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DISTANT SCREAMS
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WOMAN: No! No! No! No!
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WOMAN: Unlocked. Please!
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PANICKED VOICES
Here!
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He tries once to kill himself
and then take her with him...
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Here.
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..and he fails.
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RAHEEL:
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Raheel attempted to commit suicide
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and take her out the window
with him.
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RAHEEL:
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So the next time,
he makes sure there's no mistake.
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He had one intention in mind
and that was to kill Sania.
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It kind of felt unbelievable
that someone so positive
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and liquid sunshine
can be just snuffed out.
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In South Asian households,
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even if there's oppressiveness
or abuse,
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women are told,
"Tough it out and stick with it."
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Well, Sania Khan's story
is known around the world.
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She was an avid photographer
and had gone viral on TikTok
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documenting her journey
getting out of an abusive marriage.
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She was absolutely
considering divorce at that point.
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Sania's messaging about her decision
to leave her abusive relationship
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was getting to about
a million people.
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It's naive to think that
he would not see those.
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They're a direct
and public humiliation of him.
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He's shown that he is capable
of being an extremely dangerous man.
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POLICE OFFICER:
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I felt that...
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my soul left my body.
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You know? Believe me.
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I felt that something
left me, you know?
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It came from here and then it left.
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It's July 17th, 2022,
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and it's the day before
I fly out to Chicago
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to see my best friend Sania -
Sania Khan -
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and we're going to move her home.
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I'm really excited
about moving home, dude.
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I'm really excited.
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We're gonna drive a U-Haul
down from Chicago
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and bring her into our home that
we rented and picked out together.
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But anyways, babe,
I will catch you later.
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Love you.
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She's excited
to come back to Chattanooga
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to start on a new foot.
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I was on a high.
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And I decide I wanna skate.
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Sania's booked my flight.
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I'm just getting
really giddy about seeing her.
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Sania is sending me voice memos.
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SANIA LAUGHS
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She doesn't wanna pack.
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She's way too excited,
she has way too much energy to pack.
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Seeing Chicago from the aeroplane,
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it was beautiful.
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I get on the train
not knowing where I'm going really.
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I know Sania lives in the main part
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of downtown Chicago.
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I'm a little nervous at this point.
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It's not like Sania
to leave me hanging.
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It really worries me.
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I'm trying to call Sania
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and I'm trying to sending, uh,
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send her a message.
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But, uh, she's not replying.
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I'm sending messages
to Sania's phone
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and I notice that her messages
are turning green instead of blue,
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which on an iPhone means
that she's not getting my messages.
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Either her phone is turned off,
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not charged,
or they're not being read somehow.
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Then I call my daughter, Eman.
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I get a message from my mom.
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She's worried that my sister's
not responding.
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I just kind of brush it off, um,
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because my mum is kind of known
to be a little over protective.
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So, Gabriella
is currently on the train...
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..and she sends me a screenshot
of a message
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from Sania's sister that says:
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"Do you happen to have Raheel's
phone number or Sania's address?
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"It's an emergency."
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And I'm thinking to myself,
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"Why are people
talking about Raheel right now?
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"Raheel's not supposed to be there.
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"They're going through a divorce."
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The point when a woman decides
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to leave a controlling man
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is the single most dangerous time
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in that woman's life.
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And that's the fear we have
on this night for Sania.
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I call 911 here in Chattanooga,
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they connect me to, um,
Chicago 911
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and I try to tell them that,
you know,
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I'm worried about my daughter,
I can't find her.
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I get the call from my mom...
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..and...
SHE SIGHS
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..all I hear is just screaming
and crying from her.
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That was the worst moment
in my life.
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SHAZIA: We moved to Chattanooga
in 2001.
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Sania was about eight.
Eman was four.
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We loved the weather
and my kids loved Chattanooga.
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Chattanooga, Tennessee
is a very small town
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in the Southern region of Tennessee,
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right on the border of Georgia.
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This was in Atlanta.
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Chattanooga
was Sania's favourite place.
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She was a very cute,
friendly, kind of bossy kid.
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She... she was the leader.
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She wanted to lead.
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She was happy, always dancing
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and she always
wanted to be in front of the camera.
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EMAN: Sania was everything
I wanted to be.
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She was my first role model.
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She was my first friend.
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I would say that
she's, like, the opposite of me.
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She's so extroverted.
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She just saw the good in everything.
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Honestly, I was so blessed
to have her as my sister.
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I felt so proud to be her sister.
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Sania and I met at school.
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Immediately felt like a best friend.
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I developed an interest
in playing in bands.
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And in doing photography
for those bands.
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She was also
getting into photography.
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# Five, six, eight. #
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She would take photos of me playing.
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Sania was excitable.
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She taught me
to let go a little bit,
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and have fun and be a girl
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and dress cute
and do all those things.
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Sania was a little rebellious
at teenage years.
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We struggled with her.
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She wanted to wear
whatever she wants to.
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Um, she wanted to go parties.
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It's hard to raise South Asian kids
here in this society.
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But we take our kids to the mosque,
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we show them our culture.
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Tinder was just becoming
a known thing,
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and, um,
I had come home from work one night
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and she said,
"Oh, I got on Tinder,
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"you should make one too."
Cos we were both single.
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And when she showed me Raheel
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she said,
"And I think I actually like him.
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"He's gonna go to medical school.
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"He's got a great family".
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And that's what she was looking for.
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When she started dating Raheel,
um, she felt pretty excited
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because she knew that her parents
were going to love him.
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South Asians still view marriage
as a means for upward mobility,
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safety and security,
particularly for the woman.
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That's why when you meet somebody
who's perfect on paper,
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say they were becoming a doctor,
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they're the same religion as you,
even from the same community as you,
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that's somebody
you wanna hold on to.
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But Raheel was not what he seemed.
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There was a bunch of lies and deceit
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that he kept hidden
beneath the surface that was just...
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..uh, matter of time
before it all came out.
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POLICE RADIO CHAT
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DISTANT SCREAMS
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WOMAN: No, no, no, no!
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Please!
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Unlocked. Please.
PANICKED VOICES
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Here.
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In the beginning of December 2021,
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Raheel was on medication.
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He started getting very,
very stressed out
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because of studying,
because of medical school.
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I think he was not making
very good grades.
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So they put him
on the anti-depressants.
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He attempted to kill himself and her
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by throwing them both out
the 20th-floor apartment.
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'They then secure Raheel
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'and then he was transported
to Northwestern Hospital
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'where he received
in-patient treatment
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'over the next three weeks.'
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My very first impression of Raheel
was he's got aspirations,
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he's brown,
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he's handsome.
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They have, like,
meshing personalities.
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Like, everything
just seemed perfect.
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Raheel had said
that he is from Alpharetta
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which is just outside of Atlanta,
Georgia.
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And it's-it's known
that people from that area
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are upstanding families
and individuals.
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Sania was not one to chase a man
because of his money.
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But him presenting himself
in that light,
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of course,
that looks comfortable
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and that looks safe
for the long-term.
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Sania was in Chattanooga,
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Raheel was two hours away.
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So the times that
they shared together were short
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and based in fun.
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SHAZIA: I'd met Raheel
and, um, he seems like a good boy.
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Uh, he was respectful,
he was, uh, charming, happy
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and he said
that he was gonna be a doctor.
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He had two sisters, Mom,
he didn't have a dad and, uh,
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most of all he knew Urdu.
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Obviously he knew the culture.
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We used to go to, uh,
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amusement parks together.
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And honestly, at the time,
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um, I thought he was a good fit
for Sania.
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In 2015, Sania graduated
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with a double major
in women's studies and psychology
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from the University of Tennessee
at Chattanooga.
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But the one real passion
Sania had from when we were kids
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was always photography.
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TIA: The very first time I met Sania
was our first day of school.
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And she talked
about how she loved photography.
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She was planning on
doing it professionally.
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I became a flight attendant
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and I was just telling her
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how she could be a flight attendant
and do photoshoots
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at the same time.
She could do that everywhere.
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So she ended up
being a flight attendant
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and did that for a while.
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She could travel and she could
have photoshoots with people
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in all these different places.
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And just live that adventurous life.
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SHAZIA: And then she realised
that she wanna do photography
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as a profession.
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As she evolved in her photography,
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she just got better
and better and better...
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..and she was able to display that
on her social medias.
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And she leaned
into South Asian weddings
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and engagements and parties
and she just took off.
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As a person of colour,
there's not much photographers
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that even understand
how to take pictures
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and get lighting and things right
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for our skin tone.
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So she really wanted
to focus on that
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and it inspired a lot of people.
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I knew of Sania,
I lived across the street.
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I would see her around
doing photography at events.
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I think with
the rise of social media
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it's becoming way more common
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for a woman
to become a photographer.
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Especially within
the South Asian community.
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She got into photography, TikTok.
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Now, TikTok's a platform
where people can...
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People realise that they can
get on it and be themselves.
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They don't have
to put themselves in a box.
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Some women, who are models,
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actually prefer a woman
who's a photographer
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rather than a male...
within the South Asian community.
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Every single post would have...
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It was, like,
basically a journal entry.
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You could tell that
she spent her time writing those.
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Part of Sania's personality
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was being a very generous,
giving person.
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A lot of people
safeguard their knowledge,
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but Sania wanted to share tips
and tricks
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and didn't see anybody
as a competition
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or something to be beat.
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I'm a make-up artist and Sania
was an incredible photographer.
256
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And we were so excited
to create art together.
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That was our dream was to travel
and do travel photoshoots.
258
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It got to a point
where she realised, "Yeah,
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"this could be my goal."
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Then this could be
her long-term career.
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During that time
Raheel was studying for the MCAT,
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which is the big test
to get into medical school.
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Romantically, personally,
things were still the same.
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They're only having weekends away.
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No big, firm plans for the future.
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She was beginning
to ask him questions
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about, "Well,
when are we gonna get married?"
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And he would tell her,
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"Oh, well, after I graduate
from medical school."
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Or, "After I pass the MCAT."
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But none of those things
were happening.
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He wasn't able to pass the MCAT.
273
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And Sania started
to doubt the future.
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But it turns out Raheel's
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not gonna be able to make
medical school.
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He is going to settle instead
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for a physician's assistant
programme.
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She gave him the ultimatum
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of we need
to take this next step forward,
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and it seemed like he wasn't ready
to take that step so they had...
281
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..a brief break-up.
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And I believe that is when
he decided...
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..that they
were gonna get engaged.
284
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The ring?
Yeah, again.
285
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In the video of the ring,
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Sania was excited to have
this amazing future with him.
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But the reality
of their relationship was...
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was different.
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The first time I knew
there was something going on
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was when she wanted to talk
she was like, "Hold on..."
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And would go outside
to talk on the phone.
292
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So that's when I was noticing,
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"Why? Why are you
leaving the room?"
294
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She was like,
"Oh, I don't wanna bother him.
295
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"He's studying or something."
296
00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:53,200
But I said, "This is, like,
borderline controlling".
297
00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:58,720
We were all hanging out
and he decided to FaceTime her.
298
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And I just didn't love
the way he spoke to her.
299
00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:04,160
It did feel like more of a check-in,
300
00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:06,600
like, "Hey, what are you doing,
what are you up to?"
301
00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:10,480
And there was a lot of red flags,
I would say.
302
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In South Asian households
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conflict arises when women are told
that even if there's, uh,
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oppressiveness or abuse
within that household,
305
00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:22,880
they're just told to tough it out
and stick with it.
306
00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:25,360
Men are given
the sense of entitlement
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00:19:25,360 --> 00:19:27,080
over their female counterparts
308
00:19:27,080 --> 00:19:31,360
because they're seen
as sort of this bread winner.
309
00:19:31,360 --> 00:19:34,080
Despite everything,
shortly after the engagement
310
00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:38,080
Sania throws herself into preparing
for that big, fat Pakistani wedding.
311
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I wanted to have a good wedding
for my daughter.
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So this is the house
where I lived five years and, uh,
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it's a beautiful house.
314
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And Sania did not want me
to do it.
315
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But then I had no choice,
and obviously I had to downsize.
316
00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:07,960
South Asian weddings
is a competition.
317
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It's all about
who can throw the bigger wedding.
318
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It always gets more grand
and extravagant and lavish.
319
00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:18,800
The run-up to the wedding,
and she was just worried about
320
00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:22,280
how the family's gonna behave
and everything.
321
00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:25,480
It comes with a lot of stress
to plan these weddings.
322
00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:28,800
And the last thing you want
is for anything to go wrong.
323
00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:32,200
Her wedding was actually
the talk of the town.
324
00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:39,120
Yeah, the wedding took place in, um,
Hyatt Regency, Atlanta.
325
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It's right in the middle
of downtown.
326
00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:43,320
She was so stressed out.
327
00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:45,920
She was getting mad for no reason.
328
00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:48,520
She thought that
everything's gonna be messed up.
329
00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:49,720
The wedding itself,
330
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it was the most beautiful thing
I have ever seen
331
00:20:53,120 --> 00:20:54,760
in my entire life.
332
00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:57,720
There were...
The lighting was so nice.
333
00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:59,680
Flowers everywhere.
334
00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:03,720
Her dress was gorgeous,
335
00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:07,680
hand-crafted just for her, um,
shipped from overseas.
336
00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:10,960
Everything was perfect.
337
00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:13,200
But about halfway through
338
00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:17,880
we see Raheel
stand up with his sword
339
00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:19,720
and stamp it down into the ground
340
00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:22,320
with a really, like,
mean, angry look on his face.
341
00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:23,760
He liked to have a sword.
342
00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:26,760
South Asian culture,
the groom have a sword.
343
00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:29,320
Sania's dad was supposed
to be sitting next to her,
344
00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,880
but her uncle
was sitting next to her.
345
00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:36,280
And Raheel had some beef
with the dad and the uncle.
346
00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:37,640
Raheel got really mad.
347
00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:42,920
His eyes were, like, really, uh,
wide open and red and, you know,
348
00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:45,120
and he was holding the sword
349
00:21:45,120 --> 00:21:48,080
and he was just pushing it
up and down like this.
350
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:53,600
But then later on, Sania told me
that he was mentally unstable.
351
00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:57,440
So he was not able
to control his anger.
352
00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:09,840
So the move to Chicago
happened right after the wedding.
353
00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:15,440
He got selected for Northwestern,
which is a very prestigious college.
354
00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:29,840
They found an apartment
in the city area of Chicago.
355
00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:31,960
She thought
it was gonna be the big dream,
356
00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:34,920
but they were struggling
financially.
357
00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:38,400
Didn't seem like they were
living the, the young, hip,
358
00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:41,000
fresh couple in the city.
359
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,160
It didn't seem like that at all.
360
00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:52,520
They started having problems
November, December of that year.
361
00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:55,240
We would kind of FaceTime together
362
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:57,280
and Raheel was never there.
363
00:22:57,280 --> 00:23:01,520
He was always, uh, studying
and Sania was always bored.
364
00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:03,560
And lonely.
365
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,800
Several things were unravelling.
366
00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:11,840
Sania is...
was massively independent
367
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:16,880
and was beautiful
at hitting her stride
368
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:18,880
and marching to the beat
of her own drum.
369
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,760
She was still wanting to wear
what she wanted to wear to go out
370
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:23,920
and have her successful business.
371
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:27,880
And for somebody like him
that'd be a very frustrating thing.
372
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:34,680
On top of the fact that
he's failing at his life goal
373
00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:37,280
of becoming this upstanding doctor.
374
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:41,400
It all came to a head
when he hit a mental break
375
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:43,960
and attempted suicide.
376
00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:49,160
RAHEEL: None of this is real.
377
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:55,680
SANIA: Yeah, he's been doing...
Oh...
378
00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:58,960
Raheel tried to jump out the window
379
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:03,680
and he tried to either
take Sania with him or push her out.
380
00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:07,480
I'm like, "If he's that crazy
you need to leave now,
381
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:09,800
"don't wait, get out of there."
382
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:12,240
OK, there you go, right there.
383
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:26,320
July 2022,
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00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:30,080
things between Sania Khan and her
estranged husband Raheel Ahmad
385
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:31,320
are coming to a head.
386
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:38,560
Sania is planning to move
out of her apartment in Chicago
387
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:41,560
and make the drive back home
to Chattanooga with her friend.
388
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:47,000
Raheel Ahmad visits his mother
in Alpharetta, Georgia.
389
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:50,120
His sister thinks that Raheel seems
a little depressed this day.
390
00:24:50,120 --> 00:24:53,440
But he's been on his medication so
she doesn't worry about it too much.
391
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:58,040
This is the point
when Raheel lies to his family.
392
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:01,720
He says he's headed east to Virginia
for a hiking trip with friends.
393
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:05,840
But he does not go east,
394
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,440
instead he travels north
towards Chicago.
395
00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:14,080
From social media, Raheel knew
that this was Sania's last night
396
00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:15,760
in Chicago.
397
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:17,640
That meant that this was
the last night
398
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:20,640
that he could get to Sania alone
before she moved back to Chattanooga
399
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,040
and the safety net
of her family and friends.
400
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:28,040
Raheel's sister realised,
at noon on the 18th,
401
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:30,200
that he had stopped sharing
his location
402
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:32,600
through the Find My Friends app.
403
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:35,440
That Raheel is now in Indianapolis.
404
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:38,800
And Indianapolis is seven
to eight hours north of Georgia,
405
00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:41,800
and three hours south of Chicago.
406
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:45,000
There's a lot of time
to think about it,
407
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:50,440
to pull over, to turn around,
to call somebody.
408
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:59,120
He had her wedding dress with him
and he had that gun in his backpack.
409
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,720
Based on
my prosecutorial background,
410
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:05,400
and there was no doubt
in my mind,
411
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:08,640
that when he made that long trip
from Georgia to Chicago
412
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:11,400
he had one intention in mind,
413
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:13,480
and that was to kill Sania.
414
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:34,200
Raheel was in the psych ward
after his suicide attempt.
415
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:40,160
Sania was still trying to make sense
of what just happened.
416
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:42,840
She was still in Chicago,
by herself, in the apartment.
417
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:48,800
I was very seriously
just begging her to,
418
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:50,640
"You've gotta get out of there.
419
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:52,760
"You need to leave,
you need to just come home."
420
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:56,560
This was a traumatic,
stressful thing,
421
00:26:56,560 --> 00:27:03,600
but she also had a strong desire
to be a wife
422
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:09,880
and part of that wife role is
to be there to support your husband.
423
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,440
And I think she thought
that she was the only woman
424
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:14,080
who could help save Raheel.
425
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:17,280
She did go
and have a visit with him.
426
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:22,040
He confessed to Sania that
he had been cheating on her.
427
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:24,520
Even before they were engaged.
428
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:27,440
When she told me that
I was like, "What?"
429
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:32,000
Like, he cheated on you
before the wedding.
430
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,920
When he acted like
he loved you so much.
431
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,400
He had also lied about his age.
432
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:50,000
Initially, when matching on Tinder
it displays your age
433
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:54,760
and his age that was displayed
was similar to her age.
434
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:59,120
But it-it turned out
that he was lying about his age
435
00:27:59,120 --> 00:28:00,560
from the beginning.
436
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:07,160
He made a fake profile of her,
a lesbian profile.
437
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:11,920
Using her images, posing as her,
438
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:16,560
trying to pursue women as Sania.
439
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:20,760
It was just really big moment
for her.
440
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:23,440
She was absolutely
considering divorce at that point.
441
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:24,600
How could you not?
442
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:30,560
Sania had actually seen me
going through a divorce
443
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:35,440
so she knew that, in our culture,
how divorce is perceived.
444
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:38,240
I've seen the backlash
from community.
445
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:39,880
She was double minded, you know?
446
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:41,320
She didn't know what to do.
447
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,280
But then she did make a decision
448
00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:47,160
that she's not gonna be
living with him.
449
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,120
Sania had realised
she can actually be very vulnerable
450
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:06,920
and open about
your own personal life on TikTok.
451
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:08,920
She started talking about
her marriage,
452
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:10,880
her separation, her divorce.
453
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,080
People were connecting
with her message
454
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:15,280
in a way
that doesn't usually happen.
455
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:17,680
Not at least
in the South Asian community.
456
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:39,840
I just remember the first one
that blew up, and she was like,
457
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:41,360
"Dude, people are looking at this.
458
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:43,920
"That's crazy, like I just...
I made this."
459
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:53,600
She told me, "Jess, you know I was
gonna make photography content,
460
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:55,000
"but this is what the people want.
461
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:59,240
"So I'm gonna start making
divorce content, too."
462
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:02,120
People were saying,
"What is she doing?
463
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:04,120
"I mean, why is she so open
about her divorce?
464
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:06,320
"Why is she talking about it
so much?"
465
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:11,680
She became almost like
a motivational inspiration,
466
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:15,360
a rock star. Just super woman.
467
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:19,160
At one point, Sania's messaging
about her decision to leave
468
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:23,080
her abusive relationship was
getting to about a million people.
469
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:24,520
Her reach was incredible.
470
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,080
And she's a trailblazer
in this area.
471
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:29,720
Not only is she getting supporters
for her work
472
00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:33,240
she's also drawing a lot criticism
from the community at this time.
473
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:38,400
She created a back-up page,
474
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:41,880
like a secret page
where she could be comfortable
475
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:45,880
that her family wouldn't find,
and she could be free to say and do
476
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,000
what she wanted on that page.
477
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:52,520
But somewhere down the line,
her family found the page
478
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:56,320
and they were disgusted with her,
to say the least.
479
00:30:56,320 --> 00:31:01,000
When she was posting on TikTok
she was wearing, uh,
480
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:03,680
clothes that I don't approve of,
you know?
481
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:11,360
She always liked to get dressed up
482
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:17,040
and she wouldn't dress
incredibly scandalously,
483
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:21,360
but she would dress in a way
that showcased her assets.
484
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:23,360
You see women
from all walks of life,
485
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:25,480
South Asian women
from around the globe
486
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:27,680
starting to leave messages for Sania
487
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:29,960
thanking her
for the work that she's doing.
488
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:33,280
Thanking her for being brutally raw
and brutally honest.
489
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:41,720
After things had been
finally decided
490
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,040
that she was moving on,
491
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:48,040
she made the decision
to move back to Chattanooga.
492
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:54,800
When first she told me
that she's coming to Chattanooga,
493
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:56,480
I did not like the idea.
494
00:31:56,480 --> 00:32:00,440
And I told her that it would kill me
if she had gone through
495
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:03,000
the same thing
that I had gone through.
496
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:04,640
I would be in so much pain.
497
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:07,240
Raheel came back to visit Sania
498
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:09,840
to maintain closure
of the relationship.
499
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,200
He did some sinister activity
around the house,
500
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:14,360
taking the keys,
taking her wedding ring.
501
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:17,200
So Sania no longer felt safe
in her surrounding.
502
00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:19,360
It-it upset her, for sure.
503
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:27,520
Two months after the attack,
on February 8th,
504
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:29,760
she officially filed for divorce.
505
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:33,280
The moment that a woman decides
to leave a relationship
506
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:35,640
is the most dangerous time for her.
507
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:48,520
As a lawyer working with
abused women, I can tell you
508
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,560
Sania was doing everything
that she's supposed to do.
509
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:54,480
She got a restraining order,
she changed the locks,
510
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:56,360
and she got his name
taken off the lease.
511
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:58,120
But I really wanted her to leave.
512
00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:00,480
She visited me in April.
513
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:04,560
We loved playing really loud music
and dancing,
514
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:08,440
and singing together all the time,
and we just had a blast.
515
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,000
We're going to be
travelling together,
516
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:18,840
we're gonna go to California
together.
517
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:20,840
We've so many photos from that,
that whole week.
518
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:26,200
It was probably the best week
of our lives.
519
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:28,400
The divorce has been filed for.
520
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:37,560
Part of that graduation to her
new life was getting her tattoo.
521
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:41,600
JESS: She got it
on her 29th birthday.
522
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:46,720
Roman numerals for 28,
to represent what she said
523
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:49,920
was the hardest year of her life -
her 28th year.
524
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:52,440
And also, um,
that she lived on the 28th floor
525
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:54,360
in her Chicago apartment building.
526
00:33:57,680 --> 00:34:00,640
And meanwhile, Raheel Ahmad
is back home in Alpharetta, Georgia.
527
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:05,320
To Raheel, Sania's TikToks would
have been intensely provocative.
528
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:08,320
It's naive to think
that he would not see those.
529
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:13,800
MARIA: They're a direct
and public humiliation of him.
530
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:23,360
He's already given Sania a warning
with the attempt at murder/suicide.
531
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:27,720
He's shown that he is capable
of being an extremely dangerous man.
532
00:34:27,720 --> 00:34:31,680
Face my fear. I never faced my fear.
533
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:47,840
REPORTER: Sania Khan was found dead
in her Chicago apartment,
534
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:50,920
shot to death by her ex-husband.
535
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:00,640
There's closed connection video
536
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:03,560
that captures Raheel Ahmad
walking through
537
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:06,760
the apartment complex front doors
at approximately 9.30am.
538
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:12,000
I told her, "Don't be alone
in that apartment
539
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:15,280
"cos that's where he used to live,
like, he knows your location."
540
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:18,120
As he enters the building,
he meets a rental agent
541
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:20,280
who's there to show him
different properties.
542
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:21,840
They enter the elevator.
543
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:23,960
Raheel's carrying
two suspicious items.
544
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:27,000
One's the backpack,
which we know carries the hand gun.
545
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:30,200
The second is a hang bag,
which has Sania's wedding dress.
546
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:33,280
He gets off the 27th floor.
547
00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:36,120
He's told the real estate agents
that he was gonna stay
548
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:38,400
in the apartment complex
to see friends.
549
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:40,160
And what I notice,
as a prosecutor,
550
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:43,360
is that when he got off
the 27th floor elevator,
551
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:45,480
his backpack was behind him.
552
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:47,760
But then when he got
back on the elevator,
553
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:49,800
the backpack was now
in front of him.
554
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:55,360
And criminals try and make
their crimes as easy as possible.
555
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:59,360
Raheel wanted to put
the book bag in front of him
556
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:01,880
and then have the gun
easily accessible
557
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:04,600
so that when he got off
on the 28th floor,
558
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:07,920
made his way to Sania's apartment
and gained entry,
559
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:10,960
he could draw that weapon quickly
and hold her at bay.
560
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:17,360
In Alpharetta, Georgia,
561
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:19,760
Raheel's sister receives an email
from Raheel.
562
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:23,120
In it, Raheel says that he's
going to reimburse their mom back
563
00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:25,400
for the money she spent
on his tuition.
564
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:27,400
Immediately she calls Raheel,
565
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:30,000
but when she can't get through
to him, she calls 911.
566
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:31,960
An officer in Alpharetta, Georgia,
567
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,920
pings Raheel's location
on his cell phone.
568
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:37,400
The cell phone ping itself
has limited accuracy,
569
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:43,840
but Raheel is within 200 feet
of Sania's address at the apartment.
570
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:54,800
BANG
571
00:36:59,720 --> 00:37:03,680
That single gun shot was Raheel
shooting himself in the head.
572
00:37:12,240 --> 00:37:18,240
As they gained entry, you can see
Sania's lifeless body on the floor
573
00:37:18,240 --> 00:37:20,600
with a pool of blood near her.
574
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:25,000
Raheel is seated up with
a single gunshot wound to his head
575
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:26,200
and a gun in his hand.
576
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,600
Medical personnel responded.
577
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:34,920
He was transported, ultimately,
to the hospital
578
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:36,360
where he was pronounced dead.
579
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:45,240
GABRIELLA: I'm sitting on the train
into the city to see her.
580
00:37:45,240 --> 00:37:46,680
We're going to move her home.
581
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:54,880
And a few of her friends,
they call me via Instagram.
582
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:59,400
One of them sounds
very, very scared.
583
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:02,280
She received a message on Instagram
584
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:09,240
from what we believe
is one of Sania's neighbours
585
00:38:09,240 --> 00:38:12,880
saying how sorry she is
about our friend.
586
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:17,200
And, at this point,
we're all freaking out.
587
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:18,600
All of us.
588
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:24,840
We start googling stuff
because we-we want answers.
589
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:30,120
And we see that a news report
has come up on her block,
590
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:34,680
but not at her apartment,
reporting a shooting.
591
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:38,520
Sania's father... calls me.
592
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:42,360
He says, I think, something
in the deep part of my soul
593
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:45,920
that I kind of already knew
at this point.
594
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:49,440
He tells me
that there's been an accident
595
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:54,840
and that Sania has been shot
in her apartment.
596
00:38:57,400 --> 00:39:00,800
I'm just counting the seconds
till I can get off of this bus
597
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,120
and just lose my mind and breakdown.
598
00:39:04,720 --> 00:39:10,000
And I get off the bus
and I just collapse to the pavement
599
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:14,040
with my suitcase and everything
and I just... I'm crying.
600
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:20,480
And not a normal cry, just, uh...
601
00:39:24,720 --> 00:39:29,520
..it was so, uh, I was so mes...
602
00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:33,720
I am so messed up
that cars are stopping
603
00:39:33,720 --> 00:39:35,800
and asking me if I'm OK.
604
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:38,360
And I'm not.
605
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,480
I get the call from my mom.
606
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:48,560
She, like, screams, "Sania's dead."
607
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:50,680
Like, we're all crying.
608
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:55,160
I felt that my soul
left my body, you know?
609
00:39:55,160 --> 00:40:00,160
Believe me, I felt
that something left me, you know?
610
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:04,280
It came from here
and then it left from my body.
611
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:08,360
And all of a sudden I felt so weak.
612
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:11,040
I've never felt, ever, this before.
613
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:14,680
And I'm, like, so confused.
614
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:17,560
I didn't know what to do.
615
00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:21,560
I was so alone
and I had to go to sleep alone...
616
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,160
..knowing that my sister...
617
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:32,080
..has gone
and, like, I couldn't do anything.
618
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:35,080
It's the worst day of my life.
619
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:41,360
Raheel left a suicide note.
620
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:44,600
I wanna read part of it for you.
He stated,
621
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:47,360
"I'd come to give her
the wedding dress and the gun
622
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:50,320
"for safety, since she was living
in Chicago by herself.
623
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:52,600
"She and I had a good time together
and laughed."
624
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:53,880
"And for dramatic effect,
625
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:55,720
"to convince her
to get back together,
626
00:40:55,720 --> 00:40:57,640
"I just put the gun to my head
and said,
627
00:40:57,640 --> 00:40:59,560
"What's the point of living
without you?"
628
00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:02,400
"But she tried to take it away
from me, and it went off.
629
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:04,800
"I can't live with myself
630
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:07,400
"knowing me being here
caused this accident."
631
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:09,200
"I'm so sorry."
632
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:11,000
Sounds like bullshit.
633
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:17,360
MOLLY: There's no justice
to be had here
634
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:20,000
because he ended it for himself.
635
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:23,760
Makes me sick to my stomach.
It still does.
636
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:28,920
Massive amounts of anger
and frustration
637
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:31,680
of, "How could you?"
638
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,720
And the fact that he sat
in that apartment
639
00:41:34,720 --> 00:41:37,000
for a while with her...
640
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:40,440
..I can't... I can't
wrap my head around it.
641
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:44,200
The question is why did he have
her wedding dress that day?
642
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:48,600
Normal reason would be he was gonna
use that token of their love
643
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:52,800
and wedding to try and rekindle
some type of relationship.
644
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:56,760
But my experience, as a prosecutor,
murderers often use tokens
645
00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:59,600
or clothing
in order to mark their territory
646
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:02,760
or have some symbolic gesture
in their act.
647
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:05,480
And I thought to myself
that there's a possibility
648
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:08,400
that he wanted to dress her
in that wedding dress
649
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:11,720
after he had committed this
horrible crime of murdering her.
650
00:42:11,720 --> 00:42:14,080
Um, but, uh, we'll never know.
651
00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:17,640
After her death,
I went on her TikTok.
652
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:19,280
Comments were exploding.
653
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:20,760
All of a sudden it became,
654
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:24,400
"Why weren't we listening to someone
who was talking about her struggles
655
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:27,640
"and saying that she needed help,
was crying for help?"
656
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:30,520
And nobody... nobody listened
up until the point that she died,
657
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:33,120
and then everyone is saying,
"Why didn't we listen?"
658
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:35,800
Her message
is really connecting with women
659
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:38,640
and South Asian women
are flocking to her page
660
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:39,960
to share their experience
661
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:43,720
and to thank her
for sharing her story.
662
00:42:43,720 --> 00:42:45,760
And these women
are from all walks of life
663
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:47,200
and from all across the world.
664
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:48,760
The whole thing went viral.
665
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:01,520
So, after her death,
666
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:04,440
me and several of
her other close friends,
667
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:06,960
um, decided that
we wanted to get something
668
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:10,360
that would bind us together
and also honour Sania.
669
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:13,200
So we all got the matching tattoo.
670
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:24,240
Many of her friends
got the same tattoo
671
00:43:24,240 --> 00:43:27,960
that she had gotten,
which was on her arm.
672
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:32,480
Everyone got roman numerals - 28.
673
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:34,640
Except for me.
674
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:37,720
I got 29.
675
00:43:37,720 --> 00:43:41,000
Because 29 was supposed to be
our year.
676
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:43,640
It was the year we didn't get.
677
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:15,560
Sania loved her mom so much.
678
00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:19,960
No-one knows. She was
the best daughter, believe me.
679
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:22,480
She wanted me to be happy.
680
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:24,440
She didn't wanna die.
681
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:26,080
She wanted to live.
682
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:31,000
She was actually really excited
to be coming back to Chattanooga.
683
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:36,320
And, uh, she wanted to continue
her photography.
684
00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:39,880
She wanted to find love again.
685
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:45,640
And me, Eman, we are
really proud of you, Sania.
686
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:47,040
We miss you.
687
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:51,320
Love you so much.
688
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:12,520
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