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NARRATOR: With the experiment in its final stages...
I really want to thank Mel for her advice
to focus on the emotional safety.
That was just like a penny-drop moment for me.
..guidance from the experts helped Stella and Filip
get their relationship back on track...
I wrote, "Stay."
And the same.
..and last night saw some continue to celebrate
their love for one another.
I feel really connected to Rachel. We're getting closer.
I would like to leave.
NARRATOR: Chris blindsided Sam.
"Stay."
In this experiment, if one person says, "Stay",
and the other person says, "Leave",
the couple stays.
He asked me to be his girlfriend.
What inspired you to ask Bec that question?
NARRATOR: And when it was time to open up
and reveal his true feelings...
It was important to Bec.
Why was it important to you?
..Danny squirmed his way through an uncomfortable couch session.
The question - what was it? Like, it was a bit...
"Could you see yourself falling in love with me?"
It's a pretty black and white question.
I don't think you can promise that
before you're in love with someone.
NARRATOR: Tonight...
The experiment goes across the country.
Welcome home!
Wow!
NARRATOR: Homestays week has arrived
Over two big nights,
our couples get a glimpse of what married life will look like...
Cheers!
..beyond the experiment.
Whoa! Passenger princess!
NARRATOR: Steven sets sail on an exciting new future
with Rachel.
RACHEL: This is such a special place for him.
How lucky am I for him to have welcomed me into this?
I kind of like holding a rod and getting kissed. (LAUGHS)
(LAUGHS) Oh, hang on! (LAUGHS)
My vibes on the wedding day weren't really positive,
and I'm here to protect her.
NARRATOR: Stella's outspoken guests from her wedding day are back.
So, like, I've more information...
I'm getting - sorry to interrupt you.
I'm getting some not so confident vibes from over here.
NARRATOR: And then...
Welcome.
NARRATOR: Scott shows off to Gia, his waterside home.
Oh, it's a bit messy.
So random.
Weird. This wouldn't be big enough.
It'd be better if that wasn't there.
NARRATOR: Is Gia the most high maintenance house guest
Scott's ever seen?
Um, my house is way cleaner.
Oh, yeah, I couldn't... I couldn't live here.
If the roles were reversed and I was at Gia's house,
I wouldn't say anything but nice things.
(LIVELY MUSIC)
NARRATOR: It's the beginning
of one of the most exciting phases of the experiment,
homestays...
Can't believe I'm actually going to Adelaide.
I know, I think you're gonna love it.
..and this year, each of our couples
will be going to the destination
where they plan to live beyond the experiment.
Ready to go. What you pack?
Ready to go to Adelaide.
Radelaide.
The homestays have always been an essential part
of the Married at First Sight experiment,
as it allows our participants valuable insight
into their partner's world.
Yeah, I'll have to blindfold you on the way to the fishing spot,
but once we get there, I can take the blindfold off
and catch a few, uh, flatties. Yeah?
And, oh, there might be a blindfold in the bedroom, too.
Oh, no, babes, not at your parents house. Sorry!
(LAUGHS)
This week is also the perfect opportunity for our couples
to put into practice all that they've learned
from the experiment so far,
and apply it to the outside world.
NARRATOR: As most of our couples
are packed and ready to embark on their individual journeys...
..Filip is feeling the pressure
as homestays could make or break his future with Stella.
He is the one expected to make the move from Melbourne to Sydney.
All you need to have is some board shorts.
Some boardies, some shorts.
That's it. Shorts.
Yeah. Anything else like toothbrush?
Nah.
Nah, we don't brush teeth out in Cronulla, do we?
I just want to see Stella kind of in her natural environment
outside the experiment.
I'm obviously from Melbourne. I love it there.
The pressure's going to be on my decision to move to Sydney.
Since we first got together, we were always talking about it
and, you know, kind of spending some time out there,
particularly even after the experiment.
So, it feels like it's come around in like two seconds.
We obviously work in this experiment,
and this is just the further validation
that our relationship will work on the outside,
if I can see myself there.
Super keen to get out of this concrete jungle.
Yeah, I know.
And we're gonna switcheroo for some beach action.
Yeah.
Done.
NARRATOR: Across the hall, however,
Gia and Scott are still recovering
from last night's tense couch session.
(TENSE SOUNDTRACK)
I don't like drama. I don't like any of that.
I don't want it in my life, and I know Gia's been involved
in some inside the experiment, and I have to know
whether it's the pressure in here
or whether this is outside as well.
It's about how you carry yourself. That's just common knowledge.
I would never do that. Yeah, I know.
But that's what I'm saying. I would never do that.
From the stuff that's happened in the experiment,
I don't want to see that outside the experiment.
OK. That's all it is.
I'm not saying anything bad. Cool.
It's just what I've seen. Yeah, just -
you don't know me well enough then.
Babe, I'm only helping. It's just not who I am.
I'm just helping. OK. I just do not do that in life.
I do nursing, like...
I'm not saying that you're like that.
I'm a kind person. I would never... But anyway.
I'm not saying you're like that.
I'm trying to just say... Yep, yep.
..what I'm feeling.
It was very hurtful last night.
We've never had this conversation.
He's never said, "Hey, I'm concerned of drama in the outside world."
He's never.
So, yeah, I just felt like it was just unnecessary, last night.
I was already copping it
and it was just another fuel to the fire moment from Scott.
So, yeah, that is a blindside to me.
How was last night for you?
It was a tough session.
You gonna tell me
that you felt like I threw you under the bus,
which I apologise to make you feel that way.
It wasn't my intention.
Well, yeah. You apologised for how I felt.
You didn't apologise for what you did.
I felt attacked and I feel really hurt by what happened last night.
I do think he's empathetic, but I think there's a limit
to his empathetic-ness, if that makes sense.
I just want him to know that, like, I can't just get over this
in five minutes
because I don't want to be put in a position like this again.
Everyone is entitled to feel how they want to feel
and work things out... And I'm not stopping you.
..how they want to.
I'm not saying that you are... I'm not controlling your feelings...
..right now. ..Gia.
I let you do yourself. I'm just saying, right now...
I'm just saying right now,
it was brought up last night.
I didn't feel, like, heard and that you understood
where I was coming from.
So, throughout this whole experiment,
do you feel like I have been listening to any tough problems?
I'm just saying, I would like it if you look at it
at a different person's point of view and not your own.
Yeah.
If I'm going to say anything that I'm struggling in our relationship,
it's because I want to fix it to make us better.
I'm not here to try and make my partner look bad.
I'm trying to help us.
But she immediately just gets into defensive mode.
I'm at the point where I don't know what to do,
and I feel like I can't speak.
OK, I apologise.
It's obviously been a lot. It's why at the start...
So, I didn't need a grilling last night from my husband
on the couch either.
OK. Well, I apologise that you feel like that I gave you a grilling.
I'm just trying to help, Gia... Right.
..because I care about our relationship.
I genuinely care about us. That's why I'm still here.
And I'm getting frustrated.
I'm just - I don't know what to do anymore.
What else am I supposed to do?
This is why I can't fall in love right now.
Because there's constant pressure.
There's constant arguments.
OK, should we go pack, get the hell out of here?
Yeah. Cool.
Like, to argue and debate about something so bloody simple,
what's it going to be like outside this when we face a little hurdle?
NARRATOR: Down the hall...
..Bec and Danny are busy packing the essentials...
All packed.
I went to Chemist Warehouse quickly and got some bits.
It'll be so fresh.
Yay!
..as a Melbourne based Danny
prepares to head to Bec's home in Adelaide for the first time.
I'm also excited to like, go for a big walk with you
and so you can actually see like the surrounds of where I live.
NARRATOR: During last night's commitment ceremony,
Danny made a reluctant revelation
about the official status of their relationship.
And he asked me to be his girlfriend.
That's quite a move.
But what inspired you to ask Bec that question?
But, like, it was important to Bec, you know, 'cause, like...
Why was it important to you?
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
Well, 'cause it... 'Cause it gives Bec security.
Why was it important to you to ask her that?
'Cause I knew it would be special to Bec.
But why was it important to you?
(TENSE SOUNDTRACK)
Well, because I want her to be my girlfriend, like...
You know?
Obviously, as we know, like I told him, I love him
and he's not quite there yet,
but I just hope that when he sees me in my natural habitat,
that he's like, you know, everything I've told him about my life,
he can see and envisage
and, you know, maybe gets him that one step closer
to loving me too.
You will see why I say it's the perfect place to raise kids
because it's pretty, it's safe.
You've got a lot of space, you know, good schools,
but everywhere's 20 minutes to get to. It's the best.
That's good. Yeah. It's really good.
I'm excited to see it.
I've known Bec inside the experiment
where obviously there's a different side to Bec
which is when she's at home.
You don't know a gorilla until you see the gorilla
in its natural habitat is what they say.
So, not comparing Bec to a gorilla,
but yeah, it'll be nice to see her in her natural habitat.
Should we shoot off?
Let's go.
Yay! How exciting!
Shall we? Shall we?
Oui, oui! We shall.
Oui, oui!
NARRATOR: While most of our couples are packed and ready to leave...
Adelaide, here we come! Let's go!
Adelaide, here we come!
..one couple is yet to depart, having just woken up
in separate apartments
after Chris wrote, "Leave", at last night's commitment ceremony,
leaving Sam blindsided.
I've been going back and forth the last couple of days.
Um, and I've actually decided
that I need and I want to go put my dad hat on
and I would like to leave.
I just think that I need to concentrate on this next thing
that's coming,
and he's going to be - he's an amazing guy
and he'll be amazing for someone.
I just don't think it's me for the moment.
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
It sucks to see him right, "Leave."
And it's just really disappointing because a week ago,
we were in such a good spot.
I can see a magical, amazing life with Chris.
I would hate for our last interaction
to be that couch session.
One person says, "Stay." One person says, "Leave."
You're meant to stay for another week and just see
and like, going out to Chris's farm,
This is something Chris and I have been looking forward to
through the whole experiment,
so I'm trying to stay open and lean in.
There's always a glimmer of hope.
NARRATOR: Next door, Chris has also spent the morning reflecting.
Obviously, last night's couch session was brutal.
I got defensive, but this is part of the experiment.
They do hold a mirror up to you,
and maybe there was some behavioural issues
that I was doing that I wasn't aware of.
I've realised that I not only came on this experiment
to find love and a husband.
But, you know, I do want to grow as a person,
and I've realised that I need to work on a few things on myself.
So, I'm going to move forward and give this another crack
to see if Sam and I can turn it around at homestays,
have some fun at the farm
and see where I'm going to be raising the children
and see if we can rekindle what we had in the beginning.
Here we go. Central Coast homestays.
Let's go!
NARRATOR: Our couples are now en route
to their respective homestays...
(FILIP SINGING) # We're going to Bonnie Doon! #
..and while most make a beeline for their destination...
Hey, babe, can we stop at KFC to get some food for the road trip?
Sounds like a plan to me. Let's pull in.
Hi, there. What can I get for you today?
Two Go Buckets, please.
Do you want a chip before we turn out?
Yeah, why not? Chippy, chip.
Get it in there.
NARRATOR: The first to touch down are Gia and Scott,
where Melbourne based Gia
already has plans in place to move to the Gold Coast
immediately after the experiment.
Cute!
This is where we can play tennis at night,
but whenever, you play tennis in your bikini.
(CHUCKLES) Get a tan while I'm playing.
This morning was really tense, but since we've been off the plane,
I'm feeling really good. I'm really happy.
I'm just happy to be home.
We're in Scotty's place on the Gold Coast.
That's where we are right now.
And I am bloody excited to introduce my wife to my place,
my couch, my bedroom, the whole lot.
And you can't be angry on the Gold Coast. It's bloody sunny.
It's hot. That's what we want.
I'll just show you around.
Welcome.
Should I take my shoes off? Yes, please.
'Cause I know you don't like shoes in the house.
Good?
Oh, it's a bit messy.
Messy?
Is there stuff over there?
That's just my bike helmets.
OK...
I'd be lying if I didn't say, I'm coming in here
looking for a problem or looking
for something to not be happy about.
Like, that's just what women do.
Why are you walking around like you're just sussing or something?
I'm looking for problems.
Why do you have a rug on a rug?
Put your feet on it.
Yeah, like, yeah, nice, but it looks strange.
It looks like a pee pad or something.
Like on a rug. It's like, why is it there?
Oh...
This is upstairs.
So random.
You can look at the water when you're in the spa.
OK. Do you game?
I work.
You're so picky.
What are they?
It's more of an ornament.
Don't know why that's there.
I didn't know where I was going to put it.
Be better if that wasn't there.
Oh, my gosh!
Weird!
Yeah, you'd have to move that.
My tree's dead.
You know, my uncle gave that to me before he died.
Oh, shit. He died and the plant.
(LAUGHS) That's not nice.
If the roles were reversed and I was at Gia's house,
I wouldn't say anything but nice things.
It's definitely not as clean as I thought.
Um, my house is way cleaner.
End of story.
I could spend a couple of hours, like, just fixing a few things.
That's alright, you can do that. Yeah.
I would make Gia feel happy and comfortable
knowing that I'm in her home,
and she's proud of what she's done and what she's made.
I wouldn't go, "Oh, yuck.
"This is shit. That's shit."
I'd be like, "Wow, you've done such a good job."
Like, if the house is a mess,
yes, I would say something, but I know she's like me.
She's a clean person, but I wouldn't go nitpicking. No.
This is the walk-in robe.
(LAUGHS) Are you coming?
What's that?
It's a neck brace.
Why is it pink?
Why is it pink? Why not?
Look at you, trying to find a problem.
Well... Because of my neck...
I'm wondering why it's pink.
Gab and Maria...
Oh, yeah. Sure. Gab and Maria bought it.
Yeah. If I had...
Where's mine then if I had another one? If there was one for me.
No, I'm asking why it's pink.
I don't know. That was weird.
That was a bit of a red flag to me,
because he told me he's never had a girl at this house.
So, why is that there?
OK, so what we're gonna do
is we're going to call Gab and Maria,
and we're going to call them
and I'm going to say, "Did you guys buy me this neck brace?"
And they're going to say, "Yes."
I just - doesn't make sense.
The math isn't mathing for me.
(LAUGHTER)
What the hell?
Are you OK? No, I'm not OK.
Because I want to know more about that thing in here.
Let's go have a look.
It's like I need to give reason for everything I have.
I have not done anything to make Gia not trust me.
I'm trying to find problems.
You're trying to find a problem.
So, you look at a bloody neck brace for a plane.
But it's pink.
A normal thing to think.
I don't think there's not one thing I could say that I've made her feel
like she shouldn't trust me.
I've been very honest and vulnerable
this whole relationship and experiment.
Imagine if you came to my house and you saw some dude stuff.
I wouldn't judge you because I know you were single.
Hmm.
Can I put up with this every day of the week?
Trying to find a problem.
You shouldn't need to find something if you trust the person.
So, if you don't trust me, tell me.
NARRATOR: Further north,
Rachel and Steven are arriving at Steven's parents' holiday home
on the Central Coast of New South Wales,
where Steven plans to introduce Melbourne based wife, Rachel,
to the coastal lifestyle...
Am I getting on first? You get on first.
OK.
You can hold my hand if you want as you get in.
Is this little seat for me?
Front seat's for you. Whoa!
Passenger Princess!
..and Steven has wasted no time taking Rachel out
to enjoy his favourite pastime.
Do I look cute?
(LAUGHS) Yep.
Fisherman wife vibes.
(LAUGHS)
The last time I was on a boat
was definitely well over a decade ago...
..and I was extremely seasick.
We are off.
Oh, my god. LOL!
So, the last time I was on a boat was when I got married.
Alrighty. So, tell me, tell me, Rachel,
where's the fish at? Where's the... I don't know, you're the...
You're the captain. You lead me.
I'm very nervous about this.
Yeah. I'm nervous.
So much is falling on homestays
because me and Rachel have discussed locations outside the experiment,
and I've bluntly put it to Rachel.
Look, I probably can't compromise on anywhere else at the moment
besides Sydney.
I mean, this is all about seeing if Rachel can fit into my life
and if this doesn't work out for this small snippet...
..what's it going to look like, you know, in the real world?
We're here! Alright, the secret flatty hole.
(LAUGHS)
And, you know, romance happens in all different sorts of ways.
It doesn't have to be candlelights and drinks.
You just sit there and be pretty for a sec.
Alright. I got your weapon right here.
I may not express my feelings to her and go, "Hey, Rachel,
"I like you this much today or I like you this much",
but I sort of show it in gestures.
Because your passenger princess,
I'll even put the bait on for you
so you don't have to get your hands all dirty.
Taking her out in the boat and showing her my fishing spot.
Things, that's how I show my love towards someone.
And let me know when you get the nice little tug on it
because I'll be very excited.
(LAUGHTER)
Oh, I'm on! (LAUGHS)
It was definitely flirty and cheeky today.
(LAUGHS)
And it's really nice to see Steven in his element as well.
Alright, and this is fishing. You sit here like this.
What? No wine and snacks for the passenger princess?
Far out. I am a bad husband, aren't I?
I know. I'm glad you...
But I'm responsible as well.
No alcohol on a boat. I'm not driving.
Hang on. Wait, wait. Whoa. Is that a thing? No.
You tell me.
I don't know, babe.
I can see Steven and I together.
That's simple. That's easy.
We do that every day.
But can I see myself a part of his broader life?
Oh, ooh!
You know, we've come so far since our wedding,
our honeymoon and all of that, you know?
So, I'm really grateful to be here and also grateful to be here.
You might need to do a re-bait. It might've baited you.
This is such a special place for him and his family.
So, how lucky am I for him to have welcomed me into this?
Oh, she's on!
I got one, I got one!
Oh, no, I did, I really did!
I really got one.
Oh, my god, Steven!
Steven, I got a fish!
OK, I don't know what to do now.
You're gonna have to come and help me.
OK. OK. Hi.
Bring him in. Bring him in?
Yep.
I think, yes, me going out there
and showing that I know how to handle a rod
was absolutely an aphrodisiac for him.
(LAUGHS)
There you go.
Why would you put him in there to flick?
I'm not gonna hand him to you. Steven!
Alright. Hang on.
'Cause if he flicks, you can drop him back in the bucket.
I'm so scared.
Come here, babe. They are spiky.
Yay! There you go.
Hey! (LAUGHS)
Giant!
Hi, baby. Thank you.
Yes, it is impressive.
It's not every day you meet a woman that's willing to do that.
Appreciate it.
Pulling in the fish and touching the prawns.
I didn't have to babysit her.
Yeah, it's sexy.
I must admit, I kind of like holding a rod and getting kissed. (LAUGHS)
(LAUGHS) Oh, hang on!
(LAUGHTER)
NARRATOR: Having settled into Scott's home
on the Gold Coast,
Melbourne based Gia has made another shocking discovery.
I just don't even know,
like, my stuff wouldn't even fit in that closet.
You won't need to. What do you mean?
Like for now, until we find another place.
Do you know what I mean?
For now, this will do for whatever until we sort our stuff out.
But like, for me to move in... 100%.
Like just the closet and stuff, like, just be too stressful.
For me, personally,
and I don't want to be like a princess or like annoying,
but like his closet is big, but I'd have to share that closet with him,
and it's like just all my stuff
will be crammed in one like shelf in one area.
It's just like, that's not comfortable for me to live.
Yeah, like I just have a lot of stuff.
Like, I have two closets for myself and a whole beauty room
with shelves of more stuff.
We've already discussed that, in time, that we'll get a house
because we have your daughter and stuff. So...
This wouldn't be big enough, like my - the other room for her.
Like, like where would my mum stay if my mum visited?
Because my mum lives in Melbourne.
So, yeah, like it just like wouldn't logistically work.
I'm saying temporarily.
Apparently, there's no positives
and this is the problem.
It's my house. I'm proud of it. I've done everything here.
I've built everything myself.
For a guy before I met you...
No, this is great for a guy for himself, 100%.
Like it's great.
But I don't want to cram all my shit
in one little section of your closet.
Like, that's like, I can't do that.
Raises a few questions.
Like, is she like that with anything that's around me
or that I introduce her to?
It's just probably not big enough for what I'm used to.
But for you, it's good.
It is a bit scary thinking that like, what is life going to be like
outside the experiment?
Great. Already feel better.
These are little things that I can see
may be a bit of an impact on us.
Cute. So, cute.
NARRATOR: South of Sydney,
Stella and Filip are meeting with Stella's chosen family,
Joe and Leila.
Hi! Hey!
How are you?
I know!
It's really nice to see you again.
You good, you good? You well?
Thanks for having us.
We're really excited to see how Stella's going with Filip.
We've given them their space, their time.
I'm hoping that he is the right guy.
What is happening?
I love you! (LAUGHS)
My vibes on the wedding day weren't really positive.
NARRATOR: At Stella and Filip's wedding,
Joe had his doubts about Stella's new groom.
Who in their vows talks about their YouTube channel
and this and that?
Impress her in private. You don't need to tell the general public.
What's your vows to your partner? Your vow is this.
Is this.
That's why a red flag.
..and after expressing these concern to Stella and bridesmaid, Leila...
However, and I'm going to be completely transparent.
I'm getting red flag.
Absolutely.
I'm telling you now.
I don't think he has entered on the right foot.
I agree.
..Leila confronted Filip.
Stella didn't come here and talk to you about her business.
It just adds to my story as how I changed my life.
But I don't care, I don't care. I know.
I'm telling you... I'm going to stop you
just for a second.
You're irritated. OK.
It's OK.
I'm just listening to what you're saying.
No, no, no. It's OK. Breathe.
No, I'm relaxed, I'm breathing. Breathe, breathe.
No, you're getting really worked up.
No. I can feel it.
I can feel it. I can feel it, you don't have the tell me.
I feel your energy.
You are agitated.
Guys, take a seat. Let's take a seat.
That's just being the protective friend.
Yeah, I hope they enjoy the food.
Thank you. (LAUGHS)
You taking it or what's happening? No, no!
You pretty much did it.
And it's going to be a good way of catching him
in his sort of off-guard, you know?
I haven't really been in touch with Stella.
I've been trying to keep up with everything.
Coming in here, um, yeah.
I'm excited. Nervously excited.
Yeah.
But I'm definitely not going to be disrespectful.
I'm going to listen and absorb
because, you know, you don't mess with someone
that's making your food, you know?
No dietaries, right? Yeah.
Or the person that does your tax, you know? So...
So, yeah. Oh, yum!
How's it going?
Like, I haven't seen you since the wedding day.
The wedding. Yeah.
How are the living arrangements going?
How are you? Are you - is there, is there a connection there,
like with the whole...
Yeah, of course, with us, there is.
Of course. Amazing.
It was from like the get-go, I would say.
Get-go? Amazing. Yeah, that's right, that's right.
'Cause, I'm not gonna lie to you,
I did have... Tell me about the wedding.
I wanted to ask about the wedding. Here we go, here we go.
This is what I wanted to ask about the wedding.
But you asked another question. OK, OK.
Let's talk about the wedding. Let's go.
My concern for her is she's giving up so much.
She's come out to Australia... We're not selling me here, guys.
No, but I am selling you here.
She's given up a lot of her life.
You know, she's given up her family, her friends and everything.
And my only concern is I know what she's looking for.
She's looking for longevity.
And I'm here to protect her.
Filip got grilled by Joe.
Um, he put his really, like, protective, you know,
father figure hat on.
I don't want to be putting pressure on Filip to move to Sydney.
I want him to make this decision on his own, in his own mind.
And that's where, you know, I'm reserving myself
from asking hard, hard questions.
So, hard questions that came from Joe's mouth,
it's almost like he's asking what I'm feeling.
Yeah. So, he was doing, you know, I guess, the screening for me.
(SINGING CHEERFUL TUNE)
(LAUGHTER)
Hey!
Cheers! Salud!
So, what is the plan?
Are you moving to Melbourne? Are you moved to Sydney?
From the get-go, he said that he would be moving.
I've always been open, uh, to moving,
providing I met the right...
Providing I met the right person.
Um, I think, I don't know.
Sorry. Do you think you've met the right person?
Well, well, this is the thing, like, well...
No, like feelings. Like, yeah.
Like, feelings, it's on the way. On the way.
Yes, I need more information. I'm getting excited about you.
I'm getting some not so confident vibes from over here.
I am not convinced, Stella, that you have complete confidence.
I don't, at the end of the day.
And unfortunately, at this given stage,
you know, we do have the wishy-washy situation
and like, I don't want to ask and impose myself too much.
I don't want to put more pressure on him
because, you know, he did mention a couple of times,
you know, it's also a lot of pressure on him.
And... Yeah.
Like, I don't want to pressure him into giving me any answers.
OK.
Love is not enough. Like I don't think like Leila does.
They're a beautiful couple.
Like, he's a good looking guy.
She's an incredible, good looking woman.
I know Stella, she's a great rock.
I know that she's quite serious about it.
I think he is as well.
But I think their foundation is unstable at the moment.
So, out of 100. Yeah.
Joe, Joe, Joe! (LAUGHS)
We're getting into, like... No, no, no, no, no.
Well, they both came into this experiment for a reason.
Yeah, we did. Yeah.
Stella, where do you see yourself out of 100?
Um, if he would be here in Sydney...
No, no, you need to give me a number.
Just a number.
It would be 100 if I know... Wow!
Wow! Wow!
Well, let me bow to you.
That is incredible. That's a good man.
That is a huge call.
I do see growth in him. I do see stability with him.
He gives me reassurance, emotional safety.
I do see him as the father of the children.
Well...
You've just reassured me and reassured us.
Yeah. You know?
So, Filip, Where do you see yourself
out of 100 right now as a couple?
And be completely honest and I will not judge you.
In this current, in this current form, like,
like right now, where we're at,
so, like out of 100, like,
I'd - honestly, 75 out of 100.
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
NARRATOR: In Queensland,
Melbourne based Gia is settling into the Gold Coast lifestyle.
Do you wanna help me with the bed?
I'm here temporarily until we find a bigger place.
I just don't know where all my stuff would go.
I have a four bedroom worth of house, like stuff.
Like, I have so much stuff.
Like, what am I gonna do with it?
Can you grab the...
No, take them off completely.
I don't want to live out of a suitcase.
Like, I'd rather just go from my house to another house
of that size or bigger.
Like, that's just what I'm used to.
My bed has like two sets of these.
Another big Euro
and like three other ones across here.
I have like a big thick, like furry mink
that I fold and have on a certain way.
I have like heated blanket underneath because I'm always cold.
Geez, Louise. Yeah. Like have so many things.
I have like three mattress toppers because I want it like a cloud.
It's not going to be full pink though, is it?
It's all white. OK. That's alright then.
It's all white and cream.
No, I don't - like my beauty room is like pink and purple.
Everything else in my house is white and beige.
Everything is white and beige.
So, we are not allowed any my sheets.
Yeah. For the spare room. Yeah, for the guest room.
So, I'm the type of guy where, like, I look at why someone's upset.
Is this something that's going to be carrying on every single day?
Gia's not a go-with-the-flow kind of girl. No.
But everyone has their opinion. Gia is very picky.
We all know that. That's alright.
(LAUGHS)
Yeah, I couldn't, I couldn't live here.
NARRATOR: South of Sydney,
Stella and Filip are facing some harsh truths
in front of Joe and Leila.
So, Filip, where do you see yourself
out of 100 right now as a couple?
And be completely honest and I will not judge you.
In this current, in this current form, like,
like right now, where we're at,
so, like out of 100,
like, honestly,
75 out of 100.
What was said by me on the couch when experts asked,
"Oh, but he's giving you reassurance.
"He's telling you, he's telling you that he's going to move to Sydney."
I'm like, it is telling, it's words. It's not actions, right?
What he said today, like, you know, I'm 75% sure
and like, he's not yet there.
Yeah. It's just you're putting yourself on the line
again and again and again.
I'll tell you why and I'll tell you why.
Like, I've always had this over my head,
coming into this relationship, going, if I don't move to Sydney,
this is not going to work.
If I don't move to Sydney, this is not going to work.
You know what I mean? That's pressure.
I need to know where I fit in her lifestyle.
Just saying, I need to know where I fit in it.
Because if I'm moving and I'm moving my whole social...
I leave everyone behind. She will give.
She will throw... She is the priority.
I need to see that back as well, which I am. Like...
I'm just saying I need to see more of that.
It's not - we don't do it on promises.
Of course. We just need to...
We just need the time aspect to happen.
I don't want to say something that I don't feel,
which would be disingenuous to Stella.
If I was 100 out of 100,
I'd be literally moving in all my stuff already.
You know, that's where I think we're at.
A lot of things - you were saying before
that Stella's given up heaps to be here.
And I would argue that I've given up a lot,
and I'm willing to give up more to make this happen.
Moving forward, like post-experiment,
I just need to be sure. Do you know what I'm saying?
Like, I need you to, like, as much as I'm showing up for you,
I need you to show up for me.
You've got to give me the reassurance
as much as I am.
Like, I'm happy to be a rock, like I've been doing,
have patience and stuff like that.
But I need you to kind of meet me there as well.
So, I don't have 100% guarantee.
I wish I had a guarantee,
but I just wanted to be truthful and just no BS.
Look, he's very convincing.
Um, has he told me what I want to hear? Yes, he has.
Is that enough for Stella?
I'm hoping I'm wrong.
And I'm hoping the experiment has got everything right.
Hey, I hope I'm wrong.
I appreciate you showing up for me, because...
Yeah. We're glad to be here.
(DARK SOUNDTRACK)
NARRATOR: Still to come...
(LAUGHS)
..Rachel and Steven's homestay continues to progress.
I mentioned the affection last time we met.
Yes. Has that improved? Like...
It has improved a lot.
Where our focus is sort of heading towards now
is outside the experiment.
You've come a long way.
NARRATOR: And will Scott be able to voice his concerns with Gia?
Oh, like, yeah, just like...
OK.
I'm saying like, do you trust me 100%?
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
What's it like living with Steven?
(LAUGHS)
NARRATOR: In New South Wales, on the Central Coast,
Steven's parents, brother, and sister-in-law, Bianca,
are getting up to speed on their relationship.
So, Rach... Yes.
Please enlighten us.
We've come into a good, like,
I don't know, what would you call - rhythm.
You know, I know that Steven has quirks,
and I've just showed them patience and learned to live with them.
NARRATOR: The last time Rachel met with Steven's family...
To us!
..brother, Dylan, highlighted Steven's struggles
with intimate affection and connection.
Do you think Steven is affectionate enough?
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
No. (LAUGHTER)
Obviously, I mentioned the affection last time we met.
Yes. Has that improved?
It has improved a lot.
I'm a very affectionate person.
But now, I've noticed his hand will come wandering for mine.
Yeah. You know, he'll come to me
for a hug and all these little things. It's nice.
As far as the experiment goes, yeah,
We've had our highs and lows
and our highs are a lot higher than our lows.
So, it's going in the right direction.
I think you've come a long way since family stay
or whatever it's called.
Yeah, look at this. Rachel's the same.
Arm around. Oh, my gosh. That's right.
It feels really natural, welcoming Rachel and Steven.
Oh!
As a mum, seeing Steven in a relationship,
I feel fantastic because that's what I've always wanted for him.
But we're great inside the experiment.
Sort of where our focus is sort of heading towards now
is outside the experiment.
OK. Different states.
So, what are we thinking?
Do you want me to tell the plan? I've got the plan.
We're thinking Sydney? You've got the plan.
I've got the plan. Tell us the plan.
You, Steve. Let Steve tell me the plan.
Come on, Steve, 'cause I want to hear your plan.
So, to start with,
we're sort of going to just do long distance
and we're going to give it a time limit of roughly around six months
and see where we go from there.
Yeah. So, I need six more months with the love of my life,
which is Melbourne.
You know, I built that life for myself.
I made all my friends, built my career,
everything in Melbourne.
Yeah, I get that.
I know that it's got to come from me
because Steven's business isn't as flexible.
Yeah.
And at the end of the day, like, I want this to work
and I want our relationship to like grow and go forward.
So, that's fine. That's all good.
But at the moment it looks like Rach pushes the relationship along.
So, I don't want Steven to feel like,
well, I've got to sacrifice everything that I've worked for,
everything that I've built.
I felt like Steven never really said,
"I'm going to sacrifice..." anything
How does that make you feel, Steve?
She's basically saying she's going to move her whole life.
It makes me feel lucky
and, you know, very happy about it, you know?
And, um...
This feels amazing.
But also, at the same time, it actually sort of makes me feel
a little bit bad that I haven't compromised that much as well.
I feel like the butt-hole in the relationship.
I'm like, "Yeah, I'm just gonna chill here in Sydney
"and Rachel's going to come to me."
Yeah, it's a massive, it's a massive thing.
You don't put too much pressure on each other.
Six months transition time.
Steven might realise, "Well, maybe I'll give Melbourne a go."
And I've never said never either. He's never said never.
I've never said never. He's never said never.
Yeah, I get that.
Oh, but look, I'm really happy for you guys, to be honest.
Here's cheers and all this.
Thank you all so much.
Cheers. Cheers.
Family dinner with Rachel and Steven was great.
We just got to learn a lot,
which for us as a family, was very reassuring
that things are heading in the right direction.
They complement each other.
They bring different things to the table.
And I definitely think Rach
has had a positive effect on Steven's life.
Excited? Yeah.
NARRATOR: On the Gold Coast,
Gia and Scott are spending the day on the water.
Nice boat, eh? Yeah, it's nice.
NARRATOR: Joining them today are Scott's best friends,
Matt, Paige, Jackson and Bianca.
I'm feeling nervous.
Last time with Matt and Paige was family friends at the apartment.
Matt put his foot in his mouth and was saying some things.
It was just a bit, you know, disrespectful or inappropriate.
Is Gia a better version of your ex?
Don't compare me to his ex-girlfriend.
You want to be controversial?
I'll give it back because that's what I'm like.
I don't think you can compare
because I would never start an OnlyFans.
Good to see you, bro. Good to see you, bro.
Gia.
I mean, the last commitment ceremony,
Alessandra did say, "How do you think it's going to go, Gia,
"with your friends in real life?
"Do you think she's going to maybe have drama?"
Because obviously I have in the experiment.
Hello!
So, yeah, I mean, I've probably got to prove myself today.
Cheers to the good life and Gia and Scotty.
Cheers!
Yeah, like, I hope everyone's on their best behaviour today.
I reckon we'll hit the water, go for a cruise.
Done. Cool.
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
He's going to ask me questions, eh?
(LAUGHTER)
That's the name of the game.
That's the whole name of the game, isn't it?
Got to get to the bottom of everything, mate.
Oh... Yeah.
I'm not quite sure if they're the right fit.
I want to see where they're at.
But for the past week,
Scotty went a bit quiet on me, so I know something's up.
Yeah. Hmm.
Have youse - anyone dropped the L word yet?
Not yet. Yeah.
We've had arguments over it, to be honest.
What, like, "You love me first"?
No, it's like she's just waiting for me to say it.
But I don't want to feel like I need to say it
just to make Gia feel comfortable, you know?
And you want it to be real. You don't want it to be forced.
Yeah, it's...
So, what's the what's the next step, plug, you know?
I'm 100% moving. Yeah.
Like, so, I'm going to come with him to the Gold Coast.
Like, bring all our stuff as soon as we leave.
Look for a place and then move.
Yeah, we started looking at, like, bigger places
'cause obviously, like, yeah, I need more.
A bigger home.
In other words, she's saying Scott's place is, you know...
You need, you need one...
It's good, it's good for one man.
Bachelor pad, bachelor pad. It's great for a bachelor!
Like, as soon as the experiment ends,
she's going to move to Queensland.
You shouldn't just rush things too quickly.
They haven't even told each other that they love each other yet.
I feel like they should be knocking that off before they make,
you know, the big move in together.
It's just more for us now, the timing.
I want to go back a few times and then look at places
and decide like what date we move.
But she wants to do it before the end of the year.
It felt like a lot of pressure.
No, should go somewhere, like...
We've planned like,
because her daughter needs to be enrolled to a school.
Well, she's going on school holidays.
Yeah. We'll have the time
to, like, move and get a new school organised and all that.
Yeah. Yeah.
I felt the pressure and I'm not even in the relationship.
I said like, I wanted to have like one or two more kids.
Um, like have a big house, have this certain car. Like...
He might be happy discussing it all.
But I think behind the scenes,
and when we question him one-on-one about this,
this is when we really will be getting the true colours.
Yeah. Yeah.
So...
NARRATOR: Next...
I feel like I see you being pressured.
I wasn't seeing 100% real out there.
Well, how much longer does it go for?
Three weeks, I think.
NARRATOR: On the Gold Coast,
Gia is getting to know Scott's childhood friend, Jackson,
and partner, Bianca.
After that, we like separate
and we deliberate our decision
if we're going to stay together outside.
NARRATOR: Downstairs, Scott is debriefing
with Matt and Paige.
Alright, Scotty. So, being your friend, knowing you so well,
I feel like I see you being pressured.
I feel like I wasn't seeing 100% real out there.
Well, this is the thing.
When we have our really good moments,
that makes me feel like I'm falling in love with her.
But then when we have tough situations or arguments,
that pulls me back.
There was nothing in my house, but there was a pink neck pillow.
Yeah. Travel pillow? Yeah.
"What's that? Who's that from?"
Pretty much saying, like, "Who is this from?"
Like there's another girl that's given it to me.
Has any other girl worn it around their neck?
No.
Little things like that makes me feel like she doesn't trust me.
It's all these little hurdles, like it's just a pillow
at the end of the day.
And if that's a little small subject that could affect someone,
what else out there could trigger her?
So, right now, I feel so much for her
because we're so good and strong.
But then as soon as we hit a bump like that, it retracts me.
I can't, I just - this is what's so bad about me.
I - things happen probably once a week
and I'm like, I forget about 'em.
Some of the behaviour throughout this experiment,
the drama, the fighting. I don't like that stuff.
Yeah.
Does she get a little bit into it?
100%.
Don't gaslight me!
Watch your mouth, girl! Watch your mouth.
I'm being honest!
Don't lie about me. Be accountable!
Absolutely not. You're not going to gaslight a woman right now.
You know what you said.
Why the hell would I make... Gia, Gia, Gia...
Stop. I'm talking.
Because you're a mean girl
and all you do is go around... Oh, I'm a mean girl!
..and talk shit about every girl! Mean girl!
(LAUGHS)
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
I showed screenshots to a girlfriend. Sue me. Like...
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
Alessandra said something along the lines
of, "You know, Scott, do you think this is something
"you could put up with outside the experiment?"
I said, "No, I wouldn't tolerate it."
Which is true because she has been in a lot of drama.
Can I put up with this outside the experiment?
Yeah. Is she like this
outside the experiment? I don't know.
Where I'm like (BLEEP), like, is this normal?
Yeah. I don't, I get so confused.
Because I have so much hope because I see so much good in her.
I want Scotty to like, really think about
is this going to actually work for him?
Scotty doesn't get involved in that kind of drama. He doesn't.
You know, his life is just so - he's a cruisey guy.
You know, I feel like you're in two minds.
When it's good, you're very happy.
But then when it's bad, like that is something
that you would run away from in the real world.
That's my concern.
That's why I don't understand
why you need to rush when you get out.
Because... I don't want to rush.
Yeah.
She wants to move within the month, and I don't want to do that,
but I'm trying to make her feel secure.
Like, because if I say to her I want longer,
she thinks I'm leading her on, but I'm not.
Yeah. What I heard out there
is that she thinks that she's moving up.
Four bedroom house.
School, kids, boom. It's just you need...
You need to be more honest with yourself.
I could see it out there. I see you being pressured.
If this is everything right now,
do I think they would work outside the experiment?
No. 'Cause I know Scotty so well
to know that he would go running for the hills.
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
Gia's giving excuses
that the experiment is what's setting her off all the time
and once we're in our four bedroom house
and everything's all running perfect,
it's all going to be happy ending.
But I still think there'll be external triggers
that they'll have to navigate.
Right. So, you're scared to say,
"Hey, I don't want to move so quickly."
Like, are you scared about her reaction?
Pretty much.
And that's when I feel like I'm on eggshells.
Like you need to be able to voice your concerns.
How is a relationship going to work on the outside
if you're in an experiment right now
and you can't even voice how you feel?
Yeah, I have these doubts and concerns
and like right now, I can't be 100% certain.
There's a lot of things I want to talk about with her privately.
I just wanted to be able to talk about anything,
not feel uncomfortable
and not Gia feel like it's going to be an argument.
It's just a lot for me to process.
Like, moving forward. What do you guys think I should personally do?
Paige?
I just - you're up there telling me that you guys are great,
but then down here you're saying,
"Well, actually, like, you know, once a week,
"I'm having issues."
To be honest, don't worry about walking on eggshells.
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
There's so many things I need to address.
Just overlook our relationship in general and our behaviours,
how we interact, how we communicate.
There's so many things we need to get through
before I can make a final decision,
because I'm not 100% there yet.
I feel like you do have feelings
and there are good times and you do feel like you're falling.
But then there's the other side
and, I don't know, I just feel like, yeah, you're turning
a blind eye to everything else right now.
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
NARRATOR: As the sun sets on another day of homestays...
I'm happier than ever. How does it feel
having a girl in your house?
It feels quite juicy.
Juicy? (LAUGHS)
..our couples are settling in for the night.
(SNORING)
NARRATOR: And on the Central Coast of New South Wales,
Rachel and Steven tuck into bed.
You've got a sleepy face. Sleepy face?
You've got sleepy face. Sleepy face! (LAUGHS)
NARRATOR: But not before saying good night...
Let's call it a night, shall we? Yeah. Let's get some sleep.
Alright. (KNOCK ON DOOR)
..to Mum.
I'm going to bed.
I hope you enjoyed dinner.
So, have a good night and we'll see you tomorrow morning.
Thanks. Have a good night.
Night! Good night!
(LAUGHS)
Alright.
Alrighty.
Not as big as our bed in...
I know! This is a lot smaller than what we're used to, but...
(LAUGHS)
Close quarters around here. I know!
What's that touching me?
(LAUGHTER)
NARRATOR: With homestays drawing to a close...
It's been a whirlwind of emotions!
..Stella and Filip are heading to lunch
after some difficult conversations yesterday,
where Filip expressed his 75% assurance in the relationship.
Joe asked, "Out of 100, how do you feel?"
Filip said 75.
I said 100% and like, for me, I really need to stop my brain
going into overdrive.
I really do, but it doesn't feel resolved, if that makes sense.
Like, yeah, yeah.
Um...
Joe asked, obviously, you know, a very hard question.
You know, where out of 100,
how certain you feel.
And you know, I said, yes, I do see a future.
I'm very thankful for Joe that he asked that question,
because I would have never dared to ask it directly like that.
So, these are the, you know, the difficult parts.
Not having...
Certainty. ..certainty. Yeah.
It's not a rejection.
No. Of course.
Yeah, it definitely wasn't a rejection.
I'm feeling it as much as you are.
There's a few moving parts. That's all it is.
The big ticket items are good.
Like we love each other.
Like we've got good respect,
like there's good potential for a future, you know?
So, 100% committed, right?
75% sure how it's all going to work,
the nuts and bolts.
Stella's definitely the right person for me.
I just hate it when I don't have anything sorted,
how it's going to work
and all that kind of stuff that's yet to be sorted.
Like, you've got everything that I want in a partner.
I'm just a realist here and I just think through logistics
and stuff like that.
There's, there's obviously living arrangements,
how we're going to go moving forward,
uh, how I'm going to be working here,
uh, what I'll do for work in the meantime,
all that kind of stuff.
That's kind of, that was my all-round out of 100.
You've always told me like, "Don't come here to Sydney for me."
And I'm just like, well, deal with it.
I'm open to moving now.
Yes, I can see myself here.
She told me that she's already 100 out of 100, like in this,
like, ready to go.
So, like she's ready to go.
So, now it's just kind of... I need to sort my shit out.
You as a person...
Yeah. It's like pretty much flawless.
Oh, I almost cried.
I got what I needed.
I got my reassurances.
Just let me lead sometimes. Just let me lead, you know?
Like I needed for him to put the plans in motion,
what he's going to do after the experiment.
This is... This is it.
He's shown up for me over and over again
and it's a successful end of the homestays.
I can cry now. (LAUGHS)
We are coming out stronger than we came in.
NARRATOR: Coming up...
Well, do you even trust me?
NARRATOR: Scott finds his voice.
OK, so, but do you put yourself in my shoes?
I feel like sometimes I'm walking on eggshells.
I feel like you might get defensive and then me like...
OK, Scott.
No, no, what I'm saying is, like, I...
I didn't know you wanted to argue today.
NARRATOR: On the Central Coast of New South Wales,
for Steven, homestays has helped him envision a future with Rachel
outside the experiment...
..and has decided to take her on a special date
to share exactly how he feels.
Ah, yeah, that's good stuff.
So good.
So, I thought I would, uh, bring out Rachel to the local venue,
and we'd have a little bit of a lunch,
a bit of a drink, and maybe verbalise my emotions
towards Rachel a little bit more.
Cheers.
(CLASSES CLINK)
Oh, ding!
It's pretty hard to speak about my feelings.
It's hard for me to be vulnerable.
It stresses me out.
I do adore Rachel.
I do want her to know that.
Can you believe it? Last day of homestays.
It goes quick, eh? Really does. It really does.
It's even crazier that, you know, it only felt like yesterday
that we were getting married.
On that boat.
Literally felt like the floor was moving
and turned around
and I met you for the first time.
Under the word 'I like you',
I've got so many reasons why I like Rachel.
So, today is a day to express those feelings to her.
I may not spell it out for you verbally,
but just seeing you yesterday on the boat,
having a go, casting the rod.
For me, what I see is a wife outside the experiment.
Thank you, and I'm really happy how homestays went...
Me too. ..and speaking about feelings...
..I like where this relationship is going and I like you,
and if it keeps going in the right direction,
I can see myself falling in love with you one day.
Um, me being vulnerable here. (CHUCKLES)
About to... You're going to make me cry.
So...
I'm feeling so good. (LAUGHS)
What better than to have your man tell you that he likes you
a couple of times, and he's reassuring you
about where his feelings are. It was beautiful.
The way that we interact, the way that we are together
now versus the start line.
So different.
But I really appreciate you verbalising and reassuring me
that, you know, like, yeah, maybe we are a little bit
more on par than what I think.
Yeah. It makes me really happy.
And I've got to stress that one to you.
And I sort of need to reassure that and spell it out for you.
I do like you and I have caught up in my feelings for you.
I think it's...
This is amazing.
Like, I just - it really reaffirms that I'm not out here by myself.
Like the feelings are real.
The feelings are mutual.
(LAUGHS)
We're leaving here stronger.
It is making me really excited about moving to Sydney
and being a part of this life,
and that's exactly where I wanted Steven and I to be.
Homestays has been great. Yep.
Cheers, babe. Cheers.
Holy shit. This is real. (LAUGHS)
So, last night of homestays, do you think it was successful?
Did you think it would go this way or are you surprised?
Um...
NARRATOR: Armed with feedback from his friends,
Scott wants to address his concerns with Gia about life together
after the experiment.
I need to be 100% certain before final vows,
and I feel like I want to be able to communicate 100%,
be open with my feelings
without feeling like I'm on eggshells.
I mean, there's a couple of little things
I think we still need to address
and for me to think about within this experiment
and outside this experiment, for us to be 100%.
Oh, like, yeah,
just obviously we had a rough week and stuff,
so I didn't know how it was going to go.
I didn't know if you didn't want to be here, but like...
OK.
We all have our moments, we're human beings, like...
(TENSE SOUNDTRACK)
I just want you to like get that, that's all.
Well, sometimes it is difficult to have conversations with Gia
because I think sometimes Gia can still repel
and get defensive
when I'm just trying to talk about a subject.
My biggest question to you, like, I know we like trust one another,
but sometimes I feel like...
Do you like fully 100% trust me?
With what? In what way?
Every way.
With - I don't understand.
Do you trust me? Like, do you trust my words?
Do you trust me as a person?
Do you trust me 100%?
Say, for example, say, the neck pillow.
When I get the response of like, "Who's is that?"
The way you ask that,
it's like, well, do you even trust me?
OK. So, but do you put yourself in my shoes
and see how it may look... I do.
..from an outsider coming into your home,
when you said you've not had a woman in your house for years
in this house ever, and then I see a woman thing.
Do you see how from my point of view, how it could look?
Yeah, I know.
But, like, I don't know.
Just...
Like it's not like, oh, my god, I went looking,
but it was just there when I turned the corner in the closet.
Yeah, I know what you're saying. It's not like I opened the drawer
and was like, "Oh my god, what's in his house?"
From my point of view, like it looked a certain way.
(TENSE SOUNDTRACK)
I feel like sometimes I'm walking on eggshells
because I feel like if I want to bring up something,
I feel like you might misinterpret it the wrong way...
..get defensive and then me like...
OK, Scott.
No, no, what I'm saying is like...
I didn't know you wanted to argue today.
I feel like sometimes I'm walking on eggshells
because I feel like if I want to bring up something,
I feel like you might misinterpret it the wrong way...
..get defensive and then, do you know what I mean?
OK, Scott.
Like, no, no, what I'm saying is like...
I didn't know you wanted to argue today.
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
Walking a bit on eggshells?
I don't really know what that was about.
I wish you told me that you felt like you were on eggshells
'cause I had no idea.
I know you love to focus on the positives all the time
and so do I, but in life, it's not always positive.
100%. There's going to be moments
where I might lose my shit.
Like there's going to be moments where I am a bit fiery
about something.
Like, do you accept that that's me as a whole? Like...
I'm very self aware.
I would have listened and I would have been apologetic
if I needed to be.
I don't know why you feel...
No, this is... ..unsafe to like,
say what you want to say.
But even like trusting me as a person and marking my word,
like what I'm saying, like, do you trust me 100%? That's all.
(TENSE SOUNDTRACK)
No, I trust you. But can I commit to moving and everything
if you never feel like, you know, that you love me.
Where I'm at emotionally, moving forward,
like I'm just obviously I'm falling for you every day
and I, and I feel like we're on that path.
Yeah, we've been on that path for a while.
So, he's still falling. When's he going to hit the floor?
I don't know, he's been falling for a while.
Like how far is the (BLEEP) sky?
The things that I've been concerned
that I need to address
is the pressure, the love, the... Yeah, yeah.
That's the stuff that I've just - we've been talking about...
..this whole end of this experiment.
And you know me, I don't like to push things.
I don't like to rush things.
I don't like pressure. I like to go with the flow.
Like I don't like being pushed or rushed or setting a time.
But we do have our rough time, like when to do it all.
I need to feel safe and secure enough in this relationship,
and I need to feel that he is feeling the same way,
or I don't think I could continue this on.
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
That last step of all-in, being in love...
..I'm not there yet.
I just want to let my own feelings do its thing
and my feelings aren't being heard. Like...
That's what affects me and pushes me back.
NARRATOR: Tomorrow night...
Yay! So good.
..homestays continues.
Welcome home!
You should be able to say something nice and be genuine about it.
You're abusing me over a joke.
It pisses me off.
NARRATOR: What comment has Danny mad that leaves Bec seeing red?
I'm done.
NARRATOR: In Adelaide...
The biological clock is ticking.
You want to have a family and you don't want to keep putting it off.
..Alissa's mum shares words of wisdo
from her own life experience.
It's really stressful now.
A lot on the line.
DAVID: Alissa is spiralling.
NARRATOR: Could this be the most awkward homestay ever...
(CATTLE MOOS)
..as things for Chris and Sam go from bad...
Do you accept full responsibility for your defensiveness
and the aggression I felt from you last week?
..to worse.
Um...
(CATTLE MOOS)
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