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Okay, two more, one and two, and I'm done.
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I'm done.
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You know, we should probably just take it easy today,
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maybe just, you know, hang out, spend the day together,
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play hooky?
You wanna make
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my life easier?
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Why don't you start doing your part around the house?
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Huh?
Okay.
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Okay fine, fine, fine.
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So, you're saying that if I just help clean around the house
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then, you know, we can,
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I don't know, go paintballing tonight?
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No.
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But I have a coupon, so.
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No!
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But that's what you just said!
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No, I'm pregnant!
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I know but I--
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Please?
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Stop.
Please?
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Now back to your glutes,
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let's get on those, okay?
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Here we go.
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I just need you to give me some space.
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You know that this--
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This is one of the last times that we're gonna be alone,
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just you and I, for a very long time.
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Have you seen the house
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that we are bringing this child into?
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Good morning.
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Here, I would like to give you an "I" statement.
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I have had it up to here doing all the house work by myself.
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You just wanna go out to eat all the time.
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All I'm asking you is to paint the nursery.
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I just want the nursery painted.
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Well technically, you did start with I.
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Okay hold on, I have an "I" statement for you.
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I feel like life is not all about cleaning, okay?
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And that it's okay for a husband to wanna take his wife out
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for a romantic evening.
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Great, so Gabby, how does that--
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A romantic evening?
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Do you know what he considers a romantic evening?
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Paintballing!
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He wants to go paintballing.
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Why not?
Why don't you just ask me
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what I want to do?
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You are suffocating me, Vince.
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Seriously.
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I'm not--
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I have a baby.
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Are you freezing me out, seriously?
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Freeze your own body!
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Um, it sounds like there's a lot of fear
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in your relationship,
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but you know perfect love casts out all fear!
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What does that even mean?
What does that even mean?
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Well, um--
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Uh, what I--
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We've all had things happen to us that cause us
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fear and distrust,
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and so we hurt other people,
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and then we pass that on to our children.
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It's called a pain cycle.
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But, when we embrace true love,
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there is no fear.
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Let's try this.
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Gabby, what's your first memory of getting hurt?
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I don't know,
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I guess
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when my dad left my mom
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and when I was 10, they--
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I'm so sorry.
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He said that it had nothing to do with me,
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and that he loved me but,
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I haven't seen him since, so.
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Yeah.
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Vince, what about you?
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Okay, my--
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Both my parents were superheroes, so.
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Nothing special.
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So you had a perfect childhood?
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I didn't say that.
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Were they hard on you?
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Yes, I mean it was--
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it was chaotic, okay?
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I mean, two superhero parents,
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neither of them could control their super powers, so.
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Look, we lived in a messy house, all right?
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And my dad would punch holes in the wall
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when he was practicing for missions,
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and we just left it that way 'cause that's how we lived.
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How did that make you feel?
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What do you want me to say?
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I vowed that I would not lose control the way they did.
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Let me guess.
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Gabby, when you have a bad day, you go inwards.
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You seek alone time, you try and push the hurt down,
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avoid it.
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And Vince, you like to deal with things head on,
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and you get angry when Gabby won't talk things out with you,
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so you push her to share her thoughts,
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but that just causes Gabby to withdraw even more.
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So, you have been spying on us?
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She's definitely been spying on us.
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No, no, no, no, no, no!
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Pain cycles.
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Hold on.
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Timing.
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It's Commissioner Mason.
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Sorry, we should probably take this.
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Let's go, okay.
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Why is he calling you instead of me?
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Are you serious?
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Thank you.
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Just so you know,
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my phone is always available for you to call, so.
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{\an8}I do know that, yes, so.
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{\an8}Listen--
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But I mean, we don't really care if you call me or her.
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I mean, either is fine, so.
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Well, either is fine, but just so you know,
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I feel like I've shown
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{\an8}some really amazing expertise in this area, so.
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{\an8}I see, well listen.
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{\an8}This is why I called, okay?
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{\an8}I want--
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{\an8}Actually, just give us one second, Commissioner.
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Wait, what are you doing?
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All of this is irrelevant.
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Stop, stop, now is not the time,
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put him back on.
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No!
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Look at you, okay?
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It's never the time, always running away from your problems.
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No?
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Oh look at you, now you're shutting me out!
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No, no, you are pushing me!
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Oh, and now you're withdrawing even more.
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Don't wanna talk about it.
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{\an8}Hey!
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{\an8}You know I can still hear you, right?
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I'm still here.
Oh.
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I'm sorry, I should've--
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See I should've--
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{\an8}Listen, I was just calling to see
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{\an8}how your therapy sessions went.
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Um, well actually we--
Well, yeah.
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We learned a lot about ourselves today.
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{\an8}Yeah, definitely.
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{\an8}Good, good.
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{\an8}I can't stress to you how dangerous White Collar is.
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He and his minions have broken up four different teams.
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He's literally trying to cause discord
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and to break up marriages, all right?
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No, we don't want that to happen, either.
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{\an8}Well do we know where he's at?
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{\an8}I'm sorry, I wish I knew, okay?
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{\an8}All I can tell you is to be careful, okay?
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{\an8}Be on guard.
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{\an8}You won't see him coming.
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Oh, oh, hello, um,
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sorry, sorry Commissioner.
One second, Commissioner.
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Can you just tell her to stop?
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This is kinda important.
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We're okay!
No, no, no, no.
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Here, just use--
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We're good, we're good!
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Thank you.
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Thank you Commissioner, thank you.
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And again, you can always call me,
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so thank you.
Well, I mean
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it doesn't matter who you call,
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me or her, again.
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Okay, but, but--
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Thank you.
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All right, well.
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{\an8}Well my middle name is Elizabeth,
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{\an8}which was my grandmother's name, she raised my mother
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after my grandfather passed away,
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and it's a shame because I wish I would've known him
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because you know what they say!
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We're some of everyone who came before us.
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Look at me rambling like a silly little schoolgirl,
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it's like I've never been on a date before--
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I mean, this is a date, right?
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I don't wanna make any assumptions.
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Of course this is a date.
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I can't wait to find out all about you.
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Speaking of which,
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you're a marriage and family therapist, aren't you?
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Uh-huh.
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Fascinating.
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Please, tell me all about it,
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and don't leave anything out.
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