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Ugh.
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Ugh!
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Hmm.
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Water was the sacred power that defined
the plains.
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And with the sun promised the earth to
activate the grains.
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So the bison collected to graze where
greasy was the grass grown by the
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rains.
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He who steals the fat costume sitting
will explain.
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He spoke that land was not for men.
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to own or exchange.
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After gold was bellowed from the bluffs,
then sellers came to occupy the
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range.
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Money was the white man's god, on it was
his face.
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And in his eyes, reminders of a way of
life arrayed. So the
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spirits who laughed with the bison
watched them, living on their
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Make some worship!
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So said Custer to his men surveying the
hills.
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They'll make it through their agencies,
the ones that don't we kill.
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And what guns and forced relocation
can't do.
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Alcohol and isolation will.
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After all the gold was gone, all came in
its way.
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Hell, if they strained it out.
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A new promise to bring Once the land and
law have been stolen There was nothing
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but their water left to take Nothing but
their
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spirits left to break
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Cause the bugs became increasingly fast
to mend.
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She found a shot to have a spot in the
newspaper land.
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Greasy was the grass grown by the rain.
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Greasy was the grass grown by the rain.
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Greasy was the grass grown by the rain.
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As they fell.
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True confidence in the modern age isn't
a switch you just flip. It's a constant
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routine that reinforces your own value.
The world we live in is not kind to
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that. It's on us as women to present
ourselves as a powerful being that we
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We have created, you know, through
social media.
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Thank you.
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Thank you.
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Problems with the flowers, problems in
the mainland.
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All these conversations make me want to
go mad.
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And go wild.
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To be wild.
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And go wild.
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For a while.
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And go wild.
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Whoa.
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No.
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You know, it seems to me that in this
day and age, that if a person wasn't
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anxious, that would actually be more
strange than if they were.
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But, those things shouldn't gain your
productivity as a woman.
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a good relationship demands so much time
so much effort so
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much energy and men have such few clear
examples of healthy masculinity
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Thank you.
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Got it. Final answer. Oh, Joey's here to
rush it along.
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All right. Draw what you're thinking
floor plan was. Oh, boy. I'm thinking
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couch is going to be over here.
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I do want two chairs.
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I'm not sure if there's going to be a
big enough area.
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Hey, sorry.
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Hi, buddy. Come here, Rocco.
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He's cuter than his pictures.
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Are you a dog person?
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I don't know.
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Well, he's a people dog.
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Yeah, I can tell. He looks well trained.
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Yeah.
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I brought this.
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Oh, you didn't have to do that.
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I don't know. Isn't that what you're
supposed to do?
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Right. Well, thank you.
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Yeah, I'm Amina.
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I know.
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I'm Alec.
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Right. Yes, we both know.
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Sorry, I felt like we needed a proper
introduction, you know?
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This is about what you're supposed to
do.
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Yeah.
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There he is.
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And you brought wine.
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Yeah, it's red.
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Y 'all like red?
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Um, actually, we don't really drink any
wine, so we're not picky.
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Oh, shit. Very tweet of you, man. No
problem, man.
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It looks like a nice one, too. Are you
trying to flex on us?
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Babe, I actually don't... This is very
embarrassing, but I actually don't think
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that we own a wine opener.
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A corkscrew? Of course we do.
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Don't we?
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So how are you feeling about watching
Rocco while we're away?
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Oh, I feel fine.
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Yeah. He's really low maintenance for a
small breed, but I am pretty nervous
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about leaving him for the first time, so
I'm glad that you got to meet him
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first, at least.
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Yeah, for sure. I'm happy to help.
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And we were thinking about 50 a day.
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Oh, you don't have to pay me.
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I mean...
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We'd like to. Yeah. No.
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Seriously, it's not a big deal.
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Okay, that's really nice of you, but no,
we're definitely paying you.
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I'm serious. Please don't pay me. That
would be so weird.
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We'd feel weird. Yeah.
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Don't feel weird.
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Are you sure? Don't pay me, yeah.
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Yes, I'm sure.
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Yeah.
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Well, thank you.
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That's really nice. I guess, yeah,
that's an extra $150 we can...
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Spend on a corkscrew.
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Yeah, it would be an expensive
corkscrew. Absolutely.
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Rose gold.
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Bluetooth speaker.
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So where are y 'all going again?
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Fredericksburg.
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What's there?
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That's where Enchanted Rock is.
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What? No, where what is?
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That's where Enchanted Rock.
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You've never been.
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Peter said that you've been in Texas
your whole life and you've never been to
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Enchanted Rock.
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I've never even heard of it.
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That is crazy, but it's beautiful and
it's a huge... Rock.
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It's a huge rock.
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Yes, and it's... Is it enchanted?
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You know, it's kind of hard to explain
what makes it so great, but... In fact,
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explaining it makes it sound very lame.
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Okay, but that's just like all of
nature. You can't just talk about it.
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know, you have to see it and feel it.
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More wine?
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Oh, no, I'm good. I actually don't even
think I like wine.
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Yeah, well, neither do we, dumbass. You
couldn't pick up some beer?
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Be nice.
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I'm just saying, he knows I don't drink
wine.
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Well, Nina might.
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Yeah, I do, actually, and I will be
having the rest if no one wants any,
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I'm gonna wrap these up.
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Eight years.
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That's how long Peter and I have been
together.
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Yeah, that's crazy.
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You knew that?
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No, I didn't know the actual number.
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I just knew it's been a long time.
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You know, it's funny when you say a long
time because I feel like that could
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mean anything. I feel like it could mean
three years or five years or eight
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years. Eight hundred years.
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Yeah.
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Sorry, I like to...
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hear myself talk when i get tipped to be
so you're good you were
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15 when peter and i first met yeah
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yeah that's like ancient history how
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did you guys first meet oh we met at one
of those 11 11 parties one of those
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what parties okay no one ever knows what
we're talking about i always thought
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that everyone did them but guess not um
so every month
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in the fall they would have this big
party at the biggest house on the edge
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west campus and it would be on like the
8th of august the 9th of september the
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10th of october you get the idea and at
the time so the time that was the number
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so in this case 11 11.
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everyone was just supposed to get naked
and go crazy and start and sucking and
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doing just The horny college shit.
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Okay. And it was getting pretty close to
11 -11, and I still needed to find
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someone, because you need to have
someone.
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It was 11 -09, 11 -10, and right on 11
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-11, I feel a hand tap me on the
shoulder, and sure enough, it was him.
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What was me?
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I'm just telling him how we met.
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Oh, God.
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Well, what made you tap her on the
shoulder, Peter?
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Well, why not her?
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She was beautiful.
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I'd seen her on campus before.
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She was looking for somebody, and I
needed someone too.
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But anyway, we're here eight years
later, so... Yeah, that's crazy.
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I can't imagine being with one person
for that long.
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Well, it's not just one person.
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Yeah, but, I mean, still, even with more
than one person, that's a long time.
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Eight years goes by quicker than you'd
think.
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Yeah.
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Yeah. And here is to eight more. Cheers.
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You guys have any advice?
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About what?
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Well, as someone who's exclusively
failed at relationships thus far, it
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great to get some advice from a
successful, long -term couple like
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Have you heard of Maria Mendes?
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Here we go.
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Mm -mm. No. Why?
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She is an extraordinary woman. And if
you ever have any questions about
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relationships, you should ask her.
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Is she about to walk out or something?
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No. No.
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No. She has this podcast that I listen
to, like, religiously. And she just
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recently came out with a novel, which is
basically everything she talks about
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but in print.
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But, yeah.
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She's great.
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Um, Peter, you don't have any advice for
a long -lasting relationship?
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Don't get married.
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Mm -hmm, that's true.
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Y 'all don't want to get married?
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No, no, just not in a rush.
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What about you, Alex? Do you ever want
to get married?
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No, not again.
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Not again?
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Oh.
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I didn't mean for that to be like a bomb
drop on the conversation or something.
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Wait, you were married?
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Yeah, for a glorious six months.
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No fucking way. When?
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Like a year ago.
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We met when we were 18, started dating,
got married when we were 22.
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And yeah,
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I told you when we first met that I just
got out of a big breakup.
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Yeah, you didn't tell me it was a
fucking divorce.
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Yeah. Well, I was kind of embarrassed
about it, I guess.
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It didn't even feel like a real
marriage, so it didn't really feel like
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divorce either.
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It was just, like, one long, impulsive
decision, the kind that two people
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mutually participate in, and things were
just really messy when we ended it.
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When I ended it.
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But, yeah, it's in the past, and I don't
really like to talk about it.
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a lot so we can i i totally get that um
why did you get married
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um because i loved him
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and i just kind of thought that's what
you do when you love someone and i don't
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know i didn't know any better i guess so
why did it end what are you this
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therapist um because i didn't love him
anymore um
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I guess I just got too comfortable or I
got so comfortable that I got bored.
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And yeah, I mean, it's just weird to
spend four years with someone and then
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realize that you'd never checked in with
yourself about it the entire time.
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You just sat there and took it.
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And if you never actually think through
it in your head, like think of your
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relationship as a thing that you can
touch.
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and squeeze and fuck around with, then
it's easy to get swept away in something
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that you didn't even really fucking want
in the first place.
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But... I should have seen it coming, the
Scorpio.
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Alex, it was really wonderful to finally
meet you.
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Yeah. Thank you so much.
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Thank you.
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Yeah, we know each other now, so that's
great.
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For sure.
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oh my god
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That's so weird.
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That lighter is the same as your shoe.
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Random as fuck.
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It's pretty quiet.
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It's better just around me here.
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You always like to...
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You're about to hit the day.
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Thank you.
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Yeah.
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This next question comes from Nina. She
is 26 and hails from Austin.
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Dear Maria, me and my partner have been
dating for almost eight years now and
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have been open for about four.
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It was a mutual decision to open up our
relationship, but initially I was the
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only one taking advantage of it.
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I had a number of different experiences
with different partners, men, women,
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young, old.
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Me and my partner started dating in
college, and he was the first long -term
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boyfriend. ever had. So being open has
provided me a great opportunity to
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discover lots about the world, and more
importantly, myself.
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But from the start, we both agreed it
would be a short -term thing and not a
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permanent lifestyle.
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And so recently, I felt like I was
growing out of our experience, like I'd
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gotten everything I wanted.
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But about six months ago, my boyfriend
found a really intense and consistent
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connection with a younger me.
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He is also the first man he has ever
felt comfortable exploring his
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with. They are very compatible both
physically and as friends.
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And at first I was just happy to see him
find that joy outside of our
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relationship that I had been indulging
in for so long.
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But the truth is that the intensity of
that connection has begun to scare me.
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Sorry for going on.
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All I wanted to ask was...
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What is your opinion on closing the
relationship when your partner might not
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done with it himself?
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I don't want to feel like I'm taking
something away from him, especially
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how long he was supportive of me
exploring myself.
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I guess I am just jealous of him and
insecure about the time and energy he's
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investing into somebody else while I'm
in a place emotionally where I'm in
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need of that kind of care.
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Thanks, since always.
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Love you lots.
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Well, Nina, I love you lots, too.
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And it seems like your boyfriend and the
new boy he's seeing all...
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Isn't that the core of it?
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Too much love?
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There are worse problems to have. I
mean, firstly, I want you to reframe
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problem so you can look at it, at this
entire conflict, as an opportunity for
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growth for all parties involved.
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If you truly feel neglected, you need to
be honest about them.
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The longer you resist the impulse to
talk, the harder it will be.
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You need to prioritize your needs, as
does your partner, because he is, of
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course, your partner.
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But if this new person is as significant
a presence in your partner's life as
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you say he is, then it might be time to
accept that you have created a new kind
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of relationship.
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It might not be your standard open
relationship anymore.
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But in any kind of relationship, you
must talk about things. Communication is
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key. And the fact that you are choosing
to talk to me about this instead of him
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only affirms how urgent it is that you
talk.
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I wish you luck with this, Nina, and as
always, my friends.
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