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(dog barking)
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- How long
you think this been empty?
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- How do you know?
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- Yeah.
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- Yummy, these
cookies sure taste good.
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(Ron laughing)
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(dramatic music)
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- What's in there?
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- Big loads?
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(upbeat banjo music)
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- Good balance.
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(Ron laughing)
(water splashing)
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- It's a man's.
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(motor humming)
(upbeat music)
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(upbeat music)
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- That's the first
time I saw it.
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- Well I wouldn't
think so but that's
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the first time it
showed up like that.
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- So yeah every room
it needs washing.
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- We used to have a picture.
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- Oh not that high.
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- I didn't either 'til now.
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- It wasn't there yesterday.
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(Ron chuckling)
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- This doesn't have
anything to do with it.
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Oh.
- Yeah.
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- Oh.
- Yeah.
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- Yeah, and
he's working on a car.
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Yeah the white car.
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My name is Mary L. Heist.
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- How
old are you now?
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- 39,
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90, I have to think how
old I am. (chuckles)
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90 is right.
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Ronald is my oldest son.
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- Go on chill out,
you can't get that dirty.
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- I couldn't either.
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- It's too high.
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- Ron was born in 1950, May 7th.
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And he was just a normal baby.
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He used to be talking, you know
mama, dada, different words.
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And all at once he stopped.
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(dramatic music)
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He just seemed unemotional,
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he just didn't connect
with a lot of people.
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We felt bad, sad, you
know 'cause he just
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didn't seem to take to
anybody, even his own parents.
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He just ignored us.
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But we knew right from the
start he liked to build things.
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When he was three,
anything to do
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with building, he would do.
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Even if it was just blocks
and things like that.
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Even cardboard boxes.
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That's the only thing
that made him happy,
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anything to do with building.
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But when we got out here,
it must have been 1965,
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he found his way.
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- How
far underground are we?
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- How long
did it take you to dig?
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- Why?
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- Any
nails in these boards?
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- You
got coal out of here?
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That, what I do, huh?
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- Whoa.
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So from age 15 to 16 you
built this whole house?
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- Yeah.
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- By yourself.
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- Yeah.
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Nobody helped you?
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- No.
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- How'd
you know how to build it?
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- Did your
dad buy blocks for you?
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- Yeah.
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- And you
didn't put a level on that?
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- No.
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- Never.
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- No never.
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How'd you level it?
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- (laughs) Yeah.
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- That's
crazy, I can't believe
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you never put a
level on this wall.
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- And how
long this been here?
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How do you do that?
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How do you make
them last that long?
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(upbeat music)
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- My wife doesn't
particularly like
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to go back to Ron's place.
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Too claustrophobic.
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This topic is not
something that she really
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likes to talk about
because she feels that
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I got to handle
most of the burden
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from the standpoint of
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not other people are stepping
up and doing their part.
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But, I'm the closest
son to Butler,
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it's somewhat easier for me
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to address these
things than others.
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My name is Tim Heist, I'm
Ron's younger brother.
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Ron is 12 years older than me.
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You know how to
open these right?
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- Scissors.
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- No, just tear
open the top corner,
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dump it on in.
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We shared a bedroom that
actually was divided
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and Ron had one
half, my twin brother
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and I had the other half.
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Ron used to do things and
he'd blame it on Jim and I.
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We'd tell our mother that
you know, we didn't do this
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but why does Dad
believe him versus us.
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And you know her thing was,
Ron's, he's just different.
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(solemn music)
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He was very protective of Ron,
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he was very supportive of Ron,
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and that was his top priority.
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It was always Ron
can't do any harm.
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Dad was always there
to help him out.
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He sold cars for a living, he
always worked a lot of hours.
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It was sometimes very
difficult for the rest of us
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because it took a lot more
to get our dad's attention
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or let alone trying
to get his time.
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Especially when we
got to be teenagers,
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we went on our own and
we didn't necessarily
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try to compete for that time.
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When we were young we
used to think about
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the relationship that we'd
have with our father as adults.
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It never worked out that way.
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(birds chirping)
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Heavenly Father we give
you thanks for this day.
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We give you thanks
for your blessing upon
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each of us Lord ask this
in Christ, oh Lord amen.
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- Amen.
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- Amen.
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- May God be with you guys.
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(dishes clanking)
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Take a little bit
of everything okay.
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There's applesauce homemade.
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- Tim did you know that the kids
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went with Ron on a boat ride?
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- What type of boat?
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- Oh my goodness.
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- What white box.
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- Jeez.
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- It's a carrier for
the top of the vehicle,
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those carriers
that snap together.
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You put 'em on top
of the vehicle.
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He takes them apart and you
get two boats out of it.
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- Two what out of it?
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- Two boats.
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- That surprises me.
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I've been in boats before,
Vera's, were I just sunk.
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No one really talks
about Ron's situation
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or went to the extent of my
parents sitting down with us
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and saying, this is how it is.
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Everything was more hush-hush.
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My dad did what he
thought was right.
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Why else would my parents
let Ron do what they did?
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Because they knew
what made him happy.
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It's your first child
and then they realized
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well something's not right here.
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- They called him mentally
challenged, mentally challenged.
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He just wasn't talking.
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Then he didn't tell
people how smart he was.
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- They just put that
diagnosis on him,
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my mom and dad weren't able to
question anything about that.
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And to me that
didn't make sense.
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He's so capable of
doing so many things.
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Ron's creativity is
amazing, amazing.
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(upbeat cheery music)
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- No.
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- The fact that he can
go to someone's house,
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be in there just
for a little bit.
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Leave, go home, and
draw a floor plan
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with windows and the
way the doors swing,
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is just something else.
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I saw a movie, Rain Man.
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I'm like wow, that's
Ron, that's my brother.
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He's so precise, that
was always something
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that I picked up on growing
up with him was the numbers.
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- What time to
you tell people to call you?
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- Why that time?
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- Exact number of this,
exact time it comes up.
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And if you stray from it,
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and nobody never said
anything about Autism,
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but after watching the
movie, that's truly Ron.
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Explain this to me.
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- I don't
know too many people
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that write down everything
they've done every day
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for the last 40 years,
that's pretty good.
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That's pretty good bookkeeping.
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- You think it is?
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- Yeah.
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- The older
my parents got to be
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they just, you know they
didn't have the control
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over him and it's to
that point to where
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he was accustomed to doing
what he was going to do.
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- And what's Ron doing?
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- What are you
going to do with it?
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- Which porch?
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- That stuff?
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- Yeah.
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- Ron can be nice
in his own way,
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but yet his number one
priority is himself.
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He would manipulate,
lie, tell stories,
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and everything else
to get his way.
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- You're going some place,
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tell me where it is.
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- Try to keep
track of where he was,
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forget that.
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- Every morning it's
the same routine.
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Expect him up here about
9:30, take one hour to eat,
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then he takes off and I don't
see him 'til supper time.
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He's always doing something.
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- Where was that big
ole bridge you had me on?
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It was all burned up.
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- Right.
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- I said I can't walk
on that bridge no more.
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- My uncle is Ron's brother.
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My mother's sister
married his brother.
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That's the age I was
when I first met Ron.
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Every time we would be
at a family gathering,
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we'd sit there and talk.
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That's another place where
Ron tried to kill me.
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(men laughing)
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- This thing is literally
a hundred feet in the air.
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On the crick.
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- He wanted to drive
the car across it
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until we realized there was a
big whole in the middle of it.
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- He'd tell me stories about
all the stuff he built.
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(dramatic music)
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Unless you see it, you
almost can't believe it.
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First time I seen his house,
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I went through there
and he had a maze.
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- There's dead ends
and it's pitch black in there
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and it took me 45 minutes.
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- That was easy to do.
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- He would ask for cinder blocks
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for his Christmas list
or his birthday list.
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Then he started
building the main house,
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it built from there.
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He wanted more, so he
built another building
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and then he connected
it with tunnels.
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He would dig
basements underneath
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and then connect basement
to basement by tunnel.
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(upbeat music)
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Ronald built everything by hand.
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He does not have big machinery,
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he does not have a workforce
that does these things for him,
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he does it all himself.
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And some of those
buildings he didn't build,
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he would literally find
an abandoned building,
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and like it, and take
it home with him.
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- How's
you get this here?
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(dramatic music)
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- Everywhere I go
I tell everyone about him.
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And I've drugged,
probably hundreds
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of people through his house.
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- You saw that?
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00:24:22,829 --> 00:24:23,663
- Mm-hmm(affirmative).
261
00:24:23,663 --> 00:24:24,597
(ladies laughing)
262
00:24:24,597 --> 00:24:25,532
- Where you going?
263
00:24:25,532 --> 00:24:26,332
- She's panicked already.
264
00:24:26,332 --> 00:24:28,000
- This is cool.
265
00:24:30,503 --> 00:24:32,004
- You know him?
266
00:24:32,004 --> 00:24:33,706
- No I don't, who's that?
267
00:24:33,706 --> 00:24:35,174
- Oh look.
268
00:24:35,174 --> 00:24:37,209
- Ron's right there.
269
00:24:37,209 --> 00:24:38,477
- He's my cousin.
270
00:24:38,477 --> 00:24:39,411
- Oh really?
271
00:24:39,411 --> 00:24:40,813
- Mm-hmm(affirmative).
272
00:24:40,813 --> 00:24:42,048
- Ron do
you know Dale Fry?
273
00:24:42,048 --> 00:24:42,982
- Oh yeah I know him.
274
00:24:42,982 --> 00:24:44,083
- That's my cousin.
275
00:24:44,083 --> 00:24:44,917
- Oh it is?
276
00:24:44,917 --> 00:24:46,185
- Yeah.
277
00:24:46,185 --> 00:24:47,787
- And his brother
is Chris and Matt.
278
00:24:47,787 --> 00:24:49,989
- Mm-hmm(affirmative),
those are all my cousins.
279
00:24:49,989 --> 00:24:51,423
- Hmm.
280
00:24:51,423 --> 00:24:52,424
- Oh gosh, I can't
wait to tell my mom.
281
00:24:52,424 --> 00:24:53,492
That is cool.
282
00:24:54,894 --> 00:24:57,029
- Dale used to live right
across the railroad tracks.
283
00:24:57,029 --> 00:24:58,831
I don't know where
Dale lives now,
284
00:24:58,831 --> 00:25:00,800
I don't know where any
of them are living.
285
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:02,669
When you see 'em tell
'em give me a call.
286
00:25:02,669 --> 00:25:04,136
- Okay I will.
287
00:25:04,136 --> 00:25:06,072
- Around six o'clock, 5:30.
288
00:25:06,072 --> 00:25:07,206
- Okay.
- somewhere though.
289
00:25:07,206 --> 00:25:09,108
- I will tell 'em.
290
00:25:09,108 --> 00:25:10,677
- What
are they signing?
291
00:25:16,415 --> 00:25:18,517
- How many?
292
00:25:19,385 --> 00:25:21,420
- 380 what?
293
00:25:21,420 --> 00:25:22,521
- Per year?
294
00:25:22,521 --> 00:25:23,355
- Yeah.
295
00:25:24,490 --> 00:25:26,025
When did
you get these made?
296
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:29,228
- What's up with the plunger?
297
00:25:31,831 --> 00:25:34,734
- You collect
them, my gosh?
298
00:25:43,275 --> 00:25:44,877
- Why do
you take the plunger?
299
00:25:47,113 --> 00:25:48,715
(Ron chuckles)
300
00:25:48,715 --> 00:25:50,216
(dramatic music)
301
00:25:50,216 --> 00:25:51,818
- The
foreclosures in this area
302
00:25:51,818 --> 00:25:53,653
are ridiculously high.
303
00:25:55,021 --> 00:25:57,189
Butler has really been hard hit.
304
00:25:58,825 --> 00:26:00,059
You can just drive through town
305
00:26:00,059 --> 00:26:02,461
any given day and
see a fore sale sign
306
00:26:02,461 --> 00:26:04,430
and it says
foreclosure at the top.
307
00:26:04,430 --> 00:26:05,965
(solemn music)
308
00:26:05,965 --> 00:26:08,200
Years ago it was
a beautiful town.
309
00:26:09,669 --> 00:26:11,137
People had great jobs.
310
00:26:12,605 --> 00:26:16,308
There was coal mines,
there was Pullman-Standard,
311
00:26:18,077 --> 00:26:19,912
but when Pullman-Standard
went out,
312
00:26:19,912 --> 00:26:21,280
it was like a ghost town.
313
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:23,783
I mean that's where everybody
worked in this area.
314
00:26:25,918 --> 00:26:27,453
And half the houses went empty.
315
00:26:28,621 --> 00:26:31,924
Just within an hour
and a half drive,
316
00:26:31,924 --> 00:26:34,026
there's whole abandoned towns.
317
00:26:44,737 --> 00:26:47,807
There's all these
abandoned factories
318
00:26:50,076 --> 00:26:51,978
and that's where Ron
gets all his stuff.
319
00:26:53,145 --> 00:26:55,147
Some of the places
he has taken me to,
320
00:26:55,147 --> 00:26:56,649
you can just hear
them bells ringing
321
00:26:56,649 --> 00:26:59,752
and angels singing,
it's just. (laughs)
322
00:27:00,953 --> 00:27:05,357
I found a 1938 Wurlitzer
jukebox that was rare,
323
00:27:05,357 --> 00:27:08,594
that is now in the Wurlitzer
museum in Houston, Texas.
324
00:27:08,594 --> 00:27:10,596
We found a whole abandoned bar.
325
00:27:10,596 --> 00:27:14,566
We had antique bar
lights, pool tables,
326
00:27:14,566 --> 00:27:15,835
and a really neat
thing that we found
327
00:27:15,835 --> 00:27:19,438
was some memorabilia
from the farmhouse
328
00:27:19,438 --> 00:27:21,841
that was in the original
Night Of The Living Dead.
329
00:27:21,841 --> 00:27:23,810
(upbeat music)
330
00:27:23,810 --> 00:27:25,945
A lot of the good that
has happened in Ron's life
331
00:27:25,945 --> 00:27:28,781
is because of Chuck
Heist, his dad.
332
00:27:28,781 --> 00:27:30,683
I said, "Chuck why did
you let him do this?"
333
00:27:30,683 --> 00:27:33,886
He said, "Well he didn't
speak until he was nine or 10.
334
00:27:33,886 --> 00:27:38,657
"And when we started letting
him build, he opened up."
335
00:27:38,657 --> 00:27:40,526
- Can we get a picture Ron?
336
00:27:40,526 --> 00:27:42,228
You're already on
our sweatshirts.
337
00:27:42,228 --> 00:27:43,062
- Yeah.
338
00:27:43,062 --> 00:27:44,530
- Okay, come on.
339
00:27:44,530 --> 00:27:46,866
- His house,
his adventures,
340
00:27:46,866 --> 00:27:49,268
that is his connection
with everybody.
341
00:27:50,669 --> 00:27:52,071
He loves being the Mole Man.
342
00:27:53,740 --> 00:27:55,607
Chuck just gave
him that free reign
343
00:27:55,607 --> 00:27:57,043
to do what he wanted to do.
344
00:27:57,043 --> 00:27:59,846
- I can smell
paint down here.
345
00:27:59,846 --> 00:28:03,349
- But Chuck,
unfortunately within
346
00:28:03,349 --> 00:28:05,718
the last year he passed away.
347
00:28:05,718 --> 00:28:08,320
(solemn music)
348
00:28:10,790 --> 00:28:14,126
- He fell
over in the bedroom.
349
00:28:14,126 --> 00:28:15,694
We couldn't wake him up.
350
00:28:17,563 --> 00:28:20,699
I said well maybe we can
put him back on the bed.
351
00:28:20,699 --> 00:28:24,003
We just couldn't lift him up
to put him back on the bed.
352
00:28:25,204 --> 00:28:28,074
And I said I'm gonna
call the ambulance.
353
00:28:29,675 --> 00:28:34,680
The ambulance came, two or
three weeks later he was gone.
354
00:28:38,250 --> 00:28:41,187
I miss Chuck a lot, yep.
355
00:28:41,187 --> 00:28:43,923
I'm still sleeping in
that chair every night.
356
00:28:45,391 --> 00:28:48,995
Every since he passed away I
been sleeping in that chair.
357
00:28:48,995 --> 00:28:52,098
I thought, I can't
sleep in the bedroom,
358
00:28:52,098 --> 00:28:53,432
it just seems different.
359
00:29:00,472 --> 00:29:02,708
It's a big change, yeah.
360
00:29:02,708 --> 00:29:05,544
I yeah, I really miss him.
361
00:29:05,544 --> 00:29:08,915
I miss my car man. (laughs)
362
00:29:13,185 --> 00:29:15,754
(saw whirring)
363
00:29:16,923 --> 00:29:19,591
- You can tell
just from the absence
364
00:29:19,591 --> 00:29:23,896
of my dad that there is
a huge void in his life.
365
00:29:25,297 --> 00:29:29,468
- I really thought she might
get really upset over it
366
00:29:29,468 --> 00:29:33,239
and have a reaction.
367
00:29:33,239 --> 00:29:38,244
(saw whirring)
(dramatic music)
368
00:29:39,111 --> 00:29:40,346
- He wouldn't talk to me,
369
00:29:40,346 --> 00:29:44,216
I've been friends with
him for most of my life.
370
00:29:44,216 --> 00:29:46,618
When I was at the funeral,
Ron pretended like
371
00:29:46,618 --> 00:29:48,254
he didn't even know who I was.
372
00:29:48,254 --> 00:29:49,521
Somebody asked Ron who's that
373
00:29:49,521 --> 00:29:51,123
and he said I don't
even know that name.
374
00:29:51,123 --> 00:29:54,160
He had let his hair
grow real long,
375
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:57,196
it was down past his
shoulders, looked disheveled.
376
00:29:58,764 --> 00:30:01,633
- And he just
started building constantly.
377
00:30:03,035 --> 00:30:07,606
- Part of the glue that holds
Ron together, came apart.
378
00:30:07,606 --> 00:30:10,376
(dramatic music)
379
00:30:48,514 --> 00:30:51,250
(motor whirring)
380
00:30:52,952 --> 00:30:55,521
- Did you give any more
thought about the future here?
381
00:30:55,521 --> 00:30:58,790
You know do we keep the house,
don't we keep the house?
382
00:30:58,790 --> 00:31:00,059
- Not really.
383
00:31:00,059 --> 00:31:01,227
- Not really?
384
00:31:01,227 --> 00:31:05,197
All that stuff
takes money, right?
385
00:31:05,197 --> 00:31:06,698
- Yeah.
386
00:31:06,698 --> 00:31:11,170
- Since my dad passed away,
I inherited a huge challenge.
387
00:31:12,038 --> 00:31:13,239
How do we deal with the house?
388
00:31:13,239 --> 00:31:14,573
How do we deal
with the property?
389
00:31:14,573 --> 00:31:16,909
How do we deal with Ron?
390
00:31:16,909 --> 00:31:19,045
You can't depend
that life is always
391
00:31:19,045 --> 00:31:21,213
gonna be the same
from day to day Ron.
392
00:31:24,650 --> 00:31:26,852
- But if something
happens, what happens then?
393
00:31:26,852 --> 00:31:31,757
I mean you never know what's
going to happen tomorrow.
394
00:31:33,892 --> 00:31:35,761
When our mother passes away,
395
00:31:37,229 --> 00:31:39,831
the situation is
gonna totally change.
396
00:31:41,467 --> 00:31:42,668
What are you waiting on?
397
00:31:44,336 --> 00:31:45,137
The day to come?
398
00:31:49,541 --> 00:31:50,943
- You hope, we hope.
399
00:31:52,644 --> 00:31:55,414
If I don't do anything
then we're at risk
400
00:31:55,414 --> 00:31:56,949
of losing everything down here.
401
00:31:59,151 --> 00:32:01,187
And I don't want that to happen.
402
00:32:03,622 --> 00:32:07,693
His routine, his environment,
that's his safety zone.
403
00:32:10,162 --> 00:32:12,331
- To see that
taken away from him
404
00:32:12,331 --> 00:32:14,300
is not something I wanna see,
405
00:32:14,300 --> 00:32:17,669
but I fear that that's exactly
what's going to happen.
406
00:32:18,670 --> 00:32:20,106
I'm hoping not.
407
00:32:20,106 --> 00:32:22,908
I'm hoping that something
can be figured out.
408
00:32:22,908 --> 00:32:25,978
- He thinks he's gonna
stay there period.
409
00:32:28,914 --> 00:32:31,683
- I definitely would love to
get my mom out of that house.
410
00:32:31,683 --> 00:32:35,021
You know number one, I
think she feels very much
411
00:32:35,021 --> 00:32:39,225
a burden on herself that
she has to take care of Ron.
412
00:32:40,892 --> 00:32:42,428
- I wish you would cook.
413
00:32:43,429 --> 00:32:44,997
That would be better yet.
414
00:32:44,997 --> 00:32:46,632
- You're a bag of pork.
415
00:32:47,833 --> 00:32:51,303
- It'd probably hurt him
to move and do whatever,
416
00:32:51,303 --> 00:32:53,205
it's a big deal.
417
00:32:53,205 --> 00:32:54,973
- You want
to be able to tell Mom
418
00:32:54,973 --> 00:32:57,476
that we have an
answer, and we don't.
419
00:32:57,476 --> 00:33:00,012
(upbeat music)
420
00:33:16,862 --> 00:33:18,097
- He doesn't have
a way of saying
421
00:33:18,097 --> 00:33:20,232
well how do I afford this.
422
00:33:20,232 --> 00:33:24,002
Does someone else have to pay
for this the rest of his life.
423
00:33:24,002 --> 00:33:26,705
I mean, that's something
we're not prepared to do.
424
00:33:28,006 --> 00:33:30,609
- To see Ron pulled
out of that place
425
00:33:30,609 --> 00:33:31,843
I think would kill him.
426
00:33:33,412 --> 00:33:34,946
Plain and simple,
I just don't think
427
00:33:34,946 --> 00:33:36,315
he'd want to live anymore.
428
00:33:40,686 --> 00:33:43,355
(motor humming)
429
00:34:26,432 --> 00:34:28,167
And I got a quote
done for my porch here
430
00:34:28,167 --> 00:34:30,102
and I just didn't
like the number.
431
00:34:30,102 --> 00:34:31,603
My wife was talking
about it at work
432
00:34:31,603 --> 00:34:33,405
and the lady she
works with said,
433
00:34:33,405 --> 00:34:35,641
"Hey why don't you see if
Ron would be interested."
434
00:34:35,641 --> 00:34:37,943
So he came over and wants
to do it all himself,
435
00:34:37,943 --> 00:34:39,445
and everything,
it's pretty amazing
436
00:34:39,445 --> 00:34:41,547
'cause he's gonna have this
thing tore up in no time.
437
00:34:41,547 --> 00:34:43,515
(men laughing)
438
00:34:43,515 --> 00:34:45,751
You trust me a lot with just how
439
00:34:45,751 --> 00:34:47,219
you can look at
something and say
440
00:34:47,219 --> 00:34:49,388
this is how many feet
long by whatever.
441
00:34:53,225 --> 00:34:54,226
- That's right.
442
00:35:10,676 --> 00:35:11,777
- Oh yeah?
443
00:35:15,447 --> 00:35:16,282
- No.
444
00:35:19,551 --> 00:35:21,720
- Ron, you gotta be kidding me.
445
00:35:27,959 --> 00:35:29,895
- What are you gonna play?
446
00:35:29,895 --> 00:35:30,829
Okay.
447
00:35:33,665 --> 00:35:35,967
I better put a pillow on there.
448
00:35:47,613 --> 00:35:51,450
Okay, hey come on now, fix that.
449
00:35:51,450 --> 00:35:54,720
(Ron laughing)
450
00:35:54,720 --> 00:35:55,721
- I'm awake.
451
00:36:06,031 --> 00:36:08,200
Hey that's a blue one.
452
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:09,568
- Well, where was that?
453
00:36:12,838 --> 00:36:16,342
- Ooh look at
that, got three in.
454
00:36:18,444 --> 00:36:23,315
Ron says I'll live
to be a hundred so I
don't have to worry.
455
00:36:23,315 --> 00:36:25,917
(Mom chuckles)
456
00:36:28,754 --> 00:36:31,890
No, you goofed me up.
457
00:36:31,890 --> 00:36:34,660
(dramatic music)
458
00:36:36,628 --> 00:36:40,566
- We are going to have
a therapist meet Ron.
459
00:36:40,566 --> 00:36:43,935
- Ron's never been officially
diagnosed with Autism.
460
00:36:45,571 --> 00:36:47,138
- He
has to be diagnosed
461
00:36:47,138 --> 00:36:49,308
in order to get the
help that he needs.
462
00:36:49,308 --> 00:36:51,142
Hopefully with that diagnosis,
463
00:36:51,142 --> 00:36:55,514
we'll have a better direction
of where we need to go.
464
00:36:55,514 --> 00:36:58,584
- I would like to learn
a lot more about Ron.
465
00:36:58,584 --> 00:37:01,687
And half of how we answer
questions is through testing.
466
00:37:01,687 --> 00:37:04,055
And that's what Dr.
Gastgeb's doing.
467
00:37:04,055 --> 00:37:05,424
- We're going to be doing
468
00:37:05,424 --> 00:37:08,594
all kinds of of different
activities okay.
469
00:37:08,594 --> 00:37:10,862
And there's not
always a right answer.
470
00:37:11,797 --> 00:37:14,032
We just need you to let me know
471
00:37:14,032 --> 00:37:15,601
what you think the
answer is okay.
472
00:37:15,601 --> 00:37:16,735
- Mm-hmm(affirmative).
473
00:37:16,735 --> 00:37:18,537
- We give the individual
something to do
474
00:37:18,537 --> 00:37:20,339
and we try to learn about them
475
00:37:20,339 --> 00:37:22,441
through watching
them solve problems.
476
00:37:22,441 --> 00:37:23,775
- Mm-hmm(affirmative).
477
00:37:23,775 --> 00:37:25,511
- And so they're giving
the opportunities
478
00:37:25,511 --> 00:37:29,114
to initiate and respond
to conversations,
479
00:37:29,114 --> 00:37:31,483
and then it gives us an
algorithm for scoring
480
00:37:31,483 --> 00:37:33,218
those behavior observations.
481
00:37:33,218 --> 00:37:35,721
- Now we have a book
here and what's different
482
00:37:35,721 --> 00:37:37,756
about this book than
books that you might read
483
00:37:37,756 --> 00:37:39,791
is it only has a few words.
484
00:37:39,791 --> 00:37:42,794
So we're actually gonna tell
the story from pictures.
485
00:37:42,794 --> 00:37:46,332
So I'm gonna start so that
you get an idea how to do it.
486
00:37:46,332 --> 00:37:48,567
Then I'm gonna let you tell
me the story for a while,
487
00:37:48,567 --> 00:37:50,936
then I'm gonna finish the story.
488
00:37:50,936 --> 00:37:52,571
So Tuesday evening around eight,
489
00:37:52,571 --> 00:37:54,406
there was a turtle
sitting on a log.
490
00:37:54,406 --> 00:37:56,708
And the sun came down
and the moon came up
491
00:37:56,708 --> 00:37:58,677
and the turtle looked
up and all of a sudden
492
00:37:58,677 --> 00:38:01,146
he saw these frogs
floating all over the sky.
493
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:03,649
Now I'm gonna let
you tell me the story
494
00:38:03,649 --> 00:38:05,517
and then I'll finish
at the very end.
495
00:38:07,052 --> 00:38:10,021
You can just tell me
whatever story you want.
496
00:38:10,021 --> 00:38:12,023
There's no right
answers to any of this.
497
00:38:14,826 --> 00:38:16,828
- (laughs)
They don't, I know.
498
00:38:16,828 --> 00:38:18,730
- I have an
understanding, this
is understanding
499
00:38:18,730 --> 00:38:22,167
concrete versus abstract
cognitive skills.
500
00:38:22,167 --> 00:38:23,769
And individuals with Autism
501
00:38:23,769 --> 00:38:26,905
actually aren't so great at
the abstract and the pretend.
502
00:38:26,905 --> 00:38:29,341
They're just much more concrete,
black and white thinking.
503
00:38:29,341 --> 00:38:32,110
- Yeah, so you're gonna
have to suspend disbelief.
504
00:38:32,110 --> 00:38:33,278
You're gonna have to pretend
505
00:38:33,278 --> 00:38:35,614
this is like a
fiction story here.
506
00:38:40,486 --> 00:38:45,190
Okay so make up a story
that doesn't really happen.
507
00:38:45,190 --> 00:38:46,692
What is in the book?
508
00:38:48,193 --> 00:38:49,695
What's happening on this page.
509
00:38:51,363 --> 00:38:52,330
- Mm-hmm(affirmative).
510
00:38:57,403 --> 00:39:00,271
- Everybody describes
him as creative,
511
00:39:00,271 --> 00:39:04,876
but yet when asked to
pretend, to make believe,
512
00:39:04,876 --> 00:39:06,812
he actually wasn't
able to do it.
513
00:39:08,013 --> 00:39:09,481
- So what's
happening on this page?
514
00:39:12,350 --> 00:39:13,685
- So they're
flying, they're having fun.
515
00:39:13,685 --> 00:39:14,920
- Yeah.
516
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:16,455
- They don't belong
there but that's okay.
517
00:39:18,657 --> 00:39:20,626
- Okay,
I'll finish up for you.
518
00:39:20,626 --> 00:39:23,061
Next Tuesday something
new was flying in the sky,
519
00:39:23,061 --> 00:39:25,196
but it was not a
frog, they were pigs.
520
00:39:30,669 --> 00:39:32,871
- A lot of things
he just wants to do
521
00:39:32,871 --> 00:39:34,606
what he wants to do.
522
00:39:34,606 --> 00:39:35,807
- Yeah.
523
00:39:35,807 --> 00:39:37,909
- And otherwise he
just isn't interested.
524
00:39:37,909 --> 00:39:40,078
I said, "Why don't
we go to a movie?"
525
00:39:40,078 --> 00:39:43,048
"I don't want to go to a movie."
526
00:39:43,048 --> 00:39:47,052
But when it's something
about building houses
527
00:39:47,052 --> 00:39:50,055
or finding the way
to go someplace,
528
00:39:50,055 --> 00:39:52,190
he's gonna do any of that.
529
00:39:52,190 --> 00:39:56,161
He's really good, in fact
he could build a house,
530
00:39:56,161 --> 00:39:59,197
he could put electric
in the house,
531
00:39:59,197 --> 00:40:00,999
that's how good he is in that.
532
00:40:02,634 --> 00:40:03,969
Do you want to go back there?
533
00:40:03,969 --> 00:40:06,171
- I would like to if
he wants to invite me.
534
00:40:06,171 --> 00:40:08,106
(Mary laughing)
535
00:40:08,106 --> 00:40:11,543
And he's great with numbers
and weights and measures
536
00:40:11,543 --> 00:40:14,279
and mechanics and his skillset
537
00:40:14,279 --> 00:40:17,516
because he's really fixated
on those narrow interests
538
00:40:17,516 --> 00:40:19,785
and has learned as much
as he can about that.
539
00:40:19,785 --> 00:40:22,320
(dramatic music)
540
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:24,122
- Wow,
you're really quick.
541
00:40:28,293 --> 00:40:29,895
- People
of his generation
542
00:40:29,895 --> 00:40:32,130
commonly did not get support.
543
00:40:32,130 --> 00:40:34,500
And I think there are many
ways that his situation
544
00:40:34,500 --> 00:40:38,336
could not have turned out
as positive as it did.
545
00:40:38,336 --> 00:40:40,371
Some of those people
are in group homes.
546
00:40:42,608 --> 00:40:44,375
And he's still not
out of the woods.
547
00:40:46,211 --> 00:40:48,680
- You've thought about
the next 10 years,
548
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:51,116
like your plans, your
hopes, your dreams,
549
00:40:51,116 --> 00:40:52,518
what would you
like to see happen?
550
00:40:52,518 --> 00:40:53,952
What would you like to do?
551
00:41:00,291 --> 00:41:01,760
- So pretty
much what you've been doing?
552
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:03,261
- Mm-hmm(affirmative).
553
00:41:03,261 --> 00:41:04,395
- Anything else you'd like
to do that you haven't done?
554
00:41:07,599 --> 00:41:08,399
- Okay.
555
00:41:09,635 --> 00:41:11,803
Most people have felt
sad at some point,
556
00:41:11,803 --> 00:41:13,071
what makes you feel sad?
557
00:41:18,243 --> 00:41:20,712
- Yeah, is that
a part of your life now?
558
00:41:20,712 --> 00:41:21,780
- Mm-hmm(affirmative).
559
00:41:23,348 --> 00:41:25,283
- And how does
it feel when you're sad?
560
00:41:27,886 --> 00:41:29,387
If you had to describe it.
561
00:41:29,387 --> 00:41:31,957
(solemn music)
562
00:41:37,095 --> 00:41:39,798
- But for Ron, his
Autism also contributes
563
00:41:39,798 --> 00:41:44,803
some pretty amazing qualities
that many people are drawn to.
564
00:41:45,704 --> 00:41:46,972
I have actually have never seen
565
00:41:46,972 --> 00:41:50,676
a collection so large as Ron's.
566
00:41:50,676 --> 00:41:54,145
It's positive in a sense that
people find it interesting.
567
00:41:54,145 --> 00:41:55,614
- You know what that thing is?
568
00:41:56,514 --> 00:41:58,650
- It's a train signal light.
569
00:41:58,650 --> 00:41:59,484
(everyone laughing)
570
00:41:59,484 --> 00:42:00,919
- No.
571
00:42:00,919 --> 00:42:02,187
- I was
thinking astronaut helmet,
572
00:42:02,187 --> 00:42:03,421
but I know that's
not right either.
573
00:42:03,421 --> 00:42:05,791
- I think this allows
him to have connections
574
00:42:05,791 --> 00:42:07,993
outside of his family that
he wouldn't naturally have
575
00:42:07,993 --> 00:42:10,495
because he's not going out
there and seeking them.
576
00:42:12,297 --> 00:42:13,364
- Yeah.
577
00:42:13,364 --> 00:42:14,566
- What is that?
578
00:42:14,566 --> 00:42:15,400
- We gotta get
out of this place.
579
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:18,236
(ladies laughing)
580
00:42:19,370 --> 00:42:20,639
- Sorry.
581
00:42:43,428 --> 00:42:46,665
- When you say
town, you mean abandoned?
582
00:42:46,665 --> 00:42:47,899
- Yeah.
583
00:42:47,899 --> 00:42:49,635
- Okay, that's a
lot of adventure.
584
00:42:49,635 --> 00:42:51,803
What do you say we get cracking?
585
00:42:51,803 --> 00:42:55,273
My name's Sean Burke,
I live in Pennsylvania
586
00:42:55,273 --> 00:42:57,643
and I work in a steel mill.
587
00:42:57,643 --> 00:42:59,845
Ronald said to me,
"Sean, there's a place
588
00:42:59,845 --> 00:43:02,981
"I want you to see
and it's in the woods
589
00:43:02,981 --> 00:43:04,482
"and it's called Robinsville."
590
00:43:07,218 --> 00:43:08,854
- He said, "It's this whole town
591
00:43:08,854 --> 00:43:12,223
"that just was
consumed by the woods."
592
00:43:12,223 --> 00:43:14,592
And I said, "Now
this I gotta see."
593
00:43:18,797 --> 00:43:20,999
- Ronald knows
I can't help myself
594
00:43:20,999 --> 00:43:23,401
and anytime there's an
adventure to be had,
595
00:43:23,401 --> 00:43:24,736
he always ropes me into it.
596
00:43:25,837 --> 00:43:28,106
It's a pretty neat
little area down there.
597
00:43:28,106 --> 00:43:29,607
- Oh yeah.
598
00:43:29,607 --> 00:43:31,743
- There must have been
some coal mining down there.
599
00:43:34,512 --> 00:43:36,147
- He knows every
little nook and cranny
600
00:43:36,147 --> 00:43:38,049
of Western Pennsylvania.
601
00:43:45,256 --> 00:43:48,026
(dramatic music)
602
00:43:49,427 --> 00:43:52,630
- Now this, what is this
road we're driving on here?
603
00:43:54,132 --> 00:43:55,000
- This is a driveway?
604
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:56,534
- Yeah.
605
00:43:56,534 --> 00:43:58,870
- We're going through quad
trails, downhill signs,
606
00:43:58,870 --> 00:44:01,539
we're in the middle of nowhere.
607
00:44:01,539 --> 00:44:05,210
(leaves crunching)
608
00:44:05,210 --> 00:44:06,577
You don't know where you are.
609
00:44:07,979 --> 00:44:09,681
You don't know if you
were gonna find something.
610
00:44:09,681 --> 00:44:11,582
You have no idea.
611
00:44:13,184 --> 00:44:16,955
Whenever he tells you the
story or what to expect,
612
00:44:16,955 --> 00:44:20,225
he's telling you the
truth in his mind.
613
00:44:22,493 --> 00:44:26,698
His perception of
reality and your own
614
00:44:26,698 --> 00:44:28,666
sometimes are two
different things.
615
00:44:32,137 --> 00:44:34,539
We come to this valley
where three creeks meet.
616
00:44:34,539 --> 00:44:36,407
Can't say you're wrong.
617
00:44:36,407 --> 00:44:37,475
- Yeah.
618
00:44:39,811 --> 00:44:41,312
- Up the creek valley he goes.
619
00:44:46,785 --> 00:44:47,853
We get to the top
620
00:44:51,056 --> 00:44:53,391
and sure enough,
just like he said.
621
00:44:53,391 --> 00:44:56,161
(dramatic music)
622
00:45:00,799 --> 00:45:05,136
It was a little village that
was consumed by the woods.
623
00:45:15,613 --> 00:45:16,748
All these houses,
624
00:45:23,288 --> 00:45:26,457
grand old houses,
a huge, huge barn,
625
00:45:30,061 --> 00:45:32,397
and you're thinking
what happened here.
626
00:45:37,102 --> 00:45:38,469
Why did they leave this?
627
00:45:43,842 --> 00:45:46,477
Man they built this thing.
628
00:45:46,477 --> 00:45:49,314
This is old worldy transplant,
this is outrageous.
629
00:45:49,314 --> 00:45:51,817
- Yeah, the whole place.
630
00:45:52,984 --> 00:45:54,585
- That's a lot
of money in boards here.
631
00:45:54,585 --> 00:45:55,420
- Yeah.
632
00:46:14,572 --> 00:46:16,407
- Five, six, 14.
633
00:46:19,244 --> 00:46:20,846
- It's also not the sixth.
634
00:46:41,066 --> 00:46:42,100
- He knows his cars.
635
00:46:42,100 --> 00:46:43,501
Your dad had what?
636
00:46:44,702 --> 00:46:49,440
- He had a 1924
Model T, 1928 Model A.
637
00:46:55,380 --> 00:46:59,117
- The illustrious Piney Mansion.
638
00:47:09,427 --> 00:47:13,698
- And it's kind of
this myth of a place.
639
00:47:13,698 --> 00:47:14,966
(dramatic music)
640
00:47:14,966 --> 00:47:16,767
- It's hard to get to,
641
00:47:16,767 --> 00:47:19,604
and every year
it's getting worse.
642
00:47:48,699 --> 00:47:50,368
- Anybody that's
familiar with cars knows
643
00:47:50,368 --> 00:47:54,205
what a Duesenberg is,
it's the creme de la creme
644
00:47:54,205 --> 00:47:56,841
of American classic cars.
645
00:47:56,841 --> 00:47:58,309
It would be worth
a ton of money.
646
00:47:58,309 --> 00:48:01,146
Just a super charger off
the Dusenberg's engine
647
00:48:01,146 --> 00:48:03,915
would be worth five
figures at least.
648
00:48:03,915 --> 00:48:05,250
Is it easy to find?
649
00:48:05,250 --> 00:48:07,919
- No. (chuckles)
650
00:48:07,919 --> 00:48:12,023
- He has the license plates
from all the cars in his place,
651
00:48:12,023 --> 00:48:15,460
but I have never met
anybody that's been there
652
00:48:15,460 --> 00:48:16,627
or saw it but Ron.
653
00:48:18,563 --> 00:48:19,530
Where is this from?
654
00:48:22,033 --> 00:48:24,469
How'd you get it out?
655
00:48:28,506 --> 00:48:32,577
That's from Piney?
656
00:48:48,193 --> 00:48:50,095
- So is
there anything left?
657
00:48:50,095 --> 00:48:52,763
- (laughs) Yes.
658
00:48:57,602 --> 00:48:58,669
Where does Piney rank
659
00:48:58,669 --> 00:49:00,338
in the houses you find?
660
00:49:11,582 --> 00:49:12,717
- But that
one's got more stuff
661
00:49:12,717 --> 00:49:15,120
in it than any of the others.
662
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:16,988
How'd you find Piney?
663
00:49:21,892 --> 00:49:23,995
- And
how long ago was that?
664
00:49:26,931 --> 00:49:28,466
- What
happened to the driveway?
665
00:49:38,109 --> 00:49:42,280
- If it's
there, we have to find it.
666
00:49:43,581 --> 00:49:45,383
- In going through the
diagnostic criteria for Autism,
667
00:49:45,383 --> 00:49:47,952
it's very clear he's
on the spectrum.
668
00:49:47,952 --> 00:49:50,221
That is what contributing
to that rigidty
669
00:49:50,221 --> 00:49:53,258
that's been so difficult
for you guys as a family.
670
00:49:53,258 --> 00:49:55,693
Sometimes we can help
them to be more flexible,
671
00:49:55,693 --> 00:49:57,228
but he is not flexible.
672
00:49:57,228 --> 00:49:59,964
- I often said to my
parents if they would
673
00:49:59,964 --> 00:50:02,900
hold him accountable, it would
make him more functional.
674
00:50:02,900 --> 00:50:07,105
- It's hard not to feel
frustrated with your parents
675
00:50:07,105 --> 00:50:09,574
because part of you is
why didn't they get help,
676
00:50:09,574 --> 00:50:11,709
but to be honest, your
mom did try to get help,
677
00:50:11,709 --> 00:50:14,379
and then they didn't
know what else to do.
678
00:50:14,379 --> 00:50:16,281
And so they just sort
of stopped reaching out.
679
00:50:16,281 --> 00:50:20,351
So in a sense it was a
systemic problem I think.
680
00:50:22,687 --> 00:50:27,692
So, the big question is,
does he stay there or not
681
00:50:28,693 --> 00:50:30,161
if your mother's not there?
682
00:50:31,629 --> 00:50:34,031
People in his generation, if
you ask where are they now,
683
00:50:34,031 --> 00:50:36,334
some of them are just
living in group homes.
684
00:50:36,334 --> 00:50:39,737
- That's one of the solutions,
however do we really
685
00:50:39,737 --> 00:50:41,872
want to take him out
of that environment?
686
00:50:41,872 --> 00:50:43,841
That's really not something
that we want to do
687
00:50:43,841 --> 00:50:46,944
unless it actually
came down to his safety
688
00:50:46,944 --> 00:50:49,914
or medical condition
would dictate that.
689
00:50:49,914 --> 00:50:52,683
- My concern honestly
isn't for his safety there,
690
00:50:52,683 --> 00:50:55,820
'cause I feel like it's
actually fairly safe for him,
691
00:50:55,820 --> 00:50:57,922
but my concern is
about liability.
692
00:50:57,922 --> 00:50:59,390
- Oh yeah.
693
00:50:59,390 --> 00:51:01,192
- He's necessarily in
danger but he's not noticing
694
00:51:01,192 --> 00:51:02,893
other people's safety and
he's dragging people through
695
00:51:02,893 --> 00:51:05,396
who might get hurt and who
then might actually sue.
696
00:51:05,396 --> 00:51:09,467
- Yes, the attorneys visited
the place, looked it over
697
00:51:09,467 --> 00:51:11,336
and basically said
someone could sue you
698
00:51:11,336 --> 00:51:13,404
and you could lose everything.
699
00:51:13,404 --> 00:51:16,141
- Yeah, I'm not sure what
his monetary needs will be,
700
00:51:16,141 --> 00:51:19,110
but if you wait to the
point where everyone
701
00:51:19,110 --> 00:51:20,911
feels like there's an
emergency situation,
702
00:51:20,911 --> 00:51:23,047
it might actually be
a little difficult
703
00:51:23,047 --> 00:51:25,350
in order to get
him what he needs.
704
00:51:25,350 --> 00:51:27,352
So the best time to
start moving forward
705
00:51:27,352 --> 00:51:30,388
in terms of exploring
supports would be now.
706
00:51:30,388 --> 00:51:34,559
- We do want the best for him,
but we all have our own lives
707
00:51:34,559 --> 00:51:37,528
and we all have
our own families,
708
00:51:37,528 --> 00:51:41,065
so trying to continually
focus on Ron,
709
00:51:41,065 --> 00:51:45,336
it's a huge challenge
and there's no easy out.
710
00:51:45,336 --> 00:51:48,773
We know we're not gonna
get his cooperation.
711
00:51:48,773 --> 00:51:50,641
We're gonna have to force it.
712
00:51:52,109 --> 00:51:54,745
(motor humming)
713
00:51:56,781 --> 00:51:58,483
- I live up by you.
714
00:51:58,483 --> 00:51:59,384
- Oh you do?
715
00:52:04,689 --> 00:52:05,956
- Yep, soon as I seen
you walking down I said,
716
00:52:05,956 --> 00:52:08,226
"Oh, he wants to go
through something."
717
00:52:08,226 --> 00:52:09,194
- Yeah.
718
00:52:18,203 --> 00:52:19,036
- Oh yeah.
719
00:52:21,639 --> 00:52:24,309
(loud knocking)
720
00:52:26,944 --> 00:52:29,580
- I don't know, the guy's
been dead for 25 years.
721
00:52:29,580 --> 00:52:31,649
- Oh, that long.
722
00:52:40,691 --> 00:52:45,296
- Today, I'm reaching out
to an Autism expert at Yale.
723
00:52:45,296 --> 00:52:47,131
I'm really hoping that
he has some ideas,
724
00:52:47,131 --> 00:52:50,401
maybe he can even
give us more options
725
00:52:50,401 --> 00:52:52,837
than what we are
aware of currently.
726
00:52:52,837 --> 00:52:56,173
- Given his age there's
very few options
727
00:52:56,173 --> 00:53:00,545
the kids that were seen by
doctors in the 50s and 60s,
728
00:53:00,545 --> 00:53:03,481
Autism existed as a diagnosis
729
00:53:03,481 --> 00:53:06,384
but there were no
experts on it really,
730
00:53:06,384 --> 00:53:09,620
it was just a couple of people
who originally described it
731
00:53:09,620 --> 00:53:11,456
and no one knew what
to do with those kids.
732
00:53:11,456 --> 00:53:14,492
And so by in large they
got institutionalized,
733
00:53:14,492 --> 00:53:17,061
even if they were
fairly intelligent.
734
00:53:17,061 --> 00:53:20,265
So it was really brave
to not institutionalize.
735
00:53:25,970 --> 00:53:30,975
- You're
running out of time.
736
00:53:38,349 --> 00:53:40,951
(man laughing)
737
00:53:52,229 --> 00:53:53,464
(dramatic music)
738
00:53:53,464 --> 00:53:55,800
- I mean in your
opinion, if he is to be
739
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:57,167
taken out of that environment,
740
00:53:57,167 --> 00:53:59,437
what do you perceive
happening to him?
741
00:53:59,437 --> 00:54:00,705
- I think it's predictable
742
00:54:00,705 --> 00:54:03,341
that he would have
problems adjusting
743
00:54:03,341 --> 00:54:05,843
because you take any
60 year old person,
744
00:54:05,843 --> 00:54:08,946
take all their favorite things
away and put them somewhere,
745
00:54:08,946 --> 00:54:10,715
they're gonna lash out.
746
00:54:10,715 --> 00:54:13,050
Then you compound
that with Autism
747
00:54:13,050 --> 00:54:16,387
where you have
emotional problems,
748
00:54:16,387 --> 00:54:20,791
then yeah it's pretty cruel
to do that to somebody.
749
00:54:20,791 --> 00:54:23,193
- Yeah we discussed
that quite a bit.
750
00:54:23,193 --> 00:54:26,397
I mean I'm really scared
of what's going to happen.
751
00:54:29,634 --> 00:54:32,970
(country music)
752
00:54:32,970 --> 00:54:34,204
There is nothing I can think of,
753
00:54:34,204 --> 00:54:35,473
other than trying to
keep him in there,
754
00:54:35,473 --> 00:54:39,043
that's going to be
beneficial to him.
755
00:54:39,043 --> 00:54:41,312
I just cannot see
a positive outcome
756
00:54:41,312 --> 00:54:43,781
unless he's allowed to
stay in that environment.
757
00:54:45,516 --> 00:54:47,952
- My biggest
fear is that he'll lash out
758
00:54:47,952 --> 00:54:50,187
outside of an institution
and then end up
759
00:54:50,187 --> 00:54:52,823
in the legal system, 'cause
that's the only group
760
00:54:52,823 --> 00:54:55,560
that won't refuse to take him.
761
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:56,994
- Right, and that's definitely
762
00:54:56,994 --> 00:54:58,529
not the right place for Ronald.
763
00:54:58,529 --> 00:55:02,066
- No, once that happens once
it's just a revolving door.
764
00:55:02,066 --> 00:55:05,102
(solemn music)
765
00:55:05,102 --> 00:55:06,471
- I appreciate you
coming on here.
766
00:55:06,471 --> 00:55:08,439
- Yeah, I wish I
could be of more help.
767
00:55:08,439 --> 00:55:12,209
It's a tough
situation, take care.
768
00:55:17,582 --> 00:55:19,216
- I don't know I'm
kind of depressed now.
769
00:55:19,216 --> 00:55:22,086
I'm here talking to him,
what options do we have here?
770
00:55:27,492 --> 00:55:29,226
If they wanted
somebody to come in
771
00:55:29,226 --> 00:55:33,664
and look after Ron, state
funding does not exist for that.
772
00:55:33,664 --> 00:55:35,633
Like he said, is he
gonna end up in prison?
773
00:55:35,633 --> 00:55:38,235
(solemn music)
774
00:55:41,071 --> 00:55:42,773
I work at Butler
Memorial Hospital
775
00:55:42,773 --> 00:55:44,875
in their behavioral
health program.
776
00:55:44,875 --> 00:55:47,378
I see people from group
homes all the time,
777
00:55:47,378 --> 00:55:50,415
they'll come in with
scabies, malnourished,
778
00:55:50,415 --> 00:55:54,519
prison would be better
than some of these places.
779
00:55:55,886 --> 00:55:59,189
I've seen neglected
people that have bed sores
780
00:55:59,189 --> 00:56:03,027
down to their bone,
it's just unbelievable.
781
00:56:03,027 --> 00:56:05,596
(solemn music)
782
00:56:08,533 --> 00:56:11,669
- They're a few good ones.
783
00:56:11,669 --> 00:56:13,170
- I don't see another option.
784
00:56:13,170 --> 00:56:15,706
I mean we have to find a
way to keep him in there.
785
00:56:15,706 --> 00:56:18,443
It's just, what else is there?
786
00:56:19,910 --> 00:56:22,913
(machinery roaring)
787
00:56:46,236 --> 00:56:48,272
- Why do you
have all the clocks back there?
788
00:56:53,778 --> 00:56:56,046
- Any reason
why you set it up like that?
789
00:57:00,284 --> 00:57:01,586
- Are
all the clocks on time?
790
00:57:01,586 --> 00:57:02,419
- No.
791
00:57:15,833 --> 00:57:17,167
- Barney Fife.
792
00:57:19,136 --> 00:57:21,305
- Have
you seen that movie?
793
00:57:21,305 --> 00:57:22,940
- Indiana
Jones, have you seen that?
794
00:57:22,940 --> 00:57:24,408
- No.
795
00:57:24,408 --> 00:57:24,942
- Do you know
who Steven Spielberg is?
796
00:57:24,942 --> 00:57:26,410
- No.
797
00:57:26,410 --> 00:57:27,044
- You never
heard him before this?
798
00:57:27,044 --> 00:57:28,278
- No.
799
00:57:28,278 --> 00:57:31,281
- How
'bout Brad Pitt?
800
00:57:34,051 --> 00:57:35,352
- You know
who Michael Jordan is?
801
00:57:35,352 --> 00:57:36,286
- No.
802
00:57:36,286 --> 00:57:37,187
- LeBron James?
803
00:57:37,187 --> 00:57:38,388
- No.
804
00:57:38,388 --> 00:57:40,090
- Seinfeld?
805
00:57:40,090 --> 00:57:41,091
- No.
806
00:57:41,091 --> 00:57:42,292
- Titanic?
807
00:57:44,929 --> 00:57:45,763
- That movie?
808
00:57:45,763 --> 00:57:46,597
- Yeah.
809
00:57:46,597 --> 00:57:47,431
- Okay.
810
00:57:52,002 --> 00:57:56,206
- G-L-I-D-E.
811
00:58:12,657 --> 00:58:15,425
(dramatic music)
812
00:58:43,453 --> 00:58:44,722
- So
you try to write
813
00:58:44,722 --> 00:58:45,923
all of the songs
in one group down?
814
00:58:48,926 --> 00:58:50,928
- So
you don't forget 'em?
815
00:58:52,697 --> 00:58:54,665
(Ron chuckles)
816
00:58:54,665 --> 00:58:58,603
- Why do
you write 'em down then?
817
00:59:11,381 --> 00:59:13,383
- When Amanda did
her evaluation,
818
00:59:13,383 --> 00:59:15,753
she determined Ron is Autistic.
819
00:59:16,887 --> 00:59:19,690
Did you or Dad ever
talk about Ron's future?
820
00:59:19,690 --> 00:59:22,226
- No, we just seemed to go along
821
00:59:22,226 --> 00:59:27,231
with what was going on at that
time, going to special ed.
822
00:59:28,432 --> 00:59:29,667
- I remember telling
Dad what I thought,
823
00:59:29,667 --> 00:59:31,168
he didn't want to
hear any of it.
824
00:59:31,168 --> 00:59:32,436
- Yeah that's it.
825
00:59:32,436 --> 00:59:34,972
- He didn't
agree with those.
826
00:59:34,972 --> 00:59:37,141
- We should've even
thought about it
827
00:59:37,141 --> 00:59:39,644
after he graduated
from high school.
828
00:59:39,644 --> 00:59:41,178
- Yes.
829
00:59:41,178 --> 00:59:44,481
- But Ron did try to get jobs
a couple of different places.
830
00:59:44,481 --> 00:59:48,819
But every time he'd last about
one month and that was it.
831
00:59:48,819 --> 00:59:51,789
- You know if something
had to be done tomorrow
832
00:59:51,789 --> 00:59:53,691
it would be basically
relocating him.
833
00:59:53,691 --> 00:59:56,293
- You mean to
live somewhere else?
834
00:59:56,293 --> 00:59:58,095
- You almost have
to rule out the house
835
00:59:58,095 --> 00:59:59,596
being one of the options?
836
00:59:59,596 --> 01:00:01,398
- Where would he go,
would he want to--
837
01:00:01,398 --> 01:00:04,101
- We need to talk about,
you know this house
838
01:00:04,101 --> 01:00:07,972
and the land and how much
effort it took to maintain it
839
01:00:07,972 --> 01:00:11,075
and you're always trying
to have to do something,
840
01:00:11,075 --> 01:00:12,777
fix something, repair it.
841
01:00:12,777 --> 01:00:16,380
You know that was Dad
talking about that,
842
01:00:16,380 --> 01:00:21,285
let alone having Ron to try
to do any of that stuff.
843
01:00:21,285 --> 01:00:22,386
- I know.
844
01:00:22,386 --> 01:00:24,621
- I mean
unfortunately he created
845
01:00:24,621 --> 01:00:26,390
his own worse
nightmare back there.
846
01:00:26,390 --> 01:00:28,092
- Oh you're not kidding.
847
01:00:28,092 --> 01:00:30,961
He just keeps on
building and building.
848
01:00:30,961 --> 01:00:32,262
- What he has back there
849
01:00:32,262 --> 01:00:35,532
is a huge safety
issues to begin with.
850
01:00:35,532 --> 01:00:36,767
- That's true.
851
01:00:36,767 --> 01:00:38,168
- Do you want him
to stay in that?
852
01:00:38,168 --> 01:00:40,971
(solemn music)
853
01:00:40,971 --> 01:00:42,239
He's built structures
that really
854
01:00:42,239 --> 01:00:44,942
don't allow anyone
really to live there.
855
01:00:44,942 --> 01:00:48,713
Years ago my dad allowed
him to run his own wire
856
01:00:48,713 --> 01:00:51,248
back to his house, that way
he can have electricity.
857
01:00:51,248 --> 01:00:53,884
He built more and
more structures,
858
01:00:53,884 --> 01:00:57,287
he runs more and more
wiring through it,
859
01:00:57,287 --> 01:01:00,791
and he tries to heat all
those places in the winter.
860
01:01:00,791 --> 01:01:03,994
The power bill has been over
a thousand dollars a month
861
01:01:03,994 --> 01:01:07,497
and in fact, he's
burned out the meters
862
01:01:07,497 --> 01:01:10,801
because he draws more
than what the meter's
863
01:01:10,801 --> 01:01:13,603
capabilities are or capacity is.
864
01:01:13,603 --> 01:01:14,839
- What
do you call them?
865
01:01:17,975 --> 01:01:21,645
- So we know there's a lot
of safety issues there.
866
01:01:21,645 --> 01:01:24,548
You know not only is it
putting his place at risk,
867
01:01:24,548 --> 01:01:26,817
but it's putting the
main house at risk.
868
01:01:26,817 --> 01:01:29,854
The filth, the safety, health,
869
01:01:29,854 --> 01:01:32,757
all those things he's
gonna put in jeopardy
870
01:01:32,757 --> 01:01:35,292
because he doesn't have
any desire to change it.
871
01:01:41,031 --> 01:01:42,532
- You know it's not good
for him longterm wise,
872
01:01:42,532 --> 01:01:46,036
but on the other hand, you
know that's the environment
873
01:01:46,036 --> 01:01:48,973
that he has that comfort level.
874
01:01:48,973 --> 01:01:50,240
- Mm-hmm(affirmative).
875
01:01:50,240 --> 01:01:53,778
- There are resources
out there that can help,
876
01:01:53,778 --> 01:01:58,749
but he's gone have to learn
how to deal with the changes
877
01:01:59,549 --> 01:02:01,651
that he can't say no to.
878
01:02:01,651 --> 01:02:04,121
How much resistance he creates,
879
01:02:04,121 --> 01:02:07,357
you know does he go into
hiding and that type of thing?
880
01:02:07,357 --> 01:02:08,959
That's a whole nother issue.
881
01:02:08,959 --> 01:02:12,462
But he can't let
his personal desire
882
01:02:12,462 --> 01:02:17,467
block something that is
better for him longterm wise.
883
01:02:18,936 --> 01:02:22,072
- But yet his friends just
love coming to visit him.
884
01:02:22,072 --> 01:02:24,208
- Yeah you know, they
think all this is fun
885
01:02:24,208 --> 01:02:26,643
and this is a great
environment you've got Ron,
886
01:02:26,643 --> 01:02:28,879
but that's frustrating
because there's people
887
01:02:28,879 --> 01:02:31,849
that are going to have to make
a commitment to make it work.
888
01:02:31,849 --> 01:02:34,351
So far, I don't think
any of his friends
889
01:02:34,351 --> 01:02:36,453
have signed up to
make that commitment.
890
01:02:40,257 --> 01:02:43,027
- Any one of us could
move into that house,
891
01:02:43,027 --> 01:02:46,296
but I've got four kids, you
know I've got a full time job.
892
01:02:46,296 --> 01:02:49,867
- I'm like you, I've got
kids, I don't have the time.
893
01:02:49,867 --> 01:02:53,437
- All the time, it's
hard to deal with.
894
01:02:53,437 --> 01:02:54,939
- I had thought
having somebody
895
01:02:54,939 --> 01:02:56,974
move in to Mary's place.
896
01:02:56,974 --> 01:02:58,475
- Yeah.
897
01:02:58,475 --> 01:02:59,676
- Would be perfect, to just
kind of look after Ron.
898
01:02:59,676 --> 01:03:00,477
Do what they did.
899
01:03:00,477 --> 01:03:01,846
- Yeah cook his meals.
900
01:03:01,846 --> 01:03:02,779
- Keep an eye on him.
901
01:03:02,779 --> 01:03:04,248
- I think that's a great idea.
902
01:03:04,248 --> 01:03:07,484
- But you're gonna have to
have the finances to back it.
903
01:03:07,484 --> 01:03:09,353
Obviously if he
lives 35 more years,
904
01:03:09,353 --> 01:03:11,588
you're talking a lot of money.
905
01:03:11,588 --> 01:03:13,090
- Yeah.
906
01:03:13,090 --> 01:03:15,325
- What's I'd like to see
happen is some finances set up,
907
01:03:15,325 --> 01:03:17,427
so whoever moves in there,
908
01:03:17,427 --> 01:03:20,130
is gonna be able to
financially cover ...
909
01:03:23,733 --> 01:03:25,569
- What did
Tim say the plan is?
910
01:03:56,200 --> 01:03:58,768
(solemn music)
911
01:04:17,287 --> 01:04:19,556
- I would say a
million dollars plus.
912
01:04:19,556 --> 01:04:21,025
- Even if
it's not a Dusenberg,
913
01:04:21,025 --> 01:04:23,093
if the cars are in the shape
that he says they're in.
914
01:04:23,093 --> 01:04:26,830
- Well he has plates that were
last registered in the 50s
915
01:04:26,830 --> 01:04:30,067
for all these supposed
vehicles in his place,
916
01:04:30,067 --> 01:04:31,568
he showed me these plates,
917
01:04:31,568 --> 01:04:33,703
and they look like
through in good condition.
918
01:04:33,703 --> 01:04:35,572
He's very convincing.
919
01:04:35,572 --> 01:04:37,975
- He said these cars
were in beautiful shape.
920
01:04:37,975 --> 01:04:39,809
He said you look like
you can just get in them
921
01:04:39,809 --> 01:04:40,810
and drive them away.
922
01:04:40,810 --> 01:04:42,746
- This is my one
possible theory.
923
01:04:42,746 --> 01:04:44,781
You know whenever you
cross that bridge,
924
01:04:44,781 --> 01:04:48,585
across the Clarion
River, there's a camp
925
01:04:48,585 --> 01:04:52,056
or some sort of a
residence that the driveway
926
01:04:52,056 --> 01:04:54,824
has been completely
consumed by grass.
927
01:04:54,824 --> 01:04:56,493
And if you look on your map,
928
01:04:56,493 --> 01:04:59,629
you'll see two buildings
beside each other.
929
01:04:59,629 --> 01:05:01,831
And then if you look one
woods line beside it,
930
01:05:01,831 --> 01:05:05,435
you'll see two buildings that
are roughly the same size
931
01:05:05,435 --> 01:05:07,604
that are half
consumed by the woods,
932
01:05:07,604 --> 01:05:09,773
but they're down in the valley.
933
01:05:09,773 --> 01:05:12,209
It fits the description,
it's in the same location
934
01:05:12,209 --> 01:05:14,979
of Ronald's original
map, and you just
935
01:05:14,979 --> 01:05:17,614
come around that hillside and
you come done into the valley
936
01:05:17,614 --> 01:05:19,416
and you're still in the woods,
937
01:05:19,416 --> 01:05:21,385
but you're coming right
into the back side
938
01:05:21,385 --> 01:05:23,053
of these two buildings.
939
01:05:23,053 --> 01:05:25,589
I wonder if that's
what he was doing.
940
01:05:25,589 --> 01:05:28,058
You know there's
little oil well roads
941
01:05:28,058 --> 01:05:29,493
up on that hillside.
942
01:05:29,493 --> 01:05:30,427
- They're everywhere.
943
01:05:30,427 --> 01:05:31,661
- And one of them tapers down
944
01:05:31,661 --> 01:05:33,730
and you can see it taper
down through the woods
945
01:05:33,730 --> 01:05:36,633
and it leads right in
behind those two buildings
946
01:05:36,633 --> 01:05:38,202
on the edge of that woods.
947
01:05:38,202 --> 01:05:39,769
And that's my theory is what
948
01:05:39,769 --> 01:05:42,172
he's talking about
is right there.
949
01:05:42,172 --> 01:05:43,807
And the only way to
find out for sure,
950
01:05:43,807 --> 01:05:47,877
you camo up, and you go
in, and you circle around
951
01:05:47,877 --> 01:05:51,915
and you go and see for
yourself to see if it's there.
952
01:05:55,319 --> 01:05:58,155
(dramatic music)
953
01:06:00,924 --> 01:06:02,492
- Hi Joy.
954
01:06:02,492 --> 01:06:04,995
I have my entourage
with me. (laughs)
955
01:06:04,995 --> 01:06:06,363
- I see, hi I'm
Joyce Cunningham,
956
01:06:06,363 --> 01:06:08,332
I'm the administrator here.
- Tim Heist.
957
01:06:08,332 --> 01:06:09,266
Good to meet you.
958
01:06:09,266 --> 01:06:10,700
- This is our main dining area.
959
01:06:10,700 --> 01:06:12,669
This is where we do a
lot of our activities
960
01:06:12,669 --> 01:06:14,171
and things also.
- Yeah.
961
01:06:14,171 --> 01:06:16,573
- We're actually going to
have a country kitchen here
962
01:06:16,573 --> 01:06:18,908
where we'll be
serving their meals
963
01:06:18,908 --> 01:06:20,410
and everything right out there.
964
01:06:20,410 --> 01:06:22,979
The other day we started
making stuffed apple cookies,
965
01:06:22,979 --> 01:06:25,149
they tuned into
little mini pies.
966
01:06:25,149 --> 01:06:27,651
(solemn music)
967
01:06:27,651 --> 01:06:30,087
They love doing
things like that.
968
01:06:30,087 --> 01:06:31,321
- All right.
969
01:06:31,321 --> 01:06:34,058
- I'll take
you over this way.
970
01:06:38,228 --> 01:06:40,797
- So where did we park when
we came up here the last time?
971
01:06:40,797 --> 01:06:42,132
- It was right here.
972
01:06:42,132 --> 01:06:43,233
- Right here.
973
01:06:43,233 --> 01:06:45,935
- To his lower road?
974
01:06:45,935 --> 01:06:47,037
- Yeah.
975
01:06:47,037 --> 01:06:47,971
(Ron speaking faintly)
976
01:06:47,971 --> 01:06:48,972
- The Piney Mansion is a place
977
01:06:48,972 --> 01:06:50,340
that we've spent
a small fortune,
978
01:06:50,340 --> 01:06:53,343
countless hours, trying to find.
979
01:06:53,343 --> 01:06:56,680
One time he took
us through a tunnel
980
01:06:56,680 --> 01:06:59,683
that had probably
caved in 50 years ago.
981
01:07:01,385 --> 01:07:03,120
- There's a
giant mound of rubble.
982
01:07:03,120 --> 01:07:05,189
Ron said, "This isn't good."
983
01:07:05,189 --> 01:07:07,691
- Climbing over
rocks in this tunnel
984
01:07:07,691 --> 01:07:10,527
and there's stuff falling
above us you know.
985
01:07:10,527 --> 01:07:12,962
- I'm thinking to myself,
this is absolutely crazy,
986
01:07:12,962 --> 01:07:15,432
what am I doing in here?
987
01:07:15,432 --> 01:07:18,835
We exited the tunnel
and I'm like whew,
988
01:07:18,835 --> 01:07:20,804
I'm glad that's over.
989
01:07:20,804 --> 01:07:23,039
And now we're staring
at a 300 yard long
990
01:07:23,039 --> 01:07:28,044
abandoned train bridge
that's just railroad ties
991
01:07:29,446 --> 01:07:33,417
on rusty iron work, 300
feet off the Clarion River.
992
01:07:35,419 --> 01:07:40,090
I made two steps on there,
and I'm looking at tree tops.
993
01:07:41,391 --> 01:07:43,393
- You're side-stepping
across this thing.
994
01:07:43,393 --> 01:07:44,928
I said, "Ron there
better be something good
995
01:07:44,928 --> 01:07:47,030
"on the other side of it."
996
01:07:47,030 --> 01:07:50,167
- We start walking
and we get halfway across
997
01:07:50,167 --> 01:07:54,538
until we looking at a gap in
the ties, we're down 300 feet.
998
01:07:57,674 --> 01:07:59,743
He walked over and he
walked on that steam beam,
999
01:07:59,743 --> 01:08:04,248
got back on the railroad ties,
and then kept on walking.
1000
01:08:05,682 --> 01:08:07,417
So we crossed the bridge.
1001
01:08:08,752 --> 01:08:10,954
- When we got
there we found nothing.
1002
01:08:23,833 --> 01:08:24,668
- Oh there it is.
1003
01:08:24,668 --> 01:08:25,502
- Oh right there.
1004
01:08:28,472 --> 01:08:30,307
(dramatic music)
1005
01:08:30,307 --> 01:08:31,141
- Alrighty.
1006
01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:37,914
- If he would choose
to have a private room,
1007
01:08:37,914 --> 01:08:42,319
he would have a bed, a dresser,
a nightstand, a wardrobe.
1008
01:08:42,319 --> 01:08:44,554
And then if he's in a private
room, he has his own bath.
1009
01:08:44,554 --> 01:08:45,689
- Bath yeah.
1010
01:08:45,689 --> 01:08:47,324
- It's a private.
1011
01:08:47,324 --> 01:08:48,325
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
1012
01:08:48,325 --> 01:08:49,159
- Okay.
1013
01:08:49,159 --> 01:08:51,161
- And there's no shower.
1014
01:08:51,161 --> 01:08:52,429
We have two shower rooms,
one on each end of the hall.
1015
01:08:52,429 --> 01:08:54,364
The TVs are included in
the room, which is nice.
1016
01:08:56,099 --> 01:08:57,934
- I'd come up three
or four times with him
1017
01:08:57,934 --> 01:09:00,337
and each time we'd go
in a different way.
1018
01:09:00,337 --> 01:09:04,208
You would think that
you can't miss it.
1019
01:09:04,208 --> 01:09:07,611
Well, you can, the
woods are so dense,
1020
01:09:07,611 --> 01:09:09,613
the pine trees are so dense.
1021
01:09:09,613 --> 01:09:12,316
Right here is where we
go off this little ridge.
1022
01:09:14,684 --> 01:09:16,753
You can be walking
through the Pine Forest
1023
01:09:16,753 --> 01:09:18,655
and fall right off
the face of this thing
1024
01:09:18,655 --> 01:09:20,123
and not even realize it.
1025
01:09:20,123 --> 01:09:22,326
- Holy Christ.
1026
01:09:22,326 --> 01:09:24,194
- It's a little tricky.
1027
01:09:27,264 --> 01:09:28,498
- We're in trouble.
1028
01:09:33,102 --> 01:09:35,939
- Give me your
hand, you got it.
1029
01:09:35,939 --> 01:09:38,708
(dramatic music)
1030
01:09:44,281 --> 01:09:46,716
- We've actually found houses
1031
01:09:46,716 --> 01:09:49,253
where the brush was so
thick, that you're standing
1032
01:09:49,253 --> 01:09:52,088
on the porch before you
know there's a house there.
1033
01:09:52,088 --> 01:09:54,291
And that's how thick
it is at Piney Mansion.
1034
01:10:00,530 --> 01:10:02,799
- Well how about he
gets there and you know,
1035
01:10:02,799 --> 01:10:04,901
like a week later
he wants to leave?
1036
01:10:04,901 --> 01:10:06,202
How do you deal with that?
1037
01:10:06,202 --> 01:10:08,405
'Cause that's one of
our biggest concerns.
1038
01:10:08,405 --> 01:10:11,708
He is very used to
getting his own way.
1039
01:10:11,708 --> 01:10:13,677
- This would be a
big change for him.
1040
01:10:13,677 --> 01:10:14,611
- Okay.
1041
01:10:14,611 --> 01:10:16,613
- Each home's gonna have rules
1042
01:10:16,613 --> 01:10:19,215
and he will have to follow them.
1043
01:10:19,215 --> 01:10:21,751
Some people they
can't do that do.
1044
01:10:21,751 --> 01:10:23,553
If he decides not
to follow the rules,
1045
01:10:23,553 --> 01:10:26,790
the home can give
him a 30 day notice.
1046
01:10:28,258 --> 01:10:29,493
- You guys ready?
1047
01:10:29,493 --> 01:10:31,928
- I think
we wore Mike out.
1048
01:10:31,928 --> 01:10:34,731
I'm probably just gonna sit here
1049
01:10:34,731 --> 01:10:36,833
for a half an hour
until I feel my chins.
1050
01:10:36,833 --> 01:10:39,235
Ron says we're not
even halfway there yet.
1051
01:10:39,235 --> 01:10:41,070
- You're gonna
miss that Dusenberg.
1052
01:10:41,070 --> 01:10:42,539
- I ain't carrying it back.
1053
01:10:42,539 --> 01:10:44,941
- Well, if you start
having a heart attack,
1054
01:10:44,941 --> 01:10:47,010
call my phone, we'll
come back for you.
1055
01:10:47,010 --> 01:10:48,678
- I don't think we
can get a helicopter in here.
1056
01:10:48,678 --> 01:10:51,415
- I kind of feel bad
leaving him there but ...
1057
01:10:51,415 --> 01:10:54,150
(dramatic music)
1058
01:10:59,122 --> 01:11:00,424
- We have more men
here than women,
1059
01:11:00,424 --> 01:11:02,726
by about a two to one ratio.
1060
01:11:02,726 --> 01:11:06,530
Our average age is 59
and all of our residents
1061
01:11:06,530 --> 01:11:08,798
carry a mental health diagnosis.
1062
01:11:08,798 --> 01:11:10,066
- Okay.
1063
01:11:10,066 --> 01:11:11,735
- That's the primary
reason they're here.
1064
01:11:11,735 --> 01:11:14,203
Everyone here has
lived on their own
1065
01:11:14,203 --> 01:11:16,840
and we're unsuccessful
at something.
1066
01:11:16,840 --> 01:11:21,545
Whether it be bathing,
dressing, medication management,
1067
01:11:21,545 --> 01:11:22,846
you know all of those things.
1068
01:11:22,846 --> 01:11:25,615
(dramatic music)
1069
01:11:41,264 --> 01:11:44,200
- I better check on him,
make sure he's still alive.
1070
01:11:45,369 --> 01:11:47,003
- He might
not have no signal.
1071
01:11:52,208 --> 01:11:54,978
- No service.
1072
01:11:54,978 --> 01:11:57,246
If we tried to call
9-1-1 we'd be in trouble.
1073
01:11:59,082 --> 01:12:00,650
You hear that?
1074
01:12:00,650 --> 01:12:01,618
- I hear it.
1075
01:12:03,487 --> 01:12:04,888
- Those voices sound
like they came from
1076
01:12:04,888 --> 01:12:08,358
right over there on the hill.
1077
01:12:08,358 --> 01:12:12,295
- I would say.
1078
01:12:12,295 --> 01:12:14,898
We better keep
quiet, sound travels.
1079
01:12:20,036 --> 01:12:21,137
- I got
that eerie feeling
1080
01:12:21,137 --> 01:12:23,072
of being in
someone's crosshairs.
1081
01:12:23,072 --> 01:12:25,141
That's what's gonna happen.
1082
01:12:25,141 --> 01:12:26,710
Told my wife that this morning.
1083
01:12:29,979 --> 01:12:30,880
If you see the top
of my head come off,
1084
01:12:30,880 --> 01:12:32,949
you just hit the ground.
1085
01:12:34,350 --> 01:12:36,553
- In this building here,
we have two bedrooms,
1086
01:12:36,553 --> 01:12:38,221
bathroom, bedroom, bedroom.
1087
01:12:39,122 --> 01:12:41,224
We have 4,000 in and out.
1088
01:12:42,225 --> 01:12:43,693
Same thing in this building.
1089
01:12:43,693 --> 01:12:47,163
The guys that are in here
are just like dug in.
1090
01:12:47,163 --> 01:12:48,798
Not a lot of turnover.
1091
01:12:49,766 --> 01:12:51,334
- looking for you.
1092
01:12:51,334 --> 01:12:52,636
- How was the dentist
this morning Howard?
1093
01:12:52,636 --> 01:12:54,404
- It was
good, he fixed me.
1094
01:12:54,404 --> 01:12:55,472
- Good.
1095
01:12:59,075 --> 01:13:01,244
- This almost
looks like a driveway.
1096
01:13:01,244 --> 01:13:06,249
I don't know.
1097
01:13:12,021 --> 01:13:14,090
- We've got
to be getting close.
1098
01:13:14,090 --> 01:13:16,392
- I got a good
feeling about this road.
1099
01:13:18,428 --> 01:13:20,096
- You find it steep?
1100
01:13:24,133 --> 01:13:26,436
- You guys see
that structure up there?
1101
01:13:27,771 --> 01:13:28,605
What the hell is that?
1102
01:13:30,574 --> 01:13:31,941
We have found something.
1103
01:13:36,245 --> 01:13:38,414
- I really wasn't sure
if we were moving forward
1104
01:13:38,414 --> 01:13:41,250
or what was happening, so.
1105
01:13:41,250 --> 01:13:45,321
- We, yeah, I can say Ron
can stay where he's at,
1106
01:13:45,321 --> 01:13:47,691
but is it really the
right thing to do.
1107
01:13:47,691 --> 01:13:51,294
I mean just from the
standpoint, it's an older home,
1108
01:13:51,294 --> 01:13:53,162
needs a lot of
maintenance and repair
1109
01:13:53,162 --> 01:13:55,832
and it's like he doesn't
want to do anything.
1110
01:13:55,832 --> 01:13:57,100
- Right.
1111
01:13:57,100 --> 01:14:01,538
- You know it's like you
know are we really just
1112
01:14:01,538 --> 01:14:04,140
prolonging something
that we should do.
1113
01:14:04,140 --> 01:14:04,974
- Right.
1114
01:14:04,974 --> 01:14:05,809
- Upfront.
1115
01:14:06,810 --> 01:14:07,811
- Okay.
1116
01:14:07,811 --> 01:14:10,647
(leaves rustling)
1117
01:14:36,606 --> 01:14:39,042
(dramatic music)
1118
01:14:39,042 --> 01:14:40,343
- What is this?
1119
01:14:40,343 --> 01:14:41,578
- I don't know.
1120
01:14:47,150 --> 01:14:49,819
(soft knocking)
1121
01:15:01,364 --> 01:15:03,366
Some kind of a workshop.
1122
01:15:04,500 --> 01:15:05,669
It's pretty quiet in there.
1123
01:15:07,236 --> 01:15:09,673
- This is probably a
campsite, I would imagine.
1124
01:15:09,673 --> 01:15:11,040
- A campsite.
1125
01:15:11,040 --> 01:15:12,709
- The cabins
are pretty clean.
1126
01:15:12,709 --> 01:15:14,143
- Yeah.
1127
01:15:14,143 --> 01:15:15,378
- I don't think anybody's
been here recently,
1128
01:15:15,378 --> 01:15:16,980
but they're definitely
watched and maintained.
1129
01:15:16,980 --> 01:15:19,348
- Yeah, Ronald's
sitting up there.
1130
01:15:19,348 --> 01:15:22,318
- You think he's spooked
because of those voices?
1131
01:15:22,318 --> 01:15:25,254
- Yeah, let me collect
Ronald and we'll figure out-
1132
01:15:25,254 --> 01:15:27,156
- I twisted my ankle.
- You want to go back?
1133
01:15:27,156 --> 01:15:28,692
- I don't think we can go
back through the woods.
1134
01:15:28,692 --> 01:15:31,094
- What about Mike?
1135
01:15:31,094 --> 01:15:33,229
- He's probably already
found his way back.
1136
01:15:37,834 --> 01:15:39,402
The buzzards looking for us.
1137
01:15:39,402 --> 01:15:42,171
(dramatic music)
1138
01:15:43,873 --> 01:15:45,008
Boy does this suck.
1139
01:15:48,845 --> 01:15:51,480
I was really hoping
to find it today.
1140
01:15:51,480 --> 01:15:53,249
Just like Ron said it would.
1141
01:16:00,924 --> 01:16:04,594
But being that we have
been on every other inch
1142
01:16:04,594 --> 01:16:07,964
of this entire area,
this was the only spot
1143
01:16:07,964 --> 01:16:12,669
that we hadn't been in, this
was it, no Piney Mansion.
1144
01:16:17,406 --> 01:16:20,677
Now someone's gonna have
to lend us a million bucks.
1145
01:16:22,145 --> 01:16:22,979
Oh no.
1146
01:16:25,214 --> 01:16:26,549
- I don't know, I
just don't know.
1147
01:16:26,549 --> 01:16:28,284
I don't think Ron
would make it up,
1148
01:16:28,284 --> 01:16:33,289
but it's not here.
1149
01:16:37,060 --> 01:16:39,796
(dramatic music)
1150
01:16:43,399 --> 01:16:46,169
I hope it is still
up here, I really do.
1151
01:16:47,336 --> 01:16:49,372
It's that one story
that never goes away.
1152
01:16:51,340 --> 01:16:54,343
As long as he holds on to
it, then I'm going to too.
1153
01:16:56,579 --> 01:16:57,613
- It's got to
be somewhere else.
1154
01:16:57,613 --> 01:16:59,282
- Has to be.
1155
01:16:59,282 --> 01:17:00,516
- But we've
been everywhere.
1156
01:17:00,516 --> 01:17:02,218
You're sure it's in
this plot of land.
1157
01:17:06,322 --> 01:17:09,859
- When the warm weather
comes, we'll go back again.
1158
01:17:09,859 --> 01:17:12,896
- It's 2:11, let's get rolling.
1159
01:17:12,896 --> 01:17:14,430
- Yeah let's head back.
1160
01:17:14,430 --> 01:17:15,531
- Yep.
1161
01:17:17,000 --> 01:17:17,834
- I'm-
1162
01:17:17,834 --> 01:17:19,836
- We gave it a shot Ron.
1163
01:17:28,111 --> 01:17:30,113
- We can do that.
1164
01:17:35,785 --> 01:17:36,619
Now over there.
1165
01:17:38,722 --> 01:17:41,490
(dramatic music)
1166
01:17:52,769 --> 01:17:53,602
- Would he
have loved those cars?
1167
01:17:53,602 --> 01:17:54,437
- Oh yes.
1168
01:18:51,160 --> 01:18:53,096
- Gotcha.
1169
01:18:59,903 --> 01:19:03,539
- I understand the challenge
that my parents had
1170
01:19:03,539 --> 01:19:06,542
throughout their life
dealing with Ron.
1171
01:19:06,542 --> 01:19:09,745
They did what they had to do.
1172
01:19:09,745 --> 01:19:13,817
Once my mother passes
away, I don't expect that
1173
01:19:13,817 --> 01:19:18,054
we'll be able to support
him there beyond five years.
1174
01:19:23,692 --> 01:19:27,430
- So I am making the
final decision to
say you have to move,
1175
01:19:27,430 --> 01:19:30,633
you have to transition to
a different environment.
1176
01:19:30,633 --> 01:19:32,869
(dramatic music)
1177
01:19:32,869 --> 01:19:33,803
- I hate the idea of him
1178
01:19:33,803 --> 01:19:35,038
being pulled out of that place.
1179
01:19:37,306 --> 01:19:39,843
But I don't have the
power to stop it.
1180
01:19:48,651 --> 01:19:49,485
I can't imagine going
into a group home
1181
01:19:50,353 --> 01:19:51,187
to hang out with Ron.
1182
01:19:54,190 --> 01:19:57,360
He's probably gonna be
withdrawn, he's not gonna talk,
1183
01:19:59,628 --> 01:20:02,031
and if he does talk,
what's he gonna talk about?
1184
01:20:03,466 --> 01:20:07,103
Memories, 'cause that's
all he have at that point.
1185
01:20:09,272 --> 01:20:12,408
- I wish I could give
Mom a solid plan.
1186
01:20:12,408 --> 01:20:14,710
She wants to know that
he's going to be okay.
1187
01:20:17,080 --> 01:20:20,016
- Take one day at a time
and hope for the best.
1188
01:20:21,550 --> 01:20:23,619
That's what I always say.
1189
01:20:26,522 --> 01:20:27,823
- There's no happy ending.
1190
01:20:29,859 --> 01:20:32,428
No, it is what it is.
1191
01:20:41,537 --> 01:20:43,672
- Ronald is a survivor.
1192
01:20:43,672 --> 01:20:46,842
He can't not be a
survivor, he'll find a way.
1193
01:20:51,414 --> 01:20:53,883
- What stories
would I tell people.
1194
01:20:53,883 --> 01:20:54,951
I wouldn't have 'em.
1195
01:20:59,322 --> 01:21:01,490
He's literally one of
God's masterpieces.
1196
01:21:03,026 --> 01:21:05,194
Why would you want
him to conform
1197
01:21:05,194 --> 01:21:08,664
when it's his nonconformity
that makes him who he is?
1198
01:22:48,231 --> 01:22:51,500
(upbeat country music)
1199
01:22:52,968 --> 01:22:54,337
- Where
we going today Ron?
1200
01:25:02,798 --> 01:25:05,468
(upbeat music)
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