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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:33,080 Ugh. 2 00:01:51,530 --> 00:01:52,530 Ugh! 3 00:09:51,050 --> 00:09:52,050 Hmm. 4 00:12:36,940 --> 00:12:41,900 Water was the sacred power that defined the plains. 5 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:47,660 And with the sun promised the earth to activate the grains. 6 00:12:47,920 --> 00:12:54,660 So the bison collected to graze where greasy was the grass grown by the 7 00:12:54,660 --> 00:12:55,660 rains. 8 00:12:57,020 --> 00:13:02,380 He who steals the fat costume sitting will explain. 9 00:13:02,780 --> 00:13:05,960 He spoke that land was not for men. 10 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:08,100 to own or exchange. 11 00:13:08,680 --> 00:13:15,360 After gold was bellowed from the bluffs, then sellers came to occupy the 12 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:16,360 range. 13 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:23,020 Money was the white man's god, on it was his face. 14 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:29,820 And in his eyes, reminders of a way of life arrayed. So the 15 00:13:29,820 --> 00:13:34,300 spirits who laughed with the bison watched them, living on their 16 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:40,280 Make some worship! 17 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:15,980 So said Custer to his men surveying the hills. 18 00:14:16,380 --> 00:14:21,580 They'll make it through their agencies, the ones that don't we kill. 19 00:14:21,980 --> 00:14:25,620 And what guns and forced relocation can't do. 20 00:14:25,820 --> 00:14:28,820 Alcohol and isolation will. 21 00:14:31,140 --> 00:14:36,120 After all the gold was gone, all came in its way. 22 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:39,020 Hell, if they strained it out. 23 00:14:39,950 --> 00:14:46,770 A new promise to bring Once the land and law have been stolen There was nothing 24 00:14:46,770 --> 00:14:53,150 but their water left to take Nothing but their 25 00:14:53,150 --> 00:14:54,930 spirits left to break 26 00:15:09,740 --> 00:15:12,160 Cause the bugs became increasingly fast to mend. 27 00:15:12,420 --> 00:15:15,040 She found a shot to have a spot in the newspaper land. 28 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:21,100 Greasy was the grass grown by the rain. 29 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:27,000 Greasy was the grass grown by the rain. 30 00:15:29,620 --> 00:15:32,760 Greasy was the grass grown by the rain. 31 00:15:34,260 --> 00:15:35,540 As they fell. 32 00:17:55,980 --> 00:18:00,980 True confidence in the modern age isn't a switch you just flip. It's a constant 33 00:18:00,980 --> 00:18:06,840 routine that reinforces your own value. The world we live in is not kind to 34 00:18:06,840 --> 00:18:12,480 that. It's on us as women to present ourselves as a powerful being that we 35 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:15,160 We have created, you know, through social media. 36 00:21:23,729 --> 00:21:26,530 Thank you. 37 00:21:26,790 --> 00:21:27,790 Thank you. 38 00:21:53,870 --> 00:21:57,070 Problems with the flowers, problems in the mainland. 39 00:22:00,050 --> 00:22:04,530 All these conversations make me want to go mad. 40 00:22:06,670 --> 00:22:08,630 And go wild. 41 00:22:10,150 --> 00:22:11,750 To be wild. 42 00:22:13,710 --> 00:22:15,570 And go wild. 43 00:22:17,250 --> 00:22:18,930 For a while. 44 00:22:54,709 --> 00:22:58,110 And go wild. 45 00:25:10,730 --> 00:25:11,730 Whoa. 46 00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:07,440 No. 47 00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:28,860 You know, it seems to me that in this day and age, that if a person wasn't 48 00:30:28,860 --> 00:30:31,680 anxious, that would actually be more strange than if they were. 49 00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:35,880 But, those things shouldn't gain your productivity as a woman. 50 00:32:33,690 --> 00:32:40,550 a good relationship demands so much time so much effort so 51 00:32:40,550 --> 00:32:46,050 much energy and men have such few clear examples of healthy masculinity 52 00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:00,520 Thank you. 53 00:34:03,180 --> 00:34:06,360 Got it. Final answer. Oh, Joey's here to rush it along. 54 00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,900 All right. Draw what you're thinking floor plan was. Oh, boy. I'm thinking 55 00:34:09,900 --> 00:34:11,239 couch is going to be over here. 56 00:34:11,739 --> 00:34:13,659 I do want two chairs. 57 00:34:14,159 --> 00:34:16,480 I'm not sure if there's going to be a big enough area. 58 00:44:04,380 --> 00:44:05,380 Hey, sorry. 59 00:44:05,700 --> 00:44:07,020 Hi, buddy. Come here, Rocco. 60 00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:08,920 He's cuter than his pictures. 61 00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:10,880 Are you a dog person? 62 00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:13,300 I don't know. 63 00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:16,820 Well, he's a people dog. 64 00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:20,280 Yeah, I can tell. He looks well trained. 65 00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:22,080 Yeah. 66 00:44:22,900 --> 00:44:23,900 I brought this. 67 00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:26,960 Oh, you didn't have to do that. 68 00:44:27,460 --> 00:44:29,220 I don't know. Isn't that what you're supposed to do? 69 00:44:30,020 --> 00:44:31,800 Right. Well, thank you. 70 00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:36,420 Yeah, I'm Amina. 71 00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:38,560 I know. 72 00:44:38,940 --> 00:44:40,320 I'm Alec. 73 00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:43,480 Right. Yes, we both know. 74 00:44:44,260 --> 00:44:48,820 Sorry, I felt like we needed a proper introduction, you know? 75 00:44:49,140 --> 00:44:51,260 This is about what you're supposed to do. 76 00:44:51,940 --> 00:44:52,940 Yeah. 77 00:44:54,740 --> 00:44:55,820 There he is. 78 00:44:57,200 --> 00:44:58,360 And you brought wine. 79 00:44:59,540 --> 00:45:01,340 Yeah, it's red. 80 00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:03,680 Y 'all like red? 81 00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:09,100 Um, actually, we don't really drink any wine, so we're not picky. 82 00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:13,200 Oh, shit. Very tweet of you, man. No problem, man. 83 00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:16,140 It looks like a nice one, too. Are you trying to flex on us? 84 00:45:16,500 --> 00:45:22,260 Babe, I actually don't... This is very embarrassing, but I actually don't think 85 00:45:22,260 --> 00:45:23,500 that we own a wine opener. 86 00:45:23,780 --> 00:45:25,220 A corkscrew? Of course we do. 87 00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:28,040 Don't we? 88 00:45:41,770 --> 00:45:44,470 So how are you feeling about watching Rocco while we're away? 89 00:45:45,010 --> 00:45:46,970 Oh, I feel fine. 90 00:45:47,190 --> 00:45:53,090 Yeah. He's really low maintenance for a small breed, but I am pretty nervous 91 00:45:53,090 --> 00:45:56,990 about leaving him for the first time, so I'm glad that you got to meet him 92 00:45:56,990 --> 00:45:58,070 first, at least. 93 00:45:58,290 --> 00:46:00,530 Yeah, for sure. I'm happy to help. 94 00:46:01,130 --> 00:46:04,690 And we were thinking about 50 a day. 95 00:46:05,070 --> 00:46:07,010 Oh, you don't have to pay me. 96 00:46:08,010 --> 00:46:09,010 I mean... 97 00:46:09,690 --> 00:46:11,010 We'd like to. Yeah. No. 98 00:46:11,650 --> 00:46:12,850 Seriously, it's not a big deal. 99 00:46:13,470 --> 00:46:16,750 Okay, that's really nice of you, but no, we're definitely paying you. 100 00:46:17,730 --> 00:46:21,410 I'm serious. Please don't pay me. That would be so weird. 101 00:46:21,870 --> 00:46:23,370 We'd feel weird. Yeah. 102 00:46:23,850 --> 00:46:24,850 Don't feel weird. 103 00:46:25,410 --> 00:46:26,970 Are you sure? Don't pay me, yeah. 104 00:46:27,250 --> 00:46:28,250 Yes, I'm sure. 105 00:46:28,930 --> 00:46:29,930 Yeah. 106 00:46:30,190 --> 00:46:32,050 Well, thank you. 107 00:46:33,550 --> 00:46:37,070 That's really nice. I guess, yeah, that's an extra $150 we can... 108 00:46:37,810 --> 00:46:39,010 Spend on a corkscrew. 109 00:46:39,690 --> 00:46:42,390 Yeah, it would be an expensive corkscrew. Absolutely. 110 00:46:42,670 --> 00:46:43,670 Rose gold. 111 00:46:43,950 --> 00:46:44,950 Bluetooth speaker. 112 00:46:48,190 --> 00:46:50,770 So where are y 'all going again? 113 00:46:51,270 --> 00:46:52,270 Fredericksburg. 114 00:46:52,930 --> 00:46:53,930 What's there? 115 00:46:53,970 --> 00:46:55,490 That's where Enchanted Rock is. 116 00:46:56,490 --> 00:46:58,530 What? No, where what is? 117 00:46:58,770 --> 00:47:00,210 That's where Enchanted Rock. 118 00:47:01,490 --> 00:47:02,490 You've never been. 119 00:47:02,790 --> 00:47:06,150 Peter said that you've been in Texas your whole life and you've never been to 120 00:47:06,150 --> 00:47:07,118 Enchanted Rock. 121 00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:08,120 I've never even heard of it. 122 00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:14,480 That is crazy, but it's beautiful and it's a huge... Rock. 123 00:47:15,220 --> 00:47:16,220 It's a huge rock. 124 00:47:16,940 --> 00:47:19,620 Yes, and it's... Is it enchanted? 125 00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:24,640 You know, it's kind of hard to explain what makes it so great, but... In fact, 126 00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:26,520 explaining it makes it sound very lame. 127 00:47:27,060 --> 00:47:30,600 Okay, but that's just like all of nature. You can't just talk about it. 128 00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:32,100 know, you have to see it and feel it. 129 00:47:38,819 --> 00:47:39,799 More wine? 130 00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:42,880 Oh, no, I'm good. I actually don't even think I like wine. 131 00:47:43,240 --> 00:47:46,000 Yeah, well, neither do we, dumbass. You couldn't pick up some beer? 132 00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:47,218 Be nice. 133 00:47:47,220 --> 00:47:49,280 I'm just saying, he knows I don't drink wine. 134 00:47:49,860 --> 00:47:50,860 Well, Nina might. 135 00:47:51,060 --> 00:47:55,980 Yeah, I do, actually, and I will be having the rest if no one wants any, 136 00:47:55,980 --> 00:48:02,140 I'm gonna wrap these up. 137 00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:10,320 Eight years. 138 00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:13,220 That's how long Peter and I have been together. 139 00:48:13,740 --> 00:48:15,920 Yeah, that's crazy. 140 00:48:17,240 --> 00:48:18,240 You knew that? 141 00:48:19,340 --> 00:48:21,120 No, I didn't know the actual number. 142 00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:24,100 I just knew it's been a long time. 143 00:48:24,700 --> 00:48:27,800 You know, it's funny when you say a long time because I feel like that could 144 00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:31,980 mean anything. I feel like it could mean three years or five years or eight 145 00:48:31,980 --> 00:48:34,540 years. Eight hundred years. 146 00:48:34,820 --> 00:48:35,820 Yeah. 147 00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:38,300 Sorry, I like to... 148 00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:45,500 hear myself talk when i get tipped to be so you're good you were 149 00:48:45,500 --> 00:48:49,220 15 when peter and i first met yeah 150 00:48:49,220 --> 00:48:56,220 yeah that's like ancient history how 151 00:48:56,220 --> 00:49:01,240 did you guys first meet oh we met at one of those 11 11 parties one of those 152 00:49:01,240 --> 00:49:05,660 what parties okay no one ever knows what we're talking about i always thought 153 00:49:05,660 --> 00:49:12,640 that everyone did them but guess not um so every month 154 00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:17,580 in the fall they would have this big party at the biggest house on the edge 155 00:49:17,580 --> 00:49:23,860 west campus and it would be on like the 8th of august the 9th of september the 156 00:49:23,860 --> 00:49:29,840 10th of october you get the idea and at the time so the time that was the number 157 00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:31,680 so in this case 11 11. 158 00:49:32,020 --> 00:49:36,040 everyone was just supposed to get naked and go crazy and start and sucking and 159 00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:38,230 doing just The horny college shit. 160 00:49:39,230 --> 00:49:44,190 Okay. And it was getting pretty close to 11 -11, and I still needed to find 161 00:49:44,190 --> 00:49:46,130 someone, because you need to have someone. 162 00:49:46,770 --> 00:49:53,650 It was 11 -09, 11 -10, and right on 11 163 00:49:53,650 --> 00:49:58,030 -11, I feel a hand tap me on the shoulder, and sure enough, it was him. 164 00:49:58,250 --> 00:49:59,250 What was me? 165 00:49:59,590 --> 00:50:00,930 I'm just telling him how we met. 166 00:50:01,130 --> 00:50:02,130 Oh, God. 167 00:50:02,510 --> 00:50:04,350 Well, what made you tap her on the shoulder, Peter? 168 00:50:04,850 --> 00:50:05,850 Well, why not her? 169 00:50:06,240 --> 00:50:07,198 She was beautiful. 170 00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:08,540 I'd seen her on campus before. 171 00:50:09,180 --> 00:50:11,460 She was looking for somebody, and I needed someone too. 172 00:50:14,500 --> 00:50:19,180 But anyway, we're here eight years later, so... Yeah, that's crazy. 173 00:50:20,020 --> 00:50:22,300 I can't imagine being with one person for that long. 174 00:50:23,460 --> 00:50:26,720 Well, it's not just one person. 175 00:50:27,820 --> 00:50:32,740 Yeah, but, I mean, still, even with more than one person, that's a long time. 176 00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:34,880 Eight years goes by quicker than you'd think. 177 00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:36,360 Yeah. 178 00:50:37,940 --> 00:50:41,100 Yeah. And here is to eight more. Cheers. 179 00:50:43,140 --> 00:50:44,560 You guys have any advice? 180 00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:47,680 About what? 181 00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:52,820 Well, as someone who's exclusively failed at relationships thus far, it 182 00:50:52,820 --> 00:50:59,080 great to get some advice from a successful, long -term couple like 183 00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:02,280 Have you heard of Maria Mendes? 184 00:51:02,980 --> 00:51:03,980 Here we go. 185 00:51:04,410 --> 00:51:05,610 Mm -mm. No. Why? 186 00:51:06,130 --> 00:51:10,090 She is an extraordinary woman. And if you ever have any questions about 187 00:51:10,090 --> 00:51:12,030 relationships, you should ask her. 188 00:51:16,490 --> 00:51:18,910 Is she about to walk out or something? 189 00:51:19,170 --> 00:51:20,170 No. No. 190 00:51:20,510 --> 00:51:27,410 No. She has this podcast that I listen to, like, religiously. And she just 191 00:51:27,410 --> 00:51:31,170 recently came out with a novel, which is basically everything she talks about 192 00:51:31,170 --> 00:51:32,170 but in print. 193 00:51:33,350 --> 00:51:34,350 But, yeah. 194 00:51:34,380 --> 00:51:35,460 She's great. 195 00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:42,420 Um, Peter, you don't have any advice for a long -lasting relationship? 196 00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:43,880 Don't get married. 197 00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:45,220 Mm -hmm, that's true. 198 00:51:45,700 --> 00:51:46,720 Y 'all don't want to get married? 199 00:51:47,420 --> 00:51:50,120 No, no, just not in a rush. 200 00:51:51,460 --> 00:51:54,760 What about you, Alex? Do you ever want to get married? 201 00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:57,500 No, not again. 202 00:51:58,660 --> 00:51:59,660 Not again? 203 00:52:00,780 --> 00:52:01,780 Oh. 204 00:52:02,250 --> 00:52:05,570 I didn't mean for that to be like a bomb drop on the conversation or something. 205 00:52:06,450 --> 00:52:08,030 Wait, you were married? 206 00:52:09,270 --> 00:52:12,490 Yeah, for a glorious six months. 207 00:52:12,690 --> 00:52:14,370 No fucking way. When? 208 00:52:15,450 --> 00:52:16,450 Like a year ago. 209 00:52:18,130 --> 00:52:21,970 We met when we were 18, started dating, got married when we were 22. 210 00:52:22,770 --> 00:52:23,770 And yeah, 211 00:52:24,390 --> 00:52:26,570 I told you when we first met that I just got out of a big breakup. 212 00:52:26,870 --> 00:52:28,390 Yeah, you didn't tell me it was a fucking divorce. 213 00:52:28,730 --> 00:52:31,800 Yeah. Well, I was kind of embarrassed about it, I guess. 214 00:52:33,620 --> 00:52:36,880 It didn't even feel like a real marriage, so it didn't really feel like 215 00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:37,880 divorce either. 216 00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:44,900 It was just, like, one long, impulsive decision, the kind that two people 217 00:52:44,900 --> 00:52:49,580 mutually participate in, and things were just really messy when we ended it. 218 00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:51,660 When I ended it. 219 00:52:53,500 --> 00:52:59,080 But, yeah, it's in the past, and I don't really like to talk about it. 220 00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:06,020 a lot so we can i i totally get that um why did you get married 221 00:53:06,020 --> 00:53:11,920 um because i loved him 222 00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:18,020 and i just kind of thought that's what you do when you love someone and i don't 223 00:53:18,020 --> 00:53:23,340 know i didn't know any better i guess so why did it end what are you this 224 00:53:23,340 --> 00:53:28,700 therapist um because i didn't love him anymore um 225 00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:35,020 I guess I just got too comfortable or I got so comfortable that I got bored. 226 00:53:35,580 --> 00:53:41,240 And yeah, I mean, it's just weird to spend four years with someone and then 227 00:53:41,240 --> 00:53:44,000 realize that you'd never checked in with yourself about it the entire time. 228 00:53:45,540 --> 00:53:48,240 You just sat there and took it. 229 00:53:48,860 --> 00:53:53,500 And if you never actually think through it in your head, like think of your 230 00:53:53,500 --> 00:53:56,120 relationship as a thing that you can touch. 231 00:53:56,860 --> 00:54:02,500 and squeeze and fuck around with, then it's easy to get swept away in something 232 00:54:02,500 --> 00:54:04,500 that you didn't even really fucking want in the first place. 233 00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:12,020 But... I should have seen it coming, the Scorpio. 234 00:54:22,260 --> 00:54:24,980 Alex, it was really wonderful to finally meet you. 235 00:54:25,580 --> 00:54:27,630 Yeah. Thank you so much. 236 00:54:28,330 --> 00:54:29,550 Thank you. 237 00:54:29,870 --> 00:54:33,470 Yeah, we know each other now, so that's great. 238 00:54:33,830 --> 00:54:34,830 For sure. 239 00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:24,140 oh my god 240 01:00:46,090 --> 01:00:47,090 That's so weird. 241 01:00:47,510 --> 01:00:49,290 That lighter is the same as your shoe. 242 01:00:52,310 --> 01:00:53,310 Random as fuck. 243 01:00:59,530 --> 01:01:00,530 It's pretty quiet. 244 01:01:01,790 --> 01:01:02,810 It's better just around me here. 245 01:01:04,830 --> 01:01:07,610 You always like to... 246 01:01:07,610 --> 01:01:13,290 You're about to hit the day. 247 01:10:44,750 --> 01:10:45,750 Thank you. 248 01:13:01,640 --> 01:13:02,640 Yeah. 249 01:15:40,170 --> 01:15:44,770 This next question comes from Nina. She is 26 and hails from Austin. 250 01:15:45,430 --> 01:15:50,970 Dear Maria, me and my partner have been dating for almost eight years now and 251 01:15:50,970 --> 01:15:52,330 have been open for about four. 252 01:15:52,810 --> 01:15:57,070 It was a mutual decision to open up our relationship, but initially I was the 253 01:15:57,070 --> 01:15:58,750 only one taking advantage of it. 254 01:15:58,990 --> 01:16:03,590 I had a number of different experiences with different partners, men, women, 255 01:16:03,890 --> 01:16:04,890 young, old. 256 01:16:05,310 --> 01:16:09,030 Me and my partner started dating in college, and he was the first long -term 257 01:16:09,030 --> 01:16:14,910 boyfriend. ever had. So being open has provided me a great opportunity to 258 01:16:14,910 --> 01:16:18,550 discover lots about the world, and more importantly, myself. 259 01:16:19,350 --> 01:16:24,090 But from the start, we both agreed it would be a short -term thing and not a 260 01:16:24,090 --> 01:16:25,090 permanent lifestyle. 261 01:16:25,730 --> 01:16:30,710 And so recently, I felt like I was growing out of our experience, like I'd 262 01:16:30,710 --> 01:16:31,850 gotten everything I wanted. 263 01:16:32,170 --> 01:16:37,190 But about six months ago, my boyfriend found a really intense and consistent 264 01:16:37,190 --> 01:16:39,410 connection with a younger me. 265 01:16:40,560 --> 01:16:46,260 He is also the first man he has ever felt comfortable exploring his 266 01:16:46,260 --> 01:16:49,920 with. They are very compatible both physically and as friends. 267 01:16:50,460 --> 01:16:53,660 And at first I was just happy to see him find that joy outside of our 268 01:16:53,660 --> 01:16:56,480 relationship that I had been indulging in for so long. 269 01:16:56,800 --> 01:17:02,160 But the truth is that the intensity of that connection has begun to scare me. 270 01:17:03,680 --> 01:17:04,880 Sorry for going on. 271 01:17:05,260 --> 01:17:06,960 All I wanted to ask was... 272 01:17:07,290 --> 01:17:11,270 What is your opinion on closing the relationship when your partner might not 273 01:17:11,270 --> 01:17:12,270 done with it himself? 274 01:17:12,490 --> 01:17:17,810 I don't want to feel like I'm taking something away from him, especially 275 01:17:17,810 --> 01:17:20,850 how long he was supportive of me exploring myself. 276 01:17:21,570 --> 01:17:26,410 I guess I am just jealous of him and insecure about the time and energy he's 277 01:17:26,410 --> 01:17:31,470 investing into somebody else while I'm in a place emotionally where I'm in 278 01:17:31,470 --> 01:17:33,870 need of that kind of care. 279 01:17:34,410 --> 01:17:35,770 Thanks, since always. 280 01:17:36,700 --> 01:17:37,700 Love you lots. 281 01:17:38,140 --> 01:17:40,260 Well, Nina, I love you lots, too. 282 01:17:41,760 --> 01:17:47,480 And it seems like your boyfriend and the new boy he's seeing all... 283 01:17:47,480 --> 01:17:50,520 Isn't that the core of it? 284 01:17:51,220 --> 01:17:52,560 Too much love? 285 01:17:53,300 --> 01:17:57,760 There are worse problems to have. I mean, firstly, I want you to reframe 286 01:17:57,760 --> 01:18:02,880 problem so you can look at it, at this entire conflict, as an opportunity for 287 01:18:02,880 --> 01:18:04,660 growth for all parties involved. 288 01:18:05,320 --> 01:18:09,380 If you truly feel neglected, you need to be honest about them. 289 01:18:09,720 --> 01:18:13,620 The longer you resist the impulse to talk, the harder it will be. 290 01:18:13,980 --> 01:18:18,740 You need to prioritize your needs, as does your partner, because he is, of 291 01:18:18,740 --> 01:18:20,280 course, your partner. 292 01:18:20,700 --> 01:18:25,980 But if this new person is as significant a presence in your partner's life as 293 01:18:25,980 --> 01:18:31,040 you say he is, then it might be time to accept that you have created a new kind 294 01:18:31,040 --> 01:18:32,040 of relationship. 295 01:18:32,620 --> 01:18:35,560 It might not be your standard open relationship anymore. 296 01:18:36,560 --> 01:18:42,060 But in any kind of relationship, you must talk about things. Communication is 297 01:18:42,060 --> 01:18:46,380 key. And the fact that you are choosing to talk to me about this instead of him 298 01:18:46,380 --> 01:18:48,660 only affirms how urgent it is that you talk. 299 01:18:49,800 --> 01:18:53,520 I wish you luck with this, Nina, and as always, my friends. 300 01:18:56,420 --> 01:19:01,320 So, that was our weekly audience advice segment, sponsored by ZipRecruiter. 301 01:19:01,790 --> 01:19:05,230 If you're looking for a job or an employer trying to fill a position with 302 01:19:05,230 --> 01:19:08,530 unqualified candidate, then you need to be prepared. 303 01:21:53,610 --> 01:22:00,310 You must think my bed's above dark The way 304 01:22:00,310 --> 01:22:06,710 you come and go I ain't seen 305 01:22:06,710 --> 01:22:13,470 you with the lights on Two nights in a row 306 01:22:13,470 --> 01:22:17,110 To pack your... 307 01:22:32,560 --> 01:22:33,560 But my... 23381

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