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[Man]
She said,
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"Do you think it'd be fun
if we got married?"
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[Woman]
And what did you say?
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[Man]
I took her up on it.
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I never wanted to be
away from her.
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She had the spark of life.
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[no audible dialogue]
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Careful.
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When did we last
wash that sweater?
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Right after the war.
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[chuckling]
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Christmas.
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In the '50s sometime
or the '60s.
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[laughing]
Shut up.
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I'll go make the fire.
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"You climbed
the bank and said,
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"'This is how you touch
other women,
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"the grass cutter's wife,
the lime burner's daughter.
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"And you searched your arms
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for the missing perfume
and knew--"
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Don't worry, darling.
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I expect I'm just
losing my mind.
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Shh-shh.
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"What good is it to be
the lime burner's daughter,
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"left with no trace
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"as if not spoken to
in the act of love,
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"as if wounded without
the pleasure of a scar.
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"You touched your belly
to my hands in the dry air
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"and said, 'I am
the cinnamon peeler's wife.
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Smell me.'"
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When I look away,
I forget what yellow means.
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But I can look again.
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Sometimes there's something
delicious in oblivion.
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I think you're
supposed to be able
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to put your fingers
inside the curled petal
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and feel the heat.
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[Man]
Well?
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I can't be sure.
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I can't be sure
if what I can feel
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is the heat
or my imagination.
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The heat attracts the bugs.
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Nature never fools around
just being decorative.
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[car beeping]
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[knocking]
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Yes?
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I don't quite know
how to introduce myself.
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I used to see your husband
at Meadowlake.
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I'm a regular visitor
there myself.
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Those are lovely flowers.
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I've never seen
those purple ones before.
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Hmm.
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The earth there must
really appeal to them.
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[chuckling]
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What?
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You could just
open the drawers.
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Remind yourself.
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What?
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Maybe
all the labels and lists
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are defeating the purpose.
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If you stopped
thinking about things
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the moment
you write them down,
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maybe that's the end
of your need to recall.
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I heard a story
at a dinner party
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about the German soldiers
on border patrol
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in Czechoslovakia
during the war.
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I heard it from that
Czech student of yours.
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Veronica.
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We spoke once
at a dinner party.
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Don't be nervous.
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It's a good story.
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She told me that each
of the German patrol dogs
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wore a sign saying "hund."
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"Why?" said the Czechs.
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And the Germans replied,
"Because that is a hund."
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It was one
of those craft shows
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where you look around
and wonder that the laws
of supply and demand
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can allow for the production
of so many macramé ducks.
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[laughs]
Oh, God, those things
are everywhere.
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What do you do with them?
Oh, come on, Phoebe,
you've got one of those.
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You use it as a--
what do you call it--
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a light fixture holder
or som--
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I do not.
Phoebe, in the...
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Oh, yes.
Wait a second, I do.
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Fiona gave it to me.
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Yes, I did.
[chuckling]
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Would anybody
like some more?
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Mm.
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Ween...
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Wai-- Wain--
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No, but I'll have
a touch of wine.
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Yeah, Fiona,
that would be lovely.
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Some more wain.
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The thing is...
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half the time
I wander around
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looking for something
which I know
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is very pertinent.
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I can't remember what it is.
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Once the idea is gone,
everything is gone.
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I just wander around
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trying to figure out
what it was
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that was so important
earlier.
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I think I may be
beginning to disappear.
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[Woman]
And what year is it?
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2003.
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Fiona, if you found
a letter on the street,
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addressed,
with a stamp on it,
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what would you do with it?
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I'd mail it.
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And where would
you put it to mail it?
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And if there was a fire
in a movie theater,
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and you were the first person
to spot that fire,
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what would you do?
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Well, we don't go
to the movies much anymore,
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do we, Grant?
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All those multiplexes showing
the same American garbage.
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Have you seen my coat?
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There it is, dear.
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It's on your chair.
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Oh, yes.
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Fiona, would you mind
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if I asked you
a few more questions?
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Would you mind
taking a seat?
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I was just feeling
a little cold, that's all.
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[baby burbling]
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[sotto voce]
What an ugly baby.
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When did we move
into this cottage?
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Was it last year
or the year before?
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[sigh]
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No.
It was longer than that.
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It was when I left
the university,
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20 years ago.
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Hmm.
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Well, that's shocking.
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[chuckle]
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Let's just see how it goes,
shall we, hmm?
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Hmm?
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[Grant]
How is your husband doing?
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Okay.
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He and my wife struck up
quite a close friendship.
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I heard about that.
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So, uh,
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I'd like to speak to you
about something.
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If you have a minute.
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My husband did not
try to start anything
with your wife,
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if that's what
you're getting at.
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He did not
try to molest her.
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He's incapable of it.
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And anyway, he wouldn't.
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From what I hear,
it was the other way
around.
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No, uh,
that isn't it at all.
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I didn't come here
with any complaints.
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Oh.
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Oh, well, I'm sorry.
I thought you did.
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Maybe you should come in.
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It's not as warm a day
as it looks.
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[Fiona]
"Never let a person
make you feel guilty
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for your anger with God."
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Hmm. Random.
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I can't even see
what the point is.
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We can't be certain
this is what--
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You're far too young.
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"Should the patient
afflicted with the disease
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"remain at home...
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the caregiver
will very often
be the spouse."
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"The caregiver must preside
over the degeneration
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"of someone he or she
loves very much,
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"must do this
for years and years
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"with the news always
getting worse, not better,
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"must put up sometimes
with deranged
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"but at the same time
very personal insults,
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"and must somehow learn
to smile through it all.
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"Caregivers must
be able to diagnose
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"a wide variety
of ordinary ailments
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"under extraordinary
circumstances.
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"Imagine the person
you love the most
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"suddenly upset
about something,
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"but completely unable
to communicate the problem
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or even to understand it
himself."
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Sounds like a regular marriage.
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[chuckle]
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[sigh]
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Hello, there!
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[shivering]
Oh!
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Hello, there.
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We are at that stage,
Grant.
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We are at that stage.
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[sigh]
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Well...
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if we do think of it...
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if we do...
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then it must be as something
that isn't permanent.
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A kind of experimental
treatment or...
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a rest cure of sorts.
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All right.
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All right.
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We can think
of it that way.
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We have to sit in the kitchen,
where I can hear Aubrey.
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Well, you might as well
have a cup of coffee.
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Thank you.
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My son put him on
the Sports Channel
a year ago Christmas.
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I don't know what
we'd do without it.
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Must be a struggle.
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Well, you know.
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You know what
struggle is by now.
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You're sure?
I'm sure.
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You don't want
to just get a sense
of the place?
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I don't want to make
this decision alone.
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What place?
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Just kidding!
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Fuck off.
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You're not making
this decision alone, Grant.
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I've already
made up my mind.
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Okay.
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[Woman]
It's time to go home now.
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[Man]
No, no.
Mrs. Taylor--
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Hi. Is this your son?
Yeah. I'm her son.
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Hi. I'm Betty.
It's time for your bath.
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Bath.
Yeah.
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You have to have
a bath now.
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Mama.
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Mr. Andersson?
Madeleine Montpelier.
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I'm the supervisor
here at Meadowlake.
Hi, there.
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I'm just going to take
you on the quick tour
of the facility,
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and then we can sit down
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and discuss
Mrs. Andersson's condition
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and the appropriate time
for admitting her.
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As you can see, we get
a lot of natural light.
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Yes,
I can see that.
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This
is my favorite room.
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Look, over there,
as you can see,
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they have
a puzzle on the go.
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They always have
a puzzle on the go.
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This works.
You know, it's real
important to us here
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that our residents
maintain social function,
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so a lot of our activities
and our whole layout
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is really geared toward--
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Hello, there,
Miss Madeleine.
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Hello, Michael.
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Now, as you can see,
we're coming into
our common room,
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and again, we're really
emphasizing everybody
being social.
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So you can
bring the family.
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Everybody
can come and visit.
243
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We have
a state-of-the-art
entertainment system
244
00:22:51,471 --> 00:22:53,740
so the residents
can gather
and watch together.
245
00:22:53,740 --> 00:22:55,575
Hi, Madeleine.
Hello, ladies.
246
00:22:55,575 --> 00:22:57,610
Hello, Madeleine.
I got a Christmas sweater.
247
00:22:57,610 --> 00:22:59,579
Aren't you festive!
248
00:22:59,579 --> 00:23:01,114
And this
is our quiet corner
249
00:23:01,114 --> 00:23:04,150
for crafts and reading
and reflection.
250
00:23:04,150 --> 00:23:07,854
We have a lot of activities
for physical activity.
251
00:23:07,854 --> 00:23:11,057
Balloon badminton
and sit and fit.
252
00:23:11,057 --> 00:23:14,560
And here we have our
lovely new dining room.
253
00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:18,064
We can accommodate
any dietary preferences
or restrictions.
254
00:23:18,064 --> 00:23:22,068
We're just serving up
a little Christmas dinner
early for the families.
255
00:23:22,068 --> 00:23:24,036
The old Meadowlake
is just next door,
256
00:23:24,036 --> 00:23:27,406
and that's a day center
now, but, um...
257
00:23:27,406 --> 00:23:29,142
this for the permanent
residents.
258
00:23:29,142 --> 00:23:30,643
This is
brand-spanking new.
259
00:23:30,643 --> 00:23:32,612
So let's go upstairs,
shall we?
260
00:23:34,947 --> 00:23:37,717
Just taking my tea
for a ride.
261
00:23:38,584 --> 00:23:41,654
Oh, look at this one,
Flo.
262
00:23:41,654 --> 00:23:44,157
He's a real charmer,
isn't he?
263
00:23:44,157 --> 00:23:46,893
Would you say,
are you a charmer?
264
00:23:46,893 --> 00:23:49,162
I think you could say
I was kind of a charmer.
265
00:23:49,162 --> 00:23:51,731
[chuckles]
You're a rascal.
266
00:23:51,731 --> 00:23:53,866
Mr. Andersson is here
about his wife, Eliza.
Behave yourself.
267
00:23:53,866 --> 00:23:56,169
Ahh.
I should have known it.
268
00:23:56,169 --> 00:23:58,871
At this age, it's--
269
00:24:00,139 --> 00:24:02,809
What do the kids
call it, Flo? It's--
270
00:24:02,809 --> 00:24:04,877
It's a real clusterfuck.
271
00:24:04,877 --> 00:24:07,079
All the charmers are taken.
272
00:24:07,079 --> 00:24:09,882
Or dead. Mostly dead.
[elevator dings]
273
00:24:09,882 --> 00:24:11,884
You're kind of charming
yourself, sweetheart.
274
00:24:13,219 --> 00:24:14,220
Shall we?
275
00:24:23,062 --> 00:24:25,531
This is our second floor,
the extended care wing.
276
00:24:25,531 --> 00:24:26,899
The elevators, of course,
277
00:24:26,899 --> 00:24:28,034
have the lockdown system,
278
00:24:28,034 --> 00:24:30,469
and this is where
the patients can move to
279
00:24:30,469 --> 00:24:32,572
once they become
more progressed.
280
00:24:32,572 --> 00:24:35,241
Interesting choice
of words.
281
00:24:35,241 --> 00:24:38,544
Why don't I show you
some of the rooms here,
while we're at it?
282
00:24:38,544 --> 00:24:40,847
Then we can go back down
and see the regular rooms
283
00:24:40,847 --> 00:24:41,914
where Mrs. Andersson
will be living.
284
00:24:41,914 --> 00:24:44,550
No, that will not
be necessary.
285
00:24:44,550 --> 00:24:46,752
My wife will not be
progressing to this floor.
286
00:24:46,752 --> 00:24:48,988
All right.
287
00:24:48,988 --> 00:24:50,656
♪ [Muzak]
288
00:24:50,656 --> 00:24:51,958
Who chooses the music?
289
00:24:51,958 --> 00:24:53,726
I'm sorry?
290
00:24:53,726 --> 00:24:54,961
I'm assuming
it's not the residents.
291
00:24:54,961 --> 00:24:58,231
I don't see any of them
singing along.
292
00:24:58,231 --> 00:25:02,034
Yeah, well. You know the rooms
on the regular floors all have
their own stereo systems
293
00:25:02,034 --> 00:25:04,203
so the patients can listen
to whatever they like.
294
00:25:04,203 --> 00:25:05,171
How kind.
295
00:25:07,173 --> 00:25:10,743
Now, we don't admit anyone
during the month of December,
296
00:25:10,743 --> 00:25:12,678
so Mrs. Andersson will
have to wait till January
297
00:25:12,678 --> 00:25:14,714
to make the big move.
298
00:25:14,714 --> 00:25:19,285
Just December, Christmas,
you know, too many
emotional pitfalls.
299
00:25:19,285 --> 00:25:21,153
Right.
Sorry to interrupt,
Madeleine.
300
00:25:21,153 --> 00:25:22,855
I'm looking for
those documents
on Aubrey Burke.
301
00:25:22,855 --> 00:25:24,757
Sure. Go ahead.
302
00:25:24,757 --> 00:25:27,760
Mr. Andersson,
this is Kristy,
our new managing nurse.
303
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,029
Against some people's
better judgment.
304
00:25:30,029 --> 00:25:32,031
Now, now.
[chuckles]
305
00:25:32,031 --> 00:25:34,300
Mr. Andersson is here
about his wife,
Mrs. Andersson,
306
00:25:34,300 --> 00:25:35,768
who will be
joining us in January.
307
00:25:35,768 --> 00:25:36,903
Hi, there.
Hi.
308
00:25:36,903 --> 00:25:38,037
We also have a policy,
309
00:25:38,037 --> 00:25:39,805
which I'm sure you saw
in the brochure,
310
00:25:39,805 --> 00:25:41,807
that our new residents
are not allowed visitors
311
00:25:41,807 --> 00:25:43,743
or receiving phone calls
during the first 30 days,
312
00:25:43,743 --> 00:25:45,711
just to give them
a chance to settle in.
313
00:25:45,711 --> 00:25:46,946
What sort of visitors?
314
00:25:50,983 --> 00:25:53,853
Everyone.
Even close relatives.
315
00:25:53,853 --> 00:25:55,554
I couldn't just
leave her here.
316
00:25:55,554 --> 00:25:57,957
We understand,
it is very difficult
317
00:25:57,957 --> 00:26:00,693
to leave a loved one
in a new environment
for so long,
318
00:26:00,693 --> 00:26:03,829
but most people need
that time to settle in.
319
00:26:03,829 --> 00:26:05,765
Before we had
this rule in place,
320
00:26:05,765 --> 00:26:07,733
residents would forget
again and again
321
00:26:07,733 --> 00:26:08,968
why they were being
left here.
322
00:26:08,968 --> 00:26:10,169
Whereas we find,
323
00:26:10,169 --> 00:26:12,872
you give them the month
to settle in,
324
00:26:12,872 --> 00:26:15,174
and they're happy as clams.
325
00:26:15,174 --> 00:26:18,978
And after that,
a little visit home
every now and then,
326
00:26:18,978 --> 00:26:20,947
perfectly fine.
327
00:26:20,947 --> 00:26:22,782
We'll take good care
of her, I promise.
328
00:26:27,620 --> 00:26:29,889
Knock-knock.
Oh, no! Not again.
329
00:26:29,889 --> 00:26:32,892
Knock-knock. Boo.
330
00:26:32,892 --> 00:26:36,062
[general chatter]
331
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:42,969
She's bringing two babies.
Two babies?
332
00:26:42,969 --> 00:26:46,238
She's got a new baby,
four months old.
333
00:27:32,118 --> 00:27:35,755
♪ [guitar]
334
00:29:34,974 --> 00:29:36,342
Smells good.
335
00:29:38,944 --> 00:29:42,314
I was going to go
for a ski, but I thought
I shouldn't chance it,
336
00:29:42,314 --> 00:29:45,017
what with the Alzheimer's
and all.
337
00:29:45,017 --> 00:29:46,152
Why didn't you wake me?
338
00:29:46,152 --> 00:29:47,987
What are these, Grant?
339
00:29:57,296 --> 00:30:00,132
Those are the documents
you're supposed to sign
340
00:30:00,132 --> 00:30:03,002
if you decide
to go to Meadowlake.
341
00:30:03,002 --> 00:30:05,070
That is exactly
what I have decided.
342
00:30:05,070 --> 00:30:07,973
You were to go an sign these
and leave them there.
343
00:30:07,973 --> 00:30:11,577
I wouldn't be allowed
to visit you for 30 days.
344
00:30:19,018 --> 00:30:21,220
30 days isn't
such a long time
345
00:30:21,220 --> 00:30:24,423
after 44 years.
346
00:30:24,423 --> 00:30:26,358
I don't think
I like the place.
347
00:30:30,930 --> 00:30:36,468
I don't think we should
be looking for something
we like, Grant.
348
00:30:36,468 --> 00:30:39,605
I don't think
we'll ever find that.
349
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:43,609
I think all we can aspire
to in this situation
350
00:30:43,609 --> 00:30:46,245
is a little bit of grace.
351
00:30:53,953 --> 00:30:56,488
Hmm?
352
00:30:58,257 --> 00:31:02,595
♪ Come a little bit closer ♪
353
00:31:02,595 --> 00:31:06,565
♪ Hear what I have to say ♪
354
00:31:15,241 --> 00:31:19,578
♪ Just like children
sleeping ♪
355
00:31:19,578 --> 00:31:23,949
♪ We can dream
this night away ♪
356
00:31:30,456 --> 00:31:33,492
I suppose I'll be
dressed up all the time.
357
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:40,099
It will be sort of like...
in a hotel.
358
00:31:44,336 --> 00:31:45,938
How do I look?
359
00:31:45,938 --> 00:31:47,206
Just like always.
360
00:31:47,206 --> 00:31:48,907
Just as you've
always looked.
361
00:31:48,907 --> 00:31:50,976
And how does that look?
362
00:31:53,212 --> 00:31:55,114
Direct and vague...
363
00:31:56,582 --> 00:31:59,051
sweet and ironic.
364
00:32:04,990 --> 00:32:07,559
Is that how I look?
365
00:32:10,496 --> 00:32:15,534
[on radio]
♪ Because I'm still
in love with you ♪
366
00:32:15,534 --> 00:32:20,039
♪ I want to see you
dance again ♪
367
00:32:20,039 --> 00:32:22,274
Oh. Remember?
368
00:32:25,110 --> 00:32:26,979
Surprised, Grant?
369
00:32:26,979 --> 00:32:28,347
No, I'm not surprised.
370
00:32:28,347 --> 00:32:32,051
I'm just grateful
you can remember that.
371
00:32:32,051 --> 00:32:35,154
I'm not all gone, Grant.
Just...
372
00:32:35,154 --> 00:32:37,189
[sigh] going--
373
00:32:40,125 --> 00:32:43,028
There are things
I wish would go away.
374
00:32:44,963 --> 00:32:50,035
But won't. You know.
Things we don't talk about.
375
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:58,143
You never left me.
376
00:32:58,143 --> 00:32:59,345
You still made love to me,
377
00:32:59,345 --> 00:33:02,047
despite disturbing
demands elsewhere.
378
00:33:06,285 --> 00:33:11,490
But all those sandals, Grant.
All those bare female toes.
379
00:33:14,059 --> 00:33:17,563
What could you do but
be a part of the time
you were a part of?
380
00:33:17,563 --> 00:33:20,232
All those pretty girls.
381
00:33:20,232 --> 00:33:23,068
Didn't seem like anyone
was willing to be left out.
382
00:33:25,204 --> 00:33:26,505
I think you did all right,
383
00:33:26,505 --> 00:33:31,276
compared to some
of your colleagues.
384
00:33:31,276 --> 00:33:33,545
Those who left their wives.
385
00:33:36,081 --> 00:33:38,517
And the women who
wouldn't put up with it.
386
00:33:41,754 --> 00:33:47,092
I think people
are too demanding.
387
00:33:47,092 --> 00:33:50,195
People want to be in love
every single day.
388
00:33:50,195 --> 00:33:55,134
What a liability.
And then that silly girl.
389
00:33:55,134 --> 00:33:57,035
That silly girl Veronica.
390
00:33:58,170 --> 00:34:00,806
Girls that age
are always going around
391
00:34:00,806 --> 00:34:04,276
saying they're going
to kill themselves.
392
00:34:04,276 --> 00:34:06,078
But that was that.
393
00:34:08,147 --> 00:34:09,581
Promised me a new life.
394
00:34:09,581 --> 00:34:12,050
We moved out here,
395
00:34:12,050 --> 00:34:15,320
that is exactly
what you gave me.
396
00:34:17,623 --> 00:34:19,591
How long ago was that?
397
00:34:19,591 --> 00:34:22,728
20 years.
398
00:34:22,728 --> 00:34:24,463
[shuddering]
399
00:34:26,799 --> 00:34:28,734
God, that's shocking.
400
00:34:30,702 --> 00:34:35,340
So you see, I'm going...
401
00:34:35,340 --> 00:34:38,210
but I'm not gone.
402
00:34:49,388 --> 00:34:52,858
♪ And we were lovers ♪
403
00:34:52,858 --> 00:34:58,130
♪ I loved you
with all my heart ♪
404
00:35:06,638 --> 00:35:09,308
Fiona.
Grant.
405
00:35:12,411 --> 00:35:13,278
Don't go.
406
00:35:15,714 --> 00:35:17,850
That's what is happening,
Grant.
407
00:35:17,850 --> 00:35:21,153
It's happening...right now.
408
00:35:51,350 --> 00:35:52,284
Fiona.
409
00:35:54,486 --> 00:35:56,421
Hello.
I'm checking in today.
410
00:35:56,421 --> 00:35:58,290
My name
is Fiona Andersson.
411
00:35:58,290 --> 00:35:59,291
Yes, Mrs. Andersson.
412
00:35:59,291 --> 00:36:01,493
We have your room
all ready for you.
413
00:36:01,493 --> 00:36:02,928
Perfect.
We'll have our supervisor,
414
00:36:02,928 --> 00:36:04,296
Mrs. Montpelier, show you.
415
00:36:04,296 --> 00:36:06,665
I'll go fetch her.
She's expecting you.
416
00:36:06,665 --> 00:36:07,833
Thank you.
417
00:36:09,201 --> 00:36:10,369
Fiona.
418
00:36:11,403 --> 00:36:12,704
Grant.
419
00:36:12,704 --> 00:36:14,306
I can't go away
from you like this.
420
00:36:14,306 --> 00:36:19,478
We had nothing
to tie us down, Grant.
421
00:36:19,478 --> 00:36:22,414
You could have
just driven away
and forsaken me.
422
00:36:22,414 --> 00:36:24,583
But you didn't.
423
00:36:26,451 --> 00:36:28,220
I thank you for that.
424
00:36:32,891 --> 00:36:35,260
Mrs. Andersson.
Oh, hello.
425
00:36:35,260 --> 00:36:37,262
How do you do?
I'm Madeleine.
Hello.
426
00:36:37,262 --> 00:36:38,864
Should I give
you two a moment?
427
00:36:38,864 --> 00:36:40,732
No, thank you.
Yes, please.
428
00:36:40,732 --> 00:36:42,601
All right, then, well,
we'll get you settled
in your room,
429
00:36:42,601 --> 00:36:44,703
and then I'd like to give you
a tour of the facility.
430
00:36:44,703 --> 00:36:47,439
That'd be lovely.
Thank you.
Right this way.
431
00:36:53,612 --> 00:36:57,482
So, as you can see,
we get a lot
of natural light.
432
00:36:58,717 --> 00:37:01,353
Here we go.
433
00:37:08,460 --> 00:37:11,930
Yes.
This'll do just fine.
434
00:37:11,930 --> 00:37:14,533
Good. I'm so glad
you like it. Now, is--
435
00:37:14,533 --> 00:37:16,234
is this all you brought
with you today?
436
00:37:16,234 --> 00:37:17,970
For now.
We'll see how it goes.
437
00:37:19,972 --> 00:37:23,909
Well, if you need any
help arranging things,
you just let me know.
438
00:37:23,909 --> 00:37:27,579
Thank you,
Mrs. Montpelier.
439
00:37:27,579 --> 00:37:30,782
Now, if you wouldn't mind,
I-I'd like to say good-bye
to my husband.
440
00:37:30,782 --> 00:37:35,420
We haven't been
apart for a month
for the last 44 years.
441
00:37:35,420 --> 00:37:36,688
It could be quite something.
442
00:37:45,430 --> 00:37:47,299
Please, Fiona.
443
00:37:50,836 --> 00:37:52,938
[sigh]
Grant.
444
00:37:52,938 --> 00:37:55,707
Fiona--
445
00:37:55,707 --> 00:37:57,776
You know what I'd like?
446
00:38:01,446 --> 00:38:03,482
I'd like to make love,
447
00:38:03,482 --> 00:38:06,518
and then
I'd like you to go.
448
00:38:06,518 --> 00:38:08,053
Because
I need to stay here,
449
00:38:08,053 --> 00:38:09,888
and if you
make it hard for me,
450
00:38:09,888 --> 00:38:12,524
I might cry so hard
I'll never stop.
451
00:38:45,691 --> 00:38:47,459
Go now.
452
00:38:49,961 --> 00:38:51,663
Go now.
453
00:39:37,442 --> 00:39:38,677
[Woman]
"All of the officers
454
00:39:38,677 --> 00:39:39,845
"were from outside
the local area,
455
00:39:39,845 --> 00:39:41,980
"and it probably had not
entered their minds
456
00:39:41,980 --> 00:39:44,816
"that almost all of us
were named McDonald.
457
00:39:44,816 --> 00:39:47,152
"Nobody moved except for
the shuffling of feet.
458
00:39:47,152 --> 00:39:49,821
The red roo"-- Hey.
459
00:39:49,821 --> 00:39:51,790
Hello, there.
Kristy.
We met on your tour.
460
00:39:51,790 --> 00:39:53,592
How's Mrs. Andersson?
Has she settled in?
461
00:39:53,592 --> 00:39:55,761
I'm wondering
if I could have
462
00:39:55,761 --> 00:39:57,896
a moment of your time
to ask your advice?
463
00:39:57,896 --> 00:40:00,398
Oh, sure. I was just
reading to Mr. Burke here.
464
00:40:00,398 --> 00:40:01,767
Maybe when we finish
this chapter,
465
00:40:01,767 --> 00:40:03,668
I can come find you
in the dining room?
466
00:40:03,668 --> 00:40:05,670
Sure. That's fine.
467
00:40:07,639 --> 00:40:10,776
Mm-- "The red roof lights
revolved in the afternoon sun,
468
00:40:10,776 --> 00:40:12,878
and even the dogs were
temporarily quiet."
469
00:40:27,726 --> 00:40:31,830
Hi, there, Mr. Andersson.
Now, how can I help you?
470
00:40:31,830 --> 00:40:33,732
Going down the center
of the dining room--
471
00:40:33,732 --> 00:40:36,868
That's Frank. He used
to be the play-by-play guy
for the Winnipeg Jets.
472
00:40:36,868 --> 00:40:38,970
Really?
Yeah.
473
00:40:38,970 --> 00:40:41,940
He loved his job
too much to retire.
474
00:40:41,940 --> 00:40:43,875
Frank's
on the second floor.
475
00:40:47,846 --> 00:40:52,617
I just--
My wife has always been
476
00:40:52,617 --> 00:40:55,754
sort of a different
sort of person.
477
00:40:55,754 --> 00:41:00,692
I've been told
that Alzheimer's can't be
confirmed until after--
478
00:41:00,692 --> 00:41:02,994
And on our way here today,
479
00:41:02,994 --> 00:41:04,729
we passed
this conservation area
480
00:41:04,729 --> 00:41:08,133
where we went
for a walk last spring.
481
00:41:08,133 --> 00:41:10,569
And there were these
gorgeous flowers.
The skunk lilies.
482
00:41:10,569 --> 00:41:12,504
Oh, those are
beautiful, aren't they?
483
00:41:12,504 --> 00:41:15,140
Yes, they really made
an impression, see?
484
00:41:15,140 --> 00:41:17,742
And even though the whole
place was covered in snow,
485
00:41:17,742 --> 00:41:20,245
she said, "Oh, remember?"
486
00:41:21,947 --> 00:41:25,116
Now, that was--
that was...quite recently.
487
00:41:25,116 --> 00:41:27,085
And isn't
the short-term memory
488
00:41:27,085 --> 00:41:28,820
the thing
that goes first?
489
00:41:28,820 --> 00:41:33,124
Well, yeah,
but not all at once.
490
00:41:33,124 --> 00:41:34,893
And what's comforting
491
00:41:34,893 --> 00:41:36,561
is the long-term memory
sometimes stays
492
00:41:36,561 --> 00:41:37,562
for quite a long time.
493
00:41:39,998 --> 00:41:43,101
Yeah, her long-term memory
seems quite intact.
494
00:41:43,101 --> 00:41:46,705
But when she mentioned that,
about the skunk lilies,
495
00:41:46,705 --> 00:41:49,808
it was all I could do not
to turn the truck around.
496
00:41:49,808 --> 00:41:56,214
What if this is just her
just being herself?
497
00:41:56,214 --> 00:41:58,750
She's far too young to--
498
00:42:00,085 --> 00:42:01,887
She is young.
499
00:42:01,887 --> 00:42:04,890
And it is hard.
500
00:42:04,890 --> 00:42:07,692
No doubt about that.
501
00:42:07,692 --> 00:42:09,828
A month is
a real long time.
502
00:42:12,530 --> 00:42:15,767
I mean, between
you and me, I don't know
about the policy myself.
503
00:42:15,767 --> 00:42:18,770
I think it makes it
easier for the staff
is what I think.
504
00:42:18,770 --> 00:42:22,908
Look. I'll give you
my pager number.
505
00:42:24,309 --> 00:42:25,977
You can call me
whenever you want.
506
00:42:25,977 --> 00:42:28,713
You can call me every day
if you feel like it.
507
00:42:32,017 --> 00:42:34,286
I don't know what to do.
508
00:42:36,054 --> 00:42:38,990
Mr. Andersson, your wife
wrote you this note,
509
00:42:38,990 --> 00:42:41,226
and she asked me
to pass it along.
510
00:42:51,303 --> 00:42:52,737
Okay.
511
00:42:58,843 --> 00:43:00,979
Thank you so much.
512
00:43:12,691 --> 00:43:15,193
[no audible dialogue]
513
00:43:25,837 --> 00:43:28,873
[Grant reading]
"Throughout much of
the thinking brain,
514
00:43:28,873 --> 00:43:34,179
gooey plaques now crowd
neurons from outside
the cell membranes."
515
00:43:36,014 --> 00:43:38,750
"And knotty tangles
516
00:43:38,750 --> 00:43:43,822
mangle microtubal transports
from inside the cells."
517
00:43:52,630 --> 00:43:56,868
"All told, tens of millions
of synapses dissolve away."
518
00:43:58,970 --> 00:44:02,007
"Because the structures
and substructures of the brain
519
00:44:02,007 --> 00:44:03,975
"are so highly specialized,
520
00:44:03,975 --> 00:44:08,079
"the precise location
of the neuronal loss
521
00:44:08,079 --> 00:44:13,985
determines
what specific abilities
will become impaired."
522
00:44:18,323 --> 00:44:23,128
"It is like a series
of circuit breakers
523
00:44:23,128 --> 00:44:27,999
in a large house,
flipping off one by one."
524
00:45:27,192 --> 00:45:29,060
That's a great-looking
coffee maker.
525
00:45:29,060 --> 00:45:31,129
I always meant
to get one of those.
526
00:45:32,964 --> 00:45:36,334
I saw they had them on sale
at Canadian Tire.
527
00:45:36,334 --> 00:45:39,904
They gave it to us,
my son and his wife.
528
00:45:39,904 --> 00:45:41,940
They live in Kamloops, B.C.
529
00:45:41,940 --> 00:45:45,443
They send us more stuff
than we can handle.
530
00:45:45,443 --> 00:45:49,447
Wouldn't hurt
if they spent the money
to come see us instead.
531
00:45:51,316 --> 00:45:53,852
I suppose they're busy
with their own lives.
532
00:45:53,852 --> 00:45:56,321
Not so busy they couldn't
go to Hawaii last year.
533
00:45:56,321 --> 00:45:57,789
I mean,
you could understand it
534
00:45:57,789 --> 00:46:00,925
if there was someone
in the family closer at hand,
535
00:46:00,925 --> 00:46:04,362
but, uh...
he's the only one.
536
00:46:08,233 --> 00:46:12,070
People do get lonely,
537
00:46:12,070 --> 00:46:15,406
especially when
they're deprived of seeing
someone they care about.
538
00:46:20,111 --> 00:46:22,013
Fiona, for instance.
539
00:46:24,983 --> 00:46:26,951
My wife.
540
00:46:26,951 --> 00:46:29,354
I thought you said
you went and visited her.
541
00:46:32,023 --> 00:46:34,092
I do.
542
00:46:34,092 --> 00:46:37,128
No, that's not it.
543
00:46:37,128 --> 00:46:39,063
[Kristy]
She's really settling in well.
544
00:46:39,063 --> 00:46:40,899
Good. Good.
545
00:46:40,899 --> 00:46:42,834
Looking forward to
seeing you tomorrow,
Mr. Andersson.
546
00:46:42,834 --> 00:46:45,103
Right. So I'll see you
tomorrow morning, then.
547
00:46:45,103 --> 00:46:48,139
Now, remember, she may
be a little surprised
to see you.
548
00:46:50,208 --> 00:46:51,943
Don't be shaken by that.
549
00:46:51,943 --> 00:46:54,145
Just-- She hasn't
seen you in a while.
550
00:46:54,145 --> 00:46:56,181
She's sort of
settled in here.
551
00:46:58,183 --> 00:46:59,584
[Grant]
I understand.
552
00:47:13,031 --> 00:47:17,035
There you are. I'll
walk you down to her.
553
00:47:17,035 --> 00:47:19,337
Wow. Narcissus
this early.
554
00:47:19,337 --> 00:47:21,539
You must have spent
a fortune.
555
00:47:21,539 --> 00:47:24,242
We brought it back here.
Hi, Mr. Andersson.
556
00:47:24,242 --> 00:47:26,211
It's great to see you.
557
00:47:26,211 --> 00:47:29,113
I'm gonna help you find
your sweater, Mrs. Albright.
558
00:47:29,113 --> 00:47:32,984
All right. Here we are.
There is her room,
right over there.
559
00:47:32,984 --> 00:47:35,053
You remember from last time
you were here, don't you?
560
00:47:35,053 --> 00:47:38,289
Her nameplate's
right on the door.
I'll leave you to it.
561
00:48:19,564 --> 00:48:22,967
There she is. Now you just
go over and say hello,
562
00:48:22,967 --> 00:48:27,038
and try not to startle her--
Remember, she may not--
563
00:48:27,038 --> 00:48:28,940
Well, just go ahead.
564
00:48:48,092 --> 00:48:51,429
Bridge.
Deadly serious.
565
00:48:51,429 --> 00:48:55,066
Quite rabid about it.
566
00:48:55,066 --> 00:48:58,202
I can remember being
like that at college
for a while.
567
00:48:58,202 --> 00:49:00,638
My friends and I
would cut class
568
00:49:00,638 --> 00:49:03,341
and sit
in the common room
and smoke
569
00:49:03,341 --> 00:49:05,610
and play like cutthroats.
570
00:49:05,610 --> 00:49:07,312
One's name was Phoebe.
571
00:49:07,312 --> 00:49:09,147
I don't remember
the others.
572
00:49:09,147 --> 00:49:10,481
Phoebe Hart.
573
00:49:10,481 --> 00:49:13,384
Oh, you knew her, too.
574
00:49:13,384 --> 00:49:16,254
Can I get you something?
A cup of tea?
575
00:49:16,254 --> 00:49:19,324
I'm afraid the coffee's
not up to much here.
576
00:49:19,324 --> 00:49:20,325
I don't drink tea.
577
00:49:20,325 --> 00:49:22,593
Oh.
578
00:49:22,593 --> 00:49:24,228
I brought you some flowers.
579
00:49:24,228 --> 00:49:27,298
I thought they might do
to brighten up your room.
580
00:49:27,298 --> 00:49:29,467
I went to your room,
but you weren't there.
581
00:49:29,467 --> 00:49:32,203
Well, no, I'm here.
582
00:49:35,039 --> 00:49:36,240
So you've made a new friend.
583
00:49:37,542 --> 00:49:40,211
Oh, that's just Aubrey.
584
00:49:40,211 --> 00:49:45,583
The funny thing is I knew
him years and years ago.
585
00:49:45,583 --> 00:49:47,118
He used to work in the store,
586
00:49:47,118 --> 00:49:51,155
the hardware store where
my grandpa used to shop.
587
00:49:51,155 --> 00:49:54,158
He and I were always
kidding around,
588
00:49:54,158 --> 00:49:57,395
but he never could get up
the nerve to ask me out.
589
00:49:57,395 --> 00:50:00,765
Until the very last weekend,
he took me to a ball game.
590
00:50:00,765 --> 00:50:05,670
But my grandpa showed up
to drive us home.
591
00:50:05,670 --> 00:50:09,207
I was up visiting
for the summer.
592
00:50:09,207 --> 00:50:12,343
Visiting my grandparents.
593
00:50:12,343 --> 00:50:14,445
They lived in a cottage
on a lake.
594
00:50:16,214 --> 00:50:19,183
Fiona, I know where
your grandparents lived.
595
00:50:19,183 --> 00:50:21,052
It's where we lived.
We live.
596
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:23,721
Really?
597
00:50:25,623 --> 00:50:27,325
I'd better go back.
598
00:50:27,325 --> 00:50:29,761
He thinks he can't play
without me sitting there.
599
00:50:29,761 --> 00:50:33,030
It's silly. I hardly
know the game anymore.
600
00:50:33,030 --> 00:50:35,233
I'm afraid you'll have
to excuse me.
601
00:50:35,233 --> 00:50:36,200
Will you be through soon?
602
00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:38,202
We should be.
I mean, it depends.
603
00:50:38,202 --> 00:50:41,272
If you asked that grim-looking
lady over there nicely,
604
00:50:41,272 --> 00:50:43,441
she'll get you a cup of tea.
605
00:50:45,076 --> 00:50:46,677
No, I'm fine.
I can leave you, then?
606
00:50:46,677 --> 00:50:50,248
You can entertain yourself?
Must all seem strange to you.
607
00:50:50,248 --> 00:50:53,117
But you'll be surprised
how soon you get used to it.
608
00:50:53,117 --> 00:50:55,453
You'll get to know
who everybody is,
609
00:50:55,453 --> 00:51:00,057
except that some of them
are pretty well off
in the clouds, you know?
610
00:51:00,057 --> 00:51:05,196
Hmm. Can't expect them all
to get to know who you are.
611
00:52:24,208 --> 00:52:27,211
Hey, I've been thinking
of dying my hair.
What do you think?
612
00:52:27,211 --> 00:52:30,414
Do you think I'd look
good with red hair?
613
00:52:50,368 --> 00:52:53,271
You caught her at
sort of a bad moment,
involved in a game.
614
00:52:53,271 --> 00:52:55,439
She isn't even playing.
615
00:52:55,439 --> 00:52:57,708
Well, but her friend's
playing, Aubrey.
616
00:52:57,708 --> 00:52:59,210
Now, who is Aubrey?
617
00:52:59,210 --> 00:53:01,212
That's who he is,
Aubrey.
618
00:53:01,212 --> 00:53:02,680
You know, they get
these attachments.
619
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:04,715
That kind of takes over
for a while.
620
00:53:04,715 --> 00:53:06,751
Best buddy kind of thing.
621
00:53:06,751 --> 00:53:08,286
Sort of a phase.
622
00:53:09,253 --> 00:53:11,222
Does she even know who I am?
623
00:53:12,690 --> 00:53:14,625
No, she might not.
624
00:53:14,625 --> 00:53:18,462
Not today, and then,
tomorrow you never know.
625
00:53:18,462 --> 00:53:21,432
Things change
back and forth
all the time.
626
00:53:21,432 --> 00:53:22,466
You'll see
the way it is
627
00:53:22,466 --> 00:53:24,335
once you get used
to coming here.
628
00:53:24,335 --> 00:53:25,970
You'll learn
not to take it
so personal.
629
00:53:25,970 --> 00:53:29,307
Learn to take it
day by day.
630
00:53:31,576 --> 00:53:34,345
[inaudible dialogue]
631
00:53:51,996 --> 00:53:53,898
Oh, I'm sorry.
632
00:53:53,898 --> 00:53:56,500
I'll have to go
and fix that now.
633
00:54:26,497 --> 00:54:28,766
[Man, TV]
Here's Yung Menenikenaha,
634
00:54:28,766 --> 00:54:32,570
desperately clinging
to his one-stroke lead.
635
00:54:32,570 --> 00:54:34,372
Here's the swing.
636
00:54:34,372 --> 00:54:36,307
It doesn't look good.
637
00:54:36,307 --> 00:54:38,709
Looks like he's pushed it
out to the right.
638
00:54:38,709 --> 00:54:40,711
It lands 25 feet
from the green.
639
00:54:40,711 --> 00:54:42,546
This must be disappointing.
640
00:54:42,546 --> 00:54:45,016
It doesn't look good
for Yung Menenikenaha.
641
00:54:45,016 --> 00:54:47,385
He was three strokes
on the happy side of par
642
00:54:47,385 --> 00:54:48,452
until these last three holes.
643
00:54:53,290 --> 00:54:57,061
Look at you,
Mr. Andersson.
644
00:54:57,061 --> 00:54:59,664
I think you might
be one of our most
frequent visitors.
645
00:55:08,773 --> 00:55:10,474
Hi, Fiona.
646
00:55:10,474 --> 00:55:12,476
Oh, you are persistent,
aren't you?
647
00:55:12,476 --> 00:55:14,512
I brought you some books.
648
00:55:14,512 --> 00:55:16,881
They don't seem to have
an awful lot around here.
649
00:55:16,881 --> 00:55:19,383
Letters from Iceland
by Auden.
650
00:55:19,383 --> 00:55:22,653
We always meant
to read that together,
didn't we?
651
00:55:22,653 --> 00:55:25,056
Do you think
it'd be possible
to talk alone?
652
00:55:25,056 --> 00:55:26,624
Well, I don't know.
653
00:55:26,624 --> 00:55:29,427
Um, Aubrey's card game
starts in a few minutes,
654
00:55:29,427 --> 00:55:31,095
and then we usually
go walking,
655
00:55:31,095 --> 00:55:32,697
and then he does
his drawing--
656
00:55:32,697 --> 00:55:36,000
Or perhaps you can find
a bit of time later on.
657
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:37,535
Um, I'll stay here.
658
00:55:37,535 --> 00:55:39,437
Or I'll come back
in a few hours.
659
00:55:39,437 --> 00:55:41,839
Oh, you are persistent,
aren't you?
660
00:56:04,595 --> 00:56:06,497
[Man, TV]
Up comes Kapanen--
Boy, oh, boy!
661
00:56:06,497 --> 00:56:08,532
[Frank]
Here we are at the Spectrum
in Philadelphia.
662
00:56:08,532 --> 00:56:10,801
It's sudden-death overtime.
They're tied 2-2.
663
00:56:10,801 --> 00:56:12,503
Here are the Leafs again,
led by Andreychuk.
664
00:56:12,503 --> 00:56:13,738
He carries it
over the blue line,
665
00:56:13,738 --> 00:56:15,706
winds up a shot right on!
666
00:56:15,706 --> 00:56:17,608
The bounce, the rebound
comes back behind the net.
667
00:56:17,608 --> 00:56:18,909
McCabe couldn't get to it.
668
00:56:18,909 --> 00:56:20,478
It goes back
on the left wing
669
00:56:20,478 --> 00:56:22,913
and here come the Flyers
led by Roenick again.
670
00:56:22,913 --> 00:56:25,516
Roenick and Mitchell,
what a twosome
this two has been.
671
00:56:25,516 --> 00:56:26,884
A shot right on!
Oh, it just went wide.
672
00:56:26,884 --> 00:56:28,686
Go for it, Frank.
Over to the right side.
673
00:56:28,686 --> 00:56:29,987
Here we go again.
The Leafs again.
674
00:56:29,987 --> 00:56:32,523
Here's Sundin carrying it
up over the line.
675
00:56:32,523 --> 00:56:35,526
Can't get a shot away
and it's cleared away
by Philadelphia.
676
00:56:35,526 --> 00:56:37,728
A loose puck
grabbed by Philadelphia
over on the left wing--
677
00:56:37,728 --> 00:56:40,598
I just came down to say
Aubrey is having his nap
678
00:56:40,598 --> 00:56:42,800
if you'd like to, um, talk.
679
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:44,735
Oh, sure.
680
00:56:44,735 --> 00:56:46,804
Can we go somewhere
a little more private?
681
00:56:46,804 --> 00:56:48,506
[Frank]
...the side with Mitchell.
He shoots, he scores!
682
00:56:48,506 --> 00:56:49,907
If-- If you'd like.
683
00:56:49,907 --> 00:56:51,542
[Frank]
And Philly wins this series
684
00:56:51,542 --> 00:56:52,743
by a score of 3-2.
685
00:56:52,743 --> 00:56:54,678
That's it this season
for the Leafs.
686
00:56:54,678 --> 00:56:56,914
Look at Phil Hitchcock.
Is he a happy coach.
687
00:56:56,914 --> 00:56:58,849
Philadelphia wins 3-2.
688
00:56:58,849 --> 00:57:00,718
The game is over
in sudden-death overtime.
689
00:57:21,772 --> 00:57:24,141
Y-You said you had
some books for me?
690
00:57:24,141 --> 00:57:25,743
This.
691
00:57:27,578 --> 00:57:29,480
Letters from Iceland.
692
00:57:29,480 --> 00:57:33,083
Yes, yes.
You said by Auden.
693
00:57:33,083 --> 00:57:35,553
Yes. That's right.
694
00:57:35,553 --> 00:57:38,823
Now...where is Iceland?
695
00:57:42,092 --> 00:57:46,630
Well, Iceland
is in the middle
of the Atlantic.
696
00:57:46,630 --> 00:57:48,966
It's an island.
697
00:57:50,668 --> 00:57:52,903
Youngest country
in the world.
698
00:57:52,903 --> 00:57:55,206
It's constantly erupting.
699
00:57:55,206 --> 00:57:58,809
Volcanoes, earthquakes.
700
00:57:58,809 --> 00:58:02,847
It's always
shaking itself off.
701
00:58:04,014 --> 00:58:07,484
Wouldn't it be nice to come
from a young country?
702
00:58:07,484 --> 00:58:09,753
You do.
That's where you're from.
703
00:58:09,753 --> 00:58:13,090
That's where
your people are from.
704
00:58:13,090 --> 00:58:17,728
They immigrated here
in the late 1800s.
705
00:58:17,728 --> 00:58:20,497
But that's where
you're from, Fiona.
706
00:58:20,497 --> 00:58:25,836
And I teach-- Well, I taught
the myths from there.
707
00:58:25,836 --> 00:58:27,004
Norse mythology.
708
00:58:27,004 --> 00:58:28,739
I-I must have
been there, then.
709
00:58:28,739 --> 00:58:30,541
Have I been there?
710
00:58:30,541 --> 00:58:31,609
[sniffs]
711
00:58:31,609 --> 00:58:32,676
No.
712
00:58:34,578 --> 00:58:35,980
Oh.
713
00:58:35,980 --> 00:58:38,616
Why not?
Wasn't I curious?
714
00:58:38,616 --> 00:58:41,719
You were very curious.
715
00:58:41,719 --> 00:58:44,221
Very curious.
716
00:58:44,221 --> 00:58:48,259
You always said
there ought to be one place
717
00:58:48,259 --> 00:58:50,895
that you knew about
and you thought about
718
00:58:50,895 --> 00:58:52,863
and maybe even longed for,
719
00:58:52,863 --> 00:58:54,932
but you did never did
get to see.
720
00:59:01,572 --> 00:59:04,241
Did I say that?
721
00:59:04,241 --> 00:59:06,176
Yes, you said that.
722
00:59:20,991 --> 00:59:23,227
Well, I'd better
go and see to Aubrey.
723
00:59:23,227 --> 00:59:25,863
He'll be wanting a little
walk around, I suppose.
724
00:59:25,863 --> 00:59:26,964
It was nice chatting.
725
00:59:26,964 --> 00:59:29,800
You'll be back again
tomorrow, I suppose?
726
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:33,637
Fiona, what are you doing--
727
00:59:33,637 --> 00:59:34,972
What are you doing
with Aubrey?
728
00:59:38,275 --> 00:59:41,979
He doesn't confuse me.
729
00:59:41,979 --> 00:59:44,615
He doesn't confuse me
at all.
730
00:59:48,886 --> 00:59:52,089
Well,
it's been nice chatting.
731
00:59:52,089 --> 00:59:54,892
I'll see you again
tomorrow, I suppose.
732
00:59:57,695 --> 01:00:02,032
[door opens, closes]
733
01:00:14,778 --> 01:00:17,648
[Grant]
These affections
between residents,
734
01:00:17,648 --> 01:00:18,816
do they ever go too far?
735
01:00:18,816 --> 01:00:20,117
[Kristy chuckles]
736
01:00:20,117 --> 01:00:21,852
Well, that depends
on what you mean.
737
01:00:21,852 --> 01:00:24,655
The problem we have here,
it's funny.
738
01:00:24,655 --> 01:00:26,290
It's actually
often the ones
739
01:00:26,290 --> 01:00:28,792
who haven't been friendly
with each other at all.
740
01:00:28,792 --> 01:00:30,294
I mean, they maybe
don't even know each other
741
01:00:30,294 --> 01:00:32,997
beyond knowing, like,
is it a man or is it a woman?
742
01:00:32,997 --> 01:00:34,098
And you'd think
it'd be the old guys
743
01:00:34,098 --> 01:00:36,133
trying to crawl in bed
with the old ladies,
744
01:00:36,133 --> 01:00:37,968
but half the time
it's the other way around.
745
01:00:37,968 --> 01:00:40,871
It's the old ladies
going after the old men.
746
01:00:40,871 --> 01:00:42,806
It could be they aren't
so worn out.
747
01:00:42,806 --> 01:00:44,875
[chuckling]
748
01:00:50,047 --> 01:00:54,752
Now don't get me wrong.
I don't mean Fiona.
749
01:00:54,752 --> 01:00:56,887
Fiona is a lady.
750
01:00:56,887 --> 01:00:59,256
She's a real lady.
751
01:01:00,791 --> 01:01:04,228
I sometimes wonder--
752
01:01:04,228 --> 01:01:06,296
You wonder what?
753
01:01:08,866 --> 01:01:14,138
I wonder if she isn't
putting on some kind
of...charade.
754
01:01:14,138 --> 01:01:16,040
A what?
755
01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:19,076
Some kind of act.
756
01:01:19,076 --> 01:01:22,312
Maybe some kind of punishment.
757
01:01:25,949 --> 01:01:27,951
Why would she do that?
758
01:01:34,691 --> 01:01:36,193
Oh.
759
01:02:05,389 --> 01:02:07,357
[Fiona]
Are you getting tired?
760
01:02:07,357 --> 01:02:08,926
[Aubrey]
No.
[Fiona]
Are you certain--
761
01:02:15,933 --> 01:02:18,268
Excuse me.
762
01:02:18,268 --> 01:02:20,437
Yes, Mr. Andersson?
763
01:02:20,437 --> 01:02:23,073
How can I help you?
764
01:02:23,073 --> 01:02:24,875
Fiona's wearing
someone else's sweater.
765
01:02:24,875 --> 01:02:27,311
[Madeleine]
Well, it's pretty,
isn't it?
766
01:02:27,311 --> 01:02:28,879
No, it's not pretty.
It's tacky.
767
01:02:28,879 --> 01:02:31,915
She would never wear it.
Well, I'll tell you what.
768
01:02:31,915 --> 01:02:33,383
You can talk
to the duty attendant
769
01:02:33,383 --> 01:02:35,152
on Mrs. Andersson's
wing.
770
01:02:35,152 --> 01:02:37,387
Boy, it's a marvel, really,
771
01:02:37,387 --> 01:02:39,923
the way she's getting him up
and out of that chair.
772
01:02:46,797 --> 01:02:48,198
Can you manage?
773
01:02:50,934 --> 01:02:52,302
Will you be all right?
774
01:02:52,302 --> 01:02:54,271
I'll
be back in a second.
775
01:02:57,040 --> 01:02:59,443
Fiona,
I'm your husband.
776
01:02:59,443 --> 01:03:01,311
Fiona, it's Grant.
777
01:03:01,311 --> 01:03:03,814
We've been married
for 45 years.
778
01:03:03,814 --> 01:03:07,217
Look at me, Fiona.
That is not your sweater.
779
01:03:07,217 --> 01:03:09,119
We had a good life
together.
780
01:03:09,119 --> 01:03:12,055
Those are your words,
Fiona, not mine.
781
01:03:12,055 --> 01:03:14,091
That is not your sweater.
782
01:03:14,091 --> 01:03:17,227
[Aubrey groaning]
783
01:03:20,130 --> 01:03:22,399
It's all right.
784
01:03:22,399 --> 01:03:25,269
It's all right.
It's all right.
785
01:03:25,269 --> 01:03:27,204
I'm coming
straight back.
786
01:03:27,204 --> 01:03:28,372
I'm coming
straight back.
787
01:03:28,372 --> 01:03:30,574
It's going to be
all right.
788
01:03:49,193 --> 01:03:52,296
I'll see you again
tomorrow, I suppose.
789
01:03:56,200 --> 01:03:58,101
Please...
790
01:03:59,570 --> 01:04:00,504
don't.
791
01:04:03,373 --> 01:04:06,343
Please, please don't.
792
01:04:09,846 --> 01:04:12,416
You're very persistent,
aren't you?
793
01:04:18,855 --> 01:04:22,226
I wish I--
794
01:04:22,226 --> 01:04:23,961
Wish I knew what--
795
01:04:29,499 --> 01:04:33,070
[sniffles]
796
01:04:33,070 --> 01:04:35,872
We'll see you again
tomorrow, I suppose.
797
01:05:19,182 --> 01:05:22,219
You're not doing
too well, are you?
798
01:05:22,219 --> 01:05:23,920
Well, no big surprise.
799
01:05:23,920 --> 01:05:27,090
What we're handling
isn't so easy.
800
01:05:29,259 --> 01:05:30,627
I thought
when I married,
801
01:05:30,627 --> 01:05:34,264
I'd be with someone
to the final stretch.
802
01:05:34,264 --> 01:05:37,434
I'm betting
you thought the same.
803
01:05:37,434 --> 01:05:39,636
Well, didn't work out.
804
01:05:39,636 --> 01:05:43,507
[Aubrey groaning]
805
01:05:43,507 --> 01:05:48,178
So, I, uh, think
you're here for a reason.
806
01:05:48,178 --> 01:05:51,648
I'm the kind of person
you can say things
flat out to, so shoot.
807
01:05:51,648 --> 01:05:55,652
[sigh]
808
01:05:55,652 --> 01:05:58,989
I wonder if you would
consider taking Aubrey
back to Meadowlake,
809
01:05:58,989 --> 01:06:02,025
maybe just for a visit.
810
01:06:02,025 --> 01:06:05,429
Or I suppose
I could take Aubrey
out there myself.
811
01:06:05,429 --> 01:06:07,164
I wouldn't mind that at all.
812
01:06:09,466 --> 01:06:11,168
[sigh]
813
01:06:12,269 --> 01:06:13,970
Homemade.
814
01:06:21,211 --> 01:06:22,245
Really?
815
01:06:25,215 --> 01:06:29,086
No. No, I can't do that.
816
01:06:29,086 --> 01:06:31,221
And the reason is
I don't want to upset him.
817
01:06:31,221 --> 01:06:32,723
But wouldn't he understand
it was just a visit?
818
01:06:32,723 --> 01:06:35,592
He understands everything.
819
01:06:35,592 --> 01:06:38,195
Now, if I go
to all that trouble,
820
01:06:38,195 --> 01:06:40,764
I'd prefer to take him
someplace that'd be
more fun, hmm?
821
01:06:40,764 --> 01:06:43,367
It would make more sense
to take him to the mall
822
01:06:43,367 --> 01:06:44,735
where there are kids
and whatnot.
823
01:06:44,735 --> 01:06:47,237
And then I'd have to
get him all ready,
824
01:06:47,237 --> 01:06:48,739
maneuver him
into the car.
825
01:06:48,739 --> 01:06:51,208
He's a big man.
He's not that easy
to manage.
826
01:06:51,208 --> 01:06:53,310
Even if I agreed to do it?
827
01:06:53,310 --> 01:06:54,578
You couldn't do it.
You don't know him.
828
01:06:54,578 --> 01:06:56,213
You couldn't manage him.
829
01:06:56,213 --> 01:06:58,281
And he wouldn't stand
your doing for him.
830
01:06:58,281 --> 01:07:03,120
And after all that,
what would he get
out of it?
831
01:07:03,120 --> 01:07:04,254
Uh...
832
01:07:05,455 --> 01:07:07,057
Hmm.
833
01:07:26,410 --> 01:07:27,811
Smoke?
834
01:07:27,811 --> 01:07:30,180
No. No, thanks.
835
01:07:30,180 --> 01:07:32,315
What, did you never,
or did you quit?
836
01:07:32,315 --> 01:07:33,583
I quit.
837
01:07:33,583 --> 01:07:34,818
How long ago?
838
01:07:34,818 --> 01:07:39,589
Oh, 30 years,
maybe more.
839
01:07:39,589 --> 01:07:41,224
I quit quitting.
840
01:07:43,527 --> 01:07:46,496
Just made a resolution
to quit quitting,
that's all.
841
01:07:48,165 --> 01:07:51,334
So your wife's
depressed, huh?
842
01:07:52,302 --> 01:07:54,504
What's her name again?
I forget.
843
01:07:54,504 --> 01:07:56,239
Fiona.
844
01:07:56,239 --> 01:07:58,508
[Kristy]
And how old were you
when you met?
845
01:07:58,508 --> 01:08:00,610
She was 18.
846
01:08:00,610 --> 01:08:03,380
Holy, that's pretty young
to get married, eh?
847
01:08:03,380 --> 01:08:05,081
[chuckling]
848
01:08:07,484 --> 01:08:08,819
Wasn't my idea.
849
01:08:08,819 --> 01:08:11,354
You mean
she proposed to you?
850
01:08:11,354 --> 01:08:13,089
Well, that's lovely,
that's what I think.
851
01:08:13,089 --> 01:08:13,857
How'd she do it?
852
01:08:13,857 --> 01:08:16,526
She hadn't planned it
necessarily.
853
01:08:16,526 --> 01:08:20,363
We were in Tobermory
waiting for the ferry
to Manitoulin,
854
01:08:20,363 --> 01:08:23,266
and it was miserable
and rainy,
855
01:08:23,266 --> 01:08:27,137
and she was in a good mood.
856
01:08:27,137 --> 01:08:29,139
She didn't want any part
of my sour mood.
857
01:08:29,139 --> 01:08:31,541
[chuckles]
And what'd she do,
what'd she say?
858
01:08:31,541 --> 01:08:36,413
Well, she said,
"Do you think it'd be fun--
859
01:08:36,413 --> 01:08:40,250
Do you think it'd be fun
if we got married?"
860
01:08:40,250 --> 01:08:41,751
And what did you say?
861
01:08:41,751 --> 01:08:43,353
I took her up on it.
862
01:08:43,353 --> 01:08:45,222
I shouted yes.
863
01:08:49,893 --> 01:08:52,562
I never wanted
to be away from her.
864
01:08:54,731 --> 01:08:57,200
She had the spark of life.
865
01:08:59,269 --> 01:09:01,338
[Kristy]
You know, nothing
can take away
866
01:09:01,338 --> 01:09:05,742
what's happened to you
and what you've experienced.
867
01:09:05,742 --> 01:09:07,444
I don't think so, anyway.
868
01:09:07,444 --> 01:09:12,749
Even if it goes away somehow,
it's still there.
869
01:09:12,749 --> 01:09:14,885
It's still what you are.
870
01:09:16,853 --> 01:09:18,488
[Grant]
It's curious.
871
01:09:18,488 --> 01:09:19,623
What's curious?
872
01:09:19,623 --> 01:09:23,226
All of that
"madly in love" business.
873
01:09:23,226 --> 01:09:24,694
The beginning.
874
01:09:24,694 --> 01:09:30,400
I hear myself tell the story,
and it all sounds so crucial.
875
01:09:32,235 --> 01:09:33,937
I suppose it is.
876
01:09:33,937 --> 01:09:36,406
But compared to what
we ended up with,
877
01:09:36,406 --> 01:09:38,675
until recently...
878
01:09:40,644 --> 01:09:44,447
all of that seems
so superficial somehow.
879
01:09:46,683 --> 01:09:49,586
[chatter,
plates clinking]
880
01:10:22,652 --> 01:10:26,356
♪ [heavy metal]
881
01:10:26,356 --> 01:10:29,993
Not such a fun place
to visit, eh?
882
01:10:29,993 --> 01:10:31,328
Excuse me?
883
01:10:31,328 --> 01:10:34,798
Not such a fun place
to visit.
884
01:10:34,798 --> 01:10:36,433
Fucking depressing.
885
01:10:38,468 --> 01:10:39,536
No offense.
886
01:10:39,536 --> 01:10:40,637
None taken.
887
01:10:42,639 --> 01:10:45,942
No one came
to visit you, huh?
888
01:10:45,942 --> 01:10:47,911
That must suck huge.
889
01:10:47,911 --> 01:10:51,514
Well, it would suck huge,
but I don't live here.
890
01:10:51,514 --> 01:10:53,683
I'm just visiting someone.
891
01:10:53,683 --> 01:10:55,986
Who? Which one?
892
01:10:55,986 --> 01:10:59,422
Beautiful woman
with the shock of hair.
893
01:10:59,422 --> 01:11:00,690
The one sitting
with her husband?
894
01:11:00,690 --> 01:11:03,493
You might say that.
Why wouldn't you?
895
01:11:03,493 --> 01:11:05,562
I wouldn't say that
because I'm her husband.
896
01:11:07,564 --> 01:11:10,367
So why aren't you
sitting with her, then?
897
01:11:13,436 --> 01:11:16,773
Just learned to give her
some space.
898
01:11:16,773 --> 01:11:19,275
She's in love with that man
she's sitting with.
899
01:11:19,275 --> 01:11:21,578
I don't like to disturb her.
900
01:11:21,578 --> 01:11:24,047
I just like to see her,
I suppose.
901
01:11:24,047 --> 01:11:27,584
Make sure she's
doing well, you know?
902
01:11:30,654 --> 01:11:33,623
I suppose that must seem
rather pathetic.
903
01:11:35,425 --> 01:11:37,761
I should be so lucky.
904
01:11:43,900 --> 01:11:45,435
Come on.
905
01:11:47,070 --> 01:11:48,638
[chuckles]
906
01:12:10,393 --> 01:12:11,995
She's not here.
907
01:12:11,995 --> 01:12:13,763
She's sick.
908
01:12:13,763 --> 01:12:16,466
He's not here, either.
909
01:12:16,466 --> 01:12:18,535
[laughing]
910
01:12:34,584 --> 01:12:36,453
[knocking]
911
01:12:44,761 --> 01:12:48,531
I brought you a book.
912
01:12:48,531 --> 01:12:50,734
It's all about Iceland.
913
01:12:50,734 --> 01:12:53,136
Thought you might like
to take a look at it.
914
01:12:53,136 --> 01:12:55,438
Why, thank you.
915
01:12:55,438 --> 01:12:56,539
[crying]
916
01:12:56,539 --> 01:12:59,576
Oh, what is it,
dear heart?
917
01:12:59,576 --> 01:13:02,445
[Aubrey sniffling]
What is it?
Oh, I see.
918
01:13:02,445 --> 01:13:04,748
Here. Here.
Here.
919
01:13:04,748 --> 01:13:07,050
Here, here, yes.
920
01:13:09,819 --> 01:13:12,789
Do you by any chance have
any influence around here?
921
01:13:12,789 --> 01:13:16,659
I've seen you
talking to them.
922
01:13:18,661 --> 01:13:20,697
Oh.
923
01:13:23,566 --> 01:13:24,701
We'll get to see each other.
924
01:13:24,701 --> 01:13:28,571
[groans]
You'll see.
We have to.
925
01:13:28,571 --> 01:13:31,608
I'll come and see you,
926
01:13:31,608 --> 01:13:34,110
and you'll come
and see me.
927
01:13:41,050 --> 01:13:42,619
You know,
I just wish his wife
928
01:13:42,619 --> 01:13:44,154
would hurry up
and get here.
929
01:13:44,154 --> 01:13:46,089
I wish she'd
get him out of here
930
01:13:46,089 --> 01:13:47,590
and cut the agony
short.
931
01:13:47,590 --> 01:13:49,025
Should I stay?
932
01:13:49,025 --> 01:13:51,861
Don't worry.
She's not sick,
you know.
933
01:13:53,997 --> 01:13:55,732
To keep her company.
934
01:13:55,732 --> 01:13:58,468
Well, they have to learn
to get over these things
by themselves.
935
01:13:58,468 --> 01:14:01,905
They've got short memories,
and that's not always so bad.
936
01:14:04,607 --> 01:14:05,775
Okay?
937
01:14:31,734 --> 01:14:35,872
[Woman]
Fiona. Her name is Fiona.
938
01:14:35,872 --> 01:14:37,240
And what's yours?
939
01:14:37,240 --> 01:14:40,543
I don't think
I was ever told that.
940
01:14:40,543 --> 01:14:43,179
Oh, I'm sorry.
It's Grant.
941
01:14:43,179 --> 01:14:45,181
Hmm.
942
01:14:45,181 --> 01:14:47,617
Hello, Grant.
943
01:14:47,617 --> 01:14:49,686
I'm Marian.
944
01:14:53,223 --> 01:14:56,526
Well, now that we know
each other's name,
945
01:14:56,526 --> 01:15:00,730
I can
tell you straight out
what I'm thinking.
946
01:15:00,730 --> 01:15:05,802
I don't know if he's still
so stuck on seeing your--
947
01:15:05,802 --> 01:15:06,936
seeing Fiona.
948
01:15:06,936 --> 01:15:09,806
I don't ask him,
he doesn't tell me.
949
01:15:09,806 --> 01:15:13,142
But I don't feel like
putting him back in there
950
01:15:13,142 --> 01:15:15,745
in case it turns out
to be more than that.
951
01:15:15,745 --> 01:15:18,615
I don't want him
getting hard to handle.
952
01:15:18,615 --> 01:15:22,185
I don't have any help.
It's just me here.
953
01:15:22,185 --> 01:15:23,653
I'm it.
954
01:15:23,653 --> 01:15:24,954
It is very hard for you.
955
01:15:24,954 --> 01:15:27,857
Did-- Did you ever consider
his going in there for good?
956
01:15:27,857 --> 01:15:30,894
No. I'm keeping him
right here.
957
01:15:30,894 --> 01:15:33,596
Well, that's very good
and noble of you.
958
01:15:33,596 --> 01:15:34,898
Oh, you think so?
959
01:15:34,898 --> 01:15:38,968
Well, noble is not
what I'm thinking about.
960
01:15:38,968 --> 01:15:40,970
No, but it isn't easy.
961
01:15:40,970 --> 01:15:43,306
No, it isn't,
but I don't have a choice.
962
01:15:43,306 --> 01:15:47,143
If I pay to put him in there,
I won't hold on to the house,
963
01:15:47,143 --> 01:15:49,679
and the house
is the only thing
we own outright.
964
01:15:52,315 --> 01:15:56,619
And it means a lot to me,
this house does.
965
01:15:56,619 --> 01:15:58,121
It's very nice.
966
01:15:59,088 --> 01:16:02,191
Well, I guess it's all right.
967
01:16:02,191 --> 01:16:05,895
I've done a lot on it,
fixing it up, keeping it up.
968
01:16:05,895 --> 01:16:07,931
Yes, I can see
that you have-- you do.
969
01:16:07,931 --> 01:16:09,832
I don't want to lose it.
No.
970
01:16:09,832 --> 01:16:12,068
I'm not going to lose it.
I see your point.
971
01:16:12,068 --> 01:16:14,070
See, the company
left us high and dry.
972
01:16:14,070 --> 01:16:20,109
In the end, they said
he owed them money.
973
01:16:21,711 --> 01:16:26,582
What do I think?
Well, he was pretty stupid.
974
01:16:26,582 --> 01:16:27,717
[sigh]
975
01:16:27,717 --> 01:16:31,821
But I'm not supposed
to ask, so I shut up.
976
01:16:31,821 --> 01:16:33,289
You've been married, huh?
977
01:16:33,289 --> 01:16:36,192
I mean, you are married.
You know what it's like.
978
01:16:37,961 --> 01:16:40,163
And then, in the middle
of all this,
979
01:16:40,163 --> 01:16:45,168
he gets sick from this virus,
and he goes into a coma.
980
01:16:50,173 --> 01:16:54,978
So that pretty much
takes him off the hook, hmm?
981
01:16:57,246 --> 01:16:58,848
It's bad luck.
982
01:16:59,983 --> 01:17:02,852
It's, no, just life.
983
01:17:06,622 --> 01:17:08,191
Can't beat life.
984
01:17:09,892 --> 01:17:11,227
No.
985
01:17:15,365 --> 01:17:16,833
[knocking at door]
986
01:17:23,106 --> 01:17:25,708
Oh. Hello.
987
01:18:07,383 --> 01:18:09,118
Perhaps you'd like me
to read to you.
988
01:18:11,254 --> 01:18:13,456
I don't have any books.
989
01:18:16,959 --> 01:18:18,361
Oh, there are some.
990
01:18:20,997 --> 01:18:23,066
Letters from Iceland.
991
01:18:32,308 --> 01:18:34,977
"Isn't it true,
however far we've wandered
992
01:18:34,977 --> 01:18:37,814
"into our provinces
of persecution,
993
01:18:37,814 --> 01:18:41,984
"where our regrets accuse,
we keep returning
994
01:18:41,984 --> 01:18:44,087
"back to the common faith
995
01:18:44,087 --> 01:18:46,289
"from which
we've all dissented,
996
01:18:46,289 --> 01:18:50,293
"back to the hands,
the feet, the faces?
997
01:18:50,293 --> 01:18:54,030
"Children are always there
and take the hands,
998
01:18:54,030 --> 01:18:55,998
"even when they
are most terrified.
999
01:18:55,998 --> 01:19:00,236
"Those in love cannot
make up their minds
to go or stay.
1000
01:19:00,236 --> 01:19:03,806
"Artist and doctor
return most often.
1001
01:19:03,806 --> 01:19:07,043
"Only the mad will never,
never come back.
1002
01:19:07,043 --> 01:19:09,879
"For doctors keep
on worrying while away,
1003
01:19:09,879 --> 01:19:14,784
"in case their skill
is suffering and deserted.
1004
01:19:14,784 --> 01:19:18,754
"Lovers have lived so long
with giants and elves,
1005
01:19:18,754 --> 01:19:22,325
"they want belief again
in their own size.
1006
01:19:22,325 --> 01:19:25,394
"And the artist prays
ever so gently,
1007
01:19:25,394 --> 01:19:29,132
"'Let me find pure
all that can happen.
1008
01:19:29,132 --> 01:19:32,368
"'Only uniqueness is success.
1009
01:19:32,368 --> 01:19:36,939
"'For instance,
let me perceive
the images of history.
1010
01:19:36,939 --> 01:19:41,010
"'All that I push away
with doubt and travel,
1011
01:19:41,010 --> 01:19:45,081
today's and yesterday's alike,
like bodies."
1012
01:19:45,081 --> 01:19:48,084
[George W. Bush]
To all the men and women of
the United States Armed Forces
1013
01:19:48,084 --> 01:19:50,419
now in the Middle East,
the peace of a troubled world
1014
01:19:50,419 --> 01:19:52,855
and the hopes
of an oppressed people
1015
01:19:52,855 --> 01:19:56,092
now depend on you.
1016
01:19:56,092 --> 01:19:57,927
How could they forget Vietnam?
1017
01:19:57,927 --> 01:20:00,296
[Woman]
The air strike started again
at 5 A.M. this morning
1018
01:20:00,296 --> 01:20:02,298
and lasted for three hours.
1019
01:20:02,298 --> 01:20:04,167
Roadside explosions
have killed
1020
01:20:04,167 --> 01:20:07,537
eight Iraqi civilians
and one U.S. soldier.
1021
01:20:09,071 --> 01:20:10,806
Hmm.
Hmm.
1022
01:20:17,113 --> 01:20:18,214
Here you go.
1023
01:20:19,415 --> 01:20:22,552
Next time you do it,
just go pick it up, okay?
1024
01:20:28,491 --> 01:20:31,227
Her muscles
are deteriorating.
1025
01:20:31,227 --> 01:20:32,228
If she doesn't
improve soon,
1026
01:20:32,228 --> 01:20:35,431
we're going to have to
put her on a walker.
1027
01:20:35,431 --> 01:20:36,966
I keep trying
to get her walking,
1028
01:20:36,966 --> 01:20:39,035
but she doesn't seem
to want to go anywhere.
1029
01:20:39,035 --> 01:20:42,872
But, you know,
once they get on a walker,
they start to depend on it,
1030
01:20:42,872 --> 01:20:44,941
and then they don't want
to walk much anymore,
1031
01:20:44,941 --> 01:20:47,577
just get wherever it is
they have to go.
1032
01:20:47,577 --> 01:20:49,946
You're going to have to
work at her harder.
1033
01:20:49,946 --> 01:20:52,048
Try and encourage her.
1034
01:20:52,048 --> 01:20:53,482
Sorry.
1035
01:20:59,155 --> 01:21:01,023
Here you go.
1036
01:21:13,002 --> 01:21:15,104
Mrs. Andersson.
1037
01:21:15,104 --> 01:21:17,907
How would you like
to go on a field trip?
1038
01:22:00,182 --> 01:22:03,452
They've kept it
so like it was.
1039
01:22:05,921 --> 01:22:08,357
Who has?
1040
01:22:08,357 --> 01:22:10,960
The people who live here.
1041
01:23:20,730 --> 01:23:23,065
But everything...
1042
01:23:29,338 --> 01:23:32,541
Everything
just reminds me of him.
1043
01:23:34,210 --> 01:23:38,280
It wasn't enough,
I suppose.
1044
01:23:38,280 --> 01:23:40,316
Who, Fiona?
1045
01:23:41,684 --> 01:23:44,320
Who does everything
remind you of?
1046
01:24:03,372 --> 01:24:07,209
I'd like to go home now,
if you don't mind.
1047
01:24:12,181 --> 01:24:14,083
[Madeleine]
Now, as you know,
1048
01:24:14,083 --> 01:24:17,253
we don't do extended care
on the first floor.
1049
01:24:17,253 --> 01:24:21,323
I mean, we do it temporarily
if someone isn't feeling well.
1050
01:24:21,323 --> 01:24:24,827
But if they progress
too far,
1051
01:24:24,827 --> 01:24:29,064
we have to consider
moving upstairs.
1052
01:24:30,332 --> 01:24:32,401
[sigh]
1053
01:24:32,401 --> 01:24:35,371
Do you happen to have
Aubrey's address?
1054
01:24:35,371 --> 01:24:37,072
I'm sorry?
1055
01:24:40,075 --> 01:24:43,712
Aubrey and his wife.
1056
01:24:43,712 --> 01:24:46,248
Where do they live?
1057
01:25:03,232 --> 01:25:04,633
[Marian]
Well, it was
probably a mistake
1058
01:25:04,633 --> 01:25:07,236
putting him there
in the first place,
1059
01:25:07,236 --> 01:25:09,438
but I wasn't going
to get another chance
1060
01:25:09,438 --> 01:25:12,508
to get away,
so I took it.
1061
01:25:12,508 --> 01:25:13,742
Well, so...
1062
01:25:15,544 --> 01:25:17,446
[chuckles]
Now I know better.
1063
01:25:20,850 --> 01:25:23,385
Did your husband ever
work in a hardware store
1064
01:25:23,385 --> 01:25:25,588
in the summers
when he was going to school?
1065
01:25:25,588 --> 01:25:29,425
No, I never heard
about that.
1066
01:25:29,425 --> 01:25:31,293
But I wasn't raised here.
1067
01:25:32,728 --> 01:25:36,265
No. I didn't think so.
1068
01:25:43,405 --> 01:25:46,809
Thank you very much
for your time, Miriam.
1069
01:25:46,809 --> 01:25:50,446
It's Marian.
1070
01:25:50,446 --> 01:25:51,614
Sorry.
1071
01:25:59,355 --> 01:26:01,357
[sigh]
1072
01:26:01,357 --> 01:26:03,492
What a jerk.
1073
01:26:09,565 --> 01:26:10,533
Hmm.
1074
01:26:13,168 --> 01:26:15,304
[car engine starts]
1075
01:26:22,945 --> 01:26:24,947
Yeah, maybe someone
could just drop in on her,
1076
01:26:24,947 --> 01:26:26,482
like, if the nurse
is around.
1077
01:26:26,482 --> 01:26:28,884
All right.
1078
01:26:28,884 --> 01:26:30,686
No, I don't think
there's much to it,
1079
01:26:30,686 --> 01:26:32,555
but I'd like you
to call me back.
1080
01:26:32,555 --> 01:26:34,456
Okay.
1081
01:26:34,456 --> 01:26:36,792
Thanks a lot. Bye-bye.
1082
01:26:36,792 --> 01:26:38,427
Hey.
Hi.
1083
01:26:38,427 --> 01:26:39,962
[punching keypad]
1084
01:26:39,962 --> 01:26:43,399
Uh...
1085
01:26:43,399 --> 01:26:47,836
I think I want to ask you
about the second floor,
1086
01:26:47,836 --> 01:26:51,407
just to know
a little more about it.
1087
01:26:51,407 --> 01:26:53,509
Well, it's for people
who've really lost it.
1088
01:27:00,816 --> 01:27:03,519
What do they do, then?
1089
01:27:03,519 --> 01:27:08,324
What happens after that?
After they've...lost it?
1090
01:27:08,324 --> 01:27:10,426
You don't really
want to know.
1091
01:27:10,426 --> 01:27:12,494
But, you know,
sometimes they get it back.
1092
01:27:12,494 --> 01:27:15,431
They go into their room
for a year, they don't
know you from Adam,
1093
01:27:15,431 --> 01:27:17,666
and then one day,
it's, "Oh, hi.
When are we going home?"
1094
01:27:17,666 --> 01:27:20,269
I mean, all of a sudden,
they're back to normal.
1095
01:27:20,269 --> 01:27:22,004
But it doesn't
last for long.
1096
01:27:22,004 --> 01:27:23,806
You think,
"Oh, wow, back to normal,"
1097
01:27:23,806 --> 01:27:25,608
and then they're gone again--
1098
01:27:25,608 --> 01:27:27,543
[snaps fingers]
like so.
1099
01:27:30,446 --> 01:27:33,549
I haven't even asked you
about yourself.
1100
01:27:33,549 --> 01:27:34,950
You married?
1101
01:27:34,950 --> 01:27:38,854
Well, technically,
yeah, I guess.
1102
01:27:38,854 --> 01:27:40,923
Got three kids.
1103
01:27:40,923 --> 01:27:43,525
Their dad lives
in Alberta, I think.
1104
01:27:43,525 --> 01:27:45,728
He's making it rich, maybe.
I wouldn't know.
1105
01:27:45,728 --> 01:27:48,364
Must be quite a struggle.
1106
01:27:48,364 --> 01:27:52,301
It, uh...knocks the wind
out of you every now and then,
1107
01:27:52,301 --> 01:27:55,571
but you just pick yourself
back up like everyone else.
1108
01:27:57,439 --> 01:28:01,343
I suppose our lives
must seem easy to you.
1109
01:28:01,343 --> 01:28:04,613
We got through life
without too much
going wrong.
1110
01:28:04,613 --> 01:28:08,417
What we have to suffer
now, when we're old,
1111
01:28:08,417 --> 01:28:10,019
hardly counts,
I suppose.
1112
01:28:10,019 --> 01:28:12,588
That's
what you must think.
1113
01:28:16,492 --> 01:28:18,861
Well, how would you
know what I think?
1114
01:28:18,861 --> 01:28:20,763
To tell you the truth,
I'd rather be
1115
01:28:20,763 --> 01:28:24,566
the one that stayed
than the one that left.
1116
01:28:24,566 --> 01:28:26,902
I'll bet you weren't always
the doggedly devoted husband.
1117
01:28:26,902 --> 01:28:29,571
Am I right?
1118
01:28:29,571 --> 01:28:33,042
I mean, you said
that you wondered
1119
01:28:33,042 --> 01:28:37,646
if maybe she was punishing
you for something?
1120
01:28:37,646 --> 01:28:39,915
I'll bet you had something
pretty specific in mind,
didn't you?
1121
01:28:42,918 --> 01:28:48,791
You know, you see a lot
of things in this job.
1122
01:28:48,791 --> 01:28:51,593
You see the end of things
all day long.
1123
01:28:51,593 --> 01:28:53,495
And in my experience,
at the end of things
1124
01:28:53,495 --> 01:28:55,330
it's almost always
the men that think
1125
01:28:55,330 --> 01:28:58,600
that not too much
went wrong.
1126
01:28:58,600 --> 01:29:00,836
I wonder if your wife
feels the same way.
1127
01:29:02,871 --> 01:29:04,740
I wonder that, too.
1128
01:29:06,075 --> 01:29:08,510
I bet you do.
1129
01:29:26,762 --> 01:29:31,467
[phone ringing]
1130
01:29:31,467 --> 01:29:32,634
[answering machine beeps]
1131
01:29:32,634 --> 01:29:34,436
[Marian]
Uh, hello, Grant.
1132
01:29:34,436 --> 01:29:36,638
I hope I got
the right person.
1133
01:29:36,638 --> 01:29:38,507
I just thought of something.
1134
01:29:38,507 --> 01:29:40,676
There is a dance
here in town
1135
01:29:40,676 --> 01:29:42,878
at the Legion
on Saturday night,
1136
01:29:42,878 --> 01:29:44,646
and I am
on the supper committee,
1137
01:29:44,646 --> 01:29:46,849
which means I can
bring a free guest.
1138
01:29:46,849 --> 01:29:49,551
So I wondered
whether you would happen
1139
01:29:49,551 --> 01:29:51,687
to be interested in that.
1140
01:29:51,687 --> 01:29:54,089
Call me back
when you get a chance.
1141
01:29:54,089 --> 01:29:57,826
555-3457.
1142
01:29:57,826 --> 01:29:59,628
[click]
1143
01:29:59,628 --> 01:30:01,530
[answering machine beeps]
1144
01:30:01,530 --> 01:30:04,433
[Marian]
I just realizedI'd forgotten
to say who it was.
1145
01:30:04,433 --> 01:30:05,667
[chuckles]
1146
01:30:05,667 --> 01:30:08,804
Well, you probably recognize
the voice, the accent.
1147
01:30:08,804 --> 01:30:10,472
It's Marian.
1148
01:30:10,472 --> 01:30:12,775
I'm still not so used
to these machines,
1149
01:30:12,775 --> 01:30:15,544
and I wanted to say
I realize you're not single
1150
01:30:15,544 --> 01:30:17,646
and I don't mean it
that way.
1151
01:30:17,646 --> 01:30:19,515
I'm not, either.
1152
01:30:19,515 --> 01:30:22,651
But it doesn't hurt
to get out once in a while.
1153
01:30:22,651 --> 01:30:24,920
Anyway,
now I've said all this,
1154
01:30:24,920 --> 01:30:27,589
I really hope
it's you I'm talking to.
1155
01:30:27,589 --> 01:30:29,691
It did sound like your voice.
1156
01:30:29,691 --> 01:30:31,894
If you're interested,
you can call me.
1157
01:30:31,894 --> 01:30:34,963
And if you are not,
you don't need to bother.
1158
01:30:34,963 --> 01:30:39,568
I just thought you might
like the chance to get out.
1159
01:30:39,568 --> 01:30:41,203
It's Marian speaking.
1160
01:30:41,203 --> 01:30:43,138
[chuckling]
1161
01:30:43,138 --> 01:30:46,608
I guess I already said that.
1162
01:30:46,608 --> 01:30:49,745
Okay, then.
Good-bye.
1163
01:30:53,749 --> 01:30:55,751
[Grant]
"The desires of the heart
1164
01:30:55,751 --> 01:30:58,086
"are as crooked
as corkscrews.
1165
01:30:58,086 --> 01:31:00,756
"Not to be born
is the best for man.
1166
01:31:00,756 --> 01:31:04,193
"The second-best
is a formal order.
1167
01:31:04,193 --> 01:31:08,630
The dance's pattern:
dance while you can."
1168
01:31:13,836 --> 01:31:16,939
Fiona?
1169
01:31:16,939 --> 01:31:19,942
Is there any way
to let this go...
1170
01:31:19,942 --> 01:31:21,944
do you think?
1171
01:31:26,181 --> 01:31:29,685
If I let it go,
it'll only hit me harder
1172
01:31:29,685 --> 01:31:31,954
when I bump into it again.
1173
01:31:37,226 --> 01:31:38,827
Okay.
1174
01:31:43,699 --> 01:31:46,835
"Dance, dance,
for the figure is easy.
1175
01:31:46,835 --> 01:31:50,639
The tune is catchy
and will not stop."
1176
01:31:52,741 --> 01:31:54,076
[Grant]
"Dance till the stars
1177
01:31:54,076 --> 01:31:56,078
"come down
from the rafters.
1178
01:31:56,078 --> 01:31:59,615
Dance, dance, dance
till you drop."
1179
01:31:59,615 --> 01:32:02,017
[phone ringing]
1180
01:32:06,054 --> 01:32:07,890
[Marian]
Yes?
1181
01:32:07,890 --> 01:32:10,058
Hello, Marian.
1182
01:32:20,202 --> 01:32:21,770
So...
1183
01:32:23,906 --> 01:32:25,574
There you are.
1184
01:32:26,775 --> 01:32:28,777
Here I am.
1185
01:32:31,780 --> 01:32:32,881
Thank you.
1186
01:32:32,881 --> 01:32:35,984
♪ [slow jazz]
1187
01:32:59,107 --> 01:33:00,776
What are you thinking?
1188
01:33:02,744 --> 01:33:04,780
Not an awful lot, really.
1189
01:33:06,782 --> 01:33:08,917
Skiing.
1190
01:33:12,187 --> 01:33:13,255
Downhill?
1191
01:33:15,824 --> 01:33:16,892
Cross-country.
1192
01:33:19,828 --> 01:33:23,332
I'm more a thrill-seeker,
I guess.
1193
01:33:28,904 --> 01:33:30,072
What are you thinking?
1194
01:33:31,907 --> 01:33:33,608
I'm thinking
you never know
1195
01:33:33,608 --> 01:33:36,078
how things are going
to turn out.
1196
01:33:38,914 --> 01:33:42,184
You almost know...
1197
01:33:42,184 --> 01:33:46,121
but you can never
be quite sure.
1198
01:34:22,257 --> 01:34:23,992
Mr. Andersson?
1199
01:34:30,799 --> 01:34:32,801
Mr. Andersson?
1200
01:34:32,801 --> 01:34:34,903
Now, as you know,
we're, uh,
1201
01:34:34,903 --> 01:34:36,338
we're going to have to
think about moving
1202
01:34:36,338 --> 01:34:40,042
Mrs. Andersson upstairs
fairly soon, I'm afraid.
1203
01:34:40,042 --> 01:34:42,377
She hasn't been
out of that bed
for two weeks now, and--
1204
01:34:42,377 --> 01:34:46,048
I'm quite aware
of your policies.
1205
01:34:46,048 --> 01:34:48,183
I'm more than aware
of your bloody policies.
1206
01:34:50,986 --> 01:34:53,922
[Frank]
Well, once again,
Nurse Kristy is taking me
1207
01:34:53,922 --> 01:34:55,223
back to the second floor.
1208
01:34:55,223 --> 01:34:57,159
The area to my right
are the elevators,
1209
01:34:57,159 --> 01:34:59,194
and as we go on
down the hall,
1210
01:34:59,194 --> 01:35:01,096
there's a man
with a broken heart,
1211
01:35:01,096 --> 01:35:02,931
broken
in a thousand pieces.
1212
01:35:02,931 --> 01:35:05,233
Well, we'll go
to Madeleine's office,
past the lunchroom.
1213
01:35:05,233 --> 01:35:07,202
Hopefully,
they're serving right now.
1214
01:35:07,202 --> 01:35:08,837
The cannelloni
was cold yesterday,
1215
01:35:08,837 --> 01:35:10,205
but let's see
what it's doing today.
1216
01:35:10,205 --> 01:35:12,207
Let's have-- I gotta have
some Cokes again.
1217
01:35:12,207 --> 01:35:14,242
That's what I'm
going to do.
1218
01:35:17,012 --> 01:35:21,883
Wouldn't it be better
if...
1219
01:35:21,883 --> 01:35:24,853
when we go out again,
1220
01:35:24,853 --> 01:35:27,456
to put Aubrey
back into Meadowlake?
1221
01:35:27,456 --> 01:35:29,958
Just for a day?
1222
01:35:29,958 --> 01:35:31,993
What do you think?
1223
01:35:34,896 --> 01:35:39,868
I'm thinking
that sometimes you...
1224
01:35:39,868 --> 01:35:44,406
just have to make
the decision to be happy.
1225
01:35:46,975 --> 01:35:48,743
Just decide.
1226
01:35:50,345 --> 01:35:53,982
Things aren't ever
what you hoped they'd be.
1227
01:35:53,982 --> 01:35:55,884
Not ever, for anybody.
1228
01:35:57,786 --> 01:35:59,187
The only thing
that separates
1229
01:35:59,187 --> 01:36:01,456
one kind of person
from another
1230
01:36:01,456 --> 01:36:05,460
is there are some
who stay angry about it
1231
01:36:05,460 --> 01:36:09,097
and there
are some who...
1232
01:36:09,097 --> 01:36:11,466
accept
what comes their way.
1233
01:36:13,101 --> 01:36:14,503
And which kind
of person are you?
1234
01:36:16,037 --> 01:36:19,474
I was pretty mad
about it.
1235
01:36:19,474 --> 01:36:22,544
But now...
1236
01:36:22,544 --> 01:36:27,382
looking at what
came my way...
1237
01:36:32,087 --> 01:36:35,023
I think I could be
the other kind of person.
1238
01:36:38,026 --> 01:36:40,495
Quite the philosopher,
huh?
1239
01:36:43,965 --> 01:36:45,467
Look, why don't you
pull over here?
1240
01:36:45,467 --> 01:36:49,871
Just...
pull over, could you?
1241
01:37:00,882 --> 01:37:03,151
Ahem.
1242
01:37:05,554 --> 01:37:07,222
I know what you're doing.
1243
01:37:09,024 --> 01:37:12,227
It would be easier for me
1244
01:37:12,227 --> 01:37:14,095
if you could pretend
a little.
1245
01:37:15,564 --> 01:37:17,899
Do you think
you could do that?
1246
01:37:32,914 --> 01:37:35,550
Now, what were
we talking about?
1247
01:38:21,162 --> 01:38:22,998
She was the only one
in her family
1248
01:38:22,998 --> 01:38:24,199
who bothered to learn
sign language.
1249
01:38:25,667 --> 01:38:30,238
Now she can't remember how,
or maybe even who she is.
1250
01:38:30,238 --> 01:38:31,539
Her daughter?
1251
01:38:31,539 --> 01:38:33,308
Yeah.
1252
01:38:33,308 --> 01:38:36,211
It's left her
pretty stranded.
1253
01:38:36,211 --> 01:38:38,246
Marooned.
1254
01:38:40,282 --> 01:38:42,150
You know,
I thought of you
the other day.
1255
01:38:42,150 --> 01:38:44,052
You know that billboard
out in front
1256
01:38:44,052 --> 01:38:45,320
of the United Church
in Bradford,
1257
01:38:45,320 --> 01:38:48,957
they post all that
biblical-type stuff?
1258
01:38:48,957 --> 01:38:52,260
The other day, it said,
1259
01:38:52,260 --> 01:38:53,662
"It's never too late
1260
01:38:53,662 --> 01:38:55,297
to become what you
might have been."
1261
01:38:57,565 --> 01:39:01,369
Doesn't sound
all that biblical.
1262
01:39:01,369 --> 01:39:03,972
Well, maybe they're
getting creative on us.
1263
01:39:23,425 --> 01:39:25,126
[ding]
1264
01:39:46,748 --> 01:39:48,116
[ding]
1265
01:40:30,692 --> 01:40:33,161
See you soon, Aubrey.
1266
01:41:14,436 --> 01:41:16,504
Oh, yeah.
1267
01:41:16,504 --> 01:41:17,672
Thanks.
1268
01:41:32,754 --> 01:41:34,222
Thanks.
1269
01:42:29,244 --> 01:42:31,312
Would you mind
if I had a moment alone
1270
01:42:31,312 --> 01:42:32,780
before you come in?
1271
01:42:34,249 --> 01:42:36,351
To explain things to her?
1272
01:42:52,367 --> 01:42:56,371
I found this beautiful book
about Iceland.
1273
01:42:56,371 --> 01:42:59,440
You wouldn't think
they'd leave valuable books
lying around.
1274
01:42:59,440 --> 01:43:03,545
People who stay here
aren't all necessarily honest.
1275
01:43:04,846 --> 01:43:09,751
And I think they got
the clothes mixed up.
1276
01:43:09,751 --> 01:43:12,453
I never wear yellow.
1277
01:43:20,695 --> 01:43:23,765
I seem to remember you
reading this to me.
1278
01:43:26,234 --> 01:43:28,570
You were trying
to make me feel better.
1279
01:43:30,872 --> 01:43:33,474
You tried so hard.
1280
01:43:37,278 --> 01:43:39,480
You're a lovely man,
you know?
1281
01:43:40,815 --> 01:43:44,419
I'm a very lucky woman.
1282
01:43:44,419 --> 01:43:46,888
Fiona?
You've been gone
a long time.
1283
01:43:46,888 --> 01:43:48,623
Are we all checked out?
1284
01:43:48,623 --> 01:43:51,626
I have a surprise for you.
1285
01:43:56,230 --> 01:43:57,432
Do you remember Aubrey?
1286
01:44:20,922 --> 01:44:23,291
Names elude me.
1287
01:44:35,837 --> 01:44:38,640
I'm happy to see you.
1288
01:44:43,478 --> 01:44:46,447
You could've
just driven away.
1289
01:44:46,447 --> 01:44:51,719
Just driven away
without a care in the world
1290
01:44:51,719 --> 01:44:54,322
and forsook me.
1291
01:44:56,457 --> 01:44:58,626
Forsooken me.
1292
01:45:00,061 --> 01:45:02,497
Forsaken.
1293
01:45:04,332 --> 01:45:06,367
Not a chance.
1294
01:45:44,505 --> 01:45:47,608
♪ [folk rock]
1295
01:46:04,459 --> 01:46:09,630
[Woman]
♪ There is a town
in north Ontario ♪
1296
01:46:11,666 --> 01:46:17,638
♪ With dream, comfort,
and memory to spare ♪
1297
01:46:19,440 --> 01:46:21,642
♪ And in my mind ♪
1298
01:46:21,642 --> 01:46:25,747
♪ I still need
a place to go ♪
1299
01:46:26,748 --> 01:46:31,652
♪ All my changes were there ♪
1300
01:46:34,455 --> 01:46:36,591
♪ Blue, blue window ♪
1301
01:46:36,591 --> 01:46:41,562
♪ Behind the stars ♪
1302
01:46:41,562 --> 01:46:46,801
♪ Yellow Moon on the rise ♪
1303
01:46:49,036 --> 01:46:55,009
♪ Big birds
flying across the sky ♪
1304
01:46:56,677 --> 01:47:01,916
♪ Throwing shadows
on our eyes ♪
1305
01:47:01,916 --> 01:47:09,824
♪ Leaves us helpless,
helpless, helpless ♪
1306
01:47:11,793 --> 01:47:17,064
♪ Helpless, helpless,
helpless ♪
1307
01:47:26,607 --> 01:47:33,881
♪ Baby,
can you hear me now? ♪
1308
01:47:33,881 --> 01:47:39,754
♪ The chains are locked
and tied around my door ♪
1309
01:47:41,689 --> 01:47:49,030
♪ And, baby, will you
sing with me somehow? ♪
1310
01:47:49,030 --> 01:47:56,704
♪ Helpless, helpless,
helpless ♪
1311
01:47:56,704 --> 01:48:02,844
helpless ♪
♪ Helpless, helpless,
1312
01:48:04,679 --> 01:48:10,117
helpless ♪
♪ Helpless, helpless,
1313
01:48:11,886 --> 01:48:18,759
♪ Helpless, helpless ♪
1314
01:48:34,675 --> 01:48:37,545
♪ Blue, blue windows ♪
1315
01:48:37,545 --> 01:48:40,548
♪ Behind the stars ♪
1316
01:48:41,849 --> 01:48:47,755
♪ Yellow moon on the rise ♪
1317
01:48:49,257 --> 01:48:55,162
♪ Big birds
flying across the sky ♪
1318
01:48:56,797 --> 01:49:02,803
♪ Throwing shadows
on our eyes ♪
1319
01:49:02,803 --> 01:49:10,044
♪ Leaves us helpless,
helpless, helpless ♪
1320
01:49:12,046 --> 01:49:18,753
♪ Helpless, helpless,
helpless ♪
1321
01:49:19,787 --> 01:49:25,960
♪ Helpless, helpless ♪
1322
01:49:26,961 --> 01:49:32,833
♪ Helpless, helpless,
helpless ♪
1323
01:49:34,769 --> 01:49:40,007
helpless ♪
♪ Helpless, helpless,
1324
01:49:40,007 --> 01:49:43,010
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