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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:02,040 (KNOCK AT DOOR) 2 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:03,640 (SCREAMING) 3 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:06,040 NARRATOR: A visit from their family and friends... 4 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:08,480 Have you two said, "I love you?" 5 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:09,720 I think he has to say it first. 6 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:12,480 ..gave our couples fresh perspective. 7 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:13,600 She's like this on Steve 8 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:15,520 and Steve's just sitting there like this. 9 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:18,640 NARRATOR: And saw Rachel and Steven deepen their bond. 10 00:00:19,240 --> 00:00:21,120 A beautiful tea for a beautiful girl. 11 00:00:21,240 --> 00:00:22,800 NARRATOR: Tyson 2.0. 12 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:23,880 Bring it in. 13 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:25,400 Advice from the experts 14 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:27,840 gave his marriage a much needed boost. 15 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:29,600 TYSON: I could stand here for another three minutes. 16 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:31,800 NARRATOR: But the final crash course task... 17 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:33,440 Gay guys coming up to me, I don't like that. 18 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:35,800 ..saw he and Stephanie clash. 19 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:37,680 Do you like gay people? 20 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,040 I'm not gay myself, you know? Each to their own. But, um... 21 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:42,720 (LAUGHS) Yeah, I hope so. 22 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:47,560 What I need more from you is... space. 23 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:49,440 The eye gaze. 24 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:54,200 NARRATOR: And following a disastrous move-in week... 25 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:55,920 You don't see the star in me. 26 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:57,880 You don't see the light in me. See the star in you? 27 00:00:58,000 --> 00:00:58,920 It's a metaphor. 28 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:00,200 'Cause it's a performance. 29 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:04,480 NARRATOR: ..Juliet vented her rage at Joel at a fiery dinner party... 30 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:05,880 Very disgusted by him. 31 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:08,360 I'm not... I'm not married to a man. 32 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:11,880 I actually like the teddy more than I like Joel. 33 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:12,960 The teddy is not... 34 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:16,720 Oh my god. Oh. 35 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:19,920 JOHN: I am absolutely disgusted. 36 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:22,000 NARRATOR: Tonight... 37 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:25,720 Welcome, everybody, to the fourth commitment ceremony. 38 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:27,440 ..love is in the air. 39 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:30,680 My husband told me last night. "You look sexy". 40 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:34,240 NARRATOR: Our couples continue to make significant progress. 41 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:36,200 We shared our first pash thanks to you guys. 42 00:01:36,320 --> 00:01:37,440 We love a pash. 43 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:39,880 So, what's the issue with the words if the feelings are there? 44 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:41,720 NARRATOR: Filip's moment of truth. 45 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:43,440 The man has to say it first. 46 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:45,280 That's a Puerto Rican opinion, too. I get it. 47 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:47,440 Yeah, yeah. Yes, yes. 48 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:48,960 Yeah. (LAUGHS) 49 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:52,400 NARRATOR: Is this the night he drops those magic words? 50 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:54,240 First of all, I'm not against gay people. 51 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:57,560 I just feel like that whole topic can... can really be pushed on us. 52 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:00,200 NARRATOR: Tyson's unfiltered opinions... 53 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:01,680 I don't think you have much empathy. 54 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:04,400 ..cause tension amongst the group. 55 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:06,400 Having awareness is not pushing anything on you. 56 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:09,600 But is this the hill he is willing to die on? 57 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:11,040 I'm done with this experiment. 58 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:12,520 What? 59 00:02:12,640 --> 00:02:13,560 NARRATOR: And... 60 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:15,240 All we are hearing are excuses. 61 00:02:15,920 --> 00:02:18,600 ..sorry seems to be the hardest word. 62 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:20,200 You were giving me devil eyes. 63 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:21,400 You should apologise to me. 64 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:26,320 NARRATOR: Juliet's version of events leaves the whole room speechless. 65 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:28,440 I certainly understand what that means. 66 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:29,520 I feel like I had-- 67 00:02:29,640 --> 00:02:31,320 Are you even listening to what I'm saying? 68 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:32,560 Don't speak over Alessandra. 69 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:34,960 Show some respect. 70 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:38,000 (THEME MUSIC) 71 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:44,720 (WONDROUS MUSIC) 72 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:57,840 It hurts. 73 00:02:57,960 --> 00:02:59,200 What's with the face? 74 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:00,720 Are you sneezing or having an orgasm? 75 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:01,880 What's happening? 76 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:03,200 (LAUGHING) Hey. 77 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:06,160 NARRATOR: It's the morning of the fourth commitment ceremony. 78 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:07,360 Alright. Here, give me a cuddle. 79 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:08,680 (KISSING) 80 00:03:09,640 --> 00:03:11,000 STEPHANIE: How's that coffee? 81 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:13,040 TYSON: It's alright. Like, I'm drink... I'm drinking it. 82 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:14,520 (LAUGHS) 83 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:17,640 Another week. 84 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:20,080 NARRATOR: Following a successful Family and Friends Week, 85 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:23,960 for Rachel and Steven, the pair are on cloud nine. 86 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:25,120 STEVE: Thanks for the pancakes. 87 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:26,600 You're very welcome. 88 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:28,520 Coffee soothes the soul. 89 00:03:28,640 --> 00:03:29,600 (EXHALES) 90 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:32,280 I don't think there's much to soothe this morning, though. 91 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:34,680 NARRATOR: Their family and friends lunch 92 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:36,960 was a huge step forward for the couple, 93 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:40,760 with Steven receiving some much needed advice from his family 94 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:43,880 about his levels of affection towards Rachel. 95 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:45,480 I feel like when I was sitting there, 96 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:47,240 She's like this on Steve 97 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:49,000 and Steve's just sitting here like this. 98 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:50,800 Yes. Like, come on, dude. 99 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:55,560 She obviously is really into you. Let your wall down a little bit. 100 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:57,800 NARRATOR: And equipped with Mum's words of wisdom, 101 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:01,280 Steven is now seeing Rachel in a whole new light. 102 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:02,360 RACHEL (VOICE OVER): Steve and I... 103 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:04,680 I feel like we've just shot forward in our relationship 104 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:06,000 in a really great way. 105 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:09,160 Like, last night when we were going to bed, 106 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:10,880 Steven was so happy. 107 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:11,920 Flirty, fun. 108 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:13,840 It was delightful. 109 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:15,520 (LAUGHS) That was a bit funny. 110 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:17,680 STEVEN (VOICE OVER): It's amazing what you... 111 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:20,720 when you just have a glass of wine and you talk for a few hours, 112 00:04:20,840 --> 00:04:22,600 how you can feel about someone. 113 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:25,040 Or you just have a little moment of bantering and you go, 114 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:26,840 "Wow, you're awesome". 115 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:27,800 (LAUGHS) 116 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:30,840 Well, I think we've had the best week we've had, to be honest. 117 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:31,920 Yeah. 118 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:33,560 You know, that's why I'm sort of really looking forward 119 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:34,920 to the commitment ceremony. 120 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:37,800 I want John to be, like, "Yeah, good on you, mate". 121 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:39,000 (LAUGHS) 122 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,000 NARRATOR: Despite Rachel and Steven's positivity, 123 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:45,560 last night's dinner party left many of the couples reeling 124 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:49,920 as tensions between Juliette and Joel reached breaking point. 125 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:52,240 Giving loser. 126 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:54,400 You see the way she speaks to me? This is how it is. 127 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:56,640 JULIETTE: I mean, right now, I'm like, disgusted. 128 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:57,720 That's actually not.. 129 00:04:57,840 --> 00:05:00,800 I'm not married to a man, is what we're trying to say. 130 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:02,920 I actually like the teddy more than I like Joel. 131 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:11,880 ALISSA: Joel and Juliette. That was a disaster. 132 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:14,880 It was. It was chaos. That was bad. 133 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:16,480 The way they communicated was horrible. 134 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:17,560 Oh, my god. Just to be honest. 135 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:19,760 Last night, I felt really sorry for Joel. 136 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:20,880 Yeah. 137 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:24,240 For her to just disrespect him like that in front of a whole group. 138 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:25,320 I think was out of order. Yeah. 139 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:26,960 Yeah. Yep. No I agree. ..to be honest. 140 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:30,040 She was nasty. She was so nasty to him. 141 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:35,120 Yeah. And like, he was never, ever, ever disrespectful last night. 142 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:37,080 He didn't even say to her, you know, 143 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:38,880 "Your braids at the front of your head are stupid". 144 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:39,920 Like, he didn't say anything. 145 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:43,280 I reckon the experts are going to have a bit to say to Juliette. 146 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:46,520 Yeah, she's going to get more heat than a sauna. 147 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:49,360 Yeah, but I think she's going to have a lot of regret, 148 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:50,440 to be honest with you. 149 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:51,480 Good. 150 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:52,600 I felt bad for Joel. 151 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:55,440 For him to be attacked that badly by his partner... 152 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:57,480 that would be tough. 153 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:58,760 I hope he's OK. 154 00:06:02,280 --> 00:06:03,400 NARRATOR: Waking up alone, 155 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:06,920 The effects of Juliette's words are taking their toll 156 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:08,320 on husband, Joel. 157 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:09,360 JOEL: Yeah. 158 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:12,520 Feeling a bit dazed and confused and perplexed. 159 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:15,520 And my heart is hurting. 160 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:20,000 NARRATOR: The biggest impact coming from Juliette 161 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:23,320 being adamant that Joel declared himself the star 162 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,080 of 'Married at First Sight'. 163 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:27,160 You're getting all of that from me? I'm getting a performance. 164 00:06:27,280 --> 00:06:28,800 No, you're not... I'm getting a performance. 165 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:29,960 You don't understand me. 166 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:31,880 OK . I'm going to give you-- You don't see the star in me. 167 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:33,960 You don't see the light in me. See the star in you? 168 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:34,960 Yeah. Yeah, literally. 169 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:37,240 Because it's a performance! It's a... it's a metaphor. 170 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:38,440 'Cause it's a performance. 171 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:42,400 He looked at me, like, deadpan me in the eyes and said, 172 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:44,560 "Well, I'm the star". 173 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:47,840 Juliette has behaved appallingly. 174 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:51,560 I came into this experiment 175 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:53,200 with an open heart and an open mind, 176 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:56,800 and it's very clear that we have hit rock bottom. 177 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:01,880 Um. 178 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:07,360 I'm not really feeling good about seeing Juliette at the moment. 179 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:10,400 The way Juliette is treating me right now, 180 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:11,520 it makes me feel less than. 181 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:13,000 And it makes me feel like I'm not valued. 182 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:15,920 So, things have to change, for sure. 183 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:20,760 Going into this commitment ceremony... 184 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:22,880 I really hope that Juliette 185 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:25,680 has been able to reflect on her behaviour. 186 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,160 I'm hoping that Juliette can apologise to me. 187 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:32,240 Yeah. 188 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:35,520 I don't deserve to be treated like this. 189 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:38,560 Everyone's got their limit and I'm close to mine. 190 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:48,240 NARRATOR: Down the hall in a separate apartment, 191 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:49,680 Juliette remains convinced 192 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:52,520 that Joel said he was the star of show 193 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:56,160 and questions his authenticity in the experiment. 194 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,240 Well, yeah. I'm not apologising for last night. No way. 195 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:03,200 What I saw of Joel at the dinner party, 196 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:06,200 I was completely disgusted by. 197 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:09,520 Eww. Um... 198 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:13,840 Um, he just completely gaslit me in front of the whole entire group 199 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:16,560 and then tried to create a smear campaign 200 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:18,160 to paint me out to be some crazy bitch. 201 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:19,200 And by the way, 202 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:22,200 you're going to get crazy bitch when you're giving me crazy bitch. 203 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:25,160 Idiot. 204 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:28,280 I think my anger was fair... 205 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:30,960 for what I was faced with. 206 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:34,640 Yeah, so, tonight, 207 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:38,840 I'm hoping the experts see Joel for what he truly is. 208 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:45,000 He wants to be perceived as, like, the star of the damn show. 209 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:47,560 And he was not giving stardom. 210 00:08:47,680 --> 00:08:50,840 He was giving loser. He was giving mini poop. 211 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:54,880 He was not behaving like a man. 212 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:57,720 He was behaving like a scared little boy... 213 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:00,240 who didn't have his teddy bear with him. 214 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:07,120 NARRATOR: This morning, 215 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:10,560 the atmosphere is tense in Stephanie and Tyson's apartment.. 216 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:16,360 with Stephanie feeling a growing distance 217 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:18,640 between her and husband, Tyson. 218 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:23,640 Just a few little things that have, like, been bottling up, I suppose. 219 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:28,280 I'm a bit upset by some of his comments, 220 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:29,640 some of his views on things, 221 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:33,880 like, the whole submissive topic and this whole submissive role 222 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:35,640 that Tyson says he wants, 223 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:38,520 which he brought up again last night at the dinner party. 224 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:41,600 Like, I look at it this way, I'm the provider, I'm the protector. 225 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:43,480 Like, I'm the one that's bringing in the money. 226 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:45,320 I'm the one that's protecting for my family. 227 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:48,360 And my wife should stay home, you know, cook, clean, 228 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:49,840 look after my kids. 229 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:51,400 She can't multi-task with three kids. 230 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:53,200 Like, she needs to focus on the kids. 231 00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:54,560 Who says that can't? 232 00:09:54,680 --> 00:09:56,000 Like... My husband. 233 00:09:57,800 --> 00:09:59,080 My husband says I can't. 234 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:02,440 He's the most (BLEEP) rigid man I've ever met in my life. 235 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:06,760 But every time I have spoken up, he's always like, 236 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:09,840 "So, listen, Steph. This is how it is, Steph". 237 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:13,520 So, I feel like I'm somewhat suppressing my emotions 238 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:15,840 in order to not have arguments with Tyson. 239 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:17,480 How did you feel... 240 00:10:18,560 --> 00:10:20,080 like we went last night? 241 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:23,040 Um, I feel like we went pretty good. 242 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:24,080 Mm. 243 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:27,720 Um, it's really good just to, I don't know, be amicable 244 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:29,720 and go in as a united front. 245 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:31,880 Um, opposed to, you know, 246 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:33,720 having a heated debate with you over something silly. 247 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:40,840 STEPHANIE (VOICE OVER): This week's dinner party was successful 248 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:42,240 for Tyson and I... 249 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:45,040 because I didn't speak up. 250 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:49,960 If I'd spoken up, we would have argued. 251 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:53,120 You know, Tyson doesn't like to be challenged. 252 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:55,880 This week, I think, um, yeah, 253 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:57,320 it was a lot more mature environment. 254 00:10:57,440 --> 00:10:58,880 Mm. Do you... 255 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:02,240 what do you think about David mentioning the submissive thing? 256 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:05,000 Yeah, the whole submissive thing... 257 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:07,520 Like, I just don't think it was something... 258 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:10,920 that necessarily, had to get, you know, brought up once again. 259 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:12,720 Like, we've spoken so much about that. 260 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:17,720 (CLEARS THROAT) So, yeah, let's just get on with that 261 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:18,600 and not even... 262 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:20,880 I'm not even gonna bother talking about that anymore. But, um... 263 00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:25,840 Yeah, look, I think with Danny, um, he's actually quite a nice guy. 264 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:27,040 (VOICE BECOMES MUFFLED) So, I think, yeah, 265 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:29,640 he and I have got a common. 266 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:33,040 Um, yeah. Just try to see if I can get along with. 267 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:34,440 And, I don't know. 268 00:11:34,560 --> 00:11:36,440 STEPHANIE (VOICE OVER): I feel a bit at my wit's wits end. 269 00:11:36,560 --> 00:11:38,280 Everything is Tyson's way or the highway. 270 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:41,120 I will raise a few issues with the experts this evening. 271 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:43,160 It seems that the only person he listens to is John. 272 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:44,880 Not even 273 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:46,560 Mel and Alessandra, 274 00:11:46,680 --> 00:11:48,480 because they're women. 275 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:52,840 Stay positive Steph and, um... 276 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:54,520 Yeah. Yeah. Mm. 277 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:57,840 TYSON (VOICE OVER): Going into this commitment ceremony 278 00:11:57,960 --> 00:11:59,000 I'm feeling good. 279 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:03,960 I think me and Steph are definitely at a more better place. 280 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:07,120 I'm looking forward to speak to most would be John. 281 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:10,760 Um, Alessandra, she's a sexologist, so it's kind of irrelevant. 282 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:12,120 Mel. 283 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:13,160 Mel's Mel. 284 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:15,920 But I'm all ears for John. 285 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:18,040 Yeah. It's going to be interesting. 286 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:19,720 Yeah. 287 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:30,560 NARRATOR: The countdown is on 288 00:12:30,680 --> 00:12:32,840 to tonight's fourth commitment ceremony... 289 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:34,160 Mwah. I'll see you soon. 290 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:35,680 ..which marks the first time 291 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:39,080 that our three new couples can decide whether to stay... 292 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:40,880 CHRIS: You're looking sharp. 293 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:43,200 SAM: Oh, thank you too. Thank you so much. 294 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:45,640 ..or leave the experiment. 295 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:53,480 I was going to try and not ruin your lipstick. 296 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:54,600 My lipstick? Yeah. I was going to... 297 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:56,160 You're wearing it on your cheek now, babes. 298 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:57,440 Whoo. Badge of honour. 299 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:06,120 (SUSPENSE MUSIC) 300 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:15,680 Greetings, gentlemen. 301 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:17,520 Hello, guys. Come on in. 302 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:19,280 TYSON: Looking fabulous. All yous. 303 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:29,560 (SIGHS) 304 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:34,760 JOHN: Welcome, ladies. WOMAN: Hi. 305 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:36,400 MEL: Hello, ladies. 306 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:37,560 Hello. 307 00:13:39,040 --> 00:13:40,080 (EXHALES) 308 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:44,880 How are you? 309 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:49,320 ALISSA: Oh. 310 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:50,400 Thank you. 311 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:07,600 Well, welcome, everybody, to the fourth commitment ceremony. 312 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:09,960 The honeymoon is absolutely over now 313 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:15,960 MEL: This week has been a big week for our original couples. 314 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:17,840 Of course, you've had the opportunity 315 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:19,640 to meet with friends and family. 316 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:22,800 ALESSANDRA: And our new couples who have just moved in, 317 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:25,920 of course, just went through Crash Course Week. 318 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:29,200 We'll be here tonight to go over everything that happened, 319 00:14:29,320 --> 00:14:30,240 what didn't happen, 320 00:14:30,360 --> 00:14:32,160 and what should be happening moving forward. 321 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:37,680 First up on the couch... 322 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:44,120 Filip and Stella. 323 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:45,120 (LAUGHS) 324 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:49,000 Hello. 325 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:50,080 Hello. 326 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:52,800 How are you two going? 327 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:54,760 Yeah. We're going... We're going great. 328 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:58,760 How did this week go with friends and family and everything? 329 00:14:58,880 --> 00:14:59,840 Uh, went great. 330 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:04,560 Um, but we've got a hard-hitting question 331 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:06,560 asked by one of Filip's good mates. 332 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:09,280 Straight away, I was like, 333 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:11,440 "Oh, guys, I have an important question to ask. 334 00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:12,880 "Did you already said I love you?" 335 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:15,800 And I was like, "OK, I need to get a drink". 336 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:17,440 And I was like, "I need to get away". 337 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:19,280 ALESSANDRA: How did you manage that? 338 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:23,240 We just said that we do communicate without words, 339 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:25,960 but we do both agree, like the feelings are there for sure. 340 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:30,440 So, what's the issue with the words if the feelings are there? 341 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:32,600 I have an opinion... 342 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:36,840 that the man has to say it first. 343 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:39,320 Oh, that's a Puerto Rican opinion too. I get it. 344 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:40,520 Yeah, yeah. Yes. 345 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:41,600 Yes. 346 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:42,760 Yeah. (LAUGHS) 347 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:44,280 Yeah, her belief system is that, you know, 348 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:45,840 if it's going to come out of anyone first, 349 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:47,320 I'm gonna have to say it. 350 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:50,680 So, just for my own clarification... 351 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:51,720 (LAUGHS) 352 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:53,720 ..just so that I understand as well... 353 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:58,480 you were mentioning that you guys feel things 354 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:00,600 and that, you know, because, you know, 355 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:03,080 and you're communicating that by Morse code and looks... 356 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:04,120 (LAUGHING) 357 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:05,160 ..but no words. 358 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:06,480 (LAUGHTER) 359 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:08,920 Yeah, yeah, we're tiptoeing around. 360 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:11,360 Like, we asked random questions, like, I guess, 361 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:13,320 "Do you think I love you?" And she's like, "Yeah". 362 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:14,560 And I'm like, "Oh". 363 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:16,680 He's using it in a sentence. 364 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:19,960 Yeah. He started to use the word, "Love". 365 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:21,400 It's been dusted off. 366 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:22,880 I'm not allergic to it. Yeah. 367 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:25,040 Yeah. So, we're just alluring, I guess, around it. 368 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:27,440 We're in a good place. 369 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:29,160 The friends and family... 370 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:31,480 When I was sitting there, I was like, looking around, 371 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:33,000 everyone's getting along like a dream. 372 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:34,160 Everyone's eating and stuff. 373 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:37,720 I'm like, yeah, this could totally work in the real world. 374 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:40,760 You know, just it feels right, you know? 375 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:43,040 And we're still in the experiment, but I'm like, yeah... 376 00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:45,120 this is this is for me, you know? 377 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:46,560 What do you think? Yeah, I agree. 378 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:49,600 It's beautiful. Yeah. It's just easy. 379 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:52,040 So, what is holding you back, Filip, 380 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:54,080 from telling her how you feel? 381 00:16:57,120 --> 00:16:59,320 Uh, the feelings are super strong, 382 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:00,600 but I know that sometimes 383 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:01,880 you can get caught up in the whole experiment. 384 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:03,920 and, um, I want it to be genuine. 385 00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:07,480 Like, I personally, like, I've only said... 386 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:10,400 I've only said it to someone just living in the outside world, 387 00:17:10,520 --> 00:17:11,840 like, not in an experiment. 388 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:13,280 And I understand that it is real. This is real. 389 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:14,920 Have you ever been an experiment? 390 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:16,280 (LAUGHS) 391 00:17:16,400 --> 00:17:18,840 Oddly enough, I don't know. I... I don't know. 392 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:22,720 In this environment, in another environment, 393 00:17:22,840 --> 00:17:24,560 if you're feeling then you're feeling, 394 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:28,360 and I think that needs to be celebrated. 395 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:29,760 No, there's definitely is. 396 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:31,800 There's good vibes around there with us. Yeah. 397 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:33,040 It's... I don't know. Yeah, we'll see. 398 00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:34,920 Yeah. We'll get back to yous. 399 00:17:35,040 --> 00:17:36,960 (LAUGHTER) 400 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:41,000 Well, I don't think we're going to be very surprised then. 401 00:17:41,120 --> 00:17:42,800 We should go to the decisions. 402 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:44,600 Stella, you go ahead. 403 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:47,600 I adore him, he's beautiful. And, um, yeah... 404 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:51,560 Up, up, upwards and... Whatever the saying is. 405 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:52,520 (LAUGHS) 406 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:53,600 Stay. 407 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:55,240 MEL: Brilliant. 408 00:17:55,360 --> 00:17:58,920 Uh, this week's been great, and just... it all leads to 409 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:00,480 this is going to work, you know? 410 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:02,680 So, I'm... I'm loving it. 411 00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:03,960 I'm going to be hanging around here. 412 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:05,040 Loving it. Staying. 413 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:06,640 We're loving it too for you guys. 414 00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:09,040 Well done. Have a great week. Appreciate yous. 415 00:18:09,160 --> 00:18:10,560 Cheers. Thanks heap. Thank you. 416 00:18:12,120 --> 00:18:13,200 That's love. 417 00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:16,320 Alright. Let's get our next couple up. 418 00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:20,800 Joel and Juliette. 419 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:21,880 (OMINOUS MUSIC) 420 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:22,920 (CLAPPING) 421 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:27,960 (MAN CLEARS THROAT) 422 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:30,840 Hello, you two. Come and grab a seat. 423 00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:32,720 (EXHALES) 424 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:34,160 How was your week? 425 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:37,200 It was OK. 426 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:44,200 That's putting it mildly. 427 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:46,240 We've had a few... 428 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:48,440 a few nice moments. 429 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:53,640 Apart from that, it's been really bad. 430 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:55,920 (CLOCK TICKING) 431 00:18:58,640 --> 00:18:59,640 OK. 432 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:01,680 Tell us, uh, Joel, 433 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:04,840 what have been the difficult moments through the week? 434 00:19:07,360 --> 00:19:10,400 Well, before Juliette moved apartments... 435 00:19:11,360 --> 00:19:12,840 she was accusing me of being fake. 436 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:17,080 I said to her, "Juliette, I'm not a fake person. 437 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:18,880 "You just don't see the real me. 438 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:22,960 "You don't see the light in me, and you don't see the star in me". 439 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:28,520 Then she's like, "Aha! See? 440 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:29,840 "You think you're the star of the show!" 441 00:19:29,960 --> 00:19:32,080 And I'm like, "Juliette, it's a metaphor. 442 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:33,520 "It's a figure of speech". 443 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:38,280 I'm... What I mean by that is you don't see the true essence in me. 444 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:41,520 So, she has twisted that whole thing. 445 00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:42,920 No. Yeah. 446 00:19:43,040 --> 00:19:44,040 No. 447 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:46,040 Juliette, I remember the exact words I used. 448 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:47,800 So, you've misinterpreted my words... 449 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:49,240 Can I speak? ..and used them against me. 450 00:19:49,360 --> 00:19:50,520 Can I speak? Publicly slammed me. 451 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:51,480 Can I speak? 452 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:52,560 Thanks. 453 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:55,360 You are painting me out to be a liar. 454 00:19:56,120 --> 00:19:58,000 You said you are the star. 455 00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:01,200 And you definitely don't see me as the wife. 456 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:03,440 You see me as your way onto this show... 457 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:07,600 because you again want to be the star of the show. 458 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:10,160 No, no, no, that's not true. I never said that. 459 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:14,600 There's just constant reputation savaging. 460 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:17,440 Like, last night. 461 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:20,800 the way she talks down to me in public, in front of everyone... 462 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:24,720 it shows that she has no respect for me. 463 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:28,520 Last week, 464 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:31,360 we did the physical intimacy challenge that was set. 465 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:36,160 And I read out the first envelope, 466 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:37,480 and I read, "Step one. 467 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:39,400 "Stare into each other's eyes for three minutes". 468 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:40,520 And then she screamed at me, 469 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:42,400 "I'm not staring into your devil eyes". 470 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:45,000 That was very hurtful. 471 00:20:45,120 --> 00:20:46,240 Did you say that? 472 00:20:46,360 --> 00:20:48,960 Yeah. It does feel like I'm getting the devil vibes from him sometimes. 473 00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:53,920 Sorry. Gonna call it how I feel. 474 00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:57,360 Are you not apologetic about that? Do you have... 475 00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:58,440 No, I'm not apologetic. 476 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:03,200 At that moment, you were giving me devil eyes. 477 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:08,160 All you've done is... is... is degrade me and demean me 478 00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:10,080 and disrespect me and put me down. 479 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:12,680 And I've never retaliated once, not once in two weeks. 480 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:14,600 Not once have I said... 481 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:16,440 I haven't said one mean thing to you. 482 00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:18,880 Not one. Not one insult. 483 00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:21,000 Wow. 484 00:21:21,120 --> 00:21:24,360 Honestly, like, feels like I'm always at fault for everything. 485 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,240 You haven't owned up to anything. 486 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:29,280 You should apologise to me. 487 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:43,800 JULIETTE: Wow. 488 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,960 Honestly, like, feels like I'm always at fault for everything. 489 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:51,840 You haven't owned up to anything. 490 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:54,640 You should apologise to me. 491 00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:00,520 I think I should apologise after the dinner party last night? 492 00:22:01,120 --> 00:22:02,120 Yeah, a hundred percent. 493 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:14,200 So, just to be clear, you would hope for Joel to apologise tonight to you 494 00:22:20,120 --> 00:22:22,200 I would hope that he takes accountability. 495 00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:24,520 Um... 496 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:29,000 I don't think Joel thinks he has done anything wrong. 497 00:22:29,120 --> 00:22:31,600 Like, I don't think he thinks he's hurt me in any way. 498 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:34,760 I think he thinks he's the... the realest one here. 499 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:40,000 And the one that's the most evolved. 500 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:44,160 And there's nothing he's ever done wrong in his life. 501 00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:48,680 But I feel like last night was just very uncalled for. 502 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:54,560 Um, felt like we were doing a smear campaign against me 503 00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:56,760 at the end of the table with the guys... 504 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:00,160 and tried to make me look bad. 505 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:02,840 Like, that doesn't seem like a good husband to me. 506 00:23:04,120 --> 00:23:05,160 JOHN: Uh... 507 00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:06,800 What were those specific moments? 508 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:09,360 What were those things that he was saying or doing to you... 509 00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:12,520 that really was designed to make you look bad? 510 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:16,040 Um... 511 00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:19,520 What was the things? 512 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:25,160 (TENSE MUSIC) 513 00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:28,200 (CLOCK TICKING) 514 00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:37,200 I don't know. 515 00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:39,360 I guess, maybe when we were talking about, like, the star comment... 516 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,200 and he just kept gaslighting me and lying me 517 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:46,320 saying that I was the one that was lying, 518 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:48,440 that I was the one making up all of that stuff. 519 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:49,600 But we've already established 520 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:52,880 that I use the word, 'Star' to describe a metaphor. 521 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:54,960 You said you are the star. 522 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:58,680 Um, and you know, you are the theatrical man. 523 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,600 It's like it just feels like I'm not talking to a human being. 524 00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:04,040 Joel, you're shaking your head... Mm. 525 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:05,040 ..in disbelief. 526 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:06,120 What's going on for you? 527 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:08,480 I think at the core of it... 528 00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:11,520 Juliette does not accept me for who I am. 529 00:24:12,360 --> 00:24:13,560 You think I'm fake? 530 00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:15,000 I'm not a fake person, Juliette. 531 00:24:15,120 --> 00:24:16,160 I've treated you-- This vibe... 532 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:17,760 No, no. ..is very character right now. 533 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:18,800 No, it's not character. 534 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:19,960 I'm not a character. 535 00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:21,840 I've worked hard to become this man, 536 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:25,040 and I have a very strong sense of self, and I'm happy. 537 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:26,200 I'm joyful. 538 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,960 I spread positivity wherever I go, 539 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,920 and I make people feel better about themselves. 540 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:33,080 You think you do. 541 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,480 That is what I do. I spread love and I spread joy. 542 00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:37,080 You haven't been doing that with me. 543 00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:39,960 I've been trying but you push me away, Juliette. 544 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:42,360 You've been pushing me away and you've been putting me down, 545 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:45,160 you've been rejecting me, and you've been very nasty. 546 00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:48,640 Are you actually listening to yourself? 547 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:53,000 The way you speak is... is vicious and with venom. 548 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,240 The way you speak is condescending and belittling. 549 00:24:56,360 --> 00:24:58,440 No, no it's not. Yes, it is. 550 00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:00,440 No, it's not, Juliette. Yes, it is. Yes, it is. 551 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:01,480 OK. 552 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:05,280 We've heard enough. 553 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:09,320 We know from what we saw last night... 554 00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,440 and from what we see on the couch, 555 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:16,400 that it's time particularly for you, Juliette, to listen. 556 00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:21,600 This is something that you need to take on board. 557 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:25,480 I find it breathtaking... 558 00:25:26,120 --> 00:25:30,640 that you, Juliette, want an apology 559 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,080 from Joel for last night. 560 00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:40,480 Your behaviour last night towards Joel... 561 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:43,880 was ugly. 562 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:51,800 And if I'm being totally honest, it was mean and cruel. 563 00:25:57,560 --> 00:26:00,320 We're not sure if I've ever seen someone on the attack 564 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:04,400 in such a way as you did to Joel last night. 565 00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:06,800 You called him a liar. 566 00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:09,760 You said he wasn't a man. 567 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:13,960 You said he was embarrassing. 568 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,760 And you found him unattractive. 569 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:22,960 (TENSE MUSIC) 570 00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:27,960 You said, actually tonight... 571 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:31,360 that he launched a smear campaign against you... 572 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:32,640 Mm-hm. ..last night. 573 00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:35,680 And what we saw... 574 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:39,760 was you going around to different groups of people 575 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:41,360 and destroying his character. 576 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:44,760 And at no point... 577 00:26:46,120 --> 00:26:49,080 did he say anything derogatory about you. 578 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:53,640 And yet you sit here saying, "I want an apology from him". 579 00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:56,680 Do you see... 580 00:26:58,040 --> 00:26:59,800 how unusual that request is? 581 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:01,720 Yeah. 582 00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:05,360 I don't think you understand the magnitude of it. 583 00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:06,440 Yeah. 584 00:27:07,120 --> 00:27:09,440 Now, I'm telling you this because you need to learn... 585 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:14,320 that regardless of whether there's a he-said she-said going on 586 00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:15,480 in a relationship... 587 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:20,680 regardless of whether you feel like there's an injustice... 588 00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:26,320 you can never talk to your partner in that way... 589 00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:31,920 because that is absolutely inappropriate and unacceptable 590 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,000 to happen in a relationship. 591 00:27:34,120 --> 00:27:35,000 Yeah. 592 00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:40,320 ALESSANDRA: I'll tell you what my concern is, 593 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:42,200 and it is one among many. 594 00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:46,000 What we witnessed last night was so incredibly vile. 595 00:27:47,120 --> 00:27:49,800 If that is the way that you dare to speak to Joel in public, 596 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:53,480 I shudder to think how you can speak to him behind closed doors. 597 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:55,760 It was shocking. 598 00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:00,800 Yeah. I mean, I definitely was unkind last night. 599 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:02,000 "Unkind"... 600 00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:07,280 is really, really throwing a lot of sugar on top of it. 601 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,000 But yesterday, it feels like I was... 602 00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:12,320 fully crashing out. 603 00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:14,200 Yeah, if you saw what I was saying. 604 00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:16,280 The fact that you're justifying any of it... 605 00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:17,960 and still... 606 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:24,440 still have not, with profound shame and remorse, 607 00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:27,200 turned to your partner and apologised 608 00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:28,720 is beyond me. 609 00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:30,960 No, I definitely think I was unkind for sure, 610 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:32,720 because I was angry, I was hurt. 611 00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,600 Like, you know, when we're fighting, 612 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:37,480 I do say mean things in the heat of the moment, 613 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:38,920 but, like, that's normal. 614 00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:40,040 Like, everyone does that. 615 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,720 All we are hearing right now are excuses. 616 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,680 You are not taking any of this feedback on board. 617 00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:50,600 Yeah. Um... 618 00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:52,240 You're sitting there and you're saying, "Yep". 619 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:53,760 Yeah. And you're saying, "OK"... 620 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:56,840 but you're sitting there with your arms crossed, 621 00:28:56,960 --> 00:29:00,600 absolutely closed off to anything that we are saying 622 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:01,880 Look, I have-- 623 00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:03,560 Not heard a word of acknowledgement. 624 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:04,680 And not an apology. 625 00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:06,800 Yeah, absolutely not an apology. 626 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:09,560 OK, I'll do that now, if I can. 627 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:13,960 (TENSE MUSIC) 628 00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:25,560 Um. (CLICKS TONGUE) 629 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:32,480 Look, last night, I obviously involved all of you guys. 630 00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:36,040 Um... 631 00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,320 Very sorry. Honestly, like... 632 00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:44,840 not one to be dragging every single person down. 633 00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:53,720 STEPHANIE: I don't think you need to apologise to us. 634 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:55,840 You need to apologise to him. Juliette. 635 00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:57,400 I'm about to. I'm about to. 636 00:29:57,520 --> 00:29:58,720 Ah, I thought I would be first. 637 00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:14,280 Last night, I obviously involved all of you guys. 638 00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:17,840 Um. 639 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:21,120 Very sorry. Honestly, like... 640 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:23,360 not one to be... 641 00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,640 dragging every single person down. 642 00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:34,480 STEPHANIE: I don't think you need to apologise to us. 643 00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:36,240 You need to apologise to him, Juliette. 644 00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,080 I'm about to. I'm about to. 645 00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:39,600 Ah, I thought I would be first. 646 00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:44,160 Um... 647 00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:47,280 Joel. 648 00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:56,240 I have always said definitely... 649 00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:58,000 the wrong thing. 650 00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:04,280 Um, and I don't feel that much hatred towards you. 651 00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:11,160 I guess, maybe, I just felt watered down and tired 652 00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:12,280 and exhausted 653 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,120 and it just came out in a disgusting way. 654 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:17,960 And I really apologise for hurting your feelings. 655 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:19,920 You're definitely a man. 656 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:25,680 You're not... you're not... You're shaking your head. 657 00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:27,560 I don't accept your apology. 658 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:31,240 I think it's insincere. 659 00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:33,040 OK. 660 00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,360 I guess when I was feeling so hurt, 661 00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:40,560 I completely didn't see how much hurt and pain I was giving to you. 662 00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:41,920 You've been doing that from day one. 663 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:43,000 No, I haven't. 664 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:46,200 Yeah. This is how it's been from day one behind the scenes. 665 00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:47,360 No, it has not. 666 00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:51,960 Juliette, what I'm saying to you, feedback that you need to hear 667 00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:56,120 is you talk in a very toxic fight style. 668 00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:58,320 You can't say sorry. 669 00:31:58,440 --> 00:31:59,400 I've apologised. 670 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:00,480 Not really. 671 00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:04,320 I'm confused why you think that. 672 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:06,480 I can give you a really good example. 673 00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:08,360 Just now, you were apologising 674 00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:09,560 and your apology, 675 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:11,920 part of the words you used 676 00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:16,360 were, "I don't even feel that much hatred towards you". 677 00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:18,400 Yeah, no, because it's been moments... 678 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:21,080 "I don't even feel that much hatred". 679 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:22,320 There's definitely... I'm... 680 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:23,600 It's not my first language, 681 00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:26,560 but I certainly understand what that means. 682 00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:27,840 I have been feeling hatred. 683 00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:29,640 Are you even listening to what I'm saying? 684 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,520 Don't speak over Alessandra. Show some respect. 685 00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:37,160 JOHN: You're proving our point. 686 00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:38,840 Sure. I'm sorry, guys. 687 00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:42,800 Let's go to the decision. 688 00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:48,880 We're going to go with you first, Joel. 689 00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:54,320 (SIGHS) 690 00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,080 I have too much respect for myself. 691 00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:05,880 Uh, Juliette, what have you got for us? 692 00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:07,800 Um... 693 00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:17,360 I'm really sorry, but I did write 'Stay'. 694 00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:27,280 I'm really sorry. 695 00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:31,720 I didn't obviously realise how... 696 00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:37,960 awful and vile my actions have been. 697 00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:43,800 Um, I've always liked the glimpses we've had. 698 00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:46,360 I've seen why the experts connected us. 699 00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,240 Like, we... We had the best time sometimes. 700 00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:53,360 And so those were the bits where I'm like, 701 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:55,560 "OK, I want to work towards that more. 702 00:33:56,760 --> 00:34:00,440 Um, I obviously didn't realise to the extent I was hurting you. 703 00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:05,480 So, I'm hoping that I can make it up to you. 704 00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,480 I guess we have another week together. 705 00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:18,440 And you set boundaries with me on the second night of the honeymoon. 706 00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:19,480 So... 707 00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:22,200 it's my time to set boundaries. 708 00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:23,360 Sure. 709 00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:25,640 And I will not be disrespected like that again. 710 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:28,960 I will not tolerate it. 711 00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,120 I will always treat you with kindness and respect... 712 00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:34,480 and I expect the same treatment back. 713 00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:36,040 Of course. 714 00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:38,760 So, that's my boundaries. Yeah. 715 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:41,760 And it's a one-strike policy. 716 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,440 There's no second chances. So, that's it. 717 00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:45,480 Mm-hm. 718 00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:51,360 Now, Joel has very clearly laid out his boundaries to you. 719 00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:55,720 Are you able to respect those this week? 720 00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:57,400 Definitely. 721 00:34:58,440 --> 00:34:59,880 Do you want to re-say them? 722 00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:05,560 I mean, it was the bare minimum. 723 00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:07,600 I don't quite know how you've forgotten. 724 00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:09,520 We're talking about respect. 725 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:12,080 Basic respect. 726 00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:15,800 Yeah. I mean, we can, I guess, have a chat about it tomorrow. 727 00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:22,240 My biggest worry is that everything that you've heard from us... 728 00:35:24,240 --> 00:35:25,480 has fallen on deaf ears. 729 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:27,360 Definitely not. 730 00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:30,920 Well, there's only one person 731 00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:32,600 that's going to be able to prove us wrong. 732 00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:35,080 Understood? 733 00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:36,200 Yeah. 734 00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:38,360 You can go back to the group. 735 00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:39,320 Thanks. 736 00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:42,960 (SCATTERED CLAPPING) 737 00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:51,240 Do I want to be with a person who disrespects me like that? 738 00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:52,320 No, I don't. 739 00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,240 So, if I'm going to feel differently towards Juliette... 740 00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:00,920 she needs to drastically change. 741 00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:07,200 It's time for action. 742 00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:11,320 NARRATOR: Coming up... 743 00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:12,480 (LAUGHS) 744 00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:13,800 Gotta love that laugh, eh? 745 00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:14,880 (LAUGHS) 746 00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:17,040 ..romance is blooming. 747 00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:19,080 We just had our first pash, thanks to you guys. 748 00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:20,400 I think it was, like, 25, 30 seconds. 749 00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:21,560 Yeah, something like that. Yeah. 750 00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:22,600 Yeah, keep practising. 751 00:36:22,720 --> 00:36:24,280 Yeah. Keep practising. (LAUGHS) 752 00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:26,080 NARRATOR: Before... 753 00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:29,600 We bicker when I speak up and share my opinion. 754 00:36:29,720 --> 00:36:30,840 And you don't like it? 755 00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:33,800 NARRATOR: ..Stephanie finally speaks out. 756 00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:35,880 So, am I supposed to be quiet? 757 00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:38,160 Am I supposed to be quiet? 758 00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:51,080 JOHN: Next couple up on the couch... 759 00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:57,600 Rachel and Stevo. 760 00:36:57,720 --> 00:36:59,000 (CHEERING AND CLAPPING) Hey. 761 00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:01,720 (CHATTER AND LAUGHTER) 762 00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:04,680 Hello, you two. STEVE: Hiya. 763 00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:06,320 Get rid of that negative energy. 764 00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:08,760 It's a bit of bit of drama on this lounge today. 765 00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:10,840 Shake it off. Oh. 766 00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:15,920 Oh, look at you two, all cuddled up on the couch there. 767 00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:17,520 Oh. That's cosy. 768 00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:19,400 We noticed that. 769 00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:20,840 Oh, oh. 770 00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:22,360 (RACHEL LAUGHING) 771 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:26,160 Previously, you hadn't seen any real physical affection between you two. 772 00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:29,080 So, what's changed? What's going on? 773 00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:30,800 Well.... 774 00:37:31,720 --> 00:37:35,760 We had a good, Family and Friends, um, Day. 775 00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:39,720 My brother, you know, gave me some wise words. 776 00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:43,680 He was observing the body language between me and Rachel. 777 00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:45,880 And he goes, "Well, I'm watching Rachel. 778 00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,680 "She's really leaning into you and giving these cuddles, 779 00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:50,960 "and you're just standing there like a stunned mullet". 780 00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:55,680 And he goes, "Do you realise how this could be making Rachel feel, 781 00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:59,280 "like, you're sort of, subtly rejecting her?" 782 00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:00,760 Wow. 783 00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:04,360 So, I took that on board and sort of, you know, 784 00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,440 my brother's holding the mirror up to me, 785 00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:08,000 going, "Look what you're doing". 786 00:38:09,240 --> 00:38:11,160 Go, brother. This is good. 787 00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:12,240 It's amazing. 788 00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:14,840 That small little bit of advice can really change things around. 789 00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:19,000 Um, I feel like now I'm starting to change my ways 790 00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:22,640 and I'm showing a bit more, you know, affection towards Rachel. 791 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:24,200 You know, we had a pretty good kiss 792 00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,880 and a bit of a chat and a cuddle on the bed last night. 793 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,040 So, it's definitely a step in the right direction. 794 00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:30,920 Oh, my god. 795 00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:35,000 That's a big step forward. 796 00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:37,480 That's a different approach from you 797 00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:40,920 Yeah, it's a good feeling. 798 00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:47,160 Can I brag for a second because I love me a subtle brag. 799 00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:51,920 My husband told me last night before we went to sleep, 800 00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:53,040 had a little kiss afterwards, 801 00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:54,920 I said, "You look so handsome tonight". 802 00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:56,840 And he's like, "And you look sexy". 803 00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:00,000 I love it. 804 00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:01,640 (LAUGHS) 805 00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:04,600 It's one thing for your man to call you "Beautiful", right? 806 00:39:04,720 --> 00:39:06,720 It's another to be called "Sexy". 807 00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:08,360 Oh, yeah. 808 00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:09,880 I was like, "Mm, OK, OK". 809 00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:11,280 (LAUGHS) 810 00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:13,040 (LAUGHS) Love it. 811 00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:14,640 (LAUGHS) 812 00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:17,480 Gotta love that laugh, hey? 813 00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:18,520 (LAUGHS) 814 00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:20,720 And your smile, Stevo. 815 00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:21,760 My smile? 816 00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:23,760 You're grinning from ear to ear. 817 00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:25,760 Uh, awesome. (LAUGHS) 818 00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:27,120 MEL: It's really good to see. 819 00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:31,440 And on that note, Rachel - stay or leave? 820 00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:32,560 I... 821 00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:36,160 Shock. I'm going to shock you all and stay. 822 00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:39,440 Shock, shock. (LAUGHS) 823 00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:41,040 Love that. 824 00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:44,920 Um, do I need to make a speech before I say it 825 00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:46,560 or should just blurt it out? 826 00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:47,880 Ah! I wrote, 'Stay'. 827 00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:53,440 There's an exclamation point. Take note. 828 00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:55,240 (LAUGHS) Three. 829 00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:56,320 DAVID: Nice one. 830 00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:03,680 It really feels that you are connected this week. 831 00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:07,800 And now we want to see the romance grow. 832 00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:09,920 MEL: Yes. So, go back to the couch... 833 00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:11,040 (LAUGHS) ..and next week, 834 00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:12,480 keep working on that. 835 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:13,520 Thank you all so much. Have a great week. 836 00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:15,200 Thank you. Thank you. 837 00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:16,280 Nicely done, you two. 838 00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:17,320 Good stuff. Yes. 839 00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:26,440 Oh my gosh, I gotta stop smiling, my jaw starts to hurt. 840 00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:28,080 (LAUGHS) 841 00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:29,760 Nice. 842 00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:31,320 Our next couple up on the couch... 843 00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:32,880 Chris and Sam. 844 00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:34,760 Whoo-hoo! 845 00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:41,200 Hello, boys. 846 00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:42,760 CHRIS AND SAM: Hello. Welcome. 847 00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:43,920 Yeah. 848 00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:46,600 A couple of big smiles. 849 00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:48,120 Yeah. How are we? 850 00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:50,040 We're very well, 851 00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:52,120 but we're more interested in how you two are doing. 852 00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:53,960 Oh, no, we're going well. 853 00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:57,520 Um, the crash course was good. Great. 854 00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:02,080 Um, yeah, we really opened up, and we're vulnerable with each other 855 00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:03,240 and just threw ourselves in. 856 00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:04,520 I think that's why 857 00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:07,560 um, we shared our first pash thanks to you guys. 858 00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:08,640 We love a pash. 859 00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:10,800 Uh, the three minutes was a bit crazy, guys. 860 00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:12,280 (JOEL LAUGHS) 861 00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:13,640 We opted for just a normal. 862 00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:14,760 I think it was, like, 25, 30 seconds. 863 00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:15,840 It's, like, yeah. 864 00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:17,560 Yeah, keep practising. 865 00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:19,240 Yeah. Keep practising. (LAUGHS) 866 00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:22,120 I'm really enjoying the playfulness 867 00:41:22,240 --> 00:41:24,280 that's developing between the two of you. 868 00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:27,600 It's a sign that, you know, you're starting to drop the walls 869 00:41:27,720 --> 00:41:29,600 and starting to build some trust. 870 00:41:29,720 --> 00:41:31,520 Every day, the task that you guys gave us 871 00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:33,440 The task that you guys gave us brought us so much closer together. 872 00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:35,960 Um, which is probably something I wouldn't do in the real world. 873 00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,400 Um, so thank you. 874 00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:39,560 And I need that. 875 00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:40,800 And we do have a lot of fun together. 876 00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:41,880 Yeah. 877 00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:44,000 And as you know, 878 00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:46,560 we're always watching the dinner parties. 879 00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:50,840 And we saw, Chris, that you shared some pretty big news. 880 00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:52,400 I did. Yeah. 881 00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:56,640 Um, so obviously I shared the news that I've got children coming. 882 00:41:56,760 --> 00:42:00,440 Um, the group received it so well, and they were so supportive. 883 00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:02,280 So, I just want to say thank you guys so much. 884 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:05,040 It was really amazing to have that support. 885 00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:06,160 WOMAN: Congratulations. 886 00:42:10,240 --> 00:42:12,880 Yeah, they just took it so well, which was really great. 887 00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:14,320 Um, and Sam took it great as well. 888 00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:18,240 Some people may see that as a red flag or, you know, 889 00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:19,560 a bit of an inconvenience, I don't know. 890 00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:22,080 So, the fact that Sam was really supportive 891 00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:23,760 of my decision to do that, 892 00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:25,280 meant the world to me. 893 00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:27,080 I just feel so proud of him. 894 00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:31,240 You know, he wants to... wanted something in his life, 895 00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:32,680 and he's made it happen, which is really cool. 896 00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,080 Um, I'm, like, always been open to kids, 897 00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,640 and kids are something that I possibly want in the future. 898 00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:40,720 So, at the end of this experiment, if we are together, 899 00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:41,880 which I hope we are, 900 00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:43,200 then we can look at how that's going to look. 901 00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:46,320 I love the maturity that the two of you are using... 902 00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:49,240 in your approach here, you know? 903 00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:52,400 You've set yourselves up for a positive experience 904 00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:54,760 regardless of what the outcome is. CHRIS AND SAM: Yeah. 905 00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:00,280 Yeah. Well, look, I think we will go to the decision. 906 00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:01,840 Yeah. We'll go with you first, Sam. 907 00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:03,560 Uh, I wrote... 908 00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:07,080 Stay. 909 00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:08,880 And a big smile. Love it. 910 00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:10,400 And Chris? 911 00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:12,560 Well, funny that because... (CHUCKLES) 912 00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:14,560 I also wrote something with a smiley face. 913 00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:16,360 Oh, we're the same smiley face. 914 00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:17,560 What the hell? 915 00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:19,960 Matchy matchy. 916 00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:21,000 WOMAN: Whoo. (CLAPPING) 917 00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:22,840 ALESSANDRA: Very cute. 918 00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:28,040 Um, I think that you guys really have found your groove 919 00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:29,720 and what is actually working for you. 920 00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,360 So, I will encourage you to keep doing some more of that. 921 00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,480 And I would highly, highly, highly stress how important it is 922 00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:37,360 that you continue having fun with one another. 923 00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:38,840 Yeah. 924 00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:39,840 Have a great week. 925 00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:42,240 Thank you. Thank you, guys, so much. 926 00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:43,440 Enjoy. 927 00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:44,480 Thank you. Thank you for everything. 928 00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:50,480 That's alright. 929 00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:53,720 Our next couple up on the couch... 930 00:43:55,720 --> 00:43:56,840 Gia and Scott. 931 00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:58,240 Yes. 932 00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:03,080 Welcome to the couch. 933 00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:05,600 Have you guys been this week? 934 00:44:05,720 --> 00:44:07,240 We had our first little run in. 935 00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:08,520 Ooh? You did? 936 00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:10,360 But we're all good. We survived. We're good. 937 00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:12,520 Yeah. What happened? 938 00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:15,320 So, we had family and friends. 939 00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:18,160 Um, overall, it was good. 940 00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:19,880 There was one hiccup on the way. 941 00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,640 Um, it was a bit of a smart comment my friend made 942 00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:24,840 in regards to comparing Gia with my ex. 943 00:44:26,240 --> 00:44:27,560 What was the comment? 944 00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:31,520 He kind of said, like, "Well, how do you compare to his ex"? 945 00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:33,600 "How are you different to his ex?" 946 00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:35,800 And I'm like, "Whoa". 947 00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:40,600 Knowing you have had struggles 948 00:44:40,720 --> 00:44:43,880 with feeling insecure at times in your past... 949 00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:46,680 I'm wondering what that brought up for you, Gia. 950 00:44:48,720 --> 00:44:52,200 Um. It just made me feel like I wasn't good enough, to be honest. 951 00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:53,920 How? 952 00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:56,400 (VOICE TREMBLING) Oh, I don't know. Like... 953 00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:00,440 It just hurt because... 954 00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:04,440 um, I've had this happen before with my ex partner, 955 00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:05,520 where it's like... 956 00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:09,160 a certain type of looking girl was, like, always brought up, 957 00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:10,320 and, like, I'd be finding out 958 00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:12,000 he'd be looking at this and looking at that, 959 00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:14,000 and it's like I just felt like, "Oh my god. 960 00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:17,280 "Am I in the same situation again where I'm being compared?" 961 00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:21,600 Like, it just made me feel like, honestly, like, I'm less than. 962 00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:25,720 So, I had all these things in my min 963 00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:27,760 and then the next day was very upsetting. 964 00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:31,000 I'm sitting in the car. 965 00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:33,560 There was a song on that like we didn't like, 966 00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:36,040 and I was like, "Oh, he's like... Change my... change the song". 967 00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:37,280 I do that. 968 00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:39,320 You know how your phone comes up with a camera roll memory? 969 00:45:40,240 --> 00:45:43,120 Came up with his ex partner, like, in lingerie. 970 00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:46,680 And I'm like, "Oh my god, what's going on? 971 00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:47,720 "Why does he have them? 972 00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:49,480 "Like, I'm being compared". 973 00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:52,640 So, I said, "If you want to be with me 974 00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:53,960 "and you want this relationship to work, 975 00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:55,800 "I need you to delete all those photos". 976 00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:56,920 And he said, "No". 977 00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:02,880 After what happened with the friends 978 00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:05,360 I thought, "Oh, my god, I'm not heard at all. 979 00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:06,440 "I'm not seen. 980 00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:08,440 "I'm not important. I just felt... 981 00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:10,520 gross. 982 00:46:12,720 --> 00:46:15,320 There's no excuse. I take full accountability for this. 983 00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:18,920 At the time, I was lazy, I was stubborn. 984 00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:21,840 I have 71,000 photos on my phone. I don't go digging for that stuff. 985 00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:24,600 Um, but I wasn't putting myself in her shoes... 986 00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:26,680 and I didn't think through it enough. 987 00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:30,600 Um, so once Gia was just explaining her full emotions 988 00:46:30,720 --> 00:46:33,920 and obviously made me realise these photos need to go. 989 00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:37,800 I erased every single one of them. 990 00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:39,280 And then we hugged it and we kissed, 991 00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:40,320 and it was the best thing that we felt. 992 00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:43,600 We both moved on from it straight away. 993 00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:47,840 And I think the biggest lesson-- Well, just on that... 994 00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:50,880 I don't know if you have moved on. 995 00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:07,160 SCOTT: We both moved on from it straight away. 996 00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:11,400 And I think the biggest lesson-- Well, just on that... 997 00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:14,800 I don't know if you have moved on. 998 00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:20,360 Because tonight what I'm watching with you two 999 00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:21,400 is a different energy. 1000 00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:24,560 Uh, previously, you've been very much a team... 1001 00:47:25,240 --> 00:47:26,880 uh, and you've been very present on the couch. 1002 00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:29,320 Whereas tonight, particularly you, Gia, 1003 00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:33,080 you seem flat, as though you've got a lot on your mind. 1004 00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:39,040 Um... 1005 00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:43,600 I thought I was over it, but... 1006 00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:47,080 I still feel, like, deeply hurt. 1007 00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:50,760 I think Scott is kind of grazing over it. 1008 00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:53,920 Like, for me it was very hard. 1009 00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:58,280 He came to the realisation too late for me. 1010 00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:01,240 You know, I've let you into my whole world, 1011 00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:03,760 my whole life and like, and, like, you can't just delete some photos? 1012 00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:09,320 I just for me... it was, like, I felt like shit. 1013 00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:12,280 And I just started rethinking everything. 1014 00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:17,400 I was prepared to leave the whole experiment. 1015 00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:26,160 Scott, did you know that she was so rattled by this 1016 00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:28,040 that she was thinking about leaving the experiment? 1017 00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:31,840 I... I'll be honest... 1018 00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:33,920 I thought it was odd. 1019 00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:36,080 Like, I didn't know. 1020 00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:38,800 That's why we're going there. Yeah, because... 1021 00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:41,120 You need to see this, and you need to hear this. 1022 00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:43,840 Yeah. 1023 00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:45,000 I personally didn't know that 1024 00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:46,600 because I feel like when we talk through things... 1025 00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:50,120 I feel like we've talked through enough of what the problem is. 1026 00:48:50,240 --> 00:48:51,880 We hug, we kiss, and we move on with the day 1027 00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:53,720 and we're actually smiling and we're happy. 1028 00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:56,760 So, I didn't know Gia felt this hurt. 1029 00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:57,960 I personally didn't, 1030 00:48:58,080 --> 00:48:59,560 or else I would cater and do anything I can 1031 00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:00,640 to bring the smile on her face. 1032 00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:04,960 The thing with Scott is like, we'll have this disagreement 1033 00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:07,360 and like, I'll voice how it's made me feel 1034 00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:08,880 and we'll resolve it. 1035 00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:10,680 But there's residual feelings, like, the next day 1036 00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:11,920 where I still might feel 1037 00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:13,920 might feel like I need just a check-in 1038 00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:16,120 because I feel like, yes, we apologise 1039 00:49:16,240 --> 00:49:17,360 and we moved on. 1040 00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:19,840 But like, I can't just forget how I felt 1041 00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:21,280 because it was quite deep for me. 1042 00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:22,440 And I'll vouch for that. 1043 00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:24,760 I haven't been the type that checks in the next day 1044 00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:26,560 on an argument or something that's happened before, 1045 00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:29,320 which I now know, like, it's something I need to work on. 1046 00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:33,000 I'm all in for this, 1047 00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:35,560 and I want to continue this and... and grow together. 1048 00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:36,960 I'm glad this has happened. 1049 00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:38,240 Like, we need this 1050 00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:39,840 because we have understood each other more now. 1051 00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:41,040 Like, I've learned something tonight. 1052 00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:44,360 So, mark my word, if something happens like this again, 1053 00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:46,960 I'll be checking the next day and making sure you're OK. 1054 00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:50,200 I want you to feel as comfortable as possible. 1055 00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:51,280 Like, that's my goal. 1056 00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:52,800 If you're happy, I'm happier. 1057 00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:57,960 Gia, what's your feelings towards Scott right now? 1058 00:49:59,800 --> 00:50:02,040 Um, yeah... I really like Scott. 1059 00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:05,160 Like I want to continue being with Scott. 1060 00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:06,200 This wasn't enough for me 1061 00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,360 to throw the whole relationship in the bin. 1062 00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:11,440 In fact, before the dinner party, I introduced him to my daughter. 1063 00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:13,080 Wow. MEL: That's huge. 1064 00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:16,800 Seeing the mother she is draws me more towards her 1065 00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:18,840 because she's such a good bloody mum. 1066 00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:22,120 Her daughter's so freaking beautiful. 1067 00:50:22,240 --> 00:50:25,000 She comes up and hugs me, says "Please" and "Thank you". 1068 00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,480 The mannerism I see is from the upbringing 1069 00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:28,800 of what Gia's given her. 1070 00:50:29,720 --> 00:50:31,120 I just, I really like her 1071 00:50:31,240 --> 00:50:33,080 and I didn't think I could walk in... 1072 00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:35,320 I didn't know I was going to come to this experience 1073 00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:37,000 and I was going to have a kid, and I fully accept it. 1074 00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:38,880 Like, it makes me a bit upset. 1075 00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:40,800 No, I want to cry because I love that. 1076 00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:42,120 No, because you're a good mum. 1077 00:50:45,240 --> 00:50:48,920 Gia, how do you see Scott fitting in with you and your daughter 1078 00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:51,080 in your world after the experiment? 1079 00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:53,000 Um... 1080 00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:56,840 I see it working. 1081 00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:02,200 I've never introduced my daughter to a guy before ever. 1082 00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:04,240 And I've checked in with my daughter a million times. 1083 00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:05,280 It's like, "Do you like him?" 1084 00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:08,520 Um, and she's like, "I love Scott dog, Mum. He's so fun". 1085 00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:09,560 'Scott dog'? 1086 00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:10,640 It's my nickname. She calls him 'Scott dog'. 1087 00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:13,360 (ALISSA LAUGHS) So, yeah, he did fit in well. 1088 00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:15,160 All my friends and family love him. So... 1089 00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:17,520 Wow, that is fantastic to hear. 1090 00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:20,960 You've been through a lot this week. 1091 00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:23,920 Uh, but we're going to need to go to a decision 1092 00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:25,840 to find out whether you want to stay on or not. 1093 00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:28,720 Go with you first, Scott. 1094 00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:32,120 Well, yeah, it was a really tough week, 1095 00:51:32,240 --> 00:51:34,840 but we always we resolve our issues 1096 00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:37,120 And... and I like to draw little things 1097 00:51:37,240 --> 00:51:39,200 that give memory and feedback from the past week. 1098 00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:42,080 So, I put, "Stay with me, Gia"... WOMAN: Oh, that's so cute! 1099 00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:43,240 ..and a daughter. 1100 00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:44,720 That's beautiful. 1101 00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:46,440 That's so cute. Oh my god. 1102 00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:49,080 What about you, Gia? What have you got for us? 1103 00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:50,040 Stay or leave? 1104 00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:53,000 Yeah, like we had a big hiccup, 1105 00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:56,120 but I think he gets a better understanding of me 1106 00:51:56,240 --> 00:51:57,040 through this. 1107 00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:59,840 And it's forcing us to have a deeper connection that I wanted. 1108 00:51:59,960 --> 00:52:01,680 I didn't want easy surface level. 1109 00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:04,600 I really like Scott, and I'm glad we got through this. 1110 00:52:04,720 --> 00:52:07,280 So, with that, I'm gonna stay. 1111 00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:08,440 (CLAPPING) 1112 00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:09,600 MAN: Yee-ooo! 1113 00:52:09,720 --> 00:52:10,640 Thank you. 1114 00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:12,640 It's lovely. 1115 00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:15,640 That's why we have these commitment ceremonies, 1116 00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:17,160 to open up your relationship 1117 00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:19,560 and to essentially get you looking at things... 1118 00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:21,480 sometimes for the first time. 1119 00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:24,400 Uh, so that's a very important momen for you tonight. 1120 00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:26,640 Well done. You can go back to the group. 1121 00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:28,680 Thank you. Thank you so much. Appreciate it. 1122 00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:29,800 Good work. 1123 00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:31,560 WOMAN: Whoo! 1124 00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:33,960 Thanks. 1125 00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:36,600 Little stick figures. That's cute. That is so cute. 1126 00:52:36,720 --> 00:52:39,360 I don't know how to actually draw, so stick figures is... 1127 00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:40,680 Hey, it's cute, but. Thank you. 1128 00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:42,240 NARRATOR: Still to come... 1129 00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:44,440 David ticks so many boxes 1130 00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:46,840 but there's some things that he can't give me. 1131 00:52:48,240 --> 00:52:50,440 NARRATOR: Alissa's jaw-dropping confession. 1132 00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:54,880 I'm missing that stimulation to make me happy. 1133 00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:57,280 NARRATOR: And later... 1134 00:52:57,400 --> 00:53:00,080 I am done with this bickering. I'm done with this bullshit. 1135 00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:02,200 ..Tyson is at breaking point. 1136 00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:04,600 I'm done with this experiment. 1137 00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:17,280 MEL: Next up on the couch... 1138 00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:25,440 Alissa and David. 1139 00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:27,240 (APPLAUSE) 1140 00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:30,640 Hello. 1141 00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:32,600 Hello. Hello. How are ya? 1142 00:53:32,720 --> 00:53:33,640 Good evening. 1143 00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:36,120 Well, you two are looking rather happy and relaxed. 1144 00:53:36,240 --> 00:53:37,240 Yeah. Yeah. 1145 00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:39,880 David and I are getting stronger and stronger. 1146 00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:44,120 He ticks so many boxes in my life. 1147 00:53:47,280 --> 00:53:49,840 He's the calm. He's... He's my home. 1148 00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:54,400 But there's some things that he can't give me. 1149 00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:58,880 I function at a higher frequency, 1150 00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:04,280 and sometimes I feel like I'm missing that stimulation, 1151 00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:05,240 that high frequency 1152 00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:07,880 that I would normally get from my relationships 1153 00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:10,080 to make me happy. 1154 00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:15,920 I feel like, Melissa, she's used to past relationships 1155 00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:18,920 where the guys are loud up, probably more chaotic. 1156 00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:21,960 A lot of noise. I'm calm, not reactive. 1157 00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:24,720 Like, I'm not going to, like, cause drama. 1158 00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:28,520 And I feel like deep down you might be sort of like, uneasy 1159 00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:30,440 because it's not something that's natural to you. 1160 00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:34,680 Maybe David's onto something there. 1161 00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:36,520 When you were coming into this experiment, 1162 00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:40,000 you talked about past relationships and all the arguments that happened. 1163 00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:41,440 Yeah, there were a lot. 1164 00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:44,920 And, maybe, because you're now in a relationship that is healthier, 1165 00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:46,720 that's not full of arguments. 1166 00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:48,600 I just wonder if the thing that's missing 1167 00:54:48,720 --> 00:54:51,800 is actually the toxicity that comes with drama in a relationship. 1168 00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:53,360 Maybe, I'm just not used to it. 1169 00:54:53,480 --> 00:54:54,600 Yeah. 1170 00:54:54,720 --> 00:54:59,320 I wonder if there's something about sitting in that discomfort, 1171 00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:02,600 because there's something about that calm and that peace 1172 00:55:02,720 --> 00:55:05,800 that's actually really probably quite good for you. 1173 00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:09,440 OK, I'm going to work on it. (CHUCKLES) 1174 00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:11,400 We're gonna sit in it. Brilliant. 1175 00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:13,680 Alright, well, let's go to the decision. 1176 00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:15,520 Let's kick off with you, Alissa. 1177 00:55:16,040 --> 00:55:17,560 I'm giving this thing a real crack. 1178 00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:20,320 I'm staying for the long haul. 1179 00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:22,320 David? I'm gonna stay. 1180 00:55:22,440 --> 00:55:23,520 Love it. 1181 00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:24,560 Yeah. 1182 00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:27,320 Well done, you two. 1183 00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:28,680 Sit in the uncertainty. 1184 00:55:28,800 --> 00:55:29,920 We're sitting in it for another week. 1185 00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:32,080 Well done, you two. Enjoy. 1186 00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:37,240 Our next couple on the couch. 1187 00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:42,800 Bec and Danny... 1188 00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:44,640 (CLAPPING) 1189 00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:45,680 Let's do it. 1190 00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:47,840 How are we? Hello, you two. 1191 00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:48,880 Hello. Hello. 1192 00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:50,200 (BOTH EXHALE) 1193 00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:52,440 Well, I've got to say, I've been enjoying 1194 00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:55,320 glancing over and looking at the two of you tonight. 1195 00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:58,920 Looking very cuddly, very relaxed together, 1196 00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:00,640 and very supportive of each other. 1197 00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:03,280 It's like a whole different view. 1198 00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:07,080 Yeah, the realities I got from you guys, 1199 00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:08,800 at the last commitment ceremony 1200 00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:12,600 showed me that I was in the wrong very, very much. 1201 00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:16,960 You don't need to be angry. You don't need to be vicious. 1202 00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:19,440 That behaviour is just not acceptable. 1203 00:56:20,440 --> 00:56:22,200 Yeah. You've learned some big lessons. 1204 00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:23,240 I have. 1205 00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:25,560 And then family and friends came along. 1206 00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:30,480 We both agreed that in order to get the most out of this, 1207 00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:31,960 we had to be very, very honest. 1208 00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:38,040 So, I sort of expressed to dad some of the adversities that we faced, 1209 00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:40,000 and my father instantly turned to Danny, 1210 00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:42,360 looked him in the eye and said, "Did you say she was your type?" 1211 00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:46,040 And Danny just looked at him and was just like, "No". 1212 00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:49,880 So, I'm moving forward. 1213 00:56:53,640 --> 00:56:56,320 So, I really do want to commend you both 1214 00:56:56,440 --> 00:57:01,680 for just really putting in the time, the focus and the work... 1215 00:57:02,760 --> 00:57:05,000 and having the conversations you needed to have. 1216 00:57:06,800 --> 00:57:10,960 So, just kind of highlighting the huge difference it makes 1217 00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:15,080 when you actually really do go deep in conversation. 1218 00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:16,240 Yeah. 1219 00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:18,600 Maybe in past relationships, 1220 00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:22,680 that's where I'd be doing the Usain Bolt and sprinting off. 1221 00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:25,920 But, yeah, bit down on the gum shield 1222 00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:27,920 and sort of fought our way through it, didn't we? 1223 00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:31,520 And, yeah, now we're... we're in a really good spot. 1224 00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:32,560 So... 1225 00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:34,280 I feel the most stable I've felt 1226 00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:36,440 in this whole experiment right now. 1227 00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:38,440 For sure. 1228 00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:40,520 Brilliant. Amazing, amazing. 1229 00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:41,840 Let's go to the decision. 1230 00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:44,320 Let's start with you, Danny. 1231 00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:46,040 Yeah, we're in a really good spot. 1232 00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:47,080 So... 1233 00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:48,920 nice easy one today. 1234 00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:50,000 Thank you. 1235 00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:51,520 MEL: Oh, strong statement. 1236 00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:53,680 Um, yeah, 1237 00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:56,760 I don't think I've felt more secure in this relationship 1238 00:57:56,880 --> 00:57:59,520 out of the whole time in this experiment. 1239 00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:02,520 So, of course, I wrote 'Stay', 1240 00:58:02,640 --> 00:58:05,400 And then I wrote 'Agapi mou' - 'My love' in Greek. 1241 00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:06,440 Beautiful. 1242 00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:09,360 Thanks, guys. 1243 00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:14,080 I think right now you guys are listening to one another... 1244 00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:18,160 and I really think that you need to continue focusing on that. 1245 00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:19,440 Have a great week. 1246 00:58:19,560 --> 00:58:21,120 Thanks you, guys. Thank you. Thanks, guys. 1247 00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:23,200 (BEC GRUNTS) (CLAPPING) 1248 00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:24,240 DANNY: You OK? BEC: Yeah. 1249 00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:26,000 (CLAPPING) 1250 00:58:29,560 --> 00:58:31,000 Alright. Let's get our next couple up. 1251 00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:34,800 Tyson and Stephanie. 1252 00:58:34,920 --> 00:58:35,880 Come on. 1253 00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:37,920 (CLAPPING) 1254 00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:40,880 Hello. 1255 00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:46,320 Well, where do we begin? 1256 00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:48,640 You start. 1257 00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:50,720 Uh, what about the crash course? 1258 00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:52,040 How was that this week for you? 1259 00:58:52,520 --> 00:58:55,480 It was interesting. Um, we did the tasks. 1260 00:58:56,440 --> 00:58:57,440 Um... 1261 00:58:57,960 --> 00:58:59,040 Yeah. 1262 00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:02,080 And what about you, Tyson? How was this week for you? 1263 00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:04,720 I think for me, it was actually quite good, John. 1264 00:59:04,840 --> 00:59:07,400 I, uh, took your advice, John. 1265 00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:09,840 So, you said to get curious about Steph. 1266 00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:11,200 And I did get curious. 1267 00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:13,440 I, uh, I took her to lunch. 1268 00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:15,640 I took her to dinner, got her some flowers. 1269 00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:17,080 I was feeling a bit cheeky 1270 00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:19,480 and saw of a set of flowers there, bought them, gave them to her. 1271 00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:21,120 I think she appreciated that. Mm. 1272 00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:24,840 And he paid for dinner and he paid for lunch. 1273 00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:26,800 I'm the gift that keeps on giving. 1274 00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:35,040 Steph, you're sitting on the couch right now, 1275 00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:36,240 and you're pretty distant. 1276 00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:42,160 So, tell us what's going on for you, Steph? 1277 00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:44,680 Um... 1278 00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:48,160 Yeah, look, like I do have a few things on my mind. 1279 00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:49,600 Like, I won't, I won't lie... 1280 00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:54,600 but I'm very conscious of the progress that we have made. 1281 00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:57,880 And I'm very conscious that I don't want to unravel all of that. 1282 01:00:00,280 --> 01:00:01,360 And I understand that. 1283 01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:03,280 But at the same time, what that does then 1284 01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:06,000 is it doesn't allow us to understand what's on your mind, 1285 01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:09,040 what's getting in between for the two of you. 1286 01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:11,480 Because you never know when you discuss it, open it up... 1287 01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:13,400 you may be able to resolve it. 1288 01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:17,720 Um... 1289 01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:22,760 Quite often when I attempt to have a constructive conversation, it... 1290 01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:26,960 I feel like it falls on deaf ears. I feel like we go round in circles, 1291 01:00:27,080 --> 01:00:29,960 we never come to an agreement. it's always he said, she said. 1292 01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:33,200 So, I feel, like, I've started to kind of... 1293 01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:38,640 suppress the things that I normally would say 1294 01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:41,120 because I can't be bothered to have an argument. 1295 01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:43,320 Mm. 1296 01:00:43,440 --> 01:00:45,120 ALESSANDRA: It's those difficult conversations 1297 01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:46,320 that take so much courage 1298 01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:49,160 and are so hard to have that once they're had, 1299 01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:51,120 they really bring you closer together. 1300 01:00:51,640 --> 01:00:52,680 JOHN: Indeed. 1301 01:00:52,800 --> 01:00:55,880 So, let's just talk about this and navigate it together as a team. 1302 01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:59,280 Tell us what are the key issues that you want to bring up? 1303 01:01:01,400 --> 01:01:02,480 Um... 1304 01:01:03,520 --> 01:01:05,400 I just want Tyson to be a bit more aware 1305 01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:08,640 of, like the things that he says and the impact that the words have. 1306 01:01:10,760 --> 01:01:11,840 Um... 1307 01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:16,280 Two of my closest friends are gay. 1308 01:01:17,520 --> 01:01:19,320 We've got Chris and Sam in the experiment... 1309 01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:22,720 and something that came from Tyson's... 1310 01:01:23,840 --> 01:01:26,360 video interview was... 1311 01:01:27,240 --> 01:01:30,800 um, "I'm happy for you guys. Be whoever you want to be. 1312 01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:33,000 "But, you know, you just keep it behind closed doors". 1313 01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:36,240 Oh, brother. 1314 01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:57,640 Something that came from Tyson's video interview was... 1315 01:01:58,600 --> 01:02:02,160 um, "I'm happy for you guys. Be whoever you want to be. 1316 01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:04,360 "But, you know, you just keep it behind closed doors". 1317 01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:07,320 Oh, brother. 1318 01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:15,480 First of all, I'm not against gay people. 1319 01:02:16,160 --> 01:02:19,400 I just feel like that whole topic can... can really be pushed on us. 1320 01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:24,240 Um, and, I don't know, just for me, 1321 01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:25,600 I come from a traditional family 1322 01:02:25,720 --> 01:02:28,480 and it's just, I'm not really comfortable 1323 01:02:28,600 --> 01:02:29,520 with, like... with it. 1324 01:02:29,640 --> 01:02:30,560 I'm just being brutally... brutally honest. 1325 01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:35,120 Sorry, man. Having awareness is not pushing anything on you. 1326 01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:36,640 Like just being here. Like... 1327 01:02:37,120 --> 01:02:38,160 But I'm aware, though. 1328 01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:41,560 We're just... we're just here. 1329 01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:45,320 CHRIS: It is hurtful to our community to hear that. 1330 01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:47,480 Um, it's like us telling straight people 1331 01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:49,440 to go do it behind closed doors. It's not right. 1332 01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:53,920 I don't think you have much empathy 1333 01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:56,760 and you're not really putting yourself in anyone else's shoes. 1334 01:02:56,880 --> 01:02:59,200 You can't say stuff like, "Do it behind closed doors" . 1335 01:02:59,320 --> 01:03:02,160 Like it just doesn't make me feel like a person. 1336 01:03:02,280 --> 01:03:04,520 Well, no, not that I don't know. It's just... 1337 01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:07,000 Maybe it came out wrong. I don't I didn't mean it to... 1338 01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:13,040 The comment you made suppresses people, 1339 01:03:13,160 --> 01:03:15,800 and therefore we feel like we need to stand up and create awareness. 1340 01:03:15,920 --> 01:03:18,960 And until that stops happening, there will be pride, 1341 01:03:19,080 --> 01:03:20,480 all these things will still happen 1342 01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:22,280 because we're still getting suppressed all the time. 1343 01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:24,880 And you're an example of that it still exists out there. 1344 01:03:29,200 --> 01:03:30,960 I don't mean to come here and offend people. 1345 01:03:31,080 --> 01:03:32,760 Um, but you know, 1346 01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:36,200 I am very black and white with my approach to communication. 1347 01:03:37,200 --> 01:03:38,800 Have you always been this way? 1348 01:03:38,920 --> 01:03:41,520 Where you, essentially, don't have a filter and you just... 1349 01:03:42,800 --> 01:03:45,120 you know, say exactly what comes to your mind. 1350 01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:50,160 So, there is a filter there, John. 1351 01:03:50,280 --> 01:03:53,880 But I just I've got to be honest as well with what I believe in. 1352 01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:56,080 And that's fine. 1353 01:03:56,560 --> 01:03:57,760 But I just want Tyson 1354 01:03:57,880 --> 01:04:00,520 to be a bit more aware of, like, words have impact. 1355 01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:02,000 Like, again, 1356 01:04:02,120 --> 01:04:04,760 like the submissive thing still rings in my mind. 1357 01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:06,040 Oh, my god. 1358 01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:08,680 Having said that in ages. But anyway. 1359 01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:12,240 Well, a dinner party last night, but OK, let's keep going forward. 1360 01:04:14,200 --> 01:04:18,360 Um, you know, I stand by that that is what Tyson wants. 1361 01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:23,240 He wants a wife to sit down, look pretty, speak when spoken to... 1362 01:04:23,720 --> 01:04:26,200 don't have an opinion unless you're asked. 1363 01:04:27,320 --> 01:04:28,320 Not true. 1364 01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:30,680 True. I completely disagree. 1365 01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:33,000 Um, he's only addressed you tonight, John. Have you noticed that? 1366 01:04:35,120 --> 01:04:36,160 I actually said tonight, 1367 01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:37,720 Alexandra is looking beautiful. 1368 01:04:37,840 --> 01:04:39,360 So, what... where... I don't understand. 1369 01:04:40,760 --> 01:04:42,400 Last week he said, "Oh that. Johnny. 1370 01:04:42,520 --> 01:04:43,840 "He's a great bloke, isn't he? 1371 01:04:43,960 --> 01:04:44,960 "He's a great bloke". 1372 01:04:45,080 --> 01:04:47,880 And I said, "Oh, what about Mel and Alessandra"? 1373 01:04:48,920 --> 01:04:51,280 "Oh, yeah. But, you know, John". La la la. 1374 01:04:51,400 --> 01:04:54,080 So, you're very easily disrespect women, Tyson. 1375 01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:55,600 You have no regard for my feelings. I do not. 1376 01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:57,280 And sorry, I'm not going to take that shit 1377 01:04:57,400 --> 01:04:58,960 because I don't disrespect women at all. 1378 01:04:59,080 --> 01:05:00,400 I've got a lot of respect for women. 1379 01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:02,920 But right now-- 1380 01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:04,000 Look how you fly off the handle so easily. 1381 01:05:04,120 --> 01:05:05,000 Because it's disgusting. 1382 01:05:05,120 --> 01:05:07,040 She's putting words in my mouth saying I disrespect women 1383 01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:08,720 just because I said John's a good guy. 1384 01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:09,960 You do. It's how I feel. 1385 01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:11,640 I did not say anything bad about you guys at all. 1386 01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:13,040 And I actually said, you look beautiful tonight. 1387 01:05:14,640 --> 01:05:17,000 Like she's making out, I hate... I hate women, 1388 01:05:17,120 --> 01:05:18,800 and that's absolutely such a disgusting thing to say. 1389 01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:21,240 I'm very close with my sister and my mum. 1390 01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:22,640 There are two people that mean the world to me. 1391 01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:25,840 But I just feel like she's putting words in my mouth. 1392 01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:27,240 She's trying to make me look like this bad person, 1393 01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:28,280 but I'm actually not. 1394 01:05:29,920 --> 01:05:30,920 I don't hate gay people. 1395 01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:32,480 She's making out I hate gay people... 1396 01:05:32,600 --> 01:05:33,920 No, I'm not. ..hate gay people bad. 1397 01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:35,920 But I don't hate gay people. I did not say that. 1398 01:05:36,040 --> 01:05:38,520 I do like gay people. I've got gay friends, I do. 1399 01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:41,080 I like women as well. 1400 01:05:41,960 --> 01:05:44,760 The thing is, I'm not a bad guy and she's portraying me as a bad guy. 1401 01:05:44,880 --> 01:05:45,720 No. 1402 01:05:46,440 --> 01:05:48,880 I try to have a constructive conversation with you 1403 01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:50,600 and it always ends up this way 1404 01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:53,760 when I just want to have, like, a chill conversation 1405 01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:55,240 and share my point of view. 1406 01:05:55,360 --> 01:05:56,560 But that's never OK with you. 1407 01:05:57,360 --> 01:05:58,360 Well, I disagree. 1408 01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:02,040 I feel like any time things get hard, 1409 01:06:02,160 --> 01:06:03,360 Tyson's just like, 1410 01:06:03,480 --> 01:06:05,560 "Alright, well that's me, I'm (BLEEP) out of here". 1411 01:06:06,280 --> 01:06:08,960 I feel like it's Tyson's way or the highway. 1412 01:06:10,400 --> 01:06:11,440 And honestly, 1413 01:06:11,560 --> 01:06:13,920 I do not see a future here with this person at all. 1414 01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:17,360 And quite frankly, after tonight, I'm going back to the Gold Coast... 1415 01:06:18,480 --> 01:06:19,560 because I'm done with this. 1416 01:06:20,320 --> 01:06:22,600 I'm done with this bickering. I'm done with this bullshit. 1417 01:06:23,720 --> 01:06:25,400 I'm done with this experiment. 1418 01:06:36,240 --> 01:06:39,120 I feel like it's Tyson's way or the highway. 1419 01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:42,520 Honestly, I do not see a future here with this person at all. 1420 01:06:43,320 --> 01:06:46,080 And quite frankly, after tonight, I'm going back to the Gold Coast... 1421 01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:48,280 because I'm done with this. 1422 01:06:48,960 --> 01:06:51,200 I'm done with this bickering. I'm done with this bullshit. 1423 01:06:52,320 --> 01:06:54,000 I'm done with this experiment. 1424 01:06:59,360 --> 01:07:01,240 There's nothing here between Steph and I. 1425 01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:04,560 She's not a traditional wife in my eyes. 1426 01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:07,360 She's... She's a go-getter, which is great, but... 1427 01:07:08,520 --> 01:07:10,400 I don't like her attitude towards me. 1428 01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:12,160 She's always acting snobby. 1429 01:07:13,560 --> 01:07:16,960 I do not see a future there, John, I really don't. 1430 01:07:20,240 --> 01:07:23,200 This whole conversation just blew out of proportion, 1431 01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:24,920 which it shouldn't have, but it did. 1432 01:07:25,040 --> 01:07:27,560 And, um, there's no fixing this, John, for me 1433 01:07:30,840 --> 01:07:32,800 I don't know how it blew out of proportion, though, 1434 01:07:32,920 --> 01:07:34,280 because all you're doing 1435 01:07:34,400 --> 01:07:37,720 you know, was bringing up some of your worries 1436 01:07:37,840 --> 01:07:39,760 about a relationship. Yeah. 1437 01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:42,040 Yeah, essentially over language and that's it. 1438 01:07:42,520 --> 01:07:43,640 That's normal... 1439 01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:46,440 couple dynamics. 1440 01:07:47,040 --> 01:07:48,720 This is not about personality attacks. 1441 01:07:48,840 --> 01:07:51,840 It's just talking about problem patterns. 1442 01:07:53,120 --> 01:07:55,960 And what we've identified tonight and previously 1443 01:07:56,080 --> 01:07:58,640 is that sometimes the language that you use... 1444 01:07:59,440 --> 01:08:00,440 can be polarising. 1445 01:08:00,560 --> 01:08:01,560 It can hurt. 1446 01:08:03,160 --> 01:08:05,400 But it is certainly something that you can work with. 1447 01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:07,320 No, I do agree in that regard. 1448 01:08:08,360 --> 01:08:10,560 So, what's happened tonight that's changed your mind? 1449 01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:13,040 Well, just everything, John-- I can tell you. 1450 01:08:14,600 --> 01:08:15,680 I opened my mouth. 1451 01:08:15,800 --> 01:08:17,160 Oh, come on. 1452 01:08:17,960 --> 01:08:21,160 We bicker when I speak up and share my opinion. 1453 01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:22,440 And you don't like it? 1454 01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:24,280 So, am I supposed to be quiet? 1455 01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:26,640 Am I supposed to be quiet? 1456 01:08:27,680 --> 01:08:29,120 I'm seriously just going to bounce 1457 01:08:29,240 --> 01:08:31,680 because I just don't want to be here, guys. 1458 01:08:31,800 --> 01:08:32,880 I'm finished, OK? 1459 01:08:34,040 --> 01:08:35,080 I'm just... 1460 01:08:35,680 --> 01:08:36,960 Tyson, don't do it. 1461 01:08:37,080 --> 01:08:38,800 You look... You're a beautiful bunch of people 1462 01:08:38,920 --> 01:08:40,800 and I think Steph's a beautiful girl as well. 1463 01:08:40,920 --> 01:08:42,160 It's just, I'm finished. OK? 1464 01:08:44,000 --> 01:08:45,480 ALISSA: You've given it two weeks. 1465 01:08:45,600 --> 01:08:47,880 Like, given it such a short amount of time. 1466 01:08:48,000 --> 01:08:49,160 Like, come on. 1467 01:08:50,320 --> 01:08:52,440 I really do wish you guys all the best. 1468 01:08:52,560 --> 01:08:53,720 I'm not a bad person. 1469 01:08:56,640 --> 01:08:58,120 You have really strong views, 1470 01:08:58,240 --> 01:09:00,480 and I'm just giving my really strong views back to you. 1471 01:09:00,600 --> 01:09:01,880 And if that's enough to make you leave. 1472 01:09:02,480 --> 01:09:04,120 Yeah. See you, guys. 1473 01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:06,360 (TENSE MUSIC) 1474 01:09:24,720 --> 01:09:25,920 (WEDDING RING CLATTERING) 1475 01:09:33,120 --> 01:09:34,360 (SOBBING) 1476 01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:37,880 (SNIFFLES) 1477 01:09:46,160 --> 01:09:47,920 I've just shared how I felt... 1478 01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:52,680 and as I opened my as I opened my mouth, now he's (BLEEP) gone. 1479 01:09:54,440 --> 01:09:55,560 He's just a child. 1480 01:09:57,160 --> 01:09:59,400 And just so disappointed. 1481 01:10:08,920 --> 01:10:10,080 (SPEAKS INDISTINCTLY) 1482 01:10:14,400 --> 01:10:15,440 Thanks, guys. 1483 01:10:15,560 --> 01:10:16,840 JOHN: Thank you, Steph. 1484 01:10:16,960 --> 01:10:17,880 ALESSANDRA: Thank you, Steph. 1485 01:10:20,000 --> 01:10:21,480 ALISSA: Darl. 1486 01:10:23,240 --> 01:10:24,240 You're amazing. 1487 01:10:24,360 --> 01:10:26,440 STELLA: You just need a more mature, man. That's all. 1488 01:10:26,560 --> 01:10:27,560 Yeah. You're amazing. Yeah. 1489 01:10:27,680 --> 01:10:29,880 STELLA: A mature man will come in and whoop you off your feet. OK? 1490 01:10:30,000 --> 01:10:31,520 (CHATTER) 1491 01:10:32,360 --> 01:10:35,320 Oh, come on, everybody, let's all pile in! 1492 01:10:35,440 --> 01:10:36,640 Ah! 1493 01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:43,800 NARRATOR: Tomorrow night... 1494 01:10:43,920 --> 01:10:45,760 FILIP: It's hard to say things like this. 1495 01:10:45,880 --> 01:10:46,960 I definitely haven't been one 1496 01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:49,000 to kind of lean into my feelings of emotions. 1497 01:10:49,120 --> 01:10:51,160 Alessandra had a had a good point. Yeah? 1498 01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:53,920 Why can't you just verbalise it to each other, you know? 1499 01:10:54,040 --> 01:10:56,440 NARRATOR: Well, Filip finally say those magic words 1500 01:10:56,560 --> 01:10:59,160 that Stella's been dying to hear? 1501 01:11:02,040 --> 01:11:03,120 NARRATOR: And then... 1502 01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:04,680 Yeah! 1503 01:11:04,800 --> 01:11:07,240 ..it's time for the annual couples retreat. 1504 01:11:07,360 --> 01:11:08,320 Whee! 1505 01:11:08,440 --> 01:11:09,720 Whoo! Yay! 1506 01:11:09,840 --> 01:11:11,600 WOMAN: Very, very content right now. 1507 01:11:11,720 --> 01:11:13,280 How good is this? 1508 01:11:13,400 --> 01:11:16,600 NARRATOR: Our newlyweds are loving the brand new location... 1509 01:11:16,720 --> 01:11:18,440 # Let's get away... # 1510 01:11:18,920 --> 01:11:21,760 ..and the happy couples are all singing 'Kumbaya'. 1511 01:11:22,920 --> 01:11:25,040 I feel like the good vibes quite nice. 1512 01:11:25,160 --> 01:11:26,480 Ladies and gentlemen, 1513 01:11:26,600 --> 01:11:28,320 can I have you guys over here, please? 1514 01:11:28,440 --> 01:11:29,600 NARRATOR: Until... 1515 01:11:29,720 --> 01:11:33,720 It's the first night of retreat we've had (BLEEP). 1516 01:11:34,200 --> 01:11:36,480 ..one bad joke... 1517 01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:38,280 WOMAN: I just want to leave. 1518 01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:41,000 ..sends the retreat into meltdown. 1519 01:11:41,120 --> 01:11:42,040 Stop! 1520 01:11:42,160 --> 01:11:44,720 You called her a liar! I'm not being manipulated by you. 1521 01:11:44,840 --> 01:11:45,840 NARRATOR: What is the punchline... 1522 01:11:46,680 --> 01:11:47,680 Guys, guys. 1523 01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:49,480 ..that will break bonds... 1524 01:11:49,600 --> 01:11:50,480 She is a liar. 1525 01:11:50,600 --> 01:11:51,520 I'm so sick of this. 1526 01:11:53,640 --> 01:11:56,600 ..and derail the course of the experiment... 1527 01:11:56,720 --> 01:11:57,600 Get me out of here! 1528 01:11:57,720 --> 01:11:58,560 ..forever? 1529 01:11:59,080 --> 01:12:00,480 (SOBBING) Made me feel like a piece of shit. 1530 01:12:02,480 --> 01:12:05,480 Captioned by AI-Media ai-media.tv 115609

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