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(KNOCK AT DOOR)
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(SCREAMING)
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NARRATOR: A visit from their family
and friends...
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Have you two said, "I love you?"
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I think he has to say it first.
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..gave our couples
fresh perspective.
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She's like this on Steve
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and Steve's just sitting there
like this.
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NARRATOR: And saw Rachel
and Steven deepen their bond.
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A beautiful tea
for a beautiful girl.
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NARRATOR: Tyson 2.0.
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Bring it in.
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Advice from the experts
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gave his marriage
a much needed boost.
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TYSON: I could stand here
for another three minutes.
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NARRATOR: But the final
crash course task...
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Gay guys coming up to me,
I don't like that.
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..saw he and Stephanie clash.
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Do you like gay people?
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I'm not gay myself, you know?
Each to their own. But, um...
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(LAUGHS) Yeah, I hope so.
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What I need more from you is...
space.
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The eye gaze.
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NARRATOR: And following
a disastrous move-in week...
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You don't see the star in me.
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You don't see the light in me.
See the star in you?
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It's a metaphor.
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'Cause it's a performance.
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NARRATOR: ..Juliet vented her rage
at Joel at a fiery dinner party...
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Very disgusted by him.
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I'm not... I'm not married to a man.
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I actually like the teddy
more than I like Joel.
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The teddy is not...
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Oh my god.
Oh.
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JOHN: I am absolutely disgusted.
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NARRATOR: Tonight...
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Welcome, everybody,
to the fourth commitment ceremony.
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..love is in the air.
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My husband told me last night.
"You look sexy".
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NARRATOR: Our couples continue
to make significant progress.
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We shared our first pash
thanks to you guys.
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We love a pash.
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So, what's the issue with the words
if the feelings are there?
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NARRATOR: Filip's moment of truth.
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The man has to say it first.
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That's a Puerto Rican opinion, too.
I get it.
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Yeah, yeah.
Yes, yes.
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Yeah. (LAUGHS)
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NARRATOR: Is this the night
he drops those magic words?
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First of all,
I'm not against gay people.
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I just feel like that whole topic
can... can really be pushed on us.
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NARRATOR: Tyson's
unfiltered opinions...
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I don't think you have much empathy.
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..cause tension amongst the group.
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Having awareness
is not pushing anything on you.
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But is this the hill
he is willing to die on?
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I'm done with this experiment.
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What?
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NARRATOR: And...
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All we are hearing are excuses.
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..sorry seems to be
the hardest word.
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You were giving me devil eyes.
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You should apologise to me.
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NARRATOR: Juliet's version of events
leaves the whole room speechless.
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I certainly understand
what that means.
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I feel like I had--
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Are you even listening
to what I'm saying?
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Don't speak over Alessandra.
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Show some respect.
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(THEME MUSIC)
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(WONDROUS MUSIC)
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It hurts.
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What's with the face?
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Are you sneezing
or having an orgasm?
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What's happening?
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(LAUGHING) Hey.
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NARRATOR: It's the morning
of the fourth commitment ceremony.
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Alright. Here, give me a cuddle.
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(KISSING)
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STEPHANIE: How's that coffee?
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TYSON: It's alright. Like,
I'm drink... I'm drinking it.
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(LAUGHS)
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Another week.
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NARRATOR: Following a successful
Family and Friends Week,
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for Rachel and Steven,
the pair are on cloud nine.
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STEVE: Thanks for the pancakes.
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You're very welcome.
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Coffee soothes the soul.
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(EXHALES)
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I don't think there's much
to soothe this morning, though.
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NARRATOR: Their family
and friends lunch
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was a huge step forward
for the couple,
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with Steven receiving some much
needed advice from his family
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about his levels of affection
towards Rachel.
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I feel like when
I was sitting there,
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She's like this on Steve
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and Steve's just sitting here
like this.
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Yes.
Like, come on, dude.
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She obviously is really into you.
Let your wall down a little bit.
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NARRATOR: And equipped
with Mum's words of wisdom,
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Steven is now seeing
Rachel in a whole new light.
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RACHEL (VOICE OVER): Steve and I...
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I feel like we've just shot
forward in our relationship
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in a really great way.
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Like, last night
when we were going to bed,
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Steven was so happy.
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Flirty, fun.
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It was delightful.
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(LAUGHS) That was a bit funny.
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STEVEN (VOICE OVER):
It's amazing what you...
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when you just have a glass of wine
and you talk for a few hours,
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how you can feel about someone.
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Or you just have a little moment
of bantering and you go,
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"Wow, you're awesome".
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(LAUGHS)
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Well, I think we've had the best
week we've had, to be honest.
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Yeah.
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You know, that's why I'm sort
of really looking forward
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to the commitment ceremony.
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I want John to be, like,
"Yeah, good on you, mate".
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(LAUGHS)
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NARRATOR: Despite Rachel
and Steven's positivity,
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last night's dinner party
left many of the couples reeling
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as tensions between Juliette
and Joel reached breaking point.
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Giving loser.
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You see the way she speaks to me?
This is how it is.
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JULIETTE: I mean, right now,
I'm like, disgusted.
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That's actually not..
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I'm not married to a man,
is what we're trying to say.
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I actually like the teddy
more than I like Joel.
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ALISSA: Joel and Juliette.
That was a disaster.
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It was. It was chaos. That was bad.
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The way they communicated
was horrible.
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Oh, my god.
Just to be honest.
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Last night, I felt really sorry
for Joel.
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Yeah.
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For her to just disrespect him
like that in front of a whole group.
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I think was out of order.
Yeah.
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Yeah. Yep. No I agree.
..to be honest.
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She was nasty.
She was so nasty to him.
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Yeah. And like, he was never, ever,
ever disrespectful last night.
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He didn't even say to her,
you know,
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"Your braids at the front
of your head are stupid".
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Like, he didn't say anything.
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I reckon the experts are going
to have a bit to say to Juliette.
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Yeah, she's going to get more heat
than a sauna.
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Yeah, but I think she's going
to have a lot of regret,
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to be honest with you.
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Good.
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I felt bad for Joel.
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For him to be attacked that badly
by his partner...
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that would be tough.
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I hope he's OK.
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NARRATOR: Waking up alone,
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The effects of Juliette's words
are taking their toll
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on husband, Joel.
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JOEL: Yeah.
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Feeling a bit dazed
and confused and perplexed.
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And my heart is hurting.
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NARRATOR: The biggest impact
coming from Juliette
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being adamant that Joel
declared himself the star
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of 'Married at First Sight'.
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You're getting all of that from me?
I'm getting a performance.
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No, you're not...
I'm getting a performance.
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You don't understand me.
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OK . I'm going to give you--
You don't see the star in me.
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You don't see the light in me.
See the star in you?
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Yeah.
Yeah, literally.
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Because it's a performance!
It's a... it's a metaphor.
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'Cause it's a performance.
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He looked at me, like,
deadpan me in the eyes and said,
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"Well, I'm the star".
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Juliette has behaved appallingly.
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I came into this experiment
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with an open heart
and an open mind,
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and it's very clear
that we have hit rock bottom.
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Um.
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I'm not really feeling good about
seeing Juliette at the moment.
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The way Juliette is treating me
right now,
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it makes me feel less than.
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And it makes me feel
like I'm not valued.
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So, things have to change, for sure.
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Going into this commitment
ceremony...
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I really hope that Juliette
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has been able to reflect
on her behaviour.
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I'm hoping that Juliette
can apologise to me.
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Yeah.
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I don't deserve
to be treated like this.
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Everyone's got their limit
and I'm close to mine.
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NARRATOR: Down the hall
in a separate apartment,
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Juliette remains convinced
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that Joel said
he was the star of show
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and questions his authenticity
in the experiment.
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Well, yeah. I'm not apologising
for last night. No way.
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What I saw of Joel
at the dinner party,
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I was completely disgusted by.
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Eww. Um...
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Um, he just completely gaslit me
in front of the whole entire group
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and then tried to create
a smear campaign
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to paint me out
to be some crazy bitch.
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And by the way,
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you're going to get crazy bitch
when you're giving me crazy bitch.
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Idiot.
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I think my anger was fair...
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for what I was faced with.
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Yeah, so, tonight,
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I'm hoping the experts
see Joel for what he truly is.
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He wants to be perceived as,
like, the star of the damn show.
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And he was not giving stardom.
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He was giving loser.
He was giving mini poop.
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He was not behaving like a man.
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He was behaving like
a scared little boy...
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who didn't have
his teddy bear with him.
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NARRATOR: This morning,
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the atmosphere is tense
in Stephanie and Tyson's apartment..
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with Stephanie feeling
a growing distance
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between her and husband, Tyson.
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Just a few little things that have,
like, been bottling up, I suppose.
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I'm a bit upset by some
of his comments,
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some of his views on things,
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like, the whole submissive topic
and this whole submissive role
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that Tyson says he wants,
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which he brought up again last night
at the dinner party.
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Like, I look at it this way,
I'm the provider, I'm the protector.
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Like, I'm the one
that's bringing in the money.
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I'm the one that's protecting
for my family.
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And my wife should stay home,
you know, cook, clean,
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look after my kids.
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She can't multi-task
with three kids.
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Like, she needs
to focus on the kids.
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Who says that can't?
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Like...
My husband.
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My husband says I can't.
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He's the most (BLEEP) rigid man
I've ever met in my life.
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But every time I have spoken up,
he's always like,
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"So, listen, Steph.
This is how it is, Steph".
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So, I feel like I'm somewhat
suppressing my emotions
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in order to not have arguments
with Tyson.
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How did you feel...
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like we went last night?
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Um, I feel like we went pretty good.
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Mm.
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Um, it's really good just to,
I don't know, be amicable
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and go in as a united front.
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Um, opposed to, you know,
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having a heated debate
with you over something silly.
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STEPHANIE (VOICE OVER): This week's
dinner party was successful
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for Tyson and I...
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because I didn't speak up.
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If I'd spoken up,
we would have argued.
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You know, Tyson doesn't like
to be challenged.
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This week, I think, um, yeah,
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it was a lot more mature
environment.
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Mm. Do you...
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what do you think about David
mentioning the submissive thing?
256
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Yeah, the whole submissive thing...
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Like, I just don't think
it was something...
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that necessarily, had to get,
you know, brought up once again.
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Like, we've spoken
so much about that.
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(CLEARS THROAT) So, yeah,
let's just get on with that
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and not even...
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I'm not even gonna bother talking
about that anymore. But, um...
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Yeah, look, I think with Danny,
um, he's actually quite a nice guy.
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(VOICE BECOMES MUFFLED)
So, I think, yeah,
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he and I have got a common.
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Um, yeah. Just try to see
if I can get along with.
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And, I don't know.
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STEPHANIE (VOICE OVER):
I feel a bit at my wit's wits end.
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Everything is Tyson's way
or the highway.
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I will raise a few issues
with the experts this evening.
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It seems that the only person
he listens to is John.
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Not even
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Mel and Alessandra,
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because they're women.
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Stay positive Steph and, um...
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Yeah. Yeah.
Mm.
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TYSON (VOICE OVER): Going
into this commitment ceremony
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I'm feeling good.
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I think me and Steph are definitely
at a more better place.
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I'm looking forward to speak to most
would be John.
281
00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:10,760
Um, Alessandra, she's a sexologist,
so it's kind of irrelevant.
282
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Mel.
283
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Mel's Mel.
284
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But I'm all ears for John.
285
00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:18,040
Yeah. It's going to be interesting.
286
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Yeah.
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NARRATOR: The countdown is on
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to tonight's fourth commitment
ceremony...
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Mwah. I'll see you soon.
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..which marks the first time
291
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that our three new couples
can decide whether to stay...
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CHRIS: You're looking sharp.
293
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SAM: Oh, thank you too.
Thank you so much.
294
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..or leave the experiment.
295
00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:53,480
I was going to try and not
ruin your lipstick.
296
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My lipstick?
Yeah. I was going to...
297
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You're wearing it on your cheek
now, babes.
298
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Whoo.
Badge of honour.
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(SUSPENSE MUSIC)
300
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Greetings, gentlemen.
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Hello, guys. Come on in.
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TYSON: Looking fabulous. All yous.
303
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(SIGHS)
304
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JOHN: Welcome, ladies.
WOMAN: Hi.
305
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MEL: Hello, ladies.
306
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Hello.
307
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(EXHALES)
308
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How are you?
309
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ALISSA: Oh.
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Thank you.
311
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Well, welcome, everybody,
to the fourth commitment ceremony.
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The honeymoon is absolutely over now
313
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MEL: This week has been a big week
for our original couples.
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Of course,
you've had the opportunity
315
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to meet with friends and family.
316
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ALESSANDRA: And our new couples
who have just moved in,
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of course, just went through
Crash Course Week.
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We'll be here tonight to go over
everything that happened,
319
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what didn't happen,
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and what should be happening
moving forward.
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First up on the couch...
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Filip and Stella.
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(LAUGHS)
324
00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:49,000
Hello.
325
00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:50,080
Hello.
326
00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:52,800
How are you two going?
327
00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:54,760
Yeah. We're going...
We're going great.
328
00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:58,760
How did this week go with friends
and family and everything?
329
00:14:58,880 --> 00:14:59,840
Uh, went great.
330
00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:04,560
Um, but we've got
a hard-hitting question
331
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asked by one of Filip's good mates.
332
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Straight away, I was like,
333
00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:11,440
"Oh, guys, I have
an important question to ask.
334
00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:12,880
"Did you already said I love you?"
335
00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:15,800
And I was like, "OK,
I need to get a drink".
336
00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:17,440
And I was like,
"I need to get away".
337
00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:19,280
ALESSANDRA: How did you manage that?
338
00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:23,240
We just said that we do
communicate without words,
339
00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:25,960
but we do both agree, like
the feelings are there for sure.
340
00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:30,440
So, what's the issue with the words
if the feelings are there?
341
00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:32,600
I have an opinion...
342
00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:36,840
that the man has to say it first.
343
00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:39,320
Oh, that's a Puerto Rican opinion
too. I get it.
344
00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:40,520
Yeah, yeah.
Yes.
345
00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:41,600
Yes.
346
00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:42,760
Yeah.
(LAUGHS)
347
00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:44,280
Yeah, her belief system
is that, you know,
348
00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:45,840
if it's going to come out
of anyone first,
349
00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:47,320
I'm gonna have to say it.
350
00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:50,680
So, just for my own clarification...
351
00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:51,720
(LAUGHS)
352
00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:53,720
..just so that I understand
as well...
353
00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:58,480
you were mentioning
that you guys feel things
354
00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:00,600
and that, you know,
because, you know,
355
00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:03,080
and you're communicating that
by Morse code and looks...
356
00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:04,120
(LAUGHING)
357
00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:05,160
..but no words.
358
00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:06,480
(LAUGHTER)
359
00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:08,920
Yeah, yeah, we're tiptoeing around.
360
00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:11,360
Like, we asked random questions,
like, I guess,
361
00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:13,320
"Do you think I love you?"
And she's like, "Yeah".
362
00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:14,560
And I'm like, "Oh".
363
00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:16,680
He's using it in a sentence.
364
00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:19,960
Yeah. He started
to use the word, "Love".
365
00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:21,400
It's been dusted off.
366
00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:22,880
I'm not allergic to it. Yeah.
367
00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:25,040
Yeah. So, we're just alluring,
I guess, around it.
368
00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:27,440
We're in a good place.
369
00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:29,160
The friends and family...
370
00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:31,480
When I was sitting there,
I was like, looking around,
371
00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:33,000
everyone's getting along
like a dream.
372
00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:34,160
Everyone's eating and stuff.
373
00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:37,720
I'm like, yeah, this could
totally work in the real world.
374
00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:40,760
You know, just it
feels right, you know?
375
00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:43,040
And we're still in the experiment,
but I'm like, yeah...
376
00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:45,120
this is this is for me, you know?
377
00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:46,560
What do you think?
Yeah, I agree.
378
00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:49,600
It's beautiful. Yeah.
It's just easy.
379
00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:52,040
So, what is holding you back, Filip,
380
00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:54,080
from telling her how you feel?
381
00:16:57,120 --> 00:16:59,320
Uh, the feelings are super strong,
382
00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:00,600
but I know that sometimes
383
00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:01,880
you can get caught up
in the whole experiment.
384
00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:03,920
and, um, I want it to be genuine.
385
00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:07,480
Like, I personally,
like, I've only said...
386
00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:10,400
I've only said it to someone
just living in the outside world,
387
00:17:10,520 --> 00:17:11,840
like, not in an experiment.
388
00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:13,280
And I understand that it is real.
This is real.
389
00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:14,920
Have you ever been an experiment?
390
00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:16,280
(LAUGHS)
391
00:17:16,400 --> 00:17:18,840
Oddly enough, I don't know.
I... I don't know.
392
00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:22,720
In this environment,
in another environment,
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00:17:22,840 --> 00:17:24,560
if you're feeling then
you're feeling,
394
00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:28,360
and I think that needs
to be celebrated.
395
00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:29,760
No, there's definitely is.
396
00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:31,800
There's good vibes around there
with us. Yeah.
397
00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:33,040
It's... I don't know.
Yeah, we'll see.
398
00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:34,920
Yeah. We'll get back to yous.
399
00:17:35,040 --> 00:17:36,960
(LAUGHTER)
400
00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:41,000
Well, I don't think we're going
to be very surprised then.
401
00:17:41,120 --> 00:17:42,800
We should go to the decisions.
402
00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:44,600
Stella, you go ahead.
403
00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:47,600
I adore him, he's beautiful.
And, um, yeah...
404
00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:51,560
Up, up, upwards and...
Whatever the saying is.
405
00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:52,520
(LAUGHS)
406
00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:53,600
Stay.
407
00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:55,240
MEL: Brilliant.
408
00:17:55,360 --> 00:17:58,920
Uh, this week's been great,
and just... it all leads to
409
00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:00,480
this is going to work, you know?
410
00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:02,680
So, I'm... I'm loving it.
411
00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:03,960
I'm going to be hanging around here.
412
00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:05,040
Loving it.
Staying.
413
00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:06,640
We're loving it too for you guys.
414
00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:09,040
Well done. Have a great week.
Appreciate yous.
415
00:18:09,160 --> 00:18:10,560
Cheers. Thanks heap.
Thank you.
416
00:18:12,120 --> 00:18:13,200
That's love.
417
00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:16,320
Alright. Let's get
our next couple up.
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Joel and Juliette.
419
00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:21,880
(OMINOUS MUSIC)
420
00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:22,920
(CLAPPING)
421
00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:27,960
(MAN CLEARS THROAT)
422
00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:30,840
Hello, you two.
Come and grab a seat.
423
00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:32,720
(EXHALES)
424
00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:34,160
How was your week?
425
00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:37,200
It was OK.
426
00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:44,200
That's putting it mildly.
427
00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:46,240
We've had a few...
428
00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:48,440
a few nice moments.
429
00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:53,640
Apart from that,
it's been really bad.
430
00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:55,920
(CLOCK TICKING)
431
00:18:58,640 --> 00:18:59,640
OK.
432
00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:01,680
Tell us, uh, Joel,
433
00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:04,840
what have been the difficult moments
through the week?
434
00:19:07,360 --> 00:19:10,400
Well, before Juliette
moved apartments...
435
00:19:11,360 --> 00:19:12,840
she was accusing me of being fake.
436
00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:17,080
I said to her, "Juliette,
I'm not a fake person.
437
00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:18,880
"You just don't see the real me.
438
00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:22,960
"You don't see the light in me,
and you don't see the star in me".
439
00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:28,520
Then she's like, "Aha! See?
440
00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:29,840
"You think you're the star
of the show!"
441
00:19:29,960 --> 00:19:32,080
And I'm like,
"Juliette, it's a metaphor.
442
00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:33,520
"It's a figure of speech".
443
00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:38,280
I'm... What I mean by that is you
don't see the true essence in me.
444
00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:41,520
So, she has twisted
that whole thing.
445
00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:42,920
No.
Yeah.
446
00:19:43,040 --> 00:19:44,040
No.
447
00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:46,040
Juliette, I remember
the exact words I used.
448
00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:47,800
So, you've misinterpreted
my words...
449
00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:49,240
Can I speak?
..and used them against me.
450
00:19:49,360 --> 00:19:50,520
Can I speak?
Publicly slammed me.
451
00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:51,480
Can I speak?
452
00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:52,560
Thanks.
453
00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:55,360
You are painting me
out to be a liar.
454
00:19:56,120 --> 00:19:58,000
You said you are the star.
455
00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:01,200
And you definitely
don't see me as the wife.
456
00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:03,440
You see me as your way
onto this show...
457
00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:07,600
because you again want
to be the star of the show.
458
00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:10,160
No, no, no, that's not true.
I never said that.
459
00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:14,600
There's just constant
reputation savaging.
460
00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:17,440
Like, last night.
461
00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:20,800
the way she talks down to me
in public, in front of everyone...
462
00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:24,720
it shows that
she has no respect for me.
463
00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:28,520
Last week,
464
00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:31,360
we did the physical intimacy
challenge that was set.
465
00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:36,160
And I read out the first envelope,
466
00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:37,480
and I read, "Step one.
467
00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:39,400
"Stare into each other's eyes
for three minutes".
468
00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:40,520
And then she screamed at me,
469
00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:42,400
"I'm not staring
into your devil eyes".
470
00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:45,000
That was very hurtful.
471
00:20:45,120 --> 00:20:46,240
Did you say that?
472
00:20:46,360 --> 00:20:48,960
Yeah. It does feel like I'm getting
the devil vibes from him sometimes.
473
00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:53,920
Sorry. Gonna call it how I feel.
474
00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:57,360
Are you not apologetic about that?
Do you have...
475
00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:58,440
No, I'm not apologetic.
476
00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:03,200
At that moment,
you were giving me devil eyes.
477
00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:08,160
All you've done is... is...
is degrade me and demean me
478
00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:10,080
and disrespect me
and put me down.
479
00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:12,680
And I've never retaliated once,
not once in two weeks.
480
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:14,600
Not once have I said...
481
00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:16,440
I haven't said one mean
thing to you.
482
00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:18,880
Not one. Not one insult.
483
00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:21,000
Wow.
484
00:21:21,120 --> 00:21:24,360
Honestly, like, feels like
I'm always at fault for everything.
485
00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,240
You haven't owned up to anything.
486
00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:29,280
You should apologise to me.
487
00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:43,800
JULIETTE: Wow.
488
00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,960
Honestly, like, feels like
I'm always at fault for everything.
489
00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:51,840
You haven't owned up to anything.
490
00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:54,640
You should apologise to me.
491
00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:00,520
I think I should apologise
after the dinner party last night?
492
00:22:01,120 --> 00:22:02,120
Yeah, a hundred percent.
493
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:14,200
So, just to be clear, you would hope
for Joel to apologise tonight to you
494
00:22:20,120 --> 00:22:22,200
I would hope
that he takes accountability.
495
00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:24,520
Um...
496
00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:29,000
I don't think Joel thinks
he has done anything wrong.
497
00:22:29,120 --> 00:22:31,600
Like, I don't think he thinks
he's hurt me in any way.
498
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:34,760
I think he thinks he's the...
the realest one here.
499
00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:40,000
And the one that's the most evolved.
500
00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:44,160
And there's nothing
he's ever done wrong in his life.
501
00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:48,680
But I feel like last night
was just very uncalled for.
502
00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:54,560
Um, felt like we were doing
a smear campaign against me
503
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:56,760
at the end of the table
with the guys...
504
00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:00,160
and tried to make me look bad.
505
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:02,840
Like, that doesn't seem
like a good husband to me.
506
00:23:04,120 --> 00:23:05,160
JOHN: Uh...
507
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:06,800
What were those specific moments?
508
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:09,360
What were those things that
he was saying or doing to you...
509
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:12,520
that really was designed
to make you look bad?
510
00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:16,040
Um...
511
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:19,520
What was the things?
512
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:25,160
(TENSE MUSIC)
513
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:28,200
(CLOCK TICKING)
514
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:37,200
I don't know.
515
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:39,360
I guess, maybe when we were talking
about, like, the star comment...
516
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,200
and he just kept gaslighting me
and lying me
517
00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:46,320
saying that I was the one
that was lying,
518
00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:48,440
that I was the one
making up all of that stuff.
519
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:49,600
But we've already established
520
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:52,880
that I use the word, 'Star'
to describe a metaphor.
521
00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:54,960
You said you are the star.
522
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:58,680
Um, and you know,
you are the theatrical man.
523
00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,600
It's like it just feels like
I'm not talking to a human being.
524
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:04,040
Joel, you're shaking your head...
Mm.
525
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:05,040
..in disbelief.
526
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:06,120
What's going on for you?
527
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:08,480
I think at the core of it...
528
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:11,520
Juliette does not accept me
for who I am.
529
00:24:12,360 --> 00:24:13,560
You think I'm fake?
530
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:15,000
I'm not a fake person, Juliette.
531
00:24:15,120 --> 00:24:16,160
I've treated you--
This vibe...
532
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:17,760
No, no.
..is very character right now.
533
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:18,800
No, it's not character.
534
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:19,960
I'm not a character.
535
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:21,840
I've worked hard to become this man,
536
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:25,040
and I have a very strong sense
of self, and I'm happy.
537
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:26,200
I'm joyful.
538
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,960
I spread positivity wherever I go,
539
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,920
and I make people feel better
about themselves.
540
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:33,080
You think you do.
541
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,480
That is what I do.
I spread love and I spread joy.
542
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:37,080
You haven't been doing that with me.
543
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:39,960
I've been trying
but you push me away, Juliette.
544
00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:42,360
You've been pushing me away
and you've been putting me down,
545
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:45,160
you've been rejecting me,
and you've been very nasty.
546
00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:48,640
Are you actually
listening to yourself?
547
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:53,000
The way you speak is...
is vicious and with venom.
548
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,240
The way you speak
is condescending and belittling.
549
00:24:56,360 --> 00:24:58,440
No, no it's not.
Yes, it is.
550
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:00,440
No, it's not, Juliette.
Yes, it is. Yes, it is.
551
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:01,480
OK.
552
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:05,280
We've heard enough.
553
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:09,320
We know from what we saw
last night...
554
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,440
and from what we see on the couch,
555
00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:16,400
that it's time particularly for you,
Juliette, to listen.
556
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:21,600
This is something
that you need to take on board.
557
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:25,480
I find it breathtaking...
558
00:25:26,120 --> 00:25:30,640
that you, Juliette, want an apology
559
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,080
from Joel for last night.
560
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:40,480
Your behaviour last night
towards Joel...
561
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:43,880
was ugly.
562
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:51,800
And if I'm being totally honest,
it was mean and cruel.
563
00:25:57,560 --> 00:26:00,320
We're not sure if I've ever
seen someone on the attack
564
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:04,400
in such a way as you did
to Joel last night.
565
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:06,800
You called him a liar.
566
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:09,760
You said he wasn't a man.
567
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:13,960
You said he was embarrassing.
568
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,760
And you found him unattractive.
569
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:22,960
(TENSE MUSIC)
570
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:27,960
You said, actually tonight...
571
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:31,360
that he launched a smear
campaign against you...
572
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:32,640
Mm-hm.
..last night.
573
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:35,680
And what we saw...
574
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:39,760
was you going around
to different groups of people
575
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:41,360
and destroying his character.
576
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:44,760
And at no point...
577
00:26:46,120 --> 00:26:49,080
did he say anything derogatory
about you.
578
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:53,640
And yet you sit here saying,
"I want an apology from him".
579
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:56,680
Do you see...
580
00:26:58,040 --> 00:26:59,800
how unusual that request is?
581
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:01,720
Yeah.
582
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:05,360
I don't think you understand
the magnitude of it.
583
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:06,440
Yeah.
584
00:27:07,120 --> 00:27:09,440
Now, I'm telling you this
because you need to learn...
585
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:14,320
that regardless of whether there's
a he-said she-said going on
586
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:15,480
in a relationship...
587
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:20,680
regardless of whether you feel like
there's an injustice...
588
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:26,320
you can never talk to your partner
in that way...
589
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:31,920
because that is absolutely
inappropriate and unacceptable
590
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,000
to happen in a relationship.
591
00:27:34,120 --> 00:27:35,000
Yeah.
592
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:40,320
ALESSANDRA: I'll tell you
what my concern is,
593
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:42,200
and it is one among many.
594
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:46,000
What we witnessed last night
was so incredibly vile.
595
00:27:47,120 --> 00:27:49,800
If that is the way that you dare
to speak to Joel in public,
596
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:53,480
I shudder to think how you can speak
to him behind closed doors.
597
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:55,760
It was shocking.
598
00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:00,800
Yeah. I mean, I definitely
was unkind last night.
599
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:02,000
"Unkind"...
600
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:07,280
is really, really throwing
a lot of sugar on top of it.
601
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,000
But yesterday,
it feels like I was...
602
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:12,320
fully crashing out.
603
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:14,200
Yeah, if you saw what I was saying.
604
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:16,280
The fact that you're justifying
any of it...
605
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:17,960
and still...
606
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:24,440
still have not,
with profound shame and remorse,
607
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:27,200
turned to your partner
and apologised
608
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:28,720
is beyond me.
609
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:30,960
No, I definitely think
I was unkind for sure,
610
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:32,720
because I was angry, I was hurt.
611
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,600
Like, you know, when we're fighting,
612
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:37,480
I do say mean things
in the heat of the moment,
613
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:38,920
but, like, that's normal.
614
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:40,040
Like, everyone does that.
615
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,720
All we are hearing right now
are excuses.
616
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,680
You are not taking
any of this feedback on board.
617
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:50,600
Yeah. Um...
618
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:52,240
You're sitting there
and you're saying, "Yep".
619
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:53,760
Yeah.
And you're saying, "OK"...
620
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:56,840
but you're sitting there
with your arms crossed,
621
00:28:56,960 --> 00:29:00,600
absolutely closed off
to anything that we are saying
622
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:01,880
Look, I have--
623
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:03,560
Not heard a word
of acknowledgement.
624
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:04,680
And not an apology.
625
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:06,800
Yeah, absolutely not an apology.
626
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:09,560
OK, I'll do that now, if I can.
627
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:13,960
(TENSE MUSIC)
628
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:25,560
Um. (CLICKS TONGUE)
629
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:32,480
Look, last night, I obviously
involved all of you guys.
630
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:36,040
Um...
631
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,320
Very sorry. Honestly, like...
632
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:44,840
not one to be dragging
every single person down.
633
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:53,720
STEPHANIE: I don't think
you need to apologise to us.
634
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:55,840
You need to apologise to him.
Juliette.
635
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:57,400
I'm about to. I'm about to.
636
00:29:57,520 --> 00:29:58,720
Ah, I thought I would be first.
637
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:14,280
Last night, I obviously
involved all of you guys.
638
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:17,840
Um.
639
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:21,120
Very sorry. Honestly, like...
640
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:23,360
not one to be...
641
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,640
dragging every single person
down.
642
00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:34,480
STEPHANIE: I don't think
you need to apologise to us.
643
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:36,240
You need
to apologise to him, Juliette.
644
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,080
I'm about to. I'm about to.
645
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:39,600
Ah, I thought I would be first.
646
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:44,160
Um...
647
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:47,280
Joel.
648
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:56,240
I have always said definitely...
649
00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:58,000
the wrong thing.
650
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:04,280
Um, and I don't feel
that much hatred towards you.
651
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:11,160
I guess, maybe, I just felt
watered down and tired
652
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:12,280
and exhausted
653
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,120
and it just came out
in a disgusting way.
654
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:17,960
And I really apologise
for hurting your feelings.
655
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:19,920
You're definitely a man.
656
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:25,680
You're not... you're not...
You're shaking your head.
657
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:27,560
I don't accept your apology.
658
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:31,240
I think it's insincere.
659
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:33,040
OK.
660
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,360
I guess when I was feeling so hurt,
661
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:40,560
I completely didn't see how much
hurt and pain I was giving to you.
662
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:41,920
You've been doing that from day one.
663
00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:43,000
No, I haven't.
664
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:46,200
Yeah. This is how it's been
from day one behind the scenes.
665
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:47,360
No, it has not.
666
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:51,960
Juliette, what I'm saying to you,
feedback that you need to hear
667
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:56,120
is you talk
in a very toxic fight style.
668
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:58,320
You can't say sorry.
669
00:31:58,440 --> 00:31:59,400
I've apologised.
670
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:00,480
Not really.
671
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:04,320
I'm confused why you think that.
672
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:06,480
I can give you
a really good example.
673
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:08,360
Just now, you were apologising
674
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:09,560
and your apology,
675
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:11,920
part of the words you used
676
00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:16,360
were, "I don't even feel
that much hatred towards you".
677
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:18,400
Yeah, no,
because it's been moments...
678
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:21,080
"I don't even feel
that much hatred".
679
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:22,320
There's definitely... I'm...
680
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:23,600
It's not my first language,
681
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:26,560
but I certainly understand
what that means.
682
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:27,840
I have been feeling hatred.
683
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:29,640
Are you even listening
to what I'm saying?
684
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,520
Don't speak over Alessandra.
Show some respect.
685
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:37,160
JOHN: You're proving our point.
686
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:38,840
Sure. I'm sorry, guys.
687
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:42,800
Let's go to the decision.
688
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:48,880
We're going to go
with you first, Joel.
689
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:54,320
(SIGHS)
690
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,080
I have too much respect for myself.
691
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:05,880
Uh, Juliette,
what have you got for us?
692
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:07,800
Um...
693
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:17,360
I'm really sorry,
but I did write 'Stay'.
694
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:27,280
I'm really sorry.
695
00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:31,720
I didn't obviously realise how...
696
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:37,960
awful and vile my actions have been.
697
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:43,800
Um, I've always liked
the glimpses we've had.
698
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:46,360
I've seen why the experts
connected us.
699
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,240
Like, we...
We had the best time sometimes.
700
00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:53,360
And so those were the bits
where I'm like,
701
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:55,560
"OK, I want to work
towards that more.
702
00:33:56,760 --> 00:34:00,440
Um, I obviously didn't realise
to the extent I was hurting you.
703
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:05,480
So, I'm hoping
that I can make it up to you.
704
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,480
I guess we have another week
together.
705
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:18,440
And you set boundaries with me on
the second night of the honeymoon.
706
00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:19,480
So...
707
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:22,200
it's my time to set boundaries.
708
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:23,360
Sure.
709
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:25,640
And I will not be disrespected
like that again.
710
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:28,960
I will not tolerate it.
711
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,120
I will always treat you
with kindness and respect...
712
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:34,480
and I expect the same
treatment back.
713
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:36,040
Of course.
714
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:38,760
So, that's my boundaries.
Yeah.
715
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:41,760
And it's a one-strike policy.
716
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,440
There's no second chances.
So, that's it.
717
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:45,480
Mm-hm.
718
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:51,360
Now, Joel has very clearly
laid out his boundaries to you.
719
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:55,720
Are you able to respect
those this week?
720
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:57,400
Definitely.
721
00:34:58,440 --> 00:34:59,880
Do you want to re-say them?
722
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:05,560
I mean, it was the bare minimum.
723
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:07,600
I don't quite know
how you've forgotten.
724
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:09,520
We're talking about respect.
725
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:12,080
Basic respect.
726
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:15,800
Yeah. I mean, we can, I guess,
have a chat about it tomorrow.
727
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:22,240
My biggest worry is that everything
that you've heard from us...
728
00:35:24,240 --> 00:35:25,480
has fallen on deaf ears.
729
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:27,360
Definitely not.
730
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:30,920
Well, there's only one person
731
00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:32,600
that's going to be able
to prove us wrong.
732
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:35,080
Understood?
733
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:36,200
Yeah.
734
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:38,360
You can go back to the group.
735
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:39,320
Thanks.
736
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:42,960
(SCATTERED CLAPPING)
737
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:51,240
Do I want to be with a person
who disrespects me like that?
738
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:52,320
No, I don't.
739
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,240
So, if I'm going to feel differently
towards Juliette...
740
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:00,920
she needs to drastically change.
741
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:07,200
It's time for action.
742
00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:11,320
NARRATOR: Coming up...
743
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:12,480
(LAUGHS)
744
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:13,800
Gotta love that laugh, eh?
745
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:14,880
(LAUGHS)
746
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:17,040
..romance is blooming.
747
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:19,080
We just had our first pash,
thanks to you guys.
748
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:20,400
I think it was, like,
25, 30 seconds.
749
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:21,560
Yeah, something like that.
Yeah.
750
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:22,600
Yeah, keep practising.
751
00:36:22,720 --> 00:36:24,280
Yeah. Keep practising. (LAUGHS)
752
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:26,080
NARRATOR: Before...
753
00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:29,600
We bicker when I speak up
and share my opinion.
754
00:36:29,720 --> 00:36:30,840
And you don't like it?
755
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:33,800
NARRATOR: ..Stephanie
finally speaks out.
756
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:35,880
So, am I supposed to be quiet?
757
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:38,160
Am I supposed to be quiet?
758
00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:51,080
JOHN: Next couple up on the couch...
759
00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:57,600
Rachel and Stevo.
760
00:36:57,720 --> 00:36:59,000
(CHEERING AND CLAPPING)
Hey.
761
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:01,720
(CHATTER AND LAUGHTER)
762
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:04,680
Hello, you two.
STEVE: Hiya.
763
00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:06,320
Get rid of that negative energy.
764
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:08,760
It's a bit of bit of drama
on this lounge today.
765
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:10,840
Shake it off.
Oh.
766
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:15,920
Oh, look at you two,
all cuddled up on the couch there.
767
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:17,520
Oh. That's cosy.
768
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:19,400
We noticed that.
769
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:20,840
Oh, oh.
770
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:22,360
(RACHEL LAUGHING)
771
00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:26,160
Previously, you hadn't seen any real
physical affection between you two.
772
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:29,080
So, what's changed?
What's going on?
773
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:30,800
Well....
774
00:37:31,720 --> 00:37:35,760
We had a good,
Family and Friends, um, Day.
775
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:39,720
My brother, you know,
gave me some wise words.
776
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:43,680
He was observing the body language
between me and Rachel.
777
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:45,880
And he goes, "Well,
I'm watching Rachel.
778
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,680
"She's really leaning into you
and giving these cuddles,
779
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:50,960
"and you're just standing there
like a stunned mullet".
780
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:55,680
And he goes, "Do you realise how
this could be making Rachel feel,
781
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:59,280
"like, you're sort of,
subtly rejecting her?"
782
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:00,760
Wow.
783
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:04,360
So, I took that on board
and sort of, you know,
784
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,440
my brother's holding
the mirror up to me,
785
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:08,000
going, "Look what you're doing".
786
00:38:09,240 --> 00:38:11,160
Go, brother. This is good.
787
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:12,240
It's amazing.
788
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:14,840
That small little bit of advice
can really change things around.
789
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:19,000
Um, I feel like now I'm starting
to change my ways
790
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:22,640
and I'm showing a bit more,
you know, affection towards Rachel.
791
00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:24,200
You know, we had a pretty good kiss
792
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,880
and a bit of a chat and a cuddle
on the bed last night.
793
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,040
So, it's definitely a step
in the right direction.
794
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:30,920
Oh, my god.
795
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:35,000
That's a big step forward.
796
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:37,480
That's a different approach from you
797
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:40,920
Yeah, it's a good feeling.
798
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:47,160
Can I brag for a second
because I love me a subtle brag.
799
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:51,920
My husband told me last night
before we went to sleep,
800
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:53,040
had a little kiss afterwards,
801
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:54,920
I said, "You look
so handsome tonight".
802
00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:56,840
And he's like, "And you look sexy".
803
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:00,000
I love it.
804
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:01,640
(LAUGHS)
805
00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:04,600
It's one thing for your man
to call you "Beautiful", right?
806
00:39:04,720 --> 00:39:06,720
It's another to be called "Sexy".
807
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:08,360
Oh, yeah.
808
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:09,880
I was like, "Mm, OK, OK".
809
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:11,280
(LAUGHS)
810
00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:13,040
(LAUGHS)
Love it.
811
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:14,640
(LAUGHS)
812
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:17,480
Gotta love that laugh, hey?
813
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:18,520
(LAUGHS)
814
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:20,720
And your smile, Stevo.
815
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:21,760
My smile?
816
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:23,760
You're grinning from ear to ear.
817
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:25,760
Uh, awesome. (LAUGHS)
818
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:27,120
MEL: It's really good to see.
819
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:31,440
And on that note,
Rachel - stay or leave?
820
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:32,560
I...
821
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:36,160
Shock. I'm going to shock you all
and stay.
822
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:39,440
Shock, shock. (LAUGHS)
823
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:41,040
Love that.
824
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:44,920
Um, do I need to make
a speech before I say it
825
00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:46,560
or should just blurt it out?
826
00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:47,880
Ah! I wrote, 'Stay'.
827
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:53,440
There's an exclamation point.
Take note.
828
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:55,240
(LAUGHS)
Three.
829
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:56,320
DAVID: Nice one.
830
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:03,680
It really feels that you
are connected this week.
831
00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:07,800
And now we want to see
the romance grow.
832
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:09,920
MEL: Yes.
So, go back to the couch...
833
00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:11,040
(LAUGHS)
..and next week,
834
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:12,480
keep working on that.
835
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:13,520
Thank you all so much.
Have a great week.
836
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:15,200
Thank you.
Thank you.
837
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:16,280
Nicely done, you two.
838
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:17,320
Good stuff.
Yes.
839
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:26,440
Oh my gosh, I gotta stop smiling,
my jaw starts to hurt.
840
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:28,080
(LAUGHS)
841
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:29,760
Nice.
842
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:31,320
Our next couple up on the couch...
843
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:32,880
Chris and Sam.
844
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:34,760
Whoo-hoo!
845
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:41,200
Hello, boys.
846
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:42,760
CHRIS AND SAM: Hello.
Welcome.
847
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:43,920
Yeah.
848
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:46,600
A couple of big smiles.
849
00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:48,120
Yeah.
How are we?
850
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:50,040
We're very well,
851
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:52,120
but we're more interested
in how you two are doing.
852
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:53,960
Oh, no, we're going well.
853
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:57,520
Um, the crash course was good.
Great.
854
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:02,080
Um, yeah, we really opened up,
and we're vulnerable with each other
855
00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:03,240
and just threw ourselves in.
856
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:04,520
I think that's why
857
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:07,560
um, we shared our first pash
thanks to you guys.
858
00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:08,640
We love a pash.
859
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:10,800
Uh, the three minutes
was a bit crazy, guys.
860
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:12,280
(JOEL LAUGHS)
861
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:13,640
We opted for just a normal.
862
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:14,760
I think it was, like,
25, 30 seconds.
863
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:15,840
It's, like, yeah.
864
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:17,560
Yeah, keep practising.
865
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:19,240
Yeah. Keep practising. (LAUGHS)
866
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:22,120
I'm really enjoying the playfulness
867
00:41:22,240 --> 00:41:24,280
that's developing between
the two of you.
868
00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:27,600
It's a sign that, you know,
you're starting to drop the walls
869
00:41:27,720 --> 00:41:29,600
and starting to build some trust.
870
00:41:29,720 --> 00:41:31,520
Every day, the task
that you guys gave us
871
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:33,440
The task that you guys gave us
brought us so much closer together.
872
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:35,960
Um, which is probably something
I wouldn't do in the real world.
873
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,400
Um, so thank you.
874
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:39,560
And I need that.
875
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:40,800
And we do have a lot
of fun together.
876
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:41,880
Yeah.
877
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:44,000
And as you know,
878
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:46,560
we're always watching
the dinner parties.
879
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:50,840
And we saw, Chris, that you
shared some pretty big news.
880
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:52,400
I did. Yeah.
881
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:56,640
Um, so obviously I shared the news
that I've got children coming.
882
00:41:56,760 --> 00:42:00,440
Um, the group received it so well,
and they were so supportive.
883
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:02,280
So, I just want to say
thank you guys so much.
884
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:05,040
It was really amazing
to have that support.
885
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:06,160
WOMAN: Congratulations.
886
00:42:10,240 --> 00:42:12,880
Yeah, they just took it so well,
which was really great.
887
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:14,320
Um, and Sam took it great as well.
888
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:18,240
Some people may see that
as a red flag or, you know,
889
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:19,560
a bit of an inconvenience,
I don't know.
890
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:22,080
So, the fact
that Sam was really supportive
891
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:23,760
of my decision to do that,
892
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:25,280
meant the world to me.
893
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:27,080
I just feel so proud of him.
894
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:31,240
You know, he wants to...
wanted something in his life,
895
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:32,680
and he's made it happen,
which is really cool.
896
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,080
Um, I'm, like,
always been open to kids,
897
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,640
and kids are something
that I possibly want in the future.
898
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:40,720
So, at the end of this experiment,
if we are together,
899
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:41,880
which I hope we are,
900
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:43,200
then we can look
at how that's going to look.
901
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:46,320
I love the maturity
that the two of you are using...
902
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:49,240
in your approach here, you know?
903
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:52,400
You've set yourselves up
for a positive experience
904
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:54,760
regardless of what the outcome is.
CHRIS AND SAM: Yeah.
905
00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:00,280
Yeah. Well, look, I think
we will go to the decision.
906
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:01,840
Yeah.
We'll go with you first, Sam.
907
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:03,560
Uh, I wrote...
908
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:07,080
Stay.
909
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:08,880
And a big smile. Love it.
910
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:10,400
And Chris?
911
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:12,560
Well, funny that because...
(CHUCKLES)
912
00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:14,560
I also wrote something
with a smiley face.
913
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:16,360
Oh, we're the same smiley face.
914
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:17,560
What the hell?
915
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:19,960
Matchy matchy.
916
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:21,000
WOMAN: Whoo.
(CLAPPING)
917
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:22,840
ALESSANDRA: Very cute.
918
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:28,040
Um, I think that you guys really
have found your groove
919
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:29,720
and what is actually
working for you.
920
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,360
So, I will encourage you
to keep doing some more of that.
921
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,480
And I would highly, highly, highly
stress how important it is
922
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:37,360
that you continue
having fun with one another.
923
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:38,840
Yeah.
924
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:39,840
Have a great week.
925
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:42,240
Thank you.
Thank you, guys, so much.
926
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:43,440
Enjoy.
927
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:44,480
Thank you.
Thank you for everything.
928
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:50,480
That's alright.
929
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:53,720
Our next couple up on the couch...
930
00:43:55,720 --> 00:43:56,840
Gia and Scott.
931
00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:58,240
Yes.
932
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:03,080
Welcome to the couch.
933
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:05,600
Have you guys been this week?
934
00:44:05,720 --> 00:44:07,240
We had our first little run in.
935
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:08,520
Ooh?
You did?
936
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:10,360
But we're all good. We survived.
We're good.
937
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:12,520
Yeah.
What happened?
938
00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:15,320
So, we had family and friends.
939
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:18,160
Um, overall, it was good.
940
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:19,880
There was one hiccup on the way.
941
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,640
Um, it was a bit of a smart comment
my friend made
942
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:24,840
in regards to comparing Gia
with my ex.
943
00:44:26,240 --> 00:44:27,560
What was the comment?
944
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:31,520
He kind of said, like, "Well,
how do you compare to his ex"?
945
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:33,600
"How are you different to his ex?"
946
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:35,800
And I'm like, "Whoa".
947
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:40,600
Knowing you have had struggles
948
00:44:40,720 --> 00:44:43,880
with feeling insecure
at times in your past...
949
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:46,680
I'm wondering what that
brought up for you, Gia.
950
00:44:48,720 --> 00:44:52,200
Um. It just made me feel like
I wasn't good enough, to be honest.
951
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:53,920
How?
952
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:56,400
(VOICE TREMBLING)
Oh, I don't know. Like...
953
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:00,440
It just hurt because...
954
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:04,440
um, I've had this happen before
with my ex partner,
955
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:05,520
where it's like...
956
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:09,160
a certain type of looking girl
was, like, always brought up,
957
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:10,320
and, like, I'd be finding out
958
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:12,000
he'd be looking at this
and looking at that,
959
00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:14,000
and it's like I just felt like,
"Oh my god.
960
00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:17,280
"Am I in the same situation again
where I'm being compared?"
961
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:21,600
Like, it just made me feel like,
honestly, like, I'm less than.
962
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:25,720
So, I had all these things in my min
963
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:27,760
and then the next day
was very upsetting.
964
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:31,000
I'm sitting in the car.
965
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:33,560
There was a song on that like
we didn't like,
966
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:36,040
and I was like, "Oh, he's like...
Change my... change the song".
967
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:37,280
I do that.
968
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:39,320
You know how your phone comes up
with a camera roll memory?
969
00:45:40,240 --> 00:45:43,120
Came up with his ex partner,
like, in lingerie.
970
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:46,680
And I'm like, "Oh my god,
what's going on?
971
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:47,720
"Why does he have them?
972
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:49,480
"Like, I'm being compared".
973
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:52,640
So, I said,
"If you want to be with me
974
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:53,960
"and you want
this relationship to work,
975
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:55,800
"I need you to delete
all those photos".
976
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:56,920
And he said, "No".
977
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:02,880
After what happened with the friends
978
00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:05,360
I thought, "Oh, my god,
I'm not heard at all.
979
00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:06,440
"I'm not seen.
980
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:08,440
"I'm not important. I just felt...
981
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:10,520
gross.
982
00:46:12,720 --> 00:46:15,320
There's no excuse.
I take full accountability for this.
983
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:18,920
At the time, I was lazy,
I was stubborn.
984
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:21,840
I have 71,000 photos on my phone.
I don't go digging for that stuff.
985
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:24,600
Um, but I wasn't putting myself
in her shoes...
986
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:26,680
and I didn't think through it
enough.
987
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:30,600
Um, so once Gia was just explaining
her full emotions
988
00:46:30,720 --> 00:46:33,920
and obviously made me realise
these photos need to go.
989
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:37,800
I erased every single one of them.
990
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:39,280
And then we hugged it and we kissed,
991
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:40,320
and it was the best thing
that we felt.
992
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:43,600
We both moved on from it
straight away.
993
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:47,840
And I think the biggest lesson--
Well, just on that...
994
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:50,880
I don't know if you have moved on.
995
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:07,160
SCOTT: We both moved on from it
straight away.
996
00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:11,400
And I think the biggest lesson--
Well, just on that...
997
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:14,800
I don't know if you have moved on.
998
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:20,360
Because tonight
what I'm watching with you two
999
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:21,400
is a different energy.
1000
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:24,560
Uh, previously, you've been
very much a team...
1001
00:47:25,240 --> 00:47:26,880
uh, and you've been
very present on the couch.
1002
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:29,320
Whereas tonight,
particularly you, Gia,
1003
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:33,080
you seem flat, as though
you've got a lot on your mind.
1004
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:39,040
Um...
1005
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:43,600
I thought I was over it, but...
1006
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:47,080
I still feel, like, deeply hurt.
1007
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:50,760
I think Scott is kind
of grazing over it.
1008
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:53,920
Like, for me it was very hard.
1009
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:58,280
He came to the realisation
too late for me.
1010
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:01,240
You know, I've let you
into my whole world,
1011
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:03,760
my whole life and like, and, like,
you can't just delete some photos?
1012
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:09,320
I just for me... it was,
like, I felt like shit.
1013
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:12,280
And I just started
rethinking everything.
1014
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:17,400
I was prepared to leave
the whole experiment.
1015
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:26,160
Scott, did you know
that she was so rattled by this
1016
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:28,040
that she was thinking about
leaving the experiment?
1017
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:31,840
I... I'll be honest...
1018
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:33,920
I thought it was odd.
1019
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:36,080
Like, I didn't know.
1020
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:38,800
That's why we're going there.
Yeah, because...
1021
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:41,120
You need to see this,
and you need to hear this.
1022
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:43,840
Yeah.
1023
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:45,000
I personally didn't know that
1024
00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:46,600
because I feel like when we talk
through things...
1025
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:50,120
I feel like we've talked through
enough of what the problem is.
1026
00:48:50,240 --> 00:48:51,880
We hug, we kiss,
and we move on with the day
1027
00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:53,720
and we're actually smiling
and we're happy.
1028
00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:56,760
So, I didn't know
Gia felt this hurt.
1029
00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:57,960
I personally didn't,
1030
00:48:58,080 --> 00:48:59,560
or else I would cater
and do anything I can
1031
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:00,640
to bring the smile on her face.
1032
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:04,960
The thing with Scott is like,
we'll have this disagreement
1033
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:07,360
and like, I'll voice how
it's made me feel
1034
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:08,880
and we'll resolve it.
1035
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:10,680
But there's residual feelings,
like, the next day
1036
00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:11,920
where I still might feel
1037
00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:13,920
might feel like I need
just a check-in
1038
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:16,120
because I feel like,
yes, we apologise
1039
00:49:16,240 --> 00:49:17,360
and we moved on.
1040
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:19,840
But like, I can't just
forget how I felt
1041
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:21,280
because it was quite deep for me.
1042
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:22,440
And I'll vouch for that.
1043
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:24,760
I haven't been the type
that checks in the next day
1044
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:26,560
on an argument or something
that's happened before,
1045
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:29,320
which I now know, like,
it's something I need to work on.
1046
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:33,000
I'm all in for this,
1047
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:35,560
and I want to continue this
and... and grow together.
1048
00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:36,960
I'm glad this has happened.
1049
00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:38,240
Like, we need this
1050
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:39,840
because we have understood
each other more now.
1051
00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:41,040
Like, I've learned
something tonight.
1052
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:44,360
So, mark my word, if something
happens like this again,
1053
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:46,960
I'll be checking the next day
and making sure you're OK.
1054
00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:50,200
I want you to feel
as comfortable as possible.
1055
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:51,280
Like, that's my goal.
1056
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:52,800
If you're happy, I'm happier.
1057
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:57,960
Gia, what's your feelings
towards Scott right now?
1058
00:49:59,800 --> 00:50:02,040
Um, yeah... I really like Scott.
1059
00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:05,160
Like I want to continue
being with Scott.
1060
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:06,200
This wasn't enough for me
1061
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,360
to throw the whole relationship
in the bin.
1062
00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:11,440
In fact, before the dinner party,
I introduced him to my daughter.
1063
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:13,080
Wow.
MEL: That's huge.
1064
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:16,800
Seeing the mother she is
draws me more towards her
1065
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:18,840
because she's such
a good bloody mum.
1066
00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:22,120
Her daughter's
so freaking beautiful.
1067
00:50:22,240 --> 00:50:25,000
She comes up and hugs me,
says "Please" and "Thank you".
1068
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,480
The mannerism I see
is from the upbringing
1069
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:28,800
of what Gia's given her.
1070
00:50:29,720 --> 00:50:31,120
I just, I really like her
1071
00:50:31,240 --> 00:50:33,080
and I didn't think
I could walk in...
1072
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:35,320
I didn't know I was going to come
to this experience
1073
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:37,000
and I was going to have a kid,
and I fully accept it.
1074
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:38,880
Like, it makes me a bit upset.
1075
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:40,800
No, I want to cry
because I love that.
1076
00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:42,120
No, because you're a good mum.
1077
00:50:45,240 --> 00:50:48,920
Gia, how do you see Scott fitting in
with you and your daughter
1078
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:51,080
in your world after the experiment?
1079
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:53,000
Um...
1080
00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:56,840
I see it working.
1081
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:02,200
I've never introduced my daughter
to a guy before ever.
1082
00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:04,240
And I've checked in with my daughter
a million times.
1083
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:05,280
It's like, "Do you like him?"
1084
00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:08,520
Um, and she's like, "I love
Scott dog, Mum. He's so fun".
1085
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:09,560
'Scott dog'?
1086
00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:10,640
It's my nickname.
She calls him 'Scott dog'.
1087
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:13,360
(ALISSA LAUGHS)
So, yeah, he did fit in well.
1088
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:15,160
All my friends and family love him.
So...
1089
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:17,520
Wow, that is fantastic to hear.
1090
00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:20,960
You've been through a lot this week.
1091
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:23,920
Uh, but we're going to need to go
to a decision
1092
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:25,840
to find out whether you
want to stay on or not.
1093
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:28,720
Go with you first, Scott.
1094
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:32,120
Well, yeah,
it was a really tough week,
1095
00:51:32,240 --> 00:51:34,840
but we always we resolve our issues
1096
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:37,120
And... and I like to draw
little things
1097
00:51:37,240 --> 00:51:39,200
that give memory and feedback
from the past week.
1098
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:42,080
So, I put, "Stay with me, Gia"...
WOMAN: Oh, that's so cute!
1099
00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:43,240
..and a daughter.
1100
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:44,720
That's beautiful.
1101
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:46,440
That's so cute. Oh my god.
1102
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:49,080
What about you, Gia?
What have you got for us?
1103
00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:50,040
Stay or leave?
1104
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:53,000
Yeah, like we had a big hiccup,
1105
00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:56,120
but I think he gets
a better understanding of me
1106
00:51:56,240 --> 00:51:57,040
through this.
1107
00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:59,840
And it's forcing us to have
a deeper connection that I wanted.
1108
00:51:59,960 --> 00:52:01,680
I didn't want easy surface level.
1109
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:04,600
I really like Scott,
and I'm glad we got through this.
1110
00:52:04,720 --> 00:52:07,280
So, with that, I'm gonna stay.
1111
00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:08,440
(CLAPPING)
1112
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:09,600
MAN: Yee-ooo!
1113
00:52:09,720 --> 00:52:10,640
Thank you.
1114
00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:12,640
It's lovely.
1115
00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:15,640
That's why we have
these commitment ceremonies,
1116
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:17,160
to open up your relationship
1117
00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:19,560
and to essentially
get you looking at things...
1118
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:21,480
sometimes for the first time.
1119
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:24,400
Uh, so that's a very important momen
for you tonight.
1120
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:26,640
Well done.
You can go back to the group.
1121
00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:28,680
Thank you.
Thank you so much. Appreciate it.
1122
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:29,800
Good work.
1123
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:31,560
WOMAN: Whoo!
1124
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:33,960
Thanks.
1125
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:36,600
Little stick figures.
That's cute. That is so cute.
1126
00:52:36,720 --> 00:52:39,360
I don't know how to actually draw,
so stick figures is...
1127
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:40,680
Hey, it's cute, but.
Thank you.
1128
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:42,240
NARRATOR: Still to come...
1129
00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:44,440
David ticks so many boxes
1130
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:46,840
but there's some things
that he can't give me.
1131
00:52:48,240 --> 00:52:50,440
NARRATOR: Alissa's jaw-dropping
confession.
1132
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:54,880
I'm missing that stimulation
to make me happy.
1133
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:57,280
NARRATOR: And later...
1134
00:52:57,400 --> 00:53:00,080
I am done with this bickering.
I'm done with this bullshit.
1135
00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:02,200
..Tyson is at breaking point.
1136
00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:04,600
I'm done with this experiment.
1137
00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:17,280
MEL: Next up on the couch...
1138
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:25,440
Alissa and David.
1139
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:27,240
(APPLAUSE)
1140
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:30,640
Hello.
1141
00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:32,600
Hello. Hello. How are ya?
1142
00:53:32,720 --> 00:53:33,640
Good evening.
1143
00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:36,120
Well, you two are looking
rather happy and relaxed.
1144
00:53:36,240 --> 00:53:37,240
Yeah.
Yeah.
1145
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:39,880
David and I are getting
stronger and stronger.
1146
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:44,120
He ticks so many boxes in my life.
1147
00:53:47,280 --> 00:53:49,840
He's the calm.
He's... He's my home.
1148
00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:54,400
But there's some things
that he can't give me.
1149
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:58,880
I function at a higher frequency,
1150
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:04,280
and sometimes I feel like
I'm missing that stimulation,
1151
00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:05,240
that high frequency
1152
00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:07,880
that I would normally get
from my relationships
1153
00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:10,080
to make me happy.
1154
00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:15,920
I feel like, Melissa,
she's used to past relationships
1155
00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:18,920
where the guys are loud up,
probably more chaotic.
1156
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:21,960
A lot of noise.
I'm calm, not reactive.
1157
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:24,720
Like, I'm not going
to, like, cause drama.
1158
00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:28,520
And I feel like deep down
you might be sort of like, uneasy
1159
00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:30,440
because it's not something
that's natural to you.
1160
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:34,680
Maybe David's
onto something there.
1161
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:36,520
When you were coming
into this experiment,
1162
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:40,000
you talked about past relationships
and all the arguments that happened.
1163
00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:41,440
Yeah, there were a lot.
1164
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:44,920
And, maybe, because you're now
in a relationship that is healthier,
1165
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:46,720
that's not full of arguments.
1166
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:48,600
I just wonder if the thing
that's missing
1167
00:54:48,720 --> 00:54:51,800
is actually the toxicity that comes
with drama in a relationship.
1168
00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:53,360
Maybe, I'm just not used to it.
1169
00:54:53,480 --> 00:54:54,600
Yeah.
1170
00:54:54,720 --> 00:54:59,320
I wonder if there's something
about sitting in that discomfort,
1171
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:02,600
because there's something about
that calm and that peace
1172
00:55:02,720 --> 00:55:05,800
that's actually really probably
quite good for you.
1173
00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:09,440
OK, I'm going to work on it.
(CHUCKLES)
1174
00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:11,400
We're gonna sit in it.
Brilliant.
1175
00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:13,680
Alright, well,
let's go to the decision.
1176
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:15,520
Let's kick off with you, Alissa.
1177
00:55:16,040 --> 00:55:17,560
I'm giving this thing a real crack.
1178
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:20,320
I'm staying for the long haul.
1179
00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:22,320
David?
I'm gonna stay.
1180
00:55:22,440 --> 00:55:23,520
Love it.
1181
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:24,560
Yeah.
1182
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:27,320
Well done, you two.
1183
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:28,680
Sit in the uncertainty.
1184
00:55:28,800 --> 00:55:29,920
We're sitting in it
for another week.
1185
00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:32,080
Well done, you two.
Enjoy.
1186
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:37,240
Our next couple on the couch.
1187
00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:42,800
Bec and Danny...
1188
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:44,640
(CLAPPING)
1189
00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:45,680
Let's do it.
1190
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:47,840
How are we?
Hello, you two.
1191
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:48,880
Hello.
Hello.
1192
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:50,200
(BOTH EXHALE)
1193
00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:52,440
Well, I've got to say,
I've been enjoying
1194
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:55,320
glancing over and looking
at the two of you tonight.
1195
00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:58,920
Looking very cuddly,
very relaxed together,
1196
00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:00,640
and very supportive of each other.
1197
00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:03,280
It's like a whole different view.
1198
00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:07,080
Yeah, the realities
I got from you guys,
1199
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:08,800
at the last commitment ceremony
1200
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:12,600
showed me that I was in the wrong
very, very much.
1201
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:16,960
You don't need to be angry.
You don't need to be vicious.
1202
00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:19,440
That behaviour
is just not acceptable.
1203
00:56:20,440 --> 00:56:22,200
Yeah. You've learned
some big lessons.
1204
00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:23,240
I have.
1205
00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:25,560
And then family
and friends came along.
1206
00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:30,480
We both agreed that in order
to get the most out of this,
1207
00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:31,960
we had to be very, very honest.
1208
00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:38,040
So, I sort of expressed to dad some
of the adversities that we faced,
1209
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:40,000
and my father instantly
turned to Danny,
1210
00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:42,360
looked him in the eye and said,
"Did you say she was your type?"
1211
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:46,040
And Danny just looked
at him and was just like, "No".
1212
00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:49,880
So, I'm moving forward.
1213
00:56:53,640 --> 00:56:56,320
So, I really do want
to commend you both
1214
00:56:56,440 --> 00:57:01,680
for just really putting in the time,
the focus and the work...
1215
00:57:02,760 --> 00:57:05,000
and having the conversations
you needed to have.
1216
00:57:06,800 --> 00:57:10,960
So, just kind of highlighting
the huge difference it makes
1217
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:15,080
when you actually really do
go deep in conversation.
1218
00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:16,240
Yeah.
1219
00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:18,600
Maybe in past relationships,
1220
00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:22,680
that's where I'd be doing
the Usain Bolt and sprinting off.
1221
00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:25,920
But, yeah, bit down
on the gum shield
1222
00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:27,920
and sort of fought
our way through it, didn't we?
1223
00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:31,520
And, yeah, now we're...
we're in a really good spot.
1224
00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:32,560
So...
1225
00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:34,280
I feel the most stable I've felt
1226
00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:36,440
in this whole experiment right now.
1227
00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:38,440
For sure.
1228
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:40,520
Brilliant.
Amazing, amazing.
1229
00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:41,840
Let's go to the decision.
1230
00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:44,320
Let's start with you, Danny.
1231
00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:46,040
Yeah, we're in a really good spot.
1232
00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:47,080
So...
1233
00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:48,920
nice easy one today.
1234
00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:50,000
Thank you.
1235
00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:51,520
MEL: Oh, strong statement.
1236
00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:53,680
Um, yeah,
1237
00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:56,760
I don't think I've felt more secure
in this relationship
1238
00:57:56,880 --> 00:57:59,520
out of the whole time
in this experiment.
1239
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:02,520
So, of course, I wrote 'Stay',
1240
00:58:02,640 --> 00:58:05,400
And then I wrote 'Agapi mou' -
'My love' in Greek.
1241
00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:06,440
Beautiful.
1242
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:09,360
Thanks, guys.
1243
00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:14,080
I think right now you guys
are listening to one another...
1244
00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:18,160
and I really think that you need
to continue focusing on that.
1245
00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:19,440
Have a great week.
1246
00:58:19,560 --> 00:58:21,120
Thanks you, guys. Thank you.
Thanks, guys.
1247
00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:23,200
(BEC GRUNTS)
(CLAPPING)
1248
00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:24,240
DANNY: You OK?
BEC: Yeah.
1249
00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:26,000
(CLAPPING)
1250
00:58:29,560 --> 00:58:31,000
Alright. Let's get
our next couple up.
1251
00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:34,800
Tyson and Stephanie.
1252
00:58:34,920 --> 00:58:35,880
Come on.
1253
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:37,920
(CLAPPING)
1254
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:40,880
Hello.
1255
00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:46,320
Well, where do we begin?
1256
00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:48,640
You start.
1257
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:50,720
Uh, what about
the crash course?
1258
00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:52,040
How was that this week for you?
1259
00:58:52,520 --> 00:58:55,480
It was interesting.
Um, we did the tasks.
1260
00:58:56,440 --> 00:58:57,440
Um...
1261
00:58:57,960 --> 00:58:59,040
Yeah.
1262
00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:02,080
And what about you, Tyson?
How was this week for you?
1263
00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:04,720
I think for me, it was actually
quite good, John.
1264
00:59:04,840 --> 00:59:07,400
I, uh, took your advice, John.
1265
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:09,840
So, you said to get
curious about Steph.
1266
00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:11,200
And I did get curious.
1267
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:13,440
I, uh, I took her to lunch.
1268
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:15,640
I took her to dinner,
got her some flowers.
1269
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:17,080
I was feeling a bit cheeky
1270
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:19,480
and saw of a set of flowers there,
bought them, gave them to her.
1271
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:21,120
I think she appreciated that.
Mm.
1272
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:24,840
And he paid for dinner
and he paid for lunch.
1273
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:26,800
I'm the gift that keeps on giving.
1274
00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:35,040
Steph, you're sitting on the couch
right now,
1275
00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:36,240
and you're pretty distant.
1276
00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:42,160
So, tell us what's going
on for you, Steph?
1277
00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:44,680
Um...
1278
00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:48,160
Yeah, look, like I do have
a few things on my mind.
1279
00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:49,600
Like, I won't, I won't lie...
1280
00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:54,600
but I'm very conscious
of the progress that we have made.
1281
00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:57,880
And I'm very conscious that
I don't want to unravel all of that.
1282
01:00:00,280 --> 01:00:01,360
And I understand that.
1283
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:03,280
But at the same time,
what that does then
1284
01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:06,000
is it doesn't allow us to understand
what's on your mind,
1285
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:09,040
what's getting in between
for the two of you.
1286
01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:11,480
Because you never know
when you discuss it, open it up...
1287
01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:13,400
you may be able to resolve it.
1288
01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:17,720
Um...
1289
01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:22,760
Quite often when I attempt to have
a constructive conversation, it...
1290
01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:26,960
I feel like it falls on deaf ears.
I feel like we go round in circles,
1291
01:00:27,080 --> 01:00:29,960
we never come to an agreement.
it's always he said, she said.
1292
01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:33,200
So, I feel, like,
I've started to kind of...
1293
01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:38,640
suppress the things
that I normally would say
1294
01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:41,120
because I can't be bothered
to have an argument.
1295
01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:43,320
Mm.
1296
01:00:43,440 --> 01:00:45,120
ALESSANDRA: It's those
difficult conversations
1297
01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:46,320
that take so much courage
1298
01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:49,160
and are so hard to have
that once they're had,
1299
01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:51,120
they really bring
you closer together.
1300
01:00:51,640 --> 01:00:52,680
JOHN: Indeed.
1301
01:00:52,800 --> 01:00:55,880
So, let's just talk about this
and navigate it together as a team.
1302
01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:59,280
Tell us what are the key issues
that you want to bring up?
1303
01:01:01,400 --> 01:01:02,480
Um...
1304
01:01:03,520 --> 01:01:05,400
I just want Tyson
to be a bit more aware
1305
01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:08,640
of, like the things that he says
and the impact that the words have.
1306
01:01:10,760 --> 01:01:11,840
Um...
1307
01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:16,280
Two of my closest friends are gay.
1308
01:01:17,520 --> 01:01:19,320
We've got Chris and Sam
in the experiment...
1309
01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:22,720
and something that came
from Tyson's...
1310
01:01:23,840 --> 01:01:26,360
video interview was...
1311
01:01:27,240 --> 01:01:30,800
um, "I'm happy for you guys.
Be whoever you want to be.
1312
01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:33,000
"But, you know, you just keep it
behind closed doors".
1313
01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:36,240
Oh, brother.
1314
01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:57,640
Something that came
from Tyson's video interview was...
1315
01:01:58,600 --> 01:02:02,160
um, "I'm happy for you guys.
Be whoever you want to be.
1316
01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:04,360
"But, you know, you just keep
it behind closed doors".
1317
01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:07,320
Oh, brother.
1318
01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:15,480
First of all,
I'm not against gay people.
1319
01:02:16,160 --> 01:02:19,400
I just feel like that whole topic
can... can really be pushed on us.
1320
01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:24,240
Um, and, I don't know,
just for me,
1321
01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:25,600
I come from a traditional family
1322
01:02:25,720 --> 01:02:28,480
and it's just,
I'm not really comfortable
1323
01:02:28,600 --> 01:02:29,520
with, like... with it.
1324
01:02:29,640 --> 01:02:30,560
I'm just being brutally...
brutally honest.
1325
01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:35,120
Sorry, man. Having awareness
is not pushing anything on you.
1326
01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:36,640
Like just being here. Like...
1327
01:02:37,120 --> 01:02:38,160
But I'm aware, though.
1328
01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:41,560
We're just... we're just here.
1329
01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:45,320
CHRIS: It is hurtful
to our community to hear that.
1330
01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:47,480
Um, it's like us telling
straight people
1331
01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:49,440
to go do it behind closed doors.
It's not right.
1332
01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:53,920
I don't think you have much empathy
1333
01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:56,760
and you're not really putting
yourself in anyone else's shoes.
1334
01:02:56,880 --> 01:02:59,200
You can't say stuff like,
"Do it behind closed doors" .
1335
01:02:59,320 --> 01:03:02,160
Like it just doesn't make
me feel like a person.
1336
01:03:02,280 --> 01:03:04,520
Well, no, not that I don't know.
It's just...
1337
01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:07,000
Maybe it came out wrong.
I don't I didn't mean it to...
1338
01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:13,040
The comment you made
suppresses people,
1339
01:03:13,160 --> 01:03:15,800
and therefore we feel like we need
to stand up and create awareness.
1340
01:03:15,920 --> 01:03:18,960
And until that stops happening,
there will be pride,
1341
01:03:19,080 --> 01:03:20,480
all these things will still happen
1342
01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:22,280
because we're still
getting suppressed all the time.
1343
01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:24,880
And you're an example of that
it still exists out there.
1344
01:03:29,200 --> 01:03:30,960
I don't mean to come here
and offend people.
1345
01:03:31,080 --> 01:03:32,760
Um, but you know,
1346
01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:36,200
I am very black and white
with my approach to communication.
1347
01:03:37,200 --> 01:03:38,800
Have you always been this way?
1348
01:03:38,920 --> 01:03:41,520
Where you, essentially,
don't have a filter and you just...
1349
01:03:42,800 --> 01:03:45,120
you know, say exactly
what comes to your mind.
1350
01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:50,160
So, there is a filter there, John.
1351
01:03:50,280 --> 01:03:53,880
But I just I've got to be honest
as well with what I believe in.
1352
01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:56,080
And that's fine.
1353
01:03:56,560 --> 01:03:57,760
But I just want Tyson
1354
01:03:57,880 --> 01:04:00,520
to be a bit more aware of,
like, words have impact.
1355
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:02,000
Like, again,
1356
01:04:02,120 --> 01:04:04,760
like the submissive thing
still rings in my mind.
1357
01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:06,040
Oh, my god.
1358
01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:08,680
Having said that in ages.
But anyway.
1359
01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:12,240
Well, a dinner party last night,
but OK, let's keep going forward.
1360
01:04:14,200 --> 01:04:18,360
Um, you know, I stand by
that that is what Tyson wants.
1361
01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:23,240
He wants a wife to sit down,
look pretty, speak when spoken to...
1362
01:04:23,720 --> 01:04:26,200
don't have an opinion
unless you're asked.
1363
01:04:27,320 --> 01:04:28,320
Not true.
1364
01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:30,680
True.
I completely disagree.
1365
01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:33,000
Um, he's only addressed you tonight,
John. Have you noticed that?
1366
01:04:35,120 --> 01:04:36,160
I actually said tonight,
1367
01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:37,720
Alexandra is looking beautiful.
1368
01:04:37,840 --> 01:04:39,360
So, what... where...
I don't understand.
1369
01:04:40,760 --> 01:04:42,400
Last week he said,
"Oh that. Johnny.
1370
01:04:42,520 --> 01:04:43,840
"He's a great bloke, isn't he?
1371
01:04:43,960 --> 01:04:44,960
"He's a great bloke".
1372
01:04:45,080 --> 01:04:47,880
And I said, "Oh,
what about Mel and Alessandra"?
1373
01:04:48,920 --> 01:04:51,280
"Oh, yeah. But, you know, John".
La la la.
1374
01:04:51,400 --> 01:04:54,080
So, you're very easily
disrespect women, Tyson.
1375
01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:55,600
You have no regard for my feelings.
I do not.
1376
01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:57,280
And sorry, I'm not going
to take that shit
1377
01:04:57,400 --> 01:04:58,960
because I don't disrespect women
at all.
1378
01:04:59,080 --> 01:05:00,400
I've got a lot of respect for women.
1379
01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:02,920
But right now--
1380
01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:04,000
Look how you fly
off the handle so easily.
1381
01:05:04,120 --> 01:05:05,000
Because it's disgusting.
1382
01:05:05,120 --> 01:05:07,040
She's putting words in my mouth
saying I disrespect women
1383
01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:08,720
just because I said
John's a good guy.
1384
01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:09,960
You do. It's how I feel.
1385
01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:11,640
I did not say anything
bad about you guys at all.
1386
01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:13,040
And I actually said,
you look beautiful tonight.
1387
01:05:14,640 --> 01:05:17,000
Like she's making out,
I hate... I hate women,
1388
01:05:17,120 --> 01:05:18,800
and that's absolutely
such a disgusting thing to say.
1389
01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:21,240
I'm very close with my sister
and my mum.
1390
01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:22,640
There are two people
that mean the world to me.
1391
01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:25,840
But I just feel like
she's putting words in my mouth.
1392
01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:27,240
She's trying to make me
look like this bad person,
1393
01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:28,280
but I'm actually not.
1394
01:05:29,920 --> 01:05:30,920
I don't hate gay people.
1395
01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:32,480
She's making out
I hate gay people...
1396
01:05:32,600 --> 01:05:33,920
No, I'm not.
..hate gay people bad.
1397
01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:35,920
But I don't hate gay people.
I did not say that.
1398
01:05:36,040 --> 01:05:38,520
I do like gay people.
I've got gay friends, I do.
1399
01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:41,080
I like women as well.
1400
01:05:41,960 --> 01:05:44,760
The thing is, I'm not a bad guy and
she's portraying me as a bad guy.
1401
01:05:44,880 --> 01:05:45,720
No.
1402
01:05:46,440 --> 01:05:48,880
I try to have
a constructive conversation with you
1403
01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:50,600
and it always ends up this way
1404
01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:53,760
when I just want to have,
like, a chill conversation
1405
01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:55,240
and share my point of view.
1406
01:05:55,360 --> 01:05:56,560
But that's never OK with you.
1407
01:05:57,360 --> 01:05:58,360
Well, I disagree.
1408
01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:02,040
I feel like any time
things get hard,
1409
01:06:02,160 --> 01:06:03,360
Tyson's just like,
1410
01:06:03,480 --> 01:06:05,560
"Alright, well that's me,
I'm (BLEEP) out of here".
1411
01:06:06,280 --> 01:06:08,960
I feel like it's Tyson's
way or the highway.
1412
01:06:10,400 --> 01:06:11,440
And honestly,
1413
01:06:11,560 --> 01:06:13,920
I do not see a future here
with this person at all.
1414
01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:17,360
And quite frankly, after tonight,
I'm going back to the Gold Coast...
1415
01:06:18,480 --> 01:06:19,560
because I'm done with this.
1416
01:06:20,320 --> 01:06:22,600
I'm done with this bickering.
I'm done with this bullshit.
1417
01:06:23,720 --> 01:06:25,400
I'm done with this experiment.
1418
01:06:36,240 --> 01:06:39,120
I feel like it's Tyson's way
or the highway.
1419
01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:42,520
Honestly, I do not see a future
here with this person at all.
1420
01:06:43,320 --> 01:06:46,080
And quite frankly, after tonight,
I'm going back to the Gold Coast...
1421
01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:48,280
because I'm done with this.
1422
01:06:48,960 --> 01:06:51,200
I'm done with this bickering.
I'm done with this bullshit.
1423
01:06:52,320 --> 01:06:54,000
I'm done with this experiment.
1424
01:06:59,360 --> 01:07:01,240
There's nothing here
between Steph and I.
1425
01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:04,560
She's not a traditional wife
in my eyes.
1426
01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:07,360
She's... She's a go-getter,
which is great, but...
1427
01:07:08,520 --> 01:07:10,400
I don't like
her attitude towards me.
1428
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:12,160
She's always acting snobby.
1429
01:07:13,560 --> 01:07:16,960
I do not see a future there,
John, I really don't.
1430
01:07:20,240 --> 01:07:23,200
This whole conversation
just blew out of proportion,
1431
01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:24,920
which it shouldn't have, but it did.
1432
01:07:25,040 --> 01:07:27,560
And, um, there's no fixing this,
John, for me
1433
01:07:30,840 --> 01:07:32,800
I don't know how it blew out
of proportion, though,
1434
01:07:32,920 --> 01:07:34,280
because all you're doing
1435
01:07:34,400 --> 01:07:37,720
you know, was bringing up
some of your worries
1436
01:07:37,840 --> 01:07:39,760
about a relationship.
Yeah.
1437
01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:42,040
Yeah, essentially over language
and that's it.
1438
01:07:42,520 --> 01:07:43,640
That's normal...
1439
01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:46,440
couple dynamics.
1440
01:07:47,040 --> 01:07:48,720
This is not about
personality attacks.
1441
01:07:48,840 --> 01:07:51,840
It's just talking about
problem patterns.
1442
01:07:53,120 --> 01:07:55,960
And what we've identified tonight
and previously
1443
01:07:56,080 --> 01:07:58,640
is that sometimes
the language that you use...
1444
01:07:59,440 --> 01:08:00,440
can be polarising.
1445
01:08:00,560 --> 01:08:01,560
It can hurt.
1446
01:08:03,160 --> 01:08:05,400
But it is certainly something
that you can work with.
1447
01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:07,320
No, I do agree in that regard.
1448
01:08:08,360 --> 01:08:10,560
So, what's happened tonight
that's changed your mind?
1449
01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:13,040
Well, just everything, John--
I can tell you.
1450
01:08:14,600 --> 01:08:15,680
I opened my mouth.
1451
01:08:15,800 --> 01:08:17,160
Oh, come on.
1452
01:08:17,960 --> 01:08:21,160
We bicker when I speak up
and share my opinion.
1453
01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:22,440
And you don't like it?
1454
01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:24,280
So, am I supposed to be quiet?
1455
01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:26,640
Am I supposed to be quiet?
1456
01:08:27,680 --> 01:08:29,120
I'm seriously just going to bounce
1457
01:08:29,240 --> 01:08:31,680
because I just don't want
to be here, guys.
1458
01:08:31,800 --> 01:08:32,880
I'm finished, OK?
1459
01:08:34,040 --> 01:08:35,080
I'm just...
1460
01:08:35,680 --> 01:08:36,960
Tyson, don't do it.
1461
01:08:37,080 --> 01:08:38,800
You look...
You're a beautiful bunch of people
1462
01:08:38,920 --> 01:08:40,800
and I think Steph's a beautiful girl
as well.
1463
01:08:40,920 --> 01:08:42,160
It's just, I'm finished. OK?
1464
01:08:44,000 --> 01:08:45,480
ALISSA: You've given it two weeks.
1465
01:08:45,600 --> 01:08:47,880
Like, given it
such a short amount of time.
1466
01:08:48,000 --> 01:08:49,160
Like, come on.
1467
01:08:50,320 --> 01:08:52,440
I really do wish you guys
all the best.
1468
01:08:52,560 --> 01:08:53,720
I'm not a bad person.
1469
01:08:56,640 --> 01:08:58,120
You have really strong views,
1470
01:08:58,240 --> 01:09:00,480
and I'm just giving
my really strong views back to you.
1471
01:09:00,600 --> 01:09:01,880
And if that's enough
to make you leave.
1472
01:09:02,480 --> 01:09:04,120
Yeah. See you, guys.
1473
01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:06,360
(TENSE MUSIC)
1474
01:09:24,720 --> 01:09:25,920
(WEDDING RING CLATTERING)
1475
01:09:33,120 --> 01:09:34,360
(SOBBING)
1476
01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:37,880
(SNIFFLES)
1477
01:09:46,160 --> 01:09:47,920
I've just shared how I felt...
1478
01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:52,680
and as I opened my as I opened
my mouth, now he's (BLEEP) gone.
1479
01:09:54,440 --> 01:09:55,560
He's just a child.
1480
01:09:57,160 --> 01:09:59,400
And just so disappointed.
1481
01:10:08,920 --> 01:10:10,080
(SPEAKS INDISTINCTLY)
1482
01:10:14,400 --> 01:10:15,440
Thanks, guys.
1483
01:10:15,560 --> 01:10:16,840
JOHN: Thank you, Steph.
1484
01:10:16,960 --> 01:10:17,880
ALESSANDRA: Thank you, Steph.
1485
01:10:20,000 --> 01:10:21,480
ALISSA: Darl.
1486
01:10:23,240 --> 01:10:24,240
You're amazing.
1487
01:10:24,360 --> 01:10:26,440
STELLA: You just need
a more mature, man. That's all.
1488
01:10:26,560 --> 01:10:27,560
Yeah. You're amazing.
Yeah.
1489
01:10:27,680 --> 01:10:29,880
STELLA: A mature man will come in
and whoop you off your feet. OK?
1490
01:10:30,000 --> 01:10:31,520
(CHATTER)
1491
01:10:32,360 --> 01:10:35,320
Oh, come on, everybody,
let's all pile in!
1492
01:10:35,440 --> 01:10:36,640
Ah!
1493
01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:43,800
NARRATOR: Tomorrow night...
1494
01:10:43,920 --> 01:10:45,760
FILIP: It's hard
to say things like this.
1495
01:10:45,880 --> 01:10:46,960
I definitely haven't been one
1496
01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:49,000
to kind of lean into my feelings
of emotions.
1497
01:10:49,120 --> 01:10:51,160
Alessandra had a had
a good point. Yeah?
1498
01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:53,920
Why can't you just verbalise it
to each other, you know?
1499
01:10:54,040 --> 01:10:56,440
NARRATOR: Well, Filip
finally say those magic words
1500
01:10:56,560 --> 01:10:59,160
that Stella's been dying to hear?
1501
01:11:02,040 --> 01:11:03,120
NARRATOR: And then...
1502
01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:04,680
Yeah!
1503
01:11:04,800 --> 01:11:07,240
..it's time for the annual
couples retreat.
1504
01:11:07,360 --> 01:11:08,320
Whee!
1505
01:11:08,440 --> 01:11:09,720
Whoo!
Yay!
1506
01:11:09,840 --> 01:11:11,600
WOMAN: Very, very content right now.
1507
01:11:11,720 --> 01:11:13,280
How good is this?
1508
01:11:13,400 --> 01:11:16,600
NARRATOR: Our newlyweds
are loving the brand new location...
1509
01:11:16,720 --> 01:11:18,440
# Let's get away... #
1510
01:11:18,920 --> 01:11:21,760
..and the happy couples
are all singing 'Kumbaya'.
1511
01:11:22,920 --> 01:11:25,040
I feel like the good vibes
quite nice.
1512
01:11:25,160 --> 01:11:26,480
Ladies and gentlemen,
1513
01:11:26,600 --> 01:11:28,320
can I have you guys over here,
please?
1514
01:11:28,440 --> 01:11:29,600
NARRATOR: Until...
1515
01:11:29,720 --> 01:11:33,720
It's the first night of retreat
we've had (BLEEP).
1516
01:11:34,200 --> 01:11:36,480
..one bad joke...
1517
01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:38,280
WOMAN: I just want to leave.
1518
01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:41,000
..sends the retreat
into meltdown.
1519
01:11:41,120 --> 01:11:42,040
Stop!
1520
01:11:42,160 --> 01:11:44,720
You called her a liar!
I'm not being manipulated by you.
1521
01:11:44,840 --> 01:11:45,840
NARRATOR: What is the punchline...
1522
01:11:46,680 --> 01:11:47,680
Guys, guys.
1523
01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:49,480
..that will break bonds...
1524
01:11:49,600 --> 01:11:50,480
She is a liar.
1525
01:11:50,600 --> 01:11:51,520
I'm so sick of this.
1526
01:11:53,640 --> 01:11:56,600
..and derail the course
of the experiment...
1527
01:11:56,720 --> 01:11:57,600
Get me out of here!
1528
01:11:57,720 --> 01:11:58,560
..forever?
1529
01:11:59,080 --> 01:12:00,480
(SOBBING) Made me feel
like a piece of shit.
1530
01:12:02,480 --> 01:12:05,480
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