30s focused on career. 1799 01:32:41,880 --> 01:32:42,800 Yes. 1800 01:32:42,840 --> 01:32:44,560 And you know what, I met my partner at 39... 1801 01:32:44,600 --> 01:32:47,320 Yeah, that's amazing. ..and I had my baby at 42. 1802 01:32:47,360 --> 01:32:50,000 JOHN: Your husband, when you ask him 1803 01:32:50,040 --> 01:32:51,880 what sort of feelings he has for you, 1804 01:32:51,920 --> 01:32:53,760 what might he say? 1805 01:32:53,800 --> 01:33:00,520 He might say "I feel deeply connected to you," 1806 01:33:00,560 --> 01:33:04,120 he says I'm his soulmate, 1807 01:33:04,160 --> 01:33:09,520 he says he can stop looking 'cause he's found me. 1808 01:33:12,640 --> 01:33:14,920 Oh, it's beautiful! Look at that! 1809 01:33:14,960 --> 01:33:17,880 She's got a ring on her... She's got a ring on her finger! 1810 01:33:17,920 --> 01:33:21,080 (LAUGHS) Oh, my god! 1811 01:33:21,120 --> 01:33:23,080 Oh, I want to take a photo. I love that. 1812 01:33:23,120 --> 01:33:24,400 That's gorgeous. 1813 01:33:24,440 --> 01:33:25,960 (APPLAUSE) 1814 01:33:26,000 --> 01:33:29,280 MEL: Well, thank you so much for your time in this experiment, 1815 01:33:29,320 --> 01:33:32,720 for your courage, your authenticity. 1816 01:33:32,760 --> 01:33:34,720 We salute you 1817 01:33:34,760 --> 01:33:37,840 and wish you all the best and all the happiness in the world. 1818 01:34:01,080 --> 01:34:04,080 Captioned by AI-Media ai-media.tv 137920

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