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- We had about 170 people in last night.

So they were queuing up like they were waiting for a bus.

Not unusual.

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Oh God, they've moved the bed.

The bed's moved.

Oh, I'm gonna have to do it with some gloves.

It is not nice picking up other people's used items,

but this is all part of the job.

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(phone rings)

Liberty Elite, can I help you?

- [NARRATOR] It's February at Liberty Elite,

one of Britain's most exclusive swinging and fetish clubs.

- [SPEAKER] I've noticed that you have

a St Andrew's cross and a spanking bench.

- We don't put them out

unless we've got somebody there to supervise.

- [NARRATOR] Boasting over 12,000 members,

it's the go-to place for non-monogamous couples

and randy singles craving no-string sex with strangers.

Located just off the A5 near Rugby,

the club attracts up to 200 guests a night,

which means a substantial cleanup job for the staff.

- [DIANE] It's a lot of bedding.

250 towels, 60 sheets,

but you just keep it rolling.

40 degrees again.

- [PRODUCER] What do you think is on all these towels?

- Body fluid.

It's no different from changing your own beds, is it?

The only thing is you've got probably

an accumulation of different DNA.

(bouncy music)

Oh dear, missed one.

They get caught up in the towels and that.

We cater for all age groups.

Mature Mischief, which is Wednesday.

And then you've got the younger crowd, hot wives.

But all the people are great.

Some of them are that nice.

They're as nice as the people you meet

going to ASDA or Morrisons.

- [NARRATOR] Wife swapping became popular in the late '60s.

And today there are over 1.5 million Brits on the scene

desperate to spice up their sex lives.

- [JOHN] Come on, let's get this right.

- [NARRATOR] Cashing in on our erotic desires

is Liberty's head honcho, 78-year-old John.

- I don't drink. I don't smoke.

I've been divorced since 1974.

The two main hobbies in my life,

one is making money,

and the other one, of course, is young ladies, or ladies,

which I'm very passionate about.

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I've been on the swingers scene since the late 1960s.

20 years ago, this complete building was up for sale.

I bought it.

I've probably spent 1.5 million on it.

- [NARRATOR] Liberty is one

of over 200 swingers clubs in the UK,

all vying to be number one for the discerning swinger.

- We try and have equipment that people don't have at home.

This sort of thing is quite difficult

to explain to the family,

but the lady would be lying just with her legs

sort of resting gently and just relaxing.

It moves with you. Nice rocking movement.

- [PRODUCER] Have you ever used this?

- Only a few times.

We're going into the main play area.

The first time I swung 50 years ago,

we were at a house party.

People started pairing off,

and we thought, "Well, okay, let's pair off."

And we did and it works wonder for your sex life.

What I designed here is there's two sliders

so that what you can do,

you can restrain someone using those

and turn them over without having to release them.

Okay.

- [PRODUCER] How often do you have sex?

- Oh gosh.

I'm down to perhaps two or three times a week now,

but no more.

Swinging is a way of life.

I'm not sure anybody was designed to have sex

with just one person for the whole of their life.

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- Nice, isn't it?

- I hate Valentine's Day.

One of the worst things in the world.

- [MARTYN] Oh, it's nice.

- [CHANELLE] Stop being so soppy.

- [NARRATOR] At least twice a week,

the club hosts themed events.

- Yeah, that looks nice, doesn't it?

Receptionist Cherri and club manager Chanelle

are busy preparing

for one of their biggest nights of the year,

Valentine's.

- All of our events are a big deal.

It's just nice to make an effort.

That is vile.

What is it?

We try and cater for everybody from all walks of life,

couples,

your single guys,

single ladies.

Everyone's got needs.

- [PRODUCER] When was the last time you had sex?

- Oh, a good couple of months ago.

Because I know this event is coming up,

and I know I'm just gonna get fucked left, right and center.

- People get the wrong perception

of the people that attend this club.

It's just normal, everyday people.

It's just that they choose

to do something different with their social life.

- This one has been inside Hannah's vagina.

- [PRODUCER] Why are you holding it that way round?

- Because that's the way it went.

(Hannah laughs)

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- [NARRATOR] Engineer Justin and stay-at-home-mom Hannah

live with their two young children.

- [HANNAH] We met about seven years ago,

and when I was actually pregnant with my second child,

food cravings didn't happen for me.

I got more sexual cravings instead.

I just turned around to Justin and was like,

"I fancy having a third person in the bedroom department."

- After we had kids,

the frequency that we had sex did go down quite a bit.

- [NARRATOR] Like many knew onto the scene,

the pair joined a partner swapping website

to find their first hookup.

- Started off with single female.

She came over for some pizza

and just sort of evolved from that.

- And we made him sit and watch.

- I think they were going at it together

for a good hour or so.

Every time I came near, they pushed me away.

- I did want him to get involved,

but I thought I'm having my fun first.

- I did feel a bit left out, yeah,

because for the majority of the night,

I wasn't able to do anything.

The couple's situation is more suitable for us

because then we both get something out of it.

- I've always been self-conscious of my body.

I've felt overweight, unattractive.

I'm just not a very confident person.

I was never one of the popular kids.

I used to get bullied in school.

They used to pull my hair, laugh at me.

They used to think that I was a bit of a nerd.

It wasn't a really fun time.

When Justin tells me that I look beautiful,

it just doesn't feel like it's enough.

Our relationship would have survived if he had said no,

because obviously, you know,

you have feelings for that person

and you take their feelings into consideration.

But I want other people to look at me and think,

"Wow, she looks really sexy"

to make me feel that I've still got it

even after having children.

- [NARRATOR] After two years of swinging from home,

the party will be their first visit to a club.

- [JUSTIN] So what are we taking then?

- [HANNAH] I got great deal too on them.

- [JUSTIN] Probably gonna come off

by the end of the night anyway.

If not by me, by someone else.

(dog yaps)

This Valentine's Day we're gonna go

and have sex with a load of other people.

What could be more romantic?

- [HANNAH] Having sex with other people,

it gives me a thrill.

The more that I go down the swinging route,

the more I can be the woman I want to be.

You'll never be fully happy

until you've fulfilled needs and stuff.

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- We do provide a good spread.

We do a selection of sandwiches.

Smoked salmon and prawn ring.

No expense spared.

- [CHANELLE] Yeah, that looks good.

- [MARTYN] Yeah, yeah.

- When John first opened this club,

there weren't a lot of swingers clubs around.

Now, there's probably one in every town.

Some people might not even realize

that there's one on their doorstep.

- Try to eat your heart out.

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- [NARRATOR] To help stand out in a crowded market,

the club boasts 12, four-star hotel rooms,

which guests can stay in for 60 quid a night.

- I didn't think I would be somewhere

like here for Valentine's.

Not that I'm complaining.

I've come alone because I can just do

what the hell I want when I want.

We're all here to have a bloody good time

and maybe a good fuck.

I don't know.

That's what I'm here for.

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- Men, don't want one. Haven't got time for one.

I haven't met a decent one in 33 years.

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- [NARRATOR] Single mum Malika works as a dancer

to support her young daughter.

- I have trust issues

because I've been treated so shit by men.

Do you know what I mean?

When damage is done and trust is broken,

you lose trust in everyone really.

- [NARRATOR] Since a messy breakup,

Malika has turned her back on relationships.

- Maybe if I've been treated like a princess all my life,

I wouldn't feel like I just want

to use and abuse him all the time.

I was in a full on relationship way too young.

I was with him for 10 years.

He was always controlling, possessive.

My dream was to be a professional dancer.

He was holding me back from my dreams.

When I found out he was cheating on me,

I packed our stuff and never went back.

Now I call the shots.

Lap dancing makes you feel strong, sexy.

I love the power I have over men.

It's quite a turn on.

When you're at a swinging party,

it's a really free vibe.

If it's there on a plate, I'm just gonna go for it.

Why the hell not?

- [JUSTIN] I know I'd like to see you enjoying yourself.

- With guys and girls or just girls?

- Whichever you want.

Whichever takes you fancy.

- It sounds like an experience is gonna happen.

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- Right.

- [NARRATOR] It's the day of the Valentine's party

at Liberty Elite,

Britain's premier swinging and fetish club.

- Happy Valentine's Day.

- I've gone all out, haven't I?

- [JOHN] I can see what's been done.

I'll go switch everything on.

- [NARRATOR] Tonight, eager guests are arriving

from across the country in search

of some fun between the sheets.

- Very sexy.

- [JOHN] The swingers community is quite substantial.

On your street, there will be somebody

in the swingers scene.

- [NARRATOR] For seasoned swingers

and husband and wife of 13 years Simon and Carolyn,

it's their second visit to Liberty.

- Swinging cannot save a marriage

that is on the downhill path,

but it can make a good relationship better.

- Some people might think this is an odd way

to spend Valentine's Day,

but we're not ordinary people.

- This is more of a roll of the dice.

We don't have to play if we don't want to.

And it's nice to kind of be picky really a bit.

- [CAROLYN] Yeah. - [SIMON] Yeah.

- I'm sharing my husband with people.

It's like lending your car out to someone.

You wouldn't just let any old stranger

like drive around the block in it.

I told him I was bisexual really early on

to make him aware of things

that I don't think I'd be ever prepared to let go of.

I didn't wanna get to like my old age

and not ever have lived.

- It was when my mom sadly passed away a few years ago,

that really impacted me because my mom loved life,

and we just really felt that it was important

to live life to the most.

Why not try different things and see how it feels?

- He wouldn't share a pizza,

so nothing took me by surprise more than you agreeing

to have a go at that kind of lifestyle.

- [PRODUCER] So did you just get into swinging

because you were worried

about Carolyn running off with a woman?

- No. No, not at all.

I was possibly the most jealous person

that I've met before this scene.

You'd never know what's gonna make you jealous though.

And sometimes it can just be a kiss.

Sometimes it could be your wife

just wants to fuck someone with a massive cock.

But actually it was really enjoyable.

More than having sex,

it was about building a connection.

- [PRODUCER] Are you sure?

- Yeah, quite sure.

- [NARRATOR] The couple got onto the scene four years ago,

and they're members of a wife swapping website

boosting over 200,000 users.

- So we've had a new message.

"I'm 38. I love teasing females.

I can, but not essential,

tie, restrain, and tease their pussy and ass

until they have multiple orgasms.

Even better if they can squirt."

Interested?

No, we like someone that has read about what we're into,

what we're interested in.

They can actually use English.

Full stops, commas, you know,

semicolon would be orgasmic.

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- Yeah, it should be okay I think.

- [NARRATOR] There's an hour to go

before the party kicks off.

- Okay, I'm happy with that.

- [NARRATOR] And the guests are dressing to impress.

- [MALIKA] It's time for mum to have her playtime.

- [SIMON] Wow. - All right?

- [SIMON] You look lovely. - Ta-da.

- [HANNAH] That looks stupid there.

- No, it doesn't. It looks good.

- [NARRATOR] For partners of seven years,

Justin and Hannah tonight will be their first time

inside a swingers club.

- You never know.

There might be a couple that we can join.

- [HANNAH] Yeah.

- It can be quite daunting for first timers.

It's exactly the same as visiting your local tennis club.

When you first go in,

you wonder who you're gonna have a game of tennis with,

who to have a drink with and what to do.

- [JUSTIN] You ready?

- I'm as ready as I'll have a be.

- Let's go.

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- Everything's fine. Good.

(exciting music continues)

Come on in. Welcome to the club.

Please be aware of the step.

(exciting music continues)

- [NARRATOR] To ensure the club

brings in suitable clientele,

guests are vetted before they arrive

and couples pay a 20 pound a year membership

as well as an entry fee.

- We welcome people from all walks,

but they have to be quite nice.

And I don't mean particularly attractive,

I just mean they have to be nice people.

- [PRODUCER] Does it help if they're attractive?

- Well, I think in all walks of life

it helps if you're attractive.

Come on, guys.

- Thank you.

- People do have a misconception

of what a swingers club is like.

Dirty old men just perving over women.

They're quite surprised when they walk straight

into a posh wine bar.

(Simon and Carolyn chatter)

- [NARRATOR] It may look like a swanky wine bar,

but for those who play their cards right,

a few hours from now,

they could be having sex with a beautiful stranger.

- Now, before we go through to the playroom,

just so you know, we don't allow you in there fully clothed.

You look like you're panicking and don't panic.

Underwear is fine. Just not fully clothed.

I don't swing. It's just not for me.

I couldn't imagine seeing my partner with somebody else.

I'd be more likely to punch him than anything else.

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- [HANNAH] Something strong.

- [JUSTIN] Can I get a Jameson and lemonade please.

Can't beat a good Irish whiskey.

- You can when it comes more bubbly.

- [JUSTIN] I'm not much of a rum fan.

- My fun ambition is to be a pirate, so.

- It's a good ambition.

- [HANNAH] That guy was cute.

Is it bad I'm actually a bit scared?

- You'll be fine.

- I do get nervous meeting new people.

I worry about whether they're gonna be interested in me.

I just want to make a good impression.

- [NARRATOR] For some, club nights are an opportunity

to satisfy an insatiable appetite for sex.

- We do have some ladies that go to the extreme.

I do know one lady that's had 18 in a night.

Don't ask me how because I have absolutely no idea.

Eighteens rather a lot, isn't it?

- [SHAVONNE] Can I come and say hello to you guys?

- [NARRATOR] 67-year-old Shavonne has been on the scene

for the past 10 years.

- I wish my dear, I wish.

No, I'm just visiting.

This is different to the ones I normally go to.

- Yeah, the jacuzzi, I worry about that.

You know what I mean?

That's why I go in there now before the cum starts.

- Just don't swallow anything.

(people laughing)

Plenty of sucking, but no swallowing.

(chill music)

Valentine's Day, it's lovely for me being a florist,

because I can make money,

but personally it passes me by like Christmas.

- [NARRATOR] Having never settled down,

Shavonne has lived alone for much of her life.

- Nice and firm, just as we like it.

One reason why I might not have married is that

I think I might get bored just with one person.

- [PRODUCER] When was the last time

someone bought you flowers?

- A few weeks ago actually.

A friend of mine came round

with a nice bunch of lilies for an inspection.

- [PRODUCER] What's an inspection?

- Basically to check out the size of his cock.

Right, come on then.

This is my playroom.

Bigger the better.

I invite lots of butt boys to come round and play.

One there and one here,

one in the middle and one there,

and then one over there and one there.

And then we'd have two at the end

watching and wanking probably.

And then we all swap round.

I just love watching them suck each other's cocks.

Oh.

When I first did this,

I couldn't believe that a 20-year-old

would wanna have sex with a 60-something-year-old.

But they do.

And I'm happy to oblige.

- [PRODUCER] Do you think sex would be better

if you were in love?

- Possibly, but then it could also be boring.

Would I choose to be swinging or in an unhappy marriage?

No question, is it? Swinging.

One big bag of toys.

This is probably my biggest

that goes up the guy's bum and that goes inside me.

Now not many guys can take that.

The most sessions I've had in a day would be three or four.

Breakfast, lunch, tea,

and possibly even supper.

(playful music)

It won't turn off. (laughs)

I'll have to use it then, won't I?

I would be disappointed

if I didn't play with one person at least,

but I would be very happy

if I sucked his cock, he licked my pussy,

he shot his load, and I had multiple orgasms. Perfect.

- [SPEAKER] What's your name?

- Shavonne.

Are you staying?

- [SPEAKER] Yeah. - Yeah.

- [NARRATOR] On the scene, single ladies like Shavonne,

are known as unicorns considered as rare

as the mythical creatures themselves.

- Hi.

- Welcome to Liberty Elite.

- [NARRATOR] Tonight, two have come at once

as 33-year-old single mom and fellow unicorn Malika arrives.

- For years, I was the most prudish person

you could get in the bedroom.

I was a shit fuck.

In the last couple of years, I've been scored quite high.

I don't have a type.

I'm just looking for somebody funny

who I can just have a laugh with.

(romantic music)

- Are you getting in the jacuzzi?

- [NARRATOR] With the party in full swing,

a group has caught Justin and Hannah's eye.

- [HANNAH] Oh, I love the jacuzzi, I do.

- My favorite place in the world.

- [JUSTIN] In an ideal scenario, we'll both end up playing.

- [HANNAH] I'd like to find a single girl

or a nice couple that we can have some fun with.

(group laughs)

- [JUSTIN] To be able to just go wild

is gonna be quite an incredible experience.

- [SPEAKER] Just going up. We'll see you in there.

- Let's go. Come on.

Oh my God, I'm so nervous.

(sultry music)

- [SHAVONNE] Did a couple of blowjobs with some guys

with some serious truncheons.

- Oh my God.

- Too big to go in there,

and definitely too big to go in there.

- Oh.

- [CAROLYN] I'll just plump myself down here for a second.

- [NARRATOR] Husband and wife Carolyn and Simon

are on the lookout for a full swap,

sex with another couple.

- [SPEAKER] Are you a couple?

- Yes, yes. We've been 20 years together.

- We are always looking for a girl.

- [CAROLYN] Okay.

- For her interest, for my interest.

- I've identified as bisexual since, oh my God,

for like maybe 22 years now.

And he's happy for me to do what we do.

I like the adrenaline rush, like that thrill of a chase.

You get to flirt with somebody.

You get to feel that chemistry building

that you don't really ever get

to replicate in a long-term relationship.

- [SIMON] What are you guys looking for?

What's the deal?

- I think we are more interested in girls

than in couples or men.

(person speaks indistinctly)

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- [HANNAH] Do you want to say yes?

- [] How's it going, guys?

- [HANNAH] I think we're with that group right now.

- [] Yeah, seems to be.

- You don't know?

- I'm still getting to grips with the whole scene.

I feel like if I enjoy it too much,

then what's gonna go wrong?

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(people chattering and laughing)

(twangy music continues)

(people chattering and laughing)

- [JUSTIN] We'll both be open to the idea of an orgy.

- [HANNAH] The more people the better,

because it would make me feel more sexy.

Just give me more confidence in myself.

(upbeat music)

- [JOHN] Have you got the dips?

- [NARRATOR] It's halfway through

the big Valentine's Day party at Liberty Elite,

and the guests are still for action.

- Ooh, it looks lovely.

Olives.

- Yeah. - Okay.

The buffet's out if you're ready.

(upbeat music continues)

The key ingredient of a pleasant night at a swingers club

is your ability to socially interact with other people.

- It's a lovely club. - Thank you, thank you.

If you can't socially interact,

you're not going to get a sexual encounter.

You're very attractive,

which might scare the bloody death out of a lot of chaps.

But once you start talking and go,

"Oh, I'm from Norfolk," you become much warmer.

- Oh, thank you.

- [JOHN] I wish I was 40 years younger.

I'm tell you exactly how much of a gem you are.

- Would you like another roll of meat?

- I've got two. I'm fine, thank you.

- [NARRATOR] The buffet isn't the only thing

husband and wife Simon and Carolyn have their eye on.

- What's the best scenario for you?

- [SIMON] You love playing with the ladies.

- Yeah.

- [SIMON] I love playing with the ladies.

You love playing with the men.

That's our ideal situation.

So let's see what's going on there.

- We could have a little poke around soon. (laughs)

- It's a common question.

How can you love somebody and yet be on the swingers scene?

Lots of people that would never dream of being unfaithful,

however, they do quite like

the occasional different sexual partner.

- [PRODUCER] What does love mean then?

- I have no idea.

(sultry music)

- [NARRATOR] Some nights a club provides

a variety of fetish contraptions

for guests on the kinkier side to enjoy.

(whip spanks)

- It feels nice.

- I'll give anything a go once, twice,

just in case.

You never know.

(tassel slaps)

Swinging is now a big part of my life

and it took me in a completely different direction

that I never thought I'd go down.

(funky music)

Six months ago, my heart was broken.

Me and my ex-partner planned this holiday,

but the relationship broke up.

I decided I'm going on my own anyway.

I'm gonna make the most of it.

I stumbled across this swinging site

while looking through dating apps.

There was one section for Gran Canaria.

I had the best holiday I've ever had.

I had sex around 15 times.

Five different women in six days.

(funky music continues)

Nice and fresh.

- [NARRATOR] 34-year-old divorcee Martyn

has suffered two major breakups in four years.

- [TY] Hey, Son, you all right?

- [MARTYN] Yeah, you?

- [NARRATOR] And lives at home with dad Ty

who split with Martyn's mum 12 years ago.

- When my most recent relationship ended,

it did hit me very hard.

I was broken for a little bit.

It hurt.

I am definitely done with love.

Right now, I'm about going out, having fun,

and making the most of it.

Yeah, you?

- [TY] Good to be home.

- Oh, I bet.

- [NARRATOR] Despite only recently finding out

about Martyn's new lifestyle,

Ty has been fully behind him.

- I have had my heart broken enough times.

- And you could see that.

You have pretty much jumped

from one relationship to another to another.

And I don't think you've probably ever had

that just time with you

and understanding what it is you want from a relationship.

Yun and I had you very young,

and you do look back sometimes and go,

"Well, when was life ever about me as an individual?"

So I think it really is important

that you take the direction.

And whatever that direction is,

all I can say is I'm there to support that.

(exciting music)

- If you'd have asked me six months ago

if I'd have preferred someone to love

or someone to give me great sex,

I'd have said somebody to love.

I'll come and join you.

- Hi, join our little party.

- [MARTYN] But currently, good sex.

- Have you been here before?

- No, this is the first time I've ever been here.

It was not something I kind of thought about to be fair

until six months ago.

- My first experience would have been

about five, six months ago too, so.

- So what brought you into it?

- [MALIKA] Well, I'm single and got needs.

- It's gotta be by choice surely that you're single.

- Yeah.

- The thing is,

it's hard to make friends when you get older,

unless it's through work.

- It's just the bloody dating act.

And I'm quite old fashioned.

I like just going in a room

with no distractions and just talking.

- [MARTYN] Got to visit the little boy's room.

- Oh, I was gonna say, I need the toilet as well.

Okay, we'll be back in a sec.

(bouncy music)

He is attractive.

He's fuckable. (laughs)

- She's beautiful.

- Once we've sat and had a drink,

we're gonna go and sit in the hot tub.

- Single ladies that don't want the commitment,

they can get what they need and leave safely.

They socialize, they have a drink, they get fed,

and then they get pleasure.

- [NARRATOR] Malika has been single

since a 10-year-long relationship ended.

- I was just young and dumb then.

It changed me, lowered my confidence.

I wouldn't tolerate behavior like that from a man now.

- [PRODUCER] Would you like to be loved?

- No.

I just don't feel like I have to be loved

and I need somebody to love me

and I need somebody to want me.

I'm not seeking that.

I don't need it.

- [PRODUCER] Would you like a boyfriend?

- No, I don't want a boyfriend.

I don't want a husband.

What do I want one of those for?

(passionate music)

- Oh, two fluffy towels.

- Oh wow, look at them underneath there.

- [SHAVONNE] My Valentine's outfit.

- [MALIKA] Oh yeah, lady in red.

- [NARRATOR] 67-year-old Shavonne hasn't got lucky so far,

but that doesn't stop her slipping

into something a little more comfortable.

- [SHAVONNE] So you're from Norwich?

- Norfolk.

- [SHAVONNE] Yes, that's where my sisters live, in Norfolk.

- [MALIKA] Do you go up sometimes?

- No, because we don't talk.

- [MALIKA] Oh, okay. Fair enough.

- They don't understand my lifestyle.

Florist by day, porn star by night.

- [MALIKA] I love that.

(bouncy music)

- Sorry, I'll just jump in the deep end.

We've measured it. It's bigger than a wine bottle.

- [JUSTIN] We've tried a wine bottle.

- Yeah, I got the head in.

I'm still working on the rest.

(sultry music)

Redhead that we've been talking to,

she quite catches my fancy.

And her partner, they're quite sexy.

(sultry music continues)

- [MARTYN] Here she is.

(Shavonne speaks indistinctly)

- Sorry, I'm Martyn.

- Hello, Martyn, Nice to meet you.

- Nice to meet you too.

- You smell lovely.

- [MARTYN] Thank you very much.

Mont Blanc.

- I shall bear that in mind.

(Martyn laughs)

- Yeah, jump in the hot tub?

- [MALIKA] Jump in the hot tub, I think.

- Yeah, okay, we're going through.

- Right.

These two, they're lovely, sexy-like.

She's gorgeous.

Who wouldn't?

I think they'd just go off together,

but they want me to join them.

That's how it happens, isn't it?

Get a bit friendly.

All innocent, harmless fun.

(bouncy music)

- [NARRATOR] With a couple of hours to go

until closing time, the playroom begins to fill.

(bouncy music continues)

(Justin and Hannah chattering)

- I just, I wanna go home.

(people chattering) (bouncy music)

This was gonna be so different,

but nobody actually wants me.

It's the same thing.

I don't even know why I'm bisexual,

because no woman actually wants me.

(gentle music)

- When we have a bad experience,

it really does lower my self-esteem.

It makes you think you're not attractive

or you're not what they're looking for.

- People shouldn't come here expecting to get action,

because then you just get disappointed

if it doesn't happen.

(sultry music)

- Oh look, we have a little threesome.

(group laughs)

- What happened with you?

Because you said, oh, my family didn't get me and my life.

And then you went from that to-

- I was brought up a Catholic.

- [MARTYN] Right.

- And then I was a bit rebellious,

and then I met these Christians

and got really heavily into it.

And you couldn't have sex outside of marriage.

- [MALIKA] So you don't go to church anymore then?

- No, basically I had a load of shit in my life

from when I was young.

- Oh.

- [SHAVONNE] You know? - Yeah.

- [PRODUCER] Have you always liked sex?

- No, basically.

(contemplative music)

I don't think I did like sex until I was 57.

Being gang raped when I was 17 really didn't help.

Got in with the wrong crowd.

There were seven of them.

They would take one of us into the wood

and basically all rape us one by one.

And then you'd go back,

and then they'd take the next girl and do the same with her.

And you could fight and scream as much as you want,

but you're in a wood.

Nobody could hear.

So there wasn't a lot you could do with it.

It just screws you up really.

You learn not to trust men.

You have all those feelings

that you had when it was happening.

Anger, fear, pain.

All of those.

And they stay with you, you know?

I became a Christian.

I joined a local church.

I didn't have sex for 40 years.

I prayed, you know, "Please, Dear God, help me with this."

And there was nothing.

And I got to the point when I thought,

I don't even know if there's a God,

and if there is, he don't give a shit about me.

- [MARTYN] Right, let's just get naked

and get in the hot tub.

- [SHAVONNE] Okay.

(relaxing music)

- Swinging, I have to say, is very empowering.

Now I am in control of my life

and swinging is part of that life.

The main thing is being in control of my sex life.

I know that I can say no to something and accept that.

I can tell them to fuck off and they'll fuck off.

- [MARTYN] Do you trust men?

- [SHAVONNE] Yeah, I do now.

If you didn't trust men, you wouldn't do it.

But it has to be on my terms.

I'm happier than I have ever been.

I'm just slightly disappointed

I had to wait so long to find the happiness.

(peaceful music)

(rock music)

- [SIMON] These ladies look nice over there.

- [CAROLYN] Yeah.

- [NARRATOR] At Liberty Elite,

there's just an hour to go before closing time

and the playroom is hotting up.

(group laughing and chattering)

- When you first go onto the scene,

you may decide it isn't for you,

but for a lot of people,

it becomes a much bigger way of life

than they could imagine.

- [MARTYN] You're a very beautiful woman.

- [MALIKA] So if I invited you up, would you?

- Without a doubt.

- [MALIKA] I'm not gonna say no to that.

(exciting music)

- I wanna join in.

The thing is, I have to sort of be comfortable

that they want me there.

- [JUSTIN] We're both quiet people, aren't we?

- I'm just hoping

that it might have made us a bit more confident.

I think I've done really well wearing what I'm wearing now.

- Yeah.

- [HANNAH] That bed's not big enough for six people.

(bouncy music)

(bouncy music continues)

- I don't expect to get any action tonight.

Sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn't.

You know?

You can't force these things.

But the important thing is that you just have fun.

And if you can connect with people in whatever way,

it's good.

(bouncy music continues)

I haven't even done a blowjob.

I'm slipping.

- [SPEAKER] Do you wanna put your head in?

- Yeah. We'll just have a little wander.

- Let's go have a look. - See what's going on.

- [NARRATOR] Having spent all night in the bar,

Simon and Carolyn decide to find out what they're missing.

(exciting music)

- [CAROLYN] Wanna go out again?

- Yeah.

- It's too hot already for him.

- [SIMON] Would you like a night cap dear?

- [CAROLYN] There's probably only one element

of our relationship that would appeal.

- I think you saw her and was like, "Ooh, I like this."

- I did. - Yeah, I could've.

- But they're not so much the other side.

- [SIMON] Yeah.

- And you shouldn't ever settle for something

that's just because you're in an environment

which promotes that.

- [HANNAH] Having sex with other people

doing the same thing turned me on.

I don't know about you.

- Yeah, it helps I've got

such an amazingly attractive woman here.

- If you say so.

- I do say so.

- Okay. (laughs)

I'll believe you.

- The thing I like about swinging as such is

it isn't 100% about sex.

It's slightly more than that.

It's little relationships all the time.

I think it's rather lovely.

(mellow music)

- [CAROLYN] I imagine it would be amazing

with or without swinging,

but I do feel there's probably lots of benefits.

- Get your tea?

- [CAROLYN] Yeah, I've got my tea.

Okay, come here. - [CAROLYN] I'm happy.

It's kind of like a cherry on top

of an already great relationship.

It makes you fall in love again.

Yeah, it sounds corny, but it really does.

- A bit disheartening. - Yeah.

- I don't think it's put us off though.

- Oh no, definitely not.

Once we get a chance to come to another one,

we're definitely gonna go for it.

Not giving it up.

- No, we're not giving up now.

- No, we're not giving up.

- Come here.

(lips smooch)

(mellow music continues)

- [PRODUCER] Good night?

- Yeah.

- Yeah, it was a good night.

- I definitely wanna fuck him again.

One night wasn't enough for me.

He was awesome.

- And she was also equally as awesome.

- He's cute, isn't he?

(Martyn chuckles)

(mellow music)

- [MARTYN] Deep down, I would like somebody to come home to.

I just can't go through another breakup.

It just hurts too much.

- [MALIKA] I like to have my fun

when there's no strings, no emotions, all that crap.

I catch flights, not feelings.

- [PRODUCER] Does an experience like that

put you off the world of swinging?

- No.

Sex is very important.

If I had it my way, on my gravestone,

I would have, "She shagged until the very end.

Good for her."

(upbeat jazzy music)