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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:02,000 NARRATOR: Previously... 2 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:03,040 I'm done with this experiment. 3 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:06,120 Stephanie and Tyson's time in the experiment 4 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:07,800 came to a dramatic end. 5 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:13,440 Our couples continued to grow and learn from the experts. 6 00:00:13,560 --> 00:00:17,520 You guys showed me that I was in the wrong, very, very much. 7 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:20,360 And while romantic progress was on display... 8 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:22,600 Grinning from ear to ear! 9 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:25,720 ..Stella and Filip's stalemate on who will say 10 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:27,680 'I love you' first, continued. 11 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:29,240 A man has to say it first. 12 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:30,880 What is holding you back, Filip? 13 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:32,200 It's, I dunno, yeah, we'll see. 14 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:34,200 ..hatred at times. 15 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:36,520 Are you even listening to what I'm saying? Don't speak over Alessandra. 16 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:38,280 Show some respect. 17 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:40,400 Juliette was held to account. 18 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:42,480 You talk in a very toxic fight style. 19 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:43,560 You can't say sorry. 20 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:45,480 I've apologised. Not very well. 21 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:47,560 And despite her choosing to stay, 22 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:50,680 Joel drew his line in the sand. 23 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:52,200 I will always treat you with kindness. 24 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:54,160 And I expect the same treatment back. 25 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:56,480 Giving the couple one more week to turn 26 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:59,560 their marriage around. Tonight... 27 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:01,240 It's hard to say things like this. 28 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:03,560 I definitely haven't been one to kind of lean into 29 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:04,840 my feelings or emotions. 30 00:01:04,960 --> 00:01:07,000 Alessandra had a had a good point, yeah. 31 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:09,920 Why can't you just verbalise it to each other, you know? 32 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:12,760 Will Filip finally say those magic words 33 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:15,160 that Stella's been dying to hear? 34 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:17,280 His leg is shaking. It's OK, baby. 35 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:18,920 And then... 36 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:19,960 (CHEERS) 37 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:23,560 ..it's time for the annual couples retreat. 38 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:24,920 Whee! Woo! 39 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,560 Yay! Very, very content right now. 40 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:29,040 How good is this? 41 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:32,440 Our newlyweds are loving the brand new location. 42 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:34,200 # Let's get away... # 43 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:38,040 And the happy couples are all singing Kumbaya. 44 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:40,840 I feel like the group vibe's quite nice. 45 00:01:40,960 --> 00:01:44,120 Ladies and gentlemen, can I have you guys over here, please? 46 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:46,600 Until... It's the first night of retreat. 47 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:53,040 We've had (BLEEP)... ..one bad joke... 48 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:54,400 (TEARFULLY) I just want to leave. 49 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:57,280 sends the retreat into meltdown. 50 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:58,600 Stop! He called her a liar. 51 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:00,760 I'm done being manipulated by you! 52 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:02,320 What is the punch line... 53 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:05,200 Guys, guy! ..that will break bonds? 54 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:06,320 She is a liar! 55 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:07,440 I'm so sick of this. 56 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:09,520 Stop attacking people and walk away. 57 00:02:09,640 --> 00:02:12,480 And derail the course of the experiment... 58 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:14,360 Get me out of here. ..forever. 59 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,840 Made me feel like a piece of shit. 60 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:17,880 He left. 61 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:26,200 We've crossed the halfway mark 62 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:30,520 of the 2026 Married at First Sight experiment. 63 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:34,280 And many of our couples are forming strong romantic 64 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:38,080 connections, working together to overcome relationship 65 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:42,440 hurdles and crossing significant milestones in their marriages. 66 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:46,160 One couple in particular is waking up after 67 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:49,840 reaching an exciting new milestone of their own. 68 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:52,480 (LAUGHING) 69 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:54,800 Oh, what's so funny? 70 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:02,240 Mine and Steven's relationship is really good. 71 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:08,080 This is... Why aren't we clicking today? 72 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:09,320 This is really bad! 73 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:12,320 This is really... We're usually good at this. 74 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:16,840 I know why. 75 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,240 It's because there's something that we don't 76 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:21,400 want to talk about. 77 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:24,360 Big weekend that me and Rachel had. 78 00:03:25,640 --> 00:03:29,360 We're definitely moving things along. 79 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:32,440 Uh, we haven't... 80 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:34,240 We haven't had sex. 81 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:38,320 Um, but we've started foolin' about, so that's fun. 82 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:42,120 We get to talk about it, and everyone's going to be 83 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:44,360 asking questions, and we're going to be saying, yeah, 84 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:45,800 it was fantastic. 85 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:47,200 What was fantastic? 86 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:54,160 Despite sharing a positive emotional connection... 87 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:57,520 the couple's most significant challenge so far 88 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:01,040 has been forming physical intimacy, and Steven's 89 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:04,680 reluctance was highlighted during Intimacy Week. 90 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:13,160 I can kiss you, Rachel, but I'm not too 91 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:16,760 sure if it's going to make you feel something. 92 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:27,520 Meeting with his family, Steven was presented with 93 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:31,520 some valuable insight from his brother, Dylan, and mum, Anna. 94 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:33,960 I feel like she's like this on Steve. 95 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:36,280 And Steve's just sitting here like this. Yes. 96 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:38,080 Yeah. Come on, dude. 97 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,600 She obviously is really into you. 98 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:43,560 And I feel like maybe you've got to let your 99 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:45,480 wall down a little bit. 100 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:49,120 NARRATOR: At last night's commitment ceremony, Steven's newfound 101 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:52,720 focus on his connection with Rachel didn't go unnoticed 102 00:04:52,840 --> 00:04:53,920 by the experts. 103 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:56,840 Oh, look at you two all cuddled up on the couch there. 104 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:58,560 Ooh, that's cosy! 105 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:00,200 We noticed that. 106 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:01,600 What's changed? What's going on? 107 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:04,520 You know, we had a pretty good kiss and a bit of a chat 108 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:07,120 and a cuddle on the bed last night, so it's definitely 109 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:08,640 a step in the right direction. 110 00:05:09,840 --> 00:05:13,040 Me and Rachel have developed intimacy just a smidge more. 111 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:15,640 It felt natural. 112 00:05:16,840 --> 00:05:20,320 Alessandra did say bring some more romance and stuff to it. 113 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:22,960 And yeah, we both had fun. 114 00:05:23,840 --> 00:05:26,320 The girls will be really excited. Interrogating? 115 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:28,320 No, I don't think the girls are interrogating, 116 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:30,440 but there better be bottles of champagne or something, 117 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:32,840 because we will be wanting to pop some bottles and celebrate. 118 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:36,440 I'm not going to go into detail, but yeah, 119 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:38,480 last night, we just sat on the bed and we had, like, 120 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:41,600 a really good chat about intimacy. 121 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:45,600 Um, and then essentially Steven had a shower, came back 122 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:47,640 to bed, and it just took off. 123 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:49,640 Yeah, you can tell the boys. 124 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:52,000 Tell the boys. I can do this, 125 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:56,040 "Hey, boys, I made second base." 126 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:58,400 Jesus Christ. I don't think 127 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:00,160 he understands what the bases are. 128 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:05,080 Steven said 129 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:07,880 for him to want to increase intimacy and want to go 130 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,760 further with someone, he has to have that, you know, 131 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:12,560 emotional attraction. 132 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:15,440 So he must have it, which is really exciting. 133 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:23,720 Very happy girl. 134 00:06:23,840 --> 00:06:24,760 Do what I can. 135 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:33,600 Unfortunately, not everyone is happy in their marriage. 136 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:36,960 Joel is feeling the effects from last night's tumultuous 137 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:38,320 commitment ceremony. 138 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:40,400 I've woken up this morning feeling pretty shit. 139 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:44,480 The experts revealed some of the things Juliette said about me, 140 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:47,240 and that was like a knife through my heart. 141 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:49,960 Your behaviour last night, 142 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:52,880 it was mean and cruel. 143 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:57,280 You called him a liar. You said he wasn't a man. 144 00:06:57,800 --> 00:06:59,120 You called him a little boy. 145 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:02,960 You said he was embarrassing and you found him unattractive. 146 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:08,800 Is there hope moving forward with Juliette? 147 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:12,200 I actually don't know. The onus is definitely on Juliette 148 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:13,520 to repair the relationship. 149 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:15,240 There's no doubt about that. 150 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:24,720 Hey. Hey. 151 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:26,520 How are you feeling? 152 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:27,560 Been better. 153 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:29,680 Um... 154 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:34,280 Look, I'm just really sorry. 155 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:38,120 I guess I didn't realise how much you were hurting. 156 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:41,840 Um, when I say words like that, 157 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:44,120 it's when I'm really, really hurting. 158 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:49,840 And I guess I use it as a way of releasing my pain. 159 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:54,000 Not recognising who's on the other side of that release. 160 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:56,800 And I'm really sorry for my actions. 161 00:07:58,320 --> 00:07:59,320 I feel shit. 162 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:05,560 I was wondering this morning what Juliette's 163 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:08,680 next step would be, and I think she took the right one. 164 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:11,360 She came and apologised and it was heartfelt. 165 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:16,200 Well, it was a really, really intense, confronting session 166 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:17,880 for both of us last night. 167 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:20,920 We can all say things that we don't mean, even to 168 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:24,640 loved ones, when we're angry or whatever, but I don't like 169 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:25,720 to see you in pain. 170 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:28,400 I accept your apology. 171 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:29,400 Thanks. 172 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:30,440 OK. 173 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:31,480 It's OK. 174 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:35,880 I was expecting him to be a lot more angrier 175 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:40,280 and upset this morning, considering how angry he was 176 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:42,560 on the couch last night. 177 00:08:42,680 --> 00:08:44,280 I appreciate you forgiving me. 178 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:48,480 I think I need to take some time to take care of my heart as well 179 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:50,200 in this experiment. 180 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:53,480 It's it's been very emotional for you, and for me too. 181 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:57,400 But we're in this experiment together, and I think that 182 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:00,960 the best way forward is just to leave everything in the past, 183 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:02,560 you know, and start fresh. 184 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:07,440 I think this morning showed the compassionate, empathetic 185 00:09:07,560 --> 00:09:10,000 side of Juliette, and that gives me hope for the future. 186 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:12,640 It's not in my nature to hold grudges, 187 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:16,480 and I'm willing to let the past stay in the past. Forgive. 188 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:18,000 Thanks, babes. 189 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:19,040 And move forward. 190 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:20,800 New page. 191 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:22,280 Throw the old book out, right? Yeah. 192 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:29,600 Down the hall. David is still feeling blindsided 193 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:33,280 after Alissa's revelation at last night's commitment ceremony. 194 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:35,880 David, he gives me a lot. 195 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:37,920 But there's some things that he can't give me. 196 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:41,160 I function at a higher frequency, 197 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:44,480 and I feel like we're six weeks in, 198 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:48,520 I'm missing that stimulation, that high frequency 199 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:52,880 that I would normally get from my relationships to make me happy. 200 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:56,200 Yeah, I don't like the use of the word 'stimulated.' 201 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:58,920 Like, I don't think that is appropriate when you're 202 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:01,760 explaining that it's because, you know, you miss your 203 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:04,760 friends and family and all the noise in the outside. 204 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:06,960 I mean, we're all here for the same reasons. 205 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:09,400 We all have all the noise in the outside. 206 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:12,120 Your own experience is your experience, but someone 207 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:14,600 on the outside listening in could take it 208 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:17,120 differently because they don't know how you feel 209 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:18,760 inside of being unstimulated. 210 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:21,080 But if they think Alissa and David are hanging out 211 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:23,600 together, spending every day with each other, 212 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:26,360 um, and Alissa feels unstimulated, 213 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:28,680 it's like, uh, who... 214 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:31,160 It's like David's fault because he's being boring. 215 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:33,320 I feel like, babe, I feel like you're overthinking it 216 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:36,000 because I sat down in front of the experts and I literally 217 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:38,400 said, "This is a me thing," and I don't know why 218 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:39,760 you're dragging yourself into it. 219 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:41,160 I'm really not dragging. 220 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:42,520 I'm just having the conversation. 221 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:44,600 This is a me main thing, babe. Yeah, I understand. 222 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,440 And I'm a more high functioning person than you. 223 00:10:47,560 --> 00:10:50,000 My brain's like (HIGH PITCHED BABBLE) all the time. 224 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:53,240 Like, my frequencies vibrate higher than yours, 225 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:54,680 whereas you're more chill. Yeah. 226 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:56,360 You know, you're the opposite of me. What do you mean 227 00:10:56,480 --> 00:11:00,200 by your frequencies vibrate... I'm a more louder, outgoing, 228 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:02,280 sort of busy sort of person. 229 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:04,280 I feel like frequency, again, is the wrong word. 230 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:07,200 Stimulation, that's something that I'm funny with. Frequency... 231 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:08,800 I feel like... You're in a foul mood today. 232 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:09,800 I feel like... 233 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:11,680 You are in a foul mood today, babe. 234 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:14,040 You are taking everything so personally. 235 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:17,480 I feel like I can't get my word across to David. 236 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:20,160 OK, so obviously moving forward, I think for 237 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:24,760 the lack of stimulation that I'm not getting in this, you know, 238 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:28,640 in this environment, then I'm going to do things for myself. 239 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:33,280 You know, like, obviously we do amazing dates together. 240 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:36,480 Um, but for me personally, I feel like maybe that might 241 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:39,520 be a bit of self-care, you know, massage, facial. 242 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:42,040 There are other ways that I can fill my cup up 243 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:46,160 and, you know, get that simulation that I need, 244 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:48,560 in other ways. But I'll always tell you. 245 00:11:48,680 --> 00:11:49,920 Yeah. No, I appreciate that. 246 00:11:50,680 --> 00:11:51,680 That's good. 247 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:55,400 I feel like David and I are on the same page. 248 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:57,440 I feel like he finally understood what I meant 249 00:11:57,560 --> 00:11:59,080 at the table, but it took him a while. 250 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:00,480 We got there. We got there. 251 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:05,160 You are hard work today, boy. Honestly. 252 00:12:14,080 --> 00:12:16,360 As a brand-new week gets underway... 253 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:18,760 How you doin'? Good. I'm pumped. 254 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:20,040 Today's the day. 255 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:21,600 I'm packing my activities. 256 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:24,520 ..our couples are preparing for the next step 257 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:25,920 in their relationships. 258 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:26,920 Retreat day. 259 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:28,200 Retreat day. 260 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:31,200 The relationship retreat is an exciting and important 261 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:32,600 phase of the experiment. 262 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:36,000 It's a chance for our couples to leave their normal day to day 263 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:38,800 and get a fresh perspective on their marriage 264 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:42,160 in a different setting. Getting away and spending time in a new 265 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:44,680 environment will help breathe life into relationships 266 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:46,520 that might be in a rut. 267 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:49,640 It can help break negative patterns and progress 268 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:50,720 the relationship. 269 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:53,720 Going on retreat. We're getting out of here! 270 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:55,480 Don't get me wrong. This is a palace over here, 271 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:58,400 but we're going to be substituting it for hopefully, 272 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:01,960 a little bit of coastline, a lot more sun. 273 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:03,880 And I think it's just going to be a good break from 274 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:05,720 whatever the experiment's been dishing out. 275 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:07,760 I can see you got all the essentials there. 276 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:09,080 I've got the cards, I've got the games, 277 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:12,520 I've got the football ball, the skipping rope, the booty band. 278 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:14,280 I'm bringing another cards game. 279 00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:17,200 I also packed astrology book to check everyone's matches, too. 280 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:18,880 Yeah. (LAUGHTER) 281 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:22,960 You know, the magician gets the hat? 282 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:24,640 Yeah, they just keep coming. 283 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:26,120 It just keeps coming. 284 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:27,440 Got Uggies.. 285 00:13:27,560 --> 00:13:29,920 Couple warm dresses... Warm, cold. 286 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:32,200 Uh, toiletries and stuff, you got all that? 287 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:34,280 Yeah. Gotta do that. 288 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:35,320 Thank you. 289 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:37,680 Oh my god. Are you excited? 290 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:38,800 I'm super keen. 291 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,120 Scott and I are pretty solid as usual. 292 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:42,640 We had a really good weekend. 293 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:44,640 I just want to get away, have some sun. 294 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:47,560 Relax. This is gonna be so fun. 295 00:13:47,680 --> 00:13:49,480 Who you looking forward to seeing? 296 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:51,280 I think I want a chance to meet everyone. 297 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:54,040 I think being a later couple, like they're all, 298 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:57,080 have bonded with each other a lot. I'm actually excited. 299 00:13:57,200 --> 00:13:59,080 Like, when I'm in a social environment with Chris, 300 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:01,080 it's actually when I feel closest to him because we both like, 301 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:02,080 love that environment. 302 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:03,520 And I see the best side of Chris. 303 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:05,080 Yeah, it'll be awesome. 304 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:06,600 I've got no beef with anyone. 305 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:08,320 You've got no beef with anyone. 306 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:11,520 I just want to steer clear of it all. 307 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:13,320 I'm just going to sit back and watch. 308 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:15,880 Danny and I are in a really, really good place at the moment. 309 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:17,480 So, like, you know, I just... 310 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:19,360 I just want to protect our peace. 311 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:21,520 Yeah. No grenades being dropped by me. 312 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:22,760 You sure you're not going to drop any? 313 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:23,760 No. It's been a week. 314 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:27,080 You must be getting... Daniel. ..getting the itch. 315 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:28,120 Daniel. 316 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:32,160 No-one thinks you're funny. 317 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:35,400 If there's drama, watch me sink back into the, like 318 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:37,440 Homer Simpson into the bush. 319 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:40,120 Like, I don't want to be involved in any of it. 320 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:41,600 Do you reckon there'll be any news? 321 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:44,440 I think the most interesting one will be the dynamic 322 00:14:44,560 --> 00:14:46,120 between Juliette and Joel. 323 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:47,920 They might be head over heels in love by now. 324 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:48,920 Um... 325 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:50,520 You never know what's going to happen on this experiment. 326 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:51,560 Surely not. 327 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:56,520 Across the hall, having packed for the couple's 328 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:59,720 retreat, there's something on Filip's mind. 329 00:14:59,840 --> 00:15:01,240 What did you think of last night? 330 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:03,520 It was great. It was a good little chat. 331 00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:06,440 What did you think about their feedback? 332 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:07,520 Kind of what they were telling us. 333 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:11,240 I love that I needed to give a high five to Alessandra 334 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:15,000 for the same views that the man needs to say 'I love you' first. 335 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:16,400 Oh, really? 336 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:18,120 Yeah, love it. Love that. Do you agree with that? 337 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:19,480 Uh... 338 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:23,280 Uh, there's something that I've been thinking about 339 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:24,280 for the last few weeks. 340 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:27,320 I think there's one thing that, um, she did kind of 341 00:15:27,440 --> 00:15:28,920 say that I was just like, 342 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:30,160 'Oh, yeah, you're right.' 343 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:32,600 It was kind of brought forth on the commitment ceremony 344 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:34,880 when Alessandra was like, "I don't understand the confusion here. 345 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:35,880 "What's happening?" 346 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:37,480 Like, "You guys are obviously feeling it." 347 00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:41,840 You were mentioning that you guys feel things and that 348 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:46,000 you know because you know, and you're communicating that 349 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:48,960 by Morse code and looks, but no words. 350 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:51,440 Ah...yeah. Yeah. 351 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:52,680 We're tiptoeing around. 352 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:54,320 In this environment, 353 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:56,600 in another environment, if you're feeling 354 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:57,600 then you're feeling. 355 00:15:57,720 --> 00:16:00,520 And I think that needs to be celebrated. 356 00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:03,720 It's hard to say things like this. 357 00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:06,120 I definitely haven't been one to kind of lean into 358 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:08,000 my feelings or emotions, you know? 359 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:11,920 So there was something that kind of etched in my mind last night. 360 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:15,000 Alessandra had a had a good point, yeah. 361 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:16,840 You either feel it or not. Why can't you just 362 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:18,200 verbalise it to each other? 363 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:20,320 You know, if it's that obvious. 364 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:23,440 So the hesitation was a little bit of fear. 365 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:26,800 His leg is shaking. It's OK, baby. 366 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:29,880 I haven't said this to anyone in six years. 367 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:32,080 What if you're coming on too strong 368 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:33,880 and it's only you feeling it? 369 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:36,800 I had a think about what she said. 370 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:40,960 And...yeah, you are different. You're special. 371 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:42,280 Thank you. 372 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:45,080 And I am in love with you. 373 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:51,080 Honey! 374 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:53,840 What! I knew! Did ya? 375 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:01,280 It doesn't take a rocket scientist 376 00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:03,080 to figure it out. It doesn't bloody take a rocket scientist. 377 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:07,560 And I haven't said that in a while. 378 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:10,920 So... Where do you stand? 379 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:12,040 Same spot. 380 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:13,360 What is that? 381 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:14,600 Being in love. 382 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:15,640 Yeah. 383 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:22,880 Coming up... 384 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:24,680 Um... 385 00:17:26,080 --> 00:17:28,440 What's got Stella holding back? 386 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:29,880 When we started to have those chats, 387 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:31,840 it kind of all got very, very serious. 388 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:33,880 And that's becoming hard. 389 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:35,880 Uh...oh, god. 390 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:37,040 I feel like I'm going to cry. 391 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:46,040 NARRATOR: This year, for the very first time, 392 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:51,080 the annual couples retreat is heading two hours south of Sydney 393 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:53,560 to the picturesque town of Kiama. 394 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:57,440 Located on a sprawling property, a stone's throw away 395 00:17:57,560 --> 00:17:59,160 from the coastline, 396 00:18:00,120 --> 00:18:03,360 it will be a chance for couples to embrace nature 397 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:07,000 and gain further perspectives in a new environment. 398 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:12,240 And as always, staking claim to a bedroom is top priority. 399 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:14,760 (EXCITED YELLING) 400 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:22,720 (YELLS, CHEERS) 401 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:25,480 It was chaotic. 402 00:18:26,120 --> 00:18:27,120 I farted! 403 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:31,720 I'm going as hard as I can and they're just pulling away. 404 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:35,640 Me and my short little stumpy legs. 405 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:37,280 And everyone's seven foot tall. 406 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:39,640 Their one step is equivalent to six of mine. 407 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:45,200 (BLEEP)! 408 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:52,520 All good! 409 00:18:54,640 --> 00:18:55,920 I got it. 410 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:57,200 Scott, he got the... 411 00:18:57,720 --> 00:18:59,200 He's got the king's palace up there. 412 00:18:59,320 --> 00:19:01,200 He's got the bathtub looking out here. 413 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:03,320 Sun shining through, bed in the middle. 414 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:04,480 He's got a kitchenette. 415 00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:06,440 No place like home. 416 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:07,680 Oh, my room's pretty good. 417 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:14,200 Coming at the perfect time for their intimacy development, 418 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:18,000 Steven has secured a secluded room for he and Rachel. 419 00:19:18,120 --> 00:19:20,640 So we got the guest house, and it's away 420 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:22,280 from everyone as well. 421 00:19:23,360 --> 00:19:25,720 Go, son! Keep up with the boys! 422 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:28,400 (LAUGHTER( 423 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:30,760 Ah! Your boy did it! 424 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:31,800 I delivered. 425 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:33,800 I brought home the bacon. 426 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:35,480 In the oven! 427 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:38,960 We got it! Go, go, go, go, go. 428 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:40,040 This is nice. 429 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:41,440 This is so cute! 430 00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:43,120 I'm so happy boo! 431 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:47,520 Babe, you did so good! Oh! 432 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:51,040 I can't believe we're on the retreat, guys! Woo! 433 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,040 We're on a couples retreat! Yay! 434 00:19:55,960 --> 00:19:57,200 You go! 435 00:19:57,320 --> 00:19:58,240 Wee! 436 00:19:59,920 --> 00:20:01,920 (EXCITED CHATTER) 437 00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:04,640 We got the best room. 438 00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:05,960 Oh, this is comfy. 439 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:07,440 Princess. Wow. 440 00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:08,600 Best room in the house. 441 00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:09,600 Oh, yeah. 442 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:13,080 Very, very content right now. We, we... He did very well. 443 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:15,560 Honestly, we're so lucky. 444 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:19,080 I feel like this retreat is gonna keep me and Gia 445 00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:21,000 close, inseparable. 446 00:20:21,120 --> 00:20:24,280 And, like, we're just here to enjoy this retreat 447 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:25,320 as if it's a honeymoon. 448 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:28,720 Hello! 449 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:35,000 Hey, what a nice little area to chill. 450 00:20:35,120 --> 00:20:37,400 There's a little swing here! 451 00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:39,160 Higher, daddy. Higher, daddy. 452 00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:40,840 Yeah, it is a pretty sweet pad, though. 453 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:43,480 It's unreal. The view, like it's so secluded. 454 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:45,760 Pool. Should be a good few days. 455 00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:50,600 How stunning is that? 456 00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:55,760 Last week was a really, really tough week, and I think 457 00:20:55,880 --> 00:20:59,080 this week, I'm just focusing on having tunnel vision 458 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:00,760 of just me and Joel. 459 00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:02,640 So that's the goal. 460 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:04,360 This is cute. 461 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:05,760 Yeah, this is a change of events. 462 00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:07,320 Yeah. We cleared the air. 463 00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:08,920 Did you? 464 00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:15,400 This is so good. I'm excited for you! Joel and Juliette, um... 465 00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:16,800 Wow, they've come leaps and bounds. 466 00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:18,840 I did not expect to see that. 467 00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:20,920 Uh, what is going on there? 468 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:23,160 Are we good at the moment? I love it. 469 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:24,880 Hopefully forever. 470 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,560 What you're seeing is genuine. 471 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:28,800 Good! 472 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,160 So how are you feeling about, um, you know, a few days 473 00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:32,560 at the retreat together? 474 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:34,040 Well, I think it's come at the perfect time. 475 00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:35,440 I agree. 476 00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:36,480 Um... 477 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:38,680 Yeah, wow. 478 00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:41,200 So this will be the first night in the... 479 00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:42,200 Together? 480 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:43,960 ..bed, first time sleeping together since the first 481 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:45,880 night of the honeymoon. OK! 482 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:49,560 So I think this is honeymoon version two. 483 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:52,600 I already feel like we're very vibey with each other. 484 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:54,480 More power to you, queen. 485 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:56,200 But, like, I don't know how you've turned it around 486 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:59,040 from that dinner party to now, but hey, 487 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,480 this could be the beginning of a beautiful love story. 488 00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:03,760 Perplexed, but could be the beginning of 489 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:05,120 a beautiful love story. 490 00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:07,840 Like it feels completely different, which was... 491 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:09,400 - Natural? - It feels natural. 492 00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:10,800 Good. Good, good, good. 493 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:12,200 I want it to feel natural. 494 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:13,800 Feel great. Oh, good, guys! 495 00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:14,800 Yes. 496 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:17,680 It's puzzling to me how you can go from really hating 497 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:21,200 your husband at a dinner party to completely flipping that round. 498 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:24,080 However, if it's genuine, more power to you. 499 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:26,480 We're all here for love, so might have been the kick up 500 00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:27,920 the butt she needed. 501 00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:29,040 You can't fake this. 502 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:30,400 You can't fake it. 503 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:32,000 You can't fake it. 504 00:22:32,120 --> 00:22:33,240 The bounce back of the century. 505 00:22:33,360 --> 00:22:34,280 This is exciting. 506 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:36,600 Put your legs up. 507 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:38,800 Don't send me flying, though. 508 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:40,960 It's so peaceful now. 509 00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:43,280 You know, you can only hear the birds singing. 510 00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:44,840 (DISTORTED GARBLING) 511 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:47,400 I don't know what that even is. 512 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:49,600 Is that a kookaburra or a pigeon? 513 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:52,240 Was it a pigeon? 514 00:22:52,360 --> 00:22:54,280 (BIRD CALL) 515 00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:58,840 As the sun sets on the first day of the retreat, our couples 516 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:01,840 are coming together for the first night welcome. 517 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:05,080 (ALL CHEERS) 518 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:11,600 It's the first night. 519 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,640 I am so excited to connect with all the couples. 520 00:23:15,120 --> 00:23:17,040 It's like being close to the real world. 521 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:20,560 I wanted to share an update in mine 522 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:22,480 and Steven's relationship. 523 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:23,960 (ALL EXCLAIM, CHEER) 524 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:25,080 So... 525 00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:27,560 Um, I think you all know, like, we've had 526 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:29,360 obviously, our trying times. 527 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:34,240 But last night, our intimacy levels increased. 528 00:23:34,360 --> 00:23:37,160 (CHEERS) While we have not banged yet, 529 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:39,640 it's really exciting. 530 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:41,920 And yeah, I just wanted to share that with you all. 531 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:43,000 (CHEERS) 532 00:23:43,120 --> 00:23:44,040 Cheers! 533 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,800 I've been routing for Rachel and Steven since day one, 534 00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:54,280 so I'm so, so happy that they are taking their 535 00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,280 relationship to the next level. 536 00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:57,560 Rachel is so happy. 537 00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:00,280 Like, I feel like you guys are on the right track. 538 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:01,840 And I'm really happy for you both. 539 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:03,960 Oh, great. Thank you so much. Cheers to that. 540 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:05,000 Yeah! 541 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:07,240 I've watched them go through this journey, 542 00:24:07,360 --> 00:24:11,360 and they vulnerably sat down last night and said, 'Hey, we're at this 543 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:12,800 stage in our relationship.' 544 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,880 Me and Stephen, like, we've just hit this really 545 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,960 nice trajectory and I'm like, I'm really excited about it. 546 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,240 So obviously, that was a huge milestone for Rachel 547 00:24:22,360 --> 00:24:24,040 to be intimate with Steve. 548 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:27,240 And she is such a sensitive, beautiful soul. 549 00:24:27,360 --> 00:24:28,560 I'm just really happy for them. 550 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:34,960 There is so much love in the air tonight. 551 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:36,240 I feel like it's the country. 552 00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:38,760 It brings people together. It's good energy. 553 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:40,520 It's good vibes. I love that. 554 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:42,160 This is why I love the country. 555 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,960 Hang on. Has anyone asked how these two are going yet? 556 00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:49,480 Hey, Filip, Stella. 557 00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:51,880 We haven't heard from you guys yet. What's going on? 558 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:53,240 Filip! 559 00:24:53,360 --> 00:24:54,600 Has everyone heard the news? 560 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:56,520 What news! 561 00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,200 So when we're on the couch, 562 00:24:58,320 --> 00:24:59,600 at the commitment ceremony, 563 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,360 Alessandra was just saying, 564 00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:03,680 'I don't get what's going on with you guys. 565 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:05,360 'You guys seem to keep doing the dance, 566 00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,400 with your words' and stuff like that. 567 00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:09,960 And I just said, uh, "I just got something to tell you." 568 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:15,880 I go, "I don't know how to say this, but, uh, I love you." 569 00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,000 (CHEERS) 570 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:20,560 Yeah! 571 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:23,360 And you said it first. Uh, I said it first. 572 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:25,320 Yes, yes! 573 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:26,800 Stella, did you say it back? 574 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:27,840 (CHEERS) 575 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:38,040 It's perfect. 576 00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,280 It's great. It's great. It's time. 577 00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:45,960 It's all very nice. It's a fun night tonight, guys. 578 00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:47,280 Yeah, fun night. Yeah. 579 00:25:49,360 --> 00:25:51,040 BEC: I'm just so excited that you finger banged. 580 00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,760 You know, the comment from Bec is, it's just assuming, 581 00:25:59,880 --> 00:26:03,280 like, we never went into detail. The comments, 582 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:07,600 like we did that action and it's, you know, it's just... 583 00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:09,360 Yeah, it's just a vulgar thing to say. 584 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:15,680 Unless you want to share. 585 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,280 BEC: Until tomorrow night! 586 00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:23,480 Oh! 587 00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:25,160 Yeah. 588 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:26,560 That's just the classic. 589 00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:33,120 Bec has a very, like, I guess, like, crude sense of humour. 590 00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:35,840 To be honest, like, I'd be a bit like (SIGHS). 591 00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:37,600 Like, a little bit frustrated. 592 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,240 BEC: Sam's like, 'I don't want to hear about this.' 593 00:26:40,360 --> 00:26:41,920 SAM: I don't wanna hear about heterosexual sex. 594 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,360 It made me feel, I guess, a little bit awkward. 595 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:53,240 I'm not very, you know, open about 596 00:26:53,360 --> 00:26:55,440 my, you know, sex life. 597 00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:04,680 Yeah. I feel a little bit awkward around Bec. 598 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:07,360 I felt awkward around Bec since day one, really. 599 00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:10,400 Um, look, I don't like the comments, but I, 600 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:13,080 like I said, I feel like I'm... Yeah. 601 00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:17,320 I feel like I should have, could have just said to Bec, 602 00:27:18,360 --> 00:27:22,280 "Look, let's not say it that way." 603 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:25,200 "Can we just be a bit more respectful 604 00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:26,440 and not say it like that?" 605 00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:30,200 It's just like...we progressed. 606 00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:32,840 Ladies and gentlemen! 607 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:37,880 Right. 608 00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:40,680 Can I have you guys over here, please? 609 00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:47,800 Guys, I wanted to just sort of call us here tonight. 610 00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:52,400 It's the first night of retreat, and we've had 'I love yous'... 611 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:53,720 (CHEERS) 612 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:57,040 We've had a couple that I thought could not come 613 00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,120 back from the brink of hell. 614 00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:00,160 Bounce back! 615 00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,720 And we've had finger bangs, so, like... 616 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:05,600 (LAUGHTER, CHEERS) 617 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:22,760 (LAUGHTER, CHATTER) 618 00:28:25,120 --> 00:28:26,400 Ladies and gentlemen! 619 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:31,480 Right. 620 00:28:32,360 --> 00:28:34,280 Can I have you guys over here, please? 621 00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:43,040 Guys, I wanted to just sort of call us here tonight. 622 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:47,480 It's the first night of retreat, and we've had 'I love yous.' 623 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:49,240 (CHEERS) 624 00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:52,280 We've had a couple that I thought could not 625 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:55,200 come back from the brink of hell! Bounce back! 626 00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:58,960 And we've had finger bangs, so like... 627 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:00,600 (LAUGHTER, CHEERS) 628 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:05,320 Jeez. 629 00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:07,480 Shit! 630 00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:15,040 Anyway, guys, I just wanted to say that I think 631 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:19,560 that this has been a great night of retreat. Night one. 632 00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:21,160 Jesus. 633 00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:23,800 Are you OK? 634 00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:24,840 Not OK! 635 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:29,280 I think we need to cheers to new friendships 636 00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,680 and getting to know each other. 637 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:33,520 Drink up and let's go to bed, because tomorrow's a big day! 638 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:42,400 I didn't think it was funny. 639 00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:48,120 She turned something that Steven and I were so excited 640 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:51,800 about telling others about, and where we're at, into a joke. 641 00:29:56,080 --> 00:30:01,440 I get why Rachel got offended, because Bec, she speaks like that. 642 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:04,160 It's just...I don't know. 643 00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:07,520 Is it necessary? It's not. 644 00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:14,360 You know, Rach is a sensitive girl, and she opened up. 645 00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:17,440 And we know that she wouldn't really appreciate that 646 00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:18,480 sort of sense of humour. 647 00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:21,840 So it doesn't really matter how you mean to say something. 648 00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:25,160 If someone takes it a certain way and doesn't take it the way 649 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:26,960 that you intended by saying it, 650 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:28,840 it deserves an apology. 651 00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:32,320 Bec, a quick apology to Rach. 652 00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:38,280 Oh, Rach, I'm so sorry. I apologise. 653 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:40,000 RACHEL: Nah, it's all right. Don't worry about it. 654 00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:41,440 Oh, it was meant to be a bit of fun. 655 00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:44,120 Well, it's not funny. Like, I shared with you guys openly 656 00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:46,840 that we took intimacy to a new level, which is really 657 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:48,400 important for Steve and I. 658 00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:49,720 And you just made a joke of it. 659 00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:52,400 No, I didn't make a joke of it. 660 00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:54,840 Well, you did, and everyone laughed. 661 00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:58,520 Sorry if I offended you. It's not... 662 00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,800 It wasn't you guys who made the joke of it. 663 00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:03,040 Becs made the joke. 664 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:04,720 It's not a joke, darling. 665 00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:06,600 We all celebrate you and your wins. 666 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:08,360 And we've been here through this. 667 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:09,960 And I have been here through this. 668 00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:13,320 You're very, very quick to turn. 669 00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:16,840 No, no, no... 670 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:19,200 I think it was inappropriate. 671 00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:21,600 I'm with Rach. It was inappropriate. 672 00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:23,040 I have been here. 673 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:25,960 My husband has been here. (OVERLAPPING ARGUING) 674 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:27,720 You're very quick to turn. It was not with malice at all. 675 00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:29,880 I'm not having this, Bec. 676 00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:32,560 In that moment, she could have, like, come to me 677 00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:34,000 like, '(BLEEP) I'm really sorry.' 678 00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:36,400 But instead, she wanted to turn around 679 00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:37,800 and make a fight out of it. 680 00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:41,160 Go fight in a mirror, sweetie. 681 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:42,760 You're gonna get more joy. 682 00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:44,520 I'm not going to scream at you. 683 00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:47,640 I've every right to sit there and say that was not OK. 684 00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:50,640 You just made a joke of my relationship. 685 00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:52,520 We're here celebrating you. 686 00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:55,000 It wasn't...in that moment, 687 00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:56,880 it did not feel like a celebration. 688 00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:58,480 I apologise, it never meant to... 689 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:00,400 We celebrate you all the time. 690 00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:01,880 That's what we're doing. 691 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:02,880 Please stop talking! 692 00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:04,320 Jesus Christ. 693 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:05,800 Rach, Rach, Rach... Yeah. 694 00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:07,400 Anyway, I'm done with tonight. 695 00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:10,040 Yeah. Thanks, guys. Have a good night. 696 00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:14,000 BEC: I mean, whose husband helped him get there? Mine. 697 00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,960 How do you think he got to this point? My husband going out 698 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:19,400 for beers with him. Yeah! 699 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:25,800 Get over it! 700 00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:27,560 She needs to calm down. 701 00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:30,400 She pops off so quickly. I'm over it. 702 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,200 Look at her going nuts. 703 00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:35,320 She's going off her head nuts right now. 704 00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:39,280 When Bec said that, I felt really hurt and disappointed. 705 00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:44,280 It felt vulgar. 706 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:45,720 And it felt just like... 707 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:47,680 I just felt like a piece of shit. 708 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:04,160 I was so excited for a retreat. 709 00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,280 I just don't even want to be around here anymore. 710 00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,800 It just made me feel like a piece of shit all over again. 711 00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:15,440 I just... Don't feel that way, please. 712 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,800 We've worked so hard. 713 00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:23,200 We've worked so hard in our relationship, 714 00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:26,240 and we're on this amazing trajectory. 715 00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:29,080 And I was so excited to share it with everyone. 716 00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:32,240 I just didn't expect that someone would just stand up there 717 00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:33,760 and cheapen it. 718 00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:37,440 She needs to relax. 719 00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:38,600 Jesus Christ. 720 00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:41,200 She's sensitive to it. 721 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:44,760 She'll move on... We're celebrating her! 722 00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:46,240 Don't push anything more onto it. 723 00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:48,600 D'you know what I mean? It's just like... Oh. 724 00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:49,760 She's sensitive to it. 725 00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:53,280 Honestly, she... She's just really hard work sometimes. 726 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:55,800 Oh, god. She's going off her head. 727 00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:58,640 She's going absolutely off her head right now. 728 00:33:58,760 --> 00:33:59,800 Look at her in there. 729 00:33:59,920 --> 00:34:01,640 She's going off her head in there. 730 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:05,000 I have supported her all night. 731 00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:07,360 I've supported... My husband is the one sitting with 732 00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:09,880 her husband every night, encouraging him to do it! 733 00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:14,960 I shouldn't laugh. 734 00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:16,280 She's really upset. 735 00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:21,640 I'm...I shouldn't laugh, but, like, 736 00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:23,200 what planet am I on right now? 737 00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:24,720 Like, I understand, OK, 738 00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:25,760 your feelings are valid. 739 00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:28,160 You don't want me to make a joke of it. I'm not. 740 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,400 My husband is the one that's encouraged your husband 741 00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:31,560 to finger bang you, darling. 742 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:34,680 OK, so let's just calm down. 743 00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:36,520 I'm going to get a t-shirt with 'finger bang' across it. 744 00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:38,440 I'm gonna wear it everywhere, like (BLEEP) me. 745 00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:39,680 Who would have known? 746 00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:41,720 But I can't be bothered with it. Like... 747 00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:47,720 I'm so happy, 748 00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:51,160 finally you've got some, you know, I'm celebrating you. 749 00:34:59,720 --> 00:35:00,720 (BLEEP). 750 00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:10,680 OK, well, we'll, we'll talk. 751 00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:14,240 We'll talk to Bec and we're going to get through it. OK? 752 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:26,280 NARRATOR: After last night's welcome drinks ended in emotion, 753 00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:30,600 Steven is supporting Rachel, as she tries to understand why Bec 754 00:35:30,720 --> 00:35:32,840 made a joke of their intimacy. 755 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:36,160 My personal opinion was I found Bec's comment 756 00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:39,720 just, look, it's just disrespectful and vulgar. 757 00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:44,800 Um, I don't know if I believe she was intentionally trying 758 00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:45,800 to hurt us. 759 00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:48,320 I just think it was a very bad choice of words 760 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:50,680 and it was disrespectful. 761 00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:53,720 She could have just said, "I'm happy for, you know, 762 00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:56,400 "Rachel and Steve and that they've increased 763 00:35:56,520 --> 00:36:00,240 their intimacy over the weekend and I'm very happy for them." 764 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:02,560 Well, it was a big thing for us to share, like we're being 765 00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:03,960 vulnerable with the group. 766 00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:05,840 We she shared it as a celebration. 767 00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:09,040 And while she didn't do it with malice, 768 00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:11,600 we were a punchline in a joke. 769 00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:18,840 If Steven and I were standing there speaking about our 770 00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:23,800 relationship in front of everyone in that way, go for it. 771 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:25,360 But we weren't. 772 00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,160 It made me humiliated to being vulnerable with 773 00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,560 the group and sharing what I thought was exciting news. 774 00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:35,360 Yeah, more than happy to hear what Bec's got to say, 775 00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:37,760 but Bec's also got to hear what I've got to say, 776 00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:40,280 and she's actually got to listen and understand and put 777 00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:42,600 herself in my shoes. When people have said things to 778 00:36:42,720 --> 00:36:44,000 her about her relationship, 779 00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:46,720 and I understand it's completely different than what was said, 780 00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:48,640 she gets quite upset. And that's OK. 781 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:51,720 Last night, I got upset and the first thing 782 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,200 she wanted to do was turn and try and fight me. 783 00:36:54,720 --> 00:36:58,480 I would never stand up in front of a group, ever, and do that, 784 00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:02,320 because if I did that to her and Danny, I'd be six feet under 785 00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:04,440 and you wouldn't find the body. 786 00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:06,960 I regret telling the group. 787 00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:10,600 I regret celebrating something in my relationship. 788 00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:14,200 Oh, morning! 789 00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:15,240 Morning. 790 00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:17,160 How are we? 791 00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:18,840 I'm good. How are you? 792 00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:20,360 Good, thanks. 793 00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:21,520 Slept so good last night. 794 00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:22,600 So well. 795 00:37:22,720 --> 00:37:25,000 You sleep good in the country, don't you? 796 00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:26,080 Yeah, it's beautiful. 797 00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:28,360 How funny was last night, babe? 798 00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:29,600 Funny night. 799 00:37:29,720 --> 00:37:31,360 Oh my god, full blown meltdown. 800 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,480 Um, yeah. Obviously there's a little bit of drama now 801 00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:36,360 that drama involves me, unfortunately. 802 00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:40,600 Hopefully she can maybe just move, move past it. 803 00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:42,080 You need to calm down. 804 00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:44,920 It was said as a joke, in jest. 805 00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:47,120 I'm a woman. We do that. 806 00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:51,000 Oh, what a beautiful day. 807 00:37:52,240 --> 00:37:55,200 It's like, get a personality, will you? (BLEEP) hell. 808 00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:00,080 Ah! 809 00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:02,880 (GRUNTING) 810 00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:09,400 Go ten, go ten. You do ten? Yep. 811 00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:10,440 Great work, brother. 812 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:14,040 I'm gonna perv. 813 00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:15,040 Shirts off, guys! 814 00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:16,080 Shirts off! 815 00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:20,360 Yeah, baby! Come on, you two. 816 00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:23,200 Chop-chop, chop-chop! 817 00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:24,520 Last one, guys. Last one. 818 00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:30,760 (INDISTINCT CHATTER) 819 00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:32,840 Come on! 820 00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:40,800 Just the shirts need to come off. 821 00:38:45,720 --> 00:38:47,440 NARRATOR: After an emotional night, 822 00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:50,440 Rachel and Steven have taken some time away 823 00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:51,960 from the group to reconnect. 824 00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:55,960 Oh, I can see Rachel and Steven having a little 825 00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:57,360 chit chat over there. 826 00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:00,800 Maybe something really bad's actually happened, 827 00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:02,280 because she's walking around really upset. 828 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:07,880 Maybe she didn't get enough attention from the announcement 829 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:09,040 that she made. 830 00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:11,360 And then when I said it, it was like, 'Oh, ding ding ding, 831 00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:14,560 'here's my chance to get angry at someone. 832 00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:16,600 'And now everyone's going to be talking about me.' 833 00:39:16,720 --> 00:39:17,640 And there's the attention. 834 00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:21,400 You can't walk around like this all day. Like... 835 00:39:22,720 --> 00:39:25,360 Like... The joke has been amplified that much 836 00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:28,440 that it's actually affecting their relationship. 837 00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:30,600 Do you think Steveo wants to be down there 838 00:39:30,720 --> 00:39:31,800 trying to cheer her up? 839 00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:35,120 Because he's finger banged her? Like, (BLEEP) me. 840 00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:38,640 It should have... It should have made her happier. 841 00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:40,560 It's made her sadder. 842 00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:42,360 He's probably thinking, '(BLEEP) that, I'm not gonna 843 00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:43,760 finger blast her ever again.' 844 00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:45,640 'I can't take the risk.' 845 00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:50,360 Nothing bad actually happened. It's a good thing. 846 00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:51,400 It's a great thing. 847 00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:55,400 There was a joke. There was a joke made about a good thing. 848 00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:57,400 Yeah, a good thing. We just need to move forward. 849 00:39:57,520 --> 00:40:00,120 It's going to live on... Forever. 850 00:40:01,720 --> 00:40:03,120 It's just, I don't know. 851 00:40:03,240 --> 00:40:04,600 I'm gonna get merch. I'm gonna get, 852 00:40:04,720 --> 00:40:06,440 I'm gonna get caps and t-shirts. 853 00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:11,720 Anywho. Merch coming. 854 00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:14,080 I didn't really do anything wrong. 855 00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:18,320 Like, everyone knows that I did not mean that with malice. 856 00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:20,600 And then all of a sudden, it's World War Three. 857 00:40:20,720 --> 00:40:21,720 Like, what is going on? 858 00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:25,640 I don't understand. Merch coming February 2026. 859 00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:30,200 Oh my god! 860 00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:32,000 Sam? 861 00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:45,040 (BLEEP) off, bad juju. Calm down. 862 00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:46,760 Calm your farm, brother. 863 00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:56,400 I think some girls can just be a lost cause. 864 00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:00,400 The shit talking she was doing about Rach on the sunbeds, 865 00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,680 she's already been making jokes about putting that 866 00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:06,080 tagline on a t-shirt and selling it as merch. 867 00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:08,400 All of it was so unacceptable. 868 00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:10,800 This is very Bec behaviour. 869 00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:13,480 Um, she kept going on about these disgusting comments 870 00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:15,000 and making merch for it. 871 00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:16,320 It wasn't nice. 872 00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:22,120 BEC: I'm literally doing it.... 873 00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:26,560 Bec is not someone I would be friends with 874 00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:27,720 in the outside world. 875 00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:30,280 Um, I feel like I have a lot of empathy for her. 876 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:34,120 She tries a lot, but she just keeps mucking it up 877 00:41:34,240 --> 00:41:36,560 by just thinking about herself. 878 00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:37,920 It's really quite selfish. 879 00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:41,880 It will be interesting to see how the whole Bec and Rach 880 00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:45,000 situation develops, hopefully comes to an end, 881 00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:47,200 but you definitely never know. 882 00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:49,240 Coming up... 883 00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:51,280 It was disrespectful. It was disgusting. 884 00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:53,640 You know what? It was, it was... It was a joke. 885 00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:57,920 How will Bec respond to questions from the group? 886 00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:01,040 But when are you going to be accountable for repeated behaviour? 887 00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,040 NARRATOR: It's the Married at First Sight retreat 888 00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:14,800 on the New South Wales south coast, and our couples are getting ready 889 00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:16,800 for their boys' and girls' nights. 890 00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:24,720 And Joel is embracing Mother Nature to ensure 891 00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:27,040 all areas are well maintained. 892 00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:28,080 And we're done. 893 00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:30,320 Woo! 894 00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:32,560 Nice and groomed. 895 00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:36,720 A social event separating our couples is an integral 896 00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:38,160 part of this retreat. 897 00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:41,360 It allows them to speak freely with their peers 898 00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:44,360 and gain some outside advice for their relationships. 899 00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:47,680 Girls and boys night. Yeah, I know. 900 00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:48,680 You've chosen the girls. 901 00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,680 I've been stolen away to the girls for the night. 902 00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:52,480 I am excited for tonight. 903 00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:54,000 Hanging out with the boys. 904 00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:56,320 Whatever happened last night between Rachel and Bec, 905 00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:57,680 do you think that that's... 906 00:42:57,800 --> 00:42:59,680 Is that still a thing? Is that something that's going 907 00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:01,000 to be spoken about tonight? 908 00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:02,480 It's definitely going to be spoken. OK. 909 00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:05,640 Because they haven't spoken today all day. 910 00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:08,480 They've been quite frosty with each other. 911 00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:10,920 But Bec's been pretty good with you today, hasn't she? 912 00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:13,920 She has had like a few comments again about how 913 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:15,680 she wanted to make merch. 914 00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:16,680 Merch? 915 00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:18,760 Yeah. She said she wanted to make merch. 916 00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:20,560 I think she's just joking, though. Like she's not actually 917 00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:21,560 gonna make merch, you know? 918 00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:23,960 But it's also just like, why are we still talking 919 00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:26,680 about this when we obviously know Rachel's so upset? 920 00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:28,080 Yeah. 921 00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:32,080 I'm wondering if Bec's going to apologise to Rachel. 922 00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:33,200 I think she should. 923 00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:34,840 How many times is she going to keep saying sorry 924 00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:36,560 and then doing the same thing again to everybody? 925 00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:38,360 So like, I think people are over it. 926 00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:39,640 I think people are too. 927 00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:40,680 Yeah. 928 00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:44,200 I'm a little bit nervous going into girls' night. 929 00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:47,120 We obviously still have the hangover of last night 930 00:43:47,240 --> 00:43:48,640 between myself and Bec. 931 00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:52,400 I think what I really need to see from Bec 932 00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:54,160 tonight is, like, empathy. 933 00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:56,560 Like, help me understand that you understand. 934 00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:59,720 Standing up for myself, for some reason, is hard. 935 00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:04,120 Oh, this is cute! 936 00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:06,720 I'm excited for girls' night. 937 00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:08,960 I think it's going to be a fun night. 938 00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:11,680 And I think everyone seems to be in a pretty good place, 939 00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:14,080 so I don't know if there's going to be any argy bargy. 940 00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:16,320 Woo! 941 00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:18,960 I feel like Rachel has put a bit of a cloud over the day. 942 00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:23,440 Like, I'm perplexed as to how it has affected her so much. 943 00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:25,640 It's very weird to me. 944 00:44:29,240 --> 00:44:31,240 (CHEERS, INDISTINCT CHATTER) 945 00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:33,600 Hello, baby. 946 00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:36,760 Girl. 947 00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:39,560 (CHEERS) Cheers, guys. 948 00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:40,920 And thanks for having me. 949 00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:45,080 Cheers. 950 00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:47,840 (ALL CHEERS) 951 00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,080 And so, what's the goss? How is everyone else's 952 00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:52,280 relationships going? 953 00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:53,680 Good. Um... Double Js. 954 00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:56,480 I know, the double Js, which I love. 955 00:44:56,600 --> 00:45:01,400 I love JJ. Honestly, like, I'm so shocked at the turnaround 956 00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:04,040 about our emotional connection. 957 00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:07,240 I've only shared a bed with Joel once since starting 958 00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:10,840 the experiment, so last night was the second time. 959 00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:12,360 (IMITATES BORAT) Very nice! 960 00:45:14,720 --> 00:45:16,400 Vibe check with Juliette. 961 00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:17,440 Vibe is good. 962 00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:19,240 Juliette and I had some romance last night. 963 00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:20,440 We shared some kisses. 964 00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:21,720 Yeah, I was excited when I saw... 965 00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:24,160 When I saw him in his get up tonight and the clean shave, 966 00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:26,600 and I was like, hotty-patotty, that guy. 967 00:45:26,720 --> 00:45:27,640 (CHEERS) 968 00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:29,240 Cheers to that! 969 00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:32,800 Cheers to that. Cheers. 970 00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:33,800 Cheers. 971 00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:35,760 Let's celebrate. Stella and Filip. 972 00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:37,880 Where we are with Filip, um, 973 00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:39,520 it was obvious, obviously, how we are. 974 00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:41,880 Like, we're obsessed with each other. We're so affectionate. 975 00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:44,080 We do plan our future together. 976 00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:46,360 When we started to have those chats, it kind of all 977 00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:47,440 got very, very serious. 978 00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:51,120 And, um, falling in love, I... 979 00:45:51,240 --> 00:45:54,400 As I realised, when it's the right person and when I think 980 00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:56,080 you're ready, it's not that hard. 981 00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:58,760 What comes after that's becoming hard. 982 00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:01,200 Uh... Oh, god. 983 00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:02,400 I feel like I'm gonna cry. 984 00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:03,520 Aw! 985 00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:08,040 Because the way I look at him, I do want him to 986 00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:09,440 be my forever partner. 987 00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:12,640 And I do really want to work on those things to that level. 988 00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:15,240 But it's so much more deeper. 989 00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:16,880 And that's what I'm dealing right now. 990 00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:19,040 Fear of rejection, not rejection, abandonment. 991 00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:20,880 So I'm dealing with that right now. 992 00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:22,360 So... Hey... 993 00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:25,880 My parents had me extremely young. 994 00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:29,040 My dad then left to live in UK. 995 00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:33,520 Um, my role models and people who raised me 996 00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:35,960 is my grandmother and my auntie. 997 00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:42,000 Growing up in Lithuania shaped me to be quite independent. 998 00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:46,000 Even though that I know I'm craving connection, 999 00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:47,520 like I know I'm craving connection, 1000 00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:48,960 that's, mm... 1001 00:46:52,720 --> 00:46:53,920 That's me getting teary. 1002 00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:00,920 You just realise that it's a self protection. Preservation. 1003 00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:05,240 Um, initially I wanted to kind of distance myself, um, and I was 1004 00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:09,680 like, why do I want to distance myself from this human? 1005 00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:11,840 He's such a beautiful human. Yeah. 1006 00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:23,560 That is the only reason why it's coming up. 1007 00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:26,920 Because it is getting serious, and that is a coping 1008 00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:30,480 mechanism for me to, um, maybe stay in a protective mode 1009 00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:34,400 of not getting hurt if, you know, people decide to leave. 1010 00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:37,840 Um, yeah, that's I guess, my trauma response. 1011 00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:43,280 So, yeah, it's a lot more than just oh yeah, 1012 00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:45,800 I'm in love, you know? Yeah. 1013 00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:47,240 Thanks for sharing. 1014 00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:49,680 I didn't expect to cry, to be honest. 1015 00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:52,000 I want to give you a hug! (OVERLAPPING CHATTER) 1016 00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:55,040 I'm a crier, but when it hits, it (BLEEP) hits. 1017 00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:56,240 Needed it babe. 1018 00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:57,280 We love you. 1019 00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:05,280 So Steven and I are really good. 1020 00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:08,800 As I shared with you all last night, the intimacy with Steven 1021 00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:12,040 and I has increased, which is really, really exciting. 1022 00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:15,160 And even though, you know, last night ended the way that it did, 1023 00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:18,040 it's actually brought Steve and I a lot closer as well. 1024 00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:20,000 That tends to happen. 1025 00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:23,160 He really had me and, like, he could see how 1026 00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:26,720 upset I was and just being able to calm and support me. 1027 00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:29,600 And even though I was, like, breaking down, 1028 00:48:29,720 --> 00:48:32,600 he just, he had me and I just, I really appreciated that 1029 00:48:32,720 --> 00:48:35,720 in a partner and like, you know, going to bed 1030 00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:37,320 and, like, getting really worked up, 1031 00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:40,400 he's like, "Sweetie," like he's holding my hand 1032 00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:43,160 and he's just like, "Rach, I just need you to breathe. 1033 00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:44,680 Just breathe for me." 1034 00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:48,840 In that moment, I feel like coming here has really 1035 00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:53,080 helped me value those small moments with Steven. 1036 00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:58,800 She's, she's been hysterical, been the same way all day today. 1037 00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:00,720 And it's like, what are you on about? 1038 00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:02,480 Ugh. 1039 00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:07,000 Everything's really, really good. 1040 00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:08,800 So I'm very happy. 1041 00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:10,520 Steven makes me really, really happy. 1042 00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:11,960 We're so happy. 1043 00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:14,280 And like, and silver lining that last night has brought 1044 00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:16,360 you guys closer together. That's really lovely. 1045 00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:18,360 That's definitely the silver lining of it. 1046 00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:21,360 Um, while last night should not have happened at all, 1047 00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:24,800 it is a silver lining, and I do appreciate that. 1048 00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:27,240 I have an amazing husband who was able to support me. 1049 00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:29,720 Give it a rest. 1050 00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:31,360 Relax, man. 1051 00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:33,000 Get a personality. 1052 00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:34,920 She's hard work. 1053 00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,040 Rachel is hard work to be friends with. 1054 00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:39,440 Like, aren't you happy I even mentioned you in my speech? 1055 00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:41,880 Appreciate it. Thank you. Cheers, guys. 1056 00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:43,320 Appreciate it so much. 1057 00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:48,560 I'm going to apologise. She's going to go "wah-wah-wah-wah..." 1058 00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:50,720 And I'm going to go, "No worries." 1059 00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:51,920 Hug her out and be done. 1060 00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:53,960 Like, I'm honestly, I'm over it. 1061 00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:57,480 Yeah. Just, I wish I cared more, to be honest with you. 1062 00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:06,200 NARRATOR: Girls' night and boys' night is well underway, 1063 00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,560 and the dramatic end to last night's welcome drinks 1064 00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:11,280 is on everyone's mind. 1065 00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:14,680 Steve, how did you feel about Bec's comment yesterday? 1066 00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:16,360 How did that sit with you? 1067 00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:19,720 Yeah. So, uh, with Bec's comment last night, I was... 1068 00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:23,120 Everyone saw it really upset Rachel. 1069 00:50:23,240 --> 00:50:25,080 Yeah. Like, severely. 1070 00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:28,600 And what made the situation worse was not just 1071 00:50:28,720 --> 00:50:29,800 the comment, it's just... 1072 00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:33,880 I think the reaction of Bec really upset Rachel. 1073 00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:36,200 So do you think she's blown it a bit out of proportion? 1074 00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:39,480 Not to put words in your mouth. 1075 00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:41,080 I'm just genuinely asking. 1076 00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:43,760 Personally, personally, I didn't think she'd be 1077 00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:45,280 that upset, to be honest. 1078 00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:46,960 Like, I understand the walking... 1079 00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:48,560 I understand the walking out because it's in 1080 00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:49,560 the heat of the moment. 1081 00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:51,120 I really want to get an answer. Do you think she's 1082 00:50:51,240 --> 00:50:53,280 blown it out of proportion or not? Yes or no? 1083 00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:56,240 I don't think she did, because this means 1084 00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:57,760 so much to Rachel. 1085 00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:01,360 And speaking to the group and getting the feedback 1086 00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:02,440 from the girls, 1087 00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:06,560 you guys, this progress means a lot to Rachel. 1088 00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:10,960 I did need to stress to the boys that Rachel was 1089 00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:14,600 really upset by this, and this was special for her. 1090 00:51:14,720 --> 00:51:17,960 It doesn't matter what you think about it, she's upset by it. 1091 00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:19,200 You've got to take that on board. 1092 00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:21,400 It's not about... you're the spectator. 1093 00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:25,840 This was aimed at her, so they need to understand that as well. 1094 00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:28,560 Steve-o, did you find it funny? 1095 00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:29,680 Be honest, be honest. 1096 00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:35,800 Look, I know that Bec didn't have ill intentions. 1097 00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:38,120 She wasn't attacking the relationship. 1098 00:51:38,240 --> 00:51:41,640 I believe it was just a case of really poor judgement. 1099 00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:43,880 Poor choice of words, probably looking for 1100 00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:45,200 a little bit of a laugh. 1101 00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:46,280 You didn't answer the question. 1102 00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:49,200 Did you personally find it funny or how did you find it? 1103 00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:55,440 I didn't, look, I didn't find... Me, man, I didn't find it... 1104 00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:57,400 I didn't find it funny. 1105 00:51:57,520 --> 00:51:59,960 Like, it's just, it's just a, you know, poor comment. 1106 00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:03,200 I just wanted to get your opinion on it because that's 1107 00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:05,600 sort of the common theme with Rachel, that she blows 1108 00:52:05,720 --> 00:52:06,840 things out of proportion. 1109 00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:16,640 So Rach, I wanted to obviously address, like, I think we should 1110 00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:17,640 start off with you, 1111 00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:21,280 tell me how you feel, like, towards me about it, talk to me. 1112 00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:24,720 Bec, you humiliated me in front of the group last night. 1113 00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:25,720 Yeah, OK. 1114 00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:28,480 I felt like, whether it was malicious or not, 1115 00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:32,200 you built it up, and you made the intimacy 1116 00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:35,480 progress between Steven and I a punchline 1117 00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:37,200 in a joke. Right. 1118 00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:38,800 And then I sat there and was like, 1119 00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:40,560 "You've just made a joke of it, babe." 1120 00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:42,280 Like, I didn't appreciate that. 1121 00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:44,280 And you instantly turned. 1122 00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:47,080 I've just kind of said to you like, 1123 00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:49,000 this hurt my feelings. 1124 00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:51,480 And I got the 'I'm sorry.' 1125 00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:53,880 I've got to be honest, I feel like you were just saying sorry 1126 00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:55,080 because, like, brush it off. 1127 00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:58,400 I left because I was humiliated. Right. 1128 00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:01,360 OK. And my relationship is not a joke. 1129 00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:02,360 No. 1130 00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:04,960 And that's why I was so upset. 1131 00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:07,800 Because I was like, that's my friend up there. 1132 00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:09,360 And that's why I left. 1133 00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:10,960 Because I was humiliated. 1134 00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:15,000 I think the thing for me, Rach, is that I thought 1135 00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:19,080 that you would know, like, it was not meant to be, um, 1136 00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:21,320 mean towards you. 1137 00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:24,400 It was actually just a throwaway comment, 1138 00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:25,880 and it was the wrong wording. 1139 00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:29,360 And I apologise to you for the wrong wording that was used. 1140 00:53:30,000 --> 00:53:33,440 I did not think that it would be as big of a deal as it was. 1141 00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:35,440 I never would have said it... It is a big deal though. 1142 00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:36,440 I never would have... 1143 00:53:36,560 --> 00:53:37,800 It's not happened to you, Bec. It's happened to me. 1144 00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:39,920 I understand. I never would have said it. 1145 00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:42,760 It's a banter situation and I do apologise. 1146 00:53:42,880 --> 00:53:44,360 It was disrespectful, the word 'finger banged.' Correct. 1147 00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:45,840 It was disgusting. And it wasn't... 1148 00:53:46,720 --> 00:53:50,480 It was a joke. You know that I support you and Steven. Do I? 1149 00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:55,560 You think it's intended with malice, and it wasn't. 1150 00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:57,920 I never, I have said repeatedly, the joke was 1151 00:53:58,040 --> 00:53:59,720 not intended with malice. 1152 00:53:59,840 --> 00:54:02,600 But when I told you, "you hurt my feelings," you turned on me 1153 00:54:02,720 --> 00:54:04,240 instantly and wanted to fight. 1154 00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:05,960 Every two seconds, you're angry at me. 1155 00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:07,480 The majority of our relationship. That is a lie. 1156 00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:08,880 But when are you going to be accountable 1157 00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:10,840 for repeated behaviour? Thank you. 1158 00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:11,840 It's a pattern now. 1159 00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:13,640 It's like, how many times are you going to do the wrong thing 1160 00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:14,680 and say sorry? 1161 00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:16,160 Sure. 1162 00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:18,120 9I feel bad for Rachel. 1163 00:54:18,240 --> 00:54:21,440 Thank god us girls are there to listen to her and make her feel 1164 00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:24,360 validated for her feelings, which are very normal. 1165 00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:26,840 I think Bec needs to face the music. 1166 00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:29,320 You can't do the things you're doing and not take 1167 00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:31,160 accountability for your actions. 1168 00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:34,160 You can't throw shit that you're throwing and not take 1169 00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:36,000 the full force of consequences. 1170 00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:37,440 I just don't think that's fair. 1171 00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:39,440 Let's call bullshit. 1172 00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:41,720 Because if you support the relationship, 1173 00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:43,800 why are you going around at the pool with Juliette and I 1174 00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:45,320 saying you want to get merch? 1175 00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:51,360 It was a joke! 1176 00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:53,520 No, but you carried the... You carried the joke 1177 00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:55,360 on to the next day. That was bad. 1178 00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:56,480 That part was really... 1179 00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:58,040 You can't be sorry, but then carry 1180 00:54:58,160 --> 00:55:00,040 it on the next day and, like, keep going. 1181 00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:03,200 It's one thing to do the wrong thing last night 1182 00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:06,120 and apologise, but Bec took it in a whole 'nother level 1183 00:55:06,240 --> 00:55:07,520 by talking about it all day. 1184 00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:10,120 And she tried to cover her arse saying, "Oh, well, 1185 00:55:10,240 --> 00:55:11,640 "you know, I take accountability. 1186 00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:12,960 I'm sorry for what I said last night." 1187 00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:15,680 OK, but be sorry for what you said continuously throughout 1188 00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:17,200 the day. You're not sorry. 1189 00:55:17,320 --> 00:55:19,840 Why did, today, you kept making jokes about the merch? 1190 00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:21,280 Because it was a joke. 1191 00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:24,320 I didn't understand that that was the level of her feelings. 1192 00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:25,800 I thought she was upset about one word. 1193 00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:26,800 But you knew that. 1194 00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:28,560 You said this morning, "Rachel's upset 1195 00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:30,440 "and she needs to get the (BLEEP) over it. 1196 00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:32,280 "I'm making fingerbanging merch 1197 00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:34,120 and you're gonna (BLEEP) wear it, bitch." 1198 00:55:34,240 --> 00:55:35,360 It was a joke. 1199 00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:37,000 But be accountable for the whole thing. 1200 00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:40,040 It was a joke. It was said once and it was a joke 1201 00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:43,520 I didn't know that you were so upset. 1202 00:55:43,640 --> 00:55:44,560 Guys, that's enough. 1203 00:55:46,120 --> 00:55:47,160 I'm hurt. 1204 00:55:48,240 --> 00:55:52,000 I'm the one you're talking about, and it's disgusting. 1205 00:55:52,120 --> 00:55:54,800 Stop talking about it. I just... 1206 00:55:58,000 --> 00:55:59,080 You humiliated me, Bec. 1207 00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:02,840 Yeah. And I know you're apologising. 1208 00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:03,840 Honestly, like I said to you... 1209 00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:05,960 And you don't have to be my friend. 1210 00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:07,600 We don't need to have... 1211 00:56:07,720 --> 00:56:09,400 You don't need to worry about it because you would 1212 00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:11,840 only worry about it if it was your friend. It's fine. 1213 00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:14,320 Like, I get it. But this has got to stop. 1214 00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:16,440 We can't keep having these apologies, Bec, 1215 00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:18,440 around this kind of stuff, because... 1216 00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:20,520 I apologised to Alissa and I apologised to Joel. 1217 00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:22,600 But aren't you sick of apologising, babe? 1218 00:56:24,560 --> 00:56:27,520 Alissa, I need to apologise to you, 1219 00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:31,280 because my delivery of what I said to you was unacceptable. 1220 00:56:31,400 --> 00:56:33,320 The way I spoke to you last night, 1221 00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:37,000 I need to take accountability for how cruel I was. 1222 00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:40,520 Obviously, like, I came in really angry last week. 1223 00:56:40,640 --> 00:56:41,600 Yeah. 1224 00:56:41,720 --> 00:56:43,080 I was angry. 1225 00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:46,320 And I came in here and I dropped bombs on everyone. 1226 00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:48,040 And I do apologise. 1227 00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:51,040 I'm genuinely sorry that that your name has been 1228 00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:53,600 brought up, because at the end of the day, it... 1229 00:56:53,720 --> 00:56:56,080 We shouldn't be talking about your relationship anyway. 1230 00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:57,960 Bec, this is two weeks in a row. 1231 00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:00,960 Why are you talking about their relationship? 1232 00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:02,200 Do you know what? You're right. 1233 00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:04,240 I know I'm right. But what I don't know 1234 00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:05,480 is why you're doing that. 1235 00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:08,920 Thank you for apologising. 1236 00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:12,720 But again, my concerns is in the repeat behaviour. 1237 00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:16,880 Bec's always saying, "Sorry, I didn't mean it." 1238 00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:20,280 Rachel's trying to address the reoccurring behaviour. 1239 00:57:20,400 --> 00:57:23,360 When is she going to wake up and just think 1240 00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:24,840 before she speaks? 1241 00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:28,160 I honestly feel like, honestly, last night I was 1242 00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:29,280 like my number was up. 1243 00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:32,320 It was my turn to be put to tears by Bec and I'm kind of 1244 00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:35,320 like, well, when does this behaviour change? 1245 00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:38,680 When do the "I'm sorrys" actually become real? 1246 00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:45,120 I'm out of here. I am! 1247 00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:47,120 Shouldn't have to go. 1248 00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:49,160 It's fine. I'm (BLEEP) good. 1249 00:57:49,280 --> 00:57:50,440 Come back. Can you come back? 1250 00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:58,280 You can't go around and consistently talk shit 1251 00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:00,920 about everybody that you're friends with, and then get mad 1252 00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:03,520 that they have a reaction to what you're doing. 1253 00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:06,560 It's not OK. And I think again, tonight is another 1254 00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:09,840 example of Bec's new target getting pissed off 1255 00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:13,200 and her not handling it and walking off like a PR move. 1256 00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:14,520 This is what she does. 1257 00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:15,640 There's nothing more to say. 1258 00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:19,960 Get me the (BLEEP) out of here now. 1259 00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:21,400 Don't leave, bubba. Get me out of here. 1260 00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:28,880 Boring (BLEEP). 1261 00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:43,000 Danny, how are you and Beck goin'? 1262 00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:45,840 Like, honestly, it's just gone from strength to strength. 1263 00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:48,800 It's proved you can build sexual chemistry. 1264 00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:50,800 You can work through really hard problems. 1265 00:58:50,920 --> 00:58:52,280 You can talk for hours and solve... 1266 00:58:53,320 --> 00:58:56,040 ..complex issues. It's taught me so much that, 1267 00:58:56,160 --> 00:58:58,920 like me and Becca, at this moment in time, 1268 00:58:59,040 --> 00:59:00,120 we're in a really good place. 1269 00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:01,160 Daniel! 1270 00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:03,400 Here she is. 1271 00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:06,400 (OVERLAPPING EXCLAMATIONS) 1272 00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:09,440 Speak of the devil! 1273 00:59:09,560 --> 00:59:10,480 And she's in red! 1274 00:59:11,120 --> 00:59:13,080 You couldn't make it up. I'm sitting by the fire. 1275 00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:14,120 It's been peaceful all night. 1276 00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:17,160 And next thing, a silhouette of Bec comes out of the horizon. 1277 00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:22,600 And then next thing, embers start flowing into my face. 1278 00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:25,960 The smoke's in my eyes, bellowing in my eyes. 1279 00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:28,280 We all said Bec into the fire three times. 1280 00:59:32,200 --> 00:59:33,160 What happened, Bec? 1281 00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:34,160 How's the girls...? 1282 00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:35,720 I need to grab him for a second, please. 1283 00:59:35,840 --> 00:59:36,880 Oh, god. Oh, shit. 1284 00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:41,200 Clearly, there's been some drama at girls' night, 1285 00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:43,760 if Bec is rolling up, dragging me out of there. 1286 00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:54,840 What just happened? 1287 00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:55,840 What just happened? 1288 00:59:55,960 --> 00:59:57,040 We're just about to hug it out. 1289 00:59:57,160 --> 00:59:58,480 We just lost a man. 1290 00:59:58,600 --> 01:00:01,640 OK, so I'm just gonna fill you in quickly because 1291 01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:03,440 I've left girls' night. 1292 01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:07,400 Obviously. Because it was just like a gang-up completely. 1293 01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:11,040 Um, basically, I'm just letting you know, 1294 01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:12,200 Rachel got up and she goes, 1295 01:00:12,320 --> 01:00:16,000 "Last night was the most humiliating night of my life. 1296 01:00:16,480 --> 01:00:19,160 "I have been made to be... 1297 01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:22,800 "My relationship is a joke. 1298 01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:27,200 "And I've never felt so upset and humiliated in my life." 1299 01:00:27,920 --> 01:00:30,320 She's just sitting there, like, hysterical, 1300 01:00:30,440 --> 01:00:31,520 being like, "It's you. 1301 01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:35,360 You need to change your actions." 1302 01:00:35,480 --> 01:00:36,960 I was just like, "All right. Like, whatever." 1303 01:00:40,640 --> 01:00:43,760 It was like the worst thing that's ever happened to anyone. 1304 01:00:43,880 --> 01:00:45,560 Rachel is still upset. 1305 01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:49,960 Grow up. It was a passing comment. Grow up. 1306 01:00:50,080 --> 01:00:51,280 Move past it. 1307 01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:57,800 And Gia was like a dragon breathing fire, like look at me. 1308 01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:03,000 And Juliette came at me. But, like, it was no point tonight, babe. 1309 01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:04,040 Like, they were just... 1310 01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:08,440 It was just all like me, at me, and that's fine. 1311 01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:09,480 Like, I can handle it. 1312 01:01:09,600 --> 01:01:11,640 Like, I'm not upset about it, but I just wanted to 1313 01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:12,760 tell you what happened. 1314 01:01:12,880 --> 01:01:14,480 And...yeah. 1315 01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:18,600 I feel a bit frustrated, to be honest, with finding out 1316 01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:22,080 what's going on at girls' night, because it seems like a gang-up. 1317 01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:23,640 And ganging up on someone, 1318 01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:26,560 I don't think that's right, to be honest. 1319 01:01:27,280 --> 01:01:30,200 I'm pissed off at Steveo, like he's a (BLEEP). 1320 01:01:30,320 --> 01:01:33,840 I've helped the bloke. He's a charity case. 1321 01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:34,960 You don't... You don't need to... 1322 01:01:35,080 --> 01:01:37,240 You don't need to have an argument with him. Let me have it. 1323 01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:39,400 No-one attacks my wife and gets away with it. 1324 01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:41,480 Not without me being there. If you're going to attack her, 1325 01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:42,920 have the big boss there. 1326 01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:44,640 What's all that about? 1327 01:01:45,720 --> 01:01:47,720 It's like someone kicking your little brother. 1328 01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:48,760 Can you kiss me. 1329 01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:52,680 That shit pisses me off. Like... 1330 01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:55,880 Oh, she's foul, man. 1331 01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:00,440 Let's do a chat. 1332 01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:02,960 Let's do two on two and let's have it like men. 1333 01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:08,640 Hey, fellas, looks like there's a storm! 1334 01:02:08,760 --> 01:02:09,800 Do you want to do it? 1335 01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:11,320 Let's go. 1336 01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:16,560 Let's go, let's go, let's go! 1337 01:02:19,120 --> 01:02:20,400 Steveo. 1338 01:02:20,520 --> 01:02:22,240 Can we have a chat with you? Me and Bec? 1339 01:02:22,360 --> 01:02:23,240 (GROANS) 1340 01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:25,720 Sorry, guys, can you all go? 'Cause we're going to have a chat. 1341 01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:26,960 Is that OK? (ALL EXCLAIM) 1342 01:02:27,080 --> 01:02:28,640 I'd love to stay. 1343 01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:31,160 That's OK. 1344 01:02:31,280 --> 01:02:32,880 (TENSE MUSIC) 1345 01:02:33,000 --> 01:02:35,680 Where's... Is Rachel... Can we get Rachel? 1346 01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:37,120 But let me just explain to him. 1347 01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:39,000 I think we get Rachel before you explain. 1348 01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:40,720 OK. I think we do. 1349 01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:42,400 You mind? Go get Rachel. 1350 01:02:42,520 --> 01:02:43,440 Let's go get Rachel. 1351 01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:44,480 OK. 1352 01:02:45,040 --> 01:02:48,760 (OVERLAPPING CHATTER, LAUGHTER) 1353 01:02:48,880 --> 01:02:50,680 I'm really happy with girls' night! 1354 01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:54,640 I just really hate that Bec's not here for this. 1355 01:02:54,760 --> 01:02:57,440 I think it would have been... No, no, no... 1356 01:02:57,560 --> 01:02:58,920 Regardless of what happened at the start of 1357 01:02:59,040 --> 01:03:00,640 the night, it's a shame that she missed this bit. 1358 01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:03,520 And it's really sad that one of us is not here. 1359 01:03:03,640 --> 01:03:04,520 But she chose to leave. 1360 01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:06,480 No, I get that. But regardless, it would have 1361 01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:08,400 been nice if she was sitting here having these moments. 1362 01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:12,200 And she can. Another day when things feel better. 1363 01:03:13,720 --> 01:03:15,120 Hey, Rach. Hello. 1364 01:03:15,240 --> 01:03:17,560 We've got Steven up at the house, and I think the four of us 1365 01:03:17,680 --> 01:03:18,720 need to have a chat. 1366 01:03:19,360 --> 01:03:20,480 Oh, OK. Well... 1367 01:03:21,520 --> 01:03:22,640 Let's go. 1368 01:03:22,760 --> 01:03:25,040 I guess, guys, I'm leaving girls' night early. 1369 01:03:25,160 --> 01:03:27,760 That's not my choice, fantastic. 1370 01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:29,600 You don't have to go, Rach. It's fine. 1371 01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:31,000 You guys have pulled me out. I'm coming. 1372 01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:35,000 I don't think that this is actually really fair, like... 1373 01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:36,040 Anyway. 1374 01:03:37,040 --> 01:03:38,480 Hold on a minute, sweetheart. 1375 01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:41,680 We're coming to get you out of respect because we don't want to 1376 01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:43,280 talk without you being there. 1377 01:03:43,400 --> 01:03:44,840 We want to speak, all four of us. 1378 01:03:44,960 --> 01:03:46,360 We don't want to speak, three of us. 1379 01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:48,400 So cut out the comments. 1380 01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:51,000 There's no need for the bullshit comments. 1381 01:03:51,120 --> 01:03:53,040 Just leave the room like a lady. 1382 01:03:53,160 --> 01:03:54,600 That's fine. Thank you all. 1383 01:03:54,720 --> 01:03:55,640 Have a lovely evening. 1384 01:03:56,240 --> 01:03:57,680 It's a resolution. 1385 01:03:57,800 --> 01:03:58,960 No, well, I just... anyway. 1386 01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:01,960 Where's your head at, babe? 1387 01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:03,440 Just can't leave the room. 1388 01:04:03,560 --> 01:04:04,520 Be respectful. 1389 01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:06,880 Love you all. 1390 01:04:09,000 --> 01:04:10,680 Don't know why you've got to make comments like that. 1391 01:04:22,280 --> 01:04:23,600 The four of us need to have a chat. 1392 01:04:24,120 --> 01:04:25,320 Oh, OK. Well... 1393 01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:26,360 Let's go. 1394 01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:30,200 I guess, guys, I'm leaving girls night early. 1395 01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:32,920 That's not my choice. Fantastic. 1396 01:04:33,040 --> 01:04:34,640 You don't have to go, Rach, if you don't want. 1397 01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:36,160 No, it's fine. You guys have pulled me out. I'm coming. 1398 01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:40,240 I don't think that this is actually really fair. 1399 01:04:40,360 --> 01:04:42,640 Anyway... No, that's fine. 1400 01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:44,640 Thank you all. Have a lovely evening. 1401 01:04:44,760 --> 01:04:46,240 It's a resolution. 1402 01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:50,000 No. Well, I just, anyway... Love you all. 1403 01:04:52,800 --> 01:04:54,440 Don't know why you've got to make comments like that. 1404 01:04:58,000 --> 01:05:02,000 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1405 01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:32,640 Firstly I want to say, Rachel, the comments you just said in there 1406 01:05:32,760 --> 01:05:34,480 wasn't called for. 1407 01:05:34,600 --> 01:05:37,080 We brought you here out of respect because we wanted to 1408 01:05:37,200 --> 01:05:38,560 have a four-way conversation. 1409 01:05:38,680 --> 01:05:40,840 So comments like that, "I'm being dragged away" and all that... 1410 01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:42,040 No, no, no... Because of us. 1411 01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:43,440 It's respect. 1412 01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:45,720 Can I step in? Can I step in? Rach... 1413 01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:48,440 All I'm saying is we came in there polite and said, 1414 01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:50,000 "Can we have a conversation?" 1415 01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:51,800 You didn't have to make a big melee out of it 1416 01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:52,920 when you're leaving the group. 1417 01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:55,480 We pulled you out there for respect because 1418 01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:57,800 we didn't want to have this conversation with everyone. 1419 01:05:57,920 --> 01:05:59,320 I don't really appreciate that. Everyone who just attacked me. 1420 01:06:02,160 --> 01:06:05,720 I pulled Danny aside tonight, and I can hold my own, right. 1421 01:06:05,840 --> 01:06:10,240 I understand that I made a comment that was a throwaway 1422 01:06:10,360 --> 01:06:15,080 comment that, as we've all agreed, Daniel, you and Rachel 1423 01:06:15,200 --> 01:06:18,760 and I all agree that the term that I used was... 1424 01:06:20,800 --> 01:06:24,000 Not used with malice, but the poor choice of words. 1425 01:06:24,120 --> 01:06:28,000 But...it wasn't done in malice. 1426 01:06:28,120 --> 01:06:30,000 And you know that, you know that, 1427 01:06:30,120 --> 01:06:32,120 Rachel knows that, right? No worries. 1428 01:06:34,800 --> 01:06:39,200 I think what hurt me tonight the most was that you've let 1429 01:06:39,320 --> 01:06:40,840 everyone attack me. 1430 01:06:40,960 --> 01:06:44,080 But when it's OK for you, because you're being backed up... 1431 01:06:44,200 --> 01:06:46,920 No, honey. ..everyone's allowed to d that to me. That's not OK. 1432 01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:49,600 No. You have to practice what you preach, honey. 1433 01:06:50,600 --> 01:06:52,040 It just felt aggressive. 1434 01:06:52,160 --> 01:06:54,080 Everything's on their terms. 1435 01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:56,280 It's gotta happen on their time. 1436 01:06:56,400 --> 01:07:00,480 Even though the actions of Bec 1437 01:07:00,600 --> 01:07:03,120 are what have, you know, caused me to feel this way. 1438 01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:05,520 I'll be honest. And this is my opinion. 1439 01:07:05,640 --> 01:07:07,640 I think you've made a mountain out of a molehill. 1440 01:07:07,760 --> 01:07:09,800 Because you kicked off in front of everyone. 1441 01:07:09,920 --> 01:07:12,080 I didn't, kick off's a bit of a stretch. 1442 01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:13,560 Did you or did you not 1443 01:07:13,680 --> 01:07:15,720 say in front of the whole group? It's on camera. 1444 01:07:15,840 --> 01:07:17,240 I didn't kick off, though. You shouted. 1445 01:07:17,360 --> 01:07:18,240 She didn't yell. 1446 01:07:18,360 --> 01:07:19,840 I didn't, I didn't kick off. 1447 01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:22,720 OK, OK, saying I kicked off is a bit...I was upset 1448 01:07:22,840 --> 01:07:25,680 and I said, "Hey, you've just made a joke of my relationship." 1449 01:07:25,800 --> 01:07:27,240 You said you didn't...what was your words? 1450 01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:28,800 I was like, you've just made a joke 1451 01:07:28,920 --> 01:07:29,800 of my relationship. 1452 01:07:29,920 --> 01:07:31,120 She said she didn't make a big deal. 1453 01:07:31,240 --> 01:07:32,400 Yeah. But you did. 1454 01:07:32,520 --> 01:07:36,600 Yeah. Look, this means a lot to Rachel. 1455 01:07:36,720 --> 01:07:38,520 It means a lot to me for you guys. 1456 01:07:38,640 --> 01:07:40,000 It means, it means so much. 1457 01:07:40,120 --> 01:07:41,600 That's why she brought it up. 1458 01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:43,400 That's why she told everyone. That's why she... 1459 01:07:43,520 --> 01:07:46,920 At the very beginning of the party, she brought this up. 1460 01:07:47,040 --> 01:07:49,080 Then it turned into attacking. 1461 01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:51,880 Then Rachel removed herself so she wouldn't 1462 01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:53,400 make a big deal out of it. 1463 01:07:53,520 --> 01:07:56,000 She removed herself from the situation. 1464 01:07:56,120 --> 01:07:57,760 She was incredibly hurt. 1465 01:07:58,840 --> 01:08:01,200 You guys can say and do whatever you want. 1466 01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:04,720 I can have a bunch of girls come at me and I can sit there. 1467 01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:07,560 I'm sorry. At the end of the day, I'm getting 1468 01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:10,640 so many different stories, to the point where 1469 01:08:10,760 --> 01:08:13,840 I'm told I'm a joke because of thing that you've said. 1470 01:08:13,960 --> 01:08:15,080 Who said that? Who! 1471 01:08:15,200 --> 01:08:16,200 Gia. 1472 01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:17,720 Well, there you go. 1473 01:08:17,840 --> 01:08:19,560 Gia and Juliette are lying to you. 1474 01:08:19,680 --> 01:08:20,800 It's a lie. 1475 01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:23,920 You're saying one thing to me and said another thing to them. 1476 01:08:24,040 --> 01:08:25,880 I never would have done that. 1477 01:08:26,000 --> 01:08:28,120 So you've got liars bullshitting you, 1478 01:08:28,240 --> 01:08:29,560 and you're gonna take it. And then... 1479 01:08:29,680 --> 01:08:31,120 I didn't take any of that. 1480 01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:33,680 You know she's a (BLEEP) liar. 1481 01:08:36,160 --> 01:08:39,240 Steveo, do you think that what I said 1482 01:08:39,360 --> 01:08:40,640 was said with malice? 1483 01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:43,280 Because I'm confused. 1484 01:08:43,400 --> 01:08:45,960 I'll answer the question. I said this to Rachel last night. 1485 01:08:46,960 --> 01:08:50,960 I don't, I believe the comment was disrespectful. 1486 01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:52,360 Bad taste. 1487 01:08:52,480 --> 01:08:55,440 Just a poor choice of words and all the above. 1488 01:08:55,560 --> 01:08:57,560 I don't believe there was any malice behind it. 1489 01:08:57,680 --> 01:08:59,400 I don't believe there was malicious intent 1490 01:08:59,520 --> 01:09:00,400 behind it. Thank you. 1491 01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:03,000 I said that to Rachel last night, but it doesn't, 1492 01:09:03,120 --> 01:09:05,640 it doesn't excuse the fact that it was disrespectful 1493 01:09:05,760 --> 01:09:08,120 and it was still a poor choice of words and all that. 1494 01:09:08,240 --> 01:09:10,320 Everything there still stands. 100%. 1495 01:09:10,440 --> 01:09:12,480 And I agree with you. I spoke to him this afternoon. 1496 01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:14,480 I sat down with him in our lounge room and spoke to him 1497 01:09:14,600 --> 01:09:15,760 and said, "Do you know what? 1498 01:09:16,480 --> 01:09:18,360 I really love you and I really love Rach." 1499 01:09:18,480 --> 01:09:20,360 Why are you talking to my husband off camera? 1500 01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:26,120 Did I know that you two had a conversation this afternoon? 1501 01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:28,760 No, because you didn't tell me. 1502 01:09:29,440 --> 01:09:31,320 Did you speak to Bec this afternoon? 1503 01:09:34,560 --> 01:09:37,560 Did you guys speak this afternoon and patch all this up? 1504 01:09:37,680 --> 01:09:38,680 We didn't patch it up. 1505 01:09:40,360 --> 01:09:42,240 I just said to her what I felt her comment was 1506 01:09:42,360 --> 01:09:43,760 was disrespectful and everything. 1507 01:09:43,880 --> 01:09:46,240 Exactly everything I said just then, I repeated. 1508 01:09:46,360 --> 01:09:49,360 The conversation lasted 60 seconds. It doesn't matter. 1509 01:09:50,080 --> 01:09:52,800 I'm actually feeling a little bit betrayed 1510 01:09:52,920 --> 01:09:54,680 a bit here, babe. I've got to be... No! 1511 01:09:54,800 --> 01:09:56,560 I'm gonna stop this conversation right now. 1512 01:09:56,680 --> 01:09:58,760 I do feel let down by Steven tonight. 1513 01:09:58,880 --> 01:10:00,520 I feel really let down. 1514 01:10:00,640 --> 01:10:02,680 Just like you needed to leave girls' night, 1515 01:10:03,240 --> 01:10:04,680 I now need to leave this. 1516 01:10:05,440 --> 01:10:07,480 I feel quite hurt and disappointed. 1517 01:10:08,120 --> 01:10:11,960 You know, we keep talking how we're united, we've got each other's back. 1518 01:10:12,440 --> 01:10:14,360 You didn't have my back, babe. 1519 01:10:15,320 --> 01:10:16,320 You didn't. 1520 01:10:17,560 --> 01:10:19,440 And so now I'm kind of like... 1521 01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:23,360 What else are you saying about me behind my back? 1522 01:10:32,680 --> 01:10:33,880 NARRATOR: Tomorrow night... 1523 01:10:34,000 --> 01:10:35,400 No-one's spoken to me at all today. 1524 01:10:35,920 --> 01:10:38,720 ..Bec and Danny, isolated from the group. 1525 01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:42,440 A comment has been taken out of proportion so much. 1526 01:10:44,440 --> 01:10:47,080 Wherever Bec goes, misery follows. 1527 01:10:47,200 --> 01:10:50,320 And Gia and Juliette seize the opportunity to 1528 01:10:50,440 --> 01:10:52,360 further stir up the tension. 1529 01:10:52,480 --> 01:10:54,160 I do not know why she does this. 1530 01:10:54,280 --> 01:10:56,440 I don't think I could ever, ever, ever trust her again. 1531 01:10:57,360 --> 01:10:58,560 How is Bec the victim? 1532 01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:04,040 Can a romantic beach date help calm Stella's anxiety? 1533 01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:05,760 Has I love you been said? 1534 01:11:05,880 --> 01:11:07,880 I really would appreciate if everyone just drop it. 1535 01:11:08,960 --> 01:11:11,640 Do you think that I did this to hurt you? 1536 01:11:11,760 --> 01:11:13,840 And then, at the final night drinks... 1537 01:11:13,960 --> 01:11:15,600 You're not understanding. 1538 01:11:15,720 --> 01:11:17,200 Mic dropped. See you later. 1539 01:11:17,320 --> 01:11:19,520 Tell me you don't accept my apology 1540 01:11:19,640 --> 01:11:21,040 or accept it and move on. 1541 01:11:21,160 --> 01:11:22,720 ..lingering group tension... 1542 01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:24,680 You two have both done wrong by me and my wife. 1543 01:11:24,800 --> 01:11:28,040 How! ..sends the retreat into turmoil. 1544 01:11:28,160 --> 01:11:29,320 Let's go. Bring it on. 1545 01:11:29,440 --> 01:11:30,600 I'm so sick of this. 1546 01:11:30,720 --> 01:11:33,520 You're the puppeteer. I'm the puppeteer? 1547 01:11:33,640 --> 01:11:35,760 I'm done being manipulated! No-one knows who you are. 1548 01:11:35,880 --> 01:11:37,400 Stop manipulating me! 1549 01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:40,440 Captioned by AI-Media ai-media.tv 118628

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