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Are you shaking or am I shaking?

We're both shaking. I think we're all
shaking, brother.

I'm Pavel, and be a man with me.

I'm Pavel, be a man with me.

A little more emphasis. Come on, more
oomph. Your emphasis, dude.

Can we f***ing do this?

Alright, go ahead and take me a deep
breath in.

It wasn't that long ago when police
officers were being called heroes.

Police officers were actually an example
of what real men should be.

Now everybody hates police.

They're assholes. They abuse their
power.

We need to defund them.

So who's right? Who's wrong? I'm tired
of listening to those smart heads on the

internet. I'm going to speak with the
authorities on the subject.

The authorities.

This is Sergeant J .R. and Officer
Narali.

J .R. is in charge of training for
Hendersonville Police Department.

Officer Norali is on the streets on
patrol every day. I asked them if I

right along and real police training
with real police cadets.

I want to see what kind of things they
deal with and what kind of men it takes

to be a police officer.

Good morning.

Good morning.

We're here with Officer Patrick.

We're going to do some traffic stops.

We're going to look for drugs. We're
going to fight the crime.

You guys ready? No, we're good.

I hate being pain in the ass, but I
would use one more time. You want to go?

I got to go to the restroom before we
hit the road.

So I'm going to be asking you a question
about all the gear and stuff because

it's very interesting. It's curious.

I see that you have something here.

Yeah. What is this that you have here?

It's a computer. Very complicated.

Just so you guys know, if crap hits the
van, right, I'll roll down the windows.

And, of course, I'm going to jump out
and do my thing the way you guys get

yourself out.

Old school, reach out of the handle,
open it, because those doors don't open

from the inside.

Are those bulletproof windows in the
back?

No. No. No, I wish.

So I am on the ride along. I was worried
the entire time that someone will get

pulled over because of me.

So I wanted to ask the hard question and
address the elephant in the room.

A lot of people say that a lot of cops
are bad.

Yeah. When you hear in media, oh,
defound police, defound police. Why is

coming from? Why does that happen?

Because you do have so much social media
and everyone just wants to try to

attempt to make a quick buck, right?

Media only wants to show you the bad.

There's a lot more good than there is
bad. But majority of the time and inside

of those videos that people see.

If you actually watch an unedited
version of it, it shows a lot more of

leading up to it. They only want to show
you the snippet so they can change the

narrative.

The reason why you get put over
speeding, two reasons of an accident.

It's either speed, not paying attention,
whether that be on your phone,

speeding, you're doing something, right?
We all do it.

Especially teenagers, like, kick off the
Instagram and drive safely for a

second. Yeah, like, I'll pull you over
and I'll talk with you, but I typically

don't do a citation.

I'm not trying to bang you up. I just
want you to stop bleeding.

That's it.

See, that's so generous and nice.

All right, so let's call it a LIDAR. So
it's different from radar, right? If you

look through there, you'll be able to
see that red dot.

You see it? Oh, yeah, I see it. And then
if you start holding it, you'll also

see the speed in it.

Ah, that's awesome. You're more than
welcome to step out and do your thing.

43. 50.

Holy shit. 63.

This one? Yep. This one right here? Yep,
that's a 63.

Alright, we're going for it.

Damn! First one!

Let's go!

Let me see it.

Yeah, let's go!

Woo!

How cool is that?

How cool is that?

They're smiling. Look at those guys.
They're smiling.

They're cool, man.

And done. No problem. Everything is
okay. Look at that.

It just, huh?

Absolutely nothing.

Absolutely nothing. It happens. It
happens. But I was smiling because I saw

guys smiling to the guy and apologizing.
You're cool guys.

So what I realized, the cops look like
big heads only because they have to be

charge.

A real man has to use his authority,
even a regular guy at home with his

You gotta do what you gotta do, even if
it doesn't make you Mr. Popular.

I started in 2012, which is right around
the height of the Ferguson issue, so

it's steadily gotten worse from there
from a media standpoint.

People think they have an idea of what
this is or what we do, and they don't

really know until they come out here and
do it.

Clips.

I'm not laughing because I'm one of the
same shit, for sure.

Today we're doing EVOC. We're going to
get you on the driving course, run

through a couple different tracks.

We work on things like handling
collision avoidance.

Having authority also means having
responsibility.

A man needs to know how to use it. Who
is being trusted?

Is there a time limitation?

There's usually some PT involved for
slowest time or who hits too many cones.

And each cone is like a five -second
added penalty.

But don't come in last because you might
have some PT to do. No, no. It's a good

motivator. It's a good motivator.

I'm about to do a precision driving. I'm
looking forward not to fuck it up. I

have a feeling I will fuck it up. Well,
give it to me without cutting.

It's hard to do, huh? It's hard to do.

There

you

go.

There you go.

40 hours a week behind the wheel of a
car.

It's high frequency and high risk. Those
are the categories you want to spend a

lot of time training.

So I am a big fan of walking pursuits.
And I've noticed that you guys do a lot

of pit maneuvers.

I believe in a pit maneuver.

A pursuit is beyond dangerous to the
community because that person is driving

100 plus miles per hour.

But if you can pit it, then you need to
stop the pursuit, and then now we don't

have to worry about ripping eight miles
across this city, right?

Yeah. That is some cool, you can't,
like, it's dangerous, but it's like,

some badass stuff.

35 seconds. Yeah.

Maybe you found your calling in life.

Maybe. I got to tell you, Bishop is not
about speed. No, he's not.

Bishop, sir. Why police officer?

I'm wondering.

That's what my dad did.

Bro, that was my hero. That's what I
wanted to do, help people.

That's a right on money.

Mr. Adam, you?

Want to do something fun?

Tell us a little bit about yourself.

What motivated you to be a police
officer?

Something I've wanted to do since I was
little. I've got drawings from grade

school where I'd, you know, what do you
want to be when you grow up? And I drew

little police cars.

If you want to go help people, you want
to go save some people?

and you also want to get shitheads off
the street that could potentially

endanger your own family or friends,
what better place to do it than jump

into law enforcement?

You love it? I love it. And I could not
see myself doing anything else.

Helping, coming in every day, enjoying
what you do.

We're getting paid to drive fast today.

All right? That's a good one. No, it's a
good job.

Listen, I'm not a precision driver. I
did it.

You did it. I'm not doing PT. Thank you.
No, we're about to PT.

You are? You are.

I am?

I am?

So I didn't lose at driving, but PT is
ahead of me.

There's no sense of trying to catch a
bad guy if you're weaker than a bad guy.

These cadets are doing this every single
day. Hey guys, my name is Paweł. I

guess it cannot be that hard.

All right, here's what we're going to do
this morning. You're going to start out

from here. You're going to run in front
of the police department, run down to

executive. and then run up this access
road. Whoever gets back first basically

gets to pick their exercises.

So there'll be six exercises.

One exercise is the dummy drag. We're
going to drag it backwards to that cone.

The other exercise is lunges, farmer's
carries, bear crawls, frog jumps.

Jump out, burpee. When you come out of
your burpee, frog jump again.

Last exercise is going to be overhead
tire carry. So arms are going to be

straight up above your head.

You're walking the outer perimeter.

of the grass all right and then that'll
complete it questions all right if

y 'all are ready this is a lot of
running and cardio is definitely not my

but i have a plan get ahead of everyone
get the easiest exercise obviously

dragging the dummy then i can take my
time with the other ones i don't feel

terrible about this but i'm not sure so
we'll see what's gonna happen All right,

we'll begin in three, two, one, go.

All right,

Gels, come on, pick your poison.

Don't let him show you all up now.

You're going to drag it to that cone,
and then once you get it past that cone,

you'll drop it.

Holy! I thought that would be the
easiest one.

Gotta let's stay moving.

Effort.

Holy!

That is a hard one.

How many pounds is this?

I think that one's like 180, 200.

I thought it was gonna be like 60.

Where do I go?

So you start your next run.

Yeah, you'll take off on that same run
that you did. When you come back, then

you'll pick a new exercise.

One round out of six complete in total.
You don't have to do the dummy again.

No, I'm not doing it.

So run in between.

We changed the concept.

We want to watch from first power
distance.

I was confident when I started the PT.

But by the end...

I learned that these guys work way
harder than I thought. Okay, lean back

it. Keep the legs moving.

It's important as an officer and as a
man to keep your tools and your body

for action.

How can I protect people if I can't run
for more than 34 seconds?

Now I'm going to learn how to use the
phaser.

Top them out, stuff them back in there
and throw them away.

The responsibility you have to accept if
you're a real man. You need to defend

yourself and others.

So you have to know how to do that.

So they told me that I have to get paid.

With this thing.

Look at this thing.

That's why it hurts like a bitch.

It's like a fishing hook, dude.

This is disgusting.

It's going to go through my body.

It's going to be great.

I'm really looking forward not dying.

Because if I die, what am I going to do?

So this is... So you'll flip it up to
arm the taser? Yep. All right. So you're

going to press up as a target.

Laser taser!

Fuck!

I know JR mentioned that you went to the
shooting scene in Colorado.

I don't know if you're willing to talk
about it. Yeah, we can talk about it.

It's Club Q, a lone gunman, had an AR,
and then, of course, had a pistol.

A military vet jumped after the guy.

The guy was actively shooting, shot the
veteran three times in the chest. The

veteran lived.

He lived, but he was able to wrestle
away the AR, and at that point... After

was shot?

Yeah. He got shot three times, and then
he still won a fight?

Yep. Kept fighting, and then that's
whenever the other patron with the shoe

jumped up and popped him in the head,
knocked him out.

We go in, he's on the ground, you know,
we stand over him, we cuff him, and then

at that point just started performing
medical aid. It was just carnage. As

as you walk in, you can smell the, like,
gunpowder, you know, from all the

firearms going off.

Just over 20 individuals shot.

Every person who was shot had a minimum
of three gunshot wounds. Jesus Christ.

There were six deceased already as soon
as we got there. They were already,

unfortunately, they passed away.

But out of all the others who were shot,
we didn't lose one person.

I'm happy that I was able to be there,
but I wouldn't wish that upon my worst

enemy. Never, yeah.

But that's part of the job.

Yeah.

Yeah. It's really unbelievable for me,
you know, that you go through this thing

and then you go home, and then next day
you do it all over again, no matter what

happened the day prior.

statistically they say you know an
average person in their entire lifetime

experiences three to four like major
traumas whereas within law enforcement

i mean realistically probably one a week
right but that's another thing that men

are being told that they're pieces of
shit all the time and all men are bad

know which is not true i bang look at
you saving lives keeping everything in

line no and then coming home and dealing
with it you know i have a bad day at

work and i think that i am you know and
i think that i have a bad day and you

know what i'm going through is terrible
but then i get this contrast well i

didn't save multiple people with
tourniquets and see blood and all that

smell gunpowder so you know i just have
a work yeah but i don't think that we

should compare each other and say oh
well just because i do this it's nowhere

near what you're going through because
at the end of the day you're just as

stressed out as i am right you have a
bad day i have a bad day it doesn't

what led up to it we both have that
feeling right yeah but you know what

not saving lives so at the end of the
day yeah like we're bitching for no

really you know no i appreciate that

now comes the fun part

The cadets are being trained on how and
when to use their taser in different

scenarios.

Police are trusted with using force
against criminals.

And taser is one of the ways that they
can do that without causing too much

harm. We're looking really at decision
making. We're looking at how you handle

the situation, communication and all
that. It's basically a free pass to talk

shit to people. So that's why we enjoy
it.

JR secretly tells me the kind of bad guy
I'm supposed to be and how I'm supposed

to act.

And then the cadets have to figure out
how much force they have to use to get

to stop.

How they choose to react determines
whether they pass or fail.

Mucho gudo. Let's go. I'm going to be a
villain. And I'm going to be agitated.

And then psycho with a thick accent.

Do I look like an idiot?

Yeah, a bit.

Oh, good. Thank you.

You get dispatched to a park, you've got
multiple calls for a subject pacing,

agitated, and talking to himself at the
park.

The subject has a knife in his
waistband, which is visible, but remains

waistband during the encounter.

Hey, sir, how are we doing today?

Who the fuck are you?

I'm Officer Joles of the Harrisonville
Police. I don't give a fuck. Speak to

hand. Yeah, okay, well, why don't you
come talk to me first? I'm going to do

whatever the fuck I want. You get any
closer, you're going to get paced.

You going to tell me why you're pacing?

Because I like it.

Okay. Anything going on in particular?

A lot. Not your fucking business.

I need you to stand back from me. Why? I
want a hug. I want a hug. Come on,

let's hug.

I want a hug, man. I want a hug.

No, come on, let's hug. Hey, no, no, no,
no, no. What do you got in your

waistband there?

I have something fun.

Stay back. How about we hug? Let's hug
it out.

Fuck!

Let's hug.

Stay back.

Taser, taser, taser.

Calm down.

Calm down, sir.

Is there too much costing?

No, right?

How's it going, sir? The fuck are you
doing on my property?

Get the fuck out of my property.

Leave now. Get the fuck out of here. Go
fuck yourself. You're on my property.

I don't give a fuck what you need. Out
of my property.

Get the fuck out of here.

Zoom, zoom.

Zoom, zoom. I don't care. Get the fuck.

Don't tell me what to do. Go fuck
yourself. Get the fuck out of here. It's

property. I pay taxes. Goodbye.

I'm getting my shotgun, pig.

I'm back off. Is that what you just
said?

I'm getting my gun.

Nope.

Fuck yourself.

It's hot as shit. I told you.

All right. So what do you say when you
turn around and walk back in? I'm going

to get my shotgun.

Yeah. We cannot let him get back to that
front door, right?

If he makes it into that front door, now
what do we got?

Barricaded person. We got a barricaded
person. That's bad news, right? So you

got a guy that's aggressive. You got
probable cause of making an arrest

Oh, yeah.

I'm still surprised on how little time
officers have to decide

if they're gonna shoot or not.

Watching them work through the scenarios
made me respect the pressure police are

under to do the right thing.

It's not about screaming orders at
people or shooting at them.

It's about de -escalating the situation
so it's not even more dangerous.

Where are the windshield wipers in this
bitch?

Mama, I made it to Mars.

Was it good? Yeah.

You're natural.

The whole day was building up to it.

You want like a little overview of this
bad boy?

No, just do what you guys do. Just do
it.

Now it's time to get safe.

Part of understanding the authority
is...

Knowing the consequence.

Plus, everybody else is doing it, and
I'm not gonna be a bitch.

It is pretty gnarly.

Alright, give me a deep breath in, and
out.

Deep breath in.

It hurts watching more than actually
being hammered.

Got the second bar. I'm good.

All right, you ready?

Give me a deep breath in.

And out.

Deep breath in.

Woo!

Please don't do that again.

All right, give me a deep breath in.
This is going to be the toughest I get

you guys. And out.

Deep breath in.

No, no, no.

I did not like that at all.

She wants to top it. I knew it.

Deep breath in.

I've never seen my hands behind the back
like that. It's pretty awesome. I can't

move my legs.

Oh, God.

Damn, after this fiasco with the
training before?

No, the PT?

Couldn't be a bitch on this one.

So these are for you.

I need two spotters with the iPro.

Are you ready?

What's the spread like?

All right.

Go ahead and take me a deep breath in.

And out.

Deep breath in, and out.

Deep breath in.

All right,

lay down there.

Good? All right, I'll come over here and
look as far as the removal.

Damn!

Wrap it around, put it back.

So what did I learn today?

I learned that being a man means serving
and protecting the community.

It means being trusted with authority
and being responsible how to use it

properly. It means knowing how to use
force in the order to keep the situation

from going bad to worse.

And most importantly, it's doing what is
right, what is good, even when

everybody hates you.

You see why it's one of my favorite
days?

Taser day.

I mean, you were smiling as you were
shooting at me. It's because it came

place of pure enjoyment.