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Thank you so much for coming in. Please have a seat.

Thank you for having us.

How are you?

Well, I hope you are doing the same.

Oh, I will start by saying I'm Crystal Parks, Alzheimer's therapist.

I really do hope you enjoyed today.

Anyway, then come back to see me here.

So we always do like to start with a few questions, you know, very basic, just

to kind of get to know each other, lift some things up a bit, so we can really

focus and get down to the roots of why we're here. Well, this is my stepson,

Aaron. Hi, Aaron. My name is Sugar.

Thank you. Me too.

Me too, too.

What brings you in here today?

Well, I've been having so many problems with him. Yeah, I didn't want to go.

He's fighting to even be here at all. I've just had so many issues with him

I need him to act well.

And he's just been acting like a rebellious little thinker.

Well, how?

I understand that can be frustrating when we have people in our lives causing

difficulty like that. But I'm so sorry. Pardon me. Let's backtrack just a little

bit. Just some basic courtesy things we can focus on around here.

We want to make sure that when we're talking about our feelings or anything

that's inside of us, that we speak more like, hi.

Instead of him, you know. I think it's just subconsciously we tend to feel a

little attacked is all. And nobody, this is a safe space.

No. Okay.

Nobody's going to feel attacked in here today. Okay.

All right. We'll admit.

It takes some practice. We'll get there.

My husband is making him come here with me today. Okay. We just can't get him

out of his room. And I have no idea why I wouldn't want him to just.

Come and interact with us and things like that. I don't have to come out of

room. Why? Why do I need to? It's my room. My privacy, you know?

I know it's your privacy, but son, you have to come out and interact with us.

Wow.

I hear both of you. And, again, that can be frustrating. You want your privacy.

And, you know, that makes sense. It's your room. Why would you not be able to

in there? Thank you. And you want to build a relationship with your stepson.

you want your family to be closer and have fun times. You can make nice

together. And it is a little difficult to do that.

We're shutting ourselves in our bedrooms all the time. But that's okay. You

know, usually there's more of a root thing going on there when, as teenagers,

want to shut ourselves. You know, we've both been there.

It might not seem like it, but it wasn't too long ago, believe it or not.

And so I do understand that. But is there something maybe that you're

feeling inside that...

makes you want to distance yourself or have that privacy? Do you feel

in your home, safe in your home? Yeah, they made my privacy because I have my

own personal things going on. I have my own personal life. Like, why would I

want my stepmom to interfere in my personal life? Like, come on now. It can

your own thing.

Don't deter me. Let me do my own thing. Like, come on now. What's wrong with

that? I just want to know what you're doing in there.

I'm living my life in my room.

What kinds of things? What are you interested in? That's all I want to

interested in a lot of things that I don't want to share about.

Well, why can't you share those with me? That's why we're here. We want you to

be there.

And why would I want to share them? I don't want to be there. Okay.

I hear everything you're saying. And again, totally make them. I get that.

Let's try and...

Let's move on now that we've covered why you want to be in your room all the

time and how you feel about that and how you feel about that. Let's see if we

can sort of build on that. So let's see here. So as far as, you know, recently,

maybe newer than later, is there anything maybe on your mind more

than usual that could be adding extra stress into your life that may, you

make you want to?

Yeah, her.

My parents.

Well, just look at him. He's got tattoos. One day he comes home, and I'm

what the hell?

And then earrings, you know.

Kills me. It's my life. I can do what I want with it. Where are you getting the

money to do all this, though?

I hustle.

What are you doing to hustle, though? I mean, are you selling drugs?

I'm trying. Well, let's see.

I have no clue. Okay, so another rule.

Well, I don't want to call it a rule or something.

Make sure of it.

Continue to be a baby.

I have a talking deck, but I don't think we, I think we're all grown up enough

here to just let one person talk at a time.

Yeah? Can we do that? Okay.

Now, you mentioned when I say stressors going on in your life, your stepmom

here.

What is so stressful, if I may ask? Like, what is it do you not like that

they're together?

Is there something that makes you uncomfortable that maybe you haven't

anyone?

I mean, it definitely was a little hard when they got married.

I mean, like, what's the point? Come on, y 'all are old enough. Why do you want

to get married?

And on top of that, like, if I'm doing something in my room, why would you want

to come knocking and, like, keep knocking until I open the door? Like,

frustrates me. You know what I mean?

Why would you want to do that?

And if I'm in the middle of something, my own personal private thing that a guy

does, Like, I have to stop all that, and that is frustrating, you know? Well,

you don't pay the rent there. I mean, I'm welcome to come in any time I want.

the last question we have here for both of you, well, sort of laugh, but

in this list we're going to cover, what outcome are we hoping for?

Are you two both... Are you wanting to get closer?

Wanting them to leave me alone. That's the outcome I want. I want more. I know.

I do. I just want to get to know them more, you know, and have, like, a loving

relationship. You know, like a normal family. I mean, I get it. I'm his

But, you know, what can I do?

Well, again, totally understandable for both of you. You have this woman who's

come into your life like, where did you come from?

Thank you. And the Lord knows what they're having fun doing without you.

that is, maybe you don't feel as included as you used to.

With all of that in mind, we do actually have some cutting edge,

up -to -date stuff here that I think, We should try, and I think you'd both be

very happy with the outcome, the results of it.

Oh, maybe I should.

Yeah, I'll give it a try. Yeah, we'll try anything at this point, you know.

to hear, because I really think it would be extremely beneficial.

Oh, well, throughout the process, you know, this new stuff, we're not living

the dark ages anymore.

I'm scared.

Oh, don't be scared. This is purely for sanitary purposes.

Sanitary? What?

There we are.

Now, I know it might seem alarming, but it really is the newest

therapy.

We've really been seeing some great results with it. And, Aaron, I

don't need to be pushy or anything like that. You know, I

do want you to feel comfortable. But it really feels like and why I feel like

the therapy will work best for you and both of you, of course.

I feel like maybe you're pulling back a little.

Like maybe there's something, you know, you've been keeping to yourself

for maybe a long time, maybe not long at all, but, you know, that can be really

hard on humans, on our brains. We're not meant to live in isolation with secrets

and all this stuff laying on us. So, is there anything...

That maybe you feel safe venting, airing out in here?

I don't know if I'm... I don't know if I want to talk

about it or like... If there is something, then... It's okay.

We're here. It's safe. There is no judgment here.

This is a...

Judge -free zone for anything, anything at all. I'm here to help.

My sister... I'm sorry, what was that?

Could you speak to me, please?

My sister and I... Your sister and I what?

Your sister?

Is she not being nice to you? You haven't...

Should we bring her home? No, no, she's great.

Okay.

I'm sorry, what?

I'm literally, am I hearing or something?

You figured it out already, come on.

My sister and I had sex. You what?

You've been thinking about fucking me, brother?

Well, remember, remember.

Don't say we're talking about it.

No judgment here.

Thank you, cuz.

I don't know.

I mean, like, how?

Well, I think we all know how. Well, obviously I know how, but when, why, and

all the things.

I don't think I'm comfortable talking about it. Okay, well, we do want you, we

do want, maybe, maybe if you and I just...

We need to take a breath.

Yeah, take a breath. Lower the shoulders.

Relax. Go, get it going. So what brought this about?

I mean, it is quite the bonding experience for the two of you. So I

maybe it's getting in the way of you and your stepmom.

Yeah, I want to know.

I guess it just happened once.

I'm like, both of them are out. We were just on the couch, chilling. We had a

few, we had, we were just enjoying ourselves, okay?

I will start by saying, it is completely normal.

You know, we all have those hormones going crazy. They're normal.

They're maybe not necessarily traditional.

However, it's not like it's never happened before.

You know? Well, not on my watch. You're not biologically related to it. Your

brain isn't telling you. Don't go there. Yeah, I was full strength.

Yeah, so it doesn't feel, now he has that on, and now we can focus on you two

getting closer.

So, maybe, if you think about it with an open mind, of course, but

we're all here to do, I do apologize.

Maybe.

The reason could also be you are your family. You know, you feel

close with her. So maybe... I trust her. Yeah.

Maybe. Maybe, maybe, maybe.

I'm still not okay with it, though.

I mean, it's his step -sister. And those feelings are completely normal, too.

It's just that today...

The focus is bringing you two closer together.

So anything focusing on that, anything getting in the way of that is, you

know, counterproductive. I'm still trying to get over this shot. I mean,

want me to get closer to somebody who fucked my daughter?

Well, I wouldn't necessarily. Maybe look at it that way right now. Because let's

focus on you two. Okay, so let's try an exercise, shall we?

Try an exercise.

I don't know. I don't know. Do you have a license to even do any of this? I

mean... Well, you're the one who made the appointment with me. True.

But never said anything about... Oh, I would definitely pay more, you know,

closer attention to that next time. But yes, I am licensed.

All right. I guess I have to trust the process, as you say. I do love paying

that. Me too.

Will you please stand up?

Okay. Thank you.

And will you please stand up?

You're going to be very, very happy with the results, I promise.

Okay. Okay. So here, let's go ahead and we'll move you to the other side of

Erin. There we go.

There we go. Nice. And close there. Now, I'm going to go ahead and may I take

your hand?

Sure. Take your hand.

And we're going to, here, come up just a little closer here.

Here's some. There we go.

So we're going to take your hand and this is a bonding neck.

Who? I don't know about this.

Just sit with it for a moment.

Are you okay with that?

I guess. She's saying it's one at a time. Okay.

Aren't you already feeling closer? I feel closer to both of you.

I don't know if that's the kind of close I feel. want to feel well maybe maybe

if we try switching replacement all right now that's the

that's the first part of the building exercise we have okay so we're gonna

gonna move on okay are you okay with that yeah sure again let's focus on

results okay oh sure whatever you say ladies

And I'm going to place it on your little cock.

Right there. Just feel it. Okay.

It's really taken.

And then that's bonding.

Wow. Let's go ahead and let's move it.

Wow. Wow.

There we go.

Don't you feel it? You feeling close already?

Obviously. Now, let's try a little something else, okay?

Let's be here. We're going to go ahead and we're going to look each other in

eye. Okay?

Let's go ahead and just let them closer.

There we go. And just stay there.

There you go. And let's go ahead and we're going to trick our brain into

thinking we love all of this. We're going to smile.

Okay? Smile.

There we go. There we go. See?

You're eyes softening already.

There we go. Okay.

Now, we have a couple more of them. Keep smiling.

Keep smiling. There we go.

Lovingly. There we go. All right. Now, go ahead and just give each other a

little kiss.

Huh? Give each other a little kiss.

It's okay.

It's okay. This is all completely normal.

I'm still not okay with him.

Any of this. What are we doing?

You don't feel clocked on right now?

We're physically close, yes. And with physically comes everything else.

So, let's just keep going.

Go ahead and give your mother a kiss. There we go.

That was very weird.

Thank you.

It's okay.

Let's try that again, but we're going to try and soften her. A little bit.

Maybe add a little sensuality.

Just try. Just try.

Just a little longer. Go ahead and just a little longer.

There we go. Go ahead and stick your tongue in there.

It's okay. Just remember, trust the process.

Okay, let's try. There we go.

I knew both of you knew how to kiss. There you go.

Oh, I just love this so much.

There.

Go on. Get comfortable.

Okay, so I'm gonna go ahead and I'm gonna go lower than you two so you stay

right where you are, okay?

Stay right where you are. Now, let's continue on by remembering all the

All right?

Continue on doing that, and I'm going to go on to the next step. Close your

eyes, Mom. There you go. All right. So, don't be alarmed with anything. I'm just

moving your hand away from your sunscreen, okay?

And I'm going to undo your pants. So, if you feel that, all right.

I'm going to pull down your pants a little bit, okay?

What?

Okay, keep your lips together.

There we go. We're doing great. You guys are doing just fabulous.

There we are.

Well, I need to say today that you are

feeling closer to your mom, aren't you?

It's okay.

Okay, let's keep going. All right, so let's go ahead and get those hands down

there. Now, I'm going to go ahead and I'm going to take your hand. Keep the

together. Keep the lips together.

Okay, we have just one more step before we move on to the next one.

There we go. All right, now, Mom, go ahead and... Oh,

I just love...

Is that your penis?

That's your head.

Oh, but remember, let's focus.

Let's focus. Now, this is, you know, a trust -building, bond -building

exercise, okay? That's what we're focusing on, so let's stay focused.

we're going to go ahead and we're going to move on.

And I'm going to join the two of you back up here, okay?

I'm going to go ahead and join here.

Oh, don't get ahead of yourself. Now, this is for you two, all right? Now,

go ahead and take a seat.

Can I let you go ahead? There he is there.

Sure. For now, we can do that. There we go. All right. So stay right there.

Go ahead and make you a little more comfortable there. There we go.

All right.

So you two can leave here today and be so much closer. More close. Yeah, okay.

Okay, okay.

So, excuse me, I'm going to leave you two. There we go.

Open palm.

Open palm.

Safe space.

Open. All right, there we go.

So, here we go. Go ahead and just follow my lead, shall we?

Closer.

Closer.

There we go.

No, that's not where it goes.

I need to keep a closer eye on you, don't I?

All right, let's open the mouth.

We want to be loving, open, accepting.

There we go. No, just a little more.

Oh, you're, you're, um, done here. I hope it's not very father.

All right, there we go. Oh, yeah, there we are.

Just hold.

Be in the moment.

Just be in the moment.

There you go.

Yeah, very nice.

Thank you.

I can definitely tell that I'm going to be with you too. It's going to be great.

Okay.

Maybe try being a little closer.

Yeah, like maybe think out the tongue a little bit. Wouldn't that feel better?

I think that would. I think that would help, yeah.

There we go.

There we go.

Right.

Like a little wider.

There we go. There we go.

Well,

you can come up for a breath. There we go.

Now just go back down and we'll repeat that process.

There we go.

How does that feel for you?

We're not talking about that part though, but does it feel good?

Well,

don't forget to do that that's very important. All right again

I'm

feeling some movement. We're getting better. All right breathe.

Getting it. Good job. All right.

There we go. Breath.

Okay.

Now look.

Doesn't she look so pretty?

She is pretty.

Yeah. She loves you.

I want you two to be closer. Go again.

Yes. There we go.

There we are. I love it. I mean, do you love it? Yeah. All right. Breathe.

I just love the extra effort you're putting into this.

Quite impressive.

All right, now again.

Noises are good.

You agree?

All right, great.

Here we are. All right. Now, it's getting hot in here.

So let's go ahead and tell me how comfortable, shall we?

Go ahead.

It's gotten warm in here. You two are doing a great job.

Great job.

Let's keep up the good work. All right.

All right. Are we ready?

Are we ready?

Let's go.

Let's try a few more times, okay?

Okay. I think you're really, really getting it. There you go. Thank you for

help. I appreciate that. There you go. Okay. There we go.

Perfect.

Okay.

we go okay we're gonna go ahead and we're gonna go on to the next step okay

keep in mind cutting edge okay now how about you

well first mom could you please right over here there we go i'm gonna go ahead

and get in the middle of you two for a moment okay let me just go here

let me see pardon me there we go i don't need be in between you. We'll do it

this way. Yeah, right there. Perfect.

Now, this right here, this method we're trying out

here. Great results. Keep that in mind.

Well, I'm doing my best. You are doing great.

I'm doing great.

So, come back down here where we were when we left off.

Okay. I'm going the dark road back.

Okay. A process called milking. Hmm.

So, it's probably exactly what it sounds like, but just to make sure we're on

the same page, I'm going to make this movement

over and over again.

And milking by milk.

I mean, something else like... Oh, no.

Okay.

So, go ahead and go back down. And I liked how wet you had it before.

Okay. It looked like it would be very helpful in many ways.

So, go ahead and go back.

Go back down. There we go.

And... Let me get that carpet back in.

We want to keep him comfortable.

Now, don't forget to breathe.

Just every now and then. You can even breathe through your nose while you're

doing that.

All right.

There we go. Now, back up just a little bit.

There we go. Well, I think I apologize.

But you have a lot of hair.

Yeah, that would be great. So I'm going to go ahead and I'm going to start the

milking process.

Okay. Now, you keep doing what you were doing, but maybe...

Keep them out just a little bit further up here so I have room to milk. Okay.

Okay. Okay. Okay. We've got this. All right. You go ahead.

There we go.

Nice and close.

Hold your hair. Yes. And I...

Okay, now let's back off just a little bit. There we go. And how about this?

You cry.

Could you do me a little favor? Could you just get a little bit just for

medical, you know, we want to make sure it's nice. There we go. Okay.

So I'm going to just show you what I'm doing. Okay.

During the milking process.

And you just make sure you keep an eye there.

So you, you know, take note.

This is a very important step.

We want to make sure we get it right.

Now, when I'm doing milking, how do you like it?

Do you like it a little on the warmer side?

Do you like that?

Do you like a little twisting?

A little hard.

Hard? Yeah. Okay.

Yeah. Like that?

Yeah. That's not too hard. You want to go harder?

Yeah. Okay.

And you can twist as well.

Twist. Okay.

Take note.

Okay, like this?

And is it wet enough?

A little bit more.

Okay, there we go.

All right. I love this open communication we have going now. There

Good job, Mom. All right, a little harder.

A little around a little.

Can you like push it, like press it all the way down?

All the way down? Yeah. Oh, yeah.

Just like that?

A little harder?

Yeah. Well, no, no, no. We just want to make sure, you know, it has to be

personalized.

Go ahead and add a little bit more moisture there. There we are.

Keep everyone comfortable.

There we go.

That's another way to do it. I like the

go -getting attitude there, Mom.

Good job.

All right. Thank you, Amber.

Well, you two don't feel completely close together. Like, we fixed

yet, right? No. So we've got to keep going. No.

We've got to keep going. Close physically, though.

Yeah. We're close, but not that close.

Mm -hmm. I do have a little more involvement in this part.

Oh. Oh.

Okay. It's okay.

Remember, open mind, no judgment, all that good stuff.

All right. Well. She's a different kind of therapist. I think so. It is. Cutting

edge. I tell you, it works.

Okay,

let me go ahead and I'm going to step in between.

All the way as well.

Could you go ahead and put those over there for me? Okay. Here we go. All

Now you go ahead and you remove your dress.

Yeah. You don't want to miss any stuff. This is very important.

Okay. Okay.

Just being 100 % our authentic.

I'm being very.

Yeah. What's wrong with that? All right.

Over the head.

There we are.

There it is. That beautiful bulb of you. Go ahead and turn around. I'll help you

get out of the wrath of that.

Make sure we're all comfortable. There we go.

Off you go.

There.

Get these out of your way. Could you go ahead and put those over there too,

please? Perfect.

Okay. Now, we don't want that there.

It must be comfortable.

It's very good.

All right. So, the next step, we're going to get really,

really physically close together, okay? So, let's just go ahead and bring it in,

okay? So, I've showed you. Mm -hmm.

Okay,

we're going to take it a little longer.

Okay. Okay. We all trap each other here.

Nothing but love. All right. So, go ahead and get down on the floor on your

knees.

Perfect.

Now, let's go ahead and continue on with the exercise we were previously doing,

and then we're going to lead into the next step. Here we go.

You just have everything you want, don't you?

Right down here.

All right.

Let's go ahead and get on the couch.

It's working.

Stand up.

Help her up. There we go.

Now, you go ahead and sit on the couch.

And then you go ahead and continue that right there.

Okay. Just like so.

Milk it. Milk it. Use your mouth. Use all of that love you have to give.

I'm going to step right over here.

And I'm going to just add in some extra stuff there without you having to do

anything at all.

There we go.

So

good.

All right. Well, I think that you need a break. And I'll continue

this bath while you take a break and maybe

Um, look in each other's eyes.

You know?

Look at my dog.

Give each other some kisses again.

How does that feel?

Are you starting to enjoy yourself?

There we go.

Up and down. Up and down. Oh, yes.

Keep

going.

Yes.

There you go.

You guys are doing great.

Okay.

My baby.

I need a little something to do with his mouth. Why don't we switch this up a

little bit?

And you continue doing what you were doing with the armpit right here, okay?

Okay.

Perfect.

Let me just prep that for you. And I'm going to go ahead and sit on your face,

okay? Okay.

There we are. Look at these shoes.

Well, you need no instructions.

Oh, fuck yeah.

Om nom nom.

Okay.

observe.

Unless you would like to.

Oh, my.

Oh, yeah.

Oh,

fuck yeah.

position, shall we? This one is really, really, really well known for bringing

the arms down closer.

So, if you will please get on your knees facing the window in sort of a bent

over position.

There we go.

Now, wait for it. Don't get too excited.

I'm going to do the same thing, but I want you to try it on me first, okay?

all in position.

All right, you go for it.

And share some of that with mommy over there, huh?

And make sure that everyone is getting enough of everything.

Now you go ahead and have a seat again.

All right, thank you. And you and I, we're going to do some teamwork.

Okay.

Like before, but both together.

Okay. All right.

Oh, wow. Okay.

Give your faith something to do.

There we go.

I'm going to go ahead and lean

back. May I rest my heart? Of course.

There we go. Oh, yes, yes, yes.

Oh, I need to switch up position there.

Let's see here. There we go. Maybe if I... There we go.

You go ahead and give your son kisses back there.

facing him I want to make sure I

want

you

to suck on her neck the whole time she's

Oh, God. Oh, God.

You too.

No, I was just licking.

Right here.

Now,

it really, really works bringing two people together, I promise.

And while you're doing that, I'll just keep a mini up here. Okay.

Okay. Ready?

Ready? Oh, yes. Thank you. Thank you for that.

Oh, yes.

Oh, yeah.

I do not have much in time.

Oh no.

There we go. Oh, yeah.

Oh, fuck yes. Yes, yes, yes.

Oh, my God. Yeah, I'm going to fucking go.

Oh, my God. Oh,

my God.

Okay. Okay.

Okay. Oh,

my God.

Okay. Let's keep moving. Right along. Right along. Okay.

Fabulous. Okay. But more or less a monster.

Go ahead, and I want you to stand up a little. Okay. There you go. And we're

going to put her down on the back. Okay.

And you're going to probably just give all of it to her, okay?

Okay. Okay?

Yeah, make sure. Why don't you put this under me?

Do you need help? Oh, okay. Oh, okay.

She doesn't need any help. She's got this.

Oh.

Oh.

Oh, there we go. Oh, give her all that love.

Just like that, Mom.

Oh, yeah.

Oh, yeah.

Oh, yeah.

Oh, yeah.

You're really good at your job.

Okay,

we have one more.

One more, one more.

Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah.

I didn't do it.

I feel like when you're nervous, but you're dead.

Yeah. Yeah.

It's so good.

Oh, yeah.

Look how happy he is. Oh, yeah. Look how happy she is.

They're going to be great together.

Oh, yeah. See a picture.

Oh, yeah.

Go ahead.

Go ahead.

Oh, wow.

That was such a

great job both of you

teamwork. I just, I'm really proud.

Well, thank you. You're a great therapist. You are a very good

really good at what you do. I think we should. I think we're really, really

close now. Perfect.

Schedule our appointment for next week? Sure. Perfect.

Let's do it.